WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Short Walk 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:01.359 From Hollywood. 0:00:01.560 --> 0:00:03.320 See you, Thank you for listening to us. 0:00:03.400 --> 0:00:07.560 Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:09.640 --> 0:00:12.000 Please call us with any relationship drama. 0:00:12.200 --> 0:00:15.319 I'm in the mood today, think I go ready for 0:00:15.360 --> 0:00:17.400 it today, we're in the mood. So Victoria is on 0:00:17.440 --> 0:00:21.040 the phone with a little bit of this. Victoria, very 0:00:21.079 --> 0:00:23.560 interesting and I appreciate you wanting to share this with 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:28.000 us right now this morning. Tell us why you are 0:00:28.080 --> 0:00:31.920 second guessing your significant other's attraction to you. 0:00:34.600 --> 0:00:34.880 Yeah. 0:00:34.920 --> 0:00:38.720 So I'm dating someone new and he is divorced, which 0:00:38.760 --> 0:00:41.600 is totally fine. He's been very upfront about that since 0:00:41.680 --> 0:00:45.320 the beginning. That's not an issue. And we've been together 0:00:45.360 --> 0:00:48.440 for like two months now. But the other day I 0:00:48.560 --> 0:00:50.760 was at his place and I was looking through some 0:00:50.840 --> 0:00:53.199 of his pictures and I saw a picture of his 0:00:53.320 --> 0:00:58.639 ex wife and we are like completely identical. We look 0:00:58.720 --> 0:01:00.840 exactly the same. And I made a joke about it 0:01:00.840 --> 0:01:03.240 in the moment, like, wow, you must really have a type, 0:01:03.240 --> 0:01:08.280 and he acted like he maybe hadn't noticed that we look. 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:12.320 I don't know, and what are the features that are 0:01:12.360 --> 0:01:13.000 so similar? 0:01:14.160 --> 0:01:16.479 Like we both just have like the exact same dark 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:19.399 hair we have, like it's like the same exact nose 0:01:19.480 --> 0:01:22.520 and mouth. We even have like the same green eyes. 0:01:22.600 --> 0:01:25.959 It just is like a pretty specific combination that is, like, 0:01:27.200 --> 0:01:28.800 would be crazy not to notice. 0:01:29.720 --> 0:01:33.120 You don't sound upset about it. So are you playfully 0:01:33.120 --> 0:01:36.120 giving a hard time? Are you actually thinking that you 0:01:36.520 --> 0:01:38.959 are filling the place of her? 0:01:39.560 --> 0:01:43.679 Well, that's what I couldn't. I think I was playfully wondering. 0:01:43.760 --> 0:01:46.440 And then when he was like, oh, I have no idea, 0:01:46.520 --> 0:01:48.560 Like when he was like, I've never noticed that before, 0:01:48.600 --> 0:01:50.520 I was like, is this a big red flag? And 0:01:50.520 --> 0:01:53.160 you're just like trying to slot me into the place 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:57.680 that your ex wife had? Like, is am I even 0:01:58.480 --> 0:01:59.640 you know a factor here? 0:01:59.480 --> 0:01:59.760 Are you? 0:02:00.120 --> 0:02:02.720 Maybe it's not an issue like that's just he has 0:02:02.760 --> 0:02:03.280 a type. 0:02:03.640 --> 0:02:04.920 But do people have types? 0:02:05.720 --> 0:02:06.320 Certain people? 0:02:06.360 --> 0:02:06.520 Do? 0:02:06.600 --> 0:02:06.880 I think? 0:02:06.920 --> 0:02:07.000 So? 0:02:07.240 --> 0:02:07.559 Really? 0:02:07.920 --> 0:02:12.320 Yeah, you know, look at an interesting question that Ryan provokes, 0:02:13.680 --> 0:02:16.440 because we all say we have a type, right, we 0:02:16.480 --> 0:02:18.480 all think we have a type, and then do you 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:20.920 end up with said type? 0:02:21.160 --> 0:02:24.400 You did the man who always described Tanya looked exactly 0:02:24.440 --> 0:02:25.040 like Robbie. 0:02:25.160 --> 0:02:28.400 You think, so, yeah, sure, because you told us, but 0:02:28.800 --> 0:02:32.760 not really because not really, not really nobody. 0:02:32.440 --> 0:02:35.040 Can see your foot, yeah you cannot really because not 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:36.080 really got to not really. 0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:38.000 Because I think certain people have types. 0:02:38.080 --> 0:02:41.720 You know, tark El Musa from Flip or Flop and 0:02:41.800 --> 0:02:45.160 his ex wife and his new wife Heather from Selling Sunset. 0:02:45.360 --> 0:02:45.400 Like. 0:02:45.720 --> 0:02:47.760 They actually made a joke video the other day and 0:02:47.760 --> 0:02:50.720 put it on social about how much they look alive exactly. 0:02:51.480 --> 0:02:53.440 Victoria, do you watch those shows? Do you have any 0:02:53.440 --> 0:02:54.200 idea what they're saying. 0:02:55.160 --> 0:02:56.280 I haven't seen any of those. 0:02:56.720 --> 0:02:58.200 But is he. 0:02:58.240 --> 0:03:01.480 Showing I mean, does he show you that, like everything 0:03:01.720 --> 0:03:03.160 is everything else good in the relationship? 0:03:03.200 --> 0:03:05.560 He shows you the kind of respect that you want. 0:03:05.600 --> 0:03:06.639 And that's a good question. 0:03:07.880 --> 0:03:09.919 Yeah, I like, I thought it was going super well. 0:03:09.960 --> 0:03:12.040 It just kind of weirds me out, Like how people 0:03:12.400 --> 0:03:14.160 get the same dog and give it the same name 0:03:14.440 --> 0:03:19.120 even after the first dog died. 0:03:20.639 --> 0:03:22.480 Did okay? Sorry? Different show. 0:03:25.200 --> 0:03:27.799 I mean, I think if you think it's a type, 0:03:27.840 --> 0:03:30.359 but if it's not bothering the relationship, then I guess 0:03:30.360 --> 0:03:31.080 he's just sort of. 0:03:31.400 --> 0:03:33.320 Yeah, is he a good man? He treats you right, 0:03:33.400 --> 0:03:34.240 that's all that matters. 0:03:35.440 --> 0:03:38.880 Yeah, all right, Well, good luck, Victoria. A type? I mean, 0:03:38.920 --> 0:03:42.280 Michael Calvin Harris spitting images practically twins, You see what 0:03:42.360 --> 0:03:43.760 I mean? You don't have a type. 0:03:43.880 --> 0:03:46.120 I don't have a type. All my ex boyfriends look 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:47.320 completely different. 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:48.840 You have a type. 0:03:50.280 --> 0:03:51.160 My next boyfriend. 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:55.400 Thanks for clear enough, because the magazines are going to 0:03:56.040 --> 0:03:56.800 the record straight. 0:03:57.120 --> 0:04:00.000 Harvey Levin was running. 0:03:58.240 --> 0:04:04.120 But I did I used to have a type, but 0:04:04.320 --> 0:04:06.720 now I mean, my type is David. I don't know. 0:04:07.120 --> 0:04:10.320 Good answer, Yeah, I think so, since you're engaged. 0:04:13.280 --> 0:04:15.280 I thought I did, but I don't know if I 0:04:15.360 --> 0:04:15.920 do anymore. 0:04:16.400 --> 0:04:18.400 Well, know, the type you had shouldn't be because it 0:04:18.400 --> 0:04:22.719 never works out. So get a new type. No, what 0:04:22.880 --> 0:04:23.640 is your type? 0:04:25.120 --> 0:04:27.719 I mean the looks wise, I feel like they're just 0:04:27.760 --> 0:04:31.200 a little bit more like rocker like tattoos. 0:04:31.440 --> 0:04:33.000 But I never actually end up with. 0:04:33.000 --> 0:04:37.680 A guy like that, So change your type. Type shift. 0:04:37.760 --> 0:04:40.960 But I still like that type and that it doesn't 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:43.320 come to me. That doesn't Well, don't give up on 0:04:43.360 --> 0:04:43.719 that type. 0:04:44.400 --> 0:04:45.640 It doesn't work in the past. 0:04:45.960 --> 0:04:46.960 Nobody has a type. 0:04:47.080 --> 0:04:50.640 I think people have a type. I think you sink 0:04:51.120 --> 0:04:53.440 you think whatever your type is, that's your type at 0:04:53.440 --> 0:04:54.880 the moment. But then all of a sudden you meet 0:04:54.920 --> 0:04:57.400 somebody else and they may look completely different from that person, 0:04:57.520 --> 0:05:01.279 but there's some common denomination that still connects them all 0:05:01.320 --> 0:05:02.560 together because it's the type. 0:05:02.839 --> 0:05:05.960 Honey, you told us every guy that you've ever dated 0:05:06.880 --> 0:05:08.760 embodies Robbie's characteristics. 0:05:10.000 --> 0:05:11.599 No, no, no, not every guy I know. 0:05:11.680 --> 0:05:17.719 I just made that, yeah something, you know what she 0:05:17.880 --> 0:05:18.719 was like, I just made this. 0:05:19.040 --> 0:05:22.440 She's really poll the actor that he was like, thought 0:05:22.520 --> 0:05:23.400 was so hot and. 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:26.200 Then the mixed between dev Paateel and Zachary. 0:05:27.760 --> 0:05:28.440 That's what I meant. 0:05:29.240 --> 0:05:31.159 And then we meet Robbie. I was like, literally could 0:05:31.160 --> 0:05:31.760 be his cousin. 0:05:35.960 --> 0:05:38.320 I will stand, I will die on this hill. That 0:05:38.400 --> 0:05:41.000 nobody has a type. Everybody says they have a type, 0:05:41.000 --> 0:05:42.279 but you really don't. 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:45.159 Stop with the air quotes. No one person. 0:05:46.720 --> 0:05:48.760 Who does that in your life because you used to 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:50.640 not air quote. Now all you do is airport. 0:05:50.720 --> 0:05:53.240 I've only done it for the last thirty seconds because you've. 0:05:53.120 --> 0:05:56.040 Done it for the last twenty minutes. I'm telling you, guys. 0:05:56.080 --> 0:05:59.479 I was stuck in traffic on Sunset the other day, 0:06:00.160 --> 0:06:03.280 and right there next to me while I was stopped, 0:06:03.279 --> 0:06:06.360 on my right was a tattoo parlor. Doors were open. 0:06:06.760 --> 0:06:10.159 There's a chair and an ashtray out front. I guess 0:06:10.240 --> 0:06:12.520 the guy right who works inside. I saw the guy 0:06:12.560 --> 0:06:16.160 inside wasn't didn't have any customers and I just never 0:06:16.279 --> 0:06:18.239 know when the universe is trying to tell me something. 0:06:18.240 --> 0:06:19.960 All right, here you are stopped in traffic. Here is 0:06:20.000 --> 0:06:22.200 this guy in there with no customers. The doors are open. 0:06:22.200 --> 0:06:25.320 It's like calling my name to get a tattoo, right, 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:28.760 would have been easy. And I could practically smell the 0:06:28.800 --> 0:06:31.480 smoke the cigarettes right from from the crushed cigarettes that 0:06:31.520 --> 0:06:32.599 were outside the tray. 0:06:33.960 --> 0:06:38.320 And I didn't do it. Oh sure, yeah, I know you. 0:06:39.279 --> 0:06:39.919 I didn't do it. 0:06:39.920 --> 0:06:41.960 And do you know why because he didn't know what 0:06:42.000 --> 0:06:42.400 to get. 0:06:42.640 --> 0:06:43.880 I didn't know what to get. 0:06:44.400 --> 0:06:46.640 Well, and it's also permanent, and you want to maybe 0:06:46.880 --> 0:06:47.160 I know. 0:06:47.200 --> 0:06:49.920 But I saw Mark Consuelus's arms the other day. 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:52.840 Is he tatted up on his arm? 0:06:53.400 --> 0:06:53.599 No? 0:06:53.400 --> 0:06:54.840 No, I do know. I've seen them guys. 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:56.960 Yeah, I mean, I'm sure I've been in some intimate 0:06:56.960 --> 0:06:57.840 situations with the man. 0:06:57.880 --> 0:06:58.080 I know. 0:06:58.480 --> 0:07:01.120 He's in my dressing room, my former dressing room. He 0:07:01.240 --> 0:07:02.400 uses my dressing room. 0:07:02.480 --> 0:07:03.839 Oh, it's not your dressing room anymore. 0:07:04.279 --> 0:07:08.520 Dressing it's Kelly and Mark. It's Kelly and Mark. Yes, 0:07:08.600 --> 0:07:10.960 I understand that, but it was Kelly Line for seven years. 0:07:11.520 --> 0:07:14.320 He does not dressing room. It's gone. 0:07:14.440 --> 0:07:19.680 Got great tattoos he's got great tattoos. Maybe I should 0:07:19.680 --> 0:07:21.840 have mom on about it. Anyway, he's got great arms, 0:07:21.880 --> 0:07:23.160 actually has a better body than I do. 0:07:23.840 --> 0:07:24.960 It's pretty equal. 0:07:25.040 --> 0:07:31.400 No, no, no, google him like right, shirt up, shirtless, 0:07:31.880 --> 0:07:36.080 shirtless up, he said, google shirtless Marcan Suelo's pictures. 0:07:36.240 --> 0:07:36.960 Yeah, I see it. 0:07:37.840 --> 0:07:42.400 That's not rain Seacrest, not far off, way far off. 0:07:42.680 --> 0:07:44.640 I don't know what. Thank you, by the way, but 0:07:44.720 --> 0:07:46.080 it's a fantasy. It's not real. 0:07:47.600 --> 0:07:52.640 You have to look at yourself and really see amazingness. 0:07:54.920 --> 0:07:58.720 Michelle, all this over there. 0:08:00.720 --> 0:08:05.760 Okay, y'all have me cracking up this morning. So just 0:08:06.000 --> 0:08:09.400 listening to y'all the joy that the three of you 0:08:09.680 --> 0:08:13.600 bring me on my regular morning commutes. It's just sitting 0:08:13.600 --> 0:08:15.800 here right now talking to you. It's such just so 0:08:15.920 --> 0:08:19.440 much fun. But I had a few little thoughts about 0:08:19.480 --> 0:08:23.480 a tattoo for you, and with your love of olive 0:08:23.480 --> 0:08:26.520 oil and all the high vibes that you send to 0:08:26.600 --> 0:08:30.080 myself and all your listeners, I was thinking about the 0:08:30.120 --> 0:08:35.400 symbol of an olive branch and it's peace and you 0:08:35.400 --> 0:08:38.640 could get a great drawing. I mean you could wrap 0:08:38.640 --> 0:08:43.840 it around your bicep, your mark and Suelo's bicep. You 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:47.679 could put it across your chest, on your forearm, and 0:08:48.040 --> 0:08:51.800 it's such a symbol of it represents what your career 0:08:51.840 --> 0:08:55.480 has been, so many people's lives and all the fun 0:08:55.559 --> 0:08:57.560 that you bring to so many people, and the piece 0:08:57.640 --> 0:09:00.520 the message of joy that you send out resonate. 0:09:01.000 --> 0:09:04.480 When Michelle says it like that in her voice, it 0:09:04.600 --> 0:09:07.200 sounds meant to yeah, I'm. 0:09:07.120 --> 0:09:10.360 Looking, Yeah, the olive branch. Would you keep the olives 0:09:10.360 --> 0:09:11.600 on there or just the branch? 0:09:11.920 --> 0:09:12.040 No? 0:09:11.920 --> 0:09:13.720 No, I would like, I mean, let's have fruit on 0:09:13.760 --> 0:09:18.839 this thing at fruit on my tree. Yeah, well, Michelle. 0:09:18.520 --> 0:09:22.199 I love Yes, there's such a really cute, dainty one 0:09:22.240 --> 0:09:24.040 right here that will look so good on your bicep. 0:09:24.320 --> 0:09:25.520 Dates would work a d. 0:09:27.160 --> 0:09:29.440 When I heard the story that you had the universe 0:09:29.559 --> 0:09:32.880 calling you with the empty tattoo parlor and should I 0:09:32.920 --> 0:09:33.280 go in? 0:09:33.600 --> 0:09:35.200 And the decision that's the thing. 0:09:35.440 --> 0:09:36.360 I don't know what to do. 0:09:37.520 --> 0:09:37.920 I thought. 0:09:38.000 --> 0:09:40.920 I had a mini conversation in my head trying to 0:09:40.960 --> 0:09:44.280 talk myself out of calling and recommending this olive branch. No, 0:09:44.360 --> 0:09:46.040 they'll think of it, so don't don't call. 0:09:46.120 --> 0:09:47.280 And I was like, no, I'm going to call. 0:09:47.800 --> 0:09:52.319 Thank you for takingiative I appreciate that. Well, Michelle, we 0:09:52.480 --> 0:09:55.679 love you for listening. We'll see how this goes. Okay, 0:09:55.800 --> 0:09:56.679 one step closer. 0:09:56.920 --> 0:09:59.200 Thank you. See when she says it, it sounds right 0:10:00.040 --> 0:10:02.040 about it? Sound thing? Oh that makes sense? 0:10:03.200 --> 0:10:03.440 Brands? 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:08.720 Yeah, I think you could do this. Go back to 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:11.000 that shop. I just sent you a picture of one. 0:10:11.040 --> 0:10:13.360 Will I regret it though in a few years? 0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:15.680 No, just move on. 0:10:16.120 --> 0:10:17.920 Maybe me ask my mom. 0:10:18.360 --> 0:10:20.680 We don't ask your mom your praise? 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:20.960 I know. 0:10:21.160 --> 0:10:24.120 Yeah, well I look, I mean she does not want 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:25.080 me to ever get a vespa? 0:10:26.120 --> 0:10:28.200 Well, yeah, would you ever get a vespa? 0:10:28.400 --> 0:10:31.120 There was a time wanted one. I wanted one. 0:10:31.200 --> 0:10:33.240 Would Yeah, you would look cute in a vestment. Now 0:10:33.240 --> 0:10:35.319 that I think the photos of you, I. 0:10:35.320 --> 0:10:37.600 Prefer hot cruising around in my vestment with an all 0:10:37.679 --> 0:10:38.480 the brand's tattoo. 0:10:38.559 --> 0:10:40.960 You better motorcycles, you know? 0:10:41.200 --> 0:10:44.120 Okay, you and your funny distinction show. 0:10:44.160 --> 0:10:46.840 Cycles y'all with those big wheels and picture. 0:10:47.440 --> 0:10:49.400 Did you ever see the wedding planner with Jennifer Lopez 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:50.440 from like one hundred years ago? 0:10:51.080 --> 0:10:52.559 Like Massimo, like the one she. 0:10:52.559 --> 0:10:53.520 Was supposed to call? 0:10:55.640 --> 0:10:59.160 But the distinction between cute and hot. Robbie says that 0:10:59.200 --> 0:11:01.040 too is like, it's ever we say cute. He's like, 0:11:01.040 --> 0:11:02.720 I feel like I'm a dork. Why don't you use 0:11:02.720 --> 0:11:05.480 the term hot? I was like, it's interesting, yeah, because 0:11:05.480 --> 0:11:06.520 we want to be hot. 0:11:06.720 --> 0:11:07.440 Not always. 0:11:07.600 --> 0:11:10.280 Qu's fine, but not every single time, especially when I'm 0:11:10.320 --> 0:11:13.079 on a two wheeled beast of a Vespa with an 0:11:13.160 --> 0:11:16.959 olive branch tattoo, cruising down the one oh one. 0:11:18.559 --> 0:11:19.600 What color would it be? 0:11:22.200 --> 0:11:22.920 A hunter green? 0:11:23.040 --> 0:11:23.120 Oh? 0:11:23.120 --> 0:11:27.560 Okay, a hunter green? Okay, I picture basel cream, but yeah, 0:11:27.559 --> 0:11:29.480 a hundred green is nice. Okay. I like that. I 0:11:29.520 --> 0:11:31.040 know where you could put it too. That would be 0:11:31.679 --> 0:11:34.199 really great. They sell a bunch of vespas on and Turboulevard. 0:11:34.200 --> 0:11:35.080 By the way, it's a whole shop. 0:11:35.679 --> 0:11:40.840 Doesn't want it too, Okay, guys, not for now to 0:11:40.960 --> 0:11:45.200 be continued. So we are going to address an inner 0:11:45.320 --> 0:11:48.760 office issue. If you work in a normal office, this 0:11:48.840 --> 0:11:53.079 is a typical office building. There are typical offices in it, cubicles, 0:11:53.200 --> 0:11:55.199 Keith cards, p ones. 0:11:55.000 --> 0:11:55.600 Through P eight. 0:11:57.120 --> 0:11:58.839 So we got all kinds of drama here at the 0:11:58.840 --> 0:12:02.079 Burbank office, Madiana, what. 0:12:02.080 --> 0:12:04.720 Happened with your lunch? Let's I have a little visual 0:12:04.720 --> 0:12:05.160 aid here. 0:12:05.280 --> 0:12:07.480 I saw this note. I didn't know it was your lunch. 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:09.559 I was like, oh, that sucked for whoever that is. 0:12:10.160 --> 0:12:10.960 Did you see it? 0:12:11.160 --> 0:12:13.600 I saw the note, yes, and I was like, oh, 0:12:13.640 --> 0:12:15.880 man numbers. 0:12:16.760 --> 0:12:19.719 So I went to the fridge to go grab my 0:12:19.800 --> 0:12:24.200 lunch because I got hungry, and there's a big note 0:12:24.360 --> 0:12:27.440 on a fridge and it says, if you had chicken 0:12:27.480 --> 0:12:29.360 and broccoli for lunch, come see me. 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:31.360 I owe you lunch. 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:35.840 Because I guess when they opened the door, it fell 0:12:36.000 --> 0:12:38.800 out and her glass tupperware shattered. 0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:41.440 Oh no, you're being a good planet person by having 0:12:41.480 --> 0:12:43.960 glass and it shattered on somebody everywhere. 0:12:44.160 --> 0:12:47.079 So did you go seek this individual? That was honest? 0:12:47.800 --> 0:12:51.120 I didn't, but Nick introduced me to the person and 0:12:51.240 --> 0:12:53.480 I told Nick and I told Mark and they're like, 0:12:53.520 --> 0:12:55.160 oh my god, this is so funny. And so like 0:12:55.840 --> 0:12:57.880 we went to go meet up with the guy and 0:12:57.920 --> 0:13:01.360 he was he's really cool, so bad. I didn't even 0:13:01.400 --> 0:13:03.240 want to go up to him because I'm like, it's fine. 0:13:03.240 --> 0:13:05.560 I don't want him to think that, you know, Like, 0:13:05.640 --> 0:13:07.560 I'm like, it's okay, Like it was probably my fault 0:13:07.559 --> 0:13:08.360 because I placed it. 0:13:08.559 --> 0:13:10.000 But didn't you make him buy your lunch? 0:13:10.240 --> 0:13:10.360 No? 0:13:10.400 --> 0:13:15.240 I didn't make it. He offered he let's go. 0:13:17.080 --> 0:13:19.960 Look at all that planning and efficiency you made the chicken, 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:20.520 you pack. 0:13:21.880 --> 0:13:23.080 Organize yourself, and. 0:13:24.440 --> 0:13:26.400 That would like really throw off my day, because I 0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:28.360 really do. It's like you bring your food and you 0:13:28.480 --> 0:13:31.320 plan plant it for specific times, and like that would 0:13:31.400 --> 0:13:32.040 really throw me. 0:13:32.640 --> 0:13:35.079 I do appreciate his note though, Yeah, it's really sweet. 0:13:35.160 --> 0:13:36.280 He's sweet. 0:13:36.360 --> 0:13:39.040 He seems like this is like the perfect script for 0:13:39.080 --> 0:13:41.640 a rom com to the right way to meet somebody. 0:13:41.840 --> 0:13:43.080 Let's meet at him now I'm. 0:13:44.679 --> 0:13:44.959 Married. 0:13:45.480 --> 0:13:47.760 I think he is married. 0:13:49.240 --> 0:13:55.200 Okay, it's just become a thriller. 0:13:55.400 --> 0:14:00.400 Wat way too many rom coms. Know that we're. 0:14:00.320 --> 0:14:03.319 Very happy that you had an honest note there, and 0:14:03.480 --> 0:14:07.080 you know, wanted to admit your mistake and breaking Marianna's lunch. 0:14:08.040 --> 0:14:11.160 Well, there's a little bit of challenge there, and in 0:14:11.240 --> 0:14:13.400 thinking about it for the past twenty four hours, you've 0:14:13.440 --> 0:14:15.600 had a lot of witnesses. I kind of changed my 0:14:15.600 --> 0:14:16.280 tune a little bit. 0:14:16.640 --> 0:14:19.240 Is okay, okay, oh this is getting good. 0:14:19.440 --> 0:14:20.240 See what happened? 0:14:20.960 --> 0:14:23.840 So, like, I'm an honest gentleman. You know, I grew 0:14:23.880 --> 0:14:26.440 up with great morals and if I break something, I 0:14:26.520 --> 0:14:28.600 pay for it. But at the same time, if it 0:14:28.680 --> 0:14:32.160 was placed in such a way that it was not 0:14:32.200 --> 0:14:35.280 really my fault for it breaking. Then do I pay? 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:40.840 Are you implying that it was Mariana's salt for the 0:14:40.840 --> 0:14:43.920 way she placed her tupperware inside the fridge? 0:14:44.200 --> 0:14:47.120 I heard her say right before I got on that 0:14:47.200 --> 0:14:49.160 it could be up to her too. Now Here, there's 0:14:49.160 --> 0:14:51.880 two things. Afore, on a witness stand, I would you 0:14:51.920 --> 0:14:54.880 know acknowledge that yes, it broke when I opened the door. 0:14:55.040 --> 0:14:57.280 But at the same time, there's a big sign right 0:14:57.320 --> 0:15:01.040 on the refrigerator that says no hooking broccoli. 0:15:01.960 --> 0:15:10.400 By the way, no fishcoli in the micro sounds like 0:15:10.440 --> 0:15:11.920 bare bump, so. 0:15:11.960 --> 0:15:14.720 Right off the bat if we are again on a trial. 0:15:15.880 --> 0:15:19.960 Then secondly, there are shelves with glass or or plastic 0:15:20.160 --> 0:15:22.320 that cover so things don't slide off. Then when you 0:15:22.320 --> 0:15:24.960 put glass on glass, you're setting something up for disaster. 0:15:25.640 --> 0:15:27.480 Adam, I feel like they don't let you guys talk 0:15:27.560 --> 0:15:28.400 back there in the sales. 0:15:30.480 --> 0:15:32.360 I'm not going to say you should take mita nobu 0:15:32.640 --> 0:15:36.880 because you ruin my suit. But I'm just saying, is 0:15:36.880 --> 0:15:38.440 that one hundred percent my fault. 0:15:39.440 --> 0:15:39.960 And your. 0:15:42.080 --> 0:15:44.680 Adam from sales broke many on his lunch, he was 0:15:44.800 --> 0:15:47.440 very kind to admit that now he's changing his tune here, Adam, 0:15:47.640 --> 0:15:50.800 which client or clients do you work with that are 0:15:50.840 --> 0:15:51.400 on our show? 0:15:52.480 --> 0:15:54.520 I work with I'm vice president of sales, so I 0:15:54.560 --> 0:15:56.440 work with most law of clients all over. 0:15:56.640 --> 0:15:59.080 Kiss you have a one that is on the morning 0:15:59.080 --> 0:15:59.600 show right now? 0:16:00.960 --> 0:16:02.280 We have many on the boarding schow r now, so 0:16:02.320 --> 0:16:03.120 I can't just name one. 0:16:04.160 --> 0:16:05.800 Well, it seems like it's the VP sales should be 0:16:05.840 --> 0:16:06.480 able to name one. 0:16:07.000 --> 0:16:08.880 I know, I have a lot. I just don't want 0:16:08.920 --> 0:16:11.320 to just name out one. The other big one you 0:16:11.360 --> 0:16:11.600 named me? 0:16:12.040 --> 0:16:14.160 Well, let me play and have you heard have you 0:16:14.160 --> 0:16:15.640 heard Ruby's at and T commercial? 0:16:18.840 --> 0:16:19.840 We play that one a lot. 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:23.720 It's it's it's the most run commercial here. Just take 0:16:23.720 --> 0:16:25.680 a listen. She's trying to figure out. 0:16:25.600 --> 0:16:27.800 Where is everything? 0:16:29.000 --> 0:16:29.200 Yeah? 0:16:30.040 --> 0:16:31.360 Different And although that makes it. 0:16:31.920 --> 0:16:34.280 Anyway, Adam from Sales, we love you buddy, thanks for 0:16:34.320 --> 0:16:35.920 all the hard work and love on our show, and 0:16:35.960 --> 0:16:40.160 thank you, appreciate you. You take care all right, bye bye. 0:16:40.440 --> 0:16:43.040 But I think he's looking for a podcast or something. 0:16:45.120 --> 0:16:49.200 It has to be so you put them on the door. Yeah, 0:16:49.240 --> 0:16:51.880 so then when it opened, it probably slid out from it. 0:16:52.000 --> 0:16:53.880 I mean, how do you Honestly, that is a bad 0:16:53.960 --> 0:16:55.120 place to put your lunch. 0:16:55.640 --> 0:16:58.320 It is, but I didn't obviously didn't go the intention 0:16:58.480 --> 0:16:59.760 of that. I mean, it was an accident. 0:16:59.800 --> 0:17:02.440 I'm on your side because he did like this about 0:17:02.480 --> 0:17:04.800 face on you that I was way into hugging him 0:17:04.800 --> 0:17:06.680 because he was honest what I. 0:17:06.640 --> 0:17:07.159 Thought about it. 0:17:07.400 --> 0:17:12.760 And after that I was like, actually I do want lunch. 0:17:13.359 --> 0:17:16.800 Yeah no boo, classic sales move. You come in for 0:17:16.840 --> 0:17:21.320 a free lunch and now you're buying something. So your 0:17:21.320 --> 0:17:24.280 phone it's listening to you, right, I mean I it's 0:17:24.280 --> 0:17:26.520 like I breathe a thought and all of a sudden 0:17:26.520 --> 0:17:29.159 it ads for shoes come up on my or workout 0:17:29.160 --> 0:17:33.680 clothes come up and my feet. Ye, so maybe they're listening. 0:17:33.760 --> 0:17:36.200 Maybe they're not. I think they are, but you can 0:17:36.240 --> 0:17:39.440 make sure they're not by doing this. If you don't 0:17:39.440 --> 0:17:43.919 want them to listen, go to settings, scroll down to 0:17:43.960 --> 0:17:50.520 the apps, click on the suspected app and turn off microphone. 0:17:51.640 --> 0:17:55.080 If you do authorize Mike access, it is legal for 0:17:55.160 --> 0:17:58.240 them to listen, not even when you're using the app. 0:17:58.359 --> 0:18:00.240 This is all the apps. You can't just do this 0:18:00.280 --> 0:18:01.080 on like a one setting. 0:18:01.119 --> 0:18:02.720 You have to do it like for Instagram, you have 0:18:02.800 --> 0:18:04.119 to do it for Target, you have to do it 0:18:04.160 --> 0:18:06.880 for all the apps that have a microphone. 0:18:07.000 --> 0:18:08.720 We'll take twenty seven minutes and do it. 0:18:09.840 --> 0:18:11.080 I'm fine, Yeah, me too. 0:18:12.920 --> 0:18:13.199 All right. 0:18:13.240 --> 0:18:15.560 Today's quote here it is quote every day you are 0:18:15.600 --> 0:18:18.200 the sky. Everything else is just the weather. 0:18:19.920 --> 0:18:20.480 Wow. 0:18:21.800 --> 0:18:25.800 Oh right, good like good comms, bad coms. Weather changes, 0:18:25.960 --> 0:18:28.000 but the sky stays the same past. 0:18:28.000 --> 0:18:30.000 So stay blue when you get above the clouds. It's 0:18:30.000 --> 0:18:33.959 always blue. 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South Topinga remain closed until at least 0:19:00.000 --> 0:19:02.959 six pm today from Moholland Drive to pch And. 0:19:03.000 --> 0:19:04.960 The one hundred and sixteenth Newport. 0:19:04.640 --> 0:19:08.040 Beach Christmas Boat Parade begins tonight along a fourteen mile 0:19:08.119 --> 0:19:11.199 course in the Newport Harbor, starting at six thirty and 0:19:11.240 --> 0:19:12.800 continuing through Friday night. 0:19:13.080 --> 0:19:15.760 Let me grab Brie here about our coworker may need 0:19:15.800 --> 0:19:17.760 to everybody to jump in for some advice. 0:19:17.760 --> 0:19:18.800 Prey, good morning, How are you? 0:19:20.080 --> 0:19:20.320 Hey? 0:19:20.440 --> 0:19:21.960 I'm good, How are you great? 0:19:22.119 --> 0:19:25.360 We're doing well things. How can we help you this morning? Brie? 0:19:25.720 --> 0:19:31.240 Yeah, I'm kind of in an awkward situation. So my 0:19:31.359 --> 0:19:36.760 coworker set me up with her son, and she's like 0:19:36.800 --> 0:19:38.760 a friend. She's seen a lot of my sort of 0:19:38.840 --> 0:19:40.520 dating ups and downs. 0:19:40.680 --> 0:19:41.720 And I think she like. 0:19:43.200 --> 0:19:48.400 Felt like she was solving my singleness. But I we've 0:19:48.440 --> 0:19:50.800 gone on two dates and I don't like her. 0:19:50.600 --> 0:19:51.600 Son at all. 0:19:54.119 --> 0:19:57.200 And yeah, I just felt like the vibe wasn't there 0:19:57.280 --> 0:20:01.480 at all. In I don't know what to do, because. 0:20:01.200 --> 0:20:03.760 How do you tell your coworker that you don't like 0:20:03.800 --> 0:20:04.640 her kid? 0:20:05.880 --> 0:20:09.479 Yeah, I just don't want to make it weird with her. 0:20:11.880 --> 0:20:13.600 Can you tell us more about her son and what 0:20:13.680 --> 0:20:14.639 you don't like? 0:20:15.920 --> 0:20:22.719 Yeah, there's nothing like he's he's nice and everything. I 0:20:22.840 --> 0:20:24.800 just like don't feel the vibe there at all. 0:20:25.280 --> 0:20:27.240 And she thought you would feel a vibe. Why, Like, 0:20:27.280 --> 0:20:29.440 what was the reason that she thought you guys would think. 0:20:31.119 --> 0:20:33.959 I don't. I mean, I consider her to be a friend, 0:20:34.960 --> 0:20:38.119 but he's just he's like not my type, and we 0:20:38.160 --> 0:20:42.000 don't really have anything in common. And I'm also I'm 0:20:42.040 --> 0:20:42.800 just not attracted. 0:20:42.880 --> 0:20:45.280 Do you know he is attracted to you or he's 0:20:45.320 --> 0:20:46.879 giving you vibes that like he's into you. 0:20:48.119 --> 0:20:52.399 Yeah, yeah, he's been like yeah, he keeps asking to 0:20:52.440 --> 0:20:57.520 go out again. And like my coworker, his mom said 0:20:57.680 --> 0:21:01.520 that he keeps telling her like that he's so happy 0:21:01.560 --> 0:21:04.399 that she connected us. And I don't know what to do. 0:21:05.000 --> 0:21:06.399 I got it, laugh or not. 0:21:07.440 --> 0:21:07.840 I don't know what. 0:21:08.920 --> 0:21:14.160 There's only one path, and that's through here, and here's 0:21:14.200 --> 0:21:21.320 the truth path, and it's legit. Okay, love your son, 0:21:23.080 --> 0:21:27.359 I love working here, love our relationship. It just doesn't 0:21:27.359 --> 0:21:31.680 feel comfortable for me to be thinking about dating your 0:21:31.760 --> 0:21:35.840 son while we're working together. It just complicate potentially complicates things. 0:21:35.880 --> 0:21:37.640 I mean, if things go well, things don't go well. 0:21:38.000 --> 0:21:39.840 I just don't think it's the right idea. I don't 0:21:39.880 --> 0:21:44.200 think it's necessarily what I'm looking for, full stop. Deal 0:21:44.240 --> 0:21:48.359 with the response might be a little awkward, and move on. 0:21:49.040 --> 0:21:50.280 That's the only way to deal with it. 0:21:50.920 --> 0:21:52.399 I don't think that's going to work. She starts off 0:21:52.400 --> 0:21:54.600 by saying, I love your son. That's kind of misleading. 0:21:55.400 --> 0:21:59.919 I love the idea that you set me up with 0:21:59.960 --> 0:22:03.200 your son. However, I just don't think this is the 0:22:03.280 --> 0:22:05.560 right path while we work together. Who knows what's gonna happen. 0:22:05.600 --> 0:22:07.080 You're allowed to say if it goes. 0:22:06.920 --> 0:22:08.639 I mean, this is very very no, because then she's 0:22:08.680 --> 0:22:10.439 gonna say, well, why didn't you do that before I 0:22:10.480 --> 0:22:11.199 set you up with him? 0:22:11.200 --> 0:22:14.000 Why did you send me down this path? Lie to lie, 0:22:14.040 --> 0:22:15.800 you just need to come clean and be like, hey, 0:22:15.840 --> 0:22:19.119 I just don't find the connection. But he seems like 0:22:19.119 --> 0:22:19.600 a great guy. 0:22:19.840 --> 0:22:21.680 But you've got to have a pathway through and nip 0:22:21.720 --> 0:22:23.200 it in the butt. Otherwise you're going to be doing 0:22:23.200 --> 0:22:25.040 something you don't want to do, and it's gonna get 0:22:25.119 --> 0:22:27.199 really bad. If you kick the can on this and 0:22:27.359 --> 0:22:29.240 have to get out of it after she thinks you're 0:22:29.280 --> 0:22:32.119 into her son, that's going to be really bad. 0:22:34.720 --> 0:22:37.480 I just don't I don't want to insult her by 0:22:37.520 --> 0:22:39.200 saying I don't like your son, and you. 0:22:39.200 --> 0:22:41.879 Saw you that we're not a match. 0:22:42.040 --> 0:22:45.520 No, say the vibes line vibes, don't lie. 0:22:46.480 --> 0:22:48.119 I just think we're better off as friends. We're not 0:22:48.160 --> 0:22:51.639 a match. But don't wait on this, don't sleep on it. 0:22:51.680 --> 0:22:57.280 All right, thank you very much, good luck? Yeah, thanks whatever, 0:22:57.480 --> 0:22:58.160 Just be direct. 0:22:59.080 --> 0:23:01.000 Setting up coworker, this is very tricky. 0:23:01.200 --> 0:23:02.520 I don't think it's a great idea. 0:23:04.600 --> 0:23:06.879 Yeah, I feel like I've tried to do it a 0:23:06.920 --> 0:23:09.160 couple of times. It could work, it could not work. 0:23:09.200 --> 0:23:12.760 My sister set me up with Michael, but I guess 0:23:12.760 --> 0:23:16.639 it wasn't her coworker. Yeah, then I don't know. 0:23:16.720 --> 0:23:17.200 I don't know. 0:23:17.240 --> 0:23:19.520 And if it went bad like then it's a problem here. 0:23:20.880 --> 0:23:22.919 Then you blame Tanya because she said you with Michael, 0:23:23.080 --> 0:23:24.480 and here we're at work every day. 0:23:24.560 --> 0:23:25.440 They didn't work out. 0:23:26.600 --> 0:23:29.200 Well, if you're mature adults, you're not going to bring 0:23:29.200 --> 0:23:30.280 the grudge into work. 0:23:31.040 --> 0:23:31.840 Have you met us? 0:23:34.119 --> 0:23:35.679 Our middle name is grudge. 0:23:36.040 --> 0:23:36.680 No, it's not. 0:23:38.240 --> 0:23:40.320 Well, we're not mature. Give us that. 0:23:40.440 --> 0:23:42.399 Let me grab Serena, who's on a phone here at 0:23:42.400 --> 0:23:43.920 eight hundred and five to one to two seven. 0:23:44.000 --> 0:23:46.320 Serena, good morning, How are you? 0:23:47.520 --> 0:23:48.360 Good morning? 0:23:48.520 --> 0:23:49.000 I'm good? 0:23:49.040 --> 0:23:50.520 How are you great? 0:23:50.600 --> 0:23:53.399 So you're calling here? You need a little guidance or 0:23:53.440 --> 0:23:57.080 some feedback here. Your boyfriend is the topic and he 0:23:57.119 --> 0:23:58.600 gets mad at you for what. 0:24:00.359 --> 0:24:04.480 So he basically gets mad at me because we're in 0:24:04.520 --> 0:24:08.439 a long distance relationship and basically, you know, like we 0:24:08.520 --> 0:24:12.920 FaceTime every night before we go to bed, and usually 0:24:13.000 --> 0:24:15.439 like before like I go to bed, like I'll tell 0:24:15.440 --> 0:24:19.160 im like, hey, good night, and I'll scrow like on 0:24:19.200 --> 0:24:23.199 my phone like afterwards, and you know, like accidentally, like 0:24:23.359 --> 0:24:27.720 I'll mistakenly like send him like stuff on Instagram and 0:24:27.760 --> 0:24:30.760 like group chat season and he basically looks at it 0:24:30.800 --> 0:24:33.920 as like why are you telling me good night and 0:24:33.960 --> 0:24:36.720 then sending me stuff on Instagram? 0:24:37.920 --> 0:24:38.640 I get that out. 0:24:38.840 --> 0:24:41.760 I'm kind of just like, am I really like in 0:24:41.840 --> 0:24:44.200 the wrong for that? Like I kind of just want 0:24:44.200 --> 0:24:46.320 to like chill on my phone like before I go 0:24:46.400 --> 0:24:46.760 to bed. 0:24:47.680 --> 0:24:50.840 Yes, I know exactly what you mean, because I do this. 0:24:51.440 --> 0:24:54.280 I'll say, I'll say good night to my phone, but 0:24:54.280 --> 0:24:56.119 then I'll go in the room and then I'll just 0:24:56.160 --> 0:24:58.560 go on Instagram for like another thirty minutes, and then 0:24:58.600 --> 0:25:00.360 I hear him coming like down the all the way 0:25:00.359 --> 0:25:02.320 into the room, and I'll put the phone under the 0:25:02.359 --> 0:25:05.800 car so that he thinks I'm sleep. 0:25:06.000 --> 0:25:09.040 He's like, don't get it, Like he's like, oh, you know, 0:25:09.240 --> 0:25:11.679 like it hurts his feelings because when I do this, 0:25:12.000 --> 0:25:14.959 like he's basically saying that, like I'm trying to end 0:25:15.040 --> 0:25:18.720 communication for the day with him, and I'm like, well, 0:25:19.040 --> 0:25:24.760 I mean. 0:25:20.119 --> 0:25:20.439 I'm. 0:25:22.840 --> 0:25:25.000 Totally with him on this day to break. 0:25:26.960 --> 0:25:30.400 Why can't I just like have my alone time before 0:25:30.400 --> 0:25:30.920 I go to bed? 0:25:31.040 --> 0:25:32.879 Like, yes, you should funny video? 0:25:33.440 --> 0:25:37.080 And he just gets really mad and I'm like, Okay, 0:25:37.119 --> 0:25:39.160 am I in the wrong? Like I need some opinions 0:25:39.160 --> 0:25:39.399 on this. 0:25:39.600 --> 0:25:41.679 No, it's just very funny because I used to be 0:25:41.840 --> 0:25:42.400 the same way. 0:25:42.440 --> 0:25:43.600 But I would just never say it. 0:25:44.119 --> 0:25:46.840 Like I would get internally annoyed when Roby and I 0:25:46.920 --> 0:25:48.840 first started dating if he would like send me stuff 0:25:48.840 --> 0:25:50.480 after we facetimed and said good night. 0:25:50.840 --> 0:25:52.399 I would be like, why is he doing this? But 0:25:52.400 --> 0:25:53.280 I would never say it. 0:25:53.320 --> 0:25:56.640 So I actually applaud your boyfriend for speaking up because 0:25:57.240 --> 0:25:58.399 it really bothers me. 0:25:59.000 --> 0:26:01.760 No, it's fine, you need it. 0:26:04.240 --> 0:26:06.879 Well, I'm glad you addressed it because this is something 0:26:06.920 --> 0:26:08.119 that everybody deals with. 0:26:08.280 --> 0:26:12.160 Yeah, I mean I think it's normal. You know, everybody 0:26:12.400 --> 0:26:15.240 like goes on Instagram before they go to sleep, you know, But. 0:26:15.240 --> 0:26:17.119 If you are in the same bed with the person 0:26:17.200 --> 0:26:19.080 and you do say good night and it's dark and 0:26:19.080 --> 0:26:20.159 then there's screen lights up. 0:26:20.200 --> 0:26:20.920 Do you turn and go. 0:26:23.400 --> 0:26:23.680 Yeah? 0:26:23.800 --> 0:26:25.919 Well that's why it's kind of like a plus for 0:26:26.000 --> 0:26:28.040 me because we live far from each other. 0:26:28.480 --> 0:26:32.640 Right for this, for this, well, good luck. I don't 0:26:32.640 --> 0:26:35.000 think it's a deal breaker. I understand both sides and 0:26:35.040 --> 0:26:38.480 you are not alone. Appreciate him bringing it up. 0:26:38.840 --> 0:26:41.080 On air with Ryan. 0:26:41.480 --> 0:26:46.680 He Oh, it's just he's dropping on the back room 0:26:46.680 --> 0:26:48.720 and somebody's putting their foot down. Call that it is 0:26:48.760 --> 0:26:50.399 done with it. She's tired of it, you know what 0:26:50.480 --> 0:26:51.879 you hear something, I'm tired of it. I'm like, what 0:26:51.960 --> 0:26:54.440 are you tired of it? She's tired of it, tired 0:26:54.480 --> 0:26:57.399 of what negative comments have done to effect her life. 0:26:57.560 --> 0:27:01.239 Like as a child, were you ever told something and 0:27:01.280 --> 0:27:04.560 it stuck with you and you navigate yourself and life 0:27:04.760 --> 0:27:09.240 around it on a regular basis because some person tried 0:27:09.280 --> 0:27:12.560 to put you down, say something like condemn a thought 0:27:12.880 --> 0:27:16.320 or put your fire out? Me for sure tease what 0:27:16.359 --> 0:27:19.679 I was teased about being chubby one two. I was 0:27:19.760 --> 0:27:22.480 told when I started hosting a show when I was 0:27:24.119 --> 0:27:27.520 seventeen or eighteen, I was doing something and I was 0:27:27.560 --> 0:27:31.080 told by a producer, I'll make sure you never work. 0:27:30.880 --> 0:27:33.480 Again as a teenager. I'll make sure you. 0:27:33.359 --> 0:27:36.360 Never work again. Because I don't know what they were 0:27:36.440 --> 0:27:39.320 upset about. Like me, I think it was me not 0:27:39.400 --> 0:27:42.119 signing my life away to a contract. I was signing 0:27:42.160 --> 0:27:43.400 my life away. They want me to sign my life 0:27:43.400 --> 0:27:47.000 when I said no. And then I actually remember the 0:27:47.040 --> 0:27:49.320 person calling my photo was driving my hond to prelude 0:27:49.600 --> 0:27:52.120 and and said to me, I'll make sure you never 0:27:52.160 --> 0:27:52.720 work again. 0:27:53.040 --> 0:27:54.480 I'm not signing this paper. 0:27:54.359 --> 0:27:55.040 Now look at you. 0:27:55.400 --> 0:28:02.440 Yeah, I'm working, working right now. I'm working right now 0:28:02.920 --> 0:28:05.359 in this town. This was not even this town. This 0:28:05.480 --> 0:28:06.040 was Atlanta. 0:28:06.160 --> 0:28:09.120 The person, oh my gosh. 0:28:08.280 --> 0:28:09.880 It wasn't even Hollywood. I'll make sure you never work 0:28:09.880 --> 0:28:14.000 in Atlanta again. Anyway, I bring this up because Collet's 0:28:14.000 --> 0:28:14.880 putting her foot down. 0:28:14.880 --> 0:28:16.840 Came out for the back room. What are you tired of? 0:28:17.800 --> 0:28:21.080 So I like realize I have been shaving my arms 0:28:21.240 --> 0:28:24.400 since middle school because like one of my classmates said, 0:28:24.400 --> 0:28:26.600 I had hairry arms when I was a kid, And 0:28:26.640 --> 0:28:29.080 I was like, why am I still doing this just 0:28:29.080 --> 0:28:32.440 because one person said this to me? And then also 0:28:32.480 --> 0:28:34.560 I was like and so I like reflected more, and 0:28:34.600 --> 0:28:38.120 I remember I had stopped wearing jeans in high school 0:28:38.440 --> 0:28:40.760 and after high school because someone said I was fat 0:28:40.800 --> 0:28:41.280 in jeans. 0:28:41.360 --> 0:28:43.400 This boy I remember his name, He was a jerk. 0:28:43.440 --> 0:28:45.120 I won't call him out, but call. 0:28:45.040 --> 0:28:48.760 Him out those stayed with you in your adult life. 0:28:48.800 --> 0:28:51.920 And it was literally just one comment that one person made. 0:28:51.960 --> 0:28:54.959 Like it wasn't like consistently com like these comments were 0:28:54.960 --> 0:28:56.960 made and I was like, why am I I'm twenty 0:28:57.000 --> 0:28:59.520 five years old? Like who if someone's looking at my 0:28:59.640 --> 0:29:03.200 arms going they're hairy, they have bigger issues than like my. 0:29:07.120 --> 0:29:09.720 Exactly? Who cares? Like if someone's arms are hairy and 0:29:09.840 --> 0:29:10.800 my hair is in there? 0:29:11.040 --> 0:29:11.280 Yes. 0:29:12.440 --> 0:29:13.959 I was like, I can't believe because I was like, 0:29:14.040 --> 0:29:16.040 and I have to stop myself because I'll like to 0:29:16.160 --> 0:29:18.040 be doing my like routine in the shower and I'll 0:29:18.080 --> 0:29:19.840 go to shave my arms and I'm like, whoa, I 0:29:19.840 --> 0:29:20.320 gotta stop. 0:29:20.360 --> 0:29:23.120 I'm not doing this jeans on today too. I do 0:29:23.320 --> 0:29:24.360 have jeans on today. 0:29:24.560 --> 0:29:26.000 See much happier you are. 0:29:26.280 --> 0:29:29.360 Yeah, here's the thing about shaving anything. You know, when 0:29:29.400 --> 0:29:31.760 you shave it, it grows back a lot more, doesn't it. 0:29:32.360 --> 0:29:34.600 I think they tell you, but I don't know. 0:29:34.120 --> 0:29:37.880 I think my arms are still like I maybe I 0:29:37.920 --> 0:29:39.720 don't know, maybe a little bit, but not like that much. 0:29:39.800 --> 0:29:42.480 Well, I I didn't have Harry legs forever, and then 0:29:42.520 --> 0:29:45.160 I my buddy's like, you gotta just trim them every 0:29:45.160 --> 0:29:46.480 once in a while. So I bought one of those 0:29:46.880 --> 0:29:49.880 trimmers with guards, and I trimmed them twice last year, 0:29:49.920 --> 0:29:52.840 and now they grow back fuller, and so I gotta 0:29:52.960 --> 0:29:53.560 trim them more. 0:29:53.680 --> 0:29:55.680 I mean, leg hair is a whole other people. 0:29:55.360 --> 0:29:56.840 But it's like the stuff they don't tell you. 0:29:58.600 --> 0:30:01.920 I kind of have a similar s situation where in 0:30:02.120 --> 0:30:05.280 when I was younger, middle school, whatever, I just I danced, 0:30:05.320 --> 0:30:08.160 I did cheer at the gymnastics, and I never played 0:30:08.160 --> 0:30:11.760 any sports. So I was never picked for sports at 0:30:11.760 --> 0:30:13.239 school like reesas or things like that. 0:30:13.240 --> 0:30:15.280 Nobody ever picked me because in theory, sucked. 0:30:15.760 --> 0:30:17.239 And it's always kind of stuck with me because now 0:30:17.240 --> 0:30:19.800 as an adult, I still like have fears of starting pickleball, 0:30:19.840 --> 0:30:21.440 Like I just don't think I'm going to be great 0:30:21.480 --> 0:30:24.120 at something because I never played sports as a child. 0:30:24.440 --> 0:30:28.560 But like, yeah, and like I understand that it. 0:30:28.440 --> 0:30:30.240 Was like my sport and that's what got me through 0:30:30.240 --> 0:30:32.760 those years. Of course I was like an athlete in 0:30:32.760 --> 0:30:35.600 that sense, but when it comes to like if someone 0:30:35.640 --> 0:30:37.280 wants to go play soccer, like Michael's on a co 0:30:37.400 --> 0:30:39.080 ed soccer team, and like there's you know, I'm like, 0:30:39.120 --> 0:30:40.920 I could never do that, Like you guys are so 0:30:41.040 --> 0:30:42.080 much better, you. 0:30:42.000 --> 0:30:44.200 Know, even kickball. I'll do kickball. 0:30:44.200 --> 0:30:46.600 But when it goes to like pickleball or a softball game, 0:30:46.600 --> 0:30:47.920 whoring like that, it's too. 0:30:47.760 --> 0:30:49.360 Serious and I feel like I suck and I'm just 0:30:49.400 --> 0:30:50.480 like I'm just going to sit it out. 0:30:50.800 --> 0:30:51.520 Too much pressure. 0:30:51.680 --> 0:30:52.760 I playick with you. 0:30:53.680 --> 0:30:56.200 Well, collect you take your arms with hair and your 0:30:56.240 --> 0:30:59.160 dead and jeans, and you walk proudly through these halls here, 0:30:59.200 --> 0:31:01.640 and you know to that guy that said these things 0:31:01.680 --> 0:31:04.800 to you, ha, yeah take that. 0:31:04.960 --> 0:31:08.239 Ryan Seacres says, ha, let's go, let's go play pick 0:31:08.320 --> 0:31:08.600 a ball. 0:31:08.760 --> 0:31:12.400 Yeah, gotta get these they do. 0:31:12.440 --> 0:31:13.480 They scar you for life. 0:31:13.520 --> 0:31:14.560 You can really do. 0:31:16.760 --> 0:31:19.719 Stephanie has an interesting issue here. Her boyfriend's parents are 0:31:19.800 --> 0:31:23.480 bad tippers. Well, Stephanie, what happened and how bad are they? 0:31:24.720 --> 0:31:29.120 Hi? So the scenario is my boyfriend's parents. I take 0:31:29.160 --> 0:31:31.120 us out to dinner a lot. Now, every time we 0:31:31.160 --> 0:31:33.560 go out to dinner or drinks or whatever, you know, 0:31:33.640 --> 0:31:36.400 we alfer to pay when the check comes we you know, 0:31:36.480 --> 0:31:39.000 we really appreciate that they do want to take us out. 0:31:39.440 --> 0:31:41.320 But what I've noticed when they do take us out, 0:31:41.360 --> 0:31:46.560 they tip less than ten percent the matter what bestaur 0:31:46.600 --> 0:31:49.800 on bar, anything like that. And both my boyfriend and 0:31:49.840 --> 0:31:52.080 I have worked in the food industry before, so like 0:31:52.120 --> 0:31:55.560 we know how important tipping is. So like we feel awful, 0:31:56.120 --> 0:31:58.960 but we don't really know what to do. Like I 0:31:59.000 --> 0:32:00.960 haven't even really discuss says with my boyfriend cause I 0:32:00.960 --> 0:32:03.200 don't want to hurt his feelings and make him feel like, 0:32:03.600 --> 0:32:05.720 you know, his parents are less than But I just 0:32:05.800 --> 0:32:07.360 kind of don't know how to navigate this. 0:32:09.120 --> 0:32:12.440 You can't you just bring extra cash. 0:32:14.320 --> 0:32:16.800 I've been in situations while just add to what's on 0:32:16.840 --> 0:32:17.320 the table. 0:32:17.440 --> 0:32:20.080 Yeah, exactly, I think that's the them though. 0:32:20.760 --> 0:32:23.480 You gotta do it when they walk away, yeah, or 0:32:23.560 --> 0:32:25.200 do it to the server if you pass the server. 0:32:25.360 --> 0:32:28.640 Like, I'm just thinking that was a great night, kay. 0:32:28.680 --> 0:32:30.760 I mean you don't bring it up to my boyfriend. 0:32:31.440 --> 0:32:34.120 No, I don't mind you bring up to your boyfriend. 0:32:34.120 --> 0:32:35.959 But I also think if you want to solve the problem, 0:32:35.960 --> 0:32:37.600 you and your boyfriend bring a little extra every now 0:32:37.640 --> 0:32:39.320 and then when you're having dinner with his parents and you'd. 0:32:39.200 --> 0:32:40.040 Lay it out. 0:32:40.320 --> 0:32:42.040 Yeah, I mean his parents are stuck in their ways, 0:32:42.080 --> 0:32:43.080 like you're not going to change them. 0:32:43.200 --> 0:32:43.400 No. 0:32:45.000 --> 0:32:46.840 Yeah, it's just I feel so bad because it's so 0:32:46.920 --> 0:32:48.560 nice they treat us like I wouldn't mind. 0:32:48.760 --> 0:32:50.920 You know, then why don't treat you? Why don't you 0:32:50.960 --> 0:32:53.120 do the tip? Just let them off. Oh that's a 0:32:53.160 --> 0:32:55.479 good plan, that's a fair trade. That might be a 0:32:55.480 --> 0:32:57.160 better route. You know. You guys, do care dinner. 0:32:57.200 --> 0:32:58.560 We've got the tip, and then you give the appropriate 0:32:58.640 --> 0:33:03.160 tip the moment. 0:33:03.600 --> 0:33:07.800 Stephanie, thank you for listening to it. Good life, good care. 0:33:08.240 --> 0:33:09.680 Oh I hope it works, thank you. 0:33:10.280 --> 0:33:13.560 I mean you want to create a non friction zone 0:33:13.600 --> 0:33:16.160 with the parents. Absolutely, that's a simple solve, and then 0:33:16.200 --> 0:33:17.640 you and you know, the two of you, the couple 0:33:17.800 --> 0:33:19.080 there can split it. 0:33:19.160 --> 0:33:22.040 Well. Rachel's on the phone, Good morning, Rachel, how you doing. 0:33:23.040 --> 0:33:23.160 Hi? 0:33:23.360 --> 0:33:24.640 I'm good things. 0:33:25.160 --> 0:33:25.800 I wanted to. 0:33:25.760 --> 0:33:27.440 Take your call because I just was. I get a 0:33:27.440 --> 0:33:29.080 call screen of all the lines and I can see it, 0:33:29.080 --> 0:33:33.440 says Rachel. I saw my boss watching something in a 0:33:33.440 --> 0:33:36.960 photo he sent me. So, your your boss sent you 0:33:37.000 --> 0:33:39.520 a photo, but in the background you saw him watching 0:33:39.680 --> 0:33:41.120 provocative videos. 0:33:42.600 --> 0:33:44.080 Yes, that is correct. 0:33:44.480 --> 0:33:45.640 Was it a still shot? 0:33:46.960 --> 0:33:49.360 Yeah, it was a picture of my invoice because I 0:33:49.480 --> 0:33:51.240 worked from home, and so I asked him if he 0:33:51.280 --> 0:33:53.640 could send me a picture of it, and he was 0:33:53.640 --> 0:33:55.080 holding it in front of his computer. 0:33:55.720 --> 0:33:58.920 Oh and his computer had adult things on it. Uh 0:33:59.040 --> 0:34:02.800 huh and ouch? Oops, did you tell him yet that 0:34:02.840 --> 0:34:04.080 you saw it? 0:34:04.160 --> 0:34:04.960 So weird? 0:34:06.200 --> 0:34:07.120 I don't know what to do. 0:34:07.200 --> 0:34:09.440 I waited a couple of minutes to respond, and he 0:34:09.520 --> 0:34:12.440 must have finally realized that it was in the background, 0:34:12.880 --> 0:34:16.360 and so we unsent the picture and then resent it 0:34:16.440 --> 0:34:17.800 without anything in the background. 0:34:18.280 --> 0:34:22.480 First of all, so everybody check your background, check the articles, 0:34:22.520 --> 0:34:23.239 the things that. 0:34:26.080 --> 0:34:28.080 Whatever's in your background. Like, take a look. 0:34:28.480 --> 0:34:33.200 I mean, the chicks happen. This is not a mistake. 0:34:34.239 --> 0:34:36.479 He did not know the fact that he's watching dirty 0:34:36.560 --> 0:34:38.000 videos at work is not a mistake. 0:34:38.160 --> 0:34:40.879 He wait, was he at home or work? 0:34:42.320 --> 0:34:42.920 He was at work. 0:34:43.480 --> 0:34:48.000 I was picturing it at home after hours. Okay, this 0:34:48.120 --> 0:34:48.399 is like. 0:34:48.520 --> 0:34:52.239 During work hours. Well, Rachel is like, what kind of 0:34:52.320 --> 0:34:53.920 project you're working on and whatever? 0:34:54.360 --> 0:34:56.320 We don't know why. I was like, he always at homeworking. 0:34:56.360 --> 0:34:59.520 Okay, maybe he's mistake still happened. 0:34:59.600 --> 0:35:01.520 So but inappropriate at work completely? 0:35:01.640 --> 0:35:02.600 Yeah, Rachel. 0:35:03.160 --> 0:35:05.200 Now it's your boss, so we need to think carefully. 0:35:05.200 --> 0:35:07.040 What do we do? Do you go to h R Like, 0:35:07.080 --> 0:35:07.839 what do you want to do? 0:35:10.120 --> 0:35:10.680 I don't know? 0:35:10.960 --> 0:35:14.200 He he really like I haven't even responded. 0:35:14.239 --> 0:35:17.080 Do I say things and act like I didn't see that? 0:35:17.120 --> 0:35:17.680 He unset? 0:35:17.760 --> 0:35:20.319 I think you don't respond erase it and let's just 0:35:20.400 --> 0:35:23.279 move on. Oh right, it's not great. 0:35:23.480 --> 0:35:25.719 Maybe yeah, strike one and then if it happens again, 0:35:25.760 --> 0:35:26.919 it's just like this is too much. 0:35:28.600 --> 0:35:30.360 Yeah, I might just I mean, it fits me and 0:35:30.360 --> 0:35:32.000 this is not maybe good advice, but I would just 0:35:32.080 --> 0:35:33.000 like move on. 0:35:34.160 --> 0:35:36.160 Oh but like how uncomfortable now? 0:35:40.200 --> 0:35:41.960 But he probably knows you saw it, so maybe he's 0:35:41.960 --> 0:35:44.600 not that's appropriate. It's all bad on him too, It's 0:35:44.640 --> 0:35:47.200 all bad on him. But it is your boss. Oh 0:35:47.320 --> 0:35:49.000 I feel hunger pangs. 0:35:49.120 --> 0:35:50.600 Do you still have the original picture? 0:35:52.600 --> 0:35:55.319 I didn't screenshot it now? 0:35:56.000 --> 0:35:58.399 Oh, but you should check your computer because sometimes when 0:35:58.400 --> 0:35:59.480 you unsend, it still. 0:35:59.360 --> 0:36:01.920 Goes to your other right, it goes to other devices. 0:36:02.280 --> 0:36:04.440 Okay, check that, and so check it. 0:36:04.640 --> 0:36:06.279 Keep it as evidence because if he ever tries to 0:36:06.280 --> 0:36:08.640 pull something fishy down that road, to try to like 0:36:08.800 --> 0:36:11.799 fire you or do something weird, because he's uncomfortable, then 0:36:11.840 --> 0:36:12.640 you have evidence. 0:36:14.440 --> 0:36:16.560 Okay, interesting, I like that idea. 0:36:16.880 --> 0:36:18.840 Thank you, you've been watching your honor? 0:36:19.000 --> 0:36:21.719 Yeah, of law? 0:36:21.840 --> 0:36:22.560 Yeah, good luck. 0:36:22.640 --> 0:36:23.640 I'm not messing around with. 0:36:23.600 --> 0:36:26.319 Her following the facts and the evidence here, Rachel, thank 0:36:26.360 --> 0:36:26.959 you very much. 0:36:27.800 --> 0:36:30.520 I mean, look, if she's uncomfortable, go to HR talk 0:36:30.560 --> 0:36:33.239 about him. If she's not, move on. So listen it 0:36:33.280 --> 0:36:34.479 is there's somebody posted. 0:36:34.560 --> 0:36:37.040 There's the one that posted and interactions she had with 0:36:37.080 --> 0:36:39.200 a guy that she met on a dating app. Right, 0:36:39.480 --> 0:36:42.320 they're chatting. He asked her out to dinner. She was 0:36:42.360 --> 0:36:45.680 into it, and then he said this, shall we have 0:36:45.719 --> 0:36:48.200 a short walk before the food to see how we feel? 0:36:50.040 --> 0:36:53.960 To see how we feel? Yeah, but to see how 0:36:53.960 --> 0:36:54.319 we feel? 0:36:54.360 --> 0:36:54.960 Part kind of. 0:36:55.600 --> 0:36:56.239 Lingers at me. 0:36:56.320 --> 0:37:00.680 The part that strikes me badly too, like auditioning. Is 0:37:00.719 --> 0:37:02.959 he gonna go, like, see if they do we feel 0:37:03.000 --> 0:37:05.120 good with each other before we go on the dinner date. 0:37:05.880 --> 0:37:09.120 But I don't mind the walk before. That's kind of cute. No, 0:37:09.200 --> 0:37:10.040 it's so annoying. 0:37:10.239 --> 0:37:12.719 Why why because you're getting ready? 0:37:12.760 --> 0:37:15.360 Yeah, I'm gonna walk, take a little walk, stroll on 0:37:15.440 --> 0:37:15.839 my heels. 0:37:15.880 --> 0:37:17.920 I'm not gonna wear tennis shoes on my date like hosting. 0:37:18.000 --> 0:37:21.280 You say that because I have been asked before in 0:37:21.360 --> 0:37:25.719 my past. Are we walking anywhere before or after? Because 0:37:25.719 --> 0:37:27.560 I need to know about my shoes? Or can we 0:37:27.600 --> 0:37:29.800 not walk before after? Because any to know about my shoes? 0:37:29.920 --> 0:37:30.080 Right? 0:37:30.120 --> 0:37:31.279 If you want to go on a walk with me, 0:37:31.480 --> 0:37:32.840 then it's going to walk. If you don't take me 0:37:32.840 --> 0:37:34.759 to dinner, or take me to dinner, but don't walk 0:37:34.800 --> 0:37:36.640 with me before, Oh my gosh, go with the flow, 0:37:36.800 --> 0:37:38.960 wear of the walking shoes, and then bring your heels 0:37:38.960 --> 0:37:39.640 for dinner, like. 0:37:39.560 --> 0:37:40.319 A big deal? 0:37:41.160 --> 0:37:42.400 Where are you going to carry your shoes? 0:37:42.520 --> 0:37:42.680 Right? 0:37:44.000 --> 0:37:45.640 To leave him in his car? I don't know, it's 0:37:45.680 --> 0:37:46.480 not that big of a deal. 0:37:46.560 --> 0:37:48.600 What if you take a ride share right. 0:37:48.440 --> 0:37:50.600 Then you wear you don't wear heels for the date? 0:37:50.719 --> 0:37:51.879 Like it's not a big deal. 0:37:52.400 --> 0:37:54.880 I think I agree. I change. 0:37:54.960 --> 0:37:57.920 I changed, just you know, Tony, I change my transit 0:37:57.960 --> 0:37:59.080 pattern based on shoes. 0:37:59.200 --> 0:38:01.120 I'm not fighting that, Like if you want to put 0:38:01.160 --> 0:38:02.680 on shoes that. 0:38:02.560 --> 0:38:04.960 We don't walk, but I'm you're already giving signs of 0:38:05.000 --> 0:38:08.160 high maintenance and you don't go with the flow, and 0:38:07.600 --> 0:38:09.160 so Jordan. 0:38:09.000 --> 0:38:12.040 I'm not saying. I'm saying if one does. 0:38:11.880 --> 0:38:17.319 This dating, yeah, not so fun, is it? 0:38:18.160 --> 0:38:21.240 I like walking after if it's a walkable blocker straight 0:38:21.320 --> 0:38:24.560 after you have something. But I fully defer to shoe 0:38:24.600 --> 0:38:27.520 comfort and whatever. If you want vanity shoe versus comfort 0:38:27.520 --> 0:38:28.440 sho I'm fine. 0:38:28.560 --> 0:38:31.040 And also like sitting jeans or standing jeans. 0:38:31.320 --> 0:38:32.000 Tell me about that. 0:38:33.719 --> 0:38:34.280 You know those. 0:38:34.160 --> 0:38:36.800 Gans that are like you have jeans that that you 0:38:36.840 --> 0:38:42.920 can only stand in. Yeah, they're supers because it snatches 0:38:42.960 --> 0:38:45.840 your waist. So those the genes that you can stand 0:38:45.840 --> 0:38:47.839 and they snatch your waist. But when you sit down, 0:38:47.880 --> 0:38:50.840 it's like, oh it's so painful. Yeah, Like there's sometimes 0:38:50.920 --> 0:38:53.959 that just doesn't give. And those are my standing only jeans, 0:38:54.040 --> 0:38:54.279 right like. 0:38:54.280 --> 0:38:56.719 If I'm going to a concert, standing only jeans, but 0:38:56.760 --> 0:38:58.879 if I'm going to dinner, comfy jeans both. 0:38:58.880 --> 0:39:00.480 If you thank you for these teachable mom, that's because 0:39:00.480 --> 0:39:02.160 I had no idea about that. 0:39:02.000 --> 0:39:06.560 That's the whole thing. Who's this single around here? Raise 0:39:06.560 --> 0:39:12.720 your hand? Minds up? 0:39:12.840 --> 0:39:16.160 What do you consider single? I mean in a. 0:39:16.120 --> 0:39:20.000 Relationships, in a relationship, what do you consider single? 0:39:20.440 --> 0:39:22.360 I don't know. Some people say not married as single. 0:39:23.800 --> 0:39:26.520 No, no one says not married is single. That's not true. 0:39:26.560 --> 0:39:27.080 Google it. 0:39:28.200 --> 0:39:30.080 I don't want to google it. I I'm sitting right 0:39:30.080 --> 0:39:32.440 here and I got other things to do, Okay, But 0:39:32.600 --> 0:39:35.120 to me, Sysney, single is single. 0:39:35.840 --> 0:39:38.040 Single is you're ready to mingle and you want to 0:39:38.040 --> 0:39:40.160 meet somebody so that you won't be single anymore. 0:39:40.680 --> 0:39:43.879 Right, And that's why mckayl and I raised our hands. 0:39:44.120 --> 0:39:46.000 You want someone to cuddle with at night. 0:39:45.880 --> 0:39:46.120 And. 0:39:48.080 --> 0:39:50.319 No, maybe just like give a kiss and then turn 0:39:50.360 --> 0:39:50.800 the otherwise. 0:39:51.360 --> 0:39:51.799 Not at the. 0:39:51.760 --> 0:39:54.799 Beginning, At the beginning, everyone's like on their a cuddle game. 0:39:56.320 --> 0:39:58.200 No I'm not. I don't pretend to like you. 0:39:58.360 --> 0:40:00.320 But you like to cuddle and then when you go 0:40:00.360 --> 0:40:02.000 to sleep you just go your separate ways. 0:40:02.239 --> 0:40:04.960 Tanya, What is it with you telling me what I 0:40:05.120 --> 0:40:05.840 like when I don't. 0:40:06.320 --> 0:40:07.239 I don't like to come? 0:40:07.480 --> 0:40:08.439 Maybe try it more? 0:40:08.680 --> 0:40:12.960 I think I don't like it. Ask anybody, call any 0:40:13.120 --> 0:40:13.839 X of mine and ask. 0:40:13.920 --> 0:40:16.360 No, you don't like to codle, not even like the 0:40:16.400 --> 0:40:19.400 first three months of a relationship, like that's asleep. 0:40:20.120 --> 0:40:23.160 That's so sad, lot of. 0:40:23.120 --> 0:40:26.640 Sadness, don't you know anyway? 0:40:26.800 --> 0:40:29.040 Label things all? 0:40:29.120 --> 0:40:31.440 Right? If you're single and striking. 0:40:31.040 --> 0:40:33.440 Out, do you just like lay next to someone? 0:40:34.440 --> 0:40:37.359 And so the way it works is you get into 0:40:37.440 --> 0:40:40.600 bed and you turn over and you say good night 0:40:40.800 --> 0:40:43.040 and give them a kiss, and then you flip to 0:40:43.040 --> 0:40:44.440 the other side of the bed to actually sleep. 0:40:44.600 --> 0:40:46.680 If you're watching something, yea, even if you're on the 0:40:46.719 --> 0:40:49.640 couch like sometimes cling, especially in the beginning of a relationship, 0:40:49.640 --> 0:40:51.000 you're just so into each other. 0:40:51.280 --> 0:40:54.800 How can you like, I can't keep my hands off Michael? 0:40:56.000 --> 0:40:56.760 Okay, well. 0:40:58.880 --> 0:41:00.759 I'm saying, what do you say? Fifteen years ago? 0:41:00.800 --> 0:41:02.840 Now I get it likely now it's like not the 0:41:02.880 --> 0:41:04.240 same as it was at the beginning. 0:41:04.280 --> 0:41:05.920 But what do you do if you're in bed watching 0:41:06.000 --> 0:41:06.960 television together? 0:41:07.160 --> 0:41:07.920 Television? 0:41:08.880 --> 0:41:09.560 You know what we do? 0:41:10.120 --> 0:41:14.200 We were watching We're watching that farm or dating clubs. 0:41:16.040 --> 0:41:18.719 Watching television. You're not going to sleep yet. 0:41:18.760 --> 0:41:19.160 What do you do? 0:41:19.239 --> 0:41:20.600 You just sit the off the sides of the bed. 0:41:21.200 --> 0:41:26.040 Well, yeah's not that big. It's like pop our head 0:41:26.080 --> 0:41:28.640 against the headboard with two pillows and we watch something 0:41:29.600 --> 0:41:31.160 like do. 0:41:31.120 --> 0:41:31.920 You hold hands? 0:41:32.320 --> 0:41:33.120 No, we're not. 0:41:33.080 --> 0:41:36.200 Clinging like you do you tickle each other? Who are 0:41:36.200 --> 0:41:37.640 you talking to anybody? 0:41:38.440 --> 0:41:39.720 No? 0:41:40.719 --> 0:41:47.480 Really, anyway, it's. 0:41:47.360 --> 0:41:50.040 Okay, as we're saying. If you're trying to need somebody, 0:41:50.239 --> 0:41:52.399 try the Peter method. That's what people are doing. 0:41:52.440 --> 0:41:55.400 Oh yes, it's gone viral, and basically step one is 0:41:55.400 --> 0:41:58.120 you spot somebody out in the wild, say a club, 0:41:58.160 --> 0:42:00.480 a restaurant where we're like, I mean, even a wedding, 0:42:00.960 --> 0:42:03.319 and you make eye contact with them, and then you 0:42:03.400 --> 0:42:05.520 approach them and you kind of confusingly say like, hey, 0:42:05.520 --> 0:42:08.280 are you Peter, And then of course they're gonna probably 0:42:08.320 --> 0:42:08.680 say no. 0:42:09.080 --> 0:42:11.000 And then from there you go, oh, my gosh, I 0:42:11.040 --> 0:42:11.560 thought that I. 0:42:11.480 --> 0:42:14.040 Had met you from my my friend's cousin, or I 0:42:14.040 --> 0:42:15.799 thought you were my cousin's friend or something like that 0:42:15.880 --> 0:42:19.239 along those lines. If they're interested, then from there they're 0:42:19.239 --> 0:42:21.160 gonna go, well, who's your cousin? And it goes down 0:42:21.400 --> 0:42:25.879 the rabbit hole of essentially lies. But if their name 0:42:25.920 --> 0:42:27.840 is Peter, then I guess it could all fall apart. 0:42:28.280 --> 0:42:30.640 But I think Tanya has tried this and apparently it 0:42:30.680 --> 0:42:31.239 worked for her. 0:42:31.480 --> 0:42:32.920 This is the dunest thing I've ever heard. 0:42:32.960 --> 0:42:34.920 No, let me tell you it's genius. 0:42:35.200 --> 0:42:36.279 Are you Peter? So? 0:42:36.400 --> 0:42:36.919 No, no, no. 0:42:37.000 --> 0:42:38.919 So I used to do this, but I used to 0:42:38.760 --> 0:42:40.560 just to go up to guys and I would say, 0:42:41.040 --> 0:42:44.279 are you friends with Robert Graham? And they would say 0:42:44.600 --> 0:42:47.640 it was that Rober Graham? An actual like yeah, got Bachelor. Yes, 0:42:47.680 --> 0:42:51.120 he's Becca's ex boyfriend. And I would just say, are 0:42:51.160 --> 0:42:53.839 you friends with Robert Graham? And they would say no, 0:42:54.080 --> 0:42:55.640 like kind of like, no, how do you know him? 0:42:55.640 --> 0:42:56.759 But I was like, I swear I met you with 0:42:56.840 --> 0:42:58.359 him when I was at his party the other day. 0:42:58.640 --> 0:42:59.920 They're like, no the other day. 0:43:00.040 --> 0:43:01.960 But then you but then you start talking and then 0:43:02.000 --> 0:43:03.880 you forget about the Robert Graham stuff, and then I 0:43:03.920 --> 0:43:05.520 got so many phone numbers that way. 0:43:06.840 --> 0:43:08.400 It's brilliant, such a good idea. 0:43:08.560 --> 0:43:12.279 Apparently it's viral and it's working and people are trying 0:43:12.360 --> 0:43:13.560 it out, and it's. 0:43:13.360 --> 0:43:15.799 Such like a non invasive way to go up to 0:43:15.960 --> 0:43:16.919 a stranger at a bar. 0:43:18.000 --> 0:43:19.560 I think it's the dumbest way to do it in 0:43:19.600 --> 0:43:19.959 the book. 0:43:20.160 --> 0:43:24.120 No, it's brilliant. It's actually the opposite of dumb. It's brilliant. 0:43:24.120 --> 0:43:27.240 Wow, you try it one day, Ryan the Peter method. 0:43:27.600 --> 0:43:29.279 You don't use pe. I mean, I guess you could 0:43:29.360 --> 0:43:31.440 use Peter. No, you could be like, do you know, 0:43:31.680 --> 0:43:35.120 just do it Sarah Jones? Are you friends with Sarah Jones? 0:43:35.440 --> 0:43:36.200 And they're gonna be. 0:43:36.120 --> 0:43:38.000 Like, I can't do that. 0:43:38.800 --> 0:43:42.960 I cannot pretend to act like I'm Sarah Jones. 0:43:43.040 --> 0:43:46.680 Is Robert Do you know Robert Graham? 0:43:47.120 --> 0:43:50.600 I would do anything to witness this, like anything. 0:43:51.480 --> 0:43:52.799 You would not want to be out with me when 0:43:52.800 --> 0:43:53.520 I'm trying to mean something. 0:43:54.719 --> 0:43:56.440 She would just like sit down on the popcorn, just 0:43:56.480 --> 0:43:58.720 watch me to just do it. I think I would pee. 0:43:58.640 --> 0:44:02.160 My pants watching Ryan try to do that one stupid time, 0:44:02.719 --> 0:44:03.479 long time ago. 0:44:03.680 --> 0:44:04.400 Oh, here we go. 0:44:04.840 --> 0:44:11.160 I wanted to hang out with this person when I 0:44:11.200 --> 0:44:13.560 first met her, and we were at a restaurant and 0:44:13.600 --> 0:44:15.600 she was with the mutual friends and I walked over 0:44:15.640 --> 0:44:18.120 to the table and sat next to her, and she 0:44:18.160 --> 0:44:20.680 had a hair tie, and I said, can I see 0:44:20.719 --> 0:44:23.360 your hair tie? And I put it on my wrist, 0:44:23.560 --> 0:44:26.719 and I realized by having it on my wrist, she 0:44:26.719 --> 0:44:28.680 wouldn't want to leave until she got her hair tie back. 0:44:29.400 --> 0:44:32.520 So it's kind of like, wow. 0:44:32.480 --> 0:44:36.000 You need help. Yeah, that is the first mooove ever. 0:44:36.080 --> 0:44:38.800 If somebody asked me for my hairtie, I'd be like, no. 0:44:39.920 --> 0:44:41.280 It's so cute. I put it on my wrist. 0:44:41.400 --> 0:44:43.120 I mean I would say yes, sure, I can see 0:44:43.120 --> 0:44:46.279 they're trying to flirt, but I yay. 0:44:46.960 --> 0:44:49.239 That would What was your next move after the hair 0:44:49.400 --> 0:44:50.240 tye wrist game? 0:44:50.680 --> 0:44:53.040 She has to asked for a back and then you 0:44:53.080 --> 0:44:54.239 have to say like, oh, no, you have to give 0:44:54.239 --> 0:44:54.480 me your. 0:44:54.440 --> 0:45:00.839 Phone number, can't guys? I am so cool. I am 0:45:00.920 --> 0:45:02.120 so cool with those moves. 0:45:03.040 --> 0:45:07.600 Oh my, guys, try the Sarah Jones method. 0:45:07.600 --> 0:45:10.320 The hairtime method worked. I dated her for seven years. 0:45:11.880 --> 0:45:12.560 Who was it? 0:45:13.480 --> 0:45:17.000 Obviously Tanya. Of course she seems to. 0:45:16.920 --> 0:45:23.239 Spell it out for you. Yeah, can I got an initial? No, 0:45:24.080 --> 0:45:25.920 figure it out the hair tie. 0:45:27.120 --> 0:45:29.279 Let me grab Gabby this morning. How's it going? 0:45:29.440 --> 0:45:31.080 Is it day off? And you got day off to 0:45:31.160 --> 0:45:34.239 the right start. Things are going well hopefully. So if 0:45:34.239 --> 0:45:36.399 you've got a big meeting today, good luck with it. 0:45:36.800 --> 0:45:41.600 If you've got a difficult conversation to have with your partner, sorry, 0:45:41.880 --> 0:45:42.520 good luck with it. 0:45:42.520 --> 0:45:43.960 I never thought about that, but okay. 0:45:44.120 --> 0:45:45.600 People get stuff going on everything. 0:45:46.200 --> 0:45:48.719 Someone just someone just sent a text that said we 0:45:48.760 --> 0:45:51.479 need to talk tonight. Uh wait. 0:45:52.040 --> 0:45:54.200 I said that to Robbie the other day in the bathroom. 0:45:54.239 --> 0:45:56.319 I go, can we talk when we get in bed? 0:45:56.840 --> 0:46:00.359 And he goes, nobody wants to hear that to. 0:46:00.320 --> 0:46:01.799 Have a serious conversation in bed. 0:46:02.040 --> 0:46:04.080 Nobody wants to talk. Ever, Like when I go to 0:46:04.080 --> 0:46:05.000 bed sleep. 0:46:05.160 --> 0:46:07.520 He was just like nobody ever wants. Nobody wants to 0:46:07.560 --> 0:46:07.800 hear that. 0:46:08.040 --> 0:46:09.720 Nobody does, and what you have to talk about? 0:46:09.880 --> 0:46:10.760 It was actually nice. 0:46:10.880 --> 0:46:12.440 I just wanted to say that, like I missed him 0:46:12.440 --> 0:46:18.680 because we've just been what have. 0:46:18.680 --> 0:46:20.440 You been apart? Well, no, that's the thing. 0:46:20.480 --> 0:46:22.080 We haven't been apart, but we've been like kind of 0:46:22.080 --> 0:46:24.120 distant because like he was sick and then I was sick, 0:46:24.160 --> 0:46:25.719 and so I was just like, I just miss you 0:46:25.760 --> 0:46:27.000 and I love you, and I just wanted to It 0:46:27.000 --> 0:46:28.520 was like a sweet conversation that I wanted to. 0:46:28.480 --> 0:46:30.759 Have, and he was very sweet to announce that while 0:46:30.760 --> 0:46:33.439 you were peeing. I mean that part is Roman. 0:46:33.520 --> 0:46:36.680 Yeah he was brushing his teeth but okay. 0:46:36.320 --> 0:46:38.279 But just as a general rule, no one wants to 0:46:38.280 --> 0:46:39.120 talk with Yeah. 0:46:38.920 --> 0:46:39.799 Nobody wants to hear that. 0:46:40.280 --> 0:46:42.399 Gabby, thank you for holding on in Corona. So tell 0:46:42.440 --> 0:46:46.239 me what's the story here? His mom babies him and 0:46:46.280 --> 0:46:47.960 she wants me to baby him too, is what it 0:46:47.960 --> 0:46:48.920 says on the call screen. 0:46:49.920 --> 0:46:54.279 Yes, so pretty much. Me and my boyfriend, we've been 0:46:54.360 --> 0:46:57.920 dating for two years. We finally moved in together, and 0:46:58.000 --> 0:47:01.280 you know, I thought things would be, you know, different, 0:47:01.320 --> 0:47:04.280 and I understand him and his mom are pretty close, 0:47:04.400 --> 0:47:08.480 but it's like to the point that it's it's a lot. 0:47:08.640 --> 0:47:11.320 You know, he missed work. You know, he had a migraine, 0:47:11.440 --> 0:47:14.600 and she felt like she needed to take care of him. 0:47:14.640 --> 0:47:16.920 And you know, obviously I was there, so I was, 0:47:17.640 --> 0:47:20.080 you know, going to take care of him myself. But 0:47:20.160 --> 0:47:22.560 you know, she came over, she started cooking for him, 0:47:22.640 --> 0:47:25.359 and then she started to tell me how he liked 0:47:25.360 --> 0:47:32.160 his food. I was just like, okay, and I made 0:47:32.200 --> 0:47:35.239 him the exact same food that she has. But she's like, no, 0:47:35.360 --> 0:47:39.480 this is how he likes it. And she knows that 0:47:39.520 --> 0:47:43.279 I also don't cook that well. But I mean, I 0:47:43.320 --> 0:47:45.759 think it was just a little too much because she's like, no, 0:47:46.080 --> 0:47:49.520 this is how he likes it. You pretty much did 0:47:49.520 --> 0:47:51.560 it wrong. This is how he likes it. 0:47:51.960 --> 0:47:54.120 This is a case of a mom who loves her 0:47:54.160 --> 0:47:57.680 baby and is finding it difficult that she's losing him 0:47:57.680 --> 0:47:58.120 a little bit. 0:47:59.400 --> 0:48:02.120 Yeah, I'm kinda have to side with the mom here 0:48:02.320 --> 0:48:04.719 because I can only imagine what kind of mom I'm 0:48:04.760 --> 0:48:08.600 gonna be one day with Maxim And in my head, 0:48:08.640 --> 0:48:10.319 I'm gonna be like, they're not doing it the way 0:48:10.360 --> 0:48:12.080 he likes it, or they're not doing it this way. 0:48:12.400 --> 0:48:15.600 Maybe your little boy grows up and likes it a 0:48:15.600 --> 0:48:18.359 different way. Why can't Gabby just be taking it as 0:48:18.400 --> 0:48:21.160 constructive criticism and just be like, oh, this is great. 0:48:21.200 --> 0:48:23.120 Teach me your recipes. I would love to know how 0:48:23.160 --> 0:48:24.720 you make free holis and all this stuff. 0:48:24.840 --> 0:48:32.000 I like Systney's method. Peter method is Peter. Sorrybby, I 0:48:32.440 --> 0:48:32.920 just Gabby. 0:48:32.960 --> 0:48:35.800 I can understand why it may seem a little pushy 0:48:36.440 --> 0:48:41.440 and pressured, but it's a mom loving her son wanting 0:48:41.440 --> 0:48:44.080 her son to be loved in the same way. 0:48:44.200 --> 0:48:45.680 I think you befriend the mom. 0:48:45.560 --> 0:48:48.960 You become besties with her, because if not, this is 0:48:49.000 --> 0:48:51.560 going to go sour real fast. 0:48:52.120 --> 0:48:52.879 Yeah yeah. 0:48:52.960 --> 0:48:56.600 And it's also just like she'll still make his appointments 0:48:56.600 --> 0:48:58.520 for him, like doctor's appointments. 0:48:59.200 --> 0:49:03.279 Guys, this is it's not good. This is good. It's 0:49:03.320 --> 0:49:04.040 helpful for him. 0:49:04.200 --> 0:49:07.400 I think it's just like it's like one thing after another. 0:49:07.640 --> 0:49:08.919 It's a hair too far. 0:49:09.080 --> 0:49:10.240 It's very common. 0:49:10.280 --> 0:49:12.279 I would love to share calendar with maximum he's an 0:49:12.280 --> 0:49:14.759 adult and just be like, oh, you have your appointment later. 0:49:15.600 --> 0:49:19.160 It's very common. But it's a parent who loves their child. 0:49:19.239 --> 0:49:21.440 That's the good thing, which means you probably got a 0:49:21.480 --> 0:49:23.600 good man which means the two of you, guys are 0:49:23.640 --> 0:49:24.920 going to have a great relationship. 0:49:25.040 --> 0:49:27.000 Yes, and she's going to be a great grandma, and 0:49:27.040 --> 0:49:28.239 then you've got free babysitting. 0:49:28.280 --> 0:49:32.280 I mean, is this positive? Yabby? Thank you for listening 0:49:32.320 --> 0:49:35.960 in Corona this morning. Good lot, Yes, thank you. I 0:49:35.960 --> 0:49:37.080 could see my mom doing this. 0:49:38.040 --> 0:49:40.080 Your mom does not make your doctor's appointments. 0:49:41.360 --> 0:49:45.879 How do you know it makes doctor? No, she doesn't 0:49:45.880 --> 0:49:46.880 made my doctor's supports. 0:49:46.960 --> 0:49:50.719 But I could see her like saying what I love 0:49:51.080 --> 0:49:53.200 like to my significant other. 0:49:53.360 --> 0:49:55.080 Yeah, that's okay. 0:49:57.800 --> 0:50:01.560 Wouldn't you rather have a guidance than like, yeah, not No, 0:50:02.760 --> 0:50:04.719 it's just it's just this took took it a hair 0:50:04.760 --> 0:50:06.080 too far for in my opinion. 0:50:08.000 --> 0:50:09.879 Ouch, I'm with guys. 0:50:09.920 --> 0:50:12.080 That's gonna wrap it up for us. One more thing 0:50:12.160 --> 0:50:14.000 before we go. If you could live in the world 0:50:14.000 --> 0:50:17.040 of one TV show, what would it be? 0:50:17.960 --> 0:50:19.640 Friends? Beverly Hills Now Too? 0:50:19.680 --> 0:50:21.400 And O, Well, I'm with you in Beverly's Now or 0:50:21.440 --> 0:50:24.919 Magnum p I or Eat Cake? 0:50:26.640 --> 0:50:27.200 Is it cake? 0:50:27.800 --> 0:50:30.920 What happened? I'd like to eat it too? All Right, guys, 0:50:31.000 --> 0:50:34.279 we're out. Thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. 0:50:34.600 --> 0:50:37.120 Make sure to subscribe, and we'll talk to you again tomorrow.