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Speaker 1: It's kiss FM, that's Steve Lacy, bad habit, it's writing

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Speaker 1: Seacrest with you, Sissy Tony. I saw this circulating in

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Speaker 1: the in the news, this story about couples and more

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Speaker 1: and more couples having successful relationships by not sleeping in

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Speaker 1: the same bed, whether you're married or in a long

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Speaker 1: term relationship. In general, is the future of sleeping together

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Speaker 1: a thing of the past because the trend now is

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Speaker 1: with millennials and gen z is that one third of

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Speaker 1: American couples prefer sleeping alone. I gotta tell you, I

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Speaker 1: are you one of those thirds? Are you asking me?

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Speaker 1: I feel like, do you you might feel like you

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Speaker 1: might prefer Do you prefer sleeping alone or sharing a bed?

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Speaker 1: So it's funny you asked me that. Ha ha ha ha.

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Speaker 1: I actually don't love to sleep alone, but I cannot

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Speaker 1: touch anyone like and a matter of fact, I don't

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Speaker 1: want to be alone, but be as far away as possible.

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Speaker 1: I'm so right even when my kids come in the bed,

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Speaker 1: Like I love that they come in and I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 1: but then I'm like, like I love you, but like

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Speaker 1: then they're like on me and breathe on me. No,

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Speaker 1: I feel your body heat. No, I can't sleep energy

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Speaker 1: and energy body energy keeps me away. Well, this is

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Speaker 1: like a whole thing, Ryan, So insufficient sleep is a

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Speaker 1: growing public health problem. Everyone always tells us like your

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Speaker 1: health issues are related to how much sleep you get.

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Speaker 1: Everything goes back to like you need sleep to function

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Speaker 1: all you know, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera. So it makes you moody,

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Speaker 1: it makes you miserable, and it could ultimately be the

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Speaker 1: reason why your relationship ends. So a lot of people

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Speaker 1: are saying it may be the best thing to sleep separately.

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Speaker 1: Here's what I think about this, And there's no wronger right,

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Speaker 1: because whatever works, she works. If you're good in your relationship,

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Speaker 1: then sleeping in another bed is not a problem if

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Speaker 1: you're good, Like, if you got a solid relation of

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Speaker 1: going too the other room no issue. If you don't

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Speaker 1: have a solid relationship, going into the other room is

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Speaker 1: probably gonna have to be a different room. What if

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Speaker 1: you got to twin beds and sacked them next to

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Speaker 1: each other that way you're still like sleeping together. But

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Speaker 1: like Lucy and Ricky Ricardo, yeah, if they do like it,

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Speaker 1: I like it. Well. Some of the issues they do

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Speaker 1: say is snoring, so that might not solve that issue.

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Speaker 1: And like the idea with hearing because because you might

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Speaker 1: still hear the snory and you're like, you're they're in there,

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Speaker 1: they're in there. In case, yeah, Like I like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Michael and I got a hotel room once with two

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Speaker 1: beds just by accident. I think we were in Japan

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Speaker 1: and kind of loved it right, and came with two

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Speaker 1: beds and we slept in the two beds that whole

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Speaker 1: like that trip up the hotel booking and I was like,

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Speaker 1: it was nice in a room with two Yeah, it

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Speaker 1: was like two two doubles and I'm like, my bad,

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Speaker 1: I didn't mean to, but yeah, but it's sound like

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Speaker 1: two nights, but it's kind of fun. You can lay

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Speaker 1: together in one to watch TV and then spread out.

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Speaker 1: It was fine. Maybe I'll do that one day. It

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Speaker 1: was fine. So they say some of the reasons why

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Speaker 1: you should do it opposite schedules temperature issues as well.

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Speaker 1: Optimal temperature for sleeping is around sixties to sixties seven degrees,

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Speaker 1: which never happens in my family, and I love it.

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Speaker 1: I wish I am jealous of that temperature, like seventy two.

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Speaker 1: I know, I know, so I know. The main question

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Speaker 1: that a lot of people have too is what about intimacy?

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Speaker 1: How do you Is there an issue there? Experts say

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Speaker 1: that will probably actually improve, And the reason that it's

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Speaker 1: going to improve is that kind of in a weird way, Ryan,

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Speaker 1: you're right, your room or mine. So if you are

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Speaker 1: well rested, think about it. When you're not rested, you're

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Speaker 1: moody and you kind of don't want to do it,

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Speaker 1: But when you're well rested, you actually want to do

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Speaker 1: it more often. It doesn't really have much to do

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Speaker 1: with the rest. For women, it is. Yeah, I can't

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Speaker 1: I can't hate on this, And I really think the

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Speaker 1: idea of the two double beds one day, it's kind

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Speaker 1: a gene. I think, so Tuesday, if I can have

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Speaker 1: the space, I'd be down for that. Right well, I'm

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Speaker 1: thinking when you travel book two doubles because hord or

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Speaker 1: more years. Yeah, listen, I can you can you close

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Speaker 1: your if you're driving? No, but you guys can close

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Speaker 1: your eyes? Your eyes want you to want you see? Uh?

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Speaker 1: Cold play? Okay? Picture what is Chris Martin wearing? And

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Speaker 1: and a T shirt and T shirt, white T shirt,

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Speaker 1: cargo pants right, no shoes? Rose Bowl September. He set

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Speaker 1: like things on his microphone. Did I tell you I

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Speaker 1: saw him at at the Essenal after party? Sorry? Okay,

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Speaker 1: now you can tell me I saw Chris Martin after party.

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Speaker 1: It's hard to talk with your eyes closed. Its actually,

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Speaker 1: I know it's weird and I want to listen to

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Speaker 1: them open up, open them up. Anyway. That was fun

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Speaker 1: Um rose Bolt September turning October. You can be there.

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Speaker 1: Called him one two, I've taken three to go and

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Speaker 1: see Coldplay at the rose Bolt DJ Triple Exels next