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Speaker 1: It is time now for my Strawberry letter, and if

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Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.

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Speaker 2: We got it. Fool you, hear it.

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Speaker 1: Eat Strawberry letters, all right, Steve, only instructions for this one,

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Speaker 1: Just clown, just it's your birthday.

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Speaker 2: Just let us have it.

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Speaker 1: Let them have it, Let them have it, all right,

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Speaker 1: Subject thanking, if you're subject. I don't feel anything for

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Speaker 1: him here, Stephen Shirley, I'm a fifty two year old

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Speaker 1: widowed woman and I find it hard to find a

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Speaker 1: dating pool for six years and I've slept with three men,

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Speaker 1: and none of them measured up to my ex husband.

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Speaker 1: One of them came close, but he couldn't last as

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Speaker 1: long as my husband. When I say measure up, I

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Speaker 1: mean that the men are in a different size class.

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Speaker 1: They were all younger than I am, so I assume

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Speaker 1: that God stopped passing out big ones after the seventies.

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Speaker 1: I decided to date an older guy that goes to

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Speaker 1: my church. He's fifty eight, and the sex was so disappointing.

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Speaker 1: He knows how to make love, but he's not blessed

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Speaker 1: with sighs. He is also a cuddler, and I don't

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Speaker 1: like the way he smells. His beard, oils and body

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Speaker 1: sprays irritate my sinuses and it's hard for me to

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Speaker 1: why I'm resisting a relationship with him, and I finally

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Speaker 1: told him that I want my next real relationship to

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Speaker 1: be perfect because my husband has set the bar pretty high.

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Speaker 1: He said, since we were being honest, he wanted me

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Speaker 1: to know that he's seeing another lady, but he likes

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Speaker 1: me more. He said, we're perfect for each other and

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Speaker 1: he could spend the rest of his life with me,

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Speaker 1: but he does not want to get married. He wants

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Speaker 1: to live together. He said that he is ready to

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Speaker 1: take an all to take on all of my financial responsibilities.

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Speaker 1: Then he told me that he's as close to perfect

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Speaker 1: as I'm going to get At my age. The pressure

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Speaker 1: is on me now. That whole conversation irritated me. But

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Speaker 1: maybe he's right. I want desperately to be married again,

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Speaker 1: but this man made me a great offer. Would I

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Speaker 1: be foolish to let him go and keep on dating

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Speaker 1: other men in hopes of finding my next husband. There's

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Speaker 1: a lot going on in this letter. It would be

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Speaker 1: called settling. If you married this man and don't get

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Speaker 1: what you want. You've compared all of these men to

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Speaker 1: your husband, and that's not gonna work because you don't

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Speaker 1: even like this guy. What do you even have in common?

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Speaker 1: You have anything in common? He likes to cuddle afterwards,

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Speaker 1: you don't because his smell bothers you, and you say

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Speaker 1: sex with him is disappointing, So what is the point?

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Speaker 1: And I know you're not okay with him dating another

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Speaker 1: woman while he's dating you?

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Speaker 2: Are you?

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Speaker 1: He offered to take care of you financially, so now

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Speaker 1: you're considering it. I don't think you've thought this thing

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Speaker 1: through it all. This man does not want to get

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Speaker 1: married and you do, so again, what is the point?

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Speaker 1: You have nothing in common? You say the pressure is

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Speaker 1: on you now, but it's not really. You could take

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Speaker 1: your time you're only fifty two years old. Don't get

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Speaker 1: married because you're desperate, and you have to take these

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Speaker 1: men for who they are. You can't compare them to

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Speaker 1: who your late husband was, and desperation is certainly not

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Speaker 1: a reason to rush into a marriage to you, I say,

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Speaker 1: slow down, all right, come on birthday boy?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well you know what in honor or my new

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Speaker 3: mantra for twenty twenty five. Uh huh.

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Speaker 2: I could give more.

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Speaker 3: Less then, though, So I'm gonna read this letter of

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Speaker 3: how I'm really feeling. All right, Okay, I don't feel

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Speaker 2: He may not feel nothing for you either. Well let's go.

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Speaker 3: I'm fifty two, old witted women and I find it

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Speaker 2: I've been to Dayton Pool six years.

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Speaker 3: I'd have slept with three men, and none of them

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Speaker 3: measure up to my ex husband. One of them came close,

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Speaker 3: but he couldn't last as long as my husband. Well,

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Speaker 3: let me go through something in this letter. First of all,

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Speaker 3: I think you might be too much if you ask me,

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Speaker 3: But who you keep comparing all these people to. One

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Speaker 3: of them came close, but he couldn't last as long

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Speaker 3: as my husband your husband dead? Can we be clear

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Speaker 3: about this? He is gone? So how long did he

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Speaker 2: So far? Everybody else is our lasting? His ass he gone?

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Speaker 2: So now allays hear about how long your man can last?

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Speaker 2: And all that he gone? He gone so much for lasting.

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Speaker 2: He might can make love a long time, but he

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Speaker 2: damn sure couldn't live too far. So now what is you?

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Speaker 2: What if we want trade it? I don't.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't feel like it today. When I say

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Speaker 3: measure up, I mean men are different size class.

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Speaker 2: Oh, here we go.

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Speaker 3: They are all younger, and I'm assuming God stop passing

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Speaker 3: out big ones after the seventies. Now, can't nobody measure up?

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Speaker 3: It could be you once again? It could be you.

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Speaker 3: You know sometimes when you're talking about a man's size,

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Speaker 3: sometimes we need to talk about your size. Oh hello,

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Speaker 3: the opposite track. What goes around comes around. Something can

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Speaker 3: be too small. See, we just need to have an

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Speaker 3: honest conversation here. Maybe, just maybe it ain't to me.

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Speaker 3: I just want to put that out there for consider ration.

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Speaker 3: I'm celebrating my sixty eighth birthday today.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you are in my lifetime.

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Speaker 3: I've had one experience and I'll tell you about it

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Speaker 3: when I come back.

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Speaker 2: All right, automatic.

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Speaker 1: At twenty three minutes after the hour, we'll recap the

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Speaker 1: Strawberry letter, and we'll have part two of Steve's response.

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Speaker 1: The today subject is I don't feel anything for him.

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Speaker 1: We'll get back into that right after this.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, see, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject I don't feel anything for him?

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Speaker 3: Well, like I said, I'm doing this letter. It was

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Speaker 3: my new mantrel that I could give. I could give

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Speaker 3: more less than a the I'm fifty two years old,

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Speaker 3: wit woman. Find it hard to find a party that

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Speaker 3: will satisfied men. And what we don't know is all

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Speaker 3: she talking about is sex. This is all she talking

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Speaker 3: about in this letter. I'll been back in the Dayton

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Speaker 3: pool six years. I've dated three men and none of

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Speaker 3: them could come close or last as long as my husband,

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Speaker 3: who is dead. I just want to point that out.

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Speaker 3: He could last along time, but he is dead. That's

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Speaker 3: what widow means. That means you was married to somebody,

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Speaker 3: but they have passed away.

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Speaker 2: So mister I can last a long time is dead.

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Speaker 2: We know what, Dad.

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Speaker 3: I'd rather be here than be able to be in

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Speaker 3: bed with you for three hours. I'd rather be here.

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Speaker 3: I can go to the store or something set up

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Speaker 3: in here and be into bed with you for three hours.

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Speaker 3: I'd rather go to the damn store, walk around Target

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Speaker 3: with Monica.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'd rather do if I had a choice.

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Speaker 3: I'm not finish sit up in here and trade in

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Speaker 3: my life so I can be dead and then people

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Speaker 3: talk about me how long I last in bed? How

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Speaker 3: long did I where my next birthday at? That's the

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Speaker 3: one I'm looking for.

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Speaker 2: Anyway.

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Speaker 3: When I say Merriu, you up, I mean that men

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Speaker 3: are in a different size class. They was all young,

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Speaker 3: and I'm assuming God stop passing out the big ones

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Speaker 3: after the SEVENTI so you just want a big one, well,

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Speaker 3: you know, and they got look at it like this.

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Speaker 3: Things can be too small, but something it can be

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Speaker 3: too big. Now I got great share. I'm sixty eight

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Speaker 3: years old and I've had an experienced one time where

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Speaker 3: I was just was not who I thought I was.

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Speaker 3: I was considered, as you are calling in this letter, inadequate.

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Speaker 3: But I've discovered in my life that it wasn't that

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Speaker 3: I was inadequate. It's that who I was dating was

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Speaker 3: too much. Now was just one date. It's just one date,

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Speaker 3: one night, the only full one. No, And that's what

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Speaker 3: of there once again. Maybe isshy you He is a cuddler,

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Speaker 3: and I don't like the way he smells his beard

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Speaker 3: oils and body sprays irritate my sinuses. That's because he

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Speaker 3: buy that stuff down on the corner in the hood

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Speaker 3: the musk oils them oils that they sail on the

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Speaker 3: street the musk oils. Don't buy that. Go to stove

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Speaker 3: and get you some clone in a that musk all it?

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Speaker 3: Whoa good lord? You be in there smelling like a

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Speaker 3: Being there could walker after wild smell like hey, then

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Speaker 3: you know when you get hot. The musk all had

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Speaker 3: you in there smelling like an old ass college. It

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Speaker 3: just you have just been up in there, like what

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Speaker 3: is he got on? What is them turnips?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 3: And he always asked me why I resistant relationship with him,

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Speaker 3: and I finally told him, I want my next real

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Speaker 3: relationship to be perfect because my husband had set the

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Speaker 3: ball pretty up, pretty high.

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Speaker 2: We're talking about him. He dead. I ain't gonna tell

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Speaker 2: you this now more. This is the third time you

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Speaker 2: the body dead ass up.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 2: If he was all that, he still be living. He dead,

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Speaker 2: and you want everybody act like the dead man. It's

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Speaker 2: not fit to happen. I don't know nobody dead. I

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Speaker 3: Now, damn it, stop asking these men to live up

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Speaker 3: wanted me to know that he's because I'm perfect because

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Speaker 3: my husband had set the ball pedi, he said, since

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Speaker 3: we being honest, I'm seeing another lady.

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Speaker 2: But I like you more. Wow, he said, We're perfect

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Speaker 2: for each other.

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Speaker 3: He could spend the rest of his life with me,

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Speaker 3: but He does not want to get married, he wants

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Speaker 3: to live together. He don't want you. He don't want you,

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Speaker 3: and you don't want him. He stink, He stink, and

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Speaker 3: he's small. You don't like his beid oil, you don't

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Speaker 3: like his sin. He probably smelled like his house. You

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Speaker 3: ever been over his house? He fifty eight, lived by himself.

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Speaker 3: All people house smell, butcher house smell. I used to

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Speaker 2: He's strengthen anyway.

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Speaker 3: He said that he was ready to take on all

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Speaker 3: Then he told me he's close to perfect because I'm

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Speaker 3: The pressures on me now, the whole conversation irritated me,

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Speaker 3: You ain't gonna find your next husband. Next husband gonna

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Speaker 2: Life with you.

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Speaker 3: He just don't want to marry you, so something wrong

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Speaker 3: with you. And he'd already told you he's seeing another woman.

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Speaker 3: He just liked you better.

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