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Speaker 3: Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You're listening

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Speaker 3: to the voice I said, come on now, dig me

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Speaker 3: to one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay, Now,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna be really honest with you this morning. I

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Speaker 3: really don't know what to say. I really don't. I

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Speaker 3: uplifting and inspirational in some way to affect somebody today. Oftentimes,

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Speaker 3: these conversations that I have in the mornings, they're designed

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Speaker 3: I used to say all the time, And even though

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Speaker 3: You know, I need motivation in my life sometimes myself.

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Speaker 3: I think when I get in moments like this, I

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Speaker 3: I'm ever grateful for the things that God has done

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Speaker 3: It's been. It's been difficult, man, it really really has.

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Speaker 3: I ain't gonna lie to you.

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Speaker 3: Becoming successful was very difficult. But as hard as this

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Speaker 3: because I can't change anything about it, so I never

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Speaker 3: And that right there, man, is just very comforting to me.

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Speaker 3: Mister Jakes told me one time, he said, the closer

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Speaker 3: But if Steve, yeah, it's easy for you to say that,

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Speaker 3: So I learned to quit praying to take stuff away.

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Speaker 3: People oftentimes ask me, how do you do all that

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Speaker 3: So when you ask me how you do all of

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Speaker 3: Okaystening show, Ladies and gentlemen, Welcome to the Riode. This

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Speaker 3: is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Thank you, Lord God

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Speaker 3: for this wonderful day, for this opportunity, for this blessing,

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Speaker 3: for this gift that You've given us call today. I

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Speaker 3: I don't know what to do. And I also claim

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Speaker 3: to be one of his favorites. Now, I want you

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Speaker 3: also be one of his favorites. I'm not saying I'm

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Speaker 3: his only favorite. You have an opportunity to be his favorite. Also,

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Speaker 3: we participate as one of God's favorites. Today, Steve Harvey

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Speaker 3: Morning Show Shenny Strawberry calling Forrell, Missisbi Monica Jr. KLS

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Speaker 3: to w k LS Straight and the legend that is

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Speaker 3: Nephew Tommy Little Radio. What's on your mind today?

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Speaker 9: Well, you know what unc man, We approach you Christmas

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Speaker 9: and uh, I don't have this gift and I need

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Speaker 3: Boy.

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Speaker 9: Let me tell you right now, I'm some pressure. And

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Speaker 9: how much money is this gift? Got to be a

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Speaker 9: lot flood? Yeah, Hey, Tommy, you're just a lot. This

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Speaker 9: is his first Christmas married.

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Speaker 3: You gotta make the impact, man, Yeah right there, wrap

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Speaker 3: that he is about that that house got bought this summer.

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Speaker 3: You can't because because he live in it too. Know,

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Speaker 3: your Christmas gift to your wife has to be personalized.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you some fellows. Don't come in there

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Speaker 3: washing dry. Yeah. Mind, you can't do that, Junior. It

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Speaker 3: has to be a personalized gift that appears that you

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Speaker 3: have put considerable amount of thought into the gift. What

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Speaker 3: are you thinking about getting, Junior?

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Speaker 9: I was thinking about getting her like a spa, Yes, okay,

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Speaker 9: you know, a trip to a spa in another state.

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Speaker 1: You know, you something like that, not not here?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I love the way that came out.

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Speaker 3: A trip to a spa in the states. He cut

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Speaker 3: it off from being a real balling a trip to

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Speaker 3: a SPA in another country. He went to a trip

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Speaker 3: in Atlanta. She gonna drive to South Carolina. Ya, boy,

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Speaker 3: that gift took a turn for cheap so fast. But Junior,

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Speaker 3: that'd be nice. What else you think about getting out

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Speaker 1: But a SPA is always good, Junior.

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Speaker 3: Though it is. Do women always like spa treatment packages? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's a good one.

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Speaker 1: That is my jam?

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Speaker 9: What else do you I've got? What else I can

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Speaker 9: tell you? I thought about this nice tennis braces and

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Speaker 9: she's been looking at there. You go go with her

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Speaker 9: ring and go with her, and go with her diamond

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Speaker 9: ear rings that she got for a wedd day.

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Speaker 3: See, she can't show the SPA package off. She showed

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Speaker 3: that bracelet at all. Got about the brownie points?

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, we like your all right.

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Speaker 3: You can't get her like a year's subscription to tail

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Speaker 3: and all and nothing like that.

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Speaker 1: Don't do that coming up to do that?

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Speaker 10: She always coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 10: We're gonna hear from the nephew as we run that

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Speaker 10: prank back right after this you're listening morning show, and

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Speaker 10: it's time now for the nephew to run that prank back?

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Speaker 3: What you got for us?

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Speaker 6: New?

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Speaker 7: This is apartment three sixteen, Shirley. Can y'all remember all

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Speaker 7: y'all apartment numbers from years and years ago?

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Speaker 3: Can y'all? I'm young number.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, not all of them?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, two seventy one, fifty three, oh five, yep.

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Speaker 1: How long you been to your house? When he's six?

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Speaker 1: Five months? Okay? Still fresh, still fresh, still fresh, apartment

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Speaker 1: so six it's a blessing.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, this is apartment three sixteen. Let's go catch down.

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Speaker 8: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach deal.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, this is deal, Hey you deal?

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Speaker 8: How you doing? Man? My name is Bond. Dude you

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Speaker 8: You living for it right? Apartments? Yeah? I live going on? Okay,

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Speaker 8: I was going on my Oh no, no, no, everything

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Speaker 8: I got your numbers from lady at at the least

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Speaker 8: Actually, what's going to happen. Uh, I'm finna moved to

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Speaker 5: Hold on god, you say your name Vaughn?

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Speaker 5: And who gave you my number?

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Speaker 4: Again?

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Speaker 5: Uh little well listen cut to and I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 8: Man.

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Speaker 5: Now, I ain't moving out of my apartment. Man, I've

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Speaker 8: That's on you. Man, it ain't. I got to stay

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Speaker 8: I go only get them to move your stuff all

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Speaker 5: Ain't nothing moving on. Thing gonna moves. The numbers. You

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Speaker 5: because I don't know gave you my number? Was like this,

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Speaker 8: Even know no vun no, no, you don't know me, DoD.

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Speaker 8: I asked them who was in three sixteen? They told me,

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Speaker 8: Man, Hey, listen, man, I'm trying to do this as

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Speaker 5: Just respect me, then doing disrespect for them, because I'm

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Speaker 8: Do this.

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Speaker 5: You called me with like this I don't get favorite now.

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Speaker 5: I don't care if there was your favorite scripture.

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Speaker 8: Okay, hey me with like that man team. Now, you're

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Speaker 8: them go to work. I cannot function. Okay, I have

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Speaker 8: to have that apartment number done right.

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Speaker 5: So it sounds like you've got a problem on your hands.

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Speaker 8: Man.

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Speaker 5: Whatever your pridem is, that's your priblem ain't got to

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Speaker 5: I've been staying in three sixteen, I'm gonna stay in

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Speaker 5: three sixteen till I moved to a house. You need

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Speaker 5: to find something else to do. And really I'm starting.

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Speaker 5: They gave you my number to call me with is

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Speaker 5: I can't leaves like the way you're talking to you

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Speaker 5: talking to me first, what you come at me with that?

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Speaker 5: Come at me with a number that looks like you man,

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Speaker 5: three sixteen.

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Speaker 8: What excuse me though, what you're saying?

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Speaker 5: You calling me with this? I tell you what, man,

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Speaker 5: come at me, Come at my problem that you gonna

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Speaker 5: see it? Man, you understand what I'm saying.

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Speaker 8: Hey man, I'm trying to handle this respectably. Man. Okay,

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Speaker 8: all right, Well I said I'm trying to do.

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Speaker 3: Listen to me.

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Speaker 8: I'm trying to tell you honestly, dog, I cannot function

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Speaker 5: That ain't my business. Man.

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Speaker 8: No, I don't wanna have to come move yo, Yo,

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Speaker 5: Hold on with running back what you say?

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Speaker 8: I said, I don't want to have to move, Yo.

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Speaker 4: Said that.

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Speaker 5: Now let me said what you're gonna come move my

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Speaker 5: I want hey, matter of fact, come yeah, come on,

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Speaker 5: come move three sixteen, three sixteen. I had a free

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Speaker 5: for you. Come on, man, come on, come move my man,

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Speaker 5: Come on, two ten sideds. Come on, move yet all

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Speaker 5: kind of going on the world with numbers. They got

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Speaker 5: three hundred sixty five days.

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Speaker 8: Deal with this.

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Speaker 5: I mean it works. You want, I'm on my nine

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Speaker 5: to five. When you come at you bout three sixteen

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna move somebody. That's all I got to say. Man,

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Speaker 5: it's gonna be you before I did, before I deal

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Speaker 5: even giving you my number day.

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Speaker 8: Hey man, I'm just trying to tell you I have

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Speaker 8: superstitious like that. I know, I know everybody ain't like that,

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Speaker 8: but I just happen to be like that. You don't

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Speaker 5: Man, I ain't got time to be dealing it. Really,

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Speaker 5: everybody ain't got time to sit up listen like this. Man.

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Speaker 5: You looked up the Christian other than I've been out

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Speaker 5: this job looking what appointment numbers did they give you?

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Speaker 8: They gave me like three twenty nine or something like that.

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Speaker 8: I don't. I can't stay there, man, That's why I'm.

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Speaker 5: A meat shit man. Meet me at three twenty nine,

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Speaker 5: six o'clock tonight. How bout them numbers?

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Speaker 8: Okay, okay, So how about these numbers right here? A

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Speaker 8: seven seven twenty nine, Steve? What mean A seven seven

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Speaker 5: Steve eight seven seven twenty nine.

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Speaker 8: See you ain't never heard that number before.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's fun for me.

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Speaker 8: That's the number to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Because

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Speaker 8: this is nephew, Tommy, and you just got pranked by

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Speaker 8: your coworker. Limita ib me like that.

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Speaker 5: It's it's sounds crazy as hell. I'll believe this for

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Speaker 5: us to had me rolling, God got me about to

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Speaker 5: take off and go to the Lisa Off and College height.

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Speaker 2: Now, who you say?

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Speaker 5: Got enough?

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Speaker 8: Ain't you got a coworker? Ain't Linda, Linda?

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Speaker 5: Ain't this about members coming from Linda right now? I

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Speaker 5: wonder why she takes so long? She put you out?

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Speaker 8: Man?

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Speaker 5: God ya, I hadn't going though.

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Speaker 8: Man, Hey Dale, I got one more thing, ask man,

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Speaker 8: Well you at work for real, ain't you? Yeah? Hey man?

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Speaker 8: What's the baddest radio show in the land? Man?

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Speaker 5: Steve brother Morning Show?

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Speaker 8: All right, Man, get back to work. Man, your phone

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Speaker 1: All right? All right, nephew, thank you.

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Speaker 10: Coming up next, it is asked the CLO with our

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Speaker 10: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 10: Coming up at the top of the hour. And entertainment news.

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Speaker 10: Some sad news out of Hollywood. Actor Andre Brower has

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Speaker 10: passed away. Oprah Winfrey says she does, Yes, she does

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Speaker 10: take weight loss medication. And our girl Fantasia. Have you

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Speaker 6: May thing?

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Speaker 1: She looks so good.

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Speaker 10: We'll talk about all of these stories at the top

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Speaker 10: ask the clo All right. This one's from Olisa in Manchester.

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Speaker 10: Olitha writes, I sent a new photo to a coworker,

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Speaker 10: and he sent it to another guy of work, and

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Speaker 10: he passed it on to a few others. I want

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Speaker 10: to get revenge by sending out the sad pick of

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Speaker 10: this guy's little You know what, do I embarrass him

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Speaker 10: like he did me?

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Speaker 3: Or let it go?

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Speaker 8: Ma?

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Speaker 3: I think you should let it go and learn yourself

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Speaker 3: a lesson, because why would you do that? Now you

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Speaker 3: all over the office, Now you showing a picture him

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Speaker 3: ain't gonna help you, but it could get you into

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Speaker 3: a further hole, because now they got something else to

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Speaker 3: talk about. Why did you do that? Why? See? These

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Speaker 3: are the lessons in life you got to learn. Have

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Speaker 3: y'all ever noticed you don't really learn something unless you

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Speaker 3: learn it from all your mistakes and failures. Those are

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Speaker 3: your major lessons in life, your mistakes and great failures. Agreed,

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Speaker 3: And so as we sit here and go, why would

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Speaker 3: you send this picture to this man? And now he

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Speaker 3: didn't send it somebody else, And he didn't send somebody

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Speaker 3: else because you're in the office. She been walking around

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Speaker 3: with these clothes on. Now we get to see what's

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Speaker 3: under the clothes.

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Speaker 1: But she should she should just let it go. Don't

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Speaker 1: get revenge on him by sending a picture of him out.

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Speaker 3: Well, huh, you can let it leak. You could let

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Speaker 3: it leak. How would it me. I'm not that good

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Speaker 3: a Christian. I posted on the bullet the board and

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Speaker 3: kept here machine making funny. I had an I'm small

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Speaker 3: minded like that, though I real stuff like that. I

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Speaker 3: won't send it out, but I will put it up

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Speaker 3: on the bulletin board in the cafeteria in the hallway

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Speaker 3: or something like that. Or any suggestion boxing say, you

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Speaker 3: have a little note up under something catchy like, you know,

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Speaker 3: Vianna sausage sale, something like this.

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Speaker 1: All right, Moving on to Mikayla in Buffalo.

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Speaker 10: Mikayla says, we bought our daughter a car for Christmas,

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Speaker 10: and my husband made sure it's fully loaded. He then

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Speaker 10: said that he and I won't be exchanging gifts this

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Speaker 10: selfish for not agreeing with him.

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Speaker 1: Am I selfish?

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Speaker 8: No?

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Speaker 3: No, I don't know how I do think you finna

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Speaker 3: get the daughter something and you ain't gonna get the

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Speaker 3: woman who made the daughter something. Brother, You can't bruh.

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Speaker 3: These are still women we have here, these women in

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Speaker 3: we still got to find way to keep them important.

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Speaker 3: You cannot put your wife second to your kids. She

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Speaker 3: made them kids. You got no kids without hub. She

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Speaker 3: is the maker, producer, and manufacturer of all human life

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Speaker 3: on this earth. A woman did it. You can never

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Speaker 3: forget that. Dog. No, she's not being selfish. She want

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Speaker 3: to be recognized too. I got y'all spent his money

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Speaker 3: on his baby, but damn, and we ain't exchange and

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Speaker 3: gifts because we just spend too much money.

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Speaker 10: Also, all right, Moving on to Journey in Baton Rouge.

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Speaker 10: Journey says, my man's new thing is tailored suit. Okay,

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Speaker 10: but he doesn't have a he doesn't have a flat stomach,

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Speaker 10: and he doesn't have thin thighs. For the cut of

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Speaker 10: the suit that he prefers, he looks more uncomfortable than stylish.

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Speaker 10: You can't tell him he's not sharp.

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Speaker 1: How do I nicely tell him that he is not flying?

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Speaker 1: He ain't.

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Speaker 3: You just got to say it. Your fat ass k

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Speaker 3: wes lim cut suits. You know, see them skinny suit

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Speaker 3: says that suit supply and all that for them, young boys.

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Speaker 3: That's for them, young boys. Skinny jeans belong on skinny

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Speaker 3: people because when fat people put on skinny jeans, you

454
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Speaker 3: look like a waffle cone. See your stomach and stuff

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Speaker 3: hanging all over the top of the pants. You look

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Speaker 3: like a waffle cone. You can't do that. And you

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Speaker 3: get tailored clothes so that to close a tailored to

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Speaker 3: your body. You don't see what you don't do, Fellas,

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Speaker 3: listen to me. You don't go get a tailored suit

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Speaker 3: and take in a sample of a suit you want

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Speaker 3: your tailored suit to look at, because now you might

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Speaker 3: as well just buy a snowball suit. If you get

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Speaker 3: a properly tailored garment. What they can do, because I

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Speaker 3: have had the stomach issue, they will make shoulders. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I flattened it out a little bit. It still ain't

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Speaker 3: flat flat. It ain't schamam flat, but it's down enough

467
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Speaker 3: where I feel more decent about it, you know, I

468
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Speaker 3: ain't shamed or whatever. They will take your point to

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Speaker 3: point on your shoulder and increase it a little bit,

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Speaker 3: and then they can taper the front of the jacket

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Speaker 3: to give it more of a V cut while leaving

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Speaker 3: the little room in the sides where you can move along.

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Speaker 3: And you can't have tight thighs on your on your

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Speaker 3: custom suit stuff because you're too big. You're just too big,

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Speaker 3: all right.

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Speaker 1: So she just wants to tell him nicely fly.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you can't. You can't tell him nicely. You've got

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Speaker 3: to hurt him. Come out the suit on. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: you paid for that, that's custom.

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Speaker 1: Tell him nicely though.

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Speaker 3: No, No, you gotta cut a man. Y'all already know

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Speaker 3: men don't do hints. Y'all already know that. How many

483
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Speaker 3: times you drop your man to hit and he missed it?

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Speaker 1: Will do She needs to be that mean to her man, No,

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Speaker 1: not me.

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Speaker 3: Tell baby, baby, baby, them pants too tight around your thighs.

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Speaker 3: They're too tight, and the start a fire and start yeah,

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Speaker 3: show glad they ain't called Roy put up the flame

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Speaker 3: that was saying paper.

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Speaker 11: You got just tell him, baby, you wanted unkle show up.

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Speaker 1: But why is your she and app see right there?

492
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Speaker 3: Let them know you need new Taylor. All right?

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Speaker 10: Moving on last one, Celestine and Enterprise says, for Christmas,

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Speaker 10: my husband and I have booked a staycation forty five

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Speaker 10: minutes from our house. My mom will be keeping our

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Speaker 10: one year old. But she said on Christmas Day, we

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Speaker 10: need to see our child. Why is she trying to

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Speaker 10: make us feel guilty about this?

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Speaker 3: Well, it's Christmas, uh huh, And they want to see y'all,

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Speaker 3: you know, yeah, the one year old. Oh, she was

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Speaker 3: telling them that y'all need to see y'all's child on Christmas.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're just the way.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, yeah, baby don't know what's Christmas dough? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Union got to take him over there by the tree.

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Speaker 3: You ain't reg.

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Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Colo. Coming up at the top

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Speaker 1: of the hour, we'll have some entertainment news for you

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening hard morning show.

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Speaker 10: Actor Andre Brower, best known for his roles on Homicide,

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Speaker 10: Life on the Street, and Brooklyn nine nine, has died

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Speaker 10: after a recent illness. This is according to People Magazine.

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Speaker 10: He was sixty one years old. Brower won two Primetime

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Speaker 10: Emmy Awards while being nominated eleven times. That's how good

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Speaker 10: he was. He also had supporting roles in such movies

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Speaker 10: as Glory and many many more. Terry crews who starred

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Speaker 10: with Brower on Brooklyn ninety nine wrote on Instagram quote,

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Speaker 10: can't believe you're gone so soon. I'm on it to

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Speaker 10: have known you, laughed with you, worked with you, and

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Speaker 10: shared eight glorious years watching your irreplaceable talent.

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Speaker 1: This hurts.

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Speaker 10: I will be forever grateful for the experience of knowing you.

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Speaker 10: You showed me what a life well lived looks like.

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Speaker 10: Rest in peace, Andre, I love you, man. Andre is

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Speaker 10: survived by his wife and their three sons, and of course,

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Speaker 10: our deepest condolence is going out to Andre Brower's family.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Wow, what a great actor he was.

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Speaker 12: Sure.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I love Brooklyn nine nine.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Uh.

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Speaker 10: And he surprised a lot of people because he was

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Speaker 10: such a dramatic actor. People didn't know he could do

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Speaker 10: comedy so well. Yeah when he got Brooklyn nine to nine.

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Speaker 8: Good man.

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Speaker 10: And In other entertainment news, Oprah has been looking slim

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Speaker 10: and fabulous in her purple while on her media press

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Speaker 10: tours promoter movie The Color Purple Oprah told People magazine

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Speaker 10: that she does, in fact take weight loss medicine. She

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Speaker 10: says the fact that there's a medically approved prescription for

542
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Speaker 10: managing weight and staying healthier in my lifetime feels like relief,

543
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 10: like redemption, like a gift, and not something to hide

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Speaker 10: behind and once again be ridiculed for. She also said,

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Speaker 10: I'm absolutely done with the shaming from other people and

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Speaker 10: particularly myself. Oprah didn't say which weight loss medication she's taking,

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Speaker 10: but she did say it's not just about the medicine.

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Speaker 10: She has put in a lot of work to shed

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Speaker 10: the pounds, including several lifestyle changes like drinking a gallon

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Speaker 10: of water a day and having her last meal at

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Speaker 10: four pm and using the weight Watcher's point system.

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Speaker 3: So there you go. That's what Oprah is to damn

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Speaker 3: right there. I don't drink a gallon of water, a

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Speaker 3: glass meal at foe and on weight Watch A point.

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Speaker 3: So one, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Alive, Steve, you call every day?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, which I would rather be on them damn weight

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Speaker 3: Watch A point. You had a choice, Yes, I need

559
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Speaker 3: to give me some of that damn old zipic, some

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00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 3: more covey damn weight watcher points and stop eating at

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Speaker 3: four thirty and be me and Oprah because I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: tell you what I can't do. Man, I can't. I

563
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 3: can't quit eating last meal of four thirty. That can't happen. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I got to get another program. But this cold plunge,

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Speaker 3: you know, is more than a notion. I'm sitting to

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Speaker 3: be a cold right now.

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Speaker 1: And this is working.

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Speaker 3: I just you know what, Just let me just say

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Speaker 3: this to you. Cold plunge has done wonders for me.

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Speaker 3: But I can't recommend it to you. I just I

571
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Speaker 3: can't say, hey, man, you got to do this because

572
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 3: it's difficult. Now I don't love it.

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Speaker 1: I know you can't say that. Yeah, you were saying,

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Speaker 1: I can't recommend it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Every challenge, man, every challenge I see. I see people

577
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Speaker 7: put their foot in it and they back up off

578
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Speaker 7: of Yeah, they leg and they come.

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Speaker 3: Back out of it. Man. It is one of the

580
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Speaker 3: most challenging disciplines I've ever done. Physically, Yeah, yeah, this

581
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 3: is harder than me trying to run around the track,

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Speaker 3: lift weights, go to the gym. This is harder than

583
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Speaker 3: me stretching hard. I can't take a thirty second cold shower,

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Speaker 3: right I tried ten seconds. So a cold shower got

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Speaker 3: me in a an uproar. It's like when you drop

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Speaker 3: your body down in that water man at forty eight degrees,

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Speaker 3: you know, and people listen.

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Speaker 1: Eight degrees.

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Speaker 3: The science. The science says, in order for your body

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Speaker 3: to burn brown fou the science says, the water must

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Speaker 3: be a minimum fifty eight degrees, and you don't have

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Speaker 3: to go lower than fifty degrees. Mine is said at

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Speaker 3: forty eight because my tub varies a little bit. You know,

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Speaker 3: someday you wake up as fifty there some days it's

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Speaker 3: fifty one. I just I just want to do the maximum.

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Speaker 3: And science also says the minimum you have to do

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Speaker 3: in cold water submersion is three minutes. This is the science,

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Speaker 3: it's new science. And the maximum is six minutes. I've

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Speaker 3: done ten minutes before. I'll never do that again, and

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Speaker 3: ten minutes before.

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Speaker 10: So is this a lifestyle permanent change for you? Because

602
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Speaker 10: you hadn't stopped milling it since you started?

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Speaker 3: So are you for me?

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Speaker 8: It is?

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Speaker 7: I mean, go ahead, tell me, are you stiff when

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Speaker 7: you like after six minutes trying to get up out

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Speaker 7: of this?

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Speaker 1: No, that's the point.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 3: No, The most joyous moment of your day is climbing

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Speaker 3: your ass out that water.

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Speaker 10: Isn't that what That's part of what it's for, to

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Speaker 10: get the stiffness out and the inflammation and all of that.

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Speaker 3: Isn't that what I'm telling you, man? I had a

615
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Speaker 3: lot of inflammation in my body. I had leaky gut.

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Speaker 3: I had uh a sodeurn syndrome. I had UH high

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Speaker 3: trust triglycerize just whatever they call it. I had that.

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Speaker 3: I had severe sleep app neel, and I had high

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Speaker 3: blood pressure. All praise to God. And because of my

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Speaker 3: elevate you and my tenex health protocol, I have none

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Speaker 3: of those things anymore. I don't take high blood medication,

622
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 3: I don't have leaky gut. And for the first time

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Speaker 3: I've been able to lose weight. I stepped on the

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Speaker 3: scale this morning, shocked myself this morning. Wow good, Let

625
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Speaker 3: me let me let me take my inbody and put

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Speaker 3: it in your face. I gotta go though.

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Speaker 11: None of that coming up.

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Speaker 10: In twenty minutes after the hour, wonderful, We're gonna play

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Speaker 10: a round of who on the show. Right after this,

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Speaker 10: you're listening Harvey Morning Show. It is time to play

631
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Speaker 10: a quick round of who on the show. This is

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Speaker 10: where I ask you guys a series of questions, and

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00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 10: the answer is someone on the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 10: All right, we'll see who on the show is most

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Speaker 10: likely to throw a fit during a game of Monopoly?

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Speaker 3: Tommy, Tommy Steve, would Steve Steve be No, I ain't

637
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 3: gonna throw no figure. I'm a cheat. I'm gonna have

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00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 3: you money, cheat. Yeah, i ain't gonna have it. I

639
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 3: ain't gonna have to thron You turn your face on

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Speaker 3: me if you want to, you bank be gone. I

641
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 3: take money. I overpay myself. My lord, don't let me

642
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Speaker 3: be the banker because, oh dog, I licked my fingers.

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Speaker 3: I take two of the five hundreds out. Yeah, I

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Speaker 3: be bankna.

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Speaker 10: Who on the show was likely to go vegan and

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Speaker 10: give up? Who on the show is most likely to

647
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:05,759
Speaker 10: go vegan and give up?

648
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:13,719
Speaker 3: A Monica caller, Monica and caller, We ain't leaving this meat.

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Speaker 1: Who on the show is most likely to have sex outside?

650
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm talking about going out there to see.

651
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:33,840
Speaker 10: Who on the show is most likely to get a

652
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 10: tattoo while drunk?

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00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 3: M hmm.

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Speaker 7: You can't get it while you're drunk, now, that's the

655
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Speaker 7: last thing most people do, though, well, I ain't never been.

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00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:51,839
Speaker 3: Drunk, so once again, timmy don't drink no more, y'all.

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Speaker 3: My nephew really changed his life a lot. He don't

658
00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:57,440
Speaker 3: drink no more, but he got tattooed though.

659
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 1: Sleep even.

660
00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:04,720
Speaker 3: I ain't all got a tattoo.

661
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 10: One of the show is most likely to help you

662
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 10: get over a break up. That's hanging their dog your.

663
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:17,480
Speaker 11: Ass and crying.

664
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 3: So making your work it'd be hard.

665
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 1: I tried to tell you not to be with it.

666
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 1: The first placed on the show is most likely to

667
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:34,840
Speaker 1: get caught cheating.

668
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 3: Hm hmm, well, well that's a hard because yeah, blame

669
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 3: it on the single person. I'm just gonna say I've

670
00:38:56,680 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 3: probably done it most of it than anybody. But the

671
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:04,800
Speaker 3: most likely to get busted would be Junior. If he

672
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 3: ever did it, come he'd be in there talking and

673
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 3: saying the wrong stuff, so I think he would be

674
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:14,080
Speaker 3: the most likely.

675
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:15,879
Speaker 1: That's who on the show.

676
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:18,319
Speaker 10: Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll

677
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 10: check Steve's voicemail at eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve

678
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:25,359
Speaker 10: eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve. Right after this, you're

679
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:29,759
Speaker 10: listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. It is time now to

680
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 10: check Steve's voicemail eight seven seven twenty nine.

681
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 1: Steve, call him, leave a message. You might just hear

682
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 1: your call on the air, ready, Steve, Yeah, all right,

683
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:41,320
Speaker 1: here to go. This is from d Ray from Dallas.

684
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:44,400
Speaker 8: Hey, Steve Lee raised from Dallas.

685
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,480
Speaker 5: I was calling because I got him. I got a situation.

686
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:49,840
Speaker 5: I need good, older manly advice.

687
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:51,759
Speaker 8: I got a fourteen year old son.

688
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:56,600
Speaker 12: Of course he's all into girls and stiggs, and of course.

689
00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:59,719
Speaker 8: He already got him some. But even though I'm all

690
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:01,200
Speaker 8: ready he ran everything to him.

691
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:03,440
Speaker 12: I gave it to him, rollering and everything, even before

692
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:06,120
Speaker 12: he had sick. It's still not resonating to him. And

693
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 12: we all been young men before. But of course the.

694
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:10,760
Speaker 4: Divide in the house.

695
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 8: Is me, him and his mama.

696
00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:16,399
Speaker 12: But I get what I'm owns me and as we say,

697
00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 12: man is kind of that's a tricky one. But I

698
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:22,560
Speaker 12: also started to think to myself as the advice I

699
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 12: keep getting some other men that have teenagers or acclaim

700
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:29,320
Speaker 12: it's like the world is transversing into man. It's just

701
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 12: reality and you just got to let it happen. And

702
00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 12: I thought we were supposed to be raising these boys

703
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:36,719
Speaker 12: to be better than what we do because everybody keeps

704
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:39,759
Speaker 12: telling me what was you doing when you know how

705
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 12: it is? And I'm like, damn, but is that what

706
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 12: we're supposed to stick with? And it's becoming a big

707
00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 12: problem in the house to where you know, Mammy and

708
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:50,400
Speaker 12: Daddy more Mama really want to kick him at the

709
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 12: house to you know, and all that old type of stuff.

710
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:55,600
Speaker 12: And I'm just confused on it, and I don't know

711
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 12: what to do.

712
00:40:56,600 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 8: So I need your help. Oh help, I got you, ma'am.

713
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:08,360
Speaker 3: If you're a father currently and you have sons, this

714
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 3: is the dilemma. This is the dilemma because you know

715
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 3: what the proving marker is for all boys, and that

716
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 3: is girls. And if you're a heterosexual man, you want

717
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 3: your son quite naturally to gravitate that way towards him girls.

718
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:31,239
Speaker 3: But here is the dilemma. Even though you know it's

719
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 3: going to happen, you don't have to push him in

720
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 3: that direction for it to happen so early, and you

721
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 3: don't have to condone it and reward it, because that's

722
00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:46,800
Speaker 3: a dangerous thing to do, especially at fourteen, because this

723
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:50,240
Speaker 3: boy don't even have the capability of understanding the ramifications

724
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:53,240
Speaker 3: of it all. And even what it means at fourteen,

725
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 3: he's just doing some reactionary stuff because of all of us.

726
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:59,520
Speaker 3: If you remember your first time with the girl, just

727
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 3: think back when the actual moment happened that the whole

728
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:07,360
Speaker 3: thing was supposed to It was rather confusing. You didn't

729
00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:11,760
Speaker 3: really know what was going on. Your body was trembling.

730
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:14,080
Speaker 3: All of a sudden, your hair stood up on your head,

731
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 3: and you were just as confused and you didn't know

732
00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 3: what was going on. So what I decided to do

733
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:23,319
Speaker 3: was to raise my sons and tell them this, look, man,

734
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 3: this is the life you should live as a respectful man.

735
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 3: To be respectful for young girls. Do not go out

736
00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 3: here and do anything you want with these girls and

737
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,040
Speaker 3: then lead these girls hold in the bag. You go

738
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 3: off to college, pursue your dreams, and this young girl

739
00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:39,919
Speaker 3: sitting here with a baby trying to make it work.

740
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:42,480
Speaker 3: I said, bruh, don't do that, and I've tried to

741
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:46,239
Speaker 3: talk to them about that. At the same time, you

742
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 3: know that the world we live in, they are going

743
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 3: to partake in it. It's no way to avoid this

744
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:55,440
Speaker 3: with your children. Because they got the Internet, they got

745
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 3: peer pressure, They go to school every day, they spend

746
00:42:57,719 --> 00:42:59,600
Speaker 3: more time away from you than they do with you.

747
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:02,400
Speaker 3: So all you can do is hope that your teachings

748
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:06,360
Speaker 3: resonate with them while they await, and then prepare yourself

749
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 3: for the mistakes that they are going to make. And

750
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:12,359
Speaker 3: they are all going to make mistakes, and you will

751
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:14,320
Speaker 3: feel horrible about it, and you will think of this

752
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:17,360
Speaker 3: as your reflection on you as parenting, but it's not.

753
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:20,239
Speaker 3: It's not reflective of you as a parent. You can

754
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 3: teach your children the right way all you want, they

755
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 3: gonna go out here and make a decision that goes

756
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 3: counter to everything you've ever told them. So it's a dilemma.

757
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 3: But putting your boy out the house is not the solution.

758
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:34,279
Speaker 3: And I don't know where she coming with that. If

759
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 3: you think putting them out your house is the solution,

760
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:39,880
Speaker 3: you sadly mistaken about that. Because this boy out here

761
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:42,600
Speaker 3: got active at fourteen, you're gonna put him out? Well,

762
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:45,600
Speaker 3: what you're thinking have now? So you got to talk

763
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:47,719
Speaker 3: to your boy about respect. You got to get him

764
00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 3: to understand the way to treat women. And that's it.

765
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:55,279
Speaker 3: It's a tough one, but you got a state of course,

766
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:57,000
Speaker 3: But raise your son is the right way man. Tell

767
00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:59,040
Speaker 3: them the right thing. How to be respectful of women,

768
00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:01,839
Speaker 3: you know, because you got to remember two. You don't

769
00:44:01,840 --> 00:44:06,359
Speaker 3: want nobody doing your daughter like that, dude, right, all right,

770
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:10,920
Speaker 3: so raise your boys accordingly and the whole protection conversation.

771
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:15,319
Speaker 3: All right, world, all.

772
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Speaker 10: Right, great advice, Steve. Coming up next, it is the

773
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:22,239
Speaker 10: Nephew with today's prank phone call. Right after this, you're listening.

774
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 1: Morning show.

775
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 10: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about

776
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:29,800
Speaker 10: four minutes after, it's my Strawberry letter for today, and

777
00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 10: the subject is trying to get through the holidays. We'll

778
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 10: get into that in just a few find out what

779
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 10: that's all about. But right now it is time for

780
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:39,799
Speaker 10: the Nephew. He is here with today's prank phone call.

781
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:42,720
Speaker 7: What you got for us, nep Well, you know, sometimes

782
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:44,800
Speaker 7: you gotta say it, you know, sometimes you got to

783
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:46,800
Speaker 7: get it off your chest. Sometimes you just got to

784
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 7: give somebody a phone call.

785
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:50,480
Speaker 3: You just gotta let them know. You just gotta say it.

786
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:54,920
Speaker 7: What we're saying, say what I love your wife.

787
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:56,040
Speaker 8: Oh, you.

788
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:01,160
Speaker 1: Just gotta say no, you just trying to say.

789
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:03,480
Speaker 7: I mean, you know, it's been on, it's been heavily

790
00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 7: on my mind. But the last year or two I

791
00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:10,400
Speaker 7: love your wife or than you. I mean, it's just,

792
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:11,359
Speaker 7: it's just fact.

793
00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:14,040
Speaker 3: It's a lot of nerves.

794
00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 1: A audastiny.

795
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 7: I've been, I've been, I've been. I mean we've been.

796
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 7: We've been going ourselves at lunch at work. You know,

797
00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:25,640
Speaker 7: I've been sending money over there. I'm taking care of

798
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:26,879
Speaker 7: you when you're getting laid off.

799
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:30,880
Speaker 1: The most, aren't you.

800
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:31,439
Speaker 8: Yeah?

801
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm keeping the lights on over there. Let's go,

802
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:34,799
Speaker 7: cat dog.

803
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 8: Hello. Hey, I'm trying to I'm trying to track that's right.

804
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,239
Speaker 8: Who is this, hey, Trey? How you doing? Man? This

805
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:45,279
Speaker 8: is Milton. I work at your wife, Terese Milton. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,

806
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:47,319
Speaker 8: you've probably heard of me before. I've been been at

807
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 8: the job probably about five years now. She ever mentioned me.

808
00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:53,760
Speaker 5: No, I don't no milking, what's going on? Everything?

809
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:58,400
Speaker 8: Everything's good, Everything is good. Hey, listen, I wanted to

810
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:02,880
Speaker 8: have a conversation with you. Man. I don't really know

811
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:06,320
Speaker 8: how to spring this on you or whatever. But like

812
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:08,399
Speaker 8: I said, I've been working at this spot for five

813
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 8: years and been on Teresa probably like around three. And

814
00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:16,040
Speaker 8: I guess what I really want to say is that

815
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 8: I didn't I didn't gain some feelings for Tcha and

816
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:22,239
Speaker 8: oh yeah, whoa whoa, whoa, whoa whoa wah who whoa

817
00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:24,640
Speaker 8: wo holong hold on, man, holo, holo.

818
00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 4: You're calling me and you're telling me right now you

819
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:31,320
Speaker 4: have feelings for my wife, who you work with, and

820
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:34,320
Speaker 4: you like Teresa because that is my wife. You have

821
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:35,359
Speaker 4: feelings for my wife?

822
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:37,719
Speaker 8: Is that correct? Yeah? You know it took me a

823
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 8: while to come forward and say this, but you know

824
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 8: I'm man enough now and I feel like me and

825
00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:46,719
Speaker 8: you need to talk about it. Have you lost your mind? No, No,

826
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:50,040
Speaker 8: I haven't. Have you got your mind now? Listen, I'm

827
00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:51,800
Speaker 8: just letting you know. Today is the day that I

828
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:54,480
Speaker 8: decided I'm not carrying this weight on my shoulders no more.

829
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 8: I'm getting it off of me, all right. And at

830
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:59,279
Speaker 8: the end of the day, I love your wife more

831
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:05,920
Speaker 8: than you do. What I I love your wife more than.

832
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:09,920
Speaker 4: You two bright so you would how long you've been

833
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:11,960
Speaker 4: loving my wife? You tell me how long you've been

834
00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:12,680
Speaker 4: loving my How long?

835
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:13,759
Speaker 8: How long you feel that.

836
00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:15,239
Speaker 4: You have been in love with my wife?

837
00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 8: I mean I'm looking at I know, I know, I

838
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:18,560
Speaker 8: know at least too.

839
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:21,840
Speaker 4: Does my wife even know this?

840
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 8: I mean, I'm sure she's aware of to a certain

841
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:27,320
Speaker 8: extent to a certain extent. What what?

842
00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:29,279
Speaker 4: How how certain of the extent are we talking?

843
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 8: I mean, you know when we go to lunch together,

844
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 8: she you know, I mean, I'm sure she know, y'all.

845
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:36,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're going to lunch together. How long y'all been

846
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 4: going with lunch together?

847
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:38,920
Speaker 8: Bro, we were going to lunch together at least at

848
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 8: least two and a half years. I mean we go

849
00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:42,400
Speaker 8: to lunch together almost every day. I mean we might

850
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:44,440
Speaker 8: miss the day if she go with the girls, I

851
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:46,520
Speaker 8: go with the fellows, so be it. But for the

852
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:48,520
Speaker 8: most part, me and her, me and her pretty much

853
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 8: at lunch together. God, I need a.

854
00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 4: Bro stayed the hell away from my wife, Bro, I

855
00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:59,920
Speaker 4: needed the back up her. Ain't no one because you

856
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:02,839
Speaker 4: he didn't talked enough that you didn't talk enough. Ain't

857
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:04,799
Speaker 4: no more in love, ain't no more state. You need

858
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:08,400
Speaker 4: to stay this back period, say the back man. I

859
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:11,280
Speaker 4: don't want to hear none of that, nothing, nothing, nothing

860
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:12,400
Speaker 4: at all, because.

861
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 8: Come on, b listen, listen. I know all about you,

862
00:48:17,239 --> 00:48:20,799
Speaker 8: trade everything about it, all right. I already know how

863
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:21,480
Speaker 8: you treat her.

864
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:22,359
Speaker 5: All right.

865
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:25,919
Speaker 4: I'm hot, right, I'm feeling like a strong sense station

866
00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:27,800
Speaker 4: right now because I really want to reach through the

867
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 4: phone and just some break through the neck right now, That's.

868
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:31,320
Speaker 8: What I really want to do.

869
00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 4: That's what I really want to do.

870
00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:35,440
Speaker 8: And why is my wife talking about business outside of

871
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 8: our household?

872
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 5: That's what I'm trying to figure out.

873
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 8: Hey, all I'm saying is when we go to lunch,

874
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 8: she let me know how she's feeling. She let me

875
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:42,279
Speaker 8: know what she's going through.

876
00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:45,439
Speaker 4: Let me stops time with that lunch. Bro, I don't

877
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:47,759
Speaker 4: want to hear another damn thing about lunch. Bro, ain't

878
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 4: no more lunch. It's from here on out, bro calling

879
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:52,160
Speaker 4: me talking about you in along with my wife. People

880
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 4: taking what.

881
00:48:55,200 --> 00:49:02,480
Speaker 8: He's a milicin im You there, man, man, listen, calm

882
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:04,680
Speaker 8: down with all that energy you got going on like

883
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 8: you're gonna do something.

884
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:09,680
Speaker 4: You're not time down? What you not nothing to work?

885
00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:12,200
Speaker 8: You're not You're not finna do nothing on you right

886
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:12,839
Speaker 8: right now, Bro.

887
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:14,680
Speaker 5: I'm my teams white now some where you're at right

888
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:16,080
Speaker 5: right now, bro, right now?

889
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:19,080
Speaker 8: So how about how about when you got laid off,

890
00:49:19,080 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 8: when you was off for six months and she was

891
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:23,200
Speaker 8: carrying all the all the waiting pan, all the fields.

892
00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:27,520
Speaker 8: You ain't jump all right, Ben?

893
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:29,920
Speaker 4: You know you know everything.

894
00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 8: I bet you know.

895
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 4: I got a too.

896
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 5: So all you need to know is all you need

897
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:34,360
Speaker 5: to know.

898
00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:38,319
Speaker 4: Is bright Get done, bro, get done, Bro, Come down, bro.

899
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:39,920
Speaker 8: You know what what.

900
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 4: Folk talk about? That he would my wife saying that

901
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 4: he'll love it, talking about lunches.

902
00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:50,560
Speaker 8: So the hell up. While we in, you can thank

903
00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:52,960
Speaker 8: me for the twitter. For the suit that you got

904
00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 8: for Christmas. You can thank me for that. I picked

905
00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 8: it out and I paid for it.

906
00:49:57,280 --> 00:49:59,560
Speaker 4: Okay, a word, okay, cool?

907
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 5: Cool?

908
00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:01,279
Speaker 8: All right? Cool?

909
00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:03,720
Speaker 4: Well let me go into the project right now.

910
00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:05,400
Speaker 8: Right now, all right?

911
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 4: You talking about the great Suster stuff?

912
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 8: What you thought about boot? Right here with this boot?

913
00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 4: Anyway?

914
00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 5: I don't like this.

915
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:16,799
Speaker 8: I'm not now you don't like the suit. You don't

916
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 8: want to suit? Three times now you don't like it.

917
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:21,919
Speaker 8: Told me at lunch when you don't want to sue dude.

918
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:26,160
Speaker 8: I'm swear to God, I swear to God. I need

919
00:50:26,239 --> 00:50:28,759
Speaker 8: to talk to my wife. Man, I need to talk

920
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:29,319
Speaker 8: to my wife.

921
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:31,240
Speaker 5: I needn't talk to my wife because.

922
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 8: I man, listen, you know what, I just couldn't hold

923
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 8: this back. No more me living behind in the shadows,

924
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:41,760
Speaker 8: and but I'm over here kicking money out to Teresa

925
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 8: when she needed while you was laid off. I'm helping out.

926
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 8: I'm going you know I'm doing I'm doing too.

927
00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:51,320
Speaker 4: Much on money, Bert, So you was getting the money.

928
00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:53,319
Speaker 4: You're kicking the money when I was laid off.

929
00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:56,560
Speaker 8: You're kicking the money, dude. Somebody had to step up,

930
00:50:56,600 --> 00:50:58,520
Speaker 8: man to me and Teresa's tight, so you know, I

931
00:50:58,600 --> 00:50:59,879
Speaker 8: just try to step in and help her out.

932
00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 4: So you give me my wife money?

933
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:04,080
Speaker 5: Is what you're saying.

934
00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:06,400
Speaker 8: Do you want me to make you feel better about

935
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:07,919
Speaker 8: the whole time? You want to make you feel better.

936
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:10,399
Speaker 4: You ain't need to make me feel better about it. Man,

937
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 4: I'm gonna do is talk about wife. That's all I

938
00:51:14,640 --> 00:51:15,759
Speaker 4: got to do is talk to my wife.

939
00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:18,399
Speaker 8: That's that's fine. But can I say something that will

940
00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:21,840
Speaker 8: make you feel better? What I'm gonna say this to you?

941
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:22,280
Speaker 3: Trade.

942
00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 8: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

943
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:33,279
Speaker 8: Your wife Teresa gotten me the breakfone colle you wait

944
00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:38,719
Speaker 8: what hey? This is timy Man. This nephew Steve Harb

945
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 8: Morning Show, Steve Harvey Show. Br br you got.

946
00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:55,440
Speaker 4: Bro, don't do that. Bro, you gotta stop that, Timmy,

947
00:51:55,480 --> 00:51:59,239
Speaker 4: Come on now, come on, you gotta stop. My heart

948
00:51:59,320 --> 00:51:59,680
Speaker 4: is breaking.

949
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:03,160
Speaker 8: I'm what. Oh now, hey, I gotta ask you this.

950
00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:04,880
Speaker 8: You got to tell me what is the baddest and

951
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:09,080
Speaker 8: I mean the baddest radio show in the lane. It's

952
00:52:09,120 --> 00:52:12,720
Speaker 8: a Steve show, got to be I think.

953
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:14,400
Speaker 3: He was a little upset. I'm sorry.

954
00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:15,600
Speaker 1: I think you think thank you.

955
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:16,120
Speaker 3: Yeah.

956
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 8: Yeah.

957
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:19,799
Speaker 3: I just find you to be one of the more

958
00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:24,320
Speaker 3: ignorant people in our family, and sometimes me just talking

959
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 3: to you remind me that we are related. Because dog,

960
00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:32,120
Speaker 3: I hurt you about that type of call. But did

961
00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:33,439
Speaker 3: you enjoy the call?

962
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:36,680
Speaker 7: That's what it's about. It's not about that man's feelings

963
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:39,200
Speaker 7: and how he felt and all of that. It's about

964
00:52:39,239 --> 00:52:41,680
Speaker 7: people riding in the car listening to this. People enjoyed that.

965
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 7: What we're talking about here, Let's let's not get away

966
00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:47,120
Speaker 7: from what we're trying to do here. People, what's going on?

967
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:53,680
Speaker 1: You were saying, Steve, you know what, I'm not gonna

968
00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:53,840
Speaker 1: do this.

969
00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:55,960
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna do it with you.

970
00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:58,759
Speaker 7: This weekend Nate Jackson's Super Funny Car I don't know

971
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 7: Washington Friday's had this Sunday Nate Jackson's Super Funny Comedy Club.

972
00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:07,440
Speaker 7: The Nephew is there all weekend long. Got a few

973
00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:09,600
Speaker 7: tickets left, Come hang out with your boy and laying

974
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:14,120
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975
00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:17,360
Speaker 7: That's January twelfth through the fourteenth, and one of everybody's

976
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Speaker 7: talking about February third, the New York City Winery. The

977
00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:25,600
Speaker 7: Nephew is coming Manhattan. You can make it in New York.

978
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:27,560
Speaker 7: You can make it anywhere. See if I can go

979
00:53:27,760 --> 00:53:28,000
Speaker 7: make it?

980
00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:31,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Nephew coming up next.

981
00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 10: It is my Strawberry Letter for today and the subject

982
00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:36,360
Speaker 10: is trying to get through the holidays.

983
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:38,640
Speaker 1: We'll get into that right after this.

984
00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:44,000
Speaker 10: You're listening Dave Hardy Morning Show. It's time now for

985
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:49,840
Speaker 10: today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, works, sex, parenting,

986
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:52,879
Speaker 10: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey

987
00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:55,120
Speaker 10: FM and click submit Strawberry Letter.

988
00:53:55,520 --> 00:53:57,480
Speaker 1: We could be reading your letter live on.

989
00:53:57,640 --> 00:53:59,880
Speaker 10: The air, just like we're gonna read this one right here,

990
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:02,800
Speaker 10: right now, and you never know, it could be yours.

991
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:05,319
Speaker 3: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on time.

992
00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:07,839
Speaker 3: We got it for you. Here. It is Strawberry Letter.

993
00:54:08,120 --> 00:54:08,400
Speaker 4: Thank you.

994
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:12,440
Speaker 10: Nephew's subject trying to get through the holidays. Dear Stephen Shirley,

995
00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:15,359
Speaker 10: I'm in love with another man, and I just need

996
00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:18,200
Speaker 10: to make it through the holidays with my current boyfriend

997
00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:20,759
Speaker 10: so I can dump him and get with the new guy.

998
00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:23,800
Speaker 10: But I need your advice before I let a sure

999
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:26,919
Speaker 10: thing go and move on to a fairy tale lover.

1000
00:54:27,520 --> 00:54:30,239
Speaker 10: I don't want to leave my current boyfriend just yet,

1001
00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:33,520
Speaker 10: because he is getting my breaks fixed on my car

1002
00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 10: and he's getting me a bracelet that I want for Christmas.

1003
00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:39,879
Speaker 10: I already saw it hiding in his drawer, so I'm

1004
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:43,200
Speaker 10: doing all I can to stay faithful until the new year.

1005
00:54:43,719 --> 00:54:44,799
Speaker 1: My new man is in a.

1006
00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:49,439
Speaker 10: Similar situation, but he's married. He advised me to stay

1007
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:52,480
Speaker 10: put while he lets his marriage fizzle on out. He

1008
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 10: and his wife don't have any children, so he can

1009
00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:58,680
Speaker 10: make a clean break. We've been looking at apartments together,

1010
00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:01,120
Speaker 10: but I told him we might be moving too soon

1011
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:02,360
Speaker 10: by choosing to.

1012
00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:03,160
Speaker 1: Move in together.

1013
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:06,200
Speaker 10: I agree that I will put the apartment and all

1014
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:10,399
Speaker 10: of the utilities in my name until his divorce is finalized.

1015
00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 10: I told my sister about my excitement over the new guy,

1016
00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:16,719
Speaker 10: and she wanted to meet him, but he said it's

1017
00:55:16,840 --> 00:55:19,960
Speaker 10: best to not invite family into our messed up situation

1018
00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:23,520
Speaker 10: until he's out of his marriage. My sister took that

1019
00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:26,000
Speaker 10: as a bad sign, that he's going to have me

1020
00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:29,399
Speaker 10: staying in an apartment all by myself and he's going

1021
00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:31,239
Speaker 10: to come over and have sex with me and go

1022
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:33,959
Speaker 10: right back to his wife. I don't think that's the case,

1023
00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:37,600
Speaker 10: because this guy is the one that initiated everything.

1024
00:55:37,880 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 1: He pursued me and told me I deserve to be

1025
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:41,160
Speaker 1: treated like a queen.

1026
00:55:41,480 --> 00:55:44,880
Speaker 10: Meanwhile, my boyfriend does not take me out anymore, and

1027
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:47,759
Speaker 10: he never wants to have sex. All he does is

1028
00:55:47,840 --> 00:55:50,160
Speaker 10: ask me to be patient with him because he's working

1029
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:52,760
Speaker 10: on a master plan for us. It's been three years

1030
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:55,320
Speaker 10: and he's not even ready to live together. Do I

1031
00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:58,719
Speaker 10: start twenty twenty four with my prince or stay with

1032
00:55:59,040 --> 00:55:59,720
Speaker 10: this bump?

1033
00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 1: All right?

1034
00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:03,840
Speaker 10: I know we've said this before about a lot of

1035
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:06,279
Speaker 10: strawberry letters, but I think this is one of the

1036
00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:10,239
Speaker 10: truly dumbest letters we've had. And I hope the men

1037
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:13,520
Speaker 10: that are listening don't think all women are like this, because.

1038
00:56:13,280 --> 00:56:13,840
Speaker 6: We are not.

1039
00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:18,160
Speaker 10: It's wrong what you're doing to your current boyfriend, who

1040
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:20,560
Speaker 10: doesn't take you out anymore, who doesn't want to have

1041
00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:23,320
Speaker 10: sex with you. Maybe he knows about the man that

1042
00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:26,440
Speaker 10: you have, this married man. I just say, if you

1043
00:56:26,560 --> 00:56:29,719
Speaker 10: don't want your boyfriend let him go. You ask for

1044
00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:33,040
Speaker 10: advice about leaving your current boyfriend before you let a

1045
00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:33,800
Speaker 10: sure thing go.

1046
00:56:34,480 --> 00:56:36,440
Speaker 6: And here it is.

1047
00:56:36,800 --> 00:56:39,840
Speaker 10: I mean, he said he's just waiting for his marriage

1048
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:42,520
Speaker 10: to fizzle out. I mean, do you hear how stupid

1049
00:56:42,600 --> 00:56:46,880
Speaker 10: that sounds. There's no end date, no nothing, no papers

1050
00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:49,880
Speaker 10: in the works, nothing. Then you volunteer to put the

1051
00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:52,799
Speaker 10: apartment in all of the utilities in your name.

1052
00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 1: Now, why would you do that?

1053
00:56:54,600 --> 00:56:57,320
Speaker 10: Why would you do that for a man who's married.

1054
00:56:57,760 --> 00:56:59,960
Speaker 10: You said he pursued you and said you should be

1055
00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:03,000
Speaker 10: treated like a queen. Well, yes you should, we all should,

1056
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:06,560
Speaker 10: but this is not queen treatment. A queen wouldn't accept

1057
00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:09,879
Speaker 10: any of this mess. There are way too many red

1058
00:57:09,960 --> 00:57:12,440
Speaker 10: flags here. Your sister saw them right away when he

1059
00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:14,879
Speaker 10: said he didn't want to meet her until he got

1060
00:57:14,920 --> 00:57:17,440
Speaker 10: out of his marriage. That sounded like a cop out

1061
00:57:17,520 --> 00:57:20,760
Speaker 10: to her, but not to you. You are still making

1062
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:24,760
Speaker 10: excuses for him. Listen, this married man is gonna do

1063
00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 10: just what your sister said. I if he's that into you,

1064
00:57:29,480 --> 00:57:32,520
Speaker 10: then then why not get out of his marriage then

1065
00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:35,600
Speaker 10: get with you, and you should back off until he

1066
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:39,280
Speaker 10: gets out of his marriage. You're talking about making all

1067
00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:42,680
Speaker 10: these moves and he's not available. Okay, he is not

1068
00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:45,400
Speaker 10: available for you to do this right now, so don't

1069
00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:46,840
Speaker 10: do it, Steve.

1070
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:54,000
Speaker 3: I'm so sick, I'm tired, I'm tied. I'm gonna just

1071
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:56,520
Speaker 3: tell you all right now, after I do this strawberry letter,

1072
00:57:57,320 --> 00:57:59,720
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go in there and lay down, you know,

1073
00:58:00,320 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 3: because I'm tired. I don't know what to keep telling y'all.

1074
00:58:06,880 --> 00:58:12,080
Speaker 3: I don't know why y'all keep trying me. But today today,

1075
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:18,320
Speaker 3: though today ain't today, I ain't the one fault today.

1076
00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:23,120
Speaker 3: Let's just get into it. I'm telling you nothing but raw,

1077
00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:32,880
Speaker 3: raw truth, a w truth. I'm in love with another man, Okay.

1078
00:58:33,880 --> 00:58:36,360
Speaker 3: I just need to make it through the holidays with

1079
00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 3: my current boyfriend so I can dump him and get

1080
00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:45,520
Speaker 3: with the new guy. Wow, this letter got stupid wrote

1081
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:49,600
Speaker 3: on it so far because right now we just talking

1082
00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:52,920
Speaker 3: about a boyfriend. This ain't even a marriage, and I

1083
00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:55,240
Speaker 3: can dump him to get the new guy. But I

1084
00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:57,600
Speaker 3: need your advice and hear where I come here at

1085
00:58:58,240 --> 00:59:01,240
Speaker 3: Before I let a sure thing go and move on

1086
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:05,720
Speaker 3: to a fairy tale level. So we gonna let go

1087
00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:07,800
Speaker 3: of the sure thing to go to the fairy tale level.

1088
00:59:07,840 --> 00:59:09,520
Speaker 3: But let's find out a little bit about this show

1089
00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:12,600
Speaker 3: thing in this fairy tale level. I don't want to leave.

1090
00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:15,960
Speaker 3: Listen to this reason right here. I don't want to

1091
00:59:16,040 --> 00:59:19,800
Speaker 3: leave my card boyfriend just yet because he's getting my

1092
00:59:19,960 --> 00:59:22,800
Speaker 3: breaks fixed on my car and he give me a

1093
00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:27,480
Speaker 3: bracelet I want for Christmas. I'll be damn, Your damn

1094
00:59:27,640 --> 00:59:30,520
Speaker 3: whole life is hanging on some breaks and a bracelet.

1095
00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:36,200
Speaker 3: You done put your life on hold so you can

1096
00:59:36,320 --> 00:59:41,800
Speaker 3: get some breaks and a bracelet. I'm gonna tell you

1097
00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:44,800
Speaker 3: right now you ain't worth a damn I'm just gonna

1098
00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:49,160
Speaker 3: tell you that you're not. You are so cheap you're

1099
00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:57,160
Speaker 3: worth a set of breaks and a bracelet. Girl, I

1100
00:59:57,240 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 3: already saw it hiding in this drawer. So I'm doing

1101
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:02,880
Speaker 3: and all I can to be stay faithful until.

1102
01:00:02,720 --> 01:00:03,320
Speaker 8: The new year.

1103
01:00:05,520 --> 01:00:07,800
Speaker 3: But you're gonna ride it out. You're gonna stay faithful

1104
01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:11,040
Speaker 3: for the embracelet and breaks. That's all it take to

1105
01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 3: B and B break bracelet boyfriend. Rachel through the.

1106
01:00:21,720 --> 01:00:23,680
Speaker 10: Well that part she will be your response coming up

1107
01:00:23,680 --> 01:00:28,800
Speaker 10: at twenty three minutes after the subject of today's strawberry

1108
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:31,520
Speaker 10: letter trying to get through the holidays. We'll get back

1109
01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:37,280
Speaker 10: into this right after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show.

1110
01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:40,640
Speaker 10: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

1111
01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:43,240
Speaker 10: The subject is trying to get through the holidays.

1112
01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:46,720
Speaker 3: This ignorant strawberry letter is about a woman that's trying

1113
01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:48,560
Speaker 3: to get through the straw just trying to get through

1114
01:00:48,600 --> 01:00:51,160
Speaker 3: the holidays because she in love with another man, but

1115
01:00:51,280 --> 01:00:53,840
Speaker 3: she don't want to leave her boyfriend yet because she

1116
01:00:53,920 --> 01:00:57,000
Speaker 3: can't dump him just yet, because she need advice. But

1117
01:00:57,160 --> 01:00:59,120
Speaker 3: now she say, before I let a sure thing go

1118
01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:01,680
Speaker 3: and move on to a fairy tale lover here, why

1119
01:01:01,800 --> 01:01:05,840
Speaker 3: she don't wanta leave her current boyfriend? You ready? Because

1120
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:08,600
Speaker 3: he getting my breaks fixed on my car and he

1121
01:01:08,720 --> 01:01:13,640
Speaker 3: gonna get me a bracelet I want for Christmas? That is, Hey,

1122
01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:16,680
Speaker 3: y'all out there that's got real lives. How many y'all

1123
01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:19,240
Speaker 3: willing to hold your life up for a break job

1124
01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:23,400
Speaker 3: in a bracelet? How many of y'all f in they

1125
01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:27,240
Speaker 3: delay your happiness and what you really want over some breaks?

1126
01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:31,480
Speaker 3: Probably just need some new pants at a bracelet already

1127
01:01:31,560 --> 01:01:33,920
Speaker 3: saw it hiding in this drawer. So I'm doing all

1128
01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:36,760
Speaker 3: I can to stay faithful until the new year. He

1129
01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:39,000
Speaker 3: was just laying in the drawer. It wasn't in the

1130
01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:44,360
Speaker 3: box or nothing. Your bracelet hot. That's a lot of

1131
01:01:44,440 --> 01:01:48,360
Speaker 3: bracelet if you drawers just laying in the drawer, you

1132
01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:50,360
Speaker 3: don't see it in no velvet box or nothing. Your

1133
01:01:50,400 --> 01:01:55,400
Speaker 3: bracelet hot. He just got that out the pawn shopping.

1134
01:01:55,480 --> 01:01:57,640
Speaker 3: When they find it, they gonna take your bracelet from me.

1135
01:02:01,080 --> 01:02:05,720
Speaker 3: My new man is in a similar situation, but he married.

1136
01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:12,920
Speaker 3: Miter got done. Wow breaks bracelets, break up and boyfriend

1137
01:02:13,040 --> 01:02:16,560
Speaker 3: the folk bees. Here we go. My new man is

1138
01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:20,200
Speaker 3: in a similar situation, but he married. He advised me

1139
01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:24,640
Speaker 3: to stay put while he lets his marriage fizzle on out.

1140
01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:30,280
Speaker 3: What what do that mean? What does that mean? I'm

1141
01:02:30,280 --> 01:02:35,240
Speaker 3: gonna let my marriage fizzle on out? Girl? This ain't

1142
01:02:35,280 --> 01:02:40,240
Speaker 3: a birthday coundle. You can't just wait til your marriage

1143
01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:43,160
Speaker 3: fizzle out. This ain't one of them sparkless we used

1144
01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:45,560
Speaker 3: to have when we was kids. You know you lighting

1145
01:02:45,680 --> 01:02:48,840
Speaker 3: you waved around till it fizzle out. This is marriage.

1146
01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:55,240
Speaker 3: This ain't no damn fire cracker. This is marriage. He

1147
01:02:55,320 --> 01:02:57,720
Speaker 3: can't just let it fizzle out. He got to go

1148
01:02:57,840 --> 01:03:00,880
Speaker 3: to court and they got some for your little fizzle

1149
01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:02,680
Speaker 3: out ass playing. I can tell you that right now

1150
01:03:02,760 --> 01:03:05,880
Speaker 3: I've been dying. Now tell about you gonna let it

1151
01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:08,040
Speaker 3: fizzle out. They're gonna help your ass out, is what

1152
01:03:08,120 --> 01:03:11,680
Speaker 3: they finn to do. This been the cost this hay,

1153
01:03:11,760 --> 01:03:14,560
Speaker 3: You don't let marriage fizzle out. He and his wife

1154
01:03:14,600 --> 01:03:17,400
Speaker 3: don't have any children, so he can make a clean break.

1155
01:03:18,520 --> 01:03:23,600
Speaker 3: What what did you say you think? Cause ain't no

1156
01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:27,680
Speaker 3: kids involved, you can make a clean break, girl. Bye.

1157
01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:31,120
Speaker 3: We've been looking at apartments together, but I told him

1158
01:03:31,160 --> 01:03:33,600
Speaker 3: we might be moving too soon by choosing to move

1159
01:03:33,680 --> 01:03:37,400
Speaker 3: in together. He not moving in with you. All y'all

1160
01:03:37,520 --> 01:03:41,000
Speaker 3: been doing is looking at apartments. He can't move in

1161
01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:45,680
Speaker 3: with you cause the marriage ain't fizzled. Our check, it's

1162
01:03:45,800 --> 01:03:52,800
Speaker 3: still sparkling. Show dumb self. I agreed that I will

1163
01:03:52,880 --> 01:03:55,520
Speaker 3: put the apartment in all the utilities in my name

1164
01:03:55,640 --> 01:03:58,640
Speaker 3: until his divorce is finalized. They ain't gonna stay in

1165
01:03:58,760 --> 01:04:06,520
Speaker 3: your name even if he do get a divorce. Who

1166
01:04:06,560 --> 01:04:12,280
Speaker 3: who switched? Who switched names on apartments and electric bills

1167
01:04:12,360 --> 01:04:15,640
Speaker 3: and all that? Girl? I can't believe you this signat

1168
01:04:16,440 --> 01:04:19,120
Speaker 3: I told my sister about my excitement over the new guy,

1169
01:04:19,400 --> 01:04:21,400
Speaker 3: and she wanted to meet me, but he said it's

1170
01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:24,160
Speaker 3: best not to invite family into our messed up situation.

1171
01:04:24,560 --> 01:04:27,840
Speaker 3: That's a true statement until he's out of his marriage.

1172
01:04:28,080 --> 01:04:32,840
Speaker 3: My sister took that as a bad sign. Your sister

1173
01:04:32,920 --> 01:04:39,120
Speaker 3: stupid too. She took the fact that he didn't want

1174
01:04:39,160 --> 01:04:42,640
Speaker 3: to meet her as a bad sign. You don't think

1175
01:04:42,720 --> 01:04:46,560
Speaker 3: the bad sign is he married? That ain't That ain't

1176
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:51,160
Speaker 3: a bad sign. Also, y'all, y'all think the bad sign

1177
01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:56,520
Speaker 3: is he didn't want to meet you. The bad sign

1178
01:04:56,760 --> 01:05:00,280
Speaker 3: is he married, and he told you he ain't no

1179
01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:05,640
Speaker 3: his marriage to fizzle out. They ain't got no kids yet,

1180
01:05:05,680 --> 01:05:08,760
Speaker 3: so they're gonna make a clean break. Let me show

1181
01:05:08,760 --> 01:05:10,920
Speaker 3: you how this marriage fit in a fizzle. She fit

1182
01:05:11,040 --> 01:05:15,960
Speaker 3: to get pregnant because the wife don't know nothing about this.

1183
01:05:16,600 --> 01:05:19,720
Speaker 3: This is him telling you that the marriage is fizzling out.

1184
01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:22,080
Speaker 3: I promise you that the wife's sitting over there thinking

1185
01:05:22,120 --> 01:05:25,760
Speaker 3: everything is honky doing. I promise you that. I promise

1186
01:05:25,840 --> 01:05:28,720
Speaker 3: you that all men that's married that's trying to have

1187
01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:31,240
Speaker 3: an affair with a woman gonna tell him something wrong

1188
01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:36,200
Speaker 3: at the house. That's the opening line because we play

1189
01:05:36,280 --> 01:05:38,720
Speaker 3: on the fact that you all are nurturers by nature

1190
01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:43,360
Speaker 3: and y'all always want to fix something. Let me hear

1191
01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:47,520
Speaker 3: him get through with this. I don't think that's the

1192
01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:50,920
Speaker 3: case because this guy is one that initiated everything. Wait

1193
01:05:50,920 --> 01:05:52,960
Speaker 3: a minute, you don't think that's the case, because he

1194
01:05:53,160 --> 01:05:59,439
Speaker 3: initiated everything, girl, You stupid. He pursued me and told

1195
01:05:59,480 --> 01:06:02,560
Speaker 3: me that I deserve to be treated like a queen. Well,

1196
01:06:02,600 --> 01:06:05,880
Speaker 3: you're not getting treated like a queen, though you don't

1197
01:06:05,920 --> 01:06:10,720
Speaker 3: see that. Meanwhile, my boyfriend does not take me out anymore,

1198
01:06:10,720 --> 01:06:13,880
Speaker 3: and he never wants to have sex. That's cause he

1199
01:06:14,000 --> 01:06:19,200
Speaker 3: having sex somewhere else. Y'all been together three years. All

1200
01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:21,480
Speaker 3: you getting is your breaks fixed and a bracelet. You

1201
01:06:21,520 --> 01:06:23,720
Speaker 3: ain't getting no wed and ring because you're having sex

1202
01:06:23,800 --> 01:06:27,280
Speaker 3: with somebody else. Let me tell you how stupid this is.

1203
01:06:27,800 --> 01:06:32,960
Speaker 3: You're in the movie Dumb and Dumble. Your boyfriend is dumb,

1204
01:06:34,400 --> 01:06:38,080
Speaker 3: Your married boyfriend is dumb. Up if you then had

1205
01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:39,680
Speaker 3: signed wow.

1206
01:06:42,480 --> 01:06:42,520
Speaker 8: A.

1207
01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:45,320
Speaker 10: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harve

1208
01:06:45,520 --> 01:06:48,760
Speaker 10: FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry

1209
01:06:48,840 --> 01:06:52,320
Speaker 10: Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app. Free never sounded

1210
01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:55,520
Speaker 10: so good downloaded today and coming up at forty six

1211
01:06:55,600 --> 01:06:56,440
Speaker 10: minutes after.

1212
01:06:56,280 --> 01:06:59,400
Speaker 1: The hour, it is Junior and Sports Talk right after

1213
01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:05,000
Speaker 1: this you're listening morning show. It is time now for

1214
01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:07,480
Speaker 1: Junior and Sports Talk. What you got Jr?

1215
01:07:07,760 --> 01:07:10,960
Speaker 9: All right, Shirley, Well, big HBCU game this weekend, The

1216
01:07:11,080 --> 01:07:15,480
Speaker 9: Celebration Bowl is this weekend, Fam, You versus Howard University's

1217
01:07:15,520 --> 01:07:18,520
Speaker 9: gonna happen just coming Saturday, Man and Mercedes Being Stadium

1218
01:07:18,560 --> 01:07:19,160
Speaker 9: in Atlanta.

1219
01:07:19,560 --> 01:07:21,080
Speaker 11: So man out there, you get your tickets.

1220
01:07:21,160 --> 01:07:21,640
Speaker 3: Check that out.

1221
01:07:21,680 --> 01:07:24,560
Speaker 9: Man, they got your HBCU experienced the Battle of the Band,

1222
01:07:24,720 --> 01:07:27,000
Speaker 9: the whole thing. Man, I don't know who gonna win

1223
01:07:27,680 --> 01:07:30,600
Speaker 9: that band battle, Sam. What I'm trying to I'm trying

1224
01:07:30,640 --> 01:07:32,880
Speaker 9: to feed it out, man, I don't know how, I

1225
01:07:32,920 --> 01:07:36,640
Speaker 9: don't know. Joke now I'm rocking my Howard University shirt

1226
01:07:36,760 --> 01:07:37,160
Speaker 9: right now.

1227
01:07:39,400 --> 01:07:43,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Fam you strong too. Yeah, it's gonna be.

1228
01:07:43,680 --> 01:07:45,040
Speaker 1: Something you matter.

1229
01:07:45,080 --> 01:07:46,280
Speaker 11: Fact that one of the most people gonna be in

1230
01:07:46,320 --> 01:07:48,040
Speaker 11: the stadium at the Battle of the Band, I know that.

1231
01:07:48,520 --> 01:07:54,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, we see you at the halftime they clear out.

1232
01:07:54,280 --> 01:07:58,760
Speaker 1: That's the ratless the Vicens. Let's go.

1233
01:07:59,240 --> 01:08:01,480
Speaker 9: Let's see what happen. Man, all right, unk Man Let's

1234
01:08:01,520 --> 01:08:05,480
Speaker 9: just talk about this man. Draymond Green has been suspended indefinitely.

1235
01:08:05,920 --> 01:08:09,080
Speaker 9: This is his third suspension of the season. The last

1236
01:08:09,120 --> 01:08:11,520
Speaker 9: time he was suspended it was five games. Now he's

1237
01:08:11,680 --> 01:08:14,840
Speaker 9: definitely suspended for another punch on a Phoenix player.

1238
01:08:14,960 --> 01:08:19,000
Speaker 1: Man, I don't know what this is with this young man.

1239
01:08:19,280 --> 01:08:20,479
Speaker 3: This is your third time.

1240
01:08:21,000 --> 01:08:24,439
Speaker 9: It's not even like he've apologizing to nothing. The coach

1241
01:08:24,520 --> 01:08:26,400
Speaker 9: then gave up on you in the post game interviews

1242
01:08:26,400 --> 01:08:28,160
Speaker 9: that you look, he just got to get it together.

1243
01:08:28,240 --> 01:08:31,439
Speaker 9: Ain't nobody supporting this no more? Steph ain't said nothing.

1244
01:08:31,760 --> 01:08:34,320
Speaker 9: He signed one hundred million dollars deal or this past

1245
01:08:34,400 --> 01:08:37,360
Speaker 9: off season. What else do he need or need to do?

1246
01:08:38,120 --> 01:08:40,360
Speaker 3: This is crazy, you know. I don't know. I don't

1247
01:08:40,400 --> 01:08:45,640
Speaker 3: know if record mend this, but his ass needs some

1248
01:08:45,800 --> 01:08:48,439
Speaker 3: type of counselor. But you fit the mess all your

1249
01:08:48,520 --> 01:08:54,080
Speaker 3: money up. He needn't anger management, I Draymon, But dog,

1250
01:08:54,240 --> 01:08:55,960
Speaker 3: I mean if we was in the hood on the

1251
01:08:56,080 --> 01:08:59,240
Speaker 3: basketball court, I got you, but we don't leave On

1252
01:08:59,400 --> 01:09:05,120
Speaker 3: TV the NBA see you do this on the basketball call, Man,

1253
01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:08,439
Speaker 3: I ain't mean slapping you like that. You will on TV? Thought, Yeah,

1254
01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:10,600
Speaker 3: they running in to replay you see it?

1255
01:09:10,960 --> 01:09:13,479
Speaker 1: The referee is right there watching it happen.

1256
01:09:13,640 --> 01:09:14,360
Speaker 6: He didn't need.

1257
01:09:17,120 --> 01:09:20,240
Speaker 3: And call it. Even if he miss it, they gonna

1258
01:09:20,240 --> 01:09:23,200
Speaker 3: go over that TV screen on the Scollars table. Yeah,

1259
01:09:25,000 --> 01:09:29,040
Speaker 3: you are hurting your team by not being on the floor.

1260
01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:34,280
Speaker 3: You have got to understand that the team supersedes your feelings.

1261
01:09:34,520 --> 01:09:39,760
Speaker 3: Don't nobody give a damn how you feel. Wow, bro,

1262
01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:43,280
Speaker 3: we don't care how you feel. He will push in me,

1263
01:09:44,000 --> 01:09:47,639
Speaker 3: so five hit me in the throat.

1264
01:09:48,600 --> 01:09:55,320
Speaker 11: So yeah, next week, next year, we get Draymond Dusk

1265
01:09:55,400 --> 01:09:55,840
Speaker 11: in the camp.

1266
01:09:57,640 --> 01:10:00,439
Speaker 3: Y'all when he pushed me. No, we didn't when he

1267
01:10:00,520 --> 01:10:04,479
Speaker 3: pushed you, but we saw when you backslapped. Yes, yours

1268
01:10:04,720 --> 01:10:05,280
Speaker 3: is out to leave.

1269
01:10:06,200 --> 01:10:07,679
Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Junior.

1270
01:10:07,760 --> 01:10:09,560
Speaker 10: Coming up at the top of the hour, Steve, a

1271
01:10:09,640 --> 01:10:11,960
Speaker 10: man on social media, needs your advice. He says, My

1272
01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:15,599
Speaker 10: mama invited my ex to Christmas dinner. We'll talk about

1273
01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:16,519
Speaker 10: that right after this.

1274
01:10:18,640 --> 01:10:24,080
Speaker 1: You're listening hard morning show. All right, Steve.

1275
01:10:24,160 --> 01:10:27,240
Speaker 10: This is from RJ on Steve BARBFM dot com, and

1276
01:10:27,840 --> 01:10:30,800
Speaker 10: RJ says, about six months ago, I ended things with

1277
01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:34,599
Speaker 10: my fiance. We clearly weren't on the same page about

1278
01:10:34,600 --> 01:10:37,000
Speaker 10: what we wanted for our future, and with something we

1279
01:10:37,080 --> 01:10:40,000
Speaker 10: both agreed on. My ex was friends with my mama,

1280
01:10:40,240 --> 01:10:42,439
Speaker 10: and I think my mom took the break up harder

1281
01:10:42,600 --> 01:10:45,080
Speaker 10: than either of us. Just because my ex and I

1282
01:10:45,120 --> 01:10:48,160
Speaker 10: are still on friendly terms, though, doesn't mean I want

1283
01:10:48,200 --> 01:10:51,599
Speaker 10: to spend Christmas with her and watch my mama try

1284
01:10:51,680 --> 01:10:54,120
Speaker 10: to plot and plea for us to get back together.

1285
01:10:54,600 --> 01:10:56,800
Speaker 10: I'm not trying to hear that. I'm not trying to

1286
01:10:56,840 --> 01:11:01,120
Speaker 10: hear that at all. Well, my mama invited us, invited

1287
01:11:01,160 --> 01:11:02,400
Speaker 10: her over for the holiday, and.

1288
01:11:02,439 --> 01:11:03,840
Speaker 1: It would be just the three of us.

1289
01:11:04,320 --> 01:11:07,080
Speaker 10: I really don't want to go now, but I also

1290
01:11:07,240 --> 01:11:10,320
Speaker 10: don't want to ruin my mom's holiday. I just wish

1291
01:11:10,400 --> 01:11:13,000
Speaker 10: she'd be more respectful of what's been going on in

1292
01:11:13,160 --> 01:11:15,920
Speaker 10: my life. Is there a right way to handle this?

1293
01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:21,519
Speaker 3: Just the three of us? We can make it if

1294
01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:33,200
Speaker 3: we try just the three of us that you're doing

1295
01:11:33,280 --> 01:11:36,719
Speaker 3: mama doing, So it's just three of them over the house.

1296
01:11:37,080 --> 01:11:39,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, him, his ex and his mom.

1297
01:11:40,400 --> 01:11:41,040
Speaker 3: I ain't gone.

1298
01:11:43,040 --> 01:11:45,200
Speaker 1: So you're not gonna go see your mama for Christmas time?

1299
01:11:45,240 --> 01:11:47,479
Speaker 7: And I see Mama before that. I ain't going over there.

1300
01:11:48,400 --> 01:11:50,920
Speaker 7: You gotta go see mama on Christmas. I got to

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Speaker 7: go there at six o'clock in the morning. Then I

1302
01:11:52,520 --> 01:11:53,760
Speaker 7: got to get out of there for that woman.

1303
01:11:53,800 --> 01:11:54,240
Speaker 3: Get over there?

1304
01:11:54,640 --> 01:11:56,400
Speaker 1: What did you say to you? And your FaceTime?

1305
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Speaker 9: FaceTime work shall smell good? And then I'm gonna look

1306
01:12:00,439 --> 01:12:04,439
Speaker 9: at it. Can't go over there?

1307
01:12:08,240 --> 01:12:09,160
Speaker 7: What I mean?

1308
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Speaker 3: You gotta go see your mama on Christmas? Your mama

1309
01:12:13,400 --> 01:12:17,160
Speaker 3: that invited her? She coming. Man, you finnah have a

1310
01:12:17,360 --> 01:12:24,240
Speaker 3: bad Christmas. Though bad Christmas. It's finna get ugly at

1311
01:12:24,280 --> 01:12:24,760
Speaker 3: your house.

1312
01:12:25,280 --> 01:12:28,280
Speaker 1: You said, hear the excerp are friendly? He did say that.

1313
01:12:28,960 --> 01:12:33,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, well see, but they friendly. Stop saying you friendly

1314
01:12:33,800 --> 01:12:36,559
Speaker 3: with your ex and you really not. If y'all was friendly,

1315
01:12:36,640 --> 01:12:38,960
Speaker 3: y'all going to do Christmas at your mama's house. Why

1316
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:40,880
Speaker 3: don't you tell the damn truth. You don't want to

1317
01:12:40,920 --> 01:12:44,320
Speaker 3: see her, no damn mom. Now you just broke up

1318
01:12:44,360 --> 01:12:46,479
Speaker 3: without hating each other and wanting to kill each other.

1319
01:12:46,600 --> 01:12:49,040
Speaker 3: That's all you did. But that don't mean you're friendly.

1320
01:12:49,960 --> 01:12:53,559
Speaker 3: Stop all this friendly talk make me sick. Tell the truth.

1321
01:12:53,840 --> 01:12:56,519
Speaker 3: Y'all broke up because y'all wasn't compatible and you don't

1322
01:12:56,680 --> 01:12:58,599
Speaker 3: like her no more and she don't like you. That's

1323
01:12:58,640 --> 01:13:01,240
Speaker 3: the damn truth. Every by Quit trying to act like

1324
01:13:01,400 --> 01:13:05,280
Speaker 3: y'all are celebrity couple. Will and Jada, y'all staying together.

1325
01:13:08,160 --> 01:13:09,920
Speaker 3: Hell y'all trying to be that fault.

1326
01:13:14,600 --> 01:13:15,479
Speaker 11: Just break up.

1327
01:13:19,520 --> 01:13:22,519
Speaker 3: Okay, it's been on friendly terms. He don't want over

1328
01:13:22,680 --> 01:13:27,000
Speaker 3: mama house. That was on friendly terms. They have Christmas together.

1329
01:13:29,800 --> 01:13:30,760
Speaker 1: Okay, what should he do?

1330
01:13:32,479 --> 01:13:35,400
Speaker 3: Shout out, told you you're finna have messed up Christmas

1331
01:13:36,200 --> 01:13:38,080
Speaker 3: and that's it. Go on over to your mama's house

1332
01:13:38,160 --> 01:13:40,880
Speaker 3: and act friendly. You just said y'all was friendly. Going

1333
01:13:41,000 --> 01:13:44,880
Speaker 3: over there and be friendly. Take that new girl hollering

1334
01:13:44,960 --> 01:13:47,160
Speaker 3: that over there with you so you can see how

1335
01:13:47,240 --> 01:13:49,840
Speaker 3: friendly y'all really are. Because that's what he That's why

1336
01:13:49,880 --> 01:13:51,640
Speaker 3: he can't stand it, because he just he done moved on.

1337
01:13:51,800 --> 01:13:55,760
Speaker 3: He got somebody else. He ain't put that into the Christmas.

1338
01:13:57,000 --> 01:13:58,920
Speaker 3: Donna take that new girl over there. He don't want

1339
01:13:58,920 --> 01:14:00,680
Speaker 3: to because he was gonna bring this other girl over

1340
01:14:00,680 --> 01:14:05,400
Speaker 3: at mama house. Now it's gonna be crowding. Four people.

1341
01:14:08,040 --> 01:14:16,599
Speaker 3: Just we can make it if you tried, just three

1342
01:14:16,680 --> 01:14:26,200
Speaker 3: and I nor time for tears, wasted waters all day,

1343
01:14:26,240 --> 01:14:31,240
Speaker 3: head here and it don't make no flyers groom. M hmm,

1344
01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:34,160
Speaker 3: that's what the lady that say. I can't say I

1345
01:14:34,320 --> 01:14:37,320
Speaker 3: know that, but.

1346
01:14:37,439 --> 01:14:41,280
Speaker 1: It's how you feel about the songs you sing. Yes,

1347
01:14:42,840 --> 01:14:48,519
Speaker 1: just the two of us, that is, well, you should

1348
01:14:49,080 --> 01:14:50,519
Speaker 1: you should tell us excellent to go.

1349
01:14:52,320 --> 01:14:54,840
Speaker 3: Oh no, no, no, remember you frink.

1350
01:14:57,960 --> 01:15:01,320
Speaker 10: All right, all right, we'll have more of the Steve

1351
01:15:01,400 --> 01:15:04,320
Speaker 10: Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes after the hour.

1352
01:15:04,800 --> 01:15:08,880
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show.

1353
01:15:11,080 --> 01:15:14,040
Speaker 10: Well, guys, we know that it's the most wonderful time

1354
01:15:14,360 --> 01:15:18,040
Speaker 10: of the year, as the song says, or is it?

1355
01:15:18,640 --> 01:15:18,680
Speaker 8: What?

1356
01:15:18,880 --> 01:15:21,320
Speaker 1: What do you really dislike about this time of year?

1357
01:15:21,640 --> 01:15:24,920
Speaker 3: Gifts? I hate. Maybe it's not the gives, it's the mall.

1358
01:15:25,160 --> 01:15:29,200
Speaker 1: The mall, say gifts, it's the mall. It's all the

1359
01:15:29,280 --> 01:15:30,799
Speaker 1: shot is going into.

1360
01:15:32,360 --> 01:15:32,800
Speaker 3: You don't like.

1361
01:15:33,000 --> 01:15:33,919
Speaker 1: It's too crowded.

1362
01:15:34,600 --> 01:15:39,200
Speaker 7: It's dangerous. It's crowded. You've got to be alert on everything.

1363
01:15:39,360 --> 01:15:42,599
Speaker 1: It's just a lot going. It's in your car.

1364
01:15:43,479 --> 01:15:46,080
Speaker 7: Yeah, and then when Amazon come, you got to wait

1365
01:15:46,160 --> 01:15:48,200
Speaker 7: on your package. They're gonna steal that all the front step,

1366
01:15:48,320 --> 01:15:49,920
Speaker 7: you got to stand outside.

1367
01:15:49,880 --> 01:15:50,959
Speaker 1: The porch pirates.

1368
01:15:52,680 --> 01:15:52,880
Speaker 8: Yeah.

1369
01:15:53,439 --> 01:15:55,840
Speaker 1: I mean, we definitely live in a different world now

1370
01:15:56,000 --> 01:15:56,240
Speaker 1: we do.

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01:15:56,479 --> 01:15:57,679
Speaker 3: And that's not my problem.

1372
01:15:58,200 --> 01:15:58,920
Speaker 1: What's your problem?

1373
01:16:00,040 --> 01:16:03,280
Speaker 9: Iwey courrier. I'm pushing so many wheelchairs up on Christmas Day.

1374
01:16:03,320 --> 01:16:05,000
Speaker 9: They all these old people come to my grandmother house.

1375
01:16:05,040 --> 01:16:06,200
Speaker 9: I got to go out here and get him up

1376
01:16:06,200 --> 01:16:06,879
Speaker 9: to the driveway.

1377
01:16:07,320 --> 01:16:07,920
Speaker 8: My bed.

1378
01:16:09,680 --> 01:16:10,719
Speaker 11: Wheelchair currier.

1379
01:16:10,840 --> 01:16:12,320
Speaker 1: That's junior.

1380
01:16:12,400 --> 01:16:17,080
Speaker 9: Go out there and get your bedy. Got that driveway game.

1381
01:16:19,800 --> 01:16:24,080
Speaker 9: I can't keep going out here. Hold that's my problem.

1382
01:16:24,720 --> 01:16:28,559
Speaker 9: All these the second ain't no ramp. You gotta put

1383
01:16:28,640 --> 01:16:31,040
Speaker 9: up the driveway, give up the garage. They got to

1384
01:16:31,120 --> 01:16:33,040
Speaker 9: stand up and go back down there and get Uncle

1385
01:16:33,160 --> 01:16:37,000
Speaker 9: June and he coming in. I didn't mail mail on

1386
01:16:37,080 --> 01:16:40,560
Speaker 9: the cane. Gotta hold him by his shoulder. Man's took opp.

1387
01:16:41,760 --> 01:16:45,760
Speaker 1: Family j All right, Julie, Well, happy holidays.

1388
01:16:45,800 --> 01:16:49,240
Speaker 10: Everybody coming up him thirty three minutes after juniors, we're

1389
01:16:49,280 --> 01:16:50,120
Speaker 10: gonna play around.

1390
01:16:50,680 --> 01:16:53,360
Speaker 1: Would you rather? Right after this you're.

1391
01:16:53,280 --> 01:16:57,360
Speaker 10: Listening Hardy Morning Show, It is time now for a

1392
01:16:57,439 --> 01:16:59,880
Speaker 10: round of would you rather? Would you rather have to

1393
01:17:00,080 --> 01:17:02,479
Speaker 10: spend the week after the New Year dressed up as

1394
01:17:02,600 --> 01:17:03,519
Speaker 10: the baby New Year?

1395
01:17:03,880 --> 01:17:06,040
Speaker 1: Or would you rather be father time.

1396
01:17:08,920 --> 01:17:09,479
Speaker 3: All the time?

1397
01:17:10,200 --> 01:17:11,320
Speaker 1: No baby New Year for you?

1398
01:17:11,439 --> 01:17:14,679
Speaker 3: Guys, Well, you can be either real real old man

1399
01:17:14,920 --> 01:17:17,000
Speaker 3: or you can beat his baby. If both of them

1400
01:17:17,040 --> 01:17:22,880
Speaker 3: gonna have dipoles. I'm gonna be that baby so I

1401
01:17:22,920 --> 01:17:34,400
Speaker 3: can lay back and get wife. I'm gonna that. I

1402
01:17:34,479 --> 01:17:37,479
Speaker 3: can't talk none of that, all right?

1403
01:17:37,520 --> 01:17:40,280
Speaker 1: Would you rather play monopoly for five hours?

1404
01:17:40,800 --> 01:17:44,320
Speaker 10: Would you rather have a conversation about politics with your family?

1405
01:17:45,040 --> 01:17:45,600
Speaker 3: Politics?

1406
01:17:46,240 --> 01:17:46,320
Speaker 10: Uh?

1407
01:17:46,439 --> 01:17:48,479
Speaker 3: Uh some monopoly too, damn long?

1408
01:17:48,760 --> 01:17:48,960
Speaker 8: Yeah?

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01:17:50,280 --> 01:17:53,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh no, I don't like monopoly. There may really

1410
01:17:53,479 --> 01:17:57,760
Speaker 3: no houses. I don't really own nothing. And by the

1411
01:17:57,800 --> 01:18:01,400
Speaker 3: time token, I'm always on wheel bell or a shoe

1412
01:18:01,520 --> 01:18:02,000
Speaker 3: or something.

1413
01:18:03,560 --> 01:18:06,040
Speaker 1: Your piece before.

1414
01:18:06,120 --> 01:18:08,720
Speaker 3: Don't nobody want to be damn thimble and want that

1415
01:18:08,840 --> 01:18:11,680
Speaker 3: damn wheel bell? All right?

1416
01:18:12,080 --> 01:18:16,000
Speaker 10: Would you rather eat only Christmas leftovers for two weeks

1417
01:18:16,360 --> 01:18:18,920
Speaker 10: or would you rather have no Christmas leftovers at all?

1418
01:18:19,400 --> 01:18:19,559
Speaker 3: Oh?

1419
01:18:19,640 --> 01:18:21,960
Speaker 1: We can give me beef no Christmas leftover?

1420
01:18:23,400 --> 01:18:27,320
Speaker 3: How many weeks to two weeks? Yeah, ain't none to

1421
01:18:27,720 --> 01:18:35,120
Speaker 3: say that turkey so damn dry? Oh, I can't refrigerate

1422
01:18:35,240 --> 01:18:37,800
Speaker 3: that turkey. But for so damn long ham too, It's

1423
01:18:37,880 --> 01:18:42,040
Speaker 3: just get old and and ham can't be nothing but ham.

1424
01:18:42,720 --> 01:18:43,840
Speaker 3: You can't make your soup.

1425
01:18:46,840 --> 01:18:52,759
Speaker 1: Ham can't be nothing but ham. The ain't no ham stew.

1426
01:18:54,320 --> 01:18:58,360
Speaker 3: You can disguise that turkey, but damn ham sitting over

1427
01:18:58,439 --> 01:18:59,240
Speaker 3: that just ham.

1428
01:19:02,360 --> 01:19:03,200
Speaker 1: Ham and Hammon.

1429
01:19:06,120 --> 01:19:09,599
Speaker 10: All right, would you rather build a snowman for two

1430
01:19:09,720 --> 01:19:11,759
Speaker 10: hours without wearing any gloves?

1431
01:19:12,000 --> 01:19:14,880
Speaker 1: Or would you rather make a snow angel for two hours?

1432
01:19:15,720 --> 01:19:20,080
Speaker 1: Laying on that two hours? Or build a snowman with

1433
01:19:20,280 --> 01:19:20,920
Speaker 1: no gloves?

1434
01:19:21,439 --> 01:19:23,360
Speaker 3: You can hear and build a snowman without glove?

1435
01:19:24,080 --> 01:19:24,400
Speaker 1: Really?

1436
01:19:24,960 --> 01:19:28,160
Speaker 3: Who going back and forth with your legs on?

1437
01:19:29,680 --> 01:19:31,360
Speaker 1: But at least you have all your clothes on.

1438
01:19:31,520 --> 01:19:33,880
Speaker 3: You'll be warm. But I'm finna make this snowman in

1439
01:19:34,000 --> 01:19:35,360
Speaker 3: by thirty seconds with this.

1440
01:19:36,400 --> 01:19:40,760
Speaker 1: No, he ain't gonna be tall at hours. No, he's

1441
01:19:40,800 --> 01:19:41,559
Speaker 1: not gonna be tall.

1442
01:19:42,120 --> 01:19:43,759
Speaker 3: You can do that. You can make a little quick.

1443
01:19:46,200 --> 01:19:46,360
Speaker 8: Yea.

1444
01:19:46,479 --> 01:19:50,880
Speaker 3: The snowman he shouldn't made. He couldn't make a snowman doll.

1445
01:19:52,560 --> 01:19:55,360
Speaker 1: That's the day's round of would you rather?

1446
01:19:55,640 --> 01:19:55,720
Speaker 8: Now?

1447
01:19:55,800 --> 01:19:58,000
Speaker 10: Coming up at forty nine minutes after the hour, it

1448
01:19:58,120 --> 01:19:59,960
Speaker 10: is our last break of the day, and we'll close

1449
01:20:00,120 --> 01:20:02,400
Speaker 10: out the show with the one and only Steve Harvey

1450
01:20:02,800 --> 01:20:03,400
Speaker 10: right after this.

1451
01:20:04,400 --> 01:20:05,280
Speaker 1: You're listening.

1452
01:20:06,520 --> 01:20:07,080
Speaker 10: Morning show?

1453
01:20:08,560 --> 01:20:10,080
Speaker 6: All right, guys, it is.

1454
01:20:10,200 --> 01:20:12,680
Speaker 10: Time for us to close out the show. It's our

1455
01:20:12,800 --> 01:20:15,040
Speaker 10: last break of the day. And before we get to

1456
01:20:15,160 --> 01:20:18,160
Speaker 10: all of that, Steve, we have one more voicemail for you.

1457
01:20:18,320 --> 01:20:20,919
Speaker 10: One more call about your closing remarks.

1458
01:20:21,240 --> 01:20:24,920
Speaker 13: Hi, Steve, I wanted to make a comment regarding your

1459
01:20:25,000 --> 01:20:28,000
Speaker 13: closing remarks where you talked about not giving up on

1460
01:20:28,080 --> 01:20:32,439
Speaker 13: your dream. I appreciate hearing it because I definitely felt

1461
01:20:32,439 --> 01:20:35,640
Speaker 13: like giving up on my dream, and I understand not

1462
01:20:35,760 --> 01:20:38,400
Speaker 13: to give up. I just don't, you know, I'm in

1463
01:20:38,439 --> 01:20:41,240
Speaker 13: a position where I don't know how to achieve my

1464
01:20:41,360 --> 01:20:44,040
Speaker 13: dream to go after them because some of them, you know,

1465
01:20:44,240 --> 01:20:45,960
Speaker 13: are things that I can't control.

1466
01:20:46,680 --> 01:20:50,640
Speaker 14: But it's just rough when you know, you pray and

1467
01:20:51,320 --> 01:20:54,880
Speaker 14: things just stay the same, and I'm just waiting for

1468
01:20:55,040 --> 01:20:56,920
Speaker 14: things to change and been waiting for a long time,

1469
01:20:57,080 --> 01:21:02,240
Speaker 14: but trying to you know, stay and face and have hope.

1470
01:21:02,560 --> 01:21:05,680
Speaker 13: But just wanted to make a comment regard in that

1471
01:21:05,840 --> 01:21:06,120
Speaker 13: thank you.

1472
01:21:07,240 --> 01:21:10,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, based on what she's said, that's the

1473
01:21:10,760 --> 01:21:15,360
Speaker 3: diliver for most people. That's the same dilimma I face

1474
01:21:15,920 --> 01:21:19,400
Speaker 3: from time to time because oftentimes some of the things

1475
01:21:19,439 --> 01:21:23,400
Speaker 3: that I'm asking God for, it takes a lot longer

1476
01:21:23,479 --> 01:21:27,240
Speaker 3: than I would like for it to take because God's

1477
01:21:27,320 --> 01:21:30,600
Speaker 3: timing is different than our timing. But here's something I

1478
01:21:30,680 --> 01:21:34,240
Speaker 3: had to understand. When you're asking God for something and

1479
01:21:34,240 --> 01:21:37,360
Speaker 3: it's taken a while to get it. That's because God

1480
01:21:37,520 --> 01:21:41,800
Speaker 3: is preparing it his way, not your way, and that

1481
01:21:41,960 --> 01:21:46,120
Speaker 3: he's allowing you in putting this delay on it and

1482
01:21:46,280 --> 01:21:48,920
Speaker 3: allowing you to go through the process because there's several

1483
01:21:49,040 --> 01:21:52,559
Speaker 3: lessons he wants you to learn in the waiting process.

1484
01:21:52,960 --> 01:21:55,560
Speaker 3: It's gonna be a test of your faith. Faith, is

1485
01:21:55,640 --> 01:21:58,759
Speaker 3: gonna require your patience. It's gonna cause you to trust

1486
01:21:58,880 --> 01:22:00,920
Speaker 3: more and more in his time. I mean, he may

1487
01:22:01,000 --> 01:22:03,280
Speaker 3: be trying to show some other people in your life

1488
01:22:03,360 --> 01:22:07,080
Speaker 3: something and he's using you. But the reason he's using

1489
01:22:07,240 --> 01:22:11,680
Speaker 3: you is because he knows you can handle it. He

1490
01:22:12,120 --> 01:22:15,280
Speaker 3: knows that when it gets real dog for you, that

1491
01:22:15,520 --> 01:22:17,840
Speaker 3: you will be the one who comes to him and

1492
01:22:18,000 --> 01:22:22,120
Speaker 3: he'll provide you with comfort and strength to get through it.

1493
01:22:22,720 --> 01:22:25,240
Speaker 3: He's not gonna give it to you right when you

1494
01:22:25,360 --> 01:22:28,880
Speaker 3: want it. Everything I've ever gotten from God has seemed

1495
01:22:29,000 --> 01:22:33,200
Speaker 3: to be delayed, seen to be postponed, put off. Has

1496
01:22:33,320 --> 01:22:38,000
Speaker 3: required me to do my due diligence, to practice my faith,

1497
01:22:38,320 --> 01:22:41,880
Speaker 3: to trust in his time, to learn that it's harming

1498
01:22:42,040 --> 01:22:45,679
Speaker 3: only him, to stop collaborating with people. All the time.

1499
01:22:46,080 --> 01:22:48,599
Speaker 3: I used to try to force deals by calling people

1500
01:22:48,640 --> 01:22:51,440
Speaker 3: to try to put him together. I called it networking.

1501
01:22:51,840 --> 01:22:55,640
Speaker 3: God called it interfering. And I would get in the

1502
01:22:55,720 --> 01:22:57,840
Speaker 3: way of so much of what God was trying to

1503
01:22:57,920 --> 01:23:00,519
Speaker 3: do that it would even further delay my Bless him

1504
01:23:00,520 --> 01:23:03,360
Speaker 3: because he now he had to undo all this garbage

1505
01:23:03,360 --> 01:23:06,720
Speaker 3: I had created by getting in the way. I know

1506
01:23:06,880 --> 01:23:09,519
Speaker 3: it's difficult when you ask God for something and it

1507
01:23:09,640 --> 01:23:13,120
Speaker 3: doesn't seem to get answered right away. God said he

1508
01:23:13,160 --> 01:23:16,960
Speaker 3: would hear and answer your prayer. He ain't saved by Friday.

1509
01:23:17,560 --> 01:23:20,320
Speaker 3: That's not in the Bible. The date of when he's

1510
01:23:20,360 --> 01:23:23,280
Speaker 3: coming back ain't in the Bible. You know why he

1511
01:23:23,360 --> 01:23:26,559
Speaker 3: don't give us dates because if he gave us dates,

1512
01:23:26,600 --> 01:23:30,880
Speaker 3: that would destroy the one principle that's required of us faith.

1513
01:23:31,640 --> 01:23:33,800
Speaker 3: If he gave us dates, you wouldn't need faith, You

1514
01:23:34,000 --> 01:23:37,360
Speaker 3: just need patience. It's easy to be it's easy to

1515
01:23:37,439 --> 01:23:40,599
Speaker 3: be patient that it is to be faithful. Those are

1516
01:23:40,600 --> 01:23:45,280
Speaker 3: two different practices because sometimes in waiting, you waiting on something,

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Speaker 3: You waiting on three o'clock, Well, you know, if the

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01:23:47,880 --> 01:23:51,080
Speaker 3: clock is moving, eventually be three. But faith is different

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01:23:51,200 --> 01:23:54,560
Speaker 3: than patience. Faith is the belief in things that you

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01:23:54,720 --> 01:23:59,280
Speaker 3: cannot see. That's what faith is. And system he put

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01:23:59,400 --> 01:24:01,760
Speaker 3: it on you like this because you've been chosen for this,

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01:24:02,320 --> 01:24:06,000
Speaker 3: because you the one. You have been chosen for this journey.

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01:24:06,640 --> 01:24:10,000
Speaker 3: He picked you. It's you, you the one. Man. I

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01:24:10,080 --> 01:24:12,519
Speaker 3: wish I had something that I found on the internet

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01:24:12,600 --> 01:24:15,719
Speaker 3: early this morning, at four o'clock in the morning, something

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01:24:15,800 --> 01:24:19,360
Speaker 3: that described totally what's happening to me right now, and

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01:24:19,439 --> 01:24:22,439
Speaker 3: it was saying, I'm paraphrasing it right now, but I

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01:24:23,080 --> 01:24:27,519
Speaker 3: was chosen for this. I am uniquely made. You are

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01:24:27,720 --> 01:24:31,200
Speaker 3: uniquely made all of you. God made you just the

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01:24:31,280 --> 01:24:33,840
Speaker 3: way He wanted you to be. You you because He

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01:24:34,000 --> 01:24:37,720
Speaker 3: made you You. Your journey ain't nobody else's journey. Quit

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01:24:37,840 --> 01:24:41,160
Speaker 3: comparing yourself to other people. Quit looking at your life

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01:24:41,200 --> 01:24:43,120
Speaker 3: and matching it up with somebody's life.

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01:24:43,040 --> 01:24:46,520
Speaker 1: That ain't your life. God got a whole.

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01:24:46,479 --> 01:24:50,479
Speaker 3: Nother life for you. So what, you didn't get that

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01:24:50,720 --> 01:24:55,679
Speaker 3: kind of airplane you're still flying? So what you don't

1537
01:24:55,720 --> 01:24:58,599
Speaker 3: live in that house? Ain't your house still nice? Don't

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01:24:58,640 --> 01:25:02,519
Speaker 3: you still appreciate the one? Yeah, you ain't got the

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01:25:02,600 --> 01:25:05,320
Speaker 3: money Oprah Winfrey got, but dog on it? Who do.

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Speaker 6: Hell?

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01:25:07,400 --> 01:25:11,240
Speaker 3: Quit tripping yourself out. Quit, I'm telling you, man, Quit

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01:25:11,360 --> 01:25:14,920
Speaker 3: tripping yourself out looking at your life compared to other

1543
01:25:15,000 --> 01:25:19,360
Speaker 3: people's lives, because that ain't your life, That ain't who

1544
01:25:19,400 --> 01:25:21,639
Speaker 3: God made you to be. Do you know that there's

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01:25:21,840 --> 01:25:26,600
Speaker 3: rich people out there and famous people out here that

1546
01:25:26,680 --> 01:25:31,599
Speaker 3: would trade lives with you because they are so unhappy?

1547
01:25:31,720 --> 01:25:34,160
Speaker 3: So many they ain't got no family, They ain't got

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01:25:34,280 --> 01:25:37,559
Speaker 3: nobody up around them that care about them. They ain't

1549
01:25:37,560 --> 01:25:40,600
Speaker 3: got nobody to sit down and playing nothing with. Everybody

1550
01:25:40,680 --> 01:25:44,639
Speaker 3: in their life is conniving, stabbing them in the back,

1551
01:25:44,880 --> 01:25:47,760
Speaker 3: trying the woiy to get a peace. Man, I got

1552
01:25:47,800 --> 01:25:50,439
Speaker 3: so many people around me. Man, it's sicken in that times.

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01:25:51,240 --> 01:25:54,040
Speaker 3: But I'm also grateful that God gave me Marjorie. God

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01:25:54,160 --> 01:25:57,840
Speaker 3: gave me my kids, Brandy Carley gave me bj gave

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01:25:57,920 --> 01:26:01,200
Speaker 3: me my grandkids. That people genuinely care about me.

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Speaker 8: Mam.

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Speaker 3: My daughter called me this morning before I got on

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01:26:04,040 --> 01:26:06,519
Speaker 3: the Aird, talked to me for forty minutes, didn't ask

1559
01:26:06,600 --> 01:26:09,479
Speaker 3: me for nothing, scared me, but didn't ask me for nothing.

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01:26:09,800 --> 01:26:12,719
Speaker 3: That's what I got. I got family, man, So whatever,

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01:26:12,920 --> 01:26:15,719
Speaker 3: I'm cool with it. Stop looking at other people's lives

1562
01:26:15,800 --> 01:26:19,439
Speaker 3: comparing it to y'all. Man, how you feel Magic Johnson billionaire?

1563
01:26:19,439 --> 01:26:22,280
Speaker 3: You ain't no billionaire. I'm cool I ain't got no billion.

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01:26:22,479 --> 01:26:25,880
Speaker 3: I'm all right though. I'm alright you are too, Hey,

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Speaker 3: y'all enjoy your holidays, y'all be safe out there. Steve

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Speaker 3: Harvey Morning Show wishing you and yours all the best.

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