1 00:00:01,200 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 1: you need advice, I'm talking about you, talking to you. 3 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:10,480 Speaker 1: If you need advice and relationships, on dating, on work, 4 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:14,800 Speaker 1: on sex, on parenting, and more. Please submit your Strawberry 5 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:19,239 Speaker 1: Letter to Steve Harvey f M and click submit Strawberry Letter. 6 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 1: That's all you have to do. We'll get the letter 7 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 1: and we could be reading your letter live on the air, 8 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 1: just like we're gonna be reading this one right here, 9 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 1: right now. Why you would want that? I have no idea. 10 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: Let's buckle up, hold on tight, we got it. Call 11 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:37,319 Speaker 1: you here. It is the Strawberry Letter. That's right. Let 12 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 1: us know your problem. Subject. I want a man, a 13 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 1: real man, not this man. Dear Stephen Shirley. I have 14 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 1: been married to my husband for thirteen years, but we 15 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 1: have been together for a total of twenty three years. 16 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 1: We have one son, and my husband is a great 17 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 1: provider for our family. I am, however, concerned about the 18 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 1: example of manhood that he is displaying for our son. 19 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:08,480 Speaker 1: My husband is non confrontational, so we haven't argued in years. 20 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 1: If we have a disagreement, he will just agree with 21 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:16,039 Speaker 1: me to avoid conflict. He's always eager to help others, 22 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 1: and he does favors for his family members all the time, 23 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 1: even if he is not feeling up to it. He 24 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:25,279 Speaker 1: rarely gets frustrated or raises his voice. He is also 25 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 1: very pleasant at work, and he has been overlooked for 26 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:31,679 Speaker 1: promotions because he won't be more assertive and speak up 27 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: for himself. He is always concerned about what other people 28 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 1: think of him, and he never wants to upset his 29 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 1: coworkers or the few friends we have. His behavior is 30 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 1: a huge turn off, and quite frankly, I've had it 31 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: with mister nice guy. I want my husband to be 32 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 1: my rock and my protector, but instead I wear the 33 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 1: pants in our household. The situation is getting worse as 34 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: he gets older and more complacent. I would love to 35 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 1: hear him say I got this baby and take charge, 36 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: but that hasn't happened in years. I also want him 37 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 1: to take charge in the bedroom so I don't always 38 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 1: have to initiate intimacy When we spend time as a family, 39 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: I make the decisions on what we will do, and 40 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 1: I always drive us around. So far, my attempts to 41 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 1: talk to him have not worked at all. So how 42 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:27,640 Speaker 1: can I get him to understand that he needs to 43 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: man up without insulting him. Please advise. All right, give 44 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:36,959 Speaker 1: me a moment here, but I'm trying to figure out 45 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: what's really going on here and what you're really upset about. 46 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 1: I mean, thirteen years of marriage. You say he's a 47 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:47,919 Speaker 1: great provider, he's always eager to help others, he's non confrontational. 48 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 1: You guys haven't argued in years. He doesn't raise his voice, 49 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 1: and in your words, he's a mister nice guy. I mean, 50 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:58,240 Speaker 1: you guys have been together for twenty three years. Surely 51 00:02:58,440 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 1: you knew he was a kind of like a people 52 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: pleasing kind of a guy. You know, cared about what 53 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 1: people thought of him, helpful guy, this non assertive person 54 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:10,519 Speaker 1: that you talk about in the letter, especially back in 55 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 1: the day when you married him. That was thirteen years ago. 56 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 1: Bottom line, you have a problem with this now. I 57 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:20,359 Speaker 1: guess you're growing and perhaps he's still the same or 58 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 1: something you want him to change, and your attempt to 59 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 1: talk to him it's fallen on deaf ears. He's getting worse, 60 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 1: you say in your opinions since you get older. I mean, 61 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 1: I can only suggest at this point, since you guys 62 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 1: are are kind of had an impass. You want things 63 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 1: one way and he's doing it the way he's been 64 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: doing it, and you want to change. You know, I 65 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 1: gotta suggest some counseling for you guys to get over 66 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 1: this situation. And when you do talk to him, how 67 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 1: are you talking to him? I mean, is it a 68 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:56,000 Speaker 1: way that you're turning him off? You you're turning him off? 69 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 1: Are you nagging him? What are you? What are you doing? 70 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 1: You know in situation? I'm not blaming you, I'm just 71 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 1: asking you a a question. I would definitely contact a marriage 72 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 1: counselor though though to try and help you guys get 73 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 1: through the situation together together. All right, that's my answer, Steve. 74 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 1: Nice answer, Shirley, really good, well thought out. You've given 75 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:21,599 Speaker 1: out good advice. I would recommend therapy two, but I 76 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 1: never do and I'm not fitnish start today. We can 77 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: work this out as pope. People who don't have money 78 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 1: for therapy. So now what you need is a therapeutic conversation. 79 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:39,600 Speaker 1: I fitting to get to you right now. I've been 80 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 1: married to my husband thirteen years. We've been together twenty three, 81 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:46,040 Speaker 1: we got one son. Now here's a compliment. Your husband's 82 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 1: a great provider. I'm however, concerned about the example of 83 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 1: manhood that he's displaying to my son. I pumped the brakes. 84 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:59,719 Speaker 1: My question to you is this, you're concerned about the 85 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 1: of manhood he's displaying to your son. What level of 86 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:08,919 Speaker 1: manhood did he display to you to make you stay 87 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 1: for twenty three years. Let's back up now, lady, you 88 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 1: talking to somebody who thinks these things out. I am, however, 89 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 1: concerned about the example. My husband is non confrontational, so 90 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:25,679 Speaker 1: we haven't argued in years. Wait a minute, you're writing 91 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:29,279 Speaker 1: a letter of complaint because you and your husband hasn't 92 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:35,599 Speaker 1: argued in years. Okay, let's mark that down. If we 93 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 1: have a disagreement, he would just agree with me to 94 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 1: avoid conflict. So you mean to tell me you're writing 95 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 1: a letter because you keep getting your weight. Okay, let's 96 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 1: mark that down. Now. He's always eager to help others, 97 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 1: and he does favors for his family members all the time. 98 00:05:56,720 --> 00:06:00,120 Speaker 1: Excuse me, you're writing a letter because you're married to 99 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:04,359 Speaker 1: a good, a nice man. Okay, let's write that down. 100 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 1: Even if he's not filling up to it. He rarely 101 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:10,599 Speaker 1: wait here help people if he don't feel like it. 102 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 1: This is what we're complaining about. I just want y'all 103 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 1: to hit it. He rarely gets frustrated or raises his voice. 104 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:24,599 Speaker 1: You mean he's an actual calming force at his house 105 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:28,040 Speaker 1: and on his job. I'm just I want y'all to 106 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 1: hear with this woman to say. He is also very 107 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:38,159 Speaker 1: pleasant at work. I'll be damn if you don't get 108 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:41,279 Speaker 1: down there and start acting like a butthole on that job, 109 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:46,839 Speaker 1: having everybody like you. All right, coming up Part two 110 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:50,599 Speaker 1: of Steve's response to this letter, I want a real man, 111 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 1: not this man. We'll be back at twenty three after 112 00:06:53,200 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 1: the hour you're listening. Let's recap today's Strawberry Letters, Steve, 113 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 1: and get back to your response subject, I want a 114 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 1: real man, not this man. This woman just been complaining 115 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 1: about her husband because he's non confrontation. They ain't argued 116 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 1: in years. They're have an agree a disagreement. He'll just 117 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 1: agree with her to avoid the conflict. He's eager to 118 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 1: help other people do family for his new favors for 119 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 1: his families and friends, even if he don't want to. 120 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 1: He rarely gets frustrated or raises his voice. He's also 121 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:30,239 Speaker 1: very pleasant at work, and he's been overlooked for promotion 122 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 1: because he won't be more assertive and speak up for himself. 123 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 1: Maybe that ain't the reason. He's also concerned about what 124 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: other people think of him, and we never wants upset. 125 00:07:37,960 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 1: His co workers are a few friends we do have 126 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 1: him and y'all got friends, probably because he's such a 127 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 1: nice guy. Right here's where the letter turned ugly. His 128 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 1: behavior is a huge turn off. So now she's not 129 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 1: attracted to him anymore. And quite frankly, I've had it 130 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 1: with mister nice guy. See what she wanted? Somebody coming 131 00:07:57,880 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 1: in there in ass whipping mode. Want somebody coming over 132 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 1: here taking over furniture, Well what do you want? You 133 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:06,080 Speaker 1: want somebody coming in the house and ask for more? 134 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 1: Where so he just walking in the house as ready 135 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 1: made conflict, wants to start arguments. Don't want to agree 136 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 1: with nothing you say. You want a man to quit 137 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 1: giving you your way, You won't opposition, See you crazy? 138 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 1: Now what you're saying is I've had it with mister 139 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 1: knice guy that I've never heard. I've had it with 140 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 1: mister knights And see you ain't tracked to it. Y'all 141 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 1: probably ain't having sex no more. None of this the 142 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 1: situation that gets worse as he getting older and more complacent. 143 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 1: I would love to him say I got this baby 144 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:40,679 Speaker 1: and take charge. This ain't happening years. I also want 145 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 1: him take charge in the bedroom so I don't have 146 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 1: to do all that initiate intimies man week time. As 147 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 1: a family, I make decision what we do or where 148 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 1: we go who. I always drive us around. So far 149 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 1: my attempts to talk to him and not worked out 150 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 1: at all. How could I get him to understand he 151 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:57,439 Speaker 1: needs a man up without his setting him? Please say 152 00:08:57,440 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 1: about he don't want in the letter to me, I 153 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 1: always drive us around, Always drive us because you're jumping 154 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 1: in you jumping behind the wheel, Joe, bossy ass, I 155 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:12,720 Speaker 1: tell you what's wrong? Yeah, let me let me tell 156 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:14,839 Speaker 1: you what you wear? The pass and the family take 157 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 1: him off. I think the man tie to you. I 158 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 1: really do you sound exhausting to me? He ain't arguing 159 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 1: with you no more, He ain't getting in no conflict, 160 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 1: so you no more. I think you run your mouth 161 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 1: at the house all the time. I think you complain 162 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 1: a lot because you don't got sick of him, so 163 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 1: you didn't wrote a letter. Any woman gets sick of 164 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 1: a man. She gonna voice it in the marriage. You 165 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 1: ain't just sitting there quietly seething. You keep telling me 166 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:43,720 Speaker 1: about itself? Right? And and how when did he get 167 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 1: like this? The older he get the worst he getting. 168 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 1: He sounded like a cool guy to me. Damn what 169 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:55,680 Speaker 1: you want? But see, here's what didn't happen. Has he changed? Maybe? 170 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:59,679 Speaker 1: But let me ask her something? Did she change too? 171 00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:02,559 Speaker 1: And I think what didn't happened is is the people 172 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: that you all have become. Y'all don't like each other. No, bo, 173 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:09,080 Speaker 1: it's called growing a part. See what used to be 174 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 1: okay with you is now on your nerves. You married 175 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 1: the man probably because he was kind, he was non conflict. 176 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 1: He gave you your weight, he took care of you. 177 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:20,320 Speaker 1: It was great provider. I bet that's why you married. 178 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:22,839 Speaker 1: Now all of a sudden you tired of that. And 179 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 1: I didn't understand the woman that don't want a good guy? 180 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:29,320 Speaker 1: Damn what your world? What you want to happen? Here? 181 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:33,079 Speaker 1: So let's have a reenact. Man, Jane, I'm here here, 182 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:37,080 Speaker 1: we're going, right, you the woman, I'm the guy. Let's 183 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:40,559 Speaker 1: go here we go. Let's where you been? Oh? I 184 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:43,559 Speaker 1: just can't know what you mean when we've been I've 185 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:45,200 Speaker 1: been sitting here. I don't have waiting on you enough. 186 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 1: Where you've been, just been trying to get to you, 187 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 1: trying to get to me. Who I'm here? You know 188 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:50,880 Speaker 1: where I'm at? What you mean you're trying to get 189 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 1: to me? You know where I'm at? You left, I 190 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:53,960 Speaker 1: was here, and when you come back, I was here 191 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 1: waiting on you. I know how long it take you 192 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:02,559 Speaker 1: to get home. I know the round you take. I 193 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 1: did you go someplace else today? You know? Getting him fast? 194 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:11,120 Speaker 1: Drive faster tomorrow you should get You should be hit 195 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 1: faster because I'm sitting here waiting. You got me here, 196 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:15,680 Speaker 1: sitting waiting on you by day, every day I wait. 197 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 1: I sit out there and I wait on you. Why 198 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 1: am I waiting? Why? I need to know? Why? Didn't 199 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 1: where you are? And tell me why I'm waiting? Why 200 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 1: do you think I'm waiting? Why do you askause I 201 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 1: was driving too slow? No? No, no? Where were you? 202 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 1: And then answer why am I waiting? Go ahead, answer 203 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 1: that I was in the car driving my waiting and 204 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:36,360 Speaker 1: then the answer you know what? Right? I don't like 205 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:38,840 Speaker 1: to answer me? Why am I waiting? And why are 206 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:40,439 Speaker 1: you where you've been. I need to know all of 207 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 1: those three questions right now. Baby, I can't. I can't 208 00:11:44,600 --> 00:11:46,920 Speaker 1: answer quick. You won't let me. Where have you been? 209 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 1: Why am I waiting? And why I just told you 210 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 1: where you've been? Why am I asking you these questions 211 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:57,559 Speaker 1: I need? I'm like man, sound like I'm man? Do 212 00:11:57,720 --> 00:12:00,199 Speaker 1: I sound like I man? No? You know what I'm mad? 213 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 1: My bad? Let me stop being man? O your man? 214 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:08,199 Speaker 1: Now I was mad. I was mad. Now you're mad. 215 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:17,559 Speaker 1: You being mad because you being mad? O man? I 216 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:21,440 Speaker 1: want to know why you take so long to get home? 217 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:25,079 Speaker 1: And why do you want me to tell you? Do 218 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 1: you want me to tell you? You tell me? I 219 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:31,839 Speaker 1: can't stay in your fucking as. I'm tired of your 220 00:12:31,960 --> 00:12:34,959 Speaker 1: ass at the time. I can't not do it's right, 221 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 1: and I won't a damn divorce. That's the nice guy. Yeah, 222 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 1: come on, I ain't what she won't she won't just 223 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 1: heal you rarely get frustrated and raise your voice. I 224 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 1: knew this was coming. I knew it. My mama did. Well. 225 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:58,840 Speaker 1: You know all Strawberry. Letders don't end happy but your 226 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 1: own feelings. Yeah, sure, we get your part, all right. Listen, 227 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:10,200 Speaker 1: we gotta get out of here. Please email us our 228 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 1: Instagram us your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter. 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