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Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand Jebils Dirty Little Secret. Hello, Yes, Hello, yeah, hello,

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Speaker 1: you have a dirty little secret. Yes, I do give it, Yes,

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Speaker 1: I give it here. What is it? Okay? My dirty

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Speaker 1: little secret is I was born a male and I

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Speaker 1: had a sex change about twenty years ago. And I

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Speaker 1: had raised my sister's kids because she was on drugs

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Speaker 1: and so they all knew. My whole family knows that I,

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Speaker 1: you know, like man. But anyways, I decided to go

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Speaker 1: and have a sex change and I love it. And

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Speaker 1: it's funny because when we go to the doors, if

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Speaker 1: the clerk don't look up at me, they'd be like, okay, sorry,

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Speaker 1: would that be all? And I'd be like, give me

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Speaker 1: I'm a female. And my kids would just bust out

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Speaker 1: laughing because they knew, you know, and then declared all

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Speaker 1: alogetic to me. So I'm so sorry. I'm like, that's okay,

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Speaker 1: I get that all the time. Okay. So is your

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Speaker 1: did little secret that you actually went through and got

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Speaker 1: the operation done? Yes? I did, I did. Okay, how's that?

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Speaker 1: How's that going? Well? Had enough for twenty years and

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Speaker 1: uncomfortable with it and I love it. It's great. Um.

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Speaker 1: I forgot to tell guy. I was married for seven

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Speaker 1: years to a male and he did not know whoa really?

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Speaker 1: It was that good, Oh my god. And I decided

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Speaker 1: to tell him, and unfortunately we got a divorce. No,

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Speaker 1: that's crazy to me. So he was married to you

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Speaker 1: for seven years, right, he didn't know that you were

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Speaker 1: born a man. Right. Well, what made it even more

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Speaker 1: convincing for him to what he told me was because

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Speaker 1: I had my kids. Oh, they all called me mom.

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Speaker 1: So how come you didn't want to tell him at

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Speaker 1: the beginning? Well, I don't think you would have married me, right,

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Speaker 1: So when he broke up with you right when you

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Speaker 1: told him, was it because you lied to him? Or

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Speaker 1: was it just because of that you were born a dude? Um,

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Speaker 1: you know, I think it was because. I think it

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Speaker 1: was because of both. Really, yeah, Because then he went

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Speaker 1: through very emotional stage where he thought that he was gay,

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Speaker 1: and I was trying to convince him that he wasn't,

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Speaker 1: you know, because I am a fem Yeah, yeah, you are.

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Speaker 1: When I said born, I just made you had the

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Speaker 1: parts when you were born because inside you've always been

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Speaker 1: a female, right correct? Yeah? Correct? My mother has four sisters. Well,

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Speaker 1: I have four sisters. My mother has four other kids

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Speaker 1: besides me, and so she would tell everybody that she

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Speaker 1: has five daughters. See that's weird. Like if you're with

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Speaker 1: somebody that long though, and then they find that out.

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Speaker 1: I mean I could see being upset that you lie,

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Speaker 1: that you whether you didn't tell them right, because this

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Speaker 1: should know about your history no matter what. If you're

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Speaker 1: with a partner, it's cool to know where they came

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Speaker 1: from and you know them. Basically, I could see being

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Speaker 1: upset about that, but not the other thing, Like Alex

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Speaker 1: and I are married, if he didn't know that, and honestly,

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Speaker 1: she could tell me tomorrow that she's like, I want

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Speaker 1: to change into whatever, right, and I would I would stay.

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Speaker 1: It'd be like, okay, cool, all right, well fine, because

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Speaker 1: you love her her as a person, right, whatever she

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Speaker 1: decides to be. It would be shocking. Obviously I'd be like, WHOA,

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Speaker 1: I had no idea, didn't see that coming, but all right,

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Speaker 1: let's do this. But if I was in that situation,

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Speaker 1: I might be upset because somebody died. But then if

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Speaker 1: you guys been together for seven years and he thought

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Speaker 1: you were a female the whole time and didn't know, Like,

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Speaker 1: to me, that's just weird. That he would leave. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: well you know that we stayed together. We tried to

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Speaker 1: make it, you know for about a year after I

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Speaker 1: had told him, and I guess because of the situation

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Speaker 1: and everything else, he just couldn't handle it anymore and

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Speaker 1: it just kind of stayd away, which is fine, you know,

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Speaker 1: fine because I'm better off now without you know, my

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Speaker 1: kids are growing now at that grand baby. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: you living the life, you know. I've only had one

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Speaker 1: person that I have dated that had questioned me about

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Speaker 1: whether I was a mailed or a female. And I

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Speaker 1: told him and he was fine with it, so, you know,

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Speaker 1: we date it for a little bit, but he just woked.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, that's cool, you know, and I look, while

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Speaker 1: you might have had that X that, you know, it

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Speaker 1: wasn't supportive. I think it's incredible that the rest of

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Speaker 1: your family seems to be just loving and supportive of you,

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Speaker 1: especially your mom, so totally for you. You know, don't

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Speaker 1: let that one person get you down. Screw them, right, well,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you so much. You're welcome. You're welcome.

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