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Speaker 1: Subject the men in my fiance's family. Dear Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: I'm engaged to a man that is eleven years my junior.

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Speaker 1: I'm forty two years old, and he jokes that his

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Speaker 1: father is only six years older than I am. It's

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Speaker 1: odd that I was attracted to him because I met

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Speaker 1: him with his dad and his dad was laying it

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Speaker 1: on thick. I was drawn to my fiance because he

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Speaker 1: was cool and laid back. I am very close to

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Speaker 1: my fiance's mother, and she has two sons by her husband.

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Speaker 1: When we're all together, my fiance and his two younger brothers,

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Speaker 1: we're a big, happy family. When his dad joins into

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Speaker 1: the mixed drama occurs. He and my fiance's mother have

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Speaker 1: been at odds for years because he didn't want to

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Speaker 1: be with her, simple as that they had my fiance

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Speaker 1: when they were in high school and broke up when.

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Speaker 3: My fiance was ten years old.

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Speaker 1: Hey, stuff happens, but now he wants that old thing

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Speaker 1: back and she's not having it. My background is in counseling,

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Speaker 1: so I try to mediate their arguments, but they.

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Speaker 3: Get pretty bad.

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Speaker 1: Over the weekend, we all got together for my future

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Speaker 1: mother in law sons graduation and I don't know why

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Speaker 1: my fiance's dad.

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Speaker 3: Showed up, but he did.

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Speaker 1: Her husband stepped to him and said it's not his son,

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Speaker 1: and he appreciates, appreciated the graduation gift, but he isn't

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Speaker 1: part of the family and should stop popping up. They

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Speaker 1: have words and it got loud, and my fiance's dad

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Speaker 1: told the husband that he was going to get his

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Speaker 1: girl back no matter what. I recorded the altercation on

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Speaker 1: my phone because I was recording the graduation. I gave

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Speaker 1: the video to my future mother in law and she

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Speaker 1: used the video to get a restraining order on my

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Speaker 1: fiance's father, saying he's a threat. My fiance and his

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Speaker 1: dad are furious with me. I did not intend for

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Speaker 1: this to happen. All I did was share the video.

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Speaker 1: How is this my fault and how do I fix it? Wow? Well,

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Speaker 1: it isn't your fault. I agree with you, and don't

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Speaker 1: take the blame for this. This is his dad's fault.

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Speaker 3: Period. You did nothing wrong.

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Speaker 1: Like you said, you were already filming the graduation. Who

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Speaker 1: knew your fiance's dad was coming and was going to

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Speaker 3: Jump off like this.

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Speaker 1: It would have been on tape anyway. And I am

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Speaker 1: concerned because it's dad has a nerve to be mad

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Speaker 1: at you for his bad behavior. He wasn't invited to

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Speaker 1: the graduation, and you said every time he comes around

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Speaker 1: the family, it's a problem.

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Speaker 3: Some drama occurs.

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Speaker 1: Not only that he's disrespecting the husband in his face

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Speaker 1: by saying he's trying to get his girl back.

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Speaker 3: It's not his girl.

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Speaker 1: Remember he didn't want her, according to you, so she

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Speaker 1: moved on and got married, and now he can't handle it.

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Speaker 1: I know he's mad that his son got you over him,

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Speaker 1: and he missed out on you too, So his son,

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Speaker 1: your fiance is in an awkward position.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 1: He probably feels torn, feels guilty for being with you,

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Speaker 1: knowing his dad was trying so hard to get you,

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Speaker 1: and his dad has guilted him into being on his side.

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Speaker 1: This is a mess. Both the son and his father

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Speaker 1: are mad at you. The son is your fiance.

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Speaker 3: What do you do?

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Speaker 1: I don't really know. Try to talk to your fiance

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Speaker 1: or something like that. I don't know if it's gonna help,

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Speaker 1: because it seems right now now that his loyalty is

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Speaker 1: simmers down a little bit, But I don't know, because

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Speaker 1: this really really is a mess.

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Speaker 4: Steve, Well, you know, I see a lot of problems

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Speaker 4: in this letter, and as I read this letter, I'm

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Speaker 4: gonna point out to you what I think are the

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Speaker 4: real problems. Okay, this woman says, I'm engaged to a

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Speaker 4: man that's eleven years my junior.

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Speaker 2: He's forty two. That makes her fifty three.

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Speaker 1: Now she's forty two.

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Speaker 2: She's forty two. So this dude is what thirty.

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Speaker 1: One, thirty one, thirty one, and the.

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Speaker 4: Ninety is forty eight and her daddy, the daddy is

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Speaker 2: Okay, now, here's the problem.

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Speaker 4: You're engaged to this man that's eleven years your junior

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Speaker 4: and you at forty two, and his father's sixt year

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Speaker 2: It's odd. Here's the letter.

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Speaker 4: It's odd that I was attracted to him because I

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Speaker 4: met him with his dad, and his dad was laying

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Speaker 4: it on thick. Here's your problem. Here's one of the problems, tod.

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Speaker 4: Daddy was laying it on thick when he met you.

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Speaker 4: You were attracted to the boy, see Nain, Now.

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Speaker 2: We got the problem.

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Speaker 4: Then you said I was drawn to my fiance because

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Speaker 4: he was cool and laid back. I'm very close to

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Speaker 4: my fiancees mother. See this story just takes a big jump.

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Speaker 4: Now she's very close to the fiance's mother, and she's

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Speaker 4: got two sons by her husband.

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Speaker 2: Well, we all.

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Speaker 4: Together, my fiance and his two younger brothers, we're a big,

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Speaker 4: happy family. When the dad joins into the mixed drama occurs.

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Speaker 4: He and my fiance's mother have been at odd for

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Speaker 4: years because he didn't want to be with her. Simple

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Speaker 4: as that they had my fiance when they were in

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Speaker 4: high school and broke up. And when my fiance was

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Speaker 4: ten years old, broke up with my fiance with tzoh hey,

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Speaker 4: stuff happens, but now he wants that old thing back

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Speaker 4: and he's not having it.

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Speaker 2: Here's your problem.

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Speaker 4: My background is in counselor, so I try to mediate

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Speaker 4: their arguments, but they get pretty bad over the weekend.

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Speaker 2: That go your other problem right there, you trying to

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Speaker 2: counsel be.

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Speaker 4: When I come back, I'm gonna tell you all about

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Speaker 4: your little counselor eskapeion here why you'll need to get out.

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Speaker 2: Of the counselor be.

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Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, we'll have part two of your response

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Speaker 1: our today's Strawberry Letters subject the men and my fiance family.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The men in my fiance's family is the subject.

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Speaker 4: This lady forty two years old and fiance is thirty one.

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Speaker 4: He joked that she's six years closer to her daddy

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Speaker 4: age he forty. They met together. He hit on her,

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Speaker 4: He hit the daddy hit on her. She liked the

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Speaker 4: boy better, you know, so nine ay together, fast forward.

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Speaker 4: They got She got a great relationship with her fiance's mother.

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Speaker 4: She got two sons from another marriage. They had her

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Speaker 4: fiance when he was ten. They was in high school.

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Speaker 4: Blah blah blah blah blah.

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Speaker 3: Blah blah blah.

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Speaker 4: That don't even matter. Here go your problem right here.

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Speaker 4: First of all, the daddy hit on you when y'all

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Speaker 4: first met. It didn't work out. Second problem is, my

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Speaker 4: background is in counseling, so I try to mediate they arguments,

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Speaker 4: but they get pretty bad. Now, how are you gonna

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Speaker 4: mediate they arguments? When he was hitting on you. How

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Speaker 4: does that work? What everything he do is gonna be

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Speaker 4: a flex move in front of you? And how are

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Speaker 4: you mediating old people arguments? You know how old people arguing?

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Speaker 4: Now you're all in the middle of that. You shut up,

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Speaker 4: you shut up. I ain't gotta shutf ain't got shut over.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to.

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Speaker 4: Well, then you need to get the walk to the

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Speaker 4: old argument. What what have I ever shut up before?

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Speaker 2: See how you counsel that?

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Speaker 1: All?

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Speaker 4: Right, now let's move on. Here's the problem. Uh, we

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Speaker 4: all got together for my future mother in law sons graduation.

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Speaker 4: See it's just too many people, see you, you and

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Speaker 4: your counseling efforts. You're trying to sow too many people together.

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Speaker 4: All you really need to be worried about is you

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Speaker 4: and your fiance. But no, no, no, you all off

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Speaker 4: the ex husband's business. If you were just focused on

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Speaker 4: you and your fiance. But oh no, you super counselor

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Speaker 4: you know, went to school, you trik you other time

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Speaker 4: they got that degree?

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Speaker 2: You think you really think that degree is for this?

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Speaker 2: That's what you say? Now?

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Speaker 3: What now?

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Speaker 4: One of these situations a case study. When you was

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Speaker 4: getting a little counseling degree, you didn't run.

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Speaker 3: This a new wor.

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Speaker 4: So now you're sitting up in here and you at

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Speaker 4: your future mother in law sons graduation. I don't know

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Speaker 4: why my fiancees dad showed up, but he did. Her

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Speaker 4: husband stepped to him and said, it's not his son,

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Speaker 4: and he appreciated the graduation gift, but he ain't part

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Speaker 4: it ain't your son. Don'gorry, why are you here? They

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Speaker 4: had words and it got loud. My fiance's dad finally

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Speaker 4: told the husband he gonna get his girl back no

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Speaker 4: matter what.

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Speaker 2: I done. Whooped his actic graduation. Now, now guess what

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Speaker 4: I recorded the altercation on my phone because I was

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Speaker 4: recording the graduation.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, girl, you could have stopped.

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Speaker 4: You was recording the graduation. Why did you turn the

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Speaker 4: camera on the altercation? So then I gave the video

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Speaker 4: to my future mother in law, you know, because you

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Speaker 4: did say y'all close, and she used a video to

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Speaker 4: get a restraint in order or my fiance's father saying

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Speaker 4: that he's a threat. My fiance say and his dad

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Speaker 4: are furious with me. I did not intend for this

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Speaker 4: to happen. All I did was share the video. Why

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Speaker 4: because you counseling, you taking pictures of the counseling. You

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Speaker 4: You're forty two. You shared the video. Now she used

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Speaker 4: it as evidence. How's this my fault? And how do

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Speaker 4: how's this my fault? And how do I fix it?

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Speaker 4: If it wasn't your fault, you wouldn't be trying to

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Speaker 4: fix it. So how's this fault? Because you and other

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Speaker 4: people's business? Come on, because you so busy being in

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Speaker 4: other people's business instead of the business gathering a future.

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Speaker 4: What that little boy you got? Now him and his

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Speaker 4: daddy mad at you because you don't They done broke

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Speaker 4: the cardinal rule in the black family. You do not

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Speaker 4: call the police. I don't care what we do at

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Speaker 4: this house. You gonna call the police. And got a

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Speaker 4: restraining order on this dude. But now he comfortable enough

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Speaker 4: to come to your son's graduation with your husband and

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Speaker 4: tell your husband he gonna.

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Speaker 2: Get you back? How the end at this today? You're

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Speaker 2: finna get who back?

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Speaker 4: Though, Now I'm gonna show you what you finish get

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Speaker 4: but no, no, no no, you finna get back, but

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Speaker 4: you ain't finna get her back.

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Speaker 3: They don't want to be fighting at the graduation though.

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Speaker 2: She recorded it because she messy. She messy? Now how

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Speaker 2: is this my fault? And how do I fix it?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I don't care how you fix it? Stay out

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Speaker 4: of folk business. You ain't to counselor you thought you was.

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Speaker 4: You're a college graduate counselor. You can't counsel real situations.

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Speaker 4: You have to read the stuff that's in them books. Now,

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Speaker 4: this man won't his woman back, That ain't his woman?

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Speaker 4: And now what was that at the school? Did they

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Speaker 4: teach you that?

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Speaker 3: All right? Thank you?

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