WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Death Do Us Part

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<v Speaker 1>The second dat date.

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<v Speaker 2>In previous second date calls, we've heard of people visiting

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<v Speaker 2>a cemetery for a date. Oh yeah, remember the guy

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<v Speaker 2>that wanted to introduce the girl to his grandparents.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and so he took her to meet them.

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<v Speaker 3>Sweet, like maybe a couple of years into your relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, a little intense for the first date. We've also

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<v Speaker 2>heard about people stopping in on a funeral in the

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<v Speaker 2>middle of their date because they forgot that they double

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<v Speaker 2>booked it.

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<v Speaker 1>And we're like, we can get back.

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<v Speaker 2>To the bar just a second, but I have to

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<v Speaker 2>make Chris stop just real quick.

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<v Speaker 1>I just have to be seen here.

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<v Speaker 3>You can get a free bouquet flower zone for your dates.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't know, Jose, but you know, I don't think

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<v Speaker 2>we've ever heard about two people meeting at a funeral before.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is definitely a Brook and Jeffrey first. And

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<v Speaker 2>one of our listeners, Julia, says it just happened to her.

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<v Speaker 2>So Julia, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi guys, Hey, with my background, I just have to

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<v Speaker 3>ask you weren't related, right, No, it.

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<v Speaker 4>Wasn't a kissing cousins situation. I'm glad to say that

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<v Speaker 4>at least.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, who is this guy that you met?

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<v Speaker 4>So I met Rick at a funeral?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it bad to ask that before we asked who died?

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<v Speaker 3>Or do we don't ask who died? Is that weird?

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<v Speaker 4>Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know them. Sorry? Was it someone in your family?

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<v Speaker 4>It was not someone my family. It was a good

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<v Speaker 4>friend of mine. It's her colleague that passed away. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>she said she really didn't want to go by herself.

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<v Speaker 4>And last place I thought I was going to meet

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<v Speaker 4>someone I'll be honest with.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I know it's in Alexis's top five.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, pretty emotional and vulnerable.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but look at her, an.

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<v Speaker 3>Old rich guy that's close to the same thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Dress with the crop top black dress.

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<v Speaker 3>Didn't wear that's my funeral. That's okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, sorry, sorry, I know this is of a serious topic.

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<v Speaker 1>But so how did you meet Rick?

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<v Speaker 4>So it's a tiny event. There's like maybe twenty five

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<v Speaker 4>thirty people, and I'm kind of people watching, and I

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<v Speaker 4>look up and here's this like super cute, sensitive guy.

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<v Speaker 4>And something in me said, when he's going to find

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<v Speaker 4>someone that's showing like this vulnerable side to them?

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<v Speaker 1>Who oh he was looking vulnerable?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I can't imagine some stove dude going and not cry.

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't cried at a funeral and in a while

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<v Speaker 2>you haven't. No, I got it. I got an appearance to

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<v Speaker 2>a poll.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess it is more rare than alexis, And I figure,

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<v Speaker 3>how do you strike up a conversation with him because

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<v Speaker 3>you don't know him?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it was like a private event, so there was

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<v Speaker 4>like a viewing room and then there was like a

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<v Speaker 4>little reception area with some snacks.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you walk up to him and came here often?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, hopefully that's a joke.

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<v Speaker 5>What did you do a little bit like that?

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<v Speaker 4>I went in and I just thought, let me go

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<v Speaker 4>say hello. So we started to chatting, just like superficial

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<v Speaker 4>like surface stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Was what was his vibe?

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<v Speaker 2>Getting chatted up in the middle of the funeral by

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<v Speaker 2>a cute girl crying like, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>My name's Rick.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it gave him like a moment of distraction

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<v Speaker 4>because he was so upset. Yeah, it was a beautiful

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<v Speaker 4>day and there was like a little park outside, so

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know who brought it up, but we decided

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<v Speaker 4>why not get some fresh air and just kind of

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<v Speaker 4>do a lap around the park.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, so he was thinking, what you were thinking,

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<v Speaker 3>like don't you think you guys? I mean, like if

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<v Speaker 3>if a pretty girl you don't know comes up to

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<v Speaker 3>you at a funeral, like.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would you You wouldn't live with her?

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<v Speaker 3>Like if your whole family's there and all your friends like.

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<v Speaker 2>We Sometimes if you're wound up in that emotional situation,

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<v Speaker 2>it just helps to get out of there for a second,

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<v Speaker 2>have a chance to breathe and decompressed, rather than being

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<v Speaker 2>stuck in a room and feeling all those.

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<v Speaker 3>But not with someone you just met.

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<v Speaker 2>If you want to be picky about who you take

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<v Speaker 2>your walks with. How was How was the walk?

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<v Speaker 4>It was great. We were like chatting, you know, we

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<v Speaker 4>were kind of like just getting to know each other.

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<v Speaker 4>And so I brought up the person that passed and

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<v Speaker 4>just kind of asked him like how he knew her?

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<v Speaker 3>That's a pretty normal question at a funeral.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and that's when he got really emotional. So okay,

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<v Speaker 4>I went in, you know, just to give him a hug,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, for comfort, and we did kiss.

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<v Speaker 3>Whoa wow, I told you kiss from all the day?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, is this the date?

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<v Speaker 3>Like did you guys you made out.

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<v Speaker 4>At the This is so weird, Like we just had

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<v Speaker 4>one innocent kiss. It was okay, it was yeah. We

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<v Speaker 4>it didn't get heavy or anything like that. And once

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<v Speaker 4>we got back into you know, the room, I jokingly

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<v Speaker 4>said to him, Hey, maybe next time, you know, we'll

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<v Speaker 4>meet outside of a funeral.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, because you know this is this is where

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<v Speaker 3>I get.

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<v Speaker 1>This is working for? What did he say?

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<v Speaker 4>So we exchanged numbers all right, and everything seemed fine.

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<v Speaker 4>And now I can't get a hold of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, how long has it been.

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<v Speaker 4>It's been about a week.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, this is the one time we can't say she

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<v Speaker 3>got ghosted. Oh yeah, yeah, right today Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And there's no chance there or any other like cute

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<v Speaker 2>girls at the funeral.

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<v Speaker 6>It was.

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<v Speaker 4>No, there really wasn't a lot of other people there.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, he's just still trying to process it all.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, that's a lot of emotion in one day.

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<v Speaker 4>That's fair, that's fair. I just kind of I'm curious this.

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<v Speaker 4>Did I really cross the line? Am Iami head. I

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<v Speaker 4>just I'm dying to know with the other.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, boy, I'm trying to figure out the right,

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<v Speaker 2>if I way to say this. We'll put your your

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<v Speaker 2>anxieties to rest. No, I don't know. We'll get answers. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>you're hopefully more uplifting second date update.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, let's morbid second date updates exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll do it right after this.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Okay, thanks guys, Okay, hold on, I'll be honest.

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<v Speaker 2>The most shocking part of what we just heard after

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<v Speaker 2>Julia met a guy at a funeral is the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that all of my co hosts seem to be totally

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<v Speaker 2>cool with it.

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<v Speaker 6>What do you mean what?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm surprised.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought somebody here would take issue with an impro

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<v Speaker 2>do funeral hookup.

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<v Speaker 3>If people get horny at my funeral, I say, go

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<v Speaker 3>for it.

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<v Speaker 4>Get dressed up anyway, make up paradigm.

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<v Speaker 1>It's definitely unique.

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<v Speaker 2>Is the only one who's like kind of reserved about it?

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<v Speaker 1>Wishes they went farther.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, the only thing life is guaranteed, Jeff is

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<v Speaker 3>death taxes.

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<v Speaker 1>You open.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's not usually a turn onto people, though, Brook,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I guess I underestimate this group how

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<v Speaker 2>down you are for anything? And I said, I said

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<v Speaker 2>hook up, that's kind of a strong word.

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<v Speaker 5>It was.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there's an innocent kiss that proves love can blossom anywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, even from death.

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<v Speaker 3>Usually that's pretty fertile ground.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Julia, if we were, I'm sure it's a serious

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<v Speaker 1>thing to cry.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, what's your option?

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<v Speaker 1>I apologize for Brook first of all.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I kind of get it all right now, if.

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<v Speaker 2>We are able to get you a second date, are

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<v Speaker 2>you excited to tell your future grandkids that you frenched

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<v Speaker 2>their father above a tombstone.

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<v Speaker 1>That a tasteful French in it, Julia?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I am. He's just super cute and sensitive and

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<v Speaker 4>that's like what I was trying to attract. So there

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<v Speaker 4>he is. Sorry I met a funeral.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well, you know, we'll be respectful when he's on

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<v Speaker 3>the phone, because he did get emotional when you brought

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<v Speaker 3>up the person that passed. Like, we don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>We don't want to hurt his feelings or you know,

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<v Speaker 3>make him upset.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Like, I don't want to be a jerk. You

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<v Speaker 4>don't be insensitive.

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<v Speaker 2>But unless he's a jerk to us first, then well if.

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<v Speaker 1>He starts it, I can't help myself like higher, no,

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<v Speaker 1>going low?

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<v Speaker 2>Right now, I'm worried about this call. Hello, Hey, we're

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<v Speaker 2>looking for Rick.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh this is Rick was Colin?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey Rick, my name is jeff from a radio show

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<v Speaker 2>called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Ricky, good morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh hey, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>We were past some security footage from a local cemetery

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<v Speaker 2>and what we saw something interesting happen there.

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<v Speaker 3>We heard I don't like the angle over taken here?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh you don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you justinded We're a radio show and to

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<v Speaker 2>do a silly segment called second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, sorry, I know that was a lot. Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>went all over the place.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a segment where we try and help out

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<v Speaker 2>our listeners who've met someone or been on a date

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<v Speaker 2>with someone they really liked, try and get another date

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<v Speaker 2>and figure out why it hasn't happened yet. So the

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<v Speaker 2>cemetery I was talking about was where you met Julia,

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<v Speaker 2>one of our listeners.

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<v Speaker 6>Julia.

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<v Speaker 1>It was about a week ago.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no, I remember Julia.

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<v Speaker 3>What was that like for you? Meeting Julia?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, she was great, really, I didn't know how long,

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<v Speaker 6>but we really vibed a lot of that is a funeral.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, we get the sense that you may have

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<v Speaker 2>liked her a little bit, because rumor has it you

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<v Speaker 2>two kissed.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh man.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, listen, guys, I'm gonna it's just kind of a

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<v Speaker 6>weird situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was definitely unique.

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<v Speaker 3>I bet you didn't expect that to happen that day.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, for sure. Not Listen.

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<v Speaker 6>I just feel guilty, and that's why I haven't called, uh,

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<v Speaker 6>just because it.

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<v Speaker 4>Was on a funeral.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you in a relationship?

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<v Speaker 3>That's it?

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<v Speaker 5>No? No, I'm not at all.

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<v Speaker 6>It's uh, it's a job thing job.

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<v Speaker 3>You feel guilty of your job.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just going to be straight with you.

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<v Speaker 6>I was hired by that person, the person who has

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<v Speaker 6>passed away her family, to be a professional mourner at

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<v Speaker 6>the event.

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<v Speaker 1>What what professor say that?

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<v Speaker 3>Slower say that slower?

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<v Speaker 6>I was hired by that person's family to be a

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<v Speaker 6>professional mourner the event.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it even slower in the middle.

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't know the person who died at the funeral?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I've never another before.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh why do they need you?

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<v Speaker 2>So?

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<v Speaker 3>Why did you get emotional? She said, you got emotional

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<v Speaker 3>when you guys were going on the walk and you

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<v Speaker 3>brought her us.

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<v Speaker 5>Essentially, I am paid to be a mourner there.

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<v Speaker 6>So what happens is I go to things like this,

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<v Speaker 6>to a funeral, and I'm an actor I become emotional.

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<v Speaker 3>Why why would people want that a funeral though? It's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>Grandma wasn't that well loved. Can somebody cry for him?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, I don't get she said it was a super

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<v Speaker 1>tiny funeral. Maybe this makes sense. You might want one

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<v Speaker 1>of these for you. Let's just keep this guessing.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm forcing you to cry.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be a professional laugher at your funeral. Broug.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, why that is a good question, though. Why do

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<v Speaker 2>people hire you? What's the point?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, sometimes it just makes a place look fuller. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 6>people are less self conscious about getting emotional.

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<v Speaker 5>There's already someone that are doing it. I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 5>an icebreaker, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean for like a you know, emotionally closed off family.

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<v Speaker 3>That kind of makes sense.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so back to what you called I. I really

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<v Speaker 6>don't want to tell her why I was there. I

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<v Speaker 6>mean I was paid to be there, and it feels

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<v Speaker 6>strange to tell him, now, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, you don't have to beat yourself up

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<v Speaker 2>trying to figure out how to tell her because he

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<v Speaker 2>kind of already did.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, wait, so you actually get paid to cry at

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<v Speaker 4>stranger's funeral?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's Julia.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no, I got that.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll just let you guys talk.

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<v Speaker 6>Guys listen, I mean you've heard it essentially. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 6>am paid to cry there, but it's not just crying

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<v Speaker 6>sometimes all like I've given a speech before, I've been

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<v Speaker 6>a pall bearer.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I guess I just sort of lucked out.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't I didn't realize one of my job perks

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<v Speaker 6>was meeting folks as we bury the dead.

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<v Speaker 5>But there you go.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, Julia, I mean, how are you feeling hearing all that?

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<v Speaker 4>I guess I just like thought you were this like

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<v Speaker 4>really sensitive person that was like feeling your emotions and

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<v Speaker 4>then just to find out that it's all just like

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<v Speaker 4>a big game. It's I don't know, I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 4>I know, I know.

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<v Speaker 5>It's super weird.

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<v Speaker 6>I know I was weird when I first got hired,

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<v Speaker 6>But my feelings for you are real. The second time

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<v Speaker 6>I cried with you.

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<v Speaker 5>In the park, remember that that was real.

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<v Speaker 6>Kissed you brought the real emotion out of me, and

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<v Speaker 6>that's that's why I kissed you.

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<v Speaker 4>But you cried because I brought up the person that passed,

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<v Speaker 4>So all you did was just you were like primed

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<v Speaker 4>to be triggered by that to cry So how can

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<v Speaker 4>I trust like anything when, like, I know that you're

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<v Speaker 4>preparing yourself for a reaction.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, do you trust a dentic to not scrub

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<v Speaker 6>your teeth when he's not at work?

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<v Speaker 5>You know what I mean? Work is work? You don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, that was a weird analogy, but you got somewhere

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<v Speaker 3>I see. Okay, Yeah, he's able to leave it at home.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, he's sounds sincere. Were you gonna call her?

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<v Speaker 5>I wanted to? Yeah, I just I didn't know how

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<v Speaker 5>to say it. I was trying to figure it out.

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<v Speaker 2>He's in a tough position, didn't I want to believe

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<v Speaker 2>you at this point?

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<v Speaker 1>Where and I.

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<v Speaker 2>Feel like at this point, I mean, I might cry

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<v Speaker 2>if you guys don't go out together on another date,

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<v Speaker 2>because what does that say about me as a radio host?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you to send you on a date?

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<v Speaker 1>Is making me laugh? We're paid for you want to

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<v Speaker 1>send the guy?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you sure you want to send guy?

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<v Speaker 1>Seriously? Rick, are you up for seeing Julia? And because

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<v Speaker 1>it sounded like you were genuinely into her?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>Now the question is, Julia, are you still interested in

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<v Speaker 2>going out with Rick again after what you heard? No?

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<v Speaker 4>I think I have to pass. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a terrible radio you are, it feels bad for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't make this happen. I can't make anything happen.

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<v Speaker 3>This is pathetic.

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<v Speaker 6>I got a gig next Tuesday I can't go to

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<v Speaker 6>If you want to fill in.

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<v Speaker 3>For me, gonna be like, is that young Jeffery Brook

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<v Speaker 3>and Jeffrey in the Morning