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Speaker 1: This is Mandy B. Welcome to Selective Ignorance, a production

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Speaker 1: of the BLACKPEC podcast Network and iHeartRadio. Welcome to a

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Speaker 1: bonus class assembly of Selective Ignorance. I'm your host, Mandy B.

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Speaker 1: Really excited because I'm joined actually live by my classmates

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Speaker 1: our class assembly where I literally go through some new

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Speaker 1: We also talk in the discord, discuss what they think

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Speaker 1: about the episodes, what they enjoyed, what they didn't enjoy,

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Speaker 1: and you know why I like it. Over Here a

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Speaker 1: lot of them be agreeing with me, all oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I found my tribe. Anyways, I wanted to start this

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Speaker 1: episode off like we been doing a lot of the

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Speaker 1: newer episodes, where I lean into an ignorant moment I

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Speaker 1: had of the week. Now, to me, this is a

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Speaker 1: valid conversation that needs to happen. But to others, I understand,

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Speaker 1: or they may judge me or feel offended, but remind yourselves.

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Speaker 1: If you feel offended, you gotta take that up with

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Speaker 1: your therapist or God, not me anyways. So me and

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Speaker 1: my homegirl are going to that Domainic and Republic, not

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Speaker 1: for prostitutes, but for son. So we're going to the

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Speaker 1: dr this weekend. And this is our first time traveling

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Speaker 1: abroad together. This is our first time traveling together at all.

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Speaker 1: This is our first time going to an island. And

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Speaker 1: I felt the need to have this conversation with her

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Speaker 1: because I understand that there's a dilemma amongst girls trips.

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Speaker 1: Not that they're broke, No, that's not the problem. Not

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Speaker 1: that they be wanting to fuck on the same guy, No,

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Speaker 1: that's not the problem either. Her being black is not

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Speaker 1: the problem. However, as a black girl going to an

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Speaker 1: island and me kind of maybe leaning more exotic when

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Speaker 1: I travel, y'all will understand when I get there. We

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Speaker 1: walked the beatline the other day and I said, hey, girl,

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Speaker 1: before we go on this trip, I got questions, So

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Speaker 1: I said, let's start. I said, you said you're excited

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Speaker 1: to lay by the pool, but do you ten like,

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Speaker 1: we need to be in the shade, like because I

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Speaker 1: want to get dark. But do we have to be

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Speaker 1: on different sides of the pool when we go to

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Speaker 1: the pool? Because valid question? Right then I was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: you said the pool, but not the beach. That's another thing.

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Speaker 1: Black girls laid by a pool all day? Or do

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Speaker 1: they want to go lay by the ocean? I don't know,

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Speaker 1: so I had to ask that. Then when we got

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Speaker 1: to the ocean, I said, bitch, we're talking about a

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Speaker 1: boat day. Do you get in the ocean?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: I know there's a lot, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: I had to go step by step because, bitch, you

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Speaker 1: want to do a boat, but do you get in

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Speaker 1: the water? Got past that question? Last question I had

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Speaker 1: to ask her, Okay, if you get in the water, bitch,

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Speaker 1: do you snorkel?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: Are we gonna be able to do the activities that

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Speaker 1: people do when they get into the ocean or are

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Speaker 1: you just gonna be there with the life jacket, the floaty,

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Speaker 1: the best the hair the you know, the hair guard that, like,

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Speaker 1: are we gonna be able to enjoy this island the

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Speaker 1: way I like to enjoy an island like a mermaid?

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Speaker 1: I'm a mermaid also half white and also from Florida. So, bitch,

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Speaker 1: I my mama could have gave birth to me in

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Speaker 1: the ocean for all that matter. I like the water,

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Speaker 1: and so I had to go through and ask all

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Speaker 1: these questions because our people, all of them black men included,

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Speaker 1: trying to really enjoy the beauty that islands normally offer.

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Speaker 1: And so I had to go through the checklist. She

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Speaker 1: checked it all off. So I feel like, Okay, this

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Speaker 1: might be an okay trip now y'all already know, and

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Speaker 1: this may be the bad part that I did. Y'all.

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Speaker 1: I already booked a second vacation with her before going

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Speaker 1: have fun on this trip, Like I already know. Why

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Speaker 1: did I do that? Like why as I'm asking her

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Speaker 1: the Black Girl travel checklist? Did all? And y'all want

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Speaker 1: to know the crazy part, bitch is another island. So

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Speaker 1: I booked Kirasu for Christmas, and it's because I wanted

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Speaker 1: to go somewhere hot, she said, Mexico, I said, bitch,

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Speaker 1: Mexico be kind of cold. You know it's connected to

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Speaker 1: the border is connected, but it be cold.

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Speaker 1: If y'all know, I went to Mexico like two years

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Speaker 1: ago with Antinette. Bitch, it was cold. So even though

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Speaker 1: had goosebumps and in no way, shape or form should

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Speaker 1: you have goosebumps and be in a bikini. It is like,

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Speaker 1: what the hell? So hopefully she passes the vibe test

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Speaker 1: we have a great time in dr because then we're

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Speaker 1: going to you're a soul. And if we don't have

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Speaker 1: a great time, y'all, I'm gonna submit my own letter

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Speaker 1: and be like, how do I tell a bit that

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Speaker 1: I if I did on a trip that I don't

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Speaker 1: want her to go on a trip no more? How

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Speaker 1: do I do this? So we'll talk about it. But

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Speaker 1: that was my ignorant not so ignorant, maybe offensive, I

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Speaker 1: don't give a fuck. Moment of the week. Would love

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Speaker 1: to know if any of y'all have any ignorant moments

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Speaker 1: of the week. And I'm gonna wait for someone to

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Speaker 1: raise their hand. If not, however, the class has already

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Speaker 1: called on somebody prior to us getting on the record.

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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna three two one, Jojo, my darling, the

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Speaker 1: class has selected you to share an ignorant thought moment,

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Speaker 1: anything that's happened that you're like, Damn, that was ignorant.

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Speaker 1: I know it.

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Speaker 4: But here we are all right, you know the top

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Speaker 4: of my head. Oh okay, why are the handicap spots

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Speaker 4: close to the doors. They're in fucking chairs. You gotta walk,

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Speaker 4: they get to roll.

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Speaker 1: Oohout a word? Why did I tell you had one?

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Speaker 2: I told y'all to be fair.

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Speaker 1: Here we go.

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Speaker 3: To be fair.

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Speaker 2: I had a temporary handicap thing handicapped permit when I

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Speaker 2: had surgery on my a c L. And I didn't

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Speaker 2: an old lady walker, so I needed to be closed.

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Speaker 1: Because okay, so then I'm not gonna lie. I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna lie. I will align with Jojo. Then not handicaps.

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Speaker 1: Sticker showed them holes in a wheelchair, So maybe we

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Speaker 1: need a new handicap side like the ones in the wheelchair.

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Speaker 1: Y'all just you love me, But maybe we have a

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Speaker 1: new handicapped sick man that like has them on a

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Speaker 4: Seaword, bring back the seaword crippled.

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Speaker 1: There we go like, yeah, like crippled, the crippled like

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Speaker 1: temporary cripples who are used to walking. Sure, let's help

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Speaker 1: them out. You know, but you know what, Jojo, you

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Speaker 1: might be onto something. Also. I don't know if y'all

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Speaker 1: saw they are making everyone reapply for SNAP benefits because

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Speaker 1: SNAP benefits. You know what would fuck people up if

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Speaker 1: they had to reapply them handicapped stickers. Hold on, I

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Speaker 1: got another one. Them goddamn service dogs. Bruh them service animals, bro.

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Speaker 1: I think I have seen a bird with a service

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Speaker 1: animal plan know the fuck that those are the most like,

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna hold you it literally be in my group. Chat. Amen,

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Speaker 1: y'all know anybody to get me a handicapped sticker? Amen,

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Speaker 1: y'all know anybody who do the service animal animal stick

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Speaker 1: Those two right there are probably the most over whatever.

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Speaker 1: Oh it's not overused, but the scams that be scamming

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Speaker 2: The only thing with that though, is like, I have

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Speaker 2: an ESA, so it's an emotional support animal, but I

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Speaker 2: can't take he can't do anything other than like provide companionship.

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 2: But I have a friend who is training her dog

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Speaker 2: and she has to go through certain like actual certifications

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Speaker 2: because her dog is able to sense when she's about

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Speaker 2: to like faint or have a seizure, and she's training

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Speaker 1: Like those may makes sense, But Connie, your emotional support

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Speaker 1: animal bitch, get a care bear well.

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Speaker 2: Also, I never qualify for food stams. I wish I

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Speaker 2: had some support with these grocery.

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Speaker 1: Bills, but I do not.

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Speaker 2: I do not fit in that category. So that's why

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Speaker 2: I'm saying, like those people would not be able to

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. Connie, you're one of the people

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Speaker 1: I talk about emotional support animal bitch.

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Speaker 2: Body is emotional supporting animal when you get home from

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Speaker 2: these long trips.

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Speaker 1: No, it's crazy. Body is preparing me for an abusive relationship.

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Speaker 1: That is what if you own a cat. Bro The

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Speaker 1: way I be walking past him hoping he don't swipe

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Speaker 1: me is like maybe you're okay. Like it's like I

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Speaker 1: am in a physically an abusive relationship with a cat,

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Speaker 1: mind you, but sometimes I don't want to be bothered

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Speaker 1: and I know he about to jump and puse on

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Speaker 1: me on some bitch. If you don't feed me home like.

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Speaker 2: I am in, that's your fault.

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Speaker 1: I'm not my point, you see what I mean. I

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Speaker 1: I done cried. I done cried so many times. This

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Speaker 1: cat is a five year relationship that is making me

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Speaker 1: question why we choose to stay, Like why is he

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Speaker 1: still here? But I love him? But bro like good man,

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Speaker 1: he's abusive. Bro Like. So she got out to all

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Speaker 1: the cat moms and dads because I just know that

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Speaker 1: take care of fucking Simone. Not Simone.

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Speaker 3: What is it?

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Speaker 1: Simba Nalla Mufasa, just like one of their cousins. That's

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Speaker 1: who we chose to bring into our home. I hate it.

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Speaker 1: I hate it. I hate it, but I love body.

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Speaker 1: But I love him so much, y'all. I had to

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Speaker 1: get me from the back. That's the crazy thing. I

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Speaker 1: gotta close doors in my own home for privacy. This

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Speaker 1: is ghetto. This is ghetto. But I do love him.

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Speaker 1: I do love him. All right, we are going to

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Speaker 1: do a different double down or take it back now

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Speaker 1: this one. I called out journalism Jason for dropping the

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Speaker 1: ball on us not talking about this on a live episode,

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Speaker 1: But Mike Epps chose to bring up his thoughts on

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Speaker 1: the clip that he saw of ours talking about highest

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Speaker 1: start it over. It's about a minute long, want you

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because you know, I was just I was just

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Speaker 1: And Spike Lee just did He's had Rocket.

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Speaker 5: They were just talking about, Yeah, it wasn't a great movie,

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Speaker 5: Denzel was in that movie, Like, you know, it wasn't

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Speaker 3: I don't get it. But what you said is true

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Speaker 2: We pushed, we'll push the narrative.

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Speaker 1: I fuck with everything else he's put out. But this

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Speaker 1: y'all know what I'm talking about. Connie, go ahead, girl, Okay.

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Speaker 2: So everything that you're talking about now is similar to

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Speaker 2: Hollywood was really good. Grotesque Y with niecy Nash was

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Speaker 1: He also did for y'all because I just saw niecy

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yees, yeah, yeah. So I've loved a lot of

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Speaker 2: a quote quote actress, right, she didn't go through years

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Speaker 2: But here we are, right and she's working on passing

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Speaker 1: Now here's the kim k is never above critique, especially

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Speaker 2: Is That's who? That's who I'm upset about. Okay, I'm

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Speaker 1: Here's my thing, and maybe it's because Ryan Murphy has

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Speaker 2: I saw a Gladiator.

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Speaker 1: I he nigga and I said it before Denzel let

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Speaker 1: me even give a fuck. Dizzel didn't care to learn

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Speaker 1: rocking with you, We've seen the evolution of you as

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00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:40,400
Speaker 1: an artist, and you're not continuing on with your artistry.

431
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 1: You're just giving us whatever because you know we support you.

432
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:45,440
Speaker 1: And that's a slap in the face as a fan.

433
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 1: And so yeah, miss Nuban is in the comment saying

434
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 1: he already said he only has a few more movies, right,

435
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:55,080
Speaker 1: and so now I think he genuinely even wants to

436
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:57,600
Speaker 1: do shit that is bare minima.

437
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:02,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is when he should doing stuff that's like fun. Hey, Barry,

438
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 2: Meryl Streep is coming back on Devilware's product. She's never

439
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,440
Speaker 2: not delivered, But I also don't think that she would

440
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 2: do it if it wasn't on point. Also, the og

441
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 2: fans of devil Wars product, we're not watching that shit

442
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,239
Speaker 2: if her and Anne Hathaway aren't in it.

443
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:19,400
Speaker 1: You want to know what's funny about you saying that

444
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 1: this is all a recession indicator. These niggas can't say no.

445
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 1: They got bills to pay and they taking whatever come

446
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:30,119
Speaker 1: across their motherfucking table.

447
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:34,600
Speaker 2: Because Bill So, I just went to that point. I

448
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:38,680
Speaker 2: just went to see the new Julia Roberts movie. It's

449
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:42,400
Speaker 2: called After the Hunt, I saw this maybe in October.

450
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 2: I literally turned on Amazon today and it's already like

451
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 2: on streaming, and this was maybe like it's only been

452
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:52,240
Speaker 2: out for like a month. So to your point, it's

453
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:56,040
Speaker 2: like the movies are coming out. Some movies are in

454
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:59,200
Speaker 2: the theater for literally eight weeks and then booms straight

455
00:26:59,240 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 2: to streaming.

456
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,680
Speaker 1: But to be fair, to be fair, think about this,

457
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 1: if a nigga took eight weeks to respond, would you

458
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 1: like that nigga anymore?

459
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 2: No?

460
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 1: So if a movie has been in the theater eight

461
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 1: weeks and bitch, you ain't make no time and eight

462
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 1: weeks to go see this movie, bitch, we put it

463
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:19,919
Speaker 1: on the stream and you'll see it when you see it,

464
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 1: like you weren't that interested. I'm actually not mad at that.

465
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at them not keeping movies in the

466
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 1: theater too long, because let's rotate and get some new

467
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:29,360
Speaker 1: shit in there for the moviegoers.

468
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 2: Plus, to your point, it's expensive to go to the movies.

469
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 2: It was like fifteen fight.

470
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:35,920
Speaker 1: You gotta find the five dollar tuesdays. Gare you just

471
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 1: gotta do matinee and shit like that?

472
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 2: I do the Mad Night. But I'm saying, if you're

473
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 2: looking at if this was a date or something like that,

474
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 2: it adds up. Even if you're going solo, it could

475
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 2: still add up.

476
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 1: By the way, you're ready, you ready? If you're over thirty,

477
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:56,439
Speaker 1: the movies is only for yourself, bitch. Niggas should not

478
00:27:56,480 --> 00:28:01,639
Speaker 1: be taken women on movie dates if they are thirty plus.

479
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 1: We are grown. Needs to have a conversation. Movie dates

480
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 1: are for teenagers. But this is not an ignorant Take

481
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 1: you ignorant as hell if you over thirty inviting me

482
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 1: on a movie date.

483
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 2: Within the first they have bars and restaurants and movie

484
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 2: theaters have a full ball theater I go to does

485
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 2: an entire dinner's great?

486
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:33,199
Speaker 1: So great? That means you're so socially awkward that you

487
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,959
Speaker 1: want to eat and not talk. You socially awkward, nigga.

488
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 2: I go to dinner by myself too.

489
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:42,760
Speaker 1: Okay, ladies, if a man takes you on a date

490
00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 1: to the movies, he's over thirty, Ladies, I need you

491
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 1: to check that rear view mirror because it should have

492
00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 1: a blue hanging down sticker with someone in a wheelchair.

493
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:57,720
Speaker 2: So what if what if I want to see the movie.

494
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 3: Her left tain is very empty. That's all I'm saying

495
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 3: her left hand is very we want to see the movie.

496
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 1: Bruh, if you really want to see the movie, My point, ebony,

497
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:11,240
Speaker 1: you take your ass to the movie. You want to

498
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 1: go see the movie.

499
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:16,520
Speaker 3: So you rather be you rather go to a restaurant.

500
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:19,719
Speaker 3: You're rather to go to coffee shop and have nothing

501
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 3: necessarily natural to talk about, where you can go to

502
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 3: a movie and have something to talk about right after.

503
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 2: That.

504
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 1: No, if you also can't naturally talk to me, now

505
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:31,280
Speaker 1: come on.

506
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 3: No, no, no, we're not gonna do that. We're not

507
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 3: gonna do that. We are not gonna do that. Everybody

508
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 3: needs a little conversation started, and nothing like a good movie.

509
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 3: I'm not saying take it to a bad movie. I'm

510
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:43,360
Speaker 3: not saying take it to a trash movie, but a

511
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:44,400
Speaker 3: conversation starter.

512
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:48,240
Speaker 1: So what made you swipe right? Let's start there? What

513
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 1: the fuck do you mean?

514
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 3: Why swiper?

515
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 2: How?

516
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 1: Also, these people meeting each other.

517
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 3: We tripe right because because they're attractive.

518
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 6: But that doesn't that doesn't dictate if I'm still gonna

519
00:29:59,240 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 6: like you.

520
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,959
Speaker 1: Point is so as a grown ass man trying to

521
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 1: get to know someone, the fact that you need a

522
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 1: movie to help you have something to talk about to

523
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 1: a stranger that you know nothing about says enough about

524
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 1: you than me.

525
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 3: What does they say about you? What does it say?

526
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 1: It means that as the man, you're not really interested

527
00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 1: what it I'm telling you.

528
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 3: Now, I'm ignorant out So why am I not interested?

529
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 3: Draw the line? Draw the dot in line from that.

530
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 3: I'm taking you out, I'm picking the place, I'm possibly

531
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 3: driving you, I'm paying for the movie. I'm wanting to

532
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 3: take you to dinner after and have a conversation. So

533
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 3: which part of me is disconnected on me trying to

534
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 3: get to know you?

535
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 1: First off, if you don't know how to have a

536
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 1: conversation with me, you're probably only doing all of that

537
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:45,959
Speaker 1: so you can get some kuchi, cause niggas think if

538
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 1: you do a little some little.

539
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 2: Wait, hondy question, Mandy, are you saying not to this

540
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 2: on a first date or just period across the board?

541
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:53,440
Speaker 7: Now?

542
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 1: Movie days? Within the first three dates?

543
00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 2: Okay, work, I get that if you are with.

544
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:01,640
Speaker 1: A partner and y'all been already talking, let's do a

545
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 1: movie date because cool. But within the first three dates,

546
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,239
Speaker 1: if you are the age of thirty years old, a

547
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: movie date means that this nigga is on the spectrum,

548
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 1: and you should not.

549
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 3: You should run all right, ladies with her. I know

550
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 3: where I'm at. I just need to agree with her

551
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:23,320
Speaker 3: all night. I might say, Mandy's right, so I know

552
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 3: how to move out here in these streets, because that

553
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 3: sounds crazy to me.

554
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 2: No, he doesn't. She said opinions that's wrong because it's

555
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 2: different than mine. Then let's argue.

556
00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:35,960
Speaker 1: So you joined right on time, you joined on. That's

557
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 1: what we're doing this episode. Like I want people to

558
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 1: disagree with me. I'm gonna respect you with your opinion,

559
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 1: but I'm also gonna stay he Any lady listening to

560
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 1: Barry take you to the movies, bitch roit like you

561
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like they can accept it. I'm

562
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 1: just telling you what I'm not gonna do.

563
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 3: And I don't think no movie and no general admission

564
00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 3: to a concert. I know you got a few more.

565
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 3: You have to text you. You gotta call and reinvite

566
00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 3: you to the same date every twenty four hours to

567
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 3: make sure.

568
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:12,040
Speaker 1: Wait a second, Okay, Barry, pause right there?

569
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 3: What we do there?

570
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 1: Pause right there? Only because we haven't of course, I

571
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:21,680
Speaker 1: don't know if y'all know. Weisey and I have been

572
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 1: recorded since October all the way through mid January. Okay,

573
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:28,280
Speaker 1: so all these topics that I've been like, ooh, this

574
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 1: is the ship we should bring up, which we ain't

575
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 1: really been recorded. Maybe we'll talk about it on the

576
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 1: town hall. But I do want to talk to you

577
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:43,280
Speaker 1: Barry and you Trev and you Tray and you Maurice

578
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:54,160
Speaker 1: in terms of setting up a date. Why is the issue? Why? No,

579
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 1: Because what's been happening online For those of you who

580
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:59,719
Speaker 1: may not live online like me, I'm there rent free.

581
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 1: There is a trend happening where women are going on

582
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 1: live or going on TikTok or going on their stories

583
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 1: expressing how a man set up a date, gave the

584
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 1: time and date, but didn't follow up to confirm until

585
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 1: like a couple hours before, and they're like, well, yeah,

586
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 1: I ain't hear from you. I made other plans. The

587
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 1: double confirm it is fucking necessary.

588
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 6: It's not necessary if we already made an arrangements.

589
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 3: We made plans, yes, we maday.

590
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 1: Hey guys, we're potting. Don't talk over each other. Please,

591
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 1: let's love one person speak at a time. Told y'all,

592
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 1: this is harder than y'all bitches. Thoughts see please one

593
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:46,480
Speaker 1: at a time. Soup, then burry, go ahead soup.

594
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 6: You know I experienced that sing bullshit. Well like your lady, Lady,

595
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 6: I said, Monday, were hanging out, we kicking it.

596
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 3: Sunday comes, No, was it was Monday? I head up

597
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 3: Sunday Sunday comes like yo, hitting you up, making sure the.

598
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 6: Bubba blah, whatever the case may be. Oh, I totally forgot,

599
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:10,839
Speaker 6: et cetera.

600
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 3: Excep.

601
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:14,399
Speaker 6: Now she's mad. You can't be mad.

602
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:18,799
Speaker 1: No, that's you're You're talking about something different, interesting ship.

603
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:22,960
Speaker 1: Now I'm talking about the women who are saying and

604
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:26,959
Speaker 1: sed dates with them. They don't really hear from them

605
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 1: until maybe a couple hours before, no text, the morning of,

606
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 1: no text, the night before, am I outlook to I'll

607
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 1: here you go two or three hours before, like ao,

608
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:44,600
Speaker 1: I'm still seeing you. No, nigga, I haven't heard from

609
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:48,280
Speaker 1: you in the last twenty four hours. I made other plans.

610
00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:51,520
Speaker 3: Come on, ladies, y'all gonna give her that one too.

611
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,399
Speaker 1: I I just want to make sure.

612
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:54,840
Speaker 3: I don't want to.

613
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:58,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give many that one. I'm giving her that.

614
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 3: Today's Thursday. I'm on the phone with you. I'm on

615
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 3: the zoom with dress say, hey, got this thing Saturday.

616
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 3: You want to go? I got you, Yeah, I want

617
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:11,840
Speaker 3: to go. That is confirmation, but that's confirmation.

618
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:12,840
Speaker 1: Hear me out there.

619
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 3: Friday, and again I don't firm on Thursday.

620
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 1: No, Barry, we talk on Thursday night. Here's a scenario. Barry,

621
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:24,279
Speaker 1: we talk on Thursday night. You invite me to this

622
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 1: shindig that you have going on. Right, you invite me

623
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 1: Thursday night. I'm excited. I'm like, yeah, I'm down, let's go. Friday.

624
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 1: I don't hear from you at all. The event is

625
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 1: seven o'clock on Saturday. You hit me at five o'clock Saturday,

626
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 1: two hours before. Nah, br I ain't hear from you

627
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:48,480
Speaker 1: in the last day and a half. You didn't hit

628
00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 1: me this morning to confirm, Bro, I made other plans

629
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:52,880
Speaker 1: because I ain't hear from you. You thought I was

630
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 1: supposed to just be Wait.

631
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:56,320
Speaker 3: Wait, this same Thanksgiving and I'm gutting you out for

632
00:35:56,400 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 3: New Year's Eve. This is Thursday, and I'm let's do

633
00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 3: something on Saturday. What are we talking about?

634
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 1: And then I don't hear from you till two hours

635
00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 1: before were supposed to link because you could not hit

636
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 1: me between Thursday and the event.

637
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:15,319
Speaker 3: I think some of these people are over exaggerated it.

638
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:17,320
Speaker 1: Oh this three happens, y'all.

639
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 3: No, I don't believe it. I don't believe that. What

640
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:23,839
Speaker 3: is what is? See somebody typing in the chat? I'm sorry,

641
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 3: I'm not looking at it, but I see it popping up?

642
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 3: What is? What is it? A three level approach? I mean, Connie,

643
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:33,360
Speaker 3: ask the confirm and the triple confirm, and then the

644
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 3: show up and then the chat.

645
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 1: There's a there's accepting the date, and then there's confirming

646
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:43,320
Speaker 1: the date. So Connie, there, you go down all the

647
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Speaker 1: time listening. Okay, y'all got a lot of talk. Go ahead, Connie.

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Speaker 2: I put things in my calendar because a bitual forhe it,

649
00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:57,839
Speaker 2: So I put it in the Google calendar. Dinner at

650
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 2: five at blah blah blah place. If I what I

651
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 2: do across the board with friends or romantics. Hey, we're

652
00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 2: still on for seven o'clock tomorrow night at blah blah blah.

653
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:13,920
Speaker 2: Oh can we do six at such and such place? Great?

654
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 2: It gets updated on my calendar, and now I'm gonna

655
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:19,240
Speaker 2: go and meet you there at six at that place.

656
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 2: But you saying, hey, do you want to go to

657
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 2: this thing Saturday night. You tell me on Thursday, I'm

658
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:25,560
Speaker 2: gonna put it on my calendar. Hey, yeah, that's good.

659
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 2: I do expect to have some sort of communication at

660
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:32,040
Speaker 2: least the day before or early the morning.

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Speaker 1: Up the morning.

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Speaker 6: I got a question for y'all. Okay, I got a

663
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 6: question for y'all. We're going on vacation together, right, we

664
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:44,799
Speaker 6: both booked the flight. Do I need to confirm with

665
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 6: you the day before the flight then to say, hey,

666
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:49,920
Speaker 6: we're still going on this flight now, but you need

667
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:50,759
Speaker 6: to confirm.

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00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 1: That hotel room is paid for a niggas.

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Speaker 2: Right flight through everything, I'm gonna show up to the airport.

670
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:00,600
Speaker 2: This assumption is if I'm dating Soup. So if you

671
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:02,879
Speaker 2: and I were dating, I'm gonna assume I'm already at

672
00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 2: your house and we're getting up in the morning and

673
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 2: going to the airport. If I'm meeting up with a

674
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 2: group of homegirls, Hey, y'all, it's five o'clock. My flight

675
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 2: leaves at seven, I'm all my way to the airport.

676
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 2: I'm communicating so that you know where I'm at in

677
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 2: this process. If we're going on a date again, I

678
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 2: don't need you to reconfirm our vacation plans. But I

679
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 2: need you to confirm. Yeah, bitch, I'm still trying to

680
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:24,280
Speaker 2: see you Saturday night at seven.

681
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:28,400
Speaker 3: Why what's the difference in those two scenarios, Because.

682
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 2: People ghost, people flake? You might have all My homeboy

683
00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 2: had the ticket and he gave me to his sister,

684
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 2: and I don't have the tickets. But I still want

685
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:37,720
Speaker 2: to see you as seven.

686
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 1: Cool.

687
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:39,400
Speaker 2: We don't have to go to the event.

688
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 3: We can see the trauma response. My bad.

689
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 1: I didn't realize what it was response.

690
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:47,560
Speaker 3: Then ghosted a few times, and now now you need

691
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:48,839
Speaker 3: like a string around.

692
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 2: I'm an old bitch and I ain't got time to waste.

693
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 2: I'd rather be at home with my dog. So if

694
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:55,760
Speaker 2: you are going to take me on this date I needed,

695
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:59,240
Speaker 2: I need you to confirm that Google calendar invitation. Otherwise

696
00:38:59,280 --> 00:38:59,879
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go.

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00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 3: Do some What are you doing when I ask you?

698
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:04,560
Speaker 3: When you say yes, and I say.

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00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 2: Cool, putting in my calendar?

700
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 3: But what is that? What is that though?

701
00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:11,360
Speaker 2: That's walking off the time, that's letting me not forget

702
00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 2: that I got something to do at seven o'clock because

703
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:16,080
Speaker 2: guess what a bitch is bald? But I might have

704
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 2: to go get a haircut. I still gotta take a shower,

705
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:20,359
Speaker 2: I still gotta get ready, I still got to get

706
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:20,840
Speaker 2: me outfit.

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00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:23,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what it is. It's the new school

708
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 1: age of I'm a pencil You in.

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00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 3: We that are you saying that I asked you I

710
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:33,919
Speaker 3: buy two tickets because you said yes, I buy two

711
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 3: tickets for Saturday. I assume that you were really just

712
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:38,880
Speaker 3: saying I may go.

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00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:42,839
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you. I don't know unless you

714
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 1: send me that receipt. I don't even believe. All Right,

715
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:52,320
Speaker 1: y'all muting up everyone to go on to the next topic.

716
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 1: All Right, we're getting into this is America, and because

717
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:57,480
Speaker 1: of where we're at, and because I want to get

718
00:39:57,480 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 1: into some other stuff, I'm gonna do the fun one year,

719
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:04,560
Speaker 1: because y'all, I'll really be talking about some real shit.

720
00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 1: But let's get petty with it. Why not allegedly in America?

721
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 1: Not sure if you know you can now sue women

722
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:21,239
Speaker 1: for stealing your partner. Let me get into here. So

723
00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:27,359
Speaker 1: a North Carolina TikTok influencer Brenna Canard will now have

724
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 1: to pay up after her current husband's ex wife sued

725
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 1: her for alleged alienation. Of affection. So Tim Montague's ex wife, Akira,

726
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,279
Speaker 1: brought the lawsuit to civil court and claimed that the

727
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 1: alleged affair between her and her now ex husband and

728
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 1: the influencer caused her mental anguish, damage to her health,

729
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 1: and deprived her two children of a two parent household.

730
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:04,400
Speaker 1: The report the reported affair took place in the former

731
00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 1: couple's home and on the TikTokers social media. In the end,

732
00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 1: Tim left his marriage and went with the TikToker to

733
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Speaker 1: be in a relationship whom he now is married to. Ultimately,

734
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 1: the jury found the TikToker liable for criminal conversation. Bitch,

735
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:29,680
Speaker 1: criminal conversation. This is America, y'all. The jury found her

736
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:34,680
Speaker 1: liable for criminal conversation and alienation of affection. It's noted

737
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 1: that in the state of North Carolina, the alienation of

738
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:42,040
Speaker 1: affection law allows a spouse to sue the person they

739
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:47,839
Speaker 1: blame for interfering with their marriage. Again, she has been

740
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Speaker 1: ordered to pay one point seven five million duellers. Now

741
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 1: whether she has it or not, not sure, but also

742
00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:01,759
Speaker 1: them TikTokers be making hell of money. This is interested

743
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:09,840
Speaker 1: interesting to me because I always think it's interesting to

744
00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 1: sue or blame in this case, talk about sue to

745
00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:17,759
Speaker 1: blame the other woman for your failed marriage. I'm confusings

746
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:21,800
Speaker 1: why she's not suing her husband if that was the case,

747
00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:27,279
Speaker 1: because how was there an interference of a home? How

748
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 1: did your home get broken if there wasn't cracks in

749
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 1: the foundation. And so y'all already know. I actually think

750
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:40,440
Speaker 1: side chicks mostly help marriages, they don't destroy them. And

751
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 1: very few times do married men leave their wives for

752
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:51,360
Speaker 1: the side chick. Ebony's shaking her hand, Barry never shakes

753
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:55,840
Speaker 1: his head in agreeance. But this was interesting because I said, Wow,

754
00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 1: in this Western fucking societ where monogamy is really pushed

755
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 1: on us because of the Christian Bible, it's really interesting

756
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 1: that nowhere else in the globe really leans this heavy

757
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 1: into this idea of monogamy as much as we do here.

758
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:22,279
Speaker 1: But also, you cheating in a married person's house. So

759
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 1: that's I guess the other addition to this. While they

760
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 1: were still married, the TikTok influencer flaunted her new relationship

761
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 1: with this married man online. I think he just wanted

762
00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:38,360
Speaker 1: some of these TikTok checks. I ain't even gonna hold you.

763
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:42,040
Speaker 1: He probably a bum that's like, ooh, bitch, got me one.

764
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:45,160
Speaker 1: That's just my thoughts on this. I just found it

765
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 1: really interesting that you could suit for this, and I

766
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:51,919
Speaker 1: do want to look and see if there's any other

767
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:57,919
Speaker 1: states across the country where alienation whatever is a thing.

768
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:02,799
Speaker 1: Here's the other thing that I find be completely hilarious

769
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:07,520
Speaker 1: when like civil suits go to court and they got

770
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:09,879
Speaker 1: to pay this money. That's like, bitch, they never gonna

771
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:11,719
Speaker 1: see that money in their life. So you never gonna

772
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 1: see that money in your life. Like, bro, one point

773
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:17,759
Speaker 1: seventy five million dollars, this woman has to pay you,

774
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 1: Where's she gonna get that? That's right?

775
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:24,759
Speaker 2: So so if she ends up, if she ends up

776
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 2: being financially strained by this dude leaving.

777
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:31,719
Speaker 1: So in the end, in the end, the white, the

778
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:32,920
Speaker 1: ex white wins.

779
00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 2: This is the TikToker, the one that has to pay right. Yes, Okay,

780
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 2: she couldn't.

781
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:42,920
Speaker 1: She could You think she could be making that much money?

782
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:46,120
Speaker 2: I mean it depends on how many followers and you

783
00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 2: know all that. But she could end up filing for

784
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:51,359
Speaker 2: bankruptcy and saying I don't have that.

785
00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:56,719
Speaker 1: It's it's tricky because didn't Tasha Kay also filed for bankruptcy,

786
00:44:57,000 --> 00:45:00,480
Speaker 1: but somehow still O's CARDI b that money too, Like, yeah,

787
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:03,759
Speaker 1: I don't think after I think, yeah, I don't think

788
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:08,880
Speaker 1: bankruptcy saves people from owing people for legal matters. It

789
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 1: can remove like.

790
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:12,839
Speaker 2: Certain it'll I think it'll well, I think it'll. What

791
00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 2: it'll do is it'll freeze it, so it'll it'll like

792
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:19,520
Speaker 2: stop the interest and all that from like a crewing potentially,

793
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 2: But if it's a suit, it probably just pushes it

794
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:27,760
Speaker 2: until her until her bankruptcy is cleared in the courts.

795
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 1: By the way, I want to just say, trev the

796
00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 1: way I read your comment, at first, my mind is

797
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 1: clearly fucked up, Trevor. In the comments I heard TikTokers,

798
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 1: TikTokers don't make money if they ain't selling something. I

799
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:48,760
Speaker 1: immediately thought pussy, and I was about to be like, damn, nigga,

800
00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:51,360
Speaker 1: you think people can't make money when I sell a pussy,

801
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 1: But I forgot there's a whole TikTok shop, so I

802
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 1: forgot this product sold. But I immediately was like, damn,

803
00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 1: you think only the only fans, bitch just make it money.

804
00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:04,360
Speaker 1: I did. I immediately want to judge you. I felt

805
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 1: that that was interesting I do because we have some

806
00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 1: time too. I wanted to talk about where we're at

807
00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:16,720
Speaker 1: currently with the big beautiful bill that continues to wreak

808
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:22,400
Speaker 1: havoc on this country. The Department of Education recently proposed

809
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:26,480
Speaker 1: to remove graduate nursing and other health programs from the

810
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 1: professional degree list. Basically, the nursing programs that are at

811
00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 1: risk to be removed include physician assistants that's PAS, nurse practitioners,

812
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 1: physical therapists, and audiology programs. They're all looking to be

813
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:52,000
Speaker 1: excluded in the list of in professional degrees. And basically

814
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:54,799
Speaker 1: what this does, let me break it down what it

815
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:58,840
Speaker 1: does is and how many people are impacts. It's about

816
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:04,880
Speaker 1: to almost three hundred thousand students in nursing programs. Essentially,

817
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:08,840
Speaker 1: these professional programs allow you to be ed eligible for

818
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 1: about two hundred thousand dollars in funding to help you

819
00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:15,680
Speaker 1: pay for schooling. With these being removed off of this

820
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 1: professional degree list, essentially, what it's going to do is

821
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 1: going to make it less affordable for people who do

822
00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 1: not qualify to get these loans or to be able

823
00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 1: to take the classes, which then in fact will make

824
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 1: already our strained healthcare system have even a larger shortage

825
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:36,080
Speaker 1: in nurses, which is also crazy that this is in

826
00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:39,960
Speaker 1: the big beautiful bill, consider that these are all essential workers.

827
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Speaker 1: We just saw the importance of all of these jobs,

828
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:47,200
Speaker 1: all of these roles literally less than five years ago

829
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:51,439
Speaker 1: when we went through the pandemic. And so these are also,

830
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:54,760
Speaker 1: let's be very clear, roles that cannot be automated. AI

831
00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 1: can't come in and take over these jobs. These are

832
00:47:57,160 --> 00:48:00,080
Speaker 1: jobs where it takes a human to be there to

833
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:03,840
Speaker 1: serve other human beings. And so it's really scary that

834
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:08,760
Speaker 1: he's looking to make our healthcare system, which is already

835
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:14,799
Speaker 1: a piece of shit, potentially even more damning because it's

836
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:17,360
Speaker 1: going to make people not be able to afford to

837
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 1: go to school to get these degrees. I did want

838
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:22,719
Speaker 1: to know if this impacts anyone. I do also want

839
00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 1: to share my mom currently is in school to get

840
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:29,520
Speaker 1: going to be a registered nurse, and even that it's

841
00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:32,840
Speaker 1: taking all of that away. So it says this affects

842
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:36,560
Speaker 1: hundreds of thousands of students. More than two hundred and

843
00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:40,520
Speaker 1: sixty thousand are currently enrolled in Bachelor of Science and

844
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:44,200
Speaker 1: Nursing which are BSN programs, and around forty two thousand

845
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 1: ar road and associate degree in nursing programs. Of course,

846
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:52,239
Speaker 1: this would restrict access to the higher loan limits that

847
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:57,080
Speaker 1: allows them to continue their needed continued education. Mind you,

848
00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 1: let's not even talk about school. Do y'all know these

849
00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:05,280
Speaker 1: nurses don't get plaid paid for clinicals, So there's also

850
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:08,320
Speaker 1: a portion of their schooling where they have to work

851
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:13,319
Speaker 1: and be in hospitals for thousands of hours unpaid, in

852
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 1: order to also become registered in this in this career.

853
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 1: So the clinicals not being paid, these students not being

854
00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:26,920
Speaker 1: able to take out loans to go to these programs,

855
00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:29,560
Speaker 1: it's unfortunate. I want y'all to look it up. I

856
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 1: want y'all to also at this point, we may need

857
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:36,480
Speaker 1: to start a new book club. Guys, and y'all know

858
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 1: what book we need to read, Project twenty twenty five. Bitch,

859
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:43,719
Speaker 1: let's read it together because it's literally what the fuck

860
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 1: we're seeing happening right in front of us, Like the

861
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 1: fucking book that they said with science fiction. Guess what, bitch,

862
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 1: ain't nothing fake about that? Hole?

863
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:57,279
Speaker 2: I cleared, I have a I found a tracker and

864
00:49:57,320 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 2: I shared it on the Around the Way discord. But

865
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:03,840
Speaker 2: it's a tracker that shows everything that's like bullet pointed

866
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:07,200
Speaker 2: per category and stuff in Project twenty twenty five and

867
00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:10,080
Speaker 2: where they are in terms of like a progress completion

868
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:13,480
Speaker 2: or the bills and laws or executive orders that have

869
00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:17,840
Speaker 2: been executed that tackled that particular thing that was pretend.

870
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 1: Bro Snap benefits. I think they said was on page

871
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:25,960
Speaker 1: ten broh like deducting people from receiving snap benefits. That's

872
00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 1: in the goddamn bill. Like so it's just it's really

873
00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:32,879
Speaker 1: interesting seeing what's or not in the bill, but it's

874
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 1: in that Project twenty twenty five handbook that Trump said

875
00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 1: he knew nothing of yet his big beautiful bill and

876
00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 1: everything he's trying to pass is pretty much outlined in there.

877
00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:47,120
Speaker 1: And so maybe, you know, Q one over the holidays,

878
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:50,080
Speaker 1: which we got a whole other year till midterms, maybe

879
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:52,520
Speaker 1: we should, you know, dive into that book and kind

880
00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:55,960
Speaker 1: of educate ourselves on where this may be going. By

881
00:50:56,000 --> 00:50:58,520
Speaker 1: the way, I do want to let y'all know because

882
00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:01,440
Speaker 1: we are talking about it on the pod. No spoiler alerts,

883
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:05,280
Speaker 1: but I would love to maybe next month dive deep

884
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 1: in with our tenfoil hats. I would love y'all to

885
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:14,320
Speaker 1: watch Pluribus on Apple TV. It is by Vince Gilligan,

886
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:19,840
Speaker 1: who is the creator of Breaking Bad and of Better

887
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:25,680
Speaker 1: Call Saul, and it dives into what the idea of

888
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:30,560
Speaker 1: a virus apocalypse looks like without us turning into actual

889
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:35,680
Speaker 1: flesh eating zombies, but ones that are impacted neurologically, and

890
00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:39,279
Speaker 1: it's just really good. Barry would love you to check

891
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:41,720
Speaker 1: that out to hear your thoughts on it. It pretty

892
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:45,920
Speaker 1: much leans into discussing what we need in terms of

893
00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:49,080
Speaker 1: defining humanity and if in world peace, if you take

894
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:51,200
Speaker 1: away suffering, if you take away choice, if you take

895
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:53,520
Speaker 1: away all these things and everyone has the same goal

896
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:55,719
Speaker 1: and everyone is happy, if that's a life that is

897
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 1: worth living, and it's really really fucking good. It's also

898
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:06,640
Speaker 1: interesting is the first episode they're swabbing themselves and putting

899
00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:11,040
Speaker 1: the virus out even further, so it's really it ties

900
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:14,400
Speaker 1: in a lot regarding AI, what things are being taken

901
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:17,040
Speaker 1: away from us, what things we're keeping, and it's just

902
00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:20,520
Speaker 1: really good if y'all can get into that now and

903
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:26,160
Speaker 1: celebrities say the darnest things, y'all. Summer Walker has already

904
00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 1: had to come after that. Selena Powell bitch for saying

905
00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:33,600
Speaker 1: that they sing about the same man. Here's the thing, Boruh,

906
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:36,760
Speaker 1: these bitches will embarrass you just as much as these niggas,

907
00:52:36,800 --> 00:52:38,759
Speaker 1: But it really beat these niggas. Fault y'all. Blame the

908
00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:42,359
Speaker 1: men every chance you can. What Barry, Yes, I said

909
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:46,200
Speaker 1: it blame the men. They know what they're doing. Anyways,

910
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:50,040
Speaker 1: this was an interesting take that Summer Walker brought to

911
00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:53,400
Speaker 1: her Instagram. And I want to know your thoughts, ladies

912
00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:58,399
Speaker 1: and gentlemen, Somemr. Walker said, I see why men don't

913
00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:02,200
Speaker 1: like real bitches. I'm I mean, why step up when

914
00:53:02,239 --> 00:53:05,120
Speaker 1: there's a loser ass bitch that'll accept you for the

915
00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:10,120
Speaker 1: piece of shit you really are. I truly understand now,

916
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:16,800
Speaker 1: pot calling the kettle black. I love Summer Walker. However,

917
00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 1: we saw you think that London on the track was

918
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 1: gonna be a better baby daddy to you than he

919
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:30,400
Speaker 1: was to the other three baby mamas. So there's a

920
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:38,080
Speaker 1: thing about right message wrong messenger and Meech was not

921
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:42,040
Speaker 1: helping his cousin take them groceries in the house like

922
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 1: to find out that you got cheated on by a

923
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:50,279
Speaker 1: ring camera is just crazy. And so the fact that

924
00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:53,640
Speaker 1: Summer has time and time again proven that she's the

925
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:59,040
Speaker 1: bitch that likes these loser ass dusty niggas. What very

926
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 1: fixed your face? I'm sorry, but I don't want to

927
00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:07,160
Speaker 1: hear from a woman who has three kids by two

928
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:10,440
Speaker 1: baby daddies, them been with multiple niggas who'd done nothing

929
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:13,680
Speaker 1: but embarrass you. I don't think I've ever visibly seen

930
00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:19,480
Speaker 1: Summer Walker be loved or truly taken care of by

931
00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:23,360
Speaker 1: any of the men that she's publicly claimed. And so

932
00:54:23,520 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 1: here's the thing. If you're gonna be stupid in love

933
00:54:28,080 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 1: quoting Rihanna, here with the stupid in love. If you're

934
00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:34,080
Speaker 1: gonna be stupid in love, you but just just gotta

935
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:37,760
Speaker 1: be super in love and quiet. Stop posting these dusty

936
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 1: niggas on the internet. Stop letting people know that you're

937
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:43,120
Speaker 1: fucking on them and the fact that Barry you are

938
00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 1: rubbing your ring finger. No, she has money. There are

939
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:49,759
Speaker 1: women that don't want to be proposed to by these

940
00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:53,720
Speaker 1: dusty ass niggas because you know what these dusty niggas

941
00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:57,040
Speaker 1: gonna do. Take your money. We've seen it happen to

942
00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:59,680
Speaker 1: Kellie Clarkson, Mary J. Blige. Don't want to be on

943
00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:02,040
Speaker 1: these sets in them thigh high boots, no more, but

944
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:07,120
Speaker 1: she gots to she gotta keep because her nigga took

945
00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:12,799
Speaker 1: all her money. Kelly Clarkson lost that weight from the

946
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:15,320
Speaker 1: stress of having to pay her ex cousin.

947
00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 3: It wasn't ozimpic the thing women losing all of their

948
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:26,239
Speaker 3: money in the divorce. That happens every day. Right. Oh

949
00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:29,720
Speaker 3: wait a minute, I forgot this. Three verse brothers losing

950
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:32,960
Speaker 3: all their money in the divorce. So you name three people?

951
00:55:33,040 --> 00:55:35,400
Speaker 1: Yes, No, I can keep going. I could keep going.

952
00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:38,480
Speaker 3: Adele who you think can go longer? Me?

953
00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:38,719
Speaker 6: And you?

954
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:42,040
Speaker 3: Kelle Berry saying women to me saying, man, how long

955
00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 3: do you think that competition will last?

956
00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:49,520
Speaker 1: Here's the thing, and here's the problem. Men like to

957
00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:55,400
Speaker 1: act like they want to be these providers, right, and

958
00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:57,600
Speaker 1: so a lot of men will be like, I'm the man,

959
00:55:58,040 --> 00:56:00,880
Speaker 1: let me provide. You ain't got to do nothing. I'm

960
00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:03,160
Speaker 1: gonna take care of the household, and then when they

961
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:05,279
Speaker 1: get done with the marriage, be mad that a bitch

962
00:56:05,280 --> 00:56:05,880
Speaker 1: want money?

963
00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 3: How are you getting here? Who I'm listening? I'm sensing

964
00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:16,080
Speaker 3: that trauma again. I don't know what's going on.

965
00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:20,600
Speaker 1: I'm sticking up for the women's name. Who did women

966
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 1: are out?

967
00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:21,640
Speaker 2: Or go?

968
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:22,040
Speaker 7: Beat?

969
00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:25,960
Speaker 3: Him up right now, whoever hurts you, because he clearly

970
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:30,719
Speaker 3: is still in your head, because you're like, come on, now,

971
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:31,920
Speaker 3: you know what's crazy.

972
00:56:32,360 --> 00:56:35,640
Speaker 1: I also just saw a video that I highly disagreed

973
00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:38,960
Speaker 1: with Barry. It was this video. This man went around

974
00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:42,560
Speaker 1: asking would you would you live on an island of

975
00:56:42,600 --> 00:56:46,040
Speaker 1: all women? And all these women were saying yes. Then

976
00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 1: they went to the men and were like, would you

977
00:56:48,200 --> 00:56:50,160
Speaker 1: live on an island with only men? And all of

978
00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:53,279
Speaker 1: them niggas said no. To be fair, I would never

979
00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:55,480
Speaker 1: choose to live on an island with all women. I

980
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:59,080
Speaker 1: don't care. I don't care how big the straps get.

981
00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:04,440
Speaker 1: I need a pall. So I don't understand this hate

982
00:57:04,440 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 1: for men. I don't.

983
00:57:05,960 --> 00:57:08,040
Speaker 3: I love you represent it so well.

984
00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:11,839
Speaker 1: No, I don't. I do not represent No. I'm not

985
00:57:12,719 --> 00:57:13,520
Speaker 1: the man.

986
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:16,160
Speaker 3: Seeing that you got some pomp pounds right behind you

987
00:57:16,240 --> 00:57:18,560
Speaker 3: to say, hey man, I've seen them right there right

988
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:19,640
Speaker 3: there in the corner.

989
00:57:21,160 --> 00:57:23,240
Speaker 1: That is a fake Amazon plan. It is not a

990
00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:30,320
Speaker 1: bom bomb. Come on, you know what's crazy. I there

991
00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:36,800
Speaker 1: are things that I think men should learn, and I

992
00:57:36,800 --> 00:57:39,800
Speaker 1: think y'all are mad at the y'all are mad at

993
00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:42,600
Speaker 1: the patriarchal thing that y'all set up.

994
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:48,760
Speaker 3: You think black men have set up some system in

995
00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 3: the United States of the Americas, Here we go.

996
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 2: I think it's just the patriarchy. Whoever falls within that right.

997
00:57:58,400 --> 00:58:05,240
Speaker 3: Whoever does everything the patriarchy. Do black men and women

998
00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:09,040
Speaker 3: fall under that something established by somebody else.

999
00:58:09,280 --> 00:58:09,600
Speaker 1: I didn't.

1000
00:58:09,640 --> 00:58:11,280
Speaker 2: I didn't say black, I said I.

1001
00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:14,080
Speaker 1: Priarchy.

1002
00:58:14,800 --> 00:58:17,720
Speaker 2: The creators of the patriarchy set all that ship up,

1003
00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 2: and everybody where it benefits them, black, white, Latino or

1004
00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 2: other will fall in line with whatever channel works best

1005
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:26,440
Speaker 2: for them.

1006
00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 1: By the way, Maurice in the comments said, I've been

1007
00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:33,080
Speaker 1: following you for a cool minie, Mandy. You don't hate men,

1008
00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:39,040
Speaker 1: but he's onto something. Here say with your chest, unmute yourself,

1009
00:58:39,520 --> 00:58:43,560
Speaker 1: and I would love to know how you fix your

1010
00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:47,520
Speaker 1: mouth to say that Barry is onto something around me

1011
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:52,240
Speaker 1: leading the hate women charge. Watch him act like he

1012
00:58:52,360 --> 00:58:54,680
Speaker 1: at work or something. Mic.

1013
00:58:56,320 --> 00:58:58,600
Speaker 3: Don't make me rory you and go through your little twitters.

1014
00:58:59,040 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, by the way, you.

1015
00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:02,680
Speaker 1: Want to know what's funny about that? Y'all? Y'all hear

1016
00:59:02,760 --> 00:59:06,800
Speaker 1: that in an upcoming episode, a man had the nerve

1017
00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:09,840
Speaker 1: to email me my own tweets and so I double

1018
00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:14,200
Speaker 1: down on all them bitches, And so y'all will hear

1019
00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:16,240
Speaker 1: me do that? Not next week because next week is

1020
00:59:16,240 --> 00:59:21,160
Speaker 1: our Thanksgiving episode, but in about two weeks, I'm giving

1021
00:59:21,240 --> 00:59:25,080
Speaker 1: y'all the tweet breakdown and how I stand ten toes down?

1022
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:27,840
Speaker 1: Fuck you, bro fu, fuck all of y'all. How about that?

1023
00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:29,640
Speaker 1: How about that? And Marie.

1024
00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:32,600
Speaker 3: Conversation? What's happening?

1025
00:59:34,520 --> 00:59:37,880
Speaker 1: You know, did y'all hear a high Barry's voice? Just

1026
00:59:37,880 --> 00:59:43,360
Speaker 1: got that means you know, you know he awn some bullshit.

1027
00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:46,000
Speaker 1: Now here's the last thing I wanted to talk about,

1028
00:59:47,280 --> 00:59:50,720
Speaker 1: and curious to know y'all's thoughts specifically. I'm trying not

1029
00:59:50,760 --> 00:59:53,080
Speaker 1: to make this too personal or lean too into my

1030
00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:58,640
Speaker 1: own personal dealings. But Atlanta, I call him in Atlanta Native,

1031
00:59:58,720 --> 01:00:02,120
Speaker 1: but you know, I guess he's really from Saint Louis,

1032
01:00:02,160 --> 01:00:07,560
Speaker 1: But anyways, he's Atlanta. Usher is suing a group of

1033
01:00:07,600 --> 01:00:14,439
Speaker 1: his friends over an unpaid back loan. He loaned quite

1034
01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:17,560
Speaker 1: a bit of money to some investors that were looking

1035
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:23,320
Speaker 1: to open up a open up a club. He agreed

1036
01:00:23,360 --> 01:00:26,760
Speaker 1: to loan them one point seven million dollars. He received

1037
01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:30,880
Speaker 1: a repayment of one million dollars, but never got the

1038
01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:36,280
Speaker 1: remaining seven hundred thousand dollars back. Now, I have some

1039
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:40,640
Speaker 1: thoughts on this because although he never got the remaining

1040
01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:44,360
Speaker 1: seven hundred thousand dollars back, not sure the calculator he

1041
01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:49,440
Speaker 1: used to determine this interest. But he is suing four

1042
01:00:49,480 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 1: point nine million dollars in damages, allocating seven hundred thousand

1043
01:00:56,200 --> 01:01:00,480
Speaker 1: dollars for each of seven claims in a lawsuit. Now,

1044
01:01:02,440 --> 01:01:06,840
Speaker 1: Brian Michael Cox has a twenty seven year friendship with

1045
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:09,680
Speaker 1: this man and is listed as one of the people

1046
01:01:09,720 --> 01:01:13,360
Speaker 1: being sued for this seven hundred thousand dollars and literally

1047
01:01:13,840 --> 01:01:19,439
Speaker 1: wrote a Instagram post saying, regarding today's news, I've learned

1048
01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:22,880
Speaker 1: a lot recently about being careful with who you choose

1049
01:01:22,920 --> 01:01:25,800
Speaker 1: to invest in a business with, no matter how small

1050
01:01:25,840 --> 01:01:29,760
Speaker 1: the investment. He also claims that his twenty year friendship

1051
01:01:29,800 --> 01:01:34,840
Speaker 1: with Usher remains intact. Now y'all already. Oh, by the way,

1052
01:01:34,880 --> 01:01:39,960
Speaker 1: Connie said, when was this loan? This loan was for

1053
01:01:40,120 --> 01:01:45,760
Speaker 1: a January project. Months later, the restaurant that was supposed

1054
01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:49,040
Speaker 1: to be purchased with this loan was not ever purchased.

1055
01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:55,800
Speaker 1: He received the million dollar repayment in August, and when

1056
01:01:55,800 --> 01:01:59,320
Speaker 1: he asked about the other seven hundred thousand dollars. They

1057
01:01:59,360 --> 01:02:03,800
Speaker 1: came back and said, well, we don't have that money anymore. However,

1058
01:02:04,520 --> 01:02:08,520
Speaker 1: what the money was given for didn't come to fruition,

1059
01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:12,040
Speaker 1: so bitch, run me my money. A few things here.

1060
01:02:12,320 --> 01:02:16,120
Speaker 1: I think y'all have already heard a whole lot about

1061
01:02:16,120 --> 01:02:20,600
Speaker 1: my thoughts on doing business with friends. My advice has

1062
01:02:20,600 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 1: always been, bitch, don't do it unless you're willing to

1063
01:02:24,800 --> 01:02:28,480
Speaker 1: lose your friendship, lose the business, or lose both. It

1064
01:02:28,560 --> 01:02:36,440
Speaker 1: is inevitable, inevitable, inevitable. That's the word of the goddamn day.

1065
01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:42,720
Speaker 1: And so I wanted to know if in any case

1066
01:02:43,560 --> 01:02:47,720
Speaker 1: you could maintain a friendship with someone who sues you,

1067
01:02:49,840 --> 01:02:53,960
Speaker 1: because I cannot. I couldn't even go back to a

1068
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:57,320
Speaker 1: friendship if a bitch drew up some goddamn legal papers

1069
01:02:57,360 --> 01:03:01,240
Speaker 1: to sue me for anything, because at that point, if

1070
01:03:01,240 --> 01:03:04,480
Speaker 1: you have to take it to the courts, we're beyond

1071
01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:07,760
Speaker 1: respecting each other as friends because whatever it is, we

1072
01:03:07,800 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 1: can't talk through it. You don't trust me to go ahead, Barry,

1073
01:03:11,160 --> 01:03:12,160
Speaker 1: go go what.

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Speaker 3: You're saying, because I had to follow up on paperwork

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01:03:15,600 --> 01:03:18,080
Speaker 3: because you couldn't honor our friendship and give me my

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01:03:18,240 --> 01:03:22,480
Speaker 3: money back. Now I'm in the wrong for trying to

1077
01:03:22,480 --> 01:03:23,280
Speaker 3: get my money back.

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01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:24,880
Speaker 1: No, not what I said.

1079
01:03:26,120 --> 01:03:29,439
Speaker 3: No, you said no, you said him suing mean if

1080
01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:33,240
Speaker 3: I'm that far overdue, You've had plenty of opportunities. You

1081
01:03:33,320 --> 01:03:35,680
Speaker 3: know that you owe me. You know that I want

1082
01:03:35,680 --> 01:03:39,240
Speaker 3: my money back. If you are ducking me, if you're

1083
01:03:39,280 --> 01:03:41,840
Speaker 3: not doing it, if you've made promises on the way,

1084
01:03:41,840 --> 01:03:44,320
Speaker 3: I don't know the whole story. But no matter what

1085
01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:48,960
Speaker 3: my action is, because you owe me seven hundred thousand,

1086
01:03:49,680 --> 01:03:52,800
Speaker 3: here's the thing I gave you. Keep in mind, I

1087
01:03:53,040 --> 01:03:54,160
Speaker 3: gave you right.

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01:03:54,240 --> 01:03:54,960
Speaker 1: So here's the thing.

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01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:58,760
Speaker 3: You're a million plus friendship.

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01:03:58,960 --> 01:04:04,200
Speaker 1: There were more given. There were multiple investors here. If

1091
01:04:04,240 --> 01:04:09,760
Speaker 1: you only loaned one point seven million dollars one moment,

1092
01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:15,480
Speaker 1: you got your million back. But now you're coming after

1093
01:04:15,640 --> 01:04:20,200
Speaker 1: us for four point nine million dollars.

1094
01:04:20,920 --> 01:04:23,280
Speaker 2: He's suing each person for seven hundred k.

1095
01:04:23,640 --> 01:04:25,960
Speaker 1: Seven hundred K. He's only owed seven hundred k.

1096
01:04:26,560 --> 01:04:28,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, it should be like he should be suing each

1097
01:04:28,880 --> 01:04:31,160
Speaker 2: person for like one hundred k and some change if

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01:04:31,160 --> 01:04:34,160
Speaker 2: he's going to add interest, but usually interest, depending on

1099
01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:36,280
Speaker 2: their contract, might be compounded annually.

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01:04:36,760 --> 01:04:40,680
Speaker 1: My point and so to me, Okay, I owe you

1101
01:04:40,720 --> 01:04:43,560
Speaker 1: about one hundred grand as a friend. You coming after

1102
01:04:43,600 --> 01:04:44,760
Speaker 1: me for seven hundred grand.

1103
01:04:45,720 --> 01:04:48,840
Speaker 3: I need to see the paperwork, and I need to

1104
01:04:48,840 --> 01:04:51,920
Speaker 3: see the paper Maybe he's suing. Maybe he's suing each

1105
01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:55,680
Speaker 3: person for seven hundred k because expecting the judge to

1106
01:04:55,680 --> 01:04:58,240
Speaker 3: lower the judgment out to make it even.

1107
01:04:58,320 --> 01:05:00,840
Speaker 1: You know, you gotta say sue each you can't sue.

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01:05:00,960 --> 01:05:03,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, but at this point he's risking it because technically

1109
01:05:03,760 --> 01:05:07,080
Speaker 2: that wasn't the agreement for the outstanding debt. If he

1110
01:05:07,240 --> 01:05:10,840
Speaker 2: loaned all seven one point seven million and they all

1111
01:05:10,880 --> 01:05:13,960
Speaker 2: paid him back a million, then that would be justified.

1112
01:05:14,000 --> 01:05:15,000
Speaker 2: But at this rate.

1113
01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:17,600
Speaker 1: And so that's the thing Meg said in the chat.

1114
01:05:17,960 --> 01:05:20,959
Speaker 1: Maybe he's hoping he'll be made whole by at least

1115
01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:25,320
Speaker 1: one all. Phil Way is your friend if now that

1116
01:05:25,400 --> 01:05:29,160
Speaker 1: burden is coming directly my way when you know I'm

1117
01:05:29,240 --> 01:05:34,120
Speaker 1: also a nigga, I'm I'm out of an investment myself

1118
01:05:34,160 --> 01:05:36,240
Speaker 1: because the people who are who we all.

1119
01:05:36,160 --> 01:05:39,720
Speaker 3: Try to loaned you the money You came to me,

1120
01:05:39,800 --> 01:05:42,200
Speaker 3: not as to think you came to me as a

1121
01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:45,760
Speaker 3: friend and I gave you money. You seen to like

1122
01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:49,439
Speaker 3: erase that fact. This isn't like, Hey, I just want

1123
01:05:49,520 --> 01:05:52,400
Speaker 3: something for you, something suing you. This is a business

1124
01:05:52,480 --> 01:05:56,840
Speaker 3: arrangement we had that you faulted on, and you're saying,

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01:05:57,040 --> 01:05:59,560
Speaker 3: I'll just let it go. You're doing the whole Chris

1126
01:05:59,600 --> 01:06:01,760
Speaker 3: Brown me money thing by my man the other way,

1127
01:06:01,800 --> 01:06:06,000
Speaker 3: because like, what, why can't y'all just treat business like business?

1128
01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:10,960
Speaker 3: I gave you money, I was expecting something back you

1129
01:06:11,280 --> 01:06:14,520
Speaker 3: for whatever reason, didn't by choice or by options, and

1130
01:06:14,600 --> 01:06:16,439
Speaker 3: I just took my legal thing.

1131
01:06:16,760 --> 01:06:18,959
Speaker 1: And I love that you said that, because a part

1132
01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:22,680
Speaker 1: of why I don't believe friends should do business is

1133
01:06:22,720 --> 01:06:27,920
Speaker 1: because it's almost impossible not to take things personally. And

1134
01:06:27,960 --> 01:06:31,720
Speaker 1: so if you are my friend, you coming out after

1135
01:06:31,840 --> 01:06:36,600
Speaker 1: my livelihood with this lawsuit because you're asking your I

1136
01:06:36,640 --> 01:06:41,720
Speaker 1: don't know that reaching by seven times the amount or whatever.

1137
01:06:42,000 --> 01:06:44,600
Speaker 1: You're multiplying the amount by what I kind of owe you.

1138
01:06:45,480 --> 01:06:48,600
Speaker 3: But like everybody's kind of said, you still get a judgment.

1139
01:06:48,800 --> 01:06:51,160
Speaker 3: A jury ord just says what you get. So the

1140
01:06:51,240 --> 01:06:52,960
Speaker 3: number you put in is whatever.

1141
01:06:54,800 --> 01:06:57,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I guess I can understand too, maybe legal

1142
01:06:57,520 --> 01:06:59,560
Speaker 1: fees and things, which is why he overreached with this

1143
01:06:59,640 --> 01:07:00,160
Speaker 1: as well.

1144
01:07:00,480 --> 01:07:04,640
Speaker 6: But he's basically suing the investment company, so which is

1145
01:07:04,640 --> 01:07:08,440
Speaker 6: probably the significant reason why Brian is not a feeling

1146
01:07:08,520 --> 01:07:10,440
Speaker 6: affected by the lawsuit.

1147
01:07:10,640 --> 01:07:13,440
Speaker 1: Brian is a small percentage.

1148
01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:19,160
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I think they're just not named in the lawsuit.

1149
01:07:19,400 --> 01:07:23,400
Speaker 3: But he's suing for I mean, that's what I'm saying,

1150
01:07:23,400 --> 01:07:25,640
Speaker 3: that they're just named in it. Are you sure that

1151
01:07:25,640 --> 01:07:29,280
Speaker 3: they're individually being sued for seven hundred thousand? Are you

1152
01:07:29,280 --> 01:07:31,120
Speaker 3: sure they're just not named in the suit.

1153
01:07:31,480 --> 01:07:35,040
Speaker 2: If it's one lawsuit for the four point nine, they

1154
01:07:35,120 --> 01:07:37,760
Speaker 2: might name the company and then all the partners in

1155
01:07:37,800 --> 01:07:38,480
Speaker 2: that company.

1156
01:07:38,960 --> 01:07:41,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's not directly suing them each for it.

1157
01:07:41,320 --> 01:07:44,760
Speaker 2: It could be it could be the seven individual ones,

1158
01:07:44,880 --> 01:07:47,600
Speaker 2: which that would make sense because then it goes back

1159
01:07:47,640 --> 01:07:49,520
Speaker 2: to like what Meg said, like one of y'all is

1160
01:07:49,560 --> 01:07:52,640
Speaker 2: gonna pay me. But if it's one lawsuit with seven

1161
01:07:52,840 --> 01:07:56,600
Speaker 2: like defendants, then at that point he's going after them

1162
01:07:56,640 --> 01:08:00,400
Speaker 2: individually and not just the parent company that might have

1163
01:08:00,480 --> 01:08:01,240
Speaker 2: cash to check.

1164
01:08:02,840 --> 01:08:05,680
Speaker 1: Y'all know, I'm after my husband one moment so that

1165
01:08:05,720 --> 01:08:09,640
Speaker 1: we get these absolute details because my man know it all.

1166
01:08:09,760 --> 01:08:13,040
Speaker 2: Baby, pull up the court documents, send us the lane.

1167
01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:18,000
Speaker 1: Listen, he better not let me down. He's searching the internet.

1168
01:08:18,439 --> 01:08:21,559
Speaker 1: This was filed in the city in Atlanta. It does

1169
01:08:21,640 --> 01:08:25,400
Speaker 1: say an investment group. So let's see the people within

1170
01:08:25,439 --> 01:08:29,759
Speaker 1: that at investment group. Oh baby, they're opening pdf files

1171
01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:34,280
Speaker 1: and all I'm not gonna lie love this, okay. So

1172
01:08:35,600 --> 01:08:43,479
Speaker 1: you know what's crazy for individuals and for companies. So

1173
01:08:44,520 --> 01:08:48,719
Speaker 1: I'll see they Hona Ray, Atlanta attorney whose trust account

1174
01:08:48,760 --> 01:08:53,519
Speaker 1: received Usher's money, is being sued Brian Michael Cox, who's

1175
01:08:53,520 --> 01:08:58,479
Speaker 1: the longtime producer and songwriter, Keith Thomas who's an entertainment

1176
01:08:58,560 --> 01:09:03,120
Speaker 1: industry figure, and Charles Hughes, another entertainment figure, plus their

1177
01:09:03,160 --> 01:09:06,800
Speaker 1: respective companies that are each tied to them. What is

1178
01:09:06,800 --> 01:09:12,679
Speaker 1: a lawsuit? Let me see? Okay, So the actual cash

1179
01:09:12,840 --> 01:09:17,760
Speaker 1: shortfall is the seven hundred thousand. The four point nine

1180
01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:21,599
Speaker 1: comes from how the lawsuit is structured. And he has

1181
01:09:22,240 --> 01:09:27,759
Speaker 1: seven claims. So the complaint brought up seven separate causes

1182
01:09:27,760 --> 01:09:31,080
Speaker 1: of action each where he's asking for no less than

1183
01:09:31,080 --> 01:09:38,880
Speaker 1: seven hundred thousand damages so breach aveilpment, breach of fiduciary duty, conversion, negligence,

1184
01:09:39,320 --> 01:09:44,280
Speaker 1: breach of contracts, unjust enrichment, and money had and received.

1185
01:09:44,800 --> 01:09:49,080
Speaker 1: So he is suing for all of those counts, not individuals,

1186
01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:55,120
Speaker 1: no less than seven hundred thousand dollars plus prejudgment interests. Goddamn,

1187
01:09:56,080 --> 01:10:00,880
Speaker 1: he got them cardinals, That's what I'm saying. That's where

1188
01:10:00,960 --> 01:10:05,880
Speaker 1: to me, I understand business and legal jargon, but to me,

1189
01:10:06,080 --> 01:10:09,679
Speaker 1: if you're friends with one of these people, I don't

1190
01:10:09,680 --> 01:10:13,720
Speaker 1: know the coming up with every which way that you

1191
01:10:13,800 --> 01:10:17,320
Speaker 1: could sue and going seven counts and suing for that

1192
01:10:17,400 --> 01:10:20,519
Speaker 1: amount for each I get the overreaching and hoping you

1193
01:10:20,680 --> 01:10:23,599
Speaker 1: land at one of them. But if you get all

1194
01:10:23,680 --> 01:10:26,760
Speaker 1: seven too, that's kind of preposterous, especially knowing that one

1195
01:10:26,800 --> 01:10:28,120
Speaker 1: of your best friends is involved.

1196
01:10:28,479 --> 01:10:32,040
Speaker 3: In my opinion, So you've never seen somebody like oversue

1197
01:10:32,280 --> 01:10:35,519
Speaker 3: for something just to try to be mean and spiteful.

1198
01:10:38,920 --> 01:10:44,880
Speaker 1: Point. So again my point, I don't see how Beecocks

1199
01:10:44,920 --> 01:10:47,919
Speaker 1: can come out and say our twenty seven year friendship

1200
01:10:47,960 --> 01:10:50,320
Speaker 1: is still intact when.

1201
01:10:50,479 --> 01:10:53,800
Speaker 3: Because he's taking care of business in the end. Yeah,

1202
01:10:54,520 --> 01:10:56,760
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know how you get away from it.

1203
01:10:56,840 --> 01:10:59,559
Speaker 3: And I'm asking you because I really don't know. If

1204
01:10:59,600 --> 01:11:04,080
Speaker 3: I've already loaned you a million plus, you're gonna be

1205
01:11:04,120 --> 01:11:07,519
Speaker 3: mad at me because I didn't accept that you didn't

1206
01:11:07,520 --> 01:11:09,040
Speaker 3: pay me back. I didn't I guess.

1207
01:11:09,080 --> 01:11:12,439
Speaker 1: I guess I'm also interested to know that this loan

1208
01:11:12,720 --> 01:11:16,640
Speaker 1: was given out in January. He got a million in August.

1209
01:11:18,040 --> 01:11:20,599
Speaker 1: I don't know many shorts. Was this a short term

1210
01:11:20,640 --> 01:11:25,839
Speaker 1: loan because niggas got time to pay you back? Like, goddamn,

1211
01:11:25,920 --> 01:11:28,960
Speaker 1: you got over half of it back within eight months

1212
01:11:29,000 --> 01:11:32,200
Speaker 1: of loaning it. So to me, I just I don't know.

1213
01:11:32,240 --> 01:11:35,599
Speaker 1: Maybe it's because the restaurant never opened it all. They

1214
01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:38,040
Speaker 1: never got the property at all, you know what I mean?

1215
01:11:38,240 --> 01:11:40,679
Speaker 1: So he's like, so where the other money if y'all

1216
01:11:40,680 --> 01:11:41,720
Speaker 1: never got the building, I.

1217
01:11:41,680 --> 01:11:44,600
Speaker 3: Assume, But trust he couldn't sue if they if the

1218
01:11:44,720 --> 01:11:47,679
Speaker 3: terms of the whatever paperwork said or you cann pay

1219
01:11:47,680 --> 01:11:49,440
Speaker 3: me back in two years, he wouldn't.

1220
01:11:49,080 --> 01:11:51,080
Speaker 1: Be I mean my point, which is why he was

1221
01:11:51,120 --> 01:11:53,600
Speaker 1: able to come up with seven different lawsuits.

1222
01:11:53,760 --> 01:11:57,920
Speaker 3: The paperwork says something that they didn't need. That's the thing.

1223
01:11:58,520 --> 01:12:01,040
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at it. So I would just say,

1224
01:12:01,640 --> 01:12:04,840
Speaker 1: by the way, trev valid trev put saying that the

1225
01:12:04,880 --> 01:12:07,639
Speaker 1: friendship is still in tax seems like some rich people shit,

1226
01:12:08,360 --> 01:12:11,599
Speaker 1: because yes, had this happened to anybody else living chat

1227
01:12:11,600 --> 01:12:15,080
Speaker 1: to check? You taking food off off my children's table

1228
01:12:15,120 --> 01:12:15,879
Speaker 1: with this lawsuit?

1229
01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:16,360
Speaker 3: Goddamn?

1230
01:12:17,240 --> 01:12:21,200
Speaker 1: So it definitely is that By the way, Connie said,

1231
01:12:21,280 --> 01:12:23,679
Speaker 1: Chat didn't pull up the actual contract for you, lol.

1232
01:12:24,200 --> 01:12:27,280
Speaker 1: I feel like if I asked for it, I just

1233
01:12:27,360 --> 01:12:30,439
Speaker 1: asked it to break down what the four point nine

1234
01:12:30,439 --> 01:12:34,160
Speaker 1: million dollar lossuit was. If I said, Chat, send me

1235
01:12:34,200 --> 01:12:37,200
Speaker 1: that contract that they breached, I want to see it

1236
01:12:37,200 --> 01:12:39,599
Speaker 1: from my own eyes. I feel like you could find

1237
01:12:39,640 --> 01:12:43,879
Speaker 1: it somewhere on the interweb. Meg has her hand raised.

1238
01:12:45,000 --> 01:12:50,760
Speaker 2: Go ahead, Meg, it's friends because as soon because you

1239
01:12:50,800 --> 01:12:53,519
Speaker 2: didn't pay ooh, I'm sorry, Meg, I ain't even gonna

1240
01:12:53,520 --> 01:12:53,760
Speaker 2: hold you.

1241
01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:56,840
Speaker 1: Gotta mute you, but you sound like you about to

1242
01:12:57,120 --> 01:13:01,880
Speaker 1: do an alien invasions on this bitch. We can't not you,

1243
01:13:03,320 --> 01:13:10,080
Speaker 1: but your wee fee is fucking up. So I'm gonna, oh, Meg,

1244
01:13:10,640 --> 01:13:13,040
Speaker 1: go to another room. I'm gonna umute you, and we

1245
01:13:13,080 --> 01:13:15,679
Speaker 1: go see if it works. Otherwise, you are not taking

1246
01:13:15,680 --> 01:13:20,080
Speaker 1: over our brains tonight. All right, Meg, I'm u mute

1247
01:13:20,080 --> 01:13:27,599
Speaker 1: if you if you want to try again, your okay.

1248
01:13:27,640 --> 01:13:31,799
Speaker 3: So what I was saying is what if what if.

1249
01:13:33,360 --> 01:13:36,080
Speaker 2: They're trying to like make it look like he lost

1250
01:13:36,080 --> 01:13:38,040
Speaker 2: all this money so doesn't pay taxes, and they're trying

1251
01:13:38,040 --> 01:13:40,080
Speaker 2: to get out of paid taxes by saying he has

1252
01:13:40,080 --> 01:13:42,400
Speaker 2: to pay all this money and lawsuit and that's why

1253
01:13:42,400 --> 01:13:45,120
Speaker 2: they're still cool because he's not really you know, like

1254
01:13:45,120 --> 01:13:46,200
Speaker 2: they're doing association ship.

1255
01:13:46,680 --> 01:13:49,120
Speaker 1: Do not turn these black kinks into scammers, Meg, I

1256
01:13:49,160 --> 01:13:50,880
Speaker 1: won't allow it.

1257
01:13:51,800 --> 01:13:53,760
Speaker 3: Like I said, rich people ship, that's what this is.

1258
01:13:54,280 --> 01:13:56,519
Speaker 1: No valid. I'm not gonna lie, Meg, but you're right,

1259
01:13:56,600 --> 01:14:00,120
Speaker 1: these are rich people problems and valid. Don't know if

1260
01:14:00,160 --> 01:14:02,040
Speaker 1: I want to allow you to sit up here as

1261
01:14:02,040 --> 01:14:06,400
Speaker 1: a spicy white and turn these black men into cameras.

1262
01:14:06,400 --> 01:14:08,160
Speaker 2: He doesn't lawsuit for that.

1263
01:14:09,640 --> 01:14:12,360
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. And if y'all see what's

1264
01:14:12,360 --> 01:14:17,040
Speaker 1: happening with Theos bitch, you're not getting You're not getting

1265
01:14:17,080 --> 01:14:19,439
Speaker 1: away from the Feds. Okay, you're not getting away from

1266
01:14:19,479 --> 01:14:21,800
Speaker 1: once things are in the court system and shit, you

1267
01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:24,559
Speaker 1: don't want to be tricky with how you navigate shit.

1268
01:14:24,800 --> 01:14:28,639
Speaker 1: Because themos Cephos bitch apparently they was out that Nigga

1269
01:14:28,680 --> 01:14:33,519
Speaker 1: was calling himself Eddie Hennessy. Allegedly, the Feds are saying

1270
01:14:34,320 --> 01:14:39,200
Speaker 1: they have forty credit cards and debit cards using Alias's

1271
01:14:39,320 --> 01:14:44,360
Speaker 1: bitch now their legal key. Their legal team came out

1272
01:14:44,400 --> 01:14:49,080
Speaker 1: and was like denied all claims. But to me, bitch,

1273
01:14:49,160 --> 01:14:54,439
Speaker 1: this is y'all are going up against the federalis. Why

1274
01:14:54,479 --> 01:14:58,640
Speaker 1: would no PR statements needed? Bitch, take that ship in

1275
01:14:58,680 --> 01:15:00,840
Speaker 1: front of the jury to clear your name.

1276
01:15:02,400 --> 01:15:04,519
Speaker 2: They took her off of wife's wap.

1277
01:15:04,840 --> 01:15:06,599
Speaker 1: Nope, they aired it back.

1278
01:15:07,040 --> 01:15:09,639
Speaker 2: They put it back, they aired it back on there.

1279
01:15:11,120 --> 01:15:16,720
Speaker 1: All right. So, by the way, I never want to

1280
01:15:16,760 --> 01:15:20,519
Speaker 1: do this ever again. But shout out to Q and

1281
01:15:20,600 --> 01:15:23,280
Speaker 1: Christopher who chose to show up an hour and eighteen

1282
01:15:23,320 --> 01:15:30,839
Speaker 1: minutes late work out. That's the disrespect. Corporate life, honey,

1283
01:15:31,080 --> 01:15:36,720
Speaker 1: corporate life ezy. You know what's even crazier, baby, this

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01:15:36,840 --> 01:15:38,920
Speaker 1: side of the year, corporations have.

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Speaker 2: To know.

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01:15:40,680 --> 01:15:42,840
Speaker 1: You're not working hard. You're hardly working.

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01:15:42,560 --> 01:15:45,680
Speaker 3: On It is my bad.

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01:15:46,479 --> 01:15:51,519
Speaker 1: I've got karate. Okay, sorry, you know what's crazy? Men

1289
01:15:51,640 --> 01:15:54,840
Speaker 1: love an excuse? It's work kid a karate? God, damn,

1290
01:15:55,320 --> 01:15:55,800
Speaker 1: y'all quit.

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01:15:55,880 --> 01:15:56,559
Speaker 3: I'm a gay man.

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01:15:56,600 --> 01:15:58,360
Speaker 1: I'm differ it.

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01:15:58,760 --> 01:15:59,040
Speaker 3: Wow.

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01:15:59,600 --> 01:16:03,040
Speaker 1: Oh wow. By the way, I did have a hot

1295
01:16:03,080 --> 01:16:05,880
Speaker 1: take as I was, and y'all hear it coming up.

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01:16:05,880 --> 01:16:09,120
Speaker 1: In an episode there was someone tried to come at

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01:16:09,120 --> 01:16:12,920
Speaker 1: me about my old tweets, and apparently I said I

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01:16:12,960 --> 01:16:15,519
Speaker 1: was gonna make it my goal in life to teach

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Speaker 1: black people how to tip and I will say Christopher,

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01:16:20,560 --> 01:16:24,320
Speaker 1: your people are the best tippers, So kudos to gay men. Anyways,

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01:16:24,520 --> 01:16:26,280
Speaker 1: let's get into.

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Speaker 6: Wait, wait, wait, wait, question, Am I supposed to tip

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01:16:28,360 --> 01:16:29,240
Speaker 6: for trash service?

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01:16:29,680 --> 01:16:31,320
Speaker 1: Here we go with this. See what I mean.

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01:16:31,360 --> 01:16:32,880
Speaker 3: I'm just asking a question.

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01:16:35,120 --> 01:16:39,920
Speaker 1: Okay. The answer to that is at least ten percent.

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01:16:41,600 --> 01:16:43,840
Speaker 1: Thank you. Oh. Maurice said it at the same time

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01:16:43,880 --> 01:16:47,719
Speaker 1: as me in the chat. Ten percent for trash that's

1309
01:16:47,760 --> 01:16:48,760
Speaker 1: that's what you do.

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01:16:49,600 --> 01:16:52,360
Speaker 3: Well, that's when contuities already included.

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01:16:52,800 --> 01:16:56,439
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna hold you Q. You're giving that. You

1312
01:16:56,600 --> 01:16:59,400
Speaker 1: go in and if they're not perfect, you was already

1313
01:16:59,439 --> 01:17:02,280
Speaker 1: planning that tip. That's what it's given.

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01:17:02,880 --> 01:17:03,760
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, no no.

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01:17:03,920 --> 01:17:07,080
Speaker 3: I tip good fool good service. I tip crazy.

1316
01:17:07,439 --> 01:17:11,240
Speaker 1: But when it's trash service, at least ten percent?

1317
01:17:11,840 --> 01:17:12,599
Speaker 3: Oh y'all got it?

1318
01:17:12,680 --> 01:17:15,920
Speaker 1: Hey, Connie? Connie said, at least tip tax text be

1319
01:17:16,040 --> 01:17:18,040
Speaker 1: like seven to eight and a half percent, So yeah,

1320
01:17:18,080 --> 01:17:18,679
Speaker 1: it's about.

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01:17:19,479 --> 01:17:21,679
Speaker 3: But should a person tip when gratuity is included?

1322
01:17:23,280 --> 01:17:27,200
Speaker 1: No, nigga, it's already included. The gratuity is a tip.

1323
01:17:27,840 --> 01:17:30,240
Speaker 3: But some people still ask for the tip even if

1324
01:17:30,280 --> 01:17:31,439
Speaker 3: though the ties.

1325
01:17:31,720 --> 01:17:34,040
Speaker 1: Oh no, the additional tip is I'm gonna give you

1326
01:17:34,080 --> 01:17:38,120
Speaker 1: some advice on life. That's the additional tip. Ain't my

1327
01:17:38,160 --> 01:17:43,880
Speaker 1: body additional tipping out here? The fuck talk about they

1328
01:17:43,920 --> 01:17:46,800
Speaker 1: got a lot of economy. Not in this economy. I'm

1329
01:17:46,800 --> 01:17:49,760
Speaker 1: gonna give you a tip go back to school. That's

1330
01:17:49,800 --> 01:17:52,519
Speaker 1: not even a good advice advice anymore because they make

1331
01:17:52,600 --> 01:17:59,040
Speaker 1: you goddamn degrees not matter for shit? Okay, AnyWho last one?

1332
01:17:59,840 --> 01:18:03,400
Speaker 1: I would love to know if anyone has an m

1333
01:18:03,680 --> 01:18:12,360
Speaker 1: I ignorant scenario dilemma thoughts where you care to know

1334
01:18:13,320 --> 01:18:16,920
Speaker 1: if you're being ignorant, selectively ignorant, or nothing is wrong

1335
01:18:16,960 --> 01:18:20,120
Speaker 1: with your thought at all? Fuck anyone who's offended? You know?

1336
01:18:21,920 --> 01:18:23,439
Speaker 1: I want to know, does anyone have one?

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01:18:24,920 --> 01:18:26,519
Speaker 3: Can we go to this tipping thing?

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01:18:27,160 --> 01:18:29,519
Speaker 1: Okay, go ahead, Barry, all right, all right?

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01:18:30,400 --> 01:18:32,880
Speaker 3: I mean, and I worked in many restaurants, and that's

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01:18:34,520 --> 01:18:37,920
Speaker 3: if I'm I mean, we all probably do whatever food

1341
01:18:37,920 --> 01:18:42,280
Speaker 3: delivery service. I'm not trying to shout no particular company out.

1342
01:18:42,680 --> 01:18:45,040
Speaker 3: If you just gonna pick up and bring to me

1343
01:18:45,360 --> 01:18:48,599
Speaker 3: the food, Why am I tipping you based on what

1344
01:18:48,640 --> 01:18:53,439
Speaker 3: I order? It's a service, But why am I hear

1345
01:18:53,520 --> 01:18:55,000
Speaker 3: my question? Very particularly?

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01:18:55,280 --> 01:18:55,519
Speaker 4: Yes?

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01:18:57,320 --> 01:19:00,960
Speaker 3: What I order? If I decide I want a two

1348
01:19:01,000 --> 01:19:05,320
Speaker 3: hundred dollars steak insides and versus I want a sub sandwich.

1349
01:19:05,640 --> 01:19:06,880
Speaker 3: Why am I paying you?

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01:19:07,120 --> 01:19:07,320
Speaker 5: Oh?

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01:19:09,000 --> 01:19:12,720
Speaker 1: Or for the delivery service, I tip the same no

1352
01:19:12,720 --> 01:19:16,599
Speaker 1: matter how much food I order. So I'm tipping between

1353
01:19:18,520 --> 01:19:22,640
Speaker 1: seven pretty much seven dollars. Five to seven dollars is

1354
01:19:22,760 --> 01:19:25,720
Speaker 1: flat rate for them just bringing me my food. I

1355
01:19:25,800 --> 01:19:28,960
Speaker 1: actually don't tip my percentage for delivery drivers.

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Speaker 3: And so how is that different than a waitress or

1357
01:19:33,439 --> 01:19:36,360
Speaker 3: a counter person? Some people order at the bar. How

1358
01:19:36,479 --> 01:19:37,879
Speaker 3: is how is it different?

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Speaker 1: You're me go ahead, Connie.

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Speaker 2: If you're at a restaurant and you're having great service,

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Speaker 2: where your server is knowledgeable, want the food, is making

1362
01:19:46,720 --> 01:19:51,320
Speaker 2: drink recommendations, is checking in on you, your drink never goes empty.

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01:19:51,439 --> 01:19:54,200
Speaker 2: Things like that. To me, as a retired server, is

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01:19:54,240 --> 01:19:57,280
Speaker 2: always twenty percent. That's what you want to go service

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01:19:57,360 --> 01:20:00,200
Speaker 2: do want shitty days, So that's not always a thing.

1366
01:20:00,400 --> 01:20:02,559
Speaker 2: But if you're ordering at the counter and all you're

1367
01:20:02,600 --> 01:20:06,200
Speaker 2: getting is somebody who's pushing button, I might tip like

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01:20:06,240 --> 01:20:09,200
Speaker 2: a dollar or two. But there are some restaurants where

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01:20:09,200 --> 01:20:11,040
Speaker 2: their tips are shared with the kitchen.

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01:20:11,560 --> 01:20:13,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, so so hit my eight dollars.

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01:20:13,880 --> 01:20:15,960
Speaker 2: It's sharing with everybody else.

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Speaker 1: I hate pulled houses. But for me, here is my

1373
01:20:19,439 --> 01:20:25,960
Speaker 1: comparison for the delivery driver. I'm comparing the delivery person

1374
01:20:26,000 --> 01:20:29,559
Speaker 1: with your food to the runner at a restaurant. So

1375
01:20:29,840 --> 01:20:32,360
Speaker 1: the runner is who brings your the plates from the

1376
01:20:32,479 --> 01:20:35,240
Speaker 1: kitchen to the table. It's not the person who's been

1377
01:20:35,280 --> 01:20:37,080
Speaker 1: serving you all night, who took your order, who keeps

1378
01:20:37,080 --> 01:20:40,240
Speaker 1: your drinks re filled. The runner is literally the person

1379
01:20:40,479 --> 01:20:44,679
Speaker 1: who runs the food. So for me, that's what someone

1380
01:20:44,800 --> 01:20:46,760
Speaker 1: is doing who's picking up my bag and dropping it

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Speaker 1: off at my house. And normally the runners don't get tipped.

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01:20:51,400 --> 01:20:53,879
Speaker 1: Maybe in a pulled house, they get tipped from the service,

1383
01:20:54,400 --> 01:20:58,720
Speaker 1: but they don't get tipped from the table directly, which

1384
01:20:58,800 --> 01:21:01,360
Speaker 1: is why you running me my foot. That's it. Like,

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01:21:01,439 --> 01:21:03,559
Speaker 1: I look at them as runners, so that's why I

1386
01:21:03,600 --> 01:21:06,599
Speaker 1: tip the way I tip for those and they're not

1387
01:21:06,640 --> 01:21:08,960
Speaker 1: providing me a service. Nine times out of ten, the

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01:21:08,960 --> 01:21:11,160
Speaker 1: bitches can't find my goddamn building, and I want to

1389
01:21:11,200 --> 01:21:13,400
Speaker 1: deduct they tip because nigga, Now I had to leave

1390
01:21:13,439 --> 01:21:16,840
Speaker 1: out my house, go down my stairs, and motherfucker, come

1391
01:21:16,920 --> 01:21:19,120
Speaker 1: get the bag outside. If I wanted to leave my house,

1392
01:21:19,120 --> 01:21:21,920
Speaker 1: I would have left my house. So that's the worst.

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01:21:22,880 --> 01:21:26,880
Speaker 3: When then, niggas, I think, are y'all truly? I mean,

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01:21:26,920 --> 01:21:29,120
Speaker 3: I know everybody eats differently, and we got our rich

1395
01:21:29,200 --> 01:21:32,000
Speaker 3: randle here. Do y'all feel like y'all getting five star

1396
01:21:32,080 --> 01:21:34,880
Speaker 3: service out there? I don't. I don't see five star service.

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01:21:34,920 --> 01:21:37,719
Speaker 3: And I go to different levels of restaurants fine dining.

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Speaker 1: In Atlanta. There's maybe three places that I know I'm

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01:21:42,160 --> 01:21:45,559
Speaker 1: going to get top match service. Never haven't gotten. But

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01:21:45,640 --> 01:21:53,320
Speaker 1: they're at fine dining, fine dining, white tablecloth type of establishments, right, Like, Unfortunately,

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01:21:53,800 --> 01:21:55,639
Speaker 1: you have to realize that at the end of the day.

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01:21:55,760 --> 01:21:58,040
Speaker 1: And if we don't want the world to be autonomous,

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01:21:58,400 --> 01:22:01,160
Speaker 1: we're going to have people who have shitty days. We're

1404
01:22:01,200 --> 01:22:04,320
Speaker 1: gonna have people where service is subjective. They may think

1405
01:22:04,360 --> 01:22:06,479
Speaker 1: they're doing a great job and they're not. They may

1406
01:22:06,520 --> 01:22:08,720
Speaker 1: feel like they only have to do the bare minimum. Bitch,

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01:22:08,760 --> 01:22:13,040
Speaker 1: why you here? I don't have to go above and beyond? Like, service, unfortunately,

1408
01:22:13,160 --> 01:22:17,400
Speaker 1: is subjective. And I also think it's geographical. And I

1409
01:22:17,520 --> 01:22:22,320
Speaker 1: told y'all that, boy, the South is slow. They think

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01:22:22,360 --> 01:22:26,080
Speaker 1: we all got time, Bitch, I've been sitting for twenty minutes.

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01:22:26,240 --> 01:22:30,400
Speaker 1: What the fuck is like bruh, it's just slow down here.

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01:22:30,200 --> 01:22:33,000
Speaker 3: And you're still doing twenty percent plus.

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01:22:33,360 --> 01:22:37,439
Speaker 1: I mean, I've learned to understand more or be a

1414
01:22:37,479 --> 01:22:41,640
Speaker 1: little bit more understanding. But which is why I go

1415
01:22:41,720 --> 01:22:46,160
Speaker 1: to white table called establishments, and I spend the money

1416
01:22:46,200 --> 01:22:47,439
Speaker 1: because I want the good service.

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01:22:48,960 --> 01:22:50,759
Speaker 2: Okay, real quick, I got two stories.

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01:22:51,560 --> 01:22:55,160
Speaker 1: So if we start off you ignorant, yup, q h.

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01:22:56,000 --> 01:22:57,759
Speaker 3: No, there's a place in Teta Monica.

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01:22:57,760 --> 01:22:58,120
Speaker 1: I go to.

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01:22:58,160 --> 01:22:59,880
Speaker 3: The service is amazing. They want to know people like

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01:23:00,040 --> 01:23:00,680
Speaker 3: robot to pay.

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01:23:00,720 --> 01:23:02,439
Speaker 1: I tiped from crazy other.

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01:23:02,280 --> 01:23:03,240
Speaker 3: Place downtown La.

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01:23:03,320 --> 01:23:03,720
Speaker 1: I go to.

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01:23:04,640 --> 01:23:05,439
Speaker 3: I don't eat cheese.

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01:23:05,479 --> 01:23:07,200
Speaker 1: I say, oh, can I get a burger? No cheese.

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01:23:07,960 --> 01:23:08,639
Speaker 1: I get my burger.

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01:23:08,680 --> 01:23:10,720
Speaker 3: My shit got cheese on it. I send it back

1430
01:23:11,560 --> 01:23:13,400
Speaker 3: and come back again with cheese on it.

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01:23:13,920 --> 01:23:17,080
Speaker 6: At what point do I just like what we're doing here,

1432
01:23:17,240 --> 01:23:19,640
Speaker 6: like like that?

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01:23:20,080 --> 01:23:22,840
Speaker 2: I don't. You can't blame your server. You have to

1434
01:23:22,840 --> 01:23:23,639
Speaker 2: blame the kitchen.

1435
01:23:23,680 --> 01:23:31,240
Speaker 3: But none of that server. Bret that cheeseburger to me, and.

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01:23:29,920 --> 01:23:33,679
Speaker 2: Yes, what I understand. And at that point it's, hey,

1437
01:23:33,760 --> 01:23:35,639
Speaker 2: you know what, I'm just gonna go ahead and cancel

1438
01:23:35,720 --> 01:23:38,840
Speaker 2: this just I'll pay for my beverages or whatever I

1439
01:23:38,880 --> 01:23:40,760
Speaker 2: did eat. But I'm not paying for this burger, but

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01:23:40,760 --> 01:23:42,960
Speaker 2: there is still even then a way to do that.

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01:23:43,120 --> 01:23:45,599
Speaker 1: But do you know what's suck too about that? And

1442
01:23:45,680 --> 01:23:50,120
Speaker 1: kind of you brought up the pulled houses or when

1443
01:23:50,160 --> 01:23:54,839
Speaker 1: it's not pulled, it's the server's job to be thankful

1444
01:23:54,960 --> 01:23:57,880
Speaker 1: and tip. And so if it's not a pulled house,

1445
01:23:58,680 --> 01:24:01,559
Speaker 1: there are people in the kids and bartenders because I've

1446
01:24:01,560 --> 01:24:04,040
Speaker 1: been that if I know you not even tipping out,

1447
01:24:04,360 --> 01:24:07,240
Speaker 1: but you're expecting me to do your shit. I've been

1448
01:24:07,280 --> 01:24:10,080
Speaker 1: in a place whereas a bartender, you not tipping me out,

1449
01:24:10,120 --> 01:24:12,160
Speaker 1: You're not making sure I'm good at the night. You're

1450
01:24:12,200 --> 01:24:15,120
Speaker 1: not looking out for me. Your drink's gonna be weak.

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01:24:16,400 --> 01:24:18,160
Speaker 3: Beforehand when you're giving the service.

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01:24:18,400 --> 01:24:19,920
Speaker 1: No, that's the thing.

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01:24:20,080 --> 01:24:24,400
Speaker 2: No table does a night. That's why I said the

1454
01:24:24,479 --> 01:24:28,840
Speaker 2: expectation is that everybody understands this table might not come

1455
01:24:28,880 --> 01:24:32,720
Speaker 2: back for me, But if they love Mandy as their bartender,

1456
01:24:32,720 --> 01:24:35,559
Speaker 2: guess what, They're gonna go straight to Mandy, sit at

1457
01:24:35,560 --> 01:24:38,880
Speaker 2: the bar, and she's gonna get their tip, not me. Right,

1458
01:24:39,040 --> 01:24:43,200
Speaker 2: So it's like, sometimes you do have shitty staff. I've

1459
01:24:43,200 --> 01:24:45,400
Speaker 2: worked with staff where there's just ditzy and I'm like, girl,

1460
01:24:45,479 --> 01:24:47,200
Speaker 2: you fucking it up for the rest of us. They're

1461
01:24:47,280 --> 01:24:50,400
Speaker 2: not back here, even though the food is good, even

1462
01:24:50,439 --> 01:24:52,400
Speaker 2: though the majority of the servers are good, they got

1463
01:24:52,439 --> 01:24:55,360
Speaker 2: the shitty server tonight. So it's almost on the rest

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01:24:55,400 --> 01:24:58,320
Speaker 2: of the servers to like kind of come in and

1465
01:24:58,360 --> 01:25:00,639
Speaker 2: be like, oh, I got you quel the food out

1466
01:25:00,680 --> 01:25:03,880
Speaker 2: and it's like, hey, here's this burger, here's this, here's whatever,

1467
01:25:03,960 --> 01:25:07,479
Speaker 2: here's whatever. To make sure that as an experience, you're like,

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01:25:07,520 --> 01:25:10,439
Speaker 2: I had an experience here, and you didn't really realize

1469
01:25:10,479 --> 01:25:13,520
Speaker 2: that this particular server was kind of shitty because everybody

1470
01:25:13,560 --> 01:25:14,280
Speaker 2: was looking out for you.

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01:25:15,040 --> 01:25:18,719
Speaker 1: Service. Yeser is tricky, like, and that's what I'm saying.

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01:25:18,720 --> 01:25:21,800
Speaker 1: You also don't understand the pull houses, Like when when

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01:25:21,840 --> 01:25:24,680
Speaker 1: I worked behind the bar and shit, this was like

1474
01:25:24,720 --> 01:25:29,120
Speaker 1: Applebee's forever ago. But I worked at Applebee's and I

1475
01:25:29,160 --> 01:25:30,720
Speaker 1: would at the end of the night you could even

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01:25:30,800 --> 01:25:33,400
Speaker 1: see how much tips when you close out your register,

1477
01:25:33,520 --> 01:25:36,360
Speaker 1: what you got compared to somebody else. I remember there

1478
01:25:36,360 --> 01:25:39,160
Speaker 1: would be nights where I made three hundred and fifty

1479
01:25:39,200 --> 01:25:42,360
Speaker 1: dollars in tips and I'm like, yes, and my motherfucking

1480
01:25:42,400 --> 01:25:46,200
Speaker 1: of the bartender only pulled in ninety six dollars. We

1481
01:25:46,640 --> 01:25:49,880
Speaker 1: bust that down. So now I'm only taking home two

1482
01:25:49,960 --> 01:25:54,120
Speaker 1: hundred bucks because we're splitting. And so that's what I'm saying, Like, unfortunately,

1483
01:25:54,120 --> 01:25:56,760
Speaker 1: it sucks. You don't know what the tip out is,

1484
01:25:56,800 --> 01:25:58,720
Speaker 1: what the back of the house is supposed to get

1485
01:25:58,800 --> 01:26:00,840
Speaker 1: you're all supposed to tip the front of it, because

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01:26:00,840 --> 01:26:04,439
Speaker 1: that's another thing. You could have a goddamn hostess that

1487
01:26:04,520 --> 01:26:06,680
Speaker 1: sits you all the big part, Like that makes it

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01:26:06,680 --> 01:26:10,120
Speaker 1: hard for you to be a good server because of

1489
01:26:10,120 --> 01:26:12,799
Speaker 1: how they're sitting people in your section. Like it's really

1490
01:26:12,840 --> 01:26:17,000
Speaker 1: an inner working system that most people. If you haven't

1491
01:26:17,080 --> 01:26:19,639
Speaker 1: worked in food or beverage, or if you haven't worked

1492
01:26:19,640 --> 01:26:22,719
Speaker 1: in any of those positions, you literally are oblivious. You're

1493
01:26:22,760 --> 01:26:25,320
Speaker 1: ignorant to it because you literally don't know. So if

1494
01:26:25,400 --> 01:26:27,559
Speaker 1: y'all niggas is listening, we just told you what it's

1495
01:26:27,640 --> 01:26:30,760
Speaker 1: like like. Even for me too, I ask I ask

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Speaker 1: my servers that are good, I'd be like, hey, do

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01:26:35,240 --> 01:26:38,400
Speaker 1: y'all pull hey when you if you get this on

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01:26:38,439 --> 01:26:40,719
Speaker 1: a credit card, does it all go into your check

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01:26:41,080 --> 01:26:42,439
Speaker 1: or do you get cashed out at the end of

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01:26:42,439 --> 01:26:44,920
Speaker 1: the night, Because what else they're doing right now is

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01:26:45,280 --> 01:26:47,920
Speaker 1: and what sucks for servers is we're living in a

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01:26:47,960 --> 01:26:51,960
Speaker 1: digital era, baby, where most times this used to be

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01:26:52,040 --> 01:26:55,240
Speaker 1: a quick money situation for a lot of people. If

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01:26:55,280 --> 01:26:58,160
Speaker 1: you're tipping on a credit card, those credit card tips

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01:26:58,200 --> 01:27:00,799
Speaker 1: are now going into a check, which means they're getting taxed.

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01:27:01,320 --> 01:27:05,280
Speaker 1: So the best way to like, here go here go Berry,

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01:27:05,479 --> 01:27:09,160
Speaker 1: very shut all right, look Berry's life. Oh my god,

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01:27:09,200 --> 01:27:13,160
Speaker 1: they're tax paying citizens. Ew no, but they're not getting paid.

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01:27:13,240 --> 01:27:15,720
Speaker 1: Like all right, I give up, I give up, I

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01:27:15,720 --> 01:27:16,080
Speaker 1: give up.

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01:27:17,320 --> 01:27:19,400
Speaker 3: My question is, why are you putting it on Joe

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01:27:19,479 --> 01:27:22,679
Speaker 3: public the consumer, to take care of all the problems

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01:27:22,680 --> 01:27:23,519
Speaker 3: within the restaurant.

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01:27:24,720 --> 01:27:26,559
Speaker 1: It's not that's what I'm saying. A lot of times,

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01:27:26,600 --> 01:27:28,599
Speaker 1: it's the restaurant owner's issue.

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01:27:28,640 --> 01:27:28,880
Speaker 4: I know.

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01:27:29,000 --> 01:27:32,800
Speaker 3: But you're saying that the customer needs to pay twenty

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01:27:32,840 --> 01:27:36,280
Speaker 3: percent of whatever they're eating and drinking to deal with

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01:27:36,320 --> 01:27:39,200
Speaker 3: the issues of how people are getting paid in that restaurant.

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01:27:39,479 --> 01:27:39,960
Speaker 3: That's okay.

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01:27:40,760 --> 01:27:43,400
Speaker 2: I don't think it's that no, but I feel like, again,

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01:27:43,439 --> 01:27:46,040
Speaker 2: if you had a good experience and you're able to

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01:27:46,120 --> 01:27:49,599
Speaker 2: tip twenty percent, then do so. Otherwise, tip what you can.

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01:27:49,720 --> 01:27:52,559
Speaker 2: There were a lot of times where everybody was like, oh,

1525
01:27:52,560 --> 01:27:54,960
Speaker 2: we loved it. Everything was so great. Everything was so great.

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01:27:55,000 --> 01:27:57,160
Speaker 2: There was like, you know, to be honest, like this

1527
01:27:57,320 --> 01:27:59,800
Speaker 2: was our like little treat thing. We didn't really know,

1528
01:28:00,200 --> 01:28:02,400
Speaker 2: like we're we only got like ten dollars. And I

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01:28:02,479 --> 01:28:04,679
Speaker 2: was like, listen, come back and see me next time.

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01:28:04,880 --> 01:28:08,200
Speaker 2: Because either way, like my job shouldn't depend on whether

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01:28:08,200 --> 01:28:10,080
Speaker 2: you're gonna tip me or not. Because I took this

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01:28:10,200 --> 01:28:13,720
Speaker 2: seven dollars an hour job, that's on me. But obviously

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01:28:14,160 --> 01:28:16,439
Speaker 2: if you come back. And I did have people come

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01:28:16,479 --> 01:28:18,479
Speaker 2: back where they were like, oh my god, girl, you're here.

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01:28:18,560 --> 01:28:21,160
Speaker 2: We're just getting drinks, but we're gonna sit in your section. Great,

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01:28:21,280 --> 01:28:23,400
Speaker 2: I get a twenty dollars tip and I literally didn't

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01:28:23,439 --> 01:28:26,120
Speaker 2: do anything except bring them their drinks. But again it

1538
01:28:26,160 --> 01:28:30,800
Speaker 2: goes back to it's supposed to be considered like an experience.

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01:28:30,920 --> 01:28:32,760
Speaker 2: Otherwise you can go to work and you ain't gotta

1540
01:28:32,760 --> 01:28:33,479
Speaker 2: worry about tipping.

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01:28:34,280 --> 01:28:38,679
Speaker 1: If we just lean into capitalism in every other country

1542
01:28:38,720 --> 01:28:43,240
Speaker 1: you go to bro again, if you get out, it's

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01:28:43,280 --> 01:28:47,040
Speaker 1: disrespectful to tip because they're also well me The restaurants

1544
01:28:47,080 --> 01:28:50,160
Speaker 1: in other countries pay a living wage to their employees,

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01:28:50,400 --> 01:28:54,000
Speaker 1: which again back to the United States of America who

1546
01:28:54,080 --> 01:28:56,360
Speaker 1: tricked us and said this was the best country to

1547
01:28:56,400 --> 01:28:58,800
Speaker 1: live in. They fucking lied because they counted on you

1548
01:28:58,920 --> 01:29:02,960
Speaker 1: nigglets not have a passports and experiencing the rest of

1549
01:29:03,000 --> 01:29:04,000
Speaker 1: the goddamn world.

1550
01:29:04,240 --> 01:29:05,880
Speaker 3: Every time I want to give you half a credit

1551
01:29:05,880 --> 01:29:07,760
Speaker 3: for a point, you say some foolish.

1552
01:29:07,439 --> 01:29:09,320
Speaker 1: I can't say. I like that word.

1553
01:29:10,840 --> 01:29:13,559
Speaker 3: AnyWho almost make yo yo smile about me. Then I

1554
01:29:13,560 --> 01:29:16,200
Speaker 3: had to look at her like, oh my god, oh

1555
01:29:16,320 --> 01:29:19,720
Speaker 3: my god, helt you do it? Don't let it. Rory

1556
01:29:19,880 --> 01:29:22,960
Speaker 3: should be a warning sign all y'all be careful. We're

1557
01:29:23,000 --> 01:29:27,120
Speaker 3: looking up stuff. I say, Rory should be a warning

1558
01:29:27,560 --> 01:29:29,519
Speaker 3: message to all y'all were looking up all your stuff

1559
01:29:29,520 --> 01:29:32,599
Speaker 3: now excuse me, Yeah, there.

1560
01:29:32,479 --> 01:29:34,360
Speaker 1: Will be no Rory slander aloud over here.

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01:29:36,360 --> 01:29:39,439
Speaker 3: Secondly, the social media expert to clean all that up though,

1562
01:29:39,439 --> 01:29:39,800
Speaker 3: real quick.

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01:29:39,840 --> 01:29:43,599
Speaker 1: Secondly, I'm going to say it loud and proud right now.

1564
01:29:44,800 --> 01:29:49,600
Speaker 1: If you nigglets think y'all are gonna make me apologize

1565
01:29:50,000 --> 01:29:53,479
Speaker 1: for some ship I said over a decade ago, you

1566
01:29:53,520 --> 01:29:57,160
Speaker 1: could suck my big, girthy dick from the back because

1567
01:29:57,320 --> 01:30:01,160
Speaker 1: I can't go pull hard to the sand. That was

1568
01:30:01,280 --> 01:30:06,120
Speaker 1: eleven years years ago, twelve years ago, thirteen years ago. Bitch,

1569
01:30:06,560 --> 01:30:09,000
Speaker 1: I might not apologize with something I said yesterday.

1570
01:30:09,000 --> 01:30:13,240
Speaker 3: Because I've evolved, ma'am. I have known you for about

1571
01:30:13,280 --> 01:30:16,200
Speaker 3: seven years. I've never heard you apologize about anything. Oh

1572
01:30:16,200 --> 01:30:19,960
Speaker 3: that's cap never. There's always a reason.

1573
01:30:20,360 --> 01:30:23,080
Speaker 2: I think, sorry to the gamers, right y'all?

1574
01:30:25,720 --> 01:30:28,240
Speaker 3: She did not know, she did not.

1575
01:30:30,160 --> 01:30:33,240
Speaker 1: Whoa you know what? Hold on? Hold on? Let me

1576
01:30:33,280 --> 01:30:39,720
Speaker 1: ask my husband. Has many be ever apologized? Ever? Let

1577
01:30:39,760 --> 01:30:47,240
Speaker 1: me put a big ever apologized for apologized?

1578
01:30:48,479 --> 01:30:54,639
Speaker 3: Who are you talking about? Well, let's just agree to disagree.

1579
01:30:54,680 --> 01:30:58,080
Speaker 3: That's our that's our whole apology. She got to test

1580
01:30:58,200 --> 01:30:58,720
Speaker 3: it on the beck.

1581
01:30:59,040 --> 01:31:00,880
Speaker 1: So here's the thing. And here's what I say too.

1582
01:31:01,680 --> 01:31:05,800
Speaker 1: Had Rory even apologized? Do you know how many people

1583
01:31:05,840 --> 01:31:09,000
Speaker 1: don't accept apologies? Bro? You didn't. If you do, now

1584
01:31:09,080 --> 01:31:10,040
Speaker 1: you already.

1585
01:31:09,640 --> 01:31:11,160
Speaker 3: Making a case for not apologizing.

1586
01:31:12,400 --> 01:31:14,320
Speaker 2: Is that? What is that? What they were talking about?

1587
01:31:14,360 --> 01:31:17,040
Speaker 2: They were like old tweets and he actually said sorry

1588
01:31:17,280 --> 01:31:17,680
Speaker 2: on like.

1589
01:31:19,360 --> 01:31:23,360
Speaker 3: He needed what was it? What's carry washing his character's name?

1590
01:31:23,600 --> 01:31:27,160
Speaker 3: He needed up, he needed a consultation. He went out

1591
01:31:27,160 --> 01:31:29,400
Speaker 3: there randomly. No, I'm just gonna tell him, I'm just

1592
01:31:29,400 --> 01:31:30,800
Speaker 3: gone to factor. Come on.

1593
01:31:31,600 --> 01:31:34,680
Speaker 1: Twitter was different eleven years, no filter.

1594
01:31:34,520 --> 01:31:37,200
Speaker 6: On Twitter, man, everybody was saying everything crazy on Twitter

1595
01:31:37,439 --> 01:31:37,800
Speaker 6: that time.

1596
01:31:38,120 --> 01:31:39,400
Speaker 1: If it wasn't for Rory.

1597
01:31:39,200 --> 01:31:41,439
Speaker 3: And Duty Palosa, I wouldn't have met Mandy at that

1598
01:31:41,479 --> 01:31:43,000
Speaker 3: New York win a law tom Ago.

1599
01:31:43,200 --> 01:31:43,360
Speaker 2: So.

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01:31:45,040 --> 01:31:48,280
Speaker 3: Rock with Rory all day. But everybody could get a correction.

1601
01:31:48,640 --> 01:31:49,800
Speaker 3: Everybody can get damn.

1602
01:31:49,880 --> 01:31:56,840
Speaker 1: Okay, are you all ready, bitch? I've apologized. Okay, so

1603
01:31:56,880 --> 01:31:59,080
Speaker 1: my husband is here to defend me. It's gonna be

1604
01:31:59,080 --> 01:32:04,679
Speaker 1: some fun shit. Yes there are public examples. Oh yes,

1605
01:32:04,720 --> 01:32:09,000
Speaker 1: there are public examples of Mandy be apologizing, including for

1606
01:32:09,120 --> 01:32:15,000
Speaker 1: things that might have offended people. But whoa wait.

1607
01:32:18,920 --> 01:32:19,519
Speaker 3: Read it lied?

1608
01:32:21,760 --> 01:32:27,519
Speaker 1: Okay, but but it's also true that she often doubled

1609
01:32:27,560 --> 01:32:30,880
Speaker 1: downs on her takes instead of doing big public I

1610
01:32:31,040 --> 01:32:34,920
Speaker 1: was wrong apologies. So here's what I can actually point

1611
01:32:34,960 --> 01:32:38,920
Speaker 1: to based on stuff that's on the record. Okay, damn.

1612
01:32:39,000 --> 01:32:44,240
Speaker 1: Number one a blanket apology for an offensive segment on

1613
01:32:44,320 --> 01:32:48,880
Speaker 1: an older episode of Horrible Decisions, episode one thirte Defining Terms,

1614
01:32:48,920 --> 01:32:52,760
Speaker 1: featuring Dustin Ross, I talked about issues in the community

1615
01:32:52,800 --> 01:32:55,360
Speaker 1: around respecting trans women and the men who love them,

1616
01:32:55,880 --> 01:32:59,160
Speaker 1: then did a kink segment, and we apologize if anyone

1617
01:32:59,200 --> 01:33:03,160
Speaker 1: felt offended during that segment. Then it goes to say

1618
01:33:03,200 --> 01:33:06,640
Speaker 1: that was a generic apology, but it explicitly tied to

1619
01:33:06,680 --> 01:33:09,799
Speaker 1: a segment they knew hold on could offense and listeners

1620
01:33:09,800 --> 01:33:16,280
Speaker 1: hold on, here's another one personal apology. On Instagram, Many

1621
01:33:16,360 --> 01:33:20,040
Speaker 1: posted a real where she talks emotionally about someone who

1622
01:33:20,040 --> 01:33:24,280
Speaker 1: had supported her. In the caption, she said, so, I

1623
01:33:24,320 --> 01:33:28,519
Speaker 1: want to apologize to I don't know who this person

1624
01:33:28,600 --> 01:33:31,439
Speaker 1: is if I ever make it up and all you've

1625
01:33:31,439 --> 01:33:34,439
Speaker 1: done for me for granted, I don't.

1626
01:33:34,240 --> 01:33:34,559
Speaker 5: Know who.

1627
01:33:36,160 --> 01:33:37,360
Speaker 3: I think it Wasn't.

1628
01:33:40,640 --> 01:33:44,120
Speaker 1: You want to know what's crazy? Bitch? They got me

1629
01:33:44,240 --> 01:33:49,640
Speaker 1: and Wheezy's therapy episode. In the early Working Out the

1630
01:33:49,720 --> 01:33:54,080
Speaker 1: Kinks therapy episode for Horrible Decisions with doctor Maya Pettiford,

1631
01:33:54,439 --> 01:33:56,680
Speaker 1: there's a segment where Wheezy and Mandy are pushed to

1632
01:33:56,800 --> 01:34:00,280
Speaker 1: own their part in hurting each other. The transcription shows

1633
01:34:00,280 --> 01:34:04,000
Speaker 1: the therapist telling Manny to take ownership and Mandy agreeing

1634
01:34:04,040 --> 01:34:07,679
Speaker 1: to apologize for what she did. It's about a phone

1635
01:34:07,720 --> 01:34:12,120
Speaker 1: call or conflict that caused her.

1636
01:34:10,720 --> 01:34:14,799
Speaker 3: And you did, and you looked in her face and said, oh, Weezy,

1637
01:34:14,920 --> 01:34:16,639
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry. That's what happened.

1638
01:34:17,840 --> 01:34:23,120
Speaker 1: I think not, by the way, the bottom line, has

1639
01:34:23,160 --> 01:34:28,800
Speaker 1: Mandy ever apologized period? Yes, there are documented instances. Has

1640
01:34:28,840 --> 01:34:35,240
Speaker 1: she done big explicit apologies to hold groups after controversy? Hell,

1641
01:34:35,960 --> 01:34:38,840
Speaker 1: you're a widely covered example of a long formal apology.

1642
01:34:40,240 --> 01:34:44,040
Speaker 1: What does exist is content warnings and blanket apologies, which

1643
01:34:44,080 --> 01:34:45,760
Speaker 1: I'll take. Bit.

1644
01:34:46,320 --> 01:34:51,479
Speaker 3: So was I right now for you a little chat

1645
01:34:51,560 --> 01:34:54,439
Speaker 3: GBT conversation? Did the answer?

1646
01:34:54,479 --> 01:34:54,519
Speaker 2: Not?

1647
01:34:56,080 --> 01:34:56,880
Speaker 3: Unlimited data?

1648
01:34:57,960 --> 01:35:01,800
Speaker 1: Not unlimited data in hotspy? Y'all sound poor over there, nigga,

1649
01:35:01,880 --> 01:35:06,200
Speaker 1: y'all ain't got that already? Unlimited data and hot spots?

1650
01:35:06,600 --> 01:35:12,479
Speaker 1: What type of cricket users are being advertised on the ship? Oh,

1651
01:35:13,200 --> 01:35:13,960
Speaker 1: it was not me.

1652
01:35:14,240 --> 01:35:17,240
Speaker 3: I'm in my car, I got, I got.

1653
01:35:17,520 --> 01:35:19,720
Speaker 1: You know what, I'm gonna tell y'all who it was.

1654
01:35:20,040 --> 01:35:22,280
Speaker 1: It makes sense why he don't tip either. That was

1655
01:35:22,360 --> 01:35:23,599
Speaker 1: ces Mike, I had.

1656
01:35:23,880 --> 01:35:28,040
Speaker 3: Wow what it was not? I was on your side too.

1657
01:35:29,320 --> 01:35:31,960
Speaker 3: It was on your side with the apology. I remember

1658
01:35:32,000 --> 01:35:34,920
Speaker 3: the teary eye crying Louisa, I'm sorry on the town

1659
01:35:35,040 --> 01:35:35,880
Speaker 3: hall and all of that.

1660
01:35:36,000 --> 01:35:38,000
Speaker 1: Right, all right, let me mute you up, all right,

1661
01:35:38,479 --> 01:35:39,920
Speaker 1: calm it down, calm down.

1662
01:35:40,360 --> 01:35:44,920
Speaker 3: What I said is her favorite apology. I mean, feel

1663
01:35:44,960 --> 01:35:47,320
Speaker 3: the way you feel. But I said what I said.

1664
01:35:48,080 --> 01:35:50,920
Speaker 1: I think that's the mature side of this. I never

1665
01:35:51,040 --> 01:35:54,720
Speaker 1: tell someone they're wrong for the feelings they have. You

1666
01:35:54,760 --> 01:35:57,760
Speaker 1: were entitled to feel, and I won't tell you you

1667
01:35:57,880 --> 01:36:01,320
Speaker 1: wrong and having feelings. Oh but what am I supposed

1668
01:36:01,360 --> 01:36:02,840
Speaker 1: to do about that, bitch?

1669
01:36:02,840 --> 01:36:04,840
Speaker 3: We're human joking now.

1670
01:36:04,960 --> 01:36:07,759
Speaker 1: People be too sensitive, man, People be too motherfucker sensitive.

1671
01:36:08,000 --> 01:36:09,439
Speaker 1: That's why. Oh wait, that's what I said I was

1672
01:36:09,439 --> 01:36:11,200
Speaker 1: gonna do. Let me update it while we're on the phone.

1673
01:36:11,280 --> 01:36:15,280
Speaker 1: Right now, I'm adding comedian to my bio. That means

1674
01:36:15,320 --> 01:36:17,600
Speaker 1: you can't be offended by nothing else, said.

1675
01:36:19,280 --> 01:36:22,320
Speaker 3: Boom. AnyWho go ride with that?

1676
01:36:23,560 --> 01:36:28,800
Speaker 1: I mean, hey, it's allowed a lot of comedians and

1677
01:36:28,920 --> 01:36:31,720
Speaker 1: podcasters to go the distance.

1678
01:36:31,760 --> 01:36:34,120
Speaker 3: Okay, I gotta confirm the date five.

1679
01:36:34,320 --> 01:36:36,080
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna do it.

1680
01:36:36,520 --> 01:36:39,120
Speaker 3: An apology if something goes wrong, No worries.

1681
01:36:39,200 --> 01:36:41,000
Speaker 1: I'll do a stand up show next year, depending on

1682
01:36:41,080 --> 01:36:43,439
Speaker 1: my profile. As long as I do a one man show,

1683
01:36:43,640 --> 01:36:47,080
Speaker 1: I'm a comedian. Anyways, Guys, if you want to be

1684
01:36:47,120 --> 01:36:51,280
Speaker 1: a part of a live episode like this where apparently,

1685
01:36:51,800 --> 01:36:54,599
Speaker 1: like my cat does to me, I sit and endure

1686
01:36:54,680 --> 01:36:58,439
Speaker 1: your verbal abuse, please feel free to join the Patreon

1687
01:36:58,479 --> 01:37:02,599
Speaker 1: that's patreon dot com. Back slash selective ignorance. I am

1688
01:37:02,640 --> 01:37:05,559
Speaker 1: really excited about what more is coming to the platform.

1689
01:37:05,560 --> 01:37:07,360
Speaker 1: I will be changing the name because it's gonna be

1690
01:37:07,400 --> 01:37:09,559
Speaker 1: giving more shows than just Selective Ignorance at the top

1691
01:37:09,600 --> 01:37:12,320
Speaker 1: of the year. And if y'all want to continue hearing Barry,

1692
01:37:12,720 --> 01:37:14,920
Speaker 1: you know he's here. We're gonna have him on a

1693
01:37:14,920 --> 01:37:20,360
Speaker 1: couple more bonus sodes and all the things. I'm excited again.

1694
01:37:20,280 --> 01:37:22,599
Speaker 3: During the flen now.

1695
01:37:25,160 --> 01:37:28,559
Speaker 1: I know, I know, Well, it's the holidays right now, Barry,

1696
01:37:29,120 --> 01:37:33,320
Speaker 1: this is going up on the feed tomorrow. Anyways, Thank

1697
01:37:33,360 --> 01:37:36,160
Speaker 1: you guys so much for tuning in. This has been

1698
01:37:36,280 --> 01:37:44,720
Speaker 1: another conversation of selective Ignorance, where conversations thrive, controversy thrives

1699
01:37:44,760 --> 01:37:47,680
Speaker 1: something dood, and conversations matter bitch when it ain't in

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01:37:47,720 --> 01:37:51,479
Speaker 1: front of me. God damn it, I know, fucking but

1701
01:37:51,640 --> 01:37:55,800
Speaker 1: conversations matter. It's fucking almost ten o'clock at night. My

1702
01:37:55,840 --> 01:37:58,559
Speaker 1: brain shut down four hours ago, but yet I'm here

1703
01:37:58,880 --> 01:38:03,400
Speaker 1: with the ones I love. Okay, see you guys next

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01:38:03,400 --> 01:38:06,759
Speaker 1: week on the regular drop and again if you're on Patreon,

1705
01:38:07,160 --> 01:38:11,240
Speaker 1: see you with the Class Assembly next month. Pulls the

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01:38:11,320 --> 01:38:17,919
Speaker 1: host Selective Ignorance, a production of the Black Effect Podcast Network.

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