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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? Is your girl licks Pete.

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Speaker 2: And it's your girl Dread and the Code.

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Speaker 3: And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor.

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Speaker 2: Mine and where drunk Mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 3: We gotta guess today, We gotta guess today.

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Speaker 1: I am so exciting. I love it. We have like

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Speaker 1: the girls. I know we're gonna have.

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Speaker 4: Some good girl talking today.

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Speaker 1: So we got Crystal Rede in that building. Look sister's

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Speaker 1: booked the business and.

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Speaker 3: A thank you for squeezing us in your schedule out here,

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Speaker 3: people of people, you know, just a little rundown of

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Speaker 3: you know who exactly crystalinate.

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Speaker 4: Christopher Renee is a Jane of all trades. That's what

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Speaker 4: I like to spare myself. I sing, I act, I produce,

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Speaker 4: I do hair, I do makeup, I do all the things.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say. Thanks is beat, honey, Yes it is.

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Speaker 4: I'm not responsible for the hair. But I did do

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Speaker 4: my face today.

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Speaker 1: Yeah it looks good, thank you.

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Speaker 4: But yeah. I moved to Atlanta in two thousand and

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Speaker 4: nine to pursue music and acting, and it took about

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Speaker 4: ten years for everything to really like hit. Yeah they

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Speaker 4: always say it takes ten years. To make an overnight success.

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Speaker 4: And I can attest to that. And now I am sorry.

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Speaker 4: On Sisters, Tyler Perry sister is on BT amazing, I

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Speaker 4: have my own.

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Speaker 1: She's about to ask you something.

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Speaker 4: She's like, I need the I have my own spin

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Speaker 4: Offica Teama on BT plus congratulate and thank you. And

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Speaker 4: then I just did a movie with Will Packer Productions

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Speaker 4: titled Praise This. I played the first lady. So that

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Speaker 4: was fun.

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Speaker 1: An angel.

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Speaker 2: You know, yes, you can really sing like you walked

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Speaker 2: the party.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I was listing.

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Speaker 5: You sound like me.

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Speaker 1: All Right, They said, all right, you take it too far.

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Speaker 1: Everybody was like, everybody said else. Okay, So let's.

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Speaker 3: Start with the beginning of your journey because I like

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Speaker 3: the fact that you said that. I feel like people

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Speaker 3: ask us that all the time, like how did y'all

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Speaker 3: it takes time. So talk about like the beginning of

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Speaker 3: I want to do entertainment.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was two thousand and eight. I was working

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Speaker 4: I realized politics was not for me. I was like,

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Speaker 4: You go to work every day and see like all

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Speaker 4: the laws that were being made that weren't aren't good

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Speaker 4: for your people, you know, So to see that every day,

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Speaker 4: I was like, this just isn't for me. So I

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Speaker 4: So I looked at Atlanta and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 4: My townhouse is already packed up.

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Speaker 4: Let's go. And I called my uncle and I said, hey, unc,

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Speaker 1: Like a year.

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Speaker 4: I try to be reasonable because we say six months

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Speaker 4: On the way, he said, come on. And it was

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Speaker 4: That first year was so hard y'all. I couldn't find

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Speaker 4: I got a job at the complex, which is ran

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Speaker 4: He had an artist development center upstairs. He had a

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Speaker 3: Look, you can I can stop answering the phone, Go

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Speaker 4: Like it worked, And I did that and then just

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Speaker 3: So how was it like working background though? Because I

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Speaker 3: Sometimes they really didn't get to eat like that because

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Speaker 4: And for me it was just being on set, being

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Speaker 4: I never looked at it as like I don't want

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Speaker 4: To make sure that you like figure it out, get

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Speaker 1: So how can you properly like network in that situation?

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Speaker 4: So it's crazy, like those relationships that you build, you

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Speaker 4: we're all growing together anym. Yes, so it's really beautiful

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Speaker 3: Yay, go ahead.

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Speaker 2: So how did you end up getting the position being

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Speaker 4: So in twenty twelve I started working at the studio.

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Speaker 4: Even when I was working, I would literally go I'd

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Speaker 4: I just got an audition. Can you take me real quick?

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Speaker 4: So people who like worked with me during that time

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Speaker 4: my goodness, you really did it.

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Speaker 3: I mean the way you talk about it though, I

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Speaker 3: that's what people don't realize, y'all really don't just don't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we tell people that are the time, Like you

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Speaker 2: That's the only way don't come to.

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Speaker 4: That's so true. And then then after that happened, Tyler

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Speaker 4: He said, it's going to be small, but what you

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Speaker 3: I'll be like, Okay, I'm gonna start see I'll be

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Speaker 2: It's so good because it's so much drama.

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Speaker 9: You'll be like, ain't no fucking way, Ain't no fucking way.

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Speaker 3: But honestly, I feel like, because like I said, i'm looking,

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Speaker 4: We are all in that it's hard.

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Speaker 3: Because this is real like it that's what we're gonna

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Speaker 7: I don't know if you guys are familiar with that term.

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Speaker 7: So that's kind of where we got the inspiration from

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Speaker 7: this one. We're gonna have some tequila for Andrea, and

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Speaker 3: About like dating and stuff, and you know, sometimes you

444
00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:57,719
Speaker 3: like you meet a guy and he may be everything

445
00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:00,399
Speaker 3: you want. It's just like it's so much fun. And

446
00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:04,040
Speaker 3: then you realize he got a ride or die. Y'all

447
00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:07,080
Speaker 3: know those ridder dies. They not going nowhere, going nowhere.

448
00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:09,080
Speaker 1: And I was talking about that.

449
00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:11,919
Speaker 3: I was like, you know what, that's low key some baggage,

450
00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:13,080
Speaker 3: cause if I'm.

451
00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:16,160
Speaker 1: Not a rod or Die, I'm not giving that like now.

452
00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:19,879
Speaker 3: It depends like well, it's like if I it's like,

453
00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:21,679
Speaker 3: if you're like putting me through why do we have

454
00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:23,320
Speaker 3: to go through hell to prove that.

455
00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:24,760
Speaker 1: I love you? You know what I'm saying.

456
00:20:25,119 --> 00:20:26,760
Speaker 3: So we started talking about I don't know if y'all

457
00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:29,719
Speaker 3: remember a long time ago Karen Stephan Superhead did an

458
00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:32,720
Speaker 3: interview when she was like, yeah, I tell everybody that

459
00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:35,000
Speaker 3: I date. I even told my fiance like, if Wayne

460
00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:39,760
Speaker 3: calls me, I'm gonna go Like yeah. She was like,

461
00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:41,320
Speaker 3: if he calls me in the middle night, I'm leaving.

462
00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:44,639
Speaker 3: Like I'm not leaving him. So I was thinking about it.

463
00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:46,440
Speaker 3: I mean, that's how business. But I was thinking about

464
00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:49,639
Speaker 3: it from like his maybe fiance our girlfriend's perspective, like

465
00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:52,879
Speaker 3: you have this girl, it don't matter if he proposed

466
00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:53,119
Speaker 3: to you.

467
00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:57,600
Speaker 1: If you get pregnant. She's not going any where.

468
00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:00,879
Speaker 3: So I realized, like, I add that to my list

469
00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:03,359
Speaker 3: of deal breakers. If you got a rod at all,

470
00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:06,679
Speaker 3: please let me know so I can move around. I'm like,

471
00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:07,760
Speaker 3: you can't compete with that.

472
00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:09,959
Speaker 2: But how you don't know because I feel like Nigga's

473
00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:11,359
Speaker 2: not gonna tell you about the bottom.

474
00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:13,600
Speaker 3: They not gonna tell you, but she gonna be there.

475
00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:17,280
Speaker 3: She gonna be there. That's a bottom bitch. Gonna literally

476
00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:19,480
Speaker 3: be at the club pulling yo shot up.

477
00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:20,520
Speaker 1: That's how down.

478
00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:24,800
Speaker 3: Not at the club, I mean, but I'm saying that's

479
00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:25,520
Speaker 3: how they do.

480
00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:26,480
Speaker 1: You won't know.

481
00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 3: She'll be in your facts cause Larry, she don't care as.

482
00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:30,280
Speaker 1: Long as she's around.

483
00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:32,920
Speaker 2: Like, you can't tell by the energy. Like I feel

484
00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:34,760
Speaker 2: like I done been around a guy that I was

485
00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:37,280
Speaker 2: dating and it was another girl around, and I could

486
00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:39,480
Speaker 2: tell by the chemistry. I can tell about the interaction.

487
00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:41,800
Speaker 2: Y'all used to have something else going on.

488
00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:47,000
Speaker 4: He said, because I gave him before.

489
00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:51,399
Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like it just depends on the person.

490
00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:53,080
Speaker 3: I mean, sometimes you have people where you can tell

491
00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:54,480
Speaker 3: the energy, but sometimes you have it.

492
00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:56,720
Speaker 1: Where you can't really tell.

493
00:21:57,480 --> 00:22:00,080
Speaker 3: Like remember when that situation I told you that we

494
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:01,560
Speaker 3: talked about this on the show a while back when

495
00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:03,399
Speaker 3: I went on a date with a guy and it

496
00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:05,480
Speaker 3: was weird because a girl showed up.

497
00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:07,640
Speaker 1: And I was like, did you tell me a girl?

498
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:08,200
Speaker 2: Yeah?

499
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:08,720
Speaker 1: Like okay.

500
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:10,639
Speaker 3: So we went to eat and then we went to

501
00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:12,000
Speaker 3: like this like day party thing.

502
00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 1: We were like in a.

503
00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:14,800
Speaker 3: Section and then he was like, oh, hey, my homegirl

504
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:17,720
Speaker 3: about to come up here. And then when she came,

505
00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:21,040
Speaker 3: I'm like, I ain't stupid, yeah, and I ain't stupid,

506
00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:21,959
Speaker 3: like she was a battye.

507
00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:24,400
Speaker 1: I was like, girl, So I'm being all friendly, I'm

508
00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:27,160
Speaker 1: being cute. I'm like, you fucking this man, and I'm

509
00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:27,760
Speaker 1: about to go.

510
00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:33,560
Speaker 3: I I don't want know, I don't want no part.

511
00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 3: And that's my realized like because we have a lot

512
00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:40,439
Speaker 3: of mutual friends. So he started dating another girl and

513
00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:43,560
Speaker 3: he had like a birthday party and the girl that

514
00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:45,560
Speaker 3: I had met was there just sitting in the corner.

515
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 4: She's hurt.

516
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:50,119
Speaker 1: Oh she she's the ride or dies. I'm not sticking.

517
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:53,199
Speaker 1: I can't do it, no, thank you, I can't do

518
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:53,640
Speaker 1: it either.

519
00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:58,120
Speaker 2: I feel like everybody that's bold to me too. It's

520
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,240
Speaker 2: very bold and disrespectful because you know you used to

521
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:02,919
Speaker 2: be dating this girl. You know, I used to have

522
00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:04,560
Speaker 2: something going on. Why do you have her around me

523
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:06,840
Speaker 2: and you're not letting me know what's going on because

524
00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:07,440
Speaker 2: they don't care.

525
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:09,040
Speaker 1: I don't like that.

526
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:11,880
Speaker 3: And like I said, you cannot compete with a rodor

527
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:13,280
Speaker 3: eye because it don't matter what you do.

528
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 1: You can punch on the face. I see half her man, baby.

529
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,480
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just saying that some women are violent.

530
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:23,000
Speaker 1: Me I just move around.

531
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:26,000
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is it doesn't matter what you do,

532
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 3: She's not going. So that's why I say, girls, find

533
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:31,919
Speaker 3: out if your man got a ride it Doe. I

534
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:34,280
Speaker 3: just had that conversation with Lauren this morning. SHOTU to Lauren.

535
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, no, ride it does so because

536
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:41,000
Speaker 3: I think when people say like, oh, do you have baggage,

537
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:44,399
Speaker 3: they thinking about kids, like an ex wife or an

538
00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:46,520
Speaker 3: ex girlfriend that you've been dating for a long time.

539
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:49,200
Speaker 3: A rododized somebody you ain't never even been in a relationship.

540
00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:50,879
Speaker 3: She just love you down real bad and she's been

541
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 3: there for ten years. Make sure you ask. Okay, all right,

542
00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:58,160
Speaker 3: go ahead, Drake, get into the first topic.

543
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:00,760
Speaker 2: So for the first time, I think we really wanted

544
00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 2: to talk about like the importance what you said, the

545
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 2: importance of moving like a lady.

546
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:07,960
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk about it.

547
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:11,080
Speaker 2: Kind of like in this industry as far as like

548
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:14,200
Speaker 2: dating and everything, but then also just in life and

549
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 2: in general, Like I really want to make it like

550
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 2: a generalized topic because I think that a lot of

551
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:23,679
Speaker 2: the times sometimes women feel like they can't pass up

552
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:27,840
Speaker 2: on opportunities, like anybody there, try to talk to them.

553
00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 2: If it's somebody who have emotion or somebody that's having

554
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,040
Speaker 2: something going on, you like, okay, well let me go

555
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 2: ahead and see what he talking about. And then it's

556
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:35,439
Speaker 2: another dude, let me go ahead and see what he

557
00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 2: talking about. Before you know it is just like it's

558
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:39,600
Speaker 2: the pass around.

559
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:41,240
Speaker 1: You wake up and you to pass around.

560
00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 2: It's okay sometimes to just pass up on talking to

561
00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:48,240
Speaker 2: people because even despite what they have going on, y'all

562
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:51,439
Speaker 2: still might not be compatible. Yeah, absolutely, you don't even

563
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:54,119
Speaker 2: know if you like this man, you might not like them.

564
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 2: So I kind of wanted to talk about that because

565
00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 2: I think that's the.

566
00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:59,639
Speaker 3: Really because I know the guys be coming at you right,

567
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 3: you got your ship together. You're beautiful, you know what

568
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 3: I'm saying, And you're are you single, I don't want

569
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:06,160
Speaker 3: to I'm dating.

570
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 1: You're dating, right, Okay, so talk about it.

571
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:12,200
Speaker 3: I guess you're watching.

572
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:16,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, he like if he watched this, he's gonna be like, oh,

573
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 2: you're dating.

574
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 1: But I mean, like even before, like when you first

575
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 1: got in the.

576
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 3: Look on time say it every time, but no, but

577
00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 3: even when you were single, like before either way, talk

578
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:39,680
Speaker 3: about that because I know a lot of times men

579
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:44,240
Speaker 3: were you know, approaching you, I'm sure, promising opportunities things

580
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:47,440
Speaker 3: like that. So how did you like maneuver around that?

581
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:47,920
Speaker 1: Yeah?

582
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:53,160
Speaker 4: I was very mindful of the spaces I put myself in,

583
00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:55,679
Speaker 4: especially even when I was pursuing music. It's such a

584
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:59,120
Speaker 4: male dominated history, and I had to be very careful

585
00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:01,280
Speaker 4: because I never want to have my name out there

586
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:03,919
Speaker 4: like that. My mom always taught me to carry myself

587
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:05,840
Speaker 4: as if I'm in a relationship even when i'm not.

588
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 4: So I think that's a lot of times why guys

589
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 4: don't even approach me because they're like, she's just looking

590
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 4: out of my wife. Yeah she's you know, And I

591
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 4: like that.

592
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're excluding white is you know?

593
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 4: Because the right one will approach you. Yeah, So that's

594
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 4: how I moved. I've always moved you. I'm saying, like

595
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 4: a lady, and I never I didn't. I didn't say

596
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 4: yes to everything. And I'm still like that, yeah, you know,

597
00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 4: because I just didn't want that name. Because it's a

598
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:32,919
Speaker 4: small world. And when I tell you this industry.

599
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 2: Here in Atlanta street here in Atlanta, and then this

600
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 2: industry makes it even smaller. But it's like it's a

601
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 2: super small way. So you have to be careful who

602
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 2: you're associating your and not only that, to be taking

603
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 2: seriously trying to have longevity with your career.

604
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:51,360
Speaker 3: I feel like sometimes and like I said, we get

605
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:52,919
Speaker 3: on the women today because this is what y'all do.

606
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 3: Sometimes women be so happy just to be around you.

607
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:57,639
Speaker 3: Don't even realize you're talking to the help.

608
00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 4: Yep.

609
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 1: That's why you talking to a little home.

610
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 3: So that's why when they invite you out, you got

611
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:05,879
Speaker 3: to be like, Okay, well let's go kick it. I

612
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:07,239
Speaker 3: don't even want to go to dinner because I need

613
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 3: to see if they sending you to the store for

614
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 3: black and miles. But we need even know what's going on.

615
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,440
Speaker 3: I need to make sure you're not the little errand boy.

616
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:16,719
Speaker 3: But that's why I say, that's why It's like sometimes

617
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 3: you need to really even figure out if you like

618
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:21,439
Speaker 3: this person, is there even a connection? You know? So

619
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 3: I feel like we need to stop wanting to be

620
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:27,440
Speaker 3: around and have our own motion. I think we've kind

621
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:30,439
Speaker 3: of like lost that. We talked about that a few

622
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 3: weeks ago.

623
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 1: How Like if you get on.

624
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 3: TikTok or whatever, everybody is so like, oh, to attract

625
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:38,679
Speaker 3: this type of man, you have to do X, y

626
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:41,400
Speaker 3: Z to attract this type of man. What about being

627
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 3: attracted to yourself and feeling good about yourself and what.

628
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:47,159
Speaker 2: Do they have to do to attract that? Because what

629
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,399
Speaker 2: happens to Shoeburry, Yes, it is what happens according what

630
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:53,199
Speaker 2: happened to trying to impress the woman that you're interested in?

631
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:54,679
Speaker 1: Why are we out.

632
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:56,680
Speaker 2: Here trying to do so much to impress these men

633
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 2: and they're not doing anything to impress.

634
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 3: The trigger, it's it is a trigger that I got

635
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,720
Speaker 3: something to say because you know what, Like for me,

636
00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:12,560
Speaker 3: I think like I don't I've never I mean, I

637
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 3: talk a while on the show, I say, because you

638
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:16,399
Speaker 3: know what, this is what I've been through.

639
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 1: I speak my truth. You know what I'm saying. I

640
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 1: feel like I've never.

641
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 3: Tried to be anything that I'm not, so to say

642
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:25,639
Speaker 3: like I'm that girl that be outside and be like

643
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 3: I ain't never been that girl. People who really know me, no,

644
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:30,439
Speaker 3: like y'all don't really see me outside like that and

645
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:34,440
Speaker 3: doing this and that, just because I know how I guess.

646
00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:36,879
Speaker 3: I want to just say how men are sometimes and

647
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 3: when they see somebody who wants to make it or

648
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 3: you know, wants a you know, to do a TV

649
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:46,360
Speaker 3: show or a podcast, they will literally take advantage of

650
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 3: that and they don't have no plans of putting you

651
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 3: in any position. And I feel like it's always about respect,

652
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 3: like before anything, I don't care if you don't like me,

653
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 3: but you're gonna respect me. And we need to get

654
00:28:58,120 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 3: back to like, you know, a little respect. Now you

655
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 3: can still be outside and have fun, but just slow

656
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:03,880
Speaker 3: it down a little.

657
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 2: I mean yeah, because you can have fun without talking

658
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 2: to people.

659
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 3: I mean yeah, because sometimes, honestly, it'd be better to

660
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 3: have you know, we call them bdb's, a big big ball.

661
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 1: Is better to have a BDB as your friend?

662
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 4: No, definitely friends, they're way more, they're way more.

663
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:23,520
Speaker 1: You know, get they're nicer.

664
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 3: You ain't got to worry about get kicked out, the section,

665
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 3: get kicked out, the call Sorry boo, Look I can't

666
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 3: help your girl, right, I don't seen them get kicked

667
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 3: to the curve. Okay, So what's the nicest way that

668
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:46,240
Speaker 3: y'all have curved? Somebody of importance, like somebody that felt

669
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:48,320
Speaker 3: like do you know who I am? Because we've all

670
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 3: been approached like that like a man.

671
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 1: I was like, you don't want to talk to me?

672
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:53,680
Speaker 2: I mean lying, I'll be saying I got a.

673
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 4: Mean I always said I got a boyfriend.

674
00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 1: I think that's everybody's go to, But that don't even work.

675
00:29:58,840 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 1: No more.

676
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:00,160
Speaker 4: They don't care.

677
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 1: They don't care. Oh he don't let you have friends?

678
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:07,080
Speaker 4: No, no, yeah, I don't know.

679
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 2: I just be like, I can't have friends, but I

680
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 2: don't want to be your friends. But see, this is

681
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 2: the thing I say about it as a friend.

682
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:17,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I'm not gonna lie. This is what I

683
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 3: used to do. I didn't say I would have a man.

684
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:21,280
Speaker 3: I would just kind of be like I would still

685
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 3: text them and talk to them, but it would always

686
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:25,000
Speaker 3: be like, oh, let's go to eat, let's go eat,

687
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 3: let's go hang out. I would never invite them to

688
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 3: my place. I would never kiss them. Because the thing

689
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 3: about it is, I feel like some men, especially in

690
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:35,479
Speaker 3: this industry, once you reject them and be like somebody

691
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 3: low key, like I want to make this connection because

692
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 3: I got somebody I'm trying to connect to.

693
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:40,479
Speaker 1: I'm trying to connect some dots.

694
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 3: So it's like you have to be friendly to a

695
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 3: certain extent. So it's like you got to play the

696
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 3: game a little bit, like make them think they have

697
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:51,240
Speaker 3: a chance, but then they really don't. For me in

698
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:54,239
Speaker 3: the beginning, that's how it was for me, Like and

699
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:55,720
Speaker 3: then I was like, you know what, now that I

700
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:57,840
Speaker 3: am where i'm mad, I can be like, boy, fuck.

701
00:30:57,680 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 1: You, yeah, because I did.

702
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 2: I was gonna say I disagree because I feel like

703
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 2: when you start really giving into men that are really

704
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 2: bosses for real and really out here making moves and

705
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 2: running businesses, I really feel like they're not gonna take

706
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 2: it personal that you don't want to date them, and

707
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 2: they'll still be able to be like, Okay, that's fine,

708
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 2: Like I respect that you don't want to date me,

709
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 2: but we can still do businesses right right, But you

710
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 2: just gotta find them type of guys.

711
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 3: Usually you gotta get way way up there for that

712
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 3: was the matter.

713
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 1: They be like, well I can connect you. Look, I

714
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 1: got TP on speed alright, now lies lies, that's a.

715
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:41,440
Speaker 2: Lie, and you calling mesh.

716
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 3: So we're gonna say y'all, look, have your fun, but

717
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 3: you know, don't be doing too much.

718
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 1: Please don't do too much. Okay.

719
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 3: So for the next topic, I wanted to talk about

720
00:31:56,200 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 3: beauty standards because you have a deal with Cline and

721
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 3: it's all about embracing, you know, your natural self.

722
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 1: And I want to.

723
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 3: Talk about the twenty twenty three beauty standards. Where are

724
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 3: they now and how they're changing? Yeah, because I feel

725
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 3: like the beauty standards are constantly changing, Like I can be.

726
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 3: I can remember being a little girl seeing the magazines

727
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:19,400
Speaker 3: and it was all about being thinn and then it

728
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:22,240
Speaker 3: got to like the video Vixen era where it was

729
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:24,000
Speaker 3: I kind of like, you know, having a big bus,

730
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 3: small ways, things like that, and.

731
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 1: It's like now we kind of low key getting.

732
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 3: Back to the the Finn again. What's it called the

733
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 3: ozipic the girls taking holder, everybody removed and everything.

734
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 1: Yes, So talk a little bit about that.

735
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 4: Yeah. First of all, it was an honor to be

736
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:48,600
Speaker 4: a part of the Clinique Queen campaign I actually manifested

737
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 4: that I go to change church. Doctor Dais Day was

738
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 4: my pastor and in the beginning of the year he

739
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 4: told us how to pray and how to journal and

740
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:59,440
Speaker 4: we talked to God. So I did it, followed everything

741
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 4: to the tea. Within twenty four hours, I get a

742
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:04,320
Speaker 4: call saying, Hey, expect a call. You're going to be

743
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 4: getting a call from Esta Lauder and Clinique. They want

744
00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:07,840
Speaker 4: to do a partnership with you. And I was like,

745
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 4: it's crazy, guy. I wrote down. One of my things

746
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 4: I wrote down was I want to have a big

747
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 4: beauty brand partnership.

748
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 1: Oh wow.

749
00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 4: And so that came and I was just crying. I

750
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 4: was like, oh my goodness, God, you heard.

751
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 1: Me on your side for real.

752
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 4: No, he really does right.

753
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 1: Limit it up.

754
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 4: So that happened. And what I loved about the campaign

755
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 4: they had it was all black, even like the production

756
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 4: team was black, the photographer was black, All the women

757
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 4: were black, all shapes, shapes, different colors, like just showed

758
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:41,960
Speaker 4: you the beautiful array of black women. But even when

759
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 4: it came to the editing, they didn't over edit us.

760
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 4: They wanted to see our natural beauty show blemishes so

761
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 4: that people can actually see themselves and people that are

762
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 4: in those positions. A lot of times you look at

763
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:57,200
Speaker 4: billboards and you're like, I don't look like that, or

764
00:33:57,360 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 4: you look at like my skin isn't like that. We

765
00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 4: showed the real so that people could say, Okay, I

766
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:07,360
Speaker 4: am beautiful. I'm beautiful the way I am. And also

767
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 4: a lot of times, as black women, we don't see

768
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 4: ourselves when we're driving down the shit on his big

769
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 4: billboards or when we open up magazines. But if you

770
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:18,080
Speaker 4: look really closely, a lot of things that they're emulating

771
00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:23,920
Speaker 4: is us. So just amplifying, amplifying that we are the standard,

772
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 4: you know, even though we may not see ourselves all

773
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:29,440
Speaker 4: the time, Like, just know that what God blessed you

774
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 4: with is what everyone else is trying to imitate.

775
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 3: So let me ask you this, though, do you feel

776
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:39,480
Speaker 3: like you've had a little bit of an advantage being that,

777
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 3: like you naturally are the beauty standard though, so you know,

778
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:45,879
Speaker 3: like just you being like you know, you're life skin,

779
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:48,880
Speaker 3: You're not like overweight, you got a nice body, like

780
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:50,160
Speaker 3: God gave it.

781
00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 1: To you naturally.

782
00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:55,040
Speaker 3: So do you sometimes feel like it's not that you

783
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:58,360
Speaker 3: can't relate, but it hasn't been the same like journey

784
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 3: for you versus somebody who's like, you know, dark skin, overweight.

785
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:04,480
Speaker 3: You know, somebody doesn't have a nice natural body.

786
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:11,759
Speaker 4: You know what society has made us feel like light

787
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:14,399
Speaker 4: skin is this standard, you know when I don't think

788
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 4: there's any type of color that that identifies as this

789
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:22,279
Speaker 4: is beautiful. That's my personal opinion. But I look in

790
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:23,880
Speaker 4: the mirror and like, I don't like my nose. So

791
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 4: I come into my nose every time I have a

792
00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 4: makebars like, make sure you come.

793
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:27,839
Speaker 2: To our nose.

794
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:31,160
Speaker 4: Like I go back and forth. I want to have surgery,

795
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:33,319
Speaker 4: place of surgery on my nose. And I was like,

796
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:34,359
Speaker 4: but not touch your face.

797
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 1: I know you do have a nice nose, though you

798
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:39,320
Speaker 1: do have an.

799
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 4: I got it. It was broken when I was a cheerleader.

800
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:47,839
Speaker 4: I got hitting in the elbowed really yeah all the time, right, gymnasts,

801
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:52,400
Speaker 4: all the things. But that was like something. My weight fluctuates,

802
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 4: like I go from damn there two hundred pounds to

803
00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 4: one sixty eight, you know, and now I'm back to

804
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,319
Speaker 4: one seventy four. Like it's like she don't just one

805
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 4: last week and like so I had those same battles,

806
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:06,879
Speaker 4: but and I try to be transparent about it because

807
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 4: I know so many people are like following me, and

808
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 4: I influenced a lot of people, but for me, I don't.

809
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:14,400
Speaker 4: I think we all have our own battles that we

810
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:18,320
Speaker 4: fight internally and we nitpick, and I feel like social

811
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 4: media has really kind of put a big magnifying glass

812
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 4: on everybody and made us kind of feel insecure in

813
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:27,759
Speaker 4: our own ways about things. When other people look at us,

814
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:30,320
Speaker 4: they're like, like, you feel like you are the beauty standard,

815
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:33,840
Speaker 4: you know, And I'm like, I'm.

816
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 1: Like, look, I'm looking at our person, you know.

817
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:41,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, So because you know, I'm not gonna lie, I'm

818
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:44,600
Speaker 3: very honest. You know, I've had my surgeries before and stuff.

819
00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 3: But one thing I will say that I always stand

820
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 3: by is I did everything that I did for me,

821
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 3: Like I recently got a breast reduction.

822
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,759
Speaker 1: When I tell you happiness I've ever been.

823
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:58,879
Speaker 3: In my life, best decision I've ever made, Like I

824
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 3: was so like, and I'm still dealing with people being like, oh, Lex,

825
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 3: you should have done that. You look better before. I'm like, okay,

826
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:06,719
Speaker 3: I look better to you, but I didn't feel good.

827
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,680
Speaker 3: So I feel like, no matter what you do to

828
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 3: your body, make sure that you're doing it for yourself

829
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 3: and you're not logging on Instagram being like, oh I

830
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:16,319
Speaker 3: want to look like this, I want to.

831
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:16,879
Speaker 1: Look like that.

832
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 3: Like it should always be about how you feel about

833
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 3: your self and like, you know, just your your self goals.

834
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 3: Because every time I've looked at my body, always look

835
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:28,759
Speaker 3: like I want to do this in XYZ. But it

836
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:31,680
Speaker 3: was always to enhance my body. Like I wasn't looking

837
00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 3: at Drea's body being like, oh I want Dre you know,

838
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 3: I want her boobs, I want her this her that.

839
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:39,280
Speaker 3: It was always like, Okay, how can I improve lex?

840
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:41,239
Speaker 3: Like if lex is right here, how do I put

841
00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 3: lex right here?

842
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

843
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 4: And that's the way to do it.

844
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I feel like I'm just I'm for whatever

845
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:47,920
Speaker 1: people want to do.

846
00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:50,720
Speaker 3: I feel like, you know, people shame people for being natural,

847
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 3: people shame people for having surgery.

848
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:53,839
Speaker 1: Whatever you do, just be.

849
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 3: Safe and make sure you're doing it for the right reason.

850
00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:59,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, So it always needs to be for you, for sure,

851
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 2: because I definitely feel like people a lot of the

852
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 2: time do things to try to live up to the

853
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:07,040
Speaker 2: standards that they see on social media. Like I really

854
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:10,319
Speaker 2: feel like social media has been beneficial in so many

855
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 2: ways for all of us because it's just gave us

856
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:15,880
Speaker 2: a platform to be able to reach people and connect

857
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 2: with people that we otherwise would have never been able

858
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 2: to connect with. But then a lot of the time

859
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:24,319
Speaker 2: people don't really talk about like the damaging effects city tad,

860
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 2: you know. And I feel like it definitely gives people

861
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:33,760
Speaker 2: a lot of unrealistic beauty expectations, unrealistic life expectations period.

862
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 2: Like we get so many letters from girls that are

863
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 2: like twenty one, twenty two, and they like, oh, I'm

864
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:42,839
Speaker 2: trying to start a business, but I feel like I'm

865
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:45,319
Speaker 2: not making one hundred thousand dollars a year yet I

866
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:50,959
Speaker 2: feel behind. You're twenty one two, Yeah, keep working like, yeah,

867
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:52,280
Speaker 2: you got time.

868
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 1: It's okay.

869
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 2: But I feel like these days social media just make

870
00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:58,080
Speaker 2: everybody feel like I have to have this and I

871
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 2: have to have that right now. Are by a certain

872
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 2: age or I'm a failure And it's just crazy. It's

873
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 2: really crazy.

874
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 4: Wow.

875
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:10,560
Speaker 3: Okay, so we're gonna happen next And so in closing

876
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:12,600
Speaker 3: with the beauty standards, girl, you.

877
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:14,560
Speaker 1: Look good, Yeah, you look good?

878
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 2: Look and what if you want to.

879
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 4: Do for you?

880
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:24,920
Speaker 3: Okay, So now we're gonna get into the by ah

881
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:35,799
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Speaker 2: It's time for the tour in Our first stop is

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890
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933
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935
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936
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938
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Speaker 11: We gotta have flex tection, we gotta have expect we

939
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940
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Speaker 1: We got an athlete special. That's right, shooting the twenty

941
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942
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Speaker 11: No shoe, he was the word you get podcast on

943
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Speaker 11: past words, he on your blood past words.

944
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Speaker 3: We are with our sister from God today, So we're

945
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:44,720
Speaker 3: gonna cog today.

946
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 4: Listen, I amn't saying almos why you know, keeping up

947
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:55,520
Speaker 4: the things. Ain't nobody perfect. I don't proclaim to be

948
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 4: no perfect Christion.

949
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 2: I just you know, we just try it.

950
00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:01,319
Speaker 4: I'm just trying about.

951
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:03,920
Speaker 3: What we're talking about today is cause it can go.

952
00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 3: This is something that you can know if you like,

953
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:09,920
Speaker 3: in or outside of the bedroom. It's not something that

954
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:12,880
Speaker 3: you just so today. This is something that I recently

955
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:14,880
Speaker 3: discovered about myself because I always felt like I was

956
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 3: very vanilla.

957
00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:18,320
Speaker 1: You know, I'm not too adventurous whatever. I like what

958
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 1: I like.

959
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:24,320
Speaker 3: But I recently discovered that I have a little praise kink. Okay, okay,

960
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 3: so if y'all, of course, you know, I will hold on.

961
00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:29,880
Speaker 3: Let me pull it up real quick. I had to

962
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 3: pull it up with my phone.

963
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 1: Okay. So it says a praise kink exactly what it is.

964
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 1: Hold on, let me pull up the differences. Okay, here

965
00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:39,400
Speaker 1: it is.

966
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 3: It says, basically, if someone gives you words of affirmation, compliments,

967
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 3: calls you good girl or a boy, and it gives

968
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 3: you a womp or a hard one, you gotta fetish

969
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:53,720
Speaker 3: for praise.

970
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:57,280
Speaker 1: So even if it just makes you feel good, okay,

971
00:43:57,360 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 1: you know, you get a little tingling in your spine.

972
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. So today what we're gonna

973
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 3: do is because I feel like this is how it

974
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:09,960
Speaker 3: started for me in my praise kink journey. I noticed

975
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 3: it was like things that this person was saying to

976
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 3: me outside of the bedroom that wasn't even like, you know,

977
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:16,800
Speaker 3: in a sexual statement.

978
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Speaker 1: I was like, hold on, daddy, hold dad.

979
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 3: So I feel like sometimes you need to recognize the

980
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:25,959
Speaker 3: things that you like and some people may.

981
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 12: Not know it.

982
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:29,240
Speaker 3: So I want to give you two ladies a quiz today. Okay,

983
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 3: So what I'm going to do is I'm going to

984
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:36,440
Speaker 3: say some phrases and y'all are going to say, you

985
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:38,799
Speaker 3: know yet if you like it or not? How does

986
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:39,520
Speaker 3: it make you feel?

987
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 1: If a man said, is it lame?

988
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 3: Is it like?

989
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:42,360
Speaker 10: No?

990
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:46,280
Speaker 1: And we're gonna see if y'all have a praise kink? Okay? Okay.

991
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 3: So the first example is, now, mind you, We're gonna

992
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:52,360
Speaker 3: give examples of outside of the bedroom.

993
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 1: So if a guy tells you, good girl, how does

994
00:44:57,120 --> 00:44:57,800
Speaker 1: that make you feel?

995
00:44:57,880 --> 00:44:58,360
Speaker 4: I don't like that.

996
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:02,360
Speaker 3: You don't like that side of the man outside of

997
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:02,760
Speaker 3: the bedroom?

998
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:03,920
Speaker 1: What about inside the bedroom?

999
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:04,759
Speaker 4: Inside of the room?

1000
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't like it that man.

1001
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 2: Outside of the bedroom for sure.

1002
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: No, it's like a child like girl like.

1003
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 5: I like that.

1004
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:28,879
Speaker 1: Look, I will literally pick up a piece of land.

1005
00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:36,480
Speaker 1: Good girl? This funy? Okay? So what about And like

1006
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 1: I said, I'm gonna ask in the bedroom. Out the bedroom,

1007
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:40,279
Speaker 1: you're doing so good?

1008
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 8: Like that.

1009
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:47,840
Speaker 1: Information like I'm proud of you? Okay? What about in

1010
00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:52,920
Speaker 1: the bedroom? This one a little know that you like it? Okay?

1011
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:58,960
Speaker 1: Somebody created? Okay, what about this is a good one?

1012
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:02,880
Speaker 1: Damn you look beautiful right now? I love yes, but

1013
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 1: I'm saying, they'll.

1014
00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 3: It is just a couple of me.

1015
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 1: But that's what it is. It's literally it's affirming this

1016
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 1: person is doing be mind you. This person that's saying

1017
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:16,960
Speaker 1: it is.

1018
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 3: Like it's more of like he's saying it to dominate

1019
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:22,400
Speaker 3: you to like, you know, like you you look.

1020
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:25,960
Speaker 1: Good to me. Like it's not like, oh you're so beautiful, man,

1021
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:28,080
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, you look good to me?

1022
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:34,399
Speaker 3: Right the word okay, okay, now look I got too

1023
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:35,960
Speaker 3: of them pulled up because I feel like that.

1024
00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 1: Was the real girls version. How would y'all like if

1025
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,840
Speaker 1: a guy said, I adore your breasts.

1026
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 4: I adore your breast.

1027
00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:50,040
Speaker 8: I adore your breasts, because what if it's like like

1028
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:58,200
Speaker 8: some cities nice, I like them out.

1029
00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:02,840
Speaker 3: I feel so we don't want to keep it classy,

1030
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:11,240
Speaker 3: you know, weird thing with the word breast period.

1031
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:12,239
Speaker 1: I don't really like that.

1032
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:14,279
Speaker 3: You know. When I used to work at a bar,

1033
00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:15,560
Speaker 3: you used to have this regular he would call me

1034
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 3: sugar ticks, and I used to think it was the

1035
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:19,719
Speaker 3: funniest sh ever because it was the whole white man.

1036
00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:22,200
Speaker 1: It was just so funny to me because tits is

1037
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 1: funny too. I don't know breast.

1038
00:47:26,440 --> 00:47:28,719
Speaker 2: I don't think I'm not mature to say breasty.

1039
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 4: I don't call him.

1040
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:33,440
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, I got one more, y'all, and we

1041
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:38,480
Speaker 1: can move on. The last one is let me see

1042
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:41,279
Speaker 1: what do I want to say for the last one.

1043
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:44,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna show you off to everyone.

1044
00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:46,959
Speaker 3: Now, you got to think about it from the both

1045
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:51,200
Speaker 3: point of view in the bedroom and like, you know,

1046
00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 3: you're coming out the bathroom from just getting dressed, and

1047
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 3: he's like, Ooh, I'm gonna show you off to everyone.

1048
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:59,440
Speaker 1: But he's meaning it in a freaky way. How does

1049
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:01,800
Speaker 1: that make y'all feel on your lady parts.

1050
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:06,239
Speaker 3: I'm gonna show you off like he's showing you off. Now,

1051
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:08,239
Speaker 3: see when Future said that it was cool? Now, y'all

1052
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:10,279
Speaker 3: got I just want to take you out and show you.

1053
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 1: Sh y'all was in the club saying that ship. Now

1054
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:17,399
Speaker 1: you gotta think about it. What is that true?

1055
00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 2: I think that as the woman, you want to be

1056
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:21,759
Speaker 2: shown off by the man that you wed and by

1057
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 2: the man that you dated. But I never I guess

1058
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:25,680
Speaker 2: I never really thought of that as like a praying

1059
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 2: because I feel like, if you really like me and

1060
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:30,200
Speaker 2: you love me.

1061
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 1: You proud of me, like you want to show you

1062
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:34,200
Speaker 1: proud of you for how you're doing the.

1063
00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 2: All right, see you said in and out the bedroom.

1064
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:39,759
Speaker 5: So I know.

1065
00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 3: But I'm telling you if you don't feel it outside

1066
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:43,759
Speaker 3: of the bedroom, like when he's saying.

1067
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 1: These things, it makes you feel some type of way.

1068
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:49,439
Speaker 1: So ladies, unfortunately y'all do not have a praise king.

1069
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 1: Womp damn.

1070
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:53,920
Speaker 4: Y'all.

1071
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:55,840
Speaker 1: I'm a good girl in the comments.

1072
00:48:55,960 --> 00:49:01,360
Speaker 2: I like that. Okay, moving on, So now it's time

1073
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:03,920
Speaker 2: to get into about Hey.

1074
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:13,880
Speaker 1: Bowoo everybody here. Oh, you know, got that ship on,

1075
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 1: I got that fashional all right.

1076
00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:20,960
Speaker 3: Okay, so I'll start with my pop other week.

1077
00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:22,719
Speaker 1: Y'all know, I love R and B.

1078
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 3: I'm an R and B girl, and I just discovered

1079
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:28,960
Speaker 3: an artist named King and Dixon. He has a song

1080
00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:32,359
Speaker 3: called slow Dancing. It is such a vibe because it's

1081
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 3: like it kind of reminds.

1082
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 1: Me of the Jamie Fox song with Kanye.

1083
00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:36,879
Speaker 10: Oh.

1084
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:38,480
Speaker 1: She says she wants to marm.

1085
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 3: And yeah, so he's just basically talking about like him

1086
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:42,400
Speaker 3: slow dancing with his girl.

1087
00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 1: It's a cute vibe. What's the machine called that they used?

1088
00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:48,000
Speaker 1: On computer love when it's like a computer.

1089
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:50,120
Speaker 4: It's not all sizer.

1090
00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:53,239
Speaker 1: Yeah that it's got that vibe. So it kind of

1091
00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:56,040
Speaker 1: gives like an old school vibe, like that old school

1092
00:49:56,160 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 1: R and B.

1093
00:49:56,600 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 3: So like I imagine like you and your man at

1094
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:03,160
Speaker 3: the house. Y'all just came back from having dinner. Now y'all,

1095
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:05,360
Speaker 3: like you know, having a little nightcap, a little Bailey's,

1096
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:07,640
Speaker 3: a little wine, and y'all in the living room playing

1097
00:50:07,680 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 3: some good music and dancing in the living room. I

1098
00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 3: love a good nightcab. So that's that's the vibe. King

1099
00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:15,200
Speaker 3: and Dixon slow dancing.

1100
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:16,080
Speaker 1: It's a bob.

1101
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:19,080
Speaker 4: I love it. What you've been listening to, Chris, I haven't.

1102
00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:21,400
Speaker 4: My favorite song is funny. The song is called favorite

1103
00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 4: song by two s.

1104
00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 1: Okay, I love this song.

1105
00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 4: You want to ride in the race, you want to

1106
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:34,880
Speaker 4: go on dates, you want bring you flowers? Tell it

1107
00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 4: like it's cute. It's a really cute song. Give it

1108
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:44,480
Speaker 4: is good, see another race, God telling you I love

1109
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:46,200
Speaker 4: you for the reason. It's definitely praise.

1110
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:53,239
Speaker 1: Okay, we caught it, y'all, we got him. I'm sorry, y'all.

1111
00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:55,799
Speaker 1: It's tying drink it.

1112
00:50:57,480 --> 00:50:59,720
Speaker 2: Is Oh, I have been.

1113
00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:00,360
Speaker 1: Trying to like.

1114
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:02,680
Speaker 2: So it's this girl that I follow on social media.

1115
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:04,799
Speaker 2: I really wish I could remember her name. I can't

1116
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:06,480
Speaker 2: remember her name right now, and I feel so bad.

1117
00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:11,760
Speaker 2: But she listens to a lot of like contemporary gospel music,

1118
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:14,279
Speaker 2: and so I told myself that I wanted to start

1119
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 2: listening to like more contemporary gospel music to try to,

1120
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:18,560
Speaker 2: you know, like not listen to.

1121
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:19,879
Speaker 1: Rap and stuff as much.

1122
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 2: And so it's this song called fill Me Up by

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00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:27,000
Speaker 2: c J and Melodic B. And it's like a really

1124
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:29,640
Speaker 2: good contemporary song, Like I really really love it.

1125
00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:31,319
Speaker 4: But if you like contemporary guns, so you should listen

1126
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:32,400
Speaker 4: to praise this soundtrack.

1127
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:33,600
Speaker 1: Okay, it's good.

1128
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:36,399
Speaker 4: I'm gay.

1129
00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:38,800
Speaker 2: You gotta plug it in. I'm about to put that.

1130
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:40,359
Speaker 2: I'm about to save that right now.

1131
00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:43,240
Speaker 4: That soundtrack is Bump and number eighteen.

1132
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:44,280
Speaker 1: That's me period.

1133
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:44,840
Speaker 3: Let me.

1134
00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 2: I'm gonna listen to number eighteen first, just to let

1135
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 2: y'all know.

1136
00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:51,560
Speaker 1: It's not me singing. It's Crystal singing. All right, I

1137
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:54,759
Speaker 1: know what I'm now. Okay, I see, I'm not gonna

1138
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:56,880
Speaker 1: So I listened to a gospel song the other day

1139
00:51:57,360 --> 00:51:58,359
Speaker 1: and it was actually really good.

1140
00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:00,799
Speaker 3: It's kind of like he was rapping, but the hook

1141
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:03,719
Speaker 3: was fire. It's called the name by KB. I think

1142
00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:04,279
Speaker 3: you would like it.

1143
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 2: Oh, y'all have a whole playlist. It's like twelve songs

1144
00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:10,879
Speaker 2: and it's like all New Gospels, y'all. It's actually really good.

1145
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:12,239
Speaker 1: He kind of is given like.

1146
00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:14,479
Speaker 3: The guy that's rapping. It's kind of given, like Kendrick Lamar.

1147
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:17,440
Speaker 3: And then the hook is kind of like.

1148
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 1: I know this, look, y'all will go on straight me down.

1149
00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:21,840
Speaker 1: But the hook was kind of given, like Britt Fass

1150
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:22,319
Speaker 1: a little bit.

1151
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 2: But that's why I honestly, that's what I was about

1152
00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:29,800
Speaker 2: to say. You would be surprised. Like any artists that

1153
00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:33,200
Speaker 2: you listen to, you could liter like secular music. You

1154
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:36,359
Speaker 2: could literally find somebody that things contemporary gospel and it's

1155
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 2: gonna be kind of giving it. And I really knew

1156
00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 2: that Charles back, you don't wanted.

1157
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:46,040
Speaker 1: Something, Okay, Okay, so shout out to the box of

1158
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:48,040
Speaker 1: the week. Okay, what's your item of the week.

1159
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 2: My look was period, Yeah, so y'all know, and I

1160
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 2: wish I should probably should have had one to show,

1161
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:58,200
Speaker 2: but I just came out with some Matt Liquid lipsticks

1162
00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:02,080
Speaker 2: with music which islip line. So I just came out

1163
00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:04,759
Speaker 2: with some Matt Liquid lipsticks like maybe two weeks ago,

1164
00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:07,080
Speaker 2: and I have been addicted to these lip combo. So

1165
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:11,200
Speaker 2: it's the chestnut lip liner, the cider Matt liquid lipstick,

1166
00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:12,640
Speaker 2: and then the glaze lip gloss.

1167
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:13,640
Speaker 4: Thank you.

1168
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:18,040
Speaker 2: I have been so addicted to these lip combo y'all.

1169
00:53:18,080 --> 00:53:19,600
Speaker 2: I feel like I don't I don't know. It's like

1170
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:21,600
Speaker 2: I'm terrible. I'm a terrible person to have like a

1171
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:23,800
Speaker 2: lip gloss line because I feel like I stick to

1172
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:27,279
Speaker 2: the same lip gloss all the time, Like I never

1173
00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 2: show the other colors.

1174
00:53:30,000 --> 00:53:30,400
Speaker 4: I'm going.

1175
00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:32,160
Speaker 1: Chestnut is the one.

1176
00:53:32,360 --> 00:53:34,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a dark brown.

1177
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:37,839
Speaker 1: I love a dark brown, and it goes on so smoothness.

1178
00:53:38,480 --> 00:53:41,160
Speaker 2: It lasts, it lasts. Yeah, that's why I got run.

1179
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:44,800
Speaker 1: Now, did you play some for I have some?

1180
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:46,640
Speaker 4: I was gonna ask you.

1181
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 1: Look, we're done you a little one. Thank you.

1182
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 3: Okay, So now we're going to get into our favorite

1183
00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:55,960
Speaker 3: segment of the week to wrap this up.

1184
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 1: It's to Pour your Heart Out segment.

1185
00:53:57,920 --> 00:53:59,680
Speaker 3: If you want your question answer on the show, make

1186
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:03,080
Speaker 3: sure you email us at ask poor Minds at gmail

1187
00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:05,920
Speaker 3: dot com. Remember, if you're a Patreon member, just put

1188
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:08,240
Speaker 3: that in the header and you get to skip the line,

1189
00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:11,040
Speaker 3: of course. So we are going to answer.

1190
00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 1: Thank you, Sad a hard working man.

1191
00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:16,920
Speaker 3: Okay, so we're gonna answer your questions today. Okay, go ahead, Dre,

1192
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:18,000
Speaker 3: you got question number one.

1193
00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:20,920
Speaker 2: Okay, Hey, ladies, I love your show so much because

1194
00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:23,680
Speaker 2: it gives grown in sixty vibes my nail take. Put

1195
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:25,719
Speaker 2: me on to you guys about a year ago. I

1196
00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:27,759
Speaker 2: wanted to ask you guys for some advice. I was

1197
00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:29,840
Speaker 2: with someone for about two and a half years and

1198
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:32,239
Speaker 2: we were living in a home together. I left because

1199
00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:34,720
Speaker 2: of many reasons, but mainly because he was not changing

1200
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:37,640
Speaker 2: certain things I kept asking for some compromise for and

1201
00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 2: I just got fed up. Fast forward to now and

1202
00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:42,560
Speaker 2: we have not been broken up a year yet and

1203
00:54:42,680 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 2: he's moved on obviously, but I'm still in love with him.

1204
00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:48,320
Speaker 2: I was always in love with him, but he just

1205
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 2: wouldn't get with the program to keep me happy. I

1206
00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:52,640
Speaker 2: really just want to know how I can move forward.

1207
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 2: I feel stuck. I want closure, but he has not

1208
00:54:55,200 --> 00:54:57,759
Speaker 2: checked up with me since late December, since I got

1209
00:54:57,840 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 2: back from out of the country.

1210
00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:00,520
Speaker 1: What will be your for me?

1211
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:03,839
Speaker 2: Anything helps? Sorry for such a long question. Again, I'm

1212
00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:05,279
Speaker 2: a huge fan. Take care.

1213
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:07,680
Speaker 1: Where would your advice be?

1214
00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 4: I would tell her to know her worth and move on.

1215
00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:13,239
Speaker 1: He ain't checked up on you by obviously, And.

1216
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:14,960
Speaker 2: I like you because I mean that's what I say

1217
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:18,840
Speaker 2: every week. Move on, But not that you need to obviously.

1218
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:21,000
Speaker 1: It's been a year. You said, you're probably just.

1219
00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 3: Thinking about the good times and you were unhappy. He

1220
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:27,600
Speaker 3: just said you were living with him and you were unhappy.

1221
00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:30,279
Speaker 1: Girl, You're gonna find you another. All you need is

1222
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 1: another man. You probably just lonely. I always say this

1223
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:34,000
Speaker 1: loneliness is the root of.

1224
00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:37,000
Speaker 3: All evil, baby, because it'll be dating people, missing people.

1225
00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:40,239
Speaker 1: You ain't got no business. Now that's so true. Yes,

1226
00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:43,640
Speaker 1: find you a hobby, a new man, hang out with

1227
00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:44,360
Speaker 1: your friends.

1228
00:55:44,719 --> 00:55:46,520
Speaker 3: But you just need to get him off your mind.

1229
00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:48,960
Speaker 3: It's just the loneliness talking, says trust me.

1230
00:55:49,719 --> 00:55:50,280
Speaker 1: I agree.

1231
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 2: I agree because I feel like towey. She said she

1232
00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:55,759
Speaker 2: hadn't heard from him since December. I feel like if

1233
00:55:55,800 --> 00:55:57,239
Speaker 2: you was on his mind, he would have hat you

1234
00:55:57,320 --> 00:55:57,680
Speaker 2: up by now.

1235
00:55:57,719 --> 00:55:59,680
Speaker 4: You would have definitely hit her up because all of

1236
00:55:59,680 --> 00:56:00,080
Speaker 4: them get.

1237
00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:01,839
Speaker 2: People will be trying to play what they'd be like, Oh,

1238
00:56:01,840 --> 00:56:03,319
Speaker 2: I don't want to hit this person up. I don't

1239
00:56:03,320 --> 00:56:05,920
Speaker 2: want to do that. If you really want to be you.

1240
00:56:07,520 --> 00:56:07,759
Speaker 4: Can't.

1241
00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:09,840
Speaker 2: You're gonna be like, oh, I feel sleepy.

1242
00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:12,399
Speaker 1: What I'm gonna call him? And I do every time

1243
00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:18,440
Speaker 1: I'm bad. Oh, let's wrap this that up. You call

1244
00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:23,080
Speaker 1: this nigga right now? Okay? Question number two, lex Andrea.

1245
00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:25,000
Speaker 3: I'm a big fan of y'all show, so I just

1246
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:27,200
Speaker 3: wanted to start off by saying that. But I am

1247
00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:30,200
Speaker 3: writing today to get some advice on my current relationship.

1248
00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:33,680
Speaker 3: I'm twenty six years old and a mother of a

1249
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:36,080
Speaker 3: beautiful two year old. I have been dating this guy

1250
00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:38,360
Speaker 3: for seven months and he is honestly everything that I

1251
00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:41,239
Speaker 3: prayed for in a man. I was initially nervous to

1252
00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:43,399
Speaker 3: bring him around my daughter because this is my first

1253
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:45,279
Speaker 3: time dating since having her.

1254
00:56:45,719 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 1: However, the meeting went well and he treats my daughter

1255
00:56:48,640 --> 00:56:49,239
Speaker 1: as his own.

1256
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:52,839
Speaker 3: Right now, we are currently making a long distance relationship work,

1257
00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:55,640
Speaker 3: seeing each other two weekends a month. He has made

1258
00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:58,560
Speaker 3: several remarks that the time we spend together isn't enough,

1259
00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 3: and he even proposed that idea of me moving to

1260
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:03,920
Speaker 3: where he works, which is eight hours away. I think

1261
00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:06,640
Speaker 3: that it's too early to move in However, I don't

1262
00:57:06,640 --> 00:57:08,880
Speaker 3: want to lose my man because of the distance. I

1263
00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:11,440
Speaker 3: wanted to know if guys believe that there's a certain

1264
00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:14,759
Speaker 3: timeframe you should have before moving in with a significant other,

1265
00:57:15,239 --> 00:57:17,520
Speaker 3: or if you should even move in before marriage.

1266
00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 1: Thank you, PS. I know y'all said keep it short.

1267
00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:22,760
Speaker 1: I tried well. At least both of y'all knew.

1268
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:25,280
Speaker 4: As messages.

1269
00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:27,520
Speaker 1: Okay, so what do y'all think? Should she move?

1270
00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 3: Has been seven months, she has a daughter. How do

1271
00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:31,280
Speaker 3: y'all feel about that?

1272
00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:35,800
Speaker 2: I feel like I don't know, like I am not

1273
00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:38,360
Speaker 2: old school when it comes today. I feel like you

1274
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:40,760
Speaker 2: need to live with somebody for y'all get married before

1275
00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:43,160
Speaker 2: y'all decide that y'all gonna build a life together, because

1276
00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:47,560
Speaker 2: I need to know. It's certain things that's just none negotiable.

1277
00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 1: For me, Right, girl, I say go, If it don't

1278
00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:57,560
Speaker 1: work out, fucking go home. Let's hope. If it don't

1279
00:57:57,640 --> 00:58:00,120
Speaker 1: work out, go back home. It takes two days to

1280
00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:01,000
Speaker 1: get another partner.

1281
00:58:01,640 --> 00:58:04,040
Speaker 3: Just make sure as long as your money situation is right,

1282
00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 3: you found the baby a good school.

1283
00:58:05,880 --> 00:58:07,520
Speaker 1: You said you don't want to lose y'all man, y'all

1284
00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:08,800
Speaker 1: in love. It's been seven months.

1285
00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:11,600
Speaker 3: Look, I need two days now if I love you not, okay,

1286
00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:15,480
Speaker 3: I'm like, hello, I'm mad, I'm.

1287
00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:18,160
Speaker 5: On week two. Why you ain't asking a movie and nigga, Yeah,

1288
00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 5: so I would do we I just feel like you

1289
00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:25,240
Speaker 5: have I mean, I mean, you do have things to lose,

1290
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:27,800
Speaker 5: but life is short if you're enjoying it.

1291
00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:30,360
Speaker 3: And the most importantly the thing I noticed is that

1292
00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 3: she said he treats his daughter, her daughter his own.

1293
00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:33,120
Speaker 10: Yeah.

1294
00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:36,080
Speaker 3: So if I find a good school girl, move out there.

1295
00:58:36,440 --> 00:58:38,400
Speaker 3: Make sure you have some money set asiut always have

1296
00:58:38,440 --> 00:58:39,320
Speaker 3: emergency money.

1297
00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:41,680
Speaker 1: We always want that. If it doesn't work.

1298
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:44,000
Speaker 2: Out, just go back and then what if it do work?

1299
00:58:44,200 --> 00:58:46,520
Speaker 1: And what if it do work? If you do work,

1300
00:58:46,520 --> 00:58:52,760
Speaker 1: you got name your baby licks the next one. Okay,

1301
00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:54,280
Speaker 1: So Crystal, let the people know.

1302
00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:56,600
Speaker 3: What you got coming up, what you got going on,

1303
00:58:56,920 --> 00:58:59,440
Speaker 3: and talk about your music where they can find you

1304
00:58:59,520 --> 00:58:59,760
Speaker 3: all that.

1305
00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:02,880
Speaker 2: Yes, I got a question because I know the news

1306
00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:06,520
Speaker 2: come out at the end of the month, and I

1307
00:59:06,720 --> 00:59:08,960
Speaker 2: wanted to ask you too, like do you feel like

1308
00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:11,640
Speaker 2: you anything like your character in real life? Like do

1309
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:13,440
Speaker 2: you feel like you resonate with the character. That's why

1310
00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:14,400
Speaker 2: you was really able.

1311
00:59:14,200 --> 00:59:14,680
Speaker 1: To get.

1312
00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:17,960
Speaker 2: Because girl, you be I be like, that's me.

1313
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:19,440
Speaker 10: Lord.

1314
00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:24,400
Speaker 4: There's a lot of Fatima in Crystal, for sure. And

1315
00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:27,400
Speaker 4: it's funny because she don't play and Crystal don't play either.

1316
00:59:28,120 --> 00:59:30,680
Speaker 4: I was trying to portray like a different character because

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00:59:31,040 --> 00:59:33,000
Speaker 4: as an actor you try to bring something different to it.

1318
00:59:33,080 --> 00:59:36,280
Speaker 4: And I was like, no, I want you bringing Crystal's

1319
00:59:36,320 --> 00:59:38,840
Speaker 4: voice to it. And I was like you sure. He

1320
00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:41,720
Speaker 4: was like, yeah, So there is a lot of similarity.

1321
00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:43,840
Speaker 4: Like I'm not carrying a gun around and.

1322
00:59:45,920 --> 00:59:50,919
Speaker 1: She will. He's not. I don't do that. She kicked

1323
00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:54,200
Speaker 1: me off her house, kicked me in the butt on

1324
00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:57,160
Speaker 1: the streets. I did not. I'm gonna tell that story

1325
00:59:57,320 --> 00:59:59,120
Speaker 1: every time. Why would you lie like that?

1326
00:59:59,160 --> 01:00:00,600
Speaker 4: I just gave her a nud.

1327
01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:04,800
Speaker 1: Talking about six months we had a ball.

1328
01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:05,320
Speaker 5: Did we.

1329
01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:11,800
Speaker 1: Shut you out when you came to busy? Oh yeah, good,

1330
01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:16,480
Speaker 1: good times. That's different A true sister. I love it here. Okay,

1331
01:00:16,600 --> 01:00:18,600
Speaker 1: so now you got a question to way, Okay, let

1332
01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 1: us know what you got coming up? Yes music, all

1333
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:20,880
Speaker 1: that good stuff.

1334
01:00:21,000 --> 01:00:29,080
Speaker 4: Yes Sisters. Season six May thirty first, Season six, Season

1335
01:00:29,160 --> 01:00:32,320
Speaker 4: six May thirty first. Wow, this is crazy six seasons already.

1336
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Speaker 2: That's as I said, come back to back with the

1337
01:00:34,560 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we don't play that long.

1338
01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:38,200
Speaker 4: No, we don't play with y'all because the fans like

1339
01:00:38,280 --> 01:00:39,080
Speaker 4: they demanded that.

1340
01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:42,160
Speaker 3: You know, well, that's good that y'all listen, that they listen,

1341
01:00:42,360 --> 01:00:44,280
Speaker 3: because the snuff I'll be watching, we'd be having to

1342
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:48,240
Speaker 3: wait two years. Yeah, re watch ship, right, So yeah,

1343
01:00:48,280 --> 01:00:50,840
Speaker 3: that's good that they dropping real quick. Yes, so you

1344
01:00:50,920 --> 01:00:53,680
Speaker 3: got the Sisters coming May thirty. First praise this.

1345
01:00:53,920 --> 01:00:57,320
Speaker 4: On peacocky streaming right now, first lady, Yes, first lady.

1346
01:00:57,680 --> 01:01:01,360
Speaker 4: The song our soundtrack is on iTunes. What else? Thea

1347
01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:05,520
Speaker 4: Tema is coming back out in the fall. Yeah, so

1348
01:01:05,640 --> 01:01:07,440
Speaker 4: how has that been for you? Real quick? I mean,

1349
01:01:07,560 --> 01:01:10,440
Speaker 4: like the lead A big difference. It's a big difference.

1350
01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:13,680
Speaker 4: Sisters is an ensemble cast, so we all the way

1351
01:01:13,760 --> 01:01:17,040
Speaker 4: that's evenly distributed right on Zatima, The val and I

1352
01:01:17,200 --> 01:01:19,600
Speaker 4: carry all the way right. Sometimes we shoot twenty two

1353
01:01:19,640 --> 01:01:21,320
Speaker 4: episodes in one week for Zatima.

1354
01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:24,120
Speaker 3: Wow, now, I see, I knew Tyler parent That's what

1355
01:01:24,240 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 3: they say about.

1356
01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:26,360
Speaker 1: It, get in and get out.

1357
01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:29,800
Speaker 4: Yes, but I love it though, because in one week

1358
01:01:29,840 --> 01:01:30,520
Speaker 4: I literally work.

1359
01:01:30,720 --> 01:01:32,600
Speaker 1: I'm ready to go home right now. Yeah, and I've

1360
01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:33,440
Speaker 1: done one episode.

1361
01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:36,200
Speaker 4: Listen, No, I'm telling you I worked out of the

1362
01:01:36,280 --> 01:01:39,760
Speaker 4: year with Tyler. I work probably totally like a month

1363
01:01:40,120 --> 01:01:42,120
Speaker 4: out of the year, but I get all my money

1364
01:01:42,160 --> 01:01:44,120
Speaker 4: and so I got the rest of the year.

1365
01:01:44,440 --> 01:01:46,880
Speaker 1: I want to do crazy now now that you put

1366
01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:48,320
Speaker 1: it that way, that is lot.

1367
01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:50,200
Speaker 4: It's like you just think about, like I'm gonna grind

1368
01:01:50,280 --> 01:01:52,479
Speaker 4: out for this month, get this done.

1369
01:01:52,640 --> 01:01:54,320
Speaker 1: So how long are you like work days?

1370
01:01:54,640 --> 01:01:59,360
Speaker 4: I'm twelve fourteen hours sometimes sixteen. Yeah. Now I will

1371
01:01:59,440 --> 01:02:01,160
Speaker 4: tell you like by the time we wrap, I feel

1372
01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:02,640
Speaker 4: like I got by day too. I feel like I

1373
01:02:02,680 --> 01:02:05,320
Speaker 4: got hit by bus because so many different emotions. We

1374
01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:07,840
Speaker 4: don't shoot in order, so you have to know all

1375
01:02:07,880 --> 01:02:10,520
Speaker 4: twenty two scripts. We may shoot episodes one through ten

1376
01:02:10,560 --> 01:02:13,200
Speaker 4: in a day block like say this was a set.

1377
01:02:13,680 --> 01:02:15,880
Speaker 4: We may shoot all the scenes in this set from

1378
01:02:15,920 --> 01:02:17,600
Speaker 4: episodes one through ten, So you gotta know where you're

1379
01:02:17,600 --> 01:02:19,520
Speaker 4: coming from. If you're happy, you said you have to

1380
01:02:19,560 --> 01:02:22,000
Speaker 4: cry one scene, maybe be happy fighting the next scene,

1381
01:02:22,240 --> 01:02:25,200
Speaker 4: and your brain is like, what is happening right now?

1382
01:02:25,240 --> 01:02:26,760
Speaker 4: Because your brain doesn't know that we're acting.

1383
01:02:26,920 --> 01:02:27,400
Speaker 1: That's a lot.

1384
01:02:27,600 --> 01:02:29,080
Speaker 4: It's like this is too much.

1385
01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:31,919
Speaker 1: That's a lot. Look, if you need a drunk friend,

1386
01:02:31,960 --> 01:02:33,320
Speaker 1: that's all the only emotion I got.

1387
01:02:33,440 --> 01:02:36,760
Speaker 3: That's all I got because I ain't.

1388
01:02:37,160 --> 01:02:39,760
Speaker 1: You gotta be sad in the next moment, you gotta.

1389
01:02:40,120 --> 01:02:41,400
Speaker 1: That's a lot of words.

1390
01:02:41,520 --> 01:02:43,480
Speaker 4: It's a lot. But if I go anywhere else, like

1391
01:02:43,600 --> 01:02:47,320
Speaker 4: I feel like I'm my muscle is so strong, you're.

1392
01:02:47,240 --> 01:02:47,880
Speaker 1: Gonna be ready.

1393
01:02:47,960 --> 01:02:49,720
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I'm like, WHI chy'a need? Like I can

1394
01:02:49,760 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 4: literally go to another set and read the script one

1395
01:02:52,920 --> 01:02:55,880
Speaker 4: time like work, and then like literally learn my lines

1396
01:02:55,920 --> 01:02:57,720
Speaker 4: as I'm going through hair makeup because my brain is

1397
01:02:57,800 --> 01:02:59,680
Speaker 4: so used to learning one hundred pages in a day.

1398
01:03:00,040 --> 01:03:00,680
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

1399
01:03:01,200 --> 01:03:03,760
Speaker 3: Okay, So what are your like goals, like your you know,

1400
01:03:04,120 --> 01:03:06,080
Speaker 3: goals for like the next year, five years.

1401
01:03:06,120 --> 01:03:07,880
Speaker 1: Where do you see yourself what you want to do it?

1402
01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:12,120
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I definitely want to do a Disney musical.

1403
01:03:12,840 --> 01:03:14,520
Speaker 4: I would love to do that. A lot of people

1404
01:03:14,520 --> 01:03:16,280
Speaker 4: ask me, do I want to do music again? I

1405
01:03:16,360 --> 01:03:18,240
Speaker 4: want to do it in that realm. Okay, yeah, I

1406
01:03:18,440 --> 01:03:21,320
Speaker 4: love to do that. I love to do Broadway direct.

1407
01:03:21,680 --> 01:03:24,800
Speaker 4: I want to produce more, maybe even do my own show.

1408
01:03:25,240 --> 01:03:30,240
Speaker 1: Get into writing. Okay, that's amazing. You're my girl.

1409
01:03:31,680 --> 01:03:31,800
Speaker 4: You know.

1410
01:03:32,040 --> 01:03:33,960
Speaker 3: I love when women come on the show and I

1411
01:03:34,040 --> 01:03:36,960
Speaker 3: be pleasantly surprised because I don't look out to look.

1412
01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:37,560
Speaker 4: She used to me.

1413
01:03:38,080 --> 01:03:40,080
Speaker 1: Can I talk a lot? I do a lot? You

1414
01:03:40,240 --> 01:03:42,000
Speaker 1: don't receive me todays?

1415
01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:45,960
Speaker 4: Praise this, praise this?

1416
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:49,360
Speaker 1: Okay, So where can they find you at? Where can

1417
01:03:49,400 --> 01:03:51,800
Speaker 1: they find you at? On ig? Twitter, Facebook, all that

1418
01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:52,240
Speaker 1: good stuff?

1419
01:03:52,320 --> 01:03:55,040
Speaker 4: Yes? On Instagram, you can find me at love Chrystaline.

1420
01:03:55,200 --> 01:03:57,680
Speaker 4: That's l u v c R y s c a L.

1421
01:03:57,920 --> 01:04:01,720
Speaker 4: Same thing on Twitter, same thing on TikTok and Facebook

1422
01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:02,760
Speaker 4: is just christ Renee.

1423
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:05,960
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, you got anything to say, Dre before

1424
01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:08,360
Speaker 1: we calls off? Don't This was a great.

1425
01:04:10,200 --> 01:04:14,240
Speaker 3: I have today. Thank you Christopher coming through. We'll see

1426
01:04:14,320 --> 01:04:19,040
Speaker 3: y'all next week, y'all. What's up y'all? Is your girl

1427
01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:22,760
Speaker 3: LEXP and I have a very special announcement. Well I

1428
01:04:22,880 --> 01:04:24,840
Speaker 3: already announced it, but I'm gonna let y'all know again.

1429
01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:26,280
Speaker 1: We are going on tour.

1430
01:04:26,680 --> 01:04:28,240
Speaker 2: It's starting in June, y'all.

1431
01:04:28,640 --> 01:04:30,880
Speaker 1: Look, we announced it extra early, so y'all got time

1432
01:04:30,920 --> 01:04:31,640
Speaker 1: to get your tickets.

1433
01:04:31,800 --> 01:04:32,600
Speaker 2: No excuses.

1434
01:04:32,800 --> 01:04:37,840
Speaker 3: We got La Philly, Chicago, Atlanta, Houston. Now listen to me,

1435
01:04:37,880 --> 01:04:39,000
Speaker 3: because I know how y'all get.

1436
01:04:39,320 --> 01:04:40,960
Speaker 1: We are still adding dates.

1437
01:04:41,080 --> 01:04:44,280
Speaker 3: I repeat, we are still adding dates, but if you

1438
01:04:44,360 --> 01:04:47,520
Speaker 3: see your city right now, go ahead and get your tickets.

1439
01:04:47,520 --> 01:04:49,840
Speaker 1: If you don't see your city, don't worry.

1440
01:04:49,920 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 3: We're still coming, okay, So make sure y'all go to

1441
01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:56,640
Speaker 3: www dot poor Minds dot com and get y'all bell pee,

1442
01:04:56,680 --> 01:04:57,240
Speaker 3: meat and greets.

1443
01:04:57,280 --> 01:04:59,040
Speaker 1: We on Sorry pool, what's up?

1444
01:04:59,120 --> 01:04:59,320
Speaker 11: Y'all?

1445
01:04:59,360 --> 01:05:01,680
Speaker 1: Is your girl like? And it's sure girls ray in

1446
01:05:01,720 --> 01:05:02,120
Speaker 1: the cold?

1447
01:05:02,600 --> 01:05:05,880
Speaker 2: Y'all know who got the most fire merch in the game.

1448
01:05:06,400 --> 01:05:07,480
Speaker 1: Eighty five and Poor.

1449
01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:11,760
Speaker 2: Minds of course period. So y'all been asking about our

1450
01:05:11,920 --> 01:05:14,120
Speaker 2: rap teas that we had on tour for the longest

1451
01:05:14,160 --> 01:05:16,920
Speaker 2: our tour Tease and a rap Teaz. They are both

1452
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:20,360
Speaker 2: on the site right now available, y'all gone ahead, go

1453
01:05:20,440 --> 01:05:23,400
Speaker 2: to buy poor Minds dot com and get your t

1454
01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:24,720
Speaker 2: shirts before they fill out.

1455
01:05:24,920 --> 01:05:27,840
Speaker 3: Yes, and also, y'all know it's about to get cold outside.

1456
01:05:27,880 --> 01:05:30,880
Speaker 3: And eighty five just drop some fire merch for the women.

1457
01:05:30,960 --> 01:05:33,360
Speaker 3: I'm telling you they got that all brown fit, the

1458
01:05:33,480 --> 01:05:36,840
Speaker 3: all blue fit, the red It's going super super crazy,

1459
01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:39,360
Speaker 3: So make sure y'all go to eighty five Apparel dot

1460
01:05:39,520 --> 01:05:42,120
Speaker 3: com and get you a fit. I'm telling y'all it's

1461
01:05:42,120 --> 01:05:46,640
Speaker 3: super comfyous airport outfits, you know, a little sneaky link outfit,

1462
01:05:46,720 --> 01:05:48,560
Speaker 3: whatever you need. And I'm telling y'all they are not

1463
01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:52,600
Speaker 3: restocking this. Okay, it's exclusive for this season, So make

1464
01:05:52,640 --> 01:05:55,640
Speaker 3: sure y'all carry eighty five Apparel dot Com, buy poor

1465
01:05:55,760 --> 01:05:58,200
Speaker 3: Mindes dot com, and get y'all merch right now.

1466
01:05:58,440 --> 01:06:00,240
Speaker 8: Yes, okay.

1467
01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:03,800
Speaker 10: June third, were at the San Diego Civic Theater eighty

1468
01:06:03,840 --> 01:06:08,840
Speaker 10: five South show three headed monster. That's me Chico DC.

1469
01:06:09,800 --> 01:06:12,800
Speaker 10: Ain't I telling who else might pull up? You pull up,

1470
01:06:13,120 --> 01:06:16,000
Speaker 10: we'll pull up and we'll have San Diego looking like

1471
01:06:17,320 --> 01:06:18,680
Speaker 10: there's a lot of black people there.

1472
01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:21,000
Speaker 1: I mean it's something.

1473
01:06:21,040 --> 01:06:23,040
Speaker 10: It ain't a lot, but the way that it's gonna

1474
01:06:23,040 --> 01:06:26,160
Speaker 10: be shot tonight when we do it, it's gonna be

1475
01:06:26,200 --> 01:06:28,440
Speaker 10: a lot because they all coming. So make sure you

1476
01:06:28,520 --> 01:06:33,320
Speaker 10: grab those tickets and pull up on us, please. San

1477
01:06:33,360 --> 01:06:35,240
Speaker 10: Diego could be lonely as hell if you don't know

1478
01:06:35,360 --> 01:06:36,680
Speaker 10: nobody right.

1479
01:06:38,400 --> 01:06:39,480
Speaker 4: Had lonely ninety.

1480
01:06:39,280 --> 01:06:40,040
Speaker 5: San Diego.

1481
01:06:42,800 --> 01:06:49,200
Speaker 12: Some midnight and she's on your phoneyin' come over because

1482
01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:54,920
Speaker 12: she's aller No, I could tell what's your ex by

1483
01:06:55,080 --> 01:06:56,280
Speaker 12: yourself too?

1484
01:06:56,800 --> 01:07:00,560
Speaker 1: How is she calling now? After along?

1485
01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:01,440
Speaker 10: Now?

1486
01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:02,920
Speaker 2: What is it that she wants?

1487
01:07:03,080 --> 01:07:06,280
Speaker 1: M tell? Me, what is it that she needs? Did

1488
01:07:06,320 --> 01:07:09,000
Speaker 1: she hear her about the brand new bus that you

1489
01:07:09,360 --> 01:07:10,120
Speaker 1: just bought for me?

1490
01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:15,200
Speaker 3: Cause y'aan didn't have no kidds, did share no mutual friends,

1491
01:07:15,920 --> 01:07:18,919
Speaker 3: and you told me that she turned tricked when y'all

1492
01:07:19,040 --> 01:07:22,320
Speaker 3: broke up in Nina. What you're gonna do when your

1493
01:07:22,400 --> 01:07:24,640
Speaker 3: kids say no? And the phylis at the show, boy,

1494
01:07:24,680 --> 01:07:27,120
Speaker 3: I really need to know it, how you gonna act,

1495
01:07:27,160 --> 01:07:29,400
Speaker 3: how you gonna headle that, what you're gonna do, what's

1496
01:07:29,440 --> 01:07:31,960
Speaker 3: your own shoe back? What you're gonna do when you

1497
01:07:32,080 --> 01:07:34,480
Speaker 3: can't say no? And the phelic's that the show boy,

1498
01:07:34,520 --> 01:07:36,960
Speaker 3: I really need to know it. How you're gonna act,

1499
01:07:37,000 --> 01:07:38,280
Speaker 3: how you're gonna headle that, what.

1500
01:07:38,360 --> 01:07:40,320
Speaker 2: You're gonna do when she wants you back?

1501
01:07:40,760 --> 01:07:44,560
Speaker 3: There's no need to re my nest about the bath

1502
01:07:45,760 --> 01:07:49,280
Speaker 3: A'll be us a lead because that ship didn't.

1503
01:07:49,000 --> 01:07:54,200
Speaker 1: Not I know how long Wong Man trying to give you.

1504
01:07:55,200 --> 01:08:00,200
Speaker 1: And don't get caught up because baby, you lo now,

1505
01:08:00,360 --> 01:08:02,600
Speaker 1: what is it that What is it that you want?

1506
01:08:02,840 --> 01:08:05,120
Speaker 1: What is it that she what is it that she is?

1507
01:08:05,240 --> 01:08:07,000
Speaker 1: She even buy the brand.

1508
01:08:06,800 --> 01:08:10,840
Speaker 3: New beings that judus bother me because y'all didn't have

1509
01:08:11,040 --> 01:08:13,959
Speaker 3: no kids, dre sharing them mutual friend.

1510
01:08:14,160 --> 01:08:18,160
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you told me that she prickly y'all broke

1511
01:08:18,280 --> 01:08:25,400
Speaker 2: up in ninety c. That's what's up.

1512
01:08:25,520 --> 01:08:29,400
Speaker 1: Draw What you're gonna do? What she want? Shoot back?

1513
01:08:30,560 --> 01:08:32,680
Speaker 1: When you can't say no, no feeling is that the

1514
01:08:32,720 --> 01:08:35,720
Speaker 1: show boy really need to know way, how you're gonna act,

1515
01:08:35,800 --> 01:08:37,760
Speaker 1: how you're gonna handle that, or what you're gonna do?

1516
01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:40,479
Speaker 1: What she want? Shoot back? What you're gonna do? We

1517
01:08:40,600 --> 01:08:51,360
Speaker 1: you can't say no that eight.

1518
01:09:26,960 --> 01:09:28,719
Speaker 2: Poor girl, that was so much fun.

1519
01:09:31,840 --> 01:09:34,120
Speaker 8: We gotta take a shot, like to take a shot

1520
01:09:34,200 --> 01:09:39,000
Speaker 8: because what we did that out and then turn up.

1521
01:09:39,479 --> 01:09:40,640
Speaker 1: Ohlah, here we go.

1522
01:09:43,360 --> 01:09:45,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, maybe that was strong.

1523
01:09:45,800 --> 01:09:48,360
Speaker 3: Oh wait, did you see that sport contest being Yes,

1524
01:09:48,600 --> 01:09:49,679
Speaker 3: did you see that girl booty?

1525
01:09:49,720 --> 01:09:52,800
Speaker 2: I said, does that mean she thinks she was girl?

1526
01:09:52,920 --> 01:09:55,559
Speaker 1: Rent was due? Taking it like Rent was due? Oh

1527
01:09:55,640 --> 01:09:59,360
Speaker 1: wait with karaoke at the end. You know that's always

1528
01:09:59,400 --> 01:10:05,080
Speaker 1: our favorite for ain't that they wasn't. I mean, look,

1529
01:10:05,160 --> 01:10:06,000
Speaker 1: we sold out the tour.

1530
01:10:06,080 --> 01:10:07,600
Speaker 2: We can do anything. Yet, we can do it.

1531
01:10:08,320 --> 01:10:09,920
Speaker 1: That was solid excited.

1532
01:10:10,320 --> 01:10:12,800
Speaker 2: But girl, five minutes to v.

1533
01:10:12,800 --> 01:10:16,920
Speaker 1: I okay, okay, this work.

1534
01:10:17,040 --> 01:10:18,479
Speaker 2: We gotta go do this meet and greet.

1535
01:10:18,560 --> 01:10:20,639
Speaker 1: But Look, this is the last one tour as ended.

1536
01:10:20,720 --> 01:10:21,400
Speaker 4: We killed it in.

1537
01:10:21,680 --> 01:10:22,799
Speaker 1: We're about to go on vacation.

1538
01:10:25,040 --> 01:10:25,600
Speaker 2: Let's do it.

1539
01:10:36,160 --> 01:10:40,120
Speaker 1: Girl. I am so glad to be on vacation finally, girl.

1540
01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:40,439
Speaker 3: Me too.

1541
01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:41,200
Speaker 1: We deserve it.

1542
01:10:41,280 --> 01:10:44,880
Speaker 2: We've been working on hall. We're getting this real Fiji son,

1543
01:10:44,920 --> 01:10:45,839
Speaker 2: because you know, the girls.

1544
01:10:45,680 --> 01:10:47,320
Speaker 1: Say, we'd be captain who said it?

1545
01:10:47,520 --> 01:10:49,519
Speaker 2: The girls, they'd be like, oh, they're not on vacation

1546
01:10:49,640 --> 01:10:49,920
Speaker 2: for real.

1547
01:10:49,960 --> 01:10:52,000
Speaker 1: They don't be doing nothing. Yeah, we can't cap this.

1548
01:10:52,360 --> 01:10:54,200
Speaker 2: Baby, Yeah, we cain't kept with this team.

1549
01:10:54,439 --> 01:10:54,800
Speaker 10: What did you?

1550
01:10:55,400 --> 01:10:57,240
Speaker 1: Let's see what they're doing at home, because they ain't

1551
01:10:57,280 --> 01:10:59,160
Speaker 1: got it like that. They can't do it like this.

1552
01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:01,160
Speaker 2: They can't you know what I'm saying.

1553
01:11:02,160 --> 01:11:05,760
Speaker 1: Let me see we uh huh, what is that?

1554
01:11:05,960 --> 01:11:10,759
Speaker 3: Let me see look at these and welcome four Dogs.

1555
01:11:11,400 --> 01:11:13,880
Speaker 3: Ya ya.

1556
01:11:17,120 --> 01:11:18,400
Speaker 6: Es, that's what I like.

1557
01:11:18,840 --> 01:11:19,280
Speaker 1: What I like?

1558
01:11:21,640 --> 01:11:25,599
Speaker 2: Hey, y'all is your girl alexis bee mom tee its

1559
01:11:25,640 --> 01:11:28,640
Speaker 2: smile and we would like to welcome you to the

1560
01:11:28,760 --> 01:11:31,919
Speaker 2: next episode of Four Dogs.

1561
01:11:34,439 --> 01:11:35,120
Speaker 5: What is that?

1562
01:11:35,560 --> 01:11:36,320
Speaker 2: That's crazy?

1563
01:11:36,840 --> 01:11:39,640
Speaker 1: No way, I'm looking for the beating bees in the

1564
01:11:39,880 --> 01:11:40,879
Speaker 1: f one business.

1565
01:11:43,520 --> 01:11:44,000
Speaker 5: Mm hmmm.

1566
01:11:44,200 --> 01:11:47,640
Speaker 1: Bro hold on, hold on, because you're algorithms. Let me

1567
01:11:47,720 --> 01:11:49,640
Speaker 1: go to my country. You know what I'm saying. Let

1568
01:11:49,680 --> 01:11:53,439
Speaker 1: me see what they got going on. Let's see it's

1569
01:11:53,520 --> 01:11:57,120
Speaker 1: your girl a little left bee and I am.

1570
01:11:57,240 --> 01:12:01,920
Speaker 3: Then let you and we are by there for another

1571
01:12:02,000 --> 01:12:04,559
Speaker 3: episode of drunk my mind?

1572
01:12:08,840 --> 01:12:21,559
Speaker 1: Who is ready to shake? Somemn that? Uh uh Alex?

1573
01:12:22,240 --> 01:12:24,000
Speaker 2: Now where are you from?

1574
01:12:25,640 --> 01:12:25,800
Speaker 4: Yes?

1575
01:12:29,960 --> 01:12:32,320
Speaker 2: I am ready to go. This is crazy. I feel

1576
01:12:32,320 --> 01:12:34,320
Speaker 2: like I can't even enjoy the vacation no more.

1577
01:12:34,800 --> 01:12:41,479
Speaker 1: Jao jam damn. Then call me.

1578
01:12:44,120 --> 01:12:48,920
Speaker 3: Yo legs Now, hey, now now what's up driving the code?

1579
01:12:49,120 --> 01:12:49,559
Speaker 3: What's up?

1580
01:12:50,360 --> 01:12:50,479
Speaker 10: Now?

1581
01:12:50,680 --> 01:12:51,599
Speaker 1: What's up with y'all?

1582
01:12:52,080 --> 01:12:54,160
Speaker 10: Y'all tripping laying on the beach and people are here

1583
01:12:54,280 --> 01:12:55,280
Speaker 10: filling y'all style?

1584
01:12:56,080 --> 01:12:58,120
Speaker 2: Then like y'all should all but went.

1585
01:12:58,040 --> 01:12:59,920
Speaker 4: On tour with the ad. So y'all need to get right.

1586
01:13:00,080 --> 01:13:00,240
Speaker 10: Man.

1587
01:13:00,560 --> 01:13:01,400
Speaker 4: You see where I'm at.

1588
01:13:01,960 --> 01:13:04,679
Speaker 2: That's crazy. You just started and we really really really

1589
01:13:04,720 --> 01:13:07,000
Speaker 2: pick talking. So what y'all gonna do about it?

1590
01:13:07,120 --> 01:13:09,360
Speaker 4: If Shit is asking for y'all, how you know?

1591
01:13:10,080 --> 01:13:10,679
Speaker 10: Cause Shit?

1592
01:13:10,880 --> 01:13:11,400
Speaker 11: I told him?

1593
01:13:11,400 --> 01:13:12,960
Speaker 10: We wreck? Well at least I am.

1594
01:13:13,120 --> 01:13:14,360
Speaker 2: I'm trying to get up out of here.

1595
01:13:14,560 --> 01:13:21,320
Speaker 1: God tail now that Greek just pop me? Oh my god, girl, dog,

1596
01:13:22,400 --> 01:13:25,880
Speaker 1: we gotta go. Let me vacation over vacation over. Let

1597
01:13:25,880 --> 01:13:26,600
Speaker 1: me book these slights so.

1598
01:13:26,640 --> 01:13:27,200
Speaker 5: We can go home.

1599
01:13:27,280 --> 01:13:34,479
Speaker 2: Bro, girl, be fucking for real. It's like, come on, god,

1600
01:13:36,800 --> 01:13:37,120
Speaker 2: t you.

1601
01:13:39,600 --> 01:13:43,960
Speaker 1: Hotta put this at alright, bet alright, that's it, alright.

1602
01:13:43,720 --> 01:13:44,200
Speaker 3: Bet doctor.

1603
01:13:44,800 --> 01:13:46,040
Speaker 1: Y'all wanna do it to a free.

1604
01:13:50,479 --> 01:13:51,360
Speaker 10: Mo mo me.

1605
01:13:52,960 --> 01:13:55,040
Speaker 1: Ladies just come to month.

1606
01:13:55,960 --> 01:13:59,519
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something, ju what's somebody?

1607
01:13:59,640 --> 01:14:04,680
Speaker 4: You take it easy? What do we do with a

1608
01:14:04,800 --> 01:14:07,679
Speaker 4: lot of obligations on the internet?

1609
01:14:08,080 --> 01:14:08,880
Speaker 2: What's allegation?

1610
01:14:10,200 --> 01:14:11,360
Speaker 1: A lot of people want.

1611
01:14:11,200 --> 01:14:14,800
Speaker 5: To be the poor minds? Forget about it.

1612
01:14:15,560 --> 01:14:20,720
Speaker 1: It's about nothing. They copy my style, room, the way

1613
01:14:20,760 --> 01:14:23,320
Speaker 1: I walk, the way I talk.

1614
01:14:23,200 --> 01:14:31,519
Speaker 2: And said, the way I tworks.

1615
01:14:29,479 --> 01:14:30,320
Speaker 1: Take it easy?

1616
01:14:30,760 --> 01:14:31,360
Speaker 10: What do we do?

1617
01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:40,360
Speaker 3: We go back on the road, compliche, We go back

1618
01:14:40,439 --> 01:14:41,000
Speaker 3: on the road.

1619
01:14:42,240 --> 01:14:46,679
Speaker 1: Yeo the road boy, mind's way?

1620
01:14:47,120 --> 01:14:47,640
Speaker 10: Let go.

1621
01:14:50,040 --> 01:14:57,400
Speaker 1: Yeah that way, that way wood the old brown my

1622
01:14:57,600 --> 01:15:04,120
Speaker 1: coochie piek is town race and die for everyone day.

1623
01:15:08,120 --> 01:15:10,559
Speaker 3: What the fuck you said?

1624
01:15:11,160 --> 01:15:11,280
Speaker 10: Oh?

1625
01:15:11,560 --> 01:15:14,960
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm a wretchie, not Jerman man.

1626
01:15:15,040 --> 01:15:17,720
Speaker 1: Let's go get this to it care man? What who

1627
01:15:17,800 --> 01:15:20,160
Speaker 1: told you to do it? I ain't y'all.

1628
01:15:20,280 --> 01:15:23,080
Speaker 2: I kind of a damn my big

1629
01:16:01,120 --> 01:16:01,160
Speaker 4: S