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Speaker 1: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. How far are you willing

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Speaker 1: to go to make love happen? You're willing to go

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Speaker 1: five feet, ten feet.

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Speaker 3: It's just when you emphasize make love instead of make

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Speaker 3: love happen. Came off like my mind was some Okay,

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Speaker 4: I would go up thousand.

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Speaker 1: Would you go across the pond? Make absolutely? Some of

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Speaker 1: our listeners have met people over in Europe and they

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Speaker 1: say I'm gonna fly over there and I'm gonna spend

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Speaker 1: my whole life savings and meet him, and then they

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Speaker 1: end up on the loser line a couple days later.

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Speaker 1: You know, yeahs wasn't really big Ben. But one of

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Speaker 1: our listeners, Carter, is willing to put everything at stake

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Speaker 1: and can even ask a bunch of dumb radio people

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Speaker 1: for help just to make love happen for him. I

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Speaker 1: love love. Let's do this, Carter. This is probably the

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Speaker 1: worst decision of your life. But welcome to the show man.

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Speaker 2: Hey, I thank you.

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Speaker 3: Okayo confidence right from the beginning. Yeah, dude, I'm so

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Speaker 3: excited to hear about this.

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Speaker 1: Will tell us about the situation that you're in and

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Speaker 1: why you're reaching out to us.

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Speaker 2: I guess I feel really guilty honestly. Uh oh even yeah,

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Speaker 2: even doing this. But it's like it's something that's eaten,

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Speaker 2: eating away at me, and I hope you guys can help.

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Speaker 3: Love shouldn't make you feel those things, guilt, shame, like

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Speaker 3: they're starting in a dark place.

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Speaker 2: It gets better. Okay, So you have any of you

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Speaker 4: Was attracted to me, but I never ever had.

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Speaker 1: I don't know about friends. If you say coworkers, you

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Speaker 1: might have a weird answer from Brooks.

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Speaker 2: Jeff.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's a messy situation though.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean I have a friend Eric. You

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Speaker 2: know we're not like best friends. Okay, you know we

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Speaker 2: known each other for a long time. We DAPT last

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Speaker 2: week if that means anything. Yeah, you know you have

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Speaker 1: Handshake Oh yeah, okay, close enough to DAP, but not

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like you're a smoker.

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Speaker 3: That's where we going to, all right. So he's like

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Speaker 3: he's like a buddy who hangs out in the group

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's one of the Yeah, he's one of the groups.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, gotcha.

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Speaker 2: Cool? His girlfriend, Maya, I'm in I'm head over heels

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Speaker 2: for her.

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Speaker 3: Whoa, that's a big statement.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's crazy.

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Speaker 3: How do you know her just through him?

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Speaker 2: Well, it's the crazy part is we all met. Like

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Speaker 2: I met her at the same party, the same time

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Speaker 2: three years ago, and he beat me to the punch basically.

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Speaker 2: Then it was just like, oh my god. So then

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Speaker 1: Oh well, that makes it.

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Speaker 4: That makes it sound better. It's still not a good thing.

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Speaker 4: It makes sound like, yeah, I've known him for years

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Speaker 3: So for three years, I mean, you met this woman

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Speaker 3: I'm guessing have only deepened. Is that what you're saying?

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Speaker 2: Way way deepened? Yeah, like I am smitten.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, those are strong words.

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Speaker 2: And here we are a few weeks ago. Guess what

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Speaker 1: Oh way better? Yeah, way better.

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Speaker 2: I know I know it's great news, but it's also

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean, it's I'm going to try

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Speaker 2: I'm kind of yeah, I don't like confrontation, and you know,

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Speaker 3: Do you I mean, do you know was it a

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Speaker 3: this for three years, it's just not going to work.

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Speaker 2: I don't know much about it. I know that that's

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Speaker 1: Actually does that make a difference.

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Speaker 3: I do think so, because if like Eric cheated on

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Speaker 3: That's that's my opinion. It's like, you screwed that up,

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Speaker 1: I think it's kind of strange that you haven't asked

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Speaker 1: you ask your you always ask your friend first, Hey,

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Speaker 1: do you mind if I move in on your ex?

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Speaker 5: I get why you'd want to avoid doing that.

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Speaker 3: I do think he has a good point to call

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Speaker 3: because it's like getting a new job, right, you don't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true, right, Yeah, but I was thinking it's

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Speaker 2: exactly what my thoughts were, that like, if there's no

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Speaker 1: Okay, you have obviously known Maya for at least three years. Now,

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Speaker 1: what's the vibe between you two? Has there ever been

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Speaker 2: Yeah? That's the thing that's crazy is that there's been

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Speaker 1: Anything anything more than that, I hope not.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, we've never done anything. But I tell you, like,

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Speaker 4: Do you two dap ROMANTICAP?

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Speaker 1: Long no, okay, so we're going to call her. So

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Speaker 1: now we're calling Maya.

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Speaker 2: Yep, I guess so.

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Speaker 3: And then next week we call Eric.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I guess. First we have to hear what

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Speaker 1: Maya has to say. That's true, We're going to play

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Speaker 1: after this. All right, awesome, all right, hold on Tuesday's

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Speaker 1: Like if you say the wrong thing, if you focus

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Speaker 1: like I've watched and waited for you for the past years.

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Speaker 1: Now that you're available, I'd like to smell your hair. Oh,

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Speaker 1: this time, when you're awake. It's the vibe that he

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we probably ask have you been smelling her hair?

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Speaker 2: Carter?

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Speaker 1: I mean when she's sleeping, you.

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Speaker 2: Want me to answer that honestly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Now, look, man, I don't want it to

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Speaker 1: advice from somebody who's been there, Brooke, the people in

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Speaker 1: her hometown. There had to be some crossover. Take a shot, Broke, Well,

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Speaker 1: it's easy.

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Speaker 3: What do you do, bro I don't disagree. So here's

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Speaker 3: the thing I think, because especially because you don't know

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Speaker 3: just don't mention him at all, Like you say that, hey,

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Speaker 3: you heard through the grapevine that she's single.

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Speaker 1: Pretend he's dead. No, no, okay, pretend the friendship never existed.

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Speaker 3: Just pretend like you don't know anything about her past

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Speaker 1: All right, don't bring up Eric Jose. What do you think?

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Speaker 4: Well, I just think in general, moving out of the

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Speaker 4: very difficult. So you need to make her laugh in

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Speaker 1: I mean, if you guys have a history together. You

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Speaker 3: That you share an inside Joe.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and that'll bring some familiarity, make it a little

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Speaker 1: bit less awkward. Let's give it a shot. Feel ready, Carter, dude.

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Speaker 3: Thing that can happen is that you're right back to

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Speaker 1: Worst thing is that it gets over to your friend

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Speaker 1: Eric and then don't think about that. Remember we're pretending

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Speaker 1: Eric is dead. Now we're going to dial the number.

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Speaker 1: Good luck, we'll be here, ready to jump in need

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hey, Maya, Hey, it's Carter. Hey, what's up?

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Speaker 5: Oh? Hi, how are you doing?

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Speaker 2: I'm good? Yeah, how are you doing?

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Speaker 2: What's up? I don't know? Hey, you remember it was

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Speaker 5: What party was first?

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Speaker 2: And Emily and Natalie Katie Katie. Uh, it was something

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Speaker 2: I'm talking about three years.

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Speaker 2: A party, yeah whatever, that it was too, I mean

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Speaker 2: and I don't know, you know, I don't know if

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Speaker 2: I ever told you that I was thinking. I didn't.

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Speaker 2: I didn't tell you that. I can tell you that.

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Speaker 2: Thank you anyway. I mean, yeah, so you know, I

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Speaker 2: I guess I heard about I heard about you and Eric.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry that oh yeah, yeah, yeah things.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just I mean just means it just means

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I guess so cool cool?

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Speaker 2: this might sound sort of I don't know, uh like quick,

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Speaker 2: so how much I don't know how much is there

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Speaker 2: Maybe there's some uh interest, maybe it's not interest, but like,

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Speaker 5: Oh you want you want to gauge my interest in you?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Like I'm just feeling things out with

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Speaker 5: You know, hold on, hold on hard, I need you

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Speaker 2: I don't know. That's a good question, am I Does

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Speaker 5: That you're doing this?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 5: You know, like he and I dated for like three years,

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Speaker 5: and aren't you guys like good friends or something. Isn't

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Speaker 2: No, I wouldn't say we're good friends. I mean I

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well I don't hate him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean either, I think exactly the same way

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Speaker 5: I'm like, hold on, hold on, are you single right now?

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Speaker 2: I mean I I mean I could get single pretty quickly.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hello, you're on the radio right now with Brooke and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: We're rescuing you from that car.

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Speaker 1: It's more on the radio than you are.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good point.

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Speaker 5: What is going on? I don't understand what's happening like

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Speaker 3: He did not do a very good job of explaining it,

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Speaker 1: We're helping out, Carter. He wanted to have a little

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Speaker 3: He's had a crush on you and wanted to ask

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Speaker 1: You're not a huge crush. It doesn't matter very healthy crush.

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Speaker 5: Carter.

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Speaker 1: Are you single or not? You didn't tell us that piece.

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Speaker 2: Uh yeah, I mean I can be I'm close. We're

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maya have you met his maybe maybe not girlfriend?

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Speaker 5: I don't think so. I know, like, you know, he's

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Speaker 1: It doesn't sound that's serious to me.

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Speaker 2: This up.

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Speaker 1: I mean, okay, let's not worried about the other people,

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Speaker 5: I mean like a little bit because someone else in

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Speaker 6: Uh, I mean it was Rick, But like, come on,

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Speaker 6: what a losers, like the worst friend group ever.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe Rick would do that. Rick jumped in

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Speaker 4: Wait, hold on, doesn't know you're you know, shooting your shop.

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Speaker 3: Did you say no to Rick?

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Speaker 2: Then?

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Speaker 6: Maya?

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Speaker 3: Is that what you're saying?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Like it all just seems like really fast and

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Speaker 5: like like is this like a joke? You know what

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Speaker 2: Like is this some joke joke?

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Speaker 1: And actually we talked to Carter a little bit about

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot more than Rick.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I mean, Carter, you didn't do a very good

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Speaker 1: I was nervous, Okay, I couldn't tell.

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Speaker 3: You, is there anything you want to tell her now?

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Speaker 2: So at that party when we met three years ago,

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Speaker 2: day and ever since then, every time I see you,

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Speaker 2: I want to hang hang out with you and be

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Speaker 2: with you. And I just got so excited that this

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Speaker 5: It was really sweet.

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Speaker 3: It isn't a good start.

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Speaker 5: I guess I'm just still very confused and caught off guard.

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Speaker 5: And I've only and single for three weeks. I'm like,

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Speaker 5: I think maybe I need like I need like more

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Speaker 3: That Yeah, yeah, that's not bad. You know, she's not

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Speaker 3: saying no forever, She's just saying give her some space

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Speaker 3: for right now. I mean, how does that feel to you?

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Speaker 1: Carter?

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Speaker 2: Well, it kind of pisses me off about the Rick thing,

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Speaker 2: but it's not.

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Speaker 5: Going for him at least.

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Speaker 3: Rick was fully single when he asked.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to bring it up, and I would

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Speaker 1: challenge Rick to a gentleman's duel if I done.

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Speaker 5: Then.

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Speaker 1: After this airs, I don't know how much is going

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Speaker 1: to be left, But it sounds like Carter, she needs

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Speaker 1: and think things over. Are you willing to wait, give

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Speaker 1: her like a thirty day grace period before you ask again?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, I can do that.

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Speaker 3: Just keep her away from the rest of your friends.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: What kind of friend is Rick to Eric asking her

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Speaker 2: out like immediately. I waited at least a day.

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Speaker 1: Carter, you are a true gentleman. Now go back to

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Speaker 1: your other girlfriend.