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Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decisions. Hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: I am not just like care you gonna make somebody

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Speaker 1: that's my roommate, it's my boyfriend. Wait, welcome guys to

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Speaker 1: another episode of horrible decisions. We are joined with a

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Speaker 1: very special guests to this. That's right, I'm Wheezy. That's

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Speaker 1: your girl Meever, we have not the wedding registry Doola,

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Speaker 1: but one of our favorite We talked about this movie

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Speaker 1: so much, and obviously you're such an online sensation, so

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Speaker 1: we got our beat zook Hey, Zolar moons, Zolar moons,

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Speaker 1: Zolar moons. Cute. Okay, here we go. Not you sounded

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Speaker 1: like the White beat. So what's excited about having you on? Like,

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Speaker 1: obviously I've been about to invite you on for forever.

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Speaker 1: You should be on here because I feel like you

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Speaker 1: have whole energy, Okay, And it's just isn't the piercing,

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Speaker 1: it's just the energy. Like how I said what she

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Speaker 1: and I we like vibes over our hoism. It's like

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Speaker 1: it's a thing. It's just you know, we just exude that.

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Speaker 1: By the way, y'all, when she says we uh, we

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Speaker 1: do have the Zola. Uh movie came out last year

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Speaker 1: June sick. Yes, last summer. I went to the screening.

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Speaker 1: You were questioned by Angela yee. It was beautiful. So

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Speaker 1: glad to see that you finally made it onto the show. Um.

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Speaker 1: But I was also one of those that was live

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Speaker 1: reading your tweets at the time of Yeah, I live

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Speaker 1: on Twitter. That's like my second home. I just don't.

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Speaker 1: I didn't have Twitter and I live when I started charging,

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Speaker 1: I would probably still pay for it, like I love Twitter. Um.

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Speaker 1: And back in I was really a home. So I

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Speaker 1: was living for everything. Um. And So if you guys

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Speaker 1: are not familiar, her tweets of a very wild weekend

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Speaker 1: turned into a movie, and we're going to get into

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Speaker 1: more of what that was about as well. First we're

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Speaker 1: gonna do We're gonna give us some a well screening.

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Speaker 1: What's your age, sex location? I am twenty six, Um,

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Speaker 1: she is? She Hello, I'm in Atlanta now really yes,

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Speaker 1: but you're from Detroit. I'm from Detroit and you drove

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Speaker 1: from Detroit to Florida, yes, like fourteen hours. When I

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Speaker 1: watched the movie, I said, she's young. I think I

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Speaker 1: would have done that. It was fun and it sounded cute.

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Speaker 1: It sounded really cute. I think I would have did

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Speaker 1: it too. It'ywhere or did y'all just go straight? No?

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Speaker 1: We went straight straight through? Yeah? Yeah, what do you

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Speaker 1: do now? Um? She writes, Um, I still make content.

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Speaker 1: I'm forever a sex worker, so um and yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: that's it. I exist, you know, one of my biggest

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Speaker 1: questions because I love you, love you following you and

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Speaker 1: also like really loved the actress. And I was, yeah, Taylor, sorry, um,

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Speaker 1: and I felt like something when I was watching it,

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Speaker 1: Taylor was very like not selling them about no fucking way,

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Speaker 1: not gonna sell my pussy. But you also don't give

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Speaker 1: me the vibe in a slug shamy way. But it

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Speaker 1: didn't feel slug shamy. But I was also confused. Can

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Speaker 1: you elaborate on like you said, you're a sex worker,

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Speaker 1: and in what way do you feel like that depicts

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Speaker 1: a completely different scenario with that What that was was

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Speaker 1: not sex work. That's like, that was sex trafficking what

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Speaker 1: they had going on. So when I say I'm a

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Speaker 1: sex worker, I mean like I sell sex, I exude sex,

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Speaker 1: I am sex and that's how that's my job. That

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Speaker 1: was sex trafficking, So what they were doing was like

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Speaker 1: she had no say over anything. So that was the difference.

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Speaker 1: because the tweets were so fun and like exciting to read.

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Speaker 1: I feel like we're all like used to getting into

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Speaker 1: I watched it again this weekend. Get my hair done right?

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Speaker 1: She was like, Hey, you for Florida, let's just watch this.

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Speaker 1: So we start our show with Vanilla ship, which is

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Speaker 1: For me, it was like sugaring. For you, it could

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Speaker 1: not sharing them really Okay, well, okay, I could read

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Speaker 1: the article verbatim, but I mean, and this is Hollywood Reporter,

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Speaker 1: this is fucking um. What was I gonna say? Variety

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Speaker 1: Just crazy, Considering this movie came out a minute ago,

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Speaker 1: Awards awards with Who Taylor Best Lead Actress, Coleman Best

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Speaker 1: you elaborate on that frustration, because I agree you obviously

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Speaker 1: write it. Jeremy is a screen right, That's what he does.

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Speaker 1: He's a playwriter, that's what he does. That's you know,

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Speaker 1: his niche. I don't have that. I can tell you

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Speaker 1: it did take that team effort. So I wasn't upset

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Speaker 1: I mean I didn't think we needed to talk about it, like,

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Speaker 1: name is David Kushner. He's the guy who did the

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Speaker 1: Like who is this white man? Like who are you?

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Speaker 1: own tweets, if that makes sense that you can't own

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Speaker 1: I think no, it was like real, No, let me fail.

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00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 1: I think it was with an HBO or Fox. I

427
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:18,440
Speaker 1: don't want to lie. I swear to god it wasn't.

428
00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:22,320
Speaker 1: It was Fox. It was Fox. And they caused me

429
00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 1: and it was like she reached out, she wants to

430
00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:26,360
Speaker 1: sue you, but she can't afford the lawyers, so we're

431
00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:28,560
Speaker 1: gonna provide an attorney for the both of you, and

432
00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:30,360
Speaker 1: like it's a real judge and it's a real jury

433
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:32,720
Speaker 1: and YadA YadA yea. And I'm like, bro, what I said,

434
00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:35,399
Speaker 1: I'm not doing no core show like no. So then

435
00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:37,119
Speaker 1: they called me back and they were like, well, we

436
00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:39,080
Speaker 1: opened up a budget, can you come. I said, no,

437
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,640
Speaker 1: open this some more. No. Just they called me again.

438
00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:43,840
Speaker 1: They was like, Okay, we'll give you twenty dollars even

439
00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:45,800
Speaker 1: if it doesn't air, just come film it. I said,

440
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:49,000
Speaker 1: I'll be there at three o'clock. So that's how that went.

441
00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:52,200
Speaker 1: And so she sued me for like deformation. She said

442
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:55,119
Speaker 1: I outed her as a sex worker, and she lost

443
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:57,720
Speaker 1: custody of her daughter. She never had custody of her

444
00:22:57,760 --> 00:22:59,800
Speaker 1: daughter in the first place, but she was just in

445
00:22:59,880 --> 00:23:03,920
Speaker 1: a lying in and doing all that. Um. She did

446
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 1: end up in the ruling she won. Technically she won

447
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 1: five thousand dollars the defamation of character. Her name made

448
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:14,680
Speaker 1: her feel better, right, But I got twenty tho dollars

449
00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:17,640
Speaker 1: just to show up and sit down. Yeah, I first

450
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:19,159
Speaker 1: day the name of the person that put me in

451
00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:22,160
Speaker 1: a situation where I could have died. Right. So see,

452
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:25,960
Speaker 1: that's a doxing that I find interesting because there is

453
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:28,680
Speaker 1: a lot of sex worker safety that needs to go on, right,

454
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 1: and we generally will see it in terms of like

455
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:33,800
Speaker 1: women sharing men that put them in safe situations. But

456
00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 1: if a woman did it, my my niggas was safe

457
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:39,680
Speaker 1: that I was sharing. But you just kind of looked

458
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:45,760
Speaker 1: at me when you say, yeah, I didn't even like.

459
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 1: I like, women will share names of guys that have

460
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:52,679
Speaker 1: like put them their risks, but I never say they

461
00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:55,639
Speaker 1: jumped down A lot of those websites too. Sex workers

462
00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:59,959
Speaker 1: used to use like all men that like were either aggressive,

463
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 1: of a rough or didn't pay a lot of people

464
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 1: like Now that I think about it, I did have

465
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:06,360
Speaker 1: a friend that used to do that. I forgot. Yeah,

466
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 1: I took a little of the pool and like that.

467
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 1: She would have a goddamn client and would leave me

468
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:14,440
Speaker 1: at the pool. And I was like, all right, girls,

469
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 1: see you know about a hour at that pussy doing

470
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:21,880
Speaker 1: you want to icy all right? So as far as tips,

471
00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 1: we do a horrid derve and it is our sex

472
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:26,720
Speaker 1: tip of the week. We want to pass it over

473
00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 1: to you. Oh my god. Now you could give this

474
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 1: tip for anyone. It could be a dating tip of

475
00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 1: sex tape. It could be for women to women, men

476
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 1: to women. Dave them whoever they feel like tip. Oh

477
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:43,120
Speaker 1: my goodness, I don't know you're tongue ring like this,

478
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:47,800
Speaker 1: you've a tongue ring. We need to name you put

479
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 1: it in the hole. That's girls, bro, you're talking about

480
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 1: a pall. Yeah, Like I feel like it's not intentionally

481
00:24:56,880 --> 00:25:00,359
Speaker 1: it has gotten stuck. Your tongue ring got stuck in pea.

482
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 1: Oh my god. When they had to sing it out

483
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:07,959
Speaker 1: the dude happened before it say okay, so wait, how

484
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:11,640
Speaker 1: do you like hear the dick? You're like, I can't

485
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,479
Speaker 1: w no, I mean I got it out, but I

486
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:18,640
Speaker 1: just yeah, okay, we're gonna talk about that so that stuff.

487
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:23,159
Speaker 1: We know you had a whole moving everything when it

488
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 1: dick got come up to the Yeah, it happened, and

489
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 1: you took that thing out. Huh okay girl, I don't know.

490
00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 1: Um do you pussy do? I? Yeah? Yeah? Occasionally? Do

491
00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:40,639
Speaker 1: you have a pussy eating trip or something that you

492
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:46,439
Speaker 1: like done to your pussy? Not really? Oh, you just

493
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:49,399
Speaker 1: gonna be on the spot. I got anxiety. She's like,

494
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 1: I sex worker, I'm gonna sing it out with this guy.

495
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 1: Show you. Then you talked about referencing yourself as a

496
00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 1: sex worker. Can you give us a tip on how

497
00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 1: to exude ex appeal either while we're out, when we're

498
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:04,399
Speaker 1: in our room, or when we were with our partner

499
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:09,640
Speaker 1: in the bedroom. See, I don't it just comes naturally.

500
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 1: I just I just like it's just I'm sex. I

501
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:17,120
Speaker 1: don't know, I'm like walking sex. I don't know how

502
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 1: to do you ever people always do in the bedroom? No?

503
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:26,400
Speaker 1: Not not at a while. No, it's too much, Like

504
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 1: that's too much energy I have if it's like requested,

505
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,200
Speaker 1: but not. I mean it gives me length of my legs.

506
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 1: So here the thing I like tall niggas, so if

507
00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 1: I'm worn heels before because it makes my legs long technically,

508
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:43,679
Speaker 1: especially if I stand up or sit down on the

509
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 1: couch or attempt to ride, which isn't gonna be very long,

510
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 1: but now I think that would probably help. But it

511
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 1: gives me more height. Here. You just say ride and

512
00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 1: all I can think is johnn I want to ride.

513
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 1: I want to ride? Dog. Do you watch Johnson's Caveraret?

514
00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 1: No catch little clips? You know what what made me

515
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,440
Speaker 1: turn on Zola again. I watched it obviously like opening

516
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:05,399
Speaker 1: Day because I was like, hello, bitch, this is like

517
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:09,200
Speaker 1: girls night Ship. When I watched Jocelyn, then we was like, damn,

518
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,400
Speaker 1: now we should watch the Sola because that's where all

519
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:14,879
Speaker 1: the girls give. I mean, it is the most toxic,

520
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:20,360
Speaker 1: amazing show I've ever seen. And I think it's because

521
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,120
Speaker 1: sometimes we see like, you know, the lit stripper holes

522
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,159
Speaker 1: on Instagram and we'd be like, Okay, you can do

523
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 1: these poetracks, this, you that, But sometimes you see the

524
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 1: ones that are like money hungry and just ratchet as

525
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:33,960
Speaker 1: this is what I need is what we want to see.

526
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,639
Speaker 1: And anybody who has not been watching it, but you've

527
00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 1: seen that viral clip of the girl that was talking

528
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:42,400
Speaker 1: about Jesus you've seen that, bro, I know you've seen that.

529
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, bitch, Jesus led me home. But also she's

530
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 1: a fucking wrestler. That's why she took down Lexi blow

531
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:52,480
Speaker 1: like that. No, that was great. We need Lexis. I

532
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 1: would try to suck her. I think she is so

533
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:57,840
Speaker 1: fine Lexi blow. Remember what Jocelyn said, I just want

534
00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 1: to put my tongue and that little white plessy act.

535
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 1: She said that on the shop that on the show.

536
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:07,159
Speaker 1: I didn't want to ask you because you seem so

537
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 1: friendly with this uh white girl. A lot of my

538
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 1: friends who have like danced in the strip club says

539
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 1: it's one of the most toxic and non friendly environments.

540
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:22,440
Speaker 1: So with you being so friendly, Um, did you find

541
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,919
Speaker 1: yourself being that friendly when you were actually working in

542
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 1: your local strip clubs? And did you end up making

543
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 1: any friends while you were in Tampa that one night?

544
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,440
Speaker 1: Oh no, I didn't talk to anybody in Tampa, Okay,

545
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 1: And missions was weird? I was. We didn't even we

546
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:36,879
Speaker 1: didn't say hello. We know everybody had a mission and

547
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 1: was on their mission. But I didn't look at you

548
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 1: like competition when you yes. But also it was like

549
00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 1: two black girls in the whole bill. So they looking

550
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 1: at both like who and neither of us are from there,

551
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:52,120
Speaker 1: so they like, what's going on here? But at home?

552
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 1: I actually because I started dancing at eighteen, okay, so

553
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 1: and I kind of like transitioned with a group of girls.

554
00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 1: We went from Hooters to the strip club like together,

555
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 1: like we was like yeah yeah. So it was like

556
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 1: a little sorority sister pack going on. So the four

557
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 1: of us was friends, but the guys that no, it's

558
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 1: even this thing in the clubs sometimes will in Detroit

559
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 1: clubs where they call it like blackout nights and don't

560
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 1: tell me this, and one of the girls and so

561
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 1: one of whoever, somebody will sneak into the breaker room

562
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 1: and turn the lights out like ten minutes before closing

563
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 1: time and rob snatching your bags. Like so we usually

564
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 1: believe me really like one thirty, we'd be like paying

565
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 1: the DJ more like we're about to go because what's

566
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 1: the light? Like, who are you gonna fight? You just

567
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 1: got pushing your face, they snatched your bag, You just

568
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:42,239
Speaker 1: popped that pussy all night. Now he's sitting here, that's

569
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 1: the other dancers. Why did they turn it off so

570
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 1: you wouldn't know who did it. No, No, but they

571
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:49,520
Speaker 1: call it black out nights. It's on the accident. It's

572
00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:52,320
Speaker 1: just yeah, who we don't know, like when when it's

573
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 1: gonna happen, we don't know. But when it happens that

574
00:29:56,760 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 1: why damn? Yeah? So all right, getting into stripping, that's

575
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 1: our horrible decision. I feel like a lot of women

576
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 1: want to get into sex work, and I consider stripping

577
00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 1: sex work. Um, how yeah, what's the safest way possible? Like,

578
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 1: do you feel like you needed like a home mentor

579
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,960
Speaker 1: like you said, your friends and you did it together. Yeah,

580
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 1: that would help. Um, I definitely think having or at

581
00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 1: least a friend who always knows where you are, what

582
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 1: you're doing or that would help. And I had that.

583
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 1: I had a girl who we always shared locations. She

584
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 1: always knew, um, who I was with at least one person.

585
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 1: How were you sharing locations before like iPhone gave us

586
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 1: that feature. No, I would just always tell her where

587
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 1: I was always okay, so yeah, what club I would

588
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 1: work at, who I was with? She just always knew. Good.

589
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 1: We always like like a whole spirit guide like your

590
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 1: boyfriend or a partner at the time, whatever seemed comfortable

591
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 1: with your dancing. But like a little bit was, but

592
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 1: it's fake. He was face my eggs and husband girl

593
00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:56,960
Speaker 1: and yeah, I don't know. So we when we first

594
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 1: started dating, he was comfortable with it, but like aren't

595
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 1: they all all Like he's like, he's so confident. She's like,

596
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:05,080
Speaker 1: how I left her so much? Okay? And then when

597
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 1: when the rain came, he was like, oh, so you're

598
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 1: not gonna stop dancing, like you're not gonna know the

599
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 1: business trying to get at the strip club and being

600
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 1: Jocelyn coma rain. Okay, So if these hosts don't want

601
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 1: to be on the pole, that's basically what he wanted.

602
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 1: Not how or have conversations like what if you what

603
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 1: has he been angry about? Then maybe somebody wouldn't be

604
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 1: prepared for when dancing or started only fans of just

605
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 1: something like other kind of sex works. He was just

606
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 1: upset at like I don't know, I guess the intimacy

607
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 1: of it all. Like he's like, you can't just go

608
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 1: to work, get your money and leave it at that, Like,

609
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 1: but I was also a sugar baby. I was also camping.

610
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 1: I have my own cam show a sugar baby. Well

611
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 1: with him, yes, and he knew that Yes, good friend. Yeah,

612
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 1: I mean I was paying, Like, like what you're gonna say,

613
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 1: you're not doing anything? So that was that And you know,

614
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 1: I said it a little nice in and but it

615
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 1: was something like that. I don't know after a while,

616
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 1: like he he didn't I'm getting a job. He's like,

617
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 1: I gotta raised. You can stop now, and I'm like,

618
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:08,960
Speaker 1: but I don't want to, Like these are like my

619
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:13,480
Speaker 1: friends to like I get it, they're buying like my friends.

620
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 1: My clients was my friends clients? Like, tell us about

621
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 1: your best client or what would be like, Uh, it's

622
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 1: just an ideal client. They're normally good guys. No, no

623
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 1: huband but they're I mean they're wise, but they're great.

624
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 1: I had a single sugar Daddy, No you did Yes,

625
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:36,120
Speaker 1: I did it worst and lonely beach oh lor you

626
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:39,520
Speaker 1: want to go to the movie? No, but no for real?

627
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 1: Like what were the jobs that those clients has. Man,

628
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 1: he's been talking about athletes. That's her experience, right, But

629
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 1: I'm curious, Yeah, don't limit mys what is that? That's

630
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 1: not the job bandy, But I don't African got it? Um,

631
00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 1: I would saying so my too. I don't know my

632
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 1: two best back home one was that they were both doctors.

633
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 1: Actually one was a plastic surgeon and the other was

634
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 1: like a wellness doctor. White. Yes, very much so, not

635
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 1: very much so, very much so. And I actually ended

636
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:18,720
Speaker 1: up getting engaged to one of them. And that's the

637
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: whole thing. Yeah, it was the thing. What no, did

638
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 1: you like? Were you in love? No? With the money?

639
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 1: It was so nice. I was living so good. Oh

640
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 1: my god, Yes, sugar baby, I was living so good.

641
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:35,840
Speaker 1: He was spoiling me, girl, he was treating me. He

642
00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 1: was on boats in place and right we was all.

643
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 1: It was everywhere. I met him at the club, like

644
00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:46,160
Speaker 1: the first week I was working at this club and

645
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 1: he comes in and he's like, I've never seen you

646
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 1: here before. I'm like, okay, so you'd be here all

647
00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:55,560
Speaker 1: the time, got you? And yeah, he was like, well

648
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 1: I never want to see you here again. I said, guys,

649
00:33:57,840 --> 00:33:59,840
Speaker 1: so what we're gonna do about that? This is literally

650
00:33:59,880 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 1: like day three or some ship and so um yeah,

651
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 1: he's like, well just come over tonight. I'm like okay,

652
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 1: So I did. I'm like nineteen, I've been doing ship.

653
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 1: So I went over and I ended up staying at

654
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 1: his house like a month straight, Like I didn't leave.

655
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 1: He's said this big, beautiful mansion. Like he's like, you

656
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,680
Speaker 1: drive whichever car you want. I was like, may gonna

657
00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:22,960
Speaker 1: tell me twice? And so obviously we were working a lot,

658
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 1: clearly obviously like it was it good? Was it good sex?

659
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:30,239
Speaker 1: I mean, like money can make you enjoy I had

660
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:32,919
Speaker 1: the same answer people ask me about my sugar daddy

661
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:34,480
Speaker 1: sex and I'd be like, bro, I don't I mean, yeah,

662
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:36,800
Speaker 1: I guess. I don't know. I got off at the

663
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 1: fact that I was like hot and he like, at

664
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 1: least to him, you know, it was something about the exchange,

665
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:44,279
Speaker 1: and like maybe it feels sex. Yeah, I don't know.

666
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 1: Maybe if like, if the money wasn't involved, probably not,

667
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:50,120
Speaker 1: I probably wouldn't have enjoyed it. Maybe, I don't know.

668
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:52,720
Speaker 1: But it was the mansion. It was it was the mansion.

669
00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 1: So do when you have somebody like this, um, do

670
00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 1: they ever try to like take your friends out? They like, oh?

671
00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 1: He so he hated my friends. He hated I had

672
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 1: a best friend who she said, my best friend to

673
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 1: this day. But I had tried because he's like moving

674
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 1: now we it's someone in he's like just moving. I'm like, okay, period,

675
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:13,000
Speaker 1: I'm moving in. So now I'm living here and I'm

676
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 1: not going to work clearly, and so I'm like, I

677
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:17,360
Speaker 1: want can my friend come over? And he's like, sure,

678
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 1: she could come over. She came over. He threw a

679
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 1: whole fucking thing. He was like fifty four. So he

680
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 1: started playing this like weird, like, oh, he doesn't feel

681
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:28,839
Speaker 1: well and he wants her to leave, and can I

682
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 1: check his blood pressure? I'm like, bitch, get your as

683
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 1: bowing the room, sit the funk down, like I'm not

684
00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:36,959
Speaker 1: doing this with you. Like he's causing a whole scene

685
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 1: in front of my friend, and I'm just like, this

686
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:39,880
Speaker 1: is so embarrassing. I just wanted her to see my

687
00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:44,720
Speaker 1: new me at you. I just go no for seeking

688
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 1: arrangement stories, right because I feel like sugar baby is

689
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:49,120
Speaker 1: the easiest way to get into your little whole life.

690
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:52,480
Speaker 1: Tell us you said you were sugaring. How were you

691
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:55,440
Speaker 1: meeting them if you weren't meeting them at the club? Um,

692
00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 1: so I had a couple on seeking arrangements. Um that

693
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:01,839
Speaker 1: be like hit or miss, though, but I did meet

694
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:05,279
Speaker 1: one really really good nice guy. I'll seeking arrangements, but

695
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 1: for the most part, I'm like an actress, like I

696
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 1: like turn it on, like I put on a costume,

697
00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:13,759
Speaker 1: and I'm like, where do I think the type of

698
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:15,759
Speaker 1: thing I want to see today is? Maybe he's at

699
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:18,920
Speaker 1: the cigar bar, you know, sitting by himself in the corner,

700
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, and I just figure out, yeah,

701
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 1: I do, I do and something. I'll go to the

702
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 1: cigar bar and I'll chill and I'll hang out and

703
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 1: I'll be cute and I'll be at my fun and

704
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:30,720
Speaker 1: I'll act like, you know, be giving my wife vibes,

705
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 1: and then I just find the one I want. I'll

706
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:35,440
Speaker 1: go to like a forty and up night and like

707
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 1: because nobody in there is, you know, a waste of time.

708
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:44,280
Speaker 1: So I made it this far. Lets all of that. Okay,

709
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:46,959
Speaker 1: so forty and up night cigar bar, people talking about

710
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: hotel bars, but that's definitely giving. I don't do that one.

711
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 1: I mean they have you will find maybe, but I

712
00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:57,080
Speaker 1: mean maybe if there's a conference going on right now,

713
00:36:57,600 --> 00:36:59,239
Speaker 1: do you think that there's a certain type of a

714
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:01,880
Speaker 1: tie or they will get you, like you know, you

715
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 1: said the first of my wife, like do you wear

716
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:05,439
Speaker 1: nice dresses? Do you feel like you could dress edgy?

717
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 1: You're dressed edgy right now, do you feel like you

718
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:12,120
Speaker 1: could like show sugar daddies will be like, it depends

719
00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:13,879
Speaker 1: on the type. I mean, just like when it comes

720
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:15,839
Speaker 1: to hair, it's like you attract it when you have

721
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:18,319
Speaker 1: box braids versus when you got a wig versus when

722
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 1: you you know, you attract a different type of nigga

723
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 1: be with them. So when I definitely burnt incense, you

724
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:33,279
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Grand Rides, I'm telling you how

725
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:35,359
Speaker 1: don't think it? Texts me great morning the other day

726
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:38,480
Speaker 1: and I wrote l O ls Okay, like why do

727
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 1: you have to do this extra sheet? You know what

728
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:44,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying, No offense, but like my assistant and grandwater

729
00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:48,840
Speaker 1: and their vegans and I'll just be like, maybe this

730
00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 1: why she's such a good person. Okay, So getting in

731
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:55,280
Speaker 1: the game with strip clubs happen like a whole guide

732
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:58,280
Speaker 1: things like that. Can you give us the craziest story

733
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 1: and we obviously watch the movie of it, but like,

734
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:03,799
Speaker 1: just crazy ship that's happened that you've seen at strip

735
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:10,120
Speaker 1: clubs so much? Um, I don't. I mean, I guess

736
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 1: I've just had crazy experiences that started in the strip

737
00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 1: club just because of the realm. It is like, um,

738
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 1: and then especially being in Detroit, clubs are so different.

739
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:21,959
Speaker 1: Like I didn set in North Carolina for a little

740
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 1: bit and those rules, like they made guys like sit

741
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 1: on their hands. It's this. It was this club called

742
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 1: Platinum Plus. It was South Carolina. Yes, I mean it's

743
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 1: so much money though, I kind of but they couldn't.

744
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:36,880
Speaker 1: They can touch you if they like touch you. It

745
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:39,400
Speaker 1: was a fine, but they were still in there spending

746
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 1: my FID. It was yeah, it was nice. That's give

747
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 1: a d sem a little bit. Yeah, like they could

748
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:48,320
Speaker 1: not touch you like that, I mean, I guess. I

749
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 1: mean it just made it made me have to give

750
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 1: them permission, like were they allowed if the dancer allowed,

751
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:57,200
Speaker 1: and if you did, and then and the bouncer saw

752
00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:58,879
Speaker 1: and was like what's going on here? And the guy

753
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 1: was like she told me I couldn't. Now you owe

754
00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 1: him some money because we said no, oh yeah that

755
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 1: she was insane. It'd be like touch my eyes and

756
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:12,719
Speaker 1: be like you give me half plan. So the sitting

757
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:15,799
Speaker 1: on the hand that was insane. Um. Is there any

758
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:18,320
Speaker 1: other like precautions that you've seen strip clubs take? Do

759
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:20,320
Speaker 1: you feel safe when you're dancing? Like what can it?

760
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 1: What can a club do to make you feel safe? Unsafe? Yeah,

761
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 1: so there's also a lot of like linko, at least,

762
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 1: like I said back in my home clubs, um, like

763
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 1: if you leave your drink, like if you leave your drink,

764
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 1: or if the bartender kind of didn't keep an eye

765
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 1: on it or doesn't know, she would say stuff like this,

766
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 1: it's a blue drop. Now, like if she really just

767
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 1: means he probably dropped something in there, like we don't,

768
00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:44,960
Speaker 1: but she'll say it in front of because he's there,

769
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:46,880
Speaker 1: so she'll just be like, yeah, this drink is a

770
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 1: blue drop, and we make you another one, and it'll

771
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 1: just so they don't really know what's going on, but

772
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 1: we know what she means. Um, stuff like that. UM,

773
00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 1: And I don't know. I mean, I don't like how

774
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 1: they allow under age girls to drink in the clubs.

775
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:05,480
Speaker 1: That's like probably my biggest pet peeves because I was eighteen,

776
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 1: nineteen twenty, like black out, like drunk, and I came

777
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 1: home with mad money. I don't know, but I don't

778
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 1: know what I did or what I happened. It's like

779
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:17,399
Speaker 1: I wish that's something that I think makes it kind

780
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:19,360
Speaker 1: of I used to I used to bartend and I

781
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 1: mean I try dancing like two nights one night in

782
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:25,680
Speaker 1: Atlanta one night, and about it. And what's crazy is

783
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:28,520
Speaker 1: what you were saying. Even about the hands in Atlantic

784
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:30,719
Speaker 1: was so different because it is nude. I want to

785
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 1: say it was like the pink pony. Yeah that I

786
00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:36,360
Speaker 1: want to but no pink pony is I think the

787
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 1: one that was on Beautford Highway it was. It was

788
00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:42,000
Speaker 1: more south than that. But in Atlanta, if if a

789
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 1: guy pays for a dance, as soon as that that

790
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:47,440
Speaker 1: song starts, you get naked. And the DJ used to

791
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:51,320
Speaker 1: be like, uh, magic was my name from ne Orlando. Magic.

792
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 1: That was my stripper from I was a tever and

793
00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:00,920
Speaker 1: I wore black and blue like the or end of Magic. Okay,

794
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 1: yes I was from Orlando. I was eighteen, just flew

795
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:07,400
Speaker 1: to Atlanta. But I was like, I need to make

796
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:10,319
Speaker 1: money fast, and that was probably that was my first

797
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 1: end last night. Um. And then that's the thing too.

798
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:15,480
Speaker 1: I also felt like, bitch, you pay the house fee

799
00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 1: up front, you don't even want to leave until you

800
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 1: make the house feedback, and then oh god, if it's

801
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 1: a good night. I've seen it as high like in Miami.

802
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 1: I did don't don't make one night at the office.

803
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,480
Speaker 1: And this is like when the office just first opened.

804
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 1: And if a good night was in, a good night

805
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 1: is like bitch. The Miami Heat is playing a team.

806
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 1: They know the players are gonna come. This is when

807
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:40,840
Speaker 1: Tip Drill was working at the office. A lot of

808
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 1: the bigger names was at the office at this time.

809
00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 1: Easily three hunted. But what you did was you worked

810
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:48,880
Speaker 1: day shift. If you work day shift, you got the

811
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 1: day the day rate, and then your night shift rate

812
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 1: would only be like flat. But if you came in

813
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 1: at night just to come and get that money, it

814
00:41:57,600 --> 00:42:00,440
Speaker 1: was about the same um. And that's why I would do.

815
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 1: So we have a thing. It's like midshift. So you

816
00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:04,000
Speaker 1: don't do day shift and you don't do night shift,

817
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:06,840
Speaker 1: but you pay a mid shift feast. It's like you

818
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:08,680
Speaker 1: come in at six, but you can't say you can't

819
00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:10,960
Speaker 1: get the night rush crowd like you. They make you.

820
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:14,280
Speaker 1: So you come in at six and then you gotta

821
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:16,840
Speaker 1: be leaving by like midnight, because then they let the

822
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 1: other brother girls who came all day, they let them

823
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:24,360
Speaker 1: get the late night rush. So but midshift used to

824
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 1: work for me, and you only get you pay like

825
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:28,120
Speaker 1: half of that, so you like maybe a hundred dollars.

826
00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 1: Have you ever seen some lesbian trauma go on? Like

827
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:33,880
Speaker 1: two bitches as gay? They're like I heard some of

828
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,400
Speaker 1: the strippers be gay, and I'm curious to know, like

829
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:39,359
Speaker 1: are they dating each other? They sucking? That's the hot ship.

830
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 1: I think a lot of them are buy But I

831
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 1: don't even even even if I was looking at party

832
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 1: all day and I like to eat it, I'm gonna

833
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:50,359
Speaker 1: be like, well, me and Magic, even though they never

834
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 1: like really mixed, it's only your name. It was. It

835
00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 1: started as my dad's name. Now it's just that's just

836
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:58,799
Speaker 1: who she is. I can't get away from it. Now,

837
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 1: when's the that's time? Like, have you felt like you've

838
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:03,160
Speaker 1: wanted to do it? I know you're into so many

839
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:06,880
Speaker 1: ventures now, but do you miss it? Sometimes it's like

840
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:10,759
Speaker 1: maybe I think I missed the attention. Yeah, I was

841
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 1: so cute up there with my little outfits. But and

842
00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 1: obviously the money. I like, HA intangible money every day.

843
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 1: It's like that was nice, But I just can't. I

844
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:22,320
Speaker 1: can't anyone maybe like a one night only, like she

845
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 1: can be a headliner or something. I would, but I

846
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:33,120
Speaker 1: would never go back and dance. Now, what's your best

847
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 1: night you've ever had? Like as far as money, Um,

848
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:38,960
Speaker 1: my best night ever probably It was a bachelor party

849
00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:42,400
Speaker 1: and the groom and his brother wanted a V I

850
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 1: P dance for me and they ended up paying me

851
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:48,440
Speaker 1: like twenty thou dollars And then we went to the

852
00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:50,840
Speaker 1: casino after and I actually I had a threesome with

853
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:55,719
Speaker 1: them two brothers. I know they the club by the way.

854
00:43:55,920 --> 00:44:00,040
Speaker 1: Fuck you for definitely having my fucking fantasy for a

855
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 1: dad and a son. Oh interesting. Do you remember when

856
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 1: I was talking to them twins one time? Oh yeah,

857
00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 1: like listen are both y'all? Were they taking to each

858
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:16,359
Speaker 1: other in a three? Yeah, they've done it before. Yeah. Sure,

859
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:19,480
Speaker 1: that's the thing that's isn't sick or not? Like I

860
00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:22,400
Speaker 1: don't know, I mean so cute. They were so cute.

861
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:25,360
Speaker 1: They were fine girl. But now have they had that

862
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 1: much money? I mean they're Caldy and is like they

863
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:31,239
Speaker 1: come from money. It was a thing like damn they

864
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:35,279
Speaker 1: from caw. It's Middle Eastern. Oh that we have a

865
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:39,959
Speaker 1: huge Caldy in community. And sorry, yeah, cal it's middle

866
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:44,640
Speaker 1: Eastern country. What's the country? Um, I don't read what

867
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:47,279
Speaker 1: the region? Is. I don't know, but they look look

868
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:55,319
Speaker 1: like Cadians from there from the Middle East. Maybe arn't

869
00:44:55,320 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 1: want to see you never h y'all, never, bitch, are

870
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:06,560
Speaker 1: we're dumb? Oh bitch? There is a member of an

871
00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:10,839
Speaker 1: ancient people who lived in Caldea. Where the fund is that. Well,

872
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:12,840
Speaker 1: we have a lot of them where I'm from. What

873
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:15,880
Speaker 1: rights their Calda? Because I want one? Oh wait, here

874
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:19,800
Speaker 1: we go in the cryptodics modern day Turkey and northeast Syria.

875
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:28,720
Speaker 1: There we go, they're either Calderian or Assyrian. Bitch, listen,

876
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 1: that's what Google said, not not getting us into geography.

877
00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 1: Be let me, I'll take off. You know, I've never

878
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:42,359
Speaker 1: been in the Middle Eastern, dude, but I think it's

879
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 1: cause my daddy's Middle Easting. But you know what, the

880
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 1: fact that you said it was cute, so I was

881
00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:48,360
Speaker 1: really shallow. I'm not a good actor like you. So

882
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:51,400
Speaker 1: all of my like sugar daddies and trick niggas was

883
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 1: at least good looking. I don't care. That's whear to

884
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,040
Speaker 1: god know, some of them gonna be like I couldn't

885
00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 1: and should be sucking you for free, but I'll take

886
00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 1: money like that's like damn you're paying me for this experience.

887
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:05,960
Speaker 1: I had one cute sugar daddy was a white dude,

888
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 1: but he was like he was like hot dad, white guy,

889
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 1: very fit. Um, he was like always in the gym.

890
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:14,400
Speaker 1: We met on seeking arrangement, and I remember I was

891
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:15,919
Speaker 1: on the date and I was like, oh my god,

892
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 1: this is and I got drunk and I said, I

893
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 1: was like, this is like real, like you could have

894
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:22,520
Speaker 1: met me at a bar. And he was like, are

895
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:24,839
Speaker 1: you saying that because I'm attractive or because you want

896
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 1: to suck me? I was like, I mean, not act

897
00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 1: too excited, don't need twenty five. But you know what's

898
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:35,879
Speaker 1: crazy is out of all of that, I've only had

899
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:38,759
Speaker 1: one experience where I ever got paid um, where I

900
00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 1: felt like was directly for sex, even though it was

901
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:44,800
Speaker 1: still seeking arrangement. But everything else it was just a

902
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:46,920
Speaker 1: lot of talking. Like I got I started getting very

903
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:49,360
Speaker 1: scared and I started either I don't know if I

904
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 1: feel like the self worth got in there and I

905
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 1: don't know if I was confused or didn't know what

906
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 1: to do. So and I'm talking about strictly i'll sneaking arrangement.

907
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:01,359
Speaker 1: I would ask, what are signs that you know you're ready,

908
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:03,760
Speaker 1: Like what would you say is a good thing for women?

909
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 1: I don't want girls to think like we should be

910
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:07,879
Speaker 1: getting on here, but I'm not ready or I'm gonna

911
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 1: put myself in a crazy situation, Like how do you

912
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 1: know when you're ready to do something like that, something

913
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 1: like like being a sugar baby or something like sugar

914
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:19,400
Speaker 1: baby and possibly having sex during that sugar Um, I

915
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 1: don't know for me. I I like I said I

916
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:26,359
Speaker 1: needed money today now, right now, so today. Um yeah,

917
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 1: So with that, I guess I just I think it's

918
00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:32,960
Speaker 1: more about knowing your boundaries. Like, so before you do anything,

919
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 1: I guess, set boundaries for yourself. And that's what I did,

920
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 1: Like I didn't start off and I'm just like I'm

921
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:39,239
Speaker 1: down to funk for whatever. It's like, No, I'll take

922
00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:41,959
Speaker 1: two hundred dollars for a day, I'll take three hundred

923
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:44,239
Speaker 1: dollars for a little bit of time. So I think

924
00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:47,200
Speaker 1: maybe easing into something like that if you don't know

925
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 1: if if that's really where you'll be comfortable. Um, that's like,

926
00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 1: I think boundaries are good. That's why I started on

927
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 1: what your Price? Did you know about that website? I did?

928
00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:02,239
Speaker 1: I never lose that I know girl, when we moved

929
00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:04,080
Speaker 1: to New York, we was both kind of poor, and

930
00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:06,359
Speaker 1: she used it and had a two hundred dollar day

931
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:08,359
Speaker 1: in the negat. That's one of the hundreds was fake.

932
00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:12,440
Speaker 1: I to god, she was so mad, but you got

933
00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:16,080
Speaker 1: to use it at the day, you gotta use No.

934
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:18,360
Speaker 1: She just she she went out to spend it and

935
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:20,520
Speaker 1: was just hoping they didn't know it was fake because

936
00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 1: she was like, brother, sh is fake. Yeah, she got

937
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:25,640
Speaker 1: that shirt off real quick. Oh that's all I would do.

938
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:28,799
Speaker 1: She had to get it on this fake So one

939
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:34,160
Speaker 1: of the hundreds never saw him again. I didn't get

940
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:35,799
Speaker 1: paid once. I don't know if you remember. I went

941
00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 1: to he with this niggative sushi restaurant by Millennia, and

942
00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:40,640
Speaker 1: he didn't pay me. And that's what I was like.

943
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:42,960
Speaker 1: I was like. Everybody was like, did you ask? And

944
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:45,440
Speaker 1: I was like, I didn't know, but it happened to

945
00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:48,359
Speaker 1: me before in my early and my early sugar baby days.

946
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:50,200
Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, i'll pay you this for a day,

947
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 1: and I was like okay. So we went on the day.

948
00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:53,799
Speaker 1: We had a good time. He was only like five

949
00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:56,440
Speaker 1: hundred dollars, but and I left this nigga I'm in

950
00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:58,120
Speaker 1: the car and I'm thinking, like where it's my money?

951
00:48:58,160 --> 00:48:59,880
Speaker 1: Like how do I say? And I'm really in the

952
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:03,719
Speaker 1: are not saying ship And I'm like, you're pulling up

953
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:05,880
Speaker 1: to your house, he's not gonna say, and my tass

954
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,239
Speaker 1: got out the car like and I'm just standing there

955
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 1: like why did I just do that? Why did it

956
00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:13,399
Speaker 1: was a little bad. I mean I went on what's

957
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:15,759
Speaker 1: your friss day? He paid for the first date, and

958
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 1: then after he's going on a date again the next day,

959
00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, it's just about to be

960
00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 1: my my job for the second date. He didn't think

961
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 1: he had to pay because he happened to each other.

962
00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 1: That happened to me too, So he's just like I

963
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:30,200
Speaker 1: paid for the first day. Mind you, they pay you

964
00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:32,080
Speaker 1: to be on the date, and they paid for the meal.

965
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:34,719
Speaker 1: So the second day he invited me on. He thought

966
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:36,920
Speaker 1: by that time, like I just agreed to go to

967
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:39,600
Speaker 1: eat more food. It wasn't like another arranged paid eight

968
00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:47,040
Speaker 1: It's the same. Yeah, keep energy sharing, hose you wouldn't

969
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 1: share your clients? You would? I wish I would not

970
00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:52,560
Speaker 1: my best ones though, Like no, I need all all

971
00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:55,960
Speaker 1: of that, So I mean I share especially say the

972
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,560
Speaker 1: girl doesn't live in my same city. Or I just

973
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:01,080
Speaker 1: used to really really really want to look out for

974
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:04,320
Speaker 1: my friends. I don't have it and you need it.

975
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 1: I got a nigger you could get it from. So

976
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:09,080
Speaker 1: like my African that was in Nigeria, he was one

977
00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:12,000
Speaker 1: of those that in first conversation on the phone, he's

978
00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:15,200
Speaker 1: wiring a thousand dollars. So I'm like getting my friend

979
00:50:15,280 --> 00:50:17,520
Speaker 1: that out. Another African, I used to be like, bit,

980
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:19,920
Speaker 1: you just want to go to Houston one night hunted,

981
00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 1: Like my African was, he was in Houston. That's where

982
00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:29,360
Speaker 1: they be. It might be the same. He did oil,

983
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:33,480
Speaker 1: he did not, he did he build cars. Okay, I'm

984
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:38,120
Speaker 1: saying African, the Africans in in Houston be tricking like

985
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:43,680
Speaker 1: a bitch, the ones that yeah, no that, but he

986
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 1: was in Houston. And and then, like I said, the

987
00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:48,600
Speaker 1: basketball players, especially the married ones. If it's someone that

988
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 1: actually the especially if it's someone that you know, this

989
00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:56,279
Speaker 1: is never gonna go anywhere and really just being paid

990
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:59,400
Speaker 1: for time. If it's not you, it's someone else. So

991
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:02,120
Speaker 1: if a girl need need a lick and eat some bread,

992
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:03,879
Speaker 1: I wa be like, girl, I got you, I'm gonna

993
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:05,680
Speaker 1: send him your Instagram page and if you like you

994
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:08,799
Speaker 1: can you go to Memphis next week because that's where

995
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:12,400
Speaker 1: he had for two days. And oh yeah, I mean

996
00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:14,279
Speaker 1: I did that. I didn't do that. I didn't do that.

997
00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:16,320
Speaker 1: I did do that with my first basketball player I

998
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:20,839
Speaker 1: fell in love with. Many literally called me, I'm serious, bitch.

999
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:24,320
Speaker 1: He came to Atlanto. My mom was involved. It was

1000
00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:27,400
Speaker 1: give and I go see him. Then I called me

1001
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:28,960
Speaker 1: and he crying. One day, she goes, you know, we're

1002
00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:34,800
Speaker 1: just supposed to fuck him, and I was, b's not

1003
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:37,839
Speaker 1: my heart beating him all pussy. Okay, before we get out,

1004
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:43,719
Speaker 1: we gotta talk about home mail. So um here we go. Hey, guys,

1005
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:45,640
Speaker 1: I'm now getting hip to horrible decisions and I fell

1006
00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 1: in love. I really do think this podcast came to

1007
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 1: my life at the perfect time. I've been with my

1008
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:50,680
Speaker 1: boyfriend a little over two years. We have a five

1009
00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:52,279
Speaker 1: month old son. But I don't know if I want

1010
00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:54,360
Speaker 1: to be with him anymore because because of all the

1011
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:56,960
Speaker 1: personal problems is one thing, but I truly cannot get

1012
00:51:57,000 --> 00:51:59,080
Speaker 1: over how fast he nuts. At the beginning, I caught

1013
00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:01,759
Speaker 1: feelings before I list how weak weak the dick was

1014
00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:05,320
Speaker 1: constantly He's always touching on me, getting me wet and hype,

1015
00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 1: and then we have sex for three or four minutes

1016
00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 1: or um when I'm giving him head literally in three

1017
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:12,800
Speaker 1: and four minutes, and I'm high and dry and the

1018
00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:14,600
Speaker 1: sub and me loves to please my nick. But at

1019
00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:16,560
Speaker 1: the same time, like what about me? It's come to

1020
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:18,359
Speaker 1: the point where I don't even get excited for sex.

1021
00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:20,080
Speaker 1: I don't even want to have sex with him. It's

1022
00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:22,719
Speaker 1: honestly so depressing because I know someone could suck me

1023
00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:24,920
Speaker 1: and actually please me instead of this bullshit I'm putting

1024
00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:27,879
Speaker 1: up with. I feel like the dick was good. If

1025
00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:29,840
Speaker 1: it was good, I could ignore the other problems. But

1026
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 1: it's just so weak and it makes everything ten times

1027
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:35,839
Speaker 1: worth any advice, m hm. I feel like he broke

1028
00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 1: a something because the fact that she said like him

1029
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:40,879
Speaker 1: having bad dick is making everything else about him worse.

1030
00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:45,040
Speaker 1: I got that personal problems. I don't know me. Maybe

1031
00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:47,560
Speaker 1: he got a d h D. Maybe he's a bad listener.

1032
00:52:47,840 --> 00:52:56,399
Speaker 1: Why you gotta be wrote she just not realized. Yeah,

1033
00:52:56,440 --> 00:53:00,480
Speaker 1: you're right. Um, you know what, if he's nutting fast,

1034
00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:03,680
Speaker 1: I would say, maybe you work on introducing other things,

1035
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:08,320
Speaker 1: maybe the toys that make orgasm bringing those into the bedroom.

1036
00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:11,239
Speaker 1: I'm not actually, I think it's either you fix it

1037
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:13,719
Speaker 1: or I'm done. If we can't have sex, you got

1038
00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:16,920
Speaker 1: to get toys and not bring like that might get

1039
00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:19,840
Speaker 1: him exciting. I mean, then give him maybe that that

1040
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:23,759
Speaker 1: we talked about that like that, you're like, maybe start

1041
00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:26,239
Speaker 1: making him some smoothies in the morning with some sea moss.

1042
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:31,000
Speaker 1: I think that that must be a dysfunction if anyone

1043
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:32,920
Speaker 1: remembers that sex in the city episode where she met

1044
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:34,960
Speaker 1: this lit writer, and I think it was coming way

1045
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:37,279
Speaker 1: too quick. No, I think that you need to tell

1046
00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:41,399
Speaker 1: him to get on something, maybe a certain type of pill,

1047
00:53:41,640 --> 00:53:44,120
Speaker 1: vitamin whatever. But if I can't have sex with you

1048
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:46,440
Speaker 1: three minutes, sex is not sex. If we can't have

1049
00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:48,160
Speaker 1: sex for not having sex, and if I can't have

1050
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:49,200
Speaker 1: sex with you, I don't want to be with you.

1051
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 1: I think she needs to buy some toys. Toys. Why

1052
00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:53,840
Speaker 1: do you think toys will make it better, because because

1053
00:53:53,840 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 1: it does. I love toys to the bedroom. If he

1054
00:53:57,080 --> 00:53:59,080
Speaker 1: starts sucking her with a dil though, then Nick is

1055
00:53:59,080 --> 00:54:02,359
Speaker 1: gonna come. You don't know that. You may not come

1056
00:54:02,440 --> 00:54:05,080
Speaker 1: off of it, like penetration makes him come yet. But

1057
00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:09,160
Speaker 1: she wants to fucking fuck penetrated. Day she wants penetrated sex,

1058
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:11,320
Speaker 1: you can have penetrative sex with a dildo. I I

1059
00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:13,719
Speaker 1: had toys, and it's made like my sex life, Like

1060
00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:15,840
Speaker 1: I don't even want to nigga without toys now, Like

1061
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:18,920
Speaker 1: it's a great addition. And so I think if you

1062
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 1: really want penetration, you add more for play and get

1063
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:24,399
Speaker 1: him to play with you with toys. I mean there's

1064
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:28,359
Speaker 1: also we've also talked about Okay, maybe he even wears

1065
00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:31,359
Speaker 1: an extender or he double penetraction, Like there's so many

1066
00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 1: things that you add when you add other She didn't say, yeah,

1067
00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:38,000
Speaker 1: but but but that may keep him from feeling that

1068
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:43,000
Speaker 1: it's penetrated. But that might make not faster too. Why right,

1069
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:46,839
Speaker 1: Russia is the blood and holds it. I thought hard. Yeah,

1070
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 1: I mean there's just so many options I wouldn't go

1071
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:51,560
Speaker 1: straight to because it's giving the wind blows he comes.

1072
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:54,240
Speaker 1: And if that's the truth, I would say he definitely

1073
00:54:54,239 --> 00:54:55,799
Speaker 1: need to get on something. I just don't understand how

1074
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:58,160
Speaker 1: she realized this from day one? Did she just think

1075
00:54:58,160 --> 00:55:00,520
Speaker 1: it was gonna get better? He was probably like DoD,

1076
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:02,279
Speaker 1: it's probably being a good nigga, and then you're like,

1077
00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:05,520
Speaker 1: you know, we just fucking. He's excited now, but she's

1078
00:55:05,520 --> 00:55:07,719
Speaker 1: still doing that with a baby. I know my own

1079
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:10,440
Speaker 1: girls they gonna suck him after. You know what, here's

1080
00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:13,400
Speaker 1: my advice to him. If he just happens to be listening,

1081
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:15,360
Speaker 1: or a man is listening and this is an issue,

1082
00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:20,600
Speaker 1: start start picking up in other areas. When a bitch

1083
00:55:20,719 --> 00:55:23,360
Speaker 1: likes you, we be delusional and think the sex is

1084
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:26,360
Speaker 1: better than it really is, like maybe by her flowers,

1085
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:32,040
Speaker 1: by her gucci, by her product. I don't know. That's

1086
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:37,520
Speaker 1: what a way you said, Like when a nigga got

1087
00:55:37,560 --> 00:55:39,759
Speaker 1: money and do things like you know, I don't even

1088
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:42,520
Speaker 1: notice the sex. So if you start doing more acts

1089
00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:45,440
Speaker 1: of service and do other things, maybe she's gonna like you.

1090
00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:48,080
Speaker 1: Maybe he said accident hating a photo on the wall

1091
00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 1: show because you can't that, I mean, open the conversation

1092
00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:58,719
Speaker 1: to see if he's into any sort of other type

1093
00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:01,439
Speaker 1: of lifestyles. So cut holding maybe going to the sex

1094
00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:03,239
Speaker 1: club and allowing you to be with another man like

1095
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 1: you don't what, this's what our shows about. Open up

1096
00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:10,840
Speaker 1: the idea to still loving that nigga book. If you

1097
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:13,959
Speaker 1: can't find me, someone else will. But you could be right, there. Yeah,

1098
00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:19,239
Speaker 1: that's fair. That's fair. Are you an open relationship type

1099
00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:22,560
Speaker 1: of person? I have been? It depends each Each of

1100
00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:25,640
Speaker 1: my relationships have been so different. So it's just whatever

1101
00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:28,200
Speaker 1: works with me and in my person at the time.

1102
00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:33,080
Speaker 1: It's customizable. Girl. Yeah, we have one guest say that

1103
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:35,560
Speaker 1: Mandy never left, you know, that's my word. Now. They

1104
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:37,120
Speaker 1: were like, we have our relationship comes to my like,

1105
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:39,560
Speaker 1: what was that? That was crazy? Don't know because I

1106
00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:41,239
Speaker 1: mean people still ask me, so are y'all on my

1107
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:45,440
Speaker 1: open relationship? Are y'all swingers? And it's like, you know,

1108
00:56:45,840 --> 00:56:49,360
Speaker 1: is they know? I can be like no, but like,

1109
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:54,719
Speaker 1: if not feel a way, maybe the dollars a cow dean,

1110
00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:57,840
Speaker 1: whatever is it again? Chilean? What's it called? It is

1111
00:56:57,880 --> 00:57:00,439
Speaker 1: not chili, bitch, that's the South. I'm sorry, I'm hungry.

1112
00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:04,919
Speaker 1: That's why I said, what's they called again? I'm telling

1113
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:10,160
Speaker 1: you right now? And you said they fine? Fine, And

1114
00:57:10,239 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 1: I'm watching Ni Fiance and that nigga the Black Girl.

1115
00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 1: Do you watch it? They got a black girl. I

1116
00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:19,120
Speaker 1: haven't watched it this season. This nigga fine, And she'd

1117
00:57:19,160 --> 00:57:22,360
Speaker 1: be telling him, like, you keep playing with me whatever

1118
00:57:22,440 --> 00:57:24,360
Speaker 1: his name is. He'd be like no, baby, I love

1119
00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:27,280
Speaker 1: you baby, everything I give to you. Baby. No pretty

1120
00:57:27,320 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 1: enough baby. Oh girls, I want me a little baby.

1121
00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:34,000
Speaker 1: It's the dick. How are the Dixter Brown? I'm assuming yes,

1122
00:57:35,040 --> 00:57:38,720
Speaker 1: I mean they're very They don't remember Rihanna's ex. He

1123
00:57:38,920 --> 00:57:41,840
Speaker 1: was from around I don't remember his dick, Mandy. Oh,

1124
00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:44,680
Speaker 1: but he was. He's good looking, he was fine, he

1125
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:48,080
Speaker 1: was listening, a billionaire I'd had a baby with. Oh

1126
00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:50,280
Speaker 1: good boy, as might be right over there. So let

1127
00:57:50,280 --> 00:57:52,480
Speaker 1: me not say what I'm saying. Anyone of them would

1128
00:57:52,480 --> 00:57:55,640
Speaker 1: have been good. I'm saying, Uh, tell people what's coming

1129
00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:57,439
Speaker 1: next for you and if you want them to find

1130
00:57:57,520 --> 00:58:01,080
Speaker 1: you and where. On my Instagram them as Solar Moon.

1131
00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:05,080
Speaker 1: Same thing with Twitter. There's an underscore at the end. Um,

1132
00:58:05,880 --> 00:58:11,040
Speaker 1: I don't know. So I'm working on my music as

1133
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 1: a little bit of everything. There's a little ep on

1134
00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:18,240
Speaker 1: everything that every streaming platform it's just called sola. Um.

1135
00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:22,760
Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm doing that. I've been. I'm working um

1136
00:58:23,120 --> 00:58:25,440
Speaker 1: on a short series. We're trying to do like a

1137
00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:29,000
Speaker 1: um basically a bunch of mini stories from eighteen to

1138
00:58:29,280 --> 00:58:32,640
Speaker 1: twenty four because that's when I was actively in sex work.

1139
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 1: So um yeah, I'm working on that and that's she's existing,

1140
00:58:37,160 --> 00:58:39,280
Speaker 1: you know. I mean I feel like I wanted more

1141
00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:41,840
Speaker 1: when I watched it. I want more now, like I

1142
00:58:41,920 --> 00:58:43,720
Speaker 1: think people people love to see somewhere at that, but

1143
00:58:43,800 --> 00:58:47,080
Speaker 1: I love that more of just I mean that movie

1144
00:58:47,280 --> 00:58:49,920
Speaker 1: coming out like that took us into like so many

1145
00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:53,080
Speaker 1: people not knowing how any of that lifestyle really is.

1146
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:55,479
Speaker 1: And then first to even have p Valley on TV

1147
00:58:55,600 --> 00:58:59,120
Speaker 1: now like ship Euphoria, that ship swiled too, but at

1148
00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:03,440
Speaker 1: least I wasn't giving Yeah TeV, like they're really opening

1149
00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:06,360
Speaker 1: the gate for people like you and having stories like

1150
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:09,080
Speaker 1: you'll be depicted on film, and I love that's a

1151
00:59:09,160 --> 00:59:12,000
Speaker 1: good storyteller. I think that's the thing that's missing, is

1152
00:59:12,080 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 1: like there are so many stories that people can't tell,

1153
00:59:15,960 --> 00:59:17,560
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. When you're when someone makes

1154
00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:20,320
Speaker 1: you excited for more, that's really when you've got the gold.

1155
00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:22,960
Speaker 1: But congrats on your movie and all the award and

1156
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:24,480
Speaker 1: I mean clearly we know you're gonna be there now

1157
00:59:24,880 --> 00:59:30,200
Speaker 1: and if you have finally everywhere, now go off, when

1158
00:59:30,320 --> 00:59:33,200
Speaker 1: is it it? Where is it the awards? There? Um

1159
00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:38,560
Speaker 1: they're in l A March fourth. Yeah, So okay, Well

1160
00:59:38,840 --> 00:59:40,640
Speaker 1: I'll be in l A and I'm telling you right now,

1161
00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:42,640
Speaker 1: I want to after party being Let me give it

1162
00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:52,200
Speaker 1: about that. I don't have niggas. What about you just

1163
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:54,600
Speaker 1: pegged in gang bang with Yeah, but that was while

1164
00:59:54,600 --> 01:00:00,760
Speaker 1: I was broken up girl, goodbye my ray, and I think, girl,

1165
01:00:00,800 --> 01:00:03,520
Speaker 1: you want a peg nigga. See, I'll still share friends,

1166
01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:06,560
Speaker 1: you know, And it's only because you wanted to gang

1167
01:00:06,640 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 1: bang pegan Nick. Don't act like he was being kind.

1168
01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:10,840
Speaker 1: I mean I was do you know how to get

1169
01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 1: my friends want to pegan nigga and never come across one.

1170
01:00:14,760 --> 01:00:17,400
Speaker 1: And he was beautiful and and and brown skin and

1171
01:00:17,480 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 1: tattered and so it's just like, and you get to

1172
01:00:19,040 --> 01:00:22,160
Speaker 1: pack a good looking nigg Have you pegged? Yeah, it's

1173
01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:25,520
Speaker 1: not my favorite. It's not my favorite. I don't know.

1174
01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:27,760
Speaker 1: It's like no pleasure in it for me, for real,

1175
01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:32,480
Speaker 1: I don't It's not I don't like it sexy, I

1176
01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 1: don't like it whatever with it. I taped what twight?

1177
01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 1: It was literally the It's funny. I think it was

1178
01:00:37,120 --> 01:00:38,720
Speaker 1: the first episode of our show. Was like my first

1179
01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:42,640
Speaker 1: time really doing it. That nigga was mad why he

1180
01:00:42,840 --> 01:00:44,920
Speaker 1: was like, I can't believe you put this on your podcast.

1181
01:00:44,920 --> 01:00:46,439
Speaker 1: I was like, I didn't even say it. I said,

1182
01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:49,680
Speaker 1: Australian model. How are they gonna know it's you? But

1183
01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:52,040
Speaker 1: I guess they do now they'll never know. Well, you

1184
01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:54,840
Speaker 1: blocked me down. I just saw him my fucking billboard

1185
01:00:54,880 --> 01:00:57,200
Speaker 1: and I was like, I fucked him. You can't wait

1186
01:00:57,280 --> 01:00:59,160
Speaker 1: to tell people. You know what's crazy about you saying

1187
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:01,880
Speaker 1: that the nigga who condom got missing in me? Uh?

1188
01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:05,000
Speaker 1: He was on the billboard and target that nigga like models, models,

1189
01:01:05,600 --> 01:01:08,360
Speaker 1: like nigga. It's target in the lead by section. Look

1190
01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:14,320
Speaker 1: at us, the models love it now his billboard. Let

1191
01:01:14,360 --> 01:01:15,720
Speaker 1: me see my mom was making it yours. It was

1192
01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:18,120
Speaker 1: just that target. It was just a target that but

1193
01:01:18,160 --> 01:01:21,040
Speaker 1: that nigga, that's what he does. He was, Remember I

1194
01:01:21,040 --> 01:01:22,880
Speaker 1: went through a phase while I was sucking like Willelmina

1195
01:01:22,920 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 1: models and like nigga's like model model because I like

1196
01:01:25,120 --> 01:01:28,240
Speaker 1: pretty niggas. Remember that's why she want to suck an

1197
01:01:28,280 --> 01:01:30,160
Speaker 1: ask Mandy really wants some pussy. She just wants to

1198
01:01:30,200 --> 01:01:35,280
Speaker 1: get anyway. You guys, check out sellar Moon obviously um

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Speaker 1: leaving you guys with a five minute bonus clip. Thank

1217
01:02:23,720 --> 01:02:25,920
Speaker 1: you so very much Zola for joining us, and if

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Speaker 1: for tuning in to another episode of poor decisions by

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Speaker 1: it's bonus bitches. Welcome to another cinema episode. Alexa, shut

1223
01:02:44,880 --> 01:02:49,320
Speaker 1: your grass up. Boom, that's hot. Talk to her. I

1224
01:02:49,440 --> 01:02:52,480
Speaker 1: just got an election, making me feel like the bitch

1225
01:02:52,600 --> 01:02:54,840
Speaker 1: is stalking me. Like I get worried about you. I've

1226
01:02:54,880 --> 01:02:58,960
Speaker 1: never that is my first Alexa. Really I don't like

1227
01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:03,320
Speaker 1: I have. Um it's weird because I have two in

1228
01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:05,880
Speaker 1: my house, a Syrian my bathroom, and then I got

1229
01:03:05,960 --> 01:03:09,720
Speaker 1: my man uh one for his car. But he's old,

1230
01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:12,240
Speaker 1: so he just feels like you don't want nobody watching him.

1231
01:03:12,240 --> 01:03:14,520
Speaker 1: And I'm just like, they're good, You're not a criminal.

1232
01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:18,360
Speaker 1: Day That's how I just felt. But LAMBEA scared me.

1233
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:22,360
Speaker 1: Are about us? They just tell us the weather and

1234
01:03:22,480 --> 01:03:25,600
Speaker 1: play our tunes. That's all they do. Lamba made me

1235
01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:30,360
Speaker 1: unplug it. Um. I wanted to play some rent fires

1236
01:03:30,400 --> 01:03:34,160
Speaker 1: and fuck and I was like, Alexa played rent Fires

1237
01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:36,920
Speaker 1: and he was like, whoa wonderful that ship going on?

1238
01:03:37,640 --> 01:03:41,160
Speaker 1: Now you knew you was gonna activate her as bro Alexa,

1239
01:03:41,360 --> 01:03:53,840
Speaker 1: stop Alexa, stop nothing, Alexa, turn it off already. That's

1240
01:03:53,880 --> 01:03:56,000
Speaker 1: why he said he didn't want her around because they

1241
01:03:56,120 --> 01:04:01,040
Speaker 1: hear everything you call them, day and them okay. I said, fine, okay,

1242
01:04:01,080 --> 01:04:02,760
Speaker 1: I'll turn it off. He was like, played on your phone.

1243
01:04:04,280 --> 01:04:05,680
Speaker 1: So then I started playing it on my phone, but

1244
01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:08,760
Speaker 1: I chrome casted to the TV and then he was like,

1245
01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:10,880
Speaker 1: I thought your TV had internet. Why you putting ship

1246
01:04:11,080 --> 01:04:12,600
Speaker 1: up on the TV now? And it's talking like I

1247
01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:14,880
Speaker 1: don't like this ship And I was like, Nigga, what

1248
01:04:15,200 --> 01:04:18,440
Speaker 1: the fuck, Mandy, he's not even that old, Like this

1249
01:04:18,600 --> 01:04:20,280
Speaker 1: is how you know, even in the system too long,

1250
01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:24,360
Speaker 1: Like it's crazy, it's fun to me. Um. Also update,

1251
01:04:24,880 --> 01:04:27,240
Speaker 1: I told Old Bay two weeks ago. You guys probably

1252
01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:30,520
Speaker 1: heard me say that Lambeau was gonna get me a car.

1253
01:04:30,960 --> 01:04:34,240
Speaker 1: I called Old Bay right after that episode. I'll let

1254
01:04:34,280 --> 01:04:35,920
Speaker 1: you know Kodak black because that's what you call him.

1255
01:04:36,920 --> 01:04:39,360
Speaker 1: He said, yeah, what's up. I was like, they never

1256
01:04:39,440 --> 01:04:40,840
Speaker 1: want to get me a car and pay my rent?

1257
01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:43,640
Speaker 1: And he just was silent, and I was like what

1258
01:04:44,640 --> 01:04:46,720
Speaker 1: he said? Okay, Gila, what do you want me to say?

1259
01:04:47,120 --> 01:04:48,440
Speaker 1: I was like, I just want you to tell me

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Speaker 1: whether you think that's crazy. His answer to that was saying,

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Speaker 1: I know you're gonna do what you want to do regardless.

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Speaker 1: That's that's what that response was giving. Do you want

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Speaker 1: me to pick you up in a nice car and

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Speaker 1: visit l a your web bad. That's really what it is.

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Speaker 1: That's really like the real question. So how did you

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Speaker 1: respond to that? Like if he said, what do you

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Speaker 1: want me to say? Like what what type of response

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Speaker 1: did you expect him to t I was like, you

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Speaker 1: know what kind of car I wanted? That car is

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Speaker 1: like two thousands a month, Like is that really gonna

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Speaker 1: drive you crazy? And he was just like, it's what

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Speaker 1: you want to do, Gila. So it's giving. I can't

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Speaker 1: tell you what you do. Well, it's given that, but

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Speaker 1: also I can't tell you what to do, which I appreciate.

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Speaker 1: But I also feel like if he called me like

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Speaker 1: and was like, this bitch wants to buy X, Y

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Speaker 1: and Z for me? You know what I'm saying, like,

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Speaker 1: you would have a fucking fit. Yeah I would, um,

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Speaker 1: but you know I ain't gonna lie. I feel like

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Speaker 1: the worst of it all was saying that I accidentally

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Speaker 1: sucked him. Were all like that was the real fucking

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Speaker 1: embarrassing thing to call my to go with whish to

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Speaker 1: be honest, Mandy, he was so appreciative that I said

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Speaker 1: it without like trying to bullshit around it when I

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01:06:06,480 --> 01:06:08,200
Speaker 1: came home, you know what I'm saying, And I feel

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Speaker 1: like I would have been the same way. Like when

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Speaker 1: I really thought about it, I thought that he was

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Speaker 1: gonna be like, bit, are you out of your mind?

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Speaker 1: But if he called me, was like, yo, I mean,

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Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Mistakes happened. But a niga paying

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Speaker 1: your rent and in you a car, that's more like

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Speaker 1: a relationship, which is why I'm wanting because I don't

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01:06:20,600 --> 01:06:22,360
Speaker 1: want him to think he could just take the condom off.

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Speaker 1: Beats bitch. If a nigga buys you a car and

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Speaker 1: your rent, he's not sucking you would have condom. Ever, Okay,

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Speaker 1: well that's what I can't do it. Damn. I wish

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Speaker 1: I could just put both of them like that, but um,

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Speaker 1: you know, I mean it kind of sucks, but whatever. Anyway, Uh, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that conversation was a little bit uncomfortable. And I think

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Speaker 1: that also Lambeau like doesn't really like understand obey because

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01:06:48,480 --> 01:06:52,160
Speaker 1: he doesn't really I just don't think he gets it,

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Speaker 1: Like I think he thinks this is some relationship off

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Speaker 1: of TV or like he thinks it's not like a

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Speaker 1: real thing, Like he doesn't really maybe understand the openness

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01:07:01,200 --> 01:07:03,200
Speaker 1: because he's very like if you my bitch, you can't

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01:07:03,200 --> 01:07:06,160
Speaker 1: fun nobody type of nagg But I'm having fun with

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Speaker 1: him right now and I don't want it to end.

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01:07:09,320 --> 01:07:11,240
Speaker 1: So who knows? They could blow up in my face.

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01:07:11,640 --> 01:07:13,560
Speaker 1: One of his baby mamas could fly here and kill me.

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Speaker 1: There's also that that's a big opportunity for that to

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Speaker 1: happen because them holds, damn show one of them, what

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Speaker 1: was I gonna say? Hit him up and was like

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Speaker 1: this bitch talking about you on her podcast and started

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Speaker 1: like blowing up. She was like, who the funk? Else?

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Speaker 1: Got a Lamba and Ni? So I mean there's always that,

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Speaker 1: um you know, who knows. Hopefully they don't come get

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Speaker 1: both of us, bitch I we're gonna take this thing

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Speaker 1: back to the gold card the model. I thought about her.

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Speaker 1: Nothing that happens with you. They ain't coming for us,

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Speaker 1: which they're coming for you.