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Speaker 1: No greater honor in life than being able to help others.

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Speaker 1: I was a troubled teen in high school and I

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Speaker 1: We've been married for four years now, and my husband

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Speaker 1: works in marketing and I make.

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Speaker 2: Three times his salary. Ha damn got them damn.

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Speaker 1: From the beginning of our relationship, I was very upfront

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Speaker 2: That is so sweet. I love that. However, however, here

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Speaker 1: This is after his best friend had a baby boy

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Speaker 1: But he's got to know coming in we've already had

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Speaker 5: Wow, it was like it was like a ridiculous thing.

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Speaker 4: How can you do that?

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Speaker 1: He expressed how trapped alone and overwhelmed he felt all weekend.

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Speaker 2: I never would have had your child.

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Speaker 2: Please please sing my friend.

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Speaker 5: I think he might have broke the contraceptive himself. I

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 5: I think it's over. I think maybe he comes clean

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Speaker 5: That's that's unhinged behavior, that's like, that's like one night's

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Speaker 5: I mean, Like, h yeah, poking, putting it, putting a

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Speaker 1: The protection, into the protection.

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Speaker 4: There we go.

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Speaker 2: I was like, what do I say, No, dude, you're

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Speaker 1: You're doing great, and we really do need to create

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Speaker 1: a vocabulist. But wild theory can't say that we haven't seen.

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm well, you you could hit a a. This

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Speaker 1: let's let's say this conspiracy theory. Let's even put that

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Speaker 4: They made a baby whose names.

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Speaker 5: Politician that you don't like.

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Speaker 2: Let's do it. So. It's been a few months. That's

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Speaker 1: I did not expect my post to get so much attention,

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Speaker 1: To those who sent me nasty dms criticizing me as

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Speaker 1: you're freaking freaks.

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Speaker 2: Back to the story.

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Speaker 1: Yes, women can want a career in a family like

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Speaker 7: Dog?

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Speaker 2: You look at this rash on my back. I'll shay

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Speaker 6: It's also really funny that they're dming her on a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let me doe you something that'll really help you

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Speaker 6: They're like, oh, it really sex that you're having problems

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Speaker 2: My elbows crust.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think something's growing an eye on me. I

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Speaker 2: Check it out?

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Speaker 5: Should I name it?

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Speaker 2: So?

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Speaker 1: I sincerely hope that you all find the care you need.

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Speaker 1: To those questioning why I am not on birth control,

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Speaker 6: Yay, talk about it, talk talk.

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Speaker 1: Even board certified obgyns will testify to this. After trying

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Speaker 2: Good old pull out would be enough.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but twenty percent of doctors are overweight, so we

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Speaker 2: I love my daughter and would not change a thing. Okay,

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Speaker 5: She's funny.

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Speaker 6: I was just gonna say birth control and production have

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Speaker 5: Don't want to use it, then mind's your own business.

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Speaker 6: You know, the male birth control has less side effects

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Speaker 5: But see the thing is, it doesn't make as much

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Speaker 2: Come on now.

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Speaker 1: He told me that no matter what we decided to do,

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Speaker 5: Good at the huh, I said, indeed, indeed, indeed, I

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Speaker 5: male birth control, So I just want to if you're

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Speaker 4: What He's like, how dare you say this?

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna give it another go for you, babe.

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Speaker 5: Let me try again.

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Speaker 2: I'm scared Big Daddy's back and pulling up his breeches.

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Speaker 2: Baby cakes, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: You better pull up those breeches. You wanted this, baby, God.

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Speaker 2: Damn you did so.

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Speaker 1: When we then had a very long discussion about how

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Speaker 2: It was trying to keep up with cooking and cleaning.

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Speaker 1: That was difficult. So we decided to hire a maid

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Speaker 2: We love that he joined.

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Speaker 1: He joined one of those new parents support groups to

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Speaker 2: Please tell me.

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Speaker 1: I made it clear that why I would be slightly disappointed,

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Speaker 5: This is so emotionally and like mature, enlightened.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, Since then, we've also taken stems to strengthen

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Speaker 1: takeout on the couch. But hey, it's working. Addressing the

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Speaker 1: whole poking holes in the protection thing your conspiracy.

447
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Speaker 2: Theory, we are now about to see the verdict. Let's go, Nona.

448
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Speaker 1: I do not think this happened. Think so, what do

449
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Speaker 1: you mean? I honestly did not even bother asking my

450
00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:58,480
Speaker 1: husband with this. I felt an accusation of this magnitude

451
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Speaker 1: would be detrimental to our marriage. Very fair, especially when

452
00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:05,680
Speaker 1: it was already in such a fragile state. My husband

453
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Speaker 1: has agreed to get a vasectomy so we don't have

454
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Speaker 1: any more happy accidents. He is scheduled for later this year,

455
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Speaker 1: and we are abstaining from well we know what, yeah, intercourse, yes,

456
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Speaker 1: intercourse sleep indeed so.

457
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Speaker 4: Well when indeed, we have quite a little.

458
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Speaker 5: Dono drop here from awkward turtle.

459
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Speaker 2: Dollars on the Dona link.

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Speaker 5: Oo wow on the Dono link, folks, which is the

461
00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:40,120
Speaker 5: preferred link because it doesn't take thirty percent. I've been

462
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Speaker 5: watching your show for almost two weeks now. The mission

463
00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:45,800
Speaker 5: of watching all your videos is going strong. I've watched

464
00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:50,080
Speaker 5: almost three hundred of your videos. I officially know too

465
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Speaker 5: much about how John and Sam washed their butts.

466
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Speaker 1: Okay, you see Dakota when so how much? How many

467
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:02,560
Speaker 1: stories have you have you done?

468
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:05,400
Speaker 2: Yes? Guess guess yes?

469
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Speaker 6: I started in December? How many? Stream stream?

470
00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:12,520
Speaker 2: Almost every day?

471
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:14,280
Speaker 6: I stream almost every day.

472
00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:17,880
Speaker 1: The things that Sam and I are our recording sessions

473
00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:19,920
Speaker 1: used to be eight to twelve hours.

474
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Speaker 6: Yeah.

475
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Speaker 1: The things that Samuel and I have discussed on this

476
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Speaker 1: very show is uncountable.

477
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Speaker 2: One cannot There are.

478
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Speaker 6: More discussion idea what I've said.

479
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:33,800
Speaker 1: There's more butt washed discussions than there are stars in

480
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Speaker 1: the galaxy at this point on this show.

481
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Speaker 5: I would at least hope that how you you and

482
00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:40,600
Speaker 5: Sam washer butts is with soap and water.

483
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Speaker 1: It's thorough, you know, at the very least, I truly,

484
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Speaker 1: I truly don't know what was what was said here,

485
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:49,200
Speaker 1: but you know.

486
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Speaker 6: I just got one of those African Uh, what are

487
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Speaker 6: they called. Uh, they're like loofahs, but they're like African

488
00:22:56,280 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 6: net sponges. They're great for you know, washing your bags, Yeah,

489
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Speaker 6: exfoliation sponge. It's just it's kind of like a really

490
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Speaker 6: long loof.

491
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Speaker 5: Kind of net, a net like sponge. Yeah, exactly as

492
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Speaker 5: And we're only forty likes away from a wheelspin my god.

493
00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:16,960
Speaker 5: But this stream is gonna just keep going forever, and

494
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:18,040
Speaker 5: I'm fine with that.

495
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:21,680
Speaker 1: This has been the stream of all Yeah, gentlemen, Like also, dude,

496
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:24,080
Speaker 1: can we can we just give it up for Dakota guys,

497
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:28,240
Speaker 1: first long stream just like just freaking just doing it

498
00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:29,880
Speaker 1: like an absolute champion.

499
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 2: And we're both dripped out today.

500
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Speaker 4: Keep going.

501
00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:34,320
Speaker 2: I love this for us. I love this for us.

502
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Speaker 2: To coda, I do.

503
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:37,879
Speaker 4: It's because of the drip that of.

504
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,840
Speaker 2: Now that's a conspiracy theory, I will I'll believe. But

505
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 2: let's get back to this one.

506
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Speaker 1: So the whole situation has made me realize I do

507
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Speaker 1: need to go back to therapy and I've been seeing

508
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Speaker 1: my therapists for about six weeks now. My CSA hasn't

509
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:54,479
Speaker 1: impacted my life for about eight years, for about eight

510
00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 1: years prior to this, but having my daughter and dealing

511
00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:00,479
Speaker 1: with postpartum anxiety has stirred up some really dark thoughts

512
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:03,399
Speaker 1: I can only begin to imagine.

513
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:04,720
Speaker 2: I know that I am over.

514
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:06,600
Speaker 1: Protective due to my trauma, and I want to work

515
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:08,520
Speaker 1: through this so I can be a good mother and

516
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:10,480
Speaker 1: good partner. A lot of people have told me to

517
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Speaker 1: leave my husband, and I'm sure a lot of people

518
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 1: reading this may think that I'm making a mistake.

519
00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:16,280
Speaker 2: I know that I'm not.

520
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 1: My husband had a weak moment and broke down, but

521
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,400
Speaker 1: he does have a pattern of being but he does

522
00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:24,160
Speaker 1: not have a pattern of being unreliable, thiss, honest, and supportive.

523
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:26,160
Speaker 1: He supported me through the final two years of med

524
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 1: school and throughout my residency. And you can support us

525
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 1: by joining our live stream every weekday at three pm

526
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:36,160
Speaker 1: PST by tapping our profile. No PhD required by Boom.

527
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:38,280
Speaker 1: Please try to remember that my post has highlighted the

528
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 1: worst moments in our relationship. It did not show the

529
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Speaker 1: eight wonderful years we have together. Dakota, I think the

530
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Speaker 1: end of the stort.

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Speaker 2: Listen.

532
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Speaker 1: We all have our moments, we all have things in

533
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:55,639
Speaker 1: our past, traumas whatever that we might lash out on

534
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:58,920
Speaker 1: these moments. I think what's important is we come back

535
00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:02,680
Speaker 1: to the loved one, ones that we love, We talk

536
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 1: it through, We realize where we made a mistake, realize

537
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 1: where we can make a solution, and just keep working

538
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 1: together and keeping an open line of communication.

539
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 2: To get better.

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00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's beautifully put.

541
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Speaker 2: What more can we do? To God? What can we do?

542
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:16,919
Speaker 5: I will say nothing.

543
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 4: Love.

544
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 5: Love conquers fear. Whoa love conqueror's hate? Love stronger than fear?

545
00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 4: Love is love.

546
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, and that's you know, at the end of the day,

547
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:28,680
Speaker 5: feels like that's where Op's at right now. He says,

548
00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:30,760
Speaker 5: I love my husband. He had a moment of weakness,

549
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 5: and I will not let the fear that this weakness

550
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 5: may prevail in our relationship.

551
00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 4: Prevent me from taking the steps I.

552
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:42,000
Speaker 5: Need to take to make sure it stays solid for

553
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 5: the kid too, and also you know, working through own trauma,

554
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,800
Speaker 5: because we all have our own traumas that honestly, like,

555
00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 5: I won't.

556
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 2: I don't know.

557
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 5: Is it is it wrong to say that it's a

558
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:58,440
Speaker 5: part of us. It's an aspect of us, right, It's like.

559
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,360
Speaker 1: We have Yeah, I view it as the same way

560
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 1: of if you've heard of the expression it's like I

561
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:08,320
Speaker 1: am not depressed. I have depressions, but I recognize the

562
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 1: same for what it is, and you know.

563
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 5: And being brave enough to take the step of being like,

564
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 5: all right, I'm going to face this like full force

565
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:22,040
Speaker 5: because it would make me a better parent. I think

566
00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:23,000
Speaker 5: that's also beautiful.

567
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 2: I just think we push. That's love.

568
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:26,680
Speaker 5: That's coming from love. That's love, and from the love

569
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:28,919
Speaker 5: of her daughter, being like I need to do this

570
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 5: for my daughter.

571
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Speaker 2: That's love, baby. I just think love.

572
00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:36,440
Speaker 1: We put the good advice in giving good advice goofully,

573
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 1: which is our tagline, giving good advice, goofly. Yeah, giving

574
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Speaker 1: good advice, goofle. I like that, right, it's kind of

575
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:44,639
Speaker 1: what we do.

576
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 4: I've always been.

577
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 2: It came up with it. It's kind of like literally,

578
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:48,439
Speaker 2: I literally love it.

579
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:55,200
Speaker 5: It's like perfect g gg ggg giving good advice goofully.

580
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:58,119
Speaker 1: I thought that was like good game, but like along,

581
00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 1: I was like, this is some like discord gamer, good

582
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:02,960
Speaker 1: game attorney general that I'm unfamiliar with.

583
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:05,159
Speaker 2: Good game attorney General. I like that.

584
00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:07,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, we thought he was dead.

585
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:11,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, guys, you've been missing a certain someone. You've been

586
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 1: asking is he alive? We didn't know, but now I

587
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 1: think we're gonna get a little tiny bit of Please

588
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 1: it was a conspiracy theory.

589
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 2: It is now being put to rest.

590
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, please welcome the sad man himself back

591
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:23,880
Speaker 1: to reality.

592
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 2: Samuel All and Donna? What an introt a letter?

593
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 6: Did I give?

594
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:40,440
Speaker 2: Got a letter? WHOA?

595
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 5: I don't know?

596
00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 2: Is that my?

597
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 6: Wait? Wait? No one talk hello, guys, hear me and chat.

598
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:48,639
Speaker 6: It looks like it's on.

599
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 4: It's even closer. You just it's not on.

600
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:57,159
Speaker 2: Can you hear that?

601
00:27:57,600 --> 00:27:58,480
Speaker 6: I can't open it?

602
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 2: Wait? What can I open it? Also to go? Do

603
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:06,360
Speaker 2: we have to switch? Okay, we do, guys. YEA one

604
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:08,120
Speaker 2: millennium was in the.

605
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 1: State's power moves a few weeks put together this insanely

606
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:17,919
Speaker 1: amazing package. You can see the the insane lego set, Yes,

607
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:21,920
Speaker 1: absolutely insane lego set, tons of snacks and and goodies

608
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 1: like literally the best like care package we've got, Oh

609
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 1: my goodness, last six months or so.

610
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:30,639
Speaker 2: Wait, are these legos from another country? Either? Yeah? I

611
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 2: believe China.

612
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:32,520
Speaker 4: I believe.

613
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 2: I believe.

614
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:33,640
Speaker 4: Yes, I think.

615
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:36,159
Speaker 5: I initially thought they were Japanese, but those are definitely

616
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 5: not Kanji. Those are we thought are Chinese characters?

617
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 2: Are these is this even lego or is it like?

618
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 2: Is it the Chinese version of Lego Lego Japan?

619
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 5: I don't know if they have legos, And I feel

620
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 5: like that that logo in the top left looks very

621
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 5: lego like to me, Sweet, you cannot read Chinese or Japanese.

622
00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 6: Because on this I love that. I mind's a snake.

623
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, okay, okay, mine is the smart and generous

624
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 6: snake charms all within their circle. That's lovely.

625
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 4: I love that one smart and generous snake.

626
00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 5: All right, chat, Sam, Sam's taking my seat.

627
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 4: I'm moving, all right, Sam?

628
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 2: What's uh?

629
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:22,520
Speaker 4: Yeah?

630
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 6: Do you even know the worm's name?

631
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 4: No? You know the worm's name?

632
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:27,640
Speaker 5: And you're gonna sit there.

633
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 2: Is Nimrod Nimrod Hunter And I'll sort of wait, should

634
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:45,840
Speaker 2: I open my dominoes? Oh my goodness, And let's see

635
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 2: the patient and kind Ox is the most steadfast of friends.

636
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 2: It's true, It's true. I love a good patient, steadfast boy.

637
00:29:57,640 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 2: I'm gonna send this to my friend.

638
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 4: Who's got the box. He's got this guy, this guy

639
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 4: over here?

640
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 2: What are we are? We are? We are we reading about?

641
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:12,040
Speaker 5: I think we are? We are reading a brand new.

642
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 2: Story, right, brand news story.

643
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 5: Done with a story about going from adopted pregnant, getting

644
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 5: an adopted child top now they have an actual biological pregnancy,

645
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 5: and then is that gonna be okay?

646
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 4: It turns out it was.

647
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, it was. Well, I'm glad it was okay.

648
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:32,120
Speaker 2: Sometimes those things are.

649
00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 6: But there's a couple of donations that we haven't read yet.

650
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 2: Let's let's hit let's hit some donuts.

651
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 6: And also we're at another thirty minutes.

652
00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 2: Oh my, is this actually? Is this? Is this going

653
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 2: to be a fan classic ten hour mess around the stream?

654
00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 4: Yeah?

655
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 5: I think I think at some point we were just

656
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 5: going to start freestyling it in here. We're uh yeah

657
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 5: and then being like huh creaked uh. Greek myths. Let

658
00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:01,560
Speaker 5: me list them for you. First one is Prometheus.

659
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 4: He's a dude. He found fire on the rocks.

660
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 5: He wasn't on the rock That's where he got strapped

661
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:15,719
Speaker 5: to buy zeus bad dude, being like, seagulls gonna eat you.

662
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 2: The seagulls did him liver. Do you think they ever

663
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 2: got tired of eating the liver?

664
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:22,240
Speaker 6: I don't think they were seagulls.

665
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 5: I think it's their favorite.

666
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 2: They were gold.

667
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, he got strapped to a rock and he was

668
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 5: getting beat up by the sea and also eaten by birds.

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Speaker 6: Birds.

670
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 2: I think it was seagulls though, because like what not

671
00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 2: vultures are aren't are in the ocean? Eagles all right,

672
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 2: when I want I want to hit me with that phone.

673
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:43,400
Speaker 5: That phone, the phone, I think we have the donos

674
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 5: we have.

675
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:47,640
Speaker 6: I'm freaking right.

676
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 5: Eagles they were eagles. Yes, anyone for all my people

677
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 5: in the streets.

678
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 2: For moving the mike a little bit by That was

679
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 2: some expert.

680
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 6: I know my clments man.

681
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 2: All right, So should we wait, fear? Are you out

682
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 2: of focus?

683
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 5: That was actually that was a solid freestyle. That was

684
00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:13,560
Speaker 5: even though you, Sophia's just a blurry person, Sam, what

685
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 5: that looks?

686
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 6: Fine?

687
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 2: Uh, it might be a little out of focus. That's okay,

688
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 2: be a little bit. Should we read some of these donuts?

689
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 2: Which one have we not read?

690
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:26,480
Speaker 6: Well, we haven't read the newest one.

691
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 2: Caitlin van Campen, thanks for the nineteen bucker Rooneys. Thirty

692
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 2: more minutes, thirty more minute. We're never leaving these chairs.

693
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 2: I'm strapped in baby strapped. Here we go, and I'm

694
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 2: ready to have my livery eaten Melow six A one five.

695
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 2: Thanks for the twenty bucks. Let's keep this going. Dakota

696
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 2: is here to stay darn right, he's strapped in too,

697
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 2: strapped up your darn toot uh Mela six eight fifteen

698
00:32:55,640 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 2: Skippy thirty bucker roonies, Yay, keep the birthday stream going.

699
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 2: Skippy Birthday. Oh it's Skippy's birthday. Shout out Skippy, Happy

700
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 2: birthday to you. Mutual space Drifter, thanks for I like

701
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 2: that name and it feels like like a little doctor

702
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:17,960
Speaker 2: who kind of things. Thanks for the sixty bucks. My

703
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 2: middle child pulled the I'm thirsty card. It's nine here

704
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 2: at the time, so I got him the water and

705
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 2: played back you calling me out, he said in the

706
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 2: cool Uh said, I'm the coolest mommy ever. He is

707
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 2: sleeping now. I need to make time to write my

708
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:40,479
Speaker 2: stories because I have too many. Please submit your stories

709
00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 2: the coolest Yes, vix Mix, thanks for the five bucks.

710
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 2: Sitting in the shelters a volunteer and just glad I

711
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:55,719
Speaker 2: can stream you guys waiting on Hurricane Milton.

712
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 4: All right.

713
00:33:57,120 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 6: I hope everyone who is being affected by the hurricane

714
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 6: is okay, because I am. I've been seeing a lot

715
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 6: of videos about the flooding.

716
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 4: There's been a hella just yeah, just flooding every which

717
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 4: is really bad.

718
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:13,840
Speaker 5: And yeah, if you're in the path, you know, I

719
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 5: I know Florida people are built different and they don't

720
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:18,359
Speaker 5: want to they don't want to leave. But if you're

721
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:21,359
Speaker 5: in the path of danger, get out of the way. Please. Yeah,

722
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:23,120
Speaker 5: we hope that you are safe.

723
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:27,000
Speaker 2: And a little mini vacation up the road away from

724
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:27,720
Speaker 2: all that.

725
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:29,880
Speaker 5: And hopefully have good insurance. We were talking about how

726
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 5: John's dad is probably just gonna be on the roof

727
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:34,879
Speaker 5: with jorts on and like a flag.

728
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:38,840
Speaker 2: The American flag is like rain can't beat me?

729
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:40,479
Speaker 4: Who will not take my home?

730
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 2: But we got another story for y'all. Is that it?

731
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:45,799
Speaker 6: So there's more?

732
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 2: Where's more? What else am I doing?

733
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 5: I think there's some Monday Jojoe.

734
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:53,759
Speaker 4: Forty five act. Actually we got that, there's more up here?

735
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 2: Then oh my gosh, what is the wow? Okay, what's

736
00:34:57,760 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 2: going on with this stream? This is crazy?

737
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 5: Pop and off Mama, horror, Lord, I'm a whore, Lord horror,

738
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 5: Lord h is silent?

739
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 2: Or Lord yeah or Lord.

740
00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 6: H is silent? You know?

741
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:18,879
Speaker 2: Bugs Ellie here, Sophia snakes unite, Yes, And then what's

742
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 2: your po box. I want to send you guys some

743
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:25,160
Speaker 2: assie stacks. Do you have any favorites? Yes, Tis, please,

744
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:26,280
Speaker 2: Tim Tams.

745
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 6: Okay, okay, wait, but you can buy Tim TAM's here.

746
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:30,279
Speaker 6: I can't buy shapes here.

747
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 4: Someone.

748
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 2: I like the Crumble, the Crumble one. Oh, Violet Crumble,

749
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 2: Violet Crumble. If you get some violet.

750
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 5: Crunchy anyways store next to my house.

751
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:47,439
Speaker 6: Yeah, you can get them someplaces here. That one. There's

752
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 6: a couple a little bit rare in the State's way

753
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:50,240
Speaker 6: more expensive.

754
00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 2: I didn't like violet. You don't like that, honey.

755
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 4: Maybe it was just old.

756
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 5: Violet crumble, but it was getting It was very stuck

757
00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:59,320
Speaker 5: in my teeth. It was stuck in my teeth.

758
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:01,480
Speaker 2: You're saving it for later.

759
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 6: All the Australian candies, I'm okay. A lot of people

760
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 6: don't like them, but I really like the what are

761
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:12,439
Speaker 6: they called own now Narnia? They have the what the

762
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 6: Turkish Delight? A lot of people don't like those.

763
00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:19,320
Speaker 5: I like the Australian isn't just like saltwater, No.

764
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 2: No, it's like a little chewy sheer. It's covered in

765
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 2: chocolate flower.

766
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:27,959
Speaker 6: No no, no, no, some of those but the Australian version,

767
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 6: it's like chocolate with a little bit of like chewy delight,

768
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:34,720
Speaker 6: but shapes. I I want shapes please.

769
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 2: But Kaitlin Kresswell is asking what's our po box? It

770
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 2: is somewhere in I think it's in our discord under

771
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:49,359
Speaker 2: our information uh and also randomly it'll just get sent

772
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 2: in the chat. If anyone knows our po box, please

773
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 2: shout them though, because it is it is somewhere. Oh

774
00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 2: someone there, we go shot guys that just Casana shout

775
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 2: out you, Eily, thanks? Oh yeah, no you go, you go.

776
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 4: Emily with the five bucks.

777
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 2: Sam, we missed you. Oh thanks, guys, I missed you too.

778
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:18,000
Speaker 2: It's been a sec, actually been a sec. It feels

779
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 2: like it's been a sec even though it was the

780
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 2: last When was the last time you do ours? I wasn't.

781
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 2: I wasn't here because I was in Joshua Tree.

782
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 4: Just tree getting tuned in?

783
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, tuning out? Drop in?

784
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:38,480
Speaker 5: In? What is it tune in to turn off?

785
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:38,920
Speaker 4: Tune in?

786
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 2: Drop out? Yeah, Alessa Monday, thanks for the three bucks.

787
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:43,799
Speaker 2: Do we read all the other ones?

788
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 5: I believe did we? I don't know if we caught

789
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 5: those gifted subs.

790
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 2: Chris tin foil. Thanks to the five gifted memberships, Chris

791
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:57,440
Speaker 2: has been going off going off Giant's milk, another five

792
00:37:57,560 --> 00:38:02,360
Speaker 2: gifted memberships. Josephine, but don't hello Berquest. Hi, Daddy, Sam,

793
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:08,560
Speaker 2: I have missed you. Please blow me a kiss. I'm

794
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 2: jealous now, Stevie Yer, thanks for the two bucks. And

795
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:20,480
Speaker 2: now that's it is that it?

796
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 5: Yeah?

797
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:25,720
Speaker 2: Oh my god, we are caught. You guys are going crazy.

798
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:27,719
Speaker 5: To that chick out and we are only twenty five

799
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 5: legs away from a wheelspin.

800
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 4: Guys, Oh my god.

801
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 5: I want to spin the wheels so we can talk

802
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:32,400
Speaker 5: in accents.

803
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 6: Ah No, but if we do a if we do

804
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 6: a Jeopardy, I need Sam to do mythology and then

805
00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 6: Dakota and.

806
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 2: I are going to go ahead test.

807
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:46,239
Speaker 5: Yeah we are, and I will because you've said it

808
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 5: that I will crush you.

809
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:50,719
Speaker 4: I've already crushed you twice.

810
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 6: Not really the person, Jackson not really.

811
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:56,720
Speaker 4: Literally corrected you tool.

812
00:38:57,080 --> 00:38:59,239
Speaker 5: You corrected me on the eagles, which is true because

813
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 5: I have to be myth.

814
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 2: John was talking about.

815
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 4: Correct me on the myth.

816
00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:08,320
Speaker 5: You just you brought it up and it was tantalis

817
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 5: and I hit you with the tantalizing came from Tantalis.

818
00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 6: That was pretty cool. Yeah, okay, let's keep going.

819
00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:15,759
Speaker 2: Okay, what what story are we on?

820
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:16,840
Speaker 6: I don't know.

821
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:20,359
Speaker 4: Oh my god, you had that on the bingo card.

822
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:21,759
Speaker 2: What did we read?

823
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:24,040
Speaker 6: Oh my god? Maybe?

824
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:26,280
Speaker 4: Oh okay, okay, po pesos.

825
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 6: I think it's like two thirty.

826
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 2: Five ming Man, glad to see Sam resurrect from the dead.

827
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 2: I was not dead. I was very much alive.

828
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:35,360
Speaker 5: Reports if my death were greatly exaggerated.

829
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 6: Exacerbated from the surest somewhere.

830
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 4: I can't remember.

831
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:42,280
Speaker 2: It's like from an old movie.

832
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:43,400
Speaker 4: Was it from a song?

833
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 6: No, I think you're thinking of the song like my

834
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:52,360
Speaker 6: name name, greatly exaggerated, exacerbated by the fact that my

835
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 6: sent text is highly complicated because I immigrated from the

836
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:56,960
Speaker 6: single greatest subtle city.

837
00:39:57,400 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, and just breaking out is definitely okay.

838
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:04,880
Speaker 4: No, it's not in the Heights that existed before in

839
00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 4: the Heights. The Heights.

840
00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 5: I know that from the song is from in the Heights,

841
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 5: but the reference existed from four Okay, all right, I

842
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:15,799
Speaker 5: just want I'm not I couldn't tell you what was

843
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 5: the last one we read?

844
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 4: The last one we read?

845
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 6: His husband agreed that he would quit his job and

846
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 6: stay home until their daughter was a Yes, all right.

847
00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 2: Wait, have we read am I'm thinking of sleeping without

848
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 2: my wife or child?

849
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:28,520
Speaker 6: No?

850
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:30,360
Speaker 5: No, have we read.

851
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:33,200
Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for telling my husband that

852
00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 2: I would have never agreed to have his child if

853
00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:37,040
Speaker 2: I knew he would back out of our agreement? Have

854
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 2: we just written I told my husband I would never

855
00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 2: agree to have his child if I knew we'd go

856
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 2: back in his work?

857
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 4: Yeah?

858
00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 5: We read that?

859
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, new story alert just dropped.

860
00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 5: Whoa.

861
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 2: Okay, my wife told me I was a useless parent.

862
00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:56,840
Speaker 2: Now she's kicking me out. Imagine that. Imagine that my

863
00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 2: thirty male wife thirty one female, had our baby four

864
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:04,240
Speaker 2: months ago. Ever since then, life has been a nightmare.

865
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 2: Is that just kind of what life is after having

866
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:07,440
Speaker 2: a kid? A little bit?

867
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:07,799
Speaker 4: I think?

868
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:10,280
Speaker 5: So, you know a little bit, your hair falls out, everything,

869
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 5: your teeth fall out.

870
00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 2: Apparently your teeth can fall out when you're pregnant.

871
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:15,920
Speaker 5: Harder Yeah wait what yeah?

872
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 2: Crazy? Crazy?

873
00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 4: Okay.

874
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:20,400
Speaker 2: By the way, this comes from sleeping pen seven eight

875
00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:23,040
Speaker 2: three four on the r slash. Okay, storytime submur it's

876
00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 2: some mere stories there. I know all new parents have

877
00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:30,319
Speaker 2: sleeping problems, but I always have had sleeping problems. I

878
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 2: have a severe sleepwalking condition that's freaky walking dead that

879
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 2: requires me to take medication nightly to try to keep

880
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:40,840
Speaker 2: me in deep sleep, and still a streak, and still

881
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:44,480
Speaker 2: a strict sleep schedule to decrease the chances further. And

882
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 2: for several years I had to sleep in a sleeping

883
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:52,400
Speaker 2: bag wick with a luggage lock on the zipper, so

884
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:54,360
Speaker 2: I couldn't wander.

885
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:54,760
Speaker 6: Out of the house.

886
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 5: Oh my god, that's crazy. Op was like a she

887
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 5: could not carry on. You had to check that luggage

888
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:03,240
Speaker 5: every time she would sleep.

889
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 2: This is also Opia's thirty mail thirty one mail. But dude,

890
00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:15,480
Speaker 2: that is also super scary for everyone else involved. Like

891
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 2: imagine just someone imagine, like I'm imagining Sophia or Riley

892
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:22,560
Speaker 2: just like walking across the hallway and bumping into my

893
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:24,799
Speaker 2: door in the middle of the night and slurring their

894
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 2: words like that would be that would be so scary.

895
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 5: I just realized I have an actual, okay story time

896
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:30,160
Speaker 5: about this exact thing.

897
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:35,960
Speaker 2: Okay, just a story time at the update.

898
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 5: Okay, storytime at the update.

899
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 2: All right, So that is crazy. So I couldn't wander

900
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 2: out of the house. But hopefully with just face plant

901
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:51,360
Speaker 2: out of bed instead of walking into traffic. Happened three times.

902
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, I would say that's a serious problem.

903
00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 2: Dude, I would I think I would like tie my

904
00:42:56,560 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 2: feet together probably, Yeah, it's you know, that's my tradition.

905
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 1: I time my feet together because I because I don't

906
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:05,240
Speaker 1: because they don't stop working.

907
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:10,080
Speaker 2: So as a result, I never wanted a baby. I

908
00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:12,360
Speaker 2: would have been okay adopting a kid a year or

909
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:15,399
Speaker 2: so older, when they were more likely to sleep through

910
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 2: the night and hopefully not inherit. Any of my medical

911
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:25,680
Speaker 2: efery type one diabetes, cardiac arrhythm arrhythmia, and truly horrible

912
00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 2: eyesight are not something I want to give a kid.

913
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:29,799
Speaker 2: There are worse things you could give a kid.

914
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:31,759
Speaker 5: Yeah, but you still don't want to give back.

915
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's like.

916
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:38,160
Speaker 2: It's not that bad. He'ved and there's worse. There's worse.

917
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 5: There's cell and others, others, there's others.

918
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:47,240
Speaker 2: But that didn't happen. My wife ended up getting pregnant

919
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:50,560
Speaker 2: last year despite our best attempts. The best attempts is

920
00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 2: no attempts. Is that what That's what they taught at

921
00:43:53,200 --> 00:44:00,360
Speaker 2: the school. Yeah, Abstinence is the best form of birth control.

922
00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:04,840
Speaker 2: She had one of the birth control implants, and I

923
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 2: always used a condom. I even got a vasectomy shortly

924
00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:10,440
Speaker 2: before we found out she was pregnant.

925
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 4: Oh that's that's bad timing.

926
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 5: That feels right at the just too little, too just

927
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 5: a little.

928
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 6: Also, I think that you have to when you get

929
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:25,240
Speaker 6: a vasectomy, you have to like wait a couple months

930
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 6: because technically, like you still have to flush everything out

931
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:31,240
Speaker 6: of your system, like you have to go to the doctors.

932
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:32,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, well, and you have to heal.

933
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 6: How do you know that, because we've read another story about.

934
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,239
Speaker 2: That saying your vaseected, you mean knowledge is like gonna

935
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 2: go crazy.

936
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 6: After I know so much.

937
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:44,719
Speaker 2: My wife ended up getting pregnant. Beside the best attempts.

938
00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:48,920
Speaker 2: We talked extensively about it, and while we were perfectly

939
00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 2: capable in most senses, I knew that she would be

940
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 2: the one handling nights. I discussed my condition with her,

941
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:58,880
Speaker 2: thoroughly suggested getting family to come help for a while

942
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:02,280
Speaker 2: post birth. My mom had five kids and my stepmom

943
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 2: is a newly retired NP nurse nurse practitioner protect protector.

944
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 5: And let me, I just I feel really bad because

945
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:18,879
Speaker 5: I see prince ex said that they carry sickle sell

946
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:23,400
Speaker 5: and I I, I'm sorry, and I'm not trying to

947
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:25,359
Speaker 5: talk down on people with sickle sew by saying it's

948
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:27,760
Speaker 5: worse than type one diabetes, and.

949
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 2: The you know, we're not we're not doing we're not

950
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:32,640
Speaker 2: doing a tear list. Yeah, I feel for you.

951
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:36,720
Speaker 5: It's not yeah anyway, Sorry, I just feel bad seeing

952
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 5: that Popo. I was like, damn.

953
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:42,960
Speaker 2: Dakota is thoroughly apologized, all right. Also, nurse Aaron says

954
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 2: n NP NEO Natal Nurse practitioner, so hey, we got

955
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:50,480
Speaker 2: that right, but she always insisted it would be fine.

956
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:54,319
Speaker 2: Then the baby is born, a little baby boy, and

957
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:57,760
Speaker 2: it's not fine. My wife had twelve weeks of paid

958
00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 2: maternity to leave, about three weeks of accumulated paid sick time,

959
00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:05,600
Speaker 2: and three more weeks of vacation saved up. She's coming

960
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 2: up on the end of it now. My company does

961
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:11,279
Speaker 2: not offer any paid leave, and my other PTO was

962
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:13,400
Speaker 2: used up for a family emergency in the middle of

963
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:17,879
Speaker 2: last year, so I can't take time off. Almost as

964
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:22,120
Speaker 2: soon as our son, Connor was born, she started kicking

965
00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:24,840
Speaker 2: me awake when he cried so I could take my

966
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 2: turn with him. A few times I did, but within

967
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 2: a week I noticed I was starting to move in

968
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:32,799
Speaker 2: my sleep again. He's like a freaking zombie.

969
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 5: I mean, maybe it's, uh, you know, the natural instincts

970
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:38,759
Speaker 5: kicking and you're like, of, well, I'm just gonna the

971
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 5: body's gonna take care of the kid all by itself, right,

972
00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 5: Maybe you know, you train your sleepwalking self to actually

973
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:45,480
Speaker 5: take care of a baby.

974
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 2: I think potentially. You know, there's like those stories of

975
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 2: the Navy seals that are like, so they're supposed to

976
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:53,239
Speaker 2: be rowing all day and all night. Yeah, they got

977
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:56,839
Speaker 2: they fall asleep rowing, and they're asleep and they're still rowing,

978
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 2: and they'll take them out of the boat and they'll

979
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 2: still be rowing. So maybe if you get like really

980
00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 2: good at taking care of the baby, you could just

981
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:05,759
Speaker 2: do it in your sleep. Yeah, it's just what amight.

982
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:07,719
Speaker 5: Be a little risky now that I think about it

983
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:09,080
Speaker 5: for longer than five seconds.

984
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 2: What could happen? I mean, walk into traffic. He's only done.

985
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:13,440
Speaker 4: Traffic with the baby.

986
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:15,560
Speaker 5: Teach the baby how to be safe in the streets.

987
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 2: You tra It's called street smarts. A little baby shep smarts,

988
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 2: I think. And at one point I bit my tongue

989
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:30,280
Speaker 2: and woke myself up. I think I tried to push

990
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:32,959
Speaker 2: myself up, but my arms slipped and I hit the bed.

991
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 2: After that, I essentially begged my wife not to do

992
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 2: that again. I tried to impress on her the severity

993
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:42,239
Speaker 2: of it. What if I got up and turned the

994
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:44,839
Speaker 2: stove on, which I guess is the thing that would happen, right.

995
00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:47,279
Speaker 2: What if I went to get the baby but then

996
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:50,759
Speaker 2: dropped him or laid him face down, or walked into

997
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:52,360
Speaker 2: traffic with him in his arms.

998
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 4: That's what we just said.

999
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:58,800
Speaker 2: I was terrified. Also, anyone in the chat like sleepwalk

1000
00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:00,759
Speaker 2: and stuff to this degree. I would love to know

1001
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:04,960
Speaker 2: from y'all what's going on with that. She told me

1002
00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:09,120
Speaker 2: to stop making quote bitchy excuses.

1003
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:14,360
Speaker 5: That's gotta be a hot take, right, I mean, he

1004
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:15,640
Speaker 5: laid it out pretty.

1005
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:16,840
Speaker 4: Clear, be dangerous.

1006
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:20,319
Speaker 2: He talked about it beforehand too. And this wasn't like

1007
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:21,440
Speaker 2: like before they even had.

1008
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:23,400
Speaker 5: The kids, she knew. She already knew he was sleeping

1009
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:27,040
Speaker 5: locked in a sleeping bag, like like you know, it's

1010
00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 5: really hard and like this is like a like not

1011
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:32,400
Speaker 5: an easy situation when you have to lock your sleeping bag.

1012
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:38,560
Speaker 5: It's like her response, just man up, man up, sleepy head. Ah,

1013
00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 5: but she always kicked me when she did, so i'd

1014
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:46,320
Speaker 5: wake up. Anyhow, I started noticing things were in different

1015
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:48,760
Speaker 5: places when I got up. At one point I couldn't

1016
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:51,520
Speaker 5: find my glucose monitor in the kitchen where it always is,

1017
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:55,920
Speaker 5: and it wound up being in my balcony. Dude, sleepy

1018
00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:59,760
Speaker 5: Opie is just such a little such a little menace. Yeah,

1019
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 5: he's a little mischievous sleep.

1020
00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:11,279
Speaker 2: Gobbling I mean glucose. I try to ask you my

1021
00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:15,319
Speaker 2: wife if I had been sleepwalking, and she snapped at me.

1022
00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:18,800
Speaker 2: She didn't know. She's always she was always up with

1023
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 2: the baby. Well. Two months ago, my wife got sick

1024
00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:24,040
Speaker 2: of getting up at night and told me she wanted

1025
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 2: us to start co sleeping with Connor in our bed.

1026
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 2: I told her, I didn't think it would be a

1027
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:32,560
Speaker 2: good idea because the kid's gonna be in the bed

1028
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 2: with everyone.

1029
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:37,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, and what if he like sleepwalks and I don't know.

1030
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:40,320
Speaker 2: The baby baby in the balcony.

1031
00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 5: Time to cook the Thanksgiving turkey? Okay, he's asleep.

1032
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 2: He would be faultless.

1033
00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:47,560
Speaker 5: He's asleep.

1034
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 4: He's asleep.

1035
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:52,200
Speaker 2: How would he know the difference? I would be That

1036
00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 2: would be the worst thing it.

1037
00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:55,960
Speaker 5: Would be, except I mean, there's a lot of worst

1038
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,560
Speaker 5: things ever that could happen if you sleep walk with

1039
00:49:58,600 --> 00:49:59,760
Speaker 5: a baby in your hands.

1040
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:02,799
Speaker 2: A slightly worse thing would be waking up. It's like, damn,

1041
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 2: that smells good, let's cooking.

1042
00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 4: That would be the worst. That would be just like

1043
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:11,240
Speaker 4: the cherry on top.

1044
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:16,399
Speaker 5: No, all right, no, don't do that, don't do that,

1045
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:18,319
Speaker 5: don't do that.

1046
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:19,359
Speaker 4: God dang.

1047
00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 2: If I started moving around, I didn't want to end

1048
00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:27,319
Speaker 2: up hurting my son. Quite frankly, I was thinking that

1049
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:29,839
Speaker 2: we should be locking his door so I couldn't get

1050
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:33,360
Speaker 2: in there without being awake. Then my wife told me

1051
00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:34,719
Speaker 2: to get out.

1052
00:50:36,560 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 5: Oh it's I just feel it. Look, and she's clearly like, right,

1053
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 5: new baby, wife's stressed, And maybe he's just taking it out,

1054
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:52,000
Speaker 5: maybe in a bit of an incorrect way, because he's

1055
00:50:52,040 --> 00:50:54,080
Speaker 5: coming from a place of genuine concern. He's being like,

1056
00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:58,600
Speaker 5: which I should be hurt, and she's not hearing it.

1057
00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:00,360
Speaker 5: But I you know, yeah, like you said that, like

1058
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:02,359
Speaker 5: both of them are probably sleep deprived and not making

1059
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:05,760
Speaker 5: the best decisions. Yeah, I can't imagine being a sleep

1060
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:07,919
Speaker 5: deprived new mother. Like that's got to be a next

1061
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:09,400
Speaker 5: level of like stress.

1062
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 2: I also want to change his title to I've I've been.

1063
00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 2: I've been. I've been sleepwalking every day, and I'm worried

1064
00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:24,680
Speaker 2: I'm going to do something to my baby.

1065
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:28,600
Speaker 5: My baby, I've been sleepwalking every day, and I fear

1066
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:29,839
Speaker 5: for the safety of our chime.

1067
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:34,719
Speaker 2: My wife won't let me. Let me sleep. Something like that.

1068
00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 2: I've been sleepwalking every day, and I'm worried I'm going

1069
00:51:39,880 --> 00:51:42,160
Speaker 2: to do something to my baby. My wife will let

1070
00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:42,600
Speaker 2: me sleep.

1071
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:47,480
Speaker 6: Is that I'm like, my baby's going to get hurt

1072
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:48,920
Speaker 6: or but.

1073
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 2: I'm worried my baby's gonna get hurt.

1074
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:54,320
Speaker 5: I fear for the safety of the child of our progeny.

1075
00:51:54,800 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 2: I fear for the safety of my child. My wife

1076
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:01,800
Speaker 2: will let me sleep.

1077
00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:05,279
Speaker 5: I gotta put the I gotta get the crazy hair

1078
00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:07,440
Speaker 5: going because I was talking about ovens.

1079
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:10,920
Speaker 2: I'd been sleepwalking every day, and I fear for the

1080
00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:13,480
Speaker 2: safety of my child. My wife won't let me sleep.

1081
00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:16,399
Speaker 2: Editors put that in the front, all right, going back

1082
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:24,040
Speaker 2: to the story. So basically, wait to see you traffic

1083
00:52:24,080 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 2: with my arms and she told me to get out.

1084
00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:30,600
Speaker 2: So wife told ope to get out. Also, Jesse mcdula

1085
00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:33,399
Speaker 2: Burka says, I rarely sleepwalk anymore. But when I do

1086
00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:36,319
Speaker 2: it is usually not that bad. But sometimes I do

1087
00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:37,919
Speaker 2: weird things. What weird things are you doing?

1088
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:41,959
Speaker 5: Oh dude, just what? I got a story. I started

1089
00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:46,320
Speaker 5: the update and it's weird. It's weird stuff, weird stuff.

1090
00:52:46,320 --> 00:52:47,120
Speaker 5: I trolled doll hair.

1091
00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 6: Look at that like Jimmy Newtron.

1092
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:52,360
Speaker 5: I'm justin Timberlake from the Troll movie.

1093
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:56,000
Speaker 2: Okay, really quick, do you want to tell your your

1094
00:52:56,040 --> 00:53:00,880
Speaker 2: your update? Okay, story? He goes really quick. We have

1095
00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 2: more to the story. The wife just told Opie to

1096
00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:05,320
Speaker 2: get out. But to Gota has a little sleepwalking story.

1097
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:10,719
Speaker 5: So I had roommate and he was he had like

1098
00:53:11,040 --> 00:53:13,879
Speaker 5: a fit of sleepwalking. It was like a one time thing.

1099
00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:14,400
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1100
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:15,800
Speaker 5: It was like he had he had a lot to

1101
00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:19,839
Speaker 5: drink that night or something, and he straight up was

1102
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:23,960
Speaker 5: like I woke up in my bed with uh with

1103
00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:27,880
Speaker 5: my girlfriend. My girlfriend actually woke me up and was

1104
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:30,880
Speaker 5: like just look, he's why is your roommate in the room.

1105
00:53:31,120 --> 00:53:33,879
Speaker 5: And you know, I'm like half asleep, like I kind

1106
00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:36,319
Speaker 5: of almost think I'm dreaming, right, And then like a

1107
00:53:36,360 --> 00:53:38,200
Speaker 5: couple of seconds go by and I'm like, oh, this

1108
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:41,800
Speaker 5: is real life, Like this guy is in my room.

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Speaker 4: My TV.

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Speaker 5: He has flipped the TV upside down. I had a

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Speaker 5: floor I have a floor TV. He's flipping the TV

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Speaker 5: upside down and trying to like disconnect it and like

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Speaker 5: mumbling to himself. The whole TV has gone from upright

1114
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Speaker 5: to now upside down, and he's like pulling it and

1115
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Speaker 5: I'm like, hey, roommate's name, what are you doing? And

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Speaker 5: he turns around and he goes, oh, this isn't my room.

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Speaker 4: Good night.

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Speaker 5: Just he's could still asleep right. And then at the

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Speaker 5: next you know day, I'm so scary. Get this in

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Speaker 5: my bathroom lay his underwear on the ground. He went

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Speaker 5: into my bathroom clearly took all of his clothes off,

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Speaker 5: and then redressed himself, minus the underwear that laid as evidence.

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Speaker 2: Wait were you watching him undressed? No?

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Speaker 5: No, we found the underwear the morning after and he

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Speaker 5: when we've when he was flipping the TV over, he

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Speaker 5: was clothed.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 4: It's weird.

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00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:48,920
Speaker 5: So the point is that weird, weird stuff just happened.

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Speaker 5: When people are sleepwalking.

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Speaker 2: That's super scary. I don't think I I I talk

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Speaker 2: in my sleep, but I'd never actually like sleep that.

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Speaker 2: You know that, you know sleptwalk know.

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Speaker 5: You know you need to strap a go prod.

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Speaker 2: You'd make sure.

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Speaker 6: Fine, he just twitches in his sleep, but we got here.

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Speaker 2: You just need to level up and then you can

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00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:15,600
Speaker 2: sleep walk. He's like, thanks, Sylvia, recap on the screen

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Speaker 2: is wrong for you?

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Speaker 6: Oh babao.

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Speaker 2: Chack.

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Speaker 5: Do we do the rest of the episode in a

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Speaker 5: British accient yes or no?

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Speaker 4: Yes or yes.

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00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:31,280
Speaker 2: We're four likes away from spending that wheel. So anyway,

1146
00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:36,000
Speaker 2: then my wife told me to get out. She told

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Speaker 2: me that from now on I would be sleeping in

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Speaker 2: the guest room. She told me I was useless when

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00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:44,360
Speaker 2: it came to our son. The only thing I offered

1150
00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:50,279
Speaker 2: was money and excuses, and she wanted me gone. I

1151
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:53,799
Speaker 2: was devastated. I worked twelve to fourteen hour shifts three

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Speaker 2: days a week and four days the next, and I

1153
00:55:57,719 --> 00:55:59,560
Speaker 2: always try to take care of Connor in the house

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00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:01,680
Speaker 2: when I'm home so my wife can have a break

1155
00:56:01,719 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 2: and go see her friends or to the gym. I

1156
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:06,479
Speaker 2: make breakfast before I leave and dinner when I get back.

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00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 2: I didn't know it wasn't enough, but I set myself

1158
00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:11,880
Speaker 2: up in the guest room and it didn't get much better.

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00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:14,680
Speaker 2: I still startle awake at least twice a night, and

1160
00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:17,960
Speaker 2: I'm seriously thinking of getting my sleeping bag set up again. Honestly,

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Speaker 2: I think I would.

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00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:21,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's you're at sleeping bag.

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Speaker 2: Not long after that, my wife got really into a

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00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:28,319
Speaker 2: holistic mommy blog and decided the real reason I am

1165
00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:32,360
Speaker 2: having trouble sleeping is because I'm driving too much sugar

1166
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:35,239
Speaker 2: and throughout all the candy, soda and juice in the house,

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Speaker 2: man can even have a little sweet, a little sweet

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00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:43,040
Speaker 2: to get him through the nights. That's even though the

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Speaker 2: only time I ever drank soda or ate candy was

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Speaker 2: if I was having an insulin reaction. No, it has diabetes.

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Speaker 4: She took away his lifelive.

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Speaker 5: Not only do I hate you for sleep walking, but

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Speaker 5: also you're gonna have to die of diabetes.

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Speaker 2: Ahed I was better off without any and throughout anything

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00:57:06,400 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 2: I brought back with sugar in it, I started having

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00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:10,880
Speaker 2: to hide those tiny soda cans from the store in

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Speaker 2: the guest room and ended up getting an emergency glucagon

1178
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Speaker 2: Lukagan Lukagan a kid. I showed it to my wife

1179
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Speaker 2: and taught her how to use it, and one of.

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Speaker 6: The neighbors a baka gon.

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Speaker 2: Ukagone you nights. I showed it to my wife and

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00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:32,840
Speaker 2: taught her how to use it, and one of the

1183
00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:36,000
Speaker 2: neighbors too, in case my wife ever wasn't home if

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00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:39,080
Speaker 2: something happened. My wife also criticizes everything I do with

1185
00:57:39,200 --> 00:57:42,440
Speaker 2: her son, how I'm holding him, how I'm holding him,

1186
00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:45,080
Speaker 2: how I feed him, how I talk to him or

1187
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:47,960
Speaker 2: play with him. This does not feel like a healthy

1188
00:57:48,040 --> 00:57:50,720
Speaker 2: relationship at all. Not at all, dude, this is pretty bad.

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00:57:51,320 --> 00:57:54,520
Speaker 5: It sounds like the wife is just like completely not

1190
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:59,600
Speaker 5: even hearing his, not even remote situation in any way.

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00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:01,800
Speaker 5: She's like, not only am I not going to hear you,

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00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:05,320
Speaker 5: but your diabetes no longer exists to me, Like, and.

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Speaker 2: I feel like the only way shoal here is if

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00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:09,640
Speaker 2: something bad happens.

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00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:12,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, And then she'd be like, why didn't you warn

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00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:12,960
Speaker 5: me about this?

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00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:15,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, And he's like, I've been doing that for the

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Speaker 2: last three months.

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Speaker 4: I literally I'm sorry, I'm.

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00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:23,520
Speaker 2: I apologize. There's a baby baby never.

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Speaker 4: I'm glad I talked over that. Then, I'm glad.

1202
00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:27,600
Speaker 2: I'm glad that that was jumbled up.

1203
00:58:28,040 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 4: We already had one, we only need the one.

1204
00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:34,720
Speaker 2: I regret it. I like how frequently he was setting

1205
00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:37,760
Speaker 2: his diapers and said something about jegging his blood sugar

1206
00:58:37,840 --> 00:58:41,640
Speaker 2: levels since my brother had neonatal diabetes and I was

1207
00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:44,320
Speaker 2: diagnosed as a very young child too, and she threatened

1208
00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:46,720
Speaker 2: to take me to court if I did, because he's

1209
00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 2: trying to figure out if his kid has diabetes. Through

1210
00:58:50,440 --> 00:58:52,840
Speaker 2: all of this, I've been feeling more and more trapped

1211
00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:56,560
Speaker 2: and isolated. I never see my family because I can't

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00:58:56,800 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 2: leave the house once I'm off work, and my wife

1213
00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:02,800
Speaker 2: doesn't want to invite them over. I never had many

1214
00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:04,760
Speaker 2: friends in the first place, and the ones I did

1215
00:59:04,920 --> 00:59:08,120
Speaker 2: have gave up inviting me out months ago. And I

1216
00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 2: feel completely disconnected from my wife and utterly terrified of

1217
00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:15,880
Speaker 2: messing up my son. Also, if you don't want to

1218
00:59:15,880 --> 00:59:17,680
Speaker 2: mess up your own life, you should join us live

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Speaker 2: every weekday on YouTube three pm PSD. Just tap her

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Speaker 2: profile give the best advice on planet Earth. I don't

1221
00:59:26,160 --> 00:59:28,120
Speaker 2: think I can keep living like this. We got a

1222
00:59:28,120 --> 00:59:30,720
Speaker 2: little bit more to the story. But what do you think,

1223
00:59:30,760 --> 00:59:31,320
Speaker 2: OH should do?

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00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:32,840
Speaker 4: I don't.

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00:59:33,200 --> 00:59:35,920
Speaker 5: I like, you know, a lot of people are just

1226
00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:40,000
Speaker 5: like divorced, like very quickly here, But I don't know.

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00:59:40,720 --> 00:59:44,160
Speaker 5: I think maybe tried like some kind of counseling, couples

1228
00:59:44,160 --> 00:59:47,600
Speaker 5: therapy to figure out where the disconnect is here.

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00:59:47,880 --> 00:59:51,800
Speaker 2: Because I don't think she's realizing how serious it is.

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00:59:52,040 --> 00:59:52,240
Speaker 4: Yeah.

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00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:54,800
Speaker 5: I think she's also a new mother, Like we have

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00:59:54,880 --> 00:59:59,000
Speaker 5: to like understand like she's justifiably stressed out and like

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00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:03,920
Speaker 5: maybe that is contributing to her sort of shortness.

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Speaker 2: And like I don't want to hear it. I'm a

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Speaker 2: new mom.

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Speaker 4: I have to deal with this. I have all the milk,

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01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:10,280
Speaker 4: all the milk.

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01:00:10,640 --> 01:00:13,080
Speaker 2: You don't even need to do that. The nipples are

1239
01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:14,960
Speaker 2: not wraw come on.

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Speaker 5: So but I think, yeah, definitely they need to There

1241
01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:22,320
Speaker 5: needs to be something here because it's a genuine issue.

1242
01:00:23,080 --> 01:00:23,800
Speaker 5: It's a real issue.

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01:00:24,160 --> 01:00:29,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, like definitely counseling. I wonder if you

1244
01:00:29,480 --> 01:00:32,760
Speaker 2: can like set you know, like a couple hours aside

1245
01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:36,080
Speaker 2: just to chat with each other and see where you're

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01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:38,600
Speaker 2: both at. I will also wonder, like, what what is

1247
01:00:38,680 --> 01:00:43,720
Speaker 2: she feeling maybe besides the the sleeping stuff that you're

1248
01:00:43,800 --> 01:00:46,640
Speaker 2: not doing, because it seems like like like Op said,

1249
01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:49,240
Speaker 2: he's doing twelve the like twelve hour shifts like that,

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01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:51,360
Speaker 2: and also like making like.

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01:00:51,560 --> 01:00:54,200
Speaker 5: Diner and s comment it was like you only have

1252
01:00:54,400 --> 01:01:00,120
Speaker 5: money and excuses. Yeah, it's like what, it's the wild wild.

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Speaker 2: But I don't think I can keep living like this.

1254
01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:05,720
Speaker 2: My mom wants me to come stay with her for

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01:01:05,800 --> 01:01:07,600
Speaker 2: a night for a few weeks until I can get

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Speaker 2: my sleep under control, and I'm seriously considering it. I mean,

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01:01:12,880 --> 01:01:15,040
Speaker 2: that might be a good way to get space, but

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01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:18,320
Speaker 2: I don't think it's going to solve anything. Like I

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01:01:18,360 --> 01:01:20,600
Speaker 2: think you know, you'll be able to talk to that's

1260
01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:22,400
Speaker 2: ignoring the problem. That's ignoring the problem.

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01:01:22,920 --> 01:01:24,880
Speaker 5: And you're probably gonna sleep walk back to your house

1262
01:01:25,000 --> 01:01:27,760
Speaker 5: from your mom's place and then you're gonna.

1263
01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:28,080
Speaker 4: Have to deal with that.

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01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:32,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe you can sleep walk therapy.

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01:01:32,960 --> 01:01:34,600
Speaker 6: That's another thirty minutes.

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01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:38,360
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Sixty three percent of people are saying divorce.

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Speaker 2: I think that's a little premature, Like it is getting

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01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:43,680
Speaker 2: pretty bad, But also think about it.

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Speaker 4: They just have a brand new kid.

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Speaker 2: Like a kid.

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01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:48,320
Speaker 5: You don't want to split it, like imagine having it.

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01:01:48,440 --> 01:01:49,840
Speaker 5: Now you got to take care of it all by yourself.

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Speaker 6: It's thirty more minutes.

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Speaker 2: Uh, yeah, because this one's yeah, then it's fifteen after.

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Speaker 5: Now it's fifteen and we have a wheel spind hour.

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Speaker 6: have to go at nine, I have to get well,

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Speaker 6: mine's more important. I bought tickets and also I'm supposed

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Speaker 6: to have this day off.

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01:02:15,480 --> 01:02:16,800
Speaker 2: I was supposed to have this day off.

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Speaker 6: Well, you're the boss, boss.

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Speaker 5: I can't do everything here, guys, Hi.

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Speaker 2: I can only do this all right, let's see.

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Speaker 6: Hey, this just you know, but read these donations.

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Speaker 5: night of studying for my next exam, this time on

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Speaker 5: PTSD and eating disorders. So the laughs have been very welcome.

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Speaker 5: five dollars. Thank you very much. My mom once slept,

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Speaker 5: walked down the street and picked me up from my

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Speaker 5: crib at my uncle's who was watching me at the time,

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Speaker 5: but not very well. She was working night shifts at

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Speaker 5: the time. And was supposed to be sleeping.

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Speaker 5: Uh And then donation from that black Magic girl for

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Speaker 2: Stop stop keep going though, but stop you know, but

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Speaker 5: Uh And a donation from uh Mama or Lord for

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Speaker 2: He needs to leave his family. Isn't allowed over at

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Speaker 2: the house.

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Speaker 6: No.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I kind of I missed that one a little bit.

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Speaker 5: she's Gluca gone because she's going uh to she's going

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Speaker 5: to off.

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Speaker 2: Op, Yeah, because because Op might get hurt.

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Speaker 5: So she's saying traffic. Needs to get Gluca gone before

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01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:51,240
Speaker 5: he gets his Wifey gets.

1326
01:04:52,680 --> 01:04:55,080
Speaker 4: Gluca. I can't.

1327
01:04:55,160 --> 01:04:59,440
Speaker 5: I couldn't do it before his wife he gets aggressive,

1328
01:04:59,840 --> 01:05:03,880
Speaker 5: h scary Sherry gifted five ok storytime memberships. They just

1329
01:05:04,000 --> 01:05:07,720
Speaker 5: keep It's unstoppable, Alyssa Monday. My son laughs in his sleep.

1330
01:05:07,920 --> 01:05:14,240
Speaker 5: It is adorable. Josephine with the sixty five is Sweedish coroner.

1331
01:05:15,360 --> 01:05:17,600
Speaker 5: I have gotten the third degree burned, small burn, but.

1332
01:05:17,800 --> 01:05:19,280
Speaker 4: Deep once what it was.

1333
01:05:19,360 --> 01:05:23,960
Speaker 5: It's sweetish c Yeah, it's sweetish crowner, Swedish crowner. Yes,

1334
01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:26,440
Speaker 5: thank you, yeah, thank you baty much. Just fuck your

1335
01:05:26,440 --> 01:05:30,200
Speaker 5: Swedish crew on there. Uh so, Josephine got a third

1336
01:05:30,240 --> 01:05:33,560
Speaker 5: degree burn when she was sleepwalking and it didn't even

1337
01:05:33,600 --> 01:05:36,400
Speaker 5: wake her up. And she has also broken walls and

1338
01:05:36,560 --> 01:05:39,640
Speaker 5: doors while sleepwalking, so she knows the plight of the sleepwalker.

1339
01:05:39,760 --> 01:05:42,600
Speaker 5: You got a third degree burn and you didn't notice,

1340
01:05:42,680 --> 01:05:44,440
Speaker 5: You didn't even wake up. It doesn't wake you up

1341
01:05:45,240 --> 01:05:45,760
Speaker 5: apparently not.

1342
01:05:46,000 --> 01:05:46,520
Speaker 6: Oh my god.

1343
01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:50,680
Speaker 5: And we got more gifted gifted memberships by Alyssa Monday.

1344
01:05:50,880 --> 01:05:51,840
Speaker 5: Thank you very much.

1345
01:05:51,960 --> 01:05:56,040
Speaker 2: That is one, two, three, four, five, six gifted memberships.

1346
01:05:56,120 --> 01:05:58,600
Speaker 5: And she just joined. She got welcome to the knights.

1347
01:05:58,960 --> 01:06:00,720
Speaker 5: She must have gotten one of those gifted subs. Here

1348
01:06:00,800 --> 01:06:03,400
Speaker 5: have been a lot of gifted memberships that just and

1349
01:06:03,440 --> 01:06:05,640
Speaker 5: then she was like that can get it back. Yeah,

1350
01:06:06,600 --> 01:06:10,520
Speaker 5: and Caitlin van Campen, uh one, thank you very much?

1351
01:06:10,880 --> 01:06:12,760
Speaker 5: Did you get necklaces from one?

1352
01:06:13,080 --> 01:06:13,200
Speaker 4: Oh?

1353
01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:15,760
Speaker 5: Did we already do this one? Did you get necklaces

1354
01:06:15,800 --> 01:06:16,240
Speaker 5: from one?

1355
01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:16,520
Speaker 4: Done?

1356
01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:17,000
Speaker 5: Millennial?

1357
01:06:17,200 --> 01:06:17,480
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1358
01:06:17,520 --> 01:06:18,920
Speaker 5: Were there any necklaces to backage?

1359
01:06:18,920 --> 01:06:20,640
Speaker 2: I don't know if forgot, we'll have to confirm that

1360
01:06:20,800 --> 01:06:24,360
Speaker 2: may excited to build that lego set? Yeah, that sounds awesome.

1361
01:06:24,840 --> 01:06:26,760
Speaker 6: Wait, what should the next like count be?

1362
01:06:27,760 --> 01:06:28,840
Speaker 2: A thousand.

1363
01:06:32,560 --> 01:06:33,080
Speaker 5: Cheng pin?

1364
01:06:33,760 --> 01:06:35,280
Speaker 2: All right? What do we got? We got we got

1365
01:06:35,320 --> 01:06:39,960
Speaker 2: another one for you? M no, that's it, but we

1366
01:06:40,040 --> 01:06:40,520
Speaker 2: do have a.

1367
01:06:41,000 --> 01:06:47,680
Speaker 6: Wheelspace will wha? Let me get it in frame?

1368
01:06:49,200 --> 01:06:49,439
Speaker 2: Whoa?

1369
01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:53,080
Speaker 6: And also everyone voted sixty percent for divorce.

1370
01:06:53,560 --> 01:06:57,160
Speaker 2: M oh, more more balance than I thought it would be.

1371
01:06:57,560 --> 01:06:58,520
Speaker 2: Sixty forty.

1372
01:07:03,400 --> 01:07:07,040
Speaker 6: Five five memberships? How do I do that?

1373
01:07:09,400 --> 01:07:12,680
Speaker 5: That's five gifted memberships in the chat? I don't and

1374
01:07:12,840 --> 01:07:14,840
Speaker 5: I'm gonna talk in a funny accent from now.

1375
01:07:15,560 --> 01:07:16,440
Speaker 6: I don't know how to do that.

1376
01:07:17,600 --> 01:07:19,400
Speaker 4: We all can't help it. I don't know how to

1377
01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:19,640
Speaker 4: do it.

1378
01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:22,640
Speaker 2: Either I'm sorry, right Riley?

1379
01:07:23,760 --> 01:07:24,960
Speaker 6: Making it up as I go on?

1380
01:07:25,040 --> 01:07:26,000
Speaker 2: See yours making?

1381
01:07:26,080 --> 01:07:26,200
Speaker 6: Well?

1382
01:07:26,440 --> 01:07:31,920
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe it's in the donation chat. Do we do

1383
01:07:32,040 --> 01:07:32,680
Speaker 2: we do all those?

1384
01:07:33,280 --> 01:07:33,520
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1385
01:07:34,080 --> 01:07:34,360
Speaker 2: Did we?

1386
01:07:34,480 --> 01:07:34,800
Speaker 5: I don't know.

1387
01:07:34,960 --> 01:07:37,600
Speaker 2: Did we go to the very top? Yes?

1388
01:07:37,640 --> 01:07:38,160
Speaker 4: I think we did?

1389
01:07:38,840 --> 01:07:41,240
Speaker 2: We did we did all the nurse one nurse? Yes?

1390
01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:43,400
Speaker 6: I'm looking looking?

1391
01:07:43,520 --> 01:07:43,720
Speaker 4: Or wait?

1392
01:07:43,760 --> 01:07:44,480
Speaker 5: Did we do Kaitlyn?

1393
01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:45,440
Speaker 4: Was Kaitlyn's new.

1394
01:07:48,400 --> 01:07:50,760
Speaker 2: Making up? As Sam read my making up as I go?

1395
01:07:51,080 --> 01:07:52,760
Speaker 4: Where we don't see you?

1396
01:07:54,160 --> 01:07:54,920
Speaker 2: Where did you put it?

1397
01:07:55,080 --> 01:07:57,080
Speaker 6: Is it on the tip link or is it on

1398
01:07:57,320 --> 01:07:59,200
Speaker 6: the I don't see yours?

1399
01:08:01,200 --> 01:08:06,800
Speaker 2: Which one? Tiplink? Which one? Which one? Are you on

1400
01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:14,360
Speaker 2: the tip link? Oh? There we go. It just came through. Uh,

1401
01:08:14,800 --> 01:08:17,040
Speaker 2: thanks for the five bucks. My mom scrubbed the floor

1402
01:08:17,120 --> 01:08:20,080
Speaker 2: with a cookie while I held her up slash attempted

1403
01:08:20,120 --> 01:08:22,240
Speaker 2: to reason with her when I was a kid, also

1404
01:08:22,479 --> 01:08:25,320
Speaker 2: not sleepwalking, but years ago I called my husband while

1405
01:08:25,400 --> 01:08:28,759
Speaker 2: on ambion and asked him why he was a ghost

1406
01:08:28,960 --> 01:08:32,560
Speaker 2: at the foot of my bed and was sure I

1407
01:08:32,760 --> 01:08:36,280
Speaker 2: was at the bar. Yeah, that'll do it with Your

1408
01:08:36,400 --> 01:08:39,400
Speaker 2: mom shrubbed the floor with a cookie because she was sleepwalking.

1409
01:08:39,520 --> 01:08:42,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a perfectly reasonable thing to do when you're sleepwalking, and.

1410
01:08:42,439 --> 01:08:43,960
Speaker 2: Then the whole floor smells like cookie.

1411
01:08:44,120 --> 01:08:46,679
Speaker 5: Yeah, and now you've got perfect cookie floors.

1412
01:08:46,800 --> 01:08:49,080
Speaker 6: The chat wants me to respind you spend. I don't

1413
01:08:49,080 --> 01:08:50,080
Speaker 6: know how to do the memberships.

1414
01:08:50,120 --> 01:08:52,760
Speaker 4: Okay, Oh, somebody said I need to say Cass says

1415
01:08:52,840 --> 01:08:53,559
Speaker 4: I need to say.

1416
01:08:56,760 --> 01:08:57,559
Speaker 5: More minutes.

1417
01:08:59,040 --> 01:08:59,720
Speaker 6: Sure me up.

1418
01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:06,360
Speaker 4: Actually, I can figure out.

1419
01:09:08,120 --> 01:09:12,360
Speaker 6: I can figure out. I'm asking Riley, we can figure out.

1420
01:09:14,800 --> 01:09:17,200
Speaker 2: Sylvia can't do fifteen more minutes.

1421
01:09:17,280 --> 01:09:20,960
Speaker 6: She has a movie to go to go, and so

1422
01:09:21,080 --> 01:09:24,800
Speaker 6: does Riley. What do you mean how do I do

1423
01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:30,200
Speaker 6: five membership no chats? You're about to be so mad

1424
01:09:30,240 --> 01:09:33,680
Speaker 6: that you just took us fifteen minutes. Technically, technically, I'm

1425
01:09:33,720 --> 01:09:34,960
Speaker 6: giving them what they got first.

1426
01:09:35,360 --> 01:09:36,599
Speaker 4: I'm giving you the first day.

1427
01:09:37,560 --> 01:09:39,520
Speaker 5: She's going back to the first wheelspin.

1428
01:09:39,760 --> 01:09:48,880
Speaker 6: I'm going back. Oh that's Riley. Riley's here, Ley, Oh, Riley, save.

1429
01:09:48,720 --> 01:09:50,000
Speaker 4: Me, save me?

1430
01:09:50,240 --> 01:09:50,559
Speaker 3: Riley?

1431
01:09:50,960 --> 01:09:53,960
Speaker 2: All right, cuta, you got this next story seeing Transformers

1432
01:09:54,040 --> 01:09:58,080
Speaker 2: one one. What do you mean you're seeing Transformers?

1433
01:09:58,280 --> 01:10:00,320
Speaker 6: It's weird Transformers fun.

1434
01:10:01,000 --> 01:10:03,960
Speaker 5: It's the backstory of how this TMOS.

1435
01:10:05,040 --> 01:10:07,200
Speaker 6: But technically that was the first one I rolled.

1436
01:10:07,240 --> 01:10:09,599
Speaker 2: It was five gifted membership no plans.

1437
01:10:09,640 --> 01:10:11,880
Speaker 6: On Tuesday, I was told I didn't have to be

1438
01:10:12,000 --> 01:10:12,639
Speaker 6: on the stream.

1439
01:10:13,000 --> 01:10:15,599
Speaker 2: That's what I was told. We always have what we want.

1440
01:10:16,040 --> 01:10:17,320
Speaker 6: Riley's facetiming me.

1441
01:10:17,920 --> 01:10:23,040
Speaker 2: All right, Riley, help her, Riley, Riley, you're on stream.

1442
01:10:24,600 --> 01:10:27,880
Speaker 2: We haven't, but to be fair, we haven't had is

1443
01:10:28,000 --> 01:10:30,640
Speaker 2: Riley is Riley at the Riley playing.

1444
01:10:30,880 --> 01:10:31,280
Speaker 6: I do it?

1445
01:10:33,520 --> 01:10:42,240
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, Sophia's Sophia's on her way doing it right?

1446
01:10:42,960 --> 01:10:45,160
Speaker 2: Riley in the wild, Yes, Riley, I think he's playing

1447
01:10:45,200 --> 01:10:45,840
Speaker 2: basketball right.

1448
01:10:46,040 --> 01:10:49,000
Speaker 4: Micah says, worm Cream. This is betrayal.

1449
01:10:50,880 --> 01:10:53,560
Speaker 2: Do you not love your loyal subject.

1450
01:10:55,720 --> 01:10:55,840
Speaker 5: Us?

1451
01:10:59,280 --> 01:10:59,880
Speaker 2: How's your day?

1452
01:11:00,240 --> 01:11:00,840
Speaker 4: It's been great?

1453
01:11:01,080 --> 01:11:04,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, this has been lovely, lovely time.

1454
01:11:04,680 --> 01:11:07,439
Speaker 5: I even thoroughly enjoyed the dream. Thank you all for

1455
01:11:07,560 --> 01:11:11,080
Speaker 5: tuning in and having me having such a good times.

1456
01:11:11,120 --> 01:11:11,880
Speaker 5: It's been real fun.

1457
01:11:12,000 --> 01:11:16,040
Speaker 2: That was comic good? Was that the noodles? Oh?

1458
01:11:16,120 --> 01:11:16,559
Speaker 4: It was great.

1459
01:11:16,600 --> 01:11:18,519
Speaker 5: It was because I had had the cats who rice

1460
01:11:18,560 --> 01:11:23,040
Speaker 5: Bowl every time I've had no it was just a

1461
01:11:23,360 --> 01:11:26,080
Speaker 5: I had the option to make it. But I've never

1462
01:11:26,160 --> 01:11:28,240
Speaker 5: really liked like the big thick noodles.

1463
01:11:28,479 --> 01:11:30,800
Speaker 2: I'm like a big thick noodle kind of guy, rather than.

1464
01:11:30,800 --> 01:11:34,360
Speaker 5: Like you're a big thick noodle kind of guy. You

1465
01:11:34,439 --> 01:11:37,799
Speaker 5: hear that, You hear that gets confirmed? Now, Sam, Sam's

1466
01:11:37,880 --> 01:11:45,160
Speaker 5: the big thick noodle kind of guy, a wild All right,

1467
01:11:45,240 --> 01:11:47,880
Speaker 5: chat first person is saying an accent in chat. That's

1468
01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:48,680
Speaker 5: the one I'm gonna talk in.

1469
01:11:48,800 --> 01:11:50,800
Speaker 6: Okay, I did the one that you got first.

1470
01:11:51,080 --> 01:11:54,799
Speaker 2: There we go, there we go. All right, Okay, Dakoda,

1471
01:11:54,920 --> 01:11:56,200
Speaker 2: let's hit this next story.

1472
01:11:56,400 --> 01:11:58,080
Speaker 4: We have another story.

1473
01:11:58,880 --> 01:11:59,240
Speaker 2: Okay.

1474
01:12:01,280 --> 01:12:05,519
Speaker 5: I can't divorce my husband, but I also can't live

1475
01:12:05,600 --> 01:12:05,920
Speaker 5: with them.

1476
01:12:06,840 --> 01:12:09,320
Speaker 2: I don't know what to do. I can't live with them,

1477
01:12:09,400 --> 01:12:09,800
Speaker 2: can't live.

1478
01:12:10,360 --> 01:12:11,400
Speaker 5: I have an idea.

1479
01:12:12,760 --> 01:12:12,800
Speaker 6: M.

1480
01:12:13,360 --> 01:12:16,800
Speaker 5: It starts with M and ends with murder.

1481
01:12:18,400 --> 01:12:22,560
Speaker 2: No, don't do that, martyr, unless you really want to, Like,

1482
01:12:22,600 --> 01:12:24,479
Speaker 2: I don't want to get in any one the way

1483
01:12:24,560 --> 01:12:25,720
Speaker 2: of anyone living their truth.

1484
01:12:26,040 --> 01:12:27,560
Speaker 5: Who is the first accent? I need to know?

1485
01:12:28,760 --> 01:12:29,280
Speaker 2: I need to know.

1486
01:12:34,240 --> 01:12:39,519
Speaker 4: Spanish? Spanisish? British is British?

1487
01:12:39,560 --> 01:12:43,679
Speaker 5: The first one? I think it was British? Aussy Russian?

1488
01:12:45,000 --> 01:12:47,759
Speaker 5: Oh god, is it ausy? Oh it's ausy?

1489
01:12:48,200 --> 01:12:50,200
Speaker 2: Yeah? All right, oh god, I.

1490
01:12:50,240 --> 01:12:50,680
Speaker 4: Can't do that.

1491
01:12:50,760 --> 01:12:52,280
Speaker 5: Well, that one's gonna be so bad. It's gonna have

1492
01:12:52,320 --> 01:12:54,040
Speaker 5: to be. It's gonna it's gonna sink into British.

1493
01:12:54,080 --> 01:12:56,400
Speaker 4: I got it Russian.

1494
01:12:56,640 --> 01:12:56,960
Speaker 2: Okay.

1495
01:12:58,720 --> 01:13:01,800
Speaker 5: There is a little of history between me thirty four

1496
01:13:01,920 --> 01:13:05,040
Speaker 5: female and my husband thirty six male, with almost ten years.

1497
01:13:05,760 --> 01:13:08,280
Speaker 5: We are together since I was fifteen years old and

1498
01:13:08,400 --> 01:13:10,840
Speaker 5: he's seventeen years old, and we went to the same

1499
01:13:10,920 --> 01:13:14,280
Speaker 5: medical school with two years apart. In Europe, after high school,

1500
01:13:14,280 --> 01:13:17,240
Speaker 5: you go directly to med school for six years. By

1501
01:13:17,280 --> 01:13:19,800
Speaker 5: the way, this comes from user t Andrea only your

1502
01:13:19,960 --> 01:13:24,880
Speaker 5: slash okay, story time subredded. So we are living for

1503
01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:28,200
Speaker 5: eight years in Germany now, but we come from another.

1504
01:13:28,000 --> 01:13:31,479
Speaker 4: Country country it could be.

1505
01:13:33,400 --> 01:13:34,760
Speaker 2: Ah here.

1506
01:13:34,960 --> 01:13:37,960
Speaker 5: I have no family, his parents come here two years

1507
01:13:37,960 --> 01:13:40,640
Speaker 5: ago and no friends. I am an introvert and have

1508
01:13:40,760 --> 01:13:45,240
Speaker 5: social anxiety. Besides friends and their wives that my husband

1509
01:13:45,280 --> 01:13:48,200
Speaker 5: has made it work, but you know we hang out only.

1510
01:13:47,960 --> 01:13:48,880
Speaker 4: A few times a year.

1511
01:13:50,360 --> 01:13:52,360
Speaker 5: I was a stay at home mom for most of

1512
01:13:52,479 --> 01:13:55,439
Speaker 5: my life and my time here in Germany because I

1513
01:13:55,680 --> 01:13:58,080
Speaker 5: was taking care of our children eighten three years old

1514
01:13:58,760 --> 01:14:01,840
Speaker 5: before getting pregnant in me of Corona. With second child,

1515
01:14:01,920 --> 01:14:06,360
Speaker 5: they worked for one year in working again as a

1516
01:14:06,479 --> 01:14:10,639
Speaker 5: family doctor in training since last September, but part time

1517
01:14:11,200 --> 01:14:13,320
Speaker 5: from seven thirty am to twelve pm.

1518
01:14:13,960 --> 01:14:15,240
Speaker 2: We get a lot of logistics.

1519
01:14:16,600 --> 01:14:19,120
Speaker 5: My husband in the meantime is working since he got

1520
01:14:19,200 --> 01:14:21,800
Speaker 5: here full time and will now be in a few

1521
01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:24,280
Speaker 5: months officially internal medicine physician.

1522
01:14:24,640 --> 01:14:27,400
Speaker 4: This accent is working so well for how is written.

1523
01:14:27,880 --> 01:14:28,639
Speaker 2: It's great.

1524
01:14:30,120 --> 01:14:32,840
Speaker 5: Since I got here and became mom, which happened within

1525
01:14:32,920 --> 01:14:37,080
Speaker 5: three weeks after I moved. Our problems started. No. No,

1526
01:14:38,360 --> 01:14:42,200
Speaker 5: first few years he was nowhere to be found. He

1527
01:14:42,320 --> 01:14:46,479
Speaker 5: worked crazy shifts and at least two weekends a month.

1528
01:14:46,760 --> 01:14:49,759
Speaker 5: He was actively looking for additional work with the excuse

1529
01:14:49,840 --> 01:14:52,960
Speaker 5: that we need more money because which.

1530
01:14:52,880 --> 01:14:55,960
Speaker 2: We did not. Maybe he is part of the KGB.

1531
01:14:56,479 --> 01:15:01,640
Speaker 4: Perhaps he is part of KGB, very suspicious.

1532
01:15:02,920 --> 01:15:06,680
Speaker 5: Those first four years before Corona, I would visit my

1533
01:15:06,760 --> 01:15:10,519
Speaker 5: home country a lot because I felt so lonely in Germany,

1534
01:15:10,640 --> 01:15:14,439
Speaker 5: all alone with a baby stage toddler in the tiny apartment.

1535
01:15:15,320 --> 01:15:17,360
Speaker 4: He didn't stop laughing.

1536
01:15:19,240 --> 01:15:19,800
Speaker 2: Nobody.

1537
01:15:20,680 --> 01:15:22,840
Speaker 4: He didn't want to be at home.

1538
01:15:24,080 --> 01:15:27,960
Speaker 5: The husband, he avoided us, but would get so offended

1539
01:15:28,040 --> 01:15:31,280
Speaker 5: when I said that he had a horrible relationship with

1540
01:15:31,360 --> 01:15:34,639
Speaker 5: our first child. Even though it got better and he's

1541
01:15:34,760 --> 01:15:37,760
Speaker 5: trying more now, it is still pretty rocky. And she

1542
01:15:37,960 --> 01:15:41,920
Speaker 5: openly admits that she loves me more. Oh yeah, He's

1543
01:15:42,000 --> 01:15:43,120
Speaker 5: often very rude, to him.

1544
01:15:43,800 --> 01:15:45,200
Speaker 2: Those Russians very truthful.

1545
01:15:45,240 --> 01:15:48,800
Speaker 5: Hey, those Russian babies, they can be very mean, very

1546
01:15:48,960 --> 01:15:52,479
Speaker 5: very mean. To the point after a second child, he

1547
01:15:52,600 --> 01:15:56,840
Speaker 5: became a better father. He does have far better relationship

1548
01:15:56,960 --> 01:15:59,840
Speaker 5: with our second daughter, but he is still no near

1549
01:16:00,120 --> 01:16:04,040
Speaker 5: involved as I like him to be. And that also

1550
01:16:04,120 --> 01:16:08,520
Speaker 5: happened because only he got heavily disappointed at his workplace.

1551
01:16:08,800 --> 01:16:11,680
Speaker 5: He sacrificed us all for his work, and then his

1552
01:16:11,840 --> 01:16:14,280
Speaker 5: boss that my husband was looking at like he was

1553
01:16:14,360 --> 01:16:18,839
Speaker 5: a god, suddenly quit and all my husband's dreams came crushing.

1554
01:16:18,920 --> 01:16:23,720
Speaker 5: Now at home, he does absolutely not chors regularly. The

1555
01:16:23,840 --> 01:16:27,000
Speaker 5: only thing that I can be sure he do is cook.

1556
01:16:27,680 --> 01:16:29,760
Speaker 5: That one was a little rough cook. If he has

1557
01:16:29,840 --> 01:16:32,080
Speaker 5: a day off and we are staying home because he

1558
01:16:32,280 --> 01:16:36,400
Speaker 5: likes cooking. He is resisting helping around the house and children,

1559
01:16:36,479 --> 01:16:40,719
Speaker 5: always claiming that he's too exhausted from work at hospital

1560
01:16:41,000 --> 01:16:43,679
Speaker 5: and that I don't understand it because I never worked

1561
01:16:43,760 --> 01:16:46,320
Speaker 5: full time, which just makes me more furious.

1562
01:16:46,640 --> 01:16:53,439
Speaker 2: So, so far, all of this waits. So far, all

1563
01:16:53,520 --> 01:16:57,960
Speaker 2: of this is just saying my husband works a lot.

1564
01:16:58,280 --> 01:17:00,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, Well, she's like, my husband works a lot, and

1565
01:17:00,960 --> 01:17:01,519
Speaker 5: our kid.

1566
01:17:01,479 --> 01:17:04,519
Speaker 2: Hates us, hates him, hates him because he works a lot.

1567
01:17:04,520 --> 01:17:08,960
Speaker 5: Which, honestly, guys, do you know who will remember all

1568
01:17:09,040 --> 01:17:12,120
Speaker 5: the late nights that you work. It will not be

1569
01:17:12,280 --> 01:17:15,760
Speaker 5: your boss, It will be your family. All of the

1570
01:17:15,880 --> 01:17:17,760
Speaker 5: late nights that you do not come home for work,

1571
01:17:18,560 --> 01:17:22,200
Speaker 5: nobody will remember except your family. I think we are

1572
01:17:22,280 --> 01:17:27,840
Speaker 5: learning this now Russian and all the Russian adage, do

1573
01:17:27,960 --> 01:17:28,960
Speaker 5: not work for the man.

1574
01:17:29,880 --> 01:17:34,280
Speaker 2: Man works for you. In Soviet Russia, in Soviet.

1575
01:17:34,040 --> 01:17:35,160
Speaker 4: In Soviet Russia.

1576
01:17:37,880 --> 01:17:41,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay. When I say that I am exhausted and

1577
01:17:41,760 --> 01:17:45,559
Speaker 5: I can't anymore, it does not offer to help. He says, Oh,

1578
01:17:45,840 --> 01:17:46,560
Speaker 5: I feel you.

1579
01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:47,720
Speaker 4: I am too.

1580
01:17:47,960 --> 01:17:51,600
Speaker 5: I'm barely coping, even though after he crashes on the

1581
01:17:51,680 --> 01:17:54,880
Speaker 5: couch to scroll on his phone, I am still on

1582
01:17:55,000 --> 01:18:00,519
Speaker 5: my feet doing chores or work around children. Ten days ago,

1583
01:18:01,280 --> 01:18:04,360
Speaker 5: we came from a family vacation. That day, I got

1584
01:18:04,439 --> 01:18:08,799
Speaker 5: up early and cleaned the whole rental, packed all our things,

1585
01:18:09,040 --> 01:18:12,679
Speaker 5: make sure kids have enough toys to be entertained, packing snacks,

1586
01:18:13,240 --> 01:18:17,760
Speaker 5: made children ready for trip. My husband put suitcases that

1587
01:18:17,920 --> 01:18:20,360
Speaker 5: I packed into the car, made sandwiches.

1588
01:18:21,080 --> 01:18:27,639
Speaker 2: I can't because the what's happening right now is she's

1589
01:18:27,680 --> 01:18:28,519
Speaker 2: completely leaving.

1590
01:18:29,120 --> 01:18:32,719
Speaker 4: I mean, I think they're packing up for a vacation.

1591
01:18:33,400 --> 01:18:35,200
Speaker 2: Oh, I thought that she was leaving here.

1592
01:18:36,080 --> 01:18:36,200
Speaker 6: Uh.

1593
01:18:36,600 --> 01:18:37,600
Speaker 4: Oh, well, I don't know.

1594
01:18:37,760 --> 01:18:41,360
Speaker 5: We'll have to we will have to wait out. We

1595
01:18:41,400 --> 01:18:42,639
Speaker 5: will have to wait and find out.

1596
01:18:42,680 --> 01:18:43,240
Speaker 4: I do not know.

1597
01:18:43,360 --> 01:18:48,639
Speaker 5: This sounds like that, sounds like the conspiracy theory from

1598
01:18:49,320 --> 01:18:53,719
Speaker 5: from Samuel over here that the wife is secretly living

1599
01:18:53,840 --> 01:18:58,120
Speaker 5: with the children on the pretense of a vacation.

1600
01:18:59,080 --> 01:19:04,439
Speaker 4: So I make the children ready for the trip. Okay.

1601
01:19:04,720 --> 01:19:07,559
Speaker 5: My husband put suitcase that I packed into car, make sandwiches,

1602
01:19:07,680 --> 01:19:11,599
Speaker 5: checked us out, and drove eight hours while I tended

1603
01:19:11,640 --> 01:19:14,960
Speaker 5: the kids whenever they needed something. When we got home,

1604
01:19:15,280 --> 01:19:17,880
Speaker 5: his mother waited on us with lunch, and after we

1605
01:19:17,960 --> 01:19:21,400
Speaker 5: all ate, she took the kids. My husband went to

1606
01:19:21,520 --> 01:19:24,840
Speaker 5: take a smoke and stroll a scroll on his phone,

1607
01:19:25,120 --> 01:19:27,800
Speaker 5: and I started unpacking the car. It was a mess

1608
01:19:28,439 --> 01:19:32,080
Speaker 5: and the suitcases. When he got back, I told him

1609
01:19:32,320 --> 01:19:35,599
Speaker 5: to load this washer, which he did and then crashed

1610
01:19:35,640 --> 01:19:39,200
Speaker 5: on the couch. I felt taken advantage of here. I

1611
01:19:39,400 --> 01:19:42,240
Speaker 5: was unpacking from holiday with a house in a disarray

1612
01:19:42,680 --> 01:19:47,519
Speaker 5: and husband that did not give two sniffs. I calmed

1613
01:19:47,600 --> 01:19:50,880
Speaker 5: myself and told him how I felt and that I

1614
01:19:51,040 --> 01:19:53,280
Speaker 5: need his help because it is unfair and that is

1615
01:19:53,920 --> 01:19:57,360
Speaker 5: very emotionally mature thing to do. Try to bring up

1616
01:19:57,360 --> 01:19:59,559
Speaker 5: two husbands communicated.

1617
01:19:59,200 --> 01:20:01,800
Speaker 4: This is how I feel. I feel this way.

1618
01:20:02,439 --> 01:20:06,080
Speaker 5: Please do you feel I am maybe overreacting?

1619
01:20:07,280 --> 01:20:07,800
Speaker 4: Let's talk.

1620
01:20:10,320 --> 01:20:13,560
Speaker 5: He said he'd help after he is done watching his

1621
01:20:13,720 --> 01:20:15,439
Speaker 5: TV show on Netflix.

1622
01:20:15,760 --> 01:20:17,320
Speaker 2: Not the TV saw on Netflix.

1623
01:20:17,479 --> 01:20:20,519
Speaker 4: That is not what you do. You unpacked the car.

1624
01:20:21,160 --> 01:20:23,759
Speaker 5: I asked him how many episodes does he plan on watching,

1625
01:20:24,000 --> 01:20:26,840
Speaker 5: and then he exploded. He told me that he did

1626
01:20:26,920 --> 01:20:29,680
Speaker 5: not have to do anything because he drove a car

1627
01:20:29,840 --> 01:20:33,840
Speaker 5: for eight hours. Still very peeved, he did help clean

1628
01:20:33,840 --> 01:20:36,360
Speaker 5: the house and I couldn't believe how quick we were.

1629
01:20:37,240 --> 01:20:39,120
Speaker 5: I'm so used to doing everything alone.

1630
01:20:39,479 --> 01:20:39,840
Speaker 2: Woh wait.

1631
01:20:39,920 --> 01:20:43,000
Speaker 5: So he did help, yes, but after being very upset,

1632
01:20:43,760 --> 01:20:46,800
Speaker 5: he made a big stink about this. He said, Oh,

1633
01:20:47,400 --> 01:20:49,880
Speaker 5: I guess I will not watch the entire first season

1634
01:20:49,920 --> 01:20:53,639
Speaker 5: of Squid Games on Netflix and I will help you instead.

1635
01:20:55,600 --> 01:20:58,120
Speaker 5: Next day, he was still peeved and we get into

1636
01:20:58,160 --> 01:21:01,320
Speaker 5: a fight. Harsh words were extreme, and we both withdrew

1637
01:21:01,479 --> 01:21:04,200
Speaker 5: for a few days. But what made me think about

1638
01:21:04,240 --> 01:21:14,720
Speaker 5: divorce was less thirsdors thevorce, divorce, divorce, divorce. But what

1639
01:21:14,920 --> 01:21:17,120
Speaker 5: made me think about divorce was less Thursday, when he

1640
01:21:17,200 --> 01:21:19,479
Speaker 5: gave me his phone to check some some pin that

1641
01:21:19,600 --> 01:21:22,680
Speaker 5: I needed for an app that we shared. Accidentally, I

1642
01:21:22,760 --> 01:21:27,599
Speaker 5: got into his Instagram. Really, I didn't think that was accident.

1643
01:21:28,840 --> 01:21:31,960
Speaker 5: I got into his Instagram, That's what he would do accidentally,

1644
01:21:32,320 --> 01:21:35,559
Speaker 5: and he suggested page was full of corn models from

1645
01:21:35,680 --> 01:21:40,760
Speaker 5: only fans. No, while I was, while, while I was,

1646
01:21:42,240 --> 01:21:45,559
Speaker 5: while I was banging my head how to solve our

1647
01:21:45,640 --> 01:21:48,720
Speaker 5: problems not sleeping and not eating, he could not be

1648
01:21:48,800 --> 01:21:52,320
Speaker 5: bothered to care one bit about our marriage boy, because

1649
01:21:52,320 --> 01:21:55,960
Speaker 5: he was looking at butt cheeks. He was looking at

1650
01:21:56,040 --> 01:21:59,840
Speaker 5: booty cheeks. Blinded with her, I went into his Google

1651
01:21:59,840 --> 01:22:02,240
Speaker 5: his street to see if he googled anything related to us,

1652
01:22:02,280 --> 01:22:06,400
Speaker 5: and there was not one word, just stupid, irrelevant stuff.

1653
01:22:07,200 --> 01:22:11,320
Speaker 5: I realized that he doesn't give a rats booty about us.

1654
01:22:11,400 --> 01:22:13,719
Speaker 5: He openly says that he doesn't want to talk about

1655
01:22:13,800 --> 01:22:17,120
Speaker 5: problem and refused even to consider couple counseling.

1656
01:22:17,240 --> 01:22:19,720
Speaker 2: Oh wait, wait, so she's like, this guy doesn't care

1657
01:22:19,760 --> 01:22:22,600
Speaker 2: about me because he's not googling about our relationship.

1658
01:22:22,920 --> 01:22:25,879
Speaker 5: I mean that is fair. That maybe not super accurate

1659
01:22:26,120 --> 01:22:29,639
Speaker 5: assessment there, but I do think the refusal to consider

1660
01:22:29,760 --> 01:22:31,480
Speaker 5: couple counseling outright.

1661
01:22:31,560 --> 01:22:33,000
Speaker 4: Is definitely red flag.

1662
01:22:33,200 --> 01:22:34,000
Speaker 2: That is a red flag.

1663
01:22:34,080 --> 01:22:35,560
Speaker 4: That is a red flag. He says, I do not

1664
01:22:35,680 --> 01:22:36,280
Speaker 4: want counsel.

1665
01:22:37,560 --> 01:22:43,959
Speaker 2: That's Christian say, I've played tennis, Anthony, Henry, Christian, I care, Christian,

1666
01:22:44,439 --> 01:22:44,800
Speaker 2: I care.

1667
01:22:45,479 --> 01:22:47,479
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, Oh are you going to play? What are

1668
01:22:47,520 --> 01:22:48,800
Speaker 4: you going to play tennis tonight?

1669
01:22:48,840 --> 01:22:51,280
Speaker 2: I was gonna play tennis, but then he cannot.

1670
01:22:51,040 --> 01:22:55,200
Speaker 5: Go play tennis. He's here with me, Russian Dakota. The

1671
01:22:55,320 --> 01:22:57,479
Speaker 5: catch twenty two is that we built a house last

1672
01:22:57,560 --> 01:23:00,400
Speaker 5: year and became because of the fact, Oh, we built

1673
01:23:00,400 --> 01:23:05,360
Speaker 5: a house last year, they built this house. They catch

1674
01:23:05,479 --> 01:23:08,360
Speaker 5: twenty two is that we built a house last year,

1675
01:23:08,760 --> 01:23:11,479
Speaker 5: and because of the fact that our own town sold

1676
01:23:11,560 --> 01:23:13,559
Speaker 5: us the land on which we built it, we are

1677
01:23:13,640 --> 01:23:15,600
Speaker 5: not allowed to sell it or rent it for the

1678
01:23:15,720 --> 01:23:16,719
Speaker 5: next ten years.

1679
01:23:17,000 --> 01:23:17,559
Speaker 4: Ten years.

1680
01:23:17,600 --> 01:23:19,719
Speaker 5: And we have a pretty big loan that is bigger

1681
01:23:19,760 --> 01:23:22,839
Speaker 5: than my whole monthly paycheck. Even my husband would struggle

1682
01:23:22,920 --> 01:23:25,680
Speaker 5: to pay off on his own. And you know what

1683
01:23:25,800 --> 01:23:28,000
Speaker 5: you won't have to struggle to do is to join

1684
01:23:28,120 --> 01:23:31,679
Speaker 5: us live on YouTube every weekday at three pm Pacific

1685
01:23:31,800 --> 01:23:35,599
Speaker 5: Standard time. Just tep a profile. Okay, here it comes,

1686
01:23:35,720 --> 01:23:39,960
Speaker 5: end of story. Because of that I think that divorcing

1687
01:23:40,080 --> 01:23:43,760
Speaker 5: him would ruin us financially and would make children's life living. Hele.

1688
01:23:43,920 --> 01:23:46,719
Speaker 5: So she is thinking about divorce, but they are building.

1689
01:23:46,800 --> 01:23:49,639
Speaker 5: They bought this land in Germany. Town in Germany says

1690
01:23:49,880 --> 01:23:53,880
Speaker 5: you cannot sell, you cannot rent. You must live here

1691
01:23:54,360 --> 01:23:55,240
Speaker 5: for ten years.

1692
01:23:56,000 --> 01:23:56,720
Speaker 4: Ten years, you.

1693
01:23:56,760 --> 01:24:02,360
Speaker 5: Must live in Germany. They are the absolute top priority

1694
01:24:02,520 --> 01:24:05,519
Speaker 5: in every decision that I am making. She is referring

1695
01:24:05,560 --> 01:24:08,720
Speaker 5: to the children. Is there anyway I can still live

1696
01:24:08,760 --> 01:24:12,519
Speaker 5: with them but protect myself from being taken advantage of?

1697
01:24:13,360 --> 01:24:14,080
Speaker 4: This is hard?

1698
01:24:14,320 --> 01:24:15,320
Speaker 2: Separate rooms?

1699
01:24:16,320 --> 01:24:19,920
Speaker 4: Maybe separate rooms, Yes, that could be something.

1700
01:24:20,840 --> 01:24:21,639
Speaker 5: I think it's hard.

1701
01:24:22,280 --> 01:24:25,720
Speaker 2: You make a little little house away from big home.

1702
01:24:26,439 --> 01:24:29,600
Speaker 2: You cannot you put the little house and husband and

1703
01:24:29,640 --> 01:24:30,240
Speaker 2: the little house.

1704
01:24:30,600 --> 01:24:33,760
Speaker 4: Perhaps, yes, if you are making all the money, right

1705
01:24:34,240 --> 01:24:35,559
Speaker 4: or is it him who's.

1706
01:24:35,360 --> 01:24:37,840
Speaker 2: Making the money. I think both of them are making money.

1707
01:24:37,960 --> 01:24:42,200
Speaker 5: Whoever makes more money gets more house, makes less money.

1708
01:24:42,200 --> 01:24:45,439
Speaker 5: If you build house already, right, you've already built one house.

1709
01:24:45,760 --> 01:24:48,320
Speaker 4: Just build another househouse that is susy, but maybe a

1710
01:24:48,360 --> 01:24:51,400
Speaker 4: little smaller, and then have one person live in the

1711
01:24:51,520 --> 01:24:52,040
Speaker 4: little house.

1712
01:24:52,160 --> 01:24:55,080
Speaker 5: Because you cannot get divorced right now, because you will

1713
01:24:55,120 --> 01:24:59,240
Speaker 5: be financially destitute the land you cannot give you.

1714
01:24:59,320 --> 01:25:00,960
Speaker 4: Yes, it would be bed for the children.

1715
01:25:01,600 --> 01:25:06,080
Speaker 5: You cannot do this yet, maybe in ten years revaluate, perhaps,

1716
01:25:07,400 --> 01:25:10,400
Speaker 5: you know, maybe get to She said that they do

1717
01:25:10,479 --> 01:25:13,160
Speaker 5: not really have too many friends outside of work from

1718
01:25:13,320 --> 01:25:16,920
Speaker 5: because is hard. Normally I would say, maybe perhaps get

1719
01:25:17,000 --> 01:25:19,840
Speaker 5: his friends to talk to him, maybe open him up to.

1720
01:25:20,920 --> 01:25:22,479
Speaker 2: He says, husband lost his job.

1721
01:25:22,800 --> 01:25:25,479
Speaker 5: So husband has lost a job. That might be while

1722
01:25:25,479 --> 01:25:28,240
Speaker 5: he's being such a wienie. I would say he's being

1723
01:25:28,760 --> 01:25:31,400
Speaker 5: kind of a wienie. If you do not have job,

1724
01:25:31,439 --> 01:25:34,200
Speaker 5: you must help more with children, You must help more

1725
01:25:34,240 --> 01:25:36,519
Speaker 5: with chore. If you do not have job, you must

1726
01:25:36,560 --> 01:25:36,960
Speaker 5: help more.

1727
01:25:37,080 --> 01:25:39,479
Speaker 2: And I don't think he is. It doesn't sound like

1728
01:25:39,560 --> 01:25:44,839
Speaker 2: he is interested. It was very hard for me to story.

1729
01:25:45,760 --> 01:25:47,040
Speaker 2: I was giggling.

1730
01:25:48,920 --> 01:25:49,880
Speaker 4: To kind of stuff.

1731
01:25:51,720 --> 01:25:57,639
Speaker 2: But I think I think maybe a small little house

1732
01:25:58,040 --> 01:25:59,840
Speaker 2: for your small little husband.

1733
01:25:59,560 --> 01:26:01,360
Speaker 5: If you may, is if he if he is not

1734
01:26:01,560 --> 01:26:04,880
Speaker 5: making any money with no income, and put him in

1735
01:26:04,920 --> 01:26:10,680
Speaker 5: a small house. And perhaps perhaps I don't know what

1736
01:26:10,800 --> 01:26:12,479
Speaker 5: the courts in Germany are like. I bet you they

1737
01:26:12,520 --> 01:26:15,879
Speaker 5: are a very pro family. Maybe if you're in this situation,

1738
01:26:16,000 --> 01:26:19,599
Speaker 5: they may they may argue in your favor. I think

1739
01:26:19,680 --> 01:26:21,639
Speaker 5: so I think there are I don't know, I could

1740
01:26:21,680 --> 01:26:24,800
Speaker 5: be wrong, but what I they thought in my head

1741
01:26:25,280 --> 01:26:30,000
Speaker 5: right is that, uh, the German court system is actually

1742
01:26:30,160 --> 01:26:33,280
Speaker 5: very sympathetic to families, right, well, I think.

1743
01:26:33,160 --> 01:26:37,040
Speaker 2: They're extremely like. The German court system is generally sympathetic

1744
01:26:37,160 --> 01:26:41,080
Speaker 2: to like, I think, just like the social good. So

1745
01:26:41,160 --> 01:26:43,240
Speaker 2: I feel like they're they're they're a little there's a

1746
01:26:43,280 --> 01:26:43,519
Speaker 2: lot lot.

1747
01:26:43,600 --> 01:26:46,000
Speaker 5: Perhaps you can get court order for your husband to

1748
01:26:46,560 --> 01:26:52,360
Speaker 5: have to provide more in the household. What are you

1749
01:26:52,439 --> 01:26:56,960
Speaker 5: whispering about? Worm queen, queen of the worms. We give

1750
01:26:57,000 --> 01:26:59,800
Speaker 5: you no dirt today, but you will, you will go

1751
01:27:00,080 --> 01:27:01,200
Speaker 5: hungry get.

1752
01:27:01,120 --> 01:27:02,080
Speaker 2: Into this next story.

1753
01:27:02,760 --> 01:27:03,840
Speaker 4: Okay, yes we will.

1754
01:27:04,200 --> 01:27:07,600
Speaker 6: We will do this this recording because I forgot to

1755
01:27:07,960 --> 01:27:11,800
Speaker 6: end it after the first episode. So now it's two

1756
01:27:11,880 --> 01:27:13,559
Speaker 6: hours and forty five minutes.

1757
01:27:13,840 --> 01:27:17,280
Speaker 4: Nice, Okay, I did there's no.

1758
01:27:19,520 --> 01:27:22,439
Speaker 5: Okay, all right, Russian accent's gone.

1759
01:27:22,439 --> 01:27:25,599
Speaker 4: Wow, oh that hurt?

1760
01:27:26,439 --> 01:27:27,439
Speaker 2: That was hurting my mouth?

1761
01:27:27,920 --> 01:27:28,960
Speaker 6: You got pulled up, Sam?

1762
01:27:30,400 --> 01:27:30,800
Speaker 2: Which one?

1763
01:27:31,200 --> 01:27:33,120
Speaker 6: I don't know, the five? The one with the five.

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01:27:33,840 --> 01:27:35,960
Speaker 2: We've only done five episodes, that's how.

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Speaker 6: Many were supposed to do. Okay, and also, you guys

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Speaker 6: take a lot.

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Speaker 2: What I didn't know. I wouldn't take along on that one.

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Speaker 2: That was that was you.

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Speaker 5: Well, we did have a couple of pretty long stories

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Speaker 5: me and John there were.

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Speaker 6: Don't but get to the first thing so I can

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Speaker 6: start the recording.

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Speaker 2: All right. My husband called my daughter our selfish monster

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01:27:57,120 --> 01:27:58,519
Speaker 2: because you rejected a boat.

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Speaker 6: Okay, now you can read the donuts.

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Speaker 2: Okay, don'tos donation from making up as they go. We

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Speaker 2: already read that one.

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Speaker 4: Refresh.

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Speaker 5: It's gonna stick.

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Speaker 2: It will be.

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Speaker 4: A different one now, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, not really sleepless. Thanks for the five Okay Storytine membership. Thanks,

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Speaker 2: we appreciate you. Alyssa Monday. Thanks for the two bucks

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Speaker 2: gift a membership to Turtle Fairy. Unfortunately we can't gift

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Speaker 2: to specific people. Okay, storytime gift and five membership. That's

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Speaker 2: millennial needs to know so she can tell FedEx to

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Speaker 2: make a claim.

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Speaker 3: Much love you guys. Necklaces, the necklaces I don't think

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Speaker 3: we got. Actually, well they wear more packages that came

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Speaker 3: in today. Yeah there are there could there could be

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Speaker 3: other pa if.

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Speaker 5: They were packages on the stoop. Oh that is what

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Speaker 5: they say, which is what they say.

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Speaker 4: Across the pond.

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Speaker 2: Are we doing a little UK accident?

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Speaker 5: I'll have to do a little UK or I would

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Speaker 5: just be Russian, do.

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Speaker 2: You josephinbadelbergwez thanks for the twenty seven second.

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Speaker 4: It's five am and I really have to go now bye.

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Speaker 2: I saw you in the chat. I don't think you

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Speaker 2: allan but Seinfeld? What does that mean?

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Speaker 5: He wants me to talk like Jerry Seinfeld? Joe, I

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01:29:27,400 --> 01:29:31,439
Speaker 5: need you to say Swedish coroner instead of seck. I

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01:29:31,560 --> 01:29:38,840
Speaker 5: need you to say Swedish coroners crooner. There's Swedish coroner chroner.

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Speaker 2: There we go, U sweet? Did we read all the

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Speaker 2: do we the ones below?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Were there was there any waking up as I go under?

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Speaker 2: Uh nurse? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I think we did.

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Speaker 2: We did hit all these We hit all those all right?

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01:29:52,800 --> 01:29:55,679
Speaker 2: We're gonnat into this next story. So my husband called

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01:29:55,720 --> 01:29:58,840
Speaker 2: my daughter a selfish monster because she rejected a boy.

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01:29:58,960 --> 01:29:59,920
Speaker 4: Can somebody say.

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01:30:00,880 --> 01:30:03,200
Speaker 2: Hello all My husband and I have been arguing about

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01:30:03,240 --> 01:30:05,880
Speaker 2: this all day and I need some outside perspective. My

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01:30:06,040 --> 01:30:08,479
Speaker 2: husband picked my daughter Cindy up from school and he

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01:30:08,600 --> 01:30:11,519
Speaker 2: saw her speaking to a schoolmate that she previously had

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01:30:11,520 --> 01:30:14,160
Speaker 2: a crush on. Also This comes from additional ear three

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Speaker 2: six eighty six and the Best Bredditor Updates subreddit. So

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01:30:17,960 --> 01:30:20,240
Speaker 2: for context, last year, during a sleepover, my husband and

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01:30:20,280 --> 01:30:24,760
Speaker 2: I overheard Cindy's friend lightly teasing her overhanding crush on

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01:30:24,880 --> 01:30:28,760
Speaker 2: this boy. My husband also gently teased her, and some

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01:30:28,920 --> 01:30:33,360
Speaker 2: innocent jokes like Cindy and boy sitting on a tree.

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01:30:33,760 --> 01:30:41,560
Speaker 5: Ks angus, and he sometimes brings it up randomly to

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01:30:41,600 --> 01:30:43,599
Speaker 5: tease her, like asking if she wants to invite her

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01:30:44,080 --> 01:30:47,760
Speaker 5: boyfriend when we go on family outings, what I do

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01:30:47,880 --> 01:30:48,360
Speaker 5: with Sophia.

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01:30:48,800 --> 01:30:53,080
Speaker 2: Sophia will be like like like, Sophia will be like,

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01:30:53,360 --> 01:30:55,000
Speaker 2: my boyfriend is coming.

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Speaker 6: Okay, No, I don't say it like that. I said name.

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Speaker 6: People would be like, who is the So I'm like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 6: like my boyfriend.

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01:31:02,520 --> 01:31:05,840
Speaker 5: She's like, my boyfriend's coming. He just wanted to let

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01:31:05,960 --> 01:31:10,160
Speaker 5: everybody know, well, my boyfriend's going to be here, and.

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01:31:10,280 --> 01:31:14,040
Speaker 2: He's proper fit, and he's proper fit. She never actually

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01:31:14,200 --> 01:31:16,200
Speaker 2: dated him or is even friends with him, as far

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01:31:16,280 --> 01:31:19,759
Speaker 2: as I know. Her dad just likes to tease her anyway. Apparently,

1840
01:31:19,800 --> 01:31:21,960
Speaker 2: over the summer, the boy was injured in an accident

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01:31:22,200 --> 01:31:25,479
Speaker 2: and he missed. The boy and missed the first couple

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01:31:25,520 --> 01:31:27,920
Speaker 2: of weeks in school as a result. Well, my husband

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01:31:28,200 --> 01:31:30,960
Speaker 2: was picking her up. He saw them talking and notice

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01:31:31,439 --> 01:31:34,400
Speaker 2: the boy can't significant scarring on his face.

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Speaker 7: The boy is the shape of a lightning bolt. I

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01:31:40,360 --> 01:31:43,720
Speaker 7: knew it was Baltimore. I just didn't know it was

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01:31:44,200 --> 01:31:52,680
Speaker 7: the boy. The boy come to be un alive on

1848
01:31:52,800 --> 01:31:54,599
Speaker 7: his face in hand, sorry for the mixing.

1849
01:31:54,920 --> 01:31:57,320
Speaker 2: When he asked her what happened to him and what

1850
01:31:57,479 --> 01:31:59,919
Speaker 2: they were talking about, saying that the boy looked disappointed,

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01:32:00,320 --> 01:32:02,519
Speaker 2: she explained to him about his accident and that he

1852
01:32:02,720 --> 01:32:05,439
Speaker 2: was just asking her out a date, but that she

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01:32:05,600 --> 01:32:09,120
Speaker 2: turned him down. The boy that she was into.

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Speaker 5: You know, sometimes it happens whatever, you know, he asked her.

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01:32:12,520 --> 01:32:15,960
Speaker 5: She wasn't interested anymore. That's that's just what happens sometimes.

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01:32:18,600 --> 01:32:22,719
Speaker 2: To crop it put behind you. My husband was furious

1857
01:32:22,760 --> 01:32:25,280
Speaker 2: at her and scolded her for being so shallow as

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01:32:25,360 --> 01:32:28,400
Speaker 2: to reject him because his appearance has changed. Is that

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01:32:28,520 --> 01:32:29,360
Speaker 2: why you do it?

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Speaker 6: Pretty presumptuous, Pretty pretty presumptuous.

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Speaker 5: Well, at the timing does kind of line.

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Speaker 2: Up on that? Does She was all hot and bothered,

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01:32:36,560 --> 01:32:37,839
Speaker 2: and then she was bothered.

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Speaker 5: She's like, you've got a gross face now and you

1865
01:32:41,760 --> 01:32:43,600
Speaker 5: know what, you know what joke's on you because I

1866
01:32:43,680 --> 01:32:45,080
Speaker 5: bet it's gonna look really cool.

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Speaker 2: It looks so cool. Maybe you know, they might't even

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01:32:47,360 --> 01:32:50,360
Speaker 2: write a book about it. Maybeah, maybe seven and.

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01:32:50,800 --> 01:32:52,080
Speaker 4: Then maybe movies.

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01:32:52,200 --> 01:32:53,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what?

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01:32:53,800 --> 01:32:56,280
Speaker 5: Just really quick, can I say how upset I am

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01:32:56,400 --> 01:32:59,680
Speaker 5: that that that movie kind of started the trend of

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01:33:00,160 --> 01:33:02,639
Speaker 5: making the movies in part.

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Speaker 4: One, in part two, it definitely Harlow's Part one, Part two.

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01:33:05,760 --> 01:33:08,080
Speaker 4: I hate you. It's because I hate you for doing that.

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01:33:08,280 --> 01:33:10,960
Speaker 4: But we showed up, didn't we show up?

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01:33:11,040 --> 01:33:11,920
Speaker 6: I did see that movie.

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01:33:12,160 --> 01:33:19,439
Speaker 2: Sidney was crying when she got home. Sidney was crying

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01:33:19,520 --> 01:33:21,760
Speaker 2: when she got home and told me all this was

1880
01:33:21,880 --> 01:33:24,800
Speaker 2: insist and insisted. She was polite when she turned him

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01:33:24,840 --> 01:33:29,160
Speaker 2: down and was just not interested in him romantically anymore.

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Speaker 4: People change.

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Speaker 6: It's ridiculous for the father to be like, you have

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01:33:33,000 --> 01:33:35,160
Speaker 6: to like him, what he's.

1885
01:33:35,000 --> 01:33:37,559
Speaker 5: Like, I'm committed to this joke. You don't understand. I've

1886
01:33:37,600 --> 01:33:39,880
Speaker 5: got a really good thing going here with this joke.

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01:33:40,439 --> 01:33:42,760
Speaker 6: I think there's I think there's one thing where he

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01:33:42,840 --> 01:33:44,800
Speaker 6: could have a conversation with her and be like, hey,

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01:33:44,920 --> 01:33:46,760
Speaker 6: you know, we got to make sure that even if

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01:33:46,760 --> 01:33:49,800
Speaker 6: people look different, you know than what we still kiss.

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Speaker 5: Fact, no, we got to get totally spies. One has

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01:33:55,000 --> 01:33:57,840
Speaker 5: a great point. Is the reason that she rejected him

1893
01:33:58,160 --> 01:34:00,479
Speaker 5: or is it because of how much she's been teased?

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01:34:01,800 --> 01:34:04,280
Speaker 5: She got teased so much that wrapped back around. She's like,

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01:34:04,360 --> 01:34:06,160
Speaker 5: I don't even like him anymore because you've been teasing me.

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01:34:06,280 --> 01:34:07,680
Speaker 6: Well, yeah, I think, But I think there's a way

1897
01:34:07,720 --> 01:34:11,200
Speaker 6: to have that conversation where you address those things, but

1898
01:34:11,479 --> 01:34:14,200
Speaker 6: versus the father's like you have to like him, which

1899
01:34:14,280 --> 01:34:15,040
Speaker 6: is not the case.

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Speaker 2: Also, I feel like crushes in crush just going middle

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01:34:18,880 --> 01:34:21,599
Speaker 2: school in high school, like they're they're fleeting.

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01:34:21,760 --> 01:34:24,320
Speaker 6: You lose a crush because of the their hair.

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01:34:24,720 --> 01:34:25,919
Speaker 5: Yes, it's very ephemeral.

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01:34:26,080 --> 01:34:28,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, you know, summer break happens. You got

1905
01:34:28,640 --> 01:34:31,920
Speaker 2: to crush over the summer. Bam done. You know it's.

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01:34:33,320 --> 01:34:35,320
Speaker 4: I believe justin Timberlake made a Wholet song about that.

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01:34:35,760 --> 01:34:38,519
Speaker 2: I told my husband to apologize to my daughter and

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01:34:38,680 --> 01:34:41,200
Speaker 2: that he never should have made her feel bad for

1909
01:34:41,320 --> 01:34:44,320
Speaker 2: turning down anyone's romantic advances. I told him that our

1910
01:34:44,439 --> 01:34:46,600
Speaker 2: daughter is old enough to decide who she is attracted to,

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01:34:47,040 --> 01:34:49,760
Speaker 2: and it would be cruel to have her say yes

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01:34:49,960 --> 01:34:54,240
Speaker 2: at a pity, thus leading him on. My husband is

1913
01:34:54,280 --> 01:34:56,240
Speaker 2: now saying that he sees me differently and that I

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01:34:56,320 --> 01:34:59,479
Speaker 2: should be ashamed for teaching Cindy to be a shallow

1915
01:35:00,400 --> 01:35:05,840
Speaker 2: monster and an ablest. That feels a little bit, a

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01:35:05,880 --> 01:35:09,040
Speaker 2: little bit much. He's also angry, Well, question, do you

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01:35:09,160 --> 01:35:13,320
Speaker 2: think I hope he's daughter is an ablest? Let us

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Speaker 2: know in the commons.

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01:35:15,760 --> 01:35:17,960
Speaker 5: I was waiting to see what you were going to say, Sophia,

1920
01:35:18,080 --> 01:35:19,000
Speaker 5: and that was a good one.

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01:35:21,080 --> 01:35:25,080
Speaker 4: Somebody asked where y'all found me? A box outside?

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01:35:25,120 --> 01:35:25,439
Speaker 5: On to.

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01:35:28,160 --> 01:35:34,200
Speaker 2: That said, he was always you're a wizard, Harry, You're

1924
01:35:34,240 --> 01:35:40,040
Speaker 2: a hairy wizard. We're gonna take you to the waxing.

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01:35:42,520 --> 01:35:45,799
Speaker 5: Becoming freaking delusional, I'm going to start crying.

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01:35:47,439 --> 01:35:50,240
Speaker 2: He's also angry that I undermined him when he was

1927
01:35:50,280 --> 01:35:52,960
Speaker 2: scolding our daughter and says that we should not undermine

1928
01:35:53,000 --> 01:35:56,280
Speaker 2: each other's authority when disciplining our child. I was not

1929
01:35:56,400 --> 01:35:58,320
Speaker 2: doing it to undermine him. I just think it's not

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01:35:58,479 --> 01:36:01,160
Speaker 2: healthy to make our daughter feel guilty and ashamed for

1931
01:36:01,320 --> 01:36:04,920
Speaker 2: not being interested in someone. I do feel bad for

1932
01:36:05,880 --> 01:36:08,920
Speaker 2: the boy, but I don't think it is anyone's place

1933
01:36:09,360 --> 01:36:11,920
Speaker 2: Neither mine, nor my husband's to tell Cindy she has

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01:36:11,960 --> 01:36:15,200
Speaker 2: to date someone or she's a bad person. So am

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01:36:15,520 --> 01:36:19,639
Speaker 2: I the a hole question? If someone gets a scar

1936
01:36:19,760 --> 01:36:21,599
Speaker 2: in their forehead and you don't want to date them

1937
01:36:21,640 --> 01:36:23,519
Speaker 2: for that reason, not saying that's what Cindy's doing, But

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01:36:23,640 --> 01:36:25,840
Speaker 2: in an alternative universe, are you the a hole?

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01:36:26,800 --> 01:36:29,960
Speaker 5: I guess it depends on you, know, how you were

1940
01:36:30,000 --> 01:36:34,000
Speaker 5: feeling before the scar, sort of how old you are, Like,

1941
01:36:34,160 --> 01:36:37,800
Speaker 5: if you're a full grown individual, then your care and

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01:36:38,280 --> 01:36:41,600
Speaker 5: attraction for someone who is completely erased just because of

1943
01:36:41,640 --> 01:36:45,080
Speaker 5: a scar on their head. I don't think that you

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01:36:45,200 --> 01:36:48,000
Speaker 5: ever really cared for that person, did you? You did,

1945
01:36:48,320 --> 01:36:51,000
Speaker 5: if just one little scar in the shape of perhaps

1946
01:36:51,040 --> 01:36:51,679
Speaker 5: a lightning bulk.

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01:36:51,760 --> 01:36:55,280
Speaker 6: But I also think that there's a difference between crushes

1948
01:36:55,439 --> 01:37:01,040
Speaker 6: and love. Crushes are ephemeral. Love is that long lasting?

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01:37:01,160 --> 01:37:03,559
Speaker 5: Excuse me? Did you just take my vocabulary word?

1950
01:37:03,760 --> 01:37:07,439
Speaker 6: No, I've been using that ever since Sam told me

1951
01:37:07,600 --> 01:37:08,160
Speaker 6: about it.

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01:37:08,320 --> 01:37:12,360
Speaker 5: Really, I'll tell you about ephemeral Okay, all right? You

1953
01:37:12,400 --> 01:37:14,920
Speaker 5: know not everyone femoral is a word that not everyone

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01:37:15,000 --> 01:37:18,360
Speaker 5: knows what it means. It's sort of like perphemeral.

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01:37:20,640 --> 01:37:25,439
Speaker 6: Vocabulary have a big vocabulary I'm sorry. I'm a literature maker.

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01:37:25,680 --> 01:37:29,759
Speaker 5: I'm sorry. I just did was It just was convenient

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01:37:29,840 --> 01:37:31,960
Speaker 5: the way that you'd said it right after I said it.

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01:37:32,080 --> 01:37:34,240
Speaker 4: Basically, you say so.

1959
01:37:34,320 --> 01:37:36,120
Speaker 5: Now you're admitting that you don't listen to me.

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01:37:36,400 --> 01:37:37,760
Speaker 4: Yes, you're a man.

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01:37:38,760 --> 01:37:43,800
Speaker 5: Okay, that's a little offensive. Yeah, that's little definition of

1962
01:37:44,080 --> 01:37:44,880
Speaker 5: your sexism.

1963
01:37:45,040 --> 01:37:48,960
Speaker 6: Miss it's not sexism if it's after your sexism.

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01:37:49,640 --> 01:37:50,559
Speaker 4: Right, was.

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Speaker 2: Cancel one?

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01:37:53,240 --> 01:37:55,600
Speaker 5: I was just using detective work, and I assumed that

1967
01:37:55,720 --> 01:37:59,080
Speaker 5: you just were copying me, because it's not that I

1968
01:37:59,120 --> 01:38:01,400
Speaker 5: didn't think you knew what it meant. It's just I

1969
01:38:01,479 --> 01:38:03,920
Speaker 5: thought you said it because it was fresh on your mind.

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01:38:05,600 --> 01:38:07,280
Speaker 5: Come on, people, edit.

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01:38:08,760 --> 01:38:12,240
Speaker 2: Wow, I did not anticipate this getting so many responses

1972
01:38:12,320 --> 01:38:14,599
Speaker 2: when I wrote it last night before bed. I'm trying

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01:38:14,640 --> 01:38:16,880
Speaker 2: to read through all the replies so I can approach

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01:38:16,920 --> 01:38:20,000
Speaker 2: this with my husband again later today. I'm also going

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01:38:20,040 --> 01:38:23,439
Speaker 2: to have the talk privately with Cindy about the situation.

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01:38:24,439 --> 01:38:26,760
Speaker 2: Thank you so much for all your responses. I feel

1977
01:38:26,800 --> 01:38:30,160
Speaker 2: more confident now in my choice to defend Cindy. Also,

1978
01:38:30,680 --> 01:38:33,240
Speaker 2: my husband is not a bad guy. I don't know

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01:38:33,280 --> 01:38:35,760
Speaker 2: what that means. Maybe it means a bad guy.

1980
01:38:36,680 --> 01:38:39,479
Speaker 5: He's not a bad So you know what, maybe these

1981
01:38:39,479 --> 01:38:41,559
Speaker 5: people are British because if you say, if you say

1982
01:38:41,720 --> 01:38:44,960
Speaker 5: bad guy in a British accent, it sounds exactly like

1983
01:38:45,120 --> 01:38:52,720
Speaker 5: bad guy. He's not. He's not a bad guy. But

1984
01:38:57,320 --> 01:39:00,439
Speaker 5: that's a tad crazy in it, tad a little bit

1985
01:39:01,320 --> 01:39:05,080
Speaker 5: we know. Okay, yes, so my husband is not a

1986
01:39:05,160 --> 01:39:08,280
Speaker 5: bad guy. He didn't tease Sydney to hear her. It

1987
01:39:08,479 --> 01:39:10,560
Speaker 5: was to be playful, and Sydney didn't seem to be

1988
01:39:10,640 --> 01:39:13,479
Speaker 5: watch bothered by it. She would usually brush him off

1989
01:39:13,560 --> 01:39:15,720
Speaker 5: when he made those jokes. I think my husband was

1990
01:39:15,760 --> 01:39:18,519
Speaker 5: just short sighted when it came to this situation. But

1991
01:39:18,640 --> 01:39:21,600
Speaker 5: he is not a bad father. He really loves me

1992
01:39:22,040 --> 01:39:24,439
Speaker 5: and his daughter, even if he makes mistakes.

1993
01:39:24,520 --> 01:39:27,240
Speaker 6: Sometimes you were jumping all over the UK.

1994
01:39:28,200 --> 01:39:31,360
Speaker 2: Everybody makes Everybody is jumping over the UK.

1995
01:39:31,960 --> 01:39:34,280
Speaker 4: Everybody has those days, everybody.

1996
01:39:34,560 --> 01:39:38,760
Speaker 6: Every Okay, I.

1997
01:39:38,800 --> 01:39:40,360
Speaker 4: Don't know the rest of the words of that song.

1998
01:39:41,479 --> 01:39:42,240
Speaker 2: You make him up.

1999
01:39:42,320 --> 01:39:46,479
Speaker 5: Everybody got to work because you know I'm working again

2000
01:39:46,640 --> 01:39:48,160
Speaker 5: and again and again.

2001
01:39:48,280 --> 01:39:51,559
Speaker 2: We have an update. Okay, we have a big update.

2002
01:39:51,560 --> 01:39:53,839
Speaker 2: Before we get to the update, we had some comments

2003
01:39:53,880 --> 01:39:58,720
Speaker 2: so Nerdie Swamp which says just because Sydney may or

2004
01:39:58,800 --> 01:40:01,800
Speaker 2: may not have had a crush on this boy last year,

2005
01:40:01,840 --> 01:40:04,360
Speaker 2: doesn't mean she always would, especially after not being around

2006
01:40:04,439 --> 01:40:07,920
Speaker 2: him all summer. Your husband made a massive leap, assuming

2007
01:40:08,000 --> 01:40:10,760
Speaker 2: the only reason Cindy isn't interested in anyone is the

2008
01:40:10,880 --> 01:40:15,800
Speaker 2: boys scarring. He didn't talk to her, he jumped on

2009
01:40:15,920 --> 01:40:19,880
Speaker 2: her and pushed an unfortunate narrative that Cindy owed this

2010
01:40:20,040 --> 01:40:23,000
Speaker 2: boy her attention. She does not. You need to point

2011
01:40:23,040 --> 01:40:26,080
Speaker 2: out to your husband that what is ablest is insisting

2012
01:40:26,160 --> 01:40:28,960
Speaker 2: that Cindy date a boy purely because he has now

2013
01:40:29,200 --> 01:40:31,840
Speaker 2: had scarring and she can't turn him down because he

2014
01:40:31,960 --> 01:40:35,040
Speaker 2: deserves He deserves it to make up for what happened

2015
01:40:35,080 --> 01:40:38,440
Speaker 2: to him. That's a gross way to look at disability.

2016
01:40:38,920 --> 01:40:41,639
Speaker 2: If he concerned, if he has concerns about Cindy judging

2017
01:40:41,720 --> 01:40:44,880
Speaker 2: only on appearances, he could have a calm and recent

2018
01:40:44,960 --> 01:40:46,840
Speaker 2: conversation with her. He chose not to.

2019
01:40:47,400 --> 01:40:48,720
Speaker 4: That is on him.

2020
01:40:49,280 --> 01:40:50,920
Speaker 2: And there's an update one day later. But what do

2021
01:40:50,960 --> 01:40:51,800
Speaker 2: you think about that comment?

2022
01:40:51,920 --> 01:40:53,640
Speaker 4: No, I think that was pretty much right on the

2023
01:40:53,680 --> 01:40:54,200
Speaker 4: money light.

2024
01:40:56,200 --> 01:41:01,160
Speaker 5: Here is that the husband had absent no tact in

2025
01:41:01,680 --> 01:41:05,400
Speaker 5: the way he approached the daughter's you know, a lack

2026
01:41:05,479 --> 01:41:07,960
Speaker 5: of attraction to this point. Why is he so invested

2027
01:41:08,000 --> 01:41:10,160
Speaker 5: in this? I think it's just because of the joke.

2028
01:41:11,600 --> 01:41:12,680
Speaker 5: Now I'm going to have to come up with a

2029
01:41:12,720 --> 01:41:14,920
Speaker 5: new joke. You know how long it took me to

2030
01:41:14,960 --> 01:41:17,760
Speaker 5: come up with K I S S I N G. Yeah,

2031
01:41:18,600 --> 01:41:22,360
Speaker 5: I think that since I was a child, I trademarked it. No,

2032
01:41:22,560 --> 01:41:25,160
Speaker 5: but for real, it's actually genuinely concerning that he feels

2033
01:41:25,320 --> 01:41:27,680
Speaker 5: it's in his right or that he's in the right

2034
01:41:27,760 --> 01:41:30,040
Speaker 5: place in the way that he approached that. Because it's

2035
01:41:30,240 --> 01:41:33,240
Speaker 5: it could be damaging, it could damage your self worth.

2036
01:41:33,720 --> 01:41:36,519
Speaker 5: What if she didn't actually think that at all, and

2037
01:41:36,640 --> 01:41:40,960
Speaker 5: now because of him, he's gaslighted her into believing, Oh

2038
01:41:41,000 --> 01:41:42,880
Speaker 5: my god, am I a bad person? I don't like

2039
01:41:42,960 --> 01:41:44,280
Speaker 5: this guy because he's scarred?

2040
01:41:45,040 --> 01:41:48,000
Speaker 4: Am I shallow? And it's it would be she just

2041
01:41:48,160 --> 01:41:51,599
Speaker 4: starts dating guys they have scars and yeah, and then

2042
01:41:51,640 --> 01:41:53,200
Speaker 4: she's and then it's a new kink and then she

2043
01:41:53,320 --> 01:41:57,280
Speaker 4: has to face Lord Voldemort. And no one wants to

2044
01:41:57,320 --> 01:42:00,200
Speaker 4: put the child in that kind of dangerous situation. He's

2045
01:42:00,240 --> 01:42:00,920
Speaker 4: a bit nasty.

2046
01:42:01,160 --> 01:42:01,960
Speaker 2: He's a bit nasty.

2047
01:42:02,040 --> 01:42:02,400
Speaker 5: The Lord.

2048
01:42:02,800 --> 01:42:06,719
Speaker 2: The talk load that has a great headline, The dok Load.

2049
01:42:07,560 --> 01:42:09,400
Speaker 2: But we have an update one day later, So.

2050
01:42:09,880 --> 01:42:10,840
Speaker 5: You are going great.

2051
01:42:11,000 --> 01:42:11,639
Speaker 4: Hi everyone.

2052
01:42:11,880 --> 01:42:14,000
Speaker 2: I got a lot of responses yesterday and I thought

2053
01:42:14,040 --> 01:42:16,600
Speaker 2: I should update on what happened since I posted. I

2054
01:42:16,680 --> 01:42:19,040
Speaker 2: wanted to address some things first that I saw in

2055
01:42:19,040 --> 01:42:23,120
Speaker 2: the replies. Many comments were either implying or outright saying

2056
01:42:23,200 --> 01:42:26,040
Speaker 2: that if my daughter's reasons for turning down the boy,

2057
01:42:26,439 --> 01:42:28,160
Speaker 2: I'll call him Sam for this post.

2058
01:42:28,400 --> 01:42:29,559
Speaker 4: Boy, you're the boy.

2059
01:42:30,240 --> 01:42:32,200
Speaker 5: He's the boy who's.

2060
01:42:32,000 --> 01:42:36,839
Speaker 2: Living through the story in these accidents were primarily because

2061
01:42:37,040 --> 01:42:39,840
Speaker 2: of the change in appearance after his accident. Then that

2062
01:42:39,920 --> 01:42:42,080
Speaker 2: would mean my husband was right that she was a

2063
01:42:42,160 --> 01:42:44,800
Speaker 2: shallow monster and I was enabling her. That didn't sit

2064
01:42:44,920 --> 01:42:47,559
Speaker 2: right with me and hurt to hear. But people also

2065
01:42:47,680 --> 01:42:50,000
Speaker 2: pointed out that if the roles were diversed and it

2066
01:42:50,200 --> 01:42:52,760
Speaker 2: was my daughter whose appearance had changed and when and

2067
01:42:52,840 --> 01:42:55,720
Speaker 2: then was rejected by a boy, I would probably be

2068
01:42:55,880 --> 01:42:59,040
Speaker 2: livid at that boy, right, Probably not. These comments stuck

2069
01:42:59,120 --> 01:43:01,479
Speaker 2: with me and made me think more deeply about this

2070
01:43:01,560 --> 01:43:04,840
Speaker 2: whole situation, and I'm really glad I was asked these

2071
01:43:04,920 --> 01:43:08,240
Speaker 2: things because it made me realize what lessons I wanted

2072
01:43:08,240 --> 01:43:10,960
Speaker 2: my daughter to get from the situation. Okay, I realized

2073
01:43:10,960 --> 01:43:12,600
Speaker 2: that although I would be upset if this happened to

2074
01:43:12,640 --> 01:43:15,400
Speaker 2: my daughter. I would not be upset at someone for

2075
01:43:15,560 --> 01:43:18,679
Speaker 2: rejecting her, so long as they treat her with respect

2076
01:43:19,320 --> 01:43:21,120
Speaker 2: and dignity. That's pretty good.

2077
01:43:21,560 --> 01:43:22,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's all about respect.

2078
01:43:23,080 --> 01:43:26,000
Speaker 2: I would be upset at the unfair situation she was

2079
01:43:26,040 --> 01:43:28,439
Speaker 2: put in, but I would never expect some random person

2080
01:43:28,680 --> 01:43:32,479
Speaker 2: to make it their mission to rectify this injustice at

2081
01:43:32,520 --> 01:43:35,400
Speaker 2: the expect of their own autonomy. I would, in staid,

2082
01:43:35,520 --> 01:43:37,880
Speaker 2: comfort my daughter and explain to her that people are

2083
01:43:37,960 --> 01:43:40,880
Speaker 2: like puzzle pieces, not all of them fit together, and

2084
01:43:41,200 --> 01:43:44,040
Speaker 2: that just because a boy she liked wasn't her puzzle

2085
01:43:44,120 --> 01:43:47,800
Speaker 2: piece does not make her any less valuable or beautiful,

2086
01:43:48,200 --> 01:43:50,479
Speaker 2: and one day she might find someone who does fit

2087
01:43:50,560 --> 01:43:52,879
Speaker 2: with her. Well, you know, Sad's parenting.

2088
01:43:53,160 --> 01:43:54,760
Speaker 4: That's a perfect way to go about that.

2089
01:43:55,120 --> 01:43:59,080
Speaker 5: That's cute, and you should have probably taken points on

2090
01:43:59,200 --> 01:44:01,840
Speaker 5: this instead of in the husband.

2091
01:44:02,000 --> 01:44:06,080
Speaker 2: Basically, I think the husband was like in his heart

2092
01:44:06,240 --> 01:44:08,000
Speaker 2: was in the right place. He was trying to have

2093
01:44:08,040 --> 01:44:10,439
Speaker 2: a good lesson, but maybe also he was just trying

2094
01:44:10,479 --> 01:44:11,000
Speaker 2: to extend it.

2095
01:44:11,080 --> 01:44:12,719
Speaker 4: No, it felt like his heart was in the wrong place.

2096
01:44:13,120 --> 01:44:15,720
Speaker 5: I think he was his heart was in him was

2097
01:44:16,000 --> 01:44:17,960
Speaker 5: he was he was thinking as if he was the

2098
01:44:18,040 --> 01:44:20,880
Speaker 5: boy and he just got u rejected, he probably won't.

2099
01:44:20,920 --> 01:44:22,960
Speaker 5: So if he had taken a step outside of himself,

2100
01:44:23,360 --> 01:44:24,719
Speaker 5: maybe he would have been able to do better.

2101
01:44:24,840 --> 01:44:26,559
Speaker 2: Do you think he has a scar on his forehead too?

2102
01:44:26,800 --> 01:44:28,120
Speaker 4: Maybe maybe he's scarred.

2103
01:44:28,400 --> 01:44:31,160
Speaker 2: Maybe he is. Maybe that's why he was so rejected.

2104
01:44:31,560 --> 01:44:33,000
Speaker 5: Maybe that secretly.

2105
01:44:34,360 --> 01:44:35,960
Speaker 4: Is okay, we'll be moving on from that.

2106
01:44:37,360 --> 01:44:37,519
Speaker 6: Oh.

2107
01:44:38,520 --> 01:44:41,040
Speaker 2: But the lesson I wanted my daughter to learn from

2108
01:44:41,080 --> 01:44:44,560
Speaker 2: this was that she was not shallow for rejecting someone romantically,

2109
01:44:45,000 --> 01:44:48,240
Speaker 2: regardless of the reason, even if it was physical. That

2110
01:44:48,400 --> 01:44:53,320
Speaker 2: everyone is owed human decency and respect, but not romantic affection.

2111
01:44:53,680 --> 01:44:56,439
Speaker 2: Denying someone equal respect and dignity because of their appearance

2112
01:44:56,439 --> 01:44:58,799
Speaker 2: would be shallow, But she did not do that. Romantic

2113
01:44:58,840 --> 01:45:02,360
Speaker 2: affection is not a co to be distributed. It belonged

2114
01:45:02,479 --> 01:45:04,920
Speaker 2: to her, and she is not obligated to be fair

2115
01:45:05,439 --> 01:45:07,439
Speaker 2: when it comes to what she wants or who she

2116
01:45:07,520 --> 01:45:10,040
Speaker 2: wants to share it with. It belonged to her and

2117
01:45:10,120 --> 01:45:12,439
Speaker 2: her alone, and it's the privilege she gets to bestow

2118
01:45:12,520 --> 01:45:16,719
Speaker 2: on someone she likes and who treats her. Well. That's great,

2119
01:45:17,520 --> 01:45:20,720
Speaker 2: that's great. I love how Op is talking about this.

2120
01:45:20,880 --> 01:45:22,960
Speaker 4: Yes, I hope the doorso gout to hear all of this.

2121
01:45:23,400 --> 01:45:26,679
Speaker 2: I think she I think she hear it. Yeah, I think, well,

2122
01:45:27,200 --> 01:45:29,200
Speaker 2: I guess yeah, I guess this is the lesson that

2123
01:45:29,240 --> 01:45:32,760
Speaker 2: she wants to extend to her daughter. I don't think

2124
01:45:32,800 --> 01:45:37,320
Speaker 2: it's been said yet, but a lot of the comments

2125
01:45:37,400 --> 01:45:39,639
Speaker 2: really made me realize how important it is for Sidney

2126
01:45:39,720 --> 01:45:42,479
Speaker 2: to feel like her consent matters, because what could start

2127
01:45:42,800 --> 01:45:44,639
Speaker 2: with just going on a date that she doesn't want

2128
01:45:44,640 --> 01:45:47,640
Speaker 2: to go on could escalate into her being pressured or

2129
01:45:47,760 --> 01:45:52,680
Speaker 2: coerced into dangerous and traumatizing situations or abusive relationships. That's

2130
01:45:52,680 --> 01:45:54,800
Speaker 2: a good point. Yeah, thank you so much to the

2131
01:45:54,840 --> 01:45:57,880
Speaker 2: commentors who share their stories which helped me realize how

2132
01:45:57,920 --> 01:46:02,080
Speaker 2: important this is. Some people claim that I would likely

2133
01:46:02,320 --> 01:46:05,759
Speaker 2: leave my husband if his appearance changed Reddit.

2134
01:46:06,120 --> 01:46:08,240
Speaker 5: What are you doing people on the internet? They just

2135
01:46:08,400 --> 01:46:10,759
Speaker 5: go for the nuclear options so quick.

2136
01:46:11,160 --> 01:46:13,320
Speaker 2: But sorry to disappoint you guys, because I would ever

2137
01:46:13,400 --> 01:46:15,160
Speaker 2: do such a thing. I love my husband so much.

2138
01:46:15,320 --> 01:46:17,760
Speaker 2: My relationship with him is stronger than just dating or

2139
01:46:17,800 --> 01:46:20,360
Speaker 2: a crush. We built a life together, and his appearance

2140
01:46:20,479 --> 01:46:23,040
Speaker 2: changing would not change that. We've been married for long

2141
01:46:23,120 --> 01:46:25,200
Speaker 2: enough that my attraction to him and love for him

2142
01:46:25,280 --> 01:46:28,400
Speaker 2: now goes far deeper than looks. Maybe it would be

2143
01:46:28,400 --> 01:46:30,960
Speaker 2: a different story if we were just really ugly barely

2144
01:46:31,040 --> 01:46:31,519
Speaker 2: knew each other.

2145
01:46:31,760 --> 01:46:37,040
Speaker 5: Have you My husband looks like the bottom of a

2146
01:46:37,160 --> 01:46:42,320
Speaker 5: chewed up a chewed up boot, But you know what, bit,

2147
01:46:42,840 --> 01:46:45,360
Speaker 5: even though he looks like a dirty glash.

2148
01:46:47,000 --> 01:46:49,400
Speaker 2: Maybe it would be a different story if we were

2149
01:46:49,560 --> 01:46:52,040
Speaker 2: just dating and barely knew each other. But things change

2150
01:46:52,160 --> 01:46:54,639
Speaker 2: once you make vows to each other to stick together

2151
01:46:54,880 --> 01:46:59,320
Speaker 2: in sickness and in health, in prettiness and boot galage.

2152
01:47:01,479 --> 01:47:04,000
Speaker 2: Many people are claiming that my husband is a monster

2153
01:47:04,080 --> 01:47:06,759
Speaker 2: and abusive. It may seem that way if you only

2154
01:47:07,000 --> 01:47:09,599
Speaker 2: know this one thing, about this one situation, But he's

2155
01:47:09,640 --> 01:47:12,559
Speaker 2: a full human being. He does more for his family

2156
01:47:12,720 --> 01:47:15,000
Speaker 2: every day than I could ever express in one post.

2157
01:47:15,360 --> 01:47:19,120
Speaker 2: He has issues with anger in that he often says

2158
01:47:19,200 --> 01:47:22,519
Speaker 2: things he regrets during fights, but when he cools off,

2159
01:47:22,600 --> 01:47:25,800
Speaker 2: he's always open to listening and communication. I know now

2160
01:47:26,000 --> 01:47:29,160
Speaker 2: how damaging his teasing of Cindy about Sam was last year,

2161
01:47:29,439 --> 01:47:31,800
Speaker 2: and I will make sure that does not happen again.

2162
01:47:32,160 --> 01:47:34,240
Speaker 2: But I assure you all that this is something he

2163
01:47:34,320 --> 01:47:38,760
Speaker 2: has done out of ignorance and not malice. He loves

2164
01:47:38,800 --> 01:47:42,120
Speaker 2: Cindy debits and he would never intentionally do something to

2165
01:47:42,240 --> 01:47:46,360
Speaker 2: harm her. That's great. Okay, on to what happened yesterday.

2166
01:47:46,800 --> 01:47:49,960
Speaker 2: Husband woke up and left the house early, but I

2167
01:47:49,960 --> 01:47:51,240
Speaker 2: didn't get a chance to talk to him. So I

2168
01:47:51,320 --> 01:47:54,000
Speaker 2: think we're going into the resolution. I think we're getting

2169
01:47:54,000 --> 01:47:56,760
Speaker 2: a little bit of the with the what.

2170
01:48:00,040 --> 01:48:00,599
Speaker 6: Falling action?

2171
01:48:01,320 --> 01:48:03,000
Speaker 2: Oh is that French?

2172
01:48:03,800 --> 01:48:05,400
Speaker 4: I think that's a cinematic term.

2173
01:48:06,640 --> 01:48:08,960
Speaker 2: Yes, I never heard that term.

2174
01:48:09,360 --> 01:48:12,720
Speaker 6: It's a term for stories new things every day, a

2175
01:48:13,240 --> 01:48:15,000
Speaker 6: sort of story, part of the story.

2176
01:48:15,200 --> 01:48:17,559
Speaker 2: Also, Hannah tipped us five bucks. I love you guys,

2177
01:48:17,640 --> 01:48:20,120
Speaker 2: been listening for four plus months. Your whole also nice

2178
01:48:20,160 --> 01:48:22,640
Speaker 2: and funny. All hail the worm Queen, love all the

2179
01:48:22,680 --> 01:48:24,240
Speaker 2: new family, great accents today.

2180
01:48:24,360 --> 01:48:25,559
Speaker 4: Oh, thank you so much.

2181
01:48:26,160 --> 01:48:31,439
Speaker 2: I'm very appreciative. But please stop. Please are ruining this man.

2182
01:48:31,640 --> 01:48:32,439
Speaker 2: We want to go to bed.

2183
01:48:33,120 --> 01:48:34,400
Speaker 4: I want to stay here forever.

2184
01:48:34,760 --> 01:48:35,720
Speaker 6: Do you exposition?

2185
01:48:36,240 --> 01:48:38,560
Speaker 5: Just lock me in this room and give me a

2186
01:48:38,640 --> 01:48:39,400
Speaker 5: little hamstab.

2187
01:48:40,040 --> 01:48:42,960
Speaker 2: Well, when Sydney woke up, I made sure she was

2188
01:48:43,000 --> 01:48:45,160
Speaker 2: okay and told her I wanted to talk to her

2189
01:48:45,280 --> 01:48:48,000
Speaker 2: about what happened the day before. Her friend's mom gave

2190
01:48:48,040 --> 01:48:50,479
Speaker 2: her a ride home and she got here before my

2191
01:48:50,640 --> 01:48:53,040
Speaker 2: husband did, so we were able to have a heart

2192
01:48:53,080 --> 01:48:55,640
Speaker 2: to heart. I told her that she doesn't need to

2193
01:48:55,800 --> 01:49:00,400
Speaker 2: explain to me or to anyone why she change her

2194
01:49:00,400 --> 01:49:02,760
Speaker 2: mind about Sam, and I explained to her all the

2195
01:49:02,840 --> 01:49:05,519
Speaker 2: things I mentioned above, that Sam was going through something

2196
01:49:05,680 --> 01:49:08,120
Speaker 2: very hard and she should be kind to him, but

2197
01:49:08,280 --> 01:49:10,720
Speaker 2: she does not owe him a date if she is

2198
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Speaker 2: not interested in him romantically, that she isn't shallow and

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Speaker 2: she should never feel pressured to do something with someone

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Speaker 2: she doesn't want to, and that her dad was upset

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Speaker 2: and said things he didn't mean even so he still

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01:49:23,960 --> 01:49:27,439
Speaker 2: loves her and so do I. This is this is

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01:49:27,600 --> 01:49:28,639
Speaker 2: top tier parenting.

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Speaker 4: This is really really just make him a heart?

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01:49:31,840 --> 01:49:32,040
Speaker 5: Sing?

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Speaker 2: I like it. What does it sound like when we're octave?

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Speaker 4: Yes, Sophia, sounds like you know, it sounds like it

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01:49:52,200 --> 01:49:53,240
Speaker 4: sounds like George Michael.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, going.

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Speaker 4: Exactly. I would never even dis respect George Michael by

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01:50:01,240 --> 01:50:02,400
Speaker 4: trying to sing his songs.

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Speaker 6: Oh, Riley Riley donated five dollars.

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Speaker 4: Riley Riley, are you trying to some sort of what now?

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01:50:12,040 --> 01:50:15,200
Speaker 5: One hundred and fifty away from another fifteen minutes?

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01:50:15,680 --> 01:50:16,599
Speaker 2: Look at that headshot?

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Speaker 6: Someone pay Riley five dollars is back, give him his

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01:50:21,160 --> 01:50:21,639
Speaker 6: money back.

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Speaker 5: Riley, stop, just Riley, give me five dollars.

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01:50:25,800 --> 01:50:28,080
Speaker 2: Even so, he still loves her, and so do I.

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01:50:28,320 --> 01:50:30,160
Speaker 2: She was starting to cry, so I held her for

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01:50:30,200 --> 01:50:32,960
Speaker 2: a while. She told me she was upset more than anything,

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Speaker 2: that her dad thinks of her as a bad person. Oh,

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01:50:37,439 --> 01:50:39,840
Speaker 2: this broke my heart, and so I told her I

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01:50:40,200 --> 01:50:43,479
Speaker 2: would talk to dad about this when he gets home.

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01:50:44,080 --> 01:50:46,679
Speaker 2: When my husband got home, I told him we needed

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01:50:46,680 --> 01:50:51,280
Speaker 2: to talk about yesterday. I told him he didn't. He

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01:50:51,360 --> 01:50:53,920
Speaker 2: didn't want to at first, but I insisted, and I

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01:50:54,080 --> 01:50:57,120
Speaker 2: told him it was because and it was about Cidey's

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01:50:57,120 --> 01:50:59,519
Speaker 2: well being. And she was still upset about it, and

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Speaker 2: even thinks that her own father thinks she is a

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Speaker 2: bad person.

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Speaker 5: Oh see, that's exactly what I was talking about. He

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01:51:06,040 --> 01:51:08,240
Speaker 5: gas lit her into thinking she's a bad person.

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Speaker 2: We don't want to do that, Yeah, and unwarranted. Also,

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01:51:12,880 --> 01:51:14,680
Speaker 2: why is Dacota so big? I'm a.

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Speaker 5: Well, that's because I'm a big guy and you little man.

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01:51:22,720 --> 01:51:26,439
Speaker 2: This upset him, and of course he didn't think that.

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Speaker 2: I basically explained to him my thoughts above, and although

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01:51:30,160 --> 01:51:33,240
Speaker 2: he was a bit resistant at first, insisted that he

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Speaker 2: just didn't want Cindy to become a shallow person. He

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Speaker 2: really listened.

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Speaker 5: Riley, We're going to a movie, Riley stopping not anymore fifteen.

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01:51:44,920 --> 01:51:47,240
Speaker 6: In the movie. It's only affecting you. Riley.

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01:51:47,520 --> 01:51:50,200
Speaker 2: We is Riley still here?

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01:51:50,680 --> 01:51:51,800
Speaker 5: I don't know the idea.

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01:51:51,920 --> 01:51:52,600
Speaker 2: No, I don't think so.

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Speaker 5: I think.

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01:51:54,640 --> 01:51:55,200
Speaker 4: Basketball.

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Speaker 2: Is he donating through the tipling?

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Speaker 5: I don't freaking He's not even donating through the tippling.

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Speaker 4: Hey disrespect, all right?

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01:52:03,760 --> 01:52:06,240
Speaker 2: So he really listened when I explained to him how

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01:52:06,320 --> 01:52:09,680
Speaker 2: people might take advantage of her if the future, in

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01:52:09,720 --> 01:52:12,240
Speaker 2: the future, if she starts to feel like her consent

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Speaker 2: and her desires don't matter. I didn't show him the

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Speaker 2: post I made, but I wrote down some of the

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01:52:18,479 --> 01:52:21,160
Speaker 2: comments and stories and told them to him. I told

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01:52:21,280 --> 01:52:23,960
Speaker 2: him they were stories I found on Reddit from people

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01:52:24,040 --> 01:52:28,360
Speaker 2: who were experiencing or had experienced something similar. I didn't

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01:52:28,360 --> 01:52:31,000
Speaker 2: show him my post because so many comments were unfairly

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01:52:31,080 --> 01:52:33,080
Speaker 2: painting him as a monster, and I was worried it

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01:52:33,080 --> 01:52:35,120
Speaker 2: would make him defensive. Yeah. I think Reddit has a

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01:52:35,200 --> 01:52:38,360
Speaker 2: tendency to just like over just say.

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Speaker 4: They go nuclear, go nuclear, all the time, they go nuclear.

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01:52:41,640 --> 01:52:44,280
Speaker 2: Get it. I think it broke through to him because

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01:52:44,320 --> 01:52:46,479
Speaker 2: he was really upset at the thought of our daughter

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01:52:46,920 --> 01:52:50,080
Speaker 2: one day being manipulated into staying with someone who was

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01:52:50,240 --> 01:52:54,160
Speaker 2: hurting her, which is not something anyone wants. He went

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Speaker 2: to talk to her privately in her room while I

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01:52:57,520 --> 01:53:00,640
Speaker 2: prepared dinner, and afterwards she seemed a lot happier and

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01:53:00,840 --> 01:53:04,880
Speaker 2: was joking around with their dad. Again, the bit is reinstated.

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01:53:05,360 --> 01:53:08,640
Speaker 2: It's going well, going well once again. Here we go

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01:53:09,520 --> 01:53:13,280
Speaker 2: today they're both planning and going bowling together. Also, there

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01:53:13,400 --> 01:53:18,160
Speaker 2: are some comments. Don't read those. Why not?

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01:53:19,360 --> 01:53:21,280
Speaker 4: They're not relevant of completely irrelevant.

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01:53:21,640 --> 01:53:22,720
Speaker 6: I have some donations.

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01:53:22,840 --> 01:53:25,559
Speaker 2: That's true, the stories and for motivating me to stick

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01:53:25,560 --> 01:53:28,679
Speaker 2: to my decision. Thank you everyone for the advice, the stories,

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01:53:28,720 --> 01:53:30,880
Speaker 2: and for motivating me to stick to my decision to

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01:53:31,000 --> 01:53:36,599
Speaker 2: defend Cindy. You guys are awesome. And that's where that story.

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01:53:37,439 --> 01:53:41,800
Speaker 5: As for that story, and that's that I phone also ended, right.

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01:53:42,000 --> 01:53:46,080
Speaker 5: We got some donation, We got some donations. Are they

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01:53:46,160 --> 01:53:47,719
Speaker 5: about to go crazy and can give us another?

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01:53:49,680 --> 01:53:52,040
Speaker 2: Riley Wilson thanks for the five bucks. I hate you,

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01:53:52,280 --> 01:53:54,840
Speaker 2: Sorry I left you guys. Melissa six fifteen Thanks to

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01:53:54,880 --> 01:53:58,400
Speaker 2: the two bucks I need boy wait O war accident,

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01:53:59,840 --> 01:54:02,639
Speaker 2: the boy, Riley Wilson next to the two bucks. Fifteen

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01:54:02,680 --> 01:54:05,559
Speaker 2: more minutes, so freak out, Riley, be hope arts. Thanks

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01:54:05,600 --> 01:54:07,680
Speaker 2: for the four months I lost a few months of

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01:54:07,760 --> 01:54:09,519
Speaker 2: members of not being able to figure out how to join.

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01:54:09,600 --> 01:54:10,840
Speaker 2: But I am so glad to be back with the

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01:54:10,880 --> 01:54:13,080
Speaker 2: Okay fan miss you guys and love you guys. We

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01:54:13,160 --> 01:54:15,560
Speaker 2: have members only stream tomorrow, so you should join. You

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01:54:15,560 --> 01:54:18,439
Speaker 2: should join to join that members on the streams its

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01:54:18,520 --> 01:54:22,600
Speaker 2: a Monday. Thanks for the two months of a membership,

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01:54:22,960 --> 01:54:27,559
Speaker 2: her heart. We got some new ones on here all right.

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01:54:27,640 --> 01:54:30,200
Speaker 2: Well high rold Starlight.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's a nice name.

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01:54:32,160 --> 01:54:35,680
Speaker 2: Thanks ten Bucker Rooney's. I actually sent your previous gifts

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Speaker 2: to the wrong address, so I made them again to

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Speaker 2: gay and I got them set yesterday. You should get

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Speaker 2: a box in a couple of days.

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Speaker 4: What those people will like when they got the back

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01:54:47,680 --> 01:54:48,560
Speaker 4: really sleepless.

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01:54:48,600 --> 01:54:49,480
Speaker 2: Thanks for the five bucks.

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01:54:49,560 --> 01:54:51,000
Speaker 4: Please save this for Riley.

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01:54:51,120 --> 01:54:52,280
Speaker 2: He needs his money back.

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01:54:52,520 --> 01:54:54,000
Speaker 6: Riley's only hurting himself here.

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01:54:54,520 --> 01:54:55,160
Speaker 4: I see you then.

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Speaker 2: Thanks to the fifteen bucks fifteen more minutes, Briley, Riley,

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01:54:59,600 --> 01:55:01,680
Speaker 2: wasn't we're so close guys to.

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01:55:03,920 --> 01:55:05,480
Speaker 4: Manipulate.

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01:55:06,200 --> 01:55:09,800
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be death rage. Thanks to the two

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Speaker 2: bucks Riley inspired donate. Okay, we have forty five seconds.

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01:55:13,480 --> 01:55:16,360
Speaker 2: Please don't do date because we it.

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Speaker 6: Was nice to make you.

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01:55:18,880 --> 01:55:21,960
Speaker 4: Work to do I was supposed to go to tennis.

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01:55:22,320 --> 01:55:25,080
Speaker 6: I think that if it's only fair, if you guys

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01:55:25,160 --> 01:55:28,120
Speaker 6: get more time only Riley to the street.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and honestly, I'll just one more time. I'll just

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01:55:32,200 --> 01:55:34,720
Speaker 4: sit here and I'll talk to you until I fall

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01:55:34,760 --> 01:55:44,640
Speaker 4: asleep seconds ago drunk.

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01:55:48,720 --> 01:55:54,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, stop, we love you.

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Speaker 6: Make sure to subscribe.

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Speaker 4: We gotta do it. We gotta do you.

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Speaker 2: Make sure to subscribe. We love you. Say some tomorrow