WEBVTT - Is it Time to Get a Financial Advisor? 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:03.360 Mandra, Do you know what I need? I need to 0:00:03.560 --> 0:00:06.120 walk in these streets in my BA swag. You know 0:00:06.160 --> 0:00:08.160 what I'm really looking forward to? First of all, be 0:00:08.240 --> 0:00:12.200 your own Brown Boost. What an awesome phrase. I cannot 0:00:12.200 --> 0:00:14.319 wait to wear that on my chest like Superman. And 0:00:14.400 --> 0:00:16.840 what I'm really excited for, though, is I am a 0:00:17.079 --> 0:00:20.720 sweatshirt and like hoodie girl. So the classic Brown Ambition 0:00:20.840 --> 0:00:22.560 logo sweatshirt has my name. 0:00:22.480 --> 0:00:24.920 All over it. But where can I go? Where can 0:00:24.960 --> 0:00:25.480 I find it? 0:00:25.640 --> 0:00:29.240 I was hoping you would ask Young Tiffany. Tiffany, get 0:00:29.240 --> 0:00:33.480 your Brown Ambition swag at Brown Ambitionstore dot com. 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Oh my god. 0:01:59.360 --> 0:02:01.400 I was thinking we should do like a like a 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:05.280 star spangled banner version of our intro because I feel 0:02:05.360 --> 0:02:09.200 I just am so excited for the election, and I like, 0:02:09.240 --> 0:02:11.880 my dad was giving me live updates from the Atlanta 0:02:11.919 --> 0:02:12.480 polls today. 0:02:12.560 --> 0:02:13.000 Okay, how. 0:02:14.440 --> 0:02:18.120 Well, I'm really impressed by Atlanta because they let you 0:02:18.200 --> 0:02:20.160 vote so early. We can't vote early in New York 0:02:20.240 --> 0:02:23.760 until the week before the general election. But yeah, so 0:02:23.919 --> 0:02:26.000 he he said. It was a long line. I think 0:02:26.040 --> 0:02:29.040 he was there for four hours or so, and he 0:02:29.080 --> 0:02:32.000 was sending me video updates. And I will say everyone 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:34.520 was like socially distanced. I saw a lot of masks 0:02:34.960 --> 0:02:37.320 and it just made me feel so good because I've 0:02:37.360 --> 0:02:39.440 been stressed out the last week and a half because 0:02:40.040 --> 0:02:42.840 I guess I took for granted that everyone feels this 0:02:42.960 --> 0:02:46.320 real urge to vote and exercise their right to cast 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:49.799 their ballot for elected officials, because like, I'm not gonna lie, 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:52.200 Like I guess there's a lot of you know, my 0:02:52.280 --> 0:02:55.400 family in Atlanta, a lot of my dad's family. They 0:02:56.120 --> 0:02:59.480 I can't blame them, right, They don't trust government, they 0:02:59.480 --> 0:03:02.919 don't trust politicians. They say, no matter what we do, 0:03:03.000 --> 0:03:06.919 nothing changes. Black bodies are still being murdered by people 0:03:06.960 --> 0:03:10.079 and you know, wearing uniforms and it's completely sanctioned and 0:03:10.360 --> 0:03:13.760 nothing ever changes, and like and I and I get it, 0:03:13.840 --> 0:03:16.040 but I just thought, because I've I've seen my cousins 0:03:16.080 --> 0:03:18.120 go to like protests and talk about what's happening with 0:03:18.120 --> 0:03:21.520 Black Lives Matter and all that. But I started to 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:26.520 get the sense that they weren't like registered, And I 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:29.080 might have gone a little extra, but I feel really, 0:03:29.080 --> 0:03:32.480 I felt really compelled to do what I could to 0:03:33.080 --> 0:03:35.240 try to get them to at least register. And the 0:03:35.280 --> 0:03:38.240 deadline was the was the first week of October. And 0:03:38.280 --> 0:03:40.160 I might have gone a little overboard, but I was 0:03:40.200 --> 0:03:42.680 like texting and then I the good thing is that 0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:44.560 anyone can do this. You can go to your state's 0:03:44.840 --> 0:03:47.000 Board of Election site, and Georgia has a cool site 0:03:47.000 --> 0:03:49.040 where you can like check to see if you're registered, 0:03:49.440 --> 0:03:51.080 and you just need your date of birth and it'll 0:03:51.080 --> 0:03:53.800 tell you. It'll tell you actually are you registered, and 0:03:53.840 --> 0:03:57.520 the status if you've if you've mailed in a ballot request. 0:03:57.560 --> 0:03:58.920 I saw. I love that. 0:03:59.720 --> 0:04:03.560 Yeah. And my aunt, you know, she's older, she's disabled, 0:04:03.600 --> 0:04:06.720 her husband's disabled. So she was and she was like 0:04:07.000 --> 0:04:09.280 kind of offhanded, saying that she had mailed in her 0:04:09.280 --> 0:04:11.320 request for a mail in or not mailed in. Sorry. 0:04:11.480 --> 0:04:14.000 She submitted her request for a mail in ballot in 0:04:14.040 --> 0:04:18.360 September and hadn't gotten her ballot yet, and it's just 0:04:18.720 --> 0:04:21.080 like the smallest bit of information. She was thinking she 0:04:21.120 --> 0:04:24.560 had to go to like the her local like I 0:04:24.560 --> 0:04:28.960 don't know whatever local government office to check on her ballot. 0:04:29.000 --> 0:04:30.200 And I was like, let me just go on the 0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:32.560 internet really quick, give me your date of birth, let 0:04:32.560 --> 0:04:34.640 me check for you. And I could see that they 0:04:34.680 --> 0:04:37.080 had received it. I don't know why, but they received 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:40.120 it a whole entire month after she had sent it 0:04:40.760 --> 0:04:43.320 and they had finally issued it this past week. Okay, 0:04:43.480 --> 0:04:46.880 so it's her, It's on its way to her. And 0:04:46.880 --> 0:04:48.520 then I could check my dad and I could see 0:04:48.520 --> 0:04:51.120 that even though he requested a mail in ballot, they 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:53.760 said they had received it, but they hadn't sent his 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:56.960 to him or he hadn't received it. So he was like, look, 0:04:56.960 --> 0:04:58.359 I'm just going to go stand in this line. 0:04:58.560 --> 0:04:58.839 Good. 0:04:59.080 --> 0:05:01.360 I sat. He did, Yeah, And I don't know that 0:05:01.560 --> 0:05:03.440 I've been I was trying to, Like, I was thinking, 0:05:03.480 --> 0:05:05.200 I'm just going to post for every single state what 0:05:05.240 --> 0:05:07.360 the deadlines are. And I'm like, that's I can't do it. 0:05:07.680 --> 0:05:11.760 But but if there's anybody, if if there's still time, 0:05:11.920 --> 0:05:14.039 if there's still time to at least get people in 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:17.800 your life registered. You know, that's like the one if 0:05:17.839 --> 0:05:20.240 we could have just gotten one friend to vote who 0:05:20.360 --> 0:05:22.440 didn't vote in the last election, I think we would 0:05:22.440 --> 0:05:27.799 be an entirely, entirely different different worlds. So I'm just like, ah, 0:05:27.880 --> 0:05:32.240 please vote, Please be cynical after November fourth, yeah, remember third, 0:05:32.320 --> 0:05:34.040 just be cynical the next day if you want to, 0:05:34.080 --> 0:05:36.200 but please vote, please please please vote. 0:05:36.680 --> 0:05:38.600 Well, I, like I said, I got my mail in 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:42.400 dall let's see filled it out yesterday, so me and 0:05:42.480 --> 0:05:45.240 Superman too. Tomorrow I'm gonna find I don't want to 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:48.400 put in the mailbox. I'm gonna like, here where I live, 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:51.560 there are those boxes specifically for ballots. I'm going to 0:05:51.600 --> 0:05:54.359 find one of those and take it in tomorrow so 0:05:54.360 --> 0:05:58.520 I can loosaw. The day of the Supermom, super Girl's 0:05:58.520 --> 0:05:59.760 mom came over. She's like, oh, you know, I didn't 0:05:59.760 --> 0:06:03.159 get my in the mail and but I believe here 0:06:03.360 --> 0:06:06.000 in Jersey we can actually go and pick one up. 0:06:06.279 --> 0:06:07.720 So she said she's going to do that as well. 0:06:07.760 --> 0:06:11.000 So it's just and then my sisters they still register 0:06:11.440 --> 0:06:13.760 at my parents, So theirs came in because when I 0:06:13.760 --> 0:06:16.120 went to visit my parents this weekend, I saw it 0:06:16.120 --> 0:06:18.359 and I was like, okay, so you know, I picked 0:06:18.400 --> 0:06:20.440 up my sisters and the ones who lived near me 0:06:20.480 --> 0:06:21.440 and dropped it off to them. 0:06:21.520 --> 0:06:23.800 So I'm not gonna lie. 0:06:24.080 --> 0:06:27.880 I feel anxious but hopeful. I guess those are the 0:06:27.920 --> 0:06:30.200 two emotions I feel about the upcoming election. I'm not 0:06:30.200 --> 0:06:31.560 gonna take it because we you know, we were all 0:06:31.600 --> 0:06:36.080 feeling so smug last time, like and I was like, wait, what, 0:06:36.200 --> 0:06:38.640 so I don't you know I still feel anxious and 0:06:39.240 --> 0:06:40.040 I'm just brace on. 0:06:40.320 --> 0:06:43.039 I showed up in a pants suit to vote for Hillary, 0:06:43.520 --> 0:06:45.920 pants suit and pearls, and I look at that photo 0:06:45.960 --> 0:06:50.040 and I'm like, I just look, if only she knew 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:53.000 I know, only that poor man, you were brilliant. 0:06:53.040 --> 0:06:56.960 But yeah, speaking of shady lately, I don't know if 0:06:57.640 --> 0:06:59.680 you know, but this is just random, but not kind 0:06:59.680 --> 0:07:00.159 of random. 0:07:00.240 --> 0:07:02.359 I have been getting like some people. 0:07:02.400 --> 0:07:04.680 I don't know, this is a new thing, but people 0:07:04.720 --> 0:07:06.000 will have been like, hey, we want you to be 0:07:06.000 --> 0:07:07.880 on our podcast or we want you to interview you, 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:10.760 and then they send me a release form that basically 0:07:10.800 --> 0:07:15.040 says I own your life in perpetuity. One of the 0:07:15.080 --> 0:07:19.880 release firm literally said something about to be able to 0:07:20.040 --> 0:07:23.560 use it on any platform known to man in the universe. 0:07:23.680 --> 0:07:29.480 I was like, the universe stout, you don't own it's 0:07:29.480 --> 0:07:29.920 a song. 0:07:30.280 --> 0:07:31.800 I just I don't know if that's a thing. 0:07:32.160 --> 0:07:33.880 People don't read the fine print anymore. 0:07:34.040 --> 0:07:35.520 Yeah, but it's been really crazy. 0:07:35.560 --> 0:07:39.640 I was like, what, I'm just coming on to talk 0:07:39.680 --> 0:07:40.520 about budgeting? 0:07:41.040 --> 0:07:43.840 I don't so I've had to go in and say no. 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:47.160 Because one time I signed a contract I was doing 0:07:47.200 --> 0:07:49.800 like a conference, like one of these online conferences. 0:07:49.800 --> 0:07:50.640 I didn't think anything of it. 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:53.240 I was like, okay, the brand is sizeable enough and 0:07:53.880 --> 0:07:57.760 signed in, did the webinar or whatever the conference and 0:07:58.360 --> 0:08:01.000 it was great then, and I want to say six 0:08:01.080 --> 0:08:03.480 months like eight months later, I was someone sent me 0:08:03.520 --> 0:08:05.040 a screenshot was like, oh, I didn't know that you 0:08:05.120 --> 0:08:06.840 do spokesperson work whatever for this brand. 0:08:06.880 --> 0:08:07.559 I said, I don't. 0:08:08.200 --> 0:08:10.600 They're like, oh, your pictures in an ad and I 0:08:10.640 --> 0:08:12.680 was like, because I used their service and I. 0:08:12.680 --> 0:08:16.160 Was like, hmmm, I didn't. I didn't sanction that. 0:08:16.640 --> 0:08:19.600 So when I wrote them the service, yes, I wrote 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:22.760 them and I was like, hey, because I know some 0:08:22.800 --> 0:08:25.040 people pretty high up, because they've been trying to recruit 0:08:25.040 --> 0:08:27.559 me to do different things. I said, hey, I'm seeing 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:29.160 this ad. It makes me uncomfortable. 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:31.800 You know, I don't. I don't know what what what 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:32.360 is this? 0:08:32.360 --> 0:08:34.520 This is not you know, I know we did like 0:08:34.559 --> 0:08:36.040 a you know, a conference together, but this is not 0:08:36.120 --> 0:08:36.760 what I agreed to. 0:08:36.800 --> 0:08:38.760 And they're like, oh, no, worries, we can take it down. 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:41.880 I said okay, And then either the CEO or somebody 0:08:41.920 --> 0:08:42.240 came and. 0:08:42.160 --> 0:08:45.440 It was like, actually, when you signed you know, the release, 0:08:45.520 --> 0:08:48.960 you did agree to this girl, when I tell you, 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:50.880 I was ready to flip over the table. I guess 0:08:50.920 --> 0:08:54.040 he realized, you know what, I don't want to smoke, 0:08:54.080 --> 0:08:56.280 because within moments he wrote back, was like, but you know, 0:08:56.280 --> 0:08:59.080 will gladly take it down and blah blah blah. So 0:08:59.559 --> 0:09:01.720 at tu he probably was right. I probably didn't fully 0:09:01.720 --> 0:09:04.800 read the release, but bruh, you don't want me to 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:07.480 drag your service from six ways from Sunday because I 0:09:07.600 --> 0:09:10.520 was fixing to be like, oh, not what we gonna do? 0:09:10.640 --> 0:09:12.520 First of all, want I'm leaving the service too. I 0:09:12.559 --> 0:09:15.160 will let everyone know you are the literal worst. So 0:09:15.200 --> 0:09:16.720 I guess he thought about it because, literally, like I said, 0:09:16.720 --> 0:09:18.160 within ten minutes he wrote back and said, but we'll 0:09:18.160 --> 0:09:20.040 take it down, and they since paid me. 0:09:20.840 --> 0:09:21.600 To work with them. 0:09:21.920 --> 0:09:23.840 But yeah, I just just putting that out there for 0:09:23.880 --> 0:09:25.480 all you creators and things like that. 0:09:25.520 --> 0:09:26.720 Make sure you read your contracts. 0:09:26.800 --> 0:09:30.120 Lately, typically the release will say something like, hey, we 0:09:30.120 --> 0:09:32.319 can use your picture as it relates to this one thing, 0:09:32.559 --> 0:09:35.240 but lately they've been really really crazy. When this one 0:09:35.280 --> 0:09:38.439 said anything in the universe, I'm like, who wrote this wit? 0:09:38.480 --> 0:09:43.800 It literally said that, yes, that just covers like if 0:09:43.800 --> 0:09:45.560 there's life on Mars and they want to put a 0:09:45.559 --> 0:09:50.000 billboard up. I was like, the universe, they're gonna be 0:09:50.000 --> 0:09:52.440 watching your ads on the Tesla cabs to the movie. 0:09:52.440 --> 0:09:54.200 Oh my gosh. So yeah. I mean well, like I said, 0:09:54.200 --> 0:09:55.960 it was literally like, hey be on my podcast. 0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:57.640 I'm like, well, why don't we need to give you 0:09:58.080 --> 0:09:59.800 Why do I need to give you ownership of my 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:03.560 of my likeness forever and ever and ever on Mars 0:10:03.600 --> 0:10:05.400 as well. So, just being min Fi, I just thought 0:10:05.400 --> 0:10:07.679 that was like randomly like this a little business funny, 0:10:07.679 --> 0:10:09.040 but not so funny because you want to make sure 0:10:09.080 --> 0:10:12.720 you read carefully, if you don't understand to ask questions, 0:10:12.720 --> 0:10:14.160 you know, if you can't afford an attorney. 0:10:14.360 --> 0:10:17.360 So yeah, there's that. So I just hat to share that. 0:10:18.240 --> 0:10:21.280 Oh well, that's I mean. It reminds me of like 0:10:21.360 --> 0:10:24.480 when you see stars in Hollywood kind of get bigger 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:27.240 and then a studio that they worked with like ten 0:10:27.320 --> 0:10:30.360 years before the movie never got released. All of a sudden, 0:10:30.400 --> 0:10:32.520 it'll be on like straight to video or be released 0:10:32.520 --> 0:10:35.640 in theaters. They're trying to capitalize. So yeah, read that 0:10:35.760 --> 0:10:38.840 vibe right y'all. M h, what else, what's going on? 0:10:39.200 --> 0:10:43.520 I've recruited my mother to help me hire a nanny, okay, 0:10:44.640 --> 0:10:48.200 which actually, you know, my mom's retired and I'm like, hmm, 0:10:48.640 --> 0:10:51.600 you got some free time. Let me tell you how 0:10:51.679 --> 0:10:55.240 little time I have. It's like, I really really need childcare. 0:10:55.360 --> 0:10:58.000 And we've been like, you know, we've been cobbling in 0:10:58.040 --> 0:11:01.120 together between mother in law and between a neighbor's daughter 0:11:01.160 --> 0:11:04.080 in the neighborhood, who's sweet. But you know, to have 0:11:04.120 --> 0:11:06.439 someone who you can consistently rely on the hours you 0:11:06.480 --> 0:11:10.000 need them anyhow, So thanks shout out to my mama, 0:11:10.080 --> 0:11:12.960 and if y'all have any tips on vetting a childcare 0:11:13.040 --> 0:11:17.920 and a childcare worker in a pandemic, like I'm it 0:11:17.960 --> 0:11:20.560 has to happen. I just can't keep telling myself like this, 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:23.280 this really needs to happen. This tiny human is like 0:11:23.320 --> 0:11:29.000 a tiny hurricane, really really really cute hurricane. But yeah, 0:11:29.040 --> 0:11:30.520 it's it's next level now. 0:11:30.880 --> 0:11:32.480 Yeah, I mean, well, I'll have to say as far 0:11:32.520 --> 0:11:34.439 as like on the teacher, and you're definitely gonna like 0:11:34.480 --> 0:11:37.640 see if someone has like first aid, like you know, 0:11:37.679 --> 0:11:41.080 a certification things like that, you know. Yeah, and it 0:11:41.160 --> 0:11:44.000 also too like one thing that when I was a 0:11:44.000 --> 0:11:47.400 teacher was that we we would have to get a fingerprinted. 0:11:47.440 --> 0:11:50.200 So that's always like a nice like added level. 0:11:51.240 --> 0:11:54.040 Well like care dot com has a background check and 0:11:54.080 --> 0:11:56.520 then you can do additional ones. I think, well, the 0:11:56.559 --> 0:11:58.600 thing is my mom. I'm gonna I hope that she's 0:11:59.080 --> 0:12:01.520 gonna do like virtual interviews because for me, I just 0:12:01.520 --> 0:12:03.439 want them to be fun, like I just want them 0:12:03.480 --> 0:12:06.560 to have a fun personality and to cause I you know, 0:12:06.600 --> 0:12:08.760 I try and coach whoever is hanging out with the baby. 0:12:08.800 --> 0:12:11.640 It's like, you need to be silly, af you need 0:12:11.679 --> 0:12:15.319 to put on a show. You are a theater production 0:12:15.480 --> 0:12:17.760 and you need a new play every ninety seconds. Okay, 0:12:17.840 --> 0:12:20.439 that is the challenge and that's why it's so exhausting. 0:12:20.520 --> 0:12:23.120 But you just have to have just be as funny 0:12:23.120 --> 0:12:24.800 as possible. I just wanted to know that he's up 0:12:24.800 --> 0:12:28.160 there having fun and not bored. I don't know why that, 0:12:28.800 --> 0:12:31.600 you know, matters to me so much. But you know, 0:12:31.679 --> 0:12:34.679 anyone who's out there trying to vet daycare or whatever 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:37.240 going into this flu season, just bless you. I'm right 0:12:37.240 --> 0:12:37.880 there with you. 0:12:37.960 --> 0:12:41.040 Yeah, it's hard to vet, like just team members in general. 0:12:41.080 --> 0:12:42.439 Like I was like, we want to I want to 0:12:42.440 --> 0:12:46.480 do some rebranding and it's hard. Like I'm like for 0:12:46.840 --> 0:12:51.320 both the budget Neista just colors and font and in 0:12:51.400 --> 0:12:55.240 literature Academy and to find like it's so crazy, so 0:12:55.400 --> 0:12:58.120 many people like brand strategies websites are coming soon. 0:12:58.200 --> 0:13:02.040 I'm like, uh, what this is. 0:13:02.000 --> 0:13:05.680 Where you get to show and so I'm like, we're 0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:08.640 so busy doing other people's websits. We uh we'll get 0:13:08.640 --> 0:13:09.040 back to our. 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:10.160 That's literally what it is. 0:13:10.200 --> 0:13:13.360 So I'm just like, ugh, so I've been looking yet 0:13:13.400 --> 0:13:14.600 because I want to, like I want to like, I 0:13:14.600 --> 0:13:17.000 want to like, you know, revitalize the colors and fonts 0:13:17.040 --> 0:13:19.360 and to have like a clear brand message. 0:13:19.400 --> 0:13:21.520 And so you go on You're like, oh. 0:13:21.440 --> 0:13:23.800 Yeah, this must be Bunjanisa because I recognize this font 0:13:23.800 --> 0:13:25.680 in color combination and I have not had that in 0:13:25.679 --> 0:13:27.880 a while. I mean, we've been managing with that, but 0:13:27.920 --> 0:13:29.640 I'm like, come on now, Tiffany, it's time. I used 0:13:29.640 --> 0:13:31.920 to be really conscious about it when I first started 0:13:31.920 --> 0:13:34.360 the business, and then it kind of just fell off. 0:13:34.400 --> 0:13:38.040 So if any y'all know somebody's shoe, I don't even know, Like, 0:13:38.280 --> 0:13:39.320 y'all just be doing the most. 0:13:40.160 --> 0:13:42.600 We have a person for our logo. Tip you want 0:13:42.640 --> 0:13:43.559 me to give you out. 0:13:43.679 --> 0:13:45.319 Yeah, No, that would be great honestly, because I know 0:13:45.640 --> 0:13:47.000 it's great. No, No, that's right. 0:13:47.400 --> 0:13:49.719 I would love because I just because it's not so much. 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:52.120 I don't need logo creation because we have good logos. 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:54.840 It's just color and font. I want to you know 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:57.960 what else a brand it's not a brand kit. What 0:13:58.000 --> 0:14:00.440 are those things called? Like, it's like a brand meet guide, 0:14:00.559 --> 0:14:04.120 brand brand guide. So when someone is creating something, let's 0:14:04.120 --> 0:14:05.559 just say I was going to build a new website, 0:14:05.559 --> 0:14:06.920 I can say here's my brand. 0:14:06.640 --> 0:14:10.120 Guide, like the front guide. Yeah, yes, my style guide. 0:14:10.200 --> 0:14:10.360 Yeah. 0:14:10.360 --> 0:14:12.720 So so like for example, like when the book the 0:14:12.840 --> 0:14:15.840 book cover for my book coming out next year, they 0:14:15.880 --> 0:14:17.840 are like working on the cover and they were asking 0:14:17.880 --> 0:14:19.400 me that I have a style guide and I was 0:14:19.440 --> 0:14:22.760 like no, but I like these thoughts, you know, So 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:25.160 it would have been nice, you know, to have some 0:14:25.200 --> 0:14:27.360 cohesive thing to say this is you know, this is 0:14:27.360 --> 0:14:28.840 what I I typically lean towards. 0:14:28.840 --> 0:14:32.080 So yeah, I will hook you up. That's exactly what 0:14:32.200 --> 0:14:34.640 our are. I don't even know what to call him. 0:14:34.680 --> 0:14:38.480 He's actually my husband's good friend from college and he 0:14:38.560 --> 0:14:41.920 designed logos for banks and he is the mastermind behind 0:14:42.000 --> 0:14:44.680 our and I love Brown logo and fond and he 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:47.080 even like, I remember when he was our most recent logo, 0:14:47.120 --> 0:14:49.640 we kind of refreshed for the merch and brandimisionstore dot 0:14:49.680 --> 0:14:53.920 com hashtag, used promo code, brand ambission fifteen and fifty 0:14:53.960 --> 0:14:58.200 percent off your career anyway, So he he even was like, look, 0:14:58.240 --> 0:15:00.680 I tried to find some styles that were made people 0:15:00.720 --> 0:15:03.760 of color. Fir sorry, font fonts that were made but 0:15:03.840 --> 0:15:06.360 designed by people of color, Like who thinks about was 0:15:06.400 --> 0:15:08.400 the person who designed this font black or white? Who 0:15:08.400 --> 0:15:12.800 were they? But he's, yeah, he's super thoughtful like that, 0:15:12.960 --> 0:15:16.120 and yeah, shout out to Wan Lee if he's listening. 0:15:16.440 --> 0:15:19.600 No, yeah, no, I'm for sure because yeah, some of 0:15:19.640 --> 0:15:23.800 the things that have come in, I'm like, uh, where's 0:15:23.840 --> 0:15:27.160 their sight? I can't tell what you do. I can't 0:15:27.160 --> 0:15:30.200 tell that's good or not, you know, So yeah, that's awesome. 0:15:30.360 --> 0:15:33.440 Okay, Well, now you got me thinking about twenty twenty 0:15:33.480 --> 0:15:35.040 one because you told me. I know we can't talk 0:15:35.080 --> 0:15:36.840 about on the show, but you got me excited about 0:15:36.840 --> 0:15:40.440 something happening in twenty twenty one. I feel like I 0:15:40.800 --> 0:15:43.160 need to force myself to look past November to what 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:48.120 there is to look forward to next year. I don't 0:15:48.160 --> 0:15:50.960 know if big vacations are happening, but my one goal 0:15:51.040 --> 0:15:53.520 is I'm going to see my big sister, Like I 0:15:53.640 --> 0:15:56.400 really need to get some sister time. She has not 0:15:56.480 --> 0:15:59.800 seen her nephew in a year, and I'm trying to 0:15:59.800 --> 0:16:01.720 fit figure out. I don't know if I want to 0:16:01.800 --> 0:16:03.560 like throw the baby in the car. I don't know 0:16:03.560 --> 0:16:07.680 what to do. Bars So she's in Wisconsin. It's a 0:16:07.760 --> 0:16:11.080 good I don't even know. I'm not going to Wisconsin. 0:16:11.080 --> 0:16:12.600 I done told her, I'm like, you need to move. 0:16:13.960 --> 0:16:16.120 I want to go to Wisconsin. I think it's like 0:16:16.200 --> 0:16:19.120 seventeen hours listen, but we can't make it thirty minutes 0:16:19.160 --> 0:16:20.760 in the car without him freaking out. And I have 0:16:20.800 --> 0:16:22.480 to listen to the Elmo song for every one of 0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:26.000 those thirty minutes. Okay, there's no way I will literally die. 0:16:26.240 --> 0:16:28.280 I'd rather just take the risk and you know, fly. 0:16:28.640 --> 0:16:31.920 But yeah, it's it's nonsense. Finally I had to see 0:16:31.960 --> 0:16:35.240 my little brother, have seen my parents recently. But she's 0:16:35.280 --> 0:16:36.920 just work, you know. Unfortunately, she works for one of 0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:41.200 these companies that has such a limited PTO offering that 0:16:41.400 --> 0:16:43.560 her vacation is just it's really hard for them to 0:16:43.560 --> 0:16:47.240 take time off. So, but I'm gonna try and plan 0:16:47.360 --> 0:16:49.080 something so that we can see each other in twenty 0:16:49.080 --> 0:16:49.560 twenty one. 0:16:50.200 --> 0:16:52.760 That's yeah. Now, more than ever you realize how just 0:16:52.760 --> 0:16:53.800 how important family is. 0:16:54.200 --> 0:16:57.800 Amen, sis a friend? Alright, Well, anything else happened in 0:16:57.840 --> 0:16:59.320 the news or should we take a quick break and 0:16:59.360 --> 0:17:03.680 come back fus? Question I think is question. I'm excited 0:17:03.720 --> 0:17:05.760 for today's questions. I spent a lot of time combing 0:17:05.800 --> 0:17:09.800 through the inbox yesterday and DMS and email and all 0:17:09.800 --> 0:17:13.080 that jazz, and I found a couple husband themed ones 0:17:13.080 --> 0:17:15.840 that I think we want to answer. So come back 0:17:15.840 --> 0:17:51.600 for the tea, y'all. Okay, guys, we are back to 0:17:51.680 --> 0:17:55.160 answer your questions again. You can hit us up on Instagram. 0:17:55.240 --> 0:17:58.040 We are at Brannanmbisson podcast on the Gram send us 0:17:58.040 --> 0:18:01.760 a DM. We're also old school email brand Ambition podcast 0:18:01.880 --> 0:18:05.520 at gmail dot com dot com. So, as promised, I 0:18:05.520 --> 0:18:10.040 found a couple questions that each feature a problematic husband. 0:18:10.400 --> 0:18:13.520 So or I guess you know what I don't. Yeah, 0:18:13.560 --> 0:18:16.480 I'm gonna say partner husband whatever, a partner? All right, 0:18:16.520 --> 0:18:19.320 So let's read our first question. This actually has to 0:18:19.320 --> 0:18:21.240 do with a couple who's looking to buy a home. 0:18:21.320 --> 0:18:25.040 All right, and she wants to remain anonymous. She says, 0:18:25.119 --> 0:18:27.040 my partner and I are aiming to move from New 0:18:27.119 --> 0:18:30.120 York City to California to be closer to family next year. 0:18:30.359 --> 0:18:32.200 We like to buy our first home there with a 0:18:32.280 --> 0:18:34.920 goal of living there for good. My partner is all 0:18:34.960 --> 0:18:38.240 about using YouTube to learn about home buying. I, on 0:18:38.280 --> 0:18:40.879 the other hand, read my share of articles in but 0:18:40.920 --> 0:18:44.200 I'm seeking more guidance. Here's some background on us. I'm 0:18:44.240 --> 0:18:46.720 in my thirties and make fifty five K. My partner's 0:18:46.720 --> 0:18:49.879 in his forties and makes one hundred K. Likely we 0:18:49.960 --> 0:18:53.360 cannot continue working remotely at our current jobs. He's got 0:18:53.400 --> 0:18:56.399 about one hundred k in cash savings and is starting 0:18:56.400 --> 0:18:59.080 to invest, and I have forty k across my savings 0:18:59.119 --> 0:19:03.160 and investment acco. So here's my question. Besides an agent 0:19:03.440 --> 0:19:06.320 and a mortgage broker, is there someone who can advise 0:19:06.480 --> 0:19:10.000 us on buying a home? Is a financial advisor? Appropriate? 0:19:10.520 --> 0:19:13.280 Is a first time home buyer advisor? A thing? For 0:19:13.359 --> 0:19:15.600 whomever you suggest? Is there a way to check their 0:19:15.640 --> 0:19:19.840 background to avoid scammers? My partner is convinced there are 0:19:19.880 --> 0:19:22.439