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Speaker 1: From Hollywood.

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Speaker 2: See you, Thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 1: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: Please call us with any relationship drama.

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Speaker 3: I'm in the mood today, think I go ready for

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Speaker 3: it today, we're in the mood. So Victoria is on

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Speaker 3: the phone with a little bit of this. Victoria, very

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Speaker 3: interesting and I appreciate you wanting to share this with

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Speaker 3: us right now this morning. Tell us why you are

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Speaker 3: second guessing your significant other's attraction to you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So I'm dating someone new and he is divorced, which

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Speaker 5: is totally fine. He's been very upfront about that since

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Speaker 5: the beginning. That's not an issue. And we've been together

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Speaker 5: for like two months now. But the other day I

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Speaker 5: was at his place and I was looking through some

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Speaker 5: of his pictures and I saw a picture of his

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Speaker 5: ex wife and we are like completely identical. We look

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Speaker 5: exactly the same. And I made a joke about it

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Speaker 5: in the moment, like, wow, you must really have a type,

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Speaker 5: and he acted like he maybe hadn't noticed that we look.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, and what are the features that are

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Speaker 2: so similar?

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Speaker 5: Like we both just have like the exact same dark

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Speaker 5: hair we have, like it's like the same exact nose

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Speaker 5: and mouth. We even have like the same green eyes.

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Speaker 5: It just is like a pretty specific combination that is, like,

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Speaker 5: would be crazy not to notice.

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Speaker 3: You don't sound upset about it. So are you playfully

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Speaker 3: giving a hard time? Are you actually thinking that you

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Speaker 3: are filling the place of her?

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Speaker 5: Well, that's what I couldn't. I think I was playfully wondering.

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Speaker 5: And then when he was like, oh, I have no idea,

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Speaker 5: Like when he was like, I've never noticed that before,

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Speaker 5: I was like, is this a big red flag? And

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Speaker 5: you're just like trying to slot me into the place

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Speaker 5: that your ex wife had? Like, is am I even

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Speaker 5: you know a factor here?

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Speaker 6: Are you?

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's not an issue like that's just he has

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Speaker 1: a type.

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Speaker 2: But do people have types?

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Speaker 1: Certain people?

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Speaker 7: Do?

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Speaker 1: I think?

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Speaker 8: So?

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Speaker 2: Really?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, you know, look at an interesting question that Ryan provokes,

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Speaker 9: because we all say we have a type, right, we

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Speaker 9: all think we have a type, and then do you

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Speaker 9: end up with said type?

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Speaker 10: You did the man who always described Tanya looked exactly

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Speaker 10: like Robbie.

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Speaker 1: You think, so, yeah, sure, because you told us, but

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Speaker 1: not really because not really, not really nobody.

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Speaker 3: Can see your foot, yeah you cannot really because not

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Speaker 3: really got to not really.

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Speaker 1: Because I think certain people have types.

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Speaker 10: You know, tark El Musa from Flip or Flop and

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Speaker 10: his ex wife and his new wife Heather from Selling Sunset.

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Speaker 8: Like.

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Speaker 10: They actually made a joke video the other day and

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Speaker 10: put it on social about how much they look alive exactly.

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Speaker 3: Victoria, do you watch those shows? Do you have any

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Speaker 3: idea what they're saying.

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Speaker 11: I haven't seen any of those.

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Speaker 2: But is he.

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Speaker 3: Showing I mean, does he show you that, like everything

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Speaker 3: is everything else good in the relationship?

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Speaker 2: He shows you the kind of respect that you want.

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Speaker 1: And that's a good question.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I like, I thought it was going super well.

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Speaker 5: It just kind of weirds me out, Like how people

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Speaker 5: even after the first dog died.

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Speaker 2: Did okay? Sorry? Different show.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I think if you think it's a type,

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Speaker 3: but if it's not bothering the relationship, then I guess

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Speaker 3: he's just sort of.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, is he a good man? He treats you right,

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Speaker 1: that's all that matters.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, Well, good luck, Victoria. A type? I mean,

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Speaker 2: Michael Calvin Harris spitting images practically twins, You see what

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Speaker 2: I mean? You don't have a type.

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Speaker 1: I don't have a type. All my ex boyfriends look

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Speaker 2: You have a type.

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Speaker 1: My next boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for clear enough, because the magazines are going to

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Speaker 3: the record straight.

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Speaker 2: Harvey Levin was running.

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Speaker 1: But I did I used to have a type, but

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Speaker 1: now I mean, my type is David. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Good answer, Yeah, I think so, since you're engaged.

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Speaker 1: I thought I did, but I don't know if I

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Speaker 3: Well, know, the type you had shouldn't be because it

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Speaker 3: never works out. So get a new type. No, what

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Speaker 9: I mean the looks wise, I feel like they're just

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Speaker 9: a little bit more like rocker like tattoos.

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Speaker 1: But I never actually end up with.

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Speaker 2: A guy like that, So change your type. Type shift.

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Speaker 1: But I still like that type and that it doesn't

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Speaker 1: come to me. That doesn't Well, don't give up on

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Speaker 1: that type.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't work in the past.

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Speaker 1: Nobody has a type.

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Speaker 10: I think people have a type. I think you sink

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Speaker 10: you think whatever your type is, that's your type at

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Speaker 10: the moment. But then all of a sudden you meet

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Speaker 10: somebody else and they may look completely different from that person,

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Speaker 10: but there's some common denomination that still connects them all

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Speaker 10: together because it's the type.

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Speaker 3: Honey, you told us every guy that you've ever dated

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Speaker 3: embodies Robbie's characteristics.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, not every guy I know.

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Speaker 2: I just made that, yeah something, you know what she

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Speaker 10: She's really poll the actor that he was like, thought

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Speaker 10: was so hot and.

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Speaker 1: Then the mixed between dev Paateel and Zachary.

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Speaker 2: That's what I meant.

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Speaker 1: And then we meet Robbie. I was like, literally could

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Speaker 1: be his cousin.

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Speaker 9: I will stand, I will die on this hill. That

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Speaker 9: nobody has a type. Everybody says they have a type,

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Speaker 9: but you really don't.

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Speaker 1: Stop with the air quotes. No one person.

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Speaker 3: Who does that in your life because you used to

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Speaker 3: not air quote. Now all you do is airport.

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Speaker 1: I've only done it for the last thirty seconds because you've.

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Speaker 2: Done it for the last twenty minutes. I'm telling you, guys.

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Speaker 3: I was stuck in traffic on Sunset the other day,

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Speaker 3: on my right was a tattoo parlor. Doors were open.

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Speaker 3: There's a chair and an ashtray out front. I guess

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Speaker 3: know when the universe is trying to tell me something.

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Speaker 3: All right, here you are stopped in traffic. Here is

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Speaker 3: this guy in there with no customers. The doors are open.

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Speaker 3: It's like calling my name to get a tattoo, right,

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Speaker 3: would have been easy. And I could practically smell the

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Speaker 3: smoke the cigarettes right from from the crushed cigarettes that

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Speaker 2: And I didn't do it. Oh sure, yeah, I know you.

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Speaker 2: I didn't do it.

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Speaker 1: And do you know why because he didn't know what

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Speaker 2: I didn't know what to get.

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Speaker 1: Well, and it's also permanent, and you want to maybe

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: But I saw Mark Consuelus's arms the other day.

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Speaker 1: Is he tatted up on his arm?

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Speaker 12: No?

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Speaker 2: No, I do know. I've seen them guys.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I'm sure I've been in some intimate

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 3: He's in my dressing room, my former dressing room. He

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Speaker 3: uses my dressing room.

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Speaker 1: Oh, it's not your dressing room anymore.

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Speaker 3: Dressing it's Kelly and Mark. It's Kelly and Mark. Yes,

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Speaker 3: I understand that, but it was Kelly Line for seven years.

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Speaker 1: He does not dressing room. It's gone.

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Speaker 3: Got great tattoos he's got great tattoos. Maybe I should

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Speaker 3: have mom on about it. Anyway, he's got great arms,

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Speaker 3: actually has a better body than I do.

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Speaker 1: It's pretty equal.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, google him like right, shirt up, shirtless,

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Speaker 3: shirtless up, he said, google shirtless Marcan Suelo's pictures.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I see it.

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Speaker 2: That's not rain Seacrest, not far off, way far off.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what. Thank you, by the way, but

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Speaker 2: it's a fantasy. It's not real.

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Speaker 9: You have to look at yourself and really see amazingness.

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Speaker 2: Michelle, all this over there.

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Speaker 12: Okay, y'all have me cracking up this morning. So just

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Speaker 12: listening to y'all the joy that the three of you

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Speaker 12: bring me on my regular morning commutes. It's just sitting

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Speaker 12: here right now talking to you. It's such just so

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Speaker 12: much fun. But I had a few little thoughts about

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Speaker 12: a tattoo for you, and with your love of olive

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Speaker 12: oil and all the high vibes that you send to

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Speaker 12: myself and all your listeners, I was thinking about the

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Speaker 12: symbol of an olive branch and it's peace and you

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Speaker 12: could get a great drawing. I mean you could wrap

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Speaker 12: it around your bicep, your mark and Suelo's bicep. You

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Speaker 12: could put it across your chest, on your forearm, and

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Speaker 12: it's such a symbol of it represents what your career

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Speaker 12: has been, so many people's lives and all the fun

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Speaker 12: that you bring to so many people, and the piece

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Speaker 12: the message of joy that you send out resonate.

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Speaker 3: When Michelle says it like that in her voice, it

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Speaker 3: sounds meant to yeah, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Looking, Yeah, the olive branch. Would you keep the olives

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Speaker 1: on there or just the branch?

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Speaker 12: No?

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Speaker 3: No, I would like, I mean, let's have fruit on

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Speaker 3: this thing at fruit on my tree. Yeah, well, Michelle.

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Speaker 9: I love Yes, there's such a really cute, dainty one

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Speaker 9: right here that will look so good on your bicep.

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Speaker 2: Dates would work a d.

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Speaker 12: When I heard the story that you had the universe

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Speaker 12: calling you with the empty tattoo parlor and should I

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Speaker 12: go in?

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Speaker 2: And the decision that's the thing.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what to do.

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Speaker 3: I thought.

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Speaker 12: I had a mini conversation in my head trying to

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Speaker 12: talk myself out of calling and recommending this olive branch. No,

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Speaker 12: they'll think of it, so don't don't call.

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Speaker 11: And I was like, no, I'm going to call.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for takingiative I appreciate that. Well, Michelle, we

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Speaker 3: love you for listening. We'll see how this goes. Okay,

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Speaker 3: one step closer.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. See when she says it, it sounds right

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Speaker 2: about it? Sound thing? Oh that makes sense?

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Speaker 12: Brands?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you could do this. Go back to

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Speaker 1: that shop. I just sent you a picture of one.

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Speaker 2: Will I regret it though in a few years?

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Speaker 1: No, just move on.

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Speaker 2: Maybe me ask my mom.

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Speaker 1: We don't ask your mom your praise?

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Speaker 2: Happened with your lunch? Let's I have a little visual

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Speaker 1: I saw this note. I didn't know it was your lunch.

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Speaker 10: Because I guess when they opened the door, it fell

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Speaker 3: Oh no, you're being a good planet person by having

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Speaker 2: So did you go seek this individual? That was honest?

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Speaker 13: I didn't, but Nick introduced me to the person and

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Speaker 1: I didn't make it. He offered he let's go.

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Speaker 9: That would like really throw off my day, because I

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Speaker 3: He seems like this is like the perfect script for

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Speaker 2: Let's meet at him now I'm.

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Speaker 2: I think he is married.

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Speaker 6: Wat way too many rom coms. Know that we're.

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Speaker 3: Very happy that you had an honest note there, and

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Speaker 6: Well, there's a little bit of challenge there, and in

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Speaker 2: See what happened?

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Speaker 6: So, like, I'm an honest gentleman. You know, I grew

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Speaker 10: Are you implying that it was Mariana's salt for the

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Speaker 6: Right off the bat if we are again on a trial.

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Speaker 2: Adam, I feel like they don't let you guys talk

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Speaker 6: I'm not going to say you should take mita nobu

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Speaker 9: And your.

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Speaker 3: Adam from sales broke many on his lunch, he was

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Speaker 3: very kind to admit that now he's changing his tune here, Adam,

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Speaker 3: which client or clients do you work with that are

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Speaker 6: I work with I'm vice president of sales, so I

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Speaker 2: Kiss you have a one that is on the morning

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Speaker 6: We have many on the boarding schow r now, so

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Speaker 6: I can't just name one.

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Speaker 2: Well, it seems like it's the VP sales should be

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Speaker 6: I know, I have a lot. I just don't want

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Speaker 2: Well, let me play and have you heard have you

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Speaker 1: We play that one a lot.

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Speaker 3: It's it's it's the most run commercial here. Just take

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Speaker 1: Where is everything?

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Speaker 1: Different And although that makes it.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, Adam from Sales, we love you buddy, thanks for

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Speaker 3: all the hard work and love on our show, and

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Speaker 3: But I think he's looking for a podcast or something.

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Speaker 1: It has to be so you put them on the door. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, how do you Honestly, that is a bad

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Speaker 13: It is, but I didn't obviously didn't go the intention

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Speaker 3: I'm on your side because he did like this about

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Speaker 1: And after that I was like, actually I do want lunch.

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Speaker 3: Yeah no boo, classic sales move. You come in for

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Speaker 3: Let me grab Brie here about our coworker may need

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Speaker 2: Prey, good morning, How are you?

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Speaker 4: I'm good, How are you great?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm kind of in an awkward situation. So my

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Speaker 2: How do you tell your coworker that you don't like

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Speaker 4: just not attracted.

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Speaker 1: Do you know he is attracted to you or he's

454
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Speaker 1: giving you vibes that like he's into you.

455
00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:52,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, he's been like yeah, he keeps asking to

456
00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:57,520
Speaker 4: go out again. And like my coworker, his mom said

457
00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:01,520
Speaker 4: that he keeps telling her like that he's so happy

458
00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:04,399
Speaker 4: that she connected us. And I don't know what to do.

459
00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:06,399
Speaker 4: I got it, laugh or not.

460
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Speaker 14: I don't know what.

461
00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:14,160
Speaker 3: There's only one path, and that's through here, and here's

462
00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:21,320
Speaker 3: the truth path, and it's legit. Okay, love your son,

463
00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:27,359
Speaker 3: I love working here, love our relationship. It just doesn't

464
00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:31,680
Speaker 3: feel comfortable for me to be thinking about dating your

465
00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:35,840
Speaker 3: son while we're working together. It just complicate potentially complicates things.

466
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Speaker 3: I mean, if things go well, things don't go well.

467
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Speaker 3: I just don't think it's the right idea. I don't

468
00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:44,200
Speaker 3: think it's necessarily what I'm looking for, full stop. Deal

469
00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:48,359
Speaker 3: with the response might be a little awkward, and move on.

470
00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:50,280
Speaker 3: That's the only way to deal with it.

471
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Speaker 1: I don't think that's going to work. She starts off

472
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Speaker 1: by saying, I love your son. That's kind of misleading.

473
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Speaker 3: I love the idea that you set me up with

474
00:21:59,960 --> 00:22:03,200
Speaker 3: your son. However, I just don't think this is the

475
00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 3: right path while we work together. Who knows what's gonna happen.

476
00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:07,080
Speaker 3: You're allowed to say if it goes.

477
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Speaker 9: I mean, this is very very no, because then she's

478
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:10,439
Speaker 9: gonna say, well, why didn't you do that before I

479
00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:11,199
Speaker 9: set you up with him?

480
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Speaker 1: Why did you send me down this path? Lie to lie,

481
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 1: you just need to come clean and be like, hey,

482
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Speaker 1: I just don't find the connection. But he seems like

483
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Speaker 1: a great guy.

484
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Speaker 3: But you've got to have a pathway through and nip

485
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Speaker 3: it in the butt. Otherwise you're going to be doing

486
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 3: something you don't want to do, and it's gonna get

487
00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:27,199
Speaker 3: really bad. If you kick the can on this and

488
00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:29,240
Speaker 3: have to get out of it after she thinks you're

489
00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:32,119
Speaker 3: into her son, that's going to be really bad.

490
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Speaker 4: I just don't I don't want to insult her by

491
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:39,200
Speaker 4: saying I don't like your son, and you.

492
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Speaker 2: Saw you that we're not a match.

493
00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:45,520
Speaker 1: No, say the vibes line vibes, don't lie.

494
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Speaker 2: I just think we're better off as friends. We're not

495
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Speaker 2: a match. But don't wait on this, don't sleep on it.

496
00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 2: All right, thank you very much, good luck? Yeah, thanks whatever,

497
00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:58,160
Speaker 2: Just be direct.

498
00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:01,000
Speaker 1: Setting up coworker, this is very tricky.

499
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Speaker 2: I don't think it's a great idea.

500
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:06,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I've tried to do it a

501
00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:09,160
Speaker 1: couple of times. It could work, it could not work.

502
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,760
Speaker 1: My sister set me up with Michael, but I guess

503
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Speaker 1: it wasn't her coworker. Yeah, then I don't know.

504
00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:17,200
Speaker 2: I don't know.

505
00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:19,520
Speaker 3: And if it went bad like then it's a problem here.

506
00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:22,919
Speaker 3: Then you blame Tanya because she said you with Michael,

507
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 3: and here we're at work every day.

508
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:25,440
Speaker 2: They didn't work out.

509
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Speaker 9: Well, if you're mature adults, you're not going to bring

510
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:30,280
Speaker 9: the grudge into work.

511
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Speaker 2: Have you met us?

512
00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:35,679
Speaker 1: Our middle name is grudge.

513
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:36,680
Speaker 10: No, it's not.

514
00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 2: Well, we're not mature. Give us that.

515
00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:42,399
Speaker 3: Let me grab Serena, who's on a phone here at

516
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:43,920
Speaker 3: eight hundred and five to one to two seven.

517
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Speaker 2: Serena, good morning, How are you?

518
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Speaker 11: Good morning?

519
00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 9: I'm good?

520
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 2: How are you great?

521
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 3: So you're calling here? You need a little guidance or

522
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 3: some feedback here. Your boyfriend is the topic and he

523
00:23:57,119 --> 00:23:58,600
Speaker 3: gets mad at you for what.

524
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:04,480
Speaker 11: So he basically gets mad at me because we're in

525
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:08,439
Speaker 11: a long distance relationship and basically, you know, like we

526
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:12,920
Speaker 11: FaceTime every night before we go to bed, and usually

527
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:15,439
Speaker 11: like before like I go to bed, like I'll tell

528
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Speaker 11: im like, hey, good night, and I'll scrow like on

529
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Speaker 11: my phone like afterwards, and you know, like accidentally, like

530
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:27,720
Speaker 11: I'll mistakenly like send him like stuff on Instagram and

531
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Speaker 11: like group chat season and he basically looks at it

532
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:33,920
Speaker 11: as like why are you telling me good night and

533
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 11: then sending me stuff on Instagram?

534
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:38,640
Speaker 1: I get that out.

535
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Speaker 11: I'm kind of just like, am I really like in

536
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Speaker 11: the wrong for that? Like I kind of just want

537
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 11: to like chill on my phone like before I go

538
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Speaker 11: to bed.

539
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Speaker 1: Yes, I know exactly what you mean, because I do this.

540
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 1: I'll say, I'll say good night to my phone, but

541
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Speaker 1: then I'll go in the room and then I'll just

542
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 1: go on Instagram for like another thirty minutes, and then

543
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Speaker 1: I hear him coming like down the all the way

544
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 1: into the room, and I'll put the phone under the

545
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 1: car so that he thinks I'm sleep.

546
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 7: He's like, don't get it, Like he's like, oh, you know,

547
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:11,679
Speaker 7: like it hurts his feelings because when I do this,

548
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:14,959
Speaker 7: like he's basically saying that, like I'm trying to end

549
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:18,720
Speaker 7: communication for the day with him, and I'm like, well,

550
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Speaker 7: I mean.

551
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Speaker 15: I'm.

552
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:25,000
Speaker 1: Totally with him on this day to break.

553
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:30,400
Speaker 11: Why can't I just like have my alone time before

554
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:30,920
Speaker 11: I go to bed?

555
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:32,879
Speaker 7: Like, yes, you should funny video?

556
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 11: And he just gets really mad and I'm like, Okay,

557
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:39,160
Speaker 11: am I in the wrong? Like I need some opinions

558
00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:39,399
Speaker 11: on this.

559
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Speaker 9: No, it's just very funny because I used to be

560
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:42,400
Speaker 9: the same way.

561
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 1: But I would just never say it.

562
00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 9: Like I would get internally annoyed when Roby and I

563
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 9: first started dating if he would like send me stuff

564
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:50,480
Speaker 9: after we facetimed and said good night.

565
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:52,399
Speaker 1: I would be like, why is he doing this? But

566
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Speaker 1: I would never say it.

567
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Speaker 9: So I actually applaud your boyfriend for speaking up because

568
00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:58,399
Speaker 9: it really bothers me.

569
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Speaker 1: No, it's fine, you need it.

570
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Speaker 3: Well, I'm glad you addressed it because this is something

571
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:08,119
Speaker 3: that everybody deals with.

572
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:12,160
Speaker 11: Yeah, I mean I think it's normal. You know, everybody

573
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 11: like goes on Instagram before they go to sleep, you know, But.

574
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Speaker 3: If you are in the same bed with the person

575
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 3: and you do say good night and it's dark and

576
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:20,159
Speaker 3: then there's screen lights up.

577
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:20,920
Speaker 2: Do you turn and go.

578
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:23,680
Speaker 13: Yeah?

579
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Speaker 11: Well that's why it's kind of like a plus for

580
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 11: me because we live far from each other.

581
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Speaker 3: Right for this, for this, well, good luck. I don't

582
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 3: think it's a deal breaker. I understand both sides and

583
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 3: you are not alone. Appreciate him bringing it up.

584
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 1: On air with Ryan.

585
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:46,680
Speaker 3: He Oh, it's just he's dropping on the back room

586
00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 3: and somebody's putting their foot down. Call that it is

587
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:50,399
Speaker 3: done with it. She's tired of it, you know what

588
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:51,879
Speaker 3: you hear something, I'm tired of it. I'm like, what

589
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,440
Speaker 3: are you tired of it? She's tired of it, tired

590
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:57,399
Speaker 3: of what negative comments have done to effect her life.

591
00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:01,239
Speaker 3: Like as a child, were you ever told something and

592
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 3: it stuck with you and you navigate yourself and life

593
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 3: around it on a regular basis because some person tried

594
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 3: to put you down, say something like condemn a thought

595
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 3: or put your fire out? Me for sure tease what

596
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:19,679
Speaker 3: I was teased about being chubby one two. I was

597
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 3: told when I started hosting a show when I was

598
00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:27,520
Speaker 3: seventeen or eighteen, I was doing something and I was

599
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 3: told by a producer, I'll make sure you never work.

600
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 2: Again as a teenager. I'll make sure you.

601
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:36,360
Speaker 3: Never work again. Because I don't know what they were

602
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 3: upset about. Like me, I think it was me not

603
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:42,119
Speaker 3: signing my life away to a contract. I was signing

604
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:43,400
Speaker 3: my life away. They want me to sign my life

605
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 3: when I said no. And then I actually remember the

606
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 3: person calling my photo was driving my hond to prelude

607
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:52,120
Speaker 3: and and said to me, I'll make sure you never

608
00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:52,720
Speaker 3: work again.

609
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:54,480
Speaker 2: I'm not signing this paper.

610
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 1: Now look at you.

611
00:27:55,400 --> 00:28:02,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm working, working right now. I'm working right now

612
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:05,359
Speaker 3: in this town. This was not even this town. This

613
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 3: was Atlanta.

614
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:09,120
Speaker 1: The person, oh my gosh.

615
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:09,880
Speaker 3: It wasn't even Hollywood. I'll make sure you never work

616
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 3: in Atlanta again. Anyway, I bring this up because Collet's

617
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:14,880
Speaker 3: putting her foot down.

618
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 2: Came out for the back room. What are you tired of?

619
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Speaker 15: So I like realize I have been shaving my arms

620
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:24,400
Speaker 15: since middle school because like one of my classmates said,

621
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 15: I had hairry arms when I was a kid, And

622
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 15: I was like, why am I still doing this just

623
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:32,440
Speaker 15: because one person said this to me? And then also

624
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 15: I was like and so I like reflected more, and

625
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 15: I remember I had stopped wearing jeans in high school

626
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 15: and after high school because someone said I was fat

627
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 15: in jeans.

628
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Speaker 1: This boy I remember his name, He was a jerk.

629
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Speaker 1: I won't call him out, but call.

630
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 2: Him out those stayed with you in your adult life.

631
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 15: And it was literally just one comment that one person made.

632
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:54,959
Speaker 15: Like it wasn't like consistently com like these comments were

633
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 15: made and I was like, why am I I'm twenty

634
00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 15: five years old? Like who if someone's looking at my

635
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 15: arms going they're hairy, they have bigger issues than like my.

636
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 1: Exactly? Who cares? Like if someone's arms are hairy and

637
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 1: my hair is in there?

638
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 3: Yes.

639
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:13,959
Speaker 15: I was like, I can't believe because I was like,

640
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 15: and I have to stop myself because I'll like to

641
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 15: be doing my like routine in the shower and I'll

642
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 15: go to shave my arms and I'm like, whoa, I

643
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 15: gotta stop.

644
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:23,120
Speaker 2: I'm not doing this jeans on today too. I do

645
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 2: have jeans on today.

646
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:26,000
Speaker 1: See much happier you are.

647
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, here's the thing about shaving anything. You know, when

648
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 3: you shave it, it grows back a lot more, doesn't it.

649
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: I think they tell you, but I don't know.

650
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:37,880
Speaker 15: I think my arms are still like I maybe I

651
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 15: don't know, maybe a little bit, but not like that much.

652
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,480
Speaker 3: Well, I I didn't have Harry legs forever, and then

653
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 3: I my buddy's like, you gotta just trim them every

654
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 3: once in a while. So I bought one of those

655
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 3: trimmers with guards, and I trimmed them twice last year,

656
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 3: and now they grow back fuller, and so I gotta

657
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 3: trim them more.

658
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 1: I mean, leg hair is a whole other people.

659
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 2: But it's like the stuff they don't tell you.

660
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Speaker 10: I kind of have a similar s situation where in

661
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 10: when I was younger, middle school, whatever, I just I danced,

662
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 10: I did cheer at the gymnastics, and I never played

663
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Speaker 10: any sports. So I was never picked for sports at

664
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:13,239
Speaker 10: school like reesas or things like that.

665
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Speaker 1: Nobody ever picked me because in theory, sucked.

666
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:17,239
Speaker 10: And it's always kind of stuck with me because now

667
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 10: as an adult, I still like have fears of starting pickleball,

668
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 10: Like I just don't think I'm going to be great

669
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Speaker 10: at something because I never played sports as a child.

670
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 1: But like, yeah, and like I understand that it.

671
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Speaker 10: Was like my sport and that's what got me through

672
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 10: those years. Of course I was like an athlete in

673
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 10: that sense, but when it comes to like if someone

674
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Speaker 10: wants to go play soccer, like Michael's on a co

675
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Speaker 10: ed soccer team, and like there's you know, I'm like,

676
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Speaker 10: I could never do that, Like you guys are so

677
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 10: much better, you.

678
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 1: Know, even kickball. I'll do kickball.

679
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 10: But when it goes to like pickleball or a softball game,

680
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:47,920
Speaker 10: whoring like that, it's too.

681
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 1: Serious and I feel like I suck and I'm just

682
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 1: like I'm just going to sit it out.

683
00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:51,520
Speaker 2: Too much pressure.

684
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:52,760
Speaker 1: I playick with you.

685
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 3: Well, collect you take your arms with hair and your

686
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 3: dead and jeans, and you walk proudly through these halls here,

687
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:01,640
Speaker 3: and you know to that guy that said these things

688
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 3: to you, ha, yeah take that.

689
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:08,239
Speaker 15: Ryan Seacres says, ha, let's go, let's go play pick

690
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 15: a ball.

691
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, gotta get these they do.

692
00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:13,480
Speaker 2: They scar you for life.

693
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:14,560
Speaker 1: You can really do.

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00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:19,719
Speaker 3: Stephanie has an interesting issue here. Her boyfriend's parents are

695
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 3: bad tippers. Well, Stephanie, what happened and how bad are they?

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Speaker 14: Hi? So the scenario is my boyfriend's parents. I take

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00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 14: us out to dinner a lot. Now, every time we

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Speaker 14: go out to dinner or drinks or whatever, you know,

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Speaker 14: we alfer to pay when the check comes we you know,

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Speaker 14: we really appreciate that they do want to take us out.

701
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Speaker 14: But what I've noticed when they do take us out,

702
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Speaker 14: they tip less than ten percent the matter what bestaur

703
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 14: on bar, anything like that. And both my boyfriend and

704
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 14: I have worked in the food industry before, so like

705
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:55,560
Speaker 14: we know how important tipping is. So like we feel awful,

706
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:58,960
Speaker 14: but we don't really know what to do. Like I

707
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:00,960
Speaker 14: haven't even really discuss says with my boyfriend cause I

708
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Speaker 14: don't want to hurt his feelings and make him feel like,

709
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:05,720
Speaker 14: you know, his parents are less than But I just

710
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 14: kind of don't know how to navigate this.

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00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: You can't you just bring extra cash.

712
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 3: I've been in situations while just add to what's on

713
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 3: the table.

714
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, I think that's the them though.

715
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:23,480
Speaker 9: You gotta do it when they walk away, yeah, or

716
00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 9: do it to the server if you pass the server.

717
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 2: Like, I'm just thinking that was a great night, kay.

718
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Speaker 14: I mean you don't bring it up to my boyfriend.

719
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 2: No, I don't mind you bring up to your boyfriend.

720
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Speaker 3: But I also think if you want to solve the problem,

721
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 3: you and your boyfriend bring a little extra every now

722
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 3: and then when you're having dinner with his parents and you'd.

723
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 2: Lay it out.

724
00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean his parents are stuck in their ways,

725
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 1: like you're not going to change them.

726
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 3: No.

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00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 14: Yeah, it's just I feel so bad because it's so

728
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 14: nice they treat us like I wouldn't mind.

729
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 2: You know, then why don't treat you? Why don't you

730
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 2: do the tip? Just let them off. Oh that's a

731
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:55,479
Speaker 2: good plan, that's a fair trade. That might be a

732
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 2: better route. You know. You guys, do care dinner.

733
00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 3: We've got the tip, and then you give the appropriate

734
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:03,160
Speaker 3: tip the moment.

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Speaker 2: Stephanie, thank you for listening to it. Good life, good care.

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Speaker 14: Oh I hope it works, thank you.

737
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Speaker 3: I mean you want to create a non friction zone

738
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 3: with the parents. Absolutely, that's a simple solve, and then

739
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 3: you and you know, the two of you, the couple

740
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 3: there can split it.

741
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 2: Well. Rachel's on the phone, Good morning, Rachel, how you doing.

742
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 5: Hi?

743
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 14: I'm good things.

744
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 2: I wanted to.

745
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Speaker 3: Take your call because I just was. I get a

746
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 3: call screen of all the lines and I can see it,

747
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:33,440
Speaker 3: says Rachel. I saw my boss watching something in a

748
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 3: photo he sent me. So, your your boss sent you

749
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 3: a photo, but in the background you saw him watching

750
00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 3: provocative videos.

751
00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 11: Yes, that is correct.

752
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Speaker 2: Was it a still shot?

753
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 16: Yeah, it was a picture of my invoice because I

754
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 16: worked from home, and so I asked him if he

755
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Speaker 16: could send me a picture of it, and he was

756
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:55,080
Speaker 16: holding it in front of his computer.

757
00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 2: Oh and his computer had adult things on it. Uh

758
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 2: huh and ouch? Oops, did you tell him yet that

759
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 2: you saw it?

760
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 10: So weird?

761
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 5: I don't know what to do.

762
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Speaker 16: I waited a couple of minutes to respond, and he

763
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Speaker 16: must have finally realized that it was in the background,

764
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Speaker 16: and so we unsent the picture and then resent it

765
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Speaker 16: without anything in the background.

766
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 3: First of all, so everybody check your background, check the articles,

767
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 3: the things that.

768
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,080
Speaker 2: Whatever's in your background. Like, take a look.

769
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 1: I mean, the chicks happen. This is not a mistake.

770
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:36,479
Speaker 10: He did not know the fact that he's watching dirty

771
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 10: videos at work is not a mistake.

772
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:40,879
Speaker 2: He wait, was he at home or work?

773
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:42,920
Speaker 14: He was at work.

774
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 2: I was picturing it at home after hours. Okay, this

775
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:48,399
Speaker 2: is like.

776
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 1: During work hours. Well, Rachel is like, what kind of

777
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 1: project you're working on and whatever?

778
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:56,320
Speaker 2: We don't know why. I was like, he always at homeworking.

779
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 1: Okay, maybe he's mistake still happened.

780
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 2: So but inappropriate at work completely?

781
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, Rachel.

782
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 3: Now it's your boss, so we need to think carefully.

783
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 3: What do we do? Do you go to h R Like,

784
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:07,839
Speaker 3: what do you want to do?

785
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 16: I don't know?

786
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 12: He he really like I haven't even responded.

787
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 16: Do I say things and act like I didn't see that?

788
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 14: He unset?

789
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:20,319
Speaker 3: I think you don't respond erase it and let's just

790
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:23,279
Speaker 3: move on. Oh right, it's not great.

791
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:25,719
Speaker 10: Maybe yeah, strike one and then if it happens again,

792
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:26,919
Speaker 10: it's just like this is too much.

793
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:30,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I might just I mean, it fits me and

794
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 3: this is not maybe good advice, but I would just

795
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 3: like move on.

796
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 1: Oh but like how uncomfortable now?

797
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 3: But he probably knows you saw it, so maybe he's

798
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 3: not that's appropriate. It's all bad on him too, It's

799
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 3: all bad on him. But it is your boss. Oh

800
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 3: I feel hunger pangs.

801
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 1: Do you still have the original picture?

802
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 16: I didn't screenshot it now?

803
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,399
Speaker 9: Oh, but you should check your computer because sometimes when

804
00:35:58,400 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 9: you unsend, it still.

805
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 1: Goes to your other right, it goes to other devices.

806
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 2: Okay, check that, and so check it.

807
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 10: Keep it as evidence because if he ever tries to

808
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 10: pull something fishy down that road, to try to like

809
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,799
Speaker 10: fire you or do something weird, because he's uncomfortable, then

810
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 10: you have evidence.

811
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 1: Okay, interesting, I like that idea.

812
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:18,840
Speaker 2: Thank you, you've been watching your honor?

813
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, of law?

814
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, good luck.

815
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 1: I'm not messing around with.

816
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:26,319
Speaker 3: Her following the facts and the evidence here, Rachel, thank

817
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:26,959
Speaker 3: you very much.

818
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 2: I mean, look, if she's uncomfortable, go to HR talk

819
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 2: about him. If she's not, move on. So listen it

820
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:34,479
Speaker 2: is there's somebody posted.

821
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 3: There's the one that posted and interactions she had with

822
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:39,200
Speaker 3: a guy that she met on a dating app. Right,

823
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:42,320
Speaker 3: they're chatting. He asked her out to dinner. She was

824
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 3: into it, and then he said this, shall we have

825
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:48,200
Speaker 3: a short walk before the food to see how we feel?

826
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:53,960
Speaker 10: To see how we feel? Yeah, but to see how

827
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:54,319
Speaker 10: we feel?

828
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 1: Part kind of.

829
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 2: Lingers at me.

830
00:36:56,320 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 3: The part that strikes me badly too, like auditioning. Is

831
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:02,959
Speaker 3: he gonna go, like, see if they do we feel

832
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 3: good with each other before we go on the dinner date.

833
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 1: But I don't mind the walk before. That's kind of cute. No,

834
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 1: it's so annoying.

835
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 2: Why why because you're getting ready?

836
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:15,360
Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm gonna walk, take a little walk, stroll on

837
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:15,839
Speaker 9: my heels.

838
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna wear tennis shoes on my date like hosting.

839
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:21,280
Speaker 3: You say that because I have been asked before in

840
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 3: my past. Are we walking anywhere before or after? Because

841
00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 3: I need to know about my shoes? Or can we

842
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:29,800
Speaker 3: not walk before after? Because any to know about my shoes?

843
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 8: Right?

844
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:31,279
Speaker 9: If you want to go on a walk with me,

845
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 9: then it's going to walk. If you don't take me

846
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:34,759
Speaker 9: to dinner, or take me to dinner, but don't walk

847
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 9: with me before, Oh my gosh, go with the flow,

848
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 9: wear of the walking shoes, and then bring your heels

849
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 9: for dinner, like.

850
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 1: A big deal?

851
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:42,400
Speaker 2: Where are you going to carry your shoes?

852
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 14: Right?

853
00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 1: To leave him in his car? I don't know, it's

854
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:46,480
Speaker 1: not that big of a deal.

855
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:48,600
Speaker 2: What if you take a ride share right.

856
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 1: Then you wear you don't wear heels for the date?

857
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:51,879
Speaker 1: Like it's not a big deal.

858
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 2: I think I agree. I change.

859
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 3: I changed, just you know, Tony, I change my transit

860
00:37:57,960 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 3: pattern based on shoes.

861
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:01,120
Speaker 2: I'm not fighting that, Like if you want to put

862
00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 2: on shoes that.

863
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 10: We don't walk, but I'm you're already giving signs of

864
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 10: high maintenance and you don't go with the flow, and

865
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 10: so Jordan.

866
00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: I'm not saying. I'm saying if one does.

867
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:17,319
Speaker 2: This dating, yeah, not so fun, is it?

868
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:21,240
Speaker 3: I like walking after if it's a walkable blocker straight

869
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:24,560
Speaker 3: after you have something. But I fully defer to shoe

870
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 3: comfort and whatever. If you want vanity shoe versus comfort

871
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 3: sho I'm fine.

872
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 1: And also like sitting jeans or standing jeans.

873
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 2: Tell me about that.

874
00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:34,280
Speaker 1: You know those.

875
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:36,800
Speaker 9: Gans that are like you have jeans that that you

876
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:42,920
Speaker 9: can only stand in. Yeah, they're supers because it snatches

877
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:45,840
Speaker 9: your waist. So those the genes that you can stand

878
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:47,839
Speaker 9: and they snatch your waist. But when you sit down,

879
00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:50,840
Speaker 9: it's like, oh it's so painful. Yeah, Like there's sometimes

880
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:53,959
Speaker 9: that just doesn't give. And those are my standing only jeans,

881
00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:54,279
Speaker 9: right like.

882
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:56,719
Speaker 1: If I'm going to a concert, standing only jeans, but

883
00:38:56,760 --> 00:38:58,879
Speaker 1: if I'm going to dinner, comfy jeans both.

884
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 3: If you thank you for these teachable mom, that's because

885
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 3: I had no idea about that.

886
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 2: That's the whole thing. Who's this single around here? Raise

887
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:12,720
Speaker 2: your hand? Minds up?

888
00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 1: What do you consider single? I mean in a.

889
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:20,000
Speaker 2: Relationships, in a relationship, what do you consider single?

890
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:22,360
Speaker 1: I don't know. Some people say not married as single.

891
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:26,520
Speaker 2: No, no one says not married is single. That's not true.

892
00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 1: Google it.

893
00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:30,080
Speaker 2: I don't want to google it. I I'm sitting right

894
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,440
Speaker 2: here and I got other things to do, Okay, But

895
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 2: to me, Sysney, single is single.

896
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:38,040
Speaker 1: Single is you're ready to mingle and you want to

897
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:40,160
Speaker 1: meet somebody so that you won't be single anymore.

898
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:43,879
Speaker 2: Right, And that's why mckayl and I raised our hands.

899
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 1: You want someone to cuddle with at night.

900
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 8: And.

901
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:50,319
Speaker 2: No, maybe just like give a kiss and then turn

902
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:50,800
Speaker 2: the otherwise.

903
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:51,799
Speaker 1: Not at the.

904
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:54,799
Speaker 10: Beginning, At the beginning, everyone's like on their a cuddle game.

905
00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 2: No I'm not. I don't pretend to like you.

906
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:00,320
Speaker 9: But you like to cuddle and then when you go

907
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 9: to sleep you just go your separate ways.

908
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 3: Tanya, What is it with you telling me what I

909
00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:05,840
Speaker 3: like when I don't.

910
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 2: I don't like to come?

911
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:08,439
Speaker 1: Maybe try it more?

912
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:12,960
Speaker 2: I think I don't like it. Ask anybody, call any

913
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:13,839
Speaker 2: X of mine and ask.

914
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,360
Speaker 10: No, you don't like to codle, not even like the

915
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:19,400
Speaker 10: first three months of a relationship, like that's asleep.

916
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 1: That's so sad, lot of.

917
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 2: Sadness, don't you know anyway?

918
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 1: Label things all?

919
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 2: Right? If you're single and striking.

920
00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 1: Out, do you just like lay next to someone?

921
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:37,359
Speaker 3: And so the way it works is you get into

922
00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 3: bed and you turn over and you say good night

923
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 3: and give them a kiss, and then you flip to

924
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 3: the other side of the bed to actually sleep.

925
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 10: If you're watching something, yea, even if you're on the

926
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 10: couch like sometimes cling, especially in the beginning of a relationship,

927
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 10: you're just so into each other.

928
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:54,800
Speaker 1: How can you like, I can't keep my hands off Michael?

929
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:56,760
Speaker 2: Okay, well.

930
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:00,759
Speaker 1: I'm saying, what do you say? Fifteen years ago?

931
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:02,840
Speaker 10: Now I get it likely now it's like not the

932
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:04,240
Speaker 10: same as it was at the beginning.

933
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 9: But what do you do if you're in bed watching

934
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 9: television together?

935
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:07,920
Speaker 1: Television?

936
00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 2: You know what we do?

937
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 3: We were watching We're watching that farm or dating clubs.

938
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 1: Watching television. You're not going to sleep yet.

939
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:19,160
Speaker 2: What do you do?

940
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 1: You just sit the off the sides of the bed.

941
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 3: Well, yeah's not that big. It's like pop our head

942
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 3: against the headboard with two pillows and we watch something

943
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 3: like do.

944
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 1: You hold hands?

945
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 2: No, we're not.

946
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 1: Clinging like you do you tickle each other? Who are

947
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 1: you talking to anybody?

948
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:39,720
Speaker 2: No?

949
00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 1: Really, anyway, it's.

950
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 3: Okay, as we're saying. If you're trying to need somebody,

951
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:52,399
Speaker 3: try the Peter method. That's what people are doing.

952
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:55,400
Speaker 10: Oh yes, it's gone viral, and basically step one is

953
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 10: you spot somebody out in the wild, say a club,

954
00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 10: a restaurant where we're like, I mean, even a wedding,

955
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:03,319
Speaker 10: and you make eye contact with them, and then you

956
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 10: approach them and you kind of confusingly say like, hey,

957
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:08,280
Speaker 10: are you Peter, And then of course they're gonna probably

958
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:08,680
Speaker 10: say no.

959
00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 1: And then from there you go, oh, my gosh, I

960
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 1: thought that I.

961
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 10: Had met you from my my friend's cousin, or I

962
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:15,799
Speaker 10: thought you were my cousin's friend or something like that

963
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:19,239
Speaker 10: along those lines. If they're interested, then from there they're

964
00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 10: gonna go, well, who's your cousin? And it goes down

965
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:25,879
Speaker 10: the rabbit hole of essentially lies. But if their name

966
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:27,840
Speaker 10: is Peter, then I guess it could all fall apart.

967
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 1: But I think Tanya has tried this and apparently it

968
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:31,239
Speaker 1: worked for her.

969
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:32,920
Speaker 2: This is the dunest thing I've ever heard.

970
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 1: No, let me tell you it's genius.

971
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 2: Are you Peter? So?

972
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:36,919
Speaker 1: No, no, no.

973
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:38,919
Speaker 9: So I used to do this, but I used to

974
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 9: just to go up to guys and I would say,

975
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 9: are you friends with Robert Graham? And they would say

976
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 9: it was that Rober Graham? An actual like yeah, got Bachelor. Yes,

977
00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 9: he's Becca's ex boyfriend. And I would just say, are

978
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:53,839
Speaker 9: you friends with Robert Graham? And they would say no,

979
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 9: like kind of like, no, how do you know him?

980
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:56,759
Speaker 9: But I was like, I swear I met you with

981
00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:58,359
Speaker 9: him when I was at his party the other day.

982
00:42:58,640 --> 00:42:59,920
Speaker 2: They're like, no the other day.

983
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:01,960
Speaker 9: But then you but then you start talking and then

984
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:03,880
Speaker 9: you forget about the Robert Graham stuff, and then I

985
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 9: got so many phone numbers that way.

986
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:08,400
Speaker 1: It's brilliant, such a good idea.

987
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:12,279
Speaker 10: Apparently it's viral and it's working and people are trying

988
00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:13,560
Speaker 10: it out, and it's.

989
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:15,799
Speaker 9: Such like a non invasive way to go up to

990
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:16,919
Speaker 9: a stranger at a bar.

991
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 2: I think it's the dumbest way to do it in

992
00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:19,959
Speaker 2: the book.

993
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 9: No, it's brilliant. It's actually the opposite of dumb. It's brilliant.

994
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:27,240
Speaker 10: Wow, you try it one day, Ryan the Peter method.

995
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:29,279
Speaker 10: You don't use pe. I mean, I guess you could

996
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 10: use Peter. No, you could be like, do you know,

997
00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 10: just do it Sarah Jones? Are you friends with Sarah Jones?

998
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 1: And they're gonna be.

999
00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 2: Like, I can't do that.

1000
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:42,960
Speaker 3: I cannot pretend to act like I'm Sarah Jones.

1001
00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:46,680
Speaker 1: Is Robert Do you know Robert Graham?

1002
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 10: I would do anything to witness this, like anything.

1003
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:52,799
Speaker 2: You would not want to be out with me when

1004
00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 2: I'm trying to mean something.

1005
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:56,440
Speaker 1: She would just like sit down on the popcorn, just

1006
00:43:56,480 --> 00:43:58,720
Speaker 1: watch me to just do it. I think I would pee.

1007
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 3: My pants watching Ryan try to do that one stupid time,

1008
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:03,479
Speaker 3: long time ago.

1009
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:04,400
Speaker 1: Oh, here we go.

1010
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 3: I wanted to hang out with this person when I

1011
00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 3: first met her, and we were at a restaurant and

1012
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 3: she was with the mutual friends and I walked over

1013
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 3: to the table and sat next to her, and she

1014
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 3: had a hair tie, and I said, can I see

1015
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:23,360
Speaker 3: your hair tie? And I put it on my wrist,

1016
00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 3: and I realized by having it on my wrist, she

1017
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 3: wouldn't want to leave until she got her hair tie back.

1018
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:32,520
Speaker 2: So it's kind of like, wow.

1019
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 1: You need help. Yeah, that is the first mooove ever.

1020
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:38,800
Speaker 1: If somebody asked me for my hairtie, I'd be like, no.

1021
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:41,280
Speaker 2: It's so cute. I put it on my wrist.

1022
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:43,120
Speaker 10: I mean I would say yes, sure, I can see

1023
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:46,279
Speaker 10: they're trying to flirt, but I yay.

1024
00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:49,239
Speaker 1: That would What was your next move after the hair

1025
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:50,240
Speaker 1: tye wrist game?

1026
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 9: She has to asked for a back and then you

1027
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:54,239
Speaker 9: have to say like, oh, no, you have to give

1028
00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:54,480
Speaker 9: me your.

1029
00:44:54,440 --> 00:45:00,839
Speaker 2: Phone number, can't guys? I am so cool. I am

1030
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 2: so cool with those moves.

1031
00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:07,600
Speaker 9: Oh my, guys, try the Sarah Jones method.

1032
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:10,320
Speaker 2: The hairtime method worked. I dated her for seven years.

1033
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 1: Who was it?

1034
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 2: Obviously Tanya. Of course she seems to.

1035
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:23,239
Speaker 1: Spell it out for you. Yeah, can I got an initial? No,

1036
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:25,920
Speaker 1: figure it out the hair tie.

1037
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:29,279
Speaker 2: Let me grab Gabby this morning. How's it going?

1038
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 3: Is it day off? And you got day off to

1039
00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:34,239
Speaker 3: the right start. Things are going well hopefully. So if

1040
00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:36,399
Speaker 3: you've got a big meeting today, good luck with it.

1041
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:41,600
Speaker 3: If you've got a difficult conversation to have with your partner, sorry,

1042
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 3: good luck with it.

1043
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 1: I never thought about that, but okay.

1044
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 2: People get stuff going on everything.

1045
00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:48,719
Speaker 1: Someone just someone just sent a text that said we

1046
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,479
Speaker 1: need to talk tonight. Uh wait.

1047
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 9: I said that to Robbie the other day in the bathroom.

1048
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:56,319
Speaker 9: I go, can we talk when we get in bed?

1049
00:45:56,840 --> 00:46:00,359
Speaker 9: And he goes, nobody wants to hear that to.

1050
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:01,799
Speaker 1: Have a serious conversation in bed.

1051
00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 2: Nobody wants to talk. Ever, Like when I go to

1052
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 2: bed sleep.

1053
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 1: He was just like nobody ever wants. Nobody wants to

1054
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:07,800
Speaker 1: hear that.

1055
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:09,720
Speaker 2: Nobody does, and what you have to talk about?

1056
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:10,760
Speaker 1: It was actually nice.

1057
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 9: I just wanted to say that, like I missed him

1058
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:18,680
Speaker 9: because we've just been what have.

1059
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 1: You been apart? Well, no, that's the thing.

1060
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:22,080
Speaker 9: We haven't been apart, but we've been like kind of

1061
00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:24,120
Speaker 9: distant because like he was sick and then I was sick,

1062
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:25,719
Speaker 9: and so I was just like, I just miss you

1063
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 9: and I love you, and I just wanted to It

1064
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:28,520
Speaker 9: was like a sweet conversation that I wanted to.

1065
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 2: Have, and he was very sweet to announce that while

1066
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:33,439
Speaker 2: you were peeing. I mean that part is Roman.

1067
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 1: Yeah he was brushing his teeth but okay.

1068
00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:38,279
Speaker 2: But just as a general rule, no one wants to

1069
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 2: talk with Yeah.

1070
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:39,799
Speaker 1: Nobody wants to hear that.

1071
00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:42,399
Speaker 3: Gabby, thank you for holding on in Corona. So tell

1072
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:46,239
Speaker 3: me what's the story here? His mom babies him and

1073
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 3: she wants me to baby him too, is what it

1074
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:48,920
Speaker 3: says on the call screen.

1075
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:54,279
Speaker 8: Yes, so pretty much. Me and my boyfriend, we've been

1076
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:57,920
Speaker 8: dating for two years. We finally moved in together, and

1077
00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:01,280
Speaker 8: you know, I thought things would be, you know, different,

1078
00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:04,280
Speaker 8: and I understand him and his mom are pretty close,

1079
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:08,480
Speaker 8: but it's like to the point that it's it's a lot.

1080
00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:11,320
Speaker 8: You know, he missed work. You know, he had a migraine,

1081
00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:14,600
Speaker 8: and she felt like she needed to take care of him.

1082
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 8: And you know, obviously I was there, so I was,

1083
00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 8: you know, going to take care of him myself. But

1084
00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:22,560
Speaker 8: you know, she came over, she started cooking for him,

1085
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:25,359
Speaker 8: and then she started to tell me how he liked

1086
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:32,160
Speaker 8: his food. I was just like, okay, and I made

1087
00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:35,239
Speaker 8: him the exact same food that she has. But she's like, no,

1088
00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 8: this is how he likes it. And she knows that

1089
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:43,279
Speaker 8: I also don't cook that well. But I mean, I

1090
00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:45,759
Speaker 8: think it was just a little too much because she's like, no,

1091
00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 8: this is how he likes it. You pretty much did

1092
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:51,560
Speaker 8: it wrong. This is how he likes it.

1093
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 3: This is a case of a mom who loves her

1094
00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:57,680
Speaker 3: baby and is finding it difficult that she's losing him

1095
00:47:57,680 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 3: a little bit.

1096
00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 10: Yeah, I'm kinda have to side with the mom here

1097
00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 10: because I can only imagine what kind of mom I'm

1098
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 10: gonna be one day with Maxim And in my head,

1099
00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:10,319
Speaker 10: I'm gonna be like, they're not doing it the way

1100
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 10: he likes it, or they're not doing it this way.

1101
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:15,600
Speaker 10: Maybe your little boy grows up and likes it a

1102
00:48:15,600 --> 00:48:18,359
Speaker 10: different way. Why can't Gabby just be taking it as

1103
00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 10: constructive criticism and just be like, oh, this is great.

1104
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 10: Teach me your recipes. I would love to know how

1105
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:24,720
Speaker 10: you make free holis and all this stuff.

1106
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:32,000
Speaker 2: I like Systney's method. Peter method is Peter. Sorrybby, I

1107
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:32,920
Speaker 2: just Gabby.

1108
00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:35,800
Speaker 3: I can understand why it may seem a little pushy

1109
00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:41,440
Speaker 3: and pressured, but it's a mom loving her son wanting

1110
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 3: her son to be loved in the same way.

1111
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:45,680
Speaker 1: I think you befriend the mom.

1112
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 10: You become besties with her, because if not, this is

1113
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:51,560
Speaker 10: going to go sour real fast.

1114
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:52,879
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.

1115
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 8: And it's also just like she'll still make his appointments

1116
00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:58,520
Speaker 8: for him, like doctor's appointments.

1117
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:03,279
Speaker 1: Guys, this is it's not good. This is good. It's

1118
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:04,040
Speaker 1: helpful for him.

1119
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:07,400
Speaker 11: I think it's just like it's like one thing after another.

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Speaker 1: It's a hair too far.

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Speaker 2: It's very common.

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Speaker 10: I would love to share calendar with maximum he's an

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Speaker 10: adult and just be like, oh, you have your appointment later.

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Speaker 2: It's very common. But it's a parent who loves their child.

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Speaker 3: That's the good thing, which means you probably got a

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Speaker 3: good man which means the two of you, guys are

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Speaker 3: going to have a great relationship.

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Speaker 10: Yes, and she's going to be a great grandma, and

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Speaker 10: then you've got free babysitting.

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Speaker 2: I mean, is this positive? Yabby? Thank you for listening

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Speaker 2: in Corona this morning. Good lot, Yes, thank you. I

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Speaker 2: could see my mom doing this.

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Speaker 1: Your mom does not make your doctor's appointments.

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Speaker 2: How do you know it makes doctor? No, she doesn't

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Speaker 2: made my doctor's supports.

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Speaker 3: But I could see her like saying what I love

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Speaker 3: like to my significant other.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's okay.

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Speaker 10: Wouldn't you rather have a guidance than like, yeah, not No,

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Speaker 10: it's just it's just this took took it a hair

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Speaker 10: too far for in my opinion.

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Speaker 2: Ouch, I'm with guys.

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Speaker 3: That's gonna wrap it up for us. One more thing

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Speaker 3: before we go. If you could live in the world

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Speaker 3: of one TV show, what would it be?

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Speaker 1: Friends? Beverly Hills Now Too?

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Speaker 2: And O, Well, I'm with you in Beverly's Now or

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Speaker 2: Magnum p I or Eat Cake?

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Speaker 1: Is it cake?

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Speaker 2: What happened? I'd like to eat it too? All Right, guys,

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Speaker 2: we're out. Thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: Make sure to subscribe, and we'll talk to you again tomorrow.