WEBVTT - Dirty Rush: Dirty Talk 0:00:01.000 --> 0:00:04.280 Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sorority Life with 0:00:04.320 --> 0:00:07.280 your hosts me Gia Judice. 0:00:06.760 --> 0:00:08.480 Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler. 0:00:11.400 --> 0:00:15.760 It's time to get dirty, dirty with some sorority lingo. 0:00:17.560 --> 0:00:20.200 We're calling this lingo bingo. We're not actually going to 0:00:20.239 --> 0:00:23.280 play bingo, but we want to talk about the lingo 0:00:23.480 --> 0:00:25.920 back by popular demand, because we did this earlier in 0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:29.560 the Dirty Rush series. We talked about the words, and 0:00:29.600 --> 0:00:33.159 so we've assembled a group, a panel, secret panel. We 0:00:33.200 --> 0:00:35.440 have young, we have old so I think our youngest 0:00:35.640 --> 0:00:39.120 is still in the sorority and our oldest is in 0:00:39.159 --> 0:00:42.559 their fifties. So we did not include the gramma generation, 0:00:42.640 --> 0:00:45.879 which we should, but we go. We span, you know, 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:50.040 a good thirty forty years here. If you all were 0:00:50.080 --> 0:00:53.840 to think of one word that makes you think of 0:00:53.880 --> 0:00:56.360 your sorority, can you think of it? 0:00:58.360 --> 0:00:58.800 Yeah? 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:00.560 Yes, yeah, it give it? 0:01:00.640 --> 0:01:01.400 Everybody give it. 0:01:01.480 --> 0:01:05.200 As a PII. The word boom just is PIPEI. 0:01:05.840 --> 0:01:08.320 If you listen to our song episode, you'll understand why 0:01:09.240 --> 0:01:14.800 anybody else it's not sisterhood in the bonds, mine's in 0:01:14.880 --> 0:01:17.800 the bonds. We always said that in the is that 0:01:17.800 --> 0:01:18.440 what yours was? 0:01:21.560 --> 0:01:25.000 I'm trying to think of a word. I I don't know, 0:01:25.040 --> 0:01:27.119 I just go to blue and blue. Honestly, I feel 0:01:27.120 --> 0:01:29.959 like that was really hammered home. 0:01:30.280 --> 0:01:34.160 Yeah, while we're on the topic, a lot of people 0:01:34.200 --> 0:01:37.039 don't understand that each so already has colors. So maybe 0:01:37.080 --> 0:01:40.920 the secret panel, why don't we go to the alpha, 0:01:40.920 --> 0:01:43.360 pi and the theta. What were your colors? 0:01:44.480 --> 0:01:44.840 Alpha? 0:01:44.840 --> 0:01:44.960 Fi? 0:01:45.440 --> 0:01:45.880 Maroon? 0:01:46.200 --> 0:01:48.960 I might have been maroon in silver, something little prian 0:01:48.960 --> 0:01:52.400 and a little accent, but mainly maroon marine. 0:01:52.440 --> 0:01:54.760 Our ours was block and gold. 0:01:54.920 --> 0:01:56.840 Oh you are black and gold. 0:01:57.000 --> 0:02:00.600 I was always jealous of beta colors. I was always this. 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:03.360 Is sending me back to the song episode really quick. 0:02:03.400 --> 0:02:06.920 I'll just sing you an excerpt. We would do a 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:09.800 take on black and yellow, and we'd be like black 0:02:09.840 --> 0:02:12.280 and yellow, black and yellow, black and yellow, black and yellow, 0:02:12.480 --> 0:02:14.440 and we would just sing that all around the house 0:02:14.480 --> 0:02:17.280 and it would be like, yeah, you know what it is, 0:02:17.520 --> 0:02:19.000 theta yellow. 0:02:20.240 --> 0:02:22.240 They did that when I was in college too. 0:02:22.320 --> 0:02:25.040 It was that one I enjoyed. 0:02:26.520 --> 0:02:29.239 What were you again, wine and blue? 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:32.440 Yeah, that's not a great these color. 0:02:32.240 --> 0:02:33.800 Combinations, it's not good. 0:02:34.080 --> 0:02:37.080 I remember not liking our colors and being like, I 0:02:37.120 --> 0:02:39.919 wish I was a data just for the colors black 0:02:39.960 --> 0:02:42.880 and gold and what was what wasd. 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:45.440 G bronze pink and blue? 0:02:47.000 --> 0:02:49.240 Bronze pink and blue. 0:02:50.080 --> 0:02:53.000 Pretty girl also a strange combination. 0:02:53.160 --> 0:02:55.480 I feel like Kappa's rocking here with the blue and blue. 0:02:56.440 --> 0:03:00.400 Yeah, that's classic yea time. 0:03:00.480 --> 0:03:03.360 So I'd like to go into some sorority lingo that 0:03:05.280 --> 0:03:08.519 resonates with the older generation and then see if it's 0:03:08.520 --> 0:03:12.240 still used by the younger people. Does anybody in this 0:03:12.280 --> 0:03:15.560 group know what snaps are or the silent? 0:03:15.760 --> 0:03:16.000 Did? 0:03:17.480 --> 0:03:18.760 Does that mean anything to anyone? 0:03:19.040 --> 0:03:19.519 Snaps? 0:03:19.600 --> 0:03:25.440 Snaps like like like snaps like Kudo's good job type, 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:27.560 not quite clapping. 0:03:28.080 --> 0:03:31.320 Quite clapping. The way I think it's used is like 0:03:31.400 --> 0:03:35.720 in a rush meeting. If you're like, we loved you know, Mary, 0:03:36.280 --> 0:03:39.440 and everyone starts snapping, then you just don't even have 0:03:39.480 --> 0:03:40.600 to talk about it anymore. 0:03:40.720 --> 0:03:41.840 You're kind of an agreement. 0:03:42.320 --> 0:03:43.520 Yeah, did everybody use that? 0:03:44.120 --> 0:03:44.480 Yeah? 0:03:45.320 --> 0:03:48.400 We use that now. I'd like to know what everyone 0:03:48.520 --> 0:03:51.720 how they describe their chapter room. That seems to be 0:03:51.800 --> 0:03:54.520 something that people are like, what does that even mean? 0:03:56.000 --> 0:03:56.680 Are sucked? 0:03:59.440 --> 0:04:00.640 Why tell us more? 0:04:00.760 --> 0:04:04.880 It was so old it smelled, and the furniture was 0:04:04.920 --> 0:04:07.480 always pushed off to this like to the wall for 0:04:08.160 --> 0:04:11.000 I don't know, whatever dance rehearsal. You had to go 0:04:11.080 --> 0:04:13.800 through the patio to get out there. It's kind of 0:04:13.840 --> 0:04:16.800 like a detached It's interesting you. 0:04:16.680 --> 0:04:18.840 Bring up the furniture push to the walls because our 0:04:18.960 --> 0:04:22.360 arts also was all did anybody else. 0:04:23.760 --> 0:04:26.120 That used to fit all the members? And I think 0:04:26.200 --> 0:04:29.479 so maybe I didn't know that there was a chapter room. 0:04:29.760 --> 0:04:32.920 We always did it in our living room here, did 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:33.359 you guys? 0:04:33.560 --> 0:04:37.480 Did you guys have a dedicated room just for chapter Yeah? Yes, 0:04:37.960 --> 0:04:41.080 oh we did the same thing just in our living 0:04:41.120 --> 0:04:43.320 room and there were girls sitting on the floor and 0:04:43.440 --> 0:04:44.839 it was a whole mess that was. 0:04:45.240 --> 0:04:47.600 On the floor for sure. But did you have composits? 0:04:47.680 --> 0:04:48.960 Do you guys know what composity? 0:04:49.480 --> 0:04:51.280 And that was for us. 0:04:51.400 --> 0:04:54.920 That was a big thing in when I was in college, 0:04:55.120 --> 0:04:58.840 is we would steal each other's composites like sororities and fraternities, 0:04:58.880 --> 0:05:03.480 like like we had like a Landakai and Sigma Qui. 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:06.960 Composite at our house. 0:05:07.600 --> 0:05:10.480 And that frown on that like you could kind of 0:05:10.520 --> 0:05:11.320 get busted for that. 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:12.960 I don't know, we all did it. 0:05:12.960 --> 0:05:14.480 It was like the fun thing to do, Like you 0:05:14.480 --> 0:05:16.800 would go to Lambda Kai house for like a party 0:05:16.839 --> 0:05:18.840 and steeler composite and like hang it up in your 0:05:18.960 --> 0:05:20.039 sority house. 0:05:19.839 --> 0:05:22.080 And did the houses like ours went back, like you 0:05:22.080 --> 0:05:25.000 could find years previous composites. 0:05:26.160 --> 0:05:26.640 Mm hmmm. 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:27.400 Yeah. 0:05:27.480 --> 0:05:31.640 If I go to SAE right now and I search hard, 0:05:32.360 --> 0:05:36.440 I can find the composite that features one of our 0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:40.039 panel members fathers and one of our panel members husbands 0:05:40.320 --> 0:05:41.880 on it, like it's still up. 0:05:42.000 --> 0:05:42.640 Did you know that? 0:05:43.279 --> 0:05:45.640 Yeah, we had. We have old composites that are just 0:05:45.680 --> 0:05:48.200 in our hallways. So I wonder how to look at 0:05:48.240 --> 0:05:48.760 far back? 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:50.080 It goes yeah, like. 0:05:50.040 --> 0:05:51.840 I'm not not too far because we didn't have enough 0:05:51.880 --> 0:05:52.560 wall space. 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:56.680 I wonder where all the old composites are stored. They 0:05:56.720 --> 0:05:57.600 must be somewhere. 0:05:58.200 --> 0:06:01.200 We had the same space problem the composites, where we 0:06:01.240 --> 0:06:03.640 only had so much wall space. So every year they 0:06:03.760 --> 0:06:06.359 kept them in this big closet and then they would 0:06:06.480 --> 0:06:10.600 rotate out which composits were hung on the wall each year, 0:06:10.640 --> 0:06:13.400 so it was always like the composites from five, ten, 0:06:13.480 --> 0:06:15.920 fifteen years ago, and then it was like I don't 0:06:15.960 --> 0:06:18.720 know how they did it actually, but they would change 0:06:18.760 --> 0:06:19.520 them every year. 0:06:19.480 --> 0:06:21.880 And they were framed in sort of very big, bulky, 0:06:21.960 --> 0:06:25.359 ugly brown frames anybody else lay yeah, just really not 0:06:26.720 --> 0:06:30.920 not sleek or chic frames in any way. 0:06:30.960 --> 0:06:32.840 Did you guys at KAPA and I don't know if 0:06:32.839 --> 0:06:36.160 the girls do this, but our meetings were like Robert's rules, 0:06:36.360 --> 0:06:38.159 like secretary call to order. 0:06:38.800 --> 0:06:42.120 Yeah, yeah, they were formal, Okay, did everybody have that? 0:06:42.120 --> 0:06:42.600 Pretty much? 0:06:42.600 --> 0:06:45.120 So we had like a table where the president, vice 0:06:45.160 --> 0:06:47.960 president and all the chairs sat and they faced us 0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:50.240 like it was recular, and then a gavel. 0:06:49.920 --> 0:06:52.920 We would do roll call like see the name. 0:06:53.200 --> 0:06:56.040 Yeah, and you had to wear a skirt in our era. 0:06:56.320 --> 0:06:57.480 Yeah, same, that's. 0:06:57.320 --> 0:07:01.320 Still a thing over there. A no, we have like 0:07:01.400 --> 0:07:02.320 a skirt. 0:07:02.760 --> 0:07:05.960 We have one formal chapter meeting, I'm pretty sure it's 0:07:06.000 --> 0:07:09.320 every first of the month, and then after that people 0:07:09.320 --> 0:07:11.600 are just rolling in our sub pants. And then the 0:07:11.680 --> 0:07:14.880 chapter room for us is like once it's it's chapter 0:07:14.960 --> 0:07:16.880 room on Mondays, and then after that that's just like 0:07:16.960 --> 0:07:19.760 TV hangout room because we have a great TV in 0:07:19.800 --> 0:07:20.280 the furniture. 0:07:20.880 --> 0:07:22.880 We just do movie there downstairs. 0:07:22.960 --> 0:07:24.320 There's a TV in that room now. 0:07:25.160 --> 0:07:28.440 And it's the thing that the chapter rooms like sacred 0:07:28.480 --> 0:07:30.600 because like people who are not Kapas are not allowed 0:07:30.640 --> 0:07:32.480 to go in there. So like we have like the 0:07:32.520 --> 0:07:34.600 TV room in Kappa, but then like the Kappas can 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:36.800 have the chapter room to watch like movie nights in 0:07:36.840 --> 0:07:38.320 and stuff too, So that's interesting. 0:07:38.360 --> 0:07:39.560 So it's like a friend room. 0:07:39.720 --> 0:07:41.520 I like that you brought that up. I'm assuming for 0:07:41.560 --> 0:07:44.600 the houses that have chapter rooms only the Kappa can 0:07:44.640 --> 0:07:48.320 go in there, not guests or boyfriends or whatnot. But 0:07:48.320 --> 0:07:49.640 they turned it into a movie room. 0:07:50.040 --> 0:07:54.120 Now it's like a cute little TV face courtyard all that. 0:07:54.240 --> 0:07:55.000 Dad, It's nice. 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:55.840 Yeah. 0:07:56.120 --> 0:07:58.240 Also, what I'd like to talk about is wearing your letters. 0:07:58.280 --> 0:08:00.840 So when I was at and I know at least 0:08:00.840 --> 0:08:03.320 one other person in this panel, nobody wore their letters. 0:08:03.360 --> 0:08:06.760 Like it was very much not done. I had not 0:08:06.960 --> 0:08:10.600 one bit of capa merch. You just would not wear that. 0:08:10.640 --> 0:08:12.160 You would not wear that on campus, You would not 0:08:12.160 --> 0:08:14.360 wear that at all. What about everybody else? 0:08:15.760 --> 0:08:19.200 A high school that was like the uniform like every 0:08:19.320 --> 0:08:23.240 soret you made merch that came out every three months probably, 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:27.760 And there were sweatsuits and t shirts from different formals 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:31.120 and events that we had all custom made. Everyone bought them, 0:08:31.120 --> 0:08:31.720 and that's. 0:08:31.560 --> 0:08:35.080 All you wore a class whoa yeah, same that was 0:08:35.200 --> 0:08:38.520 And it was like purses with like like book bags 0:08:38.520 --> 0:08:43.119 with like your letters on it, and you wore your sweaters. 0:08:43.160 --> 0:08:47.320 You had ten different type of sweaters like all the Yeah, 0:08:47.360 --> 0:08:51.600 and then we would make for every like philanthropy event 0:08:51.760 --> 0:08:54.320 or at any like date night or formal, we would 0:08:54.360 --> 0:08:56.040 make like a shirt and then we would give it 0:08:56.040 --> 0:08:57.920 to our dates and then they would wear, you know, 0:08:58.040 --> 0:08:58.640 like it was. 0:08:59.000 --> 0:09:00.760 Yeah, it was like a. 0:09:00.760 --> 0:09:03.760 Big memory of like south Sea shirts or something like that. 0:09:03.800 --> 0:09:05.319 But I think the guys made that. 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:08.160 Yeah, but w did you wear your letters? 0:09:08.440 --> 0:09:11.480 We didn't have any March like we maybe had a 0:09:11.520 --> 0:09:14.800 T shirt for Rush, but we didn't, not to the 0:09:14.840 --> 0:09:16.520 extent that it was. 0:09:17.960 --> 0:09:21.319 Yeah, what about. 0:09:22.520 --> 0:09:25.680 M, mom, M and lady H. 0:09:26.800 --> 0:09:29.640 I remember we had a really nice bid Day like 0:09:29.720 --> 0:09:32.160 each so already got a bid Day T shirt and 0:09:32.200 --> 0:09:35.400 you wore those on like the first day of classes 0:09:35.520 --> 0:09:37.960 or something like that. And ours was really good looking 0:09:38.040 --> 0:09:41.120 for back in the day. It looked like spearmint gum, 0:09:41.200 --> 0:09:45.720 kind of like that logo, but it was Bordeaux, not Maroon. 0:09:45.760 --> 0:09:47.679 I looked it up. It's Bordeaux. Excuse me. 0:09:48.280 --> 0:09:51.920 It was green and Bordeaux kind of Christmas vibes. But 0:09:52.120 --> 0:09:55.439 it looked really good, and so we that T shirt 0:09:55.440 --> 0:09:57.720 stamp stood out and then maybe a few more, but 0:09:57.800 --> 0:10:00.520 nothing like the kids these days, because yeah, well here 0:10:00.880 --> 0:10:02.679 has bags and bags and bags. 0:10:03.000 --> 0:10:04.280 Yeah, it's insane. 0:10:04.480 --> 0:10:08.160 Well, and when you get a big in your sorority, 0:10:08.520 --> 0:10:11.719 the three days leading up to it, they'll leave baskets 0:10:11.720 --> 0:10:15.080 at your door of all these custom water bottles with 0:10:15.120 --> 0:10:19.400 the letters and custom pens and damps and stuff like that. 0:10:19.480 --> 0:10:22.439 And then they also leave all their old T shirts 0:10:22.480 --> 0:10:24.200 that they don't want. So not only are you getting 0:10:24.280 --> 0:10:26.040 new T shirts all the time, you get these T 0:10:26.160 --> 0:10:30.320 shirts passed down from generations and that's literally all everybody 0:10:30.360 --> 0:10:33.680 wore along with every time there was a game day. 0:10:34.600 --> 0:10:37.200 Not to be confused with like your sorority pin that 0:10:37.280 --> 0:10:38.720 you get the special one. 0:10:39.240 --> 0:10:42.160 We would just have these circle pins made that you 0:10:42.320 --> 0:10:44.360 just close into your shirt and it would have your 0:10:44.440 --> 0:10:46.720 letters and that's my name days. 0:10:46.559 --> 0:10:48.480 And you give them to your mom to wear. Yeah, 0:10:48.520 --> 0:10:48.959 you give them. 0:10:49.800 --> 0:10:52.040 There's a parent's weekend one that you give to your parents. 0:10:52.040 --> 0:10:54.680 There's a siblings one that you give to your siblings. 0:10:54.679 --> 0:10:55.920 It's really interesting. 0:10:56.240 --> 0:11:00.920 One of our panelists which is holding up a sweatshirt 0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:03.000 with her KKG on there. 0:11:03.440 --> 0:11:06.679 I know, I think this was our last year of initiate, 0:11:06.920 --> 0:11:10.120 like as I was a senior our initiation sweatshirt. 0:11:10.040 --> 0:11:11.280 They and you are how old? 0:11:11.800 --> 0:11:13.319 H thirty five? 0:11:13.760 --> 0:11:17.280 Right, so this was a solid fifteen years ago. 0:11:17.640 --> 0:11:21.439 Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's I mean the amount of stuff 0:11:21.440 --> 0:11:23.400 I had to get rid of like after because you 0:11:23.600 --> 0:11:25.560 just similar to others. 0:11:25.320 --> 0:11:26.640 It's just too much. 0:11:26.720 --> 0:11:27.520 It's overwhelming. 0:11:27.600 --> 0:11:27.840 Yeah. 0:11:28.000 --> 0:11:29.800 I've seen a lot of people like make blankets from 0:11:29.800 --> 0:11:31.520 all their stuff, which I think is really. 0:11:32.000 --> 0:11:37.280 Yeah, so to the people in college still and producer E. 0:11:38.320 --> 0:11:40.360 Did you all wear your letters? 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:44.480 Yeah, some similar thing of like pass you pass it 0:11:44.480 --> 0:11:48.400 down to your little You have like new sweatsets that 0:11:48.480 --> 0:11:51.240 come out each semester. We have like the girls in 0:11:51.280 --> 0:11:53.480 the in the chapter that like design them for us, 0:11:53.720 --> 0:11:56.040 like we know that they're going to be cute. Like 0:11:56.080 --> 0:11:57.840 that was like the whole thing that like we always 0:11:57.840 --> 0:12:00.480 hear like people talk about was like that that used 0:12:00.520 --> 0:12:03.600 to not be cute, sorority merch, and like now it's 0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:06.200 like it's like normal, really cute. 0:12:06.200 --> 0:12:08.320 So that says that like you just always wear out nowadays. 0:12:08.360 --> 0:12:09.000 I think it's. 0:12:08.960 --> 0:12:12.280 Interesting because and w you can weigh in on this. 0:12:12.440 --> 0:12:16.640 I think we were in sororities at a school at 0:12:16.679 --> 0:12:20.600 the time when yes, it was cool, but also it 0:12:20.720 --> 0:12:22.480 was not cool. Do you know what I'm saying? Like 0:12:23.480 --> 0:12:26.400 it was cool, but also no, it. 0:12:26.360 --> 0:12:30.000 Wasn't that like it was not We always knew that 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:33.720 we were not like the Salve, that's for sure, correct 0:12:33.800 --> 0:12:36.760 and I not. But even so, cow they weren't like 0:12:37.040 --> 0:12:39.760 they weren't wearing their letter. I mean, no one had merch. 0:12:39.960 --> 0:12:42.440 Like at UCLA all of our rival schools, we would 0:12:42.480 --> 0:12:45.600 be more like, oh, we're a great school. We would 0:12:45.600 --> 0:12:48.120 do our school letters and we'd go away games or 0:12:48.160 --> 0:12:49.040 they'd come to us. 0:12:49.080 --> 0:12:52.719 But I don't think walking onto campus during the nineties 0:12:53.040 --> 0:12:56.160 with your sorority stuff on, I feel like you would 0:12:56.200 --> 0:12:59.520 have got the stink eye or it just wasn't done. 0:12:59.559 --> 0:13:02.000 It was sort of like this is a part of 0:13:02.400 --> 0:13:05.360 being at college, but it's not a part of what 0:13:05.400 --> 0:13:07.880 you do on campus. Does that make sense. 0:13:08.160 --> 0:13:10.960 Yeah, Now it's in your face. It's much more in 0:13:11.000 --> 0:13:13.360 your face, and it makes me feel sad for the 0:13:13.400 --> 0:13:16.920 girls that didn't rush or didn't get a bit. I 0:13:16.960 --> 0:13:19.720 don't know, it feels like excluding la little bit, like 0:13:19.760 --> 0:13:24.199 when you see everybody's got their logo on all the time. 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:27.040 Yeah, I'll have to say, in our day at our 0:13:27.160 --> 0:13:32.640 school with host a, we you could go, you could 0:13:32.640 --> 0:13:35.400 go to a party and legitimately not know who was 0:13:35.720 --> 0:13:38.000 in a sorority or not. I mean there's a lot 0:13:38.000 --> 0:13:40.360 of girls that we hung out with that I always 0:13:40.360 --> 0:13:42.400 thought they were kappas because they weren't in my sorority 0:13:42.400 --> 0:13:44.560 house and then come to find out they were never 0:13:44.559 --> 0:13:45.120 in a sorority. 0:13:45.160 --> 0:13:46.360 They just run our friend group. 0:13:46.840 --> 0:13:49.560 Yeah, but I would say the majority I still were 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:53.559 in the Greek system. Like, would you have dated a 0:13:53.559 --> 0:13:56.480 guy that wasn't in the Greek system? I did, but 0:13:56.559 --> 0:13:59.160 they weren't an athlete. Yeah, okay, I copy at that. 0:14:00.679 --> 0:14:03.880 If they weren't an athlete, I just don't that would 0:14:03.880 --> 0:14:07.040 have been I don't even know how I would know them. 0:14:07.440 --> 0:14:09.920 Well, the Greek system at our school made our little 0:14:09.920 --> 0:14:13.320 circle smaller because the school was so overwhelming. It was 0:14:13.360 --> 0:14:15.240 so big and you know urban. 0:14:30.280 --> 0:14:33.040 For the people on the panel, do you mostly do you? 0:14:33.400 --> 0:14:36.680 I just acted like we're all twenty years old, did you? 0:14:37.080 --> 0:14:41.160 Or do you mostly only date people in the Greek system? 0:14:42.680 --> 0:14:42.920 Yeah? 0:14:42.960 --> 0:14:46.200 Mine was an athlete. Yeah, but he was the captain 0:14:46.240 --> 0:14:49.280 of the lacrosse team and that was like his fraternity, 0:14:49.600 --> 0:14:52.040 you know, like being That's what he always says, Like 0:14:52.080 --> 0:14:55.280 the team was kind of filled that for him. Plus 0:14:55.360 --> 0:14:59.320 we went to super small school with three fraternities, so 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:01.880 that worked out for him for us. 0:15:02.360 --> 0:15:05.480 Yeah, I feel like the majority of people in authority 0:15:05.520 --> 0:15:09.080 would only go for fraternity guys. But then again, like 0:15:09.120 --> 0:15:11.760 I was saying earlier, just the southern thing to do 0:15:12.160 --> 0:15:13.360 is to go Greek. 0:15:13.480 --> 0:15:16.920 So I would say probably eighty percent of my school 0:15:17.000 --> 0:15:17.960 was in the Greek system. 0:15:18.000 --> 0:15:21.360 There were many houses and oh and that brings up 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:24.960 another good point. Not only would you wear your letters 0:15:25.280 --> 0:15:29.240 if you ever shocked with a boy and he would 0:15:29.280 --> 0:15:31.400 give you a T shirt and then you would wear 0:15:31.520 --> 0:15:34.080 his letters, And that was like the biggest flux of 0:15:34.120 --> 0:15:34.640 all time. 0:15:34.760 --> 0:15:36.600 Everyone was jealous of you and they were like, I. 0:15:36.600 --> 0:15:39.160 Did get that bad, I'm getting that. I'm getting what 0:15:39.200 --> 0:15:42.160 you're putting down there, Like I would I get that? 0:15:42.280 --> 0:15:42.720 A and E? 0:15:43.040 --> 0:15:46.080 Do you did you do you mostly date within the 0:15:46.120 --> 0:15:50.000 Greek system or not at your schools? 0:15:50.760 --> 0:15:54.920 I didn't rush until my sophomore year, so like, I'm 0:15:54.920 --> 0:15:58.200 actually pretty the opposite where like I grew up athlete 0:15:58.280 --> 0:16:01.400 culture freshman year and like I wasn't even like technically 0:16:01.480 --> 0:16:05.320 allowed to get into like the frat parties because I 0:16:05.480 --> 0:16:07.840 wasn't in a sorority and I had had a bid 0:16:07.880 --> 0:16:11.280 to get in to the parties that the fraternities would 0:16:11.280 --> 0:16:14.560 give out to the sororities. So like, once I joined 0:16:14.960 --> 0:16:18.200 Greek life, I was like, I don't know anyone here. 0:16:18.320 --> 0:16:20.040 I just know my chapter and like that's it. 0:16:20.160 --> 0:16:20.800 I'm good with that. 0:16:21.520 --> 0:16:23.920 So but I would say, like, I think it's I 0:16:23.960 --> 0:16:25.760 think it kind of varies. Now I feel like I 0:16:25.800 --> 0:16:28.760 see a lot more Like there's a lot more athletes now, 0:16:28.800 --> 0:16:31.720 it's like more normal for athletes to be in Greek life. 0:16:31.720 --> 0:16:33.200 Now, I feel like I'm starting to see more of 0:16:33.200 --> 0:16:33.920 a mix. 0:16:35.240 --> 0:16:36.040 And producer. E. 0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:39.160 Yeah, I loved frat boys. 0:16:42.240 --> 0:16:44.600 I did love boys. 0:16:44.800 --> 0:16:45.240 I did. 0:16:45.440 --> 0:16:46.360 I like them a lot. 0:16:46.400 --> 0:16:49.720 I think my girls do. I think I still do. 0:16:50.040 --> 0:16:53.440 Yeah, I still do. I'm like, and what house each. 0:16:53.360 --> 0:16:56.480 Did you marry a fraternity boy or no? 0:16:56.480 --> 0:16:58.080 No, he was an athlete in college? 0:16:58.120 --> 0:17:01.040 Okay. See it seems very in that this is a 0:17:01.080 --> 0:17:03.360 recurring theme that if you weren't in the Greek system 0:17:03.440 --> 0:17:06.000 but you were an athlete, it's almost like a pass. 0:17:06.359 --> 0:17:08.080 None of us were like, no, I just met my 0:17:08.440 --> 0:17:10.960 husband or boyfriend in chemistry. 0:17:10.600 --> 0:17:12.200 Like it's I think. 0:17:12.280 --> 0:17:18.120 I think because fraternities in sports are communities, and it's 0:17:18.240 --> 0:17:21.440 kind of interesting when people are part of communities because 0:17:21.440 --> 0:17:24.360 it gives off other clues, like they're social, they have friends, 0:17:24.400 --> 0:17:25.639 they have passions, you know. 0:17:26.880 --> 0:17:30.160 Yeah, and athletes were always invited to our fraternity parties 0:17:30.200 --> 0:17:32.200 as well, like they could come. 0:17:32.240 --> 0:17:36.159 Totally and it was kind of like extra cool. Like 0:17:36.200 --> 0:17:38.200 I remember being at an SAE party and there was 0:17:38.200 --> 0:17:41.200 always a couple football players there and You're like, oh 0:17:41.240 --> 0:17:42.960 my gosh, so and So's here. 0:17:43.280 --> 0:17:45.960 Wow, well they it was easier for the athletes to 0:17:46.000 --> 0:17:50.120 be in fraternities in our day now, like they're just 0:17:50.160 --> 0:17:52.280 so focused on the sport they're not really allowed to 0:17:52.280 --> 0:17:55.520 be in fraternities. But yeah, so then though, you had 0:17:55.520 --> 0:17:58.880 your double threats. Yeah, the athletes and. 0:18:00.640 --> 0:18:04.280 Lady W Madam W. That is correct. If you were 0:18:04.359 --> 0:18:09.800 dating the guy that was in the fraternity and the athlete, 0:18:11.000 --> 0:18:13.959 I mean you were you were winning. That's what you 0:18:14.000 --> 0:18:17.040 call that's what you call a smoke. 0:18:17.320 --> 0:18:19.280 Yes, yeah, I mean you're. 0:18:21.600 --> 0:18:25.560 I'm getting in my mind a couple guys that then 0:18:26.040 --> 0:18:30.200 played professional football, and I'm just like like, I don't know, 0:18:31.080 --> 0:18:32.840 w if you're thinking of the same thing. But it's 0:18:32.880 --> 0:18:35.120 like there's a there was a couple guys that were 0:18:36.160 --> 0:18:40.040 fraternity guys cal football players that went into the NFL, 0:18:40.240 --> 0:18:43.359 and it's like, well that's the trifecta, Like you've just 0:18:43.920 --> 0:18:44.919 you've really won the lottery. 0:18:44.960 --> 0:18:48.240 I think with that, Yeah, well you could. I don't 0:18:48.280 --> 0:18:49.119 know I have. 0:18:49.560 --> 0:18:51.200 We had some Olympians too. 0:18:51.080 --> 0:18:54.639 A huh slash yeah, frat slash Olympian. 0:18:56.200 --> 0:18:56.400 Yeah. 0:18:56.440 --> 0:19:00.199 I tapped a lot of those. I married one and 0:19:00.520 --> 0:19:02.640 spent a lot of time with a lot of the others. 0:19:03.200 --> 0:19:03.560 Yeah. 0:19:03.680 --> 0:19:04.879 I had a lot of notches. 0:19:05.440 --> 0:19:07.199