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Speaker 2: We get a lot of email submissions for second dates

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Speaker 2: on this show. Something just jumped out about one from

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Speaker 2: a woman named Bonnie and had nothing to do with

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Speaker 3: Though.

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Speaker 2: Huh, make sure you're sitting down for this, because Bonnie

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Speaker 2: says she has been on the dating apps now for

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Speaker 4: Decades rap.

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Speaker 1: Longer than longer than Alexis has been alive.

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Speaker 4: Basically literally the websites have been around that long. I

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Speaker 4: mean like match and stuff. Okay, yeah, like online dating

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Speaker 4: has been a fan for that long.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for confirming what she said.

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Speaker 4: She's lying.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why anybody would admit to that in

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Speaker 2: an email. It's kind of a quadruple red flag.

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Speaker 5: Well, she's had a lot of relationships from these things

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Speaker 5: over the twenty years.

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Speaker 2: Sure, hopefully she didn't say that on the date to

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Speaker 2: the guy, though, I need to ask her, Bonnie, are

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Speaker 2: you there?

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Speaker 6: Hey, I'm here.

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Speaker 2: So let me just start the guy that you went

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Speaker 2: out with. We'll get his name in a second. But

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Speaker 2: did you tell him that you've been actively on the

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 3: I did.

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Speaker 6: I thought it's an interesting fun fact about me. Like

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Speaker 6: I've actually kept count the entire time.

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Speaker 1: Okay, kept count?

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Speaker 5: Wait, like kept count of how many dates you've been

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Speaker 5: on from these?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Whoa?

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Speaker 4: How many? How I'm dying to know how many dates

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Speaker 4: can you do in twenty years?

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Speaker 6: He was my one seven date?

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Speaker 1: Oh one thousand seven dates?

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Speaker 4: That is your system?

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Speaker 5: Like you count a different person gets one count or

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Speaker 4: Do you know what I'm saying?

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Speaker 6: You know, I guess I only count like dates, you know,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so every day counts as a Wow, you

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Speaker 2: aren't you exhausted at this point?

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Speaker 1: After one and twenty seven dates?

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Speaker 6: You know, it's not all that bad. Like I've ended

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Speaker 6: up with four long term boyfriends. Okay, I've gotten engaged

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Speaker 5: Okay, how have you not written a book on how

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Speaker 5: to do well? Say?

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Speaker 4: I can't tell she'd be like the spokesperson or make

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Speaker 4: you wanted to delete them? You know which it is?

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Speaker 4: She got engaged twice, I mean like she got two

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Speaker 1: She's not happily married. How to not do it?

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Speaker 4: I don't think so. I think it's a success. I mean,

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Speaker 4: it depends on what you're hoping for, I guess.

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Speaker 5: But like she's doing it right enough where there's real

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Speaker 1: That's a good point.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Like it's just never quite worked out all the way,

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Speaker 5: Just want to spend the rest of the time talking

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Speaker 5: about your horror stories.

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Speaker 4: You have so many.

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Speaker 1: We could have her on Battle of Tender Dates battling herself. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But I mean, okay, so you've been through a lot

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Speaker 2: it be if after going through all of that, you

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Speaker 2: finally found real love on our show. That's what I'm

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Speaker 1: It could be the case with this new guy that

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, what was his name? Did you tell me?

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Speaker 1: We haven't learned it yet. What's his name?

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Speaker 6: His name's Grant?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, tell us about Grant?

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Speaker 6: Okay. Well, he asked me on to a restaurant and

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Speaker 6: I did not want to tell him. I've been there

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Speaker 1: Why didn't you tell him that? Why would that be

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Speaker 4: That's her boundary. You're wondering why she told him about

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Speaker 2: That maybe if you told him he would have felt

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Speaker 6: No, I feel like it to just be weird, like

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's what you want. You want him

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Speaker 2: in the day of the whole company.

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Speaker 1: He's like, what about here?

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Speaker 4: What about There's not like that?

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Speaker 5: I mean, after twenty years of doing these this online dating,

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Speaker 5: she's still positive, She's still kind Like that says something

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Speaker 2: We haven't even called the guy yet, Brooks so well true,

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Speaker 2: He's like judgment, So tell us, sorry if we're just

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Speaker 1: Run us through it?

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Speaker 6: Well, he showed up with a bouquet of flowers, and

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Speaker 6: I thought that was a really sweet gesture, Like not

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Speaker 5: Okay, so he obviously wanted to impress you. He was

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Speaker 6: Well, honestly, it was kind of like you guys, Like,

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Speaker 6: once I told him I'd been on the apps for

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Speaker 1: Yeah, naturally, So.

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Speaker 6: We talked about that, We talked about our job histories,

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Speaker 6: and I thought it was good, Like, I don't know.

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Speaker 6: The thing I've learned from all of these dates is

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Speaker 6: that I've learned like most good first dates won't blow

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Speaker 6: the ones that do blow you away, but they often

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Alexis, how do you feel about that you're

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Speaker 4: She didn't.

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Speaker 6: You can sleep with them, that's right.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad figure out where the lines are. So overall,

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Speaker 6: I mean overall? I think we had a nice time.

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Speaker 6: It was like probably an eighth and teaches me on

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Speaker 1: Okay, so what has happened since this date with Grant?

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Speaker 6: We texted a little, but I think he's husbant to

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Speaker 6: ask me out why. I don't know. I don't know exactly,

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Speaker 6: and I'm a little worried that if you get him

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Speaker 6: should have changed about myself, like twenty years ago or something.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean if he said that too late, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: you worry about it like you've.

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Speaker 2: Had a piece of spinach stuck in your teeth for

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Speaker 2: the last twenty years.

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Speaker 1: Nobody said anything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, even the two guys you were engaged to never brought.

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Speaker 1: It up the entire.

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Speaker 6: Dump them.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I mean, we can change food in the teeth,

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Speaker 2: but hopefully it's as simple as that.

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Speaker 1: But we need to call this guy first when we

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Speaker 1: do your second date update right after this hold on.

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Speaker 2: Okay, second date update Today, we're on the phone with Bonnie,

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Speaker 2: who's been doing online dating since the websites ran on

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Speaker 3: You've got mail?

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Speaker 4: Is that true?

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Speaker 1: Is that an all?

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Speaker 4: I could be true?

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Speaker 1: That's the sound of love again.

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Speaker 4: I can't get up.

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Speaker 2: Bonnie told us that in her email, and she even

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Speaker 5: But it didn't seem to affect him like, sounds like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that guy seems to be really nice guy named Grant, who,

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Speaker 2: even though he sat through the entire date with her,

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Speaker 1: It seems like we're going to try and nudge him

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Speaker 5: Kind of worried about you, Bonnie, because it's the I

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Speaker 2: I mean that's a normal reaction, Brook, isn't it It

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Speaker 4: Is that usually how you feel after a date's gone wrong? Bonnie?

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Speaker 6: I mean the date didn't go wrong, Like, it was

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Speaker 4: That's why you're thinking that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but sometime to spin her magical first date into

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Speaker 4: Story such a sad statement.

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Speaker 2: To me, I thought it was a really beautiful sentiment personally, Bonnie.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm on your side. Unlike some in this room, Bonnie.

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Speaker 4: How does Bonnie not have her own app? Like, hey

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Speaker 1: Yeah, bondie Bonnie. You know, if this call doesn't work out,

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Speaker 1: we'll hook you up with some people to set that

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, let's work.

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Speaker 1: On Grant first. Here, I'm gonna dial this number right now.

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Speaker 1: Here we go.

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Speaker 2: Hey, we're looking for somebody named Grant.

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Speaker 1: I'm hoping that's you.

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Speaker 6: That's me.

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Speaker 2: All right, Hey, we win, good work the number correctly,

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Speaker 2: I did it. Hey, man, you're on a radio show

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Speaker 2: right now called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: What's up, BROI I con sense you're starting to hang

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Speaker 1: up already. Please come on.

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Speaker 2: We're doing a segment call the Second Date Update here

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Speaker 2: and we really could use your help.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, what is that?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 4: This is fun, It's actually pretty fun.

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Speaker 1: It's all about you.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's about one of our listeners and you. A

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Speaker 2: girl that you went on a date with recently, named Bonnie.

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Speaker 4: A woman.

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Speaker 2: Trying to we're trying to hook you up with underage women.

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Speaker 2: She's definitely I don't think anybody thinks that this is

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Speaker 2: a of the age women named Bonnie.

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Speaker 1: You went to dinner with her the other night.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she even told us that you showed up with

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Speaker 4: a bouquet of flowers. Which was really sweet, A.

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Speaker 2: Lot of good stuff. We're just trying to figure out.

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Speaker 2: How did you feel about Bonnie?

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Speaker 3: I I like Bonnie. She had a nice smile, she was.

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Speaker 4: Really easy going, nice compliments.

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Speaker 3: I thought she was a nice lady.

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Speaker 1: If anything, you should feel.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, it wasn't the dating history. It was her job history.

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Speaker 4: Her job history.

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Speaker 3: Why I keep it stirs her doubt, But God definitely

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Speaker 4: Were you able to remember anything about her? Why interview her? Why?

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Speaker 4: I want to know why you didn't hire her?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, you're not calling her because you're afraid

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Speaker 2: It already came out to her. Because she's on the

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Speaker 4: That is wild.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's been secretly listening on the other line Bonnie there.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm here.

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Speaker 5: You can't do that work settings, but you can't do

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Speaker 4: Hi.

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Speaker 6: Hi, Well, I guess I just I want to know,

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Speaker 6: like why, Like I guess I heard you say you

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Speaker 6: don't remember why you rejected me for that job, like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, we're I interviewed so many people. This

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Speaker 3: If I knew it was going to be you, I

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Speaker 1: My job was like Blockbuster.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it was her dream job. Do you remember who

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Speaker 3: I hired a bunch of people. I really have no idea.

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Speaker 6: So you hired a bunch of people and I wasn't

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Speaker 1: Oh that's a good point.

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Speaker 3: See, this is what I was trying to avoid.

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Speaker 1: Well, think about it, this one.

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Speaker 5: You're so special, remember you're maybe he was you know,

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Speaker 1: Grant that's a good chance trying and say that to

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Speaker 3: Go ahead, it's clearly I made a mistake. I really,

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I can't I mean, I can't

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I don't think that she's upset about that?

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Speaker 6: I mean, it's something I brought up in our date,

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Speaker 6: But like, at the same time, I would not be

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Speaker 5: She swear she won't hold it over your head when

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Speaker 4: I'm getting I'm giddy, Grant.

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Speaker 2: How does it feel to reject someone not only professionally

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah?

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Speaker 1: Does that feel good?

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Speaker 3: Honestly? No, there you go.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to guilt you into the answer for my

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Speaker 1: And we would pay for it?

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Speaker 4: They say third times of charm, yes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, or in Bonnie's case, the one eighth times. I

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Speaker 2: I'm just I'm assuming that is still a yes from you,

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Speaker 6: Okay, I'm over at what dub Okay, I just want

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Speaker 5: I won't.

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Speaker 6: I don't want to live in the past.

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Speaker 2: All right, that's right, driver dream guy. She forgives you,

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Speaker 3: Us, all right, Look, I mean if she's okay with it,

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, thank you, Thank you guys.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're welcome.

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Speaker 4: That's really cute in like a sad I lost my

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Speaker 1: Way looking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Gosh, I sure hope he didn't feel pressured into saying

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Speaker 2: anything like that on your show, people, Yeah, we don't

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Speaker 4: Oh I think that they could end up cute you know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: She was the one upset about it. Yes, it wasn't

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Speaker 2: I'm just hoping that we get an update update out

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Speaker 2: of this where date number one zero two seven stops

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Speaker 2: for Rever, not that she killed him, just like that's

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Speaker 1: She would working into the vowels and they get married.

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Speaker 1: You were seven then I knew, Yeah, I know, I did.

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Speaker 1: She's radio sec.

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Speaker 5: She's the only one that could play that song at

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Speaker 5: last and it really means it like whatever I see

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Speaker 3: What do you mean?

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Speaker 1: She's been thank you next, Sorry on a ground for

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Speaker 1: too long.

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Speaker 2: But if you ever need help with the second date,

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Speaker 2: we will try and do that for you. You can

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Speaker 2: email the show. We'll call that person who's not calling

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Speaker 2: you back, even if we have.

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Speaker 1: To manipulate that. Yeah, well, no, we don't like to

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Speaker 1: do you. No, it's not our style.

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Speaker 5: Weird.

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Speaker 1: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning

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Speaker 4: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning,