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Speaker 1: Nicky, here's Nikki and Andrew. Hello, Yeah, Andrew's here today,

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Speaker 1: you guys. It's a special version of the show. Welcome

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Speaker 1: to a special fan trax version of the show. That

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Speaker 1: means that we have too much feedback from you guys,

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Speaker 1: is our normal fan trax segment. So all we're doing

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Speaker 1: today me and Andrew are and Noah are going to

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Speaker 1: sift through your voice memos, your d M s, your emails,

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Speaker 1: anything you've sent to the show, and we are going

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Speaker 1: to laugh at it, laugh with you, laugh at you,

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Speaker 1: um and respond, maybe give advice. It's just a special

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Speaker 1: episode that is going to cover our butts if one

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Speaker 1: day we get sick or can't do the show. And um,

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Speaker 1: Andrew's very uncomfortable right now because I have Last night,

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Speaker 1: I'm kind of sad almost because whatever this thing is

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Speaker 1: It's a lot, folks. And I took off my band

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Speaker 1: There's no there's no apologizing. You have to do. This

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Speaker 1: should make you queazy. This is weird. And I and it.

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Speaker 1: It started we just did a podcast and it was

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Speaker 1: and I'm just fascinated by it. And if you do

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Speaker 1: to me, and I will gladly do it because I'm

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Speaker 1: so I think, yeah, but that this that doesn't require blood.

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Speaker 1: It's just like a weird growth. Um people, No doctor

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Speaker 1: my medical grade scalpel, without anesthetic. And I did it,

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Speaker 1: truly thinking last night, if I ever got my arm

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Speaker 1: let me just say that I was. I usually just

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Speaker 1: What should I do? People give advice, then they and

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Speaker 1: circumstance when they act in a way that we don't

428
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Speaker 1: agree with. So you don't know what happened to me

429
00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:13,240
Speaker 1: the morning before I start doing my podcast. Maybe I'll

430
00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:15,920
Speaker 1: tell you. Mostly i'll tell you, but sometimes I don't

431
00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:19,359
Speaker 1: even know. It's subconscious. So thank you for thank you

432
00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:24,119
Speaker 1: for that that that amazing, amazing letter, Brandy. I appreciate you.

433
00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:27,960
Speaker 1: Let's what next? Next up? Oh, it's a voice from Emily.

434
00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:35,320
Speaker 1: She needs your help. Hey, Noah, Nikki, and Andrew, this

435
00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:41,200
Speaker 1: is Emily from Minneapolis, and I love the podcast. I've

436
00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:45,639
Speaker 1: been listening since you up, Um, Nikki and Andrew and

437
00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:48,719
Speaker 1: I guess Noah too. Um. We're you know, keeping me

438
00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:56,320
Speaker 1: company during the pandemic. Nikki, you are basically like my

439
00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:59,840
Speaker 1: best friend in the pandemic. Um. But anyways, so I

440
00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:03,680
Speaker 1: am going through a breakup and I relate a lot

441
00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:07,560
Speaker 1: to um, a lot of the break up moments that

442
00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:12,040
Speaker 1: you describe, Nikki, And I'm breaking up with like the

443
00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:15,600
Speaker 1: one And I never listened to Taylor Swift before, but

444
00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:20,880
Speaker 1: now I do, and it's because it's the only thing

445
00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:28,200
Speaker 1: that truly matches this breakup. And music is great and

446
00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:30,720
Speaker 1: I think I'm good on that. But like, if you

447
00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:35,520
Speaker 1: have any advice or recommendations for just like being strong

448
00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:39,040
Speaker 1: and like trying to be a bad bitch and not

449
00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:42,240
Speaker 1: cry every day about this stupid breakup and about still

450
00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:47,760
Speaker 1: wanting to be together with this guy, you know, but anyways,

451
00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:51,800
Speaker 1: any advice would help from either one of you. UM,

452
00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:54,920
Speaker 1: I hope that you're having a wonderful weekend. And thank

453
00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:59,720
Speaker 1: you so much, Jack Pop. I love you so much.

454
00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:03,280
Speaker 1: What was her name again, Emily? Emily? Oh my god,

455
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 1: I hear the heartbreak in your voice and it's like

456
00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:07,720
Speaker 1: it breaks my heart and I wish I could just

457
00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:11,760
Speaker 1: like pull you out of it in in like I'm

458
00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:14,639
Speaker 1: just I'm just racking my brain right now trying to

459
00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:17,960
Speaker 1: get something that will put together that will help you.

460
00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:21,280
Speaker 1: But here's my advice. First of all, great job on

461
00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:24,480
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift. Please DM me and let's exchange the songs

462
00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:26,159
Speaker 1: that are that get us through the most and I

463
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:27,679
Speaker 1: can turn you into some new ones because she has

464
00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:31,200
Speaker 1: a huge catalog. Um. And I want to also say,

465
00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:34,040
Speaker 1: check out This American's Life, This American Life. There's an

466
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Speaker 1: episode called The Breakup and it's exactly this. It's someone

467
00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:39,439
Speaker 1: writing into This American Life saying I'm going through a breakup.

468
00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:42,520
Speaker 1: I really need like to just some support and it's

469
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:46,360
Speaker 1: just a great episode for that. Also the I saw

470
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:49,720
Speaker 1: it last night the episode of Song Exploder on Netflix.

471
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:53,560
Speaker 1: Du Alipa's episode she writes a song. She talks about

472
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Speaker 1: her experience writing a song and she was getting out

473
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:59,040
Speaker 1: of relationships that she thought was the one and she

474
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Speaker 1: wrote a song about when she meets the next guy

475
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:05,800
Speaker 1: and how she never thought like she wrote a song

476
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:07,639
Speaker 1: from the perspective of a woman falling in love with

477
00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:12,120
Speaker 1: a guy with someone after going through a breakup, where

478
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:14,080
Speaker 1: you thought it was the one, like the next person

479
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 1: that you don't even she didn't even know existed, and

480
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:20,600
Speaker 1: guess what he did. Like she she ended up writing

481
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 1: a song about a mystery person and going and putting

482
00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:26,760
Speaker 1: manifesting it. She was like, I wanted to do a

483
00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 1: manifestation song, you know. She was like, just like I

484
00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:33,119
Speaker 1: didn't even know if I was able to like find

485
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:35,680
Speaker 1: someone else, but I wanted to just come from that perspective.

486
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:39,960
Speaker 1: And so maybe whatever you do, that's a creative endeavor.

487
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 1: Um And even if you don't have one, maybe right

488
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:47,560
Speaker 1: in a journal and just right to yourself right now,

489
00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:49,480
Speaker 1: right to the self that you were in pain, and

490
00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:53,280
Speaker 1: right to yourself, like right dear Emily. And then you

491
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 1: can literally burn these pages afterwards, because if they're embarrassing,

492
00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 1: and this exercise could be embarrassing right to yourself right now,

493
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 1: from yourself in a relationship that makes the one you

494
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:07,040
Speaker 1: just got out of look insane, Like just experiment with this.

495
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:09,680
Speaker 1: It's just a thing that I would, I would, I

496
00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,639
Speaker 1: would advise myself to do this. I've never even tried this.

497
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:15,159
Speaker 1: I've often written notes to myself from God. If you

498
00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:17,679
Speaker 1: believe in God, you can maybe write a letter to

499
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Speaker 1: God from you now, and then write what God would

500
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:22,639
Speaker 1: say to you like that, Like, right what the person

501
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:26,199
Speaker 1: the benevolent spirit energy that wants the best for you?

502
00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:27,800
Speaker 1: What would that person say in response to the letter

503
00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 1: you wrote? Those are two exercises I think that would

504
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:33,919
Speaker 1: really help. But also turn this into something no matter what,

505
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 1: Like right now, you turned it into this. There's art

506
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:40,119
Speaker 1: being made right now because of your breakup. And you

507
00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:43,560
Speaker 1: sound young, and I just want you to know that

508
00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:50,160
Speaker 1: you truly will get over this person, or you might

509
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 1: get back together with this person. And I always want

510
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 1: to tell people when they're going through breakups this story

511
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 1: and over because you don't want to hear you'll find

512
00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:58,640
Speaker 1: someone better. You don't want to hear there's someone else

513
00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:00,480
Speaker 1: out there. You don't want to hear he was a

514
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:03,720
Speaker 1: piece of ship. You want to hear you could. It's

515
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 1: just not now, But you could be back with this person.

516
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:09,200
Speaker 1: Take it from me. I've like gone back to x

517
00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 1: Is years later. Where you go it's burned to the ground.

518
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 1: Don't ever, You don't need to lose hope for being

519
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:17,400
Speaker 1: with this person. It's just not now. So no matter

520
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 1: what everyone's telling you, there's someone else that someone else

521
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 1: might be that person, just at a different time. And

522
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 1: also listen to the song Romeo and Juliet by Uh

523
00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:31,120
Speaker 1: Indigo Girls. It's a cover of the Dire straight song

524
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 1: Romeo and Juliet Romano and Juliet get Indigo Girls on Spotify.

525
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 1: Listen to that song and think about, um, the Romeo

526
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 1: character being this guy asking for you back and uh

527
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 1: and and that helped me. Visualizing this guy coming back

528
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:46,919
Speaker 1: and singing the song to me someday like on my

529
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 1: underneath my balcony made me be able to get through

530
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:53,880
Speaker 1: a pretty hard break up recently. Andrewny advice. Yeah, I

531
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:57,600
Speaker 1: just think, like to your point, the you know, you

532
00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:01,440
Speaker 1: said he's the one and and he might be the one,

533
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 1: like Nikki said, in the future, but that doesn't mean

534
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 1: you have to like wait around for him to like

535
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:11,239
Speaker 1: come back, you know what I mean, Like work on yourself, like, uh,

536
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:15,680
Speaker 1: understand that you now have time to just be selfish

537
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:20,160
Speaker 1: and not care about you know, him or any other

538
00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:23,360
Speaker 1: Like you're not working on yourself to meet someone else

539
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 1: that's gonna take his place. You could just literally focus

540
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 1: on yourself and being the best version of yourself. And

541
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:31,200
Speaker 1: you have time to do that. That maybe you didn't

542
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:34,200
Speaker 1: have before, and so that's all I like, I think

543
00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:37,400
Speaker 1: the best advice for a breakup is like just like

544
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:40,680
Speaker 1: just don't think like how am I going to replace

545
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 1: this or how is this going to come back? How

546
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:46,880
Speaker 1: can I like take care of myself the best way

547
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:50,520
Speaker 1: possible and that's emotionally physically, and you're and you have

548
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:53,280
Speaker 1: the time now, which is great if if this is

549
00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:57,359
Speaker 1: a breakup where you get replaced in his life by someone,

550
00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 1: or you feel like you were rejected because because of

551
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:02,439
Speaker 1: something you didn't do right and you couldn't you're not

552
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 1: good enough for this guy, which is mostly how breakups

553
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:07,159
Speaker 1: end is you don't feel you feel like you that

554
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,160
Speaker 1: you don't want to end you when you get broken

555
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 1: up with you just go, oh my god, I wasn't

556
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 1: good enough for this person. Clearly they're rejecting you. But

557
00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 1: something that Rachel Finstein told me one time when a

558
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:20,199
Speaker 1: guy that there's no reason why this guy shouldn't like me,

559
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 1: Like why doesn't? And the truth is they can't. They

560
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:28,159
Speaker 1: aren't capable. It's not about it's not because you're not

561
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 1: hot enough. It's not because you're not cool enough or

562
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 1: whatever enough. They literally a lot of times guys or

563
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 1: girls cannot they don't have it within them to love

564
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 1: as much as you require loving, needing love, like I

565
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 1: require someone to like be pretty obsessed with me and

566
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 1: give me a lot of attention, and that is a

567
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:48,880
Speaker 1: not for every guy. There is someone out there, though,

568
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:50,800
Speaker 1: that will match my needs, and I don't need to

569
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:53,159
Speaker 1: diminish my needs. I don't need to be less needy

570
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 1: or like want that I need to the exact way.

571
00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 1: Whatever you want is what you want, and don't feel

572
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:02,119
Speaker 1: bad about it. Rachel, remember told me she goes this

573
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 1: wanting this guy to love you. He literally is incapable

574
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 1: of the kind of love that you seek in a relationship.

575
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:09,680
Speaker 1: But he's good to be with a girl who won't

576
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 1: require that, who also has the kind of same similar

577
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:16,879
Speaker 1: makeup of someone who's like I don't need that. I

578
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:19,199
Speaker 1: don't need deep love because she probably can't feel it.

579
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 1: So usually people that aren't able to give love tend

580
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:25,239
Speaker 1: to seek people who aren't ready to accept love, so

581
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:27,160
Speaker 1: they find each other and then that just turns into

582
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 1: a big old mess. But I found now that, um,

583
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:33,159
Speaker 1: when I get rejected, it might not be true, but

584
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,959
Speaker 1: I always tell myself they they couldn't love me as

585
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:40,000
Speaker 1: much as I needed to be loved. And I looked

586
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 1: to the sky and I got rejected recently once. Once,

587
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 1: I got rejected recently hard on a thing that I

588
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:48,960
Speaker 1: had so much hope for. I was in love all

589
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:52,560
Speaker 1: these things, and I got a text that's fermented, fermented,

590
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 1: cemented and fermented. It started to stink, and I, uh,

591
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna get to eat in a from

592
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 1: a pickle jar and a little bit. But it ended

593
00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 1: in this text and I seriously felt I was like,

594
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 1: I want to go cry. I can't wait to listen

595
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 1: to Taylor Swift, I can't wait to call all my friends.

596
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 1: But the first reaction, I swear to God as I

597
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 1: looked up like at God or whatever, and I just said,

598
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you for protecting me from this person

599
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 1: and doing what I couldn't do for myself, letting them

600
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 1: take themselves away from me, because that would have caused

601
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 1: me a funkload of pain. And I wasn't I wasn't

602
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 1: ready to end it even though it you know, it's

603
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:31,120
Speaker 1: not good now. And I just said thank you. And

604
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 1: I was able to turn that rejection into like God

605
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 1: made that happen, like the because I'm not strong enough

606
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:40,360
Speaker 1: yet to reject that kind of thing. That's not good

607
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 1: enough for me. Someone had to step in and go, no,

608
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 1: she doesn't, she can't handle that. Take take that away

609
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:46,880
Speaker 1: from her right now. It's like a parent being like

610
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 1: he's not allowed to have those sweets. I know you

611
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 1: want to, but you can't. He's going to choke on that.

612
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 1: And um, you want that candy, but you were going

613
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 1: to choke on it, bitch. Also get down, No, do

614
00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 1: not do that. Brandy now or Emily now. Emily does

615
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 1: get a good digger down. Brandy is not listening anymore.

616
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 1: We know she dropped. I'm not sure you guys would

617
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 1: give her this advice. But something that really helped me

618
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 1: during a really, really, really bad breakup where someone broke

619
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:17,440
Speaker 1: up with me, uh, is that I just binged comedy.

620
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 1: I just watched so many comedy specials and it was

621
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 1: it just took it just it was awesome. Yes, try

622
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 1: to watch things that like uplift You even watched Ted Lasso. Literally,

623
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 1: go watch Ted Lasso Emily immediately. And I only say

624
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 1: that as someone who was going through the worst depression

625
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,520
Speaker 1: last year, and I reluctantly watched it because my friends

626
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 1: were in it and I had to for work kind

627
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 1: of because, like you know, professional relationships are on the line.

628
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 1: If I didn't consume this thing and then I ended up.

629
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:45,640
Speaker 1: It got me out of my depression, Ted Lasso. Next

630
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 1: voice memo from from Rachel, Hi, Nikoli, Andrew, and Noah. Um,

631
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:55,000
Speaker 1: I have two things that will try to be real quick. UM.

632
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 1: The first one is I really really really hope y'all

633
00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 1: add Houston to your tour because, UM, the last show

634
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 1: I saw UM was y'all in Houston before everything shut down,

635
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 1: and I had just the worst experience. UM right before

636
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 1: the show, I was sobbing and I couldn't even enjoy

637
00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 1: the show because I was just thinking about what it

638
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 1: just happened before. And so I'm hoping, um, y'all come

639
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 1: back to Houston. I can make up for that really

640
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 1: bad experience UM and see yall again and actually get

641
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 1: to enjoy it this time. And UM, Secondly, I just

642
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 1: wanted to thank both of y'all for always being so

643
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 1: open about UM not drinking. I bought that book that

644
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 1: Nikki has recommended, and it is a game changer. So

645
00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 1: I love that y'all are open and positive about that,

646
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 1: and um, I'm looking forward to being in the same boat.

647
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 1: So thanks again, Love the Pods, love y'all. Oh my gosh,

648
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 1: I love her so much. Can I just really quick

649
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 1: say I tuned out of what happened that night because

650
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:58,560
Speaker 1: I got a text and I got distracted. She didn't

651
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 1: say what it was. She but she wasn't able to go.

652
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:03,640
Speaker 1: She was able to go, but she couldn't enjoy the

653
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 1: show because something bad had happened to her before. Oh no,

654
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 1: oh no, And you know what, Okay, I'm sorry. I

655
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 1: just wanted to be honest, I did too, not because

656
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: I got a text that was supposed to be a

657
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 1: yes or no and it was like a paragraph and

658
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:17,719
Speaker 1: then I got swept into it. So I apologized for that.

659
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 1: But um, that was already such a stressful time with COVID.

660
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 1: I love your hair, by the way, like that you

661
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 1: look so eighties right now? Really, what is it? You

662
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 1: were like kind of gazing at me, and I'm like, oh,

663
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 1: he's judging me because I smoked pot. He's like thinking

664
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 1: I'm off my game today. But really you were like

665
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 1: I like her hair. Yeah, I think you look like

666
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 1: like if you're what's the wrestling show? In like a

667
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 1: hair band right glow, like you could know I'm really

668
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 1: leaning into eighties like my hair. You look bad as

669
00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:49,280
Speaker 1: I like it, Like I like it's crazy, but I

670
00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 1: just like, thank you headphone hair bad head Um, I

671
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 1: uh yeah that it was that show? Was that her

672
00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 1: last show? It was like Dallas Houston. We did that

673
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 1: last week and before things shut down. Um yeah it was.

674
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 1: It was a weird show because everything was like coming

675
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 1: to an end. It was right before the beginning of

676
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:12,840
Speaker 1: the end. And uh, I do hope to reschedule in Houston,

677
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 1: and um, sorry for whatever happened to you. That's that's

678
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 1: another thing, like you never know what the audience is

679
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 1: going through and there and like Noah said to Emily,

680
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 1: like watch comedy to get out of your head. Like

681
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 1: I do know that people go to comedy shows and

682
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 1: like get to forget their worries and sometimes I I mean,

683
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:33,600
Speaker 1: I could have brought up something that triggered something for

684
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 1: dear uh Lucy what's her name, Rachel, Dear Rachel? Um

685
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 1: sorry sorry Rachel. Uh I could have you know, I

686
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 1: don't think it sounds like it wasn't something I said,

687
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:49,320
Speaker 1: but like, honestly, I've ruined people's nights because of something

688
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 1: I said that triggered them. And like I talked about

689
00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 1: on Bill Maher, like, if I talk about molestation, someone's

690
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 1: gonna get triggered. There have been people molested in the audience.

691
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 1: That person running too the bathroom having a panic attack.

692
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 1: I will apologize to you at to words, but I

693
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 1: hope my joke about it that made you suffer will

694
00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 1: um do more good because all the other people that

695
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 1: were able to hear it because they didn't suffer that trauma.

696
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 1: But I will have a private talk with you and

697
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,479
Speaker 1: and and give you my apologies for making you feel

698
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 1: that way and try to explain my reasoning and maybe

699
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 1: learn that it's not worth it for what I made

700
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:21,799
Speaker 1: you feel. But um, and how how many shows have

701
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 1: you been to, by the way, like concerts, shows where

702
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:27,279
Speaker 1: you got into a fight on the way there and

703
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:29,239
Speaker 1: then you hate the person you're with the whole time,

704
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 1: or like something up and you're just like not in

705
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:34,400
Speaker 1: the mood. There's nothing like worse than when you're in

706
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:37,279
Speaker 1: a bad mood and you should be the happiest you've

707
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 1: ever been. It makes you more upset because you're you

708
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 1: like because you can't be I can't enjoy Dave because

709
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,799
Speaker 1: you fucking you know, I don't know, didn't pick me

710
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 1: up and for like an hour you were an hour

711
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,440
Speaker 1: late because you're having sex with my best friend man.

712
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:58,000
Speaker 1: And now I can't enjoy Dave Matthews. I went to

713
00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 1: a Lord concert and she was young, so she was

714
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,800
Speaker 1: like still finding her like stage presence, and it was

715
00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 1: a cool thing to see, but it was she was

716
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:07,960
Speaker 1: a little it was it's actually a good Joe. I

717
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 1: don't want to criticize at all. I like, I love Lord.

718
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:13,279
Speaker 1: It was after her first album and my X and

719
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 1: I on the way there got ice cream and something

720
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 1: happened where it was just like I said something, he

721
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 1: did something, and it just took a really terrible turn

722
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 1: where we weren't we were having that moment where it

723
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 1: was a rocky road that's so stupid and funny. Uh.

724
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,399
Speaker 1: It was it was that cold Stone. I tipped them

725
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:37,359
Speaker 1: so they'd start singing and I didn't have to deal

726
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:40,839
Speaker 1: with his steely silence. Um. It was at cold Stone, though,

727
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:42,759
Speaker 1: but I remember something happened in there and I was

728
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 1: just like so sad. He was so mad, and we

729
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:49,839
Speaker 1: went to the show and it was like so uncomfortable

730
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:51,760
Speaker 1: because all I wanted to do was sing and dance,

731
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:54,879
Speaker 1: and I could tell that he hated everything about me

732
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:56,920
Speaker 1: and was not gonna want to see me be joyous,

733
00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 1: and so I was trying to respect that of like

734
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 1: not being annoyed. It was awful. We left early, like it,

735
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 1: so I wouldn't remember that though before I do shows

736
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 1: to like try to either upend that or or just

737
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:13,359
Speaker 1: honor it. And I'm just I, I honestly like never

738
00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:16,919
Speaker 1: thought about sobriety or like like not because I didn't

739
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:19,319
Speaker 1: go to a AI, like I didn't like do like

740
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 1: certain things, like I had rock bottoms but not like

741
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:24,720
Speaker 1: a rock bottom rock. So I never really think about

742
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,799
Speaker 1: like being any kind of role model in regards to

743
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:31,839
Speaker 1: not drinking. But like if we could show that we're

744
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 1: cool and fun and chill and can go out and

745
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 1: like show other people that, like you can be your

746
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 1: best fucking self and being a goddamn rock star without drinking,

747
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 1: like that means so much to me, and it really does,

748
00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:49,480
Speaker 1: and like her acknowledging that, and I don't know, I

749
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:53,719
Speaker 1: just like you know, I forget that people that that

750
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:55,759
Speaker 1: to me was such an early thing that I had

751
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:58,760
Speaker 1: to dispel for people of like, how do you have fun?

752
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 1: And now it's been tending almost ten years of not

753
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 1: drinking alcohol, and it's like that's so not even it's

754
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 1: just laughable that that's the only way you could have

755
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 1: fun now. Um, I always say to people, like, the

756
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:11,520
Speaker 1: fun you thought you were having, you suddenly are in

757
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:13,240
Speaker 1: the Go to the same things, do the same stuff,

758
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:15,239
Speaker 1: don't drink, and then see if it's fun. If it's fun,

759
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 1: you'll stay, and if it's not fun, you'll just leave

760
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:19,200
Speaker 1: and guess what, they won't even know that you love

761
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:22,920
Speaker 1: because they're drunk. So what stopping drinking does is make

762
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 1: you go towards the things that are genuinely fun and

763
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: not say the things that are fake fun yes, and

764
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 1: they yeah, not things that you don't want to be

765
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:32,960
Speaker 1: at that you then try to make fun through drinking. Yeah,

766
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 1: you just go, Actually, I don't want to go to

767
00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 1: that thing. That's only I can only do if I'm drunk.

768
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 1: And it's scary. Listen, if you're out there and you're

769
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:43,760
Speaker 1: like not wanting to hear this, you're not ready enjoy

770
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:46,799
Speaker 1: it and fucking enjoy drinking because it is wonderful, it's

771
00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:50,640
Speaker 1: good times. But if you're ready to maybe consider stepping

772
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:54,800
Speaker 1: away from it like um. Like our listeners shared, Rachel,

773
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:57,879
Speaker 1: you can um. I love that she had so many

774
00:37:57,960 --> 00:37:59,800
Speaker 1: good things that I thought she was a separate caller

775
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 1: the UM. You can pick up that book, Alan Gar

776
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:06,839
Speaker 1: Easy Way. There's tons of them for alcohol and UM

777
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:09,120
Speaker 1: there's one like to Moderate Easy Way to Moderate Drinking.

778
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 1: I would just say, go all in on the one

779
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:14,280
Speaker 1: that's to stop drinking, and if you're ready the book,

780
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:16,480
Speaker 1: take your time with the book. You will start to

781
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:19,399
Speaker 1: feel the book working and it gets scary, and maybe

782
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 1: you'll put it down because you're not ready to stop drinking.

783
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:23,279
Speaker 1: That's what I had to do with the Stop Smoking book.

784
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:24,799
Speaker 1: I was not ready to stop smoking, so I was like,

785
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 1: I feel it working. I don't like this. I'm not

786
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 1: ready to like, so I put it away. But then

787
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 1: I had a bad experience with cigarettes, and I was

788
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 1: just like, pick it up, read it quick. So just

789
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:34,480
Speaker 1: buy the book to have on yourself, to just sit

790
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 1: there for when you're having a moment where you're like

791
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:38,279
Speaker 1: I really want to be fucking done with this, and

792
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:40,239
Speaker 1: then just read the funk out of it and you

793
00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:41,600
Speaker 1: can drink while you read it. By the way, so

794
00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 1: you don't have to quit before you read again. That's

795
00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 1: amber any of the chapter. No, yeah, you'll you'll know

796
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 1: to go back. He walks it through. He repeats himself

797
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 1: so much because he knows he's dealing with uh, you know.

798
00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:55,400
Speaker 1: And by the way, I think we're not perfect. I

799
00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 1: smoke weeds still, so I still. I hadn't eating disorder

800
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 1: for most of those ten years. So, like other things

801
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 1: get amplified. It's not a fix all, but it definitely

802
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:07,120
Speaker 1: was a huge changing effector in my life before and

803
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 1: after drinking Brian. Brian has something he wants to get

804
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:20,439
Speaker 1: ahead of. Interesting observation. Hey, guys, I'll get this under

805
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:22,359
Speaker 1: a minute. That's good advice. On the show today, I

806
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 1: just want to comment on Nikki and David's fade, because Nikki,

807
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:27,600
Speaker 1: I think that's your guy. I think you guys should

808
00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:29,920
Speaker 1: go really well together. You know, I've been a fan

809
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:31,719
Speaker 1: of his for a little while now, of I think

810
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:34,320
Speaker 1: I like it. On five eight hundred fifty pounds, I

811
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:37,879
Speaker 1: think I've appreciated seeing, you know what, like a wiry man,

812
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 1: you know, a Hollywood just crush it for deathcas. Yeah,

813
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 1: like all of the women. It's easy it's pretty impressive.

814
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:48,359
Speaker 1: But and you know he's got that sensitive side too,

815
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 1: He's kind of got that, he's got that feminine energy

816
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:53,239
Speaker 1: thing going. Let's always talked about. I don't know, I

817
00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 1: think that's Uh. I just wanted to call it out

818
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 1: the money because I think you guys have some kid

819
00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 1: have some real compatibility there and uh yeah, and an

820
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:06,560
Speaker 1: opportunity for kind of that you know, mutual admiration, mutual respect,

821
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 1: which you know, I'm sure it's probably hard for we

822
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 1: look alike certainly, so I think I want to call

823
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:16,840
Speaker 1: it now. All right, Thanks Brian. I love this. Uh.

824
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:19,399
Speaker 1: People have said this in comments when I've posted hanging

825
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:25,120
Speaker 1: out with him, David Spade is truly one of my UM.

826
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 1: Being friends with him is one of my greatest accomplishments

827
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 1: in life. It feels like just a dream come true.

828
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 1: He is someone that I even was talking about yesterday

829
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:37,920
Speaker 1: and I said something like, if if you know my

830
00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:41,759
Speaker 1: my potential husband has a is jealous of my relationship

831
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:46,319
Speaker 1: with Spade or uh in any way makes it so

832
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 1: I can hang out with him less, I will not

833
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:52,680
Speaker 1: entertain that relationship. So it sounds like dating David Spade

834
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 1: would make sense. Then, um, but I will say that

835
00:40:56,200 --> 00:41:00,960
Speaker 1: that is not our relationship. Uh it he when I

836
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:03,160
Speaker 1: met him, he had a girlfriend. He is now single,

837
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 1: but it just still hasn't taken that gone to that level.

838
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:10,879
Speaker 1: And um, and I think I think that's even though

839
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 1: I freaking love him and he is sexy and like

840
00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 1: I see him where there's a reason why David Spide

841
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 1: gets women. It's because he's charming as fuck, he's confident,

842
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:21,719
Speaker 1: and he's hot. Uh, he just says. Even my mom

843
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:23,759
Speaker 1: when we went out to dinner and Ellen, she's like,

844
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 1: he looks twenty seven. He looks I mean, he's the same.

845
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 1: She was like, hey, Nicky, you got to go out.

846
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:35,879
Speaker 1: She was like so sold. Um, but uh, that's like

847
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:40,400
Speaker 1: I don't I also like him because he's five seven pounds. Yeah,

848
00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:44,120
Speaker 1: what do you mean, Oh yeah, she just wants to

849
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:49,279
Speaker 1: match up. Yeah it's um, yeah, I'm not I'm not

850
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 1: saying it will never happen, because I also I don't

851
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:54,880
Speaker 1: put anything off the table. But for now, it's, uh,

852
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:58,279
Speaker 1: it's like we're both we both don't want each other.

853
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 1: And I could see something like that for you though.

854
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 1: I mean, whether it's him or not, I could see,

855
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:07,360
Speaker 1: you know, the age gap does like it is pretty

856
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:10,120
Speaker 1: I mean, granted, I'm dating year old. I don't really

857
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 1: don't know how old he is. I think I looked

858
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:15,200
Speaker 1: it up once and I've forgotten it. Um But the

859
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 1: thing is I I want to be with someone who

860
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 1: is has certain things that they're like. I have certain

861
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:26,200
Speaker 1: requirements that he doesn't meet, not because he's not good enough.

862
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:28,239
Speaker 1: He could meet them, but I have a lot that

863
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 1: he that I don't. I wouldn't meet his knowing what

864
00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:34,640
Speaker 1: he's attracted to too, So I would say that for

865
00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:36,879
Speaker 1: us to be together, we'd have to change a little bit,

866
00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:39,359
Speaker 1: but that would be probably good changes. And who knows.

867
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:42,080
Speaker 1: But the age thing doesn't bother me. Wait, what how

868
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:46,840
Speaker 1: old does he know him? I think he's probably sixty. Man,

869
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:49,840
Speaker 1: I was gonna say fifty two. I'm way off. If

870
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:55,960
Speaker 1: he's seriously feeling you've been he has the like the energy,

871
00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 1: he does eat dinner at five o'clock. But that's but

872
00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:01,920
Speaker 1: that's only characteristic of him that would lead you to

873
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:06,840
Speaker 1: think he's older. He's roccoli. But um no. But my

874
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 1: my thing with you is that you don't want kids,

875
00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:12,120
Speaker 1: So that actually opens up the window I think for

876
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:14,359
Speaker 1: you to you could date a hundred and forty year old.

877
00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 1: It doesn't They don't have to still be alive to

878
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 1: throw a football when they're seventeen, you know what I mean,

879
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 1: Like you're not having kids, I think opens and it

880
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 1: opens of them dying and I having like another love

881
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:29,239
Speaker 1: of my life, which is their money. Like you know,

882
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 1: like I don't know. I know that sounds I'm saying that,

883
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 1: like you think that's a joke, but I'm not. Like

884
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:36,080
Speaker 1: I kind of like the idea of an older man,

885
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:39,080
Speaker 1: like getting great years with them split either splitting up

886
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 1: when it's time to do it or because I don't Also,

887
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:45,160
Speaker 1: I don't think relationships should be forever, Like I don't

888
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 1: know that I want that. I want to even if

889
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:49,480
Speaker 1: something I do want it to be forever, I entertain

890
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:51,000
Speaker 1: the fact that it might not be and that's going

891
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:53,439
Speaker 1: to be okay, and that might be totally the best

892
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:55,239
Speaker 1: thing for us. Well, there's something to be said about

893
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:57,560
Speaker 1: dating someone else who kind of also has like a

894
00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:02,239
Speaker 1: temporary relationship kind of mindset where maybe forever is a

895
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:06,320
Speaker 1: little much Yes, yeah, um, And I am like really,

896
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:09,880
Speaker 1: I mean I love listening to Dave talk about girls

897
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:12,880
Speaker 1: because he's just like he's good with women. I like hearing,

898
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 1: you know, like I'm kind of turned on by those stories,

899
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 1: not like with my friend Dave, but like I could

900
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 1: even like I could see myself being like, oh my god,

901
00:44:20,239 --> 00:44:22,960
Speaker 1: like that's hot, Like he gets hot chicks. I feel

902
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:25,400
Speaker 1: like one of the hot chicks. So um, No, I

903
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 1: love I we I love David Spade, and I love

904
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:30,839
Speaker 1: that that person thinks that we should be together. It's

905
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:36,359
Speaker 1: very flattering. No uh next next caller, Okay, a very

906
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: sweet message from Paisley. This has anonymous. Hi. My name's Paisley.

907
00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 1: I m Wisconsin and I listened to the podcast every

908
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 1: single day on my way to my slavery job in

909
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:53,959
Speaker 1: corporate America. And I say to say that every time

910
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:57,920
Speaker 1: Andrew wheezes when he laughs, a little bit of my

911
00:44:57,960 --> 00:45:01,160
Speaker 1: soul comes back to me. And it's just the best

912
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 1: thing that I've ever heard of my life. So thank

913
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 1: you Andrew for a weezing when you laugh, and thanks

914
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:08,760
Speaker 1: Niki for making the rest of us laugh for real reason.

915
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:11,240
Speaker 1: It's not just a weeze laugh. So, oh my god,

916
00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:18,719
Speaker 1: you know I loved that I let out, you know,

917
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 1: the insecure ego really was. I was feeling a little

918
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:26,880
Speaker 1: sad that I didn't get a shout out, and then

919
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:29,800
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, actually I make the wheezes happen sometimes,

920
00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 1: even though you a lot of times you are wheezing

921
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:34,439
Speaker 1: at your own things that we're laughing at. But I'm

922
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:37,120
Speaker 1: just having terrible breathing. I'm getting older. Oh my god, No,

923
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:39,239
Speaker 1: people love your wheezy laugh. How long have you been

924
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 1: getting told about that laugh and like made fun of

925
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:44,279
Speaker 1: it or like, you know, commented on a long time?

926
00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 1: A long time I used to. I think I used

927
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:49,600
Speaker 1: to laugh a little bit louder when I don't know.

928
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 1: I think I just the older you get is just

929
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 1: like it takes a lot to laugh loud. So I

930
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 1: think the weeeze is a way to get to a

931
00:45:56,719 --> 00:46:01,480
Speaker 1: laugh without killing yourself. Yes, that makes sense, but yeah,

932
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 1: I think sneezes and laughs are really Uh. You could

933
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:07,640
Speaker 1: study them and learn a lot about that person because

934
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:11,279
Speaker 1: they were built of either feeling comfortable with themselves being

935
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 1: loud or maybe needing a loud sneeze to get attention

936
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 1: because they didn't get a There's a lot of like

937
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:18,720
Speaker 1: psychoanalysis that you can because it's the thing you choose.

938
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:23,040
Speaker 1: Deaf people don't make a noise when they sneeze. So

939
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:25,799
Speaker 1: it's honestly a thing that you're doing that you don't

940
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:29,280
Speaker 1: need to do, and it's doing it's doing something socially

941
00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:31,839
Speaker 1: for you that we you know, we don't know, but

942
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 1: there's well, there's definitely something to like laughing loud. The

943
00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 1: same person that laughs like obnoxiously loud will probably listen

944
00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:42,600
Speaker 1: to their music on their phone without headphone, like they're

945
00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:47,000
Speaker 1: not really Oh my god. There's this one Reddit clip

946
00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 1: that is probably the most amazing video. It's it's famous

947
00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 1: and it's um because they were sharing things on contagious laughter.

948
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:56,840
Speaker 1: Like the subreddit. What is a video that makes you

949
00:46:56,920 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 1: laugh every time you put it on? It is an

950
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 1: you find it It is called um uh got old

951
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 1: man can't stop laughing? I think it will come up

952
00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:09,960
Speaker 1: and it's it's at some comedy show. There's a it's

953
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:12,480
Speaker 1: like a Branson sque comedy show where they invite three

954
00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 1: members of the audience and this really funny guy who

955
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 1: has a line for everything doing crowd work with these

956
00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 1: three old men, and the one of the men starts

957
00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:22,440
Speaker 1: laughing at his banter with one of the other guys

958
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:23,959
Speaker 1: sitting next to him, and the guy in the middle

959
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:26,000
Speaker 1: is laughing so hard. It's three guys on the stage

960
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 1: and it's like a farm setting, and the guy in

961
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:30,400
Speaker 1: the middle starts laughing so hard and he's not miked,

962
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:32,279
Speaker 1: but everyone on stage is like, holy sh it, this

963
00:47:32,360 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 1: laugh is so crazy. And then the guy keeps saying

964
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 1: material with the guy next to him. The laugh doesn't stop.

965
00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 1: He just gets a microphone and puts the mic in

966
00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:42,800
Speaker 1: front of this guy. The crowd and everyone on stage

967
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 1: laughs for ten minutes straight with nothing happening except this

968
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 1: guy's laugh, and it makes them laugh for so long

969
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 1: they can't stop now or were you able to find it? Yes?

970
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:55,800
Speaker 1: So I would go to about like a third of

971
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 1: the way in and we'll get a sample of can

972
00:47:58,040 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 1: you tell people what to search for so they can

973
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 1: look at the because I want people to watch the

974
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:02,359
Speaker 1: whole video, but we're not going to show it now.

975
00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 1: Uh funny old man laughing on YouTube. Okay, so here

976
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 1: we go. This is the point where the show maybe over.

977
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 1: So they're already laughing so much at his laugh. But listen,

978
00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:28,799
Speaker 1: you guys, this video. How long is this video? Noah,

979
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:32,680
Speaker 1: it's nine minutes. Yeah, at three here at three minutes,

980
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:36,360
Speaker 1: they do there's six more minutes of hysterical after that.

981
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:44,960
Speaker 1: That just and he doesn't want attention. He's just like

982
00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:49,440
Speaker 1: a sweet old man in a yellow shirt. Yeah. So

983
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:56,000
Speaker 1: sometimes I think these laughs that are that thank you know.

984
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:59,040
Speaker 1: Uh So, sometimes I think these people are they're just

985
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:03,880
Speaker 1: that laugh but a pigsty or something, but it's so cute.

986
00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:07,239
Speaker 1: I think there was this girl on at our at

987
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:10,880
Speaker 1: an open mic and she would laugh like ha ha

988
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:14,960
Speaker 1: ha ha and it and it wasn't about everyone hated

989
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:17,960
Speaker 1: the like have you ever hated someone's like we all

990
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:20,840
Speaker 1: hated because one it felt like she wanted the attention

991
00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:23,319
Speaker 1: at the open mic, you know what I mean. Yes,

992
00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 1: we'll try to definitely and uh yeah, and it would

993
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:31,200
Speaker 1: actually drown out. Other people wouldn't laugh because her laugh

994
00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:35,360
Speaker 1: was so horrible. Yes, because well also you're in a

995
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:38,399
Speaker 1: room full of comics that are all like pessimists think

996
00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 1: that sometimes people like sometimes I used to do that.

997
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 1: Sometimes I laugh in a way to give support to

998
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 1: the comic on stage because I know that they need

999
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:50,879
Speaker 1: it as a comedian. So sometimes they'll project a laugh

1000
00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 1: in a way or um. But a laugh can take

1001
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 1: you off your game a little bit. If it's like

1002
00:49:56,840 --> 00:49:58,440
Speaker 1: that before, where it's just a woman that has a

1003
00:49:58,480 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 1: bad laugh and she's not trying to get attention. She's

1004
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 1: like that guy in the yellow shirt where it's like

1005
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:05,279
Speaker 1: she can't help it and calling and you don't want

1006
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:10,120
Speaker 1: to kick her out, but it's so distracted, way possible. Yeah, yeah,

1007
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:13,759
Speaker 1: it's most heckles are like nice, but yes, one that

1008
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:16,239
Speaker 1: she can't even help to. That's what everyone asked to

1009
00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:18,799
Speaker 1: like whenever they meet, Like you're a comedian, how do

1010
00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:21,640
Speaker 1: you deal with the hecklers? And it's like easily? Like

1011
00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:25,920
Speaker 1: it's not. First of all, you just talk so much

1012
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:27,920
Speaker 1: that they never get a chance to say anything. But

1013
00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:30,880
Speaker 1: when they do, throw you. But most heckles aren't like

1014
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:33,719
Speaker 1: you said, they're usually like they don't even know their head.

1015
00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:36,800
Speaker 1: But it's it does I struggle with it. I struggle

1016
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 1: with hecklers. I don't like it. I don't want because

1017
00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 1: I will ultimately just say the true thing, which isn't

1018
00:50:42,200 --> 00:50:44,879
Speaker 1: very sometimes. Now I'm finding it. I can handle it now.

1019
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:47,239
Speaker 1: But there was probably you know, fifteen years that I

1020
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:50,560
Speaker 1: was never wanted any audience direction because I just didn't

1021
00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:53,799
Speaker 1: trust myself to be funny. But now, um, now I'm

1022
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:56,680
Speaker 1: just honest and but sometimes I could just create a

1023
00:50:56,719 --> 00:50:59,400
Speaker 1: dip that you're just like, oh yeah, like that the

1024
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 1: rhythm off the private gig I did on Saturday, I

1025
00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:05,040
Speaker 1: went through a whole hour show and only had one

1026
00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:07,479
Speaker 1: awkward moment in a room of fifty people going up cold.

1027
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:12,160
Speaker 1: That is, Chris Rock might have the same like thing,

1028
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:15,520
Speaker 1: not having one awkward moment. I was like, oh, I'm elite,

1029
00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:18,239
Speaker 1: like I I just because but even that awkward moment

1030
00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 1: was still really uncomfortable and I dig myself out of

1031
00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:23,319
Speaker 1: it and I hated it. But those never stopped. You're

1032
00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:25,319
Speaker 1: telling me about that gig and how you handle I'm

1033
00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:27,600
Speaker 1: just like so impressed. I mean I wasn't even there,

1034
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:29,879
Speaker 1: and I could just tell that you took over that

1035
00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 1: room where and I just know those kind of people

1036
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:36,040
Speaker 1: just because I'm from Palm Beach like Florida, like, and

1037
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:37,960
Speaker 1: you just went in there and I don't know, it

1038
00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 1: takes a different level of Like I put on that chair,

1039
00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 1: I had talking with myself and I was like, you

1040
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:47,960
Speaker 1: are a superstar. They are so excited to have you here.

1041
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 1: You have been doing this forever. You are truly the

1042
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift of comedy in terms of like how long

1043
00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:56,000
Speaker 1: you've been at it, what you've accomplished within your field,

1044
00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:58,719
Speaker 1: walk in there like Taylor Swift and I did. I

1045
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:01,560
Speaker 1: think like what happened? Felt that energy is when people

1046
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:03,160
Speaker 1: are around people with a lot of money and a

1047
00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:06,400
Speaker 1: lot of wealth, they instantly will go, I don't have

1048
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,440
Speaker 1: that much money, I drive a shoot of your car whatever.

1049
00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:11,560
Speaker 1: I'm not worthy of their attention and you so are.

1050
00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:14,319
Speaker 1: And I do have as much of both is um

1051
00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:16,000
Speaker 1: or I'm on my way to it. But not even

1052
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:21,320
Speaker 1: some people like but pedestal. I never did that. That

1053
00:52:21,360 --> 00:52:24,400
Speaker 1: would have not that's you think you're putting off. But

1054
00:52:24,400 --> 00:52:27,400
Speaker 1: I don't think around rich people. Yes, even when I

1055
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:29,319
Speaker 1: was broke, I was just like, you think you're cool.

1056
00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:31,360
Speaker 1: This is all I just want to say. Last night

1057
00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:35,000
Speaker 1: I went to a dinner amazing restaurant in town in St.

1058
00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:41,000
Speaker 1: Louis and so delicious, the greatest ambiance, Louis good. I

1059
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:43,080
Speaker 1: signed one of the plates because they have famous people

1060
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:45,440
Speaker 1: signed their plates, and I wrote, um, John Hamm and

1061
00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:48,239
Speaker 1: I had the most romantic dinner here. Thanks date here,

1062
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:50,879
Speaker 1: Thanks so much for helping a celebrator anniversary or something

1063
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:53,360
Speaker 1: that I wrote Nick and uh but which I was

1064
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:55,319
Speaker 1: really proud of all because I know he's gonna see

1065
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 1: it because it's the coolest place to eat. St. Lucie's

1066
00:52:57,239 --> 00:53:03,360
Speaker 1: from here, so um uh. But I hate the members

1067
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:05,319
Speaker 1: that the waiter has to come up and tell us

1068
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:07,839
Speaker 1: every ingredient that's in the specials and do this whole

1069
00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:09,680
Speaker 1: thing that they memorize and they're kind of rattling it off.

1070
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:11,120
Speaker 1: I hate that when they deliver it, they have to

1071
00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 1: tell you what everything is, even though you know what

1072
00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:16,239
Speaker 1: it is, and they have all these like presentations. And

1073
00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 1: last night I was complaining about I go, I love

1074
00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:19,880
Speaker 1: this place, let's let's get rid of that stuff, and

1075
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 1: they go, but it's like, that's like the that's that's

1076
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:25,839
Speaker 1: what some people come here and expect they want that,

1077
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:28,359
Speaker 1: And I go, it's elitist and it's stupid and it's

1078
00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:29,840
Speaker 1: a waste of everyone's time. It's a waste of that

1079
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:31,920
Speaker 1: girl's energy to memorize that on the way to work

1080
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 1: instead of listening to a bunch of songs she might

1081
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:35,480
Speaker 1: want to play to get her amped for work to

1082
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:36,920
Speaker 1: be in a good mood. It's a waste of her

1083
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:40,080
Speaker 1: time to go, oh, the ragular the sauce with the

1084
00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:43,880
Speaker 1: Rigatoni and the baron atse and like like it's making

1085
00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:46,480
Speaker 1: her life worse. She's maybe she likes it, but I'm

1086
00:53:46,480 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 1: guessing not. She did a great job of it. Shout

1087
00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 1: out to her um the chef delivering the things and

1088
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:54,080
Speaker 1: telling us what each of it is. It's like we're

1089
00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:57,400
Speaker 1: It interrupts the conversation that we were having. And sometimes

1090
00:53:57,440 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 1: you need that because it's awkward. You need some kind

1091
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:02,959
Speaker 1: of thing. It feels like it's about the waiter showing off.

1092
00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 1: It's this all this presentation of and slip like the

1093
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 1: Turndown service. It's all rich people just being rich, and

1094
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 1: it's pointless and it doesn't add that much more to

1095
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:16,719
Speaker 1: your life. It just makes people work for you. So

1096
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:18,920
Speaker 1: you can sit there and go, I'm rich and it

1097
00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 1: serves no purpose. Write it on a menu, right, the

1098
00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:24,880
Speaker 1: specials on a menu. You literally a white board. She

1099
00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 1: can come up to the table and go, I'm gonna

1100
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:27,480
Speaker 1: leave us here. Do you want me to tell you

1101
00:54:27,520 --> 00:54:32,280
Speaker 1: about it? Number number? But Louis by the way in St. Louis,

1102
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:34,880
Speaker 1: that is the restaurant in town for Shirt Delicious, and

1103
00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:37,319
Speaker 1: everyone there was so nice and they're just doing people

1104
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:44,360
Speaker 1: want Yeah, you should uh, next listener mail, go piss.

1105
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:47,600
Speaker 1: Sorry noh, okay, okay, ANSWER's gonna go pee. And I'm

1106
00:54:47,600 --> 00:54:50,160
Speaker 1: gonna take this one real quick. I'll catch him up.

1107
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:56,560
Speaker 1: Don't worry. Okay. This one's from Courtney. Hey guys, I

1108
00:54:56,640 --> 00:54:59,040
Speaker 1: was just listening to the Newest podcast and thought I

1109
00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:03,160
Speaker 1: had to tell you this story. In middle school, there

1110
00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:07,440
Speaker 1: was this boy in science who was supposed to read

1111
00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:12,719
Speaker 1: the word organism and fully said orgasm for about like

1112
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:18,360
Speaker 1: reading maybe three pages of the texts. Everyone. That's what

1113
00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:21,440
Speaker 1: everyone talked about that whole day, about how he was

1114
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:24,759
Speaker 1: for him and how the teacher had to stop and say, um,

1115
00:55:24,760 --> 00:55:28,239
Speaker 1: it's organism, and then everyone realizing that he was saying orgasm.

1116
00:55:29,160 --> 00:55:33,160
Speaker 1: Your teacher year dropped the ball. Oh my god about that.

1117
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:37,759
Speaker 1: Oh how crazy? That's cute, like he I mean, I

1118
00:55:37,800 --> 00:55:40,600
Speaker 1: guess because he had like reading problems, So I mean,

1119
00:55:42,560 --> 00:55:50,200
Speaker 1: that's literally how the intro of THEO whoa oh. And

1120
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 1: it's funny that you remember it. I wonder how you

1121
00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 1: ended up hearing his essay. Maybe we're friends with him. Yeah,

1122
00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:57,960
Speaker 1: that's really cool that he turned that into a good thing,

1123
00:55:58,000 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 1: because how embarrassing. And I remember people mixing that those

1124
00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:04,520
Speaker 1: words up and not really knowing what an orgasm was

1125
00:56:05,239 --> 00:56:07,120
Speaker 1: that young. I forget how young you said you were

1126
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:09,759
Speaker 1: at the time, but like you sometimes think I've just

1127
00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:12,440
Speaker 1: said the most disgusting, bad thing, Like you don't understand

1128
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:14,120
Speaker 1: that orgasm is like how you were made and it's

1129
00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:17,040
Speaker 1: like kind of scientific, so it's not that just and

1130
00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:19,160
Speaker 1: your teacher's reaction Like That's sometimes why I want to

1131
00:56:19,160 --> 00:56:21,560
Speaker 1: be a teacher, so I can be like, oh my gosh,

1132
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:25,719
Speaker 1: he said orgasmgasm instead of organism. Oh my gosh, I

1133
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:28,719
Speaker 1: do that all the time. I that is that is

1134
00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 1: Actually if I heard, like really famous cool people always

1135
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:33,400
Speaker 1: get that mixed up. So I'd turn it and make

1136
00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:36,880
Speaker 1: it cool for him and tried it. That's what teachers

1137
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:39,799
Speaker 1: need to do, is like mitigate that stuff. Yeah, peeing

1138
00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:42,439
Speaker 1: in your pants is cool? Yes, yes, all right, um

1139
00:56:42,520 --> 00:56:45,600
Speaker 1: so organism orgasm was the mix up, and he turned

1140
00:56:45,640 --> 00:56:47,839
Speaker 1: it into a college essay this girl told us about. Okay,

1141
00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:51,840
Speaker 1: let's go to stew What ste got to say? Hi, besties,

1142
00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:56,200
Speaker 1: I have a pretty good mispronunciation. I was in my

1143
00:56:56,280 --> 00:57:00,840
Speaker 1: younger years working as an associated Blockbuster video here in Canada.

1144
00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:04,680
Speaker 1: I was approached by a customer while I was working

1145
00:57:04,719 --> 00:57:07,480
Speaker 1: in the aisles. He asked me if the movie Chais

1146
00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:12,239
Speaker 1: had been returned. I looked blankly. I was like, I'm

1147
00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:16,760
Speaker 1: not familiar with Chais. What do you think he was

1148
00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:22,720
Speaker 1: talking about? I don't know. My brain initially went to

1149
00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:26,280
Speaker 1: like cellois, I don't even know if that's the word,

1150
00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:33,160
Speaker 1: And then I'm trying to think of like what I mean.

1151
00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:36,160
Speaker 1: I just let's keep listening. Maybe maybe we'll get another

1152
00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:38,640
Speaker 1: clue before he reveals it, and you, why don't you

1153
00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:40,280
Speaker 1: show me the box and we'll see if we can

1154
00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:45,320
Speaker 1: figure out this one walks over its location in the store,

1155
00:57:45,600 --> 00:57:50,000
Speaker 1: and the movie is in fact titled Chaos. I was

1156
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:53,000
Speaker 1: able to contain a poker face until the gentleman left

1157
00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:57,600
Speaker 1: the store with my coworkers and to this chick, that

1158
00:57:57,720 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 1: is one of my favorite mispronunciations of my life. You

1159
00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:10,320
Speaker 1: would think you would mispronounce it chaos, but but yeah, yeah,

1160
00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:12,920
Speaker 1: I was thinking different. But like, of course, you think

1161
00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 1: of a c H word c H A, you're gonna chaos.

1162
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:21,000
Speaker 1: That's a chaotic word. Yeah, it's a hard one to spell.

1163
00:58:21,520 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 1: I could see you chaotic, Yeah, chaotic. That's funny though,

1164
00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:27,720
Speaker 1: and him trying to like I was thinking maybe it

1165
00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:30,320
Speaker 1: had like if it was saw too or something, you

1166
00:58:30,320 --> 00:58:33,440
Speaker 1: would think it was like sawy because it was s

1167
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 1: a w I I and he would be like, do

1168
00:58:35,680 --> 00:58:38,480
Speaker 1: you guys have saw we and they're like what you

1169
00:58:38,600 --> 00:58:43,480
Speaker 1: feel like? Though, yes, it would be him not telling

1170
00:58:43,560 --> 00:58:47,320
Speaker 1: him it's chaos. I feel like it's a disservice to

1171
00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:52,960
Speaker 1: the guy. But and it was awkward with him. Yeah,

1172
00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:59,920
Speaker 1: just be honest. That's so funny. All right, more muss pronunciations. Yeah,

1173
00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:06,440
Speaker 1: yess yes, Hey, guys, just here. Such a big fan

1174
00:59:06,520 --> 00:59:08,840
Speaker 1: of the podcast. I've been listening to the first episode.

1175
00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:13,920
Speaker 1: I've got a mispronunciation for you. And this word is

1176
00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:16,760
Speaker 1: something that my teacher said. This is back in fourth grade.

1177
00:59:17,040 --> 00:59:20,680
Speaker 1: We were reading stories for Halloween and she said the

1178
00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:25,440
Speaker 1: word macabrey. I won't give you the real word in

1179
00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:27,120
Speaker 1: case you want to guess what I'm saying. What she

1180
00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:29,760
Speaker 1: said mcabrey, and I knew it was the wrong word

1181
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:31,320
Speaker 1: at the time, but I didn't want to correct her

1182
00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:35,600
Speaker 1: because I thought I would embarrass her. And we love

1183
00:59:36,320 --> 00:59:40,800
Speaker 1: you knew what pronounced the word maccabb that way. Today

1184
00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:46,240
Speaker 1: we always see I can't say it. I love you, guys.

1185
00:59:46,520 --> 00:59:48,560
Speaker 1: This is the saddest part is like some of these

1186
00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:50,720
Speaker 1: I hear them and I go, what's maccab Like I

1187
00:59:50,760 --> 00:59:53,360
Speaker 1: don't even know what that maccab is. When it's something

1188
00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:57,280
Speaker 1: is very dark and dark and like HALLOWEENI pretty much

1189
00:59:57,280 --> 01:00:03,840
Speaker 1: HALLOWEENI mccabrey actually were It's like abracadabra maccabre. It's kind

1190
01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:06,439
Speaker 1: of a fun it does. I like it like it's

1191
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:11,640
Speaker 1: a macabre yeah, or it's like a bird a parrot

1192
01:00:12,040 --> 01:00:16,880
Speaker 1: um that's a French parrot, a macaw. Yeah yeah, maccabre. Yeah.

1193
01:00:17,040 --> 01:00:20,640
Speaker 1: I feel like these mispronouncius like mincements. Oh my god,

1194
01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:28,680
Speaker 1: it's fine, I think you Yeah. You know what's one

1195
01:00:28,720 --> 01:00:31,960
Speaker 1: word that until is a word that I always think of?

1196
01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 1: Do you know what that is? It was Mexico City. Oh,

1197
01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:40,480
Speaker 1: and I just remember my history teacher from a high school.

1198
01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:44,880
Speaker 1: I was going, oh, the one that gets me. I

1199
01:00:45,160 --> 01:00:49,000
Speaker 1: still can't say it. Oh a X it's ox like

1200
01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:52,280
Speaker 1: it's a it's a, it's a it's a Spanish, it's

1201
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:57,360
Speaker 1: a Mexican town. I think, oh, California, right, yeah, I

1202
01:00:57,360 --> 01:01:00,080
Speaker 1: mean like it's definitely has like offshoots, like the it

1203
01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:01,640
Speaker 1: gets reference all the time. I think it's like in

1204
01:01:01,680 --> 01:01:04,040
Speaker 1: food do you know what I'm talking about? No, No,

1205
01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:06,560
Speaker 1: it has no, it doesn't sound like it's written at all.

1206
01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:07,840
Speaker 1: Hold on, let me just like type it in real

1207
01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:12,240
Speaker 1: quick because people just yeah oxaca oh a x o

1208
01:01:12,400 --> 01:01:15,600
Speaker 1: a x A c A and it's what walk wall

1209
01:01:15,640 --> 01:01:20,200
Speaker 1: hawka wall hawka wall hawka. That word really throws me

1210
01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:23,120
Speaker 1: all the time. I can't ever remember the pronunciation. And

1211
01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:26,080
Speaker 1: I apologize to any Spanish speaking people out there for

1212
01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 1: my butchering of your language. Um oh, but yeah, I

1213
01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:34,920
Speaker 1: think like the mispronounceation, like we we what if you know,

1214
01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:38,320
Speaker 1: whoever made the word wanted it to sound differently and

1215
01:01:38,360 --> 01:01:41,320
Speaker 1: then someone else like ran with it, you know, like yeah,

1216
01:01:41,800 --> 01:01:46,200
Speaker 1: like mispronuncia. I'm just saying then. And that girl has

1217
01:01:46,240 --> 01:01:48,120
Speaker 1: a joke with her sister though, because there was this

1218
01:01:48,160 --> 01:01:50,080
Speaker 1: girl in a high school play that me and my

1219
01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:54,000
Speaker 1: sister saw and she was the line was and my

1220
01:01:54,120 --> 01:01:57,400
Speaker 1: moron sister, but for some reason, her mind was thinking

1221
01:01:57,440 --> 01:01:59,920
Speaker 1: about the next line she was and my moron sister

1222
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:03,840
Speaker 1: ste we were like saying sisty, and so the sister

1223
01:02:03,920 --> 01:02:06,800
Speaker 1: was so funny and so I always call her hey

1224
01:02:06,840 --> 01:02:09,160
Speaker 1: moron and it's short for more on cisty because we

1225
01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:11,280
Speaker 1: just thought that was it was like our inside jokes.

1226
01:02:11,280 --> 01:02:15,520
Speaker 1: So yeah, and it's just so ironic. Someone a moron

1227
01:02:15,680 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 1: and then say more on cisty and to literally be

1228
01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:22,440
Speaker 1: a moron right after saying more. Yes, I did that

1229
01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:24,959
Speaker 1: with Recovict. I told my older brother I was a cuse,

1230
01:02:25,240 --> 01:02:28,240
Speaker 1: you know, you know to she's from Recovict, you know,

1231
01:02:28,240 --> 01:02:33,080
Speaker 1: to polish. She didn't seem that smart and Reco is

1232
01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 1: obviously an um. All right, Uh, let's finish up one

1233
01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:44,440
Speaker 1: more Christians my kids. Oh boy, I don't say handsome

1234
01:02:44,440 --> 01:02:51,840
Speaker 1: thumbs christant Christians, Jesus christ anthemums if I just I

1235
01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:53,840
Speaker 1: don't like it either. Look at this. Look at this

1236
01:02:53,880 --> 01:03:00,800
Speaker 1: guy's name, Artina. It's a girl, Artina Arta Archie n

1237
01:03:00,840 --> 01:03:02,680
Speaker 1: e h okay good. I want to just try to

1238
01:03:02,720 --> 01:03:09,040
Speaker 1: get let's artin at Artin. I think it's artin. I

1239
01:03:09,040 --> 01:03:12,200
Speaker 1: think we don't prounce. That's I'm going with Artin. Hi, Nikki,

1240
01:03:12,320 --> 01:03:15,120
Speaker 1: Hi Andrew. My name is Artina. I live in last

1241
01:03:15,160 --> 01:03:18,440
Speaker 1: ang years. I'm a huge fan. Thanks Nicky, you were

1242
01:03:18,440 --> 01:03:21,600
Speaker 1: always my favorite roaster on the Comedy Central Roasts. Thank

1243
01:03:21,640 --> 01:03:25,640
Speaker 1: you ever so good. And I just wanted you guys

1244
01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:28,680
Speaker 1: for the podcast. And for always being so open and

1245
01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:32,280
Speaker 1: honest about your lives and your experiences. UM. It really

1246
01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:34,600
Speaker 1: helps them to relate to you, guys and makes it

1247
01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:37,200
Speaker 1: really fun to listen to you. UM. So thank you.

1248
01:03:37,280 --> 01:03:39,920
Speaker 1: And this is the only podcast I've ever listened to

1249
01:03:40,080 --> 01:03:43,560
Speaker 1: more than one episode of So thank you, Thank you, UM,

1250
01:03:43,600 --> 01:03:45,640
Speaker 1: and Andrew, I think it's so adorable that you were

1251
01:03:45,640 --> 01:03:48,320
Speaker 1: crying listening to the voice messages. I think it really

1252
01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:50,680
Speaker 1: shows that you care about the impact that you have

1253
01:03:50,800 --> 01:03:53,560
Speaker 1: on your listeners, UM, which is so cool. So thank

1254
01:03:53,600 --> 01:03:56,880
Speaker 1: you for sharing that too. UM, and I just wanted

1255
01:03:56,920 --> 01:03:59,600
Speaker 1: to share real quick that, UM, my sister and her

1256
01:03:59,680 --> 01:04:02,480
Speaker 1: husband door at my house yesterday and my brother in

1257
01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:06,360
Speaker 1: law was reading a headline to us out loud from ESPN,

1258
01:04:07,040 --> 01:04:11,000
Speaker 1: and he was reading that Kobe Bryant was inducted into

1259
01:04:11,360 --> 01:04:16,360
Speaker 1: the Basketball Hall of Fame post humously, and my sister

1260
01:04:16,400 --> 01:04:17,840
Speaker 1: and I had to break it to him that he

1261
01:04:17,920 --> 01:04:23,880
Speaker 1: was actually inducted posthumously. I'm really dumb, I would letting

1262
01:04:23,880 --> 01:04:26,880
Speaker 1: me share, and I love you guys. I literally thought

1263
01:04:27,120 --> 01:04:29,560
Speaker 1: she was going to tell us that was what he read,

1264
01:04:29,680 --> 01:04:32,200
Speaker 1: like that was the correct thing. But what he did say,

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01:04:32,360 --> 01:04:36,120
Speaker 1: but because I thought it's posthumously, Like I thought it

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Speaker 1: could be both honestly, but someone said that you didn't

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01:04:42,280 --> 01:04:46,160
Speaker 1: say right, and I wouldn't never posthumously. It's posthumously and

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Speaker 1: that is stupid. And I agree with you on like

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Speaker 1: it should be the way. And um, it's so funny

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01:04:52,440 --> 01:04:54,280
Speaker 1: that she just gave one that we would have done

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01:04:54,400 --> 01:04:57,640
Speaker 1: and she just saved us. Are ton I you really did.

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01:04:57,880 --> 01:05:00,280
Speaker 1: And your voice. I literally want you to make a

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01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:03,480
Speaker 1: SMR videos because it's just like so gentle and it

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01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:06,320
Speaker 1: was filled with such like kindness and there was a

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01:05:06,400 --> 01:05:09,520
Speaker 1: Christmas to it that was like so comforting to me.

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01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:11,800
Speaker 1: And I closed my eyes while she was talking, and

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01:05:11,880 --> 01:05:14,400
Speaker 1: I I kind of got lost in it. And if

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01:05:14,400 --> 01:05:17,160
Speaker 1: you name your daughter like Art today, like it might

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01:05:17,200 --> 01:05:18,840
Speaker 1: be not gonna be a bit, She's gonna be a

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01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:22,120
Speaker 1: nice I feel like your name is so far it

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01:05:22,160 --> 01:05:24,880
Speaker 1: is important. Um, I'm gonna be Art today for the

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01:05:24,960 --> 01:05:27,200
Speaker 1: rest of the episode and just like speak with this

1283
01:05:27,280 --> 01:05:30,840
Speaker 1: like God are today. If you have children, they're so lucky.

1284
01:05:30,960 --> 01:05:33,640
Speaker 1: And if you have like anyone who is a loved

1285
01:05:33,640 --> 01:05:35,280
Speaker 1: one in your life is so lucky because you are

1286
01:05:35,360 --> 01:05:39,080
Speaker 1: so you just sound so loving until she yells and

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01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:41,120
Speaker 1: then it's like man, R Today, Are Today does not

1288
01:05:41,200 --> 01:05:44,520
Speaker 1: yell in my world? Oh my god, she'll yell. Yeah,

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01:05:44,560 --> 01:05:47,480
Speaker 1: I mean are today you are a a grammar not

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01:05:47,680 --> 01:05:50,840
Speaker 1: thy now. Uh yeah you. I'm glad you made him

1291
01:05:50,880 --> 01:05:53,320
Speaker 1: feel stupid, but you would have made me feel stupid too,

1292
01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:55,680
Speaker 1: but I should R Today is smart and she tells

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Speaker 1: it good. That does? Uh? Well, please let's be friends.

1294
01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:01,400
Speaker 1: I heard do live in l A and I'm open

1295
01:06:01,440 --> 01:06:05,640
Speaker 1: to that. Final thought, Um, we got to wrap this up. Uh,

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01:06:07,120 --> 01:06:09,360
Speaker 1: this was really fun. I could do this all day long.

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01:06:09,680 --> 01:06:11,800
Speaker 1: I didn't even finished. There's so many more, so we'll

1298
01:06:11,840 --> 01:06:14,320
Speaker 1: have to do this great. We will definitely do this again.

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Speaker 1: I hope you guys enjoyed it. Thank you for sending

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01:06:16,680 --> 01:06:18,800
Speaker 1: in those voice memos and thinking of us in these

1301
01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:21,000
Speaker 1: funny moments of your life and reminding me of so

1302
01:06:21,040 --> 01:06:24,959
Speaker 1: many great moments on the show. Um, and I love you,

1303
01:06:25,120 --> 01:06:27,680
Speaker 1: I really do. Thanks for listening. We're gonna do this forever.

1304
01:06:28,320 --> 01:06:30,200
Speaker 1: I mean I'm gonna do this for This is what

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01:06:30,240 --> 01:06:32,120
Speaker 1: I want to do forever. So UM, I hope you're

1306
01:06:32,160 --> 01:06:34,240
Speaker 1: in it for the long run to I mean until

1307
01:06:34,280 --> 01:06:36,560
Speaker 1: we go to each other's funerals. Yeah, I mean, it

1308
01:06:36,600 --> 01:06:38,560
Speaker 1: could all end tomorrow. We don't know building you know,

1309
01:06:38,600 --> 01:06:42,520
Speaker 1: apartment buildings collapse. That's my new fear. My. I was

1310
01:06:42,560 --> 01:06:45,720
Speaker 1: with this couple last night speaking of that, and the

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01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:49,240
Speaker 1: one wanted a shoulder surgery and there and the doctor's like, well,

1312
01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:53,520
Speaker 1: you know, ten to fifteen years. Uh, it might be better,

1313
01:06:53,760 --> 01:06:55,920
Speaker 1: but surgery might be better. So maybe you want to

1314
01:06:55,960 --> 01:06:58,560
Speaker 1: wait because you're still you know, only forty. And the

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01:06:58,560 --> 01:07:01,360
Speaker 1: wife goes, yeah, but you don't know if you'll have tomorrow.

1316
01:07:01,680 --> 01:07:03,840
Speaker 1: And it was such a dark thing for a wife

1317
01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:07,400
Speaker 1: to say to Yes, he doesn't know if you'll have tomorrow.

1318
01:07:07,960 --> 01:07:10,920
Speaker 1: And by the way, we need to up your insurance

1319
01:07:10,920 --> 01:07:15,280
Speaker 1: policy now that we're talking about my shoulder surgery. Speaking

1320
01:07:15,280 --> 01:07:17,360
Speaker 1: of insurance, Um, how much am I getting when I

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01:07:17,440 --> 01:07:20,480
Speaker 1: murder you? Uh, we don't have tomorrow, but I hope

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01:07:20,520 --> 01:07:23,120
Speaker 1: you do. Thank you for listening, besties, Thank you, no I,

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01:07:23,160 --> 01:07:25,920
Speaker 1: thank you Andrew and um. Thank you to all the

1324
01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:29,080
Speaker 1: people we heard from today, especially we'll see you tomorrow

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01:07:29,280 --> 01:07:31,360
Speaker 1: or monday or all right, we'll see you the next

1326
01:07:31,360 --> 01:07:33,560
Speaker 1: time on the show. You know when it is. Uh,

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Speaker 1: don't be cool. And U