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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Anny and Samantha.

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Speaker 2: I'm welcome to Steff I've never told you a production

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Speaker 2: of iHeartRadio, and welcome to another edition of Happy Hour.

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Speaker 2: As always, nothing we talk about in here is sponsored currently.

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Speaker 2: But also, drink responsibly or whatever you're doing, do it responsibly. Samantha,

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Speaker 2: are you sipping on anything?

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Speaker 3: Water?

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Speaker 1: Water?

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Speaker 3: I'm sticking with the water today because it's a little

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Speaker 3: warm and all the things.

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Speaker 1: Yes, well, water is amazing.

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Speaker 2: I am mixing it up today and it's actually relevant

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Speaker 2: to what I'm going to talk about. I have a

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Speaker 2: white wine, oh, of which I cannot tell you. It's chardonnay.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay.

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Speaker 2: I don't normally drink white wine. I don't really have

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Speaker 2: a problem with is just not my preference. But I

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Speaker 2: recently attended a wedding and at the end of the night,

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Speaker 2: I left with wine.

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Speaker 3: With alcoholic beverages.

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Speaker 1: They gave it to me.

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Speaker 2: They gave me one bottle of red and one bottle

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Speaker 2: of white. So I thought I would enjoy this because

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Speaker 2: I am going to be talking about that experience in

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Speaker 2: a second. But Samantha and I have just been chatting.

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Speaker 2: I feel like my life is in complete disarray right now.

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Speaker 2: I've just got a lot of things going on. My

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Speaker 2: car didn't start this morning, smith.

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Speaker 1: Though we knew it was coming. We knew it was coming.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I need it for this weekend, so hopefully

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Speaker 2: I can fix it.

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Speaker 1: I think it's just the battery but didn't start.

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Speaker 2: I still got my toilet issues, like a health situation

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Speaker 2: the other day. Yeah, it's just been a mess. And

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Speaker 2: it reminds me of all those headlines that you read

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Speaker 2: that make me roll my eyes, where they're like, how

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Speaker 2: your apartment, wherever you live is is a reflection of

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Speaker 2: your state of mind. I'm like, oh no, my state

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Speaker 2: of mind is not. I don't have any particular worse

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Speaker 2: drama than normal.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Maybe it's just reached this point, all right. I

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Speaker 1: don't know.

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Speaker 3: I think everybody might be filling it. I'm not sure

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Speaker 3: if it's with all of the lunar things or the

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Speaker 3: magnet things. I don't know, but yeah, I feel like

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Speaker 3: things are piling up. That's not too cute. I remember

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Speaker 3: with the lunar New Year's stuff that they were talking

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Speaker 3: about the fact that the signs are not that great

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Speaker 3: to hear. The dragon is beneficial for some but not

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Speaker 3: for all. And myself my sign is a monkey, and

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Speaker 3: apparently it's not supposed to be a good year, and

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Speaker 3: I don't like the fact that's falling into that. Not

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Speaker 3: that it's a bad year, but it's not the most balanced.

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Speaker 1: That way, right, mm hmmm. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Did you happen to see any of the like the

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Speaker 2: northern Lights. I'm so bummed I missed it.

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. For some reason, I just did

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Speaker 3: not care.

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Speaker 1: Oh I would have died.

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Speaker 3: Apparently, like you could only see it through.

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Speaker 2: The phone, though I had a friend of a friend

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Speaker 2: who took a She said she couldn't see it, but

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Speaker 2: really pretty well. Yeah, so we're both feeling a little

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Speaker 2: bit out of sorts, I would say.

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Speaker 1: But I did have a bright spot I wanted to

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Speaker 1: talk about. And this is that.

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Speaker 2: Old producer of the show friend of ours, Dylan got married. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 2: And it was beautiful. It had all of these events

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Speaker 2: around it. There was bowling, and I went with my

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Speaker 2: good friend Katie, who's been on the show. And I

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Speaker 2: was surprised, given how many times you and I have

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Speaker 1: Was so upset after this event. It was lovely.

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Speaker 2: I saw people I didn't know were going to be

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Speaker 2: there and legitimately just felt so happy to see them,

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Speaker 2: like it was such a wonderful surprise. Also, I'm terrible

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Speaker 2: at bowling, and I believe I got a fourteen, like horrendous.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: In my defense, I was sharing it with my friend Katie.

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Speaker 2: We were taking every other turn. But still that's even

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Speaker 2: beautiful thing. And then the next day there was a

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Speaker 2: dinner at a local restaurant and there are even more

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Speaker 1: And of course I was talking about all these horror

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Speaker 2: such a beautiful couple. They were so great. They were

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Speaker 2: was crying, and it was a delicious meal. All of that,

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Speaker 2: and then there was karaoke.

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Speaker 1: Which was great.

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Speaker 2: Me and my friend Katie saying Rob Zombie, which she

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Speaker 2: weird with their song choices, and she faked her Rob

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Speaker 1: Game.

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Speaker 2: We nailed it, and that is that's where I got

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Speaker 2: the wine. But I guess what I wanted to talk

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Speaker 1: It was so lovely.

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Speaker 2: But this was my first time being at a wedding

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Speaker 2: since I've come out as Ace, and none of my

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Speaker 2: but one of our lift drivers, when he heard we

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Speaker 2: and was like, she is good man, She's fine.

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Speaker 1: And ultimately it.

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Speaker 2: Worked out and he kind of begrudgingly was like, oh, okay,

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Speaker 2: It was very disbelieving that this could be the case.

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Speaker 2: And it was just strange because I know we've talked

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Speaker 1: Bizarre how.

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Speaker 2: He was so confident that you need to find you

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Speaker 2: asking like, well, have you just had a bad breakup,

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Speaker 2: my whatever it could be, why I wouldn't want it

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Speaker 2: to be with someone a man he very clearly indicated,

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Speaker 2: And my friend, like bless her, she was stepping in

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Speaker 2: jarring because I've kind of just I've gotten used to it.

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Speaker 2: I don't really think about it anymore. I did used

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Speaker 1: But I did. I really used to worry about that,

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Speaker 1: and now I'm good. I'm good.

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Speaker 2: But he It's interesting to me how many people who

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Speaker 3: That's the thing. I'm kind of like, how old was he?

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Speaker 3: Was he elderly? Like like Boomer? Was he?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 1: I would say he was maybe a little older than me.

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Speaker 3: Really, yeah, so in like younger than me in your

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Speaker 3: sounds like something a grandpa would say, right, which is

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Speaker 3: like annoying as it is, But a dude in our

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Speaker 3: which is fine because you do what you need to do,

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Speaker 3: but you're doing a customer customer service. Why are you

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Speaker 3: trying to give life advice?

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Speaker 1: That's a good point.

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Speaker 3: Well, like, this is not like a thing where you

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Speaker 3: stop being and say I'm going to teach you how

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Speaker 3: and if you ask for advice, perhaps in like the

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Speaker 2: No, And this is this is not the first time

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Speaker 2: someone else very concerned. I wasn't married, but that was

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Speaker 2: One of the parts to me that stands out is

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Speaker 2: I don't feel like I made any I was just like, no,

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Speaker 2: I don't feel like I made any grand statement of

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Speaker 2: oh no, nobody really good? Uh?

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Speaker 1: And he couldn't let it go.

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Speaker 3: Did he. He didn't act offended, just concerned.

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Speaker 1: Yes, was he married.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, so he didn't.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't asking him right.

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Speaker 3: My question though, is like coming from like a dude,

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Speaker 3: makes sense. Your interactions have always thrown me off anyway

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Speaker 3: Why because I have a face apparently that just like

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Speaker 3: don't start, I don't start, Like I think that's the

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Speaker 3: Katie finally stepped in, which is amazing.

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Speaker 1: Did he so?

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Speaker 3: She said she had a relationship and he was like,

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Speaker 3: oh cool, yeah, and then went on to you and

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Speaker 3: then was like upset about your situation.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, and it Yeah. It was very bizarre too,

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Speaker 2: because like I said, I I wasn't trying to I

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Speaker 2: don't know. He just asked his question because we were

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Speaker 2: going to a wedding and so it came up. But

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Speaker 2: I don't feel like I was. It's odd that he

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Speaker 2: latched onto it. And also my Katie afterwards apologize to

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Speaker 2: me and she was like I'm so sorry, like I

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Speaker 2: hope that was okay that I did that, which it

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Speaker 2: totally was, but it was kind of like, oh, he

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Speaker 2: paid it. He listened to her, who is in a relationship, right.

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Speaker 1: But not me?

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Speaker 3: Was he trying to hit on you?

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Speaker 2: It didn't feel that way to me. It could be

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Speaker 2: you know, I'm not the greatest about that. It did

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Speaker 3: I felt like I need to ask ask the friend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you can ask Katie I because to me, it

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Speaker 2: Moore felt like he I don't think he said he

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Speaker 3: And he said this sound like a very heteronormative ideal,

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Speaker 3: Like it wasn't even like questioning whether or not you

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, he was definitely get married to a man.

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Speaker 3: I think he's been Uh he's a fan of this

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Speaker 1: Samantha. He is from Georgia.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I know I've read that. I was like, Oh,

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Speaker 1: I remember him. I was there.

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Speaker 3: Did you go to school together?

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Speaker 1: He?

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Speaker 2: I think he might have been a little after me,

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Speaker 2: but he was the one Georgia Tech game I watched

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Speaker 2: and we won and it was.

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Speaker 4: Because of him. And now the ki Yeah, it's because

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Speaker 4: of the kicker. Interesting yeah, interesting, always with the sports

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Speaker 4: people out of Georgia Tech. It's not good news.

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Speaker 3: Get the commencement speech there that was similar to the

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Speaker 3: one he just got viral floor.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not surprised. I'm disappointed, but not surprised. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess we have talked about that before

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Speaker 2: of dudes feeling very like it's totally in their space

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Speaker 2: independence at all, right, and not maybe not get married.

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Speaker 2: Here's how things are wrong with you.

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Speaker 3: Be fuled.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Oh, anyway, I'm just perplexed as to how this

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Speaker 2: Well, more perplexed that you feel very comfortable just speaking

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Speaker 3: Really really kind of shocked.

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Speaker 1: It just puts things in perspective of I.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't really thinking about it in that way, but

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Speaker 3: This is not for you to decide.

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Speaker 1: Shut it.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, so, I I guess. Ultimately, cheers too, good friends,

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