1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:02,560 Speaker 1: Forever. 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:08,560 Speaker 2: Hey, my friend, like I were a bit of babbity 3 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 2: back back. Yes, and we're hot today. It's gonna be sizzling. 4 00:00:14,880 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 3: You know when you'll be at TGI Fridays and they 5 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 3: bring up the sizzling, that's what this is gonna be. 6 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 3: I mean, I haven't been at Fridays in years, but 7 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:24,079 Speaker 3: you know, you know it. 8 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 2: But don't shame the people who go to Fridays. Okay, 9 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 2: well this maybe because it's a lifestyle thing. You don't 10 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 2: just eat at Fridays. You live like Fridays. 11 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 4: Nah, what you doing bad? You eat boneless buffalo? I'm 12 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 4: judging you. It's a chicken nugget. Sist. You are a 13 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 4: grown up eating a chicken nugget. Boneless chicken wing. That's 14 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 4: what it is. 15 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 3: Stop calling it a nuggets, not even chickens. Impossible wings, 16 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 3: that's what it is tofu wings. 17 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 2: What you're saying is very triggering and hurtful to the 18 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:55,880 Speaker 2: people who eat at Fridays. 19 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 4: And I will not con you don't even eat at Friday. 20 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 4: I do not. I cannot. My is just too good 21 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 4: to go. Me and Sidney went. 22 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 3: To a We went to Olive Garden in Times Square, 23 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 3: did like a year ago or two years ago. Yeah, 24 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 3: we were in there using fake accents and like, oh 25 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 3: my god, they got braslet like they knew we were 26 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:14,639 Speaker 3: not that well. 27 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 4: Maybe they didn't. We didn't even eat our entrees. We 28 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 4: just we just went for the salad. Salad in the. 29 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:20,320 Speaker 2: Red that's the only thing you go to Olive Garden. 30 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 3: When I see people ordering lasagna there, I'm like, do 31 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:26,040 Speaker 3: you love yourself shrimp scampyoo? Well, Sydney and I were 32 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 3: at the diner a couple of weeks ago and this 33 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 3: guy that we were with tried to order shrimp scampy 34 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 3: at the diner and we roasted. 35 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 4: Him swiftly, and he was like, ah, I'm gonna get 36 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 4: a grill cheese. 37 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 2: You ordered shrimp shrimp scampy. I was like, is that 38 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 2: what we're doing here at the diner? 39 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:42,400 Speaker 3: You're ordering shrimp from the diner. Your butthole's gonna be 40 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 3: open to hurt you. 41 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 2: Okay, if I ever hear any of y'all eating anything 42 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 2: other than breakfast food and maybe a burger, maybe you 43 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 2: can't be my friend. 44 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 4: But people be getting like steaking eggs at the diner. Yeah, 45 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 4: I do a steaking egg. 46 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 2: I'll do that when I'm going through a breakup, steaking 47 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 2: egg is cute at the diner. That's kind of like 48 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 2: when you're a divorced man. That's that's the meal that 49 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 2: in a chicken pot pie. 50 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 4: Like a TV dinner. Yeah, like a hungry man. Yes, 51 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 4: a Celeste pizza. No, don't, don't. That's a saggy cracker. 52 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 4: Should I go? 53 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 3: Do that? 54 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:17,239 Speaker 4: You better than that's this? 55 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:17,679 Speaker 3: Hey? 56 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:17,919 Speaker 4: Here? 57 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 5: Am I? 58 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 4: No, Marie? Were you an expert in this week? What 59 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 4: was I an expert in this week? 60 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 3: Ah? 61 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 4: You know, I feel like I'm a deflect back to 62 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 4: usiss Uh what were you an expert in this week? 63 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 4: What did I do this week? I'm an expert in 64 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 4: being a dramatic bitch. 65 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 2: Yes, I got a migraine for two days and I 66 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 2: was really just trying to thug it out. I legit 67 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 2: was like the Tupac of migraines, like, you know, fuck 68 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 2: the police, you can't, you can't take me down. And 69 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 2: then I had to go to urgent care. And urgent 70 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 2: care in Brooklyn I think is more aggressive than the 71 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 2: urgent care in the city. 72 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 4: Urgent care. 73 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 2: If y'all don't know, it's it's it's care. It's quick 74 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 2: care for people, people who can't go to the hospital, 75 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:03,920 Speaker 2: and it's poor people emergency room. Yes, that's what it is. 76 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:05,959 Speaker 4: That's what I don't want to I don't want to 77 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 4: label it like. 78 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 2: That, but that's that's what it is. Marie said that 79 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 2: this poor people emergency room. I went there, nobody was there. 80 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 2: I was the only one there. And so I'm. 81 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 4: Like crying, I'm like shaking. 82 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 2: I'm literally I should be like the Viola Davis of urgent. 83 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 4: Can you took your wig off in the. 84 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 2: Honestly, almost I took my makeup off. I was going 85 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 2: you were in the waiting room ring doctor yo and nay. 86 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 4: And this is the thing that makes me so upset. 87 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 2: There's so much fucking paperwork you have to file before 88 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 2: you actually see their doctors. 89 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 3: Like, I'm gonna die before I get to see anybody. Oh, 90 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 3: I gotta remember all this stuff while I'm in pain. 91 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 3: My social Security number, my address. 92 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 4: I don't know any stuff. I'm dying. 93 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 2: My head is on fire, your social I do know 94 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 2: my social say it for the listeners. 95 00:03:56,840 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 4: No, prove it, prove it anyway. 96 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 2: So the woman, the doctor or whatever she sees me, 97 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 2: and I'm crying, like I'm going off dramatic. You know, 98 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 2: I'm crying because like some checks didn't come through. I'm like, 99 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 2: I'm crying about a whole bunch. 100 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 3: Of Stuff're trying to win that Academy award. Yeah, it's 101 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:17,160 Speaker 3: not just the migraine, but you know, it's the migraine. 102 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:22,160 Speaker 2: And so she starts like asking me questions, and I'm 103 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:23,720 Speaker 2: just like, can you just give me. 104 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:25,160 Speaker 4: The shot so I could get out of here? What 105 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:26,039 Speaker 4: questions was she asked? 106 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 2: She's like, are you under any stress? And I was like, 107 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:30,679 Speaker 2: I live in New York. Yeah, I'm under fucking stress. 108 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 2: I got bills to pay. Yeah, are you not stressed? 109 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 4: As a doctor? 110 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:36,840 Speaker 3: I mean she's a doctor sister, but she's an urgent 111 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:38,719 Speaker 3: care doctor, so yeah, she's basically a nurse. 112 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 4: Oh wow, is that what we're gonna say? Yeah, I don't. 113 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 3: I'm not putting my hands on that one. That's all 114 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 3: Marie Foston's stand by it. 115 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 4: Okay, you do that. She work here. 116 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:50,840 Speaker 2: So she'said, are you under any stress? And then she said, well, 117 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 2: are you taking care of yourselves? And She's like, I 118 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:54,160 Speaker 2: live in New York City? How am I going to 119 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 2: take care of myself? 120 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 3: Sidney All your answers sound wrong to me. We all 121 00:04:57,920 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 3: in the studio looking at you, like, how do you 122 00:04:59,440 --> 00:04:59,839 Speaker 3: not what? 123 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 4: You didn't give a fuck? 124 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 3: You obviously don't care about you. I do care about myself, 125 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 3: but what what do you want? I am under stress. 126 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 3: I work in comedy. Yeah, I'm stressed. 127 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 2: When people don't laugh at my shit, I'm like, what 128 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 2: the fuck is wrong with you? I'll be ready to 129 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 2: go off. That hasn't happened. Actually that's not true. 130 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 3: I got I bombed in New Jersey at Bananas Comedy Club. 131 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:22,599 Speaker 3: Who if you ever want to go kill yourself, go 132 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:27,040 Speaker 3: to the Holiday Inn and the Bananas Comedy Club right 133 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 3: underneath it. 134 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 4: Ooh girl. 135 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 2: It was like all these senior citizens when like, old 136 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:33,720 Speaker 2: people don't fuck with you, you just feel like you're 137 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:35,279 Speaker 2: letting your family down? 138 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 3: Is it? 139 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 4: What are you? When old people don't like? 140 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:39,919 Speaker 3: Old people are the people who fuck with you the 141 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:43,280 Speaker 3: least because you reach a certain level, a certain age, 142 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 3: and you don't care. 143 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 4: You don't you're not trying to appease me. 144 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 2: That's crazy because the guy right after me fucking murdered. 145 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:52,600 Speaker 2: But then the person who I came with, Moses Storm, 146 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 2: he was like, if you do well, in this room, 147 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 2: you gotta figure. 148 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:58,720 Speaker 4: Out your comedy. It's real bad. And the guy who 149 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:03,920 Speaker 4: killed saw like was like, what shot? I love? 150 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:06,039 Speaker 2: Shout out to Moses Storm for being you know, the 151 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 2: BIG's shadiest person. 152 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 5: I know. 153 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,599 Speaker 4: We love we love a shady bige. Yeah. But anyway, 154 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 4: I was. 155 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 2: Crying in urgent care and you know, I got a shot. 156 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 2: But then she looked at me after it was done, 157 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 2: and she's like, is everything else? Is everything okay? Is 158 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 2: there anything else? I was like, no, bitch, I'm not 159 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:23,599 Speaker 2: getting touched by anybody, Like, why are you stressed me out? 160 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 4: Yeah? 161 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:26,720 Speaker 3: Now I'm mean under more stress. It was very dramatic. 162 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:28,839 Speaker 3: They wanted me to get out. Is a lot. 163 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:30,920 Speaker 4: I left and I was crying and just and when 164 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 4: you left, what's the last thing she said to you? 165 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:36,719 Speaker 4: She said, to drink more water. 166 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:38,840 Speaker 2: She's like, I could tell that you're dehydrated. 167 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 6: Oh Like she sounds like she really cares for you though. 168 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:48,919 Speaker 2: And he's like, I'm stressed, I said, expert in dramatic, bitch, 169 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 2: there you go back to you, Fred. 170 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:54,279 Speaker 4: Fred, I don't know. 171 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 3: I just wanted to say that, like, Fred, I don't 172 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 3: even know any black freds Okay, yes, actually Frederick Douglass. 173 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:04,159 Speaker 4: I guess that's the blackest of the friends. Okay, figure 174 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 4: it out, Harriet Tubmant's prom date. 175 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 3: So I was an expert at literally wasting all of 176 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 3: my time. This week was seven full days, and I 177 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 3: don't think that I did anything on them seven days. 178 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 4: Like you got your nails done. 179 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 3: I did get my nails done, and I cracked it 180 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 3: and then fixed it again. Well, I mean I didn't 181 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 3: fix it, but you know that was some polish on 182 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 3: top of the sns. 183 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 4: But I think that's not how that went. You dog 184 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 4: your hair, right? 185 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 3: That was last week, you know. Okay, so this this week, 186 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 3: let's go, let's go through all the days. 187 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 2: Right. So, so she's an expert in wasting time, Okay. 188 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 3: So Sunday I was at the knitting factory. 189 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 4: Sunday I was at Sydney's birthday party. 190 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 3: Yes, and I was out until eight o'clock in the morning. Right, 191 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 3: So Monday's already wash. I got up at noon. I'm 192 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 3: not there's nothing happening when we're going back to sleep afternoon. 193 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:54,720 Speaker 4: Okay, boomshocka locks. 194 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:57,240 Speaker 3: Tuesday, I went to karaoke with a bunch of black 195 00:07:57,280 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 3: folks in Fort Green Beautiful. I sang Deborah Cox, Nobody's 196 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 3: supposed to be here, and I sang Drew Hill somebody. 197 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 4: Sleeping in my bed. 198 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 3: Yes, the remix, I did that by myself. I had 199 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 3: to do both the bread and the drew Hill part. Wednesday, 200 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 3: I went to When All You Can Eat Seafood buffet 201 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 3: with a friend and somebody that I'm banging, and I 202 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 3: made him drop her off at her house, and then 203 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 3: I thought we was gonna have sex, but he had 204 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:24,680 Speaker 3: to be up early in the morning, so he just 205 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 3: dropped me off. And I was very upset and very moist. 206 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 3: So then Thursday, also I watched Saturday. Wednesday I didn't 207 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 3: have sex, So Thursday I'm upset. I don't have you know, 208 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 3: I don't have the energy to do nothing but go 209 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 3: to the gym. Right Friday, I went to the gym again, 210 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 3: and I walked two miles to get some pie from 211 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:43,440 Speaker 3: this place in my neighborhood. And then today I'm here 212 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:45,720 Speaker 3: doing the podcast. So it sounds like a full weeks 213 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 3: with me. I don't know, I feel like you've been 214 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:50,319 Speaker 3: doing things I've been doing. 215 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 4: I've been thinking about things and not really doing anything. 216 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 3: But this week is gonna be a better week because 217 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 3: I gotta do them better. 218 00:08:57,760 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, you're just for the third weekend. Everybody just deserves rest. 219 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 4: That was the week of wresting. 220 00:09:02,760 --> 00:09:07,079 Speaker 3: Fully rested system ye last arrested to and the week 221 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 3: before that she rested. 222 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:11,800 Speaker 4: So well, you know who's not fucking resting? Our guests 223 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:14,320 Speaker 4: over here? Good god, wow booked. 224 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 3: Busy Bliss's busy, blessed and blossoming. Hey, yeah, I've got 225 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 3: her all her edges and everything. 226 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 4: Okay, baby hairs on a flee Can I ain't even 227 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 4: use my age controlling. 228 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 2: You know, she don't even need a natural We have 229 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 2: a natural edge here. Cit Okay, she's our favorite, one 230 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 2: of our she's half of the Horribles podcast, and she's 231 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 2: one of our favorite boss. 232 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 4: Bitch. Horrible decisions, horrible decisions. I want to crash that wait, 233 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 4: shut out. 234 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 6: Was actually cutting that cut that out? 235 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, horrible decisions. 236 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 3: She she's one half of horrible Decisions. She's our richest 237 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:56,560 Speaker 3: horrible riches. 238 00:09:57,480 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 4: She's doing well. 239 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 3: She's about to get a new iPhone thirteen. Uh, thriving. 240 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 3: She's at boss. 241 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, I've had this since like twenty eight. 242 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 2: We don't believe they don't need to hear that. She 243 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 2: don't believe be white. Let us get let us injured. 244 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:13,200 Speaker 2: You she's she's our boss lady. 245 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 3: She's pegged the stallion she is giving up for Mandy Benedeop. 246 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 7: We literally been trying to schedule this. Honestly, I think 247 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 7: I think I booked this on my calendar in December. 248 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 3: That's how busy y'all are. First off, No, no, no, 249 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 3: that's how your. 250 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 4: But but yeah isn't. And you see, I. 251 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:37,200 Speaker 3: Came on Tuesday, came on Thursday. 252 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 4: You were in Puerto Rico, you, Yeah, I was. I 253 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:43,439 Speaker 4: was traveling quite a bit. And yeah, that's it. Well, 254 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 4: Mandy tell people. First of all, let's talk about the outfa. 255 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:48,080 Speaker 3: She got the the Balia sock shoes, you know, the 256 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 3: ones that look like socks. 257 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:52,960 Speaker 2: She got the cambo, the camel pants on the little 258 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:53,959 Speaker 2: pockets on the side. 259 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:56,920 Speaker 3: I'm just down today how much these pans called girl, 260 00:10:56,960 --> 00:10:57,840 Speaker 3: theseus from Rainbow. 261 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:04,319 Speaker 4: I couldn't tell they were giving me. No, gr's Rainbow. 262 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 4: I am one to mix labels like high and what's 263 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:13,320 Speaker 4: this girl? Foot locker? I don't know, it's all clothes. Yeah, 264 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 4: it's a foot locker. 265 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:16,480 Speaker 3: Push the tea. They have graphic t's. Now really into 266 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 3: the graphic ts. 267 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 4: You have your finest hood gold jury on. I love it. 268 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 3: Your name you got a name chain of really ratchet 269 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:26,440 Speaker 3: like in real life we look like you know what 270 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:27,200 Speaker 3: does your say? 271 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:29,959 Speaker 4: Regret nothing? See I'm a whole. 272 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 3: Wow, you've gotten to jail before. It says no, it 273 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 3: says no regruits regret it spelled wrong. I have little 274 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 3: recruits on my creutons and go. 275 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, I love me a good bamboo earring with the 276 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 4: name plate. You got those at the beautyfu Plas store. Girl, 277 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 4: I will never pay ninety nine cents, she said, how 278 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 4: much money I make? Don't you do that? 279 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 7: Will never pay more than ninety nine cents for a 280 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 7: bamboo earring. 281 00:11:56,679 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 4: Okaya nte beauty sup Plus girl. Okay, when your ear 282 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 4: fall off, let me know. 283 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:05,880 Speaker 3: But they sure are not so well you know just 284 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:08,199 Speaker 3: what the earrings break before they turn your ear screen 285 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 3: or you could do the whole the hood hack, which 286 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:16,680 Speaker 3: is if you painted with it doesn't turn. Yeah, you 287 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:19,680 Speaker 3: do the inside of my rear and so it won't turn. 288 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:21,680 Speaker 3: You didn't know that, Yeah, so it won't turn silver 289 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 3: or rusty. 290 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 4: My jewelry sys you know, my ear is slit, So 291 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 4: that's why I don't know. That's the tea with the tea. Honey, 292 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 4: someone pulled your earring out. 293 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:34,080 Speaker 2: No, it's just I was wearing really heavy ear rings. 294 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:36,160 Speaker 2: And you know, we'll remember when Beyonce used to wear 295 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 2: their chandelier earrings. I would wear them every day, all 296 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 2: day and then my same lobe, like that happened. 297 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:44,080 Speaker 4: With my belly button, which is why I know. 298 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:45,439 Speaker 7: I think I had to get my belly button and 299 00:12:45,480 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 7: re pierced like three or four times because I would well, 300 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 7: I would do the charms that were heavy, like I 301 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 7: had one with a gun. 302 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 3: I had liked God, I had it from Hot topic 303 00:12:55,760 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 3: back in the day. You go get your belly. 304 00:12:58,480 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 4: So I had like a. 305 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 7: Gun and I played basketball when I had that, so 306 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 7: like just being in practice running like the shorts just 307 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 7: pulled and no, well with the running, knocking into my opponents, 308 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 7: like and it just you didn't have a game day 309 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:20,080 Speaker 7: a little at charms, okay, And yeah, so I didn't 310 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:21,400 Speaker 7: switch it often, so yeah, there's that. 311 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:24,079 Speaker 4: Okay, So Maddie, let's talk about this where you're from. 312 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 4: Who is you? 313 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:28,960 Speaker 3: Why should people care? I mean, I really don't give 314 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:29,719 Speaker 3: a fuck if they care. 315 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 4: Not honestly, these people care. So I don't want that 316 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:34,080 Speaker 4: energy there. I mean, that's fine. 317 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:36,319 Speaker 7: I'm glad that y'all is here, tuntin or whatever. So 318 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 7: I'm from Orlando, I'm born and raised. 319 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:41,320 Speaker 4: Glad you got out yees. 320 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 7: Also lived in Atlanta, Miami, and then I've been in 321 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 7: New York for the last seven years. 322 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 3: And when you lived in Atlanta, you lived in a 323 00:13:48,880 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 3: big ass house. No. 324 00:13:50,920 --> 00:13:54,080 Speaker 7: No, in Atlanta, I moved up, I went to I 325 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:55,679 Speaker 7: was in high school for one year in Atlanta, lived 326 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 7: in an apartment with my mom, and then three days 327 00:13:57,679 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 7: after graduating high school, I was. 328 00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:00,440 Speaker 4: Like, I'm coming back to Atlanta. 329 00:14:00,559 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 7: So I literally packed my Hyundai Sonata and drove my 330 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:05,840 Speaker 7: ass to Atlanta and tried to make it happen as 331 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 7: an adult. 332 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:09,760 Speaker 4: I crashed and burned within a year, So came back 333 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:12,520 Speaker 4: in Atlanta. That's why you're supposed to make it. I 334 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:14,800 Speaker 4: was eighteen, it was new, it was fresh. 335 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:16,280 Speaker 3: I was living on my own, so I was you know, 336 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 3: I had I had an apartment, I had a car, 337 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 3: and at the time also so I started bartending. 338 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 7: But before then I was like stock manager at diesel. 339 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 7: I worked at a call center. I had like three 340 00:14:27,440 --> 00:14:29,280 Speaker 7: jobs at one point just to figure in Atlanta. 341 00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 3: In Atlanta, I ended up I ended up getting fired 342 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:38,600 Speaker 3: from all three jobs. Well, I left one job because 343 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 3: I was making so much at my last job. 344 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:42,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, I left pretty. 345 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 7: Much the the call center job and the management job 346 00:14:45,840 --> 00:14:48,239 Speaker 7: at Diesel to be a bartender. 347 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 4: And I ended up losing that that job. 348 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 3: Why girl, Because I got into it with a nigga 349 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 3: and like really bad I. 350 00:14:58,280 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 8: Did. 351 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 3: I got into it with a nigga and and I 352 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 3: like talk crazy, so like he threatened to have a 353 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 3: bitch come up and fight me. 354 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 4: So I was like, when they got fight, you in 355 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:07,240 Speaker 4: your bitch. 356 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 7: So I worked at SO, I worked at the So, 357 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:14,640 Speaker 7: I bartended at the Congress Center Phips It was. 358 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:16,480 Speaker 4: The Congress Center, Yeah. 359 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:19,800 Speaker 7: So the Georgia World Congress Center, Phipps Arena and the 360 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:22,280 Speaker 7: Dome at the time. So they were all under the 361 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 7: same people who do the food Levy Restaurant. Yes, they 362 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 7: do the same food now at Barclays. 363 00:15:26,560 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 4: So I worked for them. 364 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:29,720 Speaker 7: But yeah, ended up And that was just one of 365 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 7: many little incidents I got into with motherfuckers. 366 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 4: You'd be fighting. So by the time it got to 367 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:40,520 Speaker 4: motherfucking hr again period nor knacking back and and ready 368 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 4: that fight. I hate y'all. I hate y'all both. 369 00:15:43,400 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 7: Actually, what I'm not gonna lie like as you know, 370 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 7: as someone who can speak for the light Skins, I 371 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:50,840 Speaker 7: felt like I was always tried to stop. 372 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 4: Because light Skins, you guys always act like people. 373 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:57,880 Speaker 2: So they'd be starting to fight and they're like, no, 374 00:15:57,920 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 2: it's because I'm like you. 375 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 3: So like my my Orange County Pine Hills would come 376 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 3: the fuck out, like what's up. I went to all 377 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:07,160 Speaker 3: black schools, identify as black, like my whole like my 378 00:16:07,240 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 3: family that I with is black. Yeah, my my my 379 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 3: white family pretty much didn't talk to us because we 380 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 3: were black. So I not really that means she real 381 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:20,560 Speaker 3: black white they really talked to us. So you know, 382 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 3: I've been feeling tried or I think they think I'm 383 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 3: you know, Hispanic or something. Yeah. 384 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:26,200 Speaker 4: Nah, so you came up to New York. 385 00:16:26,200 --> 00:16:30,880 Speaker 7: So anyways, came to New York after I just Miami 386 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:32,160 Speaker 7: wasn't working out, and I was. 387 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 3: Like, Miami never was yeah, but Miami worked out to 388 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:37,240 Speaker 3: visit twenty almost twenty two, and I was just like, 389 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 3: my life can't be of yachts partying well, and I 390 00:16:42,160 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 3: bartended on South Beach. So just you said your life 391 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:47,240 Speaker 3: couldn't be of yachts, and I mean wait, because to me, 392 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:49,920 Speaker 3: I was like, there's more out there and I can't 393 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 3: keeping two honestly in my life. 394 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 4: That's how hard she was party. 395 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 3: Oh, I was party and heart and then also at 396 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 3: the time, it's just like I lived in Miami, so 397 00:16:57,840 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 3: I felt like I would never be taken serious. 398 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:03,120 Speaker 4: Woman was hanging out with Pitbull. I was hanging out. 399 00:17:04,320 --> 00:17:04,960 Speaker 4: I was hanging out. 400 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:08,280 Speaker 3: Everybody can think of Wade and everything. Everybody okay, and. 401 00:17:08,240 --> 00:17:10,400 Speaker 4: This is when everybody, like all of the celebrities lose 402 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:14,160 Speaker 4: in Miami. So like up through Star Island, Girl, Star Island. 403 00:17:14,520 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 4: On the weekends, I remember going. 404 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:17,960 Speaker 7: We had a spades party at Trey Song's house and 405 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 7: I played against Trey and and fabulous. 406 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 3: Like Sean Kingston was there. I lost is because we 407 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:26,399 Speaker 3: hadn't seen him. 408 00:17:26,440 --> 00:17:27,439 Speaker 4: I don't know where he is. 409 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:30,119 Speaker 7: He disappeared off the face of the Yeah, but at 410 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:31,880 Speaker 7: this time everyone lived in Miami, so it was cool, 411 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:32,320 Speaker 7: but it was. 412 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:34,760 Speaker 4: Just like fast. It was always party. This is like 413 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:35,800 Speaker 4: Prime Live. 414 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:39,679 Speaker 7: Anyways, ended up again not working at a job, losing 415 00:17:39,680 --> 00:17:40,640 Speaker 7: that with some. 416 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:46,800 Speaker 3: Beef and and the condo that I was in at 417 00:17:46,800 --> 00:17:50,600 Speaker 3: the time, the owners his partner lost his job, so 418 00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:52,560 Speaker 3: they came in and was like, hey, like, we. 419 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 7: Would like to move back into our spot. Is there 420 00:17:54,359 --> 00:17:56,040 Speaker 7: any way we can negotiate y'all moving out? So I 421 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 7: was like, damn, I gotta find a job and a place. 422 00:17:58,080 --> 00:18:01,199 Speaker 7: May as well do it in another city. So you 423 00:18:01,240 --> 00:18:04,080 Speaker 7: packed the Hyundai Sonata. So no Mahna Sonata. 424 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:04,800 Speaker 4: That was ye. 425 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:07,200 Speaker 3: While I was in Miami, it hit two hundred and 426 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:08,880 Speaker 3: twenty thousand miles and said bases. 427 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:12,000 Speaker 7: I gave y'all I could give it, okay, it was trucking. 428 00:18:12,080 --> 00:18:14,560 Speaker 7: I wore it off to the last drop. So moved 429 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 7: to New York. A friend of mine who worked at 430 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:19,399 Speaker 7: the club with me moved up here two months prior 431 00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:21,119 Speaker 7: and was like, I got a couch for you, but 432 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 7: there's mad money up here. 433 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:25,000 Speaker 4: Use your resources. I know, you know mad people. So 434 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:26,200 Speaker 4: I literally hopped on Twitter. 435 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:28,360 Speaker 7: I used good old Twitter, and was like, hey, guys, 436 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:30,760 Speaker 7: I'm moving to New York. And before that time, I 437 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:34,560 Speaker 7: had a sports blog rocking. I had done the modeling 438 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:37,120 Speaker 7: scene as well, so I've done straight sont in Don diva, 439 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:37,880 Speaker 7: A lot of magazines. 440 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 4: Bitch. 441 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:45,440 Speaker 3: I was in DONI You Are TVTA waita wait, don't 442 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:48,840 Speaker 3: do it. I was in Don Dio Sticky Pages, bit 443 00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:52,600 Speaker 3: Black Men's magazine magazine. 444 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 7: Since I did, you know, I didn't get up there. 445 00:18:54,200 --> 00:18:56,320 Speaker 7: I tell Sean to this day, whenever he brings it back, 446 00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:57,400 Speaker 7: I need to be on the cup. 447 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:01,320 Speaker 4: I see that for you. Yeah, But anyways, so I 448 00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:01,720 Speaker 4: did this. 449 00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 3: I did probably three issues yeah, of Straight Sun, which 450 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:07,560 Speaker 3: my ex at the time hated it because he's like 451 00:19:07,600 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 3: my niggas and jail jack off to you and it's 452 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 3: like the community, you know. 453 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:15,320 Speaker 4: Anyways, So I moved up here. This magazine looks so 454 00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:16,000 Speaker 4: get up. 455 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:25,200 Speaker 3: The original the original Bible, the original Street. 456 00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:28,600 Speaker 4: Jo It's about the street gossip. Don't you g. 457 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:35,760 Speaker 3: Unit cover asap, Rocky Eve, Kwame Kilpatrick, fabulous, blood and 458 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:37,440 Speaker 3: blood Out, Blood and blood Out. 459 00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:41,119 Speaker 4: Find your cover. I'm looking, I'm looking. 460 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:48,959 Speaker 3: But anyways, yes, the hood exactly moved up here, and 461 00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:51,760 Speaker 3: I gotta find it. It's definitely in Google image. 462 00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:56,399 Speaker 7: But anyways, So moved up here, went to real estate school, 463 00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 7: got into temp agencies, and was bartending. 464 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 4: So again started my hustle on her word time Jamaican, 465 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:05,679 Speaker 4: so like you should lead with that. Oh yeah, okay 466 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:08,199 Speaker 4: for the listeners, I couldn't see. I couldn't figure out 467 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:10,399 Speaker 4: what the fuck you want Jamaican and white. I did 468 00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:12,760 Speaker 4: not know. Yeah, well now we know. Yeah, I thought 469 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:18,040 Speaker 4: that you were blocked. Is spunished that people, No Jamaican. 470 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 4: Your dad Jamaica. 471 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:21,399 Speaker 7: My daddy is here on a green like he has 472 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:23,720 Speaker 7: a green card, Like he's from moved to New York 473 00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:25,879 Speaker 7: at the age of thirteen, but he's from born and 474 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:26,600 Speaker 7: raised in Jamaica. 475 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:31,160 Speaker 4: Your dad is twenty one savage almost basically. Yeah. 476 00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:33,480 Speaker 7: So yeah, moved up here and then just started working, 477 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:37,160 Speaker 7: started grinding it out. Eventually, after bartending for seven years, 478 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:39,159 Speaker 7: was like, Okay, this ain't my life. So I decided 479 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:40,639 Speaker 7: to get back into school because I was like a 480 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:42,640 Speaker 7: bit just too smart to be sitting here only being 481 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:44,960 Speaker 7: having receptionist. 482 00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:45,800 Speaker 4: Gigs and how old are you? 483 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:48,440 Speaker 7: I'm at this point, I'm twenty four. Okay, at this point, 484 00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:50,400 Speaker 7: I'm twenty four. Good time a relation. 485 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:51,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, So I. 486 00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:54,879 Speaker 7: Got back into I put myself through school, got in school, 487 00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:58,720 Speaker 7: said I'm going to do business. So immediately was like, okay, business, 488 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:00,920 Speaker 7: but let me not just get a basic business degree, 489 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:04,919 Speaker 7: let me specialize it, and decided to do accounting. So 490 00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 7: for four years I was just like, I'm about to be. 491 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:10,040 Speaker 4: A c p A. I'm on accounting firm. Okay. I 492 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:13,040 Speaker 4: ended up getting into taxes. Honey, can you do mine? 493 00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:17,920 Speaker 4: Tax I did not. I did not renew my pizzin. 494 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:21,479 Speaker 4: I am no longer doing on the side. You can 495 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:27,119 Speaker 4: still read the question making I absolutely cannot. But you 496 00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:30,880 Speaker 4: have white says you have white color crime as well. 497 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:33,919 Speaker 4: I cannot stand the both of you. But no. 498 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 7: So basically, even within school, I decided that I'm going 499 00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:40,280 Speaker 7: to do everything to the highest like level. 500 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:42,720 Speaker 4: So while in school, I started at H and R Block. 501 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 7: After that ended up even interviewing with the Obama administration 502 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:49,760 Speaker 7: that didn't go through. But instead of that, I ended 503 00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:52,280 Speaker 7: up working at Goldman Sachs for my last two years. 504 00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:55,320 Speaker 4: You're the reason the recession happened. I cannot stand here, 505 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,640 Speaker 4: but no, I believe that. Yeah, I ended up working 506 00:21:58,680 --> 00:21:59,600 Speaker 4: for Goldman Sacks. 507 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:02,080 Speaker 3: When you and then when you had all these jobs 508 00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:04,119 Speaker 3: and you lived in all these places where you dating 509 00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:09,520 Speaker 3: people in all it like obviously you have my homes, yes, okay, yes, 510 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 3: So I was like, give me something I mean they 511 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:14,160 Speaker 3: would help me with like my summer classes. 512 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:16,919 Speaker 7: So summer school came out of pocket. They helped with that. 513 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 7: I was living off of financial aid for a time. 514 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:21,480 Speaker 7: And then because I was only part time with Goldman, 515 00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:24,720 Speaker 7: I was only making twenty an hour, which you know. 516 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:27,000 Speaker 4: That was good at the time, you know, it was cool. 517 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:29,639 Speaker 7: That was good, It was cool. And then yeah, so 518 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:32,200 Speaker 7: I did get help because New York is not cheap. 519 00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:35,440 Speaker 7: It strusted me out here. It dos to me out 520 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 7: and so yeah, and then here goes horrible decisions came 521 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:42,160 Speaker 7: about my last year in college. Thought it was going 522 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 7: to be a hobby, not gonna lie. I'd even let 523 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:46,920 Speaker 7: my co hosts know, like we'll see what can come 524 00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:47,199 Speaker 7: of this. 525 00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:48,680 Speaker 4: But I'm about to be a CPA. 526 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:50,560 Speaker 7: I don't know what my schedule was going to be 527 00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:52,600 Speaker 7: when I start my career, Like what I was doing 528 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 7: wasn't going to be a job. This is where I 529 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:56,080 Speaker 7: thought I was going to be for the next twenty years. 530 00:22:56,720 --> 00:23:02,240 Speaker 7: And with a year of working, I left Earth and Young, 531 00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:05,719 Speaker 7: which is the top four accounting firm, and now I'm 532 00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:06,680 Speaker 7: a full time podcaster. 533 00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:12,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love I love that story for you, but I. 534 00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 3: Want to take a step back. Yeah, I said a 535 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:15,560 Speaker 3: lot of things. I did a lot of things, but 536 00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 3: I came in with my questions. So your name on 537 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:21,800 Speaker 3: Twitter is Peg. Yes, we need to get to this now, 538 00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:24,560 Speaker 3: so Peg the Stallion talk to us about this. When's 539 00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:28,160 Speaker 3: the first time you peg somebody? What was I twenty two, 540 00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:31,920 Speaker 3: twenty three? I was fairly young. Yeah that was the first. 541 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 3: So how old was he? 542 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 4: About my age or maybe a year younger? 543 00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:40,560 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, so we'll still okay, this is not a 544 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:45,440 Speaker 3: weird thing. Yeah, so imagine I thought you was picking 545 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:46,160 Speaker 3: some old dude. 546 00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, that was like, so that's the thing. 547 00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:51,400 Speaker 3: Even if we talk about my hoes, I like to say, 548 00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:54,359 Speaker 3: or like my lovers, like the men who financially have 549 00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 3: helped me throughout the years. 550 00:23:57,119 --> 00:23:59,040 Speaker 4: Lover lovers. 551 00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:03,679 Speaker 7: None of them, I think one may have just reached forty. 552 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:06,360 Speaker 7: I don't really like none of them have even really 553 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:08,480 Speaker 7: been over forty years old. And I've met them. They've 554 00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:13,120 Speaker 7: been anywhere from thirty one on us. But yeah, so 555 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,560 Speaker 7: the first time I packed someone, it was something. We 556 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:19,080 Speaker 7: talked about it for a while a while before it. 557 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:23,200 Speaker 4: Be sim simmon, you know who got to keep y? Yeah? 558 00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:25,480 Speaker 4: Who got the key? Boot boodh hole. 559 00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:29,479 Speaker 3: I had the keys. By the way we did, we 560 00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:31,400 Speaker 3: talked on like how much he thought he could. 561 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,080 Speaker 4: Take, like all of these things. You have to go 562 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:34,520 Speaker 4: out and pick the thing out together. 563 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:38,600 Speaker 3: I brought it, which I brought it with, so he 564 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:42,040 Speaker 3: flew me out to do it. You got moved out 565 00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 3: to pack. That's another level, is it? 566 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 4: Girl? The first time you see somebody he was flewed out. 567 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:47,879 Speaker 4: I was. 568 00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,119 Speaker 7: I was not even about to do it, I know, 569 00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:51,399 Speaker 7: so I was flewd out to do it. But we 570 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:54,000 Speaker 7: had already had sex. And then this is something where 571 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:56,600 Speaker 7: just along the years we talked about how. 572 00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:00,720 Speaker 4: Our minds had grown sexually. Was this man white or black? 573 00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:01,320 Speaker 4: He was black. 574 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:03,080 Speaker 7: I've never been with a white man in my life. 575 00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:05,440 Speaker 7: I've never seen a white penis all. 576 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:05,679 Speaker 8: Right, and. 577 00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:13,320 Speaker 3: I'm pull your dick out for the guests bross the 578 00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:17,880 Speaker 3: line related Sydney stopped me to win our producer. 579 00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:25,320 Speaker 4: Andrew Andrew just d m s he was. He was, yeah, 580 00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:28,080 Speaker 4: well it's pinks, that's what you need. 581 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:30,800 Speaker 7: I don't, and I'm cool on that. Although I do 582 00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:32,879 Speaker 7: get tricked on foreign from time to time. It'll be 583 00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:35,080 Speaker 7: ten and then I'm like, oh, it's connected to a 584 00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:37,720 Speaker 7: white man, all right, let me just not watch this anymore. 585 00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:43,280 Speaker 4: Let me shut the laptop, let me just black because 586 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:47,560 Speaker 4: you know. But no, so he was black, six eleven. 587 00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 4: You see me, You're like. 588 00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:52,960 Speaker 3: I'm eleven basket he was. 589 00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:57,159 Speaker 7: It was although I did hear he's into that. I 590 00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,639 Speaker 7: did hear they also have like little group parties too. 591 00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:02,160 Speaker 7: When I to Miami, it was it was the tea 592 00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:02,640 Speaker 7: going around. 593 00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:05,760 Speaker 4: Come call me. I would definitely fuck them both. So 594 00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:07,920 Speaker 4: what's that to both? Let's talk about it. Hey, Gamy, 595 00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:08,760 Speaker 4: what's the call? 596 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:13,639 Speaker 7: But yeah, no it wasn't him. But yeah, so we waited. 597 00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:15,960 Speaker 7: I'll toller you I am five foot one. 598 00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:19,040 Speaker 4: And he's six. It was hard like actually even I 599 00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:19,360 Speaker 4: had to. 600 00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:21,960 Speaker 7: Say I had to get a louder froggy style, like 601 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:23,960 Speaker 7: I had to stand up and then put my dick in. 602 00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:26,280 Speaker 7: I'm like because he wanted it from the back first. 603 00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:27,720 Speaker 7: And then when we did the lay down part, I 604 00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:29,360 Speaker 7: just put him on a pillow that he just put his. 605 00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:35,520 Speaker 4: Legs had long ass long. Yes, I don't nigga. 606 00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:37,960 Speaker 7: The nigga, the and this is the third person I 607 00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:39,320 Speaker 7: packed the video I'm about to show you. 608 00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:42,240 Speaker 4: But even with him, he is sick, sick, let me, 609 00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:47,280 Speaker 4: let me, let me so, yeah, can we see the face? No? Right? 610 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:48,880 Speaker 4: Because no? Yeah? 611 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,800 Speaker 3: That and then it gets uh talking about Sydney. 612 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:58,240 Speaker 4: It's a podcast to face the video that I'm actually 613 00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:00,960 Speaker 4: gonna show you just told you to pull. 614 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:05,880 Speaker 3: His dick out the face. Well this video that you guys, 615 00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:07,720 Speaker 3: you can't see his face in it, So. 616 00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:09,800 Speaker 4: Okay, that's the video I want to I want to 617 00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:12,760 Speaker 4: see his face. I'll show you guys outside, I can 618 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:16,439 Speaker 4: show you. Not here we go. Then he leave his 619 00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:19,800 Speaker 4: sneakers on while you were pegging him. There's me pegging. 620 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:21,080 Speaker 5: Oh my. 621 00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:27,560 Speaker 4: Wait god? 622 00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:40,960 Speaker 9: And is like show me another video? 623 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:47,879 Speaker 4: That is and he's with you recording him? Yeah, I 624 00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:48,800 Speaker 4: said let him. 625 00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:51,520 Speaker 3: It's nice. Let me see the tattoo. So if in 626 00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:54,040 Speaker 3: case I bothered to him, I know I could be 627 00:27:54,160 --> 00:28:01,119 Speaker 3: like what So yeah, he allowed me to record it. 628 00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:04,200 Speaker 7: The other people I've been with have not, but one 629 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 7: of them did say the next time we go about 630 00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:06,960 Speaker 7: I could. 631 00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:09,199 Speaker 4: I mean, what do you wear to what do you 632 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:11,800 Speaker 4: someone's flying you out to peg them? What would you packing? 633 00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,320 Speaker 4: What are you wearing? Just like this today airport, you 634 00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:20,080 Speaker 4: wearing a wedge? How what's a proper pegging shoe? 635 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:22,679 Speaker 7: So I'm not wearing shoes while this like this is 636 00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:26,359 Speaker 7: me just what my harness and normally, like I said, 637 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:28,159 Speaker 7: it does have to be discussed because I'm not just 638 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:31,200 Speaker 7: coming in the door with my harness on. So within 639 00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:33,639 Speaker 7: us having sex, there is a time where it kind 640 00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:35,280 Speaker 7: of gets awkward because I have to go and get 641 00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:35,720 Speaker 7: my strap. 642 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,680 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, so. 643 00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, if you're it's awkward because it's just kind of 644 00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:44,600 Speaker 7: like a freeze moment in the session where it's just like, Okay, 645 00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:45,560 Speaker 7: let me go get my tool. 646 00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:49,040 Speaker 4: I'll be right back and you'll get my belt. Don't 647 00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:50,200 Speaker 4: have second thoughts, hold on this. 648 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 7: It's only gonna take for thirty two seconds. But yeah, again, 649 00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:58,000 Speaker 7: it's something that I've dealt with, Like I'm kind of 650 00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:01,120 Speaker 7: just free, like open with even conversation about sex, clearly, 651 00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:04,200 Speaker 7: but you should be. So even with my partners, they 652 00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,040 Speaker 7: know there's no exposing going on. 653 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 4: I don't look at them any different if I do this. 654 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:11,800 Speaker 7: I know there's a lot of conversations to if I 655 00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:15,160 Speaker 7: view a man differently after I do the acts of pegging, 656 00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:17,800 Speaker 7: and in reality, I don't. It's something that I enjoy 657 00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:20,320 Speaker 7: as well, So to feel like I would be exposing 658 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 7: someone from something that they enjoy and something that I 659 00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:25,160 Speaker 7: participated in is just wild. It's kind of like it 660 00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:29,400 Speaker 7: makes me think of fucking Nikki talking about Meek's manbody 661 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:32,200 Speaker 7: or black thereof of you know how he looks. 662 00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:34,040 Speaker 4: But baby girl, you were claiming this man. You were 663 00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:35,760 Speaker 4: sleeping with him, you were playing for him. 664 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,120 Speaker 3: You know. It's the same way you know when girl, 665 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:40,880 Speaker 3: if a girl wants to go and say a nigga 666 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:42,960 Speaker 3: dirty after he dated him, well, baby girl, you were 667 00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:45,920 Speaker 3: looking at them balls. What is dirty ass? So it's 668 00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:50,480 Speaker 3: something to where I think sexual I hated you talked 669 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:55,360 Speaker 3: about any of your exes well shading you. I don't 670 00:29:55,400 --> 00:30:00,200 Speaker 3: call anybody dusty. 671 00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:00,000 Speaker 7: But you can't call him dusty if you was late 672 00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 7: up boot up with them too. Okay, you know you're 673 00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:06,200 Speaker 7: fucking a dirty nigga. 674 00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:08,800 Speaker 4: Baby girl, you're dirty too. Yes, I was going through it. 675 00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:11,160 Speaker 7: And it's funny too, because I think a lot of 676 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:15,320 Speaker 7: one of the number one questions is like, well, damn 677 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:18,520 Speaker 7: you you're okay with eating and playing in a straight 678 00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,760 Speaker 7: man's ass, like they're not as clean as game man. 679 00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:24,800 Speaker 7: But to even question the cleanliness of straight men is 680 00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:25,560 Speaker 7: just like big. 681 00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:28,240 Speaker 3: Girls, who are you having sex with I'm not putting 682 00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:29,280 Speaker 3: my tongue in nobody's ass. 683 00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:34,840 Speaker 2: Sorry, yeah, I mean I've. 684 00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:34,320 Speaker 3: Never done it, but I've done it. I will let 685 00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:36,640 Speaker 3: you put your tongue in my butt, but and I 686 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 3: know my butt. 687 00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:39,080 Speaker 4: Sometimes, you know, sometimes you bad. 688 00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,400 Speaker 3: I'm waiting for the day I get sick because I 689 00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:43,120 Speaker 3: had a threesome and I ate the ass of the 690 00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:44,000 Speaker 3: girl and the nigga. 691 00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:48,200 Speaker 4: Did you know them? Yeah, I had sex with uh 692 00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:51,320 Speaker 4: not tequila was. 693 00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:53,400 Speaker 5: Question? 694 00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:56,200 Speaker 4: No, but tequila was. 695 00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:58,720 Speaker 3: So why are you saying you you you're waiting to 696 00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:00,360 Speaker 3: get sick because they was definitely. 697 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:01,240 Speaker 4: But no, no, no, they weren't dirty. 698 00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:03,080 Speaker 3: But I'm just like, I probably shouldn't just be eating 699 00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:04,520 Speaker 3: too assholes back to back. 700 00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:06,840 Speaker 4: There's and I don't use dental dams, never did in my. 701 00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,600 Speaker 3: Life, And well, I don't even know what a dental 702 00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:10,160 Speaker 3: damn looks. 703 00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:12,400 Speaker 4: Honestly, it's a question that I have to a lot 704 00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:12,960 Speaker 4: of lesbians. 705 00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:14,520 Speaker 7: And I don't know if we have the conversation with you, 706 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:18,320 Speaker 7: but every time we've had a lesbian on our show, 707 00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:21,200 Speaker 7: it's like, well, I'm on a woman, so no, I 708 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:22,960 Speaker 7: don't really ask for the results. No, I don't use 709 00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:26,040 Speaker 7: a condom. No, like there's never the concern of the 710 00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:28,280 Speaker 7: exchange of fluids with women. But like, we got to 711 00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,280 Speaker 7: be so concerned with the exchange of fluids with men. 712 00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:32,000 Speaker 4: Like because they are the carriers of. 713 00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:37,120 Speaker 3: But if women, you know women, if a woman is 714 00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:39,680 Speaker 3: having sex with a dude and then she's having sex 715 00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:41,840 Speaker 3: with a woman, can transfer. 716 00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,080 Speaker 4: Which is what a lot of people are doing out here. 717 00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:50,840 Speaker 3: Okay, and it's one of those Is that which came first? 718 00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:55,000 Speaker 3: They both probably Jada and which what's they'll probably both 719 00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:55,880 Speaker 3: let you bang them. 720 00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:02,360 Speaker 4: Ja Jada might she might want to you. Yeah, that 721 00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:10,200 Speaker 4: show girl girl. You feeling? How old is Willow? Whoa? Whoa? 722 00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:13,960 Speaker 3: Okay, so we went from we went from me too 723 00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:18,160 Speaker 3: and Andrew to becoming an attorney for this nigga pig to. 724 00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:23,960 Speaker 4: Catch a predator. Hold on, well, she's really not. 725 00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:29,080 Speaker 3: You might need to wow if she Jayden, I feel 726 00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:30,600 Speaker 3: like Jayden is like, Jayden. 727 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:32,040 Speaker 6: Is not eighteen at this point. 728 00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:34,320 Speaker 4: She got to be grown now, she gotta be you 729 00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:41,520 Speaker 4: hoping you praying fingers across. She's nineteen, you need to 730 00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:43,720 Speaker 4: be twenty one and over. Oh no, I'll deal with 731 00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:47,600 Speaker 4: some eighteen No never, I know I'm not eighteen year old. 732 00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:49,800 Speaker 4: Nick he's give me, he's. 733 00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,040 Speaker 3: Yeastection, he's going to give you the round. No, I 734 00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:57,320 Speaker 3: don't need them like rounds. I need I need rounds 735 00:32:57,320 --> 00:33:00,080 Speaker 3: of break rounds like around a break around. 736 00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:03,440 Speaker 4: A honestly, the break times in the night. 737 00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:06,960 Speaker 3: Break okay, and then we'll start again. Okay, IM down 738 00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:08,520 Speaker 3: with you said ten times in the night. Yeah, I 739 00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:09,280 Speaker 3: talked about on the show. 740 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:10,960 Speaker 7: So one of the my lovers that I had that 741 00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:15,239 Speaker 7: I pegged, we ended up for ten rounds. No, not 742 00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:18,400 Speaker 7: for all ten rounds, maybe only like two of the test, just. 743 00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:23,600 Speaker 3: Two of the ten to two rounds getting pegged me 744 00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:28,360 Speaker 3: if you tried. Okay, so when when what time do 745 00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:28,920 Speaker 3: y'all start? 746 00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:30,200 Speaker 4: What time do we start? 747 00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:32,040 Speaker 3: Well, you said you went ten rounds, so you started 748 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:33,680 Speaker 3: with six pm after work? 749 00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:35,720 Speaker 4: Okay, so then you got a full night's sleep. No, 750 00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:38,280 Speaker 4: no we didn't because we ended up at the sex 751 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:42,240 Speaker 4: club that night. So we sex club. It's here in 752 00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:45,600 Speaker 4: fab next time, it's here in New York. Do you 753 00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:46,000 Speaker 4: want to go? 754 00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:50,920 Speaker 7: Oh yes, we want to go for research purposes. I 755 00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:53,160 Speaker 7: talk about it on my show, and I'm sure we 756 00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:54,160 Speaker 7: have a little different audience. 757 00:33:54,200 --> 00:34:00,560 Speaker 4: So it's called caligula. It's increding see write it down 758 00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:07,160 Speaker 4: sounds like arugula, but caligula calligraphy. 759 00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:09,680 Speaker 7: And so we ended up going there, so technically he 760 00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:12,040 Speaker 7: actually went like eleven or twelve rounds in one night, 761 00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:14,600 Speaker 7: because he did end up fucking another girl in there. 762 00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:16,880 Speaker 4: And you like watching the people you sleep with sleeping 763 00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:17,719 Speaker 4: with other people. 764 00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:20,400 Speaker 7: When I'm there, I don't mind something like the I 765 00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:22,400 Speaker 7: like massive dicks, so I'm not gonna lie. I like 766 00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:25,200 Speaker 7: a break sometimes because it hurts, like I've been doing 767 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:25,680 Speaker 7: a lot here. 768 00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:28,960 Speaker 3: Please take give me a break, queen. Yeah, give me 769 00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:30,759 Speaker 3: a break. Yeah, time out, time in. 770 00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:33,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, like I'm on base. This wall is bab I 771 00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:37,040 Speaker 4: need to I need to let it, say for its 772 00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:39,880 Speaker 4: falling right now, let it get back down. It'd be 773 00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:41,120 Speaker 4: like throbbing. You need to let it. 774 00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:44,680 Speaker 7: Yeah, So I don't I don't mind a partner coming 775 00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:47,040 Speaker 7: in and us having fun together, like it doesn't bother me. 776 00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:49,360 Speaker 3: But yeah, so we ended up at the sex club, 777 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:54,279 Speaker 3: so it's a byob. We were on tequila. You bring 778 00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:57,520 Speaker 3: your oh you do bring your own, bitch, because if 779 00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:58,320 Speaker 3: you're a male. 780 00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:00,960 Speaker 7: There's only one night a week they allow single men, 781 00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:04,080 Speaker 7: so you do have to go with a couple. Yeah, 782 00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:05,399 Speaker 7: you have to go with a couple. They do allow 783 00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:09,800 Speaker 7: single women. However, it's a safe we need. So we 784 00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:11,920 Speaker 7: ended up there. It was a little slow in the beginning. 785 00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:14,640 Speaker 7: We got there quite early, so we just drank early, 786 00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:18,319 Speaker 7: like twelve thirty one, that's early. So people arrive at 787 00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:20,879 Speaker 7: three o'clock. No, they between one thirty and two. 788 00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:25,200 Speaker 4: Where's peak peak is where that's where peak penis. People 789 00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:27,480 Speaker 4: don't have been drinking. They didn't eate already. And now 790 00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:29,479 Speaker 4: after you eat when you go into a sex club, 791 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,040 Speaker 4: because but I ain't never touch that food. I didn't 792 00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:32,480 Speaker 4: even go home. 793 00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:39,400 Speaker 3: Listen, man eats ass at the sex purchases. 794 00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:42,279 Speaker 7: So yeah, so we started there. The way it's set up, 795 00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:45,440 Speaker 7: it's like open, like a regular dance floor. Downstairs, you 796 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,319 Speaker 7: have a bar. I brought my friends one time and 797 00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:49,719 Speaker 7: literally they were in shot because a girl was just 798 00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:51,080 Speaker 7: giving head literally at the bar. 799 00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:53,440 Speaker 4: Anyways, your name goes on your bottle. 800 00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:55,520 Speaker 7: You have a bartender. She does she does the mixes 801 00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:58,640 Speaker 7: all night for you. You tip her like accordingly and 802 00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:00,000 Speaker 7: then so you can go upstairs. 803 00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:02,760 Speaker 3: How much you gotta tip like my titty out, Actually 804 00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:05,239 Speaker 3: you should be tipping me, I mean just. 805 00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:06,840 Speaker 4: Because she's making your drinks. 806 00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:09,440 Speaker 7: Cool, that's a bad drinks. Well, no, you can't have 807 00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:11,480 Speaker 7: your bottle. You have to drop your bottle behind the bar. 808 00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:14,400 Speaker 7: You can't walk around with just a bottle. Also, it's glass, 809 00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:16,680 Speaker 7: so they don't want glass around, so it is plastic. 810 00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:19,359 Speaker 7: There's people naked, right, we talked about this barefootage. 811 00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:21,600 Speaker 3: Do you check your clothes when you get there or 812 00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:23,080 Speaker 3: do they let you keep your clothes on? 813 00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:26,799 Speaker 7: So you can keep your clothes on downstairs but upstairs? 814 00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:28,920 Speaker 7: Actually no, now that I think about it, you don't 815 00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,520 Speaker 7: have to unrobe in any of the rooms at this 816 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:32,560 Speaker 7: particular club. 817 00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:33,640 Speaker 4: I know there are some clubs. 818 00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:35,480 Speaker 7: If you go to Trapeze in Atlanta, once you go 819 00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:37,879 Speaker 7: past a certain point, you have to unrope. The same 820 00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:39,920 Speaker 7: a hedonism, there's a nude part hedonism. 821 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:45,320 Speaker 4: It's in Jamaica. Y, Jamaica. Should we go to that marine? 822 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:49,960 Speaker 4: You'll have yeah? Have this? I feel like, yeah, have to. 823 00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:51,919 Speaker 4: I'm gonna start doing my kegels right now. 824 00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:55,600 Speaker 7: It's a whole fucking movie. But yeah, you go in there. 825 00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:59,040 Speaker 7: There's there are private rooms. There's also a shower. Then 826 00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,239 Speaker 7: you have a room where anyone can watch, and then 827 00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:02,920 Speaker 7: you have a room in the back where only couples 828 00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:03,440 Speaker 7: are allowed. 829 00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,040 Speaker 4: And again, so like this sounds like it. 830 00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:10,120 Speaker 3: I need to leave my head shaved at least through 831 00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:12,200 Speaker 3: the sex party and then I can start growing my 832 00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:15,279 Speaker 3: hair back. Now, okay, I'm going I'm going short. I'm 833 00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:17,399 Speaker 3: cutting all this off after I take this, and I'll 834 00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:18,040 Speaker 3: have a little season. 835 00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:18,799 Speaker 4: Yeah. 836 00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:20,920 Speaker 7: Well, I'm gonna start a little shorter and then go 837 00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:22,880 Speaker 7: shorter as as I go on. 838 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:25,600 Speaker 3: You're trying to end at like Amber Roads. Maybe not 839 00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:27,440 Speaker 3: all the way amber Ros, but I want to go. 840 00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:29,520 Speaker 7: Blonde, and I know blonde is going to take phases 841 00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:31,480 Speaker 7: for her until I get as light as I want 842 00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:31,640 Speaker 7: to know? 843 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,360 Speaker 4: Have you ever bleached her hair? But my hair is black? 844 00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:37,680 Speaker 3: And we did it twice, double process, Yeah, and it 845 00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:39,480 Speaker 3: was it got we got it so light the first 846 00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:41,880 Speaker 3: time that the dude was like, oh okay. And then 847 00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:43,520 Speaker 3: this last time I bleached it myself and I only 848 00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:44,560 Speaker 3: beach it bleached it once. 849 00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:44,879 Speaker 8: Yeah. 850 00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:47,120 Speaker 7: Well right now, I mean, I don't even know if this. 851 00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:50,120 Speaker 7: Hopefully it brings new niggas about because I have no one. 852 00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:53,400 Speaker 4: Size. I am is not cutting it for niggas. 853 00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:54,920 Speaker 7: I was getting way more niggas when I was a 854 00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:57,920 Speaker 7: big bitch, so I'm just like, Okay, let me just 855 00:37:57,920 --> 00:37:58,560 Speaker 7: cut off my hair. 856 00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:02,280 Speaker 4: Maybe I'll get a new you know what about women? 857 00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:06,040 Speaker 7: So honestly, I fuck my friends. I don't really go 858 00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:08,400 Speaker 7: out and I'm not taking a bitch on a Yeah. 859 00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:09,480 Speaker 4: Let's talk about this. 860 00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:11,520 Speaker 2: I mean, because I am a friend and I told 861 00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:13,840 Speaker 2: you about your nails, So do you want to go 862 00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:14,840 Speaker 2: to the sex party with me? 863 00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:20,440 Speaker 4: Put these in booty holes? And all? I could not. 864 00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:21,560 Speaker 4: But so that's the problem. 865 00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:24,480 Speaker 7: I got to tell my so not with the rhinestones, 866 00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:26,680 Speaker 7: So like most recently, I had to use my ring 867 00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:28,000 Speaker 7: finger and I was like, this isn't working. So the 868 00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:29,319 Speaker 7: next time I go to my nail tech, I got 869 00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:30,920 Speaker 7: to tell her to keep the ryinstones off my index 870 00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:32,680 Speaker 7: finger because that's the one I go. 871 00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:36,440 Speaker 4: That's but like when it comes to women, I have 872 00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:40,160 Speaker 4: a problem dating them, like because you don't want to 873 00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,880 Speaker 4: spend no money. I'm not used to the men do. 874 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:46,040 Speaker 7: But I'm also very aggressive and so I do come 875 00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:48,400 Speaker 7: off maybe more with the masculine, so why don't you 876 00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:51,440 Speaker 7: get a f But then so I'm completely opposite though, 877 00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:56,000 Speaker 7: like I like to dominate men, but with women I 878 00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:57,800 Speaker 7: would like them to be more in control. 879 00:38:57,840 --> 00:38:59,000 Speaker 4: But I also don't like hen. 880 00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:07,239 Speaker 2: You's why what's cool from either people. 881 00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:08,640 Speaker 3: If you want to do it, because it turns you on, 882 00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:10,120 Speaker 3: but it doesn't really do much for me. I don't 883 00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:12,320 Speaker 3: do nothing, so like, even specifically when I'm with women, 884 00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:15,040 Speaker 3: I prefer to just eat them out the whole time. 885 00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:19,839 Speaker 4: Oh far. 886 00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:23,480 Speaker 7: But yeah, So when it comes to women, I think 887 00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:27,040 Speaker 7: my problem more so is just the conversation. Even there 888 00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,520 Speaker 7: was a friend of mine and we were talking and 889 00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:31,399 Speaker 7: she came over, got all the way naked in my bed, 890 00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:34,239 Speaker 7: and then it was like, I feel like, you know, 891 00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:36,520 Speaker 7: you just want me for sex, so maybe we should 892 00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:37,400 Speaker 7: go to the movies tomorrow. 893 00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:38,839 Speaker 4: I just got turned off. I was just like, you're 894 00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:41,279 Speaker 4: already my bed naked, Like, so what are we doing? 895 00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:44,200 Speaker 4: Like this is didn't have sex? This is we didn't 896 00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:44,640 Speaker 4: have sex. 897 00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:47,160 Speaker 7: No, because she she wanted more out of me, and 898 00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:49,520 Speaker 7: I guess she felt that it was just gonna be 899 00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:51,879 Speaker 7: fun for me, and she legitimately wanted more. 900 00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:52,839 Speaker 4: She wanted me to. 901 00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:54,480 Speaker 3: Take her out, and I was just like, but it 902 00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:57,120 Speaker 3: would have been fun to her, but it's like, right, 903 00:39:57,400 --> 00:39:58,799 Speaker 3: so I don't want to. 904 00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:02,120 Speaker 7: And my last real relationship was with a woman. It 905 00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:04,000 Speaker 7: was with a woman who allowed me to have sex 906 00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:07,319 Speaker 7: with one partner, one male, but me and her were 907 00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:10,160 Speaker 7: together when I was in Miami. But just yeah, since then, 908 00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:12,520 Speaker 7: I just I have fun with women, but I don't 909 00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,239 Speaker 7: see myself being with so I'm not gonna I'm not 910 00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:16,080 Speaker 7: gonna waste so much time. 911 00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:17,239 Speaker 4: I just I just want it for fun. 912 00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:19,319 Speaker 7: But then it's also weird because I say that and 913 00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:21,520 Speaker 7: men automatically assume, well, let's have a threesome. 914 00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:24,440 Speaker 4: I like women by themselves and I like men by themselves. 915 00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:29,760 Speaker 4: I don't, Okay, I'll do it. But we was just talking. 916 00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:34,080 Speaker 7: About you, I know, but it was just like I didn't. 917 00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:37,160 Speaker 7: I didn't get fully fulfilled even in the threesome. 918 00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:38,960 Speaker 4: Get you off? 919 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:42,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, So what really truly gets you off penetration, 920 00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:46,560 Speaker 3: which is not common for most women. They do come off, 921 00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:50,160 Speaker 3: you know, throughteroral stimulation, and I know it's penetration for me, 922 00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:52,200 Speaker 3: So I need all the dick and if I have 923 00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:55,600 Speaker 3: to share it maybe before I'm climaxing. Now you're going 924 00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:57,720 Speaker 3: to please her, And it's just a lot of switching 925 00:40:57,760 --> 00:40:59,880 Speaker 3: to where I can't really get into the motion that 926 00:40:59,920 --> 00:41:02,200 Speaker 3: I need to to come, And then it's just a 927 00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:04,520 Speaker 3: lot more work for me, Like I'm orally. 928 00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:05,920 Speaker 4: Pleasing the two of you. 929 00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:08,880 Speaker 3: It's constant work for me about that life, sis, I mean, 930 00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:10,080 Speaker 3: you're not trying to put in that work. 931 00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:12,399 Speaker 4: It's a lot of work. Work is to work. 932 00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:14,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, So I'd rather, honestly just take two dicks. That 933 00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:18,879 Speaker 7: sounds funner to me. It's finding that with two men 934 00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:25,960 Speaker 7: that I trust that. Yeah, yeah, I like that. Okay, 935 00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:28,480 Speaker 7: have any how are y'all with threesomes or do you? 936 00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:29,279 Speaker 7: Because you guys have? 937 00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:31,879 Speaker 3: Sexuality is different ends of the spectrum, right. 938 00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:45,000 Speaker 4: Yes, I need to go to get or whatever. 939 00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:48,120 Speaker 7: I mean, I would consider myself what is it a 940 00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:51,680 Speaker 7: don't touch me or no touch girl on girl type 941 00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:54,719 Speaker 7: of person, Like I don't I don't need the other 942 00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:56,680 Speaker 7: woman to touch me at all, Like. 943 00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:58,120 Speaker 4: I don't know. So then I'm the opposite of that. 944 00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:04,600 Speaker 7: Well yeah, right like and then yeah, that's fun for me. 945 00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:06,239 Speaker 7: I'm a pleaser at the end of the day. 946 00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:08,000 Speaker 4: That's because it sounds like you don't want to do 947 00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:11,320 Speaker 4: too much to please it. So she doesn't do a lot. 948 00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:15,440 Speaker 4: She jumped on a plane, carry right, but we do 949 00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:17,480 Speaker 4: this like this is our life. 950 00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:20,520 Speaker 7: But to me, but to me, I still anytime I 951 00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:23,240 Speaker 7: have sex now, like I'm almost thirty. Over the last 952 00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:26,239 Speaker 7: ship five years, I would say specifically more so with 953 00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:30,319 Speaker 7: the podcast and us being just more openly audible on 954 00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:32,600 Speaker 7: what we want, like voicing what we want. 955 00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:33,600 Speaker 4: I've been that way. 956 00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:35,600 Speaker 7: So I'm not going to engage in sex unless i 957 00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:37,839 Speaker 7: know I'm going to come, unless i know it's going 958 00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:38,520 Speaker 7: to be fun for me. 959 00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:40,879 Speaker 4: So I'm not engaging in something that I don't want 960 00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:45,120 Speaker 4: to do. That's what sex should be, though, especially after 961 00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:47,520 Speaker 4: a certain age. What we're doing. 962 00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:49,279 Speaker 3: I'm not having sex for you to like me. I'm 963 00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:51,600 Speaker 3: not having sex for a meal. I can feed myself 964 00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:55,839 Speaker 3: having sex because you said let's have sex, like yeah, 965 00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:58,399 Speaker 3: but like if you don't want like and I said 966 00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:01,319 Speaker 3: this to y'all, I went to that duet house and 967 00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:03,120 Speaker 3: I knew I wasn't gonna come, and I was like, well, 968 00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:04,279 Speaker 3: I'm just gonna go home. 969 00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:05,640 Speaker 4: I was like, I told him I had to poop. 970 00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:10,399 Speaker 7: The most recent I had someone come over because so 971 00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:13,239 Speaker 7: I was having casual sex with someone for the last 972 00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:13,759 Speaker 7: seven years. 973 00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:14,600 Speaker 4: No longer fuck him. 974 00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:17,680 Speaker 2: Okay, so seven year how do you fuck somebody for 975 00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:18,640 Speaker 2: seven years? 976 00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:21,440 Speaker 4: A lot to like, how often would you see them? 977 00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:25,000 Speaker 3: Once a week or every couple of weeks. 978 00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:27,560 Speaker 7: It depends, like every mother would be different, but kind 979 00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:29,839 Speaker 7: of weekly on a little thing. 980 00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:32,520 Speaker 4: And if we were both busy, maybe twice a month. 981 00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:35,560 Speaker 7: Yeah, I saw him often, and then every time we 982 00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:39,080 Speaker 7: fucked it was three rounds, like every time that's our number. 983 00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:40,080 Speaker 4: You hit a silence in the room. 984 00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:43,440 Speaker 7: Yeah, But anyway, so I stopped dealing with him. So 985 00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:47,279 Speaker 7: most recently it's been frustrating for me because I now 986 00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:50,239 Speaker 7: don't have that go to dick, that on call, you know. 987 00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:52,040 Speaker 7: And so I had a guy that I met. He 988 00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:53,279 Speaker 7: was a bartender, and I was just like, well, I 989 00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:58,640 Speaker 7: need a replacement, and he came over and I literally 990 00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:00,440 Speaker 7: told him to bounce. It was three o'clock in the morning. 991 00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:02,799 Speaker 7: We were both asked naked, and I was just like, 992 00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:04,240 Speaker 7: this isn't this isn't working. 993 00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:07,920 Speaker 4: You guys started to have sex. It wasn't we started. 994 00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:10,400 Speaker 7: He was very eager to put the condom on, so 995 00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:13,799 Speaker 7: I wasn't ready yet. And then I don't know if 996 00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:16,440 Speaker 7: the condom made him soft, but immediately anytime I make 997 00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:19,480 Speaker 7: a nigga put on a condom, I'm very pro condom. 998 00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:21,640 Speaker 4: Yes, because we're not exclusive. I don't know who you 999 00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:22,239 Speaker 4: fucking raw. 1000 00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:25,640 Speaker 7: I'm not even though I fuck with a condom with 1001 00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:28,600 Speaker 7: all of my lovers, like, I don't know what you're doing. 1002 00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:32,040 Speaker 7: And because I am very open if I'm entertaining someone else, 1003 00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:33,920 Speaker 7: we both know we fucking other people. There's no need 1004 00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:35,320 Speaker 7: for us to think we can trust each other. That 1005 00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:37,080 Speaker 7: just like it just doesn't make sense. 1006 00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:43,239 Speaker 4: Yes, so modern. So anytime I feel like a guy is. 1007 00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:46,359 Speaker 7: Just like, well you good, I'm good, or he goes 1008 00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:48,640 Speaker 7: limp in a condom, I feel like, oh, you're fucking 1009 00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:52,040 Speaker 7: a lot of people, probably unprotected, and so I'm immediately 1010 00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:56,359 Speaker 7: turned off, immediately turned immediately turned off. And I felt 1011 00:44:56,400 --> 00:45:00,920 Speaker 7: like outside of liquor and mean over drinking with the 1012 00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:02,680 Speaker 7: people who I'd be like, oh, let's go at it. 1013 00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:06,799 Speaker 7: I've had, Yeah, probably cursed like three people like that 1014 00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:09,000 Speaker 7: either couldn't stay hard in the condom or we were 1015 00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:10,879 Speaker 7: just so drunk it just didn't work. 1016 00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:14,840 Speaker 4: So yeah, right, kicked them out right now? He left? 1017 00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:17,560 Speaker 7: Yeah, he left. The other guy we just fell asleep together. 1018 00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:19,759 Speaker 7: He was a friend of mine that you know, it 1019 00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:21,480 Speaker 7: just happened, but didn't happen. 1020 00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:22,959 Speaker 4: So he fell asleep. 1021 00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:24,920 Speaker 7: The other guy, Yeah, I kicked him out, which is 1022 00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:26,840 Speaker 7: why I enjoy people coming into my space. 1023 00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:31,560 Speaker 1: You in control, but I just feel like you like 1024 00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:33,399 Speaker 1: to be in someone else's just because I don't want 1025 00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:36,000 Speaker 1: to take the mess to your house and then I 1026 00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:40,600 Speaker 1: go back to my sanctuary, just like because I squirter. 1027 00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:42,600 Speaker 4: Oh you're one to go. 1028 00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:45,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, my friends stayed with me all summer and ruined 1029 00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:46,280 Speaker 3: my mattress money. 1030 00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:47,880 Speaker 4: And she's just like. 1031 00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:52,120 Speaker 3: My man, you know, grow gross gross but like every 1032 00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:54,479 Speaker 3: time you fuck, you squirting bro so much. 1033 00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:55,840 Speaker 4: Oh that makes sense. 1034 00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:57,680 Speaker 3: So for you, you might need to get some sort of 1035 00:45:57,719 --> 00:45:59,000 Speaker 3: Marriout discount of something. 1036 00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:01,120 Speaker 4: All punch cards. 1037 00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:03,239 Speaker 3: I mean, bitch, I'm a sister on someone's account, so 1038 00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:04,000 Speaker 3: I get discounts. 1039 00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:08,040 Speaker 4: Okable decision. You don't have to hook up. You got 1040 00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,080 Speaker 4: a coupon code. Hell no, I wish they need to 1041 00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:15,520 Speaker 4: go ahead and smash the bitch. We'll be talking about hotel. 1042 00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:18,479 Speaker 4: I love it. I love it. But yeah, so yeah, 1043 00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:21,160 Speaker 4: you're messy, I understand you. Wait, so your friend was 1044 00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:24,400 Speaker 4: having sex in your mattress. So I have two bedrooms, 1045 00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:30,719 Speaker 4: and so I let her stay friends she bangs some 1046 00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:31,320 Speaker 4: of her friends. 1047 00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:34,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I let all of my Like we're adults, 1048 00:46:34,239 --> 00:46:36,720 Speaker 3: like just don't get no juices on my couch because 1049 00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:38,360 Speaker 3: my couch ain't even a year old yet, and I 1050 00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:39,600 Speaker 3: ain't fucked on my couch yet. 1051 00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:41,759 Speaker 4: You don't get to fuck, but yeah, couch. 1052 00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:44,800 Speaker 7: She talked about a sectional she talked about in my kitchen, 1053 00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:46,760 Speaker 7: like I don't care about that in the kitchen. 1054 00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:53,839 Speaker 4: I'm a good friend friends like she come on over. 1055 00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:55,920 Speaker 7: Like it's so funny because a friend of mine was 1056 00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:59,000 Speaker 7: in town recently and she talks to a front of 1057 00:46:59,160 --> 00:46:59,440 Speaker 7: like we. 1058 00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:02,799 Speaker 3: Have a mutual no no, no, that I just know. 1059 00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:05,120 Speaker 3: And I was like, girl, we cook and invite them 1060 00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:06,800 Speaker 3: over for dinner. And I was like, I'll put condoms 1061 00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:07,640 Speaker 3: in the nightstand for you. 1062 00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:10,400 Speaker 4: This is a this is an ally right here. 1063 00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:14,320 Speaker 3: And he didn't even know because he couldn't find parking 1064 00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:15,360 Speaker 3: around my apartment. 1065 00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:17,920 Speaker 7: There's no parking where I live, so he ended up leaving. 1066 00:47:18,239 --> 00:47:21,080 Speaker 7: I was like, Nigga for you and everything. He's like, man, 1067 00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:23,480 Speaker 7: you I didn't know that she was about that. I said, 1068 00:47:23,520 --> 00:47:25,279 Speaker 7: she had the little short song for you and all 1069 00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:26,920 Speaker 7: like you don't even know. 1070 00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:29,000 Speaker 3: We had salmon cook, we had a whole plate for 1071 00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:31,680 Speaker 3: you in He was about to come eat and get 1072 00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:33,160 Speaker 3: pussy and didn't even know, and I set it up 1073 00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:33,400 Speaker 3: for him. 1074 00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:33,920 Speaker 4: I set him up. 1075 00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:36,719 Speaker 7: There was loub toys because we got I have so 1076 00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:37,879 Speaker 7: many toys that I don't use. 1077 00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:39,759 Speaker 3: So I was like, girl, there's toys in there. If 1078 00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:41,239 Speaker 3: you want, I'll put the condoms in there. And there 1079 00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:43,719 Speaker 3: there was different So what's your Airbnb? 1080 00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:47,920 Speaker 4: Listen, I live in the Bronx. That's what it is. 1081 00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:49,200 Speaker 4: You got to take care. 1082 00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:52,719 Speaker 3: It took you two years to get over here, so 1083 00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:54,320 Speaker 3: let me make sure I have everything set. 1084 00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:56,520 Speaker 4: Up for you. No tanks. 1085 00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,040 Speaker 7: Listen, if you have a car and you live in Jersey, 1086 00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:02,959 Speaker 7: dudeif ten minutes away, my niggas live in Jersey. 1087 00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:05,600 Speaker 3: Or that's not Michelle, that's not my narrative. Since yeah, 1088 00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:09,239 Speaker 3: my narrative is uptown niggas. Anyways, I don't talk to 1089 00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:13,319 Speaker 3: nobody in Brooklyn. It's the long distanceship for you to. 1090 00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:17,720 Speaker 2: Cross a bridge to get to go to get flewed 1091 00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:18,440 Speaker 2: out to Brooks. 1092 00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:19,719 Speaker 4: It took me over an hour to come to see 1093 00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:20,239 Speaker 4: y'all today. 1094 00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,480 Speaker 3: Well that's why we gotta make the episode long, because 1095 00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:24,080 Speaker 3: it's gonna take you another hour to get back. 1096 00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:27,400 Speaker 7: I'm recording today for Horrible, so I'm just going to 1097 00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:28,680 Speaker 7: the city. 1098 00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:33,960 Speaker 4: We recorded five. We got time. Yeah, I saw shake 1099 00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:34,680 Speaker 4: Shack on the corner. 1100 00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:38,920 Speaker 3: I was like about to go eat. 1101 00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:39,839 Speaker 4: Going to go eat. 1102 00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,240 Speaker 3: Okay, talk to him, baby, So where are you meeting 1103 00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:44,399 Speaker 3: these guys, the guys that you're sleeping with, that you've 1104 00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:44,960 Speaker 3: been dating. 1105 00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:45,359 Speaker 4: Where? 1106 00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:49,399 Speaker 3: Because this is like been a question at our live 1107 00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:50,680 Speaker 3: shows in the email. 1108 00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:54,680 Speaker 4: Where do I get them? Says h bitch? Instagram? Twitter? 1109 00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:56,759 Speaker 7: And one of my holes I met when I was 1110 00:48:56,760 --> 00:49:00,960 Speaker 7: a bartender at Applebee's while he was sizzling for He 1111 00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:05,360 Speaker 7: is Matter. So I actually was one of the bartenders 1112 00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:08,120 Speaker 7: that helped opened up the apple Bees across from Barclays. 1113 00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:09,080 Speaker 4: So right here. 1114 00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:11,319 Speaker 7: I moved up to New York and one of my 1115 00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:15,239 Speaker 7: lovers came in. Is just sat at the bar and 1116 00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:17,279 Speaker 7: when his bill came, his bill was forty dollars. I 1117 00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:18,960 Speaker 7: tell the story because it's so funny how we are 1118 00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:22,000 Speaker 7: where we are now. His bill was forty dollars. He 1119 00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:24,560 Speaker 7: tipped me forty dollars, And at this point I'm just 1120 00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:28,600 Speaker 7: like this was a lot. You know, the goddamn clientele 1121 00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:33,600 Speaker 7: we getting right here, they barely tipping us. So I 1122 00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:36,000 Speaker 7: was like, well you should come here again. Let me 1123 00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:38,200 Speaker 7: know I'll let you know my schedule, come and see 1124 00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:40,840 Speaker 7: me on some on a bartender Vine ended up getting 1125 00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:42,680 Speaker 7: his card. He's like, well, you know I'm in I'm 1126 00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:46,680 Speaker 7: I'm in New York, Like, let's go have brunch. Wasn't 1127 00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:49,760 Speaker 7: really you know, you didn't think I didn't think anything 1128 00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:50,040 Speaker 7: of it. 1129 00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:52,960 Speaker 3: So who would my friends along? Who would play him 1130 00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:54,920 Speaker 3: in a movie? What does he look like? Oh God, 1131 00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:57,719 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna give that away because if I say, like. 1132 00:49:57,760 --> 00:49:59,879 Speaker 4: Yeah, if you said, look, who would playhim in the movie? 1133 00:49:59,920 --> 00:50:02,759 Speaker 4: Is he's famous actor? No? No, no, no, no, no, no, 1134 00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:03,640 Speaker 4: he's not famous. 1135 00:50:03,640 --> 00:50:10,040 Speaker 3: He's actually like, like I hate to say regular, but regular, regular, regular. 1136 00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:15,920 Speaker 3: So he has he has a good job in government 1137 00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:22,839 Speaker 3: since we just wanted to Yeah, anyways, so he worked 1138 00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:23,279 Speaker 3: in New York. 1139 00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:26,600 Speaker 7: So he started just taking me and my friends out 1140 00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:28,640 Speaker 7: almost on a weekly basis. Like we was at forty 1141 00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:31,719 Speaker 7: forty catching games. All of my friends met him. Like 1142 00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:34,040 Speaker 7: so for even the first year we didn't have sex 1143 00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:34,359 Speaker 7: at all. 1144 00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:35,200 Speaker 4: I loved this guy. 1145 00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:36,680 Speaker 7: We didn't have sex at all, and he was just 1146 00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:40,120 Speaker 7: taking my friends out. Damn, it would give too much detail. 1147 00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:47,400 Speaker 7: And because now he's married, we haven't slept in the 1148 00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:49,920 Speaker 7: last year, but I'm still getting all the benefits of 1149 00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:53,880 Speaker 7: because we've now grown a friendship. So he's been around 1150 00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:57,359 Speaker 7: for the past six years, freak. And it helped because 1151 00:50:57,400 --> 00:50:59,720 Speaker 7: he was one of the ones that assisted me through school, 1152 00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:02,560 Speaker 7: which is funny because as an accountant, we had a 1153 00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:06,080 Speaker 7: whole week on what was this? 1154 00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:07,240 Speaker 4: Was it cost accounting? 1155 00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:09,560 Speaker 7: I can't remember the class, but anyways, he had me 1156 00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:12,280 Speaker 7: as an employee under his job, as a fake employee, 1157 00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:14,000 Speaker 7: so I was getting a check every two weeks from him, 1158 00:51:14,200 --> 00:51:16,479 Speaker 7: although I would only see him maybe once every three months. 1159 00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:20,640 Speaker 3: Beach, I gotta get back. We got to enroll in classes. Yes, 1160 00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:22,560 Speaker 3: so he put me on payroll. I gotta check every 1161 00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:23,120 Speaker 3: two weeks. 1162 00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:23,680 Speaker 2: Came. 1163 00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:26,719 Speaker 7: Yeah, like I was an employee because he was able 1164 00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:29,360 Speaker 7: to hire, you know, contracted workers. 1165 00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:34,920 Speaker 4: I was a contracted worker. So yeah, and yeah, he's dope. 1166 00:51:34,920 --> 00:51:36,440 Speaker 4: And now he's just for myself. 1167 00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:39,640 Speaker 3: He's just again it's a part time job and a 1168 00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:40,680 Speaker 3: part time dig you know. 1169 00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:44,080 Speaker 4: And I met him again working at Applebee's. So when 1170 00:51:44,080 --> 00:51:45,560 Speaker 4: it comes to like sanity. 1171 00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:47,920 Speaker 7: Where do you meet these guys, it's literally like what 1172 00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:50,239 Speaker 7: you I don't want to say negotiate, but it's what 1173 00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:52,160 Speaker 7: you want for yourself. And so when it came to 1174 00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:55,680 Speaker 7: what I expected out of him, especially when it became 1175 00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:59,320 Speaker 7: a sexual relationship, I think he was then married. 1176 00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:02,800 Speaker 3: When we met, he was engaged, but when he got married, 1177 00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:03,959 Speaker 3: the whole dynamic changed. 1178 00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:05,960 Speaker 7: Well, listen, if this is the role you want me 1179 00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:07,440 Speaker 7: to play, this is what I'm gonna need from you, 1180 00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:08,680 Speaker 7: and I mean. 1181 00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:10,080 Speaker 4: So renegotiate your country. 1182 00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:13,279 Speaker 7: So from from every birthday I get get like, he 1183 00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:16,719 Speaker 7: paid for my hotel in Mexico this past year. He 1184 00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:20,160 Speaker 7: supports my live shows. He's bought tickets even when he 1185 00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:22,919 Speaker 7: hasn't showed up. He's like, listen, I can't make this show. 1186 00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:25,120 Speaker 7: So I want to cover your hotel for this thing. 1187 00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:27,680 Speaker 7: So because even on tour, we cover our own travel 1188 00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:31,319 Speaker 7: and hotel. Yeah yeah, I mean it's part of our 1189 00:52:31,320 --> 00:52:34,200 Speaker 7: expenses and so we cover that ourselves. 1190 00:52:34,200 --> 00:52:38,239 Speaker 4: And so he's, yeah, he's supported meself. Really nice, he's 1191 00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:38,800 Speaker 4: really done. 1192 00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:44,120 Speaker 3: But he's a great guy. That's why he's married, because 1193 00:52:44,120 --> 00:52:44,600 Speaker 3: he's a good guy. 1194 00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:46,000 Speaker 4: This is the part that sucks. 1195 00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:48,719 Speaker 7: So there's three married men right now who I call 1196 00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:51,640 Speaker 7: my lovers. But like I said, over the last year, 1197 00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:53,359 Speaker 7: maybeyear and a half, I haven't even had sex with them. 1198 00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:57,600 Speaker 4: But I've still gotten whatever. I've the horrible decision. I know. 1199 00:52:58,120 --> 00:53:00,800 Speaker 3: But it's crazy because I talk about even to my friends, 1200 00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:03,360 Speaker 3: I'd be like, oh my god, there's such great guys. 1201 00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:05,080 Speaker 4: And they're like, but bitch, they're shooting on their wives. 1202 00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:07,839 Speaker 3: And I'm like, yeah, But aside from that, they're just 1203 00:53:08,120 --> 00:53:09,320 Speaker 3: really really dope. 1204 00:53:09,360 --> 00:53:11,640 Speaker 4: If you take that away, He's a great god. 1205 00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:15,239 Speaker 3: But what's crazy is but what's crazy is the relationships 1206 00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:15,480 Speaker 3: with them. 1207 00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:17,640 Speaker 7: And again, one has been in the picture for eleven years, 1208 00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:19,280 Speaker 7: the other has been in the picture for six years. 1209 00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:20,759 Speaker 4: Two have been in the picture for a lot. O. 1210 00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:25,920 Speaker 4: Your aura is fantastic. Thanks, So you went to the wedding. 1211 00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:29,560 Speaker 4: So that's the thing I told you. 1212 00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:32,320 Speaker 7: The years that they've been involved, I can't tell you 1213 00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:34,279 Speaker 7: any of their wives names, any of the names of 1214 00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:36,319 Speaker 7: their children, or the ages or how many they I mean, 1215 00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:38,400 Speaker 7: we don't care about the I don't. It doesn't I 1216 00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:39,440 Speaker 7: don't have those conversations. 1217 00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:41,520 Speaker 2: You only find the information if you want it, and 1218 00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:42,520 Speaker 2: I don't care about it. 1219 00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:43,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't care about it. 1220 00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:45,719 Speaker 3: This is when you find out the information when you 1221 00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:48,680 Speaker 3: go to the funeral and you show up and you 1222 00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:50,960 Speaker 3: see the family sitting there in the front row, and 1223 00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:52,759 Speaker 3: they're like the look is your and you're like, well, 1224 00:53:52,760 --> 00:53:54,480 Speaker 3: I've known your father for many years. 1225 00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:57,360 Speaker 4: I'm a friend of the family. I'm a friend of 1226 00:53:57,360 --> 00:54:00,880 Speaker 4: your father. Technically I was an employee. Yeah, I used 1227 00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:01,799 Speaker 4: to work for your dad. 1228 00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:06,000 Speaker 3: Actually I'm actually here to pick up not wqs, you know. 1229 00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:08,040 Speaker 4: So yeah, so. 1230 00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:11,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, there's really no way to meet these men. I 1231 00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:13,440 Speaker 7: could lie and sit here and say, yeah, I go 1232 00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:16,080 Speaker 7: to expensive hotels instead of the lobby bars. 1233 00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:17,000 Speaker 4: I can. I can do that. 1234 00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:20,560 Speaker 3: Bullshit, it's bullshit. I think the apps are also quite bullshit. 1235 00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:22,880 Speaker 3: So the seeking arrangements and stuff like that. There's so 1236 00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:26,719 Speaker 3: many scammers on there now. But also you have men 1237 00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:30,560 Speaker 3: that are going on there saying that they don't want 1238 00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:32,200 Speaker 3: to prostitute. So I don't want to pay, but I 1239 00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:33,600 Speaker 3: want a relationship, but I'm married. 1240 00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:36,520 Speaker 4: What the fuck do you want? You know what I mean? 1241 00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:39,080 Speaker 3: Like, well, no, sir, this has to be negotiated. I'm 1242 00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:41,600 Speaker 3: not here to try to win you over you. You're 1243 00:54:41,640 --> 00:54:43,719 Speaker 3: already in a position. So that's the thing that I 1244 00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:46,200 Speaker 3: say to any woman. Okay, So, if whether he has 1245 00:54:46,239 --> 00:54:51,640 Speaker 3: a girlfriend, a situation, a fiance, a wife, if he's 1246 00:54:51,680 --> 00:54:53,600 Speaker 3: coming to you at this point, the whole ball is 1247 00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:55,719 Speaker 3: in your court. And to me, I think that it's 1248 00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:59,640 Speaker 3: naive to sit here and off that put yourself into 1249 00:54:59,800 --> 00:55:03,160 Speaker 3: a level of competition where you're starting already on the bottom. 1250 00:55:03,560 --> 00:55:06,000 Speaker 3: To try to win someone over and take them away 1251 00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:08,160 Speaker 3: from someone I think is the worst karma that that 1252 00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:08,719 Speaker 3: you can do. 1253 00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:11,200 Speaker 4: I mean, if he's ready to leave her, he's definitely 1254 00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:13,759 Speaker 4: gonna leave he's yeah, or the way you get him 1255 00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:14,719 Speaker 4: is the way you're gonna lose them. 1256 00:55:15,520 --> 00:55:17,000 Speaker 2: So I'm not trying to take him away from so 1257 00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:18,680 Speaker 2: I'm just I'm just using him. 1258 00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:23,280 Speaker 7: So let's set it up, set it up on that's it, listen, 1259 00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:27,160 Speaker 7: he's our man. Yeah, And it just sucks because as 1260 00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:30,320 Speaker 7: a woman, when you enter those situations, you're literally putting 1261 00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:32,560 Speaker 7: yourself to where you have to control all your feelings. 1262 00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:36,440 Speaker 3: You can't hold him accountable for much because but you 1263 00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:38,399 Speaker 3: know that coming into you know it. 1264 00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:38,920 Speaker 4: Coming into it. 1265 00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:41,040 Speaker 7: So bitch, if you need money, if you need some 1266 00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:44,200 Speaker 7: bills paid, that's the least you should be getting a 1267 00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:45,520 Speaker 7: couple of trips and other things. 1268 00:55:45,600 --> 00:55:48,839 Speaker 3: So do you ever feel bad sometimes or you're like, oh, 1269 00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:50,600 Speaker 3: this this person has a whole family. 1270 00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:54,319 Speaker 7: I don't I'm not in it maliciously. I would never 1271 00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:57,959 Speaker 7: communicate or try to contact the wives. I've now grown 1272 00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:01,480 Speaker 7: a friendship of friendship with these people, So it's beyond 1273 00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:04,680 Speaker 7: an arrangement where I feel spiteful at all, Like I 1274 00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:08,040 Speaker 7: genuinely care for these people. Over the years, They've genuinely 1275 00:56:08,120 --> 00:56:10,400 Speaker 7: cared for me as far as helping me in my 1276 00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:13,799 Speaker 7: journey with the podcast, seeing me through school, giving me 1277 00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:18,080 Speaker 7: graduation gifts, like genuinely caring about my well being. So 1278 00:56:18,160 --> 00:56:21,000 Speaker 7: it's beyond, you know, I would say even an arrangement, 1279 00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:23,880 Speaker 7: like there's a friendship. Like even one most recently was like, 1280 00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:27,560 Speaker 7: didn't care if we ever dealt sexually again. He was like, 1281 00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:29,160 Speaker 7: at this point, you're my sister. And I was like, well, 1282 00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:29,799 Speaker 7: that's kind of weird. 1283 00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:36,719 Speaker 4: Calm down from the South. I was like, actually day 1284 00:56:36,800 --> 00:56:39,759 Speaker 4: he met sister in christ. Oh yeah, well that's the thing. 1285 00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:41,120 Speaker 7: He's just like, I feel like we're going to know 1286 00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:44,680 Speaker 7: each other forever, so he's gonna put you in his will. 1287 00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:48,120 Speaker 7: So yeah, I don't feel bad because there's no ill intent. Also, 1288 00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:51,040 Speaker 7: I feel like in the realm of non monogamy, which 1289 00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:52,880 Speaker 7: we talk about a lot on our show, and I 1290 00:56:52,920 --> 00:56:55,560 Speaker 7: think what a lot of people are engaging in nowadays. 1291 00:56:56,640 --> 00:57:00,279 Speaker 7: I don't know their situation. His loyalty should be to 1292 00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:03,520 Speaker 7: his wife, so whatever arrangement they have, I don't know. 1293 00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:05,239 Speaker 4: But also we've talked about it too. 1294 00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:07,399 Speaker 3: A lot of women turn the blind eye to men 1295 00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:08,320 Speaker 3: of money and power. 1296 00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:08,800 Speaker 4: Yep. 1297 00:57:08,920 --> 00:57:11,360 Speaker 7: And these men clearly ain't broke if they're able to 1298 00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:14,560 Speaker 7: put me also in a good situation. So I think 1299 00:57:14,600 --> 00:57:17,800 Speaker 7: that there's there's a blind eye possibly being turned, because 1300 00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:19,360 Speaker 7: even I talked to them, I was like, well, I. 1301 00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:21,040 Speaker 4: Know I ain't been the only one all these years. 1302 00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:23,320 Speaker 3: It's not just me, Okay, So Sidney, well, what I'm 1303 00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:25,840 Speaker 3: writing here on the sheet is I gotta get me 1304 00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:27,480 Speaker 3: some hoes for the good. 1305 00:57:27,360 --> 00:57:28,120 Speaker 4: Of the podcast. 1306 00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:31,560 Speaker 3: For research purposes, yes, I mean not necessarily for the research, 1307 00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:36,360 Speaker 3: but you know, also to support the pod absolutely financially. Yes, absolutely, 1308 00:57:36,480 --> 00:57:38,280 Speaker 3: I said, I said, listen, I want to learn how 1309 00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:39,160 Speaker 3: to edit my audio. 1310 00:57:39,240 --> 00:57:40,120 Speaker 4: I think I need a Mac. 1311 00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:43,240 Speaker 7: I had a MacBook Pro the next day since my house, 1312 00:57:43,640 --> 00:57:45,240 Speaker 7: so like literally. 1313 00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:56,200 Speaker 3: Like I I literally had it sent to me the 1314 00:57:56,240 --> 00:57:58,920 Speaker 3: next day because I was like, well you got a 1315 00:57:58,960 --> 00:58:01,240 Speaker 3: space grind I came he sent. 1316 00:58:01,280 --> 00:58:02,400 Speaker 4: There was also a case with it. 1317 00:58:02,400 --> 00:58:05,120 Speaker 3: The seventeen inch a big one too, because I was like, 1318 00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:06,360 Speaker 3: I think I need to be able to see. 1319 00:58:08,720 --> 00:58:11,240 Speaker 4: So I got the whole Adobe sweet and so I learned. 1320 00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:16,440 Speaker 7: Yeah, I learned how to do audition, Premiere Pro, Audacity, 1321 00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:18,200 Speaker 7: and garage band. I do I know how to edit 1322 00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:21,800 Speaker 7: on all? Well, I'm learning audition right now. I'm not 1323 00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:23,560 Speaker 7: as well, but that I know that that's what we use. 1324 00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:26,200 Speaker 7: But Audacity like the back of my hand, garage band 1325 00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:26,760 Speaker 7: like the back of mind. 1326 00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:29,520 Speaker 4: Did all that stuff trying to get rid of it 1327 00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:36,600 Speaker 4: yourself and everything? 1328 00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:41,640 Speaker 7: Yeah, no, I mean again, you can learn everything on YouTube, 1329 00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:43,840 Speaker 7: Like even if I talk about what you guys talk about, 1330 00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:47,280 Speaker 7: what you guys are experts in this week, I spent 1331 00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:50,320 Speaker 7: quite a few hours. We got the call for a 1332 00:58:50,360 --> 00:58:53,880 Speaker 7: really big opportunity that's coming our way, and so they 1333 00:58:53,880 --> 00:58:55,160 Speaker 7: were like, do you have a deck? 1334 00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:58,160 Speaker 3: So I was like, get it to you right away, 1335 00:58:58,320 --> 00:59:01,280 Speaker 3: and so I literally spent hours Google and creating our 1336 00:59:01,280 --> 00:59:04,120 Speaker 3: own deck, which would cost us, you know, a ton 1337 00:59:04,120 --> 00:59:05,400 Speaker 3: of money, and I could show you, guys what our 1338 00:59:05,400 --> 00:59:08,240 Speaker 3: deck looks like. You want to see, But I think 1339 00:59:08,280 --> 00:59:13,320 Speaker 3: that as a creative, as a creative, this can become expensive. 1340 00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:16,360 Speaker 7: I always tell people don't just leave what you're doing. 1341 00:59:16,440 --> 00:59:18,360 Speaker 7: You're nine to five is what's going to invest in 1342 00:59:18,360 --> 00:59:20,440 Speaker 7: what you're doing. But this all comes at a price, 1343 00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:23,480 Speaker 7: and the easiest way to save on your own investment 1344 00:59:23,680 --> 00:59:26,080 Speaker 7: is to teach yourself, like how to do these things 1345 00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:27,920 Speaker 7: and so, and. 1346 00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:30,479 Speaker 4: Then expense everything when tech season comes. 1347 00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:34,560 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, well DIDs. So this is you guys can see. 1348 00:59:34,600 --> 00:59:38,520 Speaker 3: This is our our media kit. So it has all 1349 00:59:38,560 --> 00:59:40,440 Speaker 3: of our numbers. And I spent hours doing this. So 1350 00:59:40,480 --> 00:59:42,520 Speaker 3: you guys talk about what you guys are experts in. 1351 00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:45,280 Speaker 4: I'm an expert in. That's what you were doing. That's 1352 00:59:45,280 --> 00:59:47,080 Speaker 4: what you were doing this week when I was not 1353 00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:53,200 Speaker 4: doing no work. I heard you. It's building a media kit. Incredible. Yeah, 1354 00:59:53,200 --> 00:59:57,000 Speaker 4: it's a five five page deck. We love to see. Okay, 1355 00:59:57,040 --> 01:00:00,640 Speaker 4: so in the dream world, what is do you want 1356 01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:04,520 Speaker 4: to get married? Ever? Do you do you believe in monogamy? 1357 01:00:05,520 --> 01:00:09,600 Speaker 7: I wouldn't mind being in a swinger possibly relationship. 1358 01:00:13,880 --> 01:00:17,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm cool with that type of situation. I'm really 1359 01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:18,920 Speaker 3: big with going. 1360 01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:19,880 Speaker 4: Into things realistically. 1361 01:00:20,960 --> 01:00:24,600 Speaker 7: There was like, you know, if your man ain't shit, yeah, 1362 01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:27,360 Speaker 7: you know what I mean, And so a title isn't 1363 01:00:27,400 --> 01:00:29,320 Speaker 7: going to change that man from being who you've always 1364 01:00:29,360 --> 01:00:32,560 Speaker 7: known him to be sure. And so if I were 1365 01:00:32,640 --> 01:00:35,840 Speaker 7: to say, sign up to date an athlete, or if 1366 01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:37,800 Speaker 7: I were to sign up to date a nigga and 1367 01:00:37,840 --> 01:00:39,880 Speaker 7: the jets that I knowed and fucked about five bitches 1368 01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:42,440 Speaker 7: in his building, or like, it doesn't matter. Like the 1369 01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:48,400 Speaker 7: range is you know you're with, Yes, and so as 1370 01:00:48,400 --> 01:00:50,240 Speaker 7: long as you don't embarrass me, as long as you 1371 01:00:50,280 --> 01:00:52,560 Speaker 7: bring nothing back to me health wise, and as long 1372 01:00:52,600 --> 01:00:55,000 Speaker 7: as you don't create a whole new family while we're together. 1373 01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:58,040 Speaker 4: And it doesn't bother me, it doesn't bother me. Pretty 1374 01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:00,360 Speaker 4: those are pretty, you can ask him from us. 1375 01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:03,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I say that's a MacBook Pro, and they'll 1376 01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:04,080 Speaker 2: make me look stupid. 1377 01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:06,760 Speaker 4: Don't give I say that. 1378 01:01:06,760 --> 01:01:10,200 Speaker 7: To say, if I get into a relationship with someone, 1379 01:01:10,480 --> 01:01:12,800 Speaker 7: I'm not gonna beat down monogamy. I'm not gonna go 1380 01:01:12,800 --> 01:01:15,240 Speaker 7: through his phone. I'm not gonna search for something that 1381 01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:17,680 Speaker 7: probably I know is there. If I'm searching, I know 1382 01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:19,960 Speaker 7: there's something there. And I think any woman who searches 1383 01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:20,680 Speaker 7: just knows there's something. 1384 01:01:20,680 --> 01:01:23,240 Speaker 3: That's what they say when you go, when you go looking, 1385 01:01:23,280 --> 01:01:24,040 Speaker 3: you're gonna find something. 1386 01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:25,880 Speaker 7: And it says you're gonna find something you don't like, 1387 01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:28,920 Speaker 7: but you already know because you're looking. And that's just 1388 01:01:28,960 --> 01:01:32,120 Speaker 7: where I feel the diaivity and women come from. Where 1389 01:01:32,120 --> 01:01:33,600 Speaker 7: are you searching because you already know the nigga you 1390 01:01:33,640 --> 01:01:36,120 Speaker 7: w If you know the nigga, you wit check that 1391 01:01:36,200 --> 01:01:38,040 Speaker 7: nigga on who he is and what you expect out 1392 01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:41,040 Speaker 7: of him. But have realistic expectations from whoever you decide 1393 01:01:41,040 --> 01:01:41,320 Speaker 7: to be. 1394 01:01:41,280 --> 01:01:43,680 Speaker 4: When don't be calling the side bitch. 1395 01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:47,000 Speaker 7: I told y'all you had I got a woman, a 1396 01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:48,560 Speaker 7: woman DM, and I was just like, but you know 1397 01:01:48,560 --> 01:01:52,560 Speaker 7: the nigga you're with because he's our I know the 1398 01:01:52,600 --> 01:01:55,680 Speaker 7: type of nig he is, and I wouldn't blink twice. 1399 01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:58,360 Speaker 7: And you also know already who I am because hello, 1400 01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:02,520 Speaker 7: but not my podcast but a few years. Like she's 1401 01:02:02,600 --> 01:02:05,560 Speaker 7: known of me over the years, Like didn't know she 1402 01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:08,400 Speaker 7: was living send of my birthday gift. She's she got 1403 01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:11,800 Speaker 7: the gift I posted him when he told me he 1404 01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:15,040 Speaker 7: was single on my page. That brought dramas, So she's 1405 01:02:15,080 --> 01:02:16,680 Speaker 7: already been in my comments. 1406 01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:16,880 Speaker 4: Now. 1407 01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:18,720 Speaker 7: She went to my DM's woman and a woman and 1408 01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:20,440 Speaker 7: said we was gonna have problems, and I was like 1409 01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:22,520 Speaker 7: when I told him, I was like, well, sis, y'all 1410 01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:24,040 Speaker 7: are on and off the same way me and him 1411 01:02:24,040 --> 01:02:26,280 Speaker 7: are on and off. Do you think that I'm gonna 1412 01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:29,640 Speaker 7: hit you up and ask for your permission. 1413 01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:31,400 Speaker 4: To see if you're single? If he's telling me he's single. 1414 01:02:31,480 --> 01:02:34,200 Speaker 3: Do you know what her response was? Since don't believe him. 1415 01:02:34,320 --> 01:02:37,360 Speaker 3: Don't believe what he says. He's telling me he's single, 1416 01:02:37,440 --> 01:02:39,160 Speaker 3: and you telling me not to believe this, nigga, but 1417 01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:41,000 Speaker 3: you and my phone trying to check me about dealing 1418 01:02:41,040 --> 01:02:42,400 Speaker 3: with your but also God. 1419 01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:44,040 Speaker 4: Says you're telling me not to believe him. 1420 01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:49,440 Speaker 3: Since leave him just gun, pack your box and guns. 1421 01:02:51,080 --> 01:02:52,120 Speaker 4: I put in too many years. 1422 01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:56,040 Speaker 3: But nine, yeah, he been in a picture since two 1423 01:02:56,120 --> 01:03:01,400 Speaker 3: thousand and ten? What are we doing the same thing? 1424 01:03:02,040 --> 01:03:02,439 Speaker 4: That good? 1425 01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:07,360 Speaker 3: No, this isn't Applebee's. This is I ain't gonna say name, 1426 01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:09,560 Speaker 3: this is chili. 1427 01:03:10,240 --> 01:03:12,720 Speaker 4: This is okay. 1428 01:03:12,720 --> 01:03:14,760 Speaker 3: So how often are you having sex in a week 1429 01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:17,680 Speaker 3: when you're when you're here in New York. I don't 1430 01:03:17,680 --> 01:03:22,560 Speaker 3: have a regular anymore, so like in the last four months, 1431 01:03:22,600 --> 01:03:25,080 Speaker 3: so since I would say since October, because I went 1432 01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:27,680 Speaker 3: after the three summer went pretty ghost when I cut 1433 01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:33,440 Speaker 3: them off. So since October I have had sex three times? 1434 01:03:33,920 --> 01:03:36,640 Speaker 4: What and one of those I got fleud out for 1435 01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:39,080 Speaker 4: you're a good Christian gay, so it's really not. 1436 01:03:39,160 --> 01:03:41,320 Speaker 7: I know, I think people think I am out here 1437 01:03:41,480 --> 01:03:43,880 Speaker 7: just fucking my brains out or getting them. 1438 01:03:44,000 --> 01:03:45,520 Speaker 3: I feel like, in my mind, I feel like you 1439 01:03:45,640 --> 01:03:47,240 Speaker 3: having sex like maybe two or three times. 1440 01:03:47,320 --> 01:03:49,560 Speaker 7: No, literally, in the last four months, I've had sex 1441 01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:51,880 Speaker 7: three times, and I went on a three month, like 1442 01:03:51,920 --> 01:03:54,640 Speaker 7: a two and a half month hiatus where it wasn't 1443 01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:55,920 Speaker 7: fucking because I couldn't find a partner. 1444 01:03:55,960 --> 01:03:58,919 Speaker 3: But when you really, okay, so what peak season, peak 1445 01:03:59,000 --> 01:04:00,840 Speaker 3: manby summertime was coming. 1446 01:04:01,680 --> 01:04:03,560 Speaker 7: I'll be honestly like I said, so like when I 1447 01:04:03,600 --> 01:04:07,040 Speaker 7: had his name was twenty four to seven because he 1448 01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:11,000 Speaker 7: name no, because he he was he Literally I changed 1449 01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:12,520 Speaker 7: the ring tongue because I would wake up out my 1450 01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:14,160 Speaker 7: sleep and be like, okay, on my way to Jersey 1451 01:04:14,320 --> 01:04:16,240 Speaker 7: four o'clock if I had to be to work at seven, 1452 01:04:16,560 --> 01:04:18,080 Speaker 7: if I had to be work at nine, I would 1453 01:04:18,080 --> 01:04:19,840 Speaker 7: still try to squeeze and going to fuck him at 1454 01:04:19,880 --> 01:04:20,920 Speaker 7: six seven am. 1455 01:04:20,720 --> 01:04:22,160 Speaker 4: From Jersey to Jersey. 1456 01:04:22,280 --> 01:04:25,720 Speaker 7: Yeah, why because it was just great and he was 1457 01:04:25,720 --> 01:04:27,840 Speaker 7: the only one I fucked regularly in New York. 1458 01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:30,320 Speaker 4: So whenever I could get it, I got it was 1459 01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:32,000 Speaker 4: you getting on the train and you're getting no, he 1460 01:04:32,040 --> 01:04:36,080 Speaker 4: picked my uber there and back. Yeah, listeners, if you 1461 01:04:36,120 --> 01:04:37,560 Speaker 4: know it, you need to. 1462 01:04:38,160 --> 01:04:40,360 Speaker 7: It was probably every time he saw me, I would 1463 01:04:40,360 --> 01:04:42,280 Speaker 7: say eighty dollars an uber there and back, so thirty 1464 01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:44,280 Speaker 7: five to fifty each way. 1465 01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:47,160 Speaker 3: So it wasn't bad of that for you, friend. But 1466 01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:49,520 Speaker 3: where in New Jersey was you going? It wasn't right 1467 01:04:49,520 --> 01:04:51,480 Speaker 3: across the bridge, so right across the gw B. It 1468 01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:52,720 Speaker 3: wasn't deep like catgwater. 1469 01:04:52,920 --> 01:04:54,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, we don't know where. 1470 01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:57,160 Speaker 3: Edgewater sounds nice. Yeah, it sounds like he had a 1471 01:04:57,280 --> 01:04:59,520 Speaker 3: yard that had grass on it. He had at home 1472 01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:03,480 Speaker 3: at home. He had a home. And so when we were. 1473 01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:07,520 Speaker 7: Fucking, I would say, yeah, I was getting dick probably weekly. 1474 01:05:09,120 --> 01:05:09,720 Speaker 4: And then. 1475 01:05:11,280 --> 01:05:13,479 Speaker 7: My other lovers, if they came to town, I would maybe, 1476 01:05:13,640 --> 01:05:15,200 Speaker 7: you know, just here and there. 1477 01:05:15,000 --> 01:05:17,080 Speaker 3: The schedule, you would say, They would send you they 1478 01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:21,120 Speaker 3: avails and yeah, yeah, i'll see if I schedule I'm 1479 01:05:21,160 --> 01:05:23,080 Speaker 3: a pencil you in for Thursday at noon. 1480 01:05:23,280 --> 01:05:24,960 Speaker 4: See put it's crazy. 1481 01:05:25,000 --> 01:05:26,800 Speaker 7: Now, that's the thing too, when you're dealing with a 1482 01:05:26,840 --> 01:05:30,480 Speaker 7: guy of any sort of power or where he's used 1483 01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:33,120 Speaker 7: to just everything falling at his tips right now, it's 1484 01:05:33,160 --> 01:05:35,720 Speaker 7: been harder for me to find partners because even when 1485 01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:37,880 Speaker 7: I want to get fluid out, like I think the 1486 01:05:37,920 --> 01:05:39,200 Speaker 7: first week of January. 1487 01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:40,480 Speaker 4: I was talking with a friend of mine, looked up 1488 01:05:40,520 --> 01:05:41,400 Speaker 4: his schedule because. 1489 01:05:41,200 --> 01:05:44,360 Speaker 7: It's Google, and saw the cities he was going to 1490 01:05:44,360 --> 01:05:46,600 Speaker 7: be in, and then like, he was like, can you 1491 01:05:46,640 --> 01:05:47,960 Speaker 7: come see me here? I'm going to be in New 1492 01:05:48,040 --> 01:05:49,800 Speaker 7: York for a week here maybe, And I was like, well, 1493 01:05:49,800 --> 01:05:51,400 Speaker 7: I have my live shows on me in the Midwest. 1494 01:05:51,560 --> 01:05:53,360 Speaker 7: So it was literally the first week of January, and 1495 01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:56,320 Speaker 7: I was like, February first. I see who you're playing. 1496 01:05:56,440 --> 01:05:58,880 Speaker 7: I could do February first, and that don't work with 1497 01:05:58,960 --> 01:06:01,960 Speaker 7: niggas like that. I ain't planning a month out to 1498 01:06:01,960 --> 01:06:04,320 Speaker 7: get some pussy. They want, they want it when they 1499 01:06:04,320 --> 01:06:06,120 Speaker 7: want it. So it's been very hard for me now, 1500 01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:08,840 Speaker 7: just with my schedule and a man respecting me and 1501 01:06:08,920 --> 01:06:10,280 Speaker 7: my schedule to work around me. 1502 01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:14,000 Speaker 4: I love you, okay, we googled you, boss, bitch. 1503 01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:17,080 Speaker 3: Okay, So when you're gonna do what Ted talks is, 1504 01:06:17,200 --> 01:06:18,480 Speaker 3: let's talk about you're doing it. 1505 01:06:19,000 --> 01:06:21,720 Speaker 4: I would love to do and I'm gonna tell I'm 1506 01:06:21,720 --> 01:06:24,440 Speaker 4: gonna tell y'all motherfuckers right now. Not Ted X. That 1507 01:06:24,560 --> 01:06:28,440 Speaker 4: is a little Ted talk. Okay, shading ted X. 1508 01:06:28,440 --> 01:06:32,520 Speaker 3: What's going on with no shade about TEDx is like 1509 01:06:32,560 --> 01:06:34,000 Speaker 3: the Marshals of Ted talks. 1510 01:06:34,240 --> 01:06:37,200 Speaker 7: Yeah, there you go, there you go. It's like a 1511 01:06:37,200 --> 01:06:39,200 Speaker 7: bird Doff Goodman and then there's Marshals. 1512 01:06:39,520 --> 01:06:43,520 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, egg money, and I would prefer heard you. 1513 01:06:43,600 --> 01:06:45,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean, you know, because they 1514 01:06:45,760 --> 01:06:48,280 Speaker 2: just asked me to do something, so I mean. 1515 01:06:48,200 --> 01:06:52,240 Speaker 4: It's not bad. I mean your way, you're gonna do one, 1516 01:06:52,280 --> 01:06:54,880 Speaker 4: and we were gonna support it. I support I think 1517 01:06:54,880 --> 01:06:59,880 Speaker 4: it's still a good look a shade. 1518 01:07:00,640 --> 01:07:02,400 Speaker 7: I did feel like I had to come in and 1519 01:07:02,480 --> 01:07:03,959 Speaker 7: be sure I was on my toes with you because 1520 01:07:03,960 --> 01:07:09,760 Speaker 7: when y'all came on the horrible decisions, oh the shade you. 1521 01:07:09,680 --> 01:07:11,320 Speaker 4: Live in the Bronx you knew he was gonna roll 1522 01:07:11,920 --> 01:07:12,600 Speaker 4: Bronx jokes. 1523 01:07:12,640 --> 01:07:15,680 Speaker 3: There was nail jokes because I was like interested. I 1524 01:07:15,720 --> 01:07:17,680 Speaker 3: was like, well, she's got nails, but what's up you 1525 01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:18,120 Speaker 3: saying that? 1526 01:07:18,160 --> 01:07:18,520 Speaker 4: You girl? 1527 01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:21,440 Speaker 7: Listen, I know a pussy because I have one, and 1528 01:07:21,480 --> 01:07:23,080 Speaker 7: I'm gonna make sure I'm not scratching you. 1529 01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:25,440 Speaker 4: I'm gonna be gentle, it's gonna be lubed. I'm not 1530 01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:27,840 Speaker 4: hurting nobody nails? What is these coffin shape? 1531 01:07:27,920 --> 01:07:31,840 Speaker 7: They are coffing points in the rstone just gonna go in. 1532 01:07:32,600 --> 01:07:34,960 Speaker 7: So the rhinestone I do not put in anybody. I'm 1533 01:07:34,960 --> 01:07:35,880 Speaker 7: telling you because I don't. 1534 01:07:35,680 --> 01:07:38,320 Speaker 2: Want you to got Claire's necessories on your fingers. 1535 01:07:38,400 --> 01:07:41,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just ship so like with these nails, I'm 1536 01:07:41,600 --> 01:07:44,480 Speaker 4: fingering with these two fingers. Well, I need to see 1537 01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:44,960 Speaker 4: how you work. 1538 01:07:45,200 --> 01:07:49,160 Speaker 3: Okay, go ahead, Sidney, open your legs, right, Andrew to 1539 01:07:49,160 --> 01:07:49,959 Speaker 3: pull out a deck? 1540 01:07:50,440 --> 01:07:54,640 Speaker 4: Did they pop up that thing? Let's see the I 1541 01:07:54,680 --> 01:07:56,880 Speaker 4: crossed the line. I'm sorry, I let me see that. 1542 01:07:59,440 --> 01:08:02,240 Speaker 4: Make that the whole way. Andrew said he's going to 1543 01:08:02,400 --> 01:08:04,320 Speaker 4: hr Andrew little do you know? 1544 01:08:04,440 --> 01:08:10,120 Speaker 3: I am hr It's okay, It'll be one check mark. 1545 01:08:10,160 --> 01:08:16,400 Speaker 4: You'll still stay on. Yeah, I'm sorry. Okay, So Ted talk. 1546 01:08:16,439 --> 01:08:17,360 Speaker 4: That's that's the dream. 1547 01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:21,360 Speaker 7: Uh So, honestly the dream for me when it's all 1548 01:08:21,400 --> 01:08:24,120 Speaker 7: said and done, I would so I would love to 1549 01:08:24,160 --> 01:08:28,120 Speaker 7: continue to be a voice not only for women of color, 1550 01:08:29,120 --> 01:08:31,439 Speaker 7: women of all shapes and sizes, being that I've been 1551 01:08:31,479 --> 01:08:34,960 Speaker 7: that woman at every size, I would enjoy radio. 1552 01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:38,160 Speaker 4: That's kind of yeah, and that's kind of. 1553 01:08:38,120 --> 01:08:40,960 Speaker 7: Where I see myself going more so because it's something 1554 01:08:40,960 --> 01:08:43,000 Speaker 7: that would also still allow me creatively to do what 1555 01:08:43,040 --> 01:08:45,519 Speaker 7: I want. On the side, I'm not gonna lie. My 1556 01:08:45,600 --> 01:08:53,120 Speaker 7: anxiety has went into overdrive. Yeah, So the anxiety comes 1557 01:08:53,160 --> 01:08:55,439 Speaker 7: from I think just a lot of life changes all 1558 01:08:55,479 --> 01:08:59,400 Speaker 7: happening at once. So for those a lot of people 1559 01:08:59,439 --> 01:09:02,559 Speaker 7: who arelready know my journey, I did have the gastric 1560 01:09:02,640 --> 01:09:05,920 Speaker 7: sleeve surgery. Okay, so over the last two years now, 1561 01:09:05,960 --> 01:09:10,679 Speaker 7: I got this in twenty eighteen January and twenty eighteen, 1562 01:09:10,840 --> 01:09:13,639 Speaker 7: So over the last two years, I've dropped maybe eighty 1563 01:09:13,680 --> 01:09:15,760 Speaker 7: to eighty five pounds, So I went from two hundred 1564 01:09:15,800 --> 01:09:17,720 Speaker 7: and thirty pounds to about one hundred and fifty five. 1565 01:09:18,160 --> 01:09:20,400 Speaker 7: So that's been drastically different. Like I went from a 1566 01:09:20,479 --> 01:09:22,120 Speaker 7: size eighteen to a size six. 1567 01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:28,639 Speaker 3: Looks like a size ten, you know, but I'm five 1568 01:09:28,640 --> 01:09:30,439 Speaker 3: foot one, so I still look come back to you. 1569 01:09:30,880 --> 01:09:35,320 Speaker 3: So yeah, I think these are even a medium rainbow rainbow. 1570 01:09:37,400 --> 01:09:39,080 Speaker 3: I literally just bought a size. 1571 01:09:38,920 --> 01:09:40,920 Speaker 4: Six from H and M. Though I think H and 1572 01:09:43,000 --> 01:09:47,360 Speaker 4: H and you know stretched I'm in size wear eight. 1573 01:09:47,640 --> 01:09:52,040 Speaker 3: Okay, that's true, and I'm six to eight on pretty 1574 01:09:52,040 --> 01:09:52,479 Speaker 3: little thing. 1575 01:09:53,320 --> 01:09:55,519 Speaker 4: Okay. You got a lot of little thing be real, 1576 01:09:55,880 --> 01:09:58,759 Speaker 4: you know, stretch by anyway. 1577 01:09:58,920 --> 01:10:02,400 Speaker 7: So so that's how and to where I've drastically shrink 1578 01:10:02,479 --> 01:10:05,120 Speaker 7: and as far as my appearance, everything I feel. 1579 01:10:05,280 --> 01:10:08,840 Speaker 4: So I have anxiety right now of weight and going back. 1580 01:10:09,320 --> 01:10:13,120 Speaker 4: Are you in the gym? Syst No is the diet 1581 01:10:13,160 --> 01:10:16,320 Speaker 4: so yeah, so that's the thing. I have forced portion control. 1582 01:10:16,600 --> 01:10:19,080 Speaker 7: So my stomach went from think of the size of 1583 01:10:19,120 --> 01:10:22,519 Speaker 7: a flat football to the size of a golf ball. 1584 01:10:23,520 --> 01:10:24,439 Speaker 4: So you can't really I. 1585 01:10:24,360 --> 01:10:26,680 Speaker 7: Took eighty percent of my stomach, so you so I 1586 01:10:26,800 --> 01:10:30,679 Speaker 7: just can't eat. I eat small portion to full, Yeah, 1587 01:10:30,840 --> 01:10:31,280 Speaker 7: very fast. 1588 01:10:31,320 --> 01:10:35,120 Speaker 4: But do you eat often? Like more meals, more small meals, 1589 01:10:35,520 --> 01:10:36,160 Speaker 4: really hungry? 1590 01:10:36,200 --> 01:10:39,479 Speaker 7: And then certain things that I guess are would help 1591 01:10:39,560 --> 01:10:41,760 Speaker 7: people or aid in people gaining weight. 1592 01:10:42,720 --> 01:10:45,280 Speaker 4: Literally I just don't feel good. So starches. 1593 01:10:45,439 --> 01:10:47,840 Speaker 7: So like if I go to shake Shack right now, 1594 01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:49,000 Speaker 7: my burger won't have a bun. 1595 01:10:49,439 --> 01:10:53,080 Speaker 3: I don't do bread, you know, I'll put no, I'll 1596 01:10:53,120 --> 01:10:55,320 Speaker 3: put the like I let it meat, but it's gonna 1597 01:10:55,320 --> 01:10:59,880 Speaker 3: be on lettuce. I don't do pasta, just how my body. 1598 01:11:00,360 --> 01:11:03,559 Speaker 7: I can't do sugars or I get roseta my whole 1599 01:11:03,560 --> 01:11:04,960 Speaker 7: face like, so I don't do. 1600 01:11:04,960 --> 01:11:09,479 Speaker 3: Sugar in a specific diet. I'm not really good with milk. 1601 01:11:09,520 --> 01:11:12,080 Speaker 3: I've already lacked to so, Darius, you're not doing like 1602 01:11:12,080 --> 01:11:14,240 Speaker 3: an oatmealk No, So like it's just. 1603 01:11:14,200 --> 01:11:16,800 Speaker 7: I'm very I just can't eat a lot now, not 1604 01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:18,920 Speaker 7: like tashimi and raw shit like things that I can. 1605 01:11:18,800 --> 01:11:21,679 Speaker 4: Eat like seafoods are good for me. Or you know, 1606 01:11:22,760 --> 01:11:24,880 Speaker 4: now what size? What size broad do you wear? 1607 01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:27,559 Speaker 7: Because you also look so these went down though I 1608 01:11:27,640 --> 01:11:29,519 Speaker 7: was a triple G, not a triple G. I was 1609 01:11:29,520 --> 01:11:32,000 Speaker 7: a triple D into a G cup. 1610 01:11:32,160 --> 01:11:35,960 Speaker 4: I don't even these now, I mean these are not Yeah, 1611 01:11:36,000 --> 01:11:39,240 Speaker 4: I look very nice. What kind of broad? Is that true? 1612 01:11:39,240 --> 01:11:43,040 Speaker 3: And co we we got sponsors, okay, yeah, and it's 1613 01:11:43,080 --> 01:11:46,280 Speaker 3: like a sports school. These are now I'm a D 1614 01:11:46,479 --> 01:11:50,160 Speaker 3: to a thirty six C or thirty four D. 1615 01:11:50,320 --> 01:11:53,000 Speaker 4: Did you get the surgery for health reasons or yeah? 1616 01:11:53,200 --> 01:11:57,599 Speaker 7: It was so also just for how I felt literally 1617 01:11:57,640 --> 01:11:59,720 Speaker 7: over four years. And it's funny because they talk about 1618 01:11:59,720 --> 01:12:01,519 Speaker 7: the fresh ten. I think I feel like I got 1619 01:12:01,520 --> 01:12:03,760 Speaker 7: that every year that I was in school, over like 1620 01:12:03,760 --> 01:12:05,719 Speaker 7: four or five years, I had like literally gained fifty 1621 01:12:05,720 --> 01:12:08,240 Speaker 7: pounds ten pounds a year. 1622 01:12:08,360 --> 01:12:10,400 Speaker 4: It was just going up and. 1623 01:12:10,360 --> 01:12:12,320 Speaker 3: So Yeah, it got to that's a lot for somebody 1624 01:12:12,320 --> 01:12:14,240 Speaker 3: who's five five one tiny. 1625 01:12:14,479 --> 01:12:15,320 Speaker 4: So that's the thing. 1626 01:12:15,400 --> 01:12:18,479 Speaker 7: Being in New York. I wasn't fitting boots. They weren't 1627 01:12:18,520 --> 01:12:22,599 Speaker 7: going up my calves. It's winter and I'm not fitting jeans. 1628 01:12:22,640 --> 01:12:25,320 Speaker 7: So I'm still wearing stretchy and spandex shit all year 1629 01:12:25,400 --> 01:12:27,519 Speaker 7: round because I can't really find anything that fits me. 1630 01:12:27,840 --> 01:12:30,880 Speaker 7: I felt even bigger because you have to layer here, 1631 01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:33,719 Speaker 7: and so I genuinely just the confidence that I showed 1632 01:12:33,720 --> 01:12:36,000 Speaker 7: out in public wasn't there in real life. I hated shopping. 1633 01:12:36,400 --> 01:12:38,679 Speaker 7: Nothing ever fit. Even when I was on Fashion Nova 1634 01:12:38,720 --> 01:12:40,639 Speaker 7: and these online sites. Oh, I was in the pluses 1635 01:12:40,800 --> 01:12:42,960 Speaker 7: so one x two X didn't know what really my 1636 01:12:43,080 --> 01:12:46,280 Speaker 7: size was, and so that just drained me. And then 1637 01:12:46,360 --> 01:12:49,160 Speaker 7: also the level of anxiety I had in my mind. 1638 01:12:49,160 --> 01:12:50,280 Speaker 7: I told y'all, I thought I was going to be 1639 01:12:50,280 --> 01:12:53,720 Speaker 7: an accountant for twenty years from now, and so last 1640 01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:57,120 Speaker 7: year leaving my corporate job, I now have anxiety of 1641 01:12:57,520 --> 01:12:59,320 Speaker 7: Jesus Christ, what if I ever have to put my 1642 01:12:59,320 --> 01:13:01,360 Speaker 7: resume back to get there and go back into the workforce. 1643 01:13:01,720 --> 01:13:04,680 Speaker 7: So the idea of having to interview because whatever I 1644 01:13:04,720 --> 01:13:07,640 Speaker 7: bet on myself doesn't work so it's just literally. 1645 01:13:07,360 --> 01:13:10,120 Speaker 4: It will and it is and and I'm hoping it is, 1646 01:13:10,160 --> 01:13:10,519 Speaker 4: and you're. 1647 01:13:10,640 --> 01:13:13,840 Speaker 3: Waiting manifest Now I have a life coach that I'm 1648 01:13:13,840 --> 01:13:14,759 Speaker 3: getting now, like I'm. 1649 01:13:14,680 --> 01:13:17,920 Speaker 4: A life, Yes you are? 1650 01:13:17,920 --> 01:13:21,559 Speaker 3: You are since here you are a white woman, Yes 1651 01:13:21,640 --> 01:13:24,879 Speaker 3: I hate you, but are listen my life. 1652 01:13:25,000 --> 01:13:28,960 Speaker 4: That you can't eat bread like and you got a life? 1653 01:13:29,439 --> 01:13:33,559 Speaker 3: Yes, white woman when chases, wait until I get a 1654 01:13:33,560 --> 01:13:36,000 Speaker 3: fucking candle that smells like my vagina. 1655 01:13:36,240 --> 01:13:39,280 Speaker 4: Listen, does she have a candle that smells like Yeah? 1656 01:13:40,080 --> 01:13:43,599 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a seventy five sold out immediately and sold 1657 01:13:43,640 --> 01:13:47,200 Speaker 3: it seventy five dollars. I want to put candle because 1658 01:13:47,360 --> 01:13:48,240 Speaker 3: I don't know if you guys heard. 1659 01:13:48,280 --> 01:13:51,400 Speaker 7: Most recently, Rikabadou is selling a perfume that smells like 1660 01:13:51,400 --> 01:13:54,600 Speaker 7: her vagina. So I mean she'd have had kids and 1661 01:13:54,640 --> 01:13:58,000 Speaker 7: then bagged fucking all the niggas to mark bag the Marley. 1662 01:13:58,080 --> 01:14:02,240 Speaker 7: She'd be bagged common which I still want them con 1663 01:14:02,400 --> 01:14:06,679 Speaker 7: I'm here, vagina smells like Andre. She didn't came through 1664 01:14:06,840 --> 01:14:07,920 Speaker 7: to come through with the black men. 1665 01:14:08,000 --> 01:14:10,759 Speaker 3: Come through, you know, she did what needed to be done. Okay, 1666 01:14:10,840 --> 01:14:13,559 Speaker 3: so you got the surgery. We're gonna wrap this up. Yeah, 1667 01:14:13,560 --> 01:14:16,559 Speaker 3: no problem. Problem, you got the surgery. What is the 1668 01:14:17,439 --> 01:14:18,600 Speaker 3: what's the recovery time for that? 1669 01:14:19,840 --> 01:14:22,519 Speaker 7: It wasn't much. I mean should I I was back 1670 01:14:22,560 --> 01:14:25,200 Speaker 7: at work. I had surgery on a Saturday. I was 1671 01:14:25,280 --> 01:14:27,720 Speaker 7: back at work on a Thursday. Probably shouldn't have been 1672 01:14:27,760 --> 01:14:30,920 Speaker 7: that guy. Yeah, And it was more so just because 1673 01:14:30,920 --> 01:14:32,120 Speaker 7: you're using It's. 1674 01:14:31,920 --> 01:14:32,839 Speaker 4: The New York commute. 1675 01:14:32,920 --> 01:14:34,840 Speaker 7: I was going from the Bronx to Jersey City at 1676 01:14:34,840 --> 01:14:37,920 Speaker 7: this time, so it's just a lot of New York. 1677 01:14:37,760 --> 01:14:38,479 Speaker 4: Commuting is a lot. 1678 01:14:38,600 --> 01:14:40,760 Speaker 7: Leaving your house, you not only spend money, but you 1679 01:14:40,840 --> 01:14:43,280 Speaker 7: exert so much energy because you're fighting people, You're going 1680 01:14:43,360 --> 01:14:45,040 Speaker 7: up and downstairs the subway. 1681 01:14:44,720 --> 01:14:47,439 Speaker 4: You're trying to run for a trade whatever. But it 1682 01:14:47,479 --> 01:14:48,080 Speaker 4: wasn't that long. 1683 01:14:48,120 --> 01:14:49,880 Speaker 7: Like in the first month I dropped twenty five pounds. 1684 01:14:49,880 --> 01:14:51,760 Speaker 7: But in the first what is it, six to eight weeks, 1685 01:14:51,800 --> 01:14:54,240 Speaker 7: it was literally liquids only. Yeah, so just the energy 1686 01:14:54,320 --> 01:14:57,839 Speaker 7: was six to eight weeks liquid. You go from liquid 1687 01:14:58,000 --> 01:15:01,920 Speaker 7: to puree to soft food like a baby. Yeah, so 1688 01:15:02,000 --> 01:15:03,559 Speaker 7: the first three months was damn near that. 1689 01:15:03,880 --> 01:15:05,240 Speaker 4: You're really going through it. 1690 01:15:05,439 --> 01:15:07,519 Speaker 3: Yeah, But like I'm two years out, I feel great, 1691 01:15:07,560 --> 01:15:08,160 Speaker 3: I'm healthy. 1692 01:15:08,880 --> 01:15:11,760 Speaker 4: Is that surgery like this really expensive? I had. I 1693 01:15:11,800 --> 01:15:14,240 Speaker 4: was in school, I had Medicaid. Yeah, it paid for 1694 01:15:14,280 --> 01:15:14,719 Speaker 4: it fully. 1695 01:15:15,000 --> 01:15:16,599 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I had MEDICID at the time, so that's 1696 01:15:16,600 --> 01:15:17,760 Speaker 7: why I was like, oh, let me rush and get 1697 01:15:17,760 --> 01:15:18,759 Speaker 7: this while I'm still a student. 1698 01:15:20,080 --> 01:15:23,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, so it was it was free for me because 1699 01:15:23,240 --> 01:15:25,040 Speaker 4: for health reasons. Yeah. Yeah. 1700 01:15:25,080 --> 01:15:28,000 Speaker 7: But also if you just have a certain BMI. So 1701 01:15:28,120 --> 01:15:30,360 Speaker 7: my height with my weight put me at the BMI 1702 01:15:30,479 --> 01:15:33,360 Speaker 7: range where I was approved. But a lot of people 1703 01:15:33,400 --> 01:15:37,200 Speaker 7: with weight have shortness of breath, sleep apnea, high blood pressure, 1704 01:15:37,800 --> 01:15:41,240 Speaker 7: blood pressure, cholesterol. There's a lot of health reasons once 1705 01:15:41,280 --> 01:15:42,000 Speaker 7: you're a certain way. 1706 01:15:42,320 --> 01:15:45,120 Speaker 4: Okay, well but yeah, but yeah, you know, I love 1707 01:15:45,120 --> 01:15:51,519 Speaker 4: your journey, Mandy. It's you told us the whole story beginning. Literally, 1708 01:15:51,560 --> 01:15:54,720 Speaker 4: I was bartending, working job. Tell us what a year? 1709 01:15:54,800 --> 01:15:57,320 Speaker 7: I mean, uh, what month you what's your birthday? Oh, 1710 01:15:57,360 --> 01:15:59,720 Speaker 7: libra October eleventh. Although I don't believe in stars and 1711 01:15:59,760 --> 01:16:00,400 Speaker 7: moon and all. 1712 01:16:00,320 --> 01:16:03,280 Speaker 4: That bullshit, I be. I'm a liber too, But you 1713 01:16:03,320 --> 01:16:05,840 Speaker 4: started with the word libra, Yeah, because I know that's 1714 01:16:05,920 --> 01:16:07,599 Speaker 4: that's what people you know, I do. 1715 01:16:07,640 --> 01:16:11,800 Speaker 7: I believe that horoscopes are just an excuse for our toxic. 1716 01:16:11,520 --> 01:16:15,479 Speaker 4: Behavior or that's it. Literally, that's all I think it, well, 1717 01:16:15,520 --> 01:16:15,760 Speaker 4: I don't. 1718 01:16:15,960 --> 01:16:19,639 Speaker 3: I just mentioned I just asked why they was because 1719 01:16:19,680 --> 01:16:20,880 Speaker 3: we know everything about you and now we know. 1720 01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:22,320 Speaker 4: Your birthday, yeah, October eleven. 1721 01:16:22,600 --> 01:16:24,840 Speaker 3: But then it's so good for the listeners to know, 1722 01:16:25,080 --> 01:16:27,320 Speaker 3: like you could, you could be well versed, you can 1723 01:16:27,439 --> 01:16:29,600 Speaker 3: be you can do it all, Like you could be 1724 01:16:29,640 --> 01:16:32,519 Speaker 3: a bartender, you could have a podcast, you could have. 1725 01:16:32,479 --> 01:16:33,719 Speaker 4: Been an accountant. Finished. 1726 01:16:33,800 --> 01:16:35,800 Speaker 7: I finished one hundred and fifty one credits of school 1727 01:16:35,800 --> 01:16:37,640 Speaker 7: in four years, So I got two bachelor's degrees in 1728 01:16:37,640 --> 01:16:38,120 Speaker 7: four years. 1729 01:16:38,520 --> 01:16:41,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, but that's given imdbbit. 1730 01:16:43,000 --> 01:16:44,759 Speaker 7: That's the thing with us women. I think you guys, 1731 01:16:44,800 --> 01:16:48,400 Speaker 7: even as black women comedians. Yeah, there's a lot that 1732 01:16:48,439 --> 01:16:51,120 Speaker 7: you guys have to push through. And so right now, 1733 01:16:51,160 --> 01:16:55,800 Speaker 7: being a woman who's openly sexual, yeah, I feel like 1734 01:16:55,840 --> 01:16:58,320 Speaker 7: it's funny. I met a guy most recently at an 1735 01:16:58,600 --> 01:16:59,920 Speaker 7: event and he was like, Yo, I listened to you. 1736 01:17:00,280 --> 01:17:04,280 Speaker 3: You're the podcast. You speak so well that I was like, 1737 01:17:04,600 --> 01:17:05,639 Speaker 3: you really are different. 1738 01:17:05,680 --> 01:17:07,880 Speaker 7: I didn't expect certain things to come out of your 1739 01:17:07,880 --> 01:17:10,559 Speaker 7: mouth because because why I'm out here, second dick who 1740 01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:11,280 Speaker 7: is not sucking dick? 1741 01:17:11,320 --> 01:17:12,040 Speaker 4: Your mom suck dick. 1742 01:17:12,200 --> 01:17:15,160 Speaker 3: Like the Michelle Obama that we sold the praise to 1743 01:17:16,080 --> 01:17:23,400 Speaker 3: your children. 1744 01:17:23,080 --> 01:17:27,120 Speaker 4: I'm gonna sucks, Dick Beyonce. I don't think Oprah sucks. 1745 01:17:27,439 --> 01:17:28,560 Speaker 4: I think she's eating. 1746 01:17:28,280 --> 01:17:32,200 Speaker 3: Put or or Gail is eating Oprah's either way. 1747 01:17:32,200 --> 01:17:32,800 Speaker 4: But that's the thing. 1748 01:17:32,840 --> 01:17:35,639 Speaker 7: It's being in a space right now as not only 1749 01:17:35,680 --> 01:17:38,840 Speaker 7: a woman of color, but someone who's vocal about my 1750 01:17:38,960 --> 01:17:42,160 Speaker 7: sexual prowess. I think it's I'm very much judged with 1751 01:17:42,200 --> 01:17:44,280 Speaker 7: what people may think I'm capable of or what my 1752 01:17:44,320 --> 01:17:47,400 Speaker 7: actual journey is, and I'm just I'm discredited. 1753 01:17:47,439 --> 01:17:49,280 Speaker 4: Well, the thing, no, it's not that it's not that 1754 01:17:49,320 --> 01:17:49,960 Speaker 4: they're mad. 1755 01:17:50,240 --> 01:17:52,760 Speaker 3: They just they assume that when a woman is that 1756 01:17:52,960 --> 01:17:56,439 Speaker 3: open and that she's smart but right, and because she's 1757 01:17:56,439 --> 01:17:58,280 Speaker 3: a hoe, she's not smart, and that's it. But they 1758 01:17:58,280 --> 01:18:00,519 Speaker 3: don't know, they don't know your journey. We got the whole, 1759 01:18:00,960 --> 01:18:02,559 Speaker 3: we got. This was one of the first times that 1760 01:18:02,600 --> 01:18:04,120 Speaker 3: I really like had to go through this. So I 1761 01:18:04,120 --> 01:18:06,680 Speaker 3: appreciate you. Yes, and we saw the pegging video. Is 1762 01:18:06,680 --> 01:18:09,240 Speaker 3: there another pegging video? Like four or five? And I 1763 01:18:09,240 --> 01:18:12,240 Speaker 3: think so. The thing is, so I've always wanted to 1764 01:18:12,360 --> 01:18:13,519 Speaker 3: like I be I be in my. 1765 01:18:13,479 --> 01:18:15,320 Speaker 4: Bag, like like like I'm a nigg nick. 1766 01:18:15,680 --> 01:18:18,519 Speaker 7: So there's a video with his face, but only because 1767 01:18:18,560 --> 01:18:20,120 Speaker 7: at one point I was like, ooh, I want to 1768 01:18:20,120 --> 01:18:20,880 Speaker 7: make my dick jump. 1769 01:18:21,000 --> 01:18:23,599 Speaker 4: So after I put it out of him, I like, made. 1770 01:18:23,439 --> 01:18:25,360 Speaker 7: My strap jump and I wanted to record it, and 1771 01:18:25,920 --> 01:18:29,120 Speaker 7: so there is a video where he nutted and then 1772 01:18:29,320 --> 01:18:29,680 Speaker 7: I just. 1773 01:18:29,680 --> 01:18:32,240 Speaker 4: Let my dick jump just a little bit. And just 1774 01:18:32,240 --> 01:18:35,240 Speaker 4: because I was like, I think it's fun Well, I 1775 01:18:35,280 --> 01:18:39,320 Speaker 4: love it. We love a horrible decisions. Yeah, thank you. 1776 01:18:39,840 --> 01:18:41,400 Speaker 7: And it's funny because when you were like, oh, let's 1777 01:18:41,400 --> 01:18:43,120 Speaker 7: talk about pegging, I'm glad you know we just talked. 1778 01:18:42,920 --> 01:18:44,800 Speaker 3: About it, and then right out of it, no talk 1779 01:18:44,840 --> 01:18:48,080 Speaker 3: about everything. Okay, Well I'm looking to peg somebody in March. 1780 01:18:49,000 --> 01:18:50,960 Speaker 3: I can give you the l and I can let 1781 01:18:51,000 --> 01:18:51,799 Speaker 3: you know, like the strap. 1782 01:18:51,800 --> 01:18:54,200 Speaker 4: So it's funny. The strap that I used last time, 1783 01:18:54,360 --> 01:18:55,840 Speaker 4: he said it was a little hard. I just got 1784 01:18:55,840 --> 01:18:56,200 Speaker 4: a new. 1785 01:18:56,120 --> 01:19:04,519 Speaker 3: One then a little more, a little bit more soft. 1786 01:19:04,560 --> 01:19:04,840 Speaker 4: Okay. 1787 01:19:04,880 --> 01:19:08,560 Speaker 3: So for me as a as a novice pegging nigga, 1788 01:19:08,960 --> 01:19:12,120 Speaker 3: top three things that I should know going. 1789 01:19:11,880 --> 01:19:16,519 Speaker 7: Into it, Going into pegging, I think the number one 1790 01:19:16,560 --> 01:19:19,599 Speaker 7: thing is that you and him need to be open 1791 01:19:19,640 --> 01:19:23,040 Speaker 7: that you both want this and make sure you know 1792 01:19:23,080 --> 01:19:24,960 Speaker 7: he wants it as much as you want it, just 1793 01:19:25,000 --> 01:19:27,600 Speaker 7: so that when the action comes and takes place, it 1794 01:19:27,720 --> 01:19:30,160 Speaker 7: like leaves any of like the just talk about. 1795 01:19:29,920 --> 01:19:31,240 Speaker 4: It a lot before it actually has. 1796 01:19:31,240 --> 01:19:33,840 Speaker 7: So I'm gonna put talks, send videos to each other, 1797 01:19:34,320 --> 01:19:36,600 Speaker 7: start even including it in your sex talk, like I 1798 01:19:36,600 --> 01:19:38,800 Speaker 7: can't wait to bend you over, like, Oh, you're gonna 1799 01:19:38,800 --> 01:19:41,240 Speaker 7: take this like and just get him to start being 1800 01:19:41,240 --> 01:19:46,360 Speaker 7: comfortable with you, even saying, find out the size he 1801 01:19:46,400 --> 01:19:49,320 Speaker 7: can take. So either start with fingers, see if you 1802 01:19:49,320 --> 01:19:53,759 Speaker 7: can fit two three, But I mean you're. 1803 01:19:53,680 --> 01:19:55,559 Speaker 4: Out the well, I'm not gonna lie. 1804 01:19:55,560 --> 01:19:57,439 Speaker 7: Well, there's steps to this, so you don't just go 1805 01:19:57,640 --> 01:20:01,040 Speaker 7: right out. Yeah, no, you literally you want to start 1806 01:20:01,080 --> 01:20:03,120 Speaker 7: with eating first. If you don't, if you want to 1807 01:20:03,120 --> 01:20:05,600 Speaker 7: skip that part, that's fine, then grab you want to 1808 01:20:05,600 --> 01:20:08,400 Speaker 7: grab lube and see how many fingers he can take, 1809 01:20:08,439 --> 01:20:10,120 Speaker 7: because you do want to know how tight his hole is. 1810 01:20:14,240 --> 01:20:15,240 Speaker 4: Gonna be. 1811 01:20:16,240 --> 01:20:18,320 Speaker 6: Wait, so do you usually get with guys that have 1812 01:20:18,400 --> 01:20:20,719 Speaker 6: been pegged before? 1813 01:20:21,479 --> 01:20:23,000 Speaker 4: So, so I'll be honest with you. 1814 01:20:23,520 --> 01:20:27,200 Speaker 7: I'm someone who is very sexually fluid, So I've been 1815 01:20:27,240 --> 01:20:30,880 Speaker 7: with guys who have been fingered before. Yes, I have 1816 01:20:31,040 --> 01:20:34,479 Speaker 7: also been with guys who have been with trans women, okay, 1817 01:20:35,960 --> 01:20:39,240 Speaker 7: and whether they've bonded bottomed or not some of those details. 1818 01:20:39,240 --> 01:20:41,439 Speaker 7: I know they're just a little they're just not comfortable 1819 01:20:41,520 --> 01:20:44,360 Speaker 7: yet with even explore like telling me who they you 1820 01:20:44,400 --> 01:20:48,439 Speaker 7: know are, So yeah, I know that they're into antal play. 1821 01:20:48,560 --> 01:20:51,240 Speaker 7: They've fingered their own butts before I've gotten to go there, 1822 01:20:51,240 --> 01:20:52,680 Speaker 7: like I'll make them do that. I have a guy 1823 01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:54,799 Speaker 7: on my phone where I made him fingers on ass. 1824 01:20:55,840 --> 01:21:02,280 Speaker 7: So I mean it's his finger and it's his aid, 1825 01:21:02,760 --> 01:21:04,920 Speaker 7: so I mean it's something to where I have wanted 1826 01:21:04,960 --> 01:21:08,680 Speaker 7: to make sure, like we need to see how this 1827 01:21:08,800 --> 01:21:11,160 Speaker 7: opens up and if you're comfortable, and I also be 1828 01:21:11,240 --> 01:21:12,960 Speaker 7: sure to let them know I'm going to be gentle. 1829 01:21:13,000 --> 01:21:14,800 Speaker 4: I'm not gonna hurt you. I only want to do 1830 01:21:14,840 --> 01:21:16,040 Speaker 4: what's enjoyable for you. 1831 01:21:16,360 --> 01:21:18,479 Speaker 3: Oh okay, so I'm already I'm already going into it 1832 01:21:18,520 --> 01:21:20,320 Speaker 3: with the wrong attitude. Yeah no, no, no, no, you don't 1833 01:21:20,360 --> 01:21:22,920 Speaker 3: want to pound them to oblivion because because then he 1834 01:21:23,200 --> 01:21:24,920 Speaker 3: may be like, this wasn't enjoyable. I don't want to 1835 01:21:24,920 --> 01:21:28,000 Speaker 3: do this again again. Okay, So what's the third thing? Yes, 1836 01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:31,360 Speaker 3: the size that he can take, finger figure the size 1837 01:21:31,400 --> 01:21:34,200 Speaker 3: he can take, and then for you, this is what 1838 01:21:34,280 --> 01:21:34,920 Speaker 3: you do alone. 1839 01:21:35,400 --> 01:21:38,720 Speaker 7: Harnesses can can be uncomfortable they are, so you want 1840 01:21:38,720 --> 01:21:41,760 Speaker 7: to go, and you know this is a lesbian, so 1841 01:21:42,320 --> 01:21:44,559 Speaker 7: you want to go for me. When I was bigger, 1842 01:21:44,560 --> 01:21:47,200 Speaker 7: there was one that had padding and that adjusted around 1843 01:21:47,240 --> 01:21:50,200 Speaker 7: my thighs. It had a waste, there was a thing, 1844 01:21:50,320 --> 01:21:52,479 Speaker 7: but also there was a padding in the back because 1845 01:21:52,520 --> 01:21:54,800 Speaker 7: when you're pulling, it is going to be rubbing your back. 1846 01:21:54,840 --> 01:21:56,160 Speaker 7: And you also just want to be sure that you 1847 01:21:56,160 --> 01:21:58,559 Speaker 7: can adjust around your thighs. As a big thigh woman, 1848 01:21:58,840 --> 01:22:00,519 Speaker 7: I had to go in and make sure that harness 1849 01:22:00,520 --> 01:22:02,400 Speaker 7: went up well adjusted and. 1850 01:22:02,360 --> 01:22:03,920 Speaker 4: That I was able to take it off with ease. 1851 01:22:04,240 --> 01:22:06,280 Speaker 7: So I would say you, you're much smaller, so I 1852 01:22:06,280 --> 01:22:08,160 Speaker 7: don't think you're gonna have problems finding one, but you 1853 01:22:08,200 --> 01:22:11,800 Speaker 7: want one that's not gonna shafe you. You don't want 1854 01:22:11,840 --> 01:22:14,439 Speaker 7: to be shaped by your own by your own harness, 1855 01:22:14,560 --> 01:22:16,200 Speaker 7: so that's something that you can do on your own. 1856 01:22:16,280 --> 01:22:18,080 Speaker 7: And you want to make sure the dick is positioned 1857 01:22:18,160 --> 01:22:20,559 Speaker 7: r you also so that in the harness. 1858 01:22:20,760 --> 01:22:23,280 Speaker 3: You want to be sure that where you place your 1859 01:22:23,280 --> 01:22:26,720 Speaker 3: dildo is secure, because you don't want a flimsy dick 1860 01:22:26,760 --> 01:22:28,800 Speaker 3: because then you can't really stroke how you want to. 1861 01:22:29,000 --> 01:22:31,720 Speaker 3: So you want to be sure that even where you 1862 01:22:31,760 --> 01:22:35,800 Speaker 3: put the dill doo, it's tight around whatever size you do. 1863 01:22:36,080 --> 01:22:38,240 Speaker 3: And a lot of times the harness has come with 1864 01:22:38,320 --> 01:22:42,960 Speaker 3: different ring sizes for different size dildos, so you could 1865 01:22:43,000 --> 01:22:43,759 Speaker 3: start off small. 1866 01:22:43,840 --> 01:22:45,200 Speaker 4: I did start off small, like thin. 1867 01:22:45,560 --> 01:22:48,320 Speaker 7: Now I'm using ones because even you might also want 1868 01:22:48,320 --> 01:22:51,960 Speaker 7: to check his comfortability. The first person I pegged wasn't 1869 01:22:51,960 --> 01:22:54,479 Speaker 7: comfortable with the dil doo looking like a dick. 1870 01:22:55,560 --> 01:22:57,160 Speaker 4: So yeah, so. 1871 01:22:58,880 --> 01:23:00,559 Speaker 3: He didn't want it to look like dick, but he 1872 01:23:00,640 --> 01:23:04,479 Speaker 3: wanted right, so a lot of So I actually bought 1873 01:23:04,520 --> 01:23:08,640 Speaker 3: a prostate dildo. And so these dil do kind of 1874 01:23:08,640 --> 01:23:11,040 Speaker 3: the curve at the top, and so when I bought it, 1875 01:23:11,120 --> 01:23:13,000 Speaker 3: the lady at the store let me know that where 1876 01:23:13,000 --> 01:23:15,479 Speaker 3: the prostate is. Whether you have him on his back 1877 01:23:15,560 --> 01:23:17,439 Speaker 3: or on his stomach, it wants you need to make 1878 01:23:17,439 --> 01:23:20,880 Speaker 3: sure that the curve going up is towards the belly button. 1879 01:23:21,280 --> 01:23:23,840 Speaker 4: So if you're fucking him from the back, the prostate. 1880 01:23:26,200 --> 01:23:28,400 Speaker 7: And if you're fucking him on his stomach, you want 1881 01:23:28,439 --> 01:23:31,040 Speaker 7: the curve to be pointing up. So yeah, that was 1882 01:23:31,040 --> 01:23:34,320 Speaker 7: the first person. These the last two niggas, he came 1883 01:23:34,360 --> 01:23:36,680 Speaker 7: with me to pick it out. The one I mind you, 1884 01:23:37,200 --> 01:23:39,040 Speaker 7: I have used the same strap on different man. 1885 01:23:39,680 --> 01:23:48,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, hold on, because every time that lesbians like I 1886 01:23:48,400 --> 01:23:49,639 Speaker 3: gotta get a new dick for a new chick. 1887 01:23:49,640 --> 01:23:52,680 Speaker 4: I'm always like that sounds do and expensive and expensive. 1888 01:23:52,880 --> 01:23:55,800 Speaker 3: I have a lot of toy cleaners, like Lilo sent 1889 01:23:55,920 --> 01:23:57,000 Speaker 3: us a lot of toy cleaners. 1890 01:23:57,200 --> 01:23:59,040 Speaker 4: I boiled my dick. I talk about it often. 1891 01:23:59,080 --> 01:24:01,360 Speaker 3: You have a dickling pot or you use that to 1892 01:24:01,400 --> 01:24:02,479 Speaker 3: make noodles and stuff. 1893 01:24:07,040 --> 01:24:11,879 Speaker 4: Girl, I mean it's just bulling. You put your greens 1894 01:24:11,880 --> 01:24:14,080 Speaker 4: in the dick pot. Okay, no, that goes in a 1895 01:24:14,120 --> 01:24:19,880 Speaker 4: different podcast. Respect Well, you don't give a fuck, you know. 1896 01:24:21,200 --> 01:24:22,400 Speaker 4: But yeah, so I have. 1897 01:24:22,560 --> 01:24:24,599 Speaker 7: But again he said it was hard, So I got 1898 01:24:24,600 --> 01:24:27,080 Speaker 7: a new one. Also, both of them said they're willing 1899 01:24:27,080 --> 01:24:29,439 Speaker 7: to take a bigger one now. So like again, so 1900 01:24:29,520 --> 01:24:30,599 Speaker 7: what size are we at currently? 1901 01:24:30,680 --> 01:24:32,040 Speaker 4: So right now, I'm at six. 1902 01:24:33,040 --> 01:24:35,439 Speaker 7: This was a six inch dick on that you saw 1903 01:24:35,479 --> 01:24:37,720 Speaker 7: the video of and it's it's it's hefty. It's a 1904 01:24:37,720 --> 01:24:39,840 Speaker 7: good size the one I have now, I just got 1905 01:24:39,840 --> 01:24:42,760 Speaker 7: a mold of King Noir's dick, and that ship my 1906 01:24:42,800 --> 01:24:44,680 Speaker 7: hand doesn't even wrap around and my mouth couldn't go 1907 01:24:44,680 --> 01:24:46,680 Speaker 7: past the head. So I don't know what niggas taking it. 1908 01:24:47,080 --> 01:24:48,920 Speaker 7: I told him, I said, I'm grateful we ain't never 1909 01:24:48,920 --> 01:24:51,160 Speaker 7: did nothing, because you would have destroyed my whole inside. 1910 01:24:52,320 --> 01:24:54,679 Speaker 7: So again I may go up to maybe an eight 1911 01:24:55,120 --> 01:24:59,080 Speaker 7: and a half or but yeah, again I would say 1912 01:24:59,360 --> 01:25:01,880 Speaker 7: the third thing would be harness for you, Harness for me. 1913 01:25:02,000 --> 01:25:03,160 Speaker 4: Wanted to be also. 1914 01:25:03,000 --> 01:25:06,320 Speaker 7: Comfortable for you and you don't want fucking harness burns 1915 01:25:06,760 --> 01:25:07,559 Speaker 7: hope on your thigh. 1916 01:25:07,600 --> 01:25:09,240 Speaker 4: Or you're going to be at the doctor. I'm gonna 1917 01:25:09,240 --> 01:25:11,040 Speaker 4: be at the gym change and they can be like somebody, 1918 01:25:12,960 --> 01:25:17,479 Speaker 4: it's just the inside of that. So yeah, just that 1919 01:25:17,520 --> 01:25:21,120 Speaker 4: would be your your homework. Okay, do you feel like 1920 01:25:21,400 --> 01:25:22,880 Speaker 4: this is the girl? 1921 01:25:23,000 --> 01:25:26,200 Speaker 2: Yepkay I know all of that that is actual, factual 1922 01:25:26,280 --> 01:25:33,160 Speaker 2: and okay, so transparent with your directions. 1923 01:25:33,560 --> 01:25:36,479 Speaker 4: I love it. Okay, so before we go, do you 1924 01:25:36,520 --> 01:25:38,719 Speaker 4: have any questions? Before? Do you have any questions? 1925 01:25:38,800 --> 01:25:39,080 Speaker 5: Andrew? 1926 01:25:39,760 --> 01:25:41,040 Speaker 6: So, are these guys are they? 1927 01:25:41,200 --> 01:25:41,400 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1928 01:25:41,600 --> 01:25:43,840 Speaker 6: Are they like like, are they intimate at all? 1929 01:25:43,920 --> 01:25:49,120 Speaker 7: For them? So that all three of them have different stories. 1930 01:25:49,360 --> 01:25:53,760 Speaker 7: So the first one has let a guy suck as dick, 1931 01:25:54,439 --> 01:25:57,320 Speaker 7: but he's never been intimate and it's adamant that he 1932 01:25:57,400 --> 01:25:59,000 Speaker 7: doesn't care what they look like. 1933 01:25:59,120 --> 01:26:01,720 Speaker 4: It's just I think the power dynamic of it. 1934 01:26:02,520 --> 01:26:08,240 Speaker 7: The second one, he is more into trans women, and 1935 01:26:08,720 --> 01:26:10,240 Speaker 7: although I tried to like set up a three some 1936 01:26:10,320 --> 01:26:12,479 Speaker 7: with another guy, he's just like, listen, I'm not into men, 1937 01:26:12,640 --> 01:26:15,200 Speaker 7: but I'm into trans women, but I'm not. So that's 1938 01:26:15,240 --> 01:26:17,719 Speaker 7: something where again I want to be pleased. I'll watch y'all, 1939 01:26:17,720 --> 01:26:19,800 Speaker 7: but I don't want to be involved. And then the 1940 01:26:19,880 --> 01:26:22,840 Speaker 7: last one, he's done a gay for pay scene, so 1941 01:26:23,000 --> 01:26:26,400 Speaker 7: he has been opened up by a man, but doesn't 1942 01:26:26,479 --> 01:26:30,479 Speaker 7: like men either. So because he enjoys the anal play, 1943 01:26:30,600 --> 01:26:32,360 Speaker 7: I was the first woman to peg him and he 1944 01:26:32,400 --> 01:26:35,920 Speaker 7: wants that done a lot more. But that's because his 1945 01:26:36,040 --> 01:26:40,240 Speaker 7: primary wasn't open and dominating or pegging him. So yeah, 1946 01:26:40,280 --> 01:26:41,479 Speaker 7: those are the three, you know. 1947 01:26:41,880 --> 01:26:45,799 Speaker 4: I just love how hearing. Yeah and so and again I've. 1948 01:26:45,600 --> 01:26:48,920 Speaker 7: Had open conversations about what makes them comfortable, what they've done, 1949 01:26:49,320 --> 01:26:51,479 Speaker 7: like just to even let them know I don't give 1950 01:26:51,520 --> 01:26:54,040 Speaker 7: a fuck about like sexually, how you are. I do 1951 01:26:54,120 --> 01:26:56,040 Speaker 7: care about your health, but I want you to know 1952 01:26:56,080 --> 01:26:58,120 Speaker 7: I'm not here to expose, Like, be open with me. 1953 01:26:58,120 --> 01:26:59,599 Speaker 7: I'm not gonna judge you if you don't suck dick 1954 01:26:59,600 --> 01:27:01,120 Speaker 7: before I don't care I'll be. 1955 01:27:01,040 --> 01:27:02,960 Speaker 4: With a bisexual man. I don't like. That's not something 1956 01:27:02,960 --> 01:27:05,080 Speaker 4: that bothers me. Yeah, you're not that seen any. 1957 01:27:05,040 --> 01:27:08,160 Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, you're like your noodles in the same 1958 01:27:08,240 --> 01:27:11,160 Speaker 2: I mean I expect Matt, you boy or dick. You're 1959 01:27:11,320 --> 01:27:15,120 Speaker 2: not use recycled dicks, so. 1960 01:27:16,360 --> 01:27:19,719 Speaker 4: You ain't got no no room to gerge. Okay. 1961 01:27:19,800 --> 01:27:21,759 Speaker 3: So last thing that I want to ask you before 1962 01:27:21,760 --> 01:27:24,680 Speaker 3: we go, is is there anything that you want to 1963 01:27:24,800 --> 01:27:29,200 Speaker 3: leave the listeners with that you feel like you you missed, 1964 01:27:29,400 --> 01:27:32,720 Speaker 3: or you you got something coming up, or you just 1965 01:27:32,760 --> 01:27:34,599 Speaker 3: want them to know about themselves or whatever. 1966 01:27:35,400 --> 01:27:39,439 Speaker 7: I wouldn't say, not that I missed. I would I guess, 1967 01:27:39,479 --> 01:27:44,040 Speaker 7: want to leave your listeners off. But again, just finding 1968 01:27:44,080 --> 01:27:49,600 Speaker 7: what makes them happy in terms of sexuality, your friends, 1969 01:27:50,080 --> 01:27:53,879 Speaker 7: your family. You can't seek happiness from anyone but yourself. 1970 01:27:55,040 --> 01:28:01,439 Speaker 3: Okay, So circle, I just gearing up for the not 1971 01:28:01,560 --> 01:28:02,559 Speaker 3: the ted X though. 1972 01:28:04,240 --> 01:28:06,639 Speaker 4: Y'all gonna get this tad. I would say, I would 1973 01:28:06,680 --> 01:28:08,479 Speaker 4: say that just finding what makes you happy. 1974 01:28:08,560 --> 01:28:11,960 Speaker 7: Before you expect a man or a woman to please 1975 01:28:11,960 --> 01:28:13,840 Speaker 7: you in the bedroom, you find out what pleases you 1976 01:28:13,840 --> 01:28:17,040 Speaker 7: in the bedroom, Yes, but your own as you don't. 1977 01:28:16,880 --> 01:28:18,439 Speaker 4: Do that and see if you like it or not. 1978 01:28:19,439 --> 01:28:21,600 Speaker 7: And also yes, there is a lot coming up with 1979 01:28:21,640 --> 01:28:25,599 Speaker 7: Horrible Decisions. So if you guys care to come see 1980 01:28:25,640 --> 01:28:27,000 Speaker 7: us live, we are currently on tour. 1981 01:28:27,120 --> 01:28:27,559 Speaker 4: Fucking go. 1982 01:28:28,040 --> 01:28:29,840 Speaker 7: It's a really really good show, which y'all could have 1983 01:28:29,840 --> 01:28:31,560 Speaker 7: made it, but y'all had to show the same fucking. 1984 01:28:31,360 --> 01:28:34,599 Speaker 4: Night as us. What Night is your Shore? It's New 1985 01:28:34,680 --> 01:28:36,400 Speaker 4: York show was on Saturday in New York. 1986 01:28:37,920 --> 01:28:39,800 Speaker 7: And so anyways, yeah, we're on tour right now. You 1987 01:28:39,800 --> 01:28:42,000 Speaker 7: guys can check that out at Horrible Decisions dot com. 1988 01:28:42,120 --> 01:28:43,600 Speaker 7: If you guys haven't caught the gist, it is a 1989 01:28:43,640 --> 01:28:45,920 Speaker 7: sex based podcast, so you type in horror. 1990 01:28:46,000 --> 01:28:52,679 Speaker 3: You haven't if you haven't caught you it's a podcast 1991 01:28:52,720 --> 01:28:53,280 Speaker 3: about Christ. 1992 01:28:54,120 --> 01:28:55,599 Speaker 4: It went over your head there. 1993 01:28:55,680 --> 01:28:57,280 Speaker 2: No, no, no, no no, I want I want all my 1994 01:28:57,360 --> 01:28:58,719 Speaker 2: Christians to go to your pod. 1995 01:28:58,840 --> 01:28:59,720 Speaker 4: Yes about the Lord? 1996 01:28:59,760 --> 01:29:01,719 Speaker 7: I mean we have had a black, gay male pastor 1997 01:29:01,760 --> 01:29:06,679 Speaker 7: on our show talking about Yeah, no one who actually 1998 01:29:06,680 --> 01:29:10,840 Speaker 7: practices an administration in a ministry currently. But anyways, you 1999 01:29:10,840 --> 01:29:13,840 Speaker 7: can check out listen to Horrible Decisions wherever you listen 2000 01:29:13,920 --> 01:29:16,120 Speaker 7: to your favorite podcast. Type in whrror we pop up 2001 01:29:16,120 --> 01:29:18,479 Speaker 7: this w h O R E I B a lead 2002 01:29:18,560 --> 01:29:20,960 Speaker 7: Decisions And again if you want to check out our 2003 01:29:21,000 --> 01:29:24,120 Speaker 7: website that shows you what cities were coming to. I'm 2004 01:29:24,120 --> 01:29:25,800 Speaker 7: not sure when this is gonna drop, but we are 2005 01:29:25,880 --> 01:29:29,320 Speaker 7: hitting up Texas and then we're doing our whole kind 2006 01:29:29,360 --> 01:29:35,240 Speaker 7: of Southeast leg So in March we are hitting up Orlando's, Charlotte, Atlanta, 2007 01:29:35,760 --> 01:29:39,000 Speaker 7: Toronto and possibly New Orleans are waiting on that date, 2008 01:29:39,680 --> 01:29:40,519 Speaker 7: and then we are going. 2009 01:29:40,439 --> 01:29:41,360 Speaker 4: To do the West coast. 2010 01:29:41,400 --> 01:29:43,479 Speaker 7: And if you guys you heard us talk about hedonism here, 2011 01:29:43,720 --> 01:29:45,280 Speaker 7: we will be at Mochafest and Jamaica. 2012 01:29:45,400 --> 01:29:51,479 Speaker 4: So you guys woke up fast love. 2013 01:29:51,960 --> 01:29:53,640 Speaker 7: And again, if you guys want to just keep up 2014 01:29:53,640 --> 01:29:55,360 Speaker 7: with me and what I'm doing, I have a lot 2015 01:29:55,400 --> 01:29:58,000 Speaker 7: of solo projects that I am currently working on. The 2016 01:29:58,960 --> 01:30:04,840 Speaker 7: as sex focused I. 2017 01:30:02,800 --> 01:30:04,719 Speaker 4: You know, I was more than just second. 2018 01:30:06,880 --> 01:30:08,960 Speaker 7: I definitely want to get more into just talking more 2019 01:30:08,960 --> 01:30:10,280 Speaker 7: about the pop culture. 2020 01:30:10,960 --> 01:30:13,080 Speaker 4: I'm really big into music. Music has had a had 2021 01:30:13,120 --> 01:30:14,040 Speaker 4: a huge effect. 2022 01:30:13,760 --> 01:30:15,120 Speaker 7: On my life, so I definitely want to get more 2023 01:30:15,160 --> 01:30:17,960 Speaker 7: into the music space. And of course I said I 2024 01:30:18,000 --> 01:30:20,519 Speaker 7: would love to get into radio, So there's that, and 2025 01:30:20,560 --> 01:30:22,680 Speaker 7: then there is something in the works right now for 2026 01:30:22,720 --> 01:30:24,559 Speaker 7: Horrible Decisions that's going to be really big so I 2027 01:30:24,600 --> 01:30:24,960 Speaker 7: hope that. 2028 01:30:24,920 --> 01:30:30,679 Speaker 3: You guys it's real. We also yelling ebony. 2029 01:30:31,400 --> 01:30:32,479 Speaker 4: We were just an essence. 2030 01:30:33,040 --> 01:30:35,400 Speaker 7: And then I've I've had, you know, the pleasure. I 2031 01:30:35,479 --> 01:30:38,360 Speaker 7: was just featured in Huffington Post for Black History Months 2032 01:30:39,040 --> 01:30:41,000 Speaker 7: for a black hair addition. 2033 01:30:41,520 --> 01:30:42,040 Speaker 4: The hair. 2034 01:30:44,640 --> 01:30:46,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's coming out and. 2035 01:30:48,560 --> 01:30:50,320 Speaker 7: I'm gonna try to be more natural this year with 2036 01:30:50,360 --> 01:30:53,280 Speaker 7: my shortcut. Do what you Yeah, weaves is my thing. 2037 01:30:53,320 --> 01:30:54,200 Speaker 7: I love switching it up. 2038 01:30:54,760 --> 01:30:56,599 Speaker 3: So yeah, there's just a lot of things press wise 2039 01:30:56,640 --> 01:30:58,560 Speaker 3: that I've been doing, and I appreciate you guys. 2040 01:30:58,280 --> 01:31:01,360 Speaker 4: For sharing your platform with me. Of course, remember when 2041 01:31:01,360 --> 01:31:04,360 Speaker 4: you came to do Vice Live when I was on. 2042 01:31:04,400 --> 01:31:07,719 Speaker 3: It and I was like, oh, she hates us nose. 2043 01:31:07,720 --> 01:31:09,800 Speaker 3: You would be talking and you'd be like something about 2044 01:31:09,840 --> 01:31:12,320 Speaker 3: You'd be like, uh, something eating ass, and I'd be like, 2045 01:31:12,360 --> 01:31:14,200 Speaker 3: since you would ask me about eating ass? 2046 01:31:14,560 --> 01:31:16,680 Speaker 4: My dad? I want to say at one point we 2047 01:31:16,680 --> 01:31:18,800 Speaker 4: brought up your dad. Yeah you brought you were like 2048 01:31:19,080 --> 01:31:21,680 Speaker 4: you were like, good daddy hate it. And I was like, 2049 01:31:22,439 --> 01:31:22,840 Speaker 4: I was like. 2050 01:31:24,040 --> 01:31:24,200 Speaker 3: Not. 2051 01:31:26,160 --> 01:31:30,519 Speaker 4: Get cut the TV off talking about this no moment. 2052 01:31:30,760 --> 01:31:33,200 Speaker 3: So I was like, no, have brought our family members 2053 01:31:33,200 --> 01:31:33,800 Speaker 3: into this ship. 2054 01:31:34,720 --> 01:31:37,040 Speaker 4: She said nothing but good things about y'all. Yeah no, 2055 01:31:37,120 --> 01:31:39,080 Speaker 4: So I'm glad that y'all not only came. 2056 01:31:39,200 --> 01:31:42,000 Speaker 7: If you guys have not yet, it was a hilarious 2057 01:31:42,000 --> 01:31:44,519 Speaker 7: episode when y'all came on the Horrible Decisions, So check 2058 01:31:44,560 --> 01:31:44,840 Speaker 7: that out. 2059 01:31:44,880 --> 01:31:50,080 Speaker 3: You'll see sitting razy. It was unofficially experts or something. 2060 01:31:50,280 --> 01:31:53,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. 2061 01:31:53,360 --> 01:31:56,240 Speaker 2: But some of your listeners came over and good. They 2062 01:31:56,400 --> 01:31:57,160 Speaker 2: really liked y'all. 2063 01:31:57,200 --> 01:32:00,120 Speaker 7: They said that y'all are the you're our version of 2064 01:32:00,200 --> 01:32:01,760 Speaker 7: girls that actually like each other, so. 2065 01:32:04,840 --> 01:32:07,839 Speaker 4: They filled the love through the mic hashtag friendship. 2066 01:32:07,920 --> 01:32:08,080 Speaker 3: Man. 2067 01:32:09,640 --> 01:32:11,240 Speaker 4: No, but y'all were great to have on again. 2068 01:32:11,280 --> 01:32:13,519 Speaker 7: Weezy and I have a lot coming up, so thank 2069 01:32:13,560 --> 01:32:14,640 Speaker 7: you guys again for having me on. 2070 01:32:14,880 --> 01:32:17,559 Speaker 4: Man. We'll have and we'll have Weezy on it. Yes, 2071 01:32:17,640 --> 01:32:21,200 Speaker 4: that's very excited today. All right, well, I'm excited to 2072 01:32:21,200 --> 01:32:21,840 Speaker 4: for your ted talk. 2073 01:32:22,120 --> 01:32:24,759 Speaker 3: We'll figure out what dates you in the right cities 2074 01:32:24,800 --> 01:32:26,400 Speaker 3: that we want to be in and maybe we'll pull 2075 01:32:26,479 --> 01:32:27,280 Speaker 3: up to one of those cities. 2076 01:32:27,479 --> 01:32:27,920 Speaker 4: I would love it. 2077 01:32:28,000 --> 01:32:29,880 Speaker 3: Y'all got all access whenever y'all want to come. 2078 01:32:31,479 --> 01:32:31,839 Speaker 4: Amen. 2079 01:32:32,160 --> 01:32:34,280 Speaker 3: That mean I get the peg and there you got. 2080 01:32:35,360 --> 01:32:37,880 Speaker 3: I'm gonna bring my dick Dick on the plane. 2081 01:32:37,920 --> 01:32:40,560 Speaker 4: The one you boiled in your past. No, no, no, 2082 01:32:40,600 --> 01:32:42,600 Speaker 4: I'm a pot. I have a dick pot and a 2083 01:32:42,640 --> 01:32:43,160 Speaker 4: pasta pod. 2084 01:32:43,560 --> 01:32:47,440 Speaker 2: Not short nailed fingers ready penetrate. 2085 01:32:47,520 --> 01:32:49,280 Speaker 4: I'll put an SNS in somebody's butte. 2086 01:32:50,040 --> 01:32:51,720 Speaker 3: It might come out, the little powder might come out 2087 01:32:51,760 --> 01:32:53,960 Speaker 3: on his prostate, but I'm excited about it. 2088 01:32:54,880 --> 01:32:57,640 Speaker 4: Thank you, guys, so much. Thank you. This is an 2089 01:32:57,680 --> 01:33:00,360 Speaker 4: incredible episode. You give everything and more. 2090 01:33:00,560 --> 01:33:02,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, y'all ask literally, I don't know how y'all fit 2091 01:33:02,840 --> 01:33:04,200 Speaker 3: all of this until an hour and a half, y'all. 2092 01:33:04,520 --> 01:33:09,439 Speaker 3: Good time, motherfucking management, y'all story Pagan being a side chick, y'all, 2093 01:33:09,439 --> 01:33:13,920 Speaker 3: and we watched the video Andrew gwesome questions the more. 2094 01:33:13,960 --> 01:33:16,160 Speaker 3: When we get off air, well that means we gotta go. 2095 01:33:16,280 --> 01:33:18,600 Speaker 4: Bye, guys. 2096 01:33:19,040 --> 01:33:25,759 Speaker 5: Forever This has been a Forever Dog production executive produced 2097 01:33:25,800 --> 01:33:31,320 Speaker 5: by Brett Baham, Joecilio, and Alex Ramsey. 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