WEBVTT - Karol Markowicz Show: Salena Zito's Journey into Journalism

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, Welcome back, Carol Marcowitz show on iHeartRadio. Clay Travis,

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<v Speaker 1>he of the Clay Travis and Buck Sexton podcast network

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<v Speaker 1>that this show is on, highlighted a new study about happiness,

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<v Speaker 1>and he pointed out that the happiness index has hit

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<v Speaker 1>an all time low and that that number is largely

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<v Speaker 1>driven by young people.

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<v Speaker 2>The United States overall happiness index, to the extent that

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<v Speaker 2>they track, this hit a all time low, and it's

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<v Speaker 2>being driven by people under the age of thirty. And

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<v Speaker 2>I would bet that it's women under the age of

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<v Speaker 2>thirty overwhelmingly who are unhappy. And I think it's hard

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<v Speaker 2>not to believe at this point that all of this

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<v Speaker 2>isn't directly connected to social media. I mean, if you

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<v Speaker 2>go look at the charts overall mental health rates. Now

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<v Speaker 2>certainly COVID didn't help, but overall mental health rates just

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<v Speaker 2>collapsed about twenty fourteen when social media became prevalent in

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<v Speaker 2>everybody's lives. Yeah, and I think we're going to find

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<v Speaker 2>out that this is like the nicotine or cigarettes of

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<v Speaker 2>our generation, where we allowed these phones and these social

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<v Speaker 2>media apps, particularly for young people, to really kind of

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<v Speaker 2>lead us astray in terms of our life's pursuit.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, he's right that it's the phones. But people who

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<v Speaker 1>have been listening to the show for a while know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm going to challenge here. It's not the social media.

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<v Speaker 1>There is no social media anymore. It used to be

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<v Speaker 1>that teenagers would get depressed because their friends would share

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<v Speaker 1>pictures on Facebook or Instagram of the amazing weekend they

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<v Speaker 1>had and maybe didn't include them. Or they'd see their

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<v Speaker 1>friends living amazing lives, filtered pictures, great vacations, perfect babies,

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<v Speaker 1>all of that. That's just not what's happening on the

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<v Speaker 1>internet anymore. That's not what the kids are watching. We're

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<v Speaker 1>just all watching TV all the time. It might not

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<v Speaker 1>be half hour or hour episodes, but these young people

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<v Speaker 1>are just scrolling through hours of videos. And I said

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<v Speaker 1>this last time, in the last episode about the girl,

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<v Speaker 1>the mom wrote in to me about her daughter who

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't seem to have a social life, and I said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we'd recognize depression if I told you someone

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<v Speaker 1>watches ten hours of TV a day. But because they

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<v Speaker 1>do it in bite size, you know, pieces, and they

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<v Speaker 1>carry it around with them on their phone, we don't

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<v Speaker 1>see how bad it is. Social media has nothing social

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<v Speaker 1>about it, and I think we need to see exactly

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<v Speaker 1>what the problem is in order to fix it. We

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<v Speaker 1>have to think of it like a little TV we

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<v Speaker 1>carry around. We have to understand how damaging it is

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<v Speaker 1>to be that distracted all the time. Just imagine when

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<v Speaker 1>there were no phones. If every time you were in

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<v Speaker 1>an awkward interaction, you just turned your television on. When

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<v Speaker 1>you're out, you don't see people taking selfies with their

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<v Speaker 1>friends anymore. Instead, you still might see like a full

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<v Speaker 1>on photo shoot, hapless man shooting his girlfriend from all

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<v Speaker 1>different angles. She's a content creator, fine, but there's nothing

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<v Speaker 1>social about that. And look at least her content is

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<v Speaker 1>a break from the videos. Instagram, by the way, now

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<v Speaker 1>offers bonuses for creator accounts that post photos because so

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<v Speaker 1>few of them do that. It would be something else

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<v Speaker 1>entirely if young people were still posting pictures of their

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<v Speaker 1>lunches or their parties or whatever. But they're not. They're

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<v Speaker 1>just zombiefied watching TV all the time. There's no way

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<v Speaker 1>happiness levels will increase until we solve that. Thanks for listening.

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<v Speaker 1>Coming up next an interview with Selena Zito. Join us

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<v Speaker 1>after the break. Welcome back to the Carol Marcowitch Show

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<v Speaker 1>on iHeartRadio. My guest today is Selena Zito. Selena is

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<v Speaker 1>a Washington Examiner reporter and author of the upcoming book Butler. Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>Selena is so nice to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi there, how are you?

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<v Speaker 1>We were just talking offline about how insane it is

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<v Speaker 1>that we've never met in real life. But I've been

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<v Speaker 1>a Selna Zito fan like much of the country for

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<v Speaker 1>a long long time now, and I just think you're

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<v Speaker 1>fantastic and everything you do is like full of joy

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<v Speaker 1>and happiness and you're wonderful. Thank you for coming on.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, thank you. I'm everybody's grandma.

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<v Speaker 1>No people really, actually everybody's bestie.

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<v Speaker 4>For it's basically the food. Then they maybe read me,

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<v Speaker 4>but basically the food. I have to tell your listeners though,

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<v Speaker 4>that I thought you gave me a homework assignment and

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<v Speaker 4>I obeyed because you told me.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how you phrased itel Like I said.

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<v Speaker 1>Here are the three questions I ask all my guests,

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<v Speaker 1>and my listeners will know that a lot of the time,

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<v Speaker 1>the guests won't read the emails, and you'll be able

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<v Speaker 1>to tell because they'll just be deer in headlights. When

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<v Speaker 1>I ask them kind of, you know, a big question

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<v Speaker 1>and like what do you worry about? And they're like

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<v Speaker 1>what where did this come from? But Selena sent me

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<v Speaker 1>back the answers, which was the cutest thing ever. I said, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to talk about it on the show and

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<v Speaker 1>she said, oh, I thought you gave me a homework assignment,

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<v Speaker 1>which she then did. She finished the homework assignment, she

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<v Speaker 1>was like, all right, I have homework. What am I

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<v Speaker 1>going to do?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>It was late though, Like if it was true homework,

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<v Speaker 5>I would have answered it that night, but in my

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<v Speaker 5>zeal to be a perfect progressister, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Sent it to you the night before.

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<v Speaker 1>It was great. I did not read your answers because

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be surprised.

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<v Speaker 3>I on't even remember them.

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<v Speaker 1>So the questions will be brand new either way, right,

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<v Speaker 1>brand new? So how did you get into this world?

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<v Speaker 1>I know a little bit about your story, but you

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<v Speaker 1>really hit the national scene in twenty sixteen writing pieces

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<v Speaker 1>that I think nobody else was doing anything close to. You.

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<v Speaker 1>Were doing this crazy thing where you went out and

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<v Speaker 1>you talked to regular people and ask them what they thought,

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<v Speaker 1>and that was really groundbreaking. So tell us about your path.

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<v Speaker 3>So I got into this accidentally, and sort of the

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<v Speaker 3>old fashioned way, the way journalists used to be years ago,

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<v Speaker 3>at local newspapers where they were members of the community,

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<v Speaker 3>and most of them didn't have college degrees, but they

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<v Speaker 3>had good writing skills, they had good people instincts, and

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<v Speaker 3>they were able to turn a phrase pretty well.

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<v Speaker 4>And that's basically all I had. And I also had

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<v Speaker 4>experiences as a hairdresser, as a waitress, and most importantly

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<v Speaker 4>as a soccer and football mom and hockey mom. So

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I came into the game late. I was

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<v Speaker 4>in my mid furies when I went back to work.

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<v Speaker 4>I was mostly a stay at a home mom at

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<v Speaker 4>that point. And they worked for the local newspaper, the

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<v Speaker 4>Pittsburgh Tribune Review. But the owner of the paper's name

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<v Speaker 4>was Richard Mellon'scaife. He had a very nationally well known name,

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<v Speaker 4>one of the richest men in the country, from a

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<v Speaker 4>very old family, the Mellon family, who owned all the

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<v Speaker 4>melon banking, and he had a really keen interest in

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<v Speaker 4>national news. And I don't know what he saw in me,

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<v Speaker 4>but he saw my ability to listen to people and

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<v Speaker 4>to be able to tell a decent story. And so

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<v Speaker 4>he said, do you want to cover national politics, and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, all right, and I did, and.

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<v Speaker 3>I learned pretty darn quickly. I was there for twenty years.

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<v Speaker 3>I did this for twenty years, covering local and national

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<v Speaker 3>politics and culture, and I learned pretty quickly. I think

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<v Speaker 3>it was the John Kerry campaign or the maybe it

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<v Speaker 3>was the Obama campaign. I can't remember. I knew very

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<v Speaker 3>quickly that I did not belong on the campaign bus,

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<v Speaker 3>like I just didn't not belong there. I remember calling it.

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<v Speaker 3>It happened. Maybe it was Carrie. I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 3>can't remember.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm old.

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<v Speaker 6>I just remember calling my boss from a pave phone,

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<v Speaker 6>yeah in Scranton, Pennsylvania, saying I can't go on this

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<v Speaker 6>bus any longer.

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<v Speaker 3>All I am doing is spending time with other reporters,

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<v Speaker 3>and they're all like, I have the same mindset. They're

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<v Speaker 3>not from Pennsylvania. They don't kind of understand our quirkiness.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm not having any interaction with voters because they

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<v Speaker 3>when you're in the press bus.

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<v Speaker 7>You don't get to talk to people. I'm like, I'm

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<v Speaker 7>writing crap. So he said, okay, just come home, and

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<v Speaker 7>and in typical Selena fashion, I told the bus to

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<v Speaker 7>just keep going without me. And then I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 7>wait a minute, I'm I gonna get know. SAT randomly rent.

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<v Speaker 4>A car, and from that moment on, I only drove

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<v Speaker 4>to whatever I was covering.

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<v Speaker 3>And I've driven driven to every state. I've even been

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<v Speaker 3>to Alaska. And I used to fly to.

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<v Speaker 4>Events, but flying then became ridiculous because I live in

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<v Speaker 4>a city where there's no hub, so therefore you had

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<v Speaker 4>to make like thirteen different connecting flights, and you would

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<v Speaker 4>miss one of them because one was late.

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<v Speaker 3>And so I just started driving. So when I interviewed

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<v Speaker 3>Governor DeSantis, I drove to Florida. But in that stretch,

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<v Speaker 3>I got seventeen other really good stories, right and and

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<v Speaker 3>and I always take back roads, they don't take turnpikes

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<v Speaker 3>or interstates, because that's where you can see how places

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<v Speaker 3>have changed for the better or for the worse, and

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<v Speaker 3>you can understand why people vote the way they do.

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<v Speaker 1>That is so amazing. I had no I did not

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<v Speaker 1>know the driving thing. I always felt like your writing

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<v Speaker 1>was you were trying to get to the bottom of

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<v Speaker 1>what people really thought and where they really lived. And

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<v Speaker 1>you always treat every place with such respect, And I

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<v Speaker 1>think that that's you know, so beautiful, but I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know you were driving the back roads to get those stories.

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<v Speaker 1>That's incredible.

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<v Speaker 4>My first Jeep had four hundred thousand miles. It was

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<v Speaker 4>fourteen years old. I'm on my second one and I

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<v Speaker 4>just passed two hundred and seventy thousand. So yeah, but

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<v Speaker 4>you know that's where the best stories are. I can't

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<v Speaker 4>if I take the interstate. That's no different than flying right.

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<v Speaker 4>When you pull over to get gas, it's like the

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<v Speaker 4>same gas station and the same McDonald's. And there's nothing

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<v Speaker 4>wrong with that. There's no depth of perception of understanding

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<v Speaker 4>why people vote the way they do. And that's why

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<v Speaker 4>I understood in twenty sixteen and Trump was going to win.

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<v Speaker 4>But I actually called this this conservative populist coalition that

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<v Speaker 4>was forming in two thousand and six during those mid terms,

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<v Speaker 4>and interestingly enough, it was when Republicans were losing to Democrats,

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like, what's going on here? And it

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<v Speaker 4>was this really interesting intersection where and Rob Emanuel, who

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<v Speaker 4>was then in charge of the d Triple C and

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<v Speaker 4>recruiting candidates, he picked candidates that were pro life, pro gun,

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<v Speaker 4>were fiscally responsible. So they picked candidates they Republicans could

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<v Speaker 4>be comfortable voting for In because he understood that Republicans

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<v Speaker 4>were pissed off at Republican candidates because they were spreending

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<v Speaker 4>like drunken sailors, right, and they had lost their way.

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<v Speaker 4>So it was showing me that these coalitions were starting

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<v Speaker 4>to shift and that the working class was becoming part

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<v Speaker 4>of the Republican Party. That was very early inception, but

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<v Speaker 4>it was definitely happening.

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<v Speaker 1>What has been the best part of all this, this

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<v Speaker 1>whole crazy journey that you've been taking.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, all the people I get to me, all the

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<v Speaker 4>privilege that I have to interview people where they are,

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<v Speaker 4>and really getting a profound sense of what place means

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<v Speaker 4>to people and having a sense of place being rooted.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, people don't realize, but eight out of ten

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<v Speaker 4>people in this eight out of ten people in this

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<v Speaker 4>country live within one hundred miles of where they grew up.

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<v Speaker 4>Seven ten people live within ten miles of where they

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<v Speaker 4>grew So roots matter. So when people don't understand take

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<v Speaker 4>my take my state for instance, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Her state is Pennsylvania. For anyone who doesn't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, oh Pennsylvania. So if anybody remembers one of the

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<v Speaker 4>last best speeches Joe Biden gave was at the State

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<v Speaker 4>of the Union dress in twenty twenty four. It was

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<v Speaker 4>arguably his best speech, and it was coherent and it

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<v Speaker 4>was to the point, and it was something that had

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<v Speaker 4>been lacking with him and leading to that date, and

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<v Speaker 4>so people were like, okay. But then he said something

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<v Speaker 4>in that speech. He said something about snackflation. And he

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<v Speaker 4>was talking about how greedy, uh, these these these uh

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<v Speaker 4>snack company owners were, and he pointed to Bob Casey,

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<v Speaker 4>who was then the US Senator from Pennsylvania Democrat, said

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<v Speaker 4>I'm putting you in charge of these evil, bad people.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm honestly paraphrasing a little bit on made yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>But not really in tone. He was like, you're in

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<v Speaker 4>charge of snackflation. Get you know, the all this greed,

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<v Speaker 4>And he was sort of putting the blame of inflation

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<v Speaker 4>on that. And I'm watching it and my mouth is

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<v Speaker 4>wide open. I'm like, wait, what do they not realize

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<v Speaker 4>that eighty percent of the snacks consumed in this country

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<v Speaker 4>are made in six counties in Pennsylvania. Affect someone's vote. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>the farmers, the manufacturers, the peoples in the people in

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<v Speaker 4>the c suites that live in the nice neighborhoods, to

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<v Speaker 4>drive the truck drivers. All of these people are a

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<v Speaker 4>coalition of people, and you just called them the bad guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, I had no idea, that's really sure. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>such an interesting point.

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<v Speaker 4>As not mean me, But I know you expect this

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<v Speaker 4>much Montumbery County or your county c suite, like living

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<v Speaker 4>in a half million dollar home, vote for Kamala Harris

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<v Speaker 4>or Joe Biden because that's what sort of the stereotype dictates.

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<v Speaker 4>But if you're going after my industry, I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 4>I know you think my family's going to vote for you,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think so. So it's those sort of intimate,

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<v Speaker 4>granular things that that makes me understand like why my

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<v Speaker 4>state is it mattered? But also if you didn't know this,

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<v Speaker 4>if you weren't on a back road in York Pennsylvania

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<v Speaker 4>and you didn't see snyders potato chips, or if you've

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<v Speaker 4>never been to Hershey Park and understand sort of all

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<v Speaker 4>that happens in our state, you know that that contributes

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<v Speaker 4>to snacks, then you know there was just such a

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<v Speaker 4>huge disconnect.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, he had no idea. He was just criticizing you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know some ceo. Yeah, some ceo somewhere right.

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<v Speaker 4>You literally look it up on Wikipedia. Snack belt Pennsylvania.

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<v Speaker 4>It's fascinating, not that hard.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow. So you're such a champion for Pennsylvania. You clearly

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<v Speaker 1>love your state so much. And you know, one of

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<v Speaker 1>my best friends considers Pittsburgh like, you know, the undiscovered

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<v Speaker 1>or not undiscovered but undervalued American city, which he just

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<v Speaker 1>thinks is like the greatest city in the country. I've

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<v Speaker 1>never been to Pittsburgh. What makes it so amazing?

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<v Speaker 4>And if you asked me five years ago, I would

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<v Speaker 4>say everything but the people. Undeniably, it's the people that

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<v Speaker 4>make the city amazing. Unfortunately, the politics in the city

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<v Speaker 4>has gotten very weird, uh. And there's been a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of anti Semitism, there has been, uh, you know, a

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<v Speaker 4>defiance to the Ice Org. There has been Its just

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<v Speaker 4>been very ugly, ugly politics. A lot of that has

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<v Speaker 4>to do with the Democrats Socialist of America sort of

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<v Speaker 4>being backing these far left candidates, right, because we are

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<v Speaker 4>a closed state and a closed primary state, and because

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<v Speaker 4>people generally that vote in primaries tend to be either

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<v Speaker 4>the furthest left or the furthest right of their party.

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<v Speaker 4>They have become the leaders in the in the city.

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<v Speaker 4>So thinks Summerly is our congresswoman. And so the politics

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<v Speaker 4>have have sort of hurt the city a little bit. Right.

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<v Speaker 4>We have a homeless problem, we have a crime problem.

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<v Speaker 4>But outside of that, my city is you know, it's

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<v Speaker 4>it's a beautiful city. It's a very old American city.

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<v Speaker 4>It was was literally considered the West uh in the

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<v Speaker 4>beginning of found things of our of our country. It's funny,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, my family has been in Pennsylvania since sixteen

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<v Speaker 4>thirty two, the Scottish shide, not the Italians. Yeah, there

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't even in Italy in sixteen thirty two. But the

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<v Speaker 4>and and have been in pennsylv in Lake, Pittsburgh and Butler.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what made That's what made what happened to me

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<v Speaker 4>and Butler are all that more. You know, personal have

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<v Speaker 4>been there since the seventeen fifties. I love my city.

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<v Speaker 4>I just wish that it would clean up as app We're.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to take a quick break and be right back

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<v Speaker 1>on the Carol Marco It Show. So what happened to

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<v Speaker 1>you in Butler? For anybody who doesn't.

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<v Speaker 4>Know, So, yeah, wait, y'all need to buy my book.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the book is called Butler, and when.

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<v Speaker 4>It's coming out, you can pre order it to re

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<v Speaker 4>order it now. So I was four feet away from

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<v Speaker 4>the President when he was shot at in Butler. It

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<v Speaker 4>was an interesting day, as any journalist knows when you go.

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<v Speaker 4>When you when you have certain things planned for a day,

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<v Speaker 4>including an interview, there's a seventy percent chance it's not

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<v Speaker 4>going to happen. Sure right, like your day's just not

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<v Speaker 4>going to go the way it planned, and you have

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<v Speaker 4>to be ready at cord of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I was supposed to interview President Trump that day, July thirteenth,

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<v Speaker 4>in Butler, and it was supposed to be five minute

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<v Speaker 4>interview right before the rally, and about three hours before

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<v Speaker 4>he got there, I get a text saying, Hey, change

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<v Speaker 4>of plans, and so I immediately think, I it's not going

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<v Speaker 4>to happen, But they said no, can you interview them

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<v Speaker 4>for five minutes after the rally? I said bought. And

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<v Speaker 4>then about an hour before President Trump gets there, I

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<v Speaker 4>get a text saying, so, hey, President Trump really doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>want you to be like five minute interview. Want to

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<v Speaker 4>fly with him to Bedminster to the interview. On the plane,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, well, I didn't have out on my bingo card, right,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, yeah, I had my daughter with me. She's

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<v Speaker 4>a photo journalist, so she was gonna do the photos.

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<v Speaker 4>So she you know, has four kids. Her husband was

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<v Speaker 4>with her. There's a reason why her husband was with there.

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<v Speaker 4>It was one hundred and three degrees that day. We

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<v Speaker 4>made him carry everything, so we're like, okay, that's what

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<v Speaker 4>we're gonna do. And about two minutes before, no, about

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<v Speaker 4>five minutes before President Trump's about to go on stage,

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<v Speaker 4>this campaign advance man grab me and said it's go time.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, oh my god, everything's changed again. Like follow

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<v Speaker 4>him through this like narrow little causeway. We go in

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<v Speaker 4>the back of the stage, there's President Trump. It's called

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<v Speaker 4>a clickroom. A clickroom is where generally the president will

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<v Speaker 4>meet with like local people. A couple people grabbed from

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<v Speaker 4>the crowd and law enforcement and then their photo taking

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<v Speaker 4>with the president. They put me at the end of

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<v Speaker 4>the line, the three of us at the end of

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<v Speaker 4>the line, and I said, well, where are we doing

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<v Speaker 4>this interview? And the poor guys his name was Michelle goes,

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<v Speaker 4>I actually don't know. He's let me go ask the president.

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<v Speaker 4>He goes, around. There's a big curt and he goes

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<v Speaker 4>around and uh, he comes back. It's just like the

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<v Speaker 4>very sheepishly says, he just wanted to say, Hi, We're

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<v Speaker 4>still going to Bedminster. I'm like, okay, right, so again

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<v Speaker 4>things are changed. I go around and and we have

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<v Speaker 4>this thing between us. He always is like, say, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>best hair in America? Yeah, And I get so embarrassed

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<v Speaker 4>because then everybody is staring at me, like, and I'm thinking,

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<v Speaker 4>is my hair good? I've been in the amenity for

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<v Speaker 4>like five hours. I don't I hear you?

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<v Speaker 1>Girl?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, my curly Italian hair, like we can't keep it straight. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So he asked about my great children and then set

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<v Speaker 4>me on my way. So at this point he can't

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<v Speaker 4>get us back to the press riser where the rest

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<v Speaker 4>of the press are, because that little causeway that we

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<v Speaker 4>were sent through was now closed off. So he goes, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>since you're going right after the rally with the President,

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<v Speaker 4>let's put you in the buffer. And the buffer is

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<v Speaker 4>is sort of a well mostly used by security that

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<v Speaker 4>separates the president from the crowd and also by photo

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<v Speaker 4>journalists because just going to well follow him around as

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<v Speaker 4>he goes out on the stage and then get over

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<v Speaker 4>on the far side. Okay, we're all taking photos. My daughter,

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<v Speaker 4>my son in Loave became We're what. He comes out,

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<v Speaker 4>he waves to the crowd. He then goes up to

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<v Speaker 4>the podium. And you know, if you've never been to

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<v Speaker 4>a Trump rally, you don't understand. But the relationship between

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<v Speaker 4>him and the people that are attending it is very transactional.

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<v Speaker 4>He feeds off of them, they feed off of him.

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<v Speaker 4>And this is in a positive way. This is a

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<v Speaker 4>very sort of aspirational way. People believe they are part

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<v Speaker 4>of something bigger than themselves, and Chump intuitively understands that

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<v Speaker 4>he is as well. He's part of it. He's part

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<v Speaker 4>of them. It's not just about him, it's about everybody there.

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<v Speaker 4>So because of that, he never looks away from the crowd.

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<v Speaker 4>He'll move his he'll move his body and look at

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<v Speaker 4>different size, like turn around and look at crowds around.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like he has notes or anything.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so two things happen simultaneously that never happened. He

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<v Speaker 4>brings a chart down, I'm like, what is he? Ross

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<v Speaker 4>Perot like, he never has a chart? Amazing, And then

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<v Speaker 4>he turns away from the crowd, and he never does that.

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<v Speaker 4>And at that moment, I hear pop pop pop pop.

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<v Speaker 4>The bullets fly right over. I watch him go down,

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<v Speaker 4>but he takes himself down. I note that, like it's

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<v Speaker 4>really weird. You know how they always say things happen

0:24:09.880 --> 0:24:13.600
<v Speaker 4>in slow motion, They absolutely do. Really, I can see

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<v Speaker 4>him go down. I can see him hold his ear.

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<v Speaker 4>I see the Secret Service go around him. You remember,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like four feet away from him.

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<v Speaker 1>At this point. And is your daughter snapping pictures?

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<v Speaker 4>My daughter? Yeah, we're We don't stop working until the

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<v Speaker 4>second four bullets go by and Michelle takes us down.

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<v Speaker 4>The campaign press guy, He's amazing. He's my hero, he

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<v Speaker 4>Michelle Picard. I will love him forever. He was so

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<v Speaker 4>protective of all of us. And I can I can

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<v Speaker 4>hear the whole conversation he is having with the Secret Service,

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<v Speaker 4>and you know, like about when to go up, you

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<v Speaker 4>know that the shooter is dead, Like you can hear

0:25:00.800 --> 0:25:03.000
<v Speaker 4>them talking, you can hear their ray. I can hear

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<v Speaker 4>the radio's just because of how close you am, and

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<v Speaker 4>I can. It was a little bit funny. It's funnier now.

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<v Speaker 4>It was a little bit funny in the moment, and

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<v Speaker 4>hear him like they want him to get up and

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<v Speaker 4>wanted me to go. But he's like basically saying, I

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<v Speaker 4>need to put my damn shoes on right, like his

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<v Speaker 4>someone had knocked his shoes off, and and I hear

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<v Speaker 4>one agent sigh like okay, all right, like okay, put

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<v Speaker 4>your shoes on right.

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<v Speaker 1>But they get his shoes off. That's so weird.

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<v Speaker 4>And then he comes off the stage. He goes right

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<v Speaker 4>past me. There is an agent that holds a gun

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<v Speaker 4>right in our heads as he's going past, because they

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<v Speaker 4>still don't know what. And so I did not go

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<v Speaker 4>to Bedminster that day, no, obviously. But he calls me

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<v Speaker 4>the next morning, right and early, and before I could

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<v Speaker 4>say hello, like I didn't even get my hello out.

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<v Speaker 4>So are you okay? Is Shannon and Mike okay? I'm

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<v Speaker 4>like and I felt like saying, are you freaking kidding me?

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<v Speaker 4>You do you've just been shot?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, maybe focus on yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. We would ended up talking, I believe seven different

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<v Speaker 4>times that day. You called me back a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>times because he kept getting interrupted obviously obviously, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 4>also just talking about faith, about him making that decision,

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<v Speaker 4>like all of that's all details of those conversations are

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<v Speaker 4>in the book.

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot wait to read this because he seems like

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<v Speaker 1>a changed person after.

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<v Speaker 4>He's probably changed. Yeah, as someone that has interviewed him

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<v Speaker 4>nineteen times, he is definitely a changed hersent. And there's

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<v Speaker 4>really some poignant moments with him and I after that

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<v Speaker 4>at different places. Is they're really powerful. But but the

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<v Speaker 4>book also really gets into like everybody was reading things

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<v Speaker 4>in other newspapers and thinking one thing might happen, and

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<v Speaker 4>I kept writing notes, not you'll need to come to Pennsylvania.

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<v Speaker 1>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>It was clear to me that that that she stood

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<v Speaker 4>no chance. Biden definitely didn't stand a chance. Probably, I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>I will say this unequivocally, would have lost worse than

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<v Speaker 4>she did. Really, it was clear to me that she

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<v Speaker 4>was not gonna win. She she had no cultural connection to.

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<v Speaker 1>The voters here and that or any kind of connection

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<v Speaker 1>I think to any voters she was impossible to really

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<v Speaker 1>get through to.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. So, and and you'll find out in the book

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<v Speaker 4>the first the forward in the book, not the forwards,

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<v Speaker 4>the first chapter, you'll find out that there was another

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<v Speaker 4>president that was shot in Butler. And it is really

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<v Speaker 4>intense and it's really really.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting, shocking. I can't wait to read it, Butler, and

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<v Speaker 1>when does it come out again?

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<v Speaker 4>That comes out of July eighth.

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<v Speaker 1>But pre order, pre order preorders are important like this, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the main thing. Everybody pre orders Lena's book. It's

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<v Speaker 1>going to be amazing. You could tell by the story

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<v Speaker 1>she just told how incredible a storyteller she is. And

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<v Speaker 1>I just can't wait to read it. So a question

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<v Speaker 1>that I ask all of my guests is what do

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<v Speaker 1>you worry about?

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<v Speaker 4>So, as I said in my homework sign, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 4>tend not to work really yeah, I mean it doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>kind of.

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<v Speaker 1>Italian doesn't worry.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, here's why you don't worry, because it has no power.

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<v Speaker 4>Worry has absolutely no power. It drains you. It can't

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<v Speaker 4>do Worry can do nothing to change circumstances. It is

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<v Speaker 4>just a waste of energy. If you want to, if

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<v Speaker 4>you have something that's really sort of concerning you, or

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<v Speaker 4>a life struggle that you're trying to work your way through,

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<v Speaker 4>or even if it's just an issue with your child

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<v Speaker 4>or your parents or your family or your career, the

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<v Speaker 4>best thing to do is go outside and take a walk.

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<v Speaker 4>And if faith is important to you, prayer is something

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<v Speaker 4>that has often gotten me through And by the way,

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<v Speaker 4>ever get everything I ask for. When I pray, I

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<v Speaker 4>probably only get a tense But prayer is really really

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<v Speaker 4>a great way or being reflective is a great way

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<v Speaker 4>to uplift that stress, and it helps you understand that

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<v Speaker 4>there are some things you just don't have control over,

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<v Speaker 4>and it helps you think about better ways to manage it.

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<v Speaker 1>What advice would you give your sixteen year old self?

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<v Speaker 1>What does sixteen year old Selena need to know?

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<v Speaker 4>All the things you're going to fail at, don't worry

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<v Speaker 4>about it. They end up being the things that make

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<v Speaker 4>you successful.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you What have you failed at?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? I've a fired so many times?

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<v Speaker 1>Really, just I see you as like this beloved writer.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I was thinking about this before our interview, Like

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<v Speaker 1>the right is very fractured, and there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>like groups or clicks or whatever, and you just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of transcend all of that. And so it's surprising to

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<v Speaker 1>me that you failed at anything.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, that's because I didn't belong there. You have. We

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<v Speaker 4>have to recognize failures aren't about not trying hard enough.

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<v Speaker 4>Failures about it not being a good fit. It's sort

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<v Speaker 4>of like going on a date with the euro Say

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<v Speaker 4>you're a woman and you meet the perfect guy, right,

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<v Speaker 4>and you like you know you, you get along and

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<v Speaker 4>on paper he's great. On paper, you're great. But it

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't work out. And it's not because either were bad.

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<v Speaker 4>It's because it wasn't a good fit. He's in corporate

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<v Speaker 4>America for two jobs and I was terrible at it.

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<v Speaker 4>And it was not nothing to do with not working

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<v Speaker 4>really hard, right, I was just really really bad. But

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<v Speaker 4>where I learned so much, and I think what makes

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<v Speaker 4>me a good writer is observation skills. I have always

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<v Speaker 4>been a people watcher and it has taught me so much.

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<v Speaker 4>But also being a waitress, being a hairdresser, being a

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<v Speaker 4>hockey mom, soccer mom, football mom, my kids played every

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<v Speaker 4>cross mom, my kids played every sport imaginable.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I have one of those.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. And also understanding place in the world where you

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<v Speaker 4>are and where you're from. A respect for a place,

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<v Speaker 4>no matter where you no matter where you find yourself,

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<v Speaker 4>helps you become a better writer.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that. I love everything you do. She's so fantastic.

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<v Speaker 1>Selena Zito, leave us here with your best tip for

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<v Speaker 1>my listeners on how they can improve their lives. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go one of the three questions, Selena, you

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<v Speaker 1>wrote out an answer, I can go find you right out.

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<v Speaker 4>An answer, and I go back to my second answer. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>how do you improve your lives? Take a little care

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<v Speaker 4>of yourself. I'm telling you nothing is better than either

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<v Speaker 4>a good cup of coffee or glass of water or

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<v Speaker 4>whatever your drink of choices shouldn't be alcohol in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>And take a walk. Yeah, a fifteen minute walk you

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<v Speaker 4>walk in your house like it gets your endorphins going, right.

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<v Speaker 4>As What's your Name famously said in What's the Movie

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<v Speaker 4>where she becomes a lawyer.

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<v Speaker 1>I think legally blind. I felt like I knew where

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<v Speaker 1>you were going with this reason. With food, your endorphins.

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<v Speaker 4>If you're if you're working, you're endor happy.

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<v Speaker 1>People don't kill people.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And so taking that walk, you know, in the

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<v Speaker 4>first thing in the morning, even if your kids are

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<v Speaker 4>around the how do circuits around your house, whatever you

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<v Speaker 4>need to do, get get those juices flowing. It helps

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<v Speaker 4>your mind be clear and had its Exercise is never bad.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, hear. I wouldn't take the chance myself, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that would be my best advice. I love it. She

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<v Speaker 1>is Selena Zito. She's amazing. Pre Order her new book, Butler.

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<v Speaker 1>It's going to be out in July, but pre order

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<v Speaker 1>it right now so you have it the day it

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<v Speaker 1>comes out. Thank you so much, Selena Zito.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you so much for having me. This is fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks so much for joining us on the Carol Markho

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<v Speaker 1>would show. Subscribe wherever you get your podcasts.