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Speaker 1: Ready, Colo Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. Yes, all right,

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Speaker 1: Lena in Pittsburgh right writes, I was at the gym

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Speaker 1: with my husband and a man started talking to me.

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Speaker 1: He didn't seem bothered when I told him my husband

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Speaker 1: was in the gym somewhere, probably watching us. Why are

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Speaker 1: men so bold?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 1: Should I have told my husband about this?

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Speaker 3: Well? Sometimes when if you handled it the right way

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Speaker 3: like you did, you told him your husband was in

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Speaker 3: the gym, and he continued to talk to you. When

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Speaker 3: you say, why are men so about? Should I have

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Speaker 3: told my husband now? Most grown women will tell you

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Speaker 3: if they handled it, they'll just leave it there because

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Speaker 3: they know. Now if I go over here and get

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Speaker 3: my husband, this could turn into something totally different. Yes,

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Speaker 3: now my husband is arrested, maybe in some type of altercation, hurt,

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Speaker 3: anything like that. So you know your husband. Most women

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Speaker 3: know that, hub, you know what you should tell him

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Speaker 3: or not, because you know what his reaction gonna be. Now,

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Speaker 3: if his reaction is gonna be go down there and whoop,

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Speaker 3: somebody might not want to tell him that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, man was talking to you because he liked what

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Speaker 2: he sees. You told him.

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Speaker 3: Your husband was probably in the gym watching us. He

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Speaker 3: kept on talking. Wow, that was going to get your

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Speaker 3: husband could result in something kind of crazy.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, thank you, Clo. Moving on to Julia

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Speaker 1: and New Orleans, Julia writes, I'm getting a divorce and

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Speaker 1: my wife asked if we can have sex just a

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Speaker 1: few more times. We've had more sex during our divorce

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Speaker 1: than we had during our marriage. We never talk about

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Speaker 1: what we're doing, we just do it. Is it best

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Speaker 1: to cut things off with her?

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Speaker 3: What's going on?

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Speaker 1: Together?

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Speaker 4: Not together?

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Speaker 2: Hey? Dog? Is this a complaint?

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Speaker 1: I know what. I'm trying to figure it out too.

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Speaker 2: He's up, you know, I don't. I don't know, man,

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't, bru.

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Speaker 3: Is she trying to get back with you? Is that

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Speaker 3: what it is? It's been a change of hardest what

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Speaker 3: I don't know, y'all playing a game? Enjoy yourself, man,

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Speaker 3: Next question shall Shanti?

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Shanti and Chante and Pine Bluff, Chante writes,

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Speaker 1: I had a rendezvous with an older man, and I

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Speaker 1: found out later that he works with my uncle. I

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Speaker 1: tell my uncle about it because I'm thirty seven years

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Speaker 1: old and grown at least I thought I was until

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Speaker 1: he told my parents. Do I have to explain my

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Speaker 1: sex life to my family? Going?

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Speaker 2: Why did you tell your uncle?

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Speaker 1: I know? Because they work together, that's why. That's the

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Speaker 1: only reason. Yeah, and Ley said, she's thirty seven and grown.

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Speaker 4: Wait you know how many?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 4: What? What are you about to.

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Speaker 1: Say for this Scenarioio?

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Speaker 3: What what I thought would be a good idea?

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Speaker 2: Idea to draw or coming? Oh? We don't just make period?

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Speaker 2: Yeah I don't know you. Yeah, No, we're not finna

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Speaker 2: do that.

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Speaker 4: No, that's the uncle's job. We try down there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah so yeah, wow, so don't explain. Stop explaining since

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Speaker 1: you're so grown and everything.

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Speaker 4: Stop. Yeah, you.

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Speaker 2: Ain't got to tell nobody all that stuff.

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Speaker 4: What are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: You know it don't make no sense.

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Speaker 1: Okay, moving on last one. Yeah, your uncle probably didn't

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Speaker 1: want to know. Last one. This is from Pierre in

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Speaker 1: t Neck. Pierre writes, I was out with my girlfriend

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Speaker 1: and my card was declined. I was so was Shane

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Speaker 1: when she said she had to when she had to

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Speaker 1: pay for dinner. Even though I gave her the money

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Speaker 1: back and explained what happened, she still won't go out

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Speaker 1: with me again. Oh do I keep trying or do

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Speaker 1: I give up.

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Speaker 3: His card was declined? Uh huh, Yeah, depend on how

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Speaker 3: much it was though, that's.

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Speaker 4: The whole dinner for two hundred and something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she had to pay for dinner, but he ended

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Speaker 1: up paying her back. Hid explain what happened to her,

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Speaker 1: but she still won't go out with him again.

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Speaker 4: I didn't. I didn't have mine decline with my wife,

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Speaker 4: and she didn't to pay the bill. I missed that.

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Speaker 4: We didn't stay there right there together. She didn't got

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Speaker 4: that decline. I forgot all the time.

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Speaker 3: I don't even know. I got so many hacks on

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Speaker 3: my car. I'll tell you what. I can't stay. If

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Speaker 3: I'm buying something with credit card and they asked me

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Speaker 3: for a pin, I'll be looking at them people so

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Speaker 3: crazy opinion.

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Speaker 2: I asked this one lady, I said, what is that?

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Speaker 3: She said, sir, your pin to to complete the transaction.

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Speaker 2: I said, what, So?

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Speaker 4: What did you end up doing?

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Speaker 1: What happened?

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Speaker 2: I just give it something else? Another card?

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Speaker 4: You got backup card?

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Speaker 1: Another man? Yeah, right right.

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Speaker 2: I know something in here. Ain't got no pain on it.

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Speaker 2: Not here.

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Speaker 3: You asked me for a p in man, I'm just

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Speaker 3: as lost, I mean clueless, I'll tell you something. I

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Speaker 3: just I just found out how to do what because

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Speaker 3: my son they think I'm old. You know, you carry cash, Dad,

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Speaker 3: Stop carrying cash. Cash is king. Their credit card can

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Speaker 3: be put on your phone. In your phone, you can

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Speaker 3: hold it over this thing and it goes broke and

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Speaker 3: then check mark come up and you can leave.

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Speaker 4: Yeah we know that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah we are.

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Speaker 4: Any other technology news.

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Speaker 2: That's twenty twenty six.

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Speaker 4: Did you put your card on? You do it?

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Speaker 1: That's what you do now.

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Speaker 3: Well, my son was helping me to He found out

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Speaker 3: how many cars I had. He said, I don't know, man,

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Speaker 3: that was that was pretty cool for me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you enjoyed that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so one of those she won't She won't go

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Speaker 1: out with him. So should he keep trying or just

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Speaker 1: give up on her and move on?

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Speaker 3: No, man, just let it go, bro She she ain't

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Speaker 3: the person, you know. I mean, if you can't be

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Speaker 3: understanding that something happened or transaction didn't going, but the

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Speaker 3: man paid you back.

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Speaker 2: Mm Hm're gonna go out with you?

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Speaker 4: She was emburssed too, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah it must have been anno.

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Speaker 2: Because that ain't the first time something gonna go wrong. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but you got no lationship and a person. As soon

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Speaker 2: as something goes wrong, they jump ship. Yeah you know, yeah,

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Speaker 2: all right.

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