WEBVTT - Ep 254: Hoe Energy (Feat Zola)

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<v Speaker 1>Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decisions. Hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I am not just like care you gonna make somebody

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<v Speaker 1>that's my roommate, it's my boyfriend. Wait, welcome guys to

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<v Speaker 1>another episode of horrible decisions. We are joined with a

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<v Speaker 1>very special guests to this. That's right, I'm Wheezy. That's

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<v Speaker 1>your girl Meever, we have not the wedding registry Doola,

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<v Speaker 1>but one of our favorite We talked about this movie

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<v Speaker 1>so much, and obviously you're such an online sensation, so

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<v Speaker 1>we got our beat zook Hey, Zolar moons, Zolar moons,

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<v Speaker 1>Zolar moons. Cute. Okay, here we go. Not you sounded

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<v Speaker 1>like the White beat. So what's excited about having you on? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously I've been about to invite you on for forever.

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<v Speaker 1>You should be on here because I feel like you

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<v Speaker 1>have whole energy, Okay, And it's just isn't the piercing,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just the energy. Like how I said what she

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<v Speaker 1>and I we like vibes over our hoism. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>it's a thing. It's just you know, we just exude that.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, y'all, when she says we uh, we

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<v Speaker 1>do have the Zola. Uh movie came out last year

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<v Speaker 1>June sick. Yes, last summer. I went to the screening.

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<v Speaker 1>You were questioned by Angela yee. It was beautiful. So

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<v Speaker 1>glad to see that you finally made it onto the show. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was also one of those that was live

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<v Speaker 1>reading your tweets at the time of Yeah, I live

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<v Speaker 1>on Twitter. That's like my second home. I just don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't have Twitter and I live when I started charging,

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<v Speaker 1>I would probably still pay for it, like I love Twitter. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And back in I was really a home. So I

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<v Speaker 1>was living for everything. Um. And So if you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are not familiar, her tweets of a very wild weekend

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<v Speaker 1>turned into a movie, and we're going to get into

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<v Speaker 1>more of what that was about as well. First we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do We're gonna give us some a well screening.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your age, sex location? I am twenty six, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>she is? She Hello, I'm in Atlanta now really yes,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're from Detroit. I'm from Detroit and you drove

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<v Speaker 1>from Detroit to Florida, yes, like fourteen hours. When I

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<v Speaker 1>watched the movie, I said, she's young. I think I

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<v Speaker 1>would have done that. It was fun and it sounded cute.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounded really cute. I think I would have did

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<v Speaker 1>it too. It'ywhere or did y'all just go straight? No?

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<v Speaker 1>We went straight straight through? Yeah? Yeah, what do you

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<v Speaker 1>do now? Um? She writes, Um, I still make content.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm forever a sex worker, so um and yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's it. I exist, you know, one of my biggest

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<v Speaker 1>questions because I love you, love you following you and

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<v Speaker 1>also like really loved the actress. And I was, yeah, Taylor, sorry, um,

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<v Speaker 1>and I felt like something when I was watching it,

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<v Speaker 1>Taylor was very like not selling them about no fucking way,

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna sell my pussy. But you also don't give

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<v Speaker 1>me the vibe in a slug shamy way. But it

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<v Speaker 1>didn't feel slug shamy. But I was also confused. Can

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<v Speaker 1>you elaborate on like you said, you're a sex worker,

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<v Speaker 1>and in what way do you feel like that depicts

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<v Speaker 1>a completely different scenario with that What that was was

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<v Speaker 1>not sex work. That's like, that was sex trafficking what

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<v Speaker 1>they had going on. So when I say I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>sex worker, I mean like I sell sex, I exude sex,

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<v Speaker 1>I am sex and that's how that's my job. That

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<v Speaker 1>was sex trafficking, So what they were doing was like

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<v Speaker 1>she had no say over anything. So that was the difference.

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<v Speaker 1>And maybe a different scenario like if me and my

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<v Speaker 1>girls are taking a girls trip and we got and

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<v Speaker 1>then that's what it is, and be like, but that's

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<v Speaker 1>not what it was, so okay, that's fair. And she

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't even keeping her money, Like I can't get jiggy

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<v Speaker 1>with that, you know. And I forget that so much

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<v Speaker 1>because the tweets were so fun and like exciting to read.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like we're all like used to getting into

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<v Speaker 1>dump ship that I didn't even realize how that moment

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<v Speaker 1>really took me back. It's funny. We're just talking because

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<v Speaker 1>I watched it again this weekend. Get my hair done right?

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, Hey, you for Florida, let's just watch this.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, not not me being a but no,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and it's something that we definitely need to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure that you know, we're talking about constantly. We

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<v Speaker 1>had someone on here that talked about choice versus circumstance,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what I was going to ask you because

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<v Speaker 1>you refer to it as trafficking. Yeah, I know, definitely

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<v Speaker 1>because you were unaware, But can you distinguish or do

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<v Speaker 1>you still feel like it's trafficking If she chose to

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<v Speaker 1>be in that pimp, oh dynamics well for her and

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<v Speaker 1>in her brain, I mean that made sense. Like she's

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<v Speaker 1>she's not very money savvy. I mean some of us

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<v Speaker 1>having some of us don't. So I think that worked

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<v Speaker 1>for them talk because for me, not at girl, she

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<v Speaker 1>like sued me at everything. It was a miss. But

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<v Speaker 1>um yeah, I don't know. For me, like I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of found my sense of self and my confidence through

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<v Speaker 1>through sex work. I mean I really learned my sexuality

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<v Speaker 1>period through sex work, so like there's no going off

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<v Speaker 1>that course for me. For her, she needed some help

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<v Speaker 1>and she so for her that was her version of

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<v Speaker 1>sex work. Okay, but then when you put me in

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<v Speaker 1>the mix and you like lure me into this kind

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<v Speaker 1>of situation, so now that's become of sex trafficking. Agreed. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So we start our show with Vanilla ship, which is

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<v Speaker 1>like sex in the news. And I remember when I

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<v Speaker 1>hit her, I was like, we don't have to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it, and you were like, no, we don't. I

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<v Speaker 1>think we should get it. I think we should get

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<v Speaker 1>it off the top, because I really I want this

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<v Speaker 1>episode to be like trips tips for the girl that

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<v Speaker 1>we all have, whether it be like whatever to get into.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, it was like sugaring. For you, it could

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<v Speaker 1>be stripping. It could be joining in with like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>forces with another bitch, or like making sure how to

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<v Speaker 1>keep safe and for you know, how to get your

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<v Speaker 1>African money, like what's up? No, I mean I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to do a whole thing about sharing hose Like when

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<v Speaker 1>I was in my twenties, all of us didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>have it, and so if any of us came up

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<v Speaker 1>off of a trick, we'd be like, girl, he'd breaking

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<v Speaker 1>bread and we would share our niggas, especially the ones

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<v Speaker 1>that was given out bread. So my tips will be

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<v Speaker 1>sharing because my mind, I feel like my home home

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<v Speaker 1>girls never necessarily passed me that. It was more like, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna eat you want some food? I'd be like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I say I was gonna sisty like I had my

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<v Speaker 1>top like three clients back in them days, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not sharing them really Okay, well, okay, I could read

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<v Speaker 1>the article verbatim, but I mean, and this is Hollywood Reporter,

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<v Speaker 1>this is fucking um. What was I gonna say? Variety

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<v Speaker 1>right all of that where basically you called out A

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<v Speaker 1>four which I've never even heard of this film company before,

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<v Speaker 1>but I noticed even when watching on Saturday before I

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<v Speaker 1>saw these tweets. Was just crazy how much I was

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<v Speaker 1>like paying attention to them twenty productions like over and over.

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<v Speaker 1>It was at the front of the Amazon m page.

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<v Speaker 1>Just crazy, Considering this movie came out a minute ago,

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<v Speaker 1>we were still obsessed with it, and so um you

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<v Speaker 1>retweeted a post saying that they were up for seven

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<v Speaker 1>Awards awards with Who Taylor Best Lead Actress, Coleman Best

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<v Speaker 1>Supporting Actress, Janicks, Best Director, Jeremy Best Writer in a

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<v Speaker 1>Too four Best Film, and number Jeremy Harrison Huge. So

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<v Speaker 1>you mentioned something about thinking it was funny that they

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<v Speaker 1>got writer's credit and considering you wrote this, like, can

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<v Speaker 1>you elaborate on that frustration, because I agree you obviously

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<v Speaker 1>should be a part that part of it really wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>what I guess frustrated me the most because they did

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<v Speaker 1>write it. Jeremy is a screen right, That's what he does.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a playwriter, that's what he does. That's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>his niche. I don't have that. I can tell you

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<v Speaker 1>my experience and we can talk about it, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it did take that team effort. So I wasn't upset

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<v Speaker 1>with that. I was upset at the fact that from UM,

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<v Speaker 1>and this has been from the beginning. I'm talking like

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<v Speaker 1>from filming, UM, they've kind of just excluded me in

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<v Speaker 1>certain physical parts of it. For example, when we first

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<v Speaker 1>started filming, they sent me the film schedule the last

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<v Speaker 1>like three days of filming, like, oh, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>these are the last three days you may want to

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<v Speaker 1>come down mind you. I knew we were filming this month,

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<v Speaker 1>but I didn't know the days, the times where like,

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<v Speaker 1>And they sent me that the last three days, like

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<v Speaker 1>come on down where you promised to be on set?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I didn't think we needed to talk about it, like,

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<v Speaker 1>uh no forecasting. Did she get any of your mannerisms? Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>like that's like my soul. So we talked, Yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>was very much manifestation, like why do you want to

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<v Speaker 1>tell your girl to pull up? But no, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it's notthing like that, so we can't necessarily William Taylor,

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<v Speaker 1>but I am curious and interested. I didn't round on

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<v Speaker 1>TV show and kind of thought I would get to

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<v Speaker 1>be in the editing bay. I thought I would get

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<v Speaker 1>to be able to see episodes before they aired, and

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't really understand that it wasn't like that when

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<v Speaker 1>they when you were on So what did they tell you?

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<v Speaker 1>What involvement were you supposed to have? Because this is

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<v Speaker 1>your life, right well, I mean basically the conversations that

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<v Speaker 1>we had where I would be fully involved, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>in all aspects like and when we started filming, they

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<v Speaker 1>were gonna send me the schedule, they were gonna let

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<v Speaker 1>me know. You know, I was gonna get all those details.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I have been. I had my manager who's

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<v Speaker 1>my mom um, contacting them constantly and they were just

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<v Speaker 1>like playing so busy. And then, like I said, I

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<v Speaker 1>got it the last three days. So then when I

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<v Speaker 1>finally seen the film, I sat down with Jennik said, Jeremy, um,

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<v Speaker 1>my mom, and we had a little private screening in

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<v Speaker 1>l A. And um. When I finally seen it, then

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<v Speaker 1>I found out through them that there's this guy who

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<v Speaker 1>got writer's credit. Not this part pisses me off. His

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<v Speaker 1>name is David Kushner. He's the guy who did the

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<v Speaker 1>Rolling Stone article in two thousand fifteen, one of the

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<v Speaker 1>Krishna Krishnas so that's the names. And he came out

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<v Speaker 1>and he did the Rolling Stone interview in two thousand

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<v Speaker 1>and fifteen, and I showed him the Hooters we met

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<v Speaker 1>at and worked at and we talked like don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>ten hours or something crazy, and um, so that that

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<v Speaker 1>was that. That was the last time I've seen him, though,

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<v Speaker 1>well I find out he was on set the whole

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<v Speaker 1>time and brought his whole family, Like look what I did,

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<v Speaker 1>Like who is this white man? Like who are you?

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<v Speaker 1>And so you know, that kind of upset me. And

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<v Speaker 1>then that's the writing credit that bothers me because his

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<v Speaker 1>name is like right by mine. And I'm not understanding

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<v Speaker 1>really what he did in terms of the movie, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand what he did. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>he did for me. I mean I really like didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have to do the Rolling Stone article. I mean, you're

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<v Speaker 1>welcome with you a part of at all. Pitching that

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<v Speaker 1>part of the story now, it was like some weird

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<v Speaker 1>logistics where um, no one's ever been able to like

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<v Speaker 1>own tweets, if that makes sense that you can't own

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<v Speaker 1>a tweet or you can't or a photo you post

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram now right, So it's like for them to

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<v Speaker 1>make this into a film. It's like the source material

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<v Speaker 1>has to have some type of ownership, and with Twitter

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<v Speaker 1>being the source material, you can't own it, if that

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense. So the closest that we could get to

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<v Speaker 1>owning those exact words and phrases in that scenario was

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<v Speaker 1>the Rolling Stone article. Wow right, not not multiple that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's your story and you don't own it because

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<v Speaker 1>you tweeted it. Right. But it's like I said, it's

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<v Speaker 1>I do. But what someone do that they basically tweeted

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<v Speaker 1>and then direct you to another site? No, they don't

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<v Speaker 1>tweet you know. I'm saying, how could you protect yourself

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<v Speaker 1>from this? I mean moving forward? Now, I would say

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<v Speaker 1>you own it, you copyright it, you put it to

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<v Speaker 1>a website that you own, don't post it to social media.

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<v Speaker 1>When you join those social media sites, it says that

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<v Speaker 1>whatever goes on here is not owned by you. It's

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<v Speaker 1>now open for everyone. I just know. Could go into

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<v Speaker 1>a gallery and artists can blow up your Instagram pictures,

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<v Speaker 1>take it to a gallery and you kid, oh, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for um, you're everything that you pass on Instagram

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<v Speaker 1>could literally go up into a gallery and there's nothing

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<v Speaker 1>you can do. So do you think that maybe it's

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<v Speaker 1>given the impression that they almost want to be like,

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<v Speaker 1>you're lucky we involved. You know, maybe for someone else

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<v Speaker 1>with that kind of energy wouldn't work with me. Of

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<v Speaker 1>course that I got my goals from Detroit. Even even

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<v Speaker 1>in the beginning of the process, it was like because

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<v Speaker 1>they were kind of doing that um and that's why

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<v Speaker 1>I took my time, Like I wrote it in two

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<v Speaker 1>thousands fifteen, but we didn't like sign contracts into two

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<v Speaker 1>thou seventeen, and then we didn't begin in filming and

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<v Speaker 1>have a director until like two thousand and eight. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like I took my sweet time because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they were like dangling cute little numbers and stuff in

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<v Speaker 1>front of me, and I was like, that's a cute number.

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<v Speaker 1>But there was like no percentages talks in the room,

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<v Speaker 1>so until it was until it made sense to me,

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<v Speaker 1>like it didn't even have to be a thing really understood.

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<v Speaker 1>So so as far as depiction, Mandy said that the screening,

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<v Speaker 1>she mentioned that you said you were happy with the depiction,

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<v Speaker 1>which is great, but I was not happy and I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted more. Did you hear that people were like what

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<v Speaker 1>I know? I know that was kind of the point though,

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<v Speaker 1>because and like you said, if you you were there

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<v Speaker 1>to read it the threats, so like you know, that's

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<v Speaker 1>not even where it really ended, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>So we were kind of leaving room for for that purpose.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't want to spoon feed. Let me know you

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<v Speaker 1>got the story, especially Detroit got money, Like wests are

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<v Speaker 1>the most generous, Like give me a Michigan man, please, man,

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<v Speaker 1>But I'll take another one that's like real generous, and

0:13:36.360 --> 0:13:39.080
<v Speaker 1>they normally come from like machine. Now. I went online

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<v Speaker 1>yesterday and said, tell me what you want me to

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<v Speaker 1>ask the beat when we have all we have some

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<v Speaker 1>white girl on the podcast, and I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so happy you don't have a black and she

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh my god, like this old movie beat

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<v Speaker 1>she did it from. Didn't do that? She beat the

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I don't want to know did she say?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I felt like every time every moment I watched

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<v Speaker 1>that movie, I was like it was about to come

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<v Speaker 1>out because it was giving him that No, she you

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<v Speaker 1>guys went to Florida. Did you go to Miami or

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<v Speaker 1>Tampa or where were you Tampa? Tampa? Okay? And when

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<v Speaker 1>you were in Tampa like that. I didn't. I had

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<v Speaker 1>never been to the club, wasn't. I don't even I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't tell you the name I forgot. Do you know?

0:14:25.080 --> 0:14:27.160
<v Speaker 1>Does anyone know why Tampa is like a thing for sure?

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<v Speaker 1>Clubs though, because they can get new, because they can

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<v Speaker 1>get nude and out. You gotta like were painting pastis.

0:14:33.520 --> 0:14:36.000
<v Speaker 1>Miami and I think Tampa are the only two areas

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<v Speaker 1>that yeah in Florida. Yeah, was that your last time

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<v Speaker 1>on the pole? No, it wasn't that. Right back, everybody

0:14:48.360 --> 0:14:50.280
<v Speaker 1>really wanted to know. That was like a real question.

0:14:50.280 --> 0:14:52.920
<v Speaker 1>They were like, that's fucking traumatic. Bro. No, I went

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<v Speaker 1>right back to words in the back page scene. How

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<v Speaker 1>accurate was it? Were you actually there? I was there?

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<v Speaker 1>Was pretty accurate. Okay. So when we first got there,

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<v Speaker 1>he actually took our phones, and that was when I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, well, after we worked at the club that

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<v Speaker 1>first night, when we got back to the hotel, he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, yeah, I need your phones, Like I got

0:15:11.080 --> 0:15:13.080
<v Speaker 1>you guys these phones, and he gave up us these

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<v Speaker 1>little burner phones and I was just standing there like,

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<v Speaker 1>but if I'm not gonna argue with you like six

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<v Speaker 1>ft three, like like okay, Like I guess I got

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<v Speaker 1>a new phone. So at that point, I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sucked up, Like he just took my phone and

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<v Speaker 1>my phone case had like my ID and my demo

0:15:27.480 --> 0:15:29.480
<v Speaker 1>card in and I was like, okay, so I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>in here, okay, got it? So yeah, fuck yeah? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you still have white friends? Are like, I'm I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It would be really difficult for me. I already told

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<v Speaker 1>you I ain't going to know more uh Asian nail

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<v Speaker 1>salons after my experience. What I'm just not black salons

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<v Speaker 1>only you know girl, oh my good girl over self.

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<v Speaker 1>The fact the nails you had one don't and I

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<v Speaker 1>need to get them done. Um. I question would be

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<v Speaker 1>with that even uh, if we're just going through what

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<v Speaker 1>was real, maybe what was added or exaggerated? Does she

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<v Speaker 1>sleep with that many men that night? How many men

0:16:13.920 --> 0:16:15.480
<v Speaker 1>came in and out of that room? I mean it

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even seem like a lot to me. I've seen something, Okay,

0:16:19.240 --> 0:16:24.800
<v Speaker 1>it was about fifteen within how many hours she was

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<v Speaker 1>working on nights, so like she started working around like ten,

0:16:28.280 --> 0:16:31.560
<v Speaker 1>it went on to like four am. Have have you

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<v Speaker 1>ever been in a situation where somebody was having back

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<v Speaker 1>backpage sex? I didn't. I didn't. I didn't know it

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<v Speaker 1>was about to happen. Um no, I told you, like

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<v Speaker 1>most of my friends athletes, Well good for y'all. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they worked harder. I'm just saying I'm not gonna well,

0:16:52.360 --> 0:16:54.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm not back page, but I have been with quite

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<v Speaker 1>a few friends that have met guys from seeking arrangement.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean too, Yeah, so I mean to me, it

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<v Speaker 1>is the same, and like so with the back page experience,

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<v Speaker 1>I think the only scarier thing with back pages it

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<v Speaker 1>feels like maybe really in and out or something like that,

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<v Speaker 1>and seeking arrangement to whomever. It may not even be

0:17:11.720 --> 0:17:14.439
<v Speaker 1>for that person, but seeking arrangement for anyone who's listening.

0:17:14.520 --> 0:17:17.120
<v Speaker 1>Is a website you can meet sugar daddies getting allowance,

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<v Speaker 1>But really it could be escort into the back page

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<v Speaker 1>experience I had. I was really young. I was hanging

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<v Speaker 1>out with some friends. We were going to the club,

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<v Speaker 1>and I knew one of the girls was you know, howing.

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<v Speaker 1>But we were in our hotel room and her dude

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<v Speaker 1>was there and he was like, okay, she got somebody

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<v Speaker 1>coming through. You all gotta go. We just sit in

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<v Speaker 1>the lobby and I remember seeing this guy coming and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, she a fucking and I remember she

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<v Speaker 1>charged two d and I were thinking, but I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the thing when with that price one of fifty

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<v Speaker 1>and you're saying five hundred or whatever the case, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that we're putting this thing on. We know girls

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<v Speaker 1>could charge ten thousand dollars for a night shoot on

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<v Speaker 1>them and Dubai or all these you know, five thousand

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<v Speaker 1>and get this fine, nigga. No, some people really needs

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<v Speaker 1>are to get a hunter and all Twitter. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you can't really shade, but I was shade

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<v Speaker 1>into my head because I'd like, I'll never do that.

0:18:05.960 --> 0:18:08.760
<v Speaker 1>But then here I almost seeking arrangement, like okay, so

0:18:08.800 --> 0:18:10.399
<v Speaker 1>how much for a month for me to fuck you?

0:18:10.440 --> 0:18:12.560
<v Speaker 1>Like it's the same ship, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't shade a bit for having to do that,

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<v Speaker 1>But I will say back page is scary that they

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<v Speaker 1>closed it out. Were there any men that came in

0:18:21.320 --> 0:18:25.200
<v Speaker 1>that actually scared you? Uh? No, there was this creepy

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<v Speaker 1>one because I was like opening the door and like

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<v Speaker 1>checking their pockets, like being like you know, hello, hello helper.

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<v Speaker 1>So there was this one guy I let in and

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<v Speaker 1>he was just like so disgusted when I opened the door, like,

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<v Speaker 1>and he goes. I thought, I thought this was a

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<v Speaker 1>room for a white girl. And I said, our guys,

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<v Speaker 1>she right here like that was in the movie down.

0:18:45.880 --> 0:18:48.080
<v Speaker 1>But he was like so like he wanted to throw up.

0:18:48.200 --> 0:18:50.920
<v Speaker 1>I was like, first of all, I don't want you either,

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<v Speaker 1>So she's in the bag. But fuck yeah, so rude, right,

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<v Speaker 1>did any of them want to start talking to you

0:18:57.680 --> 0:19:00.000
<v Speaker 1>when they were sucking? No? We I know, I really

0:19:00.040 --> 0:19:02.840
<v Speaker 1>me was not girl, No, I had ton of vision.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like, how can I get home safely? How

0:19:06.400 --> 0:19:08.240
<v Speaker 1>can I be on this trip and not be on

0:19:08.320 --> 0:19:11.879
<v Speaker 1>this trip? Like, how can I just be off everybody's radar?

0:19:12.080 --> 0:19:14.440
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna hold you? That was my question watching the movie.

0:19:14.560 --> 0:19:18.679
<v Speaker 1>Like you're a dancer and you the scene opened up.

0:19:18.720 --> 0:19:20.879
<v Speaker 1>You were a waitress as well. You were Hooters, so

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<v Speaker 1>you had money. Yeah, was it not like in your

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<v Speaker 1>mind to just leave and go straight to the airport

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<v Speaker 1>and buy your own flight? Like when you saw ship

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<v Speaker 1>was getting did you or did you not have? But

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, I didn't have my phone or myn

0:19:32.240 --> 0:19:35.080
<v Speaker 1>He took our things, including your DNA. Yeah, he had

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<v Speaker 1>our stuff. Girl, I'm so happy here today. That's fucking

0:19:41.359 --> 0:19:42.800
<v Speaker 1>because I know a lot of people may not have

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<v Speaker 1>been or they would have ended up being caught up

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<v Speaker 1>in a life. Yeah. Now he took our stuff. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean technically you could go to the airport and they

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<v Speaker 1>just as I don't know, and I've said this a

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<v Speaker 1>few other times and people are like what. But he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like scare me, like especially and after the first

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<v Speaker 1>maybe and after the first night, like once I helped

0:20:06.720 --> 0:20:09.960
<v Speaker 1>her make money and he hadn't never seen her make

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<v Speaker 1>that much money before, and he was like, oh, if

0:20:13.240 --> 0:20:15.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm around like and he was like, and you didn't

0:20:15.400 --> 0:20:18.360
<v Speaker 1>suck nobody. I was like, no, she she got me,

0:20:18.480 --> 0:20:23.280
<v Speaker 1>She got us. We see each other like and so

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, he didn't intimate. He left me alone

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<v Speaker 1>after that and he was just like, as long as

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<v Speaker 1>you just keep doing what you're doing, Like if I

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<v Speaker 1>come in here and she got money like this, you

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<v Speaker 1>could just now was he African or not very much?

0:20:35.000 --> 0:20:37.000
<v Speaker 1>He's very much Africa, But he was flipping in and

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<v Speaker 1>out from the he's very much African girl, because I

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<v Speaker 1>was confused, and that's the only thing during the we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't speak with him with a Nigerian accident at first

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<v Speaker 1>that was like when he got upset and when he

0:20:45.280 --> 0:20:53.600
<v Speaker 1>would talk to her upset, I said, it was not really.

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<v Speaker 1>What about that last scene where you got robbed by

0:20:56.320 --> 0:20:58.960
<v Speaker 1>the people from the motel? Was that something that actually happened?

0:20:59.240 --> 0:21:03.119
<v Speaker 1>It was, Um, we dramatized that. Obviously we didn't get robbed.

0:21:03.200 --> 0:21:06.359
<v Speaker 1>They just um, they had us in a room and

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<v Speaker 1>they were trying to convince her to go with them

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<v Speaker 1>type thing. And they had a lot of money and

0:21:10.800 --> 0:21:14.359
<v Speaker 1>they had like I don't know, designer ship, you know,

0:21:14.720 --> 0:21:16.959
<v Speaker 1>and they were just negotiating prices. And then when her

0:21:17.000 --> 0:21:20.280
<v Speaker 1>pimp came in, they were like negotiating price a price

0:21:20.400 --> 0:21:21.879
<v Speaker 1>for her, and she was sitting right there like it

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<v Speaker 1>was a normal conversation. And he's like, well, i'll give

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<v Speaker 1>you sixty, and he's like, well, i'll give you a

0:21:26.520 --> 0:21:29.840
<v Speaker 1>seventy to leave me alone. And I was sitting there

0:21:29.880 --> 0:21:32.040
<v Speaker 1>like they're talking about buying you and she's just in

0:21:32.080 --> 0:21:41.080
<v Speaker 1>there life not the white plify. Yeah. Like, so following that,

0:21:41.160 --> 0:21:43.359
<v Speaker 1>what's the what was the beef with her? She felt

0:21:43.359 --> 0:21:48.320
<v Speaker 1>like he was lying. She liked, I don't know where

0:21:48.440 --> 0:21:51.679
<v Speaker 1>she she suited, well, she attempted to sue me. Um,

0:21:51.760 --> 0:21:54.280
<v Speaker 1>it's so funny. We actually did a court TV show,

0:21:54.359 --> 0:21:59.440
<v Speaker 1>like we did a show not with the real girl.

0:21:59.560 --> 0:22:04.880
<v Speaker 1>It was yes, it was called We the Jury. Um um,

0:22:04.920 --> 0:22:08.600
<v Speaker 1>I think no, it was like real, No, let me fail.

0:22:12.560 --> 0:22:14.840
<v Speaker 1>I think it was with an HBO or Fox. I

0:22:14.840 --> 0:22:18.440
<v Speaker 1>don't want to lie. I swear to god it wasn't.

0:22:19.200 --> 0:22:22.320
<v Speaker 1>It was Fox. It was Fox. And they caused me

0:22:22.359 --> 0:22:24.080
<v Speaker 1>and it was like she reached out, she wants to

0:22:24.119 --> 0:22:26.360
<v Speaker 1>sue you, but she can't afford the lawyers, so we're

0:22:26.359 --> 0:22:28.560
<v Speaker 1>gonna provide an attorney for the both of you, and

0:22:28.600 --> 0:22:30.360
<v Speaker 1>like it's a real judge and it's a real jury

0:22:30.400 --> 0:22:32.720
<v Speaker 1>and YadA YadA yea. And I'm like, bro, what I said,

0:22:32.720 --> 0:22:35.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm not doing no core show like no. So then

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<v Speaker 1>they called me back and they were like, well, we

0:22:37.160 --> 0:22:39.080
<v Speaker 1>opened up a budget, can you come. I said, no,

0:22:39.320 --> 0:22:41.640
<v Speaker 1>open this some more. No. Just they called me again.

0:22:41.720 --> 0:22:43.840
<v Speaker 1>They was like, Okay, we'll give you twenty dollars even

0:22:43.840 --> 0:22:45.800
<v Speaker 1>if it doesn't air, just come film it. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be there at three o'clock. So that's how that went.

0:22:49.280 --> 0:22:52.200
<v Speaker 1>And so she sued me for like deformation. She said

0:22:52.240 --> 0:22:55.119
<v Speaker 1>I outed her as a sex worker, and she lost

0:22:55.160 --> 0:22:57.720
<v Speaker 1>custody of her daughter. She never had custody of her

0:22:57.760 --> 0:22:59.800
<v Speaker 1>daughter in the first place, but she was just in

0:22:59.880 --> 0:23:03.920
<v Speaker 1>a lying in and doing all that. Um. She did

0:23:04.040 --> 0:23:07.000
<v Speaker 1>end up in the ruling she won. Technically she won

0:23:07.080 --> 0:23:12.080
<v Speaker 1>five thousand dollars the defamation of character. Her name made

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<v Speaker 1>her feel better, right, But I got twenty tho dollars

0:23:14.680 --> 0:23:17.640
<v Speaker 1>just to show up and sit down. Yeah, I first

0:23:17.680 --> 0:23:19.159
<v Speaker 1>day the name of the person that put me in

0:23:19.160 --> 0:23:22.160
<v Speaker 1>a situation where I could have died. Right. So see,

0:23:22.160 --> 0:23:25.960
<v Speaker 1>that's a doxing that I find interesting because there is

0:23:26.000 --> 0:23:28.680
<v Speaker 1>a lot of sex worker safety that needs to go on, right,

0:23:28.720 --> 0:23:30.840
<v Speaker 1>and we generally will see it in terms of like

0:23:30.880 --> 0:23:33.800
<v Speaker 1>women sharing men that put them in safe situations. But

0:23:33.840 --> 0:23:36.040
<v Speaker 1>if a woman did it, my my niggas was safe

0:23:36.720 --> 0:23:39.680
<v Speaker 1>that I was sharing. But you just kind of looked

0:23:39.680 --> 0:23:45.760
<v Speaker 1>at me when you say, yeah, I didn't even like.

0:23:45.040 --> 0:23:49.600
<v Speaker 1>I like, women will share names of guys that have

0:23:49.680 --> 0:23:52.679
<v Speaker 1>like put them their risks, but I never say they

0:23:52.800 --> 0:23:55.639
<v Speaker 1>jumped down A lot of those websites too. Sex workers

0:23:55.720 --> 0:23:59.959
<v Speaker 1>used to use like all men that like were either aggressive,

0:24:00.000 --> 0:24:02.320
<v Speaker 1>of a rough or didn't pay a lot of people

0:24:02.480 --> 0:24:04.600
<v Speaker 1>like Now that I think about it, I did have

0:24:04.600 --> 0:24:06.360
<v Speaker 1>a friend that used to do that. I forgot. Yeah,

0:24:06.440 --> 0:24:10.920
<v Speaker 1>I took a little of the pool and like that.

0:24:11.040 --> 0:24:13.240
<v Speaker 1>She would have a goddamn client and would leave me

0:24:13.280 --> 0:24:14.440
<v Speaker 1>at the pool. And I was like, all right, girls,

0:24:14.440 --> 0:24:17.320
<v Speaker 1>see you know about a hour at that pussy doing

0:24:17.359 --> 0:24:21.880
<v Speaker 1>you want to icy all right? So as far as tips,

0:24:22.160 --> 0:24:24.359
<v Speaker 1>we do a horrid derve and it is our sex

0:24:24.400 --> 0:24:26.720
<v Speaker 1>tip of the week. We want to pass it over

0:24:26.760 --> 0:24:29.080
<v Speaker 1>to you. Oh my god. Now you could give this

0:24:29.119 --> 0:24:31.080
<v Speaker 1>tip for anyone. It could be a dating tip of

0:24:31.119 --> 0:24:32.800
<v Speaker 1>sex tape. It could be for women to women, men

0:24:32.840 --> 0:24:39.000
<v Speaker 1>to women. Dave them whoever they feel like tip. Oh

0:24:39.080 --> 0:24:43.120
<v Speaker 1>my goodness, I don't know you're tongue ring like this,

0:24:43.280 --> 0:24:47.800
<v Speaker 1>you've a tongue ring. We need to name you put

0:24:47.840 --> 0:24:53.760
<v Speaker 1>it in the hole. That's girls, bro, you're talking about

0:24:53.760 --> 0:24:56.840
<v Speaker 1>a pall. Yeah, Like I feel like it's not intentionally

0:24:56.880 --> 0:25:00.359
<v Speaker 1>it has gotten stuck. Your tongue ring got stuck in pea.

0:25:00.640 --> 0:25:04.520
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. When they had to sing it out

0:25:04.520 --> 0:25:07.959
<v Speaker 1>the dude happened before it say okay, so wait, how

0:25:08.000 --> 0:25:11.640
<v Speaker 1>do you like hear the dick? You're like, I can't

0:25:11.640 --> 0:25:13.479
<v Speaker 1>w no, I mean I got it out, but I

0:25:13.560 --> 0:25:18.640
<v Speaker 1>just yeah, okay, we're gonna talk about that so that stuff.

0:25:21.040 --> 0:25:23.159
<v Speaker 1>We know you had a whole moving everything when it

0:25:23.240 --> 0:25:27.080
<v Speaker 1>dick got come up to the Yeah, it happened, and

0:25:27.119 --> 0:25:32.760
<v Speaker 1>you took that thing out. Huh okay girl, I don't know.

0:25:33.359 --> 0:25:38.840
<v Speaker 1>Um do you pussy do? I? Yeah? Yeah? Occasionally? Do

0:25:38.800 --> 0:25:40.639
<v Speaker 1>you have a pussy eating trip or something that you

0:25:40.720 --> 0:25:46.439
<v Speaker 1>like done to your pussy? Not really? Oh, you just

0:25:46.480 --> 0:25:49.399
<v Speaker 1>gonna be on the spot. I got anxiety. She's like,

0:25:49.440 --> 0:25:53.240
<v Speaker 1>I sex worker, I'm gonna sing it out with this guy.

0:25:53.880 --> 0:25:56.800
<v Speaker 1>Show you. Then you talked about referencing yourself as a

0:25:56.840 --> 0:25:59.040
<v Speaker 1>sex worker. Can you give us a tip on how

0:25:59.040 --> 0:26:02.840
<v Speaker 1>to exude ex appeal either while we're out, when we're

0:26:02.880 --> 0:26:04.399
<v Speaker 1>in our room, or when we were with our partner

0:26:04.400 --> 0:26:09.640
<v Speaker 1>in the bedroom. See, I don't it just comes naturally.

0:26:10.359 --> 0:26:14.800
<v Speaker 1>I just I just like it's just I'm sex. I

0:26:14.800 --> 0:26:17.120
<v Speaker 1>don't know, I'm like walking sex. I don't know how

0:26:17.160 --> 0:26:23.560
<v Speaker 1>to do you ever people always do in the bedroom? No?

0:26:23.800 --> 0:26:26.400
<v Speaker 1>Not not at a while. No, it's too much, Like

0:26:26.480 --> 0:26:33.080
<v Speaker 1>that's too much energy I have if it's like requested,

0:26:33.200 --> 0:26:35.200
<v Speaker 1>but not. I mean it gives me length of my legs.

0:26:35.280 --> 0:26:37.520
<v Speaker 1>So here the thing I like tall niggas, so if

0:26:37.520 --> 0:26:41.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm worn heels before because it makes my legs long technically,

0:26:41.560 --> 0:26:43.679
<v Speaker 1>especially if I stand up or sit down on the

0:26:43.720 --> 0:26:46.320
<v Speaker 1>couch or attempt to ride, which isn't gonna be very long,

0:26:46.640 --> 0:26:49.000
<v Speaker 1>but now I think that would probably help. But it

0:26:49.119 --> 0:26:52.000
<v Speaker 1>gives me more height. Here. You just say ride and

0:26:52.040 --> 0:26:53.720
<v Speaker 1>all I can think is johnn I want to ride.

0:26:53.720 --> 0:26:57.080
<v Speaker 1>I want to ride? Dog. Do you watch Johnson's Caveraret?

0:26:57.200 --> 0:27:01.040
<v Speaker 1>No catch little clips? You know what what made me

0:27:01.080 --> 0:27:03.440
<v Speaker 1>turn on Zola again. I watched it obviously like opening

0:27:03.520 --> 0:27:05.399
<v Speaker 1>Day because I was like, hello, bitch, this is like

0:27:05.440 --> 0:27:09.200
<v Speaker 1>girls night Ship. When I watched Jocelyn, then we was like, damn,

0:27:09.200 --> 0:27:11.400
<v Speaker 1>now we should watch the Sola because that's where all

0:27:11.400 --> 0:27:14.879
<v Speaker 1>the girls give. I mean, it is the most toxic,

0:27:15.200 --> 0:27:20.360
<v Speaker 1>amazing show I've ever seen. And I think it's because

0:27:20.400 --> 0:27:23.120
<v Speaker 1>sometimes we see like, you know, the lit stripper holes

0:27:23.160 --> 0:27:25.159
<v Speaker 1>on Instagram and we'd be like, Okay, you can do

0:27:25.200 --> 0:27:27.639
<v Speaker 1>these poetracks, this, you that, But sometimes you see the

0:27:27.640 --> 0:27:31.080
<v Speaker 1>ones that are like money hungry and just ratchet as

0:27:31.080 --> 0:27:33.960
<v Speaker 1>this is what I need is what we want to see.

0:27:34.400 --> 0:27:36.639
<v Speaker 1>And anybody who has not been watching it, but you've

0:27:36.640 --> 0:27:38.840
<v Speaker 1>seen that viral clip of the girl that was talking

0:27:38.840 --> 0:27:42.400
<v Speaker 1>about Jesus you've seen that, bro, I know you've seen that.

0:27:42.720 --> 0:27:45.960
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, bitch, Jesus led me home. But also she's

0:27:45.960 --> 0:27:48.440
<v Speaker 1>a fucking wrestler. That's why she took down Lexi blow

0:27:48.480 --> 0:27:52.480
<v Speaker 1>like that. No, that was great. We need Lexis. I

0:27:52.480 --> 0:27:54.000
<v Speaker 1>would try to suck her. I think she is so

0:27:54.040 --> 0:27:57.840
<v Speaker 1>fine Lexi blow. Remember what Jocelyn said, I just want

0:27:57.880 --> 0:28:00.960
<v Speaker 1>to put my tongue and that little white plessy act.

0:28:01.000 --> 0:28:04.760
<v Speaker 1>She said that on the shop that on the show.

0:28:04.960 --> 0:28:07.159
<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to ask you because you seem so

0:28:07.280 --> 0:28:12.240
<v Speaker 1>friendly with this uh white girl. A lot of my

0:28:12.320 --> 0:28:15.000
<v Speaker 1>friends who have like danced in the strip club says

0:28:15.040 --> 0:28:18.480
<v Speaker 1>it's one of the most toxic and non friendly environments.

0:28:18.920 --> 0:28:22.440
<v Speaker 1>So with you being so friendly, Um, did you find

0:28:22.440 --> 0:28:24.919
<v Speaker 1>yourself being that friendly when you were actually working in

0:28:25.200 --> 0:28:27.800
<v Speaker 1>your local strip clubs? And did you end up making

0:28:27.800 --> 0:28:29.760
<v Speaker 1>any friends while you were in Tampa that one night?

0:28:30.200 --> 0:28:32.440
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I didn't talk to anybody in Tampa, Okay,

0:28:32.440 --> 0:28:34.560
<v Speaker 1>And missions was weird? I was. We didn't even we

0:28:34.560 --> 0:28:36.879
<v Speaker 1>didn't say hello. We know everybody had a mission and

0:28:37.000 --> 0:28:39.320
<v Speaker 1>was on their mission. But I didn't look at you

0:28:39.360 --> 0:28:43.920
<v Speaker 1>like competition when you yes. But also it was like

0:28:43.920 --> 0:28:46.280
<v Speaker 1>two black girls in the whole bill. So they looking

0:28:46.320 --> 0:28:48.200
<v Speaker 1>at both like who and neither of us are from there,

0:28:48.720 --> 0:28:52.120
<v Speaker 1>so they like, what's going on here? But at home?

0:28:52.400 --> 0:28:55.200
<v Speaker 1>I actually because I started dancing at eighteen, okay, so

0:28:55.400 --> 0:28:57.520
<v Speaker 1>and I kind of like transitioned with a group of girls.

0:28:57.600 --> 0:28:59.560
<v Speaker 1>We went from Hooters to the strip club like together,

0:28:59.720 --> 0:29:02.600
<v Speaker 1>like we was like yeah yeah. So it was like

0:29:02.640 --> 0:29:05.760
<v Speaker 1>a little sorority sister pack going on. So the four

0:29:05.800 --> 0:29:09.320
<v Speaker 1>of us was friends, but the guys that no, it's

0:29:09.360 --> 0:29:12.400
<v Speaker 1>even this thing in the clubs sometimes will in Detroit

0:29:12.440 --> 0:29:17.120
<v Speaker 1>clubs where they call it like blackout nights and don't

0:29:17.160 --> 0:29:19.800
<v Speaker 1>tell me this, and one of the girls and so

0:29:20.040 --> 0:29:22.720
<v Speaker 1>one of whoever, somebody will sneak into the breaker room

0:29:22.760 --> 0:29:25.200
<v Speaker 1>and turn the lights out like ten minutes before closing

0:29:25.240 --> 0:29:29.000
<v Speaker 1>time and rob snatching your bags. Like so we usually

0:29:29.000 --> 0:29:31.800
<v Speaker 1>believe me really like one thirty, we'd be like paying

0:29:31.800 --> 0:29:34.320
<v Speaker 1>the DJ more like we're about to go because what's

0:29:34.360 --> 0:29:36.440
<v Speaker 1>the light? Like, who are you gonna fight? You just

0:29:36.480 --> 0:29:38.960
<v Speaker 1>got pushing your face, they snatched your bag, You just

0:29:39.040 --> 0:29:42.239
<v Speaker 1>popped that pussy all night. Now he's sitting here, that's

0:29:42.240 --> 0:29:45.000
<v Speaker 1>the other dancers. Why did they turn it off so

0:29:45.040 --> 0:29:47.520
<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't know who did it. No, No, but they

0:29:47.560 --> 0:29:49.520
<v Speaker 1>call it black out nights. It's on the accident. It's

0:29:49.560 --> 0:29:52.320
<v Speaker 1>just yeah, who we don't know, like when when it's

0:29:52.360 --> 0:29:53.960
<v Speaker 1>gonna happen, we don't know. But when it happens that

0:29:56.760 --> 0:30:02.760
<v Speaker 1>why damn? Yeah? So all right, getting into stripping, that's

0:30:02.800 --> 0:30:05.120
<v Speaker 1>our horrible decision. I feel like a lot of women

0:30:05.120 --> 0:30:07.160
<v Speaker 1>want to get into sex work, and I consider stripping

0:30:07.160 --> 0:30:12.360
<v Speaker 1>sex work. Um, how yeah, what's the safest way possible? Like,

0:30:12.400 --> 0:30:14.000
<v Speaker 1>do you feel like you needed like a home mentor

0:30:14.120 --> 0:30:16.960
<v Speaker 1>like you said, your friends and you did it together. Yeah,

0:30:17.000 --> 0:30:20.720
<v Speaker 1>that would help. Um, I definitely think having or at

0:30:20.800 --> 0:30:22.800
<v Speaker 1>least a friend who always knows where you are, what

0:30:22.880 --> 0:30:25.120
<v Speaker 1>you're doing or that would help. And I had that.

0:30:25.320 --> 0:30:27.560
<v Speaker 1>I had a girl who we always shared locations. She

0:30:27.600 --> 0:30:31.240
<v Speaker 1>always knew, um, who I was with at least one person.

0:30:31.680 --> 0:30:34.240
<v Speaker 1>How were you sharing locations before like iPhone gave us

0:30:34.280 --> 0:30:36.240
<v Speaker 1>that feature. No, I would just always tell her where

0:30:36.240 --> 0:30:39.680
<v Speaker 1>I was always okay, so yeah, what club I would

0:30:39.720 --> 0:30:41.720
<v Speaker 1>work at, who I was with? She just always knew. Good.

0:30:42.360 --> 0:30:45.000
<v Speaker 1>We always like like a whole spirit guide like your

0:30:45.080 --> 0:30:48.040
<v Speaker 1>boyfriend or a partner at the time, whatever seemed comfortable

0:30:48.080 --> 0:30:51.320
<v Speaker 1>with your dancing. But like a little bit was, but

0:30:51.360 --> 0:30:54.120
<v Speaker 1>it's fake. He was face my eggs and husband girl

0:30:54.160 --> 0:30:56.960
<v Speaker 1>and yeah, I don't know. So we when we first

0:30:56.960 --> 0:30:59.600
<v Speaker 1>started dating, he was comfortable with it, but like aren't

0:30:59.640 --> 0:31:02.200
<v Speaker 1>they all all Like he's like, he's so confident. She's like,

0:31:02.280 --> 0:31:05.080
<v Speaker 1>how I left her so much? Okay? And then when

0:31:05.520 --> 0:31:07.680
<v Speaker 1>when the rain came, he was like, oh, so you're

0:31:07.680 --> 0:31:15.640
<v Speaker 1>not gonna stop dancing, like you're not gonna know the

0:31:15.760 --> 0:31:17.320
<v Speaker 1>business trying to get at the strip club and being

0:31:17.360 --> 0:31:20.880
<v Speaker 1>Jocelyn coma rain. Okay, So if these hosts don't want

0:31:20.880 --> 0:31:23.480
<v Speaker 1>to be on the pole, that's basically what he wanted.

0:31:23.800 --> 0:31:26.920
<v Speaker 1>Not how or have conversations like what if you what

0:31:26.960 --> 0:31:29.240
<v Speaker 1>has he been angry about? Then maybe somebody wouldn't be

0:31:29.240 --> 0:31:31.520
<v Speaker 1>prepared for when dancing or started only fans of just

0:31:31.560 --> 0:31:33.800
<v Speaker 1>something like other kind of sex works. He was just

0:31:33.880 --> 0:31:36.000
<v Speaker 1>upset at like I don't know, I guess the intimacy

0:31:36.040 --> 0:31:37.440
<v Speaker 1>of it all. Like he's like, you can't just go

0:31:37.480 --> 0:31:39.360
<v Speaker 1>to work, get your money and leave it at that, Like,

0:31:39.440 --> 0:31:41.720
<v Speaker 1>but I was also a sugar baby. I was also camping.

0:31:41.760 --> 0:31:43.880
<v Speaker 1>I have my own cam show a sugar baby. Well

0:31:43.920 --> 0:31:47.560
<v Speaker 1>with him, yes, and he knew that Yes, good friend. Yeah,

0:31:47.600 --> 0:31:51.600
<v Speaker 1>I mean I was paying, Like, like what you're gonna say,

0:31:51.640 --> 0:31:58.840
<v Speaker 1>you're not doing anything? So that was that And you know,

0:31:58.880 --> 0:32:00.560
<v Speaker 1>I said it a little nice in and but it

0:32:00.600 --> 0:32:03.560
<v Speaker 1>was something like that. I don't know after a while,

0:32:03.560 --> 0:32:05.200
<v Speaker 1>like he he didn't I'm getting a job. He's like,

0:32:05.240 --> 0:32:06.760
<v Speaker 1>I gotta raised. You can stop now, and I'm like,

0:32:06.760 --> 0:32:08.960
<v Speaker 1>but I don't want to, Like these are like my

0:32:09.040 --> 0:32:13.480
<v Speaker 1>friends to like I get it, they're buying like my friends.

0:32:14.720 --> 0:32:17.880
<v Speaker 1>My clients was my friends clients? Like, tell us about

0:32:17.880 --> 0:32:20.720
<v Speaker 1>your best client or what would be like, Uh, it's

0:32:20.760 --> 0:32:23.640
<v Speaker 1>just an ideal client. They're normally good guys. No, no

0:32:24.800 --> 0:32:27.240
<v Speaker 1>huband but they're I mean they're wise, but they're great.

0:32:27.760 --> 0:32:31.360
<v Speaker 1>I had a single sugar Daddy, No you did Yes,

0:32:31.440 --> 0:32:36.120
<v Speaker 1>I did it worst and lonely beach oh lor you

0:32:36.120 --> 0:32:39.520
<v Speaker 1>want to go to the movie? No, but no for real?

0:32:39.640 --> 0:32:41.760
<v Speaker 1>Like what were the jobs that those clients has. Man,

0:32:41.800 --> 0:32:44.000
<v Speaker 1>he's been talking about athletes. That's her experience, right, But

0:32:44.040 --> 0:32:50.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm curious, Yeah, don't limit mys what is that? That's

0:32:50.160 --> 0:32:57.000
<v Speaker 1>not the job bandy, But I don't African got it? Um,

0:32:58.280 --> 0:33:00.600
<v Speaker 1>I would saying so my too. I don't know my

0:33:00.640 --> 0:33:03.840
<v Speaker 1>two best back home one was that they were both doctors.

0:33:03.920 --> 0:33:07.360
<v Speaker 1>Actually one was a plastic surgeon and the other was

0:33:07.440 --> 0:33:12.200
<v Speaker 1>like a wellness doctor. White. Yes, very much so, not

0:33:12.280 --> 0:33:15.200
<v Speaker 1>very much so, very much so. And I actually ended

0:33:15.280 --> 0:33:18.720
<v Speaker 1>up getting engaged to one of them. And that's the

0:33:18.800 --> 0:33:22.360
<v Speaker 1>whole thing. Yeah, it was the thing. What no, did

0:33:22.400 --> 0:33:26.000
<v Speaker 1>you like? Were you in love? No? With the money?

0:33:27.160 --> 0:33:29.400
<v Speaker 1>It was so nice. I was living so good. Oh

0:33:29.480 --> 0:33:34.320
<v Speaker 1>my god, Yes, sugar baby, I was living so good.

0:33:34.320 --> 0:33:35.840
<v Speaker 1>He was spoiling me, girl, he was treating me. He

0:33:35.920 --> 0:33:37.800
<v Speaker 1>was on boats in place and right we was all.

0:33:39.360 --> 0:33:43.280
<v Speaker 1>It was everywhere. I met him at the club, like

0:33:43.400 --> 0:33:46.160
<v Speaker 1>the first week I was working at this club and

0:33:46.200 --> 0:33:48.640
<v Speaker 1>he comes in and he's like, I've never seen you

0:33:48.720 --> 0:33:50.360
<v Speaker 1>here before. I'm like, okay, so you'd be here all

0:33:50.400 --> 0:33:55.560
<v Speaker 1>the time, got you? And yeah, he was like, well

0:33:55.680 --> 0:33:57.800
<v Speaker 1>I never want to see you here again. I said, guys,

0:33:57.840 --> 0:33:59.840
<v Speaker 1>so what we're gonna do about that? This is literally

0:33:59.880 --> 0:34:03.360
<v Speaker 1>like day three or some ship and so um yeah,

0:34:03.440 --> 0:34:05.680
<v Speaker 1>he's like, well just come over tonight. I'm like okay,

0:34:05.720 --> 0:34:07.920
<v Speaker 1>So I did. I'm like nineteen, I've been doing ship.

0:34:08.400 --> 0:34:10.680
<v Speaker 1>So I went over and I ended up staying at

0:34:10.680 --> 0:34:12.640
<v Speaker 1>his house like a month straight, Like I didn't leave.

0:34:12.760 --> 0:34:15.040
<v Speaker 1>He's said this big, beautiful mansion. Like he's like, you

0:34:15.120 --> 0:34:17.680
<v Speaker 1>drive whichever car you want. I was like, may gonna

0:34:17.680 --> 0:34:22.960
<v Speaker 1>tell me twice? And so obviously we were working a lot,

0:34:23.000 --> 0:34:27.520
<v Speaker 1>clearly obviously like it was it good? Was it good sex?

0:34:27.719 --> 0:34:30.239
<v Speaker 1>I mean, like money can make you enjoy I had

0:34:30.239 --> 0:34:32.919
<v Speaker 1>the same answer people ask me about my sugar daddy

0:34:33.000 --> 0:34:34.480
<v Speaker 1>sex and I'd be like, bro, I don't I mean, yeah,

0:34:34.480 --> 0:34:36.800
<v Speaker 1>I guess. I don't know. I got off at the

0:34:36.840 --> 0:34:39.560
<v Speaker 1>fact that I was like hot and he like, at

0:34:39.640 --> 0:34:42.520
<v Speaker 1>least to him, you know, it was something about the exchange,

0:34:42.520 --> 0:34:44.279
<v Speaker 1>and like maybe it feels sex. Yeah, I don't know.

0:34:44.360 --> 0:34:47.120
<v Speaker 1>Maybe if like, if the money wasn't involved, probably not,

0:34:47.280 --> 0:34:50.120
<v Speaker 1>I probably wouldn't have enjoyed it. Maybe, I don't know.

0:34:50.280 --> 0:34:52.720
<v Speaker 1>But it was the mansion. It was it was the mansion.

0:34:53.239 --> 0:34:57.120
<v Speaker 1>So do when you have somebody like this, um, do

0:34:57.239 --> 0:34:59.719
<v Speaker 1>they ever try to like take your friends out? They like, oh?

0:34:59.800 --> 0:35:02.880
<v Speaker 1>He so he hated my friends. He hated I had

0:35:02.880 --> 0:35:04.680
<v Speaker 1>a best friend who she said, my best friend to

0:35:04.760 --> 0:35:06.920
<v Speaker 1>this day. But I had tried because he's like moving

0:35:07.040 --> 0:35:09.560
<v Speaker 1>now we it's someone in he's like just moving. I'm like, okay, period,

0:35:09.600 --> 0:35:13.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm moving in. So now I'm living here and I'm

0:35:13.040 --> 0:35:15.600
<v Speaker 1>not going to work clearly, and so I'm like, I

0:35:15.600 --> 0:35:17.360
<v Speaker 1>want can my friend come over? And he's like, sure,

0:35:17.400 --> 0:35:19.279
<v Speaker 1>she could come over. She came over. He threw a

0:35:19.360 --> 0:35:22.799
<v Speaker 1>whole fucking thing. He was like fifty four. So he

0:35:22.920 --> 0:35:26.440
<v Speaker 1>started playing this like weird, like, oh, he doesn't feel

0:35:26.480 --> 0:35:28.839
<v Speaker 1>well and he wants her to leave, and can I

0:35:28.920 --> 0:35:32.080
<v Speaker 1>check his blood pressure? I'm like, bitch, get your as

0:35:32.320 --> 0:35:34.640
<v Speaker 1>bowing the room, sit the funk down, like I'm not

0:35:34.680 --> 0:35:36.959
<v Speaker 1>doing this with you. Like he's causing a whole scene

0:35:37.000 --> 0:35:38.239
<v Speaker 1>in front of my friend, and I'm just like, this

0:35:38.280 --> 0:35:39.880
<v Speaker 1>is so embarrassing. I just wanted her to see my

0:35:39.920 --> 0:35:44.720
<v Speaker 1>new me at you. I just go no for seeking

0:35:44.800 --> 0:35:47.120
<v Speaker 1>arrangement stories, right because I feel like sugar baby is

0:35:47.160 --> 0:35:49.120
<v Speaker 1>the easiest way to get into your little whole life.

0:35:49.719 --> 0:35:52.480
<v Speaker 1>Tell us you said you were sugaring. How were you

0:35:52.480 --> 0:35:55.440
<v Speaker 1>meeting them if you weren't meeting them at the club? Um,

0:35:55.520 --> 0:35:59.640
<v Speaker 1>so I had a couple on seeking arrangements. Um that

0:36:00.120 --> 0:36:01.839
<v Speaker 1>be like hit or miss, though, but I did meet

0:36:01.880 --> 0:36:05.279
<v Speaker 1>one really really good nice guy. I'll seeking arrangements, but

0:36:05.320 --> 0:36:09.000
<v Speaker 1>for the most part, I'm like an actress, like I

0:36:09.120 --> 0:36:11.600
<v Speaker 1>like turn it on, like I put on a costume,

0:36:11.680 --> 0:36:13.759
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, where do I think the type of

0:36:13.800 --> 0:36:15.759
<v Speaker 1>thing I want to see today is? Maybe he's at

0:36:15.800 --> 0:36:18.920
<v Speaker 1>the cigar bar, you know, sitting by himself in the corner,

0:36:19.360 --> 0:36:22.560
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, Like, and I just figure out, yeah,

0:36:22.600 --> 0:36:24.480
<v Speaker 1>I do, I do and something. I'll go to the

0:36:24.520 --> 0:36:26.520
<v Speaker 1>cigar bar and I'll chill and I'll hang out and

0:36:26.520 --> 0:36:28.160
<v Speaker 1>I'll be cute and I'll be at my fun and

0:36:28.239 --> 0:36:30.720
<v Speaker 1>I'll act like, you know, be giving my wife vibes,

0:36:31.400 --> 0:36:33.520
<v Speaker 1>and then I just find the one I want. I'll

0:36:33.520 --> 0:36:35.440
<v Speaker 1>go to like a forty and up night and like

0:36:35.480 --> 0:36:39.160
<v Speaker 1>because nobody in there is, you know, a waste of time.

0:36:40.040 --> 0:36:44.280
<v Speaker 1>So I made it this far. Lets all of that. Okay,

0:36:44.360 --> 0:36:46.959
<v Speaker 1>so forty and up night cigar bar, people talking about

0:36:47.000 --> 0:36:51.160
<v Speaker 1>hotel bars, but that's definitely giving. I don't do that one.

0:36:51.239 --> 0:36:54.600
<v Speaker 1>I mean they have you will find maybe, but I

0:36:54.640 --> 0:36:57.080
<v Speaker 1>mean maybe if there's a conference going on right now,

0:36:57.600 --> 0:36:59.239
<v Speaker 1>do you think that there's a certain type of a

0:36:59.320 --> 0:37:01.880
<v Speaker 1>tie or they will get you, like you know, you

0:37:01.920 --> 0:37:03.640
<v Speaker 1>said the first of my wife, like do you wear

0:37:03.760 --> 0:37:05.439
<v Speaker 1>nice dresses? Do you feel like you could dress edgy?

0:37:05.480 --> 0:37:07.920
<v Speaker 1>You're dressed edgy right now, do you feel like you

0:37:07.960 --> 0:37:12.120
<v Speaker 1>could like show sugar daddies will be like, it depends

0:37:12.120 --> 0:37:13.879
<v Speaker 1>on the type. I mean, just like when it comes

0:37:13.880 --> 0:37:15.839
<v Speaker 1>to hair, it's like you attract it when you have

0:37:15.880 --> 0:37:18.319
<v Speaker 1>box braids versus when you got a wig versus when

0:37:18.320 --> 0:37:21.480
<v Speaker 1>you you know, you attract a different type of nigga

0:37:21.680 --> 0:37:27.440
<v Speaker 1>be with them. So when I definitely burnt incense, you

0:37:27.480 --> 0:37:33.279
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, Grand Rides, I'm telling you how

0:37:33.320 --> 0:37:35.359
<v Speaker 1>don't think it? Texts me great morning the other day

0:37:35.360 --> 0:37:38.480
<v Speaker 1>and I wrote l O ls Okay, like why do

0:37:38.520 --> 0:37:40.719
<v Speaker 1>you have to do this extra sheet? You know what

0:37:40.760 --> 0:37:44.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, No offense, but like my assistant and grandwater

0:37:45.719 --> 0:37:48.840
<v Speaker 1>and their vegans and I'll just be like, maybe this

0:37:48.960 --> 0:37:53.080
<v Speaker 1>why she's such a good person. Okay, So getting in

0:37:53.120 --> 0:37:55.280
<v Speaker 1>the game with strip clubs happen like a whole guide

0:37:55.280 --> 0:37:58.280
<v Speaker 1>things like that. Can you give us the craziest story

0:37:58.360 --> 0:38:00.960
<v Speaker 1>and we obviously watch the movie of it, but like,

0:38:01.520 --> 0:38:03.799
<v Speaker 1>just crazy ship that's happened that you've seen at strip

0:38:03.800 --> 0:38:10.120
<v Speaker 1>clubs so much? Um, I don't. I mean, I guess

0:38:10.160 --> 0:38:13.600
<v Speaker 1>I've just had crazy experiences that started in the strip

0:38:13.640 --> 0:38:17.960
<v Speaker 1>club just because of the realm. It is like, um,

0:38:18.000 --> 0:38:20.120
<v Speaker 1>and then especially being in Detroit, clubs are so different.

0:38:20.120 --> 0:38:21.959
<v Speaker 1>Like I didn set in North Carolina for a little

0:38:21.960 --> 0:38:24.759
<v Speaker 1>bit and those rules, like they made guys like sit

0:38:24.800 --> 0:38:28.000
<v Speaker 1>on their hands. It's this. It was this club called

0:38:28.000 --> 0:38:31.640
<v Speaker 1>Platinum Plus. It was South Carolina. Yes, I mean it's

0:38:31.760 --> 0:38:34.640
<v Speaker 1>so much money though, I kind of but they couldn't.

0:38:34.680 --> 0:38:36.880
<v Speaker 1>They can touch you if they like touch you. It

0:38:36.960 --> 0:38:39.400
<v Speaker 1>was a fine, but they were still in there spending

0:38:39.440 --> 0:38:42.719
<v Speaker 1>my FID. It was yeah, it was nice. That's give

0:38:42.760 --> 0:38:45.160
<v Speaker 1>a d sem a little bit. Yeah, like they could

0:38:45.200 --> 0:38:48.320
<v Speaker 1>not touch you like that, I mean, I guess. I

0:38:48.400 --> 0:38:50.200
<v Speaker 1>mean it just made it made me have to give

0:38:50.280 --> 0:38:53.480
<v Speaker 1>them permission, like were they allowed if the dancer allowed,

0:38:54.520 --> 0:38:57.200
<v Speaker 1>and if you did, and then and the bouncer saw

0:38:57.360 --> 0:38:58.879
<v Speaker 1>and was like what's going on here? And the guy

0:38:59.000 --> 0:39:00.440
<v Speaker 1>was like she told me I couldn't. Now you owe

0:39:00.520 --> 0:39:03.840
<v Speaker 1>him some money because we said no, oh yeah that

0:39:03.920 --> 0:39:07.920
<v Speaker 1>she was insane. It'd be like touch my eyes and

0:39:08.000 --> 0:39:12.719
<v Speaker 1>be like you give me half plan. So the sitting

0:39:12.760 --> 0:39:15.799
<v Speaker 1>on the hand that was insane. Um. Is there any

0:39:15.840 --> 0:39:18.320
<v Speaker 1>other like precautions that you've seen strip clubs take? Do

0:39:18.360 --> 0:39:20.320
<v Speaker 1>you feel safe when you're dancing? Like what can it?

0:39:20.440 --> 0:39:24.600
<v Speaker 1>What can a club do to make you feel safe? Unsafe? Yeah,

0:39:24.760 --> 0:39:27.000
<v Speaker 1>so there's also a lot of like linko, at least,

0:39:27.200 --> 0:39:29.960
<v Speaker 1>like I said back in my home clubs, um, like

0:39:30.080 --> 0:39:32.160
<v Speaker 1>if you leave your drink, like if you leave your drink,

0:39:32.280 --> 0:39:34.600
<v Speaker 1>or if the bartender kind of didn't keep an eye

0:39:34.640 --> 0:39:37.080
<v Speaker 1>on it or doesn't know, she would say stuff like this,

0:39:37.239 --> 0:39:39.160
<v Speaker 1>it's a blue drop. Now, like if she really just

0:39:39.320 --> 0:39:42.160
<v Speaker 1>means he probably dropped something in there, like we don't,

0:39:42.440 --> 0:39:44.960
<v Speaker 1>but she'll say it in front of because he's there,

0:39:45.360 --> 0:39:46.880
<v Speaker 1>so she'll just be like, yeah, this drink is a

0:39:46.880 --> 0:39:48.520
<v Speaker 1>blue drop, and we make you another one, and it'll

0:39:48.560 --> 0:39:50.440
<v Speaker 1>just so they don't really know what's going on, but

0:39:50.520 --> 0:39:55.759
<v Speaker 1>we know what she means. Um, stuff like that. UM,

0:39:57.120 --> 0:39:58.960
<v Speaker 1>And I don't know. I mean, I don't like how

0:39:59.040 --> 0:40:02.080
<v Speaker 1>they allow under age girls to drink in the clubs.

0:40:02.239 --> 0:40:05.480
<v Speaker 1>That's like probably my biggest pet peeves because I was eighteen,

0:40:05.600 --> 0:40:10.960
<v Speaker 1>nineteen twenty, like black out, like drunk, and I came

0:40:11.000 --> 0:40:12.640
<v Speaker 1>home with mad money. I don't know, but I don't

0:40:12.680 --> 0:40:14.400
<v Speaker 1>know what I did or what I happened. It's like

0:40:14.480 --> 0:40:17.399
<v Speaker 1>I wish that's something that I think makes it kind

0:40:17.440 --> 0:40:19.360
<v Speaker 1>of I used to I used to bartend and I

0:40:19.440 --> 0:40:21.960
<v Speaker 1>mean I try dancing like two nights one night in

0:40:22.040 --> 0:40:25.680
<v Speaker 1>Atlanta one night, and about it. And what's crazy is

0:40:25.800 --> 0:40:28.520
<v Speaker 1>what you were saying. Even about the hands in Atlantic

0:40:28.640 --> 0:40:30.719
<v Speaker 1>was so different because it is nude. I want to

0:40:30.719 --> 0:40:33.279
<v Speaker 1>say it was like the pink pony. Yeah that I

0:40:33.360 --> 0:40:36.360
<v Speaker 1>want to but no pink pony is I think the

0:40:36.400 --> 0:40:38.560
<v Speaker 1>one that was on Beautford Highway it was. It was

0:40:38.640 --> 0:40:42.000
<v Speaker 1>more south than that. But in Atlanta, if if a

0:40:42.080 --> 0:40:44.640
<v Speaker 1>guy pays for a dance, as soon as that that

0:40:44.800 --> 0:40:47.440
<v Speaker 1>song starts, you get naked. And the DJ used to

0:40:47.520 --> 0:40:51.320
<v Speaker 1>be like, uh, magic was my name from ne Orlando. Magic.

0:40:51.440 --> 0:40:57.960
<v Speaker 1>That was my stripper from I was a tever and

0:40:58.040 --> 0:41:00.920
<v Speaker 1>I wore black and blue like the or end of Magic. Okay,

0:41:02.800 --> 0:41:05.960
<v Speaker 1>yes I was from Orlando. I was eighteen, just flew

0:41:06.040 --> 0:41:07.400
<v Speaker 1>to Atlanta. But I was like, I need to make

0:41:07.440 --> 0:41:10.319
<v Speaker 1>money fast, and that was probably that was my first

0:41:10.440 --> 0:41:12.560
<v Speaker 1>end last night. Um. And then that's the thing too.

0:41:12.680 --> 0:41:15.480
<v Speaker 1>I also felt like, bitch, you pay the house fee

0:41:15.560 --> 0:41:18.120
<v Speaker 1>up front, you don't even want to leave until you

0:41:18.239 --> 0:41:21.960
<v Speaker 1>make the house feedback, and then oh god, if it's

0:41:22.000 --> 0:41:24.680
<v Speaker 1>a good night. I've seen it as high like in Miami.

0:41:25.120 --> 0:41:27.600
<v Speaker 1>I did don't don't make one night at the office.

0:41:28.000 --> 0:41:30.480
<v Speaker 1>And this is like when the office just first opened.

0:41:30.960 --> 0:41:33.480
<v Speaker 1>And if a good night was in, a good night

0:41:33.600 --> 0:41:36.520
<v Speaker 1>is like bitch. The Miami Heat is playing a team.

0:41:36.560 --> 0:41:38.480
<v Speaker 1>They know the players are gonna come. This is when

0:41:38.520 --> 0:41:40.840
<v Speaker 1>Tip Drill was working at the office. A lot of

0:41:40.880 --> 0:41:42.600
<v Speaker 1>the bigger names was at the office at this time.

0:41:43.000 --> 0:41:45.960
<v Speaker 1>Easily three hunted. But what you did was you worked

0:41:46.120 --> 0:41:48.880
<v Speaker 1>day shift. If you work day shift, you got the

0:41:49.000 --> 0:41:51.279
<v Speaker 1>day the day rate, and then your night shift rate

0:41:51.320 --> 0:41:54.080
<v Speaker 1>would only be like flat. But if you came in

0:41:54.120 --> 0:41:57.520
<v Speaker 1>at night just to come and get that money, it

0:41:57.600 --> 0:42:00.440
<v Speaker 1>was about the same um. And that's why I would do.

0:42:00.520 --> 0:42:02.200
<v Speaker 1>So we have a thing. It's like midshift. So you

0:42:02.239 --> 0:42:04.000
<v Speaker 1>don't do day shift and you don't do night shift,

0:42:04.080 --> 0:42:06.840
<v Speaker 1>but you pay a mid shift feast. It's like you

0:42:06.960 --> 0:42:08.680
<v Speaker 1>come in at six, but you can't say you can't

0:42:08.719 --> 0:42:10.960
<v Speaker 1>get the night rush crowd like you. They make you.

0:42:11.400 --> 0:42:14.280
<v Speaker 1>So you come in at six and then you gotta

0:42:14.320 --> 0:42:16.840
<v Speaker 1>be leaving by like midnight, because then they let the

0:42:16.880 --> 0:42:19.640
<v Speaker 1>other brother girls who came all day, they let them

0:42:19.840 --> 0:42:24.360
<v Speaker 1>get the late night rush. So but midshift used to

0:42:24.440 --> 0:42:26.160
<v Speaker 1>work for me, and you only get you pay like

0:42:26.200 --> 0:42:28.120
<v Speaker 1>half of that, so you like maybe a hundred dollars.

0:42:28.600 --> 0:42:30.600
<v Speaker 1>Have you ever seen some lesbian trauma go on? Like

0:42:30.680 --> 0:42:33.880
<v Speaker 1>two bitches as gay? They're like I heard some of

0:42:33.880 --> 0:42:36.400
<v Speaker 1>the strippers be gay, and I'm curious to know, like

0:42:36.480 --> 0:42:39.359
<v Speaker 1>are they dating each other? They sucking? That's the hot ship.

0:42:40.600 --> 0:42:42.680
<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of them are buy But I

0:42:42.719 --> 0:42:45.560
<v Speaker 1>don't even even even if I was looking at party

0:42:45.600 --> 0:42:47.080
<v Speaker 1>all day and I like to eat it, I'm gonna

0:42:47.120 --> 0:42:50.359
<v Speaker 1>be like, well, me and Magic, even though they never

0:42:50.520 --> 0:42:53.960
<v Speaker 1>like really mixed, it's only your name. It was. It

0:42:54.040 --> 0:42:56.000
<v Speaker 1>started as my dad's name. Now it's just that's just

0:42:56.080 --> 0:42:58.799
<v Speaker 1>who she is. I can't get away from it. Now,

0:42:59.440 --> 0:43:01.520
<v Speaker 1>when's the that's time? Like, have you felt like you've

0:43:01.640 --> 0:43:03.160
<v Speaker 1>wanted to do it? I know you're into so many

0:43:03.239 --> 0:43:06.880
<v Speaker 1>ventures now, but do you miss it? Sometimes it's like

0:43:07.520 --> 0:43:10.759
<v Speaker 1>maybe I think I missed the attention. Yeah, I was

0:43:10.880 --> 0:43:14.680
<v Speaker 1>so cute up there with my little outfits. But and

0:43:14.800 --> 0:43:17.480
<v Speaker 1>obviously the money. I like, HA intangible money every day.

0:43:17.480 --> 0:43:20.200
<v Speaker 1>It's like that was nice, But I just can't. I

0:43:20.239 --> 0:43:22.320
<v Speaker 1>can't anyone maybe like a one night only, like she

0:43:22.440 --> 0:43:24.560
<v Speaker 1>can be a headliner or something. I would, but I

0:43:24.600 --> 0:43:33.120
<v Speaker 1>would never go back and dance. Now, what's your best

0:43:33.239 --> 0:43:35.920
<v Speaker 1>night you've ever had? Like as far as money, Um,

0:43:36.239 --> 0:43:38.960
<v Speaker 1>my best night ever probably It was a bachelor party

0:43:39.239 --> 0:43:42.400
<v Speaker 1>and the groom and his brother wanted a V I

0:43:42.520 --> 0:43:44.960
<v Speaker 1>P dance for me and they ended up paying me

0:43:45.080 --> 0:43:48.440
<v Speaker 1>like twenty thou dollars And then we went to the

0:43:48.520 --> 0:43:50.840
<v Speaker 1>casino after and I actually I had a threesome with

0:43:50.920 --> 0:43:55.719
<v Speaker 1>them two brothers. I know they the club by the way.

0:43:55.920 --> 0:44:00.040
<v Speaker 1>Fuck you for definitely having my fucking fantasy for a

0:44:00.120 --> 0:44:04.640
<v Speaker 1>dad and a son. Oh interesting. Do you remember when

0:44:04.640 --> 0:44:06.640
<v Speaker 1>I was talking to them twins one time? Oh yeah,

0:44:07.160 --> 0:44:12.560
<v Speaker 1>like listen are both y'all? Were they taking to each

0:44:12.600 --> 0:44:16.359
<v Speaker 1>other in a three? Yeah, they've done it before. Yeah. Sure,

0:44:16.800 --> 0:44:19.480
<v Speaker 1>that's the thing that's isn't sick or not? Like I

0:44:19.520 --> 0:44:22.400
<v Speaker 1>don't know, I mean so cute. They were so cute.

0:44:23.320 --> 0:44:25.360
<v Speaker 1>They were fine girl. But now have they had that

0:44:25.480 --> 0:44:28.440
<v Speaker 1>much money? I mean they're Caldy and is like they

0:44:28.560 --> 0:44:31.239
<v Speaker 1>come from money. It was a thing like damn they

0:44:32.160 --> 0:44:35.279
<v Speaker 1>from caw. It's Middle Eastern. Oh that we have a

0:44:35.360 --> 0:44:39.959
<v Speaker 1>huge Caldy in community. And sorry, yeah, cal it's middle

0:44:39.960 --> 0:44:44.640
<v Speaker 1>Eastern country. What's the country? Um, I don't read what

0:44:44.719 --> 0:44:47.279
<v Speaker 1>the region? Is. I don't know, but they look look

0:44:47.360 --> 0:44:55.319
<v Speaker 1>like Cadians from there from the Middle East. Maybe arn't

0:44:55.320 --> 0:45:03.680
<v Speaker 1>want to see you never h y'all, never, bitch, are

0:45:03.719 --> 0:45:06.560
<v Speaker 1>we're dumb? Oh bitch? There is a member of an

0:45:06.600 --> 0:45:10.839
<v Speaker 1>ancient people who lived in Caldea. Where the fund is that. Well,

0:45:10.920 --> 0:45:12.840
<v Speaker 1>we have a lot of them where I'm from. What

0:45:13.080 --> 0:45:15.880
<v Speaker 1>rights their Calda? Because I want one? Oh wait, here

0:45:15.920 --> 0:45:19.800
<v Speaker 1>we go in the cryptodics modern day Turkey and northeast Syria.

0:45:21.480 --> 0:45:28.720
<v Speaker 1>There we go, they're either Calderian or Assyrian. Bitch, listen,

0:45:28.840 --> 0:45:32.480
<v Speaker 1>that's what Google said, not not getting us into geography.

0:45:32.520 --> 0:45:40.960
<v Speaker 1>Be let me, I'll take off. You know, I've never

0:45:41.040 --> 0:45:42.359
<v Speaker 1>been in the Middle Eastern, dude, but I think it's

0:45:42.360 --> 0:45:44.200
<v Speaker 1>cause my daddy's Middle Easting. But you know what, the

0:45:44.239 --> 0:45:46.000
<v Speaker 1>fact that you said it was cute, so I was

0:45:46.120 --> 0:45:48.360
<v Speaker 1>really shallow. I'm not a good actor like you. So

0:45:48.960 --> 0:45:51.400
<v Speaker 1>all of my like sugar daddies and trick niggas was

0:45:51.400 --> 0:45:53.560
<v Speaker 1>at least good looking. I don't care. That's whear to

0:45:53.600 --> 0:45:56.040
<v Speaker 1>god know, some of them gonna be like I couldn't

0:45:56.080 --> 0:45:58.000
<v Speaker 1>and should be sucking you for free, but I'll take

0:45:58.160 --> 0:46:03.160
<v Speaker 1>money like that's like damn you're paying me for this experience.

0:46:03.760 --> 0:46:05.960
<v Speaker 1>I had one cute sugar daddy was a white dude,

0:46:06.040 --> 0:46:09.239
<v Speaker 1>but he was like he was like hot dad, white guy,

0:46:09.440 --> 0:46:12.000
<v Speaker 1>very fit. Um, he was like always in the gym.

0:46:12.120 --> 0:46:14.400
<v Speaker 1>We met on seeking arrangement, and I remember I was

0:46:14.440 --> 0:46:15.919
<v Speaker 1>on the date and I was like, oh my god,

0:46:16.160 --> 0:46:18.440
<v Speaker 1>this is and I got drunk and I said, I

0:46:18.520 --> 0:46:19.960
<v Speaker 1>was like, this is like real, like you could have

0:46:20.040 --> 0:46:22.520
<v Speaker 1>met me at a bar. And he was like, are

0:46:22.560 --> 0:46:24.839
<v Speaker 1>you saying that because I'm attractive or because you want

0:46:24.880 --> 0:46:27.560
<v Speaker 1>to suck me? I was like, I mean, not act

0:46:27.640 --> 0:46:33.120
<v Speaker 1>too excited, don't need twenty five. But you know what's

0:46:33.160 --> 0:46:35.879
<v Speaker 1>crazy is out of all of that, I've only had

0:46:35.960 --> 0:46:38.759
<v Speaker 1>one experience where I ever got paid um, where I

0:46:38.840 --> 0:46:41.080
<v Speaker 1>felt like was directly for sex, even though it was

0:46:41.080 --> 0:46:44.800
<v Speaker 1>still seeking arrangement. But everything else it was just a

0:46:44.880 --> 0:46:46.920
<v Speaker 1>lot of talking. Like I got I started getting very

0:46:46.960 --> 0:46:49.360
<v Speaker 1>scared and I started either I don't know if I

0:46:49.640 --> 0:46:51.880
<v Speaker 1>feel like the self worth got in there and I

0:46:51.920 --> 0:46:54.440
<v Speaker 1>don't know if I was confused or didn't know what

0:46:54.600 --> 0:46:58.160
<v Speaker 1>to do. So and I'm talking about strictly i'll sneaking arrangement.

0:46:58.320 --> 0:47:01.359
<v Speaker 1>I would ask, what are signs that you know you're ready,

0:47:01.440 --> 0:47:03.760
<v Speaker 1>Like what would you say is a good thing for women?

0:47:03.960 --> 0:47:06.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't want girls to think like we should be

0:47:06.160 --> 0:47:07.879
<v Speaker 1>getting on here, but I'm not ready or I'm gonna

0:47:07.880 --> 0:47:10.480
<v Speaker 1>put myself in a crazy situation, Like how do you

0:47:10.560 --> 0:47:13.000
<v Speaker 1>know when you're ready to do something like that, something

0:47:13.080 --> 0:47:15.960
<v Speaker 1>like like being a sugar baby or something like sugar

0:47:16.000 --> 0:47:19.400
<v Speaker 1>baby and possibly having sex during that sugar Um, I

0:47:19.440 --> 0:47:21.759
<v Speaker 1>don't know for me. I I like I said I

0:47:22.120 --> 0:47:26.359
<v Speaker 1>needed money today now, right now, so today. Um yeah,

0:47:26.600 --> 0:47:29.080
<v Speaker 1>So with that, I guess I just I think it's

0:47:29.120 --> 0:47:32.960
<v Speaker 1>more about knowing your boundaries. Like, so before you do anything,

0:47:33.360 --> 0:47:35.480
<v Speaker 1>I guess, set boundaries for yourself. And that's what I did,

0:47:35.560 --> 0:47:37.120
<v Speaker 1>Like I didn't start off and I'm just like I'm

0:47:37.160 --> 0:47:39.239
<v Speaker 1>down to funk for whatever. It's like, No, I'll take

0:47:39.239 --> 0:47:41.959
<v Speaker 1>two hundred dollars for a day, I'll take three hundred

0:47:41.960 --> 0:47:44.239
<v Speaker 1>dollars for a little bit of time. So I think

0:47:44.320 --> 0:47:47.200
<v Speaker 1>maybe easing into something like that if you don't know

0:47:47.360 --> 0:47:51.640
<v Speaker 1>if if that's really where you'll be comfortable. Um, that's like,

0:47:51.800 --> 0:47:53.680
<v Speaker 1>I think boundaries are good. That's why I started on

0:47:53.760 --> 0:47:58.040
<v Speaker 1>what your Price? Did you know about that website? I did?

0:47:58.200 --> 0:48:02.239
<v Speaker 1>I never lose that I know girl, when we moved

0:48:02.280 --> 0:48:04.080
<v Speaker 1>to New York, we was both kind of poor, and

0:48:04.200 --> 0:48:06.359
<v Speaker 1>she used it and had a two hundred dollar day

0:48:06.360 --> 0:48:08.359
<v Speaker 1>in the negat. That's one of the hundreds was fake.

0:48:09.640 --> 0:48:12.440
<v Speaker 1>I to god, she was so mad, but you got

0:48:12.560 --> 0:48:16.080
<v Speaker 1>to use it at the day, you gotta use No.

0:48:16.280 --> 0:48:18.360
<v Speaker 1>She just she she went out to spend it and

0:48:18.680 --> 0:48:20.520
<v Speaker 1>was just hoping they didn't know it was fake because

0:48:20.560 --> 0:48:23.440
<v Speaker 1>she was like, brother, sh is fake. Yeah, she got

0:48:23.480 --> 0:48:25.640
<v Speaker 1>that shirt off real quick. Oh that's all I would do.

0:48:26.320 --> 0:48:28.799
<v Speaker 1>She had to get it on this fake So one

0:48:28.840 --> 0:48:34.160
<v Speaker 1>of the hundreds never saw him again. I didn't get

0:48:34.200 --> 0:48:35.799
<v Speaker 1>paid once. I don't know if you remember. I went

0:48:35.880 --> 0:48:38.080
<v Speaker 1>to he with this niggative sushi restaurant by Millennia, and

0:48:38.120 --> 0:48:40.640
<v Speaker 1>he didn't pay me. And that's what I was like.

0:48:40.640 --> 0:48:42.960
<v Speaker 1>I was like. Everybody was like, did you ask? And

0:48:43.000 --> 0:48:45.440
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I didn't know, but it happened to

0:48:45.520 --> 0:48:48.359
<v Speaker 1>me before in my early and my early sugar baby days.

0:48:48.520 --> 0:48:50.200
<v Speaker 1>He was like, yeah, i'll pay you this for a day,

0:48:50.280 --> 0:48:52.000
<v Speaker 1>and I was like okay. So we went on the day.

0:48:52.040 --> 0:48:53.799
<v Speaker 1>We had a good time. He was only like five

0:48:53.880 --> 0:48:56.440
<v Speaker 1>hundred dollars, but and I left this nigga I'm in

0:48:56.480 --> 0:48:58.120
<v Speaker 1>the car and I'm thinking, like where it's my money?

0:48:58.160 --> 0:48:59.880
<v Speaker 1>Like how do I say? And I'm really in the

0:49:00.000 --> 0:49:03.719
<v Speaker 1>are not saying ship And I'm like, you're pulling up

0:49:03.719 --> 0:49:05.880
<v Speaker 1>to your house, he's not gonna say, and my tass

0:49:06.000 --> 0:49:08.239
<v Speaker 1>got out the car like and I'm just standing there

0:49:08.280 --> 0:49:11.440
<v Speaker 1>like why did I just do that? Why did it

0:49:11.640 --> 0:49:13.399
<v Speaker 1>was a little bad. I mean I went on what's

0:49:13.440 --> 0:49:15.759
<v Speaker 1>your friss day? He paid for the first date, and

0:49:15.880 --> 0:49:18.160
<v Speaker 1>then after he's going on a date again the next day,

0:49:18.160 --> 0:49:19.560
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, oh, it's just about to be

0:49:19.600 --> 0:49:22.960
<v Speaker 1>my my job for the second date. He didn't think

0:49:23.000 --> 0:49:25.520
<v Speaker 1>he had to pay because he happened to each other.

0:49:25.680 --> 0:49:27.960
<v Speaker 1>That happened to me too, So he's just like I

0:49:28.080 --> 0:49:30.200
<v Speaker 1>paid for the first day. Mind you, they pay you

0:49:30.360 --> 0:49:32.080
<v Speaker 1>to be on the date, and they paid for the meal.

0:49:32.440 --> 0:49:34.719
<v Speaker 1>So the second day he invited me on. He thought

0:49:34.760 --> 0:49:36.920
<v Speaker 1>by that time, like I just agreed to go to

0:49:37.000 --> 0:49:39.600
<v Speaker 1>eat more food. It wasn't like another arranged paid eight

0:49:41.040 --> 0:49:47.040
<v Speaker 1>It's the same. Yeah, keep energy sharing, hose you wouldn't

0:49:47.040 --> 0:49:49.160
<v Speaker 1>share your clients? You would? I wish I would not

0:49:49.320 --> 0:49:52.560
<v Speaker 1>my best ones though, Like no, I need all all

0:49:52.640 --> 0:49:55.960
<v Speaker 1>of that, So I mean I share especially say the

0:49:56.040 --> 0:49:58.560
<v Speaker 1>girl doesn't live in my same city. Or I just

0:49:58.760 --> 0:50:01.080
<v Speaker 1>used to really really really want to look out for

0:50:01.160 --> 0:50:04.320
<v Speaker 1>my friends. I don't have it and you need it.

0:50:04.760 --> 0:50:06.520
<v Speaker 1>I got a nigger you could get it from. So

0:50:06.680 --> 0:50:09.080
<v Speaker 1>like my African that was in Nigeria, he was one

0:50:09.120 --> 0:50:12.000
<v Speaker 1>of those that in first conversation on the phone, he's

0:50:12.040 --> 0:50:15.200
<v Speaker 1>wiring a thousand dollars. So I'm like getting my friend

0:50:15.280 --> 0:50:17.520
<v Speaker 1>that out. Another African, I used to be like, bit,

0:50:17.640 --> 0:50:19.920
<v Speaker 1>you just want to go to Houston one night hunted,

0:50:20.040 --> 0:50:23.000
<v Speaker 1>Like my African was, he was in Houston. That's where

0:50:23.040 --> 0:50:29.360
<v Speaker 1>they be. It might be the same. He did oil,

0:50:30.280 --> 0:50:33.480
<v Speaker 1>he did not, he did he build cars. Okay, I'm

0:50:33.680 --> 0:50:38.120
<v Speaker 1>saying African, the Africans in in Houston be tricking like

0:50:38.239 --> 0:50:43.680
<v Speaker 1>a bitch, the ones that yeah, no that, but he

0:50:43.800 --> 0:50:45.640
<v Speaker 1>was in Houston. And and then, like I said, the

0:50:45.640 --> 0:50:48.600
<v Speaker 1>basketball players, especially the married ones. If it's someone that

0:50:49.200 --> 0:50:53.520
<v Speaker 1>actually the especially if it's someone that you know, this

0:50:53.760 --> 0:50:56.279
<v Speaker 1>is never gonna go anywhere and really just being paid

0:50:56.320 --> 0:50:59.400
<v Speaker 1>for time. If it's not you, it's someone else. So

0:50:59.600 --> 0:51:02.120
<v Speaker 1>if a girl need need a lick and eat some bread,

0:51:02.360 --> 0:51:03.879
<v Speaker 1>I wa be like, girl, I got you, I'm gonna

0:51:03.880 --> 0:51:05.680
<v Speaker 1>send him your Instagram page and if you like you

0:51:06.040 --> 0:51:08.799
<v Speaker 1>can you go to Memphis next week because that's where

0:51:08.840 --> 0:51:12.400
<v Speaker 1>he had for two days. And oh yeah, I mean

0:51:12.440 --> 0:51:14.279
<v Speaker 1>I did that. I didn't do that. I didn't do that.

0:51:14.400 --> 0:51:16.320
<v Speaker 1>I did do that with my first basketball player I

0:51:16.360 --> 0:51:20.839
<v Speaker 1>fell in love with. Many literally called me, I'm serious, bitch.

0:51:20.880 --> 0:51:24.320
<v Speaker 1>He came to Atlanto. My mom was involved. It was

0:51:24.440 --> 0:51:27.400
<v Speaker 1>give and I go see him. Then I called me

0:51:27.440 --> 0:51:28.960
<v Speaker 1>and he crying. One day, she goes, you know, we're

0:51:29.120 --> 0:51:34.800
<v Speaker 1>just supposed to fuck him, and I was, b's not

0:51:35.000 --> 0:51:37.839
<v Speaker 1>my heart beating him all pussy. Okay, before we get out,

0:51:37.840 --> 0:51:43.719
<v Speaker 1>we gotta talk about home mail. So um here we go. Hey, guys,

0:51:43.760 --> 0:51:45.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm now getting hip to horrible decisions and I fell

0:51:45.719 --> 0:51:47.560
<v Speaker 1>in love. I really do think this podcast came to

0:51:47.640 --> 0:51:48.960
<v Speaker 1>my life at the perfect time. I've been with my

0:51:49.000 --> 0:51:50.680
<v Speaker 1>boyfriend a little over two years. We have a five

0:51:50.719 --> 0:51:52.279
<v Speaker 1>month old son. But I don't know if I want

0:51:52.320 --> 0:51:54.360
<v Speaker 1>to be with him anymore because because of all the

0:51:54.440 --> 0:51:56.960
<v Speaker 1>personal problems is one thing, but I truly cannot get

0:51:57.000 --> 0:51:59.080
<v Speaker 1>over how fast he nuts. At the beginning, I caught

0:51:59.120 --> 0:52:01.759
<v Speaker 1>feelings before I list how weak weak the dick was

0:52:02.400 --> 0:52:05.320
<v Speaker 1>constantly He's always touching on me, getting me wet and hype,

0:52:05.400 --> 0:52:07.160
<v Speaker 1>and then we have sex for three or four minutes

0:52:07.480 --> 0:52:11.160
<v Speaker 1>or um when I'm giving him head literally in three

0:52:11.239 --> 0:52:12.800
<v Speaker 1>and four minutes, and I'm high and dry and the

0:52:12.920 --> 0:52:14.600
<v Speaker 1>sub and me loves to please my nick. But at

0:52:14.640 --> 0:52:16.560
<v Speaker 1>the same time, like what about me? It's come to

0:52:16.600 --> 0:52:18.359
<v Speaker 1>the point where I don't even get excited for sex.

0:52:18.520 --> 0:52:20.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't even want to have sex with him. It's

0:52:20.080 --> 0:52:22.719
<v Speaker 1>honestly so depressing because I know someone could suck me

0:52:22.760 --> 0:52:24.920
<v Speaker 1>and actually please me instead of this bullshit I'm putting

0:52:25.000 --> 0:52:27.879
<v Speaker 1>up with. I feel like the dick was good. If

0:52:27.960 --> 0:52:29.840
<v Speaker 1>it was good, I could ignore the other problems. But

0:52:30.200 --> 0:52:32.279
<v Speaker 1>it's just so weak and it makes everything ten times

0:52:32.320 --> 0:52:35.839
<v Speaker 1>worth any advice, m hm. I feel like he broke

0:52:35.920 --> 0:52:38.560
<v Speaker 1>a something because the fact that she said like him

0:52:38.640 --> 0:52:40.879
<v Speaker 1>having bad dick is making everything else about him worse.

0:52:42.160 --> 0:52:45.040
<v Speaker 1>I got that personal problems. I don't know me. Maybe

0:52:45.080 --> 0:52:47.560
<v Speaker 1>he got a d h D. Maybe he's a bad listener.

0:52:47.840 --> 0:52:56.399
<v Speaker 1>Why you gotta be wrote she just not realized. Yeah,

0:52:56.440 --> 0:53:00.480
<v Speaker 1>you're right. Um, you know what, if he's nutting fast,

0:53:00.640 --> 0:53:03.680
<v Speaker 1>I would say, maybe you work on introducing other things,

0:53:03.760 --> 0:53:08.320
<v Speaker 1>maybe the toys that make orgasm bringing those into the bedroom.

0:53:08.360 --> 0:53:11.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm not actually, I think it's either you fix it

0:53:11.360 --> 0:53:13.719
<v Speaker 1>or I'm done. If we can't have sex, you got

0:53:13.840 --> 0:53:16.920
<v Speaker 1>to get toys and not bring like that might get

0:53:17.000 --> 0:53:19.840
<v Speaker 1>him exciting. I mean, then give him maybe that that

0:53:20.040 --> 0:53:23.759
<v Speaker 1>we talked about that like that, you're like, maybe start

0:53:23.840 --> 0:53:26.239
<v Speaker 1>making him some smoothies in the morning with some sea moss.

0:53:28.600 --> 0:53:31.000
<v Speaker 1>I think that that must be a dysfunction if anyone

0:53:31.040 --> 0:53:32.920
<v Speaker 1>remembers that sex in the city episode where she met

0:53:32.960 --> 0:53:34.960
<v Speaker 1>this lit writer, and I think it was coming way

0:53:35.040 --> 0:53:37.279
<v Speaker 1>too quick. No, I think that you need to tell

0:53:37.360 --> 0:53:41.399
<v Speaker 1>him to get on something, maybe a certain type of pill,

0:53:41.640 --> 0:53:44.120
<v Speaker 1>vitamin whatever. But if I can't have sex with you

0:53:44.280 --> 0:53:46.440
<v Speaker 1>three minutes, sex is not sex. If we can't have

0:53:46.520 --> 0:53:48.160
<v Speaker 1>sex for not having sex, and if I can't have

0:53:48.239 --> 0:53:49.200
<v Speaker 1>sex with you, I don't want to be with you.

0:53:49.280 --> 0:53:51.480
<v Speaker 1>I think she needs to buy some toys. Toys. Why

0:53:51.520 --> 0:53:53.840
<v Speaker 1>do you think toys will make it better, because because

0:53:53.840 --> 0:53:57.000
<v Speaker 1>it does. I love toys to the bedroom. If he

0:53:57.080 --> 0:53:59.080
<v Speaker 1>starts sucking her with a dil though, then Nick is

0:53:59.080 --> 0:54:02.359
<v Speaker 1>gonna come. You don't know that. You may not come

0:54:02.440 --> 0:54:05.080
<v Speaker 1>off of it, like penetration makes him come yet. But

0:54:05.200 --> 0:54:09.160
<v Speaker 1>she wants to fucking fuck penetrated. Day she wants penetrated sex,

0:54:09.239 --> 0:54:11.320
<v Speaker 1>you can have penetrative sex with a dildo. I I

0:54:11.480 --> 0:54:13.719
<v Speaker 1>had toys, and it's made like my sex life, Like

0:54:13.719 --> 0:54:15.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't even want to nigga without toys now, Like

0:54:16.200 --> 0:54:18.920
<v Speaker 1>it's a great addition. And so I think if you

0:54:19.040 --> 0:54:22.080
<v Speaker 1>really want penetration, you add more for play and get

0:54:22.200 --> 0:54:24.399
<v Speaker 1>him to play with you with toys. I mean there's

0:54:24.480 --> 0:54:28.359
<v Speaker 1>also we've also talked about Okay, maybe he even wears

0:54:28.400 --> 0:54:31.359
<v Speaker 1>an extender or he double penetraction, Like there's so many

0:54:31.360 --> 0:54:35.200
<v Speaker 1>things that you add when you add other She didn't say, yeah,

0:54:35.200 --> 0:54:38.000
<v Speaker 1>but but but that may keep him from feeling that

0:54:38.040 --> 0:54:43.000
<v Speaker 1>it's penetrated. But that might make not faster too. Why right,

0:54:43.080 --> 0:54:46.839
<v Speaker 1>Russia is the blood and holds it. I thought hard. Yeah,

0:54:47.080 --> 0:54:49.120
<v Speaker 1>I mean there's just so many options I wouldn't go

0:54:49.200 --> 0:54:51.560
<v Speaker 1>straight to because it's giving the wind blows he comes.

0:54:52.320 --> 0:54:54.240
<v Speaker 1>And if that's the truth, I would say he definitely

0:54:54.239 --> 0:54:55.799
<v Speaker 1>need to get on something. I just don't understand how

0:54:55.840 --> 0:54:58.160
<v Speaker 1>she realized this from day one? Did she just think

0:54:58.160 --> 0:55:00.520
<v Speaker 1>it was gonna get better? He was probably like DoD,

0:55:00.680 --> 0:55:02.279
<v Speaker 1>it's probably being a good nigga, and then you're like,

0:55:02.320 --> 0:55:05.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, we just fucking. He's excited now, but she's

0:55:05.520 --> 0:55:07.719
<v Speaker 1>still doing that with a baby. I know my own

0:55:07.760 --> 0:55:10.440
<v Speaker 1>girls they gonna suck him after. You know what, here's

0:55:10.480 --> 0:55:13.400
<v Speaker 1>my advice to him. If he just happens to be listening,

0:55:13.760 --> 0:55:15.360
<v Speaker 1>or a man is listening and this is an issue,

0:55:16.320 --> 0:55:20.600
<v Speaker 1>start start picking up in other areas. When a bitch

0:55:20.719 --> 0:55:23.360
<v Speaker 1>likes you, we be delusional and think the sex is

0:55:23.400 --> 0:55:26.360
<v Speaker 1>better than it really is, like maybe by her flowers,

0:55:26.600 --> 0:55:32.040
<v Speaker 1>by her gucci, by her product. I don't know. That's

0:55:32.080 --> 0:55:37.520
<v Speaker 1>what a way you said, Like when a nigga got

0:55:37.560 --> 0:55:39.759
<v Speaker 1>money and do things like you know, I don't even

0:55:39.840 --> 0:55:42.520
<v Speaker 1>notice the sex. So if you start doing more acts

0:55:42.600 --> 0:55:45.440
<v Speaker 1>of service and do other things, maybe she's gonna like you.

0:55:45.560 --> 0:55:48.080
<v Speaker 1>Maybe he said accident hating a photo on the wall

0:55:48.520 --> 0:55:55.000
<v Speaker 1>show because you can't that, I mean, open the conversation

0:55:55.160 --> 0:55:58.719
<v Speaker 1>to see if he's into any sort of other type

0:55:58.760 --> 0:56:01.439
<v Speaker 1>of lifestyles. So cut holding maybe going to the sex

0:56:01.480 --> 0:56:03.239
<v Speaker 1>club and allowing you to be with another man like

0:56:05.440 --> 0:56:08.680
<v Speaker 1>you don't what, this's what our shows about. Open up

0:56:08.719 --> 0:56:10.840
<v Speaker 1>the idea to still loving that nigga book. If you

0:56:10.960 --> 0:56:13.959
<v Speaker 1>can't find me, someone else will. But you could be right, there. Yeah,

0:56:14.280 --> 0:56:19.239
<v Speaker 1>that's fair. That's fair. Are you an open relationship type

0:56:19.239 --> 0:56:22.560
<v Speaker 1>of person? I have been? It depends each Each of

0:56:22.680 --> 0:56:25.640
<v Speaker 1>my relationships have been so different. So it's just whatever

0:56:25.760 --> 0:56:28.200
<v Speaker 1>works with me and in my person at the time.

0:56:28.600 --> 0:56:33.080
<v Speaker 1>It's customizable. Girl. Yeah, we have one guest say that

0:56:33.200 --> 0:56:35.560
<v Speaker 1>Mandy never left, you know, that's my word. Now. They

0:56:35.600 --> 0:56:37.120
<v Speaker 1>were like, we have our relationship comes to my like,

0:56:37.120 --> 0:56:39.560
<v Speaker 1>what was that? That was crazy? Don't know because I

0:56:39.600 --> 0:56:41.239
<v Speaker 1>mean people still ask me, so are y'all on my

0:56:41.360 --> 0:56:45.440
<v Speaker 1>open relationship? Are y'all swingers? And it's like, you know,

0:56:45.840 --> 0:56:49.360
<v Speaker 1>is they know? I can be like no, but like,

0:56:50.040 --> 0:56:54.719
<v Speaker 1>if not feel a way, maybe the dollars a cow dean,

0:56:54.840 --> 0:56:57.840
<v Speaker 1>whatever is it again? Chilean? What's it called? It is

0:56:57.880 --> 0:57:00.439
<v Speaker 1>not chili, bitch, that's the South. I'm sorry, I'm hungry.

0:57:00.520 --> 0:57:04.919
<v Speaker 1>That's why I said, what's they called again? I'm telling

0:57:04.960 --> 0:57:10.160
<v Speaker 1>you right now? And you said they fine? Fine, And

0:57:10.239 --> 0:57:13.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm watching Ni Fiance and that nigga the Black Girl.

0:57:13.320 --> 0:57:15.480
<v Speaker 1>Do you watch it? They got a black girl. I

0:57:15.560 --> 0:57:19.120
<v Speaker 1>haven't watched it this season. This nigga fine, And she'd

0:57:19.160 --> 0:57:22.360
<v Speaker 1>be telling him, like, you keep playing with me whatever

0:57:22.440 --> 0:57:24.360
<v Speaker 1>his name is. He'd be like no, baby, I love

0:57:24.400 --> 0:57:27.280
<v Speaker 1>you baby, everything I give to you. Baby. No pretty

0:57:27.320 --> 0:57:30.560
<v Speaker 1>enough baby. Oh girls, I want me a little baby.

0:57:31.200 --> 0:57:34.000
<v Speaker 1>It's the dick. How are the Dixter Brown? I'm assuming yes,

0:57:35.040 --> 0:57:38.720
<v Speaker 1>I mean they're very They don't remember Rihanna's ex. He

0:57:38.920 --> 0:57:41.840
<v Speaker 1>was from around I don't remember his dick, Mandy. Oh,

0:57:42.200 --> 0:57:44.680
<v Speaker 1>but he was. He's good looking, he was fine, he

0:57:44.880 --> 0:57:48.080
<v Speaker 1>was listening, a billionaire I'd had a baby with. Oh

0:57:48.440 --> 0:57:50.280
<v Speaker 1>good boy, as might be right over there. So let

0:57:50.280 --> 0:57:52.480
<v Speaker 1>me not say what I'm saying. Anyone of them would

0:57:52.480 --> 0:57:55.640
<v Speaker 1>have been good. I'm saying, Uh, tell people what's coming

0:57:55.720 --> 0:57:57.439
<v Speaker 1>next for you and if you want them to find

0:57:57.520 --> 0:58:01.080
<v Speaker 1>you and where. On my Instagram them as Solar Moon.

0:58:01.360 --> 0:58:05.080
<v Speaker 1>Same thing with Twitter. There's an underscore at the end. Um,

0:58:05.880 --> 0:58:11.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. So I'm working on my music as

0:58:11.160 --> 0:58:13.240
<v Speaker 1>a little bit of everything. There's a little ep on

0:58:14.400 --> 0:58:18.240
<v Speaker 1>everything that every streaming platform it's just called sola. Um.

0:58:19.160 --> 0:58:22.760
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I'm doing that. I've been. I'm working um

0:58:23.120 --> 0:58:25.440
<v Speaker 1>on a short series. We're trying to do like a

0:58:25.720 --> 0:58:29.000
<v Speaker 1>um basically a bunch of mini stories from eighteen to

0:58:29.280 --> 0:58:32.640
<v Speaker 1>twenty four because that's when I was actively in sex work.

0:58:33.200 --> 0:58:36.720
<v Speaker 1>So um yeah, I'm working on that and that's she's existing,

0:58:37.160 --> 0:58:39.280
<v Speaker 1>you know. I mean I feel like I wanted more

0:58:39.360 --> 0:58:41.840
<v Speaker 1>when I watched it. I want more now, like I

0:58:41.920 --> 0:58:43.720
<v Speaker 1>think people people love to see somewhere at that, but

0:58:43.800 --> 0:58:47.080
<v Speaker 1>I love that more of just I mean that movie

0:58:47.280 --> 0:58:49.920
<v Speaker 1>coming out like that took us into like so many

0:58:49.960 --> 0:58:53.080
<v Speaker 1>people not knowing how any of that lifestyle really is.

0:58:53.480 --> 0:58:55.479
<v Speaker 1>And then first to even have p Valley on TV

0:58:55.600 --> 0:58:59.120
<v Speaker 1>now like ship Euphoria, that ship swiled too, but at

0:58:59.160 --> 0:59:03.440
<v Speaker 1>least I wasn't giving Yeah TeV, like they're really opening

0:59:03.480 --> 0:59:06.360
<v Speaker 1>the gate for people like you and having stories like

0:59:06.480 --> 0:59:09.080
<v Speaker 1>you'll be depicted on film, and I love that's a

0:59:09.160 --> 0:59:12.000
<v Speaker 1>good storyteller. I think that's the thing that's missing, is

0:59:12.080 --> 0:59:15.520
<v Speaker 1>like there are so many stories that people can't tell,

0:59:15.960 --> 0:59:17.560
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. When you're when someone makes

0:59:17.560 --> 0:59:20.320
<v Speaker 1>you excited for more, that's really when you've got the gold.

0:59:20.440 --> 0:59:22.960
<v Speaker 1>But congrats on your movie and all the award and

0:59:23.080 --> 0:59:24.480
<v Speaker 1>I mean clearly we know you're gonna be there now

0:59:24.880 --> 0:59:30.200
<v Speaker 1>and if you have finally everywhere, now go off, when

0:59:30.320 --> 0:59:33.200
<v Speaker 1>is it it? Where is it the awards? There? Um

0:59:33.400 --> 0:59:38.560
<v Speaker 1>they're in l A March fourth. Yeah, So okay, Well

0:59:38.840 --> 0:59:40.640
<v Speaker 1>I'll be in l A and I'm telling you right now,

0:59:40.680 --> 0:59:42.640
<v Speaker 1>I want to after party being Let me give it

0:59:42.920 --> 0:59:52.200
<v Speaker 1>about that. I don't have niggas. What about you just

0:59:52.320 --> 0:59:54.600
<v Speaker 1>pegged in gang bang with Yeah, but that was while

0:59:54.600 --> 1:00:00.760
<v Speaker 1>I was broken up girl, goodbye my ray, and I think, girl,

1:00:00.800 --> 1:00:03.520
<v Speaker 1>you want a peg nigga. See, I'll still share friends,

1:00:03.640 --> 1:00:06.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, And it's only because you wanted to gang

1:00:06.640 --> 1:00:09.280
<v Speaker 1>bang pegan Nick. Don't act like he was being kind.

1:00:09.440 --> 1:00:10.840
<v Speaker 1>I mean I was do you know how to get

1:00:10.880 --> 1:00:14.400
<v Speaker 1>my friends want to pegan nigga and never come across one.

1:00:14.760 --> 1:00:17.400
<v Speaker 1>And he was beautiful and and and brown skin and

1:00:17.480 --> 1:00:19.040
<v Speaker 1>tattered and so it's just like, and you get to

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<v Speaker 1>pack a good looking nigg Have you pegged? Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not my favorite. It's not my favorite. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like no pleasure in it for me, for real,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't It's not I don't like it sexy, I

1:00:32.520 --> 1:00:35.280
<v Speaker 1>don't like it whatever with it. I taped what twight?

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<v Speaker 1>It was literally the It's funny. I think it was

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<v Speaker 1>the first episode of our show. Was like my first

1:00:38.760 --> 1:00:42.640
<v Speaker 1>time really doing it. That nigga was mad why he

1:00:42.840 --> 1:00:44.920
<v Speaker 1>was like, I can't believe you put this on your podcast.

1:00:44.920 --> 1:00:46.439
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I didn't even say it. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>Australian model. How are they gonna know it's you? But

1:00:49.760 --> 1:00:52.040
<v Speaker 1>I guess they do now they'll never know. Well, you

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<v Speaker 1>blocked me down. I just saw him my fucking billboard

1:00:54.880 --> 1:00:57.200
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I fucked him. You can't wait

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<v Speaker 1>to tell people. You know what's crazy about you saying

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<v Speaker 1>that the nigga who condom got missing in me? Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>He was on the billboard and target that nigga like models, models,

1:01:05.600 --> 1:01:08.360
<v Speaker 1>like nigga. It's target in the lead by section. Look

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<v Speaker 1>at us, the models love it now his billboard. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me see my mom was making it yours. It was

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<v Speaker 1>just that target. It was just a target that but

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<v Speaker 1>that nigga, that's what he does. He was, Remember I

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<v Speaker 1>went through a phase while I was sucking like Willelmina

1:01:22.920 --> 1:01:25.080
<v Speaker 1>models and like nigga's like model model because I like

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<v Speaker 1>pretty niggas. Remember that's why she want to suck an

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<v Speaker 1>ask Mandy really wants some pussy. She just wants to

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<v Speaker 1>for tuning in to another episode of poor decisions by

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<v Speaker 1>it's bonus bitches. Welcome to another cinema episode. Alexa, shut

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<v Speaker 1>your grass up. Boom, that's hot. Talk to her. I

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<v Speaker 1>just got an election, making me feel like the bitch

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<v Speaker 1>is stalking me. Like I get worried about you. I've

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<v Speaker 1>never that is my first Alexa. Really I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>I have. Um it's weird because I have two in

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<v Speaker 1>my house, a Syrian my bathroom, and then I got

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<v Speaker 1>my man uh one for his car. But he's old,

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<v Speaker 1>so he just feels like you don't want nobody watching him.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm just like, they're good, You're not a criminal.

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<v Speaker 1>Day That's how I just felt. But LAMBEA scared me.

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<v Speaker 1>Are about us? They just tell us the weather and

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<v Speaker 1>play our tunes. That's all they do. Lamba made me

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<v Speaker 1>unplug it. Um. I wanted to play some rent fires

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<v Speaker 1>and fuck and I was like, Alexa played rent Fires

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<v Speaker 1>and he was like, whoa wonderful that ship going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Now you knew you was gonna activate her as bro Alexa,

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<v Speaker 1>stop Alexa, stop nothing, Alexa, turn it off already. That's

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<v Speaker 1>why he said he didn't want her around because they

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<v Speaker 1>hear everything you call them, day and them okay. I said, fine, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll turn it off. He was like, played on your phone.

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<v Speaker 1>So then I started playing it on my phone, but

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<v Speaker 1>I chrome casted to the TV and then he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought your TV had internet. Why you putting ship

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<v Speaker 1>up on the TV now? And it's talking like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like this ship And I was like, Nigga, what

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<v Speaker 1>the fuck, Mandy, he's not even that old, Like this

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<v Speaker 1>is how you know, even in the system too long,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's crazy, it's fun to me. Um. Also update,

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<v Speaker 1>I told Old Bay two weeks ago. You guys probably

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<v Speaker 1>heard me say that Lambeau was gonna get me a car.

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<v Speaker 1>I called Old Bay right after that episode. I'll let

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<v Speaker 1>you know Kodak black because that's what you call him.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, yeah, what's up. I was like, they never

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<v Speaker 1>want to get me a car and pay my rent?

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<v Speaker 1>And he just was silent, and I was like what

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<v Speaker 1>he said? Okay, Gila, what do you want me to say?

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I just want you to tell me

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<v Speaker 1>whether you think that's crazy. His answer to that was saying,

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<v Speaker 1>I know you're gonna do what you want to do regardless.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's what that response was giving. Do you want

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<v Speaker 1>me to pick you up in a nice car and

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<v Speaker 1>visit l a your web bad. That's really what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really like the real question. So how did you

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<v Speaker 1>respond to that? Like if he said, what do you

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<v Speaker 1>want me to say? Like what what type of response

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<v Speaker 1>did you expect him to t I was like, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what kind of car I wanted? That car is

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<v Speaker 1>like two thousands a month, Like is that really gonna

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<v Speaker 1>drive you crazy? And he was just like, it's what

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do, Gila. So it's giving. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>tell you what you do. Well, it's given that, but

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<v Speaker 1>also I can't tell you what to do, which I appreciate.

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<v Speaker 1>But I also feel like if he called me like

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<v Speaker 1>and was like, this bitch wants to buy X, Y

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<v Speaker 1>and Z for me? You know what I'm saying, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you would have a fucking fit. Yeah I would, um,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know I ain't gonna lie. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>the worst of it all was saying that I accidentally

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<v Speaker 1>sucked him. Were all like that was the real fucking

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassing thing to call my to go with whish to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest, Mandy, he was so appreciative that I said

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<v Speaker 1>it without like trying to bullshit around it when I

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<v Speaker 1>came home, you know what I'm saying, And I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I would have been the same way. Like when

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<v Speaker 1>I really thought about it, I thought that he was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be like, bit, are you out of your mind?

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<v Speaker 1>But if he called me, was like, yo, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm saying. Mistakes happened. But a niga paying

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<v Speaker 1>your rent and in you a car, that's more like

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship, which is why I'm wanting because I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want him to think he could just take the condom off.

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<v Speaker 1>Beats bitch. If a nigga buys you a car and

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<v Speaker 1>your rent, he's not sucking you would have condom. Ever, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well that's what I can't do it. Damn. I wish

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<v Speaker 1>I could just put both of them like that, but um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I mean it kind of sucks, but whatever. Anyway, Uh, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that conversation was a little bit uncomfortable. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>that also Lambeau like doesn't really like understand obey because

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't really I just don't think he gets it,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I think he thinks this is some relationship off

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<v Speaker 1>of TV or like he thinks it's not like a

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<v Speaker 1>real thing, Like he doesn't really maybe understand the openness

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<v Speaker 1>because he's very like if you my bitch, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>fun nobody type of nagg But I'm having fun with

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<v Speaker 1>him right now and I don't want it to end.

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<v Speaker 1>So who knows? They could blow up in my face.

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<v Speaker 1>One of his baby mamas could fly here and kill me.

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<v Speaker 1>There's also that that's a big opportunity for that to

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<v Speaker 1>happen because them holds, damn show one of them, what

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<v Speaker 1>was I gonna say? Hit him up and was like

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<v Speaker 1>this bitch talking about you on her podcast and started

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<v Speaker 1>like blowing up. She was like, who the funk? Else?

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<v Speaker 1>Got a Lamba and Ni? So I mean there's always that,

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<v Speaker 1>um you know, who knows. Hopefully they don't come get

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<v Speaker 1>both of us, bitch I we're gonna take this thing

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<v Speaker 1>back to the gold card the model. I thought about her.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing that happens with you. They ain't coming for us,

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<v Speaker 1>which they're coming for you.