Speaker 1: Forever.
Speaker 2: Hey, my friend, like I were a bit of babbity
Speaker 2: back back. Yes, and we're hot today. It's gonna be sizzling.
Speaker 3: You know when you'll be at TGI Fridays and they
Speaker 3: bring up the sizzling, that's what this is gonna be.
Speaker 3: I mean, I haven't been at Fridays in years, but
Speaker 3: you know, you know it.
Speaker 2: But don't shame the people who go to Fridays. Okay,
Speaker 2: well this maybe because it's a lifestyle thing. You don't
Speaker 2: just eat at Fridays. You live like Fridays.
Speaker 4: Nah, what you doing bad? You eat boneless buffalo? I'm
Speaker 4: judging you. It's a chicken nugget. Sist. You are a
Speaker 4: grown up eating a chicken nugget. Boneless chicken wing. That's
Speaker 4: what it is.
Speaker 3: Stop calling it a nuggets, not even chickens. Impossible wings,
Speaker 3: that's what it is tofu wings.
Speaker 2: What you're saying is very triggering and hurtful to the
Speaker 2: people who eat at Fridays.
Speaker 4: And I will not con you don't even eat at Friday.
Speaker 4: I do not. I cannot. My is just too good
Speaker 4: to go. Me and Sidney went.
Speaker 3: To a We went to Olive Garden in Times Square,
Speaker 3: did like a year ago or two years ago. Yeah,
Speaker 3: we were in there using fake accents and like, oh
Speaker 3: my god, they got braslet like they knew we were
Speaker 3: not that well.
Speaker 4: Maybe they didn't. We didn't even eat our entrees. We
Speaker 4: just we just went for the salad. Salad in the.
Speaker 2: Red that's the only thing you go to Olive Garden.
Speaker 3: When I see people ordering lasagna there, I'm like, do
Speaker 3: you love yourself shrimp scampyoo? Well, Sydney and I were
Speaker 3: at the diner a couple of weeks ago and this
Speaker 3: guy that we were with tried to order shrimp scampy
Speaker 3: at the diner and we roasted.
Speaker 4: Him swiftly, and he was like, ah, I'm gonna get
Speaker 4: a grill cheese.
Speaker 2: You ordered shrimp shrimp scampy. I was like, is that
Speaker 2: what we're doing here at the diner?
Speaker 3: You're ordering shrimp from the diner. Your butthole's gonna be
Speaker 3: open to hurt you.
Speaker 2: Okay, if I ever hear any of y'all eating anything
Speaker 2: other than breakfast food and maybe a burger, maybe you
Speaker 2: can't be my friend.
Speaker 4: But people be getting like steaking eggs at the diner. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I do a steaking egg.
Speaker 2: I'll do that when I'm going through a breakup, steaking
Speaker 2: egg is cute at the diner. That's kind of like
Speaker 2: when you're a divorced man. That's that's the meal that
Speaker 2: in a chicken pot pie.
Speaker 4: Like a TV dinner. Yeah, like a hungry man. Yes,
Speaker 4: a Celeste pizza. No, don't, don't. That's a saggy cracker.
Speaker 4: Should I go?
Speaker 3: Do that?
Speaker 4: You better than that's this?
Speaker 3: Hey?
Speaker 4: Here?
Speaker 5: Am I?
Speaker 4: No, Marie? Were you an expert in this week? What
Speaker 4: was I an expert in this week?
Speaker 3: Ah?
Speaker 4: You know, I feel like I'm a deflect back to
Speaker 4: usiss Uh what were you an expert in this week?
Speaker 4: What did I do this week? I'm an expert in
Speaker 4: being a dramatic bitch.
Speaker 2: Yes, I got a migraine for two days and I
Speaker 2: was really just trying to thug it out. I legit
Speaker 2: was like the Tupac of migraines, like, you know, fuck
Speaker 2: the police, you can't, you can't take me down. And
Speaker 2: then I had to go to urgent care. And urgent
Speaker 2: care in Brooklyn I think is more aggressive than the
Speaker 2: urgent care in the city.
Speaker 4: Urgent care.
Speaker 2: If y'all don't know, it's it's it's care. It's quick
Speaker 2: care for people, people who can't go to the hospital,
Speaker 2: and it's poor people emergency room. Yes, that's what it is.
Speaker 4: That's what I don't want to I don't want to
Speaker 4: label it like.
Speaker 2: That, but that's that's what it is. Marie said that
Speaker 2: this poor people emergency room. I went there, nobody was there.
Speaker 2: I was the only one there. And so I'm.
Speaker 4: Like crying, I'm like shaking.
Speaker 2: I'm literally I should be like the Viola Davis of urgent.
Speaker 4: Can you took your wig off in the.
Speaker 2: Honestly, almost I took my makeup off. I was going
Speaker 2: you were in the waiting room ring doctor yo and nay.
Speaker 4: And this is the thing that makes me so upset.
Speaker 2: There's so much fucking paperwork you have to file before
Speaker 2: you actually see their doctors.
Speaker 3: Like, I'm gonna die before I get to see anybody. Oh,
Speaker 3: I gotta remember all this stuff while I'm in pain.
Speaker 3: My social Security number, my address.
Speaker 4: I don't know any stuff. I'm dying.
Speaker 2: My head is on fire, your social I do know
Speaker 2: my social say it for the listeners.
Speaker 4: No, prove it, prove it anyway.
Speaker 2: So the woman, the doctor or whatever she sees me,
Speaker 2: and I'm crying, like I'm going off dramatic. You know,
Speaker 2: I'm crying because like some checks didn't come through. I'm like,
Speaker 2: I'm crying about a whole bunch.
Speaker 3: Of Stuff're trying to win that Academy award. Yeah, it's
Speaker 3: not just the migraine, but you know, it's the migraine.
Speaker 2: And so she starts like asking me questions, and I'm
Speaker 2: just like, can you just give me.
Speaker 4: The shot so I could get out of here? What
Speaker 4: questions was she asked?
Speaker 2: She's like, are you under any stress? And I was like,
Speaker 2: I live in New York. Yeah, I'm under fucking stress.
Speaker 2: I got bills to pay. Yeah, are you not stressed?
Speaker 4: As a doctor?
Speaker 3: I mean she's a doctor sister, but she's an urgent
Speaker 3: care doctor, so yeah, she's basically a nurse.
Speaker 4: Oh wow, is that what we're gonna say? Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 3: I'm not putting my hands on that one. That's all
Speaker 3: Marie Foston's stand by it.
Speaker 4: Okay, you do that. She work here.
Speaker 2: So she'said, are you under any stress? And then she said, well,
Speaker 2: are you taking care of yourselves? And She's like, I
Speaker 2: live in New York City? How am I going to
Speaker 2: take care of myself?
Speaker 3: Sidney All your answers sound wrong to me. We all
Speaker 3: in the studio looking at you, like, how do you
Speaker 3: not what?
Speaker 4: You didn't give a fuck?
Speaker 3: You obviously don't care about you. I do care about myself,
Speaker 3: but what what do you want? I am under stress.
Speaker 3: I work in comedy. Yeah, I'm stressed.
Speaker 2: When people don't laugh at my shit, I'm like, what
Speaker 2: the fuck is wrong with you? I'll be ready to
Speaker 2: go off. That hasn't happened. Actually that's not true.
Speaker 3: I got I bombed in New Jersey at Bananas Comedy Club.
Speaker 3: Who if you ever want to go kill yourself, go
Speaker 3: to the Holiday Inn and the Bananas Comedy Club right
Speaker 3: underneath it.
Speaker 4: Ooh girl.
Speaker 2: It was like all these senior citizens when like, old
Speaker 2: people don't fuck with you, you just feel like you're
Speaker 2: letting your family down?
Speaker 3: Is it?
Speaker 4: What are you? When old people don't like?
Speaker 3: Old people are the people who fuck with you the
Speaker 3: least because you reach a certain level, a certain age,
Speaker 3: and you don't care.
Speaker 4: You don't you're not trying to appease me.
Speaker 2: That's crazy because the guy right after me fucking murdered.
Speaker 2: But then the person who I came with, Moses Storm,
Speaker 2: he was like, if you do well, in this room,
Speaker 2: you gotta figure.
Speaker 4: Out your comedy. It's real bad. And the guy who
Speaker 4: killed saw like was like, what shot? I love?
Speaker 2: Shout out to Moses Storm for being you know, the
Speaker 2: BIG's shadiest person.
Speaker 5: I know.
Speaker 4: We love we love a shady bige. Yeah. But anyway,
Speaker 4: I was.
Speaker 2: Crying in urgent care and you know, I got a shot.
Speaker 2: But then she looked at me after it was done,
Speaker 2: and she's like, is everything else? Is everything okay? Is
Speaker 2: there anything else? I was like, no, bitch, I'm not
Speaker 2: getting touched by anybody, Like, why are you stressed me out?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Now I'm mean under more stress. It was very dramatic.
Speaker 3: They wanted me to get out. Is a lot.
Speaker 4: I left and I was crying and just and when
Speaker 4: you left, what's the last thing she said to you?
Speaker 4: She said, to drink more water.
Speaker 2: She's like, I could tell that you're dehydrated.
Speaker 6: Oh Like she sounds like she really cares for you though.
Speaker 2: And he's like, I'm stressed, I said, expert in dramatic, bitch,
Speaker 2: there you go back to you, Fred.
Speaker 4: Fred, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I just wanted to say that, like, Fred, I don't
Speaker 3: even know any black freds Okay, yes, actually Frederick Douglass.
Speaker 4: I guess that's the blackest of the friends. Okay, figure
Speaker 4: it out, Harriet Tubmant's prom date.
Speaker 3: So I was an expert at literally wasting all of
Speaker 3: my time. This week was seven full days, and I
Speaker 3: don't think that I did anything on them seven days.
Speaker 4: Like you got your nails done.
Speaker 3: I did get my nails done, and I cracked it
Speaker 3: and then fixed it again. Well, I mean I didn't
Speaker 3: fix it, but you know that was some polish on
Speaker 3: top of the sns.
Speaker 4: But I think that's not how that went. You dog
Speaker 4: your hair, right?
Speaker 3: That was last week, you know. Okay, so this this week,
Speaker 3: let's go, let's go through all the days.
Speaker 2: Right. So, so she's an expert in wasting time, Okay.
Speaker 3: So Sunday I was at the knitting factory.
Speaker 4: Sunday I was at Sydney's birthday party.
Speaker 3: Yes, and I was out until eight o'clock in the morning. Right,
Speaker 3: So Monday's already wash. I got up at noon. I'm
Speaker 3: not there's nothing happening when we're going back to sleep afternoon.
Speaker 4: Okay, boomshocka locks.
Speaker 3: Tuesday, I went to karaoke with a bunch of black
Speaker 3: folks in Fort Green Beautiful. I sang Deborah Cox, Nobody's
Speaker 3: supposed to be here, and I sang Drew Hill somebody.
Speaker 4: Sleeping in my bed.
Speaker 3: Yes, the remix, I did that by myself. I had
Speaker 3: to do both the bread and the drew Hill part. Wednesday,
Speaker 3: I went to When All You Can Eat Seafood buffet
Speaker 3: with a friend and somebody that I'm banging, and I
Speaker 3: made him drop her off at her house, and then
Speaker 3: I thought we was gonna have sex, but he had
Speaker 3: to be up early in the morning, so he just
Speaker 3: dropped me off. And I was very upset and very moist.
Speaker 3: So then Thursday, also I watched Saturday. Wednesday I didn't
Speaker 3: have sex, So Thursday I'm upset. I don't have you know,
Speaker 3: I don't have the energy to do nothing but go
Speaker 3: to the gym. Right Friday, I went to the gym again,
Speaker 3: and I walked two miles to get some pie from
Speaker 3: this place in my neighborhood. And then today I'm here
Speaker 3: doing the podcast. So it sounds like a full weeks
Speaker 3: with me. I don't know, I feel like you've been
Speaker 3: doing things I've been doing.
Speaker 4: I've been thinking about things and not really doing anything.
Speaker 3: But this week is gonna be a better week because
Speaker 3: I gotta do them better.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're just for the third weekend. Everybody just deserves rest.
Speaker 4: That was the week of wresting.
Speaker 3: Fully rested system ye last arrested to and the week
Speaker 3: before that she rested.
Speaker 4: So well, you know who's not fucking resting? Our guests
Speaker 4: over here? Good god, wow booked.
Speaker 3: Busy Bliss's busy, blessed and blossoming. Hey, yeah, I've got
Speaker 3: her all her edges and everything.
Speaker 4: Okay, baby hairs on a flee Can I ain't even
Speaker 4: use my age controlling.
Speaker 2: You know, she don't even need a natural We have
Speaker 2: a natural edge here. Cit Okay, she's our favorite, one
Speaker 2: of our she's half of the Horribles podcast, and she's
Speaker 2: one of our favorite boss.
Speaker 4: Bitch. Horrible decisions, horrible decisions. I want to crash that wait,
Speaker 4: shut out.
Speaker 6: Was actually cutting that cut that out?
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, horrible decisions.
Speaker 3: She she's one half of horrible Decisions. She's our richest
Speaker 3: horrible riches.
Speaker 4: She's doing well.
Speaker 3: She's about to get a new iPhone thirteen. Uh, thriving.
Speaker 3: She's at boss.
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, I've had this since like twenty eight.
Speaker 2: We don't believe they don't need to hear that. She
Speaker 2: don't believe be white. Let us get let us injured.
Speaker 2: You she's she's our boss lady.
Speaker 3: She's pegged the stallion she is giving up for Mandy Benedeop.
Speaker 7: We literally been trying to schedule this. Honestly, I think
Speaker 7: I think I booked this on my calendar in December.
Speaker 3: That's how busy y'all are. First off, No, no, no,
Speaker 3: that's how your.
Speaker 4: But but yeah isn't. And you see, I.
Speaker 3: Came on Tuesday, came on Thursday.
Speaker 4: You were in Puerto Rico, you, Yeah, I was. I
Speaker 4: was traveling quite a bit. And yeah, that's it. Well,
Speaker 4: Mandy tell people. First of all, let's talk about the outfa.
Speaker 3: She got the the Balia sock shoes, you know, the
Speaker 3: ones that look like socks.
Speaker 2: She got the cambo, the camel pants on the little
Speaker 2: pockets on the side.
Speaker 3: I'm just down today how much these pans called girl,
Speaker 3: theseus from Rainbow.
Speaker 4: I couldn't tell they were giving me. No, gr's Rainbow.
Speaker 4: I am one to mix labels like high and what's
Speaker 4: this girl? Foot locker? I don't know, it's all clothes. Yeah,
Speaker 4: it's a foot locker.
Speaker 3: Push the tea. They have graphic t's. Now really into
Speaker 3: the graphic ts.
Speaker 4: You have your finest hood gold jury on. I love it.
Speaker 3: Your name you got a name chain of really ratchet
Speaker 3: like in real life we look like you know what
Speaker 3: does your say?
Speaker 4: Regret nothing? See I'm a whole.
Speaker 3: Wow, you've gotten to jail before. It says no, it
Speaker 3: says no regruits regret it spelled wrong. I have little
Speaker 3: recruits on my creutons and go.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I love me a good bamboo earring with the
Speaker 4: name plate. You got those at the beautyfu Plas store. Girl,
Speaker 4: I will never pay ninety nine cents, she said, how
Speaker 4: much money I make? Don't you do that?
Speaker 7: Will never pay more than ninety nine cents for a
Speaker 7: bamboo earring.
Speaker 4: Okaya nte beauty sup Plus girl. Okay, when your ear
Speaker 4: fall off, let me know.
Speaker 3: But they sure are not so well you know just
Speaker 3: what the earrings break before they turn your ear screen
Speaker 3: or you could do the whole the hood hack, which
Speaker 3: is if you painted with it doesn't turn. Yeah, you
Speaker 3: do the inside of my rear and so it won't turn.
Speaker 3: You didn't know that, Yeah, so it won't turn silver
Speaker 3: or rusty.
Speaker 4: My jewelry sys you know, my ear is slit, So
Speaker 4: that's why I don't know. That's the tea with the tea. Honey,
Speaker 4: someone pulled your earring out.
Speaker 2: No, it's just I was wearing really heavy ear rings.
Speaker 2: And you know, we'll remember when Beyonce used to wear
Speaker 2: their chandelier earrings. I would wear them every day, all
Speaker 2: day and then my same lobe, like that happened.
Speaker 4: With my belly button, which is why I know.
Speaker 7: I think I had to get my belly button and
Speaker 7: re pierced like three or four times because I would well,
Speaker 7: I would do the charms that were heavy, like I
Speaker 7: had one with a gun.
Speaker 3: I had liked God, I had it from Hot topic
Speaker 3: back in the day. You go get your belly.
Speaker 4: So I had like a.
Speaker 7: Gun and I played basketball when I had that, so
Speaker 7: like just being in practice running like the shorts just
Speaker 7: pulled and no, well with the running, knocking into my opponents,
Speaker 7: like and it just you didn't have a game day
Speaker 7: a little at charms, okay, And yeah, so I didn't
Speaker 7: switch it often, so yeah, there's that.
Speaker 4: Okay, So Maddie, let's talk about this where you're from.
Speaker 4: Who is you?
Speaker 3: Why should people care? I mean, I really don't give
Speaker 3: a fuck if they care.
Speaker 4: Not honestly, these people care. So I don't want that
Speaker 4: energy there. I mean, that's fine.
Speaker 7: I'm glad that y'all is here, tuntin or whatever. So
Speaker 7: I'm from Orlando, I'm born and raised.
Speaker 4: Glad you got out yees.
Speaker 7: Also lived in Atlanta, Miami, and then I've been in
Speaker 7: New York for the last seven years.
Speaker 3: And when you lived in Atlanta, you lived in a
Speaker 3: big ass house. No.
Speaker 7: No, in Atlanta, I moved up, I went to I
Speaker 7: was in high school for one year in Atlanta, lived
Speaker 7: in an apartment with my mom, and then three days
Speaker 7: after graduating high school, I was.
Speaker 4: Like, I'm coming back to Atlanta.
Speaker 7: So I literally packed my Hyundai Sonata and drove my
Speaker 7: ass to Atlanta and tried to make it happen as
Speaker 7: an adult.
Speaker 4: I crashed and burned within a year, So came back
Speaker 4: in Atlanta. That's why you're supposed to make it. I
Speaker 4: was eighteen, it was new, it was fresh.
Speaker 3: I was living on my own, so I was you know,
Speaker 3: I had I had an apartment, I had a car,
Speaker 3: and at the time also so I started bartending.
Speaker 7: But before then I was like stock manager at diesel.
Speaker 7: I worked at a call center. I had like three
Speaker 7: jobs at one point just to figure in Atlanta.
Speaker 3: In Atlanta, I ended up I ended up getting fired
Speaker 3: from all three jobs. Well, I left one job because
Speaker 3: I was making so much at my last job.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I left pretty.
Speaker 7: Much the the call center job and the management job
Speaker 7: at Diesel to be a bartender.
Speaker 4: And I ended up losing that that job.
Speaker 3: Why girl, Because I got into it with a nigga
Speaker 3: and like really bad I.
Speaker 8: Did.
Speaker 3: I got into it with a nigga and and I
Speaker 3: like talk crazy, so like he threatened to have a
Speaker 3: bitch come up and fight me.
Speaker 4: So I was like, when they got fight, you in
Speaker 4: your bitch.
Speaker 7: So I worked at SO, I worked at the So,
Speaker 7: I bartended at the Congress Center Phips It was.
Speaker 4: The Congress Center, Yeah.
Speaker 7: So the Georgia World Congress Center, Phipps Arena and the
Speaker 7: Dome at the time. So they were all under the
Speaker 7: same people who do the food Levy Restaurant. Yes, they
Speaker 7: do the same food now at Barclays.
Speaker 4: So I worked for them.
Speaker 7: But yeah, ended up And that was just one of
Speaker 7: many little incidents I got into with motherfuckers.
Speaker 4: You'd be fighting. So by the time it got to
Speaker 4: motherfucking hr again period nor knacking back and and ready
Speaker 4: that fight. I hate y'all. I hate y'all both.
Speaker 7: Actually, what I'm not gonna lie like as you know,
Speaker 7: as someone who can speak for the light Skins, I
Speaker 7: felt like I was always tried to stop.
Speaker 4: Because light Skins, you guys always act like people.
Speaker 2: So they'd be starting to fight and they're like, no,
Speaker 2: it's because I'm like you.
Speaker 3: So like my my Orange County Pine Hills would come
Speaker 3: the fuck out, like what's up. I went to all
Speaker 3: black schools, identify as black, like my whole like my
Speaker 3: family that I with is black. Yeah, my my my
Speaker 3: white family pretty much didn't talk to us because we
Speaker 3: were black. So I not really that means she real
Speaker 3: black white they really talked to us. So you know,
Speaker 3: I've been feeling tried or I think they think I'm
Speaker 3: you know, Hispanic or something. Yeah.
Speaker 4: Nah, so you came up to New York.
Speaker 7: So anyways, came to New York after I just Miami
Speaker 7: wasn't working out, and I was.
Speaker 3: Like, Miami never was yeah, but Miami worked out to
Speaker 3: visit twenty almost twenty two, and I was just like,
Speaker 3: my life can't be of yachts partying well, and I
Speaker 3: bartended on South Beach. So just you said your life
Speaker 3: couldn't be of yachts, and I mean wait, because to me,
Speaker 3: I was like, there's more out there and I can't
Speaker 3: keeping two honestly in my life.
Speaker 4: That's how hard she was party.
Speaker 3: Oh, I was party and heart and then also at
Speaker 3: the time, it's just like I lived in Miami, so
Speaker 3: I felt like I would never be taken serious.
Speaker 4: Woman was hanging out with Pitbull. I was hanging out.
Speaker 4: I was hanging out.
Speaker 3: Everybody can think of Wade and everything. Everybody okay, and.
Speaker 4: This is when everybody, like all of the celebrities lose
Speaker 4: in Miami. So like up through Star Island, Girl, Star Island.
Speaker 4: On the weekends, I remember going.
Speaker 7: We had a spades party at Trey Song's house and
Speaker 7: I played against Trey and and fabulous.
Speaker 3: Like Sean Kingston was there. I lost is because we
Speaker 3: hadn't seen him.
Speaker 4: I don't know where he is.
Speaker 7: He disappeared off the face of the Yeah, but at
Speaker 7: this time everyone lived in Miami, so it was cool,
Speaker 7: but it was.
Speaker 4: Just like fast. It was always party. This is like
Speaker 4: Prime Live.
Speaker 7: Anyways, ended up again not working at a job, losing
Speaker 7: that with some.
Speaker 3: Beef and and the condo that I was in at
Speaker 3: the time, the owners his partner lost his job, so
Speaker 3: they came in and was like, hey, like, we.
Speaker 7: Would like to move back into our spot. Is there
Speaker 7: any way we can negotiate y'all moving out? So I
Speaker 7: was like, damn, I gotta find a job and a place.
Speaker 7: May as well do it in another city. So you
Speaker 7: packed the Hyundai Sonata. So no Mahna Sonata.
Speaker 4: That was ye.
Speaker 3: While I was in Miami, it hit two hundred and
Speaker 3: twenty thousand miles and said bases.
Speaker 7: I gave y'all I could give it, okay, it was trucking.
Speaker 7: I wore it off to the last drop. So moved
Speaker 7: to New York. A friend of mine who worked at
Speaker 7: the club with me moved up here two months prior
Speaker 7: and was like, I got a couch for you, but
Speaker 7: there's mad money up here.
Speaker 4: Use your resources. I know, you know mad people. So
Speaker 4: I literally hopped on Twitter.
Speaker 7: I used good old Twitter, and was like, hey, guys,
Speaker 7: I'm moving to New York. And before that time, I
Speaker 7: had a sports blog rocking. I had done the modeling
Speaker 7: scene as well, so I've done straight sont in Don diva,
Speaker 7: A lot of magazines.
Speaker 4: Bitch.
Speaker 3: I was in DONI You Are TVTA waita wait, don't
Speaker 3: do it. I was in Don Dio Sticky Pages, bit
Speaker 3: Black Men's magazine magazine.
Speaker 7: Since I did, you know, I didn't get up there.
Speaker 7: I tell Sean to this day, whenever he brings it back,
Speaker 7: I need to be on the cup.
Speaker 4: I see that for you. Yeah, But anyways, so I
Speaker 4: did this.
Speaker 3: I did probably three issues yeah, of Straight Sun, which
Speaker 3: my ex at the time hated it because he's like
Speaker 3: my niggas and jail jack off to you and it's
Speaker 3: like the community, you know.
Speaker 4: Anyways, So I moved up here. This magazine looks so
Speaker 4: get up.
Speaker 3: The original the original Bible, the original Street.
Speaker 4: Jo It's about the street gossip. Don't you g.
Speaker 3: Unit cover asap, Rocky Eve, Kwame Kilpatrick, fabulous, blood and
Speaker 3: blood Out, Blood and blood Out.
Speaker 4: Find your cover. I'm looking, I'm looking.
Speaker 3: But anyways, yes, the hood exactly moved up here, and
Speaker 3: I gotta find it. It's definitely in Google image.
Speaker 7: But anyways, So moved up here, went to real estate school,
Speaker 7: got into temp agencies, and was bartending.
Speaker 4: So again started my hustle on her word time Jamaican,
Speaker 4: so like you should lead with that. Oh yeah, okay
Speaker 4: for the listeners, I couldn't see. I couldn't figure out
Speaker 4: what the fuck you want Jamaican and white. I did
Speaker 4: not know. Yeah, well now we know. Yeah, I thought
Speaker 4: that you were blocked. Is spunished that people, No Jamaican.
Speaker 4: Your dad Jamaica.
Speaker 7: My daddy is here on a green like he has
Speaker 7: a green card, Like he's from moved to New York
Speaker 7: at the age of thirteen, but he's from born and
Speaker 7: raised in Jamaica.
Speaker 4: Your dad is twenty one savage almost basically. Yeah.
Speaker 7: So yeah, moved up here and then just started working,
Speaker 7: started grinding it out. Eventually, after bartending for seven years,
Speaker 7: was like, Okay, this ain't my life. So I decided
Speaker 7: to get back into school because I was like a
Speaker 7: bit just too smart to be sitting here only being
Speaker 7: having receptionist.
Speaker 4: Gigs and how old are you?
Speaker 7: I'm at this point, I'm twenty four. Okay, at this point,
Speaker 7: I'm twenty four. Good time a relation.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So I.
Speaker 7: Got back into I put myself through school, got in school,
Speaker 7: said I'm going to do business. So immediately was like, okay, business,
Speaker 7: but let me not just get a basic business degree,
Speaker 7: let me specialize it, and decided to do accounting. So
Speaker 7: for four years I was just like, I'm about to be.
Speaker 4: A c p A. I'm on accounting firm. Okay. I
Speaker 4: ended up getting into taxes. Honey, can you do mine?
Speaker 4: Tax I did not. I did not renew my pizzin.
Speaker 4: I am no longer doing on the side. You can
Speaker 4: still read the question making I absolutely cannot. But you
Speaker 4: have white says you have white color crime as well.
Speaker 4: I cannot stand the both of you. But no.
Speaker 7: So basically, even within school, I decided that I'm going
Speaker 7: to do everything to the highest like level.
Speaker 4: So while in school, I started at H and R Block.
Speaker 7: After that ended up even interviewing with the Obama administration
Speaker 7: that didn't go through. But instead of that, I ended
Speaker 7: up working at Goldman Sachs for my last two years.
Speaker 4: You're the reason the recession happened. I cannot stand here,
Speaker 4: but no, I believe that. Yeah, I ended up working
Speaker 4: for Goldman Sacks.
Speaker 3: When you and then when you had all these jobs
Speaker 3: and you lived in all these places where you dating
Speaker 3: people in all it like obviously you have my homes, yes, okay, yes,
Speaker 3: So I was like, give me something I mean they
Speaker 3: would help me with like my summer classes.
Speaker 7: So summer school came out of pocket. They helped with that.
Speaker 7: I was living off of financial aid for a time.
Speaker 7: And then because I was only part time with Goldman,
Speaker 7: I was only making twenty an hour, which you know.
Speaker 4: That was good at the time, you know, it was cool.
Speaker 7: That was good, It was cool. And then yeah, so
Speaker 7: I did get help because New York is not cheap.
Speaker 7: It strusted me out here. It dos to me out
Speaker 7: and so yeah, and then here goes horrible decisions came
Speaker 7: about my last year in college. Thought it was going
Speaker 7: to be a hobby, not gonna lie. I'd even let
Speaker 7: my co hosts know, like we'll see what can come
Speaker 7: of this.
Speaker 4: But I'm about to be a CPA.
Speaker 7: I don't know what my schedule was going to be
Speaker 7: when I start my career, Like what I was doing
Speaker 7: wasn't going to be a job. This is where I
Speaker 7: thought I was going to be for the next twenty years.
Speaker 7: And with a year of working, I left Earth and Young,
Speaker 7: which is the top four accounting firm, and now I'm
Speaker 7: a full time podcaster.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love I love that story for you, but I.
Speaker 3: Want to take a step back. Yeah, I said a
Speaker 3: lot of things. I did a lot of things, but
Speaker 3: I came in with my questions. So your name on
Speaker 3: Twitter is Peg. Yes, we need to get to this now,
Speaker 3: so Peg the Stallion talk to us about this. When's
Speaker 3: the first time you peg somebody? What was I twenty two,
Speaker 3: twenty three? I was fairly young. Yeah that was the first.
Speaker 3: So how old was he?
Speaker 4: About my age or maybe a year younger?
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, so we'll still okay, this is not a
Speaker 3: weird thing. Yeah, so imagine I thought you was picking
Speaker 3: some old dude.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that was like, so that's the thing.
Speaker 3: Even if we talk about my hoes, I like to say,
Speaker 3: or like my lovers, like the men who financially have
Speaker 3: helped me throughout the years.
Speaker 4: Lover lovers.
Speaker 7: None of them, I think one may have just reached forty.
Speaker 7: I don't really like none of them have even really
Speaker 7: been over forty years old. And I've met them. They've
Speaker 7: been anywhere from thirty one on us. But yeah, so
Speaker 7: the first time I packed someone, it was something. We
Speaker 7: talked about it for a while a while before it.
Speaker 4: Be sim simmon, you know who got to keep y? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Who got the key? Boot boodh hole.
Speaker 3: I had the keys. By the way we did, we
Speaker 3: talked on like how much he thought he could.
Speaker 4: Take, like all of these things. You have to go
Speaker 4: out and pick the thing out together.
Speaker 3: I brought it, which I brought it with, so he
Speaker 3: flew me out to do it. You got moved out
Speaker 3: to pack. That's another level, is it?
Speaker 4: Girl? The first time you see somebody he was flewed out.
Speaker 4: I was.
Speaker 7: I was not even about to do it, I know,
Speaker 7: so I was flewd out to do it. But we
Speaker 7: had already had sex. And then this is something where
Speaker 7: just along the years we talked about how.
Speaker 4: Our minds had grown sexually. Was this man white or black?
Speaker 4: He was black.
Speaker 7: I've never been with a white man in my life.
Speaker 7: I've never seen a white penis all.
Speaker 8: Right, and.
Speaker 3: I'm pull your dick out for the guests bross the
Speaker 3: line related Sydney stopped me to win our producer.
Speaker 4: Andrew Andrew just d m s he was. He was, yeah,
Speaker 4: well it's pinks, that's what you need.
Speaker 7: I don't, and I'm cool on that. Although I do
Speaker 7: get tricked on foreign from time to time. It'll be
Speaker 7: ten and then I'm like, oh, it's connected to a
Speaker 7: white man, all right, let me just not watch this anymore.
Speaker 4: Let me shut the laptop, let me just black because
Speaker 4: you know. But no, so he was black, six eleven.
Speaker 4: You see me, You're like.
Speaker 3: I'm eleven basket he was.
Speaker 7: It was although I did hear he's into that. I
Speaker 7: did hear they also have like little group parties too.
Speaker 7: When I to Miami, it was it was the tea
Speaker 7: going around.
Speaker 4: Come call me. I would definitely fuck them both. So
Speaker 4: what's that to both? Let's talk about it. Hey, Gamy,
Speaker 4: what's the call?
Speaker 7: But yeah, no it wasn't him. But yeah, so we waited.
Speaker 7: I'll toller you I am five foot one.
Speaker 4: And he's six. It was hard like actually even I
Speaker 4: had to.
Speaker 7: Say I had to get a louder froggy style, like
Speaker 7: I had to stand up and then put my dick in.
Speaker 7: I'm like because he wanted it from the back first.
Speaker 7: And then when we did the lay down part, I
Speaker 7: just put him on a pillow that he just put his.
Speaker 4: Legs had long ass long. Yes, I don't nigga.
Speaker 7: The nigga, the and this is the third person I
Speaker 7: packed the video I'm about to show you.
Speaker 4: But even with him, he is sick, sick, let me,
Speaker 4: let me, let me so, yeah, can we see the face? No? Right?
Speaker 4: Because no? Yeah?
Speaker 3: That and then it gets uh talking about Sydney.
Speaker 4: It's a podcast to face the video that I'm actually
Speaker 4: gonna show you just told you to pull.
Speaker 3: His dick out the face. Well this video that you guys,
Speaker 3: you can't see his face in it, So.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's the video I want to I want to
Speaker 4: see his face. I'll show you guys outside, I can
Speaker 4: show you. Not here we go. Then he leave his
Speaker 4: sneakers on while you were pegging him. There's me pegging.
Speaker 5: Oh my.
Speaker 4: Wait god?
Speaker 9: And is like show me another video?
Speaker 4: That is and he's with you recording him? Yeah, I
Speaker 4: said let him.
Speaker 3: It's nice. Let me see the tattoo. So if in
Speaker 3: case I bothered to him, I know I could be
Speaker 3: like what So yeah, he allowed me to record it.
Speaker 7: The other people I've been with have not, but one
Speaker 7: of them did say the next time we go about
Speaker 7: I could.
Speaker 4: I mean, what do you wear to what do you
Speaker 4: someone's flying you out to peg them? What would you packing?
Speaker 4: What are you wearing? Just like this today airport, you
Speaker 4: wearing a wedge? How what's a proper pegging shoe?
Speaker 7: So I'm not wearing shoes while this like this is
Speaker 7: me just what my harness and normally, like I said,
Speaker 7: it does have to be discussed because I'm not just
Speaker 7: coming in the door with my harness on. So within
Speaker 7: us having sex, there is a time where it kind
Speaker 7: of gets awkward because I have to go and get
Speaker 7: my strap.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, so.
Speaker 7: Yeah, if you're it's awkward because it's just kind of
Speaker 7: like a freeze moment in the session where it's just like, Okay,
Speaker 7: let me go get my tool.
Speaker 4: I'll be right back and you'll get my belt. Don't
Speaker 4: have second thoughts, hold on this.
Speaker 7: It's only gonna take for thirty two seconds. But yeah, again,
Speaker 7: it's something that I've dealt with, Like I'm kind of
Speaker 7: just free, like open with even conversation about sex, clearly,
Speaker 7: but you should be. So even with my partners, they
Speaker 7: know there's no exposing going on.
Speaker 4: I don't look at them any different if I do this.
Speaker 7: I know there's a lot of conversations to if I
Speaker 7: view a man differently after I do the acts of pegging,
Speaker 7: and in reality, I don't. It's something that I enjoy
Speaker 7: as well, So to feel like I would be exposing
Speaker 7: someone from something that they enjoy and something that I
Speaker 7: participated in is just wild. It's kind of like it
Speaker 7: makes me think of fucking Nikki talking about Meek's manbody
Speaker 7: or black thereof of you know how he looks.
Speaker 4: But baby girl, you were claiming this man. You were
Speaker 4: sleeping with him, you were playing for him.
Speaker 3: You know. It's the same way you know when girl,
Speaker 3: if a girl wants to go and say a nigga
Speaker 3: dirty after he dated him, well, baby girl, you were
Speaker 3: looking at them balls. What is dirty ass? So it's
Speaker 3: something to where I think sexual I hated you talked
Speaker 3: about any of your exes well shading you. I don't
Speaker 3: call anybody dusty.
Speaker 7: But you can't call him dusty if you was late
Speaker 7: up boot up with them too. Okay, you know you're
Speaker 7: fucking a dirty nigga.
Speaker 4: Baby girl, you're dirty too. Yes, I was going through it.
Speaker 7: And it's funny too, because I think a lot of
Speaker 7: one of the number one questions is like, well, damn
Speaker 7: you you're okay with eating and playing in a straight
Speaker 7: man's ass, like they're not as clean as game man.
Speaker 7: But to even question the cleanliness of straight men is
Speaker 7: just like big.
Speaker 3: Girls, who are you having sex with I'm not putting
Speaker 3: my tongue in nobody's ass.
Speaker 2: Sorry, yeah, I mean I've.
Speaker 3: Never done it, but I've done it. I will let
Speaker 3: you put your tongue in my butt, but and I
Speaker 3: know my butt.
Speaker 4: Sometimes, you know, sometimes you bad.
Speaker 3: I'm waiting for the day I get sick because I
Speaker 3: had a threesome and I ate the ass of the
Speaker 3: girl and the nigga.
Speaker 4: Did you know them? Yeah, I had sex with uh
Speaker 4: not tequila was.
Speaker 5: Question?
Speaker 4: No, but tequila was.
Speaker 3: So why are you saying you you you're waiting to
Speaker 3: get sick because they was definitely.
Speaker 4: But no, no, no, they weren't dirty.
Speaker 3: But I'm just like, I probably shouldn't just be eating
Speaker 3: too assholes back to back.
Speaker 4: There's and I don't use dental dams, never did in my.
Speaker 3: Life, And well, I don't even know what a dental
Speaker 3: damn looks.
Speaker 4: Honestly, it's a question that I have to a lot
Speaker 4: of lesbians.
Speaker 7: And I don't know if we have the conversation with you,
Speaker 7: but every time we've had a lesbian on our show,
Speaker 7: it's like, well, I'm on a woman, so no, I
Speaker 7: don't really ask for the results. No, I don't use
Speaker 7: a condom. No, like there's never the concern of the
Speaker 7: exchange of fluids with women. But like, we got to
Speaker 7: be so concerned with the exchange of fluids with men.
Speaker 4: Like because they are the carriers of.
Speaker 3: But if women, you know women, if a woman is
Speaker 3: having sex with a dude and then she's having sex
Speaker 3: with a woman, can transfer.
Speaker 4: Which is what a lot of people are doing out here.
Speaker 3: Okay, and it's one of those Is that which came first?
Speaker 3: They both probably Jada and which what's they'll probably both
Speaker 3: let you bang them.
Speaker 4: Ja Jada might she might want to you. Yeah, that
Speaker 4: show girl girl. You feeling? How old is Willow? Whoa? Whoa?
Speaker 3: Okay, so we went from we went from me too
Speaker 3: and Andrew to becoming an attorney for this nigga pig to.
Speaker 4: Catch a predator. Hold on, well, she's really not.
Speaker 3: You might need to wow if she Jayden, I feel
Speaker 3: like Jayden is like, Jayden.
Speaker 6: Is not eighteen at this point.
Speaker 4: She got to be grown now, she gotta be you
Speaker 4: hoping you praying fingers across. She's nineteen, you need to
Speaker 4: be twenty one and over. Oh no, I'll deal with
Speaker 4: some eighteen No never, I know I'm not eighteen year old.
Speaker 4: Nick he's give me, he's.
Speaker 3: Yeastection, he's going to give you the round. No, I
Speaker 3: don't need them like rounds. I need I need rounds
Speaker 3: of break rounds like around a break around.
Speaker 4: A honestly, the break times in the night.
Speaker 3: Break okay, and then we'll start again. Okay, IM down
Speaker 3: with you said ten times in the night. Yeah, I
Speaker 3: talked about on the show.
Speaker 7: So one of the my lovers that I had that
Speaker 7: I pegged, we ended up for ten rounds. No, not
Speaker 7: for all ten rounds, maybe only like two of the test, just.
Speaker 3: Two of the ten to two rounds getting pegged me
Speaker 3: if you tried. Okay, so when when what time do
Speaker 3: y'all start?
Speaker 4: What time do we start?
Speaker 3: Well, you said you went ten rounds, so you started
Speaker 3: with six pm after work?
Speaker 4: Okay, so then you got a full night's sleep. No,
Speaker 4: no we didn't because we ended up at the sex
Speaker 4: club that night. So we sex club. It's here in
Speaker 4: fab next time, it's here in New York. Do you
Speaker 4: want to go?
Speaker 7: Oh yes, we want to go for research purposes. I
Speaker 7: talk about it on my show, and I'm sure we
Speaker 7: have a little different audience.
Speaker 4: So it's called caligula. It's increding see write it down
Speaker 4: sounds like arugula, but caligula calligraphy.
Speaker 7: And so we ended up going there, so technically he
Speaker 7: actually went like eleven or twelve rounds in one night,
Speaker 7: because he did end up fucking another girl in there.
Speaker 4: And you like watching the people you sleep with sleeping
Speaker 4: with other people.
Speaker 7: When I'm there, I don't mind something like the I
Speaker 7: like massive dicks, so I'm not gonna lie. I like
Speaker 7: a break sometimes because it hurts, like I've been doing
Speaker 7: a lot here.
Speaker 3: Please take give me a break, queen. Yeah, give me
Speaker 3: a break. Yeah, time out, time in.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like I'm on base. This wall is bab I
Speaker 4: need to I need to let it, say for its
Speaker 4: falling right now, let it get back down. It'd be
Speaker 4: like throbbing. You need to let it.
Speaker 7: Yeah, So I don't I don't mind a partner coming
Speaker 7: in and us having fun together, like it doesn't bother me.
Speaker 3: But yeah, so we ended up at the sex club,
Speaker 3: so it's a byob. We were on tequila. You bring
Speaker 3: your oh you do bring your own, bitch, because if
Speaker 3: you're a male.
Speaker 7: There's only one night a week they allow single men,
Speaker 7: so you do have to go with a couple. Yeah,
Speaker 7: you have to go with a couple. They do allow
Speaker 7: single women. However, it's a safe we need. So we
Speaker 7: ended up there. It was a little slow in the beginning.
Speaker 7: We got there quite early, so we just drank early,
Speaker 7: like twelve thirty one, that's early. So people arrive at
Speaker 7: three o'clock. No, they between one thirty and two.
Speaker 4: Where's peak peak is where that's where peak penis. People
Speaker 4: don't have been drinking. They didn't eate already. And now
Speaker 4: after you eat when you go into a sex club,
Speaker 4: because but I ain't never touch that food. I didn't
Speaker 4: even go home.
Speaker 3: Listen, man eats ass at the sex purchases.
Speaker 7: So yeah, so we started there. The way it's set up,
Speaker 7: it's like open, like a regular dance floor. Downstairs, you
Speaker 7: have a bar. I brought my friends one time and
Speaker 7: literally they were in shot because a girl was just
Speaker 7: giving head literally at the bar.
Speaker 4: Anyways, your name goes on your bottle.
Speaker 7: You have a bartender. She does she does the mixes
Speaker 7: all night for you. You tip her like accordingly and
Speaker 7: then so you can go upstairs.
Speaker 3: How much you gotta tip like my titty out, Actually
Speaker 3: you should be tipping me, I mean just.
Speaker 4: Because she's making your drinks.
Speaker 7: Cool, that's a bad drinks. Well, no, you can't have
Speaker 7: your bottle. You have to drop your bottle behind the bar.
Speaker 7: You can't walk around with just a bottle. Also, it's glass,
Speaker 7: so they don't want glass around, so it is plastic.
Speaker 7: There's people naked, right, we talked about this barefootage.
Speaker 3: Do you check your clothes when you get there or
Speaker 3: do they let you keep your clothes on?
Speaker 7: So you can keep your clothes on downstairs but upstairs?
Speaker 7: Actually no, now that I think about it, you don't
Speaker 7: have to unrobe in any of the rooms at this
Speaker 7: particular club.
Speaker 4: I know there are some clubs.
Speaker 7: If you go to Trapeze in Atlanta, once you go
Speaker 7: past a certain point, you have to unrope. The same
Speaker 7: a hedonism, there's a nude part hedonism.
Speaker 4: It's in Jamaica. Y, Jamaica. Should we go to that marine?
Speaker 4: You'll have yeah? Have this? I feel like, yeah, have to.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna start doing my kegels right now.
Speaker 7: It's a whole fucking movie. But yeah, you go in there.
Speaker 7: There's there are private rooms. There's also a shower. Then
Speaker 7: you have a room where anyone can watch, and then
Speaker 7: you have a room in the back where only couples
Speaker 7: are allowed.
Speaker 4: And again, so like this sounds like it.
Speaker 3: I need to leave my head shaved at least through
Speaker 3: the sex party and then I can start growing my
Speaker 3: hair back. Now, okay, I'm going I'm going short. I'm
Speaker 3: cutting all this off after I take this, and I'll
Speaker 3: have a little season.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Well, I'm gonna start a little shorter and then go
Speaker 7: shorter as as I go on.
Speaker 3: You're trying to end at like Amber Roads. Maybe not
Speaker 3: all the way amber Ros, but I want to go.
Speaker 7: Blonde, and I know blonde is going to take phases
Speaker 7: for her until I get as light as I want
Speaker 7: to know?
Speaker 4: Have you ever bleached her hair? But my hair is black?
Speaker 3: And we did it twice, double process, Yeah, and it
Speaker 3: was it got we got it so light the first
Speaker 3: time that the dude was like, oh okay. And then
Speaker 3: this last time I bleached it myself and I only
Speaker 3: beach it bleached it once.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Well right now, I mean, I don't even know if this.
Speaker 7: Hopefully it brings new niggas about because I have no one.
Speaker 4: Size. I am is not cutting it for niggas.
Speaker 7: I was getting way more niggas when I was a
Speaker 7: big bitch, so I'm just like, Okay, let me just
Speaker 7: cut off my hair.
Speaker 4: Maybe I'll get a new you know what about women?
Speaker 7: So honestly, I fuck my friends. I don't really go
Speaker 7: out and I'm not taking a bitch on a Yeah.
Speaker 4: Let's talk about this.
Speaker 2: I mean, because I am a friend and I told
Speaker 2: you about your nails, So do you want to go
Speaker 2: to the sex party with me?
Speaker 4: Put these in booty holes? And all? I could not.
Speaker 4: But so that's the problem.
Speaker 7: I got to tell my so not with the rhinestones,
Speaker 7: So like most recently, I had to use my ring
Speaker 7: finger and I was like, this isn't working. So the
Speaker 7: next time I go to my nail tech, I got
Speaker 7: to tell her to keep the ryinstones off my index
Speaker 7: finger because that's the one I go.
Speaker 4: That's but like when it comes to women, I have
Speaker 4: a problem dating them, like because you don't want to
Speaker 4: spend no money. I'm not used to the men do.
Speaker 7: But I'm also very aggressive and so I do come
Speaker 7: off maybe more with the masculine, so why don't you
Speaker 7: get a f But then so I'm completely opposite though,
Speaker 7: like I like to dominate men, but with women I
Speaker 7: would like them to be more in control.
Speaker 4: But I also don't like hen.
Speaker 2: You's why what's cool from either people.
Speaker 3: If you want to do it, because it turns you on,
Speaker 3: but it doesn't really do much for me. I don't
Speaker 3: do nothing, so like, even specifically when I'm with women,
Speaker 3: I prefer to just eat them out the whole time.
Speaker 4: Oh far.
Speaker 7: But yeah, So when it comes to women, I think
Speaker 7: my problem more so is just the conversation. Even there
Speaker 7: was a friend of mine and we were talking and
Speaker 7: she came over, got all the way naked in my bed,
Speaker 7: and then it was like, I feel like, you know,
Speaker 7: you just want me for sex, so maybe we should
Speaker 7: go to the movies tomorrow.
Speaker 4: I just got turned off. I was just like, you're
Speaker 4: already my bed naked, Like, so what are we doing?
Speaker 4: Like this is didn't have sex? This is we didn't
Speaker 4: have sex.
Speaker 7: No, because she she wanted more out of me, and
Speaker 7: I guess she felt that it was just gonna be
Speaker 7: fun for me, and she legitimately wanted more.
Speaker 4: She wanted me to.
Speaker 3: Take her out, and I was just like, but it
Speaker 3: would have been fun to her, but it's like, right,
Speaker 3: so I don't want to.
Speaker 7: And my last real relationship was with a woman. It
Speaker 7: was with a woman who allowed me to have sex
Speaker 7: with one partner, one male, but me and her were
Speaker 7: together when I was in Miami. But just yeah, since then,
Speaker 7: I just I have fun with women, but I don't
Speaker 7: see myself being with so I'm not gonna I'm not
Speaker 7: gonna waste so much time.
Speaker 4: I just I just want it for fun.
Speaker 7: But then it's also weird because I say that and
Speaker 7: men automatically assume, well, let's have a threesome.
Speaker 4: I like women by themselves and I like men by themselves.
Speaker 4: I don't, Okay, I'll do it. But we was just talking.
Speaker 7: About you, I know, but it was just like I didn't.
Speaker 7: I didn't get fully fulfilled even in the threesome.
Speaker 4: Get you off?
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, So what really truly gets you off penetration,
Speaker 3: which is not common for most women. They do come off,
Speaker 3: you know, throughteroral stimulation, and I know it's penetration for me,
Speaker 3: So I need all the dick and if I have
Speaker 3: to share it maybe before I'm climaxing. Now you're going
Speaker 3: to please her, And it's just a lot of switching
Speaker 3: to where I can't really get into the motion that
Speaker 3: I need to to come, And then it's just a
Speaker 3: lot more work for me, Like I'm orally.
Speaker 4: Pleasing the two of you.
Speaker 3: It's constant work for me about that life, sis, I mean,
Speaker 3: you're not trying to put in that work.
Speaker 4: It's a lot of work. Work is to work.
Speaker 7: Yeah, So I'd rather, honestly just take two dicks. That
Speaker 7: sounds funner to me. It's finding that with two men
Speaker 7: that I trust that. Yeah, yeah, I like that. Okay,
Speaker 7: have any how are y'all with threesomes or do you?
Speaker 7: Because you guys have?
Speaker 3: Sexuality is different ends of the spectrum, right.
Speaker 4: Yes, I need to go to get or whatever.
Speaker 7: I mean, I would consider myself what is it a
Speaker 7: don't touch me or no touch girl on girl type
Speaker 7: of person, Like I don't I don't need the other
Speaker 7: woman to touch me at all, Like.
Speaker 4: I don't know. So then I'm the opposite of that.
Speaker 7: Well yeah, right like and then yeah, that's fun for me.
Speaker 7: I'm a pleaser at the end of the day.
Speaker 4: That's because it sounds like you don't want to do
Speaker 4: too much to please it. So she doesn't do a lot.
Speaker 4: She jumped on a plane, carry right, but we do
Speaker 4: this like this is our life.
Speaker 7: But to me, but to me, I still anytime I
Speaker 7: have sex now, like I'm almost thirty. Over the last
Speaker 7: ship five years, I would say specifically more so with
Speaker 7: the podcast and us being just more openly audible on
Speaker 7: what we want, like voicing what we want.
Speaker 4: I've been that way.
Speaker 7: So I'm not going to engage in sex unless i
Speaker 7: know I'm going to come, unless i know it's going
Speaker 7: to be fun for me.
Speaker 4: So I'm not engaging in something that I don't want
Speaker 4: to do. That's what sex should be, though, especially after
Speaker 4: a certain age. What we're doing.
Speaker 3: I'm not having sex for you to like me. I'm
Speaker 3: not having sex for a meal. I can feed myself
Speaker 3: having sex because you said let's have sex, like yeah,
Speaker 3: but like if you don't want like and I said
Speaker 3: this to y'all, I went to that duet house and
Speaker 3: I knew I wasn't gonna come, and I was like, well,
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna go home.
Speaker 4: I was like, I told him I had to poop.
Speaker 7: The most recent I had someone come over because so
Speaker 7: I was having casual sex with someone for the last
Speaker 7: seven years.
Speaker 4: No longer fuck him.
Speaker 2: Okay, so seven year how do you fuck somebody for
Speaker 2: seven years?
Speaker 4: A lot to like, how often would you see them?
Speaker 3: Once a week or every couple of weeks.
Speaker 7: It depends, like every mother would be different, but kind
Speaker 7: of weekly on a little thing.
Speaker 4: And if we were both busy, maybe twice a month.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I saw him often, and then every time we
Speaker 7: fucked it was three rounds, like every time that's our number.
Speaker 4: You hit a silence in the room.
Speaker 7: Yeah, But anyway, so I stopped dealing with him. So
Speaker 7: most recently it's been frustrating for me because I now
Speaker 7: don't have that go to dick, that on call, you know.
Speaker 7: And so I had a guy that I met. He
Speaker 7: was a bartender, and I was just like, well, I
Speaker 7: need a replacement, and he came over and I literally
Speaker 7: told him to bounce. It was three o'clock in the morning.
Speaker 7: We were both asked naked, and I was just like,
Speaker 7: this isn't this isn't working.
Speaker 4: You guys started to have sex. It wasn't we started.
Speaker 7: He was very eager to put the condom on, so
Speaker 7: I wasn't ready yet. And then I don't know if
Speaker 7: the condom made him soft, but immediately anytime I make
Speaker 7: a nigga put on a condom, I'm very pro condom.
Speaker 4: Yes, because we're not exclusive. I don't know who you
Speaker 4: fucking raw.
Speaker 7: I'm not even though I fuck with a condom with
Speaker 7: all of my lovers, like, I don't know what you're doing.
Speaker 7: And because I am very open if I'm entertaining someone else,
Speaker 7: we both know we fucking other people. There's no need
Speaker 7: for us to think we can trust each other. That
Speaker 7: just like it just doesn't make sense.
Speaker 4: Yes, so modern. So anytime I feel like a guy is.
Speaker 7: Just like, well you good, I'm good, or he goes
Speaker 7: limp in a condom, I feel like, oh, you're fucking
Speaker 7: a lot of people, probably unprotected, and so I'm immediately
Speaker 7: turned off, immediately turned immediately turned off. And I felt
Speaker 7: like outside of liquor and mean over drinking with the
Speaker 7: people who I'd be like, oh, let's go at it.
Speaker 7: I've had, Yeah, probably cursed like three people like that
Speaker 7: either couldn't stay hard in the condom or we were
Speaker 7: just so drunk it just didn't work.
Speaker 4: So yeah, right, kicked them out right now? He left?
Speaker 7: Yeah, he left. The other guy we just fell asleep together.
Speaker 7: He was a friend of mine that you know, it
Speaker 7: just happened, but didn't happen.
Speaker 4: So he fell asleep.
Speaker 7: The other guy, Yeah, I kicked him out, which is
Speaker 7: why I enjoy people coming into my space.
Speaker 1: You in control, but I just feel like you like
Speaker 1: to be in someone else's just because I don't want
Speaker 1: to take the mess to your house and then I
Speaker 1: go back to my sanctuary, just like because I squirter.
Speaker 4: Oh you're one to go.
Speaker 3: Yeah, my friends stayed with me all summer and ruined
Speaker 3: my mattress money.
Speaker 4: And she's just like.
Speaker 3: My man, you know, grow gross gross but like every
Speaker 3: time you fuck, you squirting bro so much.
Speaker 4: Oh that makes sense.
Speaker 3: So for you, you might need to get some sort of
Speaker 3: Marriout discount of something.
Speaker 4: All punch cards.
Speaker 3: I mean, bitch, I'm a sister on someone's account, so
Speaker 3: I get discounts.
Speaker 4: Okable decision. You don't have to hook up. You got
Speaker 4: a coupon code. Hell no, I wish they need to
Speaker 4: go ahead and smash the bitch. We'll be talking about hotel.
Speaker 4: I love it. I love it. But yeah, so yeah,
Speaker 4: you're messy, I understand you. Wait, so your friend was
Speaker 4: having sex in your mattress. So I have two bedrooms,
Speaker 4: and so I let her stay friends she bangs some
Speaker 4: of her friends.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I let all of my Like we're adults,
Speaker 3: like just don't get no juices on my couch because
Speaker 3: my couch ain't even a year old yet, and I
Speaker 3: ain't fucked on my couch yet.
Speaker 4: You don't get to fuck, but yeah, couch.
Speaker 7: She talked about a sectional she talked about in my kitchen,
Speaker 7: like I don't care about that in the kitchen.
Speaker 4: I'm a good friend friends like she come on over.
Speaker 7: Like it's so funny because a friend of mine was
Speaker 7: in town recently and she talks to a front of
Speaker 7: like we.
Speaker 3: Have a mutual no no, no, that I just know.
Speaker 3: And I was like, girl, we cook and invite them
Speaker 3: over for dinner. And I was like, I'll put condoms
Speaker 3: in the nightstand for you.
Speaker 4: This is a this is an ally right here.
Speaker 3: And he didn't even know because he couldn't find parking
Speaker 3: around my apartment.
Speaker 7: There's no parking where I live, so he ended up leaving.
Speaker 7: I was like, Nigga for you and everything. He's like, man,
Speaker 7: you I didn't know that she was about that. I said,
Speaker 7: she had the little short song for you and all
Speaker 7: like you don't even know.
Speaker 3: We had salmon cook, we had a whole plate for
Speaker 3: you in He was about to come eat and get
Speaker 3: pussy and didn't even know, and I set it up
Speaker 3: for him.
Speaker 4: I set him up.
Speaker 7: There was loub toys because we got I have so
Speaker 7: many toys that I don't use.
Speaker 3: So I was like, girl, there's toys in there. If
Speaker 3: you want, I'll put the condoms in there. And there
Speaker 3: there was different So what's your Airbnb?
Speaker 4: Listen, I live in the Bronx. That's what it is.
Speaker 4: You got to take care.
Speaker 3: It took you two years to get over here, so
Speaker 3: let me make sure I have everything set.
Speaker 4: Up for you. No tanks.
Speaker 7: Listen, if you have a car and you live in Jersey,
Speaker 7: dudeif ten minutes away, my niggas live in Jersey.
Speaker 3: Or that's not Michelle, that's not my narrative. Since yeah,
Speaker 3: my narrative is uptown niggas. Anyways, I don't talk to
Speaker 3: nobody in Brooklyn. It's the long distanceship for you to.
Speaker 2: Cross a bridge to get to go to get flewed
Speaker 2: out to Brooks.
Speaker 4: It took me over an hour to come to see
Speaker 4: y'all today.
Speaker 3: Well that's why we gotta make the episode long, because
Speaker 3: it's gonna take you another hour to get back.
Speaker 7: I'm recording today for Horrible, so I'm just going to
Speaker 7: the city.
Speaker 4: We recorded five. We got time. Yeah, I saw shake
Speaker 4: Shack on the corner.
Speaker 3: I was like about to go eat.
Speaker 4: Going to go eat.
Speaker 3: Okay, talk to him, baby, So where are you meeting
Speaker 3: these guys, the guys that you're sleeping with, that you've
Speaker 3: been dating.
Speaker 4: Where?
Speaker 3: Because this is like been a question at our live
Speaker 3: shows in the email.
Speaker 4: Where do I get them? Says h bitch? Instagram? Twitter?
Speaker 7: And one of my holes I met when I was
Speaker 7: a bartender at Applebee's while he was sizzling for He
Speaker 7: is Matter. So I actually was one of the bartenders
Speaker 7: that helped opened up the apple Bees across from Barclays.
Speaker 4: So right here.
Speaker 7: I moved up to New York and one of my
Speaker 7: lovers came in. Is just sat at the bar and
Speaker 7: when his bill came, his bill was forty dollars. I
Speaker 7: tell the story because it's so funny how we are
Speaker 7: where we are now. His bill was forty dollars. He
Speaker 7: tipped me forty dollars, And at this point I'm just
Speaker 7: like this was a lot. You know, the goddamn clientele
Speaker 7: we getting right here, they barely tipping us. So I
Speaker 7: was like, well you should come here again. Let me
Speaker 7: know I'll let you know my schedule, come and see
Speaker 7: me on some on a bartender Vine ended up getting
Speaker 7: his card. He's like, well, you know I'm in I'm
Speaker 7: I'm in New York, Like, let's go have brunch. Wasn't
Speaker 7: really you know, you didn't think I didn't think anything
Speaker 7: of it.
Speaker 3: So who would my friends along? Who would play him
Speaker 3: in a movie? What does he look like? Oh God,
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna give that away because if I say, like.
Speaker 4: Yeah, if you said, look, who would playhim in the movie?
Speaker 4: Is he's famous actor? No? No, no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 4: he's not famous.
Speaker 3: He's actually like, like I hate to say regular, but regular, regular, regular.
Speaker 3: So he has he has a good job in government
Speaker 3: since we just wanted to Yeah, anyways, so he worked
Speaker 3: in New York.
Speaker 7: So he started just taking me and my friends out
Speaker 7: almost on a weekly basis. Like we was at forty
Speaker 7: forty catching games. All of my friends met him. Like
Speaker 7: so for even the first year we didn't have sex
Speaker 7: at all.
Speaker 4: I loved this guy.
Speaker 7: We didn't have sex at all, and he was just
Speaker 7: taking my friends out. Damn, it would give too much detail.
Speaker 7: And because now he's married, we haven't slept in the
Speaker 7: last year, but I'm still getting all the benefits of
Speaker 7: because we've now grown a friendship. So he's been around
Speaker 7: for the past six years, freak. And it helped because
Speaker 7: he was one of the ones that assisted me through school,
Speaker 7: which is funny because as an accountant, we had a
Speaker 7: whole week on what was this?
Speaker 4: Was it cost accounting?
Speaker 7: I can't remember the class, but anyways, he had me
Speaker 7: as an employee under his job, as a fake employee,
Speaker 7: so I was getting a check every two weeks from him,
Speaker 7: although I would only see him maybe once every three months.
Speaker 3: Beach, I gotta get back. We got to enroll in classes. Yes,
Speaker 3: so he put me on payroll. I gotta check every
Speaker 3: two weeks.
Speaker 2: Came.
Speaker 7: Yeah, like I was an employee because he was able
Speaker 7: to hire, you know, contracted workers.
Speaker 4: I was a contracted worker. So yeah, and yeah, he's dope.
Speaker 4: And now he's just for myself.
Speaker 3: He's just again it's a part time job and a
Speaker 3: part time dig you know.
Speaker 4: And I met him again working at Applebee's. So when
Speaker 4: it comes to like sanity.
Speaker 7: Where do you meet these guys, it's literally like what
Speaker 7: you I don't want to say negotiate, but it's what
Speaker 7: you want for yourself. And so when it came to
Speaker 7: what I expected out of him, especially when it became
Speaker 7: a sexual relationship, I think he was then married.
Speaker 3: When we met, he was engaged, but when he got married,
Speaker 3: the whole dynamic changed.
Speaker 7: Well, listen, if this is the role you want me
Speaker 7: to play, this is what I'm gonna need from you,
Speaker 7: and I mean.
Speaker 4: So renegotiate your country.
Speaker 7: So from from every birthday I get get like, he
Speaker 7: paid for my hotel in Mexico this past year. He
Speaker 7: supports my live shows. He's bought tickets even when he
Speaker 7: hasn't showed up. He's like, listen, I can't make this show.
Speaker 7: So I want to cover your hotel for this thing.
Speaker 7: So because even on tour, we cover our own travel
Speaker 7: and hotel. Yeah yeah, I mean it's part of our
Speaker 7: expenses and so we cover that ourselves.
Speaker 4: And so he's, yeah, he's supported meself. Really nice, he's
Speaker 4: really done.
Speaker 3: But he's a great guy. That's why he's married, because
Speaker 3: he's a good guy.
Speaker 4: This is the part that sucks.
Speaker 7: So there's three married men right now who I call
Speaker 7: my lovers. But like I said, over the last year,
Speaker 7: maybeyear and a half, I haven't even had sex with them.
Speaker 4: But I've still gotten whatever. I've the horrible decision. I know.
Speaker 3: But it's crazy because I talk about even to my friends,
Speaker 3: I'd be like, oh my god, there's such great guys.
Speaker 4: And they're like, but bitch, they're shooting on their wives.
Speaker 3: And I'm like, yeah, But aside from that, they're just
Speaker 3: really really dope.
Speaker 4: If you take that away, He's a great god.
Speaker 3: But what's crazy is but what's crazy is the relationships
Speaker 3: with them.
Speaker 7: And again, one has been in the picture for eleven years,
Speaker 7: the other has been in the picture for six years.
Speaker 4: Two have been in the picture for a lot. O.
Speaker 4: Your aura is fantastic. Thanks, So you went to the wedding.
Speaker 4: So that's the thing I told you.
Speaker 7: The years that they've been involved, I can't tell you
Speaker 7: any of their wives names, any of the names of
Speaker 7: their children, or the ages or how many they I mean,
Speaker 7: we don't care about the I don't. It doesn't I
Speaker 7: don't have those conversations.
Speaker 2: You only find the information if you want it, and
Speaker 2: I don't care about it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't care about it.
Speaker 3: This is when you find out the information when you
Speaker 3: go to the funeral and you show up and you
Speaker 3: see the family sitting there in the front row, and
Speaker 3: they're like the look is your and you're like, well,
Speaker 3: I've known your father for many years.
Speaker 4: I'm a friend of the family. I'm a friend of
Speaker 4: your father. Technically I was an employee. Yeah, I used
Speaker 4: to work for your dad.
Speaker 3: Actually I'm actually here to pick up not wqs, you know.
Speaker 4: So yeah, so.
Speaker 7: Yeah, there's really no way to meet these men. I
Speaker 7: could lie and sit here and say, yeah, I go
Speaker 7: to expensive hotels instead of the lobby bars.
Speaker 4: I can. I can do that.
Speaker 3: Bullshit, it's bullshit. I think the apps are also quite bullshit.
Speaker 3: So the seeking arrangements and stuff like that. There's so
Speaker 3: many scammers on there now. But also you have men
Speaker 3: that are going on there saying that they don't want
Speaker 3: to prostitute. So I don't want to pay, but I
Speaker 3: want a relationship, but I'm married.
Speaker 4: What the fuck do you want? You know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Like, well, no, sir, this has to be negotiated. I'm
Speaker 3: not here to try to win you over you. You're
Speaker 3: already in a position. So that's the thing that I
Speaker 3: say to any woman. Okay, So, if whether he has
Speaker 3: a girlfriend, a situation, a fiance, a wife, if he's
Speaker 3: coming to you at this point, the whole ball is
Speaker 3: in your court. And to me, I think that it's
Speaker 3: naive to sit here and off that put yourself into
Speaker 3: a level of competition where you're starting already on the bottom.
Speaker 3: To try to win someone over and take them away
Speaker 3: from someone I think is the worst karma that that
Speaker 3: you can do.
Speaker 4: I mean, if he's ready to leave her, he's definitely
Speaker 4: gonna leave he's yeah, or the way you get him
Speaker 4: is the way you're gonna lose them.
Speaker 2: So I'm not trying to take him away from so
Speaker 2: I'm just I'm just using him.
Speaker 7: So let's set it up, set it up on that's it, listen,
Speaker 7: he's our man. Yeah, And it just sucks because as
Speaker 7: a woman, when you enter those situations, you're literally putting
Speaker 7: yourself to where you have to control all your feelings.
Speaker 3: You can't hold him accountable for much because but you
Speaker 3: know that coming into you know it.
Speaker 4: Coming into it.
Speaker 7: So bitch, if you need money, if you need some
Speaker 7: bills paid, that's the least you should be getting a
Speaker 7: couple of trips and other things.
Speaker 3: So do you ever feel bad sometimes or you're like, oh,
Speaker 3: this this person has a whole family.
Speaker 7: I don't I'm not in it maliciously. I would never
Speaker 7: communicate or try to contact the wives. I've now grown
Speaker 7: a friendship of friendship with these people, So it's beyond
Speaker 7: an arrangement where I feel spiteful at all, Like I
Speaker 7: genuinely care for these people. Over the years, They've genuinely
Speaker 7: cared for me as far as helping me in my
Speaker 7: journey with the podcast, seeing me through school, giving me
Speaker 7: graduation gifts, like genuinely caring about my well being. So
Speaker 7: it's beyond, you know, I would say even an arrangement,
Speaker 7: like there's a friendship. Like even one most recently was like,
Speaker 7: didn't care if we ever dealt sexually again. He was like,
Speaker 7: at this point, you're my sister. And I was like, well,
Speaker 7: that's kind of weird.
Speaker 4: Calm down from the South. I was like, actually day
Speaker 4: he met sister in christ. Oh yeah, well that's the thing.
Speaker 7: He's just like, I feel like we're going to know
Speaker 7: each other forever, so he's gonna put you in his will.
Speaker 7: So yeah, I don't feel bad because there's no ill intent. Also,
Speaker 7: I feel like in the realm of non monogamy, which
Speaker 7: we talk about a lot on our show, and I
Speaker 7: think what a lot of people are engaging in nowadays.
Speaker 7: I don't know their situation. His loyalty should be to
Speaker 7: his wife, so whatever arrangement they have, I don't know.
Speaker 4: But also we've talked about it too.
Speaker 3: A lot of women turn the blind eye to men
Speaker 3: of money and power.
Speaker 4: Yep.
Speaker 7: And these men clearly ain't broke if they're able to
Speaker 7: put me also in a good situation. So I think
Speaker 7: that there's there's a blind eye possibly being turned, because
Speaker 7: even I talked to them, I was like, well, I.
Speaker 4: Know I ain't been the only one all these years.
Speaker 3: It's not just me, Okay, So Sidney, well, what I'm
Speaker 3: writing here on the sheet is I gotta get me
Speaker 3: some hoes for the good.
Speaker 4: Of the podcast.
Speaker 3: For research purposes, yes, I mean not necessarily for the research,
Speaker 3: but you know, also to support the pod absolutely financially. Yes, absolutely,
Speaker 3: I said, I said, listen, I want to learn how
Speaker 3: to edit my audio.
Speaker 4: I think I need a Mac.
Speaker 7: I had a MacBook Pro the next day since my house,
Speaker 7: so like literally.
Speaker 3: Like I I literally had it sent to me the
Speaker 3: next day because I was like, well you got a
Speaker 3: space grind I came he sent.
Speaker 4: There was also a case with it.
Speaker 3: The seventeen inch a big one too, because I was like,
Speaker 3: I think I need to be able to see.
Speaker 4: So I got the whole Adobe sweet and so I learned.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I learned how to do audition, Premiere Pro, Audacity,
Speaker 7: and garage band. I do I know how to edit
Speaker 7: on all? Well, I'm learning audition right now. I'm not
Speaker 7: as well, but that I know that that's what we use.
Speaker 7: But Audacity like the back of my hand, garage band
Speaker 7: like the back of mind.
Speaker 4: Did all that stuff trying to get rid of it
Speaker 4: yourself and everything?
Speaker 7: Yeah, no, I mean again, you can learn everything on YouTube,
Speaker 7: Like even if I talk about what you guys talk about,
Speaker 7: what you guys are experts in this week, I spent
Speaker 7: quite a few hours. We got the call for a
Speaker 7: really big opportunity that's coming our way, and so they
Speaker 7: were like, do you have a deck?
Speaker 3: So I was like, get it to you right away,
Speaker 3: and so I literally spent hours Google and creating our
Speaker 3: own deck, which would cost us, you know, a ton
Speaker 3: of money, and I could show you, guys what our
Speaker 3: deck looks like. You want to see, But I think
Speaker 3: that as a creative, as a creative, this can become expensive.
Speaker 7: I always tell people don't just leave what you're doing.
Speaker 7: You're nine to five is what's going to invest in
Speaker 7: what you're doing. But this all comes at a price,
Speaker 7: and the easiest way to save on your own investment
Speaker 7: is to teach yourself, like how to do these things
Speaker 7: and so, and.
Speaker 4: Then expense everything when tech season comes.
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, well DIDs. So this is you guys can see.
Speaker 3: This is our our media kit. So it has all
Speaker 3: of our numbers. And I spent hours doing this. So
Speaker 3: you guys talk about what you guys are experts in.
Speaker 4: I'm an expert in. That's what you were doing. That's
Speaker 4: what you were doing this week when I was not
Speaker 4: doing no work. I heard you. It's building a media kit. Incredible. Yeah,
Speaker 4: it's a five five page deck. We love to see. Okay,
Speaker 4: so in the dream world, what is do you want
Speaker 4: to get married? Ever? Do you do you believe in monogamy?
Speaker 7: I wouldn't mind being in a swinger possibly relationship.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm cool with that type of situation. I'm really
Speaker 3: big with going.
Speaker 4: Into things realistically.
Speaker 7: There was like, you know, if your man ain't shit, yeah,
Speaker 7: you know what I mean, And so a title isn't
Speaker 7: going to change that man from being who you've always
Speaker 7: known him to be sure. And so if I were
Speaker 7: to say, sign up to date an athlete, or if
Speaker 7: I were to sign up to date a nigga and
Speaker 7: the jets that I knowed and fucked about five bitches
Speaker 7: in his building, or like, it doesn't matter. Like the
Speaker 7: range is you know you're with, Yes, and so as
Speaker 7: long as you don't embarrass me, as long as you
Speaker 7: bring nothing back to me health wise, and as long
Speaker 7: as you don't create a whole new family while we're together.
Speaker 4: And it doesn't bother me, it doesn't bother me. Pretty
Speaker 4: those are pretty, you can ask him from us.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I say that's a MacBook Pro, and they'll
Speaker 2: make me look stupid.
Speaker 4: Don't give I say that.
Speaker 7: To say, if I get into a relationship with someone,
Speaker 7: I'm not gonna beat down monogamy. I'm not gonna go
Speaker 7: through his phone. I'm not gonna search for something that
Speaker 7: probably I know is there. If I'm searching, I know
Speaker 7: there's something there. And I think any woman who searches
Speaker 7: just knows there's something.
Speaker 3: That's what they say when you go, when you go looking,
Speaker 3: you're gonna find something.
Speaker 7: And it says you're gonna find something you don't like,
Speaker 7: but you already know because you're looking. And that's just
Speaker 7: where I feel the diaivity and women come from. Where
Speaker 7: are you searching because you already know the nigga you
Speaker 7: w If you know the nigga, you wit check that
Speaker 7: nigga on who he is and what you expect out
Speaker 7: of him. But have realistic expectations from whoever you decide
Speaker 7: to be.
Speaker 4: When don't be calling the side bitch.
Speaker 7: I told y'all you had I got a woman, a
Speaker 7: woman DM, and I was just like, but you know
Speaker 7: the nigga you're with because he's our I know the
Speaker 7: type of nig he is, and I wouldn't blink twice.
Speaker 7: And you also know already who I am because hello,
Speaker 7: but not my podcast but a few years. Like she's
Speaker 7: known of me over the years, Like didn't know she
Speaker 7: was living send of my birthday gift. She's she got
Speaker 7: the gift I posted him when he told me he
Speaker 7: was single on my page. That brought dramas, So she's
Speaker 7: already been in my comments.
Speaker 4: Now.
Speaker 7: She went to my DM's woman and a woman and
Speaker 7: said we was gonna have problems, and I was like
Speaker 7: when I told him, I was like, well, sis, y'all
Speaker 7: are on and off the same way me and him
Speaker 7: are on and off. Do you think that I'm gonna
Speaker 7: hit you up and ask for your permission.
Speaker 4: To see if you're single? If he's telling me he's single.
Speaker 3: Do you know what her response was? Since don't believe him.
Speaker 3: Don't believe what he says. He's telling me he's single,
Speaker 3: and you telling me not to believe this, nigga, but
Speaker 3: you and my phone trying to check me about dealing
Speaker 3: with your but also God.
Speaker 4: Says you're telling me not to believe him.
Speaker 3: Since leave him just gun, pack your box and guns.
Speaker 4: I put in too many years.
Speaker 3: But nine, yeah, he been in a picture since two
Speaker 3: thousand and ten? What are we doing the same thing?
Speaker 4: That good?
Speaker 3: No, this isn't Applebee's. This is I ain't gonna say name,
Speaker 3: this is chili.
Speaker 4: This is okay.
Speaker 3: So how often are you having sex in a week
Speaker 3: when you're when you're here in New York. I don't
Speaker 3: have a regular anymore, so like in the last four months,
Speaker 3: so since I would say since October, because I went
Speaker 3: after the three summer went pretty ghost when I cut
Speaker 3: them off. So since October I have had sex three times?
Speaker 4: What and one of those I got fleud out for
Speaker 4: you're a good Christian gay, so it's really not.
Speaker 7: I know, I think people think I am out here
Speaker 7: just fucking my brains out or getting them.
Speaker 3: I feel like, in my mind, I feel like you
Speaker 3: having sex like maybe two or three times.
Speaker 7: No, literally, in the last four months, I've had sex
Speaker 7: three times, and I went on a three month, like
Speaker 7: a two and a half month hiatus where it wasn't
Speaker 7: fucking because I couldn't find a partner.
Speaker 3: But when you really, okay, so what peak season, peak
Speaker 3: manby summertime was coming.
Speaker 7: I'll be honestly like I said, so like when I
Speaker 7: had his name was twenty four to seven because he
Speaker 7: name no, because he he was he Literally I changed
Speaker 7: the ring tongue because I would wake up out my
Speaker 7: sleep and be like, okay, on my way to Jersey
Speaker 7: four o'clock if I had to be to work at seven,
Speaker 7: if I had to be work at nine, I would
Speaker 7: still try to squeeze and going to fuck him at
Speaker 7: six seven am.
Speaker 4: From Jersey to Jersey.
Speaker 7: Yeah, why because it was just great and he was
Speaker 7: the only one I fucked regularly in New York.
Speaker 4: So whenever I could get it, I got it was
Speaker 4: you getting on the train and you're getting no, he
Speaker 4: picked my uber there and back. Yeah, listeners, if you
Speaker 4: know it, you need to.
Speaker 7: It was probably every time he saw me, I would
Speaker 7: say eighty dollars an uber there and back, so thirty
Speaker 7: five to fifty each way.
Speaker 3: So it wasn't bad of that for you, friend. But
Speaker 3: where in New Jersey was you going? It wasn't right
Speaker 3: across the bridge, so right across the gw B. It
Speaker 3: wasn't deep like catgwater.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we don't know where.
Speaker 3: Edgewater sounds nice. Yeah, it sounds like he had a
Speaker 3: yard that had grass on it. He had at home
Speaker 3: at home. He had a home. And so when we were.
Speaker 7: Fucking, I would say, yeah, I was getting dick probably weekly.
Speaker 4: And then.
Speaker 7: My other lovers, if they came to town, I would maybe,
Speaker 7: you know, just here and there.
Speaker 3: The schedule, you would say, They would send you they
Speaker 3: avails and yeah, yeah, i'll see if I schedule I'm
Speaker 3: a pencil you in for Thursday at noon.
Speaker 4: See put it's crazy.
Speaker 7: Now, that's the thing too, when you're dealing with a
Speaker 7: guy of any sort of power or where he's used
Speaker 7: to just everything falling at his tips right now, it's
Speaker 7: been harder for me to find partners because even when
Speaker 7: I want to get fluid out, like I think the
Speaker 7: first week of January.
Speaker 4: I was talking with a friend of mine, looked up
Speaker 4: his schedule because.
Speaker 7: It's Google, and saw the cities he was going to
Speaker 7: be in, and then like, he was like, can you
Speaker 7: come see me here? I'm going to be in New
Speaker 7: York for a week here maybe, And I was like, well,
Speaker 7: I have my live shows on me in the Midwest.
Speaker 7: So it was literally the first week of January, and
Speaker 7: I was like, February first. I see who you're playing.
Speaker 7: I could do February first, and that don't work with
Speaker 7: niggas like that. I ain't planning a month out to
Speaker 7: get some pussy. They want, they want it when they
Speaker 7: want it. So it's been very hard for me now,
Speaker 7: just with my schedule and a man respecting me and
Speaker 7: my schedule to work around me.
Speaker 4: I love you, okay, we googled you, boss, bitch.
Speaker 3: Okay, So when you're gonna do what Ted talks is,
Speaker 3: let's talk about you're doing it.
Speaker 4: I would love to do and I'm gonna tell I'm
Speaker 4: gonna tell y'all motherfuckers right now. Not Ted X. That
Speaker 4: is a little Ted talk. Okay, shading ted X.
Speaker 3: What's going on with no shade about TEDx is like
Speaker 3: the Marshals of Ted talks.
Speaker 7: Yeah, there you go, there you go. It's like a
Speaker 7: bird Doff Goodman and then there's Marshals.
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, egg money, and I would prefer heard you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean, you know, because they
Speaker 2: just asked me to do something, so I mean.
Speaker 4: It's not bad. I mean your way, you're gonna do one,
Speaker 4: and we were gonna support it. I support I think
Speaker 4: it's still a good look a shade.
Speaker 7: I did feel like I had to come in and
Speaker 7: be sure I was on my toes with you because
Speaker 7: when y'all came on the horrible decisions, oh the shade you.
Speaker 4: Live in the Bronx you knew he was gonna roll
Speaker 4: Bronx jokes.
Speaker 3: There was nail jokes because I was like interested. I
Speaker 3: was like, well, she's got nails, but what's up you
Speaker 3: saying that?
Speaker 4: You girl?
Speaker 7: Listen, I know a pussy because I have one, and
Speaker 7: I'm gonna make sure I'm not scratching you.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna be gentle, it's gonna be lubed. I'm not
Speaker 4: hurting nobody nails? What is these coffin shape?
Speaker 7: They are coffing points in the rstone just gonna go in.
Speaker 7: So the rhinestone I do not put in anybody. I'm
Speaker 7: telling you because I don't.
Speaker 2: Want you to got Claire's necessories on your fingers.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just ship so like with these nails, I'm
Speaker 4: fingering with these two fingers. Well, I need to see
Speaker 4: how you work.
Speaker 3: Okay, go ahead, Sidney, open your legs, right, Andrew to
Speaker 3: pull out a deck?
Speaker 4: Did they pop up that thing? Let's see the I
Speaker 4: crossed the line. I'm sorry, I let me see that.
Speaker 4: Make that the whole way. Andrew said he's going to
Speaker 4: hr Andrew little do you know?
Speaker 3: I am hr It's okay, It'll be one check mark.
Speaker 4: You'll still stay on. Yeah, I'm sorry. Okay, So Ted talk.
Speaker 4: That's that's the dream.
Speaker 7: Uh So, honestly the dream for me when it's all
Speaker 7: said and done, I would so I would love to
Speaker 7: continue to be a voice not only for women of color,
Speaker 7: women of all shapes and sizes, being that I've been
Speaker 7: that woman at every size, I would enjoy radio.
Speaker 4: That's kind of yeah, and that's kind of.
Speaker 7: Where I see myself going more so because it's something
Speaker 7: that would also still allow me creatively to do what
Speaker 7: I want. On the side, I'm not gonna lie. My
Speaker 7: anxiety has went into overdrive. Yeah, So the anxiety comes
Speaker 7: from I think just a lot of life changes all
Speaker 7: happening at once. So for those a lot of people
Speaker 7: who arelready know my journey, I did have the gastric
Speaker 7: sleeve surgery. Okay, so over the last two years now,
Speaker 7: I got this in twenty eighteen January and twenty eighteen,
Speaker 7: So over the last two years, I've dropped maybe eighty
Speaker 7: to eighty five pounds, So I went from two hundred
Speaker 7: and thirty pounds to about one hundred and fifty five.
Speaker 7: So that's been drastically different. Like I went from a
Speaker 7: size eighteen to a size six.
Speaker 3: Looks like a size ten, you know, but I'm five
Speaker 3: foot one, so I still look come back to you.
Speaker 3: So yeah, I think these are even a medium rainbow rainbow.
Speaker 3: I literally just bought a size.
Speaker 4: Six from H and M. Though I think H and
Speaker 4: H and you know stretched I'm in size wear eight.
Speaker 3: Okay, that's true, and I'm six to eight on pretty
Speaker 3: little thing.
Speaker 4: Okay. You got a lot of little thing be real,
Speaker 4: you know, stretch by anyway.
Speaker 7: So so that's how and to where I've drastically shrink
Speaker 7: and as far as my appearance, everything I feel.
Speaker 4: So I have anxiety right now of weight and going back.
Speaker 4: Are you in the gym? Syst No is the diet
Speaker 4: so yeah, so that's the thing. I have forced portion control.
Speaker 7: So my stomach went from think of the size of
Speaker 7: a flat football to the size of a golf ball.
Speaker 4: So you can't really I.
Speaker 7: Took eighty percent of my stomach, so you so I
Speaker 7: just can't eat. I eat small portion to full, Yeah,
Speaker 7: very fast.
Speaker 4: But do you eat often? Like more meals, more small meals,
Speaker 4: really hungry?
Speaker 7: And then certain things that I guess are would help
Speaker 7: people or aid in people gaining weight.
Speaker 4: Literally I just don't feel good. So starches.
Speaker 7: So like if I go to shake Shack right now,
Speaker 7: my burger won't have a bun.
Speaker 3: I don't do bread, you know, I'll put no, I'll
Speaker 3: put the like I let it meat, but it's gonna
Speaker 3: be on lettuce. I don't do pasta, just how my body.
Speaker 7: I can't do sugars or I get roseta my whole
Speaker 7: face like, so I don't do.
Speaker 3: Sugar in a specific diet. I'm not really good with milk.
Speaker 3: I've already lacked to so, Darius, you're not doing like
Speaker 3: an oatmealk No, So like it's just.
Speaker 7: I'm very I just can't eat a lot now, not
Speaker 7: like tashimi and raw shit like things that I can.
Speaker 4: Eat like seafoods are good for me. Or you know,
Speaker 4: now what size? What size broad do you wear?
Speaker 7: Because you also look so these went down though I
Speaker 7: was a triple G, not a triple G. I was
Speaker 7: a triple D into a G cup.
Speaker 4: I don't even these now, I mean these are not Yeah,
Speaker 4: I look very nice. What kind of broad? Is that true?
Speaker 3: And co we we got sponsors, okay, yeah, and it's
Speaker 3: like a sports school. These are now I'm a D
Speaker 3: to a thirty six C or thirty four D.
Speaker 4: Did you get the surgery for health reasons or yeah?
Speaker 7: It was so also just for how I felt literally
Speaker 7: over four years. And it's funny because they talk about
Speaker 7: the fresh ten. I think I feel like I got
Speaker 7: that every year that I was in school, over like
Speaker 7: four or five years, I had like literally gained fifty
Speaker 7: pounds ten pounds a year.
Speaker 4: It was just going up and.
Speaker 3: So Yeah, it got to that's a lot for somebody
Speaker 3: who's five five one tiny.
Speaker 4: So that's the thing.
Speaker 7: Being in New York. I wasn't fitting boots. They weren't
Speaker 7: going up my calves. It's winter and I'm not fitting jeans.
Speaker 7: So I'm still wearing stretchy and spandex shit all year
Speaker 7: round because I can't really find anything that fits me.
Speaker 7: I felt even bigger because you have to layer here,
Speaker 7: and so I genuinely just the confidence that I showed
Speaker 7: out in public wasn't there in real life. I hated shopping.
Speaker 7: Nothing ever fit. Even when I was on Fashion Nova
Speaker 7: and these online sites. Oh, I was in the pluses
Speaker 7: so one x two X didn't know what really my
Speaker 7: size was, and so that just drained me. And then
Speaker 7: also the level of anxiety I had in my mind.
Speaker 7: I told y'all, I thought I was going to be
Speaker 7: an accountant for twenty years from now, and so last
Speaker 7: year leaving my corporate job, I now have anxiety of
Speaker 7: Jesus Christ, what if I ever have to put my
Speaker 7: resume back to get there and go back into the workforce.
Speaker 7: So the idea of having to interview because whatever I
Speaker 7: bet on myself doesn't work so it's just literally.
Speaker 4: It will and it is and and I'm hoping it is,
Speaker 4: and you're.
Speaker 3: Waiting manifest Now I have a life coach that I'm
Speaker 3: getting now, like I'm.
Speaker 4: A life, Yes you are?
Speaker 3: You are since here you are a white woman, Yes
Speaker 3: I hate you, but are listen my life.
Speaker 4: That you can't eat bread like and you got a life?
Speaker 3: Yes, white woman when chases, wait until I get a
Speaker 3: fucking candle that smells like my vagina.
Speaker 4: Listen, does she have a candle that smells like Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a seventy five sold out immediately and sold
Speaker 3: it seventy five dollars. I want to put candle because
Speaker 3: I don't know if you guys heard.
Speaker 7: Most recently, Rikabadou is selling a perfume that smells like
Speaker 7: her vagina. So I mean she'd have had kids and
Speaker 7: then bagged fucking all the niggas to mark bag the Marley.
Speaker 7: She'd be bagged common which I still want them con
Speaker 7: I'm here, vagina smells like Andre. She didn't came through
Speaker 7: to come through with the black men.
Speaker 3: Come through, you know, she did what needed to be done. Okay,
Speaker 3: so you got the surgery. We're gonna wrap this up. Yeah,
Speaker 3: no problem. Problem, you got the surgery. What is the
Speaker 3: what's the recovery time for that?
Speaker 7: It wasn't much. I mean should I I was back
Speaker 7: at work. I had surgery on a Saturday. I was
Speaker 7: back at work on a Thursday. Probably shouldn't have been
Speaker 7: that guy. Yeah, And it was more so just because
Speaker 7: you're using It's.
Speaker 4: The New York commute.
Speaker 7: I was going from the Bronx to Jersey City at
Speaker 7: this time, so it's just a lot of New York.
Speaker 4: Commuting is a lot.
Speaker 7: Leaving your house, you not only spend money, but you
Speaker 7: exert so much energy because you're fighting people, You're going
Speaker 7: up and downstairs the subway.
Speaker 4: You're trying to run for a trade whatever. But it
Speaker 4: wasn't that long.
Speaker 7: Like in the first month I dropped twenty five pounds.
Speaker 7: But in the first what is it, six to eight weeks,
Speaker 7: it was literally liquids only. Yeah, so just the energy
Speaker 7: was six to eight weeks liquid. You go from liquid
Speaker 7: to puree to soft food like a baby. Yeah, so
Speaker 7: the first three months was damn near that.
Speaker 4: You're really going through it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, But like I'm two years out, I feel great,
Speaker 3: I'm healthy.
Speaker 4: Is that surgery like this really expensive? I had. I
Speaker 4: was in school, I had Medicaid. Yeah, it paid for
Speaker 4: it fully.
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I had MEDICID at the time, so that's
Speaker 7: why I was like, oh, let me rush and get
Speaker 7: this while I'm still a student.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so it was it was free for me because
Speaker 4: for health reasons. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 7: But also if you just have a certain BMI. So
Speaker 7: my height with my weight put me at the BMI
Speaker 7: range where I was approved. But a lot of people
Speaker 7: with weight have shortness of breath, sleep apnea, high blood pressure,
Speaker 7: blood pressure, cholesterol. There's a lot of health reasons once
Speaker 7: you're a certain way.
Speaker 4: Okay, well but yeah, but yeah, you know, I love
Speaker 4: your journey, Mandy. It's you told us the whole story beginning. Literally,
Speaker 4: I was bartending, working job. Tell us what a year?
Speaker 7: I mean, uh, what month you what's your birthday? Oh,
Speaker 7: libra October eleventh. Although I don't believe in stars and
Speaker 7: moon and all.
Speaker 4: That bullshit, I be. I'm a liber too, But you
Speaker 4: started with the word libra, Yeah, because I know that's
Speaker 4: that's what people you know, I do.
Speaker 7: I believe that horoscopes are just an excuse for our toxic.
Speaker 4: Behavior or that's it. Literally, that's all I think it, well,
Speaker 4: I don't.
Speaker 3: I just mentioned I just asked why they was because
Speaker 3: we know everything about you and now we know.
Speaker 4: Your birthday, yeah, October eleven.
Speaker 3: But then it's so good for the listeners to know,
Speaker 3: like you could, you could be well versed, you can
Speaker 3: be you can do it all, Like you could be
Speaker 3: a bartender, you could have a podcast, you could have.
Speaker 4: Been an accountant. Finished.
Speaker 7: I finished one hundred and fifty one credits of school
Speaker 7: in four years, So I got two bachelor's degrees in
Speaker 7: four years.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but that's given imdbbit.
Speaker 7: That's the thing with us women. I think you guys,
Speaker 7: even as black women comedians. Yeah, there's a lot that
Speaker 7: you guys have to push through. And so right now,
Speaker 7: being a woman who's openly sexual, yeah, I feel like
Speaker 7: it's funny. I met a guy most recently at an
Speaker 7: event and he was like, Yo, I listened to you.
Speaker 3: You're the podcast. You speak so well that I was like,
Speaker 3: you really are different.
Speaker 7: I didn't expect certain things to come out of your
Speaker 7: mouth because because why I'm out here, second dick who
Speaker 7: is not sucking dick?
Speaker 4: Your mom suck dick.
Speaker 3: Like the Michelle Obama that we sold the praise to
Speaker 3: your children.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna sucks, Dick Beyonce. I don't think Oprah sucks.
Speaker 4: I think she's eating.
Speaker 3: Put or or Gail is eating Oprah's either way.
Speaker 4: But that's the thing.
Speaker 7: It's being in a space right now as not only
Speaker 7: a woman of color, but someone who's vocal about my
Speaker 7: sexual prowess. I think it's I'm very much judged with
Speaker 7: what people may think I'm capable of or what my
Speaker 7: actual journey is, and I'm just I'm discredited.
Speaker 4: Well, the thing, no, it's not that it's not that
Speaker 4: they're mad.
Speaker 3: They just they assume that when a woman is that
Speaker 3: open and that she's smart but right, and because she's
Speaker 3: a hoe, she's not smart, and that's it. But they
Speaker 3: don't know, they don't know your journey. We got the whole,
Speaker 3: we got. This was one of the first times that
Speaker 3: I really like had to go through this. So I
Speaker 3: appreciate you. Yes, and we saw the pegging video. Is
Speaker 3: there another pegging video? Like four or five? And I
Speaker 3: think so. The thing is, so I've always wanted to
Speaker 3: like I be I be in my.
Speaker 4: Bag, like like like I'm a nigg nick.
Speaker 7: So there's a video with his face, but only because
Speaker 7: at one point I was like, ooh, I want to
Speaker 7: make my dick jump.
Speaker 4: So after I put it out of him, I like, made.
Speaker 7: My strap jump and I wanted to record it, and
Speaker 7: so there is a video where he nutted and then
Speaker 7: I just.
Speaker 4: Let my dick jump just a little bit. And just
Speaker 4: because I was like, I think it's fun Well, I
Speaker 4: love it. We love a horrible decisions. Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 7: And it's funny because when you were like, oh, let's
Speaker 7: talk about pegging, I'm glad you know we just talked.
Speaker 3: About it, and then right out of it, no talk
Speaker 3: about everything. Okay, Well I'm looking to peg somebody in March.
Speaker 3: I can give you the l and I can let
Speaker 3: you know, like the strap.
Speaker 4: So it's funny. The strap that I used last time,
Speaker 4: he said it was a little hard. I just got
Speaker 4: a new.
Speaker 3: One then a little more, a little bit more soft.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 3: So for me as a as a novice pegging nigga,
Speaker 3: top three things that I should know going.
Speaker 7: Into it, Going into pegging, I think the number one
Speaker 7: thing is that you and him need to be open
Speaker 7: that you both want this and make sure you know
Speaker 7: he wants it as much as you want it, just
Speaker 7: so that when the action comes and takes place, it
Speaker 7: like leaves any of like the just talk about.
Speaker 4: It a lot before it actually has.
Speaker 7: So I'm gonna put talks, send videos to each other,
Speaker 7: start even including it in your sex talk, like I
Speaker 7: can't wait to bend you over, like, Oh, you're gonna
Speaker 7: take this like and just get him to start being
Speaker 7: comfortable with you, even saying, find out the size he
Speaker 7: can take. So either start with fingers, see if you
Speaker 7: can fit two three, But I mean you're.
Speaker 4: Out the well, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 7: Well, there's steps to this, so you don't just go
Speaker 7: right out. Yeah, no, you literally you want to start
Speaker 7: with eating first. If you don't, if you want to
Speaker 7: skip that part, that's fine, then grab you want to
Speaker 7: grab lube and see how many fingers he can take,
Speaker 7: because you do want to know how tight his hole is.
Speaker 4: Gonna be.
Speaker 6: Wait, so do you usually get with guys that have
Speaker 6: been pegged before?
Speaker 4: So, so I'll be honest with you.
Speaker 7: I'm someone who is very sexually fluid, So I've been
Speaker 7: with guys who have been fingered before. Yes, I have
Speaker 7: also been with guys who have been with trans women, okay,
Speaker 7: and whether they've bonded bottomed or not some of those details.
Speaker 7: I know they're just a little they're just not comfortable
Speaker 7: yet with even explore like telling me who they you
Speaker 7: know are, So yeah, I know that they're into antal play.
Speaker 7: They've fingered their own butts before I've gotten to go there,
Speaker 7: like I'll make them do that. I have a guy
Speaker 7: on my phone where I made him fingers on ass.
Speaker 7: So I mean it's his finger and it's his aid,
Speaker 7: so I mean it's something to where I have wanted
Speaker 7: to make sure, like we need to see how this
Speaker 7: opens up and if you're comfortable, and I also be
Speaker 7: sure to let them know I'm going to be gentle.
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna hurt you. I only want to do
Speaker 4: what's enjoyable for you.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, so I'm already I'm already going into it
Speaker 3: with the wrong attitude. Yeah no, no, no, no, you don't
Speaker 3: want to pound them to oblivion because because then he
Speaker 3: may be like, this wasn't enjoyable. I don't want to
Speaker 3: do this again again. Okay, So what's the third thing? Yes,
Speaker 3: the size that he can take, finger figure the size
Speaker 3: he can take, and then for you, this is what
Speaker 3: you do alone.
Speaker 7: Harnesses can can be uncomfortable they are, so you want
Speaker 7: to go, and you know this is a lesbian, so
Speaker 7: you want to go for me. When I was bigger,
Speaker 7: there was one that had padding and that adjusted around
Speaker 7: my thighs. It had a waste, there was a thing,
Speaker 7: but also there was a padding in the back because
Speaker 7: when you're pulling, it is going to be rubbing your back.
Speaker 7: And you also just want to be sure that you
Speaker 7: can adjust around your thighs. As a big thigh woman,
Speaker 7: I had to go in and make sure that harness
Speaker 7: went up well adjusted and.
Speaker 4: That I was able to take it off with ease.
Speaker 7: So I would say you, you're much smaller, so I
Speaker 7: don't think you're gonna have problems finding one, but you
Speaker 7: want one that's not gonna shafe you. You don't want
Speaker 7: to be shaped by your own by your own harness,
Speaker 7: so that's something that you can do on your own.
Speaker 7: And you want to make sure the dick is positioned
Speaker 7: r you also so that in the harness.
Speaker 3: You want to be sure that where you place your
Speaker 3: dildo is secure, because you don't want a flimsy dick
Speaker 3: because then you can't really stroke how you want to.
Speaker 3: So you want to be sure that even where you
Speaker 3: put the dill doo, it's tight around whatever size you do.
Speaker 3: And a lot of times the harness has come with
Speaker 3: different ring sizes for different size dildos, so you could
Speaker 3: start off small.
Speaker 4: I did start off small, like thin.
Speaker 7: Now I'm using ones because even you might also want
Speaker 7: to check his comfortability. The first person I pegged wasn't
Speaker 7: comfortable with the dil doo looking like a dick.
Speaker 4: So yeah, so.
Speaker 3: He didn't want it to look like dick, but he
Speaker 3: wanted right, so a lot of So I actually bought
Speaker 3: a prostate dildo. And so these dil do kind of
Speaker 3: the curve at the top, and so when I bought it,
Speaker 3: the lady at the store let me know that where
Speaker 3: the prostate is. Whether you have him on his back
Speaker 3: or on his stomach, it wants you need to make
Speaker 3: sure that the curve going up is towards the belly button.
Speaker 4: So if you're fucking him from the back, the prostate.
Speaker 7: And if you're fucking him on his stomach, you want
Speaker 7: the curve to be pointing up. So yeah, that was
Speaker 7: the first person. These the last two niggas, he came
Speaker 7: with me to pick it out. The one I mind you,
Speaker 7: I have used the same strap on different man.
Speaker 3: Yeah, hold on, because every time that lesbians like I
Speaker 3: gotta get a new dick for a new chick.
Speaker 4: I'm always like that sounds do and expensive and expensive.
Speaker 3: I have a lot of toy cleaners, like Lilo sent
Speaker 3: us a lot of toy cleaners.
Speaker 4: I boiled my dick. I talk about it often.
Speaker 3: You have a dickling pot or you use that to
Speaker 3: make noodles and stuff.
Speaker 4: Girl, I mean it's just bulling. You put your greens
Speaker 4: in the dick pot. Okay, no, that goes in a
Speaker 4: different podcast. Respect Well, you don't give a fuck, you know.
Speaker 4: But yeah, so I have.
Speaker 7: But again he said it was hard, So I got
Speaker 7: a new one. Also, both of them said they're willing
Speaker 7: to take a bigger one now. So like again, so
Speaker 7: what size are we at currently?
Speaker 4: So right now, I'm at six.
Speaker 7: This was a six inch dick on that you saw
Speaker 7: the video of and it's it's it's hefty. It's a
Speaker 7: good size the one I have now, I just got
Speaker 7: a mold of King Noir's dick, and that ship my
Speaker 7: hand doesn't even wrap around and my mouth couldn't go
Speaker 7: past the head. So I don't know what niggas taking it.
Speaker 7: I told him, I said, I'm grateful we ain't never
Speaker 7: did nothing, because you would have destroyed my whole inside.
Speaker 7: So again I may go up to maybe an eight
Speaker 7: and a half or but yeah, again I would say
Speaker 7: the third thing would be harness for you, Harness for me.
Speaker 4: Wanted to be also.
Speaker 7: Comfortable for you and you don't want fucking harness burns
Speaker 7: hope on your thigh.
Speaker 4: Or you're going to be at the doctor. I'm gonna
Speaker 4: be at the gym change and they can be like somebody,
Speaker 4: it's just the inside of that. So yeah, just that
Speaker 4: would be your your homework. Okay, do you feel like
Speaker 4: this is the girl?
Speaker 2: Yepkay I know all of that that is actual, factual
Speaker 2: and okay, so transparent with your directions.
Speaker 4: I love it. Okay, so before we go, do you
Speaker 4: have any questions? Before? Do you have any questions?
Speaker 5: Andrew?
Speaker 6: So, are these guys are they?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Are they like like, are they intimate at all?
Speaker 7: For them? So that all three of them have different stories.
Speaker 7: So the first one has let a guy suck as dick,
Speaker 7: but he's never been intimate and it's adamant that he
Speaker 7: doesn't care what they look like.
Speaker 4: It's just I think the power dynamic of it.
Speaker 7: The second one, he is more into trans women, and
Speaker 7: although I tried to like set up a three some
Speaker 7: with another guy, he's just like, listen, I'm not into men,
Speaker 7: but I'm into trans women, but I'm not. So that's
Speaker 7: something where again I want to be pleased. I'll watch y'all,
Speaker 7: but I don't want to be involved. And then the
Speaker 7: last one, he's done a gay for pay scene, so
Speaker 7: he has been opened up by a man, but doesn't
Speaker 7: like men either. So because he enjoys the anal play,
Speaker 7: I was the first woman to peg him and he
Speaker 7: wants that done a lot more. But that's because his
Speaker 7: primary wasn't open and dominating or pegging him. So yeah,
Speaker 7: those are the three, you know.
Speaker 4: I just love how hearing. Yeah and so and again I've.
Speaker 7: Had open conversations about what makes them comfortable, what they've done,
Speaker 7: like just to even let them know I don't give
Speaker 7: a fuck about like sexually, how you are. I do
Speaker 7: care about your health, but I want you to know
Speaker 7: I'm not here to expose, Like, be open with me.
Speaker 7: I'm not gonna judge you if you don't suck dick
Speaker 7: before I don't care I'll be.
Speaker 4: With a bisexual man. I don't like. That's not something
Speaker 4: that bothers me. Yeah, you're not that seen any.
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, you're like your noodles in the same
Speaker 2: I mean I expect Matt, you boy or dick. You're
Speaker 2: not use recycled dicks, so.
Speaker 4: You ain't got no no room to gerge. Okay.
Speaker 3: So last thing that I want to ask you before
Speaker 3: we go, is is there anything that you want to
Speaker 3: leave the listeners with that you feel like you you missed,
Speaker 3: or you you got something coming up, or you just
Speaker 3: want them to know about themselves or whatever.
Speaker 7: I wouldn't say, not that I missed. I would I guess,
Speaker 7: want to leave your listeners off. But again, just finding
Speaker 7: what makes them happy in terms of sexuality, your friends,
Speaker 7: your family. You can't seek happiness from anyone but yourself.
Speaker 3: Okay, So circle, I just gearing up for the not
Speaker 3: the ted X though.
Speaker 4: Y'all gonna get this tad. I would say, I would
Speaker 4: say that just finding what makes you happy.
Speaker 7: Before you expect a man or a woman to please
Speaker 7: you in the bedroom, you find out what pleases you
Speaker 7: in the bedroom, Yes, but your own as you don't.
Speaker 4: Do that and see if you like it or not.
Speaker 7: And also yes, there is a lot coming up with
Speaker 7: Horrible Decisions. So if you guys care to come see
Speaker 7: us live, we are currently on tour.
Speaker 4: Fucking go.
Speaker 7: It's a really really good show, which y'all could have
Speaker 7: made it, but y'all had to show the same fucking.
Speaker 4: Night as us. What Night is your Shore? It's New
Speaker 4: York show was on Saturday in New York.
Speaker 7: And so anyways, yeah, we're on tour right now. You
Speaker 7: guys can check that out at Horrible Decisions dot com.
Speaker 7: If you guys haven't caught the gist, it is a
Speaker 7: sex based podcast, so you type in horror.
Speaker 3: You haven't if you haven't caught you it's a podcast
Speaker 3: about Christ.
Speaker 4: It went over your head there.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no no, I want I want all my
Speaker 2: Christians to go to your pod.
Speaker 4: Yes about the Lord?
Speaker 7: I mean we have had a black, gay male pastor
Speaker 7: on our show talking about Yeah, no one who actually
Speaker 7: practices an administration in a ministry currently. But anyways, you
Speaker 7: can check out listen to Horrible Decisions wherever you listen
Speaker 7: to your favorite podcast. Type in whrror we pop up
Speaker 7: this w h O R E I B a lead
Speaker 7: Decisions And again if you want to check out our
Speaker 7: website that shows you what cities were coming to. I'm
Speaker 7: not sure when this is gonna drop, but we are
Speaker 7: hitting up Texas and then we're doing our whole kind
Speaker 7: of Southeast leg So in March we are hitting up Orlando's, Charlotte, Atlanta,
Speaker 7: Toronto and possibly New Orleans are waiting on that date,
Speaker 7: and then we are going.
Speaker 4: To do the West coast.
Speaker 7: And if you guys you heard us talk about hedonism here,
Speaker 7: we will be at Mochafest and Jamaica.
Speaker 4: So you guys woke up fast love.
Speaker 7: And again, if you guys want to just keep up
Speaker 7: with me and what I'm doing, I have a lot
Speaker 7: of solo projects that I am currently working on. The
Speaker 7: as sex focused I.
Speaker 4: You know, I was more than just second.
Speaker 7: I definitely want to get more into just talking more
Speaker 7: about the pop culture.
Speaker 4: I'm really big into music. Music has had a had
Speaker 4: a huge effect.
Speaker 7: On my life, so I definitely want to get more
Speaker 7: into the music space. And of course I said I
Speaker 7: would love to get into radio, So there's that, and
Speaker 7: then there is something in the works right now for
Speaker 7: Horrible Decisions that's going to be really big so I
Speaker 7: hope that.
Speaker 3: You guys it's real. We also yelling ebony.
Speaker 4: We were just an essence.
Speaker 7: And then I've I've had, you know, the pleasure. I
Speaker 7: was just featured in Huffington Post for Black History Months
Speaker 7: for a black hair addition.
Speaker 4: The hair.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's coming out and.
Speaker 7: I'm gonna try to be more natural this year with
Speaker 7: my shortcut. Do what you Yeah, weaves is my thing.
Speaker 7: I love switching it up.
Speaker 3: So yeah, there's just a lot of things press wise
Speaker 3: that I've been doing, and I appreciate you guys.
Speaker 4: For sharing your platform with me. Of course, remember when
Speaker 4: you came to do Vice Live when I was on.
Speaker 3: It and I was like, oh, she hates us nose.
Speaker 3: You would be talking and you'd be like something about
Speaker 3: You'd be like, uh, something eating ass, and I'd be like,
Speaker 3: since you would ask me about eating ass?
Speaker 4: My dad? I want to say at one point we
Speaker 4: brought up your dad. Yeah you brought you were like
Speaker 4: you were like, good daddy hate it. And I was like,
Speaker 4: I was like.
Speaker 3: Not.
Speaker 4: Get cut the TV off talking about this no moment.
Speaker 3: So I was like, no, have brought our family members
Speaker 3: into this ship.
Speaker 4: She said nothing but good things about y'all. Yeah no,
Speaker 4: So I'm glad that y'all not only came.
Speaker 7: If you guys have not yet, it was a hilarious
Speaker 7: episode when y'all came on the Horrible Decisions, So check
Speaker 7: that out.
Speaker 3: You'll see sitting razy. It was unofficially experts or something.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 2: But some of your listeners came over and good. They
Speaker 2: really liked y'all.
Speaker 7: They said that y'all are the you're our version of
Speaker 7: girls that actually like each other, so.
Speaker 4: They filled the love through the mic hashtag friendship.
Speaker 3: Man.
Speaker 4: No, but y'all were great to have on again.
Speaker 7: Weezy and I have a lot coming up, so thank
Speaker 7: you guys again for having me on.
Speaker 4: Man. We'll have and we'll have Weezy on it. Yes,
Speaker 4: that's very excited today. All right, well, I'm excited to
Speaker 4: for your ted talk.
Speaker 3: We'll figure out what dates you in the right cities
Speaker 3: that we want to be in and maybe we'll pull
Speaker 3: up to one of those cities.
Speaker 4: I would love it.
Speaker 3: Y'all got all access whenever y'all want to come.
Speaker 4: Amen.
Speaker 3: That mean I get the peg and there you got.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna bring my dick Dick on the plane.
Speaker 4: The one you boiled in your past. No, no, no,
Speaker 4: I'm a pot. I have a dick pot and a
Speaker 4: pasta pod.
Speaker 2: Not short nailed fingers ready penetrate.
Speaker 4: I'll put an SNS in somebody's butte.
Speaker 3: It might come out, the little powder might come out
Speaker 3: on his prostate, but I'm excited about it.
Speaker 4: Thank you, guys, so much. Thank you. This is an
Speaker 4: incredible episode. You give everything and more.
Speaker 3: Yeah, y'all ask literally, I don't know how y'all fit
Speaker 3: all of this until an hour and a half, y'all.
Speaker 3: Good time, motherfucking management, y'all story Pagan being a side chick, y'all,
Speaker 3: and we watched the video Andrew gwesome questions the more.
Speaker 3: When we get off air, well that means we gotta go.
Speaker 4: Bye, guys.
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