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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Becca is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jason.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and

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Speaker 2: see if you'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe

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Speaker 2: get her a second date. But first, Becca, how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Jason.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's been, oh my gosh, a week and a half.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's usually the sweet spot when he start to

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Speaker 1: panic a little bit.

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Speaker 4: Have you reached out.

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Speaker 5: To Yeah, well I really wanted him to reach out

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Speaker 5: to me, but I kind of gave in and I

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Speaker 5: did text him and haven't heard back.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, tell us about your date.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I really liked Jason my first impression. He was tall, scruffy,

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Speaker 1: like in a good way, and just sort of he

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Speaker 1: smelled really good, Like he smelled like this would.

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Speaker 6: Be a good decision.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, right, And something that stood out to

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Speaker 1: me like he I could tell that he was really

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Speaker 1: listening to me, like, like I actually really listened. I

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Speaker 1: was telling him kind of some of my hobbies and

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Speaker 1: how I loved biking and all things outdoors. And at

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Speaker 1: one point he even googled American elm trees when I

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Speaker 1: told him that that's my favorite kind of tree, so

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Speaker 1: like he really showed an interest and really care. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and our gate was fun.

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Speaker 4: It was it went really well.

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Speaker 1: We met at a coffee shop, so it was like,

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Speaker 1: you know, easy and cozy, good conversation. We had pastries

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Speaker 1: and coffee, and then it was actually going so well

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Speaker 1: that we decided there was a farmer's market that was

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Speaker 1: like around the corner. So we continued the date even

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Speaker 1: and walked the farmer's market. And that's how you know

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Speaker 1: it's a good date, because you know, caffeine basically turned

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Speaker 1: into produce.

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Speaker 3: So I.

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Speaker 1: Know, but I mean I clearly he was having a

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Speaker 1: good time, you know, because he didn't want He could

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Speaker 1: have just ended it, right, he could have just left.

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Speaker 4: So I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I've been trying to wrack my brain over what I.

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Speaker 6: What could have gone wrong.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand. And all I can really think is,

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Speaker 1: you know, we got we were walking around in the

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Speaker 1: farmer's market and we stopped at.

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Speaker 3: This stand.

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Speaker 1: With like a really amazing honey. And I don't know

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Speaker 1: if the honey lady did me d I don't know.

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Speaker 1: She wanted twenty five dollars for one tiny jar of honey,

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Speaker 1: and like, I'm sorry, that's insane, Like is it infused

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Speaker 1: with gold?

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: So I decided that I wanted to like haggle with

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Speaker 1: this honey lady. And you know, I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I'll do two for twenty five. She's like no, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: Fi'm two for twenty She's like, absolutely not. And we

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Speaker 1: sort of went back and forth, and you know what,

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Speaker 1: I won. I to one, and yes, I got two

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Speaker 1: jars for twenty dollars.

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Speaker 5: Guy.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 1: But when I looked at Jason, it kind of looked

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Speaker 1: like he wanted to sort of like melt into the sidewalk,

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Speaker 1: like you think he was embarrassing or something. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: And I and I didn't mean to be cheap or anything.

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Speaker 6: It just that was an insane It wasn't a good.

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Speaker 1: Deal yet, you know, and I wanted to kind of

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Speaker 1: yeah right.

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Speaker 6: So I don't know if that did it. I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I swear the rest of the.

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Speaker 1: Day was great. We laughed, he was laughing, We got

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Speaker 1: kettle corn. He carried my bag, like my my toe bag.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I just I really I was shocked

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Speaker 1: when I didn't get a text back from him, because

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Speaker 1: I really really thought that he was interested.

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Speaker 3: And I was so shocked I thought.

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Speaker 1: Maybe his phone died or maybe he even got recruited

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Speaker 1: by the honey cart.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 4: All right, Well, we'll see if we can figure it

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Speaker 4: out for you.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song come back, and then call him

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Speaker 2: and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you

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Speaker 2: and maybe get you a second date.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I hope so, because I need some answers, because seriously,

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Speaker 1: like if I actually got ghosted over trying to save

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Speaker 1: five dollars, that would be tragic.

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Speaker 4: Well, we'll get your first date follow up next.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first date follow up

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Speaker 2: and if you're just joining us, Becca is on the

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Speaker 2: phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jason.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call him and see if he'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her

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Speaker 2: a second date. But first, Becca, before we call him,

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Speaker 2: give us a breakdown of your dat again real quick.

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Speaker 3: Sure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we had a great date at a coffee shop

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Speaker 1: that went really well that we then extended to walking

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Speaker 1: around the farmer's market, and everything seemed really great. We

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Speaker 1: were laughing and enjoying our time together, great conversation. But

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Speaker 1: I haven't heard that from him, and I'm.

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Speaker 5: Guessing it's maybe because.

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Speaker 1: He didn't like when I haggled with the honey lady

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Speaker 1: to try to get a better price for the honey.

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Speaker 1: But honestly, if that's not it, I don't know what

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Speaker 1: it is, and I'm hoping I can get some answers.

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Speaker 4: People are a little bit weird when it comes to money,

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Speaker 4: so I don't know they do. Are you ready for

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Speaker 4: us to call him?

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Speaker 6: Let's do it?

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Speaker 4: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 6: Hello.

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Speaker 4: Hi, I'm I speaking to Jason. Please.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm Jason.

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Speaker 2: Hey Jason, how are you. This is a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called The Jewbil Show. Hi, Jason Imina and my

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Speaker 2: name is.

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Speaker 6: Up Hey wait on the radio right now?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Have you ever listened to the Jubil Show before?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I know.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, cool. Well guess what. Nice to meet you.

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Speaker 6: Uh?

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Speaker 4: You know. We do a segment called the First Date

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Speaker 4: follow Up.

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Speaker 2: That's where if you go on a date with somebody

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Speaker 2: and you ghost them, that person can email us to

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Speaker 2: ask you why you're ghosting them and we got an

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Speaker 2: email about you.

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Speaker 6: Jason God, Okay, wow, who's happening?

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Speaker 4: Yeah it is? Do you have any idea who would

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Speaker 4: email us?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I think so, but you say the name first because

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Speaker 6: I don't want to.

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Speaker 4: Let's count to three and we'll both say it. Ready, one? Okay, three? Becca?

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Speaker 4: You were late? Is that it?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Well yeah, Becka emailed us. She said that she

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Speaker 2: really liked you. You guys had a great date, but

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Speaker 2: now you're not calling her back? Do you mind telling us?

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Speaker 4: Why?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, damn. I don't know why. I'm getting shy of

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Speaker 6: this clo awkward. I guess I'll just say it. Uh.

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Speaker 6: It was the baby voice? No, I just yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 6: you know what she would do a baby voice, And

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Speaker 6: once I heard it, I just couldn't unhear it.

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Speaker 4: And when did she do it? Was she talking to

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Speaker 4: you and a baby voice?

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Speaker 6: No? No, I mean I thought that's where I was

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Speaker 6: We stopped in a tomato stand, you know, Airlin tomatoes

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Speaker 6: and every color there is, and she started talking to

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Speaker 4: Like, how can you please give us an example, and.

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Speaker 6: She just was like what she do? Okay, give me

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Speaker 6: a second, and she was like, kiny tomato somato so

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Speaker 6: shiny suck Nigi budgy juicy boy like that, you know, okay,

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Speaker 6: and she was like, he's saying, look at this widow tomato. Man,

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Speaker 6: he's so speaking too, and I just could squeish him,

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Speaker 6: and you know, one she did just did and then

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Speaker 6: she did like voices for like multiple tomatoes, but they

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Speaker 6: just wouldn't end. And it was cute, maybe a little

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Speaker 6: cute at first, and then and then they just kept

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Speaker 6: don't know, I just felt like I needed to come

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Speaker 6: up with an escape, lamb, you know.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So yeah, baby voice not a fandom, the baby

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Speaker 2: all right, Well, thank.

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Speaker 4: You for telling us, Jason.

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Speaker 2: Also, I have to remind you that Becca is actually

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Speaker 3: Wait at shoes here, yes, m m oh okay, okay,

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Speaker 3: So it wasn't the honey, Like I had a little peach.

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Speaker 1: Prepared about importing local beekeepers because I thought it was.

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Speaker 3: Like you were mad at not the honey honey, no no, no,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I was haggling with the lady about the price,

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Speaker 1: and I thought that I maybe embarrassed you or offended

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Speaker 1: It was the tomato.

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Speaker 6: No, it wasn't the tomatoes. It was the baby boys.

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Speaker 6: He used to talk to the tomatoes.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but they were adorable, like one was literally the

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Speaker 3: Okay, I mean I was just fun. You called it

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Speaker 6: Woud in public?

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Speaker 3: And U I stand by that.

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Speaker 6: People staring at us like we were filming an episode

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Speaker 6: of so I don't know, the Bachelor of Farmer's Market Edition,

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Speaker 6: so what.

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Speaker 1: I can't show enthusiasm, especially for produce, but you can.

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Speaker 6: You know, there's enthusiasm and then there's you know, I.

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Speaker 7: Don't know, full on baby talk performance like you're doing,

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Speaker 7: like I don't know, a one person's show or something

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Speaker 6: It was got weird, just got me worried of like

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Speaker 6: is this what it's going to be like in the future.

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Speaker 6: Is like for a little everyday interactions like if we're

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Speaker 6: going to the coffee shop or getting our oil change,

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Speaker 6: or you're just going to be like, oh, you little little.

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Speaker 1: Oil you know what, you don't want me saying like

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Speaker 1: this little couch is too expensive.

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Speaker 4: Went Sea, that's cute.

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Speaker 6: It's cute, but weird for me, and no, like, yeah,

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Speaker 6: I can see getting on my nerves or just you know,

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna say it's turn off.

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Speaker 1: Oh but it's just a little too much for our

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Speaker 1: little sensitive Jason wasted on. I'm having fun with it, Seriously,

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to have fun and like light in

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Speaker 6: Like that's why you're not going me back. Yeah, it

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Speaker 6: reminds me of an overbearing auntie.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like some East.

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Speaker 6: Coast auntie that is just you know, I think you're

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Speaker 6: really cute, but then that voice really is not something

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Speaker 6: that does it for me, and then you know, it

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Speaker 6: kind of ruins the moved.

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Speaker 2: Well, Jason, would you like another day with Becca? Will

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Speaker 2: pay for it?

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Speaker 6: No, I think I'm good. I think my grocery trips

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Speaker 6: have enough drawa and so.

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Speaker 1: Well fine and more juicy boy for me, it's your

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Speaker 1: last David, I'm sorry I didn't.

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry. You could have even just told me and

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Speaker 6: I would have stopped.

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Speaker 1: But all good, that's fair, Okay

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Speaker 4: You will first date, follow up