Speaker 1: From Hollywood.
Speaker 2: See you, Thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 1: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2: Please call us with any relationship drama.
Speaker 3: I'm in the mood today, think I go ready for
Speaker 3: it today, we're in the mood. So Victoria is on
Speaker 3: the phone with a little bit of this. Victoria, very
Speaker 3: interesting and I appreciate you wanting to share this with
Speaker 3: us right now this morning. Tell us why you are
Speaker 3: second guessing your significant other's attraction to you.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So I'm dating someone new and he is divorced, which
Speaker 5: is totally fine. He's been very upfront about that since
Speaker 5: the beginning. That's not an issue. And we've been together
Speaker 5: for like two months now. But the other day I
Speaker 5: was at his place and I was looking through some
Speaker 5: of his pictures and I saw a picture of his
Speaker 5: ex wife and we are like completely identical. We look
Speaker 5: exactly the same. And I made a joke about it
Speaker 5: in the moment, like, wow, you must really have a type,
Speaker 5: and he acted like he maybe hadn't noticed that we look.
Speaker 2: I don't know, and what are the features that are
Speaker 2: so similar?
Speaker 5: Like we both just have like the exact same dark
Speaker 5: hair we have, like it's like the same exact nose
Speaker 5: and mouth. We even have like the same green eyes.
Speaker 5: It just is like a pretty specific combination that is, like,
Speaker 5: would be crazy not to notice.
Speaker 3: You don't sound upset about it. So are you playfully
Speaker 3: giving a hard time? Are you actually thinking that you
Speaker 3: are filling the place of her?
Speaker 5: Well, that's what I couldn't. I think I was playfully wondering.
Speaker 5: And then when he was like, oh, I have no idea,
Speaker 5: Like when he was like, I've never noticed that before,
Speaker 5: I was like, is this a big red flag? And
Speaker 5: you're just like trying to slot me into the place
Speaker 5: that your ex wife had? Like, is am I even
Speaker 5: you know a factor here?
Speaker 6: Are you?
Speaker 1: Maybe it's not an issue like that's just he has
Speaker 1: a type.
Speaker 2: But do people have types?
Speaker 1: Certain people?
Speaker 7: Do?
Speaker 1: I think?
Speaker 8: So?
Speaker 2: Really?
Speaker 9: Yeah, you know, look at an interesting question that Ryan provokes,
Speaker 9: because we all say we have a type, right, we
Speaker 9: all think we have a type, and then do you
Speaker 9: end up with said type?
Speaker 10: You did the man who always described Tanya looked exactly
Speaker 10: like Robbie.
Speaker 1: You think, so, yeah, sure, because you told us, but
Speaker 1: not really because not really, not really nobody.
Speaker 3: Can see your foot, yeah you cannot really because not
Speaker 3: really got to not really.
Speaker 1: Because I think certain people have types.
Speaker 10: You know, tark El Musa from Flip or Flop and
Speaker 10: his ex wife and his new wife Heather from Selling Sunset.
Speaker 8: Like.
Speaker 10: They actually made a joke video the other day and
Speaker 10: put it on social about how much they look alive exactly.
Speaker 3: Victoria, do you watch those shows? Do you have any
Speaker 3: idea what they're saying.
Speaker 11: I haven't seen any of those.
Speaker 2: But is he.
Speaker 3: Showing I mean, does he show you that, like everything
Speaker 3: is everything else good in the relationship?
Speaker 2: He shows you the kind of respect that you want.
Speaker 1: And that's a good question.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I like, I thought it was going super well.
Speaker 5: It just kind of weirds me out, Like how people
Speaker 5: get the same dog and give it the same name
Speaker 5: even after the first dog died.
Speaker 2: Did okay? Sorry? Different show.
Speaker 3: I mean, I think if you think it's a type,
Speaker 3: but if it's not bothering the relationship, then I guess
Speaker 3: he's just sort of.
Speaker 1: Yeah, is he a good man? He treats you right,
Speaker 1: that's all that matters.
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, Well, good luck, Victoria. A type? I mean,
Speaker 2: Michael Calvin Harris spitting images practically twins, You see what
Speaker 2: I mean? You don't have a type.
Speaker 1: I don't have a type. All my ex boyfriends look
Speaker 1: completely different.
Speaker 2: You have a type.
Speaker 1: My next boyfriend.
Speaker 3: Thanks for clear enough, because the magazines are going to
Speaker 3: the record straight.
Speaker 2: Harvey Levin was running.
Speaker 1: But I did I used to have a type, but
Speaker 1: now I mean, my type is David. I don't know.
Speaker 2: Good answer, Yeah, I think so, since you're engaged.
Speaker 1: I thought I did, but I don't know if I
Speaker 1: do anymore.
Speaker 3: Well, know, the type you had shouldn't be because it
Speaker 3: never works out. So get a new type. No, what
Speaker 3: is your type?
Speaker 9: I mean the looks wise, I feel like they're just
Speaker 9: a little bit more like rocker like tattoos.
Speaker 1: But I never actually end up with.
Speaker 2: A guy like that, So change your type. Type shift.
Speaker 1: But I still like that type and that it doesn't
Speaker 1: come to me. That doesn't Well, don't give up on
Speaker 1: that type.
Speaker 2: It doesn't work in the past.
Speaker 1: Nobody has a type.
Speaker 10: I think people have a type. I think you sink
Speaker 10: you think whatever your type is, that's your type at
Speaker 10: the moment. But then all of a sudden you meet
Speaker 10: somebody else and they may look completely different from that person,
Speaker 10: but there's some common denomination that still connects them all
Speaker 10: together because it's the type.
Speaker 3: Honey, you told us every guy that you've ever dated
Speaker 3: embodies Robbie's characteristics.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, not every guy I know.
Speaker 2: I just made that, yeah something, you know what she
Speaker 2: was like, I just made this.
Speaker 10: She's really poll the actor that he was like, thought
Speaker 10: was so hot and.
Speaker 1: Then the mixed between dev Paateel and Zachary.
Speaker 2: That's what I meant.
Speaker 1: And then we meet Robbie. I was like, literally could
Speaker 1: be his cousin.
Speaker 9: I will stand, I will die on this hill. That
Speaker 9: nobody has a type. Everybody says they have a type,
Speaker 9: but you really don't.
Speaker 1: Stop with the air quotes. No one person.
Speaker 3: Who does that in your life because you used to
Speaker 3: not air quote. Now all you do is airport.
Speaker 1: I've only done it for the last thirty seconds because you've.
Speaker 2: Done it for the last twenty minutes. I'm telling you, guys.
Speaker 3: I was stuck in traffic on Sunset the other day,
Speaker 3: and right there next to me while I was stopped,
Speaker 3: on my right was a tattoo parlor. Doors were open.
Speaker 3: There's a chair and an ashtray out front. I guess
Speaker 3: the guy right who works inside. I saw the guy
Speaker 3: inside wasn't didn't have any customers and I just never
Speaker 3: know when the universe is trying to tell me something.
Speaker 3: All right, here you are stopped in traffic. Here is
Speaker 3: this guy in there with no customers. The doors are open.
Speaker 3: It's like calling my name to get a tattoo, right,
Speaker 3: would have been easy. And I could practically smell the
Speaker 3: smoke the cigarettes right from from the crushed cigarettes that
Speaker 3: were outside the tray.
Speaker 2: And I didn't do it. Oh sure, yeah, I know you.
Speaker 2: I didn't do it.
Speaker 1: And do you know why because he didn't know what
Speaker 1: to get.
Speaker 2: I didn't know what to get.
Speaker 1: Well, and it's also permanent, and you want to maybe
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 2: But I saw Mark Consuelus's arms the other day.
Speaker 1: Is he tatted up on his arm?
Speaker 12: No?
Speaker 2: No, I do know. I've seen them guys.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I'm sure I've been in some intimate
Speaker 3: situations with the man.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 3: He's in my dressing room, my former dressing room. He
Speaker 3: uses my dressing room.
Speaker 1: Oh, it's not your dressing room anymore.
Speaker 3: Dressing it's Kelly and Mark. It's Kelly and Mark. Yes,
Speaker 3: I understand that, but it was Kelly Line for seven years.
Speaker 1: He does not dressing room. It's gone.
Speaker 3: Got great tattoos he's got great tattoos. Maybe I should
Speaker 3: have mom on about it. Anyway, he's got great arms,
Speaker 3: actually has a better body than I do.
Speaker 1: It's pretty equal.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, google him like right, shirt up, shirtless,
Speaker 3: shirtless up, he said, google shirtless Marcan Suelo's pictures.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I see it.
Speaker 2: That's not rain Seacrest, not far off, way far off.
Speaker 2: I don't know what. Thank you, by the way, but
Speaker 2: it's a fantasy. It's not real.
Speaker 9: You have to look at yourself and really see amazingness.
Speaker 2: Michelle, all this over there.
Speaker 12: Okay, y'all have me cracking up this morning. So just
Speaker 12: listening to y'all the joy that the three of you
Speaker 12: bring me on my regular morning commutes. It's just sitting
Speaker 12: here right now talking to you. It's such just so
Speaker 12: much fun. But I had a few little thoughts about
Speaker 12: a tattoo for you, and with your love of olive
Speaker 12: oil and all the high vibes that you send to
Speaker 12: myself and all your listeners, I was thinking about the
Speaker 12: symbol of an olive branch and it's peace and you
Speaker 12: could get a great drawing. I mean you could wrap
Speaker 12: it around your bicep, your mark and Suelo's bicep. You
Speaker 12: could put it across your chest, on your forearm, and
Speaker 12: it's such a symbol of it represents what your career
Speaker 12: has been, so many people's lives and all the fun
Speaker 12: that you bring to so many people, and the piece
Speaker 12: the message of joy that you send out resonate.
Speaker 3: When Michelle says it like that in her voice, it
Speaker 3: sounds meant to yeah, I'm.
Speaker 1: Looking, Yeah, the olive branch. Would you keep the olives
Speaker 1: on there or just the branch?
Speaker 12: No?
Speaker 3: No, I would like, I mean, let's have fruit on
Speaker 3: this thing at fruit on my tree. Yeah, well, Michelle.
Speaker 9: I love Yes, there's such a really cute, dainty one
Speaker 9: right here that will look so good on your bicep.
Speaker 2: Dates would work a d.
Speaker 12: When I heard the story that you had the universe
Speaker 12: calling you with the empty tattoo parlor and should I
Speaker 12: go in?
Speaker 2: And the decision that's the thing.
Speaker 4: I don't know what to do.
Speaker 3: I thought.
Speaker 12: I had a mini conversation in my head trying to
Speaker 12: talk myself out of calling and recommending this olive branch. No,
Speaker 12: they'll think of it, so don't don't call.
Speaker 11: And I was like, no, I'm going to call.
Speaker 3: Thank you for takingiative I appreciate that. Well, Michelle, we
Speaker 3: love you for listening. We'll see how this goes. Okay,
Speaker 3: one step closer.
Speaker 2: Thank you. See when she says it, it sounds right
Speaker 2: about it? Sound thing? Oh that makes sense?
Speaker 12: Brands?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you could do this. Go back to
Speaker 1: that shop. I just sent you a picture of one.
Speaker 2: Will I regret it though in a few years?
Speaker 1: No, just move on.
Speaker 2: Maybe me ask my mom.
Speaker 1: We don't ask your mom your praise?
Speaker 10: I know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well I look, I mean she does not want
Speaker 3: me to ever get a vespa?
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, would you ever get a vespa?
Speaker 2: There was a time wanted one. I wanted one.
Speaker 1: Would Yeah, you would look cute in a vestment. Now
Speaker 1: that I think the photos of you, I.
Speaker 3: Prefer hot cruising around in my vestment with an all
Speaker 3: the brand's tattoo.
Speaker 2: You better motorcycles, you know?
Speaker 1: Okay, you and your funny distinction show.
Speaker 2: Cycles y'all with those big wheels and picture.
Speaker 10: Did you ever see the wedding planner with Jennifer Lopez
Speaker 10: from like one hundred years ago?
Speaker 1: Like Massimo, like the one she.
Speaker 2: Was supposed to call?
Speaker 9: But the distinction between cute and hot. Robbie says that
Speaker 9: too is like, it's ever we say cute. He's like,
Speaker 9: I feel like I'm a dork. Why don't you use
Speaker 9: the term hot? I was like, it's interesting, yeah, because
Speaker 9: we want to be hot.
Speaker 2: Not always.
Speaker 3: Qu's fine, but not every single time, especially when I'm
Speaker 3: on a two wheeled beast of a Vespa with an
Speaker 3: olive branch tattoo, cruising down the one oh one.
Speaker 1: What color would it be?
Speaker 2: A hunter green?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: Okay, a hunter green? Okay, I picture basel cream, but yeah,
Speaker 1: a hundred green is nice. Okay. I like that. I
Speaker 1: know where you could put it too. That would be
Speaker 1: really great. They sell a bunch of vespas on and Turboulevard.
Speaker 1: By the way, it's a whole shop.
Speaker 3: Doesn't want it too, Okay, guys, not for now to
Speaker 3: be continued. So we are going to address an inner
Speaker 3: office issue. If you work in a normal office, this
Speaker 3: is a typical office building. There are typical offices in it, cubicles,
Speaker 3: Keith cards, p ones.
Speaker 2: Through P eight.
Speaker 3: So we got all kinds of drama here at the
Speaker 3: Burbank office, Madiana, what.
Speaker 2: Happened with your lunch? Let's I have a little visual
Speaker 2: aid here.
Speaker 1: I saw this note. I didn't know it was your lunch.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, that sucked for whoever that is.
Speaker 1: Did you see it?
Speaker 10: I saw the note, yes, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 10: man numbers.
Speaker 13: So I went to the fridge to go grab my
Speaker 13: lunch because I got hungry, and there's a big note
Speaker 13: on a fridge and it says, if you had chicken
Speaker 13: and broccoli for lunch, come see me.
Speaker 1: I owe you lunch.
Speaker 10: Because I guess when they opened the door, it fell
Speaker 10: out and her glass tupperware shattered.
Speaker 3: Oh no, you're being a good planet person by having
Speaker 3: glass and it shattered on somebody everywhere.
Speaker 2: So did you go seek this individual? That was honest?
Speaker 13: I didn't, but Nick introduced me to the person and
Speaker 13: I told Nick and I told Mark and they're like,
Speaker 13: oh my god, this is so funny. And so like
Speaker 13: we went to go meet up with the guy and
Speaker 13: he was he's really cool, so bad. I didn't even
Speaker 13: want to go up to him because I'm like, it's fine.
Speaker 13: I don't want him to think that, you know, Like,
Speaker 13: I'm like, it's okay, Like it was probably my fault
Speaker 13: because I placed it.
Speaker 2: But didn't you make him buy your lunch?
Speaker 8: No?
Speaker 1: I didn't make it. He offered he let's go.
Speaker 3: Look at all that planning and efficiency you made the chicken,
Speaker 3: you pack.
Speaker 2: Organize yourself, and.
Speaker 9: That would like really throw off my day, because I
Speaker 9: really do. It's like you bring your food and you
Speaker 9: plan plant it for specific times, and like that would
Speaker 9: really throw me.
Speaker 1: I do appreciate his note though, Yeah, it's really sweet.
Speaker 1: He's sweet.
Speaker 3: He seems like this is like the perfect script for
Speaker 3: a rom com to the right way to meet somebody.
Speaker 2: Let's meet at him now I'm.
Speaker 1: Married.
Speaker 2: I think he is married.
Speaker 3: Okay, it's just become a thriller.
Speaker 6: Wat way too many rom coms. Know that we're.
Speaker 3: Very happy that you had an honest note there, and
Speaker 3: you know, wanted to admit your mistake and breaking Marianna's lunch.
Speaker 6: Well, there's a little bit of challenge there, and in
Speaker 6: thinking about it for the past twenty four hours, you've
Speaker 6: had a lot of witnesses. I kind of changed my
Speaker 6: tune a little bit.
Speaker 1: Is okay, okay, oh this is getting good.
Speaker 2: See what happened?
Speaker 6: So, like, I'm an honest gentleman. You know, I grew
Speaker 6: up with great morals and if I break something, I
Speaker 6: pay for it. But at the same time, if it
Speaker 6: was placed in such a way that it was not
Speaker 6: really my fault for it breaking. Then do I pay?
Speaker 10: Are you implying that it was Mariana's salt for the
Speaker 10: way she placed her tupperware inside the fridge?
Speaker 6: I heard her say right before I got on that
Speaker 6: it could be up to her too. Now Here, there's
Speaker 6: two things. Afore, on a witness stand, I would you
Speaker 6: know acknowledge that yes, it broke when I opened the door.
Speaker 6: But at the same time, there's a big sign right
Speaker 6: on the refrigerator that says no hooking broccoli.
Speaker 9: By the way, no fishcoli in the micro sounds like
Speaker 9: bare bump, so.
Speaker 6: Right off the bat if we are again on a trial.
Speaker 6: Then secondly, there are shelves with glass or or plastic
Speaker 6: that cover so things don't slide off. Then when you
Speaker 6: put glass on glass, you're setting something up for disaster.
Speaker 2: Adam, I feel like they don't let you guys talk
Speaker 2: back there in the sales.
Speaker 6: I'm not going to say you should take mita nobu
Speaker 6: because you ruin my suit. But I'm just saying, is
Speaker 6: that one hundred percent my fault.
Speaker 9: And your.
Speaker 3: Adam from sales broke many on his lunch, he was
Speaker 3: very kind to admit that now he's changing his tune here, Adam,
Speaker 3: which client or clients do you work with that are
Speaker 3: on our show?
Speaker 6: I work with I'm vice president of sales, so I
Speaker 6: work with most law of clients all over.
Speaker 2: Kiss you have a one that is on the morning
Speaker 2: show right now?
Speaker 6: We have many on the boarding schow r now, so
Speaker 6: I can't just name one.
Speaker 2: Well, it seems like it's the VP sales should be
Speaker 2: able to name one.
Speaker 6: I know, I have a lot. I just don't want
Speaker 6: to just name out one. The other big one you
Speaker 6: named me?
Speaker 2: Well, let me play and have you heard have you
Speaker 2: heard Ruby's at and T commercial?
Speaker 1: We play that one a lot.
Speaker 3: It's it's it's the most run commercial here. Just take
Speaker 3: a listen. She's trying to figure out.
Speaker 1: Where is everything?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Different And although that makes it.
Speaker 3: Anyway, Adam from Sales, we love you buddy, thanks for
Speaker 3: all the hard work and love on our show, and
Speaker 3: thank you, appreciate you. You take care all right, bye bye.
Speaker 3: But I think he's looking for a podcast or something.
Speaker 1: It has to be so you put them on the door. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so then when it opened, it probably slid out from it.
Speaker 1: I mean, how do you Honestly, that is a bad
Speaker 1: place to put your lunch.
Speaker 13: It is, but I didn't obviously didn't go the intention
Speaker 13: of that. I mean, it was an accident.
Speaker 3: I'm on your side because he did like this about
Speaker 3: face on you that I was way into hugging him
Speaker 3: because he was honest what I.
Speaker 2: Thought about it.
Speaker 1: And after that I was like, actually I do want lunch.
Speaker 3: Yeah no boo, classic sales move. You come in for
Speaker 3: a free lunch and now you're buying something. So your
Speaker 3: phone it's listening to you, right, I mean I it's
Speaker 3: like I breathe a thought and all of a sudden
Speaker 3: it ads for shoes come up on my or workout
Speaker 3: clothes come up and my feet. Ye, so maybe they're listening.
Speaker 3: Maybe they're not. I think they are, but you can
Speaker 3: make sure they're not by doing this. If you don't
Speaker 3: want them to listen, go to settings, scroll down to
Speaker 3: the apps, click on the suspected app and turn off microphone.
Speaker 3: If you do authorize Mike access, it is legal for
Speaker 3: them to listen, not even when you're using the app.
Speaker 1: This is all the apps. You can't just do this
Speaker 1: on like a one setting.
Speaker 10: You have to do it like for Instagram, you have
Speaker 10: to do it for Target, you have to do it
Speaker 10: for all the apps that have a microphone.
Speaker 2: We'll take twenty seven minutes and do it.
Speaker 1: I'm fine, Yeah, me too.
Speaker 2: All right.
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Speaker 3: Let me grab Brie here about our coworker may need
Speaker 3: to everybody to jump in for some advice.
Speaker 2: Prey, good morning, How are you?
Speaker 14: Hey?
Speaker 4: I'm good, How are you great?
Speaker 2: We're doing well things. How can we help you this morning? Brie?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm kind of in an awkward situation. So my
Speaker 4: coworker set me up with her son, and she's like
Speaker 4: a friend. She's seen a lot of my sort of
Speaker 4: dating ups and downs.
Speaker 11: And I think she like.
Speaker 4: Felt like she was solving my singleness. But I we've
Speaker 4: gone on two dates and I don't like her.
Speaker 5: Son at all.
Speaker 4: And yeah, I just felt like the vibe wasn't there
Speaker 4: at all. In I don't know what to do, because.
Speaker 2: How do you tell your coworker that you don't like
Speaker 2: her kid?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I just don't want to make it weird with her.
Speaker 2: Can you tell us more about her son and what
Speaker 2: you don't like?
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's nothing like he's he's nice and everything. I
Speaker 4: just like don't feel the vibe there at all.
Speaker 3: And she thought you would feel a vibe. Why, Like,
Speaker 3: what was the reason that she thought you guys would think.
Speaker 4: I don't. I mean, I consider her to be a friend,
Speaker 4: but he's just he's like not my type, and we
Speaker 4: don't really have anything in common. And I'm also I'm
Speaker 4: just not attracted.
Speaker 1: Do you know he is attracted to you or he's
Speaker 1: giving you vibes that like he's into you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, he's been like yeah, he keeps asking to
Speaker 4: go out again. And like my coworker, his mom said
Speaker 4: that he keeps telling her like that he's so happy
Speaker 4: that she connected us. And I don't know what to do.
Speaker 4: I got it, laugh or not.
Speaker 14: I don't know what.
Speaker 3: There's only one path, and that's through here, and here's
Speaker 3: the truth path, and it's legit. Okay, love your son,
Speaker 3: I love working here, love our relationship. It just doesn't
Speaker 3: feel comfortable for me to be thinking about dating your
Speaker 3: son while we're working together. It just complicate potentially complicates things.
Speaker 3: I mean, if things go well, things don't go well.
Speaker 3: I just don't think it's the right idea. I don't
Speaker 3: think it's necessarily what I'm looking for, full stop. Deal
Speaker 3: with the response might be a little awkward, and move on.
Speaker 3: That's the only way to deal with it.
Speaker 1: I don't think that's going to work. She starts off
Speaker 1: by saying, I love your son. That's kind of misleading.
Speaker 3: I love the idea that you set me up with
Speaker 3: your son. However, I just don't think this is the
Speaker 3: right path while we work together. Who knows what's gonna happen.
Speaker 3: You're allowed to say if it goes.
Speaker 9: I mean, this is very very no, because then she's
Speaker 9: gonna say, well, why didn't you do that before I
Speaker 9: set you up with him?
Speaker 1: Why did you send me down this path? Lie to lie,
Speaker 1: you just need to come clean and be like, hey,
Speaker 1: I just don't find the connection. But he seems like
Speaker 1: a great guy.
Speaker 3: But you've got to have a pathway through and nip
Speaker 3: it in the butt. Otherwise you're going to be doing
Speaker 3: something you don't want to do, and it's gonna get
Speaker 3: really bad. If you kick the can on this and
Speaker 3: have to get out of it after she thinks you're
Speaker 3: into her son, that's going to be really bad.
Speaker 4: I just don't I don't want to insult her by
Speaker 4: saying I don't like your son, and you.
Speaker 2: Saw you that we're not a match.
Speaker 1: No, say the vibes line vibes, don't lie.
Speaker 2: I just think we're better off as friends. We're not
Speaker 2: a match. But don't wait on this, don't sleep on it.
Speaker 2: All right, thank you very much, good luck? Yeah, thanks whatever,
Speaker 2: Just be direct.
Speaker 1: Setting up coworker, this is very tricky.
Speaker 2: I don't think it's a great idea.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I've tried to do it a
Speaker 1: couple of times. It could work, it could not work.
Speaker 1: My sister set me up with Michael, but I guess
Speaker 1: it wasn't her coworker. Yeah, then I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: And if it went bad like then it's a problem here.
Speaker 3: Then you blame Tanya because she said you with Michael,
Speaker 3: and here we're at work every day.
Speaker 2: They didn't work out.
Speaker 9: Well, if you're mature adults, you're not going to bring
Speaker 9: the grudge into work.
Speaker 2: Have you met us?
Speaker 1: Our middle name is grudge.
Speaker 10: No, it's not.
Speaker 2: Well, we're not mature. Give us that.
Speaker 3: Let me grab Serena, who's on a phone here at
Speaker 3: eight hundred and five to one to two seven.
Speaker 2: Serena, good morning, How are you?
Speaker 11: Good morning?
Speaker 9: I'm good?
Speaker 2: How are you great?
Speaker 3: So you're calling here? You need a little guidance or
Speaker 3: some feedback here. Your boyfriend is the topic and he
Speaker 3: gets mad at you for what.
Speaker 11: So he basically gets mad at me because we're in
Speaker 11: a long distance relationship and basically, you know, like we
Speaker 11: FaceTime every night before we go to bed, and usually
Speaker 11: like before like I go to bed, like I'll tell
Speaker 11: im like, hey, good night, and I'll scrow like on
Speaker 11: my phone like afterwards, and you know, like accidentally, like
Speaker 11: I'll mistakenly like send him like stuff on Instagram and
Speaker 11: like group chat season and he basically looks at it
Speaker 11: as like why are you telling me good night and
Speaker 11: then sending me stuff on Instagram?
Speaker 1: I get that out.
Speaker 11: I'm kind of just like, am I really like in
Speaker 11: the wrong for that? Like I kind of just want
Speaker 11: to like chill on my phone like before I go
Speaker 11: to bed.
Speaker 1: Yes, I know exactly what you mean, because I do this.
Speaker 1: I'll say, I'll say good night to my phone, but
Speaker 1: then I'll go in the room and then I'll just
Speaker 1: go on Instagram for like another thirty minutes, and then
Speaker 1: I hear him coming like down the all the way
Speaker 1: into the room, and I'll put the phone under the
Speaker 1: car so that he thinks I'm sleep.
Speaker 7: He's like, don't get it, Like he's like, oh, you know,
Speaker 7: like it hurts his feelings because when I do this,
Speaker 7: like he's basically saying that, like I'm trying to end
Speaker 7: communication for the day with him, and I'm like, well,
Speaker 7: I mean.
Speaker 15: I'm.
Speaker 1: Totally with him on this day to break.
Speaker 11: Why can't I just like have my alone time before
Speaker 11: I go to bed?
Speaker 7: Like, yes, you should funny video?
Speaker 11: And he just gets really mad and I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 11: am I in the wrong? Like I need some opinions
Speaker 11: on this.
Speaker 9: No, it's just very funny because I used to be
Speaker 9: the same way.
Speaker 1: But I would just never say it.
Speaker 9: Like I would get internally annoyed when Roby and I
Speaker 9: first started dating if he would like send me stuff
Speaker 9: after we facetimed and said good night.
Speaker 1: I would be like, why is he doing this? But
Speaker 1: I would never say it.
Speaker 9: So I actually applaud your boyfriend for speaking up because
Speaker 9: it really bothers me.
Speaker 1: No, it's fine, you need it.
Speaker 3: Well, I'm glad you addressed it because this is something
Speaker 3: that everybody deals with.
Speaker 11: Yeah, I mean I think it's normal. You know, everybody
Speaker 11: like goes on Instagram before they go to sleep, you know, But.
Speaker 3: If you are in the same bed with the person
Speaker 3: and you do say good night and it's dark and
Speaker 3: then there's screen lights up.
Speaker 2: Do you turn and go.
Speaker 13: Yeah?
Speaker 11: Well that's why it's kind of like a plus for
Speaker 11: me because we live far from each other.
Speaker 3: Right for this, for this, well, good luck. I don't
Speaker 3: think it's a deal breaker. I understand both sides and
Speaker 3: you are not alone. Appreciate him bringing it up.
Speaker 1: On air with Ryan.
Speaker 3: He Oh, it's just he's dropping on the back room
Speaker 3: and somebody's putting their foot down. Call that it is
Speaker 3: done with it. She's tired of it, you know what
Speaker 3: you hear something, I'm tired of it. I'm like, what
Speaker 3: are you tired of it? She's tired of it, tired
Speaker 3: of what negative comments have done to effect her life.
Speaker 3: Like as a child, were you ever told something and
Speaker 3: it stuck with you and you navigate yourself and life
Speaker 3: around it on a regular basis because some person tried
Speaker 3: to put you down, say something like condemn a thought
Speaker 3: or put your fire out? Me for sure tease what
Speaker 3: I was teased about being chubby one two. I was
Speaker 3: told when I started hosting a show when I was
Speaker 3: seventeen or eighteen, I was doing something and I was
Speaker 3: told by a producer, I'll make sure you never work.
Speaker 2: Again as a teenager. I'll make sure you.
Speaker 3: Never work again. Because I don't know what they were
Speaker 3: upset about. Like me, I think it was me not
Speaker 3: signing my life away to a contract. I was signing
Speaker 3: my life away. They want me to sign my life
Speaker 3: when I said no. And then I actually remember the
Speaker 3: person calling my photo was driving my hond to prelude
Speaker 3: and and said to me, I'll make sure you never
Speaker 3: work again.
Speaker 2: I'm not signing this paper.
Speaker 1: Now look at you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm working, working right now. I'm working right now
Speaker 3: in this town. This was not even this town. This
Speaker 3: was Atlanta.
Speaker 1: The person, oh my gosh.
Speaker 3: It wasn't even Hollywood. I'll make sure you never work
Speaker 3: in Atlanta again. Anyway, I bring this up because Collet's
Speaker 3: putting her foot down.
Speaker 2: Came out for the back room. What are you tired of?
Speaker 15: So I like realize I have been shaving my arms
Speaker 15: since middle school because like one of my classmates said,
Speaker 15: I had hairry arms when I was a kid, And
Speaker 15: I was like, why am I still doing this just
Speaker 15: because one person said this to me? And then also
Speaker 15: I was like and so I like reflected more, and
Speaker 15: I remember I had stopped wearing jeans in high school
Speaker 15: and after high school because someone said I was fat
Speaker 15: in jeans.
Speaker 1: This boy I remember his name, He was a jerk.
Speaker 1: I won't call him out, but call.
Speaker 2: Him out those stayed with you in your adult life.
Speaker 15: And it was literally just one comment that one person made.
Speaker 15: Like it wasn't like consistently com like these comments were
Speaker 15: made and I was like, why am I I'm twenty
Speaker 15: five years old? Like who if someone's looking at my
Speaker 15: arms going they're hairy, they have bigger issues than like my.
Speaker 1: Exactly? Who cares? Like if someone's arms are hairy and
Speaker 1: my hair is in there?
Speaker 3: Yes.
Speaker 15: I was like, I can't believe because I was like,
Speaker 15: and I have to stop myself because I'll like to
Speaker 15: be doing my like routine in the shower and I'll
Speaker 15: go to shave my arms and I'm like, whoa, I
Speaker 15: gotta stop.
Speaker 2: I'm not doing this jeans on today too. I do
Speaker 2: have jeans on today.
Speaker 1: See much happier you are.
Speaker 3: Yeah, here's the thing about shaving anything. You know, when
Speaker 3: you shave it, it grows back a lot more, doesn't it.
Speaker 1: I think they tell you, but I don't know.
Speaker 15: I think my arms are still like I maybe I
Speaker 15: don't know, maybe a little bit, but not like that much.
Speaker 3: Well, I I didn't have Harry legs forever, and then
Speaker 3: I my buddy's like, you gotta just trim them every
Speaker 3: once in a while. So I bought one of those
Speaker 3: trimmers with guards, and I trimmed them twice last year,
Speaker 3: and now they grow back fuller, and so I gotta
Speaker 3: trim them more.
Speaker 1: I mean, leg hair is a whole other people.
Speaker 2: But it's like the stuff they don't tell you.
Speaker 10: I kind of have a similar s situation where in
Speaker 10: when I was younger, middle school, whatever, I just I danced,
Speaker 10: I did cheer at the gymnastics, and I never played
Speaker 10: any sports. So I was never picked for sports at
Speaker 10: school like reesas or things like that.
Speaker 1: Nobody ever picked me because in theory, sucked.
Speaker 10: And it's always kind of stuck with me because now
Speaker 10: as an adult, I still like have fears of starting pickleball,
Speaker 10: Like I just don't think I'm going to be great
Speaker 10: at something because I never played sports as a child.
Speaker 1: But like, yeah, and like I understand that it.
Speaker 10: Was like my sport and that's what got me through
Speaker 10: those years. Of course I was like an athlete in
Speaker 10: that sense, but when it comes to like if someone
Speaker 10: wants to go play soccer, like Michael's on a co
Speaker 10: ed soccer team, and like there's you know, I'm like,
Speaker 10: I could never do that, Like you guys are so
Speaker 10: much better, you.
Speaker 1: Know, even kickball. I'll do kickball.
Speaker 10: But when it goes to like pickleball or a softball game,
Speaker 10: whoring like that, it's too.
Speaker 1: Serious and I feel like I suck and I'm just
Speaker 1: like I'm just going to sit it out.
Speaker 2: Too much pressure.
Speaker 1: I playick with you.
Speaker 3: Well, collect you take your arms with hair and your
Speaker 3: dead and jeans, and you walk proudly through these halls here,
Speaker 3: and you know to that guy that said these things
Speaker 3: to you, ha, yeah take that.
Speaker 15: Ryan Seacres says, ha, let's go, let's go play pick
Speaker 15: a ball.
Speaker 3: Yeah, gotta get these they do.
Speaker 2: They scar you for life.
Speaker 1: You can really do.
Speaker 3: Stephanie has an interesting issue here. Her boyfriend's parents are
Speaker 3: bad tippers. Well, Stephanie, what happened and how bad are they?
Speaker 14: Hi? So the scenario is my boyfriend's parents. I take
Speaker 14: us out to dinner a lot. Now, every time we
Speaker 14: go out to dinner or drinks or whatever, you know,
Speaker 14: we alfer to pay when the check comes we you know,
Speaker 14: we really appreciate that they do want to take us out.
Speaker 14: But what I've noticed when they do take us out,
Speaker 14: they tip less than ten percent the matter what bestaur
Speaker 14: on bar, anything like that. And both my boyfriend and
Speaker 14: I have worked in the food industry before, so like
Speaker 14: we know how important tipping is. So like we feel awful,
Speaker 14: but we don't really know what to do. Like I
Speaker 14: haven't even really discuss says with my boyfriend cause I
Speaker 14: don't want to hurt his feelings and make him feel like,
Speaker 14: you know, his parents are less than But I just
Speaker 14: kind of don't know how to navigate this.
Speaker 1: You can't you just bring extra cash.
Speaker 3: I've been in situations while just add to what's on
Speaker 3: the table.
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, I think that's the them though.
Speaker 9: You gotta do it when they walk away, yeah, or
Speaker 9: do it to the server if you pass the server.
Speaker 2: Like, I'm just thinking that was a great night, kay.
Speaker 14: I mean you don't bring it up to my boyfriend.
Speaker 2: No, I don't mind you bring up to your boyfriend.
Speaker 3: But I also think if you want to solve the problem,
Speaker 3: you and your boyfriend bring a little extra every now
Speaker 3: and then when you're having dinner with his parents and you'd.
Speaker 2: Lay it out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean his parents are stuck in their ways,
Speaker 1: like you're not going to change them.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 14: Yeah, it's just I feel so bad because it's so
Speaker 14: nice they treat us like I wouldn't mind.
Speaker 2: You know, then why don't treat you? Why don't you
Speaker 2: do the tip? Just let them off. Oh that's a
Speaker 2: good plan, that's a fair trade. That might be a
Speaker 2: better route. You know. You guys, do care dinner.
Speaker 3: We've got the tip, and then you give the appropriate
Speaker 3: tip the moment.
Speaker 2: Stephanie, thank you for listening to it. Good life, good care.
Speaker 14: Oh I hope it works, thank you.
Speaker 3: I mean you want to create a non friction zone
Speaker 3: with the parents. Absolutely, that's a simple solve, and then
Speaker 3: you and you know, the two of you, the couple
Speaker 3: there can split it.
Speaker 2: Well. Rachel's on the phone, Good morning, Rachel, how you doing.
Speaker 5: Hi?
Speaker 14: I'm good things.
Speaker 2: I wanted to.
Speaker 3: Take your call because I just was. I get a
Speaker 3: call screen of all the lines and I can see it,
Speaker 3: says Rachel. I saw my boss watching something in a
Speaker 3: photo he sent me. So, your your boss sent you
Speaker 3: a photo, but in the background you saw him watching
Speaker 3: provocative videos.
Speaker 11: Yes, that is correct.
Speaker 2: Was it a still shot?
Speaker 16: Yeah, it was a picture of my invoice because I
Speaker 16: worked from home, and so I asked him if he
Speaker 16: could send me a picture of it, and he was
Speaker 16: holding it in front of his computer.
Speaker 2: Oh and his computer had adult things on it. Uh
Speaker 2: huh and ouch? Oops, did you tell him yet that
Speaker 2: you saw it?
Speaker 10: So weird?
Speaker 5: I don't know what to do.
Speaker 16: I waited a couple of minutes to respond, and he
Speaker 16: must have finally realized that it was in the background,
Speaker 16: and so we unsent the picture and then resent it
Speaker 16: without anything in the background.
Speaker 3: First of all, so everybody check your background, check the articles,
Speaker 3: the things that.
Speaker 2: Whatever's in your background. Like, take a look.
Speaker 1: I mean, the chicks happen. This is not a mistake.
Speaker 10: He did not know the fact that he's watching dirty
Speaker 10: videos at work is not a mistake.
Speaker 2: He wait, was he at home or work?
Speaker 14: He was at work.
Speaker 2: I was picturing it at home after hours. Okay, this
Speaker 2: is like.
Speaker 1: During work hours. Well, Rachel is like, what kind of
Speaker 1: project you're working on and whatever?
Speaker 2: We don't know why. I was like, he always at homeworking.
Speaker 1: Okay, maybe he's mistake still happened.
Speaker 2: So but inappropriate at work completely?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Rachel.
Speaker 3: Now it's your boss, so we need to think carefully.
Speaker 3: What do we do? Do you go to h R Like,
Speaker 3: what do you want to do?
Speaker 16: I don't know?
Speaker 12: He he really like I haven't even responded.
Speaker 16: Do I say things and act like I didn't see that?
Speaker 14: He unset?
Speaker 3: I think you don't respond erase it and let's just
Speaker 3: move on. Oh right, it's not great.
Speaker 10: Maybe yeah, strike one and then if it happens again,
Speaker 10: it's just like this is too much.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I might just I mean, it fits me and
Speaker 3: this is not maybe good advice, but I would just
Speaker 3: like move on.
Speaker 1: Oh but like how uncomfortable now?
Speaker 3: But he probably knows you saw it, so maybe he's
Speaker 3: not that's appropriate. It's all bad on him too, It's
Speaker 3: all bad on him. But it is your boss. Oh
Speaker 3: I feel hunger pangs.
Speaker 1: Do you still have the original picture?
Speaker 16: I didn't screenshot it now?
Speaker 9: Oh, but you should check your computer because sometimes when
Speaker 9: you unsend, it still.
Speaker 1: Goes to your other right, it goes to other devices.
Speaker 2: Okay, check that, and so check it.
Speaker 10: Keep it as evidence because if he ever tries to
Speaker 10: pull something fishy down that road, to try to like
Speaker 10: fire you or do something weird, because he's uncomfortable, then
Speaker 10: you have evidence.
Speaker 1: Okay, interesting, I like that idea.
Speaker 2: Thank you, you've been watching your honor?
Speaker 1: Yeah, of law?
Speaker 2: Yeah, good luck.
Speaker 1: I'm not messing around with.
Speaker 3: Her following the facts and the evidence here, Rachel, thank
Speaker 3: you very much.
Speaker 2: I mean, look, if she's uncomfortable, go to HR talk
Speaker 2: about him. If she's not, move on. So listen it
Speaker 2: is there's somebody posted.
Speaker 3: There's the one that posted and interactions she had with
Speaker 3: a guy that she met on a dating app. Right,
Speaker 3: they're chatting. He asked her out to dinner. She was
Speaker 3: into it, and then he said this, shall we have
Speaker 3: a short walk before the food to see how we feel?
Speaker 10: To see how we feel? Yeah, but to see how
Speaker 10: we feel?
Speaker 1: Part kind of.
Speaker 2: Lingers at me.
Speaker 3: The part that strikes me badly too, like auditioning. Is
Speaker 3: he gonna go, like, see if they do we feel
Speaker 3: good with each other before we go on the dinner date.
Speaker 1: But I don't mind the walk before. That's kind of cute. No,
Speaker 1: it's so annoying.
Speaker 2: Why why because you're getting ready?
Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm gonna walk, take a little walk, stroll on
Speaker 9: my heels.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna wear tennis shoes on my date like hosting.
Speaker 3: You say that because I have been asked before in
Speaker 3: my past. Are we walking anywhere before or after? Because
Speaker 3: I need to know about my shoes? Or can we
Speaker 3: not walk before after? Because any to know about my shoes?
Speaker 8: Right?
Speaker 9: If you want to go on a walk with me,
Speaker 9: then it's going to walk. If you don't take me
Speaker 9: to dinner, or take me to dinner, but don't walk
Speaker 9: with me before, Oh my gosh, go with the flow,
Speaker 9: wear of the walking shoes, and then bring your heels
Speaker 9: for dinner, like.
Speaker 1: A big deal?
Speaker 2: Where are you going to carry your shoes?
Speaker 14: Right?
Speaker 1: To leave him in his car? I don't know, it's
Speaker 1: not that big of a deal.
Speaker 2: What if you take a ride share right.
Speaker 1: Then you wear you don't wear heels for the date?
Speaker 1: Like it's not a big deal.
Speaker 2: I think I agree. I change.
Speaker 3: I changed, just you know, Tony, I change my transit
Speaker 3: pattern based on shoes.
Speaker 2: I'm not fighting that, Like if you want to put
Speaker 2: on shoes that.
Speaker 10: We don't walk, but I'm you're already giving signs of
Speaker 10: high maintenance and you don't go with the flow, and
Speaker 10: so Jordan.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying. I'm saying if one does.
Speaker 2: This dating, yeah, not so fun, is it?
Speaker 3: I like walking after if it's a walkable blocker straight
Speaker 3: after you have something. But I fully defer to shoe
Speaker 3: comfort and whatever. If you want vanity shoe versus comfort
Speaker 3: sho I'm fine.
Speaker 1: And also like sitting jeans or standing jeans.
Speaker 2: Tell me about that.
Speaker 1: You know those.
Speaker 9: Gans that are like you have jeans that that you
Speaker 9: can only stand in. Yeah, they're supers because it snatches
Speaker 9: your waist. So those the genes that you can stand
Speaker 9: and they snatch your waist. But when you sit down,
Speaker 9: it's like, oh it's so painful. Yeah, Like there's sometimes
Speaker 9: that just doesn't give. And those are my standing only jeans,
Speaker 9: right like.
Speaker 1: If I'm going to a concert, standing only jeans, but
Speaker 1: if I'm going to dinner, comfy jeans both.
Speaker 3: If you thank you for these teachable mom, that's because
Speaker 3: I had no idea about that.
Speaker 2: That's the whole thing. Who's this single around here? Raise
Speaker 2: your hand? Minds up?
Speaker 1: What do you consider single? I mean in a.
Speaker 2: Relationships, in a relationship, what do you consider single?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Some people say not married as single.
Speaker 2: No, no one says not married is single. That's not true.
Speaker 1: Google it.
Speaker 2: I don't want to google it. I I'm sitting right
Speaker 2: here and I got other things to do, Okay, But
Speaker 2: to me, Sysney, single is single.
Speaker 1: Single is you're ready to mingle and you want to
Speaker 1: meet somebody so that you won't be single anymore.
Speaker 2: Right, And that's why mckayl and I raised our hands.
Speaker 1: You want someone to cuddle with at night.
Speaker 8: And.
Speaker 2: No, maybe just like give a kiss and then turn
Speaker 2: the otherwise.
Speaker 1: Not at the.
Speaker 10: Beginning, At the beginning, everyone's like on their a cuddle game.
Speaker 2: No I'm not. I don't pretend to like you.
Speaker 9: But you like to cuddle and then when you go
Speaker 9: to sleep you just go your separate ways.
Speaker 3: Tanya, What is it with you telling me what I
Speaker 3: like when I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't like to come?
Speaker 1: Maybe try it more?
Speaker 2: I think I don't like it. Ask anybody, call any
Speaker 2: X of mine and ask.
Speaker 10: No, you don't like to codle, not even like the
Speaker 10: first three months of a relationship, like that's asleep.
Speaker 1: That's so sad, lot of.
Speaker 2: Sadness, don't you know anyway?
Speaker 1: Label things all?
Speaker 2: Right? If you're single and striking.
Speaker 1: Out, do you just like lay next to someone?
Speaker 3: And so the way it works is you get into
Speaker 3: bed and you turn over and you say good night
Speaker 3: and give them a kiss, and then you flip to
Speaker 3: the other side of the bed to actually sleep.
Speaker 10: If you're watching something, yea, even if you're on the
Speaker 10: couch like sometimes cling, especially in the beginning of a relationship,
Speaker 10: you're just so into each other.
Speaker 1: How can you like, I can't keep my hands off Michael?
Speaker 2: Okay, well.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, what do you say? Fifteen years ago?
Speaker 10: Now I get it likely now it's like not the
Speaker 10: same as it was at the beginning.
Speaker 9: But what do you do if you're in bed watching
Speaker 9: television together?
Speaker 1: Television?
Speaker 2: You know what we do?
Speaker 3: We were watching We're watching that farm or dating clubs.
Speaker 1: Watching television. You're not going to sleep yet.
Speaker 2: What do you do?
Speaker 1: You just sit the off the sides of the bed.
Speaker 3: Well, yeah's not that big. It's like pop our head
Speaker 3: against the headboard with two pillows and we watch something
Speaker 3: like do.
Speaker 1: You hold hands?
Speaker 2: No, we're not.
Speaker 1: Clinging like you do you tickle each other? Who are
Speaker 1: you talking to anybody?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: Really, anyway, it's.
Speaker 3: Okay, as we're saying. If you're trying to need somebody,
Speaker 3: try the Peter method. That's what people are doing.
Speaker 10: Oh yes, it's gone viral, and basically step one is
Speaker 10: you spot somebody out in the wild, say a club,
Speaker 10: a restaurant where we're like, I mean, even a wedding,
Speaker 10: and you make eye contact with them, and then you
Speaker 10: approach them and you kind of confusingly say like, hey,
Speaker 10: are you Peter, And then of course they're gonna probably
Speaker 10: say no.
Speaker 1: And then from there you go, oh, my gosh, I
Speaker 1: thought that I.
Speaker 10: Had met you from my my friend's cousin, or I
Speaker 10: thought you were my cousin's friend or something like that
Speaker 10: along those lines. If they're interested, then from there they're
Speaker 10: gonna go, well, who's your cousin? And it goes down
Speaker 10: the rabbit hole of essentially lies. But if their name
Speaker 10: is Peter, then I guess it could all fall apart.
Speaker 1: But I think Tanya has tried this and apparently it
Speaker 1: worked for her.
Speaker 2: This is the dunest thing I've ever heard.
Speaker 1: No, let me tell you it's genius.
Speaker 2: Are you Peter? So?
Speaker 1: No, no, no.
Speaker 9: So I used to do this, but I used to
Speaker 9: just to go up to guys and I would say,
Speaker 9: are you friends with Robert Graham? And they would say
Speaker 9: it was that Rober Graham? An actual like yeah, got Bachelor. Yes,
Speaker 9: he's Becca's ex boyfriend. And I would just say, are
Speaker 9: you friends with Robert Graham? And they would say no,
Speaker 9: like kind of like, no, how do you know him?
Speaker 9: But I was like, I swear I met you with
Speaker 9: him when I was at his party the other day.
Speaker 2: They're like, no the other day.
Speaker 9: But then you but then you start talking and then
Speaker 9: you forget about the Robert Graham stuff, and then I
Speaker 9: got so many phone numbers that way.
Speaker 1: It's brilliant, such a good idea.
Speaker 10: Apparently it's viral and it's working and people are trying
Speaker 10: it out, and it's.
Speaker 9: Such like a non invasive way to go up to
Speaker 9: a stranger at a bar.
Speaker 2: I think it's the dumbest way to do it in
Speaker 2: the book.
Speaker 9: No, it's brilliant. It's actually the opposite of dumb. It's brilliant.
Speaker 10: Wow, you try it one day, Ryan the Peter method.
Speaker 10: You don't use pe. I mean, I guess you could
Speaker 10: use Peter. No, you could be like, do you know,
Speaker 10: just do it Sarah Jones? Are you friends with Sarah Jones?
Speaker 1: And they're gonna be.
Speaker 2: Like, I can't do that.
Speaker 3: I cannot pretend to act like I'm Sarah Jones.
Speaker 1: Is Robert Do you know Robert Graham?
Speaker 10: I would do anything to witness this, like anything.
Speaker 2: You would not want to be out with me when
Speaker 2: I'm trying to mean something.
Speaker 1: She would just like sit down on the popcorn, just
Speaker 1: watch me to just do it. I think I would pee.
Speaker 3: My pants watching Ryan try to do that one stupid time,
Speaker 3: long time ago.
Speaker 1: Oh, here we go.
Speaker 3: I wanted to hang out with this person when I
Speaker 3: first met her, and we were at a restaurant and
Speaker 3: she was with the mutual friends and I walked over
Speaker 3: to the table and sat next to her, and she
Speaker 3: had a hair tie, and I said, can I see
Speaker 3: your hair tie? And I put it on my wrist,
Speaker 3: and I realized by having it on my wrist, she
Speaker 3: wouldn't want to leave until she got her hair tie back.
Speaker 2: So it's kind of like, wow.
Speaker 1: You need help. Yeah, that is the first mooove ever.
Speaker 1: If somebody asked me for my hairtie, I'd be like, no.
Speaker 2: It's so cute. I put it on my wrist.
Speaker 10: I mean I would say yes, sure, I can see
Speaker 10: they're trying to flirt, but I yay.
Speaker 1: That would What was your next move after the hair
Speaker 1: tye wrist game?
Speaker 9: She has to asked for a back and then you
Speaker 9: have to say like, oh, no, you have to give
Speaker 9: me your.
Speaker 2: Phone number, can't guys? I am so cool. I am
Speaker 2: so cool with those moves.
Speaker 9: Oh my, guys, try the Sarah Jones method.
Speaker 2: The hairtime method worked. I dated her for seven years.
Speaker 1: Who was it?
Speaker 2: Obviously Tanya. Of course she seems to.
Speaker 1: Spell it out for you. Yeah, can I got an initial? No,
Speaker 1: figure it out the hair tie.
Speaker 2: Let me grab Gabby this morning. How's it going?
Speaker 3: Is it day off? And you got day off to
Speaker 3: the right start. Things are going well hopefully. So if
Speaker 3: you've got a big meeting today, good luck with it.
Speaker 3: If you've got a difficult conversation to have with your partner, sorry,
Speaker 3: good luck with it.
Speaker 1: I never thought about that, but okay.
Speaker 2: People get stuff going on everything.
Speaker 1: Someone just someone just sent a text that said we
Speaker 1: need to talk tonight. Uh wait.
Speaker 9: I said that to Robbie the other day in the bathroom.
Speaker 9: I go, can we talk when we get in bed?
Speaker 9: And he goes, nobody wants to hear that to.
Speaker 1: Have a serious conversation in bed.
Speaker 2: Nobody wants to talk. Ever, Like when I go to
Speaker 2: bed sleep.
Speaker 1: He was just like nobody ever wants. Nobody wants to
Speaker 1: hear that.
Speaker 2: Nobody does, and what you have to talk about?
Speaker 1: It was actually nice.
Speaker 9: I just wanted to say that, like I missed him
Speaker 9: because we've just been what have.
Speaker 1: You been apart? Well, no, that's the thing.
Speaker 9: We haven't been apart, but we've been like kind of
Speaker 9: distant because like he was sick and then I was sick,
Speaker 9: and so I was just like, I just miss you
Speaker 9: and I love you, and I just wanted to It
Speaker 9: was like a sweet conversation that I wanted to.
Speaker 2: Have, and he was very sweet to announce that while
Speaker 2: you were peeing. I mean that part is Roman.
Speaker 1: Yeah he was brushing his teeth but okay.
Speaker 2: But just as a general rule, no one wants to
Speaker 2: talk with Yeah.
Speaker 1: Nobody wants to hear that.
Speaker 3: Gabby, thank you for holding on in Corona. So tell
Speaker 3: me what's the story here? His mom babies him and
Speaker 3: she wants me to baby him too, is what it
Speaker 3: says on the call screen.
Speaker 8: Yes, so pretty much. Me and my boyfriend, we've been
Speaker 8: dating for two years. We finally moved in together, and
Speaker 8: you know, I thought things would be, you know, different,
Speaker 8: and I understand him and his mom are pretty close,
Speaker 8: but it's like to the point that it's it's a lot.
Speaker 8: You know, he missed work. You know, he had a migraine,
Speaker 8: and she felt like she needed to take care of him.
Speaker 8: And you know, obviously I was there, so I was,
Speaker 8: you know, going to take care of him myself. But
Speaker 8: you know, she came over, she started cooking for him,
Speaker 8: and then she started to tell me how he liked
Speaker 8: his food. I was just like, okay, and I made
Speaker 8: him the exact same food that she has. But she's like, no,
Speaker 8: this is how he likes it. And she knows that
Speaker 8: I also don't cook that well. But I mean, I
Speaker 8: think it was just a little too much because she's like, no,
Speaker 8: this is how he likes it. You pretty much did
Speaker 8: it wrong. This is how he likes it.
Speaker 3: This is a case of a mom who loves her
Speaker 3: baby and is finding it difficult that she's losing him
Speaker 3: a little bit.
Speaker 10: Yeah, I'm kinda have to side with the mom here
Speaker 10: because I can only imagine what kind of mom I'm
Speaker 10: gonna be one day with Maxim And in my head,
Speaker 10: I'm gonna be like, they're not doing it the way
Speaker 10: he likes it, or they're not doing it this way.
Speaker 10: Maybe your little boy grows up and likes it a
Speaker 10: different way. Why can't Gabby just be taking it as
Speaker 10: constructive criticism and just be like, oh, this is great.
Speaker 10: Teach me your recipes. I would love to know how
Speaker 10: you make free holis and all this stuff.
Speaker 2: I like Systney's method. Peter method is Peter. Sorrybby, I
Speaker 2: just Gabby.
Speaker 3: I can understand why it may seem a little pushy
Speaker 3: and pressured, but it's a mom loving her son wanting
Speaker 3: her son to be loved in the same way.
Speaker 1: I think you befriend the mom.
Speaker 10: You become besties with her, because if not, this is
Speaker 10: going to go sour real fast.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.
Speaker 8: And it's also just like she'll still make his appointments
Speaker 8: for him, like doctor's appointments.
Speaker 1: Guys, this is it's not good. This is good. It's
Speaker 1: helpful for him.
Speaker 11: I think it's just like it's like one thing after another.
Speaker 1: It's a hair too far.
Speaker 2: It's very common.
Speaker 10: I would love to share calendar with maximum he's an
Speaker 10: adult and just be like, oh, you have your appointment later.
Speaker 2: It's very common. But it's a parent who loves their child.
Speaker 3: That's the good thing, which means you probably got a
Speaker 3: good man which means the two of you, guys are
Speaker 3: going to have a great relationship.
Speaker 10: Yes, and she's going to be a great grandma, and
Speaker 10: then you've got free babysitting.
Speaker 2: I mean, is this positive? Yabby? Thank you for listening
Speaker 2: in Corona this morning. Good lot, Yes, thank you. I
Speaker 2: could see my mom doing this.
Speaker 1: Your mom does not make your doctor's appointments.
Speaker 2: How do you know it makes doctor? No, she doesn't
Speaker 2: made my doctor's supports.
Speaker 3: But I could see her like saying what I love
Speaker 3: like to my significant other.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's okay.
Speaker 10: Wouldn't you rather have a guidance than like, yeah, not No,
Speaker 10: it's just it's just this took took it a hair
Speaker 10: too far for in my opinion.
Speaker 2: Ouch, I'm with guys.
Speaker 3: That's gonna wrap it up for us. One more thing
Speaker 3: before we go. If you could live in the world
Speaker 3: of one TV show, what would it be?
Speaker 1: Friends? Beverly Hills Now Too?
Speaker 2: And O, Well, I'm with you in Beverly's Now or
Speaker 2: Magnum p I or Eat Cake?
Speaker 1: Is it cake?
Speaker 2: What happened? I'd like to eat it too? All Right, guys,
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