WEBVTT - "The Pegging Expert" with Mandii B 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:02.560 Forever. 0:00:04.040 --> 0:00:08.560 Hey, my friend, like I were a bit of babbity 0:00:08.680 --> 0:00:13.280 back back. Yes, and we're hot today. It's gonna be sizzling. 0:00:14.880 --> 0:00:16.520 You know when you'll be at TGI Fridays and they 0:00:16.560 --> 0:00:19.680 bring up the sizzling, that's what this is gonna be. 0:00:21.000 --> 0:00:23.160 I mean, I haven't been at Fridays in years, but 0:00:23.320 --> 0:00:24.079 you know, you know it. 0:00:24.160 --> 0:00:26.920 But don't shame the people who go to Fridays. Okay, 0:00:26.960 --> 0:00:29.800 well this maybe because it's a lifestyle thing. You don't 0:00:29.840 --> 0:00:32.440 just eat at Fridays. You live like Fridays. 0:00:32.600 --> 0:00:37.800 Nah, what you doing bad? You eat boneless buffalo? I'm 0:00:37.880 --> 0:00:40.720 judging you. It's a chicken nugget. Sist. You are a 0:00:40.800 --> 0:00:45.000 grown up eating a chicken nugget. Boneless chicken wing. That's 0:00:45.040 --> 0:00:45.440 what it is. 0:00:45.479 --> 0:00:49.280 Stop calling it a nuggets, not even chickens. Impossible wings, 0:00:49.080 --> 0:00:51.440 that's what it is tofu wings. 0:00:51.840 --> 0:00:54.160 What you're saying is very triggering and hurtful to the 0:00:54.160 --> 0:00:55.880 people who eat at Fridays. 0:00:55.880 --> 0:00:58.400 And I will not con you don't even eat at Friday. 0:00:58.480 --> 0:01:00.880 I do not. I cannot. My is just too good 0:01:00.920 --> 0:01:02.360 to go. Me and Sidney went. 0:01:02.280 --> 0:01:05.200 To a We went to Olive Garden in Times Square, 0:01:05.319 --> 0:01:07.560 did like a year ago or two years ago. Yeah, 0:01:07.760 --> 0:01:10.720 we were in there using fake accents and like, oh 0:01:10.760 --> 0:01:13.440 my god, they got braslet like they knew we were 0:01:13.800 --> 0:01:14.639 not that well. 0:01:14.480 --> 0:01:16.560 Maybe they didn't. We didn't even eat our entrees. We 0:01:16.680 --> 0:01:18.640 just we just went for the salad. Salad in the. 0:01:18.640 --> 0:01:20.320 Red that's the only thing you go to Olive Garden. 0:01:20.360 --> 0:01:22.640 When I see people ordering lasagna there, I'm like, do 0:01:22.640 --> 0:01:26.040 you love yourself shrimp scampyoo? Well, Sydney and I were 0:01:26.080 --> 0:01:27.840 at the diner a couple of weeks ago and this 0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:29.840 guy that we were with tried to order shrimp scampy 0:01:29.880 --> 0:01:31.520 at the diner and we roasted. 0:01:31.200 --> 0:01:34.120 Him swiftly, and he was like, ah, I'm gonna get 0:01:34.120 --> 0:01:34.600 a grill cheese. 0:01:34.680 --> 0:01:36.600 You ordered shrimp shrimp scampy. I was like, is that 0:01:36.680 --> 0:01:38.720 what we're doing here at the diner? 0:01:39.400 --> 0:01:42.400 You're ordering shrimp from the diner. Your butthole's gonna be 0:01:42.680 --> 0:01:44.160 open to hurt you. 0:01:44.440 --> 0:01:47.440 Okay, if I ever hear any of y'all eating anything 0:01:47.480 --> 0:01:50.440 other than breakfast food and maybe a burger, maybe you 0:01:50.480 --> 0:01:51.240 can't be my friend. 0:01:51.600 --> 0:01:53.920 But people be getting like steaking eggs at the diner. Yeah, 0:01:53.960 --> 0:01:54.840 I do a steaking egg. 0:01:54.960 --> 0:01:57.200 I'll do that when I'm going through a breakup, steaking 0:01:57.280 --> 0:01:59.880 egg is cute at the diner. That's kind of like 0:02:00.120 --> 0:02:03.120 when you're a divorced man. That's that's the meal that 0:02:03.320 --> 0:02:05.080 in a chicken pot pie. 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:07.320 Like a TV dinner. Yeah, like a hungry man. Yes, 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:14.760 a Celeste pizza. No, don't, don't. That's a saggy cracker. 0:02:15.440 --> 0:02:15.880 Should I go? 0:02:15.960 --> 0:02:16.240 Do that? 0:02:16.400 --> 0:02:17.239 You better than that's this? 0:02:17.480 --> 0:02:17.679 Hey? 0:02:17.760 --> 0:02:17.919 Here? 0:02:18.280 --> 0:02:18.640 Am I? 0:02:18.919 --> 0:02:23.480 No, Marie? Were you an expert in this week? What 0:02:23.840 --> 0:02:25.400 was I an expert in this week? 0:02:25.600 --> 0:02:25.840 Ah? 0:02:26.200 --> 0:02:27.960 You know, I feel like I'm a deflect back to 0:02:28.120 --> 0:02:31.040 usiss Uh what were you an expert in this week? 0:02:31.040 --> 0:02:33.360 What did I do this week? I'm an expert in 0:02:34.960 --> 0:02:36.160 being a dramatic bitch. 0:02:36.280 --> 0:02:39.360 Yes, I got a migraine for two days and I 0:02:39.440 --> 0:02:41.600 was really just trying to thug it out. I legit 0:02:41.760 --> 0:02:44.880 was like the Tupac of migraines, like, you know, fuck 0:02:44.960 --> 0:02:47.280 the police, you can't, you can't take me down. And 0:02:47.320 --> 0:02:49.880 then I had to go to urgent care. And urgent 0:02:49.919 --> 0:02:52.600 care in Brooklyn I think is more aggressive than the 0:02:52.720 --> 0:02:55.000 urgent care in the city. 0:02:55.400 --> 0:02:55.800 Urgent care. 0:02:55.800 --> 0:02:59.040 If y'all don't know, it's it's it's care. It's quick 0:02:59.120 --> 0:03:02.000 care for people, people who can't go to the hospital, 0:03:02.000 --> 0:03:03.920 and it's poor people emergency room. Yes, that's what it is. 0:03:03.919 --> 0:03:05.959 That's what I don't want to I don't want to 0:03:06.000 --> 0:03:06.720 label it like. 0:03:06.639 --> 0:03:08.440 That, but that's that's what it is. Marie said that 0:03:08.639 --> 0:03:12.160 this poor people emergency room. I went there, nobody was there. 0:03:13.040 --> 0:03:15.160 I was the only one there. And so I'm. 0:03:15.000 --> 0:03:17.560 Like crying, I'm like shaking. 0:03:18.080 --> 0:03:21.480 I'm literally I should be like the Viola Davis of urgent. 0:03:21.520 --> 0:03:23.320 Can you took your wig off in the. 0:03:24.720 --> 0:03:29.800 Honestly, almost I took my makeup off. I was going 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:37.240 you were in the waiting room ring doctor yo and nay. 0:03:37.520 --> 0:03:39.160 And this is the thing that makes me so upset. 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:42.000 There's so much fucking paperwork you have to file before 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:43.320 you actually see their doctors. 0:03:43.360 --> 0:03:46.760 Like, I'm gonna die before I get to see anybody. Oh, 0:03:46.800 --> 0:03:48.840 I gotta remember all this stuff while I'm in pain. 0:03:49.360 --> 0:03:50.960 My social Security number, my address. 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:52.480 I don't know any stuff. I'm dying. 0:03:53.000 --> 0:03:55.400 My head is on fire, your social I do know 0:03:55.440 --> 0:03:57.120 my social say it for the listeners. 0:03:56.840 --> 0:04:00.840 No, prove it, prove it anyway. 0:04:01.080 --> 0:04:05.360 So the woman, the doctor or whatever she sees me, 0:04:06.520 --> 0:04:09.480 and I'm crying, like I'm going off dramatic. You know, 0:04:09.520 --> 0:04:11.480 I'm crying because like some checks didn't come through. I'm like, 0:04:11.480 --> 0:04:12.560 I'm crying about a whole bunch. 0:04:12.400 --> 0:04:14.640 Of Stuff're trying to win that Academy award. Yeah, it's 0:04:14.640 --> 0:04:17.160 not just the migraine, but you know, it's the migraine. 0:04:17.560 --> 0:04:22.160 And so she starts like asking me questions, and I'm 0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:23.720 just like, can you just give me. 0:04:23.680 --> 0:04:25.160 The shot so I could get out of here? What 0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:26.039 questions was she asked? 0:04:26.120 --> 0:04:28.000 She's like, are you under any stress? And I was like, 0:04:28.040 --> 0:04:30.679 I live in New York. Yeah, I'm under fucking stress. 0:04:31.040 --> 0:04:33.760 I got bills to pay. Yeah, are you not stressed? 0:04:33.960 --> 0:04:34.560 As a doctor? 0:04:34.600 --> 0:04:36.840 I mean she's a doctor sister, but she's an urgent 0:04:36.839 --> 0:04:38.719 care doctor, so yeah, she's basically a nurse. 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:42.800 Oh wow, is that what we're gonna say? Yeah, I don't. 0:04:42.880 --> 0:04:44.560 I'm not putting my hands on that one. That's all 0:04:44.640 --> 0:04:46.320 Marie Foston's stand by it. 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:48.320 Okay, you do that. She work here. 0:04:48.400 --> 0:04:50.840 So she'said, are you under any stress? And then she said, well, 0:04:51.160 --> 0:04:52.880 are you taking care of yourselves? And She's like, I 0:04:52.880 --> 0:04:54.160 live in New York City? How am I going to 0:04:54.200 --> 0:04:54.800 take care of myself? 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:57.920 Sidney All your answers sound wrong to me. We all 0:04:57.920 --> 0:04:59.400 in the studio looking at you, like, how do you 0:04:59.440 --> 0:04:59.839 not what? 0:05:00.720 --> 0:05:01.600 You didn't give a fuck? 0:05:01.800 --> 0:05:05.320 You obviously don't care about you. I do care about myself, 0:05:05.360 --> 0:05:07.360 but what what do you want? I am under stress. 0:05:07.880 --> 0:05:09.680 I work in comedy. Yeah, I'm stressed. 0:05:10.120 --> 0:05:11.960 When people don't laugh at my shit, I'm like, what 0:05:12.000 --> 0:05:13.880 the fuck is wrong with you? I'll be ready to 0:05:13.880 --> 0:05:16.400 go off. That hasn't happened. Actually that's not true. 0:05:16.480 --> 0:05:19.560 I got I bombed in New Jersey at Bananas Comedy Club. 0:05:19.680 --> 0:05:22.599 Who if you ever want to go kill yourself, go 0:05:22.680 --> 0:05:27.040 to the Holiday Inn and the Bananas Comedy Club right 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:27.680 underneath it. 0:05:27.760 --> 0:05:28.880 Ooh girl. 0:05:28.960 --> 0:05:31.440 It was like all these senior citizens when like, old 0:05:31.480 --> 0:05:33.720 people don't fuck with you, you just feel like you're 0:05:33.800 --> 0:05:35.279 letting your family down? 0:05:35.600 --> 0:05:35.880 Is it? 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:37.640 What are you? When old people don't like? 0:05:37.760 --> 0:05:39.919 Old people are the people who fuck with you the 0:05:40.000 --> 0:05:43.280 least because you reach a certain level, a certain age, 0:05:43.279 --> 0:05:43.880 and you don't care. 0:05:43.960 --> 0:05:45.480 You don't you're not trying to appease me. 0:05:45.640 --> 0:05:49.200 That's crazy because the guy right after me fucking murdered. 0:05:49.520 --> 0:05:52.600 But then the person who I came with, Moses Storm, 0:05:52.839 --> 0:05:54.320 he was like, if you do well, in this room, 0:05:55.000 --> 0:05:56.120 you gotta figure. 0:05:55.839 --> 0:05:58.720 Out your comedy. It's real bad. And the guy who 0:05:58.839 --> 0:06:03.920 killed saw like was like, what shot? I love? 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:06.039 Shout out to Moses Storm for being you know, the 0:06:06.080 --> 0:06:07.200 BIG's shadiest person. 0:06:07.240 --> 0:06:07.440 I know. 0:06:07.520 --> 0:06:10.599 We love we love a shady bige. Yeah. But anyway, 0:06:10.600 --> 0:06:10.800 I was. 0:06:10.800 --> 0:06:13.760 Crying in urgent care and you know, I got a shot. 0:06:13.839 --> 0:06:15.599 But then she looked at me after it was done, 0:06:15.600 --> 0:06:18.880 and she's like, is everything else? Is everything okay? Is 0:06:18.920 --> 0:06:20.800 there anything else? I was like, no, bitch, I'm not 0:06:20.800 --> 0:06:23.599 getting touched by anybody, Like, why are you stressed me out? 0:06:23.680 --> 0:06:23.880 Yeah? 0:06:23.920 --> 0:06:26.720 Now I'm mean under more stress. It was very dramatic. 0:06:26.720 --> 0:06:28.839 They wanted me to get out. Is a lot. 0:06:29.080 --> 0:06:30.920 I left and I was crying and just and when 0:06:30.920 --> 0:06:32.400 you left, what's the last thing she said to you? 0:06:34.279 --> 0:06:36.719 She said, to drink more water. 0:06:37.000 --> 0:06:38.840 She's like, I could tell that you're dehydrated. 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:41.800 Oh Like she sounds like she really cares for you though. 0:06:41.640 --> 0:06:48.919 And he's like, I'm stressed, I said, expert in dramatic, bitch, 0:06:49.000 --> 0:06:53.080 there you go back to you, Fred. 0:06:53.360 --> 0:06:54.279 Fred, I don't know. 0:06:54.360 --> 0:06:57.560 I just wanted to say that, like, Fred, I don't 0:06:57.600 --> 0:07:01.320 even know any black freds Okay, yes, actually Frederick Douglass. 0:07:01.360 --> 0:07:04.159 I guess that's the blackest of the friends. Okay, figure 0:07:04.160 --> 0:07:05.880 it out, Harriet Tubmant's prom date. 0:07:06.600 --> 0:07:09.640 So I was an expert at literally wasting all of 0:07:09.720 --> 0:07:12.560 my time. This week was seven full days, and I 0:07:12.600 --> 0:07:15.000 don't think that I did anything on them seven days. 0:07:15.040 --> 0:07:16.240 Like you got your nails done. 0:07:16.320 --> 0:07:18.440 I did get my nails done, and I cracked it 0:07:19.200 --> 0:07:21.280 and then fixed it again. Well, I mean I didn't 0:07:21.280 --> 0:07:23.640 fix it, but you know that was some polish on 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:25.040 top of the sns. 0:07:25.160 --> 0:07:26.600 But I think that's not how that went. You dog 0:07:26.680 --> 0:07:27.280 your hair, right? 0:07:28.160 --> 0:07:31.840 That was last week, you know. Okay, so this this week, 0:07:31.920 --> 0:07:33.200 let's go, let's go through all the days. 0:07:33.280 --> 0:07:39.120 Right. So, so she's an expert in wasting time, Okay. 0:07:39.160 --> 0:07:42.640 So Sunday I was at the knitting factory. 0:07:42.640 --> 0:07:44.400 Sunday I was at Sydney's birthday party. 0:07:44.440 --> 0:07:47.480 Yes, and I was out until eight o'clock in the morning. Right, 0:07:47.720 --> 0:07:50.480 So Monday's already wash. I got up at noon. I'm 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:53.920 not there's nothing happening when we're going back to sleep afternoon. 0:07:53.360 --> 0:07:54.720 Okay, boomshocka locks. 0:07:54.840 --> 0:07:57.240 Tuesday, I went to karaoke with a bunch of black 0:07:57.280 --> 0:08:02.240 folks in Fort Green Beautiful. I sang Deborah Cox, Nobody's 0:08:02.240 --> 0:08:06.280 supposed to be here, and I sang Drew Hill somebody. 0:08:05.920 --> 0:08:06.640 Sleeping in my bed. 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:09.640 Yes, the remix, I did that by myself. I had 0:08:09.640 --> 0:08:12.800 to do both the bread and the drew Hill part. Wednesday, 0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:14.760 I went to When All You Can Eat Seafood buffet 0:08:15.480 --> 0:08:18.920 with a friend and somebody that I'm banging, and I 0:08:18.960 --> 0:08:22.000 made him drop her off at her house, and then 0:08:22.040 --> 0:08:23.440 I thought we was gonna have sex, but he had 0:08:23.480 --> 0:08:24.680 to be up early in the morning, so he just 0:08:24.720 --> 0:08:27.400 dropped me off. And I was very upset and very moist. 0:08:27.920 --> 0:08:30.360 So then Thursday, also I watched Saturday. Wednesday I didn't 0:08:30.360 --> 0:08:32.280 have sex, So Thursday I'm upset. I don't have you know, 0:08:32.360 --> 0:08:33.760 I don't have the energy to do nothing but go 0:08:33.800 --> 0:08:36.840 to the gym. Right Friday, I went to the gym again, 0:08:38.280 --> 0:08:41.360 and I walked two miles to get some pie from 0:08:41.520 --> 0:08:43.440 this place in my neighborhood. And then today I'm here 0:08:43.480 --> 0:08:45.720 doing the podcast. So it sounds like a full weeks 0:08:45.720 --> 0:08:47.640 with me. I don't know, I feel like you've been 0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:50.319 doing things I've been doing. 0:08:50.400 --> 0:08:53.760 I've been thinking about things and not really doing anything. 0:08:53.840 --> 0:08:55.760 But this week is gonna be a better week because 0:08:55.920 --> 0:08:57.520 I gotta do them better. 0:08:57.760 --> 0:09:00.920 Yeah, you're just for the third weekend. Everybody just deserves rest. 0:09:01.160 --> 0:09:02.760 That was the week of wresting. 0:09:02.760 --> 0:09:07.079 Fully rested system ye last arrested to and the week 0:09:07.120 --> 0:09:08.320 before that she rested. 0:09:08.480 --> 0:09:11.800 So well, you know who's not fucking resting? Our guests 0:09:11.800 --> 0:09:14.320 over here? Good god, wow booked. 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:20.400 Busy Bliss's busy, blessed and blossoming. Hey, yeah, I've got 0:09:20.440 --> 0:09:22.480 her all her edges and everything. 0:09:22.640 --> 0:09:25.920 Okay, baby hairs on a flee Can I ain't even 0:09:26.000 --> 0:09:27.200 use my age controlling. 0:09:27.000 --> 0:09:31.360 You know, she don't even need a natural We have 0:09:31.400 --> 0:09:34.880 a natural edge here. Cit Okay, she's our favorite, one 0:09:34.880 --> 0:09:38.040 of our she's half of the Horribles podcast, and she's 0:09:38.040 --> 0:09:39.160 one of our favorite boss. 0:09:39.160 --> 0:09:43.600 Bitch. Horrible decisions, horrible decisions. I want to crash that wait, 0:09:44.360 --> 0:09:45.120 shut out. 0:09:45.280 --> 0:09:47.880 Was actually cutting that cut that out? 0:09:48.440 --> 0:09:50.640 Okay, okay, horrible decisions. 0:09:52.120 --> 0:09:55.160 She she's one half of horrible Decisions. She's our richest 0:09:55.200 --> 0:09:56.560 horrible riches. 0:09:57.480 --> 0:09:58.280 She's doing well. 0:09:58.320 --> 0:10:02.000 She's about to get a new iPhone thirteen. Uh, thriving. 0:10:02.360 --> 0:10:03.120 She's at boss. 0:10:04.040 --> 0:10:07.000 Yes, yes, I've had this since like twenty eight. 0:10:07.080 --> 0:10:08.920 We don't believe they don't need to hear that. She 0:10:09.000 --> 0:10:11.360 don't believe be white. Let us get let us injured. 0:10:11.440 --> 0:10:13.200 You she's she's our boss lady. 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:20.280 She's pegged the stallion she is giving up for Mandy Benedeop. 0:10:20.440 --> 0:10:22.880 We literally been trying to schedule this. Honestly, I think 0:10:22.960 --> 0:10:24.960 I think I booked this on my calendar in December. 0:10:24.960 --> 0:10:26.800 That's how busy y'all are. First off, No, no, no, 0:10:26.960 --> 0:10:28.840 that's how your. 0:10:29.360 --> 0:10:31.880 But but yeah isn't. And you see, I. 0:10:33.679 --> 0:10:37.200 Came on Tuesday, came on Thursday. 0:10:37.840 --> 0:10:40.520 You were in Puerto Rico, you, Yeah, I was. I 0:10:40.559 --> 0:10:43.439 was traveling quite a bit. And yeah, that's it. Well, 0:10:43.480 --> 0:10:45.800 Mandy tell people. First of all, let's talk about the outfa. 0:10:45.880 --> 0:10:48.080 She got the the Balia sock shoes, you know, the 0:10:48.120 --> 0:10:49.400 ones that look like socks. 0:10:49.720 --> 0:10:52.960 She got the cambo, the camel pants on the little 0:10:53.000 --> 0:10:53.959 pockets on the side. 0:10:54.040 --> 0:10:56.920 I'm just down today how much these pans called girl, 0:10:56.960 --> 0:10:57.840 theseus from Rainbow. 0:10:58.760 --> 0:11:04.319 I couldn't tell they were giving me. No, gr's Rainbow. 0:11:04.400 --> 0:11:09.000 I am one to mix labels like high and what's 0:11:09.840 --> 0:11:13.320 this girl? Foot locker? I don't know, it's all clothes. Yeah, 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:14.120 it's a foot locker. 0:11:14.360 --> 0:11:16.480 Push the tea. They have graphic t's. Now really into 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:17.200 the graphic ts. 0:11:17.320 --> 0:11:21.400 You have your finest hood gold jury on. I love it. 0:11:21.440 --> 0:11:24.080 Your name you got a name chain of really ratchet 0:11:24.120 --> 0:11:26.440 like in real life we look like you know what 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:27.200 does your say? 0:11:28.200 --> 0:11:29.959 Regret nothing? See I'm a whole. 0:11:30.080 --> 0:11:33.120 Wow, you've gotten to jail before. It says no, it 0:11:33.160 --> 0:11:40.360 says no regruits regret it spelled wrong. I have little 0:11:40.480 --> 0:11:42.800 recruits on my creutons and go. 0:11:43.720 --> 0:11:46.120 Yeah, I love me a good bamboo earring with the 0:11:46.200 --> 0:11:48.440 name plate. You got those at the beautyfu Plas store. Girl, 0:11:48.640 --> 0:11:52.080 I will never pay ninety nine cents, she said, how 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:53.520 much money I make? Don't you do that? 0:11:53.640 --> 0:11:55.760 Will never pay more than ninety nine cents for a 0:11:55.800 --> 0:11:56.600 bamboo earring. 0:11:56.679 --> 0:12:01.800 Okaya nte beauty sup Plus girl. Okay, when your ear 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:02.600 fall off, let me know. 0:12:02.640 --> 0:12:05.880 But they sure are not so well you know just 0:12:06.000 --> 0:12:08.199 what the earrings break before they turn your ear screen 0:12:08.720 --> 0:12:11.400 or you could do the whole the hood hack, which 0:12:11.440 --> 0:12:16.680 is if you painted with it doesn't turn. Yeah, you 0:12:16.679 --> 0:12:19.680 do the inside of my rear and so it won't turn. 0:12:19.840 --> 0:12:21.680 You didn't know that, Yeah, so it won't turn silver 0:12:21.920 --> 0:12:22.400 or rusty. 0:12:25.360 --> 0:12:28.320 My jewelry sys you know, my ear is slit, So 0:12:28.360 --> 0:12:30.520 that's why I don't know. That's the tea with the tea. Honey, 0:12:30.720 --> 0:12:31.800 someone pulled your earring out. 0:12:32.000 --> 0:12:34.080 No, it's just I was wearing really heavy ear rings. 0:12:34.160 --> 0:12:36.160 And you know, we'll remember when Beyonce used to wear 0:12:36.160 --> 0:12:38.880 their chandelier earrings. I would wear them every day, all 0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:42.520 day and then my same lobe, like that happened. 0:12:42.240 --> 0:12:44.080 With my belly button, which is why I know. 0:12:44.160 --> 0:12:45.439 I think I had to get my belly button and 0:12:45.480 --> 0:12:48.280 re pierced like three or four times because I would well, 0:12:48.320 --> 0:12:50.480 I would do the charms that were heavy, like I 0:12:50.520 --> 0:12:51.360 had one with a gun. 0:12:51.559 --> 0:12:55.640 I had liked God, I had it from Hot topic 0:12:55.760 --> 0:12:57.480 back in the day. You go get your belly. 0:12:58.480 --> 0:12:59.280 So I had like a. 0:12:59.240 --> 0:13:02.160 Gun and I played basketball when I had that, so 0:13:02.200 --> 0:13:05.120 like just being in practice running like the shorts just 0:13:05.200 --> 0:13:09.280 pulled and no, well with the running, knocking into my opponents, 0:13:10.080 --> 0:13:13.880 like and it just you didn't have a game day 0:13:14.200 --> 0:13:20.080 a little at charms, okay, And yeah, so I didn't 0:13:20.080 --> 0:13:21.400 switch it often, so yeah, there's that. 0:13:21.840 --> 0:13:24.079 Okay, So Maddie, let's talk about this where you're from. 0:13:24.240 --> 0:13:24.880 Who is you? 0:13:25.040 --> 0:13:28.960 Why should people care? I mean, I really don't give 0:13:29.000 --> 0:13:29.719 a fuck if they care. 0:13:29.840 --> 0:13:32.520 Not honestly, these people care. So I don't want that 0:13:32.640 --> 0:13:34.080 energy there. I mean, that's fine. 0:13:34.120 --> 0:13:36.319 I'm glad that y'all is here, tuntin or whatever. So 0:13:37.520 --> 0:13:39.600 I'm from Orlando, I'm born and raised. 0:13:40.200 --> 0:13:41.320 Glad you got out yees. 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:45.240 Also lived in Atlanta, Miami, and then I've been in 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:46.920 New York for the last seven years. 0:13:47.200 --> 0:13:48.880 And when you lived in Atlanta, you lived in a 0:13:48.880 --> 0:13:50.920 big ass house. No. 0:13:50.920 --> 0:13:54.080 No, in Atlanta, I moved up, I went to I 0:13:54.080 --> 0:13:55.679 was in high school for one year in Atlanta, lived 0:13:55.679 --> 0:13:57.640 in an apartment with my mom, and then three days 0:13:57.679 --> 0:13:59.360 after graduating high school, I was. 0:13:59.280 --> 0:14:00.440 Like, I'm coming back to Atlanta. 0:14:00.559 --> 0:14:03.920 So I literally packed my Hyundai Sonata and drove my 0:14:03.960 --> 0:14:05.840 ass to Atlanta and tried to make it happen as 0:14:05.840 --> 0:14:06.280 an adult. 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:09.760 I crashed and burned within a year, So came back 0:14:09.800 --> 0:14:12.520 in Atlanta. That's why you're supposed to make it. I 0:14:12.559 --> 0:14:14.800 was eighteen, it was new, it was fresh. 0:14:14.840 --> 0:14:16.280 I was living on my own, so I was you know, 0:14:16.320 --> 0:14:19.680 I had I had an apartment, I had a car, 0:14:20.280 --> 0:14:22.960 and at the time also so I started bartending. 0:14:23.000 --> 0:14:25.680 But before then I was like stock manager at diesel. 0:14:25.760 --> 0:14:27.360 I worked at a call center. I had like three 0:14:27.440 --> 0:14:29.280 jobs at one point just to figure in Atlanta. 0:14:29.440 --> 0:14:34.120 In Atlanta, I ended up I ended up getting fired 0:14:34.880 --> 0:14:38.600 from all three jobs. Well, I left one job because 0:14:38.600 --> 0:14:40.560 I was making so much at my last job. 0:14:40.640 --> 0:14:42.040 Yeah, I left pretty. 0:14:41.840 --> 0:14:45.840 Much the the call center job and the management job 0:14:45.840 --> 0:14:48.239 at Diesel to be a bartender. 0:14:48.680 --> 0:14:50.960 And I ended up losing that that job. 0:14:51.360 --> 0:14:54.280 Why girl, Because I got into it with a nigga 0:14:54.480 --> 0:14:56.240 and like really bad I. 0:14:58.280 --> 0:14:58.480 Did. 0:14:58.520 --> 0:15:01.040 I got into it with a nigga and and I 0:15:01.160 --> 0:15:03.680 like talk crazy, so like he threatened to have a 0:15:03.760 --> 0:15:05.160 bitch come up and fight me. 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:06.680 So I was like, when they got fight, you in 0:15:06.800 --> 0:15:07.240 your bitch. 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:11.800 So I worked at SO, I worked at the So, 0:15:11.840 --> 0:15:14.640 I bartended at the Congress Center Phips It was. 0:15:15.160 --> 0:15:16.480 The Congress Center, Yeah. 0:15:16.320 --> 0:15:19.800 So the Georgia World Congress Center, Phipps Arena and the 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:22.280 Dome at the time. So they were all under the 0:15:22.280 --> 0:15:24.920 same people who do the food Levy Restaurant. Yes, they 0:15:24.960 --> 0:15:26.440 do the same food now at Barclays. 0:15:26.560 --> 0:15:27.440 So I worked for them. 0:15:27.760 --> 0:15:29.720 But yeah, ended up And that was just one of 0:15:30.040 --> 0:15:32.440 many little incidents I got into with motherfuckers. 0:15:32.440 --> 0:15:34.160 You'd be fighting. So by the time it got to 0:15:34.240 --> 0:15:40.520 motherfucking hr again period nor knacking back and and ready 0:15:40.600 --> 0:15:43.360 that fight. I hate y'all. I hate y'all both. 0:15:43.400 --> 0:15:46.440 Actually, what I'm not gonna lie like as you know, 0:15:46.800 --> 0:15:48.720 as someone who can speak for the light Skins, I 0:15:48.720 --> 0:15:50.840 felt like I was always tried to stop. 0:15:50.560 --> 0:15:55.240 Because light Skins, you guys always act like people. 0:15:55.280 --> 0:15:57.880 So they'd be starting to fight and they're like, no, 0:15:57.920 --> 0:16:00.360 it's because I'm like you. 0:16:00.440 --> 0:16:02.920 So like my my Orange County Pine Hills would come 0:16:02.920 --> 0:16:04.320 the fuck out, like what's up. I went to all 0:16:04.320 --> 0:16:07.160 black schools, identify as black, like my whole like my 0:16:07.240 --> 0:16:10.160 family that I with is black. Yeah, my my my 0:16:10.200 --> 0:16:12.600 white family pretty much didn't talk to us because we 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:14.800 were black. So I not really that means she real 0:16:14.880 --> 0:16:20.560 black white they really talked to us. So you know, 0:16:20.640 --> 0:16:22.640 I've been feeling tried or I think they think I'm 0:16:23.040 --> 0:16:24.480 you know, Hispanic or something. Yeah. 0:16:24.560 --> 0:16:26.200 Nah, so you came up to New York. 0:16:26.200 --> 0:16:30.880 So anyways, came to New York after I just Miami 0:16:30.960 --> 0:16:32.160 wasn't working out, and I was. 0:16:32.120 --> 0:16:35.000 Like, Miami never was yeah, but Miami worked out to 0:16:35.160 --> 0:16:37.240 visit twenty almost twenty two, and I was just like, 0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:42.120 my life can't be of yachts partying well, and I 0:16:42.160 --> 0:16:44.400 bartended on South Beach. So just you said your life 0:16:44.400 --> 0:16:47.240 couldn't be of yachts, and I mean wait, because to me, 0:16:47.560 --> 0:16:49.920 I was like, there's more out there and I can't 0:16:50.000 --> 0:16:52.520 keeping two honestly in my life. 0:16:52.520 --> 0:16:53.680 That's how hard she was party. 0:16:53.800 --> 0:16:55.640 Oh, I was party and heart and then also at 0:16:55.640 --> 0:16:57.800 the time, it's just like I lived in Miami, so 0:16:57.840 --> 0:16:59.720 I felt like I would never be taken serious. 0:17:00.160 --> 0:17:03.120 Woman was hanging out with Pitbull. I was hanging out. 0:17:04.320 --> 0:17:04.960 I was hanging out. 0:17:05.040 --> 0:17:08.280 Everybody can think of Wade and everything. Everybody okay, and. 0:17:08.240 --> 0:17:10.400 This is when everybody, like all of the celebrities lose 0:17:10.440 --> 0:17:14.160 in Miami. So like up through Star Island, Girl, Star Island. 0:17:14.520 --> 0:17:15.840 On the weekends, I remember going. 0:17:15.840 --> 0:17:17.960 We had a spades party at Trey Song's house and 0:17:18.000 --> 0:17:23.240 I played against Trey and and fabulous. 0:17:21.760 --> 0:17:25.800 Like Sean Kingston was there. I lost is because we 0:17:25.800 --> 0:17:26.399 hadn't seen him. 0:17:26.440 --> 0:17:27.439 I don't know where he is. 0:17:27.640 --> 0:17:30.119 He disappeared off the face of the Yeah, but at 0:17:30.119 --> 0:17:31.880 this time everyone lived in Miami, so it was cool, 0:17:31.880 --> 0:17:32.320 but it was. 0:17:32.280 --> 0:17:34.760 Just like fast. It was always party. This is like 0:17:35.119 --> 0:17:35.800 Prime Live. 0:17:36.200 --> 0:17:39.679 Anyways, ended up again not working at a job, losing 0:17:39.680 --> 0:17:40.640 that with some. 0:17:40.560 --> 0:17:46.800 Beef and and the condo that I was in at 0:17:46.800 --> 0:17:50.600 the time, the owners his partner lost his job, so 0:17:50.640 --> 0:17:52.560 they came in and was like, hey, like, we. 0:17:52.560 --> 0:17:54.320 Would like to move back into our spot. Is there 0:17:54.359 --> 0:17:56.040 any way we can negotiate y'all moving out? So I 0:17:56.080 --> 0:17:58.040 was like, damn, I gotta find a job and a place. 0:17:58.080 --> 0:18:01.199 May as well do it in another city. So you 0:18:01.240 --> 0:18:04.080 packed the Hyundai Sonata. So no Mahna Sonata. 0:18:04.240 --> 0:18:04.800 That was ye. 0:18:04.840 --> 0:18:07.200 While I was in Miami, it hit two hundred and 0:18:07.240 --> 0:18:08.880 twenty thousand miles and said bases. 0:18:08.960 --> 0:18:12.000 I gave y'all I could give it, okay, it was trucking. 0:18:12.080 --> 0:18:14.560 I wore it off to the last drop. So moved 0:18:14.600 --> 0:18:17.280 to New York. A friend of mine who worked at 0:18:17.280 --> 0:18:19.399 the club with me moved up here two months prior 0:18:19.760 --> 0:18:21.119 and was like, I got a couch for you, but 0:18:21.160 --> 0:18:22.200 there's mad money up here. 0:18:22.600 --> 0:18:25.000 Use your resources. I know, you know mad people. So 0:18:25.040 --> 0:18:26.200 I literally hopped on Twitter. 0:18:26.240 --> 0:18:28.360 I used good old Twitter, and was like, hey, guys, 0:18:28.400 --> 0:18:30.760 I'm moving to New York. And before that time, I 0:18:30.800 --> 0:18:34.560 had a sports blog rocking. I had done the modeling 0:18:34.760 --> 0:18:37.120 scene as well, so I've done straight sont in Don diva, 0:18:37.160 --> 0:18:37.880 A lot of magazines. 0:18:39.000 --> 0:18:39.320 Bitch. 0:18:39.359 --> 0:18:45.440 I was in DONI You Are TVTA waita wait, don't 0:18:45.440 --> 0:18:48.840 do it. I was in Don Dio Sticky Pages, bit 0:18:49.600 --> 0:18:52.600 Black Men's magazine magazine. 0:18:52.640 --> 0:18:54.080 Since I did, you know, I didn't get up there. 0:18:54.200 --> 0:18:56.320 I tell Sean to this day, whenever he brings it back, 0:18:56.400 --> 0:18:57.400 I need to be on the cup. 0:18:58.600 --> 0:19:01.320 I see that for you. Yeah, But anyways, so I 0:19:01.359 --> 0:19:01.720 did this. 0:19:01.960 --> 0:19:05.560 I did probably three issues yeah, of Straight Sun, which 0:19:05.840 --> 0:19:07.560 my ex at the time hated it because he's like 0:19:07.600 --> 0:19:09.960 my niggas and jail jack off to you and it's 0:19:10.000 --> 0:19:12.000 like the community, you know. 0:19:12.560 --> 0:19:15.320 Anyways, So I moved up here. This magazine looks so 0:19:15.480 --> 0:19:16.000 get up. 0:19:18.760 --> 0:19:25.200 The original the original Bible, the original Street. 0:19:25.920 --> 0:19:28.600 Jo It's about the street gossip. Don't you g. 0:19:28.760 --> 0:19:35.760 Unit cover asap, Rocky Eve, Kwame Kilpatrick, fabulous, blood and 0:19:35.880 --> 0:19:37.440 blood Out, Blood and blood Out. 0:19:38.480 --> 0:19:41.119 Find your cover. I'm looking, I'm looking. 0:19:41.720 --> 0:19:48.959 But anyways, yes, the hood exactly moved up here, and 0:19:49.080 --> 0:19:51.760 I gotta find it. It's definitely in Google image. 0:19:53.040 --> 0:19:56.399 But anyways, So moved up here, went to real estate school, 0:19:57.000 --> 0:19:59.280 got into temp agencies, and was bartending. 0:19:59.320 --> 0:20:01.960 So again started my hustle on her word time Jamaican, 0:20:02.280 --> 0:20:05.679 so like you should lead with that. Oh yeah, okay 0:20:05.880 --> 0:20:08.199 for the listeners, I couldn't see. I couldn't figure out 0:20:08.240 --> 0:20:10.399 what the fuck you want Jamaican and white. I did 0:20:10.480 --> 0:20:12.760 not know. Yeah, well now we know. Yeah, I thought 0:20:12.760 --> 0:20:18.040 that you were blocked. Is spunished that people, No Jamaican. 0:20:18.040 --> 0:20:18.760 Your dad Jamaica. 0:20:18.800 --> 0:20:21.399 My daddy is here on a green like he has 0:20:21.440 --> 0:20:23.720 a green card, Like he's from moved to New York 0:20:23.760 --> 0:20:25.879 at the age of thirteen, but he's from born and 0:20:25.960 --> 0:20:26.600 raised in Jamaica. 0:20:26.640 --> 0:20:31.160 Your dad is twenty one savage almost basically. Yeah. 0:20:31.240 --> 0:20:33.480 So yeah, moved up here and then just started working, 0:20:33.520 --> 0:20:37.160 started grinding it out. Eventually, after bartending for seven years, 0:20:37.240 --> 0:20:39.159 was like, Okay, this ain't my life. So I decided 0:20:39.160 --> 0:20:40.639 to get back into school because I was like a 0:20:40.640 --> 0:20:42.640 bit just too smart to be sitting here only being 0:20:43.160 --> 0:20:44.960 having receptionist. 0:20:44.280 --> 0:20:45.800 Gigs and how old are you? 0:20:46.080 --> 0:20:48.440 I'm at this point, I'm twenty four. Okay, at this point, 0:20:48.440 --> 0:20:50.400 I'm twenty four. Good time a relation. 0:20:50.560 --> 0:20:51.160 Yeah, So I. 0:20:51.119 --> 0:20:54.879 Got back into I put myself through school, got in school, 0:20:54.880 --> 0:20:58.720 said I'm going to do business. So immediately was like, okay, business, 0:20:58.760 --> 0:21:00.920 but let me not just get a basic business degree, 0:21:01.000 --> 0:21:04.919 let me specialize it, and decided to do accounting. So 0:21:05.080 --> 0:21:06.840 for four years I was just like, I'm about to be. 0:21:06.880 --> 0:21:10.040 A c p A. I'm on accounting firm. Okay. I 0:21:10.160 --> 0:21:13.040 ended up getting into taxes. Honey, can you do mine? 0:21:13.119 --> 0:21:17.920 Tax I did not. I did not renew my pizzin. 0:21:18.160 --> 0:21:21.479 I am no longer doing on the side. You can 0:21:21.560 --> 0:21:27.119 still read the question making I absolutely cannot. But you 0:21:27.280 --> 0:21:30.880 have white says you have white color crime as well. 0:21:31.320 --> 0:21:33.919 I cannot stand the both of you. But no. 0:21:34.000 --> 0:21:36.840 So basically, even within school, I decided that I'm going 0:21:36.880 --> 0:21:40.280 to do everything to the highest like level. 0:21:40.600 --> 0:21:42.720 So while in school, I started at H and R Block. 0:21:42.760 --> 0:21:45.720 After that ended up even interviewing with the Obama administration 0:21:47.200 --> 0:21:49.760 that didn't go through. But instead of that, I ended 0:21:49.840 --> 0:21:52.280 up working at Goldman Sachs for my last two years. 0:21:52.280 --> 0:21:55.320 You're the reason the recession happened. I cannot stand here, 0:21:55.920 --> 0:21:58.640 but no, I believe that. Yeah, I ended up working 0:21:58.680 --> 0:21:59.600 for Goldman Sacks. 0:21:59.680 --> 0:22:02.080 When you and then when you had all these jobs 0:22:02.119 --> 0:22:04.119 and you lived in all these places where you dating 0:22:04.240 --> 0:22:09.520 people in all it like obviously you have my homes, yes, okay, yes, 0:22:10.440 --> 0:22:12.240 So I was like, give me something I mean they 0:22:12.280 --> 0:22:14.160 would help me with like my summer classes. 0:22:14.200 --> 0:22:16.919 So summer school came out of pocket. They helped with that. 0:22:17.000 --> 0:22:19.760 I was living off of financial aid for a time. 0:22:19.840 --> 0:22:21.480 And then because I was only part time with Goldman, 0:22:21.680 --> 0:22:24.720 I was only making twenty an hour, which you know. 0:22:25.040 --> 0:22:27.000 That was good at the time, you know, it was cool. 0:22:27.000 --> 0:22:29.639 That was good, It was cool. And then yeah, so 0:22:29.680 --> 0:22:32.200 I did get help because New York is not cheap. 0:22:32.359 --> 0:22:35.440 It strusted me out here. It dos to me out 0:22:36.320 --> 0:22:39.280 and so yeah, and then here goes horrible decisions came 0:22:39.320 --> 0:22:42.160 about my last year in college. Thought it was going 0:22:42.240 --> 0:22:44.600 to be a hobby, not gonna lie. I'd even let 0:22:44.600 --> 0:22:46.920 my co hosts know, like we'll see what can come 0:22:46.920 --> 0:22:47.199 of this. 0:22:47.359 --> 0:22:48.680 But I'm about to be a CPA. 0:22:49.119 --> 0:22:50.560 I don't know what my schedule was going to be 0:22:50.560 --> 0:22:52.600 when I start my career, Like what I was doing 0:22:52.680 --> 0:22:54.520 wasn't going to be a job. This is where I 0:22:54.520 --> 0:22:56.080 thought I was going to be for the next twenty years. 0:22:56.720 --> 0:23:02.240 And with a year of working, I left Earth and Young, 0:23:02.280 --> 0:23:05.719 which is the top four accounting firm, and now I'm 0:23:05.760 --> 0:23:06.680 a full time podcaster. 0:23:06.920 --> 0:23:12.320 Yeah, I love I love that story for you, but I. 0:23:12.240 --> 0:23:13.840 Want to take a step back. Yeah, I said a 0:23:13.880 --> 0:23:15.560 lot of things. I did a lot of things, but 0:23:15.680 --> 0:23:18.760 I came in with my questions. So your name on 0:23:18.800 --> 0:23:21.800 Twitter is Peg. Yes, we need to get to this now, 0:23:21.840 --> 0:23:24.560 so Peg the Stallion talk to us about this. When's 0:23:24.560 --> 0:23:28.160 the first time you peg somebody? What was I twenty two, 0:23:28.320 --> 0:23:31.920 twenty three? I was fairly young. Yeah that was the first. 0:23:32.119 --> 0:23:33.080 So how old was he? 0:23:34.600 --> 0:23:37.000 About my age or maybe a year younger? 0:23:37.080 --> 0:23:40.560 Okay, okay, so we'll still okay, this is not a 0:23:40.560 --> 0:23:45.440 weird thing. Yeah, so imagine I thought you was picking 0:23:45.480 --> 0:23:46.160 some old dude. 0:23:46.240 --> 0:23:47.800 Yeah, that was like, so that's the thing. 0:23:48.119 --> 0:23:51.400 Even if we talk about my hoes, I like to say, 0:23:51.480 --> 0:23:54.359 or like my lovers, like the men who financially have 0:23:54.720 --> 0:23:57.840 helped me throughout the years. 0:23:57.119 --> 0:23:59.040 Lover lovers. 0:24:00.680 --> 0:24:03.679 None of them, I think one may have just reached forty. 0:24:04.359 --> 0:24:06.360 I don't really like none of them have even really 0:24:06.400 --> 0:24:08.480 been over forty years old. And I've met them. They've 0:24:08.520 --> 0:24:13.120 been anywhere from thirty one on us. But yeah, so 0:24:13.200 --> 0:24:15.560 the first time I packed someone, it was something. We 0:24:15.600 --> 0:24:19.080 talked about it for a while a while before it. 0:24:19.160 --> 0:24:23.200 Be sim simmon, you know who got to keep y? Yeah? 0:24:23.359 --> 0:24:25.480 Who got the key? Boot boodh hole. 0:24:26.359 --> 0:24:29.479 I had the keys. By the way we did, we 0:24:29.560 --> 0:24:31.400 talked on like how much he thought he could. 0:24:31.240 --> 0:24:33.080 Take, like all of these things. You have to go 0:24:33.080 --> 0:24:34.520 out and pick the thing out together. 0:24:34.680 --> 0:24:38.600 I brought it, which I brought it with, so he 0:24:38.680 --> 0:24:42.040 flew me out to do it. You got moved out 0:24:42.080 --> 0:24:45.040 to pack. That's another level, is it? 0:24:45.200 --> 0:24:47.520 Girl? The first time you see somebody he was flewed out. 0:24:47.640 --> 0:24:47.879 I was. 0:24:48.480 --> 0:24:50.119 I was not even about to do it, I know, 0:24:50.240 --> 0:24:51.399 so I was flewd out to do it. But we 0:24:51.440 --> 0:24:54.000 had already had sex. And then this is something where 0:24:54.080 --> 0:24:56.600 just along the years we talked about how. 0:24:57.119 --> 0:25:00.720 Our minds had grown sexually. Was this man white or black? 0:25:00.800 --> 0:25:01.320 He was black. 0:25:01.359 --> 0:25:03.080 I've never been with a white man in my life. 0:25:03.080 --> 0:25:05.440 I've never seen a white penis all. 0:25:05.400 --> 0:25:05.679 Right, and. 0:25:09.119 --> 0:25:13.320 I'm pull your dick out for the guests bross the 0:25:13.400 --> 0:25:17.880 line related Sydney stopped me to win our producer. 0:25:19.119 --> 0:25:25.320 Andrew Andrew just d m s he was. He was, yeah, 0:25:26.400 --> 0:25:28.080 well it's pinks, that's what you need. 0:25:28.359 --> 0:25:30.800 I don't, and I'm cool on that. Although I do 0:25:30.880 --> 0:25:32.879 get tricked on foreign from time to time. It'll be 0:25:32.920 --> 0:25:35.080 ten and then I'm like, oh, it's connected to a 0:25:35.119 --> 0:25:37.720 white man, all right, let me just not watch this anymore. 0:25:38.520 --> 0:25:43.280 Let me shut the laptop, let me just black because 0:25:44.080 --> 0:25:47.560 you know. But no, so he was black, six eleven. 0:25:47.640 --> 0:25:48.600 You see me, You're like. 0:25:48.560 --> 0:25:52.960 I'm eleven basket he was. 0:25:53.800 --> 0:25:57.159 It was although I did hear he's into that. I 0:25:57.160 --> 0:25:59.639 did hear they also have like little group parties too. 0:25:59.760 --> 0:26:02.160 When I to Miami, it was it was the tea 0:26:02.160 --> 0:26:02.640 going around. 0:26:03.320 --> 0:26:05.760 Come call me. I would definitely fuck them both. So 0:26:05.840 --> 0:26:07.920 what's that to both? Let's talk about it. Hey, Gamy, 0:26:08.080 --> 0:26:08.760 what's the call? 0:26:09.680 --> 0:26:13.639 But yeah, no it wasn't him. But yeah, so we waited. 0:26:13.680 --> 0:26:15.960 I'll toller you I am five foot one. 0:26:15.640 --> 0:26:19.040 And he's six. It was hard like actually even I 0:26:19.040 --> 0:26:19.360 had to. 0:26:19.320 --> 0:26:21.960 Say I had to get a louder froggy style, like 0:26:22.000 --> 0:26:23.960 I had to stand up and then put my dick in. 0:26:24.040 --> 0:26:26.280 I'm like because he wanted it from the back first. 0:26:26.280 --> 0:26:27.720 And then when we did the lay down part, I 0:26:27.760 --> 0:26:29.360 just put him on a pillow that he just put his. 0:26:29.359 --> 0:26:35.520 Legs had long ass long. Yes, I don't nigga. 0:26:35.480 --> 0:26:37.960 The nigga, the and this is the third person I 0:26:38.000 --> 0:26:39.320 packed the video I'm about to show you. 0:26:39.720 --> 0:26:42.240 But even with him, he is sick, sick, let me, 0:26:42.440 --> 0:26:47.280 let me, let me so, yeah, can we see the face? No? Right? 0:26:47.359 --> 0:26:48.880 Because no? Yeah? 0:26:49.000 --> 0:26:51.800 That and then it gets uh talking about Sydney. 0:26:51.840 --> 0:26:58.240 It's a podcast to face the video that I'm actually 0:26:58.240 --> 0:27:00.960 gonna show you just told you to pull. 0:27:00.840 --> 0:27:05.880 His dick out the face. Well this video that you guys, 0:27:05.920 --> 0:27:07.720 you can't see his face in it, So. 0:27:07.840 --> 0:27:09.800 Okay, that's the video I want to I want to 0:27:09.800 --> 0:27:12.760 see his face. I'll show you guys outside, I can 0:27:12.840 --> 0:27:16.439 show you. Not here we go. Then he leave his 0:27:16.440 --> 0:27:19.800 sneakers on while you were pegging him. There's me pegging. 0:27:20.440 --> 0:27:21.080 Oh my. 0:27:25.760 --> 0:27:27.560 Wait god? 0:27:29.200 --> 0:27:40.960 And is like show me another video? 0:27:42.000 --> 0:27:47.879 That is and he's with you recording him? Yeah, I 0:27:47.920 --> 0:27:48.800 said let him. 0:27:49.200 --> 0:27:51.520 It's nice. Let me see the tattoo. So if in 0:27:51.560 --> 0:27:54.040 case I bothered to him, I know I could be 0:27:54.160 --> 0:28:01.119 like what So yeah, he allowed me to record it. 0:28:01.680 --> 0:28:04.200 The other people I've been with have not, but one 0:28:04.240 --> 0:28:06.040 of them did say the next time we go about 0:28:06.080 --> 0:28:06.960 I could. 0:28:06.960 --> 0:28:09.199 I mean, what do you wear to what do you 0:28:09.240 --> 0:28:11.800 someone's flying you out to peg them? What would you packing? 0:28:11.840 --> 0:28:14.320 What are you wearing? Just like this today airport, you 0:28:14.400 --> 0:28:20.080 wearing a wedge? How what's a proper pegging shoe? 0:28:20.720 --> 0:28:22.679 So I'm not wearing shoes while this like this is 0:28:22.720 --> 0:28:26.359 me just what my harness and normally, like I said, 0:28:26.359 --> 0:28:28.159 it does have to be discussed because I'm not just 0:28:28.560 --> 0:28:31.200 coming in the door with my harness on. So within 0:28:31.560 --> 0:28:33.639 us having sex, there is a time where it kind 0:28:33.640 --> 0:28:35.280 of gets awkward because I have to go and get 0:28:35.280 --> 0:28:35.720 my strap. 0:28:35.800 --> 0:28:38.680 Yeah yeah, so. 0:28:38.880 --> 0:28:41.120 Yeah, if you're it's awkward because it's just kind of 0:28:41.160 --> 0:28:44.600 like a freeze moment in the session where it's just like, Okay, 0:28:44.680 --> 0:28:45.560 let me go get my tool. 0:28:47.120 --> 0:28:49.040 I'll be right back and you'll get my belt. Don't 0:28:49.040 --> 0:28:50.200 have second thoughts, hold on this. 0:28:50.200 --> 0:28:55.360 It's only gonna take for thirty two seconds. But yeah, again, 0:28:55.400 --> 0:28:58.000 it's something that I've dealt with, Like I'm kind of 0:28:58.040 --> 0:29:01.120 just free, like open with even conversation about sex, clearly, 0:29:01.720 --> 0:29:04.200 but you should be. So even with my partners, they 0:29:04.240 --> 0:29:07.040 know there's no exposing going on. 0:29:07.120 --> 0:29:08.760 I don't look at them any different if I do this. 0:29:08.800 --> 0:29:11.800 I know there's a lot of conversations to if I 0:29:11.960 --> 0:29:15.160 view a man differently after I do the acts of pegging, 0:29:15.200 --> 0:29:17.800 and in reality, I don't. It's something that I enjoy 0:29:17.880 --> 0:29:20.320 as well, So to feel like I would be exposing 0:29:20.400 --> 0:29:22.800 someone from something that they enjoy and something that I 0:29:22.840 --> 0:29:25.160 participated in is just wild. It's kind of like it 0:29:25.160 --> 0:29:29.400 makes me think of fucking Nikki talking about Meek's manbody 0:29:29.520 --> 0:29:32.200 or black thereof of you know how he looks. 0:29:32.320 --> 0:29:34.040 But baby girl, you were claiming this man. You were 0:29:34.080 --> 0:29:35.760 sleeping with him, you were playing for him. 0:29:35.800 --> 0:29:38.120 You know. It's the same way you know when girl, 0:29:39.280 --> 0:29:40.880 if a girl wants to go and say a nigga 0:29:40.920 --> 0:29:42.960 dirty after he dated him, well, baby girl, you were 0:29:43.120 --> 0:29:45.920 looking at them balls. What is dirty ass? So it's 0:29:45.960 --> 0:29:50.480 something to where I think sexual I hated you talked 0:29:50.480 --> 0:29:55.360 about any of your exes well shading you. I don't 0:29:55.400 --> 0:30:00.200 call anybody dusty. 0:29:58.200 --> 0:30:00.000 But you can't call him dusty if you was late 0:30:00.200 --> 0:30:05.120 up boot up with them too. Okay, you know you're 0:30:05.160 --> 0:30:06.200 fucking a dirty nigga. 0:30:06.400 --> 0:30:08.800 Baby girl, you're dirty too. Yes, I was going through it. 0:30:09.080 --> 0:30:11.160 And it's funny too, because I think a lot of 0:30:12.640 --> 0:30:15.320 one of the number one questions is like, well, damn 0:30:15.440 --> 0:30:18.520 you you're okay with eating and playing in a straight 0:30:18.560 --> 0:30:20.760 man's ass, like they're not as clean as game man. 0:30:20.960 --> 0:30:24.800 But to even question the cleanliness of straight men is 0:30:24.880 --> 0:30:25.560 just like big. 0:30:25.600 --> 0:30:28.240 Girls, who are you having sex with I'm not putting 0:30:28.240 --> 0:30:29.280 my tongue in nobody's ass. 0:30:29.640 --> 0:30:34.840 Sorry, yeah, I mean I've. 0:30:32.760 --> 0:30:34.320 Never done it, but I've done it. I will let 0:30:34.360 --> 0:30:36.640 you put your tongue in my butt, but and I 0:30:36.680 --> 0:30:37.360 know my butt. 0:30:37.200 --> 0:30:39.080 Sometimes, you know, sometimes you bad. 0:30:39.600 --> 0:30:41.400 I'm waiting for the day I get sick because I 0:30:41.480 --> 0:30:43.120 had a threesome and I ate the ass of the 0:30:43.160 --> 0:30:44.000 girl and the nigga. 0:30:44.160 --> 0:30:48.200 Did you know them? Yeah, I had sex with uh 0:30:48.800 --> 0:30:51.320 not tequila was. 0:30:53.160 --> 0:30:53.400 Question? 0:30:55.200 --> 0:30:56.200 No, but tequila was. 0:30:56.600 --> 0:30:58.720 So why are you saying you you you're waiting to 0:30:58.720 --> 0:31:00.360 get sick because they was definitely. 0:31:00.080 --> 0:31:01.240 But no, no, no, they weren't dirty. 0:31:01.280 --> 0:31:03.080 But I'm just like, I probably shouldn't just be eating 0:31:03.120 --> 0:31:04.520 too assholes back to back. 0:31:04.560 --> 0:31:06.840 There's and I don't use dental dams, never did in my. 0:31:06.800 --> 0:31:09.600 Life, And well, I don't even know what a dental 0:31:09.640 --> 0:31:10.160 damn looks. 0:31:10.160 --> 0:31:12.400 Honestly, it's a question that I have to a lot 0:31:12.400 --> 0:31:12.960 of lesbians. 0:31:12.960 --> 0:31:14.520 And I don't know if we have the conversation with you, 0:31:14.800 --> 0:31:18.320 but every time we've had a lesbian on our show, 0:31:18.680 --> 0:31:21.200 it's like, well, I'm on a woman, so no, I 0:31:21.200 --> 0:31:22.960 don't really ask for the results. No, I don't use 0:31:22.960 --> 0:31:26.040 a condom. No, like there's never the concern of the 0:31:26.120 --> 0:31:28.280 exchange of fluids with women. But like, we got to 0:31:28.320 --> 0:31:30.280 be so concerned with the exchange of fluids with men. 0:31:30.240 --> 0:31:32.000 Like because they are the carriers of. 0:31:35.120 --> 0:31:37.120 But if women, you know women, if a woman is 0:31:37.120 --> 0:31:39.680 having sex with a dude and then she's having sex 0:31:39.680 --> 0:31:41.840 with a woman, can transfer. 0:31:42.320 --> 0:31:45.080 Which is what a lot of people are doing out here. 0:31:45.160 --> 0:31:50.840 Okay, and it's one of those Is that which came first? 0:31:52.360 --> 0:31:55.000 They both probably Jada and which what's they'll probably both 0:31:55.040 --> 0:31:55.880 let you bang them. 0:31:57.480 --> 0:32:02.360 Ja Jada might she might want to you. Yeah, that 0:32:02.760 --> 0:32:10.200 show girl girl. You feeling? How old is Willow? Whoa? Whoa? 0:32:10.240 --> 0:32:13.960 Okay, so we went from we went from me too 0:32:14.040 --> 0:32:18.160 and Andrew to becoming an attorney for this nigga pig to. 0:32:20.560 --> 0:32:23.960 Catch a predator. Hold on, well, she's really not. 0:32:24.680 --> 0:32:29.080 You might need to wow if she Jayden, I feel 0:32:29.080 --> 0:32:30.600 like Jayden is like, Jayden. 0:32:30.440 --> 0:32:32.040 Is not eighteen at this point. 0:32:32.080 --> 0:32:34.320 She got to be grown now, she gotta be you 0:32:34.480 --> 0:32:41.520 hoping you praying fingers across. She's nineteen, you need to 0:32:41.560 --> 0:32:43.720 be twenty one and over. Oh no, I'll deal with 0:32:43.720 --> 0:32:47.600 some eighteen No never, I know I'm not eighteen year old. 0:32:47.640 --> 0:32:49.800 Nick he's give me, he's. 0:32:51.520 --> 0:32:54.040 Yeastection, he's going to give you the round. No, I 0:32:54.080 --> 0:32:57.320 don't need them like rounds. I need I need rounds 0:32:57.320 --> 0:33:00.080 of break rounds like around a break around. 0:32:59.760 --> 0:33:03.440 A honestly, the break times in the night. 0:33:03.920 --> 0:33:06.960 Break okay, and then we'll start again. Okay, IM down 0:33:06.960 --> 0:33:08.520 with you said ten times in the night. Yeah, I 0:33:08.520 --> 0:33:09.280 talked about on the show. 0:33:09.320 --> 0:33:10.960 So one of the my lovers that I had that 0:33:11.000 --> 0:33:15.239 I pegged, we ended up for ten rounds. No, not 0:33:15.280 --> 0:33:18.400 for all ten rounds, maybe only like two of the test, just. 0:33:18.280 --> 0:33:23.600 Two of the ten to two rounds getting pegged me 0:33:23.720 --> 0:33:28.360 if you tried. Okay, so when when what time do 0:33:28.440 --> 0:33:28.920 y'all start? 0:33:29.440 --> 0:33:30.200 What time do we start? 0:33:30.280 --> 0:33:32.040 Well, you said you went ten rounds, so you started 0:33:32.040 --> 0:33:33.680 with six pm after work? 0:33:33.800 --> 0:33:35.720 Okay, so then you got a full night's sleep. No, 0:33:36.560 --> 0:33:38.280 no we didn't because we ended up at the sex 0:33:38.320 --> 0:33:42.240 club that night. So we sex club. It's here in 0:33:43.200 --> 0:33:45.600 fab next time, it's here in New York. Do you 0:33:45.640 --> 0:33:46.000 want to go? 0:33:46.160 --> 0:33:50.920 Oh yes, we want to go for research purposes. I 0:33:51.040 --> 0:33:53.160 talk about it on my show, and I'm sure we 0:33:53.240 --> 0:33:54.160 have a little different audience. 0:33:54.200 --> 0:34:00.560 So it's called caligula. It's increding see write it down 0:34:01.840 --> 0:34:07.160 sounds like arugula, but caligula calligraphy. 0:34:07.480 --> 0:34:09.680 And so we ended up going there, so technically he 0:34:09.719 --> 0:34:12.040 actually went like eleven or twelve rounds in one night, 0:34:12.040 --> 0:34:14.600 because he did end up fucking another girl in there. 0:34:14.680 --> 0:34:16.880 And you like watching the people you sleep with sleeping 0:34:16.880 --> 0:34:17.719 with other people. 0:34:18.040 --> 0:34:20.400 When I'm there, I don't mind something like the I 0:34:20.520 --> 0:34:22.400 like massive dicks, so I'm not gonna lie. I like 0:34:22.440 --> 0:34:25.200 a break sometimes because it hurts, like I've been doing 0:34:25.200 --> 0:34:25.680 a lot here. 0:34:25.800 --> 0:34:28.960 Please take give me a break, queen. Yeah, give me 0:34:29.000 --> 0:34:30.759 a break. Yeah, time out, time in. 0:34:31.239 --> 0:34:33.680 Yeah, like I'm on base. This wall is bab I 0:34:33.760 --> 0:34:37.040 need to I need to let it, say for its 0:34:37.080 --> 0:34:39.880 falling right now, let it get back down. It'd be 0:34:39.920 --> 0:34:41.120 like throbbing. You need to let it. 0:34:41.239 --> 0:34:44.680 Yeah, So I don't I don't mind a partner coming 0:34:44.719 --> 0:34:47.040 in and us having fun together, like it doesn't bother me. 0:34:47.760 --> 0:34:49.360 But yeah, so we ended up at the sex club, 0:34:51.120 --> 0:34:54.279 so it's a byob. We were on tequila. You bring 0:34:54.280 --> 0:34:57.520 your oh you do bring your own, bitch, because if 0:34:57.520 --> 0:34:58.320 you're a male. 0:34:58.840 --> 0:35:00.960 There's only one night a week they allow single men, 0:35:01.520 --> 0:35:04.080 so you do have to go with a couple. Yeah, 0:35:04.120 --> 0:35:05.399 you have to go with a couple. They do allow 0:35:05.440 --> 0:35:09.800 single women. However, it's a safe we need. So we 0:35:09.880 --> 0:35:11.920 ended up there. It was a little slow in the beginning. 0:35:11.920 --> 0:35:14.640 We got there quite early, so we just drank early, 0:35:15.280 --> 0:35:18.319 like twelve thirty one, that's early. So people arrive at 0:35:18.360 --> 0:35:20.879 three o'clock. No, they between one thirty and two. 0:35:21.719 --> 0:35:25.200 Where's peak peak is where that's where peak penis. People 0:35:25.200 --> 0:35:27.480 don't have been drinking. They didn't eate already. And now 0:35:27.640 --> 0:35:29.479 after you eat when you go into a sex club, 0:35:29.480 --> 0:35:32.040 because but I ain't never touch that food. I didn't 0:35:32.040 --> 0:35:32.480 even go home. 0:35:34.360 --> 0:35:39.400 Listen, man eats ass at the sex purchases. 0:35:40.120 --> 0:35:42.279 So yeah, so we started there. The way it's set up, 0:35:42.320 --> 0:35:45.440 it's like open, like a regular dance floor. Downstairs, you 0:35:45.440 --> 0:35:47.319 have a bar. I brought my friends one time and 0:35:47.400 --> 0:35:49.719 literally they were in shot because a girl was just 0:35:49.719 --> 0:35:51.080 giving head literally at the bar. 0:35:51.640 --> 0:35:53.440 Anyways, your name goes on your bottle. 0:35:53.520 --> 0:35:55.520 You have a bartender. She does she does the mixes 0:35:55.560 --> 0:35:58.640 all night for you. You tip her like accordingly and 0:35:58.680 --> 0:36:00.000 then so you can go upstairs. 0:36:00.200 --> 0:36:02.760 How much you gotta tip like my titty out, Actually 0:36:03.120 --> 0:36:05.239 you should be tipping me, I mean just. 0:36:05.200 --> 0:36:06.840 Because she's making your drinks. 0:36:06.840 --> 0:36:09.440 Cool, that's a bad drinks. Well, no, you can't have 0:36:09.480 --> 0:36:11.480 your bottle. You have to drop your bottle behind the bar. 0:36:11.680 --> 0:36:14.400 You can't walk around with just a bottle. Also, it's glass, 0:36:14.680 --> 0:36:16.680 so they don't want glass around, so it is plastic. 0:36:17.040 --> 0:36:19.359 There's people naked, right, we talked about this barefootage. 0:36:19.400 --> 0:36:21.600 Do you check your clothes when you get there or 0:36:21.640 --> 0:36:23.080 do they let you keep your clothes on? 0:36:23.320 --> 0:36:26.799 So you can keep your clothes on downstairs but upstairs? 0:36:26.840 --> 0:36:28.920 Actually no, now that I think about it, you don't 0:36:28.920 --> 0:36:31.520 have to unrobe in any of the rooms at this 0:36:31.600 --> 0:36:32.560 particular club. 0:36:32.760 --> 0:36:33.640 I know there are some clubs. 0:36:33.640 --> 0:36:35.480 If you go to Trapeze in Atlanta, once you go 0:36:35.520 --> 0:36:37.879 past a certain point, you have to unrope. The same 0:36:37.880 --> 0:36:39.920 a hedonism, there's a nude part hedonism. 0:36:40.040 --> 0:36:45.320 It's in Jamaica. Y, Jamaica. Should we go to that marine? 0:36:45.320 --> 0:36:49.960 You'll have yeah? Have this? I feel like, yeah, have to. 0:36:50.000 --> 0:36:51.919 I'm gonna start doing my kegels right now. 0:36:53.360 --> 0:36:55.600 It's a whole fucking movie. But yeah, you go in there. 0:36:55.600 --> 0:36:59.040 There's there are private rooms. There's also a shower. Then 0:36:59.040 --> 0:37:01.239 you have a room where anyone can watch, and then 0:37:01.239 --> 0:37:02.920 you have a room in the back where only couples 0:37:02.920 --> 0:37:03.440 are allowed. 0:37:04.280 --> 0:37:06.040 And again, so like this sounds like it. 0:37:06.280 --> 0:37:10.120 I need to leave my head shaved at least through 0:37:10.120 --> 0:37:12.200 the sex party and then I can start growing my 0:37:12.200 --> 0:37:15.279 hair back. Now, okay, I'm going I'm going short. I'm 0:37:15.280 --> 0:37:17.399 cutting all this off after I take this, and I'll 0:37:17.400 --> 0:37:18.040 have a little season. 0:37:18.560 --> 0:37:18.799 Yeah. 0:37:18.840 --> 0:37:20.920 Well, I'm gonna start a little shorter and then go 0:37:21.080 --> 0:37:22.880 shorter as as I go on. 0:37:22.880 --> 0:37:25.600 You're trying to end at like Amber Roads. Maybe not 0:37:25.640 --> 0:37:27.440 all the way amber Ros, but I want to go. 0:37:27.440 --> 0:37:29.520 Blonde, and I know blonde is going to take phases 0:37:29.560 --> 0:37:31.480 for her until I get as light as I want 0:37:31.520 --> 0:37:31.640 to know? 0:37:32.480 --> 0:37:34.360 Have you ever bleached her hair? But my hair is black? 0:37:34.480 --> 0:37:37.680 And we did it twice, double process, Yeah, and it 0:37:37.719 --> 0:37:39.480 was it got we got it so light the first 0:37:39.480 --> 0:37:41.880 time that the dude was like, oh okay. And then 0:37:41.880 --> 0:37:43.520 this last time I bleached it myself and I only 0:37:43.520 --> 0:37:44.560 beach it bleached it once. 0:37:44.680 --> 0:37:44.879 Yeah. 0:37:44.920 --> 0:37:47.120 Well right now, I mean, I don't even know if this. 0:37:47.480 --> 0:37:50.120 Hopefully it brings new niggas about because I have no one. 0:37:51.640 --> 0:37:53.400 Size. I am is not cutting it for niggas. 0:37:53.400 --> 0:37:54.920 I was getting way more niggas when I was a 0:37:54.920 --> 0:37:57.920 big bitch, so I'm just like, Okay, let me just 0:37:57.920 --> 0:37:58.560 cut off my hair. 0:37:58.600 --> 0:38:02.280 Maybe I'll get a new you know what about women? 0:38:03.280 --> 0:38:06.040 So honestly, I fuck my friends. I don't really go 0:38:06.120 --> 0:38:08.400 out and I'm not taking a bitch on a Yeah. 0:38:08.600 --> 0:38:09.480 Let's talk about this. 0:38:09.920 --> 0:38:11.520 I mean, because I am a friend and I told 0:38:11.560 --> 0:38:13.840 you about your nails, So do you want to go 0:38:14.000 --> 0:38:14.840 to the sex party with me? 0:38:16.320 --> 0:38:20.440 Put these in booty holes? And all? I could not. 0:38:20.719 --> 0:38:21.560 But so that's the problem. 0:38:21.600 --> 0:38:24.480 I got to tell my so not with the rhinestones, 0:38:24.800 --> 0:38:26.680 So like most recently, I had to use my ring 0:38:26.719 --> 0:38:28.000 finger and I was like, this isn't working. So the 0:38:28.040 --> 0:38:29.319 next time I go to my nail tech, I got 0:38:29.360 --> 0:38:30.920 to tell her to keep the ryinstones off my index 0:38:30.920 --> 0:38:32.680 finger because that's the one I go. 0:38:33.000 --> 0:38:36.440 That's but like when it comes to women, I have 0:38:36.480 --> 0:38:40.160 a problem dating them, like because you don't want to 0:38:40.160 --> 0:38:42.880 spend no money. I'm not used to the men do. 0:38:43.360 --> 0:38:46.040 But I'm also very aggressive and so I do come 0:38:46.080 --> 0:38:48.400 off maybe more with the masculine, so why don't you 0:38:48.400 --> 0:38:51.440 get a f But then so I'm completely opposite though, 0:38:51.880 --> 0:38:56.000 like I like to dominate men, but with women I 0:38:56.000 --> 0:38:57.800 would like them to be more in control. 0:38:57.840 --> 0:38:59.000 But I also don't like hen. 0:38:59.640 --> 0:39:07.239 You's why what's cool from either people. 0:39:07.280 --> 0:39:08.640 If you want to do it, because it turns you on, 0:39:08.719 --> 0:39:10.120 but it doesn't really do much for me. I don't 0:39:10.160 --> 0:39:12.320 do nothing, so like, even specifically when I'm with women, 0:39:12.560 --> 0:39:15.040 I prefer to just eat them out the whole time. 0:39:15.239 --> 0:39:19.839 Oh far. 0:39:21.600 --> 0:39:23.480 But yeah, So when it comes to women, I think 0:39:23.480 --> 0:39:27.040 my problem more so is just the conversation. Even there 0:39:27.120 --> 0:39:29.520 was a friend of mine and we were talking and 0:39:29.640 --> 0:39:31.399 she came over, got all the way naked in my bed, 0:39:31.440 --> 0:39:34.239 and then it was like, I feel like, you know, 0:39:34.520 --> 0:39:36.520 you just want me for sex, so maybe we should 0:39:36.560 --> 0:39:37.400 go to the movies tomorrow. 0:39:37.440 --> 0:39:38.839 I just got turned off. I was just like, you're 0:39:38.840 --> 0:39:41.279 already my bed naked, Like, so what are we doing? 0:39:41.719 --> 0:39:44.200 Like this is didn't have sex? This is we didn't 0:39:44.239 --> 0:39:44.640 have sex. 0:39:44.680 --> 0:39:47.160 No, because she she wanted more out of me, and 0:39:47.320 --> 0:39:49.520 I guess she felt that it was just gonna be 0:39:49.600 --> 0:39:51.879 fun for me, and she legitimately wanted more. 0:39:51.960 --> 0:39:52.839 She wanted me to. 0:39:52.840 --> 0:39:54.480 Take her out, and I was just like, but it 0:39:54.520 --> 0:39:57.120 would have been fun to her, but it's like, right, 0:39:57.400 --> 0:39:58.799 so I don't want to. 0:39:59.040 --> 0:40:02.120 And my last real relationship was with a woman. It 0:40:02.160 --> 0:40:04.000 was with a woman who allowed me to have sex 0:40:04.040 --> 0:40:07.319 with one partner, one male, but me and her were 0:40:07.320 --> 0:40:10.160 together when I was in Miami. But just yeah, since then, 0:40:10.440 --> 0:40:12.520 I just I have fun with women, but I don't 0:40:12.560 --> 0:40:15.239 see myself being with so I'm not gonna I'm not 0:40:15.239 --> 0:40:16.080 gonna waste so much time. 0:40:16.080 --> 0:40:17.239 I just I just want it for fun. 0:40:17.520 --> 0:40:19.319 But then it's also weird because I say that and 0:40:19.360 --> 0:40:21.520 men automatically assume, well, let's have a threesome. 0:40:22.080 --> 0:40:24.440 I like women by themselves and I like men by themselves. 0:40:24.520 --> 0:40:29.760 I don't, Okay, I'll do it. But we was just talking. 0:40:29.560 --> 0:40:34.080 About you, I know, but it was just like I didn't. 0:40:34.600 --> 0:40:37.160 I didn't get fully fulfilled even in the threesome. 0:40:38.120 --> 0:40:38.960 Get you off? 0:40:39.520 --> 0:40:42.800 Yeah, okay, So what really truly gets you off penetration, 0:40:43.080 --> 0:40:46.560 which is not common for most women. They do come off, 0:40:46.840 --> 0:40:50.160 you know, throughteroral stimulation, and I know it's penetration for me, 0:40:50.520 --> 0:40:52.200 So I need all the dick and if I have 0:40:52.239 --> 0:40:55.600 to share it maybe before I'm climaxing. Now you're going 0:40:55.640 --> 0:40:57.720 to please her, And it's just a lot of switching 0:40:57.760 --> 0:40:59.880 to where I can't really get into the motion that 0:40:59.920 --> 0:41:02.200 I need to to come, And then it's just a 0:41:02.239 --> 0:41:04.520 lot more work for me, Like I'm orally. 0:41:04.239 --> 0:41:05.920 Pleasing the two of you. 0:41:06.080 --> 0:41:08.880 It's constant work for me about that life, sis, I mean, 0:41:08.880 --> 0:41:10.080 you're not trying to put in that work. 0:41:10.360 --> 0:41:12.399 It's a lot of work. Work is to work. 0:41:12.640 --> 0:41:14.960 Yeah, So I'd rather, honestly just take two dicks. That 0:41:15.000 --> 0:41:18.879 sounds funner to me. It's finding that with two men 0:41:19.000 --> 0:41:25.960 that I trust that. Yeah, yeah, I like that. Okay, 0:41:26.239 --> 0:41:28.480 have any how are y'all with threesomes or do you? 0:41:28.640 --> 0:41:29.279 Because you guys have? 0:41:29.320 --> 0:41:31.879 Sexuality is different ends of the spectrum, right. 0:41:31.800 --> 0:41:45.000 Yes, I need to go to get or whatever. 0:41:46.520 --> 0:41:48.120 I mean, I would consider myself what is it a 0:41:48.160 --> 0:41:51.680 don't touch me or no touch girl on girl type 0:41:51.680 --> 0:41:54.719 of person, Like I don't I don't need the other 0:41:54.719 --> 0:41:56.680 woman to touch me at all, Like. 0:41:56.640 --> 0:41:58.120 I don't know. So then I'm the opposite of that. 0:41:58.600 --> 0:42:04.600 Well yeah, right like and then yeah, that's fun for me. 0:42:04.760 --> 0:42:06.239 I'm a pleaser at the end of the day. 0:42:06.239 --> 0:42:08.000 That's because it sounds like you don't want to do 0:42:08.040 --> 0:42:11.320 too much to please it. So she doesn't do a lot. 0:42:11.520 --> 0:42:15.440 She jumped on a plane, carry right, but we do 0:42:15.480 --> 0:42:17.480 this like this is our life. 0:42:17.560 --> 0:42:20.520 But to me, but to me, I still anytime I 0:42:20.560 --> 0:42:23.240 have sex now, like I'm almost thirty. Over the last 0:42:23.440 --> 0:42:26.239 ship five years, I would say specifically more so with 0:42:26.280 --> 0:42:30.319 the podcast and us being just more openly audible on 0:42:30.360 --> 0:42:32.600 what we want, like voicing what we want. 0:42:32.920 --> 0:42:33.600 I've been that way. 0:42:33.680 --> 0:42:35.600 So I'm not going to engage in sex unless i 0:42:35.640 --> 0:42:37.839 know I'm going to come, unless i know it's going 0:42:37.880 --> 0:42:38.520 to be fun for me. 0:42:39.040 --> 0:42:40.879 So I'm not engaging in something that I don't want 0:42:40.880 --> 0:42:45.120 to do. That's what sex should be, though, especially after 0:42:45.120 --> 0:42:47.520 a certain age. What we're doing. 0:42:47.600 --> 0:42:49.279 I'm not having sex for you to like me. I'm 0:42:49.320 --> 0:42:51.600 not having sex for a meal. I can feed myself 0:42:52.080 --> 0:42:55.839 having sex because you said let's have sex, like yeah, 0:42:55.840 --> 0:42:58.399 but like if you don't want like and I said 0:42:58.400 --> 0:43:01.319 this to y'all, I went to that duet house and 0:43:01.360 --> 0:43:03.120 I knew I wasn't gonna come, and I was like, well, 0:43:03.160 --> 0:43:04.279 I'm just gonna go home. 0:43:04.440 --> 0:43:05.640 I was like, I told him I had to poop. 0:43:07.200 --> 0:43:10.399 The most recent I had someone come over because so 0:43:10.640 --> 0:43:13.239 I was having casual sex with someone for the last 0:43:13.239 --> 0:43:13.759 seven years. 0:43:13.760 --> 0:43:14.600 No longer fuck him. 0:43:14.680 --> 0:43:17.680 Okay, so seven year how do you fuck somebody for 0:43:17.800 --> 0:43:18.640 seven years? 0:43:18.680 --> 0:43:21.440 A lot to like, how often would you see them? 0:43:21.760 --> 0:43:25.000 Once a week or every couple of weeks. 0:43:25.000 --> 0:43:27.560 It depends, like every mother would be different, but kind 0:43:27.560 --> 0:43:29.839 of weekly on a little thing. 0:43:29.880 --> 0:43:32.520 And if we were both busy, maybe twice a month. 0:43:32.640 --> 0:43:35.560 Yeah, I saw him often, and then every time we 0:43:35.560 --> 0:43:39.080 fucked it was three rounds, like every time that's our number. 0:43:38.960 --> 0:43:40.080 You hit a silence in the room. 0:43:40.680 --> 0:43:43.440 Yeah, But anyway, so I stopped dealing with him. So 0:43:43.760 --> 0:43:47.279 most recently it's been frustrating for me because I now 0:43:47.360 --> 0:43:50.239 don't have that go to dick, that on call, you know. 0:43:50.360 --> 0:43:52.040 And so I had a guy that I met. He 0:43:52.080 --> 0:43:53.279 was a bartender, and I was just like, well, I 0:43:53.320 --> 0:43:58.640 need a replacement, and he came over and I literally 0:43:58.680 --> 0:44:00.440 told him to bounce. It was three o'clock in the morning. 0:44:00.920 --> 0:44:02.799 We were both asked naked, and I was just like, 0:44:03.040 --> 0:44:04.240 this isn't this isn't working. 0:44:05.760 --> 0:44:07.920 You guys started to have sex. It wasn't we started. 0:44:08.239 --> 0:44:10.400 He was very eager to put the condom on, so 0:44:10.480 --> 0:44:13.799 I wasn't ready yet. And then I don't know if 0:44:13.800 --> 0:44:16.440 the condom made him soft, but immediately anytime I make 0:44:16.440 --> 0:44:19.480 a nigga put on a condom, I'm very pro condom. 0:44:18.719 --> 0:44:21.640 Yes, because we're not exclusive. I don't know who you 0:44:21.680 --> 0:44:22.239 fucking raw. 0:44:22.400 --> 0:44:25.640 I'm not even though I fuck with a condom with 0:44:25.680 --> 0:44:28.600 all of my lovers, like, I don't know what you're doing. 0:44:28.920 --> 0:44:32.040 And because I am very open if I'm entertaining someone else, 0:44:32.200 --> 0:44:33.920 we both know we fucking other people. There's no need 0:44:33.920 --> 0:44:35.320 for us to think we can trust each other. That 0:44:35.480 --> 0:44:37.080 just like it just doesn't make sense. 0:44:37.160 --> 0:44:43.239 Yes, so modern. So anytime I feel like a guy is. 0:44:43.239 --> 0:44:46.359 Just like, well you good, I'm good, or he goes 0:44:46.360 --> 0:44:48.640 limp in a condom, I feel like, oh, you're fucking 0:44:48.640 --> 0:44:52.040 a lot of people, probably unprotected, and so I'm immediately 0:44:52.080 --> 0:44:56.359 turned off, immediately turned immediately turned off. And I felt 0:44:56.400 --> 0:45:00.920 like outside of liquor and mean over drinking with the 0:45:00.960 --> 0:45:02.680 people who I'd be like, oh, let's go at it. 0:45:02.760 --> 0:45:06.799 I've had, Yeah, probably cursed like three people like that 0:45:06.920 --> 0:45:09.000 either couldn't stay hard in the condom or we were 0:45:09.040 --> 0:45:10.879 just so drunk it just didn't work. 0:45:12.320 --> 0:45:14.840 So yeah, right, kicked them out right now? He left? 0:45:14.960 --> 0:45:17.560 Yeah, he left. The other guy we just fell asleep together. 0:45:18.080 --> 0:45:19.759 He was a friend of mine that you know, it 0:45:19.840 --> 0:45:21.480 just happened, but didn't happen. 0:45:22.040 --> 0:45:22.959 So he fell asleep. 0:45:23.000 --> 0:45:24.920 The other guy, Yeah, I kicked him out, which is 0:45:24.960 --> 0:45:26.840 why I enjoy people coming into my space. 0:45:27.640 --> 0:45:31.560 You in control, but I just feel like you like 0:45:31.600 --> 0:45:33.399 to be in someone else's just because I don't want 0:45:33.440 --> 0:45:36.000 to take the mess to your house and then I 0:45:36.000 --> 0:45:40.600 go back to my sanctuary, just like because I squirter. 0:45:41.640 --> 0:45:42.600 Oh you're one to go. 0:45:43.080 --> 0:45:45.360 Yeah, my friends stayed with me all summer and ruined 0:45:45.360 --> 0:45:46.280 my mattress money. 0:45:46.960 --> 0:45:47.880 And she's just like. 0:45:48.320 --> 0:45:52.120 My man, you know, grow gross gross but like every 0:45:52.120 --> 0:45:54.479 time you fuck, you squirting bro so much. 0:45:54.760 --> 0:45:55.840 Oh that makes sense. 0:45:55.880 --> 0:45:57.680 So for you, you might need to get some sort of 0:45:57.719 --> 0:45:59.000 Marriout discount of something. 0:45:59.719 --> 0:46:01.120 All punch cards. 0:46:01.160 --> 0:46:03.239 I mean, bitch, I'm a sister on someone's account, so 0:46:03.320 --> 0:46:04.000 I get discounts. 0:46:04.000 --> 0:46:08.040 Okable decision. You don't have to hook up. You got 0:46:08.120 --> 0:46:10.080 a coupon code. Hell no, I wish they need to 0:46:10.120 --> 0:46:15.520 go ahead and smash the bitch. We'll be talking about hotel. 0:46:15.960 --> 0:46:18.479 I love it. I love it. But yeah, so yeah, 0:46:18.600 --> 0:46:21.160 you're messy, I understand you. Wait, so your friend was 0:46:21.200 --> 0:46:24.400 having sex in your mattress. So I have two bedrooms, 0:46:24.680 --> 0:46:30.719 and so I let her stay friends she bangs some 0:46:30.760 --> 0:46:31.320 of her friends. 0:46:31.640 --> 0:46:34.200 Yeah, but I let all of my Like we're adults, 0:46:34.239 --> 0:46:36.720 like just don't get no juices on my couch because 0:46:36.719 --> 0:46:38.360 my couch ain't even a year old yet, and I 0:46:38.400 --> 0:46:39.600 ain't fucked on my couch yet. 0:46:39.920 --> 0:46:41.759 You don't get to fuck, but yeah, couch. 0:46:41.960 --> 0:46:44.800 She talked about a sectional she talked about in my kitchen, 0:46:44.880 --> 0:46:46.760 like I don't care about that in the kitchen. 0:46:49.040 --> 0:46:53.839 I'm a good friend friends like she come on over. 0:46:53.920 --> 0:46:55.920 Like it's so funny because a friend of mine was 0:46:55.920 --> 0:46:59.000 in town recently and she talks to a front of 0:46:59.160 --> 0:46:59.440 like we. 0:46:59.400 --> 0:47:02.799 Have a mutual no no, no, that I just know. 0:47:02.880 --> 0:47:05.120 And I was like, girl, we cook and invite them 0:47:05.120 --> 0:47:06.800 over for dinner. And I was like, I'll put condoms 0:47:06.800 --> 0:47:07.640 in the nightstand for you. 0:47:08.480 --> 0:47:10.400 This is a this is an ally right here. 0:47:12.560 --> 0:47:14.320 And he didn't even know because he couldn't find parking 0:47:14.360 --> 0:47:15.360 around my apartment. 0:47:15.400 --> 0:47:17.920 There's no parking where I live, so he ended up leaving. 0:47:18.239 --> 0:47:21.080 I was like, Nigga for you and everything. He's like, man, 0:47:21.120 --> 0:47:23.480 you I didn't know that she was about that. I said, 0:47:23.520 --> 0:47:25.279 she had the little short song for you and all 0:47:25.480 --> 0:47:26.920 like you don't even know. 0:47:26.960 --> 0:47:29.000 We had salmon cook, we had a whole plate for 0:47:29.040 --> 0:47:31.680 you in He was about to come eat and get 0:47:31.680 --> 0:47:33.160 pussy and didn't even know, and I set it up 0:47:33.160 --> 0:47:33.400 for him. 0:47:33.400 --> 0:47:33.920 I set him up. 0:47:34.160 --> 0:47:36.719 There was loub toys because we got I have so 0:47:36.719 --> 0:47:37.879 many toys that I don't use. 0:47:38.040 --> 0:47:39.759 So I was like, girl, there's toys in there. If 0:47:39.760 --> 0:47:41.239 you want, I'll put the condoms in there. And there 0:47:41.480 --> 0:47:43.719 there was different So what's your Airbnb? 0:47:46.000 --> 0:47:47.920 Listen, I live in the Bronx. That's what it is. 0:47:48.400 --> 0:47:49.200 You got to take care. 0:47:50.440 --> 0:47:52.719 It took you two years to get over here, so 0:47:52.800 --> 0:47:54.320 let me make sure I have everything set. 0:47:54.200 --> 0:47:56.520 Up for you. No tanks. 0:47:56.840 --> 0:47:59.040 Listen, if you have a car and you live in Jersey, 0:47:59.160 --> 0:48:02.959 dudeif ten minutes away, my niggas live in Jersey. 0:48:02.800 --> 0:48:05.600 Or that's not Michelle, that's not my narrative. Since yeah, 0:48:05.640 --> 0:48:09.239 my narrative is uptown niggas. Anyways, I don't talk to 0:48:09.280 --> 0:48:13.319 nobody in Brooklyn. It's the long distanceship for you to. 0:48:14.960 --> 0:48:17.720 Cross a bridge to get to go to get flewed 0:48:17.719 --> 0:48:18.440 out to Brooks. 0:48:18.440 --> 0:48:19.719 It took me over an hour to come to see 0:48:19.800 --> 0:48:20.239 y'all today. 0:48:20.320 --> 0:48:22.480 Well that's why we gotta make the episode long, because 0:48:22.760 --> 0:48:24.080 it's gonna take you another hour to get back. 0:48:25.000 --> 0:48:27.400 I'm recording today for Horrible, so I'm just going to 0:48:27.440 --> 0:48:28.680 the city. 0:48:29.800 --> 0:48:33.960 We recorded five. We got time. Yeah, I saw shake 0:48:34.000 --> 0:48:34.680 Shack on the corner. 0:48:34.760 --> 0:48:38.920 I was like about to go eat. 0:48:39.000 --> 0:48:39.839 Going to go eat. 0:48:40.080 --> 0:48:42.240 Okay, talk to him, baby, So where are you meeting 0:48:42.280 --> 0:48:44.399 these guys, the guys that you're sleeping with, that you've 0:48:44.440 --> 0:48:44.960 been dating. 0:48:45.200 --> 0:48:45.359 Where? 0:48:45.880 --> 0:48:49.399 Because this is like been a question at our live 0:48:49.480 --> 0:48:50.680 shows in the email. 0:48:50.840 --> 0:48:54.680 Where do I get them? Says h bitch? Instagram? Twitter? 0:48:54.840 --> 0:48:56.759 And one of my holes I met when I was 0:48:56.760 --> 0:49:00.960 a bartender at Applebee's while he was sizzling for He 0:49:01.160 --> 0:49:05.360 is Matter. So I actually was one of the bartenders 0:49:05.360 --> 0:49:08.120 that helped opened up the apple Bees across from Barclays. 0:49:08.560 --> 0:49:09.080 So right here. 0:49:09.120 --> 0:49:11.319 I moved up to New York and one of my 0:49:11.400 --> 0:49:15.239 lovers came in. Is just sat at the bar and 0:49:15.239 --> 0:49:17.279 when his bill came, his bill was forty dollars. I 0:49:17.360 --> 0:49:18.960 tell the story because it's so funny how we are 0:49:19.000 --> 0:49:22.000 where we are now. His bill was forty dollars. He 0:49:22.040 --> 0:49:24.560 tipped me forty dollars, And at this point I'm just 0:49:24.600 --> 0:49:28.600 like this was a lot. You know, the goddamn clientele 0:49:28.640 --> 0:49:33.600 we getting right here, they barely tipping us. So I 0:49:33.640 --> 0:49:36.000 was like, well you should come here again. Let me 0:49:36.080 --> 0:49:38.200 know I'll let you know my schedule, come and see 0:49:38.200 --> 0:49:40.840 me on some on a bartender Vine ended up getting 0:49:40.840 --> 0:49:42.680 his card. He's like, well, you know I'm in I'm 0:49:42.880 --> 0:49:46.680 I'm in New York, Like, let's go have brunch. Wasn't 0:49:46.840 --> 0:49:49.760 really you know, you didn't think I didn't think anything 0:49:49.800 --> 0:49:50.040 of it. 0:49:50.080 --> 0:49:52.960 So who would my friends along? Who would play him 0:49:52.960 --> 0:49:54.920 in a movie? What does he look like? Oh God, 0:49:55.120 --> 0:49:57.719 I'm not gonna give that away because if I say, like. 0:49:57.760 --> 0:49:59.879 Yeah, if you said, look, who would playhim in the movie? 0:49:59.920 --> 0:50:02.759 Is he's famous actor? No? No, no, no, no, no, no, 0:50:02.920 --> 0:50:03.640 he's not famous. 0:50:03.640 --> 0:50:10.040 He's actually like, like I hate to say regular, but regular, regular, regular. 0:50:10.600 --> 0:50:15.920 So he has he has a good job in government 0:50:17.040 --> 0:50:22.839 since we just wanted to Yeah, anyways, so he worked 0:50:22.840 --> 0:50:23.279 in New York. 0:50:23.400 --> 0:50:26.600 So he started just taking me and my friends out 0:50:26.600 --> 0:50:28.640 almost on a weekly basis. Like we was at forty 0:50:28.680 --> 0:50:31.719 forty catching games. All of my friends met him. Like 0:50:32.000 --> 0:50:34.040 so for even the first year we didn't have sex 0:50:34.040 --> 0:50:34.359 at all. 0:50:34.480 --> 0:50:35.200 I loved this guy. 0:50:35.280 --> 0:50:36.680 We didn't have sex at all, and he was just 0:50:36.719 --> 0:50:40.120 taking my friends out. Damn, it would give too much detail. 0:50:42.080 --> 0:50:47.400 And because now he's married, we haven't slept in the 0:50:47.480 --> 0:50:49.920 last year, but I'm still getting all the benefits of 0:50:50.080 --> 0:50:53.880 because we've now grown a friendship. So he's been around 0:50:53.960 --> 0:50:57.359 for the past six years, freak. And it helped because 0:50:57.400 --> 0:50:59.720 he was one of the ones that assisted me through school, 0:51:00.360 --> 0:51:02.560 which is funny because as an accountant, we had a 0:51:02.600 --> 0:51:06.080 whole week on what was this? 0:51:06.400 --> 0:51:07.240 Was it cost accounting? 0:51:07.280 --> 0:51:09.560 I can't remember the class, but anyways, he had me 0:51:09.600 --> 0:51:12.280 as an employee under his job, as a fake employee, 0:51:12.320 --> 0:51:14.000 so I was getting a check every two weeks from him, 0:51:14.200 --> 0:51:16.479 although I would only see him maybe once every three months. 0:51:16.640 --> 0:51:20.640 Beach, I gotta get back. We got to enroll in classes. Yes, 0:51:20.680 --> 0:51:22.560 so he put me on payroll. I gotta check every 0:51:22.560 --> 0:51:23.120 two weeks. 0:51:23.440 --> 0:51:23.680 Came. 0:51:24.600 --> 0:51:26.719 Yeah, like I was an employee because he was able 0:51:26.760 --> 0:51:29.360 to hire, you know, contracted workers. 0:51:29.560 --> 0:51:34.920 I was a contracted worker. So yeah, and yeah, he's dope. 0:51:34.920 --> 0:51:36.440 And now he's just for myself. 0:51:37.360 --> 0:51:39.640 He's just again it's a part time job and a 0:51:39.640 --> 0:51:40.680 part time dig you know. 0:51:41.000 --> 0:51:44.080 And I met him again working at Applebee's. So when 0:51:44.080 --> 0:51:45.560 it comes to like sanity. 0:51:45.200 --> 0:51:47.920 Where do you meet these guys, it's literally like what 0:51:48.000 --> 0:51:50.239 you I don't want to say negotiate, but it's what 0:51:50.320 --> 0:51:52.160 you want for yourself. And so when it came to 0:51:52.960 --> 0:51:55.680 what I expected out of him, especially when it became 0:51:55.719 --> 0:51:59.320 a sexual relationship, I think he was then married. 0:51:59.600 --> 0:52:02.800 When we met, he was engaged, but when he got married, 0:52:02.840 --> 0:52:03.959 the whole dynamic changed. 0:52:04.000 --> 0:52:05.960 Well, listen, if this is the role you want me 0:52:06.000 --> 0:52:07.440 to play, this is what I'm gonna need from you, 0:52:07.520 --> 0:52:08.680 and I mean. 0:52:08.640 --> 0:52:10.080 So renegotiate your country. 0:52:10.160 --> 0:52:13.279 So from from every birthday I get get like, he 0:52:13.400 --> 0:52:16.719 paid for my hotel in Mexico this past year. He 0:52:17.440 --> 0:52:20.160 supports my live shows. He's bought tickets even when he 0:52:20.200 --> 0:52:22.919 hasn't showed up. He's like, listen, I can't make this show. 0:52:23.000 --> 0:52:25.120 So I want to cover your hotel for this thing. 0:52:25.360 --> 0:52:27.680 So because even on tour, we cover our own travel 0:52:27.680 --> 0:52:31.319 and hotel. Yeah yeah, I mean it's part of our 0:52:31.320 --> 0:52:34.200 expenses and so we cover that ourselves. 0:52:34.200 --> 0:52:38.239 And so he's, yeah, he's supported meself. Really nice, he's 0:52:38.320 --> 0:52:38.800 really done. 0:52:41.000 --> 0:52:44.120 But he's a great guy. That's why he's married, because 0:52:44.120 --> 0:52:44.600 he's a good guy. 0:52:44.760 --> 0:52:46.000 This is the part that sucks. 0:52:46.080 --> 0:52:48.719 So there's three married men right now who I call 0:52:48.840 --> 0:52:51.640 my lovers. But like I said, over the last year, 0:52:51.640 --> 0:52:53.359 maybeyear and a half, I haven't even had sex with them. 0:52:53.360 --> 0:52:57.600 But I've still gotten whatever. I've the horrible decision. I know. 0:52:58.120 --> 0:53:00.800 But it's crazy because I talk about even to my friends, 0:53:00.840 --> 0:53:03.360 I'd be like, oh my god, there's such great guys. 0:53:03.160 --> 0:53:05.080 And they're like, but bitch, they're shooting on their wives. 0:53:05.440 --> 0:53:07.839 And I'm like, yeah, But aside from that, they're just 0:53:08.120 --> 0:53:09.320 really really dope. 0:53:09.360 --> 0:53:11.640 If you take that away, He's a great god. 0:53:11.760 --> 0:53:15.239 But what's crazy is but what's crazy is the relationships 0:53:15.239 --> 0:53:15.480 with them. 0:53:15.480 --> 0:53:17.640 And again, one has been in the picture for eleven years, 0:53:17.640 --> 0:53:19.280 the other has been in the picture for six years. 0:53:19.560 --> 0:53:20.759 Two have been in the picture for a lot. O. 0:53:20.880 --> 0:53:25.920 Your aura is fantastic. Thanks, So you went to the wedding. 0:53:26.280 --> 0:53:29.560 So that's the thing I told you. 0:53:29.600 --> 0:53:32.320 The years that they've been involved, I can't tell you 0:53:32.400 --> 0:53:34.279 any of their wives names, any of the names of 0:53:34.320 --> 0:53:36.319 their children, or the ages or how many they I mean, 0:53:36.320 --> 0:53:38.400 we don't care about the I don't. It doesn't I 0:53:38.440 --> 0:53:39.440 don't have those conversations. 0:53:39.440 --> 0:53:41.520 You only find the information if you want it, and 0:53:41.719 --> 0:53:42.520 I don't care about it. 0:53:42.640 --> 0:53:43.680 Yeah, I don't care about it. 0:53:44.040 --> 0:53:45.719 This is when you find out the information when you 0:53:45.760 --> 0:53:48.680 go to the funeral and you show up and you 0:53:48.719 --> 0:53:50.960 see the family sitting there in the front row, and 0:53:51.000 --> 0:53:52.759 they're like the look is your and you're like, well, 0:53:52.760 --> 0:53:54.480 I've known your father for many years. 0:53:54.880 --> 0:53:57.360 I'm a friend of the family. I'm a friend of 0:53:57.360 --> 0:54:00.880 your father. Technically I was an employee. Yeah, I used 0:54:00.920 --> 0:54:01.799 to work for your dad. 0:54:01.880 --> 0:54:06.000 Actually I'm actually here to pick up not wqs, you know. 0:54:06.400 --> 0:54:08.040 So yeah, so. 0:54:08.040 --> 0:54:11.120 Yeah, there's really no way to meet these men. I 0:54:11.160 --> 0:54:13.440 could lie and sit here and say, yeah, I go 0:54:13.480 --> 0:54:16.080 to expensive hotels instead of the lobby bars. 0:54:16.160 --> 0:54:17.000 I can. I can do that. 0:54:17.040 --> 0:54:20.560 Bullshit, it's bullshit. I think the apps are also quite bullshit. 0:54:20.600 --> 0:54:22.880 So the seeking arrangements and stuff like that. There's so 0:54:22.960 --> 0:54:26.719 many scammers on there now. But also you have men 0:54:26.760 --> 0:54:30.560 that are going on there saying that they don't want 0:54:30.560 --> 0:54:32.200 to prostitute. So I don't want to pay, but I 0:54:32.239 --> 0:54:33.600 want a relationship, but I'm married. 0:54:34.160 --> 0:54:36.520 What the fuck do you want? You know what I mean? 0:54:36.640 --> 0:54:39.080 Like, well, no, sir, this has to be negotiated. I'm 0:54:39.120 --> 0:54:41.600 not here to try to win you over you. You're 0:54:41.640 --> 0:54:43.719 already in a position. So that's the thing that I 0:54:43.760 --> 0:54:46.200 say to any woman. Okay, So, if whether he has 0:54:46.239 --> 0:54:51.640 a girlfriend, a situation, a fiance, a wife, if he's 0:54:51.680 --> 0:54:53.600 coming to you at this point, the whole ball is 0:54:53.640 --> 0:54:55.719 in your court. And to me, I think that it's 0:54:55.920 --> 0:54:59.640 naive to sit here and off that put yourself into 0:54:59.800 --> 0:55:03.160 a level of competition where you're starting already on the bottom. 0:55:03.560 --> 0:55:06.000 To try to win someone over and take them away 0:55:06.040 --> 0:55:08.160 from someone I think is the worst karma that that 0:55:08.360 --> 0:55:08.719 you can do. 0:55:08.840 --> 0:55:11.200 I mean, if he's ready to leave her, he's definitely 0:55:11.200 --> 0:55:13.759 gonna leave he's yeah, or the way you get him 0:55:13.800 --> 0:55:14.719 is the way you're gonna lose them. 0:55:15.520 --> 0:55:17.000 So I'm not trying to take him away from so 0:55:17.360 --> 0:55:18.680 I'm just I'm just using him. 0:55:19.120 --> 0:55:23.280 So let's set it up, set it up on that's it, listen, 0:55:23.680 --> 0:55:27.160 he's our man. Yeah, And it just sucks because as 0:55:27.200 --> 0:55:30.320 a woman, when you enter those situations, you're literally putting 0:55:30.360 --> 0:55:32.560 yourself to where you have to control all your feelings. 0:55:32.719 --> 0:55:36.440 You can't hold him accountable for much because but you 0:55:36.480 --> 0:55:38.399 know that coming into you know it. 0:55:38.280 --> 0:55:38.920 Coming into it. 0:55:38.960 --> 0:55:41.040 So bitch, if you need money, if you need some 0:55:41.080 --> 0:55:44.200 bills paid, that's the least you should be getting a 0:55:44.239 --> 0:55:45.520 couple of trips and other things. 0:55:45.600 --> 0:55:48.839 So do you ever feel bad sometimes or you're like, oh, 0:55:48.880 --> 0:55:50.600 this this person has a whole family. 0:55:50.880 --> 0:55:54.319 I don't I'm not in it maliciously. I would never 0:55:54.760 --> 0:55:57.959 communicate or try to contact the wives. I've now grown 0:55:57.960 --> 0:56:01.480 a friendship of friendship with these people, So it's beyond 0:56:02.560 --> 0:56:04.680 an arrangement where I feel spiteful at all, Like I 0:56:04.800 --> 0:56:08.040 genuinely care for these people. Over the years, They've genuinely 0:56:08.120 --> 0:56:10.400 cared for me as far as helping me in my 0:56:10.480 --> 0:56:13.799 journey with the podcast, seeing me through school, giving me 0:56:13.920 --> 0:56:18.080 graduation gifts, like genuinely caring about my well being. So 0:56:18.160 --> 0:56:21.000 it's beyond, you know, I would say even an arrangement, 0:56:21.040 --> 0:56:23.880 like there's a friendship. Like even one most recently was like, 0:56:25.160 --> 0:56:27.560 didn't care if we ever dealt sexually again. He was like, 0:56:27.560 --> 0:56:29.160 at this point, you're my sister. And I was like, well, 0:56:29.160 --> 0:56:29.799 that's kind of weird. 0:56:29.840 --> 0:56:36.719 Calm down from the South. I was like, actually day 0:56:36.800 --> 0:56:39.759 he met sister in christ. Oh yeah, well that's the thing. 0:56:39.840 --> 0:56:41.120 He's just like, I feel like we're going to know 0:56:41.160 --> 0:56:44.680 each other forever, so he's gonna put you in his will. 0:56:44.760 --> 0:56:48.120 So yeah, I don't feel bad because there's no ill intent. Also, 0:56:48.440 --> 0:56:51.040 I feel like in the realm of non monogamy, which 0:56:51.040 --> 0:56:52.880 we talk about a lot on our show, and I 0:56:52.920 --> 0:56:55.560 think what a lot of people are engaging in nowadays. 0:56:56.640 --> 0:57:00.279 I don't know their situation. His loyalty should be to 0:57:00.320 --> 0:57:03.520 his wife, so whatever arrangement they have, I don't know. 0:57:03.600 --> 0:57:05.239 But also we've talked about it too. 0:57:05.280 --> 0:57:07.399 A lot of women turn the blind eye to men 0:57:07.440 --> 0:57:08.320 of money and power. 0:57:08.520 --> 0:57:08.800 Yep. 0:57:08.920 --> 0:57:11.360 And these men clearly ain't broke if they're able to 0:57:11.400 --> 0:57:14.560 put me also in a good situation. So I think 0:57:14.600 --> 0:57:17.800 that there's there's a blind eye possibly being turned, because 0:57:17.960 --> 0:57:19.360 even I talked to them, I was like, well, I. 0:57:19.320 --> 0:57:21.040 Know I ain't been the only one all these years. 0:57:21.240 --> 0:57:23.320 It's not just me, Okay, So Sidney, well, what I'm 0:57:23.360 --> 0:57:25.840 writing here on the sheet is I gotta get me 0:57:25.880 --> 0:57:27.480 some hoes for the good. 0:57:27.360 --> 0:57:28.120 Of the podcast. 0:57:28.600 --> 0:57:31.560 For research purposes, yes, I mean not necessarily for the research, 0:57:31.600 --> 0:57:36.360 but you know, also to support the pod absolutely financially. Yes, absolutely, 0:57:36.480 --> 0:57:38.280 I said, I said, listen, I want to learn how 0:57:38.280 --> 0:57:39.160 to edit my audio. 0:57:39.240 --> 0:57:40.120 I think I need a Mac. 0:57:40.240 --> 0:57:43.240 I had a MacBook Pro the next day since my house, 0:57:43.640 --> 0:57:45.240 so like literally. 0:57:44.840 --> 0:57:56.200 Like I I literally had it sent to me the 0:57:56.240 --> 0:57:58.920 next day because I was like, well you got a 0:57:58.960 --> 0:58:01.240 space grind I came he sent. 0:58:01.280 --> 0:58:02.400 There was also a case with it. 0:58:02.400 --> 0:58:05.120 The seventeen inch a big one too, because I was like, 0:58:05.160 --> 0:58:06.360 I think I need to be able to see. 0:58:08.720 --> 0:58:11.240 So I got the whole Adobe sweet and so I learned. 0:58:12.200 --> 0:58:16.440 Yeah, I learned how to do audition, Premiere Pro, Audacity, 0:58:16.480 --> 0:58:18.200 and garage band. I do I know how to edit 0:58:18.200 --> 0:58:21.800 on all? Well, I'm learning audition right now. I'm not 0:58:21.880 --> 0:58:23.560 as well, but that I know that that's what we use. 0:58:23.600 --> 0:58:26.200 But Audacity like the back of my hand, garage band 0:58:26.240 --> 0:58:26.760 like the back of mind. 0:58:27.040 --> 0:58:29.520 Did all that stuff trying to get rid of it 0:58:32.360 --> 0:58:36.600 yourself and everything? 0:58:39.360 --> 0:58:41.640 Yeah, no, I mean again, you can learn everything on YouTube, 0:58:41.680 --> 0:58:43.840 Like even if I talk about what you guys talk about, 0:58:43.840 --> 0:58:47.280 what you guys are experts in this week, I spent 0:58:47.680 --> 0:58:50.320 quite a few hours. We got the call for a 0:58:50.360 --> 0:58:53.880 really big opportunity that's coming our way, and so they 0:58:53.880 --> 0:58:55.160 were like, do you have a deck? 0:58:55.760 --> 0:58:58.160 So I was like, get it to you right away, 0:58:58.320 --> 0:59:01.280 and so I literally spent hours Google and creating our 0:59:01.280 --> 0:59:04.120 own deck, which would cost us, you know, a ton 0:59:04.120 --> 0:59:05.400 of money, and I could show you, guys what our 0:59:05.400 --> 0:59:08.240 deck looks like. You want to see, But I think 0:59:08.280 --> 0:59:13.320 that as a creative, as a creative, this can become expensive. 0:59:14.000 --> 0:59:16.360 I always tell people don't just leave what you're doing. 0:59:16.440 --> 0:59:18.360 You're nine to five is what's going to invest in 0:59:18.360 --> 0:59:20.440 what you're doing. But this all comes at a price, 0:59:20.560 --> 0:59:23.480 and the easiest way to save on your own investment 0:59:23.680 --> 0:59:26.080 is to teach yourself, like how to do these things 0:59:26.920 --> 0:59:27.920 and so, and. 0:59:27.880 --> 0:59:30.479 Then expense everything when tech season comes. 0:59:30.520 --> 0:59:34.560 Yes, yeah, well DIDs. So this is you guys can see. 0:59:34.600 --> 0:59:38.520 This is our our media kit. So it has all 0:59:38.560 --> 0:59:40.440 of our numbers. And I spent hours doing this. So 0:59:40.480 --> 0:59:42.520 you guys talk about what you guys are experts in. 0:59:42.880 --> 0:59:45.280 I'm an expert in. That's what you were doing. That's 0:59:45.280 --> 0:59:47.080 what you were doing this week when I was not 0:59:47.120 --> 0:59:53.200 doing no work. I heard you. It's building a media kit. Incredible. Yeah, 0:59:53.200 --> 0:59:57.000 it's a five five page deck. We love to see. Okay, 0:59:57.040 --> 1:00:00.640 so in the dream world, what is do you want 1:00:00.680 --> 1:00:04.520 to get married? Ever? Do you do you believe in monogamy? 1:00:05.520 --> 1:00:09.600 I wouldn't mind being in a swinger possibly relationship. 1:00:13.880 --> 1:00:17.280 Yeah, I'm cool with that type of situation. I'm really 1:00:17.280 --> 1:00:18.920 big with going. 1:00:18.640 --> 1:00:19.880 Into things realistically. 1:00:20.960 --> 1:00:24.600 There was like, you know, if your man ain't shit, yeah, 1:00:24.680 --> 1:00:27.360 you know what I mean, And so a title isn't 1:00:27.400 --> 1:00:29.320 going to change that man from being who you've always 1:00:29.360 --> 1:00:32.560 known him to be sure. And so if I were 1:00:32.640 --> 1:00:35.840 to say, sign up to date an athlete, or if 1:00:35.880 --> 1:00:37.800 I were to sign up to date a nigga and 1:00:37.840 --> 1:00:39.880 the jets that I knowed and fucked about five bitches 1:00:39.920 --> 1:00:42.440 in his building, or like, it doesn't matter. Like the 1:00:42.520 --> 1:00:48.400 range is you know you're with, Yes, and so as 1:00:48.400 --> 1:00:50.240 long as you don't embarrass me, as long as you 1:00:50.280 --> 1:00:52.560 bring nothing back to me health wise, and as long 1:00:52.600 --> 1:00:55.000 as you don't create a whole new family while we're together. 1:00:55.720 --> 1:00:58.040 And it doesn't bother me, it doesn't bother me. Pretty 1:00:58.440 --> 1:01:00.360 those are pretty, you can ask him from us. 1:01:00.440 --> 1:01:03.200 Yeah, so I say that's a MacBook Pro, and they'll 1:01:03.200 --> 1:01:04.080 make me look stupid. 1:01:04.800 --> 1:01:06.760 Don't give I say that. 1:01:06.760 --> 1:01:10.200 To say, if I get into a relationship with someone, 1:01:10.480 --> 1:01:12.800 I'm not gonna beat down monogamy. I'm not gonna go 1:01:12.800 --> 1:01:15.240 through his phone. I'm not gonna search for something that 1:01:15.920 --> 1:01:17.680 probably I know is there. If I'm searching, I know 1:01:17.720 --> 1:01:19.960 there's something there. And I think any woman who searches 1:01:20.040 --> 1:01:20.680 just knows there's something. 1:01:20.680 --> 1:01:23.240 That's what they say when you go, when you go looking, 1:01:23.280 --> 1:01:24.040 you're gonna find something. 1:01:24.280 --> 1:01:25.880 And it says you're gonna find something you don't like, 1:01:25.920 --> 1:01:28.920 but you already know because you're looking. And that's just 1:01:28.960 --> 1:01:32.120 where I feel the diaivity and women come from. Where 1:01:32.120 --> 1:01:33.600 are you searching because you already know the nigga you 1:01:33.640 --> 1:01:36.120 w If you know the nigga, you wit check that 1:01:36.200 --> 1:01:38.040 nigga on who he is and what you expect out 1:01:38.040 --> 1:01:41.040 of him. But have realistic expectations from whoever you decide 1:01:41.040 --> 1:01:41.320 to be. 1:01:41.280 --> 1:01:43.680 When don't be calling the side bitch. 1:01:43.880 --> 1:01:47.000 I told y'all you had I got a woman, a 1:01:47.000 --> 1:01:48.560 woman DM, and I was just like, but you know 1:01:48.560 --> 1:01:52.560 the nigga you're with because he's our I know the 1:01:52.600 --> 1:01:55.680 type of nig he is, and I wouldn't blink twice. 1:01:55.720 --> 1:01:58.360 And you also know already who I am because hello, 1:02:00.080 --> 1:02:02.520 but not my podcast but a few years. Like she's 1:02:02.600 --> 1:02:05.560 known of me over the years, Like didn't know she 1:02:05.640 --> 1:02:08.400 was living send of my birthday gift. She's she got 1:02:08.440 --> 1:02:11.800 the gift I posted him when he told me he 1:02:11.960 --> 1:02:15.040 was single on my page. That brought dramas, So she's 1:02:15.080 --> 1:02:16.680 already been in my comments. 1:02:16.720 --> 1:02:16.880 Now. 1:02:16.880 --> 1:02:18.720 She went to my DM's woman and a woman and 1:02:18.760 --> 1:02:20.440 said we was gonna have problems, and I was like 1:02:20.560 --> 1:02:22.520 when I told him, I was like, well, sis, y'all 1:02:22.520 --> 1:02:24.040 are on and off the same way me and him 1:02:24.040 --> 1:02:26.280 are on and off. Do you think that I'm gonna 1:02:26.320 --> 1:02:29.640 hit you up and ask for your permission. 1:02:28.760 --> 1:02:31.400 To see if you're single? If he's telling me he's single. 1:02:31.480 --> 1:02:34.200 Do you know what her response was? Since don't believe him. 1:02:34.320 --> 1:02:37.360 Don't believe what he says. He's telling me he's single, 1:02:37.440 --> 1:02:39.160 and you telling me not to believe this, nigga, but 1:02:39.200 --> 1:02:41.000 you and my phone trying to check me about dealing 1:02:41.040 --> 1:02:42.400 with your but also God. 1:02:42.320 --> 1:02:44.040 Says you're telling me not to believe him. 1:02:44.160 --> 1:02:49.440 Since leave him just gun, pack your box and guns. 1:02:51.080 --> 1:02:52.120 I put in too many years. 1:02:52.240 --> 1:02:56.040 But nine, yeah, he been in a picture since two 1:02:56.120 --> 1:03:01.400 thousand and ten? What are we doing the same thing? 1:03:02.040 --> 1:03:02.439 That good? 1:03:02.840 --> 1:03:07.360 No, this isn't Applebee's. This is I ain't gonna say name, 1:03:07.400 --> 1:03:09.560 this is chili. 1:03:10.240 --> 1:03:12.720 This is okay. 1:03:12.720 --> 1:03:14.760 So how often are you having sex in a week 1:03:14.800 --> 1:03:17.680 when you're when you're here in New York. I don't 1:03:17.680 --> 1:03:22.560 have a regular anymore, so like in the last four months, 1:03:22.600 --> 1:03:25.080 so since I would say since October, because I went 1:03:25.480 --> 1:03:27.680 after the three summer went pretty ghost when I cut 1:03:27.720 --> 1:03:33.440 them off. So since October I have had sex three times? 1:03:33.920 --> 1:03:36.640 What and one of those I got fleud out for 1:03:36.880 --> 1:03:39.080 you're a good Christian gay, so it's really not. 1:03:39.160 --> 1:03:41.320 I know, I think people think I am out here 1:03:41.480 --> 1:03:43.880 just fucking my brains out or getting them. 1:03:44.000 --> 1:03:45.520 I feel like, in my mind, I feel like you 1:03:45.640 --> 1:03:47.240 having sex like maybe two or three times. 1:03:47.320 --> 1:03:49.560 No, literally, in the last four months, I've had sex 1:03:49.600 --> 1:03:51.880 three times, and I went on a three month, like 1:03:51.920 --> 1:03:54.640 a two and a half month hiatus where it wasn't 1:03:54.640 --> 1:03:55.920 fucking because I couldn't find a partner. 1:03:55.960 --> 1:03:58.919 But when you really, okay, so what peak season, peak 1:03:59.000 --> 1:04:00.840 manby summertime was coming. 1:04:01.680 --> 1:04:03.560 I'll be honestly like I said, so like when I 1:04:03.600 --> 1:04:07.040 had his name was twenty four to seven because he 1:04:07.640 --> 1:04:11.000 name no, because he he was he Literally I changed 1:04:11.040 --> 1:04:12.520 the ring tongue because I would wake up out my 1:04:12.520 --> 1:04:14.160 sleep and be like, okay, on my way to Jersey 1:04:14.320 --> 1:04:16.240 four o'clock if I had to be to work at seven, 1:04:16.560 --> 1:04:18.080 if I had to be work at nine, I would 1:04:18.080 --> 1:04:19.840 still try to squeeze and going to fuck him at 1:04:19.880 --> 1:04:20.920 six seven am. 1:04:20.720 --> 1:04:22.160 From Jersey to Jersey. 1:04:22.280 --> 1:04:25.720 Yeah, why because it was just great and he was 1:04:25.720 --> 1:04:27.840 the only one I fucked regularly in New York. 1:04:27.960 --> 1:04:30.320 So whenever I could get it, I got it was 1:04:30.320 --> 1:04:32.000 you getting on the train and you're getting no, he 1:04:32.040 --> 1:04:36.080 picked my uber there and back. Yeah, listeners, if you 1:04:36.120 --> 1:04:37.560 know it, you need to. 1:04:38.160 --> 1:04:40.360 It was probably every time he saw me, I would 1:04:40.360 --> 1:04:42.280 say eighty dollars an uber there and back, so thirty 1:04:42.320 --> 1:04:44.280 five to fifty each way. 1:04:45.040 --> 1:04:47.160 So it wasn't bad of that for you, friend. But 1:04:47.280 --> 1:04:49.520 where in New Jersey was you going? It wasn't right 1:04:49.520 --> 1:04:51.480 across the bridge, so right across the gw B. It 1:04:51.480 --> 1:04:52.720 wasn't deep like catgwater. 1:04:52.920 --> 1:04:54.120 Yeah, we don't know where. 1:04:54.440 --> 1:04:57.160 Edgewater sounds nice. Yeah, it sounds like he had a 1:04:57.280 --> 1:04:59.520 yard that had grass on it. He had at home 1:05:00.000 --> 1:05:03.480 at home. He had a home. And so when we were. 1:05:03.320 --> 1:05:07.520 Fucking, I would say, yeah, I was getting dick probably weekly. 1:05:09.120 --> 1:05:09.720 And then. 1:05:11.280 --> 1:05:13.479 My other lovers, if they came to town, I would maybe, 1:05:13.640 --> 1:05:15.200 you know, just here and there. 1:05:15.000 --> 1:05:17.080 The schedule, you would say, They would send you they 1:05:17.160 --> 1:05:21.120 avails and yeah, yeah, i'll see if I schedule I'm 1:05:21.160 --> 1:05:23.080 a pencil you in for Thursday at noon. 1:05:23.280 --> 1:05:24.960 See put it's crazy. 1:05:25.000 --> 1:05:26.800 Now, that's the thing too, when you're dealing with a 1:05:26.840 --> 1:05:30.480 guy of any sort of power or where he's used 1:05:30.480 --> 1:05:33.120 to just everything falling at his tips right now, it's 1:05:33.160 --> 1:05:35.720 been harder for me to find partners because even when 1:05:35.760 --> 1:05:37.880 I want to get fluid out, like I think the 1:05:37.920 --> 1:05:39.200 first week of January. 1:05:38.880 --> 1:05:40.480 I was talking with a friend of mine, looked up 1:05:40.520 --> 1:05:41.400 his schedule because. 1:05:41.200 --> 1:05:44.360 It's Google, and saw the cities he was going to 1:05:44.360 --> 1:05:46.600 be in, and then like, he was like, can you 1:05:46.640 --> 1:05:47.960 come see me here? I'm going to be in New 1:05:48.040 --> 1:05:49.800 York for a week here maybe, And I was like, well, 1:05:49.800 --> 1:05:51.400 I have my live shows on me in the Midwest. 1:05:51.560 --> 1:05:53.360 So it was literally the first week of January, and 1:05:53.400 --> 1:05:56.320 I was like, February first. I see who you're playing. 1:05:56.440 --> 1:05:58.880 I could do February first, and that don't work with 1:05:58.960 --> 1:06:01.960 niggas like that. I ain't planning a month out to 1:06:01.960 --> 1:06:04.320 get some pussy. They want, they want it when they 1:06:04.320 --> 1:06:06.120 want it. So it's been very hard for me now, 1:06:06.160 --> 1:06:08.840 just with my schedule and a man respecting me and 1:06:08.920 --> 1:06:10.280 my schedule to work around me. 1:06:10.320 --> 1:06:14.000 I love you, okay, we googled you, boss, bitch. 1:06:15.320 --> 1:06:17.080 Okay, So when you're gonna do what Ted talks is, 1:06:17.200 --> 1:06:18.480 let's talk about you're doing it. 1:06:19.000 --> 1:06:21.720 I would love to do and I'm gonna tell I'm 1:06:21.720 --> 1:06:24.440 gonna tell y'all motherfuckers right now. Not Ted X. That 1:06:24.560 --> 1:06:28.440 is a little Ted talk. Okay, shading ted X. 1:06:28.440 --> 1:06:32.520 What's going on with no shade about TEDx is like 1:06:32.560 --> 1:06:34.000 the Marshals of Ted talks. 1:06:34.240 --> 1:06:37.200 Yeah, there you go, there you go. It's like a 1:06:37.200 --> 1:06:39.200 bird Doff Goodman and then there's Marshals. 1:06:39.520 --> 1:06:43.520 Okay, yeah, egg money, and I would prefer heard you. 1:06:43.600 --> 1:06:45.640 Yeah, you know what I mean, you know, because they 1:06:45.760 --> 1:06:48.280 just asked me to do something, so I mean. 1:06:48.200 --> 1:06:52.240 It's not bad. I mean your way, you're gonna do one, 1:06:52.280 --> 1:06:54.880 and we were gonna support it. I support I think 1:06:54.880 --> 1:06:59.880 it's still a good look a shade. 1:07:00.640 --> 1:07:02.400 I did feel like I had to come in and 1:07:02.480 --> 1:07:03.959 be sure I was on my toes with you because 1:07:03.960 --> 1:07:09.760 when y'all came on the horrible decisions, oh the shade you. 1:07:09.680 --> 1:07:11.320 Live in the Bronx you knew he was gonna roll 1:07:11.920 --> 1:07:12.600 Bronx jokes. 1:07:12.640 --> 1:07:15.680 There was nail jokes because I was like interested. I 1:07:15.720 --> 1:07:17.680 was like, well, she's got nails, but what's up you 1:07:17.800 --> 1:07:18.120 saying that? 1:07:18.160 --> 1:07:18.520 You girl? 1:07:19.000 --> 1:07:21.440 Listen, I know a pussy because I have one, and 1:07:21.480 --> 1:07:23.080 I'm gonna make sure I'm not scratching you. 1:07:23.120 --> 1:07:25.440 I'm gonna be gentle, it's gonna be lubed. I'm not 1:07:25.520 --> 1:07:27.840 hurting nobody nails? What is these coffin shape? 1:07:27.920 --> 1:07:31.840 They are coffing points in the rstone just gonna go in. 1:07:32.600 --> 1:07:34.960 So the rhinestone I do not put in anybody. I'm 1:07:34.960 --> 1:07:35.880 telling you because I don't. 1:07:35.680 --> 1:07:38.320 Want you to got Claire's necessories on your fingers. 1:07:38.400 --> 1:07:41.560 Yeah, I'm just ship so like with these nails, I'm 1:07:41.600 --> 1:07:44.480 fingering with these two fingers. Well, I need to see 1:07:44.480 --> 1:07:44.960 how you work. 1:07:45.200 --> 1:07:49.160 Okay, go ahead, Sidney, open your legs, right, Andrew to 1:07:49.160 --> 1:07:49.959 pull out a deck? 1:07:50.440 --> 1:07:54.640 Did they pop up that thing? Let's see the I 1:07:54.680 --> 1:07:56.880 crossed the line. I'm sorry, I let me see that. 1:07:59.440 --> 1:08:02.240 Make that the whole way. Andrew said he's going to 1:08:02.400 --> 1:08:04.320 hr Andrew little do you know? 1:08:04.440 --> 1:08:10.120 I am hr It's okay, It'll be one check mark. 1:08:10.160 --> 1:08:16.400 You'll still stay on. Yeah, I'm sorry. Okay, So Ted talk. 1:08:16.439 --> 1:08:17.360 That's that's the dream. 1:08:17.760 --> 1:08:21.360 Uh So, honestly the dream for me when it's all 1:08:21.400 --> 1:08:24.120 said and done, I would so I would love to 1:08:24.160 --> 1:08:28.120 continue to be a voice not only for women of color, 1:08:29.120 --> 1:08:31.439 women of all shapes and sizes, being that I've been 1:08:31.479 --> 1:08:34.960 that woman at every size, I would enjoy radio. 1:08:36.360 --> 1:08:38.160 That's kind of yeah, and that's kind of. 1:08:38.120 --> 1:08:40.960 Where I see myself going more so because it's something 1:08:40.960 --> 1:08:43.000 that would also still allow me creatively to do what 1:08:43.040 --> 1:08:45.519 I want. On the side, I'm not gonna lie. My 1:08:45.600 --> 1:08:53.120 anxiety has went into overdrive. Yeah, So the anxiety comes 1:08:53.160 --> 1:08:55.439 from I think just a lot of life changes all 1:08:55.479 --> 1:08:59.400 happening at once. So for those a lot of people 1:08:59.439 --> 1:09:02.559 who arelready know my journey, I did have the gastric 1:09:02.640 --> 1:09:05.920 sleeve surgery. Okay, so over the last two years now, 1:09:05.960 --> 1:09:10.679 I got this in twenty eighteen January and twenty eighteen, 1:09:10.840 --> 1:09:13.639 So over the last two years, I've dropped maybe eighty 1:09:13.680 --> 1:09:15.760 to eighty five pounds, So I went from two hundred 1:09:15.800 --> 1:09:17.720 and thirty pounds to about one hundred and fifty five. 1:09:18.160 --> 1:09:20.400 So that's been drastically different. Like I went from a 1:09:20.479 --> 1:09:22.120 size eighteen to a size six. 1:09:24.800 --> 1:09:28.639 Looks like a size ten, you know, but I'm five 1:09:28.640 --> 1:09:30.439 foot one, so I still look come back to you. 1:09:30.880 --> 1:09:35.320 So yeah, I think these are even a medium rainbow rainbow. 1:09:37.400 --> 1:09:39.080 I literally just bought a size. 1:09:38.920 --> 1:09:40.920 Six from H and M. Though I think H and 1:09:43.000 --> 1:09:47.360 H and you know stretched I'm in size wear eight. 1:09:47.640 --> 1:09:52.040 Okay, that's true, and I'm six to eight on pretty 1:09:52.040 --> 1:09:52.479 little thing. 1:09:53.320 --> 1:09:55.519 Okay. You got a lot of little thing be real, 1:09:55.880 --> 1:09:58.759 you know, stretch by anyway. 1:09:58.920 --> 1:10:02.400 So so that's how and to where I've drastically shrink 1:10:02.479 --> 1:10:05.120 and as far as my appearance, everything I feel. 1:10:05.280 --> 1:10:08.840 So I have anxiety right now of weight and going back. 1:10:09.320 --> 1:10:13.120 Are you in the gym? Syst No is the diet 1:10:13.160 --> 1:10:16.320 so yeah, so that's the thing. I have forced portion control. 1:10:16.600 --> 1:10:19.080 So my stomach went from think of the size of 1:10:19.120 --> 1:10:22.519 a flat football to the size of a golf ball. 1:10:23.520 --> 1:10:24.439 So you can't really I. 1:10:24.360 --> 1:10:26.680 Took eighty percent of my stomach, so you so I 1:10:26.800 --> 1:10:30.679 just can't eat. I eat small portion to full, Yeah, 1:10:30.840 --> 1:10:31.280 very fast. 1:10:31.320 --> 1:10:35.120 But do you eat often? Like more meals, more small meals, 1:10:35.520 --> 1:10:36.160 really hungry? 1:10:36.200 --> 1:10:39.479 And then certain things that I guess are would help 1:10:39.560 --> 1:10:41.760 people or aid in people gaining weight. 1:10:42.720 --> 1:10:45.280 Literally I just don't feel good. So starches. 1:10:45.439 --> 1:10:47.840 So like if I go to shake Shack right now, 1:10:48.000 --> 1:10:49.000 my burger won't have a bun. 1:10:49.439 --> 1:10:53.080 I don't do bread, you know, I'll put no, I'll 1:10:53.120 --> 1:10:55.320 put the like I let it meat, but it's gonna 1:10:55.320 --> 1:10:59.880 be on lettuce. I don't do pasta, just how my body. 1:11:00.360 --> 1:11:03.559 I can't do sugars or I get roseta my whole 1:11:03.560 --> 1:11:04.960 face like, so I don't do. 1:11:04.960 --> 1:11:09.479 Sugar in a specific diet. I'm not really good with milk. 1:11:09.520 --> 1:11:12.080 I've already lacked to so, Darius, you're not doing like 1:11:12.080 --> 1:11:14.240 an oatmealk No, So like it's just. 1:11:14.200 --> 1:11:16.800 I'm very I just can't eat a lot now, not 1:11:16.920 --> 1:11:18.920 like tashimi and raw shit like things that I can. 1:11:18.800 --> 1:11:21.679 Eat like seafoods are good for me. Or you know, 1:11:22.760 --> 1:11:24.880 now what size? What size broad do you wear? 1:11:24.880 --> 1:11:27.559 Because you also look so these went down though I 1:11:27.640 --> 1:11:29.519 was a triple G, not a triple G. I was 1:11:29.520 --> 1:11:32.000 a triple D into a G cup. 1:11:32.160 --> 1:11:35.960 I don't even these now, I mean these are not Yeah, 1:11:36.000 --> 1:11:39.240 I look very nice. What kind of broad? Is that true? 1:11:39.240 --> 1:11:43.040 And co we we got sponsors, okay, yeah, and it's 1:11:43.080 --> 1:11:46.280 like a sports school. These are now I'm a D 1:11:46.479 --> 1:11:50.160 to a thirty six C or thirty four D. 1:11:50.320 --> 1:11:53.000 Did you get the surgery for health reasons or yeah? 1:11:53.200 --> 1:11:57.599 It was so also just for how I felt literally 1:11:57.640 --> 1:11:59.720 over four years. And it's funny because they talk about 1:11:59.720 --> 1:12:01.519 the fresh ten. I think I feel like I got 1:12:01.520 --> 1:12:03.760 that every year that I was in school, over like 1:12:03.760 --> 1:12:05.719 four or five years, I had like literally gained fifty 1:12:05.720 --> 1:12:08.240 pounds ten pounds a year. 1:12:08.360 --> 1:12:10.400 It was just going up and. 1:12:10.360 --> 1:12:12.320 So Yeah, it got to that's a lot for somebody 1:12:12.320 --> 1:12:14.240 who's five five one tiny. 1:12:14.479 --> 1:12:15.320 So that's the thing. 1:12:15.400 --> 1:12:18.479 Being in New York. I wasn't fitting boots. They weren't 1:12:18.520 --> 1:12:22.599 going up my calves. It's winter and I'm not fitting jeans. 1:12:22.640 --> 1:12:25.320 So I'm still wearing stretchy and spandex shit all year 1:12:25.400 --> 1:12:27.519 round because I can't really find anything that fits me. 1:12:27.840 --> 1:12:30.880 I felt even bigger because you have to layer here, 1:12:31.000 --> 1:12:33.719 and so I genuinely just the confidence that I showed 1:12:33.720 --> 1:12:36.000 out in public wasn't there in real life. I hated shopping. 1:12:36.400 --> 1:12:38.679 Nothing ever fit. Even when I was on Fashion Nova 1:12:38.720 --> 1:12:40.639 and these online sites. Oh, I was in the pluses 1:12:40.800 --> 1:12:42.960 so one x two X didn't know what really my 1:12:43.080 --> 1:12:46.280 size was, and so that just drained me. And then 1:12:46.360 --> 1:12:49.160 also the level of anxiety I had in my mind. 1:12:49.160 --> 1:12:50.280 I told y'all, I thought I was going to be 1:12:50.280 --> 1:12:53.720 an accountant for twenty years from now, and so last 1:12:53.800 --> 1:12:57.120 year leaving my corporate job, I now have anxiety of 1:12:57.520 --> 1:12:59.320 Jesus Christ, what if I ever have to put my 1:12:59.320 --> 1:13:01.360 resume back to get there and go back into the workforce. 1:13:01.720 --> 1:13:04.680 So the idea of having to interview because whatever I 1:13:04.720 --> 1:13:07.640 bet on myself doesn't work so it's just literally. 1:13:07.360 --> 1:13:10.120 It will and it is and and I'm hoping it is, 1:13:10.160 --> 1:13:10.519 and you're. 1:13:10.640 --> 1:13:13.840 Waiting manifest Now I have a life coach that I'm 1:13:13.840 --> 1:13:14.759 getting now, like I'm. 1:13:14.680 --> 1:13:17.920 A life, Yes you are? 1:13:17.920 --> 1:13:21.559 You are since here you are a white woman, Yes 1:13:21.640 --> 1:13:24.879 I hate you, but are listen my life. 1:13:25.000 --> 1:13:28.960 That you can't eat bread like and you got a life? 1:13:29.439 --> 1:13:33.559 Yes, white woman when chases, wait until I get a 1:13:33.560 --> 1:13:36.000 fucking candle that smells like my vagina. 1:13:36.240 --> 1:13:39.280 Listen, does she have a candle that smells like Yeah? 1:13:40.080 --> 1:13:43.599 Yeah, it's a seventy five sold out immediately and sold 1:13:43.640 --> 1:13:47.200 it seventy five dollars. I want to put candle because 1:13:47.360 --> 1:13:48.240 I don't know if you guys heard. 1:13:48.280 --> 1:13:51.400 Most recently, Rikabadou is selling a perfume that smells like 1:13:51.400 --> 1:13:54.600 her vagina. So I mean she'd have had kids and 1:13:54.640 --> 1:13:58.000 then bagged fucking all the niggas to mark bag the Marley. 1:13:58.080 --> 1:14:02.240 She'd be bagged common which I still want them con 1:14:02.400 --> 1:14:06.679 I'm here, vagina smells like Andre. She didn't came through 1:14:06.840 --> 1:14:07.920 to come through with the black men. 1:14:08.000 --> 1:14:10.759 Come through, you know, she did what needed to be done. Okay, 1:14:10.840 --> 1:14:13.559 so you got the surgery. We're gonna wrap this up. Yeah, 1:14:13.560 --> 1:14:16.559 no problem. Problem, you got the surgery. What is the 1:14:17.439 --> 1:14:18.600 what's the recovery time for that? 1:14:19.840 --> 1:14:22.519 It wasn't much. I mean should I I was back 1:14:22.560 --> 1:14:25.200 at work. I had surgery on a Saturday. I was 1:14:25.280 --> 1:14:27.720 back at work on a Thursday. Probably shouldn't have been 1:14:27.760 --> 1:14:30.920 that guy. Yeah, And it was more so just because 1:14:30.920 --> 1:14:32.120 you're using It's. 1:14:31.920 --> 1:14:32.839 The New York commute. 1:14:32.920 --> 1:14:34.840 I was going from the Bronx to Jersey City at 1:14:34.840 --> 1:14:37.920 this time, so it's just a lot of New York. 1:14:37.760 --> 1:14:38.479 Commuting is a lot. 1:14:38.600 --> 1:14:40.760 Leaving your house, you not only spend money, but you 1:14:40.840 --> 1:14:43.280 exert so much energy because you're fighting people, You're going 1:14:43.360 --> 1:14:45.040 up and downstairs the subway. 1:14:44.720 --> 1:14:47.439 You're trying to run for a trade whatever. But it 1:14:47.479 --> 1:14:48.080 wasn't that long. 1:14:48.120 --> 1:14:49.880 Like in the first month I dropped twenty five pounds. 1:14:49.880 --> 1:14:51.760 But in the first what is it, six to eight weeks, 1:14:51.800 --> 1:14:54.240 it was literally liquids only. Yeah, so just the energy 1:14:54.320 --> 1:14:57.839 was six to eight weeks liquid. You go from liquid 1:14:58.000 --> 1:15:01.920 to puree to soft food like a baby. Yeah, so 1:15:02.000 --> 1:15:03.559 the first three months was damn near that. 1:15:03.880 --> 1:15:05.240 You're really going through it. 1:15:05.439 --> 1:15:07.519 Yeah, But like I'm two years out, I feel great, 1:15:07.560 --> 1:15:08.160 I'm healthy. 1:15:08.880 --> 1:15:11.760 Is that surgery like this really expensive? I had. I 1:15:11.800 --> 1:15:14.240 was in school, I had Medicaid. Yeah, it paid for 1:15:14.280 --> 1:15:14.719 it fully. 1:15:15.000 --> 1:15:16.599 Oh yeah, I had MEDICID at the time, so that's 1:15:16.600 --> 1:15:17.760 why I was like, oh, let me rush and get 1:15:17.760 --> 1:15:18.759 this while I'm still a student. 1:15:20.080 --> 1:15:23.080 Yeah, so it was it was free for me because 1:15:23.240 --> 1:15:25.040 for health reasons. Yeah. Yeah. 1:15:25.080 --> 1:15:28.000 But also if you just have a certain BMI. So 1:15:28.120 --> 1:15:30.360 my height with my weight put me at the BMI 1:15:30.479 --> 1:15:33.360 range where I was approved. But a lot of people 1:15:33.400 --> 1:15:37.200 with weight have shortness of breath, sleep apnea, high blood pressure, 1:15:37.800 --> 1:15:41.240 blood pressure, cholesterol. There's a lot of health reasons once 1:15:41.280 --> 1:15:42.000 you're a certain way. 1:15:42.320 --> 1:15:45.120 Okay, well but yeah, but yeah, you know, I love 1:15:45.120 --> 1:15:51.519 your journey, Mandy. It's you told us the whole story beginning. Literally, 1:15:51.560 --> 1:15:54.720 I was bartending, working job. Tell us what a year? 1:15:54.800 --> 1:15:57.320 I mean, uh, what month you what's your birthday? Oh, 1:15:57.360 --> 1:15:59.720 libra October eleventh. Although I don't believe in stars and 1:15:59.760 --> 1:16:00.400 moon and all. 1:16:00.320 --> 1:16:03.280 That bullshit, I be. I'm a liber too, But you 1:16:03.320 --> 1:16:05.840 started with the word libra, Yeah, because I know that's 1:16:05.920 --> 1:16:07.599 that's what people you know, I do. 1:16:07.640 --> 1:16:11.800 I believe that horoscopes are just an excuse for our toxic. 1:16:11.520 --> 1:16:15.479 Behavior or that's it. Literally, that's all I think it, well, 1:16:15.520 --> 1:16:15.760 I don't. 1:16:15.960 --> 1:16:19.639 I just mentioned I just asked why they was because 1:16:19.680 --> 1:16:20.880 we know everything about you and now we know. 1:16:20.880 --> 1:16:22.320 Your birthday, yeah, October eleven. 1:16:22.600 --> 1:16:24.840 But then it's so good for the listeners to know, 1:16:25.080 --> 1:16:27.320 like you could, you could be well versed, you can 1:16:27.439 --> 1:16:29.600 be you can do it all, Like you could be 1:16:29.640 --> 1:16:32.519 a bartender, you could have a podcast, you could have. 1:16:32.479 --> 1:16:33.719 Been an accountant. Finished. 1:16:33.800 --> 1:16:35.800 I finished one hundred and fifty one credits of school 1:16:35.800 --> 1:16:37.640 in four years, So I got two bachelor's degrees in 1:16:37.640 --> 1:16:38.120 four years. 1:16:38.520 --> 1:16:41.040 Yeah, but that's given imdbbit. 1:16:43.000 --> 1:16:44.759 That's the thing with us women. I think you guys, 1:16:44.800 --> 1:16:48.400 even as black women comedians. Yeah, there's a lot that 1:16:48.439 --> 1:16:51.120 you guys have to push through. And so right now, 1:16:51.160 --> 1:16:55.800 being a woman who's openly sexual, yeah, I feel like 1:16:55.840 --> 1:16:58.320 it's funny. I met a guy most recently at an 1:16:58.600 --> 1:16:59.920 event and he was like, Yo, I listened to you. 1:17:00.280 --> 1:17:04.280 You're the podcast. You speak so well that I was like, 1:17:04.600 --> 1:17:05.639 you really are different. 1:17:05.680 --> 1:17:07.880 I didn't expect certain things to come out of your 1:17:07.880 --> 1:17:10.559 mouth because because why I'm out here, second dick who 1:17:10.600 --> 1:17:11.280 is not sucking dick? 1:17:11.320 --> 1:17:12.040 Your mom suck dick. 1:17:12.200 --> 1:17:15.160 Like the Michelle Obama that we sold the praise to 1:17:16.080 --> 1:17:23.400 your children. 1:17:23.080 --> 1:17:27.120 I'm gonna sucks, Dick Beyonce. I don't think Oprah sucks. 1:17:27.439 --> 1:17:28.560 I think she's eating. 1:17:28.280 --> 1:17:32.200 Put or or Gail is eating Oprah's either way. 1:17:32.200 --> 1:17:32.800 But that's the thing. 1:17:32.840 --> 1:17:35.639 It's being in a space right now as not only 1:17:35.680 --> 1:17:38.840 a woman of color, but someone who's vocal about my 1:17:38.960 --> 1:17:42.160 sexual prowess. I think it's I'm very much judged with 1:17:42.200 --> 1:17:44.280 what people may think I'm capable of or what my 1:17:44.320 --> 1:17:47.400 actual journey is, and I'm just I'm discredited. 1:17:47.439 --> 1:17:49.280 Well, the thing, no, it's not that it's not that 1:17:49.320 --> 1:17:49.960 they're mad. 1:17:50.240 --> 1:17:52.760 They just they assume that when a woman is that 1:17:52.960 --> 1:17:56.439 open and that she's smart but right, and because she's 1:17:56.439 --> 1:17:58.280 a hoe, she's not smart, and that's it. But they 1:17:58.280 --> 1:18:00.519 don't know, they don't know your journey. We got the whole, 1:18:00.960 --> 1:18:02.559 we got. This was one of the first times that 1:18:02.600 --> 1:18:04.120 I really like had to go through this. So I 1:18:04.120 --> 1:18:06.680 appreciate you. Yes, and we saw the pegging video. Is 1:18:06.680 --> 1:18:09.240 there another pegging video? Like four or five? And I 1:18:09.240 --> 1:18:12.240 think so. The thing is, so I've always wanted to 1:18:12.360 --> 1:18:13.519 like I be I be in my. 1:18:13.479 --> 1:18:15.320 Bag, like like like I'm a nigg nick. 1:18:15.680 --> 1:18:18.519 So there's a video with his face, but only because 1:18:18.560 --> 1:18:20.120 at one point I was like, ooh, I want to 1:18:20.120 --> 1:18:20.880 make my dick jump. 1:18:21.000 --> 1:18:23.599 So after I put it out of him, I like, made. 1:18:23.439 --> 1:18:25.360 My strap jump and I wanted to record it, and 1:18:25.920 --> 1:18:29.120 so there is a video where he nutted and then 1:18:29.320 --> 1:18:29.680 I just. 1:18:29.680 --> 1:18:32.240 Let my dick jump just a little bit. And just 1:18:32.240 --> 1:18:35.240 because I was like, I think it's fun Well, I 1:18:35.280 --> 1:18:39.320 love it. We love a horrible decisions. Yeah, thank you. 1:18:39.840 --> 1:18:41.400 And it's funny because when you were like, oh, let's 1:18:41.400 --> 1:18:43.120 talk about pegging, I'm glad you know we just talked. 1:18:42.920 --> 1:18:44.800 About it, and then right out of it, no talk 1:18:44.840 --> 1:18:48.080 about everything. Okay, Well I'm looking to peg somebody in March. 1:18:49.000 --> 1:18:50.960 I can give you the l and I can let 1:18:51.000 --> 1:18:51.799 you know, like the strap. 1:18:51.800 --> 1:18:54.200 So it's funny. The strap that I used last time, 1:18:54.360 --> 1:18:55.840 he said it was a little hard. I just got 1:18:55.840 --> 1:18:56.200 a new. 1:18:56.120 --> 1:19:04.519 One then a little more, a little bit more soft. 1:19:04.560 --> 1:19:04.840 Okay. 1:19:04.880 --> 1:19:08.560 So for me as a as a novice pegging nigga, 1:19:08.960 --> 1:19:12.120 top three things that I should know going. 1:19:11.880 --> 1:19:16.519 Into it, Going into pegging, I think the number one 1:19:16.560 --> 1:19:19.599 thing is that you and him need to be open 1:19:19.640 --> 1:19:23.040 that you both want this and make sure you know 1:19:23.080 --> 1:19:24.960 he wants it as much as you want it, just 1:19:25.000 --> 1:19:27.600 so that when the action comes and takes place, it 1:19:27.720 --> 1:19:30.160 like leaves any of like the just talk about. 1:19:29.920 --> 1:19:31.240 It a lot before it actually has. 1:19:31.240 --> 1:19:33.840 So I'm gonna put talks, send videos to each other, 1:19:34.320 --> 1:19:36.600 start even including it in your sex talk, like I 1:19:36.600 --> 1:19:38.800 can't wait to bend you over, like, Oh, you're gonna 1:19:38.800 --> 1:19:41.240 take this like and just get him to start being 1:19:41.240 --> 1:19:46.360 comfortable with you, even saying, find out the size he 1:19:46.400 --> 1:19:49.320 can take. So either start with fingers, see if you 1:19:49.320 --> 1:19:53.759 can fit two three, But I mean you're. 1:19:53.680 --> 1:19:55.559 Out the well, I'm not gonna lie. 1:19:55.560 --> 1:19:57.439 Well, there's steps to this, so you don't just go 1:19:57.640 --> 1:20:01.040 right out. Yeah, no, you literally you want to start 1:20:01.080 --> 1:20:03.120 with eating first. If you don't, if you want to 1:20:03.120 --> 1:20:05.600 skip that part, that's fine, then grab you want to 1:20:05.600 --> 1:20:08.400 grab lube and see how many fingers he can take, 1:20:08.439 --> 1:20:10.120 because you do want to know how tight his hole is. 1:20:14.240 --> 1:20:15.240 Gonna be. 1:20:16.240 --> 1:20:18.320 Wait, so do you usually get with guys that have 1:20:18.400 --> 1:20:20.719 been pegged before? 1:20:21.479 --> 1:20:23.000 So, so I'll be honest with you. 1:20:23.520 --> 1:20:27.200 I'm someone who is very sexually fluid, So I've been 1:20:27.240 --> 1:20:30.880 with guys who have been fingered before. Yes, I have 1:20:31.040 --> 1:20:34.479 also been with guys who have been with trans women, okay, 1:20:35.960 --> 1:20:39.240 and whether they've bonded bottomed or not some of those details. 1:20:39.240 --> 1:20:41.439 I know they're just a little they're just not comfortable 1:20:41.520 --> 1:20:44.360 yet with even explore like telling me who they you 1:20:44.400 --> 1:20:48.439 know are, So yeah, I know that they're into antal play. 1:20:48.560 --> 1:20:51.240 They've fingered their own butts before I've gotten to go there, 1:20:51.240 --> 1:20:52.680 like I'll make them do that. I have a guy 1:20:52.720 --> 1:20:54.799 on my phone where I made him fingers on ass. 1:20:55.840 --> 1:21:02.280 So I mean it's his finger and it's his aid, 1:21:02.760 --> 1:21:04.920 so I mean it's something to where I have wanted 1:21:04.960 --> 1:21:08.680 to make sure, like we need to see how this 1:21:08.800 --> 1:21:11.160 opens up and if you're comfortable, and I also be 1:21:11.240 --> 1:21:12.960 sure to let them know I'm going to be gentle. 1:21:13.000 --> 1:21:14.800 I'm not gonna hurt you. I only want to do 1:21:14.840 --> 1:21:16.040 what's enjoyable for you. 1:21:16.360 --> 1:21:18.479 Oh okay, so I'm already I'm already going into it 1:21:18.520 --> 1:21:20.320 with the wrong attitude. Yeah no, no, no, no, you don't 1:21:20.360 --> 1:21:22.920 want to pound them to oblivion because because then he 1:21:23.200 --> 1:21:24.920 may be like, this wasn't enjoyable. I don't want to 1:21:24.920 --> 1:21:28.000 do this again again. Okay, So what's the third thing? Yes, 1:21:28.160 --> 1:21:31.360 the size that he can take, finger figure the size 1:21:31.400 --> 1:21:34.200 he can take, and then for you, this is what 1:21:34.280 --> 1:21:34.920 you do alone. 1:21:35.400 --> 1:21:38.720 Harnesses can can be uncomfortable they are, so you want 1:21:38.720 --> 1:21:41.760 to go, and you know this is a lesbian, so 1:21:42.320 --> 1:21:44.559 you want to go for me. When I was bigger, 1:21:44.560 --> 1:21:47.200 there was one that had padding and that adjusted around 1:21:47.240 --> 1:21:50.200 my thighs. It had a waste, there was a thing, 1:21:50.320 --> 1:21:52.479 but also there was a padding in the back because 1:21:52.520 --> 1:21:54.800 when you're pulling, it is going to be rubbing your back. 1:21:54.840 --> 1:21:56.160 And you also just want to be sure that you 1:21:56.160 --> 1:21:58.559 can adjust around your thighs. As a big thigh woman, 1:21:58.840 --> 1:22:00.519 I had to go in and make sure that harness 1:22:00.520 --> 1:22:02.400 went up well adjusted and. 1:22:02.360 --> 1:22:03.920 That I was able to take it off with ease. 1:22:04.240 --> 1:22:06.280 So I would say you, you're much smaller, so I 1:22:06.280 --> 1:22:08.160 don't think you're gonna have problems finding one, but you 1:22:08.200 --> 1:22:11.800 want one that's not gonna shafe you. You don't want 1:22:11.840 --> 1:22:14.439 to be shaped by your own by your own harness, 1:22:14.560 --> 1:22:16.200 so that's something that you can do on your own. 1:22:16.280 --> 1:22:18.080 And you want to make sure the dick is positioned 1:22:18.160 --> 1:22:20.559 r you also so that in the harness. 1:22:20.760 --> 1:22:23.280 You want to be sure that where you place your 1:22:23.280 --> 1:22:26.720 dildo is secure, because you don't want a flimsy dick 1:22:26.760 --> 1:22:28.800 because then you can't really stroke how you want to. 1:22:29.000 --> 1:22:31.720 So you want to be sure that even where you 1:22:31.760 --> 1:22:35.800 put the dill doo, it's tight around whatever size you do. 1:22:36.080 --> 1:22:38.240 And a lot of times the harness has come with 1:22:38.320 --> 1:22:42.960 different ring sizes for different size dildos, so you could 1:22:43.000 --> 1:22:43.759 start off small. 1:22:43.840 --> 1:22:45.200 I did start off small, like thin. 1:22:45.560 --> 1:22:48.320 Now I'm using ones because even you might also want 1:22:48.320 --> 1:22:51.960 to check his comfortability. The first person I pegged wasn't 1:22:51.960 --> 1:22:54.479 comfortable with the dil doo looking like a dick. 1:22:55.560 --> 1:22:57.160 So yeah, so. 1:22:58.880 --> 1:23:00.559 He didn't want it to look like dick, but he 1:23:00.640 --> 1:23:04.479 wanted right, so a lot of So I actually bought 1:23:04.520 --> 1:23:08.640 a prostate dildo. And so these dil do kind of 1:23:08.640 --> 1:23:11.040 the curve at the top, and so when I bought it, 1:23:11.120 --> 1:23:13.000 the lady at the store let me know that where 1:23:13.000 --> 1:23:15.479 the prostate is. Whether you have him on his back 1:23:15.560 --> 1:23:17.439 or on his stomach, it wants you need to make 1:23:17.439 --> 1:23:20.880 sure that the curve going up is towards the belly button. 1:23:21.280 --> 1:23:23.840 So if you're fucking him from the back, the prostate. 1:23:26.200 --> 1:23:28.400 And if you're fucking him on his stomach, you want 1:23:28.439 --> 1:23:31.040 the curve to be pointing up. So yeah, that was 1:23:31.040 --> 1:23:34.320 the first person. These the last two niggas, he came 1:23:34.360 --> 1:23:36.680 with me to pick it out. The one I mind you, 1:23:37.200 --> 1:23:39.040 I have used the same strap on different man. 1:23:39.680 --> 1:23:48.400 Yeah, hold on, because every time that lesbians like I 1:23:48.400 --> 1:23:49.639 gotta get a new dick for a new chick. 1:23:49.640 --> 1:23:52.680 I'm always like that sounds do and expensive and expensive. 1:23:52.880 --> 1:23:55.800 I have a lot of toy cleaners, like Lilo sent 1:23:55.920 --> 1:23:57.000 us a lot of toy cleaners. 1:23:57.200 --> 1:23:59.040 I boiled my dick. I talk about it often. 1:23:59.080 --> 1:24:01.360 You have a dickling pot or you use that to 1:24:01.400 --> 1:24:02.479 make noodles and stuff. 1:24:07.040 --> 1:24:11.879 Girl, I mean it's just bulling. You put your greens 1:24:11.880 --> 1:24:14.080 in the dick pot. Okay, no, that goes in a 1:24:14.120 --> 1:24:19.880 different podcast. Respect Well, you don't give a fuck, you know. 1:24:21.200 --> 1:24:22.400 But yeah, so I have. 1:24:22.560 --> 1:24:24.599 But again he said it was hard, So I got 1:24:24.600 --> 1:24:27.080 a new one. Also, both of them said they're willing 1:24:27.080 --> 1:24:29.439 to take a bigger one now. So like again, so 1:24:29.520 --> 1:24:30.599 what size are we at currently? 1:24:30.680 --> 1:24:32.040 So right now, I'm at six. 1:24:33.040 --> 1:24:35.439 This was a six inch dick on that you saw 1:24:35.479 --> 1:24:37.720 the video of and it's it's it's hefty. It's a 1:24:37.720 --> 1:24:39.840 good size the one I have now, I just got 1:24:39.840 --> 1:24:42.760 a mold of King Noir's dick, and that ship my 1:24:42.800 --> 1:24:44.680 hand doesn't even wrap around and my mouth couldn't go 1:24:44.680 --> 1:24:46.680 past the head. So I don't know what niggas taking it. 1:24:47.080 --> 1:24:48.920 I told him, I said, I'm grateful we ain't never 1:24:48.920 --> 1:24:51.160 did nothing, because you would have destroyed my whole inside. 1:24:52.320 --> 1:24:54.679 So again I may go up to maybe an eight 1:24:55.120 --> 1:24:59.080 and a half or but yeah, again I would say 1:24:59.360 --> 1:25:01.880 the third thing would be harness for you, Harness for me. 1:25:02.000 --> 1:25:03.160 Wanted to be also. 1:25:03.000 --> 1:25:06.320 Comfortable for you and you don't want fucking harness burns 1:25:06.760 --> 1:25:07.559 hope on your thigh. 1:25:07.600 --> 1:25:09.240 Or you're going to be at the doctor. I'm gonna 1:25:09.240 --> 1:25:11.040 be at the gym change and they can be like somebody, 1:25:12.960 --> 1:25:17.479 it's just the inside of that. So yeah, just that 1:25:17.520 --> 1:25:21.120 would be your your homework. Okay, do you feel like 1:25:21.400 --> 1:25:22.880 this is the girl? 1:25:23.000 --> 1:25:26.200 Yepkay I know all of that that is actual, factual 1:25:26.280 --> 1:25:33.160 and okay, so transparent with your directions. 1:25:33.560 --> 1:25:36.479 I love it. Okay, so before we go, do you 1:25:36.520 --> 1:25:38.719 have any questions? Before? Do you have any questions? 1:25:38.800 --> 1:25:39.080 Andrew? 1:25:39.760 --> 1:25:41.040 So, are these guys are they? 1:25:41.200 --> 1:25:41.400 Yeah? 1:25:41.600 --> 1:25:43.840 Are they like like, are they intimate at all? 1:25:43.920 --> 1:25:49.120 For them? So that all three of them have different stories. 1:25:49.360 --> 1:25:53.760 So the first one has let a guy suck as dick, 1:25:54.439 --> 1:25:57.320 but he's never been intimate and it's adamant that he 1:25:57.400 --> 1:25:59.000 doesn't care what they look like. 1:25:59.120 --> 1:26:01.720 It's just I think the power dynamic of it. 1:26:02.520 --> 1:26:08.240 The second one, he is more into trans women, and 1:26:08.720 --> 1:26:10.240 although I tried to like set up a three some 1:26:10.320 --> 1:26:12.479 with another guy, he's just like, listen, I'm not into men, 1:26:12.640 --> 1:26:15.200 but I'm into trans women, but I'm not. So that's 1:26:15.240 --> 1:26:17.719 something where again I want to be pleased. I'll watch y'all, 1:26:17.720 --> 1:26:19.800 but I don't want to be involved. And then the 1:26:19.880 --> 1:26:22.840 last one, he's done a gay for pay scene, so 1:26:23.000 --> 1:26:26.400 he has been opened up by a man, but doesn't 1:26:26.479 --> 1:26:30.479 like men either. So because he enjoys the anal play, 1:26:30.600 --> 1:26:32.360 I was the first woman to peg him and he 1:26:32.400 --> 1:26:35.920 wants that done a lot more. But that's because his 1:26:36.040 --> 1:26:40.240 primary wasn't open and dominating or pegging him. So yeah, 1:26:40.280 --> 1:26:41.479 those are the three, you know. 1:26:41.880 --> 1:26:45.799 I just love how hearing. Yeah and so and again I've. 1:26:45.600 --> 1:26:48.920 Had open conversations about what makes them comfortable, what they've done, 1:26:49.320 --> 1:26:51.479 like just to even let them know I don't give 1:26:51.520 --> 1:26:54.040 a fuck about like sexually, how you are. I do 1:26:54.120 --> 1:26:56.040 care about your health, but I want you to know 1:26:56.080 --> 1:26:58.120 I'm not here to expose, Like, be open with me. 1:26:58.120 --> 1:26:59.599 I'm not gonna judge you if you don't suck dick 1:26:59.600 --> 1:27:01.120 before I don't care I'll be. 1:27:01.040 --> 1:27:02.960 With a bisexual man. I don't like. That's not something 1:27:02.960 --> 1:27:05.080 that bothers me. Yeah, you're not that seen any. 1:27:05.040 --> 1:27:08.160 I mean, yeah, you're like your noodles in the same 1:27:08.240 --> 1:27:11.160 I mean I expect Matt, you boy or dick. You're 1:27:11.320 --> 1:27:15.120 not use recycled dicks, so. 1:27:16.360 --> 1:27:19.719 You ain't got no no room to gerge. Okay. 1:27:19.800 --> 1:27:21.759 So last thing that I want to ask you before 1:27:21.760 --> 1:27:24.680 we go, is is there anything that you want to 1:27:24.800 --> 1:27:29.200 leave the listeners with that you feel like you you missed, 1:27:29.400 --> 1:27:32.720 or you you got something coming up, or you just 1:27:32.760 --> 1:27:34.599 want them to know about themselves or whatever. 1:27:35.400 --> 1:27:39.439 I wouldn't say, not that I missed. I would I guess, 1:27:39.479 --> 1:27:44.040 want to leave your listeners off. But again, just finding 1:27:44.080 --> 1:27:49.600 what makes them happy in terms of sexuality, your friends, 1:27:50.080 --> 1:27:53.879 your family. You can't seek happiness from anyone but yourself. 1:27:55.040 --> 1:28:01.439 Okay, So circle, I just gearing up for the not 1:28:01.560 --> 1:28:02.559 the ted X though. 1:28:04.240 --> 1:28:06.639 Y'all gonna get this tad. I would say, I would 1:28:06.680 --> 1:28:08.479 say that just finding what makes you happy. 1:28:08.560 --> 1:28:11.960 Before you expect a man or a woman to please 1:28:11.960 --> 1:28:13.840 you in the bedroom, you find out what pleases you 1:28:13.840 --> 1:28:17.040 in the bedroom, Yes, but your own as you don't. 1:28:16.880 --> 1:28:18.439 Do that and see if you like it or not. 1:28:19.439 --> 1:28:21.600 And also yes, there is a lot coming up with 1:28:21.640 --> 1:28:25.599 Horrible Decisions. So if you guys care to come see 1:28:25.640 --> 1:28:27.000 us live, we are currently on tour. 1:28:27.120 --> 1:28:27.559 Fucking go. 1:28:28.040 --> 1:28:29.840 It's a really really good show, which y'all could have 1:28:29.840 --> 1:28:31.560 made it, but y'all had to show the same fucking. 1:28:31.360 --> 1:28:34.599 Night as us. What Night is your Shore? It's New 1:28:34.680 --> 1:28:36.400 York show was on Saturday in New York. 1:28:37.920 --> 1:28:39.800 And so anyways, yeah, we're on tour right now. You 1:28:39.800 --> 1:28:42.000 guys can check that out at Horrible Decisions dot com. 1:28:42.120 --> 1:28:43.600 If you guys haven't caught the gist, it is a 1:28:43.640 --> 1:28:45.920 sex based podcast, so you type in horror. 1:28:46.000 --> 1:28:52.679 You haven't if you haven't caught you it's a podcast 1:28:52.720 --> 1:28:53.280 about Christ. 1:28:54.120 --> 1:28:55.599 It went over your head there. 1:28:55.680 --> 1:28:57.280 No, no, no, no no, I want I want all my 1:28:57.360 --> 1:28:58.719 Christians to go to your pod. 1:28:58.840 --> 1:28:59.720 Yes about the Lord? 1:28:59.760 --> 1:29:01.719 I mean we have had a black, gay male pastor 1:29:01.760 --> 1:29:06.679 on our show talking about Yeah, no one who actually 1:29:06.680 --> 1:29:10.840 practices an administration in a ministry currently. But anyways, you 1:29:10.840 --> 1:29:13.840 can check out listen to Horrible Decisions wherever you listen 1:29:13.920 --> 1:29:16.120 to your favorite podcast. Type in whrror we pop up 1:29:16.120 --> 1:29:18.479 this w h O R E I B a lead 1:29:18.560 --> 1:29:20.960 Decisions And again if you want to check out our 1:29:21.000 --> 1:29:24.120 website that shows you what cities were coming to. I'm 1:29:24.120 --> 1:29:25.800 not sure when this is gonna drop, but we are 1:29:25.880 --> 1:29:29.320 hitting up Texas and then we're doing our whole kind 1:29:29.360 --> 1:29:35.240 of Southeast leg So in March we are hitting up Orlando's, Charlotte, Atlanta, 1:29:35.760 --> 1:29:39.000 Toronto and possibly New Orleans are waiting on that date, 1:29:39.680 --> 1:29:40.519 and then we are going. 1:29:40.439 --> 1:29:41.360 To do the West coast. 1:29:41.400 --> 1:29:43.479 And if you guys you heard us talk about hedonism here, 1:29:43.720 --> 1:29:45.280 we will be at Mochafest and Jamaica. 1:29:45.400 --> 1:29:51.479 So you guys woke up fast love. 1:29:51.960 --> 1:29:53.640 And again, if you guys want to just keep up 1:29:53.640 --> 1:29:55.360 with me and what I'm doing, I have a lot 1:29:55.400 --> 1:29:58.000 of solo projects that I am currently working on. The 1:29:58.960 --> 1:30:04.840 as sex focused I. 1:30:02.800 --> 1:30:04.719 You know, I was more than just second. 1:30:06.880 --> 1:30:08.960 I definitely want to get more into just talking more 1:30:08.960 --> 1:30:10.280 about the pop culture. 1:30:10.960 --> 1:30:13.080 I'm really big into music. Music has had a had 1:30:13.120 --> 1:30:14.040 a huge effect. 1:30:13.760 --> 1:30:15.120 On my life, so I definitely want to get more 1:30:15.160 --> 1:30:17.960 into the music space. And of course I said I 1:30:18.000 --> 1:30:20.519 would love to get into radio, So there's that, and 1:30:20.560 --> 1:30:22.680 then there is something in the works right now for 1:30:22.720 --> 1:30:24.559 Horrible Decisions that's going to be really big so I 1:30:24.600 --> 1:30:24.960 hope that. 1:30:24.920 --> 1:30:30.679 You guys it's real. We also yelling ebony. 1:30:31.400 --> 1:30:32.479 We were just an essence. 1:30:33.040 --> 1:30:35.400 And then I've I've had, you know, the pleasure. I 1:30:35.479 --> 1:30:38.360 was just featured in Huffington Post for Black History Months 1:30:39.040 --> 1:30:41.000 for a black hair addition. 1:30:41.520 --> 1:30:42.040 The hair. 1:30:44.640 --> 1:30:46.920 Yeah, so that's coming out and. 1:30:48.560 --> 1:30:50.320 I'm gonna try to be more natural this year with 1:30:50.360 --> 1:30:53.280 my shortcut. Do what you Yeah, weaves is my thing. 1:30:53.320 --> 1:30:54.200 I love switching it up. 1:30:54.760 --> 1:30:56.599 So yeah, there's just a lot of things press wise 1:30:56.640 --> 1:30:58.560 that I've been doing, and I appreciate you guys. 1:30:58.280 --> 1:31:01.360 For sharing your platform with me. Of course, remember when 1:31:01.360 --> 1:31:04.360 you came to do Vice Live when I was on. 1:31:04.400 --> 1:31:07.719 It and I was like, oh, she hates us nose. 1:31:07.720 --> 1:31:09.800 You would be talking and you'd be like something about 1:31:09.840 --> 1:31:12.320 You'd be like, uh, something eating ass, and I'd be like, 1:31:12.360 --> 1:31:14.200 since you would ask me about eating ass? 1:31:14.560 --> 1:31:16.680 My dad? I want to say at one point we 1:31:16.680 --> 1:31:18.800 brought up your dad. Yeah you brought you were like 1:31:19.080 --> 1:31:21.680 you were like, good daddy hate it. And I was like, 1:31:22.439 --> 1:31:22.840 I was like. 1:31:24.040 --> 1:31:24.200 Not. 1:31:26.160 --> 1:31:30.519 Get cut the TV off talking about this no moment. 1:31:30.760 --> 1:31:33.200 So I was like, no, have brought our family members 1:31:33.200 --> 1:31:33.800 into this ship. 1:31:34.720 --> 1:31:37.040 She said nothing but good things about y'all. Yeah no, 1:31:37.120 --> 1:31:39.080 So I'm glad that y'all not only came. 1:31:39.200 --> 1:31:42.000 If you guys have not yet, it was a hilarious 1:31:42.000 --> 1:31:44.519 episode when y'all came on the Horrible Decisions, So check 1:31:44.560 --> 1:31:44.840 that out. 1:31:44.880 --> 1:31:50.080 You'll see sitting razy. It was unofficially experts or something. 1:31:50.280 --> 1:31:53.320 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. 1:31:53.360 --> 1:31:56.240 But some of your listeners came over and good. They 1:31:56.400 --> 1:31:57.160 really liked y'all. 1:31:57.200 --> 1:32:00.120 They said that y'all are the you're our version of 1:32:00.200 --> 1:32:01.760 girls that actually like each other, so. 1:32:04.840 --> 1:32:07.839 They filled the love through the mic hashtag friendship. 1:32:07.920 --> 1:32:08.080 Man. 1:32:09.640 --> 1:32:11.240 No, but y'all were great to have on again. 1:32:11.280 --> 1:32:13.519 Weezy and I have a lot coming up, so thank 1:32:13.560 --> 1:32:14.640 you guys again for having me on. 1:32:14.880 --> 1:32:17.559 Man. We'll have and we'll have Weezy on it. Yes, 1:32:17.640 --> 1:32:21.200 that's very excited today. All right, well, I'm excited to 1:32:21.200 --> 1:32:21.840 for your ted talk. 1:32:22.120 --> 1:32:24.759 We'll figure out what dates you in the right cities 1:32:24.800 --> 1:32:26.400 that we want to be in and maybe we'll pull 1:32:26.479 --> 1:32:27.280 up to one of those cities. 1:32:27.479 --> 1:32:27.920 I would love it. 1:32:28.000 --> 1:32:29.880 Y'all got all access whenever y'all want to come. 1:32:31.479 --> 1:32:31.839 Amen. 1:32:32.160 --> 1:32:34.280 That mean I get the peg and there you got. 1:32:35.360 --> 1:32:37.880 I'm gonna bring my dick Dick on the plane. 1:32:37.920 --> 1:32:40.560 The one you boiled in your past. No, no, no, 1:32:40.600 --> 1:32:42.600 I'm a pot. I have a dick pot and a 1:32:42.640 --> 1:32:43.160 pasta pod. 1:32:43.560 --> 1:32:47.440 Not short nailed fingers ready penetrate. 1:32:47.520 --> 1:32:49.280 I'll put an SNS in somebody's butte. 1:32:50.040 --> 1:32:51.720 It might come out, the little powder might come out 1:32:51.760 --> 1:32:53.960 on his prostate, but I'm excited about it. 1:32:54.880 --> 1:32:57.640 Thank you, guys, so much. Thank you. This is an 1:32:57.680 --> 1:33:00.360 incredible episode. You give everything and more. 1:33:00.560 --> 1:33:02.800 Yeah, y'all ask literally, I don't know how y'all fit 1:33:02.840 --> 1:33:04.200 all of this until an hour and a half, y'all. 1:33:04.520 --> 1:33:09.439 Good time, motherfucking management, y'all story Pagan being a side chick, y'all, 1:33:09.439 --> 1:33:13.920 and we watched the video Andrew gwesome questions the more. 1:33:13.960 --> 1:33:16.160 When we get off air, well that means we gotta go. 1:33:16.280 --> 1:33:18.600 Bye, guys. 1:33:19.040 --> 1:33:25.759 Forever This has been a Forever Dog production executive produced 1:33:25.800 --> 1:33:31.320 by Brett Baham, Joecilio, and Alex Ramsey. For more original podcasts, 1:33:31.400 --> 1:33:34.240 please visit Foreverdog Podcasts dot. 1:33:33.960 --> 1:33:38.240 Com and subscribe to our shows on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, 1:33:38.640 --> 1:33:41.040 or wherever you get your podcasts. 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