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Speaker 1: Good Steve Hartley, I don't joy. You gotta turn out

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Speaker 1: come on your thing, huh, I share will Good morning

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Speaker 1: everybody you are listening to the voice, Come on dig

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Speaker 1: me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a radio

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Speaker 1: show you know today I was thinking of what I

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Speaker 1: would say today and it just dawned on me this way,

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Speaker 1: and I just want to share this with everybody listening.

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Speaker 1: You've got to get some help to make it through life.

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Speaker 1: I cannot imagine where I would be if it was

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Speaker 1: not for the help of my God, if it wasn't

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Speaker 1: for his grace and mercy, if I did not have

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Speaker 1: the ability to lean on him and all the times

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Speaker 1: I've had to lean on him, which has become a

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Speaker 1: but clearly I know for a matter of fact, I

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Speaker 1: would not be here today. You have got to get

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Speaker 1: some help to get through this thing called life. I

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Speaker 1: am begging you to look into it. Man, you've got

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Speaker 1: to form a relationship with God. Without a relationship with God,

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Speaker 1: this thing called life is daunting at times. I don't

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Speaker 1: care who you are. I know I'm speaking the truth

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Speaker 1: It does not matter if you don't get a real

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Speaker 1: relationship going on with God. I don't see how you

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Speaker 1: can make it. So many people are faking and fronting

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Speaker 1: don't know, And you really don't know how many people

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Speaker 1: that you think in your neighborhood had it going on

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Speaker 1: and you only find out that a foreclosed your side

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Speaker 1: on their house too. See, you don't know. The mask

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Speaker 1: that you think got it going on? Who might be

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Speaker 1: You may be outwardly people hating on you, talking about you,

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Speaker 1: if you have a relationship with God, it don't matter

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Speaker 1: because you can be all right. I've seen it get

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Speaker 1: It gives you the confidence to note that the things

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Speaker 1: I just would like to live a longer, more prosperous life,

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Speaker 1: And that's what you got to understand about trying to

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Speaker 1: and yeah, it seemed like it's a longer way, and

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Speaker 1: Ain't nobody ever gone way? Hold a partner, you really

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Speaker 1: That's what you keep getting mixed up. You keep thinking

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Speaker 1: you just got to stay patient. The road to success

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Speaker 1: of you, everybody that has some setbacks in life. But

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Speaker 1: What that got to do with you? Everybody, everybody that's

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Speaker 1: He gonna get you back where you gotta be. But

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Speaker 1: try that today. You're listening SA Morning Show, ladies and gentlemen,

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Speaker 1: let's get it all. It's the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Hey man, let me tell y'all something I cannot tell

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Speaker 1: you how twenty twenty two is going for me simply

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Speaker 1: by waking up every single morning with nothing to start

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Speaker 1: don't look at my email. I don't. I don't kennerbuddy,

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Speaker 1: don't even if you know me, you know how to

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Speaker 1: email me anyway. I don't do none of that. Look, man,

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Speaker 1: I wake up and just start thanking him and I

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Speaker 1: got to worrybody getting redundant because it's the same grateful

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Speaker 1: things to be grateful for. It's just a new way

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Speaker 1: What that's a big gift, man, you are to thank you.

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to tell you, welcome to twenty twenty two.

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Speaker 1: Make your twenty twenty two go a lot better with

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Speaker 1: starting off each morning with gratitude. Now, Junior, what's on

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Speaker 1: your mind? Uncle LEVI ask you so, and you know,

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Speaker 1: just talking to you is always fun. I just got

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Speaker 1: the question. I just want to know this because I

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Speaker 1: know I got messed up, but up. How many whoppers

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Speaker 1: you think you got behind line? How many whippings I

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Speaker 1: got from my parents for lying? Yeah, Mike, you're like, well,

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Speaker 1: because anytime I was gone, if I thought I was

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Speaker 1: I knew why you called me in and I heard

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Speaker 1: the accusation. But if you if you're talking to me,

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Speaker 1: and if your conversation has the tone that this could

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Speaker 1: this point because obviously you bought me in here for

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Speaker 1: you didn't see them street lights? Come on, boy, didn't

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Speaker 1: I tell you to go out. Not to go out

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Speaker 1: on them steps? Boy? Did you throw that rock through

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Speaker 1: that wonder? Boy? Didn't I tell you not to climb

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Speaker 1: out to play? Boy? Didn't I tell you not to

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Speaker 1: throw that football over that by Miss Johnson's house? No more?

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Speaker 1: All lease, all these once you brought me in and

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Speaker 1: had a tone of accusation to it. Nah, I got

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Speaker 1: to lie. I got to lie because I already know

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Speaker 1: already no. And so now my parents, being the brilliant

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Speaker 1: know if you could see this on zoom, but like

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Speaker 1: this is how I would start all my lives. Boy,

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Speaker 1: didn't I tell you not to throw that football by

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Speaker 1: Miss Johnson's house? I got to look off because I

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Speaker 1: is for quitters. Wait, man, this dude right here, he'd

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Speaker 1: have propped himself up to the point where you tried

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Speaker 1: as for quitters. Okay, that's wrong. For drink no, hele No,

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Speaker 1: you had two glasses of wine but he couldn't handle

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Speaker 1: it and he's judged. Yeah, I think I think you do.

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Speaker 1: I think this should be your last date with the

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Speaker 1: blind date. Dude, this ain't gonna work out. It ain't

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Speaker 1: for you, all right. Teresia and Um Jacksonville says, I'm

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Speaker 1: a thirty year old single mother and I'm in a

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Speaker 1: financial bond. My child's dad hasn't paid child support in

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Speaker 1: a year because he's unemployed. His wife makes good money,

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Speaker 1: so I told him to ask her for the money.

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Speaker 1: She called me and cursed me out. If they're married,

436
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Speaker 1: shouldn't she want to help support his child. Nope, not

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Speaker 1: at all, that's what you think. And legally it can't

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Speaker 1: even it can't even happen. Legally, it's not her responsibility

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Speaker 1: at all. It's his responsibility. He made that child. You

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Speaker 1: call it, lady again, you're gonna get cussed out again

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Speaker 1: and hard and next time. And legally, there's nothing you

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Speaker 1: should do. And I don't know how you even thought

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Speaker 1: you can't get support from this woman. Are you nuts?

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00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 1: You got to talk to this guy that's on him? No? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, thank you. Cielo. Coming up at the top

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Speaker 1: of the hour, we'll have some entertainment news for you

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show. Well,

448
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Speaker 1: we want to remember beautiful Chesley christ former Miss USA,

449
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Speaker 1: who passed away on Sunday morning after jumping from a

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Speaker 1: building in Manhattan. Now, according to the NYPD, Chris, who

451
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Speaker 1: is a native of North Carolina, was thirty years old

452
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Speaker 1: and was crowned Miss USA back in twenty nineteen. She

453
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Speaker 1: worked as an attorney seeking reform of America's justice system,

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Speaker 1: and she was licensed to practice law in two states.

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Speaker 1: Chris also worked yeah as a correspondent for Extra tv

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Speaker 1: um and before her death. On Sunday, she posted an

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Speaker 1: Instagram picture of herself with the caption made this day

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Speaker 1: bring you rest and peace. Um Steve, I know you

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Speaker 1: didn't know her well, but you did get a chance

460
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Speaker 1: to work together work with her at the Miss Universe

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00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 1: pageant back in December. Yeah, we just did it. She

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Speaker 1: was the correspondent alongside Kelsey. Uh yeah, Chris um No grandma,

463
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Speaker 1: what's his name? I liked the guy too, Elsey Grammar,

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00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:38,920
Speaker 1: no Nost Carson Crestle, Carsley Carson Crestley. They were side

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Speaker 1: by side, so all my tosses went to them, and

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Speaker 1: you know, we stood on stage and did the final

467
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Speaker 1: goodbyes together, and after the show, you know, we were

468
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Speaker 1: talking with her and her mother because her mom is

469
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Speaker 1: in the forty fifties gorgeous woman, and were standing next

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Speaker 1: to her and Margie was hugged and talking about hanging

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Speaker 1: that sish. You know, we're in these fifties, we gotta

472
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Speaker 1: looking good. We's laughing. So Laurie was standing there talking

473
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Speaker 1: to it, taking pictures with it. You know, gorgeous girls

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Speaker 1: that's just all be cheerful. You just never never know.

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Speaker 1: And that's why, man, it's so important. Man when you

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Speaker 1: call and checking people and you say how you doing,

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Speaker 1: really find out how they're doing, you know, go deeper

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Speaker 1: than don't. Don't just make it a superficial cart how

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Speaker 1: you doing? Man, I'm hanging in there. Man, Hold up, dog?

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Speaker 1: Oh what you mean you're hanging in there? What's what's

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Speaker 1: happening with you? Oh? You know, got a couple of things?

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Speaker 1: What you got, man, let's talk about it, you know,

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Speaker 1: because if you're friends with somebody, didn't be their friend.

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Speaker 1: I'm not blaming anybody for this because you don't know.

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Speaker 1: But I'm just suggesting to people that maybe when we

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Speaker 1: talk to our people, our loved ones and people we

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Speaker 1: care about, the next time we ask them how they're

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Speaker 1: doing and they say, I'm all right, you know, probe

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Speaker 1: a little bit, pro probe a little bit. You know.

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Speaker 1: When she calls, she's not doesn't sound quite right. My

491
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 1: question to her is, okay, how are you sounding right now? Though?

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00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,040
Speaker 1: You know, and then she'll just break it down well

493
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah blah, because she'll call all chipper

494
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Speaker 1: and everything. But then I'm like, but how are you sound?

495
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,920
Speaker 1: What is that in your voice? I here? You know, yeah,

496
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Speaker 1: so yeah, it's important, and you know it's important especially

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Speaker 1: for men too, because men we don't like you know,

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Speaker 1: like I mean, I'm a I'm in a text group

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Speaker 1: with thirteen brothers. We all went to school together, man,

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Speaker 1: and we all we always stayed close. And you know, man,

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00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:42,760
Speaker 1: we check up on each other, like we know, some

502
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Speaker 1: of us are closer with the other ones than the

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Speaker 1: other ones. And some of us like, you know, boo

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Speaker 1: boo boo boo boom. So like I hear something somebody saying,

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Speaker 1: I go, hey, man, I text the other dude. Separate man,

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Speaker 1: check on kid, See how kid doing. Hey Man, call

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Speaker 1: walt Man. Makes your walk good? Hey walt Man? Call Space.

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Speaker 1: He what was happening? Because sound like he loved and

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Speaker 1: you know, and we do all that. You know, we

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Speaker 1: have a health seminars. We get on the A zoom

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Speaker 1: call man. We have like health meetings, you know, the

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Speaker 1: twelve of us, just to talk about health issues and

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Speaker 1: stuff because all of us in our sixties. Man, Like

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Speaker 1: I'm the I'm the youngest dude in the group. I'm

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Speaker 1: the youngest one in the group. Now I turned sixty

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Speaker 1: five after all of them. I'm I'm the youngest one

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Speaker 1: in the group. That's crazy, man. And you know, we

518
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Speaker 1: gotta check on cats, man. And I'm not I'm not

519
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Speaker 1: saying that would end it, but if you gotta, you

520
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 1: gotta check on them, man, just check on them. Yeah,

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00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 1: that was such a sad story, man, because you know,

522
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Speaker 1: you look at people and you think, wow, what could

523
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 1: be wrong because they're gorgeous or something like that. That's

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00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 1: not nothing to do with it. Man, that's sad, but

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00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 1: it's nothing to do it. I wish that was it.

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00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,720
Speaker 1: I wish you know what, I've seen very very wealthy

527
00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 1: people commit suicide. You think, man, money, money, money fix everything.

528
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 1: No it don't. It don't. And so sad, sad story.

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Speaker 1: You know, people are have been calling me to get

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Speaker 1: my thoughts and comments on it, but I just said,

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Speaker 1: you know, I give my thoughts and comments on my

532
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Speaker 1: radio show, and I don't like trying to be the

533
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Speaker 1: first one when something tragic strikes, you know. And you know,

534
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 1: they got pictures of me at her own stage, and

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Speaker 1: they wanted to A guy called me, wanted to do

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Speaker 1: an interview and all like that. Oh, man, this is

537
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:37,640
Speaker 1: this just happened. She got a mother, their family got

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Speaker 1: to deal with some stuff. I'm not fit to be

539
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 1: the spokesperson jump out front like I got the yeah, yeah,

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00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 1: I asked Steve Dog just ain't just ain't asked Steve

541
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Speaker 1: or the Judge show. Yeah, this is different, and so

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00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 1: just pray for the go ahead. Tell me what makes that?

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00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 1: What is it inside that makes you snapping it? Just

544
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 1: just end it all. I'm just I don't I don't

545
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:09,720
Speaker 1: know the answer to happen. I don't know the answer,

546
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:16,360
Speaker 1: but I just pray. You've got to remember that the

547
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 1: devil has one mission that's to rob you of your destiny.

548
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:24,359
Speaker 1: And he's a con artist. And if he can get

549
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:29,800
Speaker 1: you to think that it is hopeless that you have

550
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 1: to escape. If you if the devil can get in there,

551
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 1: man and plant that seed and let it take root,

552
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 1: you you have a problem. You have a problem. I

553
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:44,640
Speaker 1: just prayed that other people in my life find that

554
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:48,359
Speaker 1: the strength to just always know that this too shall

555
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 1: pass and to get some help. And therapy is real, man,

556
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:58,000
Speaker 1: And therapy is really really real. It works for a

557
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 1: lot of people. Seriously, all right, all right, coming up

558
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 1: at twenty minutes, after the hour, We'll have more of

559
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening

560
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 1: to show. Well, it appears that Nick Cannon is expecting

561
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Speaker 1: his eighth child, and it's a boy. Nick hosted a

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00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:24,399
Speaker 1: gender revealed party with mommy to be Bree Teazy, who

563
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 1: just happens, just so happens to be Johnny Mansell's ex wife.

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Speaker 1: The gender revealed party took place in Malibu, Mai j Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Football player. Um, that's that's the only one I know. Yeah,

566
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Speaker 1: this is her first child. It will be Nick's eighth child.

567
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:48,480
Speaker 1: Took place in Malibu this past Saturday. Nick has ten

568
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:52,799
Speaker 1: year old twins with Mariah Carey uh Um. Their names

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Speaker 1: are Monroe and Moroccan. He has a four year old son, Golden,

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Speaker 1: and a one year old daughter called Powerful Queen with

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Speaker 1: another ex. He also welcomed six month old twins, Zion

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Speaker 1: and Villier with another woman, Abbie d l Rosa. That

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00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 1: was back in June of last year. And remember in

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Speaker 1: last December he lost his seven child then to brain cancer.

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Speaker 1: So he's expecting child number eight. I got three kids.

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00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:27,040
Speaker 1: That's enough for me. Nick listening, just call me because

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00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:30,279
Speaker 1: I want to know what you use it. Well, let

578
00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:31,920
Speaker 1: me let me let me give you some help when

579
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 1: you get this advice whatever whatever he wants to share

580
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:36,840
Speaker 1: with you, that's on him. Let me talk to you

581
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:39,719
Speaker 1: about last week. Yeah, I was just on this show.

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00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 1: We had a good time. Let me just say this

583
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 1: to you, Janie. There is something to call child support. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and you're not gonna believe a chunk some money the

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Speaker 1: FINNI me clipping off your ass. Do you think you

586
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 1: think you was mad at your family members? Boy? When

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00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 1: the well, let me tell you something. You who but eight?

588
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 1: If I did you even think about that? H Oh

589
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 1: you need to get some thinking. Oh you show me

590
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:17,320
Speaker 1: to get the thinking. I don't know how you didn't.

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00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:22,040
Speaker 1: I just want to know. Oh my god, stupid, I

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00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 1: stupid for real even think about child Oh you can

593
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Speaker 1: get all these women, you have, all the babies you want.

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00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:29,279
Speaker 1: Oh you can't get some chicks. You ain't even got

595
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 1: to have a good line, Junior. Just go down there

596
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 1: and tell just oh brother, I can get you start

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00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 1: if it's someone's fact what you want. The ain't I

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00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 1: talk to Nick. I'm right here. I can get you

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00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,239
Speaker 1: started if that's what you want. But let me tell

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00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 1: you what come with it. I messed around. I got

601
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 1: seven kids. All my seven kids was out of marriage.

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00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:57,399
Speaker 1: I've been marriage since I was twenty four years old.

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00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 1: I've never had a child out of where. Luck. All

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00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 1: the kids I had was due to marriage. Yeah, and

605
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:16,439
Speaker 1: I didn't have none of my kid's own purpose, not one. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: All right, So congratulations once again to Nick Cannon. Coming

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Speaker 1: up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: talk about holding grudges and letting stuff go. We'll be

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00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:32,360
Speaker 1: back right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. Here's a question, how long does it take

611
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Speaker 1: you to get over a disagreement? For example, there was

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00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:43,959
Speaker 1: the notorious twenty eighteen clash between Cardi B and Nicki

613
00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:47,000
Speaker 1: Minaj that ended in a tussle. We all remember this,

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Speaker 1: a tussle at the New York Fashion Week party and

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00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:53,160
Speaker 1: Cardie threw her shoe at Nikki. One month later, the

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00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 1: ladies called a truce on social media. When Nikki tweeted

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Speaker 1: let's focus on positive things only from here on out,

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00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 1: Cardie responded on Instagram with the caption, all right, then

619
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 1: let's keep it positive and keep it pushing. So here's

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Speaker 1: the question. Do any of you have a problem admitting

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Speaker 1: you're wrong or calling a truth? Or do you hold

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00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:15,359
Speaker 1: a grudge for a grudge forever? I think we all

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Speaker 1: know who you who you want to address this to? Share?

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00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:22,959
Speaker 1: Who should answer this? Who? Who should? Okay, cool question,

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00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:25,799
Speaker 1: I'm stam A step to the side. Do you get

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Speaker 1: out to way? Yeah? We know what you this thing on? Tommy?

627
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:37,879
Speaker 1: See right there? Do you have a problem admitting you're

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Speaker 1: wrong or calling a truth? And do you I'm wrong?

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Speaker 1: I got no problems admitting if I'm wrong at all? Wrong?

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Speaker 1: What about? Hold on? Hold on, hold on, You're not

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Speaker 1: saying wrong. If I'm wrong, I ain't right right right right, right,

632
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:57,880
Speaker 1: right right, that's not this problem. Uh, it's we gotta

633
00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 1: get him round to the I'm wrong. But now when

634
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:07,919
Speaker 1: you're right, though, Tommy, when you're right, and I've seen

635
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:12,920
Speaker 1: you right on several occasions, now post the question to

636
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 1: him now when he's right? Sure? How long do you

637
00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:21,399
Speaker 1: hold a grudge? Do you hold a grudge forever? Oh? Huh?

638
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:36,799
Speaker 1: I like that? Right there? I like that right there?

639
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:41,800
Speaker 1: Are you wor mad at someone? Right now? And for

640
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 1: how long have you been mad? I ain't mad? Nobody

641
00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 1: I ain't mad at Nobodge whatever, but I will get

642
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 1: you up out my life though I would do that.

643
00:40:55,960 --> 00:41:01,800
Speaker 1: I will get you of my life. Well, can I

644
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 1: say this about it? I'm not really mad at anybody

645
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 1: right now in my life. But I'll tell you right

646
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:15,480
Speaker 1: now it's three. People can't walk up on me, and

647
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:19,279
Speaker 1: the conversation can't be number Hello, master, how are you

648
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:23,399
Speaker 1: anything else? It's that would they would have to open

649
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 1: a conversation with hello, master, how are you? And seeing us? How? No,

650
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:30,360
Speaker 1: they ain't going to open it with that. It's only

651
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:36,840
Speaker 1: cracking sight. Yeah, a doc you ain't got. But one

652
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:40,359
Speaker 1: more wrong thing to say to me about me? There

653
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 1: are three people in this world? Four four four four,

654
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:52,800
Speaker 1: it's four. I just said, so tell me you're not

655
00:41:52,920 --> 00:42:02,320
Speaker 1: mad at anyone Mudge right now? Ye name, I just

656
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 1: quit fooling with people. That's a that's a name. Just

657
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:09,799
Speaker 1: just quick fooling. Yeah, just be to him when you're seing.

658
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:14,839
Speaker 1: We just quick fooling work. What about just one person?

659
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:16,719
Speaker 1: I'm looking for a life and I know when I

660
00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:18,799
Speaker 1: see him what's gonna happen. But his name is called

661
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:25,319
Speaker 1: When I see him, tell you right now, I see call. Yeah,

662
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:27,560
Speaker 1: I don't care if he didn't know, because he knew.

663
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:29,400
Speaker 1: He told me I wasn't gonna be nothing anyway. But

664
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:31,800
Speaker 1: when I see calling, I'm telling you right there he

665
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:35,960
Speaker 1: snagger tooth. Now I'm gonna wide that gap. Ye just

666
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 1: want him to know, Car, I said your name. Everybody

667
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 1: know I'm looking for you. When I see you called,

668
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 1: I'm standing right now. You're missing the two front but

669
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:46,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take them insides out too. Now they' know

670
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:48,919
Speaker 1: exactly who you're talking about, because even if they didn't

671
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 1: know his name, they know, they know, they know. Wait

672
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 1: till I see Car, and you know I'm just telling you.

673
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:58,719
Speaker 1: From the Steve Harvey Mortin Show, I know I'm looking

674
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,920
Speaker 1: for your I see you're the only one I got

675
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:04,759
Speaker 1: a problem with. Well, I showed mister days of not

676
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:12,600
Speaker 1: having nothing to lose many social media man, Yeah, all right,

677
00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:17,440
Speaker 1: I got nothing now. Hey, coming up next, and is

678
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 1: the nephew who is the kindler gentler nephew? Now with

679
00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:24,240
Speaker 1: the prank phone call right after this? All right, Frank,

680
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:31,400
Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up

681
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:34,360
Speaker 1: about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today.

682
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 1: The subject is how far is too far with my man.

683
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:42,640
Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into that in just a bit,

684
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 1: because right now the nephew is here with today's prank

685
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 1: phone call. What you got for us? Now, well, let's

686
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 1: see how far I can go. Oh, we know, exotic delivery.

687
00:43:56,400 --> 00:44:01,640
Speaker 1: Exotic delivery, all right, cat dog, Let's see how far

688
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:07,680
Speaker 1: the nephew can go if you would. Hello, Hello, I

689
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:12,440
Speaker 1: am trying to reach adriaan Adria and yeah, this is

690
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 1: this is he How can I help you? How you doing?

691
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:17,360
Speaker 1: My name is? My name is was Shot. I'm with GPT,

692
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:21,320
Speaker 1: and we have a delivery for you. I'm gonna be

693
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:24,719
Speaker 1: arriving probably in the next I guess about the next

694
00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:28,400
Speaker 1: ninety minutes. Are you Are you actually at the house, sir? Um? No,

695
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 1: I'm not at home right now, but I mean you

696
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 1: can just go ahead and leave whatever it is my

697
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:35,239
Speaker 1: my wife and you know kids can probably get it

698
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,440
Speaker 1: when I'm home from school, you know. So let me

699
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:39,360
Speaker 1: make sure I got the address right, Are you thirty

700
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 1: eight North River Drive? Yeah? Okay, So is anyone there

701
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:48,799
Speaker 1: right now at all? Uh? No, nobody is home right now.

702
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 1: I don't understand why I can't just just leave the

703
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:53,840
Speaker 1: package there for again. Well, this has to be this

704
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:56,799
Speaker 1: has to be signed. And I have you on here

705
00:44:56,880 --> 00:45:00,120
Speaker 1: as the handler for this delivery, so I definitely I

706
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 1: gotta get quite a few signatures from you. I got

707
00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:05,960
Speaker 1: about five or six pieces of paper sheets that you

708
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:08,000
Speaker 1: need to sign off on. Are you? Are you? What

709
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 1: time did your wife get there? Sir? She'll be the lady.

710
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 1: What do you what do you? What do you mean?

711
00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:14,600
Speaker 1: I'm a handler handling? What? What are you? What are

712
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:19,200
Speaker 1: you delivering? This is GPT, sir, this is Global Pet Transport.

713
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 1: We have two peacocks, we have a seal, and we

714
00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:26,880
Speaker 1: have a baby kangaroo that we're dropping off today. Okay,

715
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 1: there's gotta be some kind of mistake, right, we have

716
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 1: a dog, that's it. We don't we don't. We're not

717
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 1: an animal sanctuary here. I don't. I don't understand what

718
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:38,800
Speaker 1: what you're talking about. We didn't a kangaroo. I feel,

719
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 1: I mean, you're you're you're you're Adrian. It's correct. Yeah

720
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 1: that's my name, man, But okay, and you're thirty eight

721
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:49,760
Speaker 1: North River Drive. Listen, listen. Yes that is accurate. But again,

722
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 1: I'm not a handler. I'm not handling things. Okay, okay, sir,

723
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 1: Let me, let me if there is some confusion. Your

724
00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:01,200
Speaker 1: name is here, your address is here, So I don't

725
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:03,800
Speaker 1: see where I have a problem. Everything I'm asking you,

726
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 1: you're saying it's correct, except now you're saying you don't

727
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:10,879
Speaker 1: want your delivery. It's not my delivery. Man. If that's

728
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 1: what I'm trying to tell you, this is not I

729
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:15,919
Speaker 1: didn't order a kangaroo. I did even order these things. Okay,

730
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:20,239
Speaker 1: a kangaroo, a seal, and two peacocks doesn't make sense, man,

731
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 1: two peacocks? Whose order is this? This is not my order? Man?

732
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:25,879
Speaker 1: You got my name? Okay, So here, okay, so here's

733
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:28,200
Speaker 1: here's what we need to do. Will your wife be here?

734
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:30,680
Speaker 1: Would be at the house within the next ninety minutes?

735
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:34,640
Speaker 1: She she she might be. But you know, what are

736
00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 1: you saying? What I'm gonna do is leave them here,

737
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 1: Leave them at you at your place, and you can

738
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:42,240
Speaker 1: call the company that shipped them and you can figure

739
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:44,320
Speaker 1: out what went wrong or whatnot. But it is my

740
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:47,839
Speaker 1: leave these animals there. What what what is your what's

741
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 1: your name? Brothers? What's your name? Brothers? My name is

742
00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 1: Roshan Rashane. Let me tell you something like now, okay,

743
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:55,919
Speaker 1: you're not about to leave no animals at my house. Okay,

744
00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:58,600
Speaker 1: you're not leaving no peacocks. You're not leaving no kangaroos.

745
00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 1: You're not leaving no see. Okay, we're not having them

746
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 1: in pettant zoo at my house. When I get you.

747
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:08,319
Speaker 1: My house was shot. Ain't no animals gonna be there. Okay, Okay,

748
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 1: you know what? Who gonna figure? Okay, listen, let me

749
00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 1: get my wife on the phone here right, let me

750
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:12,880
Speaker 1: let me call my wife. Hang on, hang on, sir.

751
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:15,759
Speaker 1: I don't listen, sir. I don't have time for you

752
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:17,399
Speaker 1: to reach out to your wife, for you to try

753
00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 1: to figure out what you're gonna do about your kangaroo,

754
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:23,959
Speaker 1: your peacocks, your seal. I don't. I gotta make this drop.

755
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:26,359
Speaker 1: I gotta keep moving. I have other animals on the truck.

756
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 1: I don't give up about your other animals. Okay, I'm

757
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:31,640
Speaker 1: gonna hold my wife. I'm if she bade ordered to

758
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:34,080
Speaker 1: damn cable would see okay, because I know I didn't

759
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 1: order sh all right, we're out, okay, and she's not

760
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 1: gonna sir, listen to me. Listen to me, sir. You

761
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:43,960
Speaker 1: can figure this out when you get home. Right now.

762
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 1: I'm now about an hour out. I'm gonna drop the animals.

763
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 1: Can you give something, sir? If if it's not yours,

764
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:55,920
Speaker 1: somebody will come back tomorrow and pick them up. Do

765
00:47:55,960 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 1: you mean somebody gonna come back and pick them up tomorrow?

766
00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:00,359
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna have the feeling my house not able

767
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 1: you think I am? Huh, I ain't Mary Popper's man.

768
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:05,160
Speaker 1: I ain't out here doing nothing with these animals like this.

769
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:08,799
Speaker 1: You're crazy for shot. Please, it doesn't cont animal at

770
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:11,320
Speaker 1: my house when I arrived. So help me, God, so

771
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:13,279
Speaker 1: so so help you. Goud what you're gonna have it?

772
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:15,640
Speaker 1: The animal's gonna be there when you get there. Man,

773
00:48:15,840 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 1: you're not feeling. You're slowing up my whole delivery route today. Okay.

774
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:22,400
Speaker 1: I ain't got time for this. I ain't got term

775
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:25,680
Speaker 1: of this, man, I'm not. But why you order? Why

776
00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:28,120
Speaker 1: you order of Kangaroo if you don't want it? Now?

777
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:30,759
Speaker 1: If I didn't order them to Kangaroo, that's why I

778
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:33,720
Speaker 1: don't want them to Kangoo, because I didn't order them Kangaroo.

779
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:36,919
Speaker 1: Be telling me what's out worder? What's God want? Okay?

780
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:39,520
Speaker 1: This is the worst customer service in the world. I

781
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 1: don't even a customer of yours. You're trying to tell

782
00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:46,719
Speaker 1: me that I gotta kangaroo a peacocks and peacocks. You

783
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:50,160
Speaker 1: have two peacocks. You have two peacocks, Sir, This doesn't

784
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 1: even make any I'm gonna do with those animals. Animals.

785
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're gonna do with them, But

786
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 1: you're gonna sign. You're gonna sign this paperwork through. That's

787
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: what you're gonna do. You outright if you think I'm

788
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:06,520
Speaker 1: signing that pork animal, man, I don't want to whoop

789
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:08,640
Speaker 1: your ass at your house in front of your wife

790
00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 1: and kids behind some damn animals. I don't, But you're

791
00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 1: gonna sign my paperwork you want. I wish you would

792
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,520
Speaker 1: try to whoop my I must have show my kids

793
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 1: what it looks like to show up. It's poks, real, reckless.

794
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:23,280
Speaker 1: Can you show it up here with a damn caravan

795
00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 1: an animal like I'm in the ridiculous Okay, huh no,

796
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:30,719
Speaker 1: got my face, man, this is ridiculous. It's only one thing.

797
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:33,239
Speaker 1: I really, just only one last thing I need to

798
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:35,120
Speaker 1: tell you, to be honest with you. What is that?

799
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 1: The only thing I can tell you now Adrian, is

800
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:41,239
Speaker 1: that I have nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morty Show.

801
00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:43,759
Speaker 1: Your white bridget got me in the prank phone call you.

802
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:51,520
Speaker 1: Oh man, you gotta be kidding me. Oh man? Who wow?

803
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:56,640
Speaker 1: You don't want the delivery man? You don't want I

804
00:49:56,680 --> 00:50:01,279
Speaker 1: don't want the kangaroo. Man. What are those animals together? Man,

805
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:02,880
Speaker 1: you gotta be high up your mind. One of those

806
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 1: damn animals together? All right? Baby, give it. Tell me

807
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:09,279
Speaker 1: what's the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show

808
00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:12,120
Speaker 1: in the land. Let me hear, Adrian, it's a Steve

809
00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:20,560
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Baby tell me. Oh this was the

810
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:26,799
Speaker 1: part well made me laughs when you turned it and said, Man,

811
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:28,320
Speaker 1: I don't want to have to come over there and

812
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:30,720
Speaker 1: whoop your ass in front of your wife and kids

813
00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 1: about these animals. Man, hold on, wait a minute, hold on,

814
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 1: you're gonna beat my ass and then drop these animals off?

815
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:47,840
Speaker 1: What a giraffe, a seal. I'm gonna show you what.

816
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 1: Somebody to show up at the house. I'm gonna showing

817
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:55,400
Speaker 1: my kids Tommy, a kangaroo, two peacocks, and a seal.

818
00:50:55,760 --> 00:51:02,120
Speaker 1: A man was He had worked trying to talk quiet

819
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 1: because he was kind of cold, nose man, I had

820
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:17,919
Speaker 1: to go outside. Don't none of them go together? Don't

821
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:25,040
Speaker 1: none of them go together? Seal seal, The peacocks is crazy.

822
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:29,759
Speaker 1: I hadn't been around while peacocks befall, But that seal thought, yeah,

823
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:33,360
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, at least they birds, they stay outside,

824
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:36,000
Speaker 1: they'll walk around, they'll try to get you today surround.

825
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:41,400
Speaker 1: It's right quick, But that damn seal though, that's seal rough. Clearly,

826
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:45,359
Speaker 1: I ain't got nothing for him with water. It ain't

827
00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:50,799
Speaker 1: cold out of here? What was happening? Because you heard

828
00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:56,160
Speaker 1: the word exotic and you thought something else. You heard

829
00:51:56,160 --> 00:52:01,640
Speaker 1: the word exotic. February tier eleven, twelve, ten eleven twelve, Huntsville, Alabama,

830
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:04,279
Speaker 1: Stand Up Live Comedy Club. The Nephew is coming to town,

831
00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 1: to Huntsville, Alabama. Take his own sale, rat nass, stupid,

832
00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:14,440
Speaker 1: his own the way, baby baby, All right, all right,

833
00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:17,359
Speaker 1: thanking Nephew. Coming up next Strawberry Letters, subject how far

834
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:19,920
Speaker 1: is too far? With my man? We'll get into it

835
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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, it's time for today's Strawberry Letter. And if

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Speaker 1: you need advice, on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more.

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Speaker 1: Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com

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00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. You never know we could

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Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air, just like

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Speaker 1: we're gonna read this one right here, right now, And

842
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:44,680
Speaker 1: you never know. It could be yours, could be yours.

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00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:47,120
Speaker 1: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.

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00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 1: We got it for you here it is Strawberry letter

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00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:54,200
Speaker 1: subject how far is too Far? With my man? Dear

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00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:57,120
Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. My husband and I have been together for

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00:52:57,239 --> 00:53:00,439
Speaker 1: two years and we've been married for six months. I'm

848
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:02,759
Speaker 1: twenty eight and he's three years younger than I am.

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00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:05,799
Speaker 1: I have a seven year old son from a previous relationship,

850
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 1: and my husband loved him to death. I started having

851
00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:12,000
Speaker 1: sex when I was in middle school, and by the

852
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:14,320
Speaker 1: time I was a senior in high school, I was

853
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:16,839
Speaker 1: running with a crew of girls and working as an

854
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:20,839
Speaker 1: escort for older men's I loved sex and couldn't get

855
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:23,880
Speaker 1: enough of it. I'm way more advanced sexually than my

856
00:53:24,040 --> 00:53:28,320
Speaker 1: husband because of past encounters with older men. After I

857
00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:31,279
Speaker 1: had my son, I stopped partying and tried to make

858
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 1: things work with my son's father. He soon found out

859
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:38,680
Speaker 1: about my reputation and he dumped me. I joined a church,

860
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:41,880
Speaker 1: and I guess you could say I got saved. I

861
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:44,400
Speaker 1: met my new husband at church, and I played the

862
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:47,759
Speaker 1: wholesome role the whole time we dated, and I even

863
00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:51,600
Speaker 1: abstain from having sex with him until we got married.

864
00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:55,920
Speaker 1: My problem is there's no way for me to suppress

865
00:53:56,000 --> 00:54:00,319
Speaker 1: the fire that's deep inside my soul. I loved sex

866
00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:03,680
Speaker 1: and everything about it. I've tried to ease my husband

867
00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:06,800
Speaker 1: into my world gradually, and he says, each time we

868
00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:10,960
Speaker 1: make love, it gets better and better. I was honest

869
00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:14,960
Speaker 1: about my past, well, not totally honest about the number

870
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:17,919
Speaker 1: of men I've been with or about my bad reputation.

871
00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:20,959
Speaker 1: I told him I learned a lot from an older

872
00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 1: man I was dating. He says he loves the kinky

873
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 1: things I do to him, but the other night he

874
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:30,160
Speaker 1: got offended and asked me to stop doing what I

875
00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:33,880
Speaker 1: was doing. This is a problem for me because I

876
00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:37,000
Speaker 1: need him to match my freakiness in the bedroom and

877
00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:40,719
Speaker 1: he's reluctant to go all in with me. How far

878
00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:45,520
Speaker 1: is too far with my new husband? Please advise, Well,

879
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 1: too far with the other person is whatever they say

880
00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:55,279
Speaker 1: is too far. Okay, if your husband is uncomfortable and

881
00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:58,040
Speaker 1: turned off, it's time to stop. I mean, you're too

882
00:54:58,160 --> 00:55:01,480
Speaker 1: much for him right now. And whatever freaky offensive thing

883
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:04,200
Speaker 1: you did for him to him, he is not feeling

884
00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:07,120
Speaker 1: it at all. You don't have to do or you

885
00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:09,360
Speaker 1: don't have to show him everything you've ever done in

886
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:12,080
Speaker 1: the bedroom. We get it. You love sex, we get it,

887
00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:14,920
Speaker 1: we get it. You guys can still have fun enjoy

888
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:17,719
Speaker 1: each other. But you've got so much experience in him,

889
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 1: like you said, so don't expect that he's ever going

890
00:55:21,640 --> 00:55:25,759
Speaker 1: to match your freakiness. That may never happen. I say,

891
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:28,320
Speaker 1: take it slow. You got to really take it slow

892
00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:30,920
Speaker 1: with your husband. I mean, I know you said, you

893
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 1: know every time you guys make love it gets better

894
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:36,600
Speaker 1: and better. But whatever you did he didn't like. He

895
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:40,000
Speaker 1: didn't like that at all. I don't think you need

896
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:42,600
Speaker 1: to do everything or show him everything, or tell him

897
00:55:42,640 --> 00:55:44,840
Speaker 1: how many men you've been within the past and all that.

898
00:55:45,239 --> 00:55:48,440
Speaker 1: You don't have to do that. You have plenty of time.

899
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:50,759
Speaker 1: You know in this marriage. You guys are so young

900
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:55,840
Speaker 1: to swing from the chandeliers later. But stop doing what

901
00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:58,800
Speaker 1: you're doing because because it's turning your man off, and

902
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:02,320
Speaker 1: that's gonna be a problem in your marriage if you don't, Steve,

903
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:08,880
Speaker 1: I don't know how to answer this letter because you

904
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:12,719
Speaker 1: know what she did. I have some questions about what

905
00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:16,279
Speaker 1: she's doing and what she's done, and then I think

906
00:56:16,320 --> 00:56:19,279
Speaker 1: I have a solution. I'm not really sure how to

907
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:24,040
Speaker 1: do this letter. I can't solve your problem. Let me

908
00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:26,600
Speaker 1: just start by telling you that I've read the letter.

909
00:56:26,640 --> 00:56:31,759
Speaker 1: I've heard Sherley's response. I don't really have anything for

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00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:36,000
Speaker 1: you except one thing, and I'll probably wait till the

911
00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:38,160
Speaker 1: second half of this letter to give it to you.

912
00:56:38,239 --> 00:56:41,680
Speaker 1: But just let me tell you something. Your past has

913
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:45,680
Speaker 1: caught up with you. You've been having sex since she

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00:56:45,840 --> 00:56:48,120
Speaker 1: was in middle school. Now you got a three year

915
00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:51,440
Speaker 1: old son by your former guy that you were dating.

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00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:54,560
Speaker 1: When he found out about your past, he dumped you.

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00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 1: You got a seven year old son that you had

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00:56:57,320 --> 00:57:00,640
Speaker 1: from your relationship with a man before. After he found

919
00:57:00,640 --> 00:57:06,480
Speaker 1: out about your reputation and everything, he dumped you. You

920
00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:10,040
Speaker 1: try to make it work, you stop partying and stuff,

921
00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:12,760
Speaker 1: but once he found out about your reputation, he dun't

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00:57:12,840 --> 00:57:15,399
Speaker 1: jump you. Then you joined the church, and I guess

923
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 1: you could say I got saved. Well, see that's a

924
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:21,640
Speaker 1: little shaky thing to say. I guess you could say

925
00:57:21,720 --> 00:57:24,000
Speaker 1: I got saved. No, you have to tell us if

926
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 1: you got saved or not. If you're not saved, there's

927
00:57:26,720 --> 00:57:29,640
Speaker 1: no problem. Most people aren't. That's not a problem. You

928
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:33,440
Speaker 1: can still be okay. But you have to tell us

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00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:35,240
Speaker 1: that and not know. We ain't got to guess you

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00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:38,400
Speaker 1: saved or nothing. Then you met your new husband at church,

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00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:41,080
Speaker 1: and you played the wholesome role the whole time you dated,

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00:57:41,600 --> 00:57:44,160
Speaker 1: and you even sustained from having sex with him until

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00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:46,000
Speaker 1: we got married. I don't know how you marriage you,

934
00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:48,520
Speaker 1: but I don't know what y'all did or something have. Anyway,

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00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 1: my problem is there's no way for me to suppress

936
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:54,120
Speaker 1: the fire that's deep in my soul. I love sex

937
00:57:54,240 --> 00:57:57,640
Speaker 1: and everything about it, you know. And then you said

938
00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:01,240
Speaker 1: I've tried to ease my husband and to my world gradually,

939
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:04,360
Speaker 1: and he says, each time we make love it gets better.

940
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:08,520
Speaker 1: I don't know what to do. It's I think you

941
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:11,439
Speaker 1: got to stop easy him into it. You're just gonna

942
00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:13,160
Speaker 1: have to go for it. But you got a problem

943
00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 1: because you're not You've been honest about your pass but

944
00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:18,840
Speaker 1: not totally honest about the number of me and I've

945
00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:21,680
Speaker 1: been with, or about my bad reputation. I don't think

946
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:23,800
Speaker 1: you need to bring that up. Leave that and you pass,

947
00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:26,280
Speaker 1: young lady. I told him I've learned a lot from

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00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:28,439
Speaker 1: an older man I was dating. He says he loves

949
00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:30,640
Speaker 1: the kinky things I do to him. But the other night,

950
00:58:31,120 --> 00:58:33,400
Speaker 1: here we go with the whole letter, he got offended

951
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:35,800
Speaker 1: and asked me to stop doing what I was doing.

952
00:58:36,320 --> 00:58:38,560
Speaker 1: That's the part of this letter we got to get to.

953
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:41,360
Speaker 1: And this is the problem with me because I need

954
00:58:41,520 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 1: him to match my freakiness in the bad room, and

955
00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:47,720
Speaker 1: he's reluctant to go all in with me. How far

956
00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:50,960
Speaker 1: is too far with my new husband? Please advise when

957
00:58:51,040 --> 00:58:54,560
Speaker 1: I come back well and give you a list of

958
00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:59,080
Speaker 1: things that I think is too far. That's all I

959
00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:01,520
Speaker 1: can help you with. I don't know what you're doing,

960
00:59:01,680 --> 00:59:04,919
Speaker 1: but when we come back, I do know what too

961
00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:08,480
Speaker 1: far is. Yeah, it's whatever you say, it is, all right.

962
00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:10,919
Speaker 1: Part two of Steve's response is coming up to twenty

963
00:59:10,960 --> 00:59:14,320
Speaker 1: three minutes after today's Strawberry letter subject how far is

964
00:59:14,360 --> 00:59:17,280
Speaker 1: too Far? With my man? We'll be back right after this.

965
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:22,040
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve,

966
00:59:22,160 --> 00:59:26,040
Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter. This is a freaky one

967
00:59:26,160 --> 00:59:28,520
Speaker 1: right here. The subject is how far is too far

968
00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:32,840
Speaker 1: with my man? Well, this girl who's twenty eight and

969
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:35,560
Speaker 1: it's got this man that's three years younger. She's got

970
00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:39,000
Speaker 1: a seven year old son from a previous relationship, and

971
00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:44,280
Speaker 1: the husband loves the little boy. She admitted that she

972
00:59:44,400 --> 00:59:47,520
Speaker 1: started having sex when she was in middle school and

973
00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:49,720
Speaker 1: started running with a crew of girls. By the time

974
00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:51,840
Speaker 1: she was in high school, there was an escort for

975
00:59:51,920 --> 00:59:55,000
Speaker 1: older men. She said, I love sex and I couldn't

976
00:59:55,000 --> 00:59:57,600
Speaker 1: get enough of it. I'm way more advanced sexually than

977
00:59:57,720 --> 01:00:02,280
Speaker 1: my husband because of my passing honors with older men. Lord,

978
01:00:02,360 --> 01:00:06,120
Speaker 1: have mercy. This story is getting more troublesome. Then, after

979
01:00:06,160 --> 01:00:08,360
Speaker 1: she had a son, she stopped parting and tried to

980
01:00:08,440 --> 01:00:11,439
Speaker 1: make things work with your son's father. He soon found

981
01:00:11,480 --> 01:00:14,640
Speaker 1: out about your reputation. He cut you loose. So after

982
01:00:14,760 --> 01:00:17,520
Speaker 1: that she joined the church and say she got saved,

983
01:00:17,640 --> 01:00:20,160
Speaker 1: And she met a new husband at the church and

984
01:00:20,680 --> 01:00:23,680
Speaker 1: played the wholesome love roll the whole time. And they

985
01:00:23,800 --> 01:00:27,200
Speaker 1: datedn't even up staying from having sex with him until

986
01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:29,400
Speaker 1: we got married, when you did something to make him

987
01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:31,960
Speaker 1: want to marry you. So probably he didn't go all

988
01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:33,800
Speaker 1: the way, but you can learned enough stuff to where

989
01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:38,040
Speaker 1: he wanted to marry congratulation. The problem is there's no

990
01:00:38,200 --> 01:00:41,080
Speaker 1: way for me to suppress the fire that's deep in

991
01:00:41,240 --> 01:00:46,160
Speaker 1: my soul. This woman loves sex so much, and she's

992
01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:51,280
Speaker 1: tried to ease her husband into my world. Sometimes you

993
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 1: need to leave your worlds behind, but now you want

994
01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:57,600
Speaker 1: to drag him into it. He says. Each time we

995
01:00:57,760 --> 01:00:59,600
Speaker 1: make love, it gets better and better, seeing that you

996
01:00:59,680 --> 01:01:02,360
Speaker 1: didn't need easy him into it now. But then you

997
01:01:02,440 --> 01:01:05,200
Speaker 1: said you're honest about your past, not totally honest with

998
01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:07,320
Speaker 1: the number of men you've been with. Don't ever tell

999
01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:10,320
Speaker 1: him that, and don't tell him about your bad reputation.

1000
01:01:10,440 --> 01:01:13,320
Speaker 1: Don't tell him that. I told him I had learned

1001
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:15,600
Speaker 1: a lot from an older man I was dating. He says,

1002
01:01:15,680 --> 01:01:19,040
Speaker 1: he loves the kinky things I do to him. Here's

1003
01:01:19,080 --> 01:01:23,120
Speaker 1: what this letter is about. But the other night he

1004
01:01:23,320 --> 01:01:26,800
Speaker 1: got offended and asked me to stop doing what I

1005
01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:30,840
Speaker 1: was doing. This is a problem for me because I

1006
01:01:31,040 --> 01:01:36,240
Speaker 1: need him to match my freakiness, which may not be possible.

1007
01:01:37,880 --> 01:01:41,840
Speaker 1: You've been with men since middle school. This boy right

1008
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:46,439
Speaker 1: now is three years younger than you. You twenty eight,

1009
01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:51,040
Speaker 1: he twenty five. You're taking him too fast. He asked

1010
01:01:51,080 --> 01:01:53,840
Speaker 1: you the other night to stop doing something that you

1011
01:01:54,080 --> 01:01:57,120
Speaker 1: was doing you. That's a problem for you because you

1012
01:01:57,240 --> 01:02:00,240
Speaker 1: need him to match your freakiness in the bedroom and

1013
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:04,400
Speaker 1: he's reluctant to go all in with me. How far

1014
01:02:04,720 --> 01:02:07,960
Speaker 1: is too far with my new husband? Please advise? This

1015
01:02:08,240 --> 01:02:11,360
Speaker 1: is all Uncle Steve got for you. I'm going to

1016
01:02:11,520 --> 01:02:15,920
Speaker 1: give you a short list of things that we probably

1017
01:02:16,080 --> 01:02:22,320
Speaker 1: don't like. That's too far. Leave them tools in the

1018
01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:28,520
Speaker 1: tool box, go outside in the garage, coming in here

1019
01:02:28,600 --> 01:02:33,040
Speaker 1: with nothing, don't don't do that that little red box.

1020
01:02:33,600 --> 01:02:38,000
Speaker 1: Lead that thing shut. That's probably gonna be too far.

1021
01:02:39,080 --> 01:02:42,800
Speaker 1: You know, there's other things I need to know. Need

1022
01:02:42,880 --> 01:02:47,720
Speaker 1: to know this right here. None of my openings is

1023
01:02:47,800 --> 01:02:52,200
Speaker 1: to be opened. Hello, I just need you to know

1024
01:02:52,360 --> 01:02:57,640
Speaker 1: that none of my openings needs to be open. Don't

1025
01:02:57,760 --> 01:03:03,880
Speaker 1: do that too far too, I'm just going I'm just

1026
01:03:04,000 --> 01:03:06,520
Speaker 1: telling you what we don't need. I just you know,

1027
01:03:07,520 --> 01:03:11,959
Speaker 1: isn't something else? Stop asking me? No, I cannot lick

1028
01:03:12,160 --> 01:03:15,640
Speaker 1: my own toes. I can't do that no more. I'm

1029
01:03:15,760 --> 01:03:18,680
Speaker 1: sixty five. If I could be in my foot up

1030
01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:21,960
Speaker 1: that far, it'd be a mile. Na. I can't do that.

1031
01:03:22,440 --> 01:03:28,000
Speaker 1: Quick asking me, I tell you something else? This too far? Nah,

1032
01:03:28,240 --> 01:03:33,200
Speaker 1: I don't want to be choked quick asking me. Don't

1033
01:03:33,440 --> 01:03:36,400
Speaker 1: ask me to be choked, and stop asking me to

1034
01:03:36,560 --> 01:03:39,640
Speaker 1: choke you. I don't like your ass bugging out your

1035
01:03:39,720 --> 01:03:43,400
Speaker 1: head like that. It scare me. I don't like that.

1036
01:03:43,720 --> 01:03:48,480
Speaker 1: Stop talking to me about getting choked. Please cut your

1037
01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:54,120
Speaker 1: damn fingernails. This is too much. That's something else that,

1038
01:03:54,200 --> 01:03:56,720
Speaker 1: Bobma tell you something else. I don't like. I don't

1039
01:03:56,800 --> 01:04:00,960
Speaker 1: like quip marks. Stop doing that to me. I do

1040
01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:07,280
Speaker 1: not like whips. Come on now, I've been in here

1041
01:04:07,320 --> 01:04:11,240
Speaker 1: with you, but you're going too damn far. Now all

1042
01:04:11,320 --> 01:04:15,680
Speaker 1: this hell, this is not fun. I don't like that.

1043
01:04:16,360 --> 01:04:20,439
Speaker 1: Stop that hurts. I want you to stop what you're doing.

1044
01:04:20,720 --> 01:04:24,240
Speaker 1: Another thing right here, Your tongue is too damn long.

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Speaker 1: I I don't know what I was going. Took me

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01:04:26,360 --> 01:04:29,520
Speaker 1: how long say this to you? But your tongue is

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01:04:29,560 --> 01:04:34,760
Speaker 1: too Yes, it is that this goes back to some

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01:04:34,920 --> 01:04:39,520
Speaker 1: things I said earlier. But your tongue is too damn long.

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01:04:39,840 --> 01:04:44,200
Speaker 1: And now I can't walk in your stilettos. Stop strapping

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01:04:44,240 --> 01:04:49,240
Speaker 1: them on my feet. I broke two pad heels. Stop

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01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:52,360
Speaker 1: asking me that I am going to tell you that.

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01:04:53,040 --> 01:04:55,919
Speaker 1: Listen to me. I'm just gonna tell you this. Listen

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01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:59,120
Speaker 1: to me, faby, not when you're going too far. My

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01:04:59,440 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 1: fist is just for fighting, That's all this fault. My fist.

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01:05:05,480 --> 01:05:08,840
Speaker 1: My fist is just for fight. Okay what I all

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01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:12,800
Speaker 1: these things up and the fir hands Jesus just for fight.

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01:05:13,240 --> 01:05:18,040
Speaker 1: We get it, and I want one last thing for you.

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01:05:18,200 --> 01:05:21,960
Speaker 1: Go come on, damn it quick brighting me everywhere. I

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01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:26,200
Speaker 1: don't like all that. Not everywhere. You can leave in

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01:05:26,320 --> 01:05:30,160
Speaker 1: your comments on Today's Crazy Letter on Instagram and Facebook

1061
01:05:30,160 --> 01:05:33,800
Speaker 1: at Steve Harvey at that too far for check the

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01:05:34,000 --> 01:05:36,800
Speaker 1: letter was too far. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast

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Speaker 1: on demand. Coming up next int is Sports Talk with Junior.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:05:44,480 --> 01:05:47,160
Speaker 1: All right, guys, it's time now for Sports Talk with Junior.

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01:05:47,280 --> 01:05:50,840
Speaker 1: What you got Junior, oh Sureley over the weekend. Time

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01:05:50,960 --> 01:05:53,960
Speaker 1: to tell you right now, two quarterbacks were tired from

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01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:56,840
Speaker 1: the nfail. Let me tell you, Tom Brady, hang it

1069
01:05:56,960 --> 01:06:00,560
Speaker 1: up Man twenty two seasons seven Super Bowl. But I'm

1070
01:06:00,680 --> 01:06:03,560
Speaker 1: glad it is Houston. We are rejoicing because the reason

1071
01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:06,680
Speaker 1: why we couldn't win because Tom Brady centers on every

1072
01:06:06,880 --> 01:06:09,800
Speaker 1: single year We've never beat him in the playoff. We're

1073
01:06:09,840 --> 01:06:11,840
Speaker 1: so glad his ass and hung up. I'm not even

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01:06:14,840 --> 01:06:22,000
Speaker 1: you're trying to blame. Yes, yes, I'm Brady. Yes, yes,

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01:06:22,840 --> 01:06:27,440
Speaker 1: yes i am. That's why. Yes. What was the Texans

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01:06:27,720 --> 01:06:30,320
Speaker 1: football record this year? Let's not talking about we are

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01:06:30,360 --> 01:06:32,320
Speaker 1: talking about that. We just talked about the No, No,

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01:06:32,440 --> 01:06:35,320
Speaker 1: I'm I'm talking about junior. Yeah, what was the record

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01:06:35,440 --> 01:06:40,800
Speaker 1: this year? Right here? Just tell it to thirteen and thirteen?

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01:06:41,240 --> 01:06:44,680
Speaker 1: How many times did they play Tampa Bay? Oh, we

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01:06:44,720 --> 01:06:47,080
Speaker 1: didn't play this team I'm talking about in the past. Oh,

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01:06:48,120 --> 01:06:51,680
Speaker 1: y'all didn't play Tom Brady this season? No, and y'all

1083
01:06:51,800 --> 01:06:55,680
Speaker 1: was four and thirteen? Yeah, well, good thing. Y'all didn't

1084
01:06:55,680 --> 01:07:01,160
Speaker 1: players ass this year. Let me say at the second

1085
01:07:01,320 --> 01:07:06,120
Speaker 1: go ahead. Ben Roethlisberger also retired. He did hug it up.

1086
01:07:06,160 --> 01:07:07,960
Speaker 1: And I know you don't feel nothing, you don't care

1087
01:07:08,080 --> 01:07:11,440
Speaker 1: nothing about being Roethlisberger c You know, man, he had

1088
01:07:11,480 --> 01:07:14,560
Speaker 1: a great career, but he was with Pittsburgh. I hate

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01:07:14,600 --> 01:07:21,520
Speaker 1: everything about Pittsburgh except mean Joe Green and Jack Lambert,

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01:07:22,920 --> 01:07:27,560
Speaker 1: Lyon Swan and Mike Tomlin. Okay, and this explained this

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01:07:28,600 --> 01:07:31,680
Speaker 1: about this whole rivalry y'all be having. But see Cleveland,

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01:07:31,720 --> 01:07:34,240
Speaker 1: when they heard the news being Roethlisberger was hanging up

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01:07:34,240 --> 01:07:36,320
Speaker 1: this Cleis, they put this in the newspaper. This was

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01:07:36,400 --> 01:07:42,280
Speaker 1: the headline. Long time Stiller's quarterback Ben Roethlisberger retires winless

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01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:48,080
Speaker 1: against the Browns in the playoffs. That was the headline.

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01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:53,960
Speaker 1: See we're gonna say goodbye. Yeah, the great quarterback all

1097
01:07:54,080 --> 01:07:59,080
Speaker 1: this hill. Winless against the Cleveland Browns in the playoffs. Winless,

1098
01:07:59,600 --> 01:08:03,240
Speaker 1: now bye. I appreciate you having a nice ass career,

1099
01:08:03,320 --> 01:08:05,360
Speaker 1: but you remember last year. Don't don't you go week?

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01:08:05,400 --> 01:08:14,440
Speaker 1: Damn show. Don't do with your monk assent better much? Hey,

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01:08:14,560 --> 01:08:18,160
Speaker 1: listen to me, man, We Cleveland people, Yeah, got no time.

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01:08:18,280 --> 01:08:22,360
Speaker 1: We don't do political correctness, damn show. Not fit to

1103
01:08:22,400 --> 01:08:30,599
Speaker 1: do sportsmanship, No time for that, man. We ain't one

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01:08:30,680 --> 01:08:33,840
Speaker 1: since nineteen sixty. Folk, here as we find to be

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01:08:34,040 --> 01:08:39,479
Speaker 1: spokesman about. Now all right, junior, thank you. Coming up

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Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, we're gonna talk about

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01:08:41,160 --> 01:08:44,920
Speaker 1: closure and why some men and women leave relationships without

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01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:47,600
Speaker 1: an explanation. All right, Oh you want to miss that

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01:08:48,240 --> 01:08:55,040
Speaker 1: right after this you're listening show? All right? So, Steve,

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01:08:55,439 --> 01:08:59,400
Speaker 1: I saw this video on social media media recently of

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01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:02,639
Speaker 1: a man who was honest about why he ditched women

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01:09:04,000 --> 01:09:07,040
Speaker 1: without any explanation, any closure. I know you say men

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01:09:07,160 --> 01:09:10,439
Speaker 1: don't do closure, but he said that the woman he

1114
01:09:10,560 --> 01:09:13,479
Speaker 1: ghosted was either too much for him at the time

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01:09:13,880 --> 01:09:16,720
Speaker 1: and that meant to him that he didn't measure up

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01:09:16,760 --> 01:09:19,360
Speaker 1: to her. So he was trying to explain and put

1117
01:09:19,439 --> 01:09:22,040
Speaker 1: a button on why you know he did what he

1118
01:09:22,120 --> 01:09:24,840
Speaker 1: did in the past or was he looking for the

1119
01:09:24,960 --> 01:09:29,560
Speaker 1: past of the path of least resistance here? No, I

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01:09:29,640 --> 01:09:32,439
Speaker 1: think women have to understand something, you know, Like I've

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01:09:32,479 --> 01:09:34,479
Speaker 1: always told them, I said, you know a lot of

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01:09:34,560 --> 01:09:36,439
Speaker 1: times when a man break up with you, a woman

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01:09:36,520 --> 01:09:39,200
Speaker 1: immediately goes to or what's wrong with me? That's not

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01:09:39,360 --> 01:09:42,040
Speaker 1: always the case. A matter of fact, the majority of cases,

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01:09:42,080 --> 01:09:44,760
Speaker 1: it's not anything to do with you. It's something wrong

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01:09:44,840 --> 01:09:49,000
Speaker 1: with the men. It's just to just brother online admitted

1127
01:09:49,479 --> 01:09:52,200
Speaker 1: that it was him that he couldn't measure up, that

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01:09:52,320 --> 01:09:55,679
Speaker 1: he wasn't ready, that he wasn't the man for the job.

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01:09:56,080 --> 01:09:59,599
Speaker 1: And that oftentimes is the case, and the reason men

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01:09:59,680 --> 01:10:03,000
Speaker 1: don't give you closure, it's because most men are not

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01:10:03,240 --> 01:10:06,280
Speaker 1: going to admit that, and no, don't know. Man want

1132
01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:08,000
Speaker 1: to come to you and go, you know, look, I

1133
01:10:08,120 --> 01:10:11,160
Speaker 1: just I just ain't man enough for you. You too much.

1134
01:10:11,600 --> 01:10:13,559
Speaker 1: Some men will do it, but a lot of men

1135
01:10:13,680 --> 01:10:15,880
Speaker 1: have broken up with women and just went, hey, look

1136
01:10:16,880 --> 01:10:20,160
Speaker 1: it ain't you, it's me, and then that's it. Yeah,

1137
01:10:22,160 --> 01:10:24,920
Speaker 1: but it means what this brother was saying, you were

1138
01:10:25,000 --> 01:10:27,839
Speaker 1: too much for me. You had some requirements. I couldn't

1139
01:10:27,880 --> 01:10:31,679
Speaker 1: live up to your your standards were too high. I'm

1140
01:10:31,760 --> 01:10:35,240
Speaker 1: not enough man for the woman you are. I can't

1141
01:10:35,439 --> 01:10:40,639
Speaker 1: feel the job application requirements out matter. I'm not ready

1142
01:10:40,760 --> 01:10:44,640
Speaker 1: for that. I want a woman who's less than you.

1143
01:10:45,240 --> 01:10:48,800
Speaker 1: I need somebody who's just less because you just too

1144
01:10:48,960 --> 01:10:51,920
Speaker 1: much now. And then they go on and they find

1145
01:10:52,080 --> 01:10:56,720
Speaker 1: women who are less and try to have relationship with them,

1146
01:10:56,760 --> 01:10:58,720
Speaker 1: and women get mad because how can he just move

1147
01:10:58,800 --> 01:11:03,320
Speaker 1: on and starting a relationship. Maybe he found less, Maybe

1148
01:11:03,360 --> 01:11:09,759
Speaker 1: he you know, stop blaming yourself wrong, Stop blaming yourself.

1149
01:11:09,920 --> 01:11:15,479
Speaker 1: It's your life. Because a lot of women something I

1150
01:11:15,520 --> 01:11:17,960
Speaker 1: don't care about closure, you know, they just move on

1151
01:11:18,160 --> 01:11:20,760
Speaker 1: and let you figure it out on your arm. And

1152
01:11:20,960 --> 01:11:24,400
Speaker 1: that's usually the case, because I wrote a chapter. Men

1153
01:11:24,479 --> 01:11:28,200
Speaker 1: don't do closure because normally we don't. And Tommy's exactly right.

1154
01:11:28,280 --> 01:11:30,920
Speaker 1: The majority of time we just walk, We don't know

1155
01:11:31,040 --> 01:11:33,920
Speaker 1: you nothing. You work through it out and then the

1156
01:11:34,439 --> 01:11:37,040
Speaker 1: most a lot of men ain't gonna admit to their shortcomings.

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01:11:37,360 --> 01:11:39,680
Speaker 1: And then me and we don't feel like it's our application.

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01:11:39,840 --> 01:11:43,120
Speaker 1: I mean, and in truth, what happened to us was

1159
01:11:43,280 --> 01:11:46,080
Speaker 1: we didn't work. Now we ain't got to get a

1160
01:11:46,080 --> 01:11:48,759
Speaker 1: seat now standing here and calling you back to explain

1161
01:11:49,040 --> 01:11:55,519
Speaker 1: why you know what that's gonna lead into. Yeah, at

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01:11:55,560 --> 01:11:58,120
Speaker 1: that moment when you decide not to do closure and

1163
01:11:58,200 --> 01:12:01,080
Speaker 1: move on? What is going through your what's going through

1164
01:12:01,200 --> 01:12:04,920
Speaker 1: the man mind of a man? What'sn't that? Who? Who

1165
01:12:05,439 --> 01:12:08,760
Speaker 1: wasn't that? Yeah? Who behind you? I'm looking. Yeah, it's over.

1166
01:12:09,360 --> 01:12:12,640
Speaker 1: So there's no guilt, there's no remorse. No what I

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01:12:12,720 --> 01:12:14,240
Speaker 1: got well, I got to be killed. I'm are. We're

1168
01:12:14,280 --> 01:12:16,200
Speaker 1: getting out of something that ain't working for me and you.

1169
01:12:17,320 --> 01:12:19,000
Speaker 1: I'm doing you a favor. I'm getting out of here

1170
01:12:19,080 --> 01:12:21,599
Speaker 1: now because this ain't working. You may think it's working,

1171
01:12:21,640 --> 01:12:23,519
Speaker 1: but all this is arguing and all this what I

1172
01:12:23,600 --> 01:12:25,760
Speaker 1: ain't what you don't do? And where was you? And

1173
01:12:25,840 --> 01:12:28,000
Speaker 1: all this here? No no, no, no no, So you

1174
01:12:28,080 --> 01:12:30,200
Speaker 1: ain't got to question me no more, and I ain't

1175
01:12:30,200 --> 01:12:36,280
Speaker 1: got to answer the question. I'm out right free yourself

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01:12:36,439 --> 01:12:39,840
Speaker 1: from having to wonder why I'm at any more? Good. Look,

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01:12:41,680 --> 01:12:43,680
Speaker 1: And that's really how a man looks at it. And

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01:12:43,760 --> 01:12:46,960
Speaker 1: that's a clean way to get out, because if it's over,

1179
01:12:47,120 --> 01:12:50,720
Speaker 1: it's over. The why to high come? What happened? Why not?

1180
01:12:51,560 --> 01:12:54,320
Speaker 1: We ain't got We'm really look, it's over. No matter

1181
01:12:54,400 --> 01:12:57,240
Speaker 1: what I say, you're not gonna like the answer. So

1182
01:12:57,400 --> 01:12:59,840
Speaker 1: how about just no answer? And that's usually how me

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01:13:00,000 --> 01:13:02,200
Speaker 1: and look at that too. Don't we already know why

1184
01:13:02,280 --> 01:13:06,160
Speaker 1: we're leaving? Yeah, of course we know. Okay, let me

1185
01:13:06,200 --> 01:13:09,240
Speaker 1: ask you this. Did you know when you met the woman?

1186
01:13:09,560 --> 01:13:12,040
Speaker 1: Did you know already know that she was too much

1187
01:13:12,120 --> 01:13:14,880
Speaker 1: for you? Or she was above your pay grade? Or

1188
01:13:15,120 --> 01:13:18,760
Speaker 1: you know the signs don't show up till later. Yeah,

1189
01:13:19,600 --> 01:13:23,240
Speaker 1: and then and then you got to understand, y'all find

1190
01:13:23,360 --> 01:13:28,400
Speaker 1: this clouds out right? Say that? All right, Wow, this

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01:13:28,600 --> 01:13:31,439
Speaker 1: is good. This is good, guys. We'll have more of

1192
01:13:31,520 --> 01:13:33,719
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes

1193
01:13:33,760 --> 01:13:37,200
Speaker 1: after the hour, right after this, you're listening to the

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01:13:37,360 --> 01:13:42,360
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, So Steve, before we left,

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01:13:42,400 --> 01:13:46,000
Speaker 1: we were talking about men and they don't do closure.

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01:13:46,040 --> 01:13:48,439
Speaker 1: They just move on. And a lot of times it

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01:13:48,600 --> 01:13:50,640
Speaker 1: is them, or most times it is them and not

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01:13:50,760 --> 01:13:53,400
Speaker 1: the woman. Did you want to add anything to that?

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01:13:53,600 --> 01:13:57,400
Speaker 1: You were saying you already knew when you met the woman. Perhaps,

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01:13:58,000 --> 01:14:00,599
Speaker 1: well it was too much for you when we meet

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01:14:00,640 --> 01:14:03,920
Speaker 1: a woman. I don't want to say game because it

1202
01:14:03,960 --> 01:14:06,080
Speaker 1: isn't every man that meets you not playing a game,

1203
01:14:06,520 --> 01:14:09,880
Speaker 1: but game on. We now have to see what it's

1204
01:14:09,880 --> 01:14:13,200
Speaker 1: gonna take to win you over. Now, if it's a lot,

1205
01:14:13,479 --> 01:14:16,920
Speaker 1: we'll pretend to have a lot, but we can't sustain

1206
01:14:17,320 --> 01:14:21,160
Speaker 1: the pretense, the pretension. We just can't sustain it. And

1207
01:14:21,360 --> 01:14:23,960
Speaker 1: you know, like, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I got myself together.

1208
01:14:24,040 --> 01:14:26,800
Speaker 1: I'm holding I'm strong, I'm dedicated, I'm working. And then

1209
01:14:26,840 --> 01:14:29,519
Speaker 1: when she keeps that pressure up, this is what I'm

1210
01:14:29,560 --> 01:14:31,400
Speaker 1: looking for. This is what when did you or are

1211
01:14:31,439 --> 01:14:33,920
Speaker 1: you still looking for a job? Did you still how's

1212
01:14:33,960 --> 01:14:36,439
Speaker 1: the job hunt going? How's the business going? And they're

1213
01:14:36,439 --> 01:14:38,880
Speaker 1: gonna cause they're gonna because women gonna ask you because

1214
01:14:39,000 --> 01:14:43,000
Speaker 1: women want to feel safe, and that's an important thing

1215
01:14:43,160 --> 01:14:45,400
Speaker 1: for a woman. She wants to feel safe, and so

1216
01:14:45,960 --> 01:14:49,080
Speaker 1: in you coming alonger than her life, where's the security

1217
01:14:49,160 --> 01:14:51,639
Speaker 1: in this relationship? So it's not that she's a gold

1218
01:14:51,760 --> 01:14:55,800
Speaker 1: digger or nothing like that. She just wants to feel safe. Now,

1219
01:14:55,880 --> 01:14:58,479
Speaker 1: we've created the term gold digger to keep you out

1220
01:14:58,520 --> 01:15:00,760
Speaker 1: of our pockets and keep you from talking about that money.

1221
01:15:00,880 --> 01:15:03,599
Speaker 1: And women are stupid from falling into that trip, let

1222
01:15:03,720 --> 01:15:06,240
Speaker 1: me tell you, because you want to feel safe. And

1223
01:15:06,360 --> 01:15:09,320
Speaker 1: so now once we find out that these safety questions

1224
01:15:09,479 --> 01:15:12,840
Speaker 1: is gonna keep coming, we get nervous and we back out.

1225
01:15:14,720 --> 01:15:17,599
Speaker 1: Good information, good information. We'll have more of a Steve

1226
01:15:17,680 --> 01:15:20,080
Speaker 1: Very Morning Show coming up at thirty three minutes after

1227
01:15:20,479 --> 01:15:23,400
Speaker 1: and we'll do around or would you rather right after this?

1228
01:15:24,080 --> 01:15:28,960
Speaker 1: You're listening to Steven show, It is time now for around?

1229
01:15:29,120 --> 01:15:33,519
Speaker 1: Or would you rather? Would you rather wash windows on

1230
01:15:33,600 --> 01:15:37,920
Speaker 1: a skyscraper? Be? Or would you rather run with the

1231
01:15:38,040 --> 01:15:44,680
Speaker 1: bulls in Spain? He'll be b Yeah, I'm gonna give

1232
01:15:44,840 --> 01:15:46,760
Speaker 1: the bulls. I'm gonna I'm gonna get I'm gonna get on,

1233
01:15:46,800 --> 01:15:49,360
Speaker 1: i gonna get over a wall or something. Yeah, I'm

1234
01:15:49,400 --> 01:15:51,040
Speaker 1: gonna push some people in front of me. I can

1235
01:15:51,040 --> 01:15:53,679
Speaker 1: get I can get this bull off my ass. Trip

1236
01:15:53,800 --> 01:15:59,800
Speaker 1: some people of Trippe show. No, no, I've seen that.

1237
01:16:00,000 --> 01:16:02,120
Speaker 1: Ain't no where in hell, and it's no where in hell.

1238
01:16:02,280 --> 01:16:03,599
Speaker 1: First of all, I'm not gonna be able to wash

1239
01:16:03,680 --> 01:16:10,560
Speaker 1: your window. You up there already both my hands is

1240
01:16:10,600 --> 01:16:14,160
Speaker 1: attached to this rope and this safety device, so we're

1241
01:16:14,200 --> 01:16:16,360
Speaker 1: not watching where I'm not watching you wind to know, damn.

1242
01:16:17,479 --> 01:16:19,840
Speaker 1: And if you look outside, all you're gonna see is

1243
01:16:19,840 --> 01:16:25,479
Speaker 1: it's scared ass dude. I'm kicking. I won't end. I

1244
01:16:25,600 --> 01:16:30,360
Speaker 1: won't end. Man, open the way. I'm gonna pee on

1245
01:16:30,479 --> 01:16:33,559
Speaker 1: your window. I'm telling that's all we got. We got

1246
01:16:33,640 --> 01:16:36,360
Speaker 1: some other stuff. What is all these stands on my window?

1247
01:16:36,520 --> 01:16:42,360
Speaker 1: You know what? Open this window? Hanging up in that album? Man,

1248
01:16:43,200 --> 01:16:45,880
Speaker 1: I'm running with the bulls man, I'm not. You can

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Speaker 1: put me in an all red pajama setting, make sure

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Speaker 1: they see me. I'm loving with the damn bulls man.

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Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Would you rather have a

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01:16:59,680 --> 01:17:05,000
Speaker 1: full time butler for life or one hall pass a

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01:17:05,160 --> 01:17:08,280
Speaker 1: month for life? I already no, I ain't gonna get that.

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Speaker 1: Gonna have to hate this butler. That's what I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: have to do for life, not for the confessed, and

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Speaker 1: won't the hall pass ain't yet on this radio show

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Speaker 1: with that? Have you learned nothing on the show, Junior? Yeah,

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01:17:22,280 --> 01:17:27,479
Speaker 1: learned that I'm gonna go with the butler. You're gonna

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Speaker 1: have a full time butler for life. Okay, Well, I

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01:17:31,880 --> 01:17:36,040
Speaker 1: passed up the hall pass. You got hold hold. Let

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Speaker 1: me ask you a question, though, Do she know about

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Speaker 1: the hall pass? Huh? We know know about the hall pass.

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01:17:43,320 --> 01:17:46,160
Speaker 1: That's the whole concept of the hall pad that you

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Speaker 1: give the mask. Thank you? Oh no, no, I'm not

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01:17:48,360 --> 01:17:50,200
Speaker 1: not not hell no, hell, I'm not gonna hear that

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Speaker 1: every month. It's gonna, it's gonna that's who it's gonna. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's the fifteenth who you're picking now her? All right,

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Speaker 1: here's the last one, last one. Would you, guys, rather

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01:18:11,120 --> 01:18:15,320
Speaker 1: tell the truth for thirty days, tell the complete truth,

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01:18:15,439 --> 01:18:19,080
Speaker 1: no lies thirty days, or wear a lace front wig

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01:18:19,360 --> 01:18:31,320
Speaker 1: for thirty days call me ki looking like Rue Paul front.

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Speaker 1: All right, coming up our last break of the day

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Speaker 1: and some closing remarks from the one in the Yeah

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Speaker 1: you're listening to the show, All right, guys, here we

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01:18:48,680 --> 01:18:51,479
Speaker 1: are our last break of the day. This is it

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01:18:53,320 --> 01:18:56,840
Speaker 1: a good day? A good day. Yeah, I've enjoyed it.

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Speaker 1: What about you, guys? Yeah? Yeah, Oh, Judge Steve, Hello, yeah,

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Speaker 1: tonight again, appreciate the support and love everybody watching George

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Speaker 1: Steve on ABC eight pm Eastern, seventh Central, or you

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01:19:15,280 --> 01:19:19,320
Speaker 1: can stream it live on Hulu TV. Steve, that show

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01:19:19,479 --> 01:19:22,720
Speaker 1: is turning out, you know, Hulu, just more than I

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01:19:23,040 --> 01:19:25,240
Speaker 1: even thought it would be. I mean, it's so good,

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Speaker 1: it's so compelling, it's so funny, it has all the

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Speaker 1: elements in it comedy, you know. I mean, it's heartfelt,

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01:19:33,280 --> 01:19:37,920
Speaker 1: you do good. It's just a great show, it really is.

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy for you. I'm so sorry. It's such

1287
01:19:42,200 --> 01:19:46,800
Speaker 1: a blessing, man, because you know what makes this show

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01:19:47,000 --> 01:19:51,760
Speaker 1: such a blessing is behind the scenes things. You know,

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01:19:52,000 --> 01:19:54,080
Speaker 1: I did a few weeks ago, my favorite couple of

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01:19:54,120 --> 01:19:57,400
Speaker 1: weeks ago, my favorite clothing remarkables to my haters, but

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01:19:58,800 --> 01:20:03,160
Speaker 1: in particular, you know, I've been in television a long time, man,

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Speaker 1: I really have. I've grown a fan base in television.

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Speaker 1: That's really when I look at my career, it's not

1294
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Speaker 1: a lot of people can say they've had the longevity

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Speaker 1: and the success that I have. I'm not the biggest

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Speaker 1: person ever in television, not by a long shot, but

1297
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Speaker 1: when it comes to being able to have a presence

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01:20:24,400 --> 01:20:28,880
Speaker 1: on TV and in so many different ways and formats,

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Speaker 1: I've been really blessed man and graced by God to

1300
01:20:33,760 --> 01:20:39,479
Speaker 1: probably cover more types of shows than anybody. And one

1301
01:20:39,560 --> 01:20:44,280
Speaker 1: of the blessings behind the Judge Show was was the

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01:20:44,520 --> 01:20:48,400
Speaker 1: failure of two other shows. And it wasn't that the

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01:20:48,520 --> 01:20:53,000
Speaker 1: shows failed. The numbers were good. Little Big Shots was

1304
01:20:53,080 --> 01:20:58,439
Speaker 1: a hit, My talk show was doing well. Nothing was

1305
01:20:58,520 --> 01:21:00,800
Speaker 1: wrong with it. Dude, they have bad numbers? Are nothing.

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Speaker 1: Somebody in the higher ups made a decision, and the

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Speaker 1: decision was not only am I going to cancel this show,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get rid of his TV career. That decision

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01:21:15,120 --> 01:21:18,320
Speaker 1: was made and I got winned about it. And I

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01:21:18,439 --> 01:21:21,760
Speaker 1: remember one time somebody asking me to fly to New

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Speaker 1: York and just have a meeting to talk to them

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Speaker 1: about staying on the air and saving the show and

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01:21:29,960 --> 01:21:33,799
Speaker 1: make some promises. And I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: do it, and I just stood fast. And the thing

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Speaker 1: I've learned I was telling the crew earlier, I was

1316
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Speaker 1: listening to something online and I saw some actors gathering.

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01:21:47,640 --> 01:21:49,240
Speaker 1: One of them was Jamie Fox and a couple of

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Speaker 1: other people, and one of them was Tom Hanks. And

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01:21:52,120 --> 01:21:56,360
Speaker 1: Tom Hanks said something. That question was something to the

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Speaker 1: effect of, if you could tell your twenty year old

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01:21:59,200 --> 01:22:02,400
Speaker 1: self something that you wish you known, what would you

1322
01:22:02,479 --> 01:22:06,120
Speaker 1: tell yourself? And Tom Hanks said, this tool shall pass.

1323
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Speaker 1: And I sat down and I thought about that. Man,

1324
01:22:10,240 --> 01:22:13,360
Speaker 1: do you know how important of a message that is

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Speaker 1: to get through your head? This tool shall pass. No,

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Speaker 1: I mean, man, Look, even when you're on top of

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01:22:20,920 --> 01:22:24,360
Speaker 1: the mountain, this two shall pass. You ain't gonna stay

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Speaker 1: up there. Even if you gotta hit show, it ain't.

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Speaker 1: It can't stay on TV forever. And this tool shall pass.

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01:22:32,280 --> 01:22:34,240
Speaker 1: If you're in the bottom of the valley and you'd

1331
01:22:34,400 --> 01:22:38,439
Speaker 1: fail so low that it seems hopeless for you, this

1332
01:22:38,760 --> 01:22:44,000
Speaker 1: tool shall pass. All of it. The fatigue you feel,

1333
01:22:44,280 --> 01:22:48,320
Speaker 1: this tool shall pass. The lack of understanding you're getting

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01:22:48,400 --> 01:22:52,599
Speaker 1: from yourself and people, This too shall pass. So all

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Speaker 1: the moments in my life. Tom Hanks said, this too

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Speaker 1: shall pass. It passes. And when they got rid of

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Speaker 1: those two shows, I was in the process of learning

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Speaker 1: through experience of my life that everything that happens to

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Speaker 1: me has happened in the order that God wanted to,

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Speaker 1: whether I agreed with it or not, whether I understood

1341
01:23:16,439 --> 01:23:20,640
Speaker 1: the process or not I did. I finally came to

1342
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Speaker 1: the realization that everything God allows to happen to me

1343
01:23:25,000 --> 01:23:29,600
Speaker 1: is in preparation for something. I asked for. The cancelation

1344
01:23:29,720 --> 01:23:33,120
Speaker 1: of the Steve Talk Show and the cancelation of Little

1345
01:23:33,160 --> 01:23:35,760
Speaker 1: Big Shots all at once, And if you look at

1346
01:23:35,840 --> 01:23:40,439
Speaker 1: those numbers, those shows were doing wonderful. That decision came

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01:23:40,600 --> 01:23:44,599
Speaker 1: from somebody who was on a mission to get rid

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Speaker 1: of me, that's all. It was pure and simple. And

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01:23:47,760 --> 01:23:50,080
Speaker 1: I don't say their names. I ain't got to say nothing.

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Speaker 1: It's cool you did what you did, but this too

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01:23:53,560 --> 01:23:57,639
Speaker 1: shall passed. But little did I know that was all

1352
01:23:57,720 --> 01:24:01,040
Speaker 1: in preparation to clear the path hathway for me to

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Speaker 1: accomplish some other things. So little did I know. Now

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01:24:04,439 --> 01:24:07,200
Speaker 1: I had the time to go to Africa and do

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Speaker 1: family Feud and put on two seasons of the number

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Speaker 1: one show on the continent. Little did I know that

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Speaker 1: I now had a little bit more time to travel

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Speaker 1: the world and increase my global brand and persona. I

1359
01:24:19,720 --> 01:24:21,560
Speaker 1: didn't know that's what God was doing, but he was

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01:24:21,640 --> 01:24:25,240
Speaker 1: clearing the way from me. And then lastly, next thing,

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Speaker 1: you know, and I did that I had created twelve

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Speaker 1: years ago, mentioned it in a pitch meeting, and ABC said,

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01:24:33,400 --> 01:24:37,880
Speaker 1: we want that show. I created the show, I owned

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01:24:37,920 --> 01:24:41,519
Speaker 1: the show. I'm the executive producer of the show, and

1365
01:24:41,640 --> 01:24:44,720
Speaker 1: I'm the star of the show. And that's the new

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01:24:44,840 --> 01:24:47,760
Speaker 1: Judge t Show. And guess what. Had I still been

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01:24:47,880 --> 01:24:50,320
Speaker 1: doing what I was doing, I would not be in

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Speaker 1: this position today. This too shall pass. That's the grace

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01:24:55,920 --> 01:24:59,080
Speaker 1: of God Almighty. And you see me not taking no

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01:24:59,200 --> 01:25:01,320
Speaker 1: credit for this, because I didn't set this one up.

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Speaker 1: He set this one up. See y'all to malle. For

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Speaker 1: all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary void where prohibited.

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01:25:15,120 --> 01:25:18,880
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