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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Dakota and this is Riley, your favorite

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Speaker 1: Okay storyteme hosts, and we got some great stories coming up.

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Speaker 2: My boyfriend is obsessed with iPhone and he won't stop

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Speaker 2: until I.

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Speaker 1: Switch like Nintendo.

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Speaker 3: So I never thought texting backgrounds would be the hill

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Speaker 3: a relationship might wither away on, but here we are.

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Speaker 2: We were just talking about this today way, and there's

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Speaker 2: a quick edit to add the ages. I'm thirty one female,

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Speaker 2: he's thirty two male, and we've been together for three years.

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Speaker 2: And by the way, this comes from user dm me

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Speaker 2: your bank info. Don't do that though, And if you

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Speaker 2: slash Okay Storytime suburn it. I'm Dakota, I'm Riley and Keon,

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Speaker 2: and we're here to give good advice goofy and you're

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Speaker 2: here to listen to it and post in the comments

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Speaker 2: what you have to say.

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Speaker 1: This is my background for Dakota. It's him at New

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Speaker 1: Year's with no mustache.

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Speaker 2: It was me and New Yar's with no mustache, getting

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Speaker 2: your hair after I've had a very good time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a good he looks so young in that.

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Speaker 3: I do.

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Speaker 2: I was a little baby because I'm in club baby.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Also, if you're listening to this, let us know if

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Speaker 4: you're listening it through an iPhone or you have an iPhone,

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Speaker 4: or you don't have an iPhone, we need to know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all the Huawei users out there, let me know

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Speaker 2: what's a Huawei one plus? Oh, he says, my boyfriend

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Speaker 2: and I both have perfectly functional phones. That's a suspicious

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Speaker 2: thing to say. I'm on Android, good phono.

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Speaker 1: I just made this for me at Keons.

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Speaker 4: I remember. I remember the day I saw that and

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Speaker 4: you went, I like this guy.

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Speaker 5: No, this sabotage everyone talking about No one could hold

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Speaker 5: their composure, turning and see that's just what you love.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay.

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Speaker 2: Recently Apple rolled out the update with the custom I

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Speaker 2: message backgrounds, and ever since then he has been relentlessly

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Speaker 2: trying to convince me to switch.

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Speaker 3: At first, it was lighthearted.

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Speaker 2: Oh darn, you can't see my stickers because you're a

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Speaker 2: green gal, and then it turned into we can't use

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Speaker 2: the cute matching ones unless you get an iPhone.

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Speaker 4: You're the wicked witch.

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Speaker 3: Bro Tone it over.

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Speaker 2: Now, it's basically, why won't you just switch? It's better anyway.

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Speaker 3: It feels manipulative or at least extremely annoying, and I

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Speaker 3: can't shake this feeling that Apple wants this tab. He's

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Speaker 3: a shiny spy.

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Speaker 2: They literally rolled out a feature that makes Android users

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Speaker 2: look left out, so iPhone users pressure them to switch.

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Speaker 3: A weird marketing conspiracy via social bullying.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, okay, I do know what they're talking about, and

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Speaker 1: I have been in groups where they exclude people because

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Speaker 2: Actually they might be onto something because I feel like

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Speaker 2: they also did this with air pods.

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Speaker 3: But remember all the AirPod memes.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, show the air pod memes, five hundred them

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Speaker 2: in one second.

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Speaker 3: Thank you?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Ultron, I'll tried watching him.

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Speaker 1: Oh it's not would you say I can't hear broke? Dude?

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Speaker 3: No, I feel so brokey.

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Speaker 4: Now, let's see the inside of your AirPod AirPods right now,

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Speaker 4: let's see.

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Speaker 3: How dur Let's see Paul Allen's air pod.

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Speaker 4: Dude, I could see wax in. That's kind of cross.

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Speaker 3: See I got waxy ears. Don't worry about it.

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Speaker 1: Man, A good wax every day now because of these.

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Speaker 3: So it's not that I hate iPhones.

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Speaker 2: I just don't like being pushed, especially over something as

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Speaker 2: dumb as a chat background.

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Speaker 1: Well wait, Android came up with that first, Like that's

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Speaker 1: the thing Android users do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but like so what.

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Speaker 1: So what my bad? You're right the broke.

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Speaker 3: Android users s is that a good time to six seven?

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Speaker 1: Now? There was no numbers involved in that.

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Speaker 2: The fact that he's treating this like a huge inconvenience

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Speaker 2: is giving me the ick. I'm starting to seriously wonder

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Speaker 2: marketing conspiracy designed to socially isolate Android users until their

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Speaker 2: own loved ones bully them into switching.

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Speaker 4: Do you guys know anyone like this. I have two

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Speaker 4: people that are anti Apple and my parents. That's crazy.

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Speaker 3: I've begged my parents, like just get an eye.

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Speaker 2: My mom is better to get an iPhone so we

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Speaker 2: can FaceTime and we don't have to use the weird

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Speaker 1: This shoes Messenger, that's how many my mom talk.

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Speaker 3: I won't have any of those apps, the Facebook apps

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Speaker 2: I uninstalled them ever since it was like, yeah, your

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Speaker 2: battery drops by forty five percent if you have that installed.

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Speaker 3: But anyways, I digress.

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Speaker 1: If you're on it like most of those people that

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Speaker 3: Dude, you're literally doing it right now.

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Speaker 1: You know what, There's an Apple on your phone that

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Speaker 1: does during forty five percent, and that's Blantro. You should

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Speaker 1: uninstall that never.

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Speaker 3: I must see the number go up. Anyways, like Apple said.

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Speaker 2: Let's weaponize cuteness. When did they say that and my

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Speaker 2: boyfriend signed up as their foot soldier? Oh no, I okay,

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Speaker 2: that was it like Apple said it was? It was

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Speaker 2: like it was like Apple said let's weaponize cuteness, and

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Speaker 2: my boyfriend signed.

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Speaker 3: Up as their foot soldier as a sneaky little compliment

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Speaker 2: I finally told him the pressure makes me uncomfortable, and

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Speaker 3: It's just a phone. But if it's just a.

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Speaker 2: Phone, why is he treating my refusal like I keep

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Speaker 2: his car? Why does he seem genuinely disappointed in me

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Speaker 2: over a chat background. It's making me wonder what happens

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Speaker 2: the next time I don't want something he wants? Will

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Speaker 2: he pull the same passive aggressive campaign? Will I be

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Speaker 2: guilted until I give in. I know it sounds ridiculous

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Speaker 2: that a tech update is what's making me rethink this relationship,

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Speaker 2: but the ick is loud. Is this a red flag?

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Speaker 2: Or am I overthinking a completely normal Apple versus Android disagreement.

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Speaker 4: This guy probably freaked out when like, you can make

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Speaker 4: your own emoji, and like he'd also like do you

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Speaker 4: a panda.

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Speaker 1: Oh he's like one of those Apple users.

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Speaker 4: He has to be.

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Speaker 1: We don't claim them, all right.

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Speaker 2: I would personally like to be able to make any

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Speaker 2: emoji I want, but my iPhone is too old.

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Speaker 1: But that's not how you only talk to us. Some

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Speaker 3: Like Lebron's Instagram posts.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 4: So it's just like someone to crypting it right now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they like write out a whole sentence with just

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Speaker 1: emojis and you're supposed to understand what they're saying. It's like,

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Speaker 1: do you want me to pick you up toilet paper

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Speaker 2: Like, yeah, that's why I set you toilet paper and

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Speaker 2: the red circle get the toilet paper from Target.

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Speaker 1: See.

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Speaker 3: Well, we do have some comments here, Godly dude.

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Speaker 2: The first comment says, honestly, my service is so bad

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Speaker 3: Half the time, I just straight up never received the texts.

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Speaker 2: I almost got to a point where I was going

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Speaker 2: reorganize the text and she never knew what was going on.

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Speaker 2: And Op replies, I live in a busy metrout in an

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Speaker 3: We've never had that kind of issue.

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Speaker 2: The quality of photos scent gets messed up sometimes, but

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Speaker 2: honestly not a huge problem.

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Speaker 3: And there is a second comment.

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Speaker 1: You know, honestly, if Angie was an Android user, it

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Speaker 1: would cost some say Android loser, no user user. That's

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Speaker 1: sick burn, sick burn, kidding, just kidding, just kidding. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that was the thing. The pictures, the Op's like

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Speaker 3: a pictures are a big deal. That bothers me so bad.

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Speaker 3: Hate that comment too.

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Speaker 2: Yes, he's acting as a mindless drone for Apple's corporate interests.

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Speaker 3: It is beyond SMELLYPI.

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Speaker 2: Replies like the people telling me to have him buy

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Speaker 2: me one are missing out on the part that I

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Speaker 2: have a perfectly functional found and don't need to give

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Speaker 2: money to Apple over this marketing scheme.

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Speaker 3: Stop calling it a marketing scheme.

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Speaker 1: It will feels targeted at her. What else is she

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Speaker 2: Boyfriend just wants you to have c stuff in your

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Speaker 4: And you know who's you know who's enjoying this at

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Speaker 4: the in the very back end of this Apple and

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Speaker 4: Android just going.

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Speaker 1: It's good dude, okay, fun fact there is a messaging

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Speaker 1: service that does through this Instagram. Instagram does all this stuff?

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Speaker 3: That is true, You can do all this stuff. Conspiracy theory.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, this post talking about how this is a conspiracy.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, is that this post was made by

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Speaker 1: When we walked right into it.

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Speaker 3: We're in the thick of ith.

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Speaker 1: We can't we got to finish it. We can't stop

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Speaker 4: The thick of it.

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Speaker 3: Uh. Comment three.

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Speaker 2: If he wants you to have an iPhone that badly,

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Speaker 2: an update a little over three weeks later.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like if Op submits to getting an iPhone,

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Speaker 1: she's signing her life away.

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Speaker 2: I really, I don't. I don't think it's gonna go

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Speaker 2: that far. Yeah, it's like it's really like.

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Speaker 3: Well, if this is, if he's this adamant about this,

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Speaker 3: where does it end?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I think it ends with the funny chats, with the

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Speaker 2: funny backgrounds. Don't you want his funny backgrounds? Did you

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Speaker 2: not see his funny backgrounds?

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Speaker 1: We have a good time. Mine with Sophia is a

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Speaker 1: picture of a dead fish that I saw on a

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Speaker 1: river once and since just pescatarian, I just have that

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Speaker 1: there so funny.

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Speaker 3: I don't have any of the background stuff.

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Speaker 2: I just have the the profile pictures I don't have.

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Speaker 1: Then there's a dead fish right there.

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Speaker 2: I just I have everyone's profile pictures as like a

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Speaker 2: zero point five photo, like directly from above their forehead,

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Speaker 2: except for you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yours is.

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Speaker 2: From when the Dono bar broke and you've had an

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Speaker 1: I didn't know what to do. I do know, okay,

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Speaker 1: Well? I here's my two thoughts. One conspiracy. He wants

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Speaker 1: And two, maybe he just wants to control every aspect

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Speaker 3: Maybe he just wants to send you a little funny goofball. Guys.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I could see you, I could see you stickers alone.

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Speaker 2: And I'm certainly not buying her an iPhone, So you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, I just want to send stickers. I have

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Speaker 2: and I'm just a paranoid. Yeah, it was a prank

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Speaker 2: Yeah, was at your Android girl, Which that didn't make

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Speaker 2: He told me I was being dramatic and quote embarrassing

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Speaker 2: kept on insisting I was overreacting and that Reddit poisoned

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Speaker 2: it's Christmas.

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Speaker 1: o Huawei. I oh, I don't like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, embarrassing in public? I no, no, no, no, I could

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Speaker 3: Is also crazy?

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Speaker 1: Stay strong, Ope.

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Speaker 2: Krima, Krima comm is here. Fast forward a couple of

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Speaker 2: out to be. It's a phone, not my phone, not

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Speaker 3: I just stared at him and said, are you kidding me?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: Defensive says I should be grateful that he went out

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Speaker 3: We're talking about most girls on Christmas.

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Speaker 4: With our partner.

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Speaker 1: I can not call that.

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Speaker 4: Ope, he's not most girls.

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Speaker 1: That is true. But then I not call that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's true, he did. He did call. He's calling

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Speaker 1: The bomber says no, because he came from behind and

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Speaker 1: you both deserved that one. Sorry to everyone else, thank

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Speaker 4: He's behind you, isn't he?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: No, So I asked why it wasn't in my name,

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Speaker 2: and he says, because you'd mess it up. I'm better

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Speaker 2: with tech dude. Okay, I am so sorry. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: I went on a PowerPoint side about Apple versus Android

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Speaker 4: I guarantee you this guy goes to like the Genius

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Speaker 4: Bar and be like, I gotta gun, I gotta plug

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Speaker 1: I know a guy, and the reason why, and I

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Speaker 1: it that like the guide bars on Apple won't let

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Speaker 3: It's true, it is true. So that's why I don't

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but uh, doctor Katy says, my gut says he's

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Speaker 1: trying to track her. Toria says, and it's easy to

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, No, I agree the tracking mm hmm, because

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Speaker 3: He's being way too controlling, way too controlling.

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Speaker 2: So after he said that thing about me messing up

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Speaker 2: this was exactly the controlling crap I was talking about.

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Speaker 2: He called me ungrateful and said that I love playing

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Speaker 2: the victim. I said he was a sneaky, manipulative, a

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Speaker 2: He says that I'm impossible to please, and no wonder

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Speaker 2: you were always single before me.

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Speaker 4: What is this?

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Speaker 3: You're about to be single?

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Speaker 1: Again as this is weird man.

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Speaker 3: And this on Christmas.

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Speaker 2: I told him, at least I was single by choice,

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Speaker 2: it online.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh, we're going there.

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Speaker 3: We're breaking up on Christmas. We're breaking up, bun Christmas,

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Speaker 3: breaking up? Focus?

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Speaker 4: What's it from Wham Last Christmas?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? But you gotta like this Christmas though.

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Speaker 3: This is Christmas.

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Speaker 2: I broke up with you because you really really suck

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Speaker 2: and I want you to leave.

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Speaker 1: Eat poop.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, Georgia Michael. I told him he needs therapy,

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Speaker 2: not a girlfriend. He says, Reddit can keep me warm

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Speaker 2: at night. I said, at least right it doesn't try

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Speaker 4: I would just replied with your iPhone can't keep you

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Speaker 3: Or can it?

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Speaker 1: If you overheat the battery, put a toylet, but then

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Speaker 2: Genius bar, genius bar. He ended it by saying, fine,

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Speaker 2: don't use it. I'll return it like he was punishing

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Speaker 2: a child. I spent Christmas night in the guest room.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, that's the update. Turns out it was never

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Speaker 2: but I don't know. Maybe I should look for a

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Speaker 2: new place. Yeah, I think you should look for a

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Speaker 2: new man.

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Speaker 1: Called that one? Wow, another one? At least you know now.

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Speaker 1: Some people would have taken the phone and been very

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Speaker 2: Where you could always just take the phone, reset it

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Speaker 2: you just didn't want the iPhone. I wouldn't want to

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Speaker 2: get an iPhone. They have fun little acute chats with

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Speaker 2: this guy because this guy sucks, But this.

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Speaker 1: Is what I'm not buying. Though earlier she was all like,

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Speaker 1: like some you know, fella from an Apple factory came

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Speaker 3: So she's like, we know your exact GEO coordinates.

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Speaker 1: She's like, I got to make up a story about this.

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Speaker 1: It's not about the bigger picture. It's actually about the

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Speaker 2: Well, there's a third update here, and we'll see clearly

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Speaker 2: she was not silenced enough.

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Speaker 1: Oh goodness.

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Speaker 3: Third update.

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Speaker 2: How to handle a breakup when I've relied heavily on

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Speaker 2: maybe you should have taken that iPhone and then sold it.

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Speaker 3: I'm looking for personal finance advice on how to handle

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Speaker 3: the situation I've ended up in. Well, buckle up because

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Speaker 3: we know all about the money we do.

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Speaker 2: Last You've got dollars and cents and when you add

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Speaker 2: them up, you can go to the bank and then

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Speaker 2: give you gold.

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Speaker 1: Don't forget about crypto bitcoin.

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Speaker 4: I love that dog, super Dog.

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Speaker 2: I've been living with my boyfriend for over a year,

451
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Speaker 2: but I'm not on the lease. I do have a

452
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Speaker 2: full time day job, but I don't have close family.

453
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Speaker 2: I can stay with, and I'm deliberately avoiding some old

454
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Speaker 2: friends because they're bad influences. I'm a recovering substance user,

455
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Speaker 2: so stability and environment matter a lot to me right now.

456
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Speaker 2: Over the past year, I started a small business from

457
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Speaker 2: our home. Because my own credit is limited, I filed

458
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Speaker 2: bankruptcy about six years ago after a personal emergency America.

459
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Speaker 2: I relied on my boyfriend credit to cover business necessities.

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Speaker 2: This started with his credit card and gradually expanded into

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Speaker 2: buy now, Pay later, and personal loan apps to manage

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Speaker 2: cash flow. You knows, I've been using his card for

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Speaker 2: the business, but I'm not sure he understands the total

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Speaker 2: exposure across different apps, or how much of the balances

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Speaker 2: are business related versus normal spending. The business is active

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Speaker 2: and generating income, but all of the debt is technically

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Speaker 2: in his name, not mine.

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Speaker 1: I mean he was manipulative to you. He has a

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Speaker 1: lot of credit. It seems like a trade trade off,

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Speaker 1: you know.

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Speaker 2: I think that the the I don't know if that's fair,

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Speaker 2: but I think it does illuminate. It's it's a new

473
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Speaker 2: fold in the in the like they have a business together,

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Speaker 2: so that can cause I've seen it that can.

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Speaker 3: Cause a lot of strife.

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Speaker 2: If the couple creates a business and then they try

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Speaker 2: to have a business baby while also you know, managing

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Speaker 2: their own you know, relationship.

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Speaker 3: Baby, It's like it gets real bad.

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Speaker 2: Lately he's been doing some unacceptable behaviors and that's a

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Speaker 2: big reason I think the relationship needs to end. From

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Speaker 2: a strictly legal standpoint, I'm aware that none of this

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Speaker 2: debt is in my name and that I could walk away.

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Speaker 2: That said, I'm trying to think through what the financially

485
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Speaker 2: responsible option actually is versus what's simply the easiest that

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Speaker 2: is true?

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Speaker 3: Are we in the Library of Congress?

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Speaker 1: I once got us on a fridge and Best Buy

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Speaker 1: on a smart Hell yeah, I was watching reels on it.

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Speaker 2: Well we do have you know, do we get any

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Speaker 2: here's here's do not have any actual responses for the

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Speaker 2: financial stuff, and we are not financial experts, but.

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Speaker 1: We did have an episode with the financial visit with

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Speaker 1: that I'm thinking of right now that could probably help you.

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Speaker 1: But hear me up, I think the X is actually

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Speaker 1: a good guy because if she's spending all this money,

497
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Speaker 1: we don't we never got a number how much she spent.

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Speaker 1: We don't even know how much she's generating. He wanted

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Speaker 1: her to have an iPhone so he could track everything

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Speaker 1: that's being spent, so he knows, like how much debt

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Speaker 1: he's in.

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Speaker 2: But that would be the business side of him. Having

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Speaker 2: that discussion felt like it was like, but he has

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Speaker 2: a hard time. He has a hard time separating business

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Speaker 2: and personal life. Ain't that the way it is? I

506
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Speaker 2: think that's a very gracious way.

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Speaker 3: To look at him.

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Speaker 1: Was an angel and yeah, but he's just he's.

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Speaker 3: Just trying to dot his teas and cross his eyes.

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Speaker 3: You know. Hm, that's what he's trying to do. Did

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Speaker 3: I That was?

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Speaker 1: That was right? Switch up that eyes crossed?

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Speaker 3: Scratch that reverse it. I hate that. I just said that.

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Speaker 3: Let's please Chacha slide.

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Speaker 2: From a personal finance perspective, I'm looking for input on

516
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Speaker 2: what people usually do when expenses are tied to one

517
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Speaker 2: partner's credit but driven by the other. Whether it ever

518
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Speaker 2: makes sense to keep repaying debt that isn't legally yours

519
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Speaker 2: after a breakup. I'm not an expert, but I'm gonna say,

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Speaker 2: absolutely not.

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Speaker 3: Let him keep that debt. Bib girl, go ahead. Maybe

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Speaker 3: I don't know what's the morally right thing to do.

523
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Speaker 3: How to handle housing transitions when only one person is

524
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Speaker 3: on the lease, What risks or consequences I may be

525
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Speaker 3: minimizing by telling myself I can just leave.

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Speaker 2: I know this set up and smart, and that better

527
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Speaker 2: boundaries early on would have prevented a lot of this.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to figure out the least messy way forward,

529
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Speaker 2: financially speaking, even if that means accepting that I didn't

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Speaker 2: handle things well and that's the end oh that story.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe pick up a side gig for

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Speaker 1: a little bit.

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Speaker 2: I would say, based on how he was talking about

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Speaker 2: the phone and you being like.

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Speaker 3: You're too stupid to set up the iPhone the easiest

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Speaker 3: thing to set up in the whole world, though I

537
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Speaker 3: set it up for you.

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Speaker 2: He sounds like he was on the road to really

539
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Speaker 2: treating you a bad So yeah, let him keep all

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Speaker 2: that debt.

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Speaker 1: Only a girl, and then we're only dating for like

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Speaker 1: a year, so not much time.

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Speaker 3: That's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Crazy started a business less than a year, that's just crazy.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I'd ever want to start a business

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Speaker 2: as my partner. Like we could work for the same business,

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Speaker 2: but like it couldn't be like our business.

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Speaker 1: I feel like you could if you guys had distinctively

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Speaker 1: different roles that were productive, like what's your girl good

550
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Speaker 1: at doing? Well?

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Speaker 2: Like if like like one person handled like all like

552
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Speaker 2: the accounting and then some like what I can't even

553
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Speaker 2: imagine what business I would open shark teeth, say.

554
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Speaker 1: Make pants, you make cool pants?

555
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Speaker 3: Or I make cool pants. I would make cool pants.

556
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, so she would handle the accounting stuff,

557
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Speaker 1: you would worry about the creative stuff. As long as

558
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Speaker 1: you both look relatively productive and you both can agree

559
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Speaker 1: that you goes are both productive on those ends, you

560
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Speaker 1: would be successful.

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Speaker 3: Well, just you know, I think the biggest thing with

562
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Speaker 3: the business or like tying a business with a relationship

563
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Speaker 3: is it then puts way more pressure on the relationship.

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Speaker 1: It does add a lot more expectations on a relationship

565
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Speaker 1: because like I don't know, dude, like cause we already

566
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Speaker 1: have so many expectations on relationships.

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Speaker 2: Now, was that if you break up now the business

568
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Speaker 2: like well, oops, who's leaving?

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Speaker 3: Who's staying? Are we still working together? What's going on?

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Speaker 1: Like? Good point? Good point?

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Speaker 3: Yeah that was yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, That's the thing I've seen the most with people

573
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Speaker 2: who start businesses together. It's like the pressure of the business,

574
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Speaker 2: like succeeding or like like a yeah, it puts pressure

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Speaker 2: on them having to maintain like their relationship yeah so

576
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Speaker 2: or like, and then you can't have problems because then

577
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Speaker 2: if you have problems in your relationship, you have problems

578
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Speaker 2: in your business.

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Speaker 1: You would just have to learn how to communicate effectively

580
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Speaker 1: and not be defensive. Yeah, in a lot of ways,

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Speaker 1: it'd be tough.

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Speaker 2: It would be tough to be fair, most of the

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Speaker 2: ones I've seen, like in this context, where people in

584
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Speaker 2: their early twenties so oh well, so definitely if you

585
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Speaker 2: could really just be emotionally mature.

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Speaker 1: And wait, if they did in their forties, maybe, yeah, honestly,

587
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Speaker 1: perhaps you're someone some dudes frontal cortex would have definitely

588
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Speaker 1: developed by then. Do you need to order it?

589
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Speaker 3: It already wore off?

590
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Speaker 1: Dude, I can get you some. Are you a thinker?

591
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Speaker 4: What did you get?

592
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Speaker 2: I nobody buy every Man Jack deodorant.

593
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Speaker 3: It doesn't freaking work.

594
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Speaker 1: It doesn't clog your pores like it should.

595
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Speaker 2: Well, I always buy aluminum free. The aluminum is the

596
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Speaker 2: stuff that would clog your pores.

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Speaker 1: I only buy aluminum really, yeah, I hear that's really

598
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Speaker 1: bad for you. I have never sweated out of my

599
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Speaker 1: armpits ever in my life.

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Speaker 4: Let's see aluminum one. Is that the we'll see aluminum one.

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Speaker 1: But it works.

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Speaker 2: No aluminum the odor and it's just like it's they

603
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Speaker 2: have a I can't remember what it's called.

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Speaker 3: It's like aluminum tribe fluster rate or something.

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Speaker 1: Oh hey, sorr.

606
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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's the chemical that clogs your pores. But that's

607
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Speaker 3: bad for you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hey, meaning says my husband and I. We make

609
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Speaker 1: mobile apps for fun. No pressure. He's a mobile designer

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Speaker 1: and I'm a u I designer.

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Speaker 3: He yeah, that sounds good, that sounds perfect. Yeah, because

612
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Speaker 3: there's no pressure. It's like the one I was. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: well I won't get into.

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Speaker 1: It, but no, get into it. What were you thinking

615
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Speaker 1: about doing? No?

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Speaker 3: It was the people that I knew. Oh okay, I

617
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Speaker 3: don't want to. I don't want to put them on

618
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Speaker 3: the Actually, you know what, I don't even care. I

619
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Speaker 3: will put them on blast. I knew these two people.

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Speaker 2: They were trying to start a production company together, and

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Speaker 2: it was their relationship was horrific.

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Speaker 1: Whatever, Okay, how long.

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Speaker 3: And if they see that, hi, long time?

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Speaker 4: You know?

625
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Speaker 1: See? How longer?

626
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Speaker 2: Was this?

627
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Speaker 1: Uh? Years?

628
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Speaker 3: An era ago, mm.

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Speaker 4: Ah, right, were ready for this next story?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's do it all right?

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Speaker 4: Three two one.

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635
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636
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Speaker 3: Because she's actually a health inspector. She's on the job.

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Speaker 1: Ellie twenty four female and I twenty eight mal have

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Speaker 1: been together for six months now. She's smart, driven, beautiful,

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Speaker 1: and funny, and we're very happy together. There's only one

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Speaker 1: thing about our relationship that I'm confused about. By the way,

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Speaker 1: this comes from why can't we go out? And if

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Speaker 3: I am Dakota, I'm Keon.

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Speaker 1: We're here to be funny, you're here to colment down below. So,

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Speaker 1: as Opie says, Ellie really doesn't like going to restaurants,

648
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Speaker 1: she'd agree to go to one when she's hungry, get

649
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Speaker 1: excited about choosing a place what to eat, But when

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Speaker 1: we get there, she clams up and gets very nervous.

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Speaker 1: She rarely finishes any of the food we order. We

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Speaker 1: usually share lots of side so we get a selection

653
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Speaker 1: and she says she doesn't know why she gets so full.

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Speaker 1: Now paras her.

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Speaker 3: Maybe she's scared.

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Speaker 2: She's scared of like crowds or strangers, because it's like

657
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Speaker 2: it's I think, when you're scared.

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Speaker 3: Your body tells you not to eat.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, but why is she excited about picking out

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Speaker 1: a place?

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Speaker 4: Then maybe she gets involved? She's involved.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: I used to when I was a kid, I used

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Speaker 3: to always really want to like.

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Speaker 2: Tomato soup and I never did, and I would eat

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Speaker 2: it and every time.

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Speaker 3: I'd be like, eh, but it looked like it would

668
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Speaker 3: taste so good.

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Speaker 4: That was me with pickles, adult beverages. What tomatoes?

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Speaker 3: You with pickles?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I hated pickles as kid. As a kid, I

672
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Speaker 4: hated tomatoes.

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Speaker 1: I hated all of really Dakota because I love tomato soup.

674
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:44,800
Speaker 4: That's like I grew up, My palate grew up.

675
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 1: That's good tomato, super duper dude. That's right, I'll make

676
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 1: you something that's actually good. So I think she has

677
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 1: a paraside in her when we were together. In other places,

678
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 1: she can talk for England, and I'm always having people

679
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 1: telling me how funny and confident she is. But in

680
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 1: restaurants Elle goes quiet. I've asked her about it, and

681
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 1: at the time she says, I don't know. I just

682
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 1: feel a bit weird. Sorry, not hungry. I don't know why.

683
00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 1: And afterwards she perks up. She'll mention how hungry she

684
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 1: is now and wishes she had eaten at all, and

685
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 1: laugh about how weird she was acting.

686
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:18,480
Speaker 4: Oh, I would like the first couple of times cute,

687
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 4: Like the tenth time, I'd be like.

688
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: What about the sixth month time?

689
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 4: Yeah?

690
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 1: What the heck?

691
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 3: Does talk for England mean? I'm sitting here trying to

692
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 3: figure that out.

693
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 4: You don't do it talk for England?

694
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I do not. I do not speak for the English.

695
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 1: I don't either.

696
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 3: Maybe maybe that's her problem.

697
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 1: I once spoke to an English Maybe this is.

698
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 3: Just what English people do. English people do you do this?

699
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 4: Yeah?

700
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:42,240
Speaker 1: Please let us know, tell us what you do. So

701
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:44,680
Speaker 1: here's a bit of background. Ellie worked in restaurants and

702
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 1: bars as a teenager in her early twenties. Doesn't anymore.

703
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 1: She's still in an early twenty. Okay, so she's not

704
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 1: unfamiliar to the environment. She never gets nervous like this

705
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 1: when we go to a pub or a bar for

706
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,800
Speaker 1: an active day like bowling or running. She's an amazing

707
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 1: cook and baker and eats plenty at home. I've never

708
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 1: seen a girl put away a steak like she does before.

709
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 3: Ah.

710
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 1: Oh, oh, she can put away meat. Huh.

711
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 3: Oh, she's a meatthuser. She just housing meat like a

712
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 3: warehouse meat meathouser. Like, how's how just scarf scarfer, scarf

713
00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 3: and meat scarfer. Yeah, it's my girlfriend called her meat scarf.

714
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 1: Dude. That is a baller nickname for a girlfriend. Right now, change, Angie,

715
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 1: your new nickname is meat scarfer.

716
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 4: You know what mine is? Uh? What I just called

717
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 4: her name is no longer caught Carly Murray, It's stinky

718
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 4: mcstonk No.

719
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 1: Nah, dude. Once we were first dating, we went out

720
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:52,640
Speaker 1: and she had what she calls a very very mild

721
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 1: placebo anxiety attack.

722
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 4: What is that.

723
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 1: She went to a doctor two years ago for anxiety

724
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 1: after her father passed away, and she doesn't suffer anymore.

725
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 1: But we went to lunch when we were both very hungover.

726
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 1: She said during the meal, she started feeling what she

727
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 1: thought was anxiety, heart rate increase, sweating, dizzy, not feeling

728
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:14,080
Speaker 1: right in herself, but it was actually just her hungoverness.

729
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 1: But by that point she already had to go calm down.

730
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 1: She was fine after a brief walk in the fresh

731
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:21,720
Speaker 1: air and ten minutes later. Hot take, hot take, hot take.

732
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:25,720
Speaker 1: She's always hungover? Really, yeah, this is why she gets

733
00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 1: weird in restaurants because don't you notice all their drinks

734
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 1: she's had the night before?

735
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 3: She Oh, she gets she.

736
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 1: Just gets slashed all the time.

737
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 2: She'd have to hide down one pretty well or op,

738
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 2: he's just stupid. Maybe the problem is she's not slashed

739
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 2: enough before she goes to the restaurant, because whenever they

740
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 2: go to the bar the pub, everything's fine.

741
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 3: But yeah, maybe maybe you.

742
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,479
Speaker 2: Just need to split the g a couple times before

743
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 2: you go to the fancy schmancy you know, steaking for him.

744
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 4: Is she nervous she's gonna run into someone?

745
00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:59,240
Speaker 1: That's a good point, Chris Arr says, Is she nervous

746
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:00,080
Speaker 1: her stomach's gonna.

747
00:31:59,880 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 4: Be oh, bubble guts.

748
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 1: I don't know the meeting someone's pretty good though, but

749
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 1: like wouldn't But then she would she would still be

750
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 1: nervous at the bar or the bowling alley. Yeah, running.

751
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 3: You meet so many people at the bowling alley.

752
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 1: Mm hmm you do.

753
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 3: They're there taking up space.

754
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 1: Mmm.

755
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 3: I know this is a weird thing. I would just say, I.

756
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 1: Think maybe a memory with her and her dad having

757
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:26,480
Speaker 1: about eating at a restaurant or something.

758
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 2: I think you just need to start keeping a lot

759
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 2: of meat at home. Get good at cooking that meat

760
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 2: because she's hungry.

761
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:34,040
Speaker 1: Mmm.

762
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 3: She has the gird Oh she's a girdler. She's a girdling.

763
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 1: I can see that. Yeah. We're like, yeah, I don't know,

764
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 1: all right. I told her I love her to bits

765
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 1: and this isn't a deal breaker for me by any

766
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:48,440
Speaker 1: stretch of the imagination. But it's an issue i'm confused by.

767
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 1: I just want my alley to be comfortable and happy.

768
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 1: If anyone has any insights into this at all, that

769
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 1: would be great. Thanks. We got some comments. Six seven

770
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 1: eight says she sounds like she has issues eating in public.

771
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:01,959
Speaker 1: She'ts plenty at home, so she feels different around others.

772
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, that's I don't I don't like going

773
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 2: to the gym for that reason, Like I don't like

774
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 2: working out around other people or like.

775
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:10,720
Speaker 3: A lot of other people. It just feels I just

776
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 3: don't like it.

777
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, I don't like it because I feel like

778
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:16,479
Speaker 2: I'm a little weak little boy and then like I

779
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 2: just feel bad.

780
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, No, don't compare yourself to others.

781
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 1: No, it's not Yah, that's how it's still story.

782
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 3: I'm not even like doing it.

783
00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 2: It's just like an innate like feeling because my back's

784
00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 2: all like weak and messed up.

785
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:29,600
Speaker 3: So I just feel like.

786
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 1: I feel like a couple of deb lifts would really

787
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 1: get you going.

788
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 2: It makes me feel discouraged instead instead of like seeing

789
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 2: all the other people working out being like I can

790
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 2: get there. I see all the other people working out,

791
00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 2: and I'm like I'm afraid.

792
00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:43,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, I work out with you. I'm like, you got

793
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 4: you got this. I encourage you.

794
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I gotta get back in it, Dude, I got

795
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 2: sick and I have I haven't worked out in like

796
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 2: a week and a half.

797
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 1: Well, you can always come with me and we can

798
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 1: like fight it together. You know.

799
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 2: We got a little we got a little workout on place,

800
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 2: and we got a sauna at our new place.

801
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:58,560
Speaker 3: No way, Yeah, which is crazy.

802
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:00,520
Speaker 1: I will definitely come work out with you guys. Then

803
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 1: there either.

804
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 2: I did see a Yelp review that there were roaches

805
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:04,680
Speaker 2: in it at one point, but I think they took

806
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 2: care of that.

807
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 1: Cool. That's I mean. I'm a bug too, love.

808
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:09,880
Speaker 3: Hey bugs got a sauna? Huh?

809
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 1: Come on, don't exclude them? I guess. Some other comments

810
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 1: delete it, says it doesn't sound like she has panic attacks,

811
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 1: just a bit reserved, trying to sit in a booth

812
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:21,920
Speaker 1: against the wall from her privacy and vary the venues

813
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:25,960
Speaker 1: from bruiser to more sedate dining. She really begins to

814
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:28,879
Speaker 1: react negatively. You may have to sign to dial back

815
00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 1: the restaurant dinners or seek medication for anxiety. Personally, I

816
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:35,760
Speaker 1: just have dinner parties at home rather than seeking medication

817
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,719
Speaker 1: for a problem so specific. And not that debility. You're

818
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 1: you're dude, you got debilitating? Why did you say debilitating?

819
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:46,319
Speaker 1: There we go.

820
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:48,680
Speaker 3: I like the first one better.

821
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 1: I don't even know. I can't even repeat it. I

822
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 1: don't even know how I did it. And not that debilitating,

823
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:58,000
Speaker 1: the debility, the debilitating, debilitating, He says, No, I agree.

824
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:00,400
Speaker 1: She says she hasn't had a panic attack in nearly

825
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:02,719
Speaker 1: two years. The only thing is she hasn't reserved at

826
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 1: all over the past few months. She's agreed to meet

827
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:07,839
Speaker 1: my friends or family in circumstances that might not be

828
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:11,560
Speaker 1: the most comfortable, and she's unefined actually loved it. I

829
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:14,359
Speaker 1: took her to touch rugby. What I took her to

830
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 1: touch rugby? I took her to touch rugby.

831
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:21,439
Speaker 2: It's probably instead of tackle rugby, it's like touch where

832
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 2: you just get by two and eighty pound dude, I thought, dude,

833
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 2: coming out of nowhere, sixty per hour.

834
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I thought it was like I took her to

835
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:32,720
Speaker 1: go touch grass, like with rugby.

836
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:37,560
Speaker 2: You know, she touched the concept of rugby. They went

837
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 2: and they they sat down, and they meditated, and they

838
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:41,880
Speaker 2: just they minded.

839
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:44,000
Speaker 1: Rugby.

840
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:48,239
Speaker 3: I see rugby in my mind. I see rugby in

841
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 3: my heart. My chakra's eye lined.

842
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:54,799
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm sorry. I took her to touch rugby. Where

843
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 1: I play with all my work friends and their girlfriends

844
00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 1: and other random people. It's a group of thirty new people,

845
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 1: and she was getting on great with all of them

846
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:05,360
Speaker 1: by the end of it. Same with my birthday. She

847
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 1: met all my old school friend's family, other people she

848
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:11,800
Speaker 1: hadn't met and she was mingling like a wasted lady

849
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:14,920
Speaker 1: in a tight dress. Everyone told me they loved her. No,

850
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:17,440
Speaker 1: it's not really a big issue. I would just appreciate

851
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 1: an insight if anyone has a similar experience.

852
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 2: I don't know if we're gonna read that comment, but

853
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:25,439
Speaker 2: I got a shout out. The guy's name, Albritt Einstein.

854
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 1: I mean, Opie does reply to it? Really? Okay? Nice?

855
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:33,960
Speaker 1: I was just saying so, Albert Einstein says, when you

856
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 1: ask her in the moment, she always says she doesn't

857
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:38,760
Speaker 1: know why she was acting weird. But have you tried

858
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:41,359
Speaker 1: talking with her outside of one of these incidents, Sit

859
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:43,799
Speaker 1: her down and point out what you've noticed that it's

860
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 1: a recurring pattern, and ask what's going on. One possibility

861
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 1: that occurs to me is that she has some kind

862
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 1: of OCD like fear about the cleanliness standards in restaurants.

863
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 1: Having worked in them, she knows how gross they are

864
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:58,200
Speaker 1: and can be behind the scenes. Even if she does

865
00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:01,440
Speaker 1: not have OCD about other things, it can manifest itself

866
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:04,880
Speaker 1: in just one limited way. Maybe she keeps psyching herself

867
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 1: oh and thinking she can overcome it, but then she

868
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 1: sees a spot on the tablecloth or notices some flaw

869
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 1: in the food that makes her completely lose her appetite.

870
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:16,919
Speaker 1: And perhaps she doesn't explain this to you because she's

871
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 1: still hoping the issue will go away if she ignores it.

872
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:23,040
Speaker 1: It won't. If it's OCD, she needs to seek a professional.

873
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:27,160
Speaker 1: That's just speculation, though only she knows the full story,

874
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:28,520
Speaker 1: and you need to talk to.

875
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:31,399
Speaker 3: Her, bro I mean, yeah, I would say you need

876
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:33,960
Speaker 3: to talk to her. Have we not blah blah blah

877
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 3: blah blah blah blah blah.

878
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 2: That's what you know, Yeah, blah blah blah blah, and then.

879
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 3: Eureka, you understand your meat scarfer.

880
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:44,800
Speaker 1: Won If Angie's gotten back to me on that, I

881
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 1: guess she hasn't yet.

882
00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:47,680
Speaker 3: She's probably blocked here.

883
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:52,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, our textter green now interesting? Yeah, I mean they've

884
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:54,719
Speaker 1: only talked like during the incident, which is weird. Not

885
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 1: did have they talked outside of the incident at all?

886
00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:00,400
Speaker 4: It seemed like it was always a during or like

887
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 4: around like after they went to dinner, but it was

888
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:06,160
Speaker 4: like never after it. Yeah, from what I would, I'd.

889
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 2: Be like, guess she just says like, oh I feel

890
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 2: better now, Yeah I should, She says she says, Oh,

891
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 2: I should have eaten all that.

892
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 1: I feel bad I didn't. Yeah, I think yeah.

893
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 2: I mean, whenever they talked about it, she just goes,

894
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:18,800
Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know, but I feel better now.

895
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:21,439
Speaker 3: I should have eaten I should have eaten that meat.

896
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:24,799
Speaker 1: Whatever it is, it is very specific to restaurants. She

897
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 1: has no issue with fast foods or takeaway and she

898
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:31,400
Speaker 1: doesn't really mind food cleanliness, not that she's discussing, but

899
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:34,359
Speaker 1: she abides by the five second rule and will still

900
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:37,240
Speaker 1: eat something if a fly landed on it or whatever.

901
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 1: Thank you for your comment, though, it's really puzzling. When

902
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 1: I ask her outside of a restaurants, she just says

903
00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:45,800
Speaker 1: she felt weird and just sometimes feels weird and she's sorry.

904
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:47,799
Speaker 1: She kind of brushes it off. I don't know if

905
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 1: it's worth getting into an in depth conversation about and

906
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:53,359
Speaker 1: might upset her over something so minor, you know what

907
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 1: I mean, not really sure how to proceed, And Albert

908
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 1: Ellinstein says, there's something going on with her, and if

909
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:00,880
Speaker 1: it's bad enough that it would upset her to have

910
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 1: a conversation about it, it's definitely not minor. Approach it

911
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:05,680
Speaker 1: with as much kindness as you can. Don't let her

912
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:08,439
Speaker 1: think that you think she's weird. Tell her it's nothing

913
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 1: to apologize for. Emphasize that you love her and want

914
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:13,440
Speaker 1: to support her through whatever is going on. All Right,

915
00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:15,719
Speaker 1: we have an update three days later. Everyone put your

916
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:18,720
Speaker 1: predictions down below. I I'm kind of on the OCD.

917
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:19,759
Speaker 1: Try in here.

918
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 2: I mean, it literally could be anything. It's definitely something.

919
00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 2: If she's just say, ha you I don't know.

920
00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:25,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was so weird.

921
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 3: Yeah you know what it is. You know what's going on.

922
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 1: You know what it is. Keon.

923
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:31,520
Speaker 4: It's a weird thing because you're like, oh, I could

924
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:34,240
Speaker 4: be this, it could be that, but like I got nothing.

925
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:35,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm buzzled.

926
00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:38,720
Speaker 2: Maybe she's just freaky at ah and she like only

927
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 2: likes to eat in front of you, you for an

928
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:42,479
Speaker 2: audience of one.

929
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 1: My god, I.

930
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 3: Only eat for my truthmore. Only you can see the

931
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:50,040
Speaker 3: meat I house.

932
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:53,759
Speaker 1: There's an animal that does that, right, m that only

933
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 1: eats in front of family or like their partner. There's

934
00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 1: got to be an animal that only does that.

935
00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 3: I mean, technically if you would count the the humans

936
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 3: that do it.

937
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, they eat certain things. I know.

938
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 3: Albatross is mate for life. But they're so stupid. Bald

939
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 3: eagles too, if they're if they're do bald eagles mate,

940
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 3: I don't know, Maybe they do.

941
00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:14,879
Speaker 2: So I was about to say no, Honestly, I don't

942
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:16,800
Speaker 2: even want to say it because it's really sad. Oh

943
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 2: albatross I'm just gonna say albatrosses are bad parents.

944
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:23,719
Speaker 1: Ah, I know exactly what you're talking about. Oh yeah, yeah,

945
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:26,520
Speaker 1: that's that is said conspiracy theory. Op is Karen to

946
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:29,640
Speaker 1: the staff and it ruins her appetite. We could be

947
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:31,560
Speaker 1: missing some context, but that I don't know. That wasn't

948
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 1: really sad.

949
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:34,880
Speaker 2: I mean, if he is a good boyfriend, realistically, you

950
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:39,240
Speaker 2: would leave out that your girlfriend is a horrific nightmare.

951
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 3: To wait staff.

952
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 1: To Reddit, yes she would.

953
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 3: Or maybe she's gittin. Maybe should I say that? And

954
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:46,560
Speaker 3: I probably shouldn't say that. I shouldn't say that. That's

955
00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:49,840
Speaker 3: a little too, that's too rough. Yeah, but she didn't

956
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 3: were good.

957
00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:53,440
Speaker 4: A lot of people are saying tsd O c D

958
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:56,920
Speaker 4: plus ed related mm hmmmmmm.

959
00:40:57,520 --> 00:40:59,360
Speaker 1: The coda just said she could have meat scarf the

960
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:05,839
Speaker 1: whole entire No, no, no, I don't think that that

961
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 1: that is what it is I'm so confused. Anyways, we're

962
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:10,800
Speaker 1: just giving our guesses. Here's what we're gonna get the

963
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:12,520
Speaker 1: answer here. Okay, three days later.

964
00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 3: Hey, it's Dakota, your favorite good time boy host.

965
00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 1: Here.

966
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 6: We're gonna get back to the stories. But here's three

967
00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:21,319
Speaker 6: minutes of ads from our sponsors. Hi, everyone thinks for

968
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 6: your comments and you're insightful thoughts. Shout out to the

969
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 6: guy who sugg just my girlfriend was so fat that

970
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 6: she was scared she wouldn't fit to the restaurant. You

971
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 6: cracked the case.

972
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:36,759
Speaker 2: Wills not gonna lie when it when it comes down

973
00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 2: to like the your mama is so fat, your girlfriend's

974
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 2: so fat.

975
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 3: That one, that one, that one is. But that was

976
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 3: a high quality one.

977
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 2: I think, I think, I do think, but but that's

978
00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:54,960
Speaker 2: but we don't do we don't. I can't even pretend

979
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 2: I didn't think that was funny.

980
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 1: That was came out of no way.

981
00:41:58,360 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 3: It's just a jo and it's just a joke.

982
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:03,839
Speaker 2: And you know, shout out to all the women. You're

983
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 2: all beautiful, except none of you are more beautiful than.

984
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 1: Might go him there you go to the shirt that

985
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:09,840
Speaker 1: just came out of nowhere.

986
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:11,879
Speaker 3: You're not a woman Kean.

987
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 1: You are beautiful. I'm not great at hiding my feelings

988
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 1: are lying and Allie knew something was up with me.

989
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:20,360
Speaker 1: In the last post, a lot of people had commented

990
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:23,400
Speaker 1: about her possibility of having an eating disorder or a

991
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:27,280
Speaker 1: much more serious case of anxiety disorder than she admitted,

992
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 1: which was kind of tearing me up inside, so I

993
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 1: decided I would casually bring it up to her. She

994
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 1: told me immediately that she could tell something was up

995
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:36,399
Speaker 1: and I just needed to come out and tell her.

996
00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 1: I start off by telling her I loved her and

997
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:40,919
Speaker 1: I didn't want to upset her. She makes jokes when

998
00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 1: she gets nervous, and she laughed and told me that

999
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:45,680
Speaker 1: if I cheated, I'd better start running. I told her

1000
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:48,319
Speaker 1: that I had noticed her issue with restaurants, and while

1001
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 1: it didn't matter to me in the slightest, I just

1002
00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:53,719
Speaker 1: wanted to know what the deal was, because she obviously

1003
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:57,359
Speaker 1: doesn't feel entirely comfortable in restaurants with me. I told

1004
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:59,560
Speaker 1: her I just wanted to understand what was going on

1005
00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:02,840
Speaker 1: so I could avoid making her feel uncomfortable in the future,

1006
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 1: and if she didn't want to tell me, it was fine.

1007
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:08,240
Speaker 1: She went quiet for a while, not upset, just thinking.

1008
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 1: She said she was willing to tell me, but it

1009
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:16,480
Speaker 1: was hard to articulate because she didn't exactly understand it herself.

1010
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:17,720
Speaker 3: Wow.

1011
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:21,839
Speaker 2: Interesting, we're so we're all about to have an epiphany here,

1012
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:25,520
Speaker 2: oh pe boyfriend, oh p girlfriend, everyone in this room

1013
00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 2: right now?

1014
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 3: Everyone listening?

1015
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:33,400
Speaker 1: Interesting? Huh yeah, okay. She said she did get anxiety

1016
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:36,640
Speaker 1: in restaurants. Shortly after her father passed, she had an

1017
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 1: anxiety attack and had to leave all her friends during

1018
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:43,600
Speaker 1: a mill and maybe subconsciously she is reminded of that

1019
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 1: during mills out.

1020
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 3: Shabam, we got it, we got it too.

1021
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 2: It's dad ptsdo well, it's daddy pps rip dad PTSD,

1022
00:43:56,840 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 2: PTS drip. Oh no, PTS drip, ptsdrip.

1023
00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:03,399
Speaker 1: Oh it's ptr is drip bam.

1024
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 2: Oh no, Well if you just baddy HERP at the

1025
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 2: end of PTSD VPTS drip, which.

1026
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 3: Kind of makes it sound cool, but honestly very uncool.

1027
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 1: You don't want that sauce on you.

1028
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:17,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, saw strong enough to give you anxiety for years

1029
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 3: over over meals.

1030
00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:21,920
Speaker 1: Okay, so with her dad, and maybe subconsciously she is

1031
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 1: reminded of that during meals out. She said she has

1032
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:27,240
Speaker 1: no issues with people watching her eat, but she often

1033
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 1: loses her appetite in a restaurant. She talked about it

1034
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:32,239
Speaker 1: with me for over an hour and it all made

1035
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:34,960
Speaker 1: a lot of sense. I asked her very gently she

1036
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 1: had any issues with her food or eating. I was

1037
00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 1: opening up the conversation to eating disorders, but allowing Kurt

1038
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,799
Speaker 1: to not discuss it. Also. She was very open and

1039
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 1: this was a gist at least. Father passed away two

1040
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 1: years ago. It was all of a sudden and really tragic,

1041
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:52,319
Speaker 1: and due to a lot of problems he had. They

1042
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:54,759
Speaker 1: hadn't spoken and over a year when he passed, I

1043
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:57,480
Speaker 1: knew all this before. A little while after his funeral,

1044
00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 1: she got very severe anxiety and for sale several months

1045
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:03,560
Speaker 1: could barely sleep and couldn't eat. Everything she ate she

1046
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 1: threw up. During that time, Ellie got very thin. She's

1047
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 1: always been in good shape and was never self conscious,

1048
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:13,880
Speaker 1: but became very thin. She would throw up most days involuntarily.

1049
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 1: She never made herself sick. She felt really depressed and anxious,

1050
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 1: but couldn't help link her some figure. She said it

1051
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 1: was probably because it was the only positive aspect in

1052
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:26,880
Speaker 1: her life at that time. She got really, really scared.

1053
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:31,520
Speaker 1: This could develop into boma boma and act.

1054
00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 2: So we gotta stop bullying the dyslexic.

1055
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:37,360
Speaker 1: I can't read this.

1056
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 3: Some would say it for you.

1057
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:44,839
Speaker 1: Okay, she got really really scared, this could develop into alimia.

1058
00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:46,800
Speaker 1: We got a little bit left here. Okay, this is

1059
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:49,360
Speaker 1: kind of makes sense. This is just yeah, this is nice.

1060
00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 3: We're kind of we're not really trauma dumping.

1061
00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:56,720
Speaker 2: We're like trauma sharing and that's cool coming closer together.

1062
00:45:57,000 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 1: Holy cow. Yeah, trauma dumping is whenever you just putting

1063
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:02,880
Speaker 1: on someone, but trauma sharing is whenever you get closer.

1064
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:05,400
Speaker 2: But yeah, it's like you just like are on a

1065
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 2: first or second date with someone, and it's just like, yeah,

1066
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 2: here's all of the bad things that have ever happened

1067
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:11,480
Speaker 2: to me.

1068
00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 1: Even they have to handle it by themselves.

1069
00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:16,760
Speaker 2: And then you just have to sit there and go, oh,

1070
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:17,440
Speaker 2: I'm okay.

1071
00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 3: I'm definitely okay with this.

1072
00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:22,360
Speaker 1: M that's good. I love that I just learned a

1073
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 1: new therapy.

1074
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:25,880
Speaker 2: Has anyone in chat have you ever like interrupted a

1075
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:28,440
Speaker 2: trauma dump and been like stop, I don't want to

1076
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:29,080
Speaker 2: hear any of this.

1077
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 3: Has anyone had the courage to do that?

1078
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:32,840
Speaker 1: I haven't.

1079
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:34,479
Speaker 3: You can do that we have free will.

1080
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:37,080
Speaker 1: Oh nice, that's good now. So she went on anti

1081
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 1: anxiety meds. I didn't know this and learn how to

1082
00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:41,440
Speaker 1: cope with it. She hasn't been on the meds for

1083
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:43,799
Speaker 1: over a year. She has never seen a therapist about

1084
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:46,279
Speaker 1: her dad's passing. But I meant she should. We're going

1085
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:49,040
Speaker 1: to start doing dates, then involve more activities, and get

1086
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 1: fast food and snacks rather than hold meals. I'm glad

1087
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:53,840
Speaker 1: I at least told me all this, and I hope

1088
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:55,319
Speaker 1: I can help her feel better.

1089
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:58,480
Speaker 3: All your arteries aren't gonna feel much better. Have you

1090
00:46:58,520 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 3: just start eating fast food?

1091
00:46:59,880 --> 00:47:00,120
Speaker 1: All?

1092
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:01,719
Speaker 3: Trust me?

1093
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:05,280
Speaker 1: I got cholesterol, No, the silent killer.

1094
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:07,840
Speaker 2: They say, yeah, I've read something recently that they like

1095
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 2: cured it though, or that they've developed something that like drastically,

1096
00:47:11,680 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 2: like super quickly reduces cholesterol, sort of like how I

1097
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:15,200
Speaker 2: was epic.

1098
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:16,839
Speaker 1: Instead, you need cholesterol.

1099
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:18,560
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I know, but I just mean like

1100
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 2: it like it, like it like cleans you, it cleans

1101
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:21,879
Speaker 2: you up.

1102
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 1: I thought you were like they found a way to

1103
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:26,279
Speaker 1: get rid of it, and I was like, don't take that.

1104
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:29,480
Speaker 2: Like your brain is made of cholesterol mostly, I think

1105
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 2: fat and cholesterol.

1106
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:31,719
Speaker 1: Please don't take that.

1107
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:36,880
Speaker 2: But yeah, anyways, you shout out to science and medicine

1108
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:37,360
Speaker 2: and stuff.

1109
00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:40,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, no more silent and thank you to everyone that

1110
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:43,319
Speaker 1: commented and edit. Ellie and I are looking into therapy now.

1111
00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:44,320
Speaker 1: Happy ending.

1112
00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:45,719
Speaker 3: I love that.

1113
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:49,479
Speaker 1: That was good.

1114
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:51,560
Speaker 4: That was good absolute cinema.

1115
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:55,000
Speaker 1: Yep, that is interesting hand placement. I'm just saying it

1116
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:56,800
Speaker 1: was just like the camera doesn't see the full image

1117
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:59,440
Speaker 1: and you can only see the goodies. You were correct, Dakoda.

1118
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:02,959
Speaker 1: He needs fat. That's why a faty mill is great

1119
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:03,719
Speaker 1: for a hangover.

1120
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:06,200
Speaker 2: I think it's the rest of my body that hurts

1121
00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:07,719
Speaker 2: the most after a hangover.

1122
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:10,560
Speaker 3: You know. Yeah, you know what's great for a hangover?

1123
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:11,400
Speaker 3: Not drinking?

1124
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:15,360
Speaker 1: That is true, drinking more Yeah, I've heard both. I dude,

1125
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 1: I hate hangovers, do too.

1126
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 3: I can't stand them.

1127
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 1: Well, I hate him so much, I don't I don't

1128
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:24,800
Speaker 1: even attempt to have one. Very nice, all right, bah

1129
00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:28,040
Speaker 1: bah bah. Riley has been a great role model for people.

1130
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 1: Riley has been a great mole for people.

1131
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:34,000
Speaker 3: A mole model. So funny, so quite so silly.

1132
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:38,719
Speaker 4: So oh man, let's let's let's go ahead and read

1133
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 4: the story. You ready for this one? This one's pretty fun? Well,

1134
00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:42,560
Speaker 4: it starts off pretty fun.

1135
00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:44,360
Speaker 3: It's from our subbred.

1136
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:45,279
Speaker 4: It's a ready nice.

1137
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:48,959
Speaker 2: My boyfriend promised my son to be his forever dad

1138
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:54,239
Speaker 2: while leading a secret life so horribly wrong. We met

1139
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:57,640
Speaker 2: in twenty twenty two in the most ordinary way imaginable

1140
00:48:57,760 --> 00:49:00,879
Speaker 2: through a screen and a game fair that's not really

1141
00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 2: the most ordinary. Imagine trying to explain that to someone

1142
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 2: from like the eighteenth century. Yeah, Call of Duty. Modern

1143
00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:12,120
Speaker 2: Warfare two whoa wow Neron's activated. He is known only

1144
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:15,680
Speaker 2: as Mad now forty two to protect his identity, and

1145
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 2: me as Rose now twenty nine two strangers moving through

1146
00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 2: digital maps with a small group of friends, laughing, surviving matches,

1147
00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 2: never imagining that anything real could grow there. Modern Warfare

1148
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:32,760
Speaker 2: three came and went, and life kept moving. By the way,

1149
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:35,719
Speaker 2: this comes from user extension Bobcat three p. One seven,

1150
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 2: direct from the r slash Showay story Time subbured it

1151
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 2: And if you want to submit your own stories, go

1152
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:43,600
Speaker 2: there and submit them. I'm Dakota, I'm Riley, I'm Keon,

1153
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 2: and we're here to talk big old words about stuff.

1154
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 2: They might be funny, they might be helpful, but you know,

1155
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 2: mostly they're gonna be goofy. So let us know what

1156
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 2: you have to say in the comments. Smarty pants is

1157
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 2: if you're out there, so it'll be continues. Then another

1158
00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 2: prestige noise, Black six arrived in twenty twenty four, and

1159
00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:07,400
Speaker 2: suddenly our group became constant six of us gaming daily voices.

1160
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:09,880
Speaker 3: Familiar routines forming somewhere quietly.

1161
00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:12,600
Speaker 2: I felt a pull toward him that scared me enough

1162
00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:13,680
Speaker 2: to keep my mouth shut.

1163
00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie. We skipped a call, a couple

1164
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 4: of call of duties.

1165
00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:19,399
Speaker 2: I saw the way he used the thunder gun, and

1166
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:20,680
Speaker 2: I couldn't help myself.

1167
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:23,920
Speaker 4: The way he runs trains on zombies is just magical.

1168
00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:26,840
Speaker 3: The people aren't gonna understand what that means.

1169
00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:29,680
Speaker 1: Basically, when you have a bunch of zombies that you

1170
00:50:29,680 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 1: you want them to form in a straight line. Thus

1171
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:35,879
Speaker 1: you make a train and projectile your pupews at them. Yeah.

1172
00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:37,840
Speaker 3: Another way is called kite. Another way to say that,

1173
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 3: it's called kiting.

1174
00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:41,000
Speaker 2: Nah, that's because you kind of fly a kite and

1175
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 2: you did make the kite go where you want.

1176
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 1: Never heard of that one.

1177
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:44,359
Speaker 4: I never heard of that one.

1178
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:46,400
Speaker 3: You've never heard of kiting? Are you gamer?

1179
00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:47,680
Speaker 1: I've never heard that one?

1180
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:48,800
Speaker 4: Have you done.

1181
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:52,319
Speaker 3: I did the ascension Easter egg.

1182
00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:53,680
Speaker 4: Guess what no achievement for that one.

1183
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:56,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I thought we were gonna get permanent minigun

1184
00:50:57,000 --> 00:50:59,200
Speaker 2: and we didn't, and it made me really sad. Yeah,

1185
00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:02,080
Speaker 2: one of the monkeys on We literally spent an entire

1186
00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 2: we had really quick week, week long snow day when

1187
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:09,000
Speaker 2: when that map dropped, literally heaven on Earth and it

1188
00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:11,120
Speaker 2: took We did it for a week and finally got it,

1189
00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:13,239
Speaker 2: and then we realized there was no reward and we

1190
00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:16,919
Speaker 2: were all very sad. That does sound sad, And that's

1191
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:18,920
Speaker 2: just a little page out of my life. Let's get

1192
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:21,880
Speaker 2: back into Ope's life. She's starting to feel the pull

1193
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:24,440
Speaker 2: to mister mad I felt a pull towards him that

1194
00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:26,759
Speaker 2: scared me enough to keep my mouth shut. But that

1195
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:31,760
Speaker 2: changed on December twenty fourth, twenty twenty four, when courage

1196
00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:34,279
Speaker 2: slipped through in the form of a silly clip in

1197
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 2: a simple Merry Christmas Eve.

1198
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:39,040
Speaker 3: From that moment, the world I knew began to unravel,

1199
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:43,760
Speaker 3: thread by thread. Discord messages turned into longer conversations. Gaming

1200
00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:46,680
Speaker 3: together turned into waiting to see if he was online.

1201
00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:49,880
Speaker 3: A flirt slipped out from him, then one from me

1202
00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:50,400
Speaker 3: in return.

1203
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:53,319
Speaker 4: How did he flirt, well, hot, I got here. I

1204
00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:54,919
Speaker 4: have the ray gun, but I'll give it to you.

1205
00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:56,720
Speaker 1: Ooh, that is that is flirting.

1206
00:51:56,800 --> 00:51:59,240
Speaker 2: That that is the That is a big, big flirt

1207
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:01,800
Speaker 2: in the zombie in the context of zombies.

1208
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 3: Couldn't be a bigger flirt.

1209
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:05,920
Speaker 2: He gave me his phone number like it was nothing,

1210
00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:10,200
Speaker 2: and suddenly texting became calling, calling became FaceTime, and FaceTime

1211
00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 2: became a presence so constant it felt like he had

1212
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:14,080
Speaker 2: always been there.

1213
00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 3: Mad was curious about me.

1214
00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:20,799
Speaker 2: He studied me, learned me what asked, questions, checked in,

1215
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 2: just just called to hear my voice. He studied me,

1216
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 2: learned like a biology class, like a like a botanist.

1217
00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:31,879
Speaker 2: He showed up daily with a consistency that felt impossible.

1218
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:34,200
Speaker 2: This was happening while I stood in the wreckage of

1219
00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:36,960
Speaker 2: my own life, separated from my ex husband, deep in

1220
00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:41,040
Speaker 2: my tattoo apprenticeship, raising two beautiful children, and barely holding

1221
00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 2: myself together. He told me everything, or so I believed,

1222
00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 2: his past relationships, his work, the province, he lived in,

1223
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:52,480
Speaker 2: his dreams, his wounds going back really quick. Oh no,

1224
00:52:52,719 --> 00:52:54,239
Speaker 2: I already missed it. I was gonna say, you can

1225
00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:55,120
Speaker 2: practice doing tattoos.

1226
00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:57,239
Speaker 3: On your kids. That's not illegal, that's true.

1227
00:52:57,280 --> 00:52:58,960
Speaker 1: I think you get a tax shot off for that too.

1228
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:01,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, because if you're their parent, you know, they're like,

1229
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 2: you can't be eighteen without your parents provisional.

1230
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:05,600
Speaker 3: Guess what, I'm their parent, and I'm tattooing their whole

1231
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 3: bodies because I have to practice.

1232
00:53:07,080 --> 00:53:10,680
Speaker 1: No, you get the permission. That's actually a pretty cool

1233
00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:11,280
Speaker 1: cheat code.

1234
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:12,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, very cool cheat code.

1235
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:14,480
Speaker 2: And then all the money you make doing the tattoos,

1236
00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:16,439
Speaker 2: you can get the tattoos removed from.

1237
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:19,960
Speaker 1: Because the kids can pay you. I think we're on

1238
00:53:20,200 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 1: something there.

1239
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:25,000
Speaker 2: He listened to my problems with the tenderness that made

1240
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:27,840
Speaker 2: me feel seen when I was certain I was invisible.

1241
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:31,080
Speaker 2: In March twenty twenty five, near my birthday, he casually

1242
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 2: asked how I would feel if he came to visit me,

1243
00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:37,040
Speaker 2: as if it would not change everything. I said yes,

1244
00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 2: even though I was terrified.

1245
00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:40,840
Speaker 1: And he shows up in Uhu.

1246
00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:43,360
Speaker 3: He shows up with all his stuff.

1247
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:46,959
Speaker 2: You said, I thought you thought this. Oh you didn't

1248
00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:49,439
Speaker 2: know that. I thought I thought you picked up the vibe.

1249
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:49,800
Speaker 3: I didn't know.

1250
00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:53,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess as you should have studied me more.

1251
00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:56,240
Speaker 2: I studied you a lot. In late March, he drove

1252
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:59,480
Speaker 2: through provinces, visited family, and then in early April took

1253
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:02,160
Speaker 2: a ten plus hour drive north just to see me,

1254
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:05,880
Speaker 2: twenty hours total. He arrived at four in the morning

1255
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:08,759
Speaker 2: with the longest, most awkward hug of my life and

1256
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:11,320
Speaker 2: a birthday gift of new shoes and a gift box.

1257
00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:15,440
Speaker 3: We slept on couches like scared teenagers, our hands touching

1258
00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:18,240
Speaker 3: in the dark, my heart racing so hard it woke

1259
00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:21,200
Speaker 3: me into a panic, and I pulled away before sleep

1260
00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:24,360
Speaker 3: claimed me again. I showed him my town and my world.

1261
00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:27,239
Speaker 3: That same day, I tattooed a dagger on his leg.

1262
00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:31,080
Speaker 3: Nice classic Was it a Prices?

1263
00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 1: I was thinking it was that one in Black Ops.

1264
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:39,160
Speaker 3: Two of the batistic bowie, the bowie bowie.

1265
00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:41,320
Speaker 2: You gotta get the ballistic and you gotta get the bowie,

1266
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:42,880
Speaker 2: the David Bowie.

1267
00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:44,680
Speaker 3: That's what I called it.

1268
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 2: Every time he grabbed my face, thanked me and kissed

1269
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 2: my cheek, I mean, how do you grab it though?

1270
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:54,520
Speaker 1: Like Wuldering Hill hit Like were you Doingdering a Het style?

1271
00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:56,960
Speaker 3: Yeah? Like it was it the chin or was it

1272
00:54:57,000 --> 00:54:59,239
Speaker 3: like a full grab or did he did he grab

1273
00:54:59,320 --> 00:54:59,920
Speaker 3: the whole face?

1274
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 1: Opie you're kind of scaring me with some of these scriptors.

1275
00:55:02,680 --> 00:55:05,800
Speaker 1: He studied me. He grabbed my face. What's happening?

1276
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 4: Is this smutt? Call of duty?

1277
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:08,960
Speaker 3: Smutt?

1278
00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 4: Because you have my interests?

1279
00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:15,359
Speaker 1: No, Captain Pierce, no uh.

1280
00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 2: Hannah asked how old is OPOPI is twenty nine? Mad

1281
00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:19,319
Speaker 2: is forty two?

1282
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:22,799
Speaker 1: Yep, consenting adults that everyone knows better here.

1283
00:55:23,360 --> 00:55:28,279
Speaker 2: Fear surged through me like electricity because nothing had ever

1284
00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 2: felt this intense. When he left, it felt bittersweet and unreal.

1285
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:33,040
Speaker 4: It is the shocker.

1286
00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:37,360
Speaker 3: He's the shocker. He shocks people. I love that quote.

1287
00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:39,759
Speaker 3: Someone had driven that far for me.

1288
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:43,359
Speaker 2: From that moment on, he was everywhere, texts all day,

1289
00:55:43,520 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 2: constant calls facetimes, morning and night. He was relentless in

1290
00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:50,400
Speaker 2: his pursuit, pouring his heart out, telling me this was fate,

1291
00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 2: telling me he loved me, and showing me proof that

1292
00:55:54,120 --> 00:55:58,360
Speaker 2: he believed in density.

1293
00:55:58,640 --> 00:55:59,520
Speaker 4: What do you McFly?

1294
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:03,880
Speaker 2: Well, simply mass over volume equals density.

1295
00:56:04,040 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 3: I have now proven here that's and that's how den.

1296
00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:09,319
Speaker 4: Density, Kay George McFly, calm down.

1297
00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:11,440
Speaker 3: Proof he believed in destiny.

1298
00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:12,279
Speaker 4: I love that game.

1299
00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:12,920
Speaker 3: Ugh.

1300
00:56:13,880 --> 00:56:18,280
Speaker 2: He told me about the coincidences that felt impossible to ignore.

1301
00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 2: How my real name had once been tattooed on his

1302
00:56:21,280 --> 00:56:23,920
Speaker 2: neck for his goddaughter and later covered with a rose,

1303
00:56:24,120 --> 00:56:26,200
Speaker 2: and everyone called me rose.

1304
00:56:26,560 --> 00:56:30,719
Speaker 3: Huh. How our dogs shared mismatched eyes, one blue and

1305
00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:33,440
Speaker 3: one brown on the same sides. What is that called

1306
00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:34,760
Speaker 3: headin chromia?

1307
00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:36,680
Speaker 1: My dog had that.

1308
00:56:36,760 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 3: HETEROCHROMEA is so cool. I wish I had it.

1309
00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:42,440
Speaker 4: You're a mutant. You're a mutant, Harry, You're a Harry mutant.

1310
00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:45,680
Speaker 2: How we both lived in small towns, both injured the

1311
00:56:45,719 --> 00:56:46,880
Speaker 2: same front left tooth.

1312
00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:50,319
Speaker 3: That's okay, we're kind of just now we're stretching.

1313
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:51,200
Speaker 4: What do we missed?

1314
00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:54,200
Speaker 2: A fantastic We're getting real limber out here. And we

1315
00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:56,600
Speaker 2: both broke the same leg and needed surgery.

1316
00:56:56,719 --> 00:56:59,560
Speaker 1: Oh. They also probably both breathed the same type of

1317
00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:00,600
Speaker 1: like substance.

1318
00:57:00,600 --> 00:57:01,799
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, you drink water.

1319
00:57:02,040 --> 00:57:07,640
Speaker 2: You both have two ears. Hopefully you both have skin. Yep,

1320
00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:09,120
Speaker 2: I've studied it.

1321
00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:10,920
Speaker 1: Ten vegers and eleven toes.

1322
00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:15,759
Speaker 3: Just like everyone else. We loved the same foods, music, tattoos,

1323
00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:20,200
Speaker 3: and games where we were so in sync. Who's gonna

1324
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:20,360
Speaker 3: say it?

1325
00:57:20,400 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 4: Put a picture?

1326
00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:22,840
Speaker 1: I think he passed the test here. Wow, he really

1327
00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:23,600
Speaker 1: did study for it.

1328
00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:25,600
Speaker 3: We were so in sync. It felt scripted.

1329
00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:28,320
Speaker 4: It's got up a may nod? Is that battery voice

1330
00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:28,800
Speaker 4: not sensing?

1331
00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:31,080
Speaker 1: It felt scripted, like it's not real.

1332
00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:34,800
Speaker 2: Yes, uh yeah, I was about to say almost almost,

1333
00:57:34,960 --> 00:57:36,320
Speaker 2: like it is some kind of.

1334
00:57:36,280 --> 00:57:37,920
Speaker 1: Script that he studied for.

1335
00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:40,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, he has studied this script.

1336
00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:42,440
Speaker 1: Maybe he did like mess up its tooth, just the

1337
00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:43,280
Speaker 1: match yours.

1338
00:57:43,920 --> 00:57:47,080
Speaker 2: I fought him relentlessly. I pulled back. I told him no.

1339
00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:49,240
Speaker 2: I told him I was not ready and told him

1340
00:57:49,280 --> 00:57:50,760
Speaker 2: I needed to be alone for a while.

1341
00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:53,720
Speaker 3: I had never lived alone before, and I was scared.

1342
00:57:53,880 --> 00:57:56,240
Speaker 2: I wanted to do everything right because I valued our

1343
00:57:56,280 --> 00:57:59,120
Speaker 2: friendship and connection, but he kept showing up.

1344
00:57:59,320 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 3: He cried on the phone, telling me he loved me.

1345
00:58:02,520 --> 00:58:04,560
Speaker 3: He said he knew the moment he left my town

1346
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:06,840
Speaker 3: that he loved me and would marry me. He called

1347
00:58:06,880 --> 00:58:09,400
Speaker 3: me my dear in a way that still echoes in

1348
00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:11,120
Speaker 3: my chest. You might want to go to a doctor

1349
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:11,360
Speaker 3: for that.

1350
00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:14,840
Speaker 2: He facetimed with my sisters, my friends, and my children.

1351
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:18,480
Speaker 2: I brought him fully into my world. He supported me

1352
00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:21,360
Speaker 2: as I opened my own tattoo studio, moved into my

1353
00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:24,800
Speaker 2: first place alone, and became someone braver than I had

1354
00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:28,000
Speaker 2: ever been. He promised me a future so convincingly that

1355
00:58:28,080 --> 00:58:31,120
Speaker 2: he renovated his home, put it up for sale, and

1356
00:58:31,160 --> 00:58:32,160
Speaker 2: planned a life with me.

1357
00:58:32,520 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 1: Oh dude, what's that one dude from the notebook?

1358
00:58:35,120 --> 00:58:36,240
Speaker 3: Noah, Ryan Josling.

1359
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:40,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, Ryan Josling. He Ryan Josling or Noah whatever that

1360
00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:40,560
Speaker 1: dude is.

1361
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:41,720
Speaker 4: Noah, he knowed this.

1362
00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:45,240
Speaker 3: He's well, it's a reverse, right, because he's selling it.

1363
00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:46,560
Speaker 1: Oh reverse Noah?

1364
00:58:46,640 --> 00:58:49,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, psych How do you say Noah backwards?

1365
00:58:49,440 --> 00:58:49,760
Speaker 1: Hoa?

1366
00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:51,960
Speaker 4: How hone?

1367
00:58:52,840 --> 00:58:53,840
Speaker 3: He did Houan?

1368
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:55,520
Speaker 4: Oh my god, it's the Hoen region.

1369
00:58:55,440 --> 00:58:56,400
Speaker 3: My least favorite.

1370
00:58:56,640 --> 00:58:57,040
Speaker 1: You suck.

1371
00:58:57,400 --> 00:58:59,600
Speaker 4: I like Joe too, dude, No one cares about your opinion.

1372
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:01,880
Speaker 3: Fine, fine, you probably like Unova.

1373
00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:04,800
Speaker 4: Ummm no, give me the Gualian anyways.

1374
00:59:04,840 --> 00:59:08,600
Speaker 3: Okay, enough being Pokemon dorks. Back to the story.

1375
00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:12,200
Speaker 2: I finally believed in him because his actions seemed louder

1376
00:59:12,200 --> 00:59:13,040
Speaker 2: than my fears.

1377
00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:14,960
Speaker 3: Our routine became sacred.

1378
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:18,840
Speaker 2: Texts all day, calls during drives, gaming every night, falling

1379
00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:23,160
Speaker 2: asleep on FaceTime, waking up together across provinces, saying good morning,

1380
00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 2: how did.

1381
00:59:23,880 --> 00:59:24,800
Speaker 3: You do that with kids?

1382
00:59:25,080 --> 00:59:27,880
Speaker 2: We dreamed out loud about the love story we would

1383
00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:29,640
Speaker 2: someday write together for Reddit.

1384
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:33,040
Speaker 3: He was my porcupine. Then life began to stall him.

1385
00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:34,960
Speaker 1: Oh a porcupine?

1386
00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:36,400
Speaker 3: Is that a Canadian thing?

1387
00:59:36,760 --> 00:59:39,320
Speaker 1: I don't know. But I wrote a song for Angelina

1388
00:59:39,400 --> 00:59:43,640
Speaker 1: called Porcupine. Oh that's so cute.

1389
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:46,640
Speaker 3: Look at this guy close up on the cutie pie.

1390
00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:48,240
Speaker 3: Please everybody look at him.

1391
00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:50,240
Speaker 1: I was sick one day and I missed her so

1392
00:59:50,320 --> 00:59:51,760
Speaker 1: much that I wrote her a song because I had

1393
00:59:51,920 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 1: I couldn't do anything else. I literally couldn't. I was like,

1394
00:59:54,120 --> 00:59:54,960
Speaker 1: I have to write a song.

1395
00:59:55,160 --> 00:59:57,720
Speaker 2: It was like Neil Young m hmm writing down by

1396
00:59:57,760 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 2: the river, delirious with fever.

1397
01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:00,520
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

1398
01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:01,960
Speaker 3: You wrote porcupine.

1399
01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:03,400
Speaker 1: I wrote porcupine. Yeah.

1400
01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:07,760
Speaker 2: So then life began to stall him. His dog needed

1401
01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:11,520
Speaker 2: emergency surgery. The remortgage happened, the house was taken off

1402
01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:15,320
Speaker 2: the market. Dates were pushed back again and again, from

1403
01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:19,000
Speaker 2: September to October to November to December to January.

1404
01:00:19,200 --> 01:00:20,800
Speaker 3: My anxiety screamed.

1405
01:00:20,400 --> 01:00:22,720
Speaker 2: While he insisted I was wrong to doubt him and

1406
01:00:22,760 --> 01:00:24,720
Speaker 2: that my fear hurt him.

1407
01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:27,360
Speaker 3: So I swallowed my doubts, even as red flags flickered.

1408
01:00:27,360 --> 01:00:29,520
Speaker 3: See now, a supportive partner won't do that.

1409
01:00:29,800 --> 01:00:32,280
Speaker 2: A supportive partner will say, I hear you You're right,

1410
01:00:32,760 --> 01:00:34,400
Speaker 2: this does feel sketchy.

1411
01:00:34,240 --> 01:00:36,160
Speaker 3: But I'm coming. Won't try to gaslight you.

1412
01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:39,040
Speaker 2: He avoided Facebook, saying he wanted me to meet his

1413
01:00:39,080 --> 01:00:42,200
Speaker 2: mom before adding me or WHOA, that's.

1414
01:00:42,120 --> 01:00:45,680
Speaker 1: Really weird Facebook. That's where you put everything family related

1415
01:00:45,760 --> 01:00:47,960
Speaker 1: on mmmmm hmmm.

1416
01:00:49,720 --> 01:00:52,600
Speaker 2: I found out he owned three cats that apparently were

1417
01:00:52,600 --> 01:00:54,560
Speaker 2: not his, and that he was watching them for his

1418
01:00:54,680 --> 01:00:55,720
Speaker 2: ex of two years.

1419
01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:56,960
Speaker 3: Eh ooh.

1420
01:00:57,120 --> 01:01:00,000
Speaker 2: There was jealousy that felt sharp, even though he claimed

1421
01:01:00,520 --> 01:01:01,040
Speaker 2: he was not.

1422
01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:02,000
Speaker 3: A jealous person.

1423
01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:05,439
Speaker 2: Tension appeared when I went out the day after disagreements

1424
01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:08,400
Speaker 2: with him, calling me inconsiderate. I told myself love was

1425
01:01:08,440 --> 01:01:10,880
Speaker 2: not perfect and that the pros outweighed the cons. That

1426
01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:14,000
Speaker 2: December was especially hard because I missed him I just

1427
01:01:14,040 --> 01:01:16,720
Speaker 2: wanted to feel that hug from the beginning of the year.

1428
01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:18,960
Speaker 3: On Christmas Eve, I sent him.

1429
01:01:19,080 --> 01:01:22,160
Speaker 2: Heartfelt, future promising love letter and told him I wished

1430
01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:25,000
Speaker 2: he were here. I said I loved him, and something shifted.

1431
01:01:25,320 --> 01:01:28,720
Speaker 2: His voice felt distant. There was no FaceTime that night,

1432
01:01:28,800 --> 01:01:33,520
Speaker 2: and silence replaced comfort. By Christmas morning, my anxiety filled

1433
01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:36,280
Speaker 2: the room where he was supposed to be facetiming with

1434
01:01:36,400 --> 01:01:38,440
Speaker 2: my kids as they opened gifts.

1435
01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 3: Dang. He had established relationship with the young'uns.

1436
01:01:41,960 --> 01:01:44,240
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, and sisters and the parents.

1437
01:01:44,640 --> 01:01:49,040
Speaker 2: Oh I'm sorry, Op, this guy's an unholy canoley. He

1438
01:01:49,080 --> 01:01:51,320
Speaker 2: had promised them he would be there, but he was

1439
01:01:51,400 --> 01:01:53,880
Speaker 2: gone At two in the afternoon. I texted him saying

1440
01:01:53,960 --> 01:01:56,520
Speaker 2: I was anxious and felt like he did not want

1441
01:01:56,560 --> 01:01:59,080
Speaker 2: to be with me. Instead of comforting me, he became

1442
01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:02,600
Speaker 2: angry and accused me of ruining his holiday. It took

1443
01:02:02,600 --> 01:02:05,480
Speaker 2: two days to repair things, but it was never the same.

1444
01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:08,080
Speaker 2: He stopped saying I love you, he stopped calling me

1445
01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:11,560
Speaker 2: my dear. His text felt distant, and I bet you

1446
01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:15,320
Speaker 2: it's because his wife started being a little more present

1447
01:02:15,400 --> 01:02:16,240
Speaker 2: in his day to day.

1448
01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:18,640
Speaker 3: That's my guess.

1449
01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:22,760
Speaker 2: I still sent him the love letter and his Christmas

1450
01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:26,560
Speaker 2: gifts when things seemed okay. Then he disappeared again after

1451
01:02:26,640 --> 01:02:29,240
Speaker 2: a twenty minute wait while my cousin stood at my

1452
01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:30,520
Speaker 2: door after hitting a.

1453
01:02:30,560 --> 01:02:33,480
Speaker 1: Moose nice side quest which you should.

1454
01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:37,840
Speaker 2: Swerve around, as we've previously famously established on the show,

1455
01:02:37,880 --> 01:02:41,880
Speaker 2: and he accused me of being inconsiderate of his time day.

1456
01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:44,360
Speaker 4: Is this like a common thing in Canada? I mean, yeah,

1457
01:02:44,440 --> 01:02:45,200
Speaker 4: like deer.

1458
01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:48,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's like that's how many moose are out there?

1459
01:02:48,440 --> 01:02:50,360
Speaker 4: I know, but like deer, it's like a goose.

1460
01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:55,160
Speaker 3: I but those things are likea moosa, missy mouse, Moosy's.

1461
01:02:56,600 --> 01:02:56,840
Speaker 4: Sorry.

1462
01:02:56,840 --> 01:03:00,680
Speaker 2: I had to vocal stim Two days later, on December thirty,

1463
01:03:00,720 --> 01:03:04,360
Speaker 2: first New Year's Eve, the weight in my chest became unbearable.

1464
01:03:04,480 --> 01:03:07,600
Speaker 2: I looked where I never thought I would find anything

1465
01:03:07,640 --> 01:03:11,960
Speaker 2: and discovered a woman of seven years. There were tags

1466
01:03:12,040 --> 01:03:16,080
Speaker 2: posts I love you's Christmas photos, and an ornament declaring

1467
01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:19,560
Speaker 2: it all started with a message their pictures laid inside.

1468
01:03:19,800 --> 01:03:22,280
Speaker 3: It shattered everything I thought I knew.

1469
01:03:22,440 --> 01:03:29,080
Speaker 1: Oh pee ah, dude, Oh no.

1470
01:03:29,760 --> 01:03:35,840
Speaker 2: I mean, like, honestly, bro, I know there are good versions,

1471
01:03:35,880 --> 01:03:39,320
Speaker 2: but this is just like PSA on the dangers of

1472
01:03:39,640 --> 01:03:43,840
Speaker 2: forming a long distance relationship with someone you don't really

1473
01:03:43,880 --> 01:03:45,440
Speaker 2: know anything about HM.

1474
01:03:45,840 --> 01:03:48,600
Speaker 1: You know, and they hide certain aspects of their life

1475
01:03:48,600 --> 01:03:48,840
Speaker 1: from h.

1476
01:03:48,920 --> 01:03:51,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta have it all on the table if

1477
01:03:51,360 --> 01:03:54,120
Speaker 2: you're gon't do that. And he clearly did his research

1478
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:56,520
Speaker 2: on you, because he's like, oh, yeah, we have the

1479
01:03:56,560 --> 01:03:58,120
Speaker 2: same teeth injuries.

1480
01:03:58,520 --> 01:04:02,040
Speaker 3: Oh like what there's a very dangerous creature behind you. Riley,

1481
01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:05,560
Speaker 3: all right, I watched the Wrapped by the Snout, only the.

1482
01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:09,640
Speaker 1: Get ready ready, Ready, moose, moose, moose car crash, he's

1483
01:04:09,640 --> 01:04:12,560
Speaker 1: still here. They don't crash.

1484
01:04:13,000 --> 01:04:14,280
Speaker 3: Shrug that right off.

1485
01:04:14,920 --> 01:04:16,960
Speaker 1: Oh, I want to hang out with him now. He's

1486
01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:17,439
Speaker 1: kind of cute.

1487
01:04:17,440 --> 01:04:17,920
Speaker 3: Good moose.

1488
01:04:19,000 --> 01:04:19,760
Speaker 1: I want a son.

1489
01:04:22,600 --> 01:04:26,960
Speaker 3: Damn, that's a good turn, dude. I need a baby.

1490
01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:28,760
Speaker 1: We're like an animal.

1491
01:04:29,120 --> 01:04:31,760
Speaker 2: We just get Angie to do the baby transplant thing

1492
01:04:31,760 --> 01:04:32,800
Speaker 2: and then you can have the baby.

1493
01:04:32,920 --> 01:04:36,120
Speaker 1: We do have that technology, we do, absolutely, It's just

1494
01:04:36,160 --> 01:04:37,640
Speaker 1: I gotta fund the money for it now.

1495
01:04:37,680 --> 01:04:41,320
Speaker 3: I donate, donate so Riley could be pregnant.

1496
01:04:41,440 --> 01:04:47,400
Speaker 2: People would When I confronted him on FaceTime, he looked uncomfy.

1497
01:04:47,800 --> 01:04:50,720
Speaker 2: He claimed it was a facade so her family wouldn't

1498
01:04:50,720 --> 01:04:53,840
Speaker 2: worry since she moved out. I sent him a screenshot

1499
01:04:53,880 --> 01:04:57,160
Speaker 2: of the Christmas tree with the ornament posted earlier in December.

1500
01:04:57,320 --> 01:04:59,520
Speaker 3: He had nothing to say and could not even look

1501
01:04:59,560 --> 01:04:59,800
Speaker 3: at me.

1502
01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:02,560
Speaker 4: He's like, wow, you caught me. Wet me?

1503
01:05:02,680 --> 01:05:03,919
Speaker 3: What a flimsy asked.

1504
01:05:04,000 --> 01:05:06,280
Speaker 2: He tried to say, Oh, no, this is actually a

1505
01:05:06,360 --> 01:05:09,640
Speaker 2: conspiracy so that her family won't worry about her. She's

1506
01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:12,640
Speaker 2: actually my ex for sure, That's what he tried to say.

1507
01:05:12,760 --> 01:05:14,000
Speaker 3: What a dumbass.

1508
01:05:14,680 --> 01:05:19,880
Speaker 2: Honestly, honestly, I told him I could not stay without truth,

1509
01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:23,040
Speaker 2: without action, and without him actually showing up to the

1510
01:05:23,040 --> 01:05:24,040
Speaker 2: promises he made.

1511
01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:25,840
Speaker 1: He asked if this meant.

1512
01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:29,040
Speaker 3: We would not game anymore? Does this mean we're no

1513
01:05:29,120 --> 01:05:31,240
Speaker 3: longer friends on ekbox Live?

1514
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:33,600
Speaker 1: That mean I don't get your weg gun anymore?

1515
01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:34,479
Speaker 3: Can can?

1516
01:05:35,040 --> 01:05:38,160
Speaker 1: Are you not going to me anymore? I'm just gonna

1517
01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:41,680
Speaker 1: have to die moose A.

1518
01:05:42,560 --> 01:05:45,480
Speaker 3: Yeah. He didn't ask anything else, just about the games.

1519
01:05:45,760 --> 01:05:48,360
Speaker 2: No fight, no answers, no proof, no clarity, just a

1520
01:05:48,400 --> 01:05:52,360
Speaker 2: New Year's message on January first, wishing me well as.

1521
01:05:52,160 --> 01:05:54,320
Speaker 3: We erased each other from existence.

1522
01:05:54,360 --> 01:05:57,320
Speaker 1: That is so crazy. You could do the funniest thing ever,

1523
01:05:57,400 --> 01:06:01,200
Speaker 1: opie ha haha. What I don't know. Maybe add someone

1524
01:06:01,240 --> 01:06:03,120
Speaker 1: on Facebook, share a couple.

1525
01:06:02,880 --> 01:06:08,160
Speaker 3: Of pictures, Mama Jamba, do you guys?

1526
01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:11,400
Speaker 1: My other question is where do you? Guys mainly communicate

1527
01:06:11,560 --> 01:06:15,000
Speaker 1: through discord. Discord you can say messages like Snapchat or signal.

1528
01:06:15,240 --> 01:06:18,480
Speaker 1: You can delete messages, but here you can't. So you

1529
01:06:18,520 --> 01:06:20,800
Speaker 1: have the locks, yeah, and the gaming logs and the

1530
01:06:20,800 --> 01:06:21,439
Speaker 1: gaming time.

1531
01:06:21,680 --> 01:06:25,760
Speaker 2: Well, hey, I think you know this is that would

1532
01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:28,320
Speaker 2: be hard though, I think that I mean, you could

1533
01:06:28,400 --> 01:06:31,160
Speaker 2: like send it up the line, be like, hey, your

1534
01:06:31,240 --> 01:06:33,400
Speaker 2: husband said he was gonna marry me, just let you know.

1535
01:06:33,680 --> 01:06:34,160
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm.

1536
01:06:34,400 --> 01:06:36,800
Speaker 3: He was gonna sell your house. It's what he told me.

1537
01:06:36,920 --> 01:06:39,280
Speaker 3: But you gotta be careful, you do, really do.

1538
01:06:39,680 --> 01:06:44,120
Speaker 2: His gifts arrived days later, my love letter, his favorite chocolates,

1539
01:06:44,320 --> 01:06:48,240
Speaker 2: a card signed by my children, a custom leather bag.

1540
01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:49,880
Speaker 3: With his name. I heard nothing.

1541
01:06:50,120 --> 01:06:52,479
Speaker 2: I sat in the ruins of what I believed was fate,

1542
01:06:52,520 --> 01:06:55,080
Speaker 2: holding my child with autism as he cried for the

1543
01:06:55,120 --> 01:06:58,000
Speaker 2: man who promised him forever, showing me his pinky finger

1544
01:06:58,080 --> 01:07:00,520
Speaker 2: and breaking my heart all over again. My older son

1545
01:07:00,600 --> 01:07:03,560
Speaker 2: kept asking for mad and wore the shirt he gave him,

1546
01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:07,160
Speaker 2: sad that his promises fell through. I sit wondering how

1547
01:07:07,160 --> 01:07:09,960
Speaker 2: to explain that sometimes love is not real, even when.

1548
01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:10,880
Speaker 3: It feels like everything.

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01:07:11,040 --> 01:07:14,840
Speaker 2: Oh no, I wonder how I failed my children, which

1550
01:07:14,840 --> 01:07:18,040
Speaker 2: you didn't really. I lost my friends because he became

1551
01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:20,920
Speaker 2: my world. I trust my future. The greatest love story

1552
01:07:20,960 --> 01:07:23,600
Speaker 2: I thought I was living became the deepest heartbreak I've

1553
01:07:23,640 --> 01:07:27,560
Speaker 2: ever known, leaving me alone with unanswered questions, broken promises,

1554
01:07:27,720 --> 01:07:29,080
Speaker 2: into heart that does not know.

1555
01:07:29,040 --> 01:07:31,600
Speaker 3: What was real, what was fake, or how to ever

1556
01:07:31,720 --> 01:07:34,000
Speaker 3: love again. And that is the end of that story.

1557
01:07:34,040 --> 01:07:35,560
Speaker 1: Oh, pee. Oh my god.

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01:07:35,840 --> 01:07:37,840
Speaker 3: I feel for you, baby girl. But let me just

1559
01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:41,600
Speaker 3: say this, Meet people in the real world first. That's

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01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:43,720
Speaker 3: how you're gonna love again, because.

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01:07:44,520 --> 01:07:47,880
Speaker 1: Well they I'm not really able to hide as much

1562
01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:48,480
Speaker 1: stuff from you.

1563
01:07:48,840 --> 01:07:51,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, or like you know, it's fine, like you said

1564
01:07:51,280 --> 01:07:53,920
Speaker 2: you had the red flags were lurking and you kind

1565
01:07:53,920 --> 01:07:56,600
Speaker 2: of were like, oh, look past that. But like if

1566
01:07:56,600 --> 01:08:00,600
Speaker 2: someone's promising you the world and you know they're not

1567
01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:03,959
Speaker 2: living in yours, I don't know, it seems like that's

1568
01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:06,600
Speaker 2: a little too good to be true. And you know,

1569
01:08:06,640 --> 01:08:07,400
Speaker 2: but you didn't.

1570
01:08:07,800 --> 01:08:08,560
Speaker 3: You didn't really fail.

1571
01:08:08,640 --> 01:08:11,480
Speaker 2: You got you got got everybody gets got every now

1572
01:08:11,520 --> 01:08:13,040
Speaker 2: and then you just got got really bad.

1573
01:08:13,200 --> 01:08:13,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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01:08:13,440 --> 01:08:16,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, time kids.

1575
01:08:16,360 --> 01:08:17,320
Speaker 3: You know your kids will be okay.

1576
01:08:17,400 --> 01:08:19,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, just focus on loving your kids right now. You'll

1577
01:08:19,840 --> 01:08:24,400
Speaker 4: find someone eventually. But I think you know that next

1578
01:08:24,439 --> 01:08:27,000
Speaker 4: time this occurs, and hopefully it's not there's not a

1579
01:08:27,080 --> 01:08:29,519
Speaker 4: next time like this, but something like like this occurs.

1580
01:08:29,680 --> 01:08:32,000
Speaker 4: I think you know you've been like I've been fooled once.

1581
01:08:32,479 --> 01:08:35,240
Speaker 4: I think you know what to do next time. If

1582
01:08:35,240 --> 01:08:36,160
Speaker 4: there is a next time like that.

1583
01:08:36,800 --> 01:08:40,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and uh, good luck what uh?

1584
01:08:40,680 --> 01:08:42,120
Speaker 3: I think you could probably tell your kids.

1585
01:08:42,160 --> 01:08:44,320
Speaker 2: I mean if the kids are upset about him being gone,

1586
01:08:44,400 --> 01:08:46,639
Speaker 2: you just be like, hey, you know what crazy story?

1587
01:08:46,960 --> 01:08:50,200
Speaker 3: He had a secret family. Yeah, he actually had turned

1588
01:08:50,280 --> 01:08:53,240
Speaker 3: us into his secret family, which is crazy.

1589
01:08:53,280 --> 01:08:55,680
Speaker 1: And he has better kids than you, Like, he has

1590
01:08:55,680 --> 01:08:57,400
Speaker 1: a son that's way better than you.

1591
01:08:57,439 --> 01:08:59,040
Speaker 3: No, don't, and there's no secret.

1592
01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:02,679
Speaker 2: Now you're failing your kids if you say that the failure, that's.

1593
01:09:02,479 --> 01:09:05,960
Speaker 3: Your failing Moose not what to say me, Scott? What

1594
01:09:06,479 --> 01:09:07,519
Speaker 3: is that Michael Sarah?

1595
01:09:07,560 --> 01:09:11,800
Speaker 1: Oh, dude, that's that dude from a freaking Yeah, I

1596
01:09:11,840 --> 01:09:13,200
Speaker 1: love that dude. He's a great dancer.

1597
01:09:13,520 --> 01:09:15,479
Speaker 4: It's from Step Up. Do you know who that? Do

1598
01:09:15,520 --> 01:09:17,280
Speaker 4: you know what his name is? What Moose?

1599
01:09:17,479 --> 01:09:20,120
Speaker 1: This is in the Step Up? Yeah, dude, that's his

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01:09:20,200 --> 01:09:22,880
Speaker 1: name is step Up love Moose? The only Step Up

1601
01:09:22,880 --> 01:09:25,120
Speaker 1: I watched. You know. Fun fact. I was like in

1602
01:09:25,200 --> 01:09:27,599
Speaker 1: middle school and I was watching steps Step Up with

1603
01:09:27,640 --> 01:09:29,599
Speaker 1: my cousin and we were watching that when it was great.

1604
01:09:29,640 --> 01:09:31,320
Speaker 1: Then she put on the next one. It was just

1605
01:09:31,360 --> 01:09:34,200
Speaker 1: like girls torking and I was like, I cannot watch this.

1606
01:09:34,200 --> 01:09:36,599
Speaker 1: This is too much torque on going on.

1607
01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:39,960
Speaker 3: Too much torque. There's too much torque on the screen. Ride.

1608
01:09:40,080 --> 01:09:41,960
Speaker 1: I asked her to start like can we watch something.

1609
01:09:41,760 --> 01:09:44,240
Speaker 2: You're like, yeah, the first one. We can watch Channing

1610
01:09:44,280 --> 01:09:47,400
Speaker 2: Tatum being hot and shirtless and sweaty. But as soon

1611
01:09:47,439 --> 01:09:50,639
Speaker 2: as there are women shaking their rumps, I am now

1612
01:09:50,760 --> 01:09:53,880
Speaker 2: in a violation of the Lord's policy.

1613
01:09:54,160 --> 01:09:56,320
Speaker 1: Yep, yep, it's okay to watch other men do it.

1614
01:09:56,360 --> 01:09:57,280
Speaker 1: Your brothers in Christ do it.

1615
01:09:57,360 --> 01:09:59,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, hey, you know Greek, the Greeks they like.

1616
01:09:59,760 --> 01:10:03,520
Speaker 1: To, yeah, grab each other's little little.

1617
01:10:03,240 --> 01:10:04,920
Speaker 3: What, grab each other's a little ball?

1618
01:10:05,680 --> 01:10:08,479
Speaker 1: Because they were if they were smaller or bigger what?

1619
01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:10,680
Speaker 1: Uh how many?

1620
01:10:10,680 --> 01:10:11,639
Speaker 3: It's got to be an answer.

1621
01:10:11,680 --> 01:10:12,479
Speaker 1: It's probably bigger.

1622
01:10:12,640 --> 01:10:13,759
Speaker 3: Did they used to be smaller?

1623
01:10:13,840 --> 01:10:15,599
Speaker 1: Did they used to be bigger? Well, they droomed small

1624
01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:18,960
Speaker 1: because they were scared. Anyways, so much toy for Riley. Yeah,

1625
01:10:18,960 --> 01:10:21,200
Speaker 1: I was in middle school. I was supposed to see

1626
01:10:21,200 --> 01:10:21,960
Speaker 1: that in middle school.

1627
01:10:22,040 --> 01:10:23,920
Speaker 3: You know, the statue of David. He was just nervous,

1628
01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:24,479
Speaker 3: that's all.

1629
01:10:24,520 --> 01:10:26,960
Speaker 1: It was. Oh my gosh, my guys, we've got some comments.

1630
01:10:26,600 --> 01:10:27,320
Speaker 3: Here had a hog.

1631
01:10:27,760 --> 01:10:30,280
Speaker 2: He's just nervous that day, which it was cold outside,

1632
01:10:30,320 --> 01:10:31,000
Speaker 2: Give me a bible.

1633
01:10:31,120 --> 01:10:33,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's exactly what I was thinking. I saw temptation

1634
01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:35,800
Speaker 1: coming at me, and I said I must run and

1635
01:10:35,880 --> 01:10:40,519
Speaker 1: he said, I did. Yeah comments from the video. My

1636
01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:44,759
Speaker 1: bridezilla friend is cheating in nursing school, so I turned

1637
01:10:44,760 --> 01:10:48,880
Speaker 1: her in. This is from January fifteenth of twenty twenty six. Dude,

1638
01:10:48,880 --> 01:10:50,400
Speaker 1: I thought that was so long ago. That was like

1639
01:10:50,520 --> 01:10:51,040
Speaker 1: last month.

1640
01:10:51,240 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 2: D yeah, that's so fresh. Yeah my gosh, Oh my gosh,

1641
01:10:54,360 --> 01:10:56,800
Speaker 2: that it was one month. That was Oh no, never mind,

1642
01:10:56,840 --> 01:10:57,559
Speaker 2: that was almost one month.

1643
01:10:57,680 --> 01:10:58,719
Speaker 3: I was one month and some change.

1644
01:10:58,760 --> 01:11:01,679
Speaker 1: So Opie's friends, Sam is a nursing school student who's

1645
01:11:01,680 --> 01:11:05,360
Speaker 1: been acting wild, planning a wedding without a date or venue,

1646
01:11:05,479 --> 01:11:08,799
Speaker 1: kicking out bride'smaids left and eye, and being super demanding.

1647
01:11:09,080 --> 01:11:12,800
Speaker 1: Sam also faked a towing bill to excuse being late

1648
01:11:12,840 --> 01:11:14,080
Speaker 1: for her nursing program.

1649
01:11:14,120 --> 01:11:15,639
Speaker 3: Oh I do I remember this one.

1650
01:11:15,720 --> 01:11:18,960
Speaker 1: Opie was worried about reporting her because Sam might go

1651
01:11:19,040 --> 01:11:22,559
Speaker 1: crazy and ruin their friendship. But she did it a way,

1652
01:11:22,680 --> 01:11:25,920
Speaker 1: since Sam could hurt her parents one day. She did it.

1653
01:11:26,160 --> 01:11:28,439
Speaker 1: She did it, but she did it anyways because Sam

1654
01:11:28,479 --> 01:11:32,080
Speaker 1: could hurt her patience one day. Oh P. Also being quiet?

1655
01:11:32,240 --> 01:11:36,240
Speaker 1: Oh Pee also quit because Sam's maid what also quit

1656
01:11:36,320 --> 01:11:40,280
Speaker 1: being Oh? Oh god, I should let you read this, OHP.

1657
01:11:40,760 --> 01:11:43,519
Speaker 1: Do you want me to uh and pass off popcorn

1658
01:11:43,640 --> 01:11:44,400
Speaker 1: popworn reading.

1659
01:11:44,760 --> 01:11:47,400
Speaker 2: Oh Pe also quit being Sam's maid of honor because

1660
01:11:47,439 --> 01:11:50,880
Speaker 2: Sam was way too controlling and jealous about everything. If

1661
01:11:50,880 --> 01:11:53,200
Speaker 2: you're curious to know the full story, you can go

1662
01:11:53,360 --> 01:11:56,320
Speaker 2: watch the Little Story on you too.

1663
01:11:56,760 --> 01:11:58,920
Speaker 1: Keon, what what are these comments about these videos?

1664
01:11:59,120 --> 01:12:01,040
Speaker 4: I will go ahead and yet them for you. I

1665
01:12:01,120 --> 01:12:02,040
Speaker 4: don't remember reading a.

1666
01:12:02,000 --> 01:12:02,800
Speaker 1: Story though, neither.

1667
01:12:02,880 --> 01:12:04,960
Speaker 2: I do remember this one, and it was very much

1668
01:12:05,040 --> 01:12:06,800
Speaker 2: like a yeah, just you gotta be a nark.

1669
01:12:07,360 --> 01:12:10,519
Speaker 3: Go ahead, do the nark, do the narkage.

1670
01:12:10,360 --> 01:12:12,559
Speaker 4: All right. But we do have some comments here, comment

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01:12:12,640 --> 01:12:17,599
Speaker 4: number one by Danny x a x K saying did

1672
01:12:17,640 --> 01:12:20,360
Speaker 4: you all forget what OPI said? She's worried someone could

1673
01:12:20,360 --> 01:12:23,800
Speaker 4: get hurt or worse if this woman gets that certificate

1674
01:12:23,800 --> 01:12:27,160
Speaker 4: with her lies. OPI should one hundred percent snitch. This

1675
01:12:27,200 --> 01:12:29,200
Speaker 4: isn't a line of work where people can cheat to

1676
01:12:29,240 --> 01:12:31,320
Speaker 4: get into with no harm to others.

1677
01:12:31,760 --> 01:12:33,439
Speaker 2: I guess I must have been like with the bro,

1678
01:12:33,560 --> 01:12:38,360
Speaker 2: you're a snitch, But I can't help it. I don't

1679
01:12:38,439 --> 01:12:42,280
Speaker 2: say everything right all the time because it's funny.

1680
01:12:42,360 --> 01:12:43,080
Speaker 3: That's what I do.

1681
01:12:43,439 --> 01:12:46,120
Speaker 4: And then we have another comment here between two people

1682
01:12:46,360 --> 01:12:50,000
Speaker 4: on this. The first comment is Brittany Bronham sixteen fifty

1683
01:12:50,000 --> 01:12:53,280
Speaker 4: one saying, first story is crazy. The op should mind

1684
01:12:53,280 --> 01:12:55,559
Speaker 4: her business and had no reason to get involved with

1685
01:12:55,560 --> 01:12:58,880
Speaker 4: someone's nursing school. OPI is heavily jealous. And then someone

1686
01:12:59,000 --> 01:13:03,600
Speaker 4: responds to Brindy saying and the responder is Marcus Aurelius

1687
01:13:03,680 --> 01:13:08,000
Speaker 4: twenty thirteen, Oh oh, saying you do realize if that

1688
01:13:08,040 --> 01:13:10,559
Speaker 4: woman becomes a nurse, someone might end up passing away

1689
01:13:10,640 --> 01:13:13,160
Speaker 4: due to her ignorance. What if she became your nurse

1690
01:13:13,400 --> 01:13:15,599
Speaker 4: and your life was on the line, would you still

1691
01:13:15,640 --> 01:13:16,280
Speaker 4: be cool with it?

1692
01:13:17,040 --> 01:13:17,200
Speaker 3: No?

1693
01:13:17,280 --> 01:13:19,559
Speaker 2: But then you know what that it really does start

1694
01:13:19,640 --> 01:13:22,200
Speaker 2: the thing of like, dang, is anyone qualified to do

1695
01:13:22,280 --> 01:13:26,519
Speaker 2: anything now? I actually, when my mom was in the hospital,

1696
01:13:26,560 --> 01:13:30,080
Speaker 2: we had a nurse and she was horrifically bad.

1697
01:13:30,880 --> 01:13:31,800
Speaker 4: Riley's a woman doctor.

1698
01:13:31,920 --> 01:13:36,240
Speaker 2: It's her entire like, her demeanor, her attitude, how she

1699
01:13:36,360 --> 01:13:39,640
Speaker 2: was handling her got it just bad, all of it.

1700
01:13:39,760 --> 01:13:42,639
Speaker 1: I don't believe in nurses as a woman doctor because

1701
01:13:42,640 --> 01:13:44,559
Speaker 1: I think the doctors should also be a nurse too.

1702
01:13:44,800 --> 01:13:45,720
Speaker 4: Nice thanks doctor, right.

1703
01:13:45,760 --> 01:13:48,200
Speaker 2: I think nurses are doctors and doctors are nurses. Doctor

1704
01:13:48,280 --> 01:13:50,639
Speaker 2: Riley or woman doctor Riley, And we have one.

1705
01:13:50,560 --> 01:13:54,000
Speaker 4: Last comment on this video from Christy mattson eighty two

1706
01:13:54,000 --> 01:13:56,200
Speaker 4: sixty you saying, if it's more than just being late

1707
01:13:56,280 --> 01:13:58,639
Speaker 4: to class, then of course she should tell on the girl.

1708
01:13:58,760 --> 01:14:01,080
Speaker 4: But I don't know. I'm a big proponent of staying

1709
01:14:01,120 --> 01:14:04,000
Speaker 4: the hell out of other people's business unless it's harmful

1710
01:14:04,040 --> 01:14:06,360
Speaker 4: to others, which her being late is an annoyance for sure,

1711
01:14:06,479 --> 01:14:08,479
Speaker 4: But she will get punted out on her own. If

1712
01:14:08,640 --> 01:14:12,400
Speaker 4: it's a chronic thing. What she's doing is gonna hurt somebody. Hell, yah,

1713
01:14:12,439 --> 01:14:14,040
Speaker 4: you need to tell on her. But I'm pretty sure

1714
01:14:14,040 --> 01:14:15,880
Speaker 4: the people in those programs are smart enough to be

1715
01:14:15,920 --> 01:14:18,320
Speaker 4: able to tell who's gonna make it or not. I

1716
01:14:18,320 --> 01:14:20,080
Speaker 4: think she'll ruin her own life. And I think that

1717
01:14:20,120 --> 01:14:21,960
Speaker 4: it's just not right to get involved in other people's

1718
01:14:22,000 --> 01:14:24,760
Speaker 4: crap most of the time. Especially Yeah, I was gonna say,

1719
01:14:24,760 --> 01:14:27,680
Speaker 4: if it's like nursing school or doc like anything that

1720
01:14:28,000 --> 01:14:30,800
Speaker 4: intense or serious, I think it's gonna they're gonna do

1721
01:14:30,840 --> 01:14:31,920
Speaker 4: it to themselves kind of thing.

1722
01:14:32,200 --> 01:14:32,559
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

1723
01:14:32,920 --> 01:14:34,880
Speaker 4: But like if it was like, oh my gosh, she's

1724
01:14:34,920 --> 01:14:37,680
Speaker 4: getting her certificate, or like she's like really close or

1725
01:14:37,680 --> 01:14:39,320
Speaker 4: like I'm not even really close, like halfway there, and

1726
01:14:39,320 --> 01:14:41,000
Speaker 4: no one's like calling her out on this. I would

1727
01:14:41,000 --> 01:14:41,960
Speaker 4: call her, call her rapp.

1728
01:14:41,960 --> 01:14:44,160
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, like, dude, nurses school is like what

1729
01:14:44,360 --> 01:14:48,960
Speaker 2: is there even to It's so like what you keep

1730
01:14:48,960 --> 01:14:51,639
Speaker 2: the blood in the body, You get the snot out

1731
01:14:51,680 --> 01:14:55,599
Speaker 2: of the nose mm hm again keeping the blood, keep

1732
01:14:55,600 --> 01:14:56,519
Speaker 2: all the blood in the body.

1733
01:14:56,600 --> 01:14:59,519
Speaker 3: Mm hmm. And then I'll give you, you know, drink a

1734
01:14:59,520 --> 01:15:00,000
Speaker 3: little water.

1735
01:15:00,760 --> 01:15:02,280
Speaker 1: It'd probably be nice. And they figured out how to

1736
01:15:02,320 --> 01:15:05,040
Speaker 1: get rid of those like cancer celles. Though eventually they've

1737
01:15:05,080 --> 01:15:05,640
Speaker 1: been working on that.

1738
01:15:05,760 --> 01:15:07,400
Speaker 3: They made a lot of advances with that.

1739
01:15:07,479 --> 01:15:09,880
Speaker 2: Also, if anyone is too silly, did not understand, I

1740
01:15:09,960 --> 01:15:12,599
Speaker 2: was just joking, Oh you were. Yeah, Nursing is very

1741
01:15:12,640 --> 01:15:14,680
Speaker 2: hard and you'd have to be very good at it

1742
01:15:14,920 --> 01:15:17,120
Speaker 2: and smart and I would.

1743
01:15:17,200 --> 01:15:18,320
Speaker 3: And it's a hard job.

1744
01:15:18,200 --> 01:15:19,839
Speaker 1: And you have to go to school for like seven

1745
01:15:20,160 --> 01:15:21,000
Speaker 1: six to seven years.

1746
01:15:21,040 --> 01:15:22,680
Speaker 2: And if you're a trapwell, I don't know, maybe they

1747
01:15:22,800 --> 01:15:24,320
Speaker 2: decreased sometimes it's more.

1748
01:15:24,560 --> 01:15:26,160
Speaker 1: Dude, that's crazy travel nurse.

1749
01:15:26,360 --> 01:15:29,040
Speaker 3: Honestly, I will never mind. I don't want to talk

1750
01:15:29,080 --> 01:15:34,000
Speaker 3: bad about somebody, but who nobody, don't worry about it.

1751
01:15:34,080 --> 01:15:36,920
Speaker 1: No, I knew a nurse once she's doing good, the

1752
01:15:36,920 --> 01:15:38,880
Speaker 1: one who delivered you. No, that was a dude.

1753
01:15:39,040 --> 01:15:40,040
Speaker 4: You could still be a nurse.

1754
01:15:40,240 --> 01:15:44,000
Speaker 1: That dude is so old. He delivered me, Tate saw

1755
01:15:44,000 --> 01:15:44,840
Speaker 1: your and rider.

1756
01:15:45,040 --> 01:15:45,759
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

1757
01:15:45,960 --> 01:15:46,960
Speaker 1: Yeah wow.

1758
01:15:47,160 --> 01:15:50,320
Speaker 7: Yeah, he's like he's got his hands on the whole family. Yep,

1759
01:15:50,479 --> 01:15:52,320
Speaker 7: Lord's blessed us. He knows what they do with all

1760
01:15:52,360 --> 01:15:56,000
Speaker 7: of us. He saved my life. Like legit, whenever I

1761
01:15:56,120 --> 01:15:57,840
Speaker 7: came out, I was not ready to be born. You know,

1762
01:15:57,920 --> 01:15:59,759
Speaker 7: people like I was born ready. I wasn't.

1763
01:16:00,240 --> 01:16:04,280
Speaker 1: I had a biblical cord wrapped around my chain. And

1764
01:16:04,320 --> 01:16:06,280
Speaker 1: then also I was dripped out. And then also I

1765
01:16:06,280 --> 01:16:07,960
Speaker 1: couldn't breathe for the first like three four minutes of

1766
01:16:07,960 --> 01:16:09,599
Speaker 1: my life. There was something in my mouth that wouldn't

1767
01:16:09,640 --> 01:16:11,200
Speaker 1: let me breathe. So like he had it. He was like,

1768
01:16:11,439 --> 01:16:14,519
Speaker 1: throw me around your grill, you throw me around, pat

1769
01:16:14,600 --> 01:16:17,120
Speaker 1: my butt, trying to do something. Hit my hit my stomach.

1770
01:16:17,200 --> 01:16:19,000
Speaker 1: But then he like put its pinky in my mouth

1771
01:16:19,040 --> 01:16:20,560
Speaker 1: and there was something in it, and yeah.

1772
01:16:20,560 --> 01:16:21,280
Speaker 3: It was that drip.

1773
01:16:21,400 --> 01:16:21,639
Speaker 1: Dude.

1774
01:16:22,360 --> 01:16:26,120
Speaker 2: Man, somebody photo shot a really uh really big jemon

1775
01:16:26,280 --> 01:16:29,720
Speaker 2: stone and uh.

1776
01:16:28,360 --> 01:16:30,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I didn't they do almost didn't make it.

1777
01:16:30,439 --> 01:16:33,600
Speaker 2: Dude almost spelled like level one, Thank goodness, it was in.

1778
01:16:33,640 --> 01:16:37,559
Speaker 4: Almost level one minute one day one.

1779
01:16:37,720 --> 01:16:40,120
Speaker 3: It's not even level zero. That's character creator, dude.

1780
01:16:40,520 --> 01:16:44,120
Speaker 1: I couldn't get past it. Well, I guess my character

1781
01:16:44,320 --> 01:16:44,759
Speaker 1: was created.

1782
01:16:44,800 --> 01:16:44,880
Speaker 2: Then.

1783
01:16:44,920 --> 01:16:47,400
Speaker 1: As soon as it hit the like you know, the the.

1784
01:16:47,479 --> 01:16:49,960
Speaker 3: Spawn, you were basically in the load screen.

1785
01:16:50,120 --> 01:16:53,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, well spawned point. I got someone was trying to

1786
01:16:53,120 --> 01:16:57,080
Speaker 1: spawn point like kill me spots like uh Riley and

1787
01:16:57,160 --> 01:16:58,920
Speaker 1: his brothers have cool names. My mom did a good job.

1788
01:16:59,680 --> 01:17:02,640
Speaker 3: Yeah yep, yeah no, Larry's.

1789
01:17:02,280 --> 01:17:04,599
Speaker 4: All right, boys, do the do's do the close out

1790
01:17:04,640 --> 01:17:04,880
Speaker 4: for this.

1791
01:17:04,920 --> 01:17:07,800
Speaker 1: And guys, if you love us, make sure to subscribe.

1792
01:17:07,880 --> 01:17:10,439
Speaker 3: We love you and see you tomorrow.