1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sorority Life with 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:07,280 Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia Judice. 3 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:08,480 Speaker 2: Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler. 4 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 3: It's time to get dirty, dirty with some sorority lingo. 5 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 4: We're calling this lingo bingo. We're not actually going to 6 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 4: play bingo, but we want to talk about the lingo 7 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:25,920 Speaker 4: back by popular demand, because we did this earlier in 8 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 4: the Dirty Rush series. We talked about the words, and 9 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:33,159 Speaker 4: so we've assembled a group, a panel, secret panel. We 10 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 4: have young, we have old so I think our youngest 11 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 4: is still in the sorority and our oldest is in 12 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:42,559 Speaker 4: their fifties. So we did not include the gramma generation, 13 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:45,879 Speaker 4: which we should, but we go. We span, you know, 14 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 4: a good thirty forty years here. If you all were 15 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 4: to think of one word that makes you think of 16 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 4: your sorority, can you think of it? 17 00:00:58,360 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 5: Yeah? 18 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, it give it? 19 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 4: Everybody give it. 20 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 2: As a PII. The word boom just is PIPEI. 21 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:08,320 Speaker 4: If you listen to our song episode, you'll understand why 22 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 4: anybody else it's not sisterhood in the bonds, mine's in 23 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 4: the bonds. We always said that in the is that 24 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 4: what yours was? 25 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 7: I'm trying to think of a word. I I don't know, 26 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,119 Speaker 7: I just go to blue and blue. Honestly, I feel 27 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:29,959 Speaker 7: like that was really hammered home. 28 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, while we're on the topic, a lot of people 29 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:37,039 Speaker 4: don't understand that each so already has colors. So maybe 30 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 4: the secret panel, why don't we go to the alpha, 31 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 4: pi and the theta. What were your colors? 32 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 8: Alpha? 33 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:44,960 Speaker 9: Fi? 34 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 2: Maroon? 35 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 10: I might have been maroon in silver, something little prian 36 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 10: and a little accent, but mainly maroon marine. 37 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 8: Our ours was block and gold. 38 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 4: Oh you are black and gold. 39 00:01:57,000 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 2: I was always jealous of beta colors. I was always this. 40 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 11: Is sending me back to the song episode really quick. 41 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 11: I'll just sing you an excerpt. We would do a 42 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 11: take on black and yellow, and we'd be like black 43 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 11: and yellow, black and yellow, black and yellow, black and yellow, 44 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 11: and we would just sing that all around the house 45 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 11: and it would be like, yeah, you know what it is, 46 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 11: theta yellow. 47 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 2: They did that when I was in college too. 48 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 8: It was that one I enjoyed. 49 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:29,239 Speaker 2: What were you again, wine and blue? 50 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's not a great these color. 51 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:33,800 Speaker 2: Combinations, it's not good. 52 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:37,080 Speaker 3: I remember not liking our colors and being like, I 53 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:39,919 Speaker 3: wish I was a data just for the colors black 54 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 3: and gold and what was what wasd. 55 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 12: G bronze pink and blue? 56 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 4: Bronze pink and blue. 57 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 12: Pretty girl also a strange combination. 58 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 4: I feel like Kappa's rocking here with the blue and blue. 59 00:02:56,440 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 8: Yeah, that's classic yea time. 60 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:03,360 Speaker 4: So I'd like to go into some sorority lingo that 61 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:08,519 Speaker 4: resonates with the older generation and then see if it's 62 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:12,240 Speaker 4: still used by the younger people. Does anybody in this 63 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 4: group know what snaps are or the silent? 64 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 9: Did? 65 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 4: Does that mean anything to anyone? 66 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:19,519 Speaker 12: Snaps? 67 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 3: Snaps like like like snaps like Kudo's good job type, 68 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 3: not quite clapping. 69 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 4: Quite clapping. The way I think it's used is like 70 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 4: in a rush meeting. If you're like, we loved you know, Mary, 71 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 4: and everyone starts snapping, then you just don't even have 72 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 4: to talk about it anymore. 73 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 6: You're kind of an agreement. 74 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, did everybody use that? 75 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 12: Yeah? 76 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 4: We use that now. I'd like to know what everyone 77 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 4: how they describe their chapter room. That seems to be 78 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 4: something that people are like, what does that even mean? 79 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 6: Are sucked? 80 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 4: Why tell us more? 81 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 13: It was so old it smelled, and the furniture was 82 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 13: always pushed off to this like to the wall for 83 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 13: I don't know, whatever dance rehearsal. You had to go 84 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 13: through the patio to get out there. It's kind of 85 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 13: like a detached It's interesting you. 86 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:18,840 Speaker 4: Bring up the furniture push to the walls because our 87 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:22,360 Speaker 4: arts also was all did anybody else. 88 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 12: That used to fit all the members? And I think 89 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:29,479 Speaker 12: so maybe I didn't know that there was a chapter room. 90 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 12: We always did it in our living room here, did 91 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:33,359 Speaker 12: you guys? 92 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 11: Did you guys have a dedicated room just for chapter Yeah? Yes, 93 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 11: oh we did the same thing just in our living 94 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 11: room and there were girls sitting on the floor and 95 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 11: it was a whole mess that was. 96 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:47,600 Speaker 4: On the floor for sure. But did you have composits? 97 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 4: Do you guys know what composity? 98 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:51,280 Speaker 2: And that was for us. 99 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 3: That was a big thing in when I was in college, 100 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:58,840 Speaker 3: is we would steal each other's composites like sororities and fraternities, 101 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:03,480 Speaker 3: like like we had like a Landakai and Sigma Qui. 102 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 2: Composite at our house. 103 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:10,480 Speaker 4: And that frown on that like you could kind of 104 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 4: get busted for that. 105 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 2: I don't know, we all did it. 106 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:14,480 Speaker 3: It was like the fun thing to do, Like you 107 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 3: would go to Lambda Kai house for like a party 108 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 3: and steeler composite and like hang it up in your 109 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:20,039 Speaker 3: sority house. 110 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 4: And did the houses like ours went back, like you 111 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 4: could find years previous composites. 112 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 6: Mm hmmm. 113 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. 114 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 4: If I go to SAE right now and I search hard, 115 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 4: I can find the composite that features one of our 116 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:40,039 Speaker 4: panel members fathers and one of our panel members husbands 117 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 4: on it, like it's still up. 118 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 6: Did you know that? 119 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 12: Yeah, we had. We have old composites that are just 120 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 12: in our hallways. So I wonder how to look at 121 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 12: far back? 122 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 4: It goes yeah, like. 123 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:51,840 Speaker 12: I'm not not too far because we didn't have enough 124 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 12: wall space. 125 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 4: I wonder where all the old composites are stored. They 126 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:57,600 Speaker 4: must be somewhere. 127 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 11: We had the same space problem the composites, where we 128 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 11: only had so much wall space. So every year they 129 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:06,359 Speaker 11: kept them in this big closet and then they would 130 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 11: rotate out which composits were hung on the wall each year, 131 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 11: so it was always like the composites from five, ten, 132 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:15,920 Speaker 11: fifteen years ago, and then it was like I don't 133 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:18,720 Speaker 11: know how they did it actually, but they would change 134 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 11: them every year. 135 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 4: And they were framed in sort of very big, bulky, 136 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:25,359 Speaker 4: ugly brown frames anybody else lay yeah, just really not 137 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:30,920 Speaker 4: not sleek or chic frames in any way. 138 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 13: Did you guys at KAPA and I don't know if 139 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:36,160 Speaker 13: the girls do this, but our meetings were like Robert's rules, 140 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:38,159 Speaker 13: like secretary call to order. 141 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, they were formal, Okay, did everybody have that? 142 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:42,600 Speaker 4: Pretty much? 143 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 13: So we had like a table where the president, vice 144 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 13: president and all the chairs sat and they faced us 145 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 13: like it was recular, and then a gavel. 146 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 2: We would do roll call like see the name. 147 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, and you had to wear a skirt in our era. 148 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:57,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, same, that's. 149 00:06:57,320 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 4: Still a thing over there. A no, we have like 150 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 4: a skirt. 151 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 9: We have one formal chapter meeting, I'm pretty sure it's 152 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 9: every first of the month, and then after that people 153 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 9: are just rolling in our sub pants. And then the 154 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 9: chapter room for us is like once it's it's chapter 155 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 9: room on Mondays, and then after that that's just like 156 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 9: TV hangout room because we have a great TV in 157 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 9: the furniture. 158 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 12: We just do movie there downstairs. 159 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 4: There's a TV in that room now. 160 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 9: And it's the thing that the chapter rooms like sacred 161 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 9: because like people who are not Kapas are not allowed 162 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 9: to go in there. So like we have like the 163 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 9: TV room in Kappa, but then like the Kappas can 164 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 9: have the chapter room to watch like movie nights in 165 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 9: and stuff too, So that's interesting. 166 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 2: So it's like a friend room. 167 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 4: I like that you brought that up. I'm assuming for 168 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 4: the houses that have chapter rooms only the Kappa can 169 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 4: go in there, not guests or boyfriends or whatnot. But 170 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 4: they turned it into a movie room. 171 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 9: Now it's like a cute little TV face courtyard all that. 172 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 6: Dad, It's nice. 173 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 12: Yeah. 174 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 4: Also, what I'd like to talk about is wearing your letters. 175 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 4: So when I was at and I know at least 176 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 4: one other person in this panel, nobody wore their letters. 177 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 4: Like it was very much not done. I had not 178 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:10,600 Speaker 4: one bit of capa merch. You just would not wear that. 179 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 4: You would not wear that on campus, You would not 180 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 4: wear that at all. What about everybody else? 181 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 11: A high school that was like the uniform like every 182 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 11: soret you made merch that came out every three months probably, 183 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 11: And there were sweatsuits and t shirts from different formals 184 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 11: and events that we had all custom made. Everyone bought them, 185 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 11: and that's. 186 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:35,080 Speaker 3: All you wore a class whoa yeah, same that was 187 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 3: And it was like purses with like like book bags 188 00:08:38,520 --> 00:08:43,119 Speaker 3: with like your letters on it, and you wore your sweaters. 189 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:47,320 Speaker 3: You had ten different type of sweaters like all the Yeah, 190 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 3: and then we would make for every like philanthropy event 191 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:54,320 Speaker 3: or at any like date night or formal, we would 192 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 3: make like a shirt and then we would give it 193 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 3: to our dates and then they would wear, you know, 194 00:08:58,040 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 3: like it was. 195 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like a. 196 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 4: Big memory of like south Sea shirts or something like that. 197 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:05,319 Speaker 6: But I think the guys made that. 198 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, but w did you wear your letters? 199 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:11,480 Speaker 13: We didn't have any March like we maybe had a 200 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 13: T shirt for Rush, but we didn't, not to the 201 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 13: extent that it was. 202 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:21,319 Speaker 6: Yeah, what about. 203 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:25,680 Speaker 4: M, mom, M and lady H. 204 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 10: I remember we had a really nice bid Day like 205 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 10: each so already got a bid Day T shirt and 206 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 10: you wore those on like the first day of classes 207 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 10: or something like that. And ours was really good looking 208 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 10: for back in the day. It looked like spearmint gum, 209 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 10: kind of like that logo, but it was Bordeaux, not Maroon. 210 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:47,679 Speaker 8: I looked it up. It's Bordeaux. Excuse me. 211 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 10: It was green and Bordeaux kind of Christmas vibes. But 212 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:55,439 Speaker 10: it looked really good, and so we that T shirt 213 00:09:55,440 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 10: stamp stood out and then maybe a few more, but 214 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 10: nothing like the kids these days, because yeah, well here 215 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:02,679 Speaker 10: has bags and bags and bags. 216 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:04,280 Speaker 8: Yeah, it's insane. 217 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 11: Well, and when you get a big in your sorority, 218 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:11,719 Speaker 11: the three days leading up to it, they'll leave baskets 219 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 11: at your door of all these custom water bottles with 220 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 11: the letters and custom pens and damps and stuff like that. 221 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:22,439 Speaker 11: And then they also leave all their old T shirts 222 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:24,200 Speaker 11: that they don't want. So not only are you getting 223 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 11: new T shirts all the time, you get these T 224 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:30,320 Speaker 11: shirts passed down from generations and that's literally all everybody 225 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:33,680 Speaker 11: wore along with every time there was a game day. 226 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:37,200 Speaker 8: Not to be confused with like your sorority pin that 227 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:38,720 Speaker 8: you get the special one. 228 00:10:39,240 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 11: We would just have these circle pins made that you 229 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 11: just close into your shirt and it would have your 230 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:46,720 Speaker 11: letters and that's my name days. 231 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 8: And you give them to your mom to wear. Yeah, 232 00:10:48,520 --> 00:10:48,959 Speaker 8: you give them. 233 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 11: There's a parent's weekend one that you give to your parents. 234 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:54,680 Speaker 11: There's a siblings one that you give to your siblings. 235 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 11: It's really interesting. 236 00:10:56,240 --> 00:11:00,920 Speaker 4: One of our panelists which is holding up a sweatshirt 237 00:11:00,960 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 4: with her KKG on there. 238 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:06,679 Speaker 7: I know, I think this was our last year of initiate, 239 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 7: like as I was a senior our initiation sweatshirt. 240 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:11,280 Speaker 4: They and you are how old? 241 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:13,319 Speaker 8: H thirty five? 242 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 4: Right, so this was a solid fifteen years ago. 243 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:21,439 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's I mean the amount of stuff 244 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 7: I had to get rid of like after because you 245 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:25,560 Speaker 7: just similar to others. 246 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 4: It's just too much. 247 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 12: It's overwhelming. 248 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:27,840 Speaker 5: Yeah. 249 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 7: I've seen a lot of people like make blankets from 250 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:31,520 Speaker 7: all their stuff, which I think is really. 251 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, so to the people in college still and producer E. 252 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 4: Did you all wear your letters? 253 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 9: Yeah, some similar thing of like pass you pass it 254 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 9: down to your little You have like new sweatsets that 255 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 9: come out each semester. We have like the girls in 256 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:53,480 Speaker 9: the in the chapter that like design them for us, 257 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 9: like we know that they're going to be cute. Like 258 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:57,840 Speaker 9: that was like the whole thing that like we always 259 00:11:57,840 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 9: hear like people talk about was like that that used 260 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 9: to not be cute, sorority merch, and like now it's 261 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:06,200 Speaker 9: like it's like normal, really cute. 262 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:08,320 Speaker 6: So that says that like you just always wear out nowadays. 263 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 10: I think it's. 264 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 4: Interesting because and w you can weigh in on this. 265 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 4: I think we were in sororities at a school at 266 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 4: the time when yes, it was cool, but also it 267 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 4: was not cool. Do you know what I'm saying? Like 268 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 4: it was cool, but also no, it. 269 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 13: Wasn't that like it was not We always knew that 270 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:33,720 Speaker 13: we were not like the Salve, that's for sure, correct 271 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 13: and I not. But even so, cow they weren't like 272 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 13: they weren't wearing their letter. I mean, no one had merch. 273 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:42,440 Speaker 13: Like at UCLA all of our rival schools, we would 274 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:45,600 Speaker 13: be more like, oh, we're a great school. We would 275 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 13: do our school letters and we'd go away games or 276 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 13: they'd come to us. 277 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:52,719 Speaker 4: But I don't think walking onto campus during the nineties 278 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:56,160 Speaker 4: with your sorority stuff on, I feel like you would 279 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 4: have got the stink eye or it just wasn't done. 280 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 4: It was sort of like this is a part of 281 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:05,360 Speaker 4: being at college, but it's not a part of what 282 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 4: you do on campus. Does that make sense. 283 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:10,960 Speaker 10: Yeah, Now it's in your face. It's much more in 284 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 10: your face, and it makes me feel sad for the 285 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 10: girls that didn't rush or didn't get a bit. I 286 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 10: don't know, it feels like excluding la little bit, like 287 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:24,199 Speaker 10: when you see everybody's got their logo on all the time. 288 00:13:24,520 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 13: Yeah, I'll have to say, in our day at our 289 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 13: school with host a, we you could go, you could 290 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 13: go to a party and legitimately not know who was 291 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:38,000 Speaker 13: in a sorority or not. I mean there's a lot 292 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 13: of girls that we hung out with that I always 293 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 13: thought they were kappas because they weren't in my sorority 294 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:44,560 Speaker 13: house and then come to find out they were never 295 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 13: in a sorority. 296 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 6: They just run our friend group. 297 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:49,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, but I would say the majority I still were 298 00:13:49,559 --> 00:13:53,559 Speaker 4: in the Greek system. Like, would you have dated a 299 00:13:53,559 --> 00:13:56,480 Speaker 4: guy that wasn't in the Greek system? I did, but 300 00:13:56,559 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 4: they weren't an athlete. Yeah, okay, I copy at that. 301 00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 4: If they weren't an athlete, I just don't that would 302 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 4: have been I don't even know how I would know them. 303 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:09,920 Speaker 13: Well, the Greek system at our school made our little 304 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:13,320 Speaker 13: circle smaller because the school was so overwhelming. It was 305 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 13: so big and you know urban. 306 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 4: For the people on the panel, do you mostly do you? 307 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 4: I just acted like we're all twenty years old, did you? 308 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 4: Or do you mostly only date people in the Greek system? 309 00:14:42,680 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 6: Yeah? 310 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 10: Mine was an athlete. Yeah, but he was the captain 311 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:49,280 Speaker 10: of the lacrosse team and that was like his fraternity, 312 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 10: you know, like being That's what he always says, Like 313 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 10: the team was kind of filled that for him. Plus 314 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 10: we went to super small school with three fraternities, so 315 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 10: that worked out for him for us. 316 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 11: Yeah, I feel like the majority of people in authority 317 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 11: would only go for fraternity guys. But then again, like 318 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 11: I was saying earlier, just the southern thing to do 319 00:15:12,160 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 11: is to go Greek. 320 00:15:13,480 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 8: So I would say probably eighty percent of my school 321 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 8: was in the Greek system. 322 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 11: There were many houses and oh and that brings up 323 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:24,960 Speaker 11: another good point. Not only would you wear your letters 324 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:29,240 Speaker 11: if you ever shocked with a boy and he would 325 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:31,400 Speaker 11: give you a T shirt and then you would wear 326 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 11: his letters, And that was like the biggest flux of 327 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 11: all time. 328 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 8: Everyone was jealous of you and they were like, I. 329 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 4: Did get that bad, I'm getting that. I'm getting what 330 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 4: you're putting down there, Like I would I get that? 331 00:15:42,280 --> 00:15:42,720 Speaker 9: A and E? 332 00:15:43,040 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 4: Do you did you do you mostly date within the 333 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 4: Greek system or not at your schools? 334 00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 9: I didn't rush until my sophomore year, so like, I'm 335 00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:58,200 Speaker 9: actually pretty the opposite where like I grew up athlete 336 00:15:58,280 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 9: culture freshman year and like I wasn't even like technically 337 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:05,320 Speaker 9: allowed to get into like the frat parties because I 338 00:16:05,480 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 9: wasn't in a sorority and I had had a bid 339 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 9: to get in to the parties that the fraternities would 340 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 9: give out to the sororities. So like, once I joined 341 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 9: Greek life, I was like, I don't know anyone here. 342 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:20,040 Speaker 9: I just know my chapter and like that's it. 343 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 5: I'm good with that. 344 00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 9: So but I would say, like, I think it's I 345 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:25,760 Speaker 9: think it kind of varies. Now I feel like I 346 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 9: see a lot more Like there's a lot more athletes now, 347 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 9: it's like more normal for athletes to be in Greek life. 348 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:33,200 Speaker 8: Now, I feel like I'm starting to see more of 349 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 8: a mix. 350 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:36,040 Speaker 4: And producer. E. 351 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:39,160 Speaker 12: Yeah, I loved frat boys. 352 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:44,600 Speaker 6: I did love boys. 353 00:16:44,800 --> 00:16:45,240 Speaker 12: I did. 354 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 6: I like them a lot. 355 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:49,720 Speaker 4: I think my girls do. I think I still do. 356 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:53,440 Speaker 12: Yeah, I still do. I'm like, and what house each. 357 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 4: Did you marry a fraternity boy or no? 358 00:16:56,480 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 12: No, he was an athlete in college? 359 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:01,040 Speaker 4: Okay. See it seems very in that this is a 360 00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:03,360 Speaker 4: recurring theme that if you weren't in the Greek system 361 00:17:03,440 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 4: but you were an athlete, it's almost like a pass. 362 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 4: None of us were like, no, I just met my 363 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:10,960 Speaker 4: husband or boyfriend in chemistry. 364 00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:12,200 Speaker 6: Like it's I think. 365 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:18,120 Speaker 1: I think because fraternities in sports are communities, and it's 366 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:21,440 Speaker 1: kind of interesting when people are part of communities because 367 00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:24,360 Speaker 1: it gives off other clues, like they're social, they have friends, 368 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:25,639 Speaker 1: they have passions, you know. 369 00:17:26,880 --> 00:17:30,160 Speaker 7: Yeah, and athletes were always invited to our fraternity parties 370 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:32,200 Speaker 7: as well, like they could come. 371 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:36,159 Speaker 4: Totally and it was kind of like extra cool. Like 372 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:38,200 Speaker 4: I remember being at an SAE party and there was 373 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:41,200 Speaker 4: always a couple football players there and You're like, oh 374 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:42,960 Speaker 4: my gosh, so and So's here. 375 00:17:43,280 --> 00:17:45,960 Speaker 13: Wow, well they it was easier for the athletes to 376 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:50,120 Speaker 13: be in fraternities in our day now, like they're just 377 00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:52,280 Speaker 13: so focused on the sport they're not really allowed to 378 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:55,520 Speaker 13: be in fraternities. But yeah, so then though, you had 379 00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:58,880 Speaker 13: your double threats. Yeah, the athletes and. 380 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 4: Lady W Madam W. That is correct. If you were 381 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:09,800 Speaker 4: dating the guy that was in the fraternity and the athlete, 382 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:13,959 Speaker 4: I mean you were you were winning. That's what you 383 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:17,040 Speaker 4: call that's what you call a smoke. 384 00:18:17,320 --> 00:18:19,280 Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, I mean you're. 385 00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 4: I'm getting in my mind a couple guys that then 386 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:30,200 Speaker 4: played professional football, and I'm just like like, I don't know, 387 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:32,840 Speaker 4: w if you're thinking of the same thing. But it's 388 00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:35,120 Speaker 4: like there's a there was a couple guys that were 389 00:18:36,160 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 4: fraternity guys cal football players that went into the NFL, 390 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:43,359 Speaker 4: and it's like, well that's the trifecta, Like you've just 391 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:44,919 Speaker 4: you've really won the lottery. 392 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:48,240 Speaker 6: I think with that, Yeah, well you could. I don't 393 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:49,119 Speaker 6: know I have. 394 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:51,200 Speaker 4: We had some Olympians too. 395 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:54,639 Speaker 13: A huh slash yeah, frat slash Olympian. 396 00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:56,400 Speaker 12: Yeah. 397 00:18:56,440 --> 00:19:00,199 Speaker 6: I tapped a lot of those. I married one and 398 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:02,640 Speaker 6: spent a lot of time with a lot of the others. 399 00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 5: Yeah. 400 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:04,879 Speaker 6: I had a lot of notches. 401 00:19:05,440 --> 00:19:07,199 Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, those were the days. I'm trying to 402 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 4: get those, get those back again. Okay, So I want 403 00:19:09,560 --> 00:19:12,960 Speaker 4: to talk about something. Did everybody in this panel make 404 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:16,120 Speaker 4: it to the end? Did anyone have to deactivate? 405 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:19,280 Speaker 8: I dropped out? 406 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:24,560 Speaker 6: Oh god, I was dishonorably discharged. Wow. 407 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:28,480 Speaker 4: Okay, if you don't mind telling us your situations, it's anonymous. 408 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:31,040 Speaker 4: Why don't we begin with L and then we'll go 409 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:31,520 Speaker 4: to W. 410 00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:35,280 Speaker 8: Okay, So, I mean mine was really not that big 411 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:36,399 Speaker 8: of a drama. 412 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:41,440 Speaker 11: Basically, what happened is the summer after my junior year, 413 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:47,639 Speaker 11: I was doing this internship that I absolutely loved, and 414 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:51,159 Speaker 11: I was coming up on senior year and they wanted 415 00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:53,960 Speaker 11: me to come back and recruit, which meant that I 416 00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:56,600 Speaker 11: would have had to go back to school two weeks early, 417 00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:59,439 Speaker 11: move in early, all of that, and I would have 418 00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:03,360 Speaker 11: had to stop my internship early because I wasn't blaming 419 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:04,879 Speaker 11: originally to go to recruitment. 420 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:07,720 Speaker 8: And I was like, oh, I'm gonna pass. 421 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:10,520 Speaker 11: I have this internship, but I didn't get it excused 422 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 11: in time, which was like probably my bad. But anyways, 423 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 11: they came back to me and they were like, if 424 00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:19,959 Speaker 11: you don't come and recruit, we're gonna find you one 425 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 11: thousand dollars. 426 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:23,200 Speaker 8: And I was like, a thousand dollars. 427 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 11: I don't even feel like at first, being in Shorty 428 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:29,240 Speaker 11: is so much fun, it's so exciting, but I feel 429 00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 11: like as time goes on, you kind of phase out 430 00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 11: of like, at least for me, I kind of phased 431 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:38,080 Speaker 11: out of caring as much or wanting to be as 432 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:42,159 Speaker 11: involved as I was maybe sophomore year, you know. So 433 00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 11: I really thought about it and I was like, Okay, 434 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:49,359 Speaker 11: go recruit, which I didn't want to do. Pay a 435 00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:53,160 Speaker 11: thousand dollars or drop out, and I was like, I'm 436 00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:55,440 Speaker 11: gonna drop out and. 437 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:57,560 Speaker 4: This was your senior year. Did you drop out senior year? 438 00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:00,800 Speaker 11: Yeah, this was right before my senior year started, So 439 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:02,880 Speaker 11: I just wasn't in it the last year of college, 440 00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:04,879 Speaker 11: which ended up being fine because by then I was 441 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:07,000 Speaker 11: already established and how my friends and then I kind 442 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:08,480 Speaker 11: of just skipped out on chapter. 443 00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 4: Well, my question for you would be, do you consider 444 00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 4: yourself a FATA. 445 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 11: See that's a tough question because in my mind, yes, 446 00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:22,880 Speaker 11: because I went through initiation and I went through all 447 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:25,760 Speaker 11: the things, and I still have so many friends that 448 00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 11: were in it, and I absolutely did love it. But 449 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:33,080 Speaker 11: then on the other hand, I feel like it's maybe 450 00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:36,119 Speaker 11: offensive to other people for me to call myself that 451 00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:38,280 Speaker 11: because I kind of skipped out on the end. 452 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:41,760 Speaker 4: So I do technically, so we can explain to people 453 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:45,919 Speaker 4: listening technically to be considered and somebody keep me honest. 454 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:50,639 Speaker 4: A sorority alumna, I don't know how you say it. 455 00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,879 Speaker 4: You have to make it the whole way. You can't 456 00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 4: you can't leave early or you lose your ability to 457 00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 4: be affiliated with the sorority. Does that Is that how 458 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:01,760 Speaker 4: everybody sort of feels? 459 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:02,440 Speaker 6: Yes? 460 00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:04,120 Speaker 8: Correct, I think so too. 461 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 11: So it's hard because having had that experience anytime someone's like, 462 00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:11,080 Speaker 11: oh I was a theta, I'm like, oh I was too. 463 00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:12,959 Speaker 8: And then I'm like, oh, could I say that? 464 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:17,159 Speaker 10: I don't know, And as Elle's mom, I was really 465 00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 10: nervous about her regretting it in the long run, and 466 00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:24,480 Speaker 10: so I just said like we need to, you know, 467 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:26,240 Speaker 10: sort of do. 468 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:28,840 Speaker 8: Like highs and. 469 00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:33,280 Speaker 10: Lows, like what's what's at stake here? And you were like, 470 00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:37,160 Speaker 10: I'm not going to get to wear the cord at graduation. 471 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:38,440 Speaker 4: But you didn't think that's interesting. 472 00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:41,880 Speaker 10: Yeah, you can record it graduation, which you didn't think 473 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:44,480 Speaker 10: it was a problem, and then there was maybe one 474 00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:45,640 Speaker 10: other thing, but when you. 475 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 8: Checked and balanced it out, like you were totally fine 476 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:51,520 Speaker 8: with your decision. Yeah, it doesn't seem like you regret it. No, 477 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:54,680 Speaker 8: I don't feel like I do. I really did enjoy 478 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:56,119 Speaker 8: it for the time that I did it. But then 479 00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 8: I was kind of like, well, I'm good. 480 00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:00,879 Speaker 7: I was considering dropping out my senior year and the 481 00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:04,879 Speaker 7: reason for financial reasons, and the reason I didn't was 482 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,159 Speaker 7: so that I could get the alumni status and have 483 00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:11,440 Speaker 7: it for like networking possibilities for my career and things 484 00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:11,720 Speaker 7: like that. 485 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:12,919 Speaker 5: So I did end up. 486 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 7: I'm like, you kind of Like by senior year, I 487 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:17,480 Speaker 7: was a bit checked out of it, and it was like, 488 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 7: I have a different life that's not centered around the Southrity. 489 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:25,200 Speaker 7: But because I wanted like those networking opportunities and things 490 00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:28,119 Speaker 7: like that, I stuck it out till the end to 491 00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:31,159 Speaker 7: be considered a a cap cap gamma. 492 00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:34,359 Speaker 4: So I get that, what w what happened to you? 493 00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 5: You do? 494 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:39,560 Speaker 13: I guess I didn't admit it and actively like try 495 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:43,120 Speaker 13: to remove myself from the house. A bunch of us 496 00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 13: moved onto North Side senior year, like eight of us, 497 00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:48,960 Speaker 13: and we would go to Monday night meetings, but we 498 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:51,320 Speaker 13: would get fined or I guess, I don't know. I 499 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:54,439 Speaker 13: think I didn't learn that. I was like, what do 500 00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:57,480 Speaker 13: you call it? It's not like bad standing? Yeah, I 501 00:23:57,560 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 13: called it live in them with bad standing. So I 502 00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:03,040 Speaker 13: was able to join the alumni network, but I didn't 503 00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 13: actively leave. And then I have like thirty five hundred 504 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:08,840 Speaker 13: dollars worth of unpaid bills apparently that my dad. 505 00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:10,320 Speaker 6: Didn't pay and I didn't. 506 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,760 Speaker 13: Yeah, I didn't learn of this until I went because 507 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:15,919 Speaker 13: you had to go online to write a letter of 508 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 13: wreck huh for a couple of kids in our neighborhood girls. 509 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 13: They were older than my girls and I didn't so 510 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:27,320 Speaker 13: I didn't learn of this until this is well before 511 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:30,200 Speaker 13: my girls were going to school, so I was a 512 00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:33,040 Speaker 13: little nervous they wouldn't get into PIEVI. But I went 513 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,439 Speaker 13: to go online and they said, oh, we can't accept 514 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:40,240 Speaker 13: your whatever sorority number. Your name shows up as unpaid 515 00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:45,280 Speaker 13: bills from nineteen ninety four. So like they knew my chapter, 516 00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:47,719 Speaker 13: they knew my style. And this was like, you know 517 00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:51,600 Speaker 13: that whatever chapter wherever? Where's headquarters for pipevis at Illinois? 518 00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:56,119 Speaker 13: I can't remember, Yeah, but someone was keeping track on paper. 519 00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,040 Speaker 13: So thirty five hundred dollars of bills my dad did 520 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,399 Speaker 13: not pay senior year because we moved out because he 521 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:02,840 Speaker 13: didn't think he needed to pay the bills. 522 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:05,080 Speaker 6: So wow, it's more of like it. 523 00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:10,160 Speaker 4: Can you technically not so you cannot write recommendation letter. 524 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:12,880 Speaker 13: No, So that is a bad thing about being not 525 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 13: being in good standing alumnus. 526 00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 11: I don't think that I could write it one. No, 527 00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:20,440 Speaker 11: I think there's no way. 528 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:23,560 Speaker 4: I think the tough thing at our school was at 529 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:26,360 Speaker 4: the time, and it's different now. If you moved out, 530 00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:27,680 Speaker 4: if you did not want to live in the house 531 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:30,160 Speaker 4: senior year, you had to deactivate because at the time 532 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:31,720 Speaker 4: you're required to live in the house. That is not 533 00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:36,560 Speaker 4: the case other places. For me, I agree with h 534 00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:40,280 Speaker 4: that there was something to being able to have it 535 00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:45,280 Speaker 4: into eternity, you know, rather than not have it. So 536 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:50,720 Speaker 4: the others, e you made it the whole way. 537 00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 12: I made it. Yeah, we're good, paid, you're good. On 538 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:56,920 Speaker 12: the rec. 539 00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:58,120 Speaker 6: Side, You're welcome. 540 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:01,240 Speaker 4: Two mother daughters here. 541 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:02,600 Speaker 6: Thanks daughters. 542 00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:06,160 Speaker 4: Okay, let's do a speed round and I'm just gonna 543 00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:09,199 Speaker 4: go through some of the young young things and have 544 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:13,640 Speaker 4: the young people tell us. We want to do some 545 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:17,840 Speaker 4: college lingo. So this is not sorority lingo, but this 546 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 4: is just general college lingo. And i'd like the young 547 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,680 Speaker 4: ones too. In just a few words, explain what these are. 548 00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:32,120 Speaker 12: Uh Riz parisma, sus, suspicialist. 549 00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:32,560 Speaker 4: Sneaky link. This is a good one. 550 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:34,560 Speaker 12: I just learned your secret hookup. 551 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:37,320 Speaker 2: That's good. 552 00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:40,120 Speaker 4: But tell me more about this. So a sneaky link 553 00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:41,240 Speaker 4: is a fraternity boy. 554 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,800 Speaker 9: It can be anyone can be some guy that like 555 00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 9: you're gonna go have like a late night hookup with that, 556 00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:49,800 Speaker 9: like you shouldn't that. You guys are like not saying 557 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:52,720 Speaker 9: anything about because he's not like, boyfriend, do you. 558 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:53,720 Speaker 4: Like makeout or whatever? 559 00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:57,240 Speaker 12: No strengths attached, No strengths attached, Like that's the sneaky link. 560 00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:01,640 Speaker 4: And do your sorority sisters know about your sneaky. 561 00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:02,879 Speaker 9: Your friends know about your sneaky link, but like you 562 00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:06,320 Speaker 9: don't want like outside people knowing about your sneaky link. 563 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:09,679 Speaker 12: Attached to sneaky link. Everyone I know would. 564 00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:12,399 Speaker 14: Always have the thought of, like if something bad happened 565 00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:16,280 Speaker 14: to their sneaky link, because you had like secret emotional 566 00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:19,320 Speaker 14: connection to them, but no one else knew about it. 567 00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:22,080 Speaker 12: So like I would always think, like. 568 00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:25,480 Speaker 4: If your sneaky link died, you couldn't go to the funeral. Yeah, speak, 569 00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 4: you just have to be the woman in black with some. 570 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:30,840 Speaker 13: Yeah yeah, I mean We've got a term for that 571 00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 13: in our generation. 572 00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:34,359 Speaker 6: I'll tell you when we get to our generation. 573 00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:39,560 Speaker 4: Yeah I need to know. Okay, so remember situationship. Everybody 574 00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:41,240 Speaker 4: knows I'm skipping that one. Crash out. 575 00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:44,640 Speaker 8: Crash out is exactly how it says it. It's just 576 00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:47,920 Speaker 8: like you're crashing out of something. You're just like, what's 577 00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:48,440 Speaker 8: going on? 578 00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 4: When you and I were in the car the other day, 579 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:52,159 Speaker 4: did I crash out? When that woman. 580 00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:55,119 Speaker 11: I would consider that a crash I would too, but 581 00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:57,480 Speaker 11: it was like pretty valid crash out. 582 00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:01,080 Speaker 4: I would say lower lower? What is Laura? I hear 583 00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:02,000 Speaker 4: you guys say this all the. 584 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,639 Speaker 12: Time, like your secret backstory. 585 00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 9: Like that's like like you're like, whoa, I didn't know 586 00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:07,520 Speaker 9: that about you. 587 00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:08,000 Speaker 6: That's lore. 588 00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:20,600 Speaker 5: That's a good one. 589 00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:26,359 Speaker 4: Is this one? Bet? Bet? 590 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:27,320 Speaker 6: Bet? 591 00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:30,119 Speaker 9: It's like saying okay, like like you could be like, 592 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 9: let's hang out at five okay, bet? 593 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:35,040 Speaker 4: Oh so it's like you bet, yeah kind of so 594 00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 4: you guys are so busy that you had to shorten it. 595 00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:37,679 Speaker 6: Okay. 596 00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:40,240 Speaker 4: The Lulu, we all know what is? 597 00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:40,840 Speaker 5: She ate? 598 00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:41,840 Speaker 12: She ate? 599 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:46,920 Speaker 6: Like she this is my favorite from this generation. I love. 600 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:48,080 Speaker 6: I wish I would say. 601 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,840 Speaker 12: So, like, so good, that girl's a queen. 602 00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:58,040 Speaker 11: She ate and lest no crumbs exactly see something. 603 00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:00,880 Speaker 12: I feel like killed that and I. 604 00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:02,880 Speaker 4: Feel like the other day. I ate and then I 605 00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:05,640 Speaker 4: then I pooped the bucket like I ate, and then 606 00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:10,520 Speaker 4: I yeah I did. I was doing so good. I ate, 607 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,200 Speaker 4: and then it was like I don't know what happened. Okay, 608 00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:14,920 Speaker 4: what is low KEI versus high key? 609 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:17,040 Speaker 5: Another giddy? 610 00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:17,840 Speaker 9: Yeah? 611 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:21,600 Speaker 2: How do I explain that low keys? Like you say 612 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:22,600 Speaker 2: It's like. 613 00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:26,160 Speaker 9: You could say, like, I'm kind of upset low key, 614 00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:29,760 Speaker 9: and it's like, I'm not that upset, like semi like 615 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:33,320 Speaker 9: I'm semi upset, like I'm I'm low key upset right now. 616 00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:35,880 Speaker 9: And then if it's like high key, it's like you 617 00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,880 Speaker 9: high pretty upset, I'm up, I'm livid. 618 00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:40,680 Speaker 4: Are you crashing out? If you're high. 619 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 9: Key almost yes, you're you're pretty much there. 620 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:49,040 Speaker 4: It's the same thing when they say esthetic. Oh yeah, 621 00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:55,680 Speaker 4: like it's so esthetic. That's not correct. They said, what's 622 00:29:55,960 --> 00:30:01,360 Speaker 4: what aesthetic means? It has asthetic look, it's esthetically pleasing, 623 00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:04,080 Speaker 4: but they use it completely wrong. So they'll just come 624 00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:09,720 Speaker 4: into a room and say, it's so aesthetic. What whatever? POV. 625 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:13,240 Speaker 4: Let's talk about POV point of view, but what is that? 626 00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:14,120 Speaker 4: But how would you use this? 627 00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:17,160 Speaker 14: It's kind of like, listen to my story, I'm setting 628 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:19,720 Speaker 14: the scene point of view, POV. 629 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:21,280 Speaker 12: This is where we are. 630 00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:22,840 Speaker 6: Wow? 631 00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:24,280 Speaker 12: Does that make sense? 632 00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:28,200 Speaker 9: You know someone will post and be like POV, I 633 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:30,960 Speaker 9: just fell on the ground and got her in front 634 00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:33,160 Speaker 9: of everyone, and like they'll post a photo of it. 635 00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:34,120 Speaker 6: It's like POV this. 636 00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:37,960 Speaker 4: I will skip to the old generation now and we 637 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:40,040 Speaker 4: will look, we will bring this back. We will bring 638 00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 4: back lingo bingo in a few weeks. But I will 639 00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:49,120 Speaker 4: rattle off the old generation language, which is terrifying that 640 00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:51,360 Speaker 4: we're the old generation because there is another We got 641 00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:54,000 Speaker 4: to get the grammas on. But I would like the 642 00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:59,440 Speaker 4: old people to comment m W and me, and also 643 00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 4: the young ones to say, if they would ever use 644 00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:03,880 Speaker 4: these things, that's tight. 645 00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:07,720 Speaker 10: That reminds me of what they say. Now, that's lit. 646 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:09,960 Speaker 10: I think that's the new that's tight. 647 00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:13,600 Speaker 6: That's not the definition of that's tight. 648 00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:15,600 Speaker 4: Well, how would you say that's tight? 649 00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:18,680 Speaker 12: And that's W's favorite word. 650 00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:19,560 Speaker 4: Talk to me. 651 00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:25,640 Speaker 15: W W would use it if I if you get 652 00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:29,040 Speaker 15: pushed down a flight of stairs, you look at the 653 00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:31,920 Speaker 15: person who did the pushing, you say, that's tight. 654 00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:36,720 Speaker 8: That's true, mean kind of col's not cool. 655 00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:42,400 Speaker 6: So that is true, low key, not good. 656 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:49,520 Speaker 4: Amazingly accurate. Obviously, we all use rad. 657 00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:51,760 Speaker 2: You are the queen of rad Oh. 658 00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:54,200 Speaker 4: I'll put it in a text back rad Oh. 659 00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:57,160 Speaker 7: My husband quotes you all the time and he's like. 660 00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:02,080 Speaker 8: In the in the words of a lady, g D lady. 661 00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:05,960 Speaker 13: I think we use rad sarcastically now when we're like, oh, 662 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:08,560 Speaker 13: that is if someone does something stupid. 663 00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:09,920 Speaker 6: We're like that was rad. 664 00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:14,200 Speaker 4: Sometimes it slips out for me, it's just like cool 665 00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:17,560 Speaker 4: rad Uh. Duh is one of my favorite ones that 666 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:20,479 Speaker 4: I think spans all generations. Do we agree? 667 00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:21,320 Speaker 8: Yes? 668 00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 4: Yes, duh is just so great for sure? 669 00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:32,000 Speaker 12: Oh wait, gen Z twist on it ready for this? Yeah, Laida? 670 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:36,520 Speaker 8: Oh it's French? 671 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:39,680 Speaker 4: How can you please use that in a sentence. 672 00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:43,600 Speaker 14: Like and it comes with like the full body when 673 00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:45,960 Speaker 14: you're when it's the way that you would say duh. 674 00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:53,760 Speaker 12: Me and my friends go Lada, Okay, that might work. 675 00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:54,760 Speaker 8: That's really good. 676 00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:56,640 Speaker 4: Lame, which I think. 677 00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:01,760 Speaker 6: That's the best. Yeah, it's the best word because it's 678 00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,880 Speaker 6: it's very meh. It's like, yeah, it's lame. 679 00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:08,040 Speaker 4: Stop being so lame, Like why wouldn't you text me back? 680 00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:10,520 Speaker 4: It's so lame, Like, I don't I'm not even doing 681 00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:12,040 Speaker 4: anything weird, Just text me back. 682 00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:13,400 Speaker 6: Girls can be lame. 683 00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,560 Speaker 13: Rooms are lame, Situations are lame. 684 00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:16,280 Speaker 6: It's lame. 685 00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:17,480 Speaker 4: Show is lame? 686 00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:19,800 Speaker 6: Easy again? Another low key? 687 00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:21,160 Speaker 4: Dinner is so lame. 688 00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:24,840 Speaker 13: Yeah, dinner is always was. Monday night meals were always lame. 689 00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:29,360 Speaker 4: Now the girls put sleep together on here is that 690 00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:32,840 Speaker 4: something that only old people say? 691 00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:34,680 Speaker 12: It feels weird? To say sleep together. 692 00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:36,400 Speaker 6: We didn't say that, Amy. 693 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:39,000 Speaker 4: I'm not saying I said it, but I certainly did 694 00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:42,880 Speaker 4: not say what the crass ladies of today say. I 695 00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:46,240 Speaker 4: definitely did not. We would say did you do it? 696 00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:47,280 Speaker 7: Well? 697 00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:49,560 Speaker 6: You know what? Yeah, you are right. 698 00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:53,080 Speaker 13: We didn't even say anything remotely like that. If you 699 00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:57,120 Speaker 13: hooked up with someone or scam was another word that 700 00:33:57,160 --> 00:34:01,160 Speaker 13: we used. It was always kissing and if there was, 701 00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:04,120 Speaker 13: if there was sex, no one talked about it. 702 00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:08,600 Speaker 4: That is accurate, Madam w. That is so accurate. There's 703 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,759 Speaker 4: so much less talking about it. Yep, and not. I'm 704 00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:13,880 Speaker 4: not even saying it was shameful or not. It just 705 00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:17,120 Speaker 4: was not talked about. The thing that's very confusing is 706 00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:19,640 Speaker 4: when we say hooked up, you definitely were not talking 707 00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:20,799 Speaker 4: about doing it. 708 00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:21,239 Speaker 12: Yeah. 709 00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:23,440 Speaker 6: It was just always just kissing. 710 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:27,480 Speaker 4: Maybe laying down, maybe laying down kissing, laying down kissing. 711 00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:31,000 Speaker 6: Like it was getting together, hooking up, scamming. 712 00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 13: We're all about like the you could do that on 713 00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:35,880 Speaker 13: the bus on the way to the. 714 00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:40,080 Speaker 4: Total mixer scamming. Get together that was People would ask 715 00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:40,960 Speaker 4: like did you get together? 716 00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:42,799 Speaker 8: Did you hook up? 717 00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:45,319 Speaker 4: But not sex, just did you make out? 718 00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:49,719 Speaker 6: Yeah? But I don't think we ever young asked. 719 00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:54,800 Speaker 7: By the time, were millennials hookup definitely meant sex? 720 00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:56,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, it did not mean sex in our day. 721 00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:59,000 Speaker 8: Now I feel like it means everything. 722 00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:02,319 Speaker 11: And it's pretty mis because some people will be like, well, 723 00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:04,480 Speaker 11: we hooked up, but they just meet in that day kiss, 724 00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:05,600 Speaker 11: or some people. 725 00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:08,360 Speaker 8: Will say, oh, we hooked up, and it'll mean sex, 726 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:10,880 Speaker 8: and but it's just kind of mysterious. It's like, oh, 727 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:14,640 Speaker 8: we hooked up. The lines are blurred. 728 00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:19,279 Speaker 11: But also sometimes it's funny hearing the order generation you 729 00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:21,800 Speaker 11: hook up in the sense of like getting together with friends. 730 00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:28,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm like, no, no, we do that all the time. 731 00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:29,720 Speaker 4: I'd be like, do you want to hook up later? 732 00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:34,200 Speaker 13: Yeah? That was My kids were so like over me 733 00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:37,120 Speaker 13: asking them, And you can hook up with your friends 734 00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:39,920 Speaker 13: after school, like surely not. 735 00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:43,200 Speaker 12: I think what people are not just so strong. 736 00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:46,480 Speaker 9: What people are more confused about now is when parents 737 00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:48,799 Speaker 9: say like, oh, you're dating, and it's like, no, we're 738 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:50,880 Speaker 9: not dating. Like but then they'll be like, wait, you 739 00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:53,400 Speaker 9: guys are going on dates, so that means that you're dating. 740 00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:55,399 Speaker 9: That doesn't mean that you're dating though. 741 00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:57,800 Speaker 2: Confusing. 742 00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:00,799 Speaker 8: Yeah, the whole talking and dating dating. 743 00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:04,440 Speaker 9: Has to be boyfriend, girlfriend, like you have the blamed 744 00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:08,720 Speaker 9: labeled boyfriend girlfriend to be considered dating. If you're going 745 00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:10,799 Speaker 9: on dates though, and there's no label, you guys are 746 00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:13,400 Speaker 9: just talking and then that means you're just in a situationship. 747 00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:16,320 Speaker 9: And that's where the situationship comes into play. 748 00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:18,640 Speaker 4: So you can be going on dates with someone you're 749 00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,799 Speaker 4: just talking to. Yes, makes no sense, just letting you know, 750 00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:25,160 Speaker 4: no sense? And what is seeing each other? That's what 751 00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:27,879 Speaker 4: I hear old people saying. Now we're seeing each other 752 00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:29,720 Speaker 4: and I want to be like, please shut up. 753 00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:32,160 Speaker 9: I feel like seeing each other as just you're talking 754 00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:34,239 Speaker 9: to them like I'm talking to blah blah blah. 755 00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:35,359 Speaker 12: But we don't even say that. 756 00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:36,680 Speaker 4: It feels so old to me. 757 00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:38,680 Speaker 12: It's like we don't say that. We don't say seeing 758 00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:39,080 Speaker 12: each other. 759 00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:42,880 Speaker 4: Do you say going steady? 760 00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:44,080 Speaker 7: No? 761 00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:46,080 Speaker 6: One says that that's from the fifties? 762 00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:49,600 Speaker 4: Correct, that's what I'm saying that that is. I don't 763 00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:53,279 Speaker 4: even correct, Thank you, m. I think going steady is 764 00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:56,400 Speaker 4: in the fifties happy days era. Yeah, or that's the 765 00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:58,799 Speaker 4: one above us. Now what about this one, which is 766 00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:05,480 Speaker 4: a classic classic sorority term. We used rager. It was 767 00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:07,279 Speaker 4: a rager that was. 768 00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:11,200 Speaker 6: The only way to describe a party. Yes, are we 769 00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:13,400 Speaker 6: gonna rage? Do you a rage? Let's rage? 770 00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:15,680 Speaker 12: It sounds so cheesy. 771 00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:17,680 Speaker 8: We we still use that. 772 00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:20,080 Speaker 11: And to take it a step further, if it was 773 00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:22,399 Speaker 11: a day party rather than a night party, it. 774 00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:23,440 Speaker 4: Was a danger. 775 00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:23,839 Speaker 1: Right. 776 00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:27,280 Speaker 4: We were very clever with that kid. We never used danger, 777 00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:28,680 Speaker 4: but I wish we did. 778 00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:32,000 Speaker 8: I love danger. The whole debate was danger or darty. 779 00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:33,560 Speaker 8: I like dager. 780 00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:41,000 Speaker 4: What's a darty? Same thing a day party? I like 781 00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:43,480 Speaker 4: dayger though. That's a well. 782 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 8: It's a good it's a good one. 783 00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:46,040 Speaker 9: Wow. 784 00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:50,840 Speaker 4: We are gonna need to bring this back in another 785 00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:53,200 Speaker 4: month or so because I feel like we are going 786 00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:57,080 Speaker 4: to have a lot more lingo bingo. And that is 787 00:37:57,120 --> 00:38:00,880 Speaker 4: another episode of Dirty Rush The Truth about Sorority Life.