1 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Titans Amy and Coach Mac podcast, presented 2 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:16,080 Speaker 1: by Farm Bureau Health Plans. Look to the folks at 3 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,759 Speaker 1: Farm Bureau Health Plans when you need someone who understands 4 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 1: the x's and oh's of healthcare coverage. They've been protecting 5 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: Tennessee and since nineteen forty seven. Hello, everybody? Happy? What 6 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 1: is today? Thursday? Happy Thursday? We're recording this on a Thursday, 7 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:33,160 Speaker 1: and there's so much to talk about. The Tennessee Titans 8 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:38,880 Speaker 1: are four and two. Just got a huge, huge, huge 9 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 1: Monday night football win over the Buffalo Bills. I'm still 10 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 1: fired up. I know you're supposed to burn these wins 11 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 1: after like twenty four hours. You're supposed to celebrate and 12 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:50,240 Speaker 1: them move on. I have not moved on yet. Mac. 13 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 1: That's okay. You know I can't wait every week until 14 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 1: we do this. I mean I look forward to these 15 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: Thursdays and so here we are doing it again. I'm 16 00:00:57,640 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: very happy because we're doing this, and I'm very happy 17 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: because of that win, big win. And you you say 18 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:05,120 Speaker 1: you're still celebrating and don't want to turn it loose. 19 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 1: I tell you who didn't want to turn it loose? 20 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 1: With all those fans in the stand because after we 21 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: won the ballgame, Mike, Keith and I were leading out 22 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 1: of the window, you know, giving fist bumps to everybody 23 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:17,560 Speaker 1: that was coming through, you know, air fist bumps to 24 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:19,760 Speaker 1: all of them. Rhet Brian had to grab my belt 25 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 1: so I didn't just dive out of the window of 26 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 1: third broadcast booth and start crowdsurfing. I mean, it was 27 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 1: all of that. It was Monday night football. It was 28 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:30,479 Speaker 1: all everything. It should have been two really good teams 29 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 1: playing and you came down to a game could not 30 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 1: have been more exciting, could not have had you know, 31 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:38,400 Speaker 1: it had what seven lead changes. I mean, it was incredible. 32 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 1: It really was. What a great experience and for everybody 33 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:46,039 Speaker 1: to experience it there together was outstanding. But you do 34 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: have to move forward. I mean, we've been at practice 35 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: all week. The team has done a nice job of 36 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 1: turning the page. There are a lot of obstacles they're 37 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 1: going to have to overcome on a short week, but 38 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: here we are. But you can overcome a lot of things, 39 00:01:58,520 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 1: especially when you got to win absolutely, and I don't 40 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 1: think anybody really captured the moment the excitement of that 41 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:11,639 Speaker 1: win as well as you did. Coach mac final play 42 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 1: of the game was an exciting one. To put it mildly, 43 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 1: I love a good goal line stand. I love defensive 44 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 1: plays to win ball games. And that's exactly how the 45 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 1: Titans won it. And Coach Mac, I think that your 46 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 1: call was epic. Well it was organic, I promise you that. 47 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:30,960 Speaker 1: And you know how I called games, I say exactly 48 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: what I'm feeling. I've been involved in a lot of them. 49 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 1: But you know I was to me and you say, 50 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 1: you like those kind of plays a game. I know 51 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:41,640 Speaker 1: how hard it is to make pulos off, especially defensively, 52 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 1: and especially against a really good team like we were 53 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:46,640 Speaker 1: playing against, And so I mean I was. I was 54 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 1: so all in on it. And you know, Mike Keith 55 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 1: is a professional up there in the booth. I'm not, 56 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 1: you know, I'm just I'm just stepped there. I'm up 57 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:56,360 Speaker 1: there talking ball to people, which people seem to like. 58 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 1: But Mike Keith was doing the proper thing. You're supposed 59 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 1: to wait for a referee signal. Well, the refs weren't 60 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:04,799 Speaker 1: making any call. But I've been up there before. As 61 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:06,519 Speaker 1: I said, I was Jeff Fishers, I in the sky 62 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 1: for twelve years when I was his assistant head coach, 63 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 1: and I do know that that kind of play at 64 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 1: the goal line amy it is, it's officiated horizontally side judge, 65 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 1: line judge. And when I saw that quarterback not go 66 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 1: up at all or forward at all and just went flat, 67 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 1: there's no way that he made anything, and he had 68 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 1: less than half a yard to make. And so it 69 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 1: was it was a very very not only exciting moment, 70 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 1: that was a monumental moment, and we may be looking 71 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 1: back on that as this season progressesn't going huge moment 72 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: big stop before you know, when a money hooker helicopter 73 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: that big six five quarterback and stopped him that little 74 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:46,839 Speaker 1: bit short of a first down. And so it all 75 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 1: came together, and uh yeah, I got a little excited 76 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 1: about it, because you know what, that's what you're supposed 77 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:54,120 Speaker 1: to do. And somebody asked me if I was going 78 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 1: to get fined for it, and I said, well, probably not, 79 00:03:56,760 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 1: but I got enough money to pay a fine, you 80 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 1: know I would be And then and the people came 81 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 1: forward and said, Mike would have a go fund me 82 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 1: for you, so I don't have to worry about just 83 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 1: keep doing that. One honesty here, how hard was it 84 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 1: to not curse on the radio in that moment, extremely hard. 85 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 1: I cursed on the sidelines. Oh no, no, extremely extremely hard, 86 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 1: because that's how emotional you know you were, and you 87 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:19,720 Speaker 1: knew how big it was. And then when I saw 88 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 1: that quarterback go flat, I knew it was over. Game 89 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 1: was over, and for the game to build, all of 90 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 1: the anticipation and all the anxiety that that game was 91 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 1: affording everybody, and all of a sudden, for it, all 92 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 1: of a sudden, just to be over because of a 93 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 1: huge play that your team made, that the Titans made. 94 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 1: I mean, how can you not be happy? That's why 95 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: I say those fans did not want to leave the stadium. 96 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:45,119 Speaker 1: They did not want to leave because they wanted to 97 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 1: absorb that moment for as long as they could. I've 98 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 1: been saying this for a little while, but when I 99 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:54,280 Speaker 1: reflect on Monday, what stands out to me about that 100 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 1: game was it was like the ultimate primetime experience. The 101 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 1: en game atmosphere was bananas. The fans brought it one. 102 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: The lights and all of the show associated with an 103 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 1: NFL game was there. It was on point. It was 104 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:15,600 Speaker 1: rocking and rolling from the beginning to the end. And 105 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 1: then the football on the field matched to that level. 106 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 1: So it was everything that came together. It was I mean, 107 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 1: it was what you expect from an NFL game. If 108 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 1: that was your first time at a National Football League game, 109 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 1: the bar has been set. I mean you've got to 110 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 1: be hooked. Well, you're hooked, and then you're going, why 111 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 1: haven't I been to more of these? And so that's 112 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 1: that's that's the way it should be, and that's what 113 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:39,840 Speaker 1: you know, and I think, and I've had a lot 114 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:41,719 Speaker 1: of people call me that watch it on television and 115 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:44,920 Speaker 1: they got that experience too, because it it came through 116 00:05:44,960 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 1: but live there when it was live, you know, I 117 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:49,719 Speaker 1: feel like, you know, and just what is this Thursday? 118 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:52,119 Speaker 1: And we played Monday, So it's only been three days. 119 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 1: I've heard from all sixty nine thousand that were there. 120 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 1: You know, people just wanted to talk about how just 121 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:01,360 Speaker 1: how great a feeling that was. And they all feel 122 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 1: because they're you know, they're they're they're intertwined with this 123 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 1: team a sense of accomplishment because that's what it was. 124 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 1: But as you said earlier, you have to move on 125 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 1: from that because you've got to start stacking wins, and 126 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 1: you can only stack wins one at a time, one 127 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:17,719 Speaker 1: at a time, and so the next one at a 128 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 1: time is coming up this Sunday against by the way, 129 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: another really good team. We have to get on, you know, 130 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 1: with our lives and move on to the Kansas City Chiefs, 131 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 1: and we will. But there's one thing that I will 132 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:32,159 Speaker 1: never get over, Coach Max, Like literally my life was 133 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 1: changed and I will never get over this experience, and 134 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 1: that was having Cheryl Crowe in our booth during pregames. 135 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:42,159 Speaker 1: How cool is that? I mean, it's the gift that 136 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:46,040 Speaker 1: keeps on giving. And not only did I just lose 137 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 1: my mind when she walked into the booth, I saw 138 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: her on the sidelines, I got a picture with her. 139 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:56,279 Speaker 1: I am not a person who's gotten starstruck, but I did. 140 00:06:56,520 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: I lost all sense of space and time. Yeah cool, 141 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 1: it really was, you know. And and I've known Cheryl 142 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 1: crow I know, we're through Jeff Fisher. In fact, when 143 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 1: we were in Saint Louis, she came to play with 144 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 1: Jimmy Buffett, you know, and so Fishing I went and 145 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 1: we did Buffet's radio show before the game, and then 146 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 1: you know, we were all sitting in the green room 147 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 1: talking and and so that's when I met her. And 148 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: that was really cool. The first thing she said, you know, 149 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:21,360 Speaker 1: last time I saw you, Coach back was in Saint 150 00:07:21,400 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 1: Louis at the Buffett Show. And then you know, to 151 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 1: have all the boys, her boys up there with us 152 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 1: was really cool. The cool thing I liked about it. 153 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 1: And this is how this is how really in tune 154 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 1: we are with one another on Titans Radio. We had 155 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 1: Cheryl Crow and those boys standing right down there right 156 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 1: in the pit where Mike and I call that game 157 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 1: with us. Well, we were doing our pregame and we 158 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 1: were just going bang bang bang right through it was 159 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 1: and she is so cool she is, and you know, 160 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 1: major kudos to her, not only for her career, but 161 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 1: for the kind of person that she is. And it 162 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 1: was so great. In fact, you know, we were talking 163 00:07:57,080 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: when we got through with that, and she was getting 164 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 1: ready to take the boys out, and Brad Willis and 165 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 1: Philip Noel and myself kept feeding those boys candy that 166 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 1: we have up there, and she finally said, Coach Mack, 167 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna send him back up here in about twenty 168 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 1: minutes when they're bouncing off the walls down there. But then, 169 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 1: but then, you know the other thing that I did 170 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 1: that you know, I immediately, I immediately called Jeff Fisher 171 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 1: because I knew he was out at his farm because 172 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 1: they had just you know, they had just done the 173 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 1: thing on Music City Miracle, right, And I told her, 174 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 1: I said, she said, tell Jeff hello. I said, let's 175 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 1: call him. So we called him and they talked. It 176 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 1: was a great evening. I mean great evening. But to 177 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 1: have her up there, she's solid, It was so cool. 178 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 1: Would your sister ask you, please come on, this is 179 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:38,839 Speaker 1: what this is for. So let me tell you about 180 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:42,320 Speaker 1: my week. Everybody we play on Monday. On Tuesday in 181 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 1: the evening, Cheryl Crowe put on Instagram a picture of 182 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 1: me and her together. We took it on the sidelines 183 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 1: because I had a moment of weakness and I was like, 184 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 1: I've got to take a picture with this person. She 185 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:55,199 Speaker 1: is just so cool and she has to take on 186 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 1: as well. She posted it and I just immediately became unglued. 187 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 1: So anyway, my sister sees this picture and she sends 188 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 1: me a text and the first thing she says to 189 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 1: me was, oh my gosh, I can't believe you met 190 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 1: Cheryl Crowe. Second thing, did you thank her for soak 191 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 1: up the sun? Like the song did you thank her 192 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:18,360 Speaker 1: for that? I mean that amazing song which no, I 193 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:21,000 Speaker 1: barely even knew my name. Like, no, I couldn't thank 194 00:09:21,040 --> 00:09:23,200 Speaker 1: her for her songs. I didn't even know she was 195 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 1: a singer at that moment. She was Chryl freaking Crowe, 196 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 1: Like I couldn't think of anything else. And so my 197 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 1: sister's horrified with me because I didn't thank Chryl Crowe 198 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 1: for her contributions to music, which is apparently me problem. 199 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:40,920 Speaker 1: So well, I mean, if that's the only thing your 200 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:43,440 Speaker 1: sister's upset with, you're in good shape. Yeah, I'm sure 201 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 1: there's more, but that's at least a start. But really, 202 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 1: I mean, she's a MISSOO grad and so that's a 203 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:51,839 Speaker 1: very big deal to me. They're not't a ton of 204 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 1: like super famous Missoo grads outside of media, Like there's 205 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:59,040 Speaker 1: a bunch of broadcasters and people who are associated with 206 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 1: the University of miss Journalism. But like, as a young 207 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 1: kid growing up in Columbia, Missouri, you didn't see too 208 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:08,400 Speaker 1: many like Missouri people who got out and like were 209 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: these big superstars. She was a big superstar and she 210 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:14,640 Speaker 1: came back and she was the Grand Marshal of Missour's 211 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 1: homecoming parade, which, if you know anything about the University 212 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:21,439 Speaker 1: of Missouri homecoming is bigger than Christmas in Columbia, Missouri. 213 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 1: It is everything. I coached there for three years. I 214 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:27,319 Speaker 1: know how big it is there in Colombia. I understand. 215 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:30,440 Speaker 1: And but that's you saying that she came back to 216 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 1: be Grand Marshal. That's just who she is. Absolutely, that's 217 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:37,679 Speaker 1: that's that's that's what a real star is. She's a 218 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 1: real person that gives back. Yeah, and she made me 219 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:45,200 Speaker 1: think I want to do something like she made me 220 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:48,440 Speaker 1: want to get out and like be somebody, because look 221 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 1: at these things that you are able to do, and 222 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:51,680 Speaker 1: look at the way you're able to give back to 223 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 1: your university. And I just thought that was the coolest thing. 224 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 1: And so to meet her and have that experience of 225 00:10:57,240 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 1: a thousand years later roughly was so cool. And she 226 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 1: was so gracious and kind. And she's also I think 227 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:06,600 Speaker 1: lucky because we won that ball game in such a 228 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 1: great fashion. So yeah, so I think she needs to 229 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 1: come back hang out with us every week so that 230 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 1: we can win more ball games. Well, we told her 231 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 1: she could, and we told her boy as they could too, 232 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 1: and they could get more candy. So thank you Cheryl 233 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 1: Crowe for just being you and for being so cool. 234 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 1: Now we can move on to the Chiefs. There we go. 235 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 1: All right, let's move on to the Chiefs because they're 236 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 1: coming to town. They play at Nissan Stadium this Sunday. 237 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 1: Kickoff for that game is at noon. What do the 238 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:40,559 Speaker 1: Tennessee Titans need to get fixed in the six days 239 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:42,959 Speaker 1: before they take on the Chiefs. Well, first of all, 240 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:45,079 Speaker 1: they need to get fixed physically. They need to get 241 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:47,320 Speaker 1: you know, as healthy as they can. They're not going 242 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:49,439 Speaker 1: to get completely healthy. It just doesn't happen this time 243 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:52,960 Speaker 1: of year. And we know they had several injuries. You 244 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:56,840 Speaker 1: know that we're pretty significant in that ball game and 245 00:11:56,880 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 1: in the secondary. You know, we've had two position groups 246 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:01,920 Speaker 1: amy that have been hit very hard. You know, as 247 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:04,840 Speaker 1: a group, the offensive line has been hit very hard 248 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 1: by injuries and the defensive backfield has been hit very 249 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 1: hard by injuries. So they're finding ways to overcome that, 250 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 1: but they've got to continue to do it. And this week, 251 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 1: being able to overcome those injuries in the secondary against 252 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:20,880 Speaker 1: an explosive offense that's coming in here with Patrick Mahomes 253 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 1: and the Kansas City Chiefs. That's going to be a challenge. 254 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:25,760 Speaker 1: So they've got to get as healthy as they can 255 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:28,959 Speaker 1: first of all. That has to happen first, and Mike Rabel, 256 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 1: you and are practice every day doing a nice job 257 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 1: of getting them back on a short week, because you've 258 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 1: got to take into consideration all these players only have 259 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 1: one body and they laid everything out there on Monday night, 260 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 1: so they need a little time to recover. Now, let's 261 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 1: flip that around a little bit, because there are also 262 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:47,679 Speaker 1: a lot of great things that the Titans did on 263 00:12:47,760 --> 00:12:50,680 Speaker 1: Monday night. What's something that you want to see them 264 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:55,439 Speaker 1: carry over into Sunday's matchup. Red zone defense was outstanding. 265 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:57,640 Speaker 1: I mean, they had five shots inside our red zone. 266 00:12:57,679 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 1: They scored two touchdowns, so that's they had to kick 267 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:03,080 Speaker 1: at three field goals. They had nine points instead of 268 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 1: a possible twenty one. Huge difference. That's the difference in 269 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:09,680 Speaker 1: the ballgame. Huge difference. Continue to get the turnovers off 270 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 1: of our turnover. We scored a touchdown off of the 271 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 1: turnover that we gave them. They scored three points. That's 272 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 1: the difference though. That's the hidden yardage in National Football 273 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:20,839 Speaker 1: League games. We've got to stay on top of that 274 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:24,199 Speaker 1: this week too. Now, Patrick Mahomes is always going to 275 00:13:24,280 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 1: do Patrick Mahomes things, like he is always going to 276 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:32,439 Speaker 1: be that young athletic quarterback, you know, but we've seen 277 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 1: some differences in him this year. We've seen a couple 278 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:37,839 Speaker 1: of things. He's not as accurate as he's always been. 279 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 1: He's had some turnovers this year. Our teams starting to 280 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 1: figure him out. Is they're a him problem? What's really 281 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 1: going on with Patrick Mahomes. Do you think, well, it's 282 00:13:48,240 --> 00:13:50,560 Speaker 1: not a him problem. He's still playing really good. People 283 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:52,839 Speaker 1: are playing a lot more coverage. You know, they figured 284 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:55,080 Speaker 1: out it doesn't doesn't pay a lot to blitz this 285 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 1: guy because he identifies and he's got a track team 286 00:13:57,880 --> 00:13:59,600 Speaker 1: to throw too, so you know that you don't want 287 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:02,319 Speaker 1: to get mad Man to man. People are playing more coverage. 288 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 1: But here's what he's doing too. First of all, I mean, 289 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:08,959 Speaker 1: he's an exceptional athlete. He's gumby. I mean he can 290 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:11,720 Speaker 1: throw and get it to contort his body a lot 291 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:14,000 Speaker 1: of ways. When he was coming out of when he 292 00:14:14,040 --> 00:14:16,840 Speaker 1: was coming out of Texas Tech, I compared him when 293 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:19,320 Speaker 1: I was writing his report for the draft to Brett 294 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 1: Farve when he's coming out of Southern miss The guy's 295 00:14:21,480 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 1: a gun slinger, and so a lot of those interceptions 296 00:14:24,080 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 1: he trust his arm and he trusts his arm at 297 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 1: any arm angle, any launch point, you know, no matter 298 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:31,680 Speaker 1: what the coverage is. And so you've got if he's 299 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 1: gonna throw it in those tight windows, you've got to 300 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 1: be able to capitalize on it. But still, this guy 301 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 1: is a problem. I mean, he is dangerous because you 302 00:14:40,840 --> 00:14:43,600 Speaker 1: just can't you can't practice enough of the things that 303 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:46,680 Speaker 1: he's going to do off schedule. You just can't practice 304 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:48,800 Speaker 1: those things. And so you have to be very very 305 00:14:48,840 --> 00:14:52,560 Speaker 1: aware and then their moments in National Football League games 306 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:55,200 Speaker 1: where you either make the play or you don't. When 307 00:14:55,240 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 1: those moments present himself this week, especially when he's throwing 308 00:14:58,360 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 1: off schedule, you got to make the play. Coach, you're 309 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 1: a defensive guy. How do you prepare for a quarterback 310 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 1: where you not only have to game plan for what 311 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:11,400 Speaker 1: he's gonna do when everything goes right, but also game 312 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 1: plan for what he's gonna do when everything breaks down 313 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 1: and goes wrong. You practice it, You practice it, you 314 00:15:16,720 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 1: practice it. You put a player back there on your 315 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 1: scout team that every now and then you're gonna you're 316 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:25,120 Speaker 1: gonna run scramble drills, scramble plays. You practice plaster coverage 317 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 1: in the back end as to where routes start to 318 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:31,200 Speaker 1: convert when he starts moving, and you practice that that 319 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:33,520 Speaker 1: type of thing, and you emphasize it. But you have 320 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 1: to do it. I mean, I've done it on my 321 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 1: whole career. When you've got a quarterback that is this 322 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:40,560 Speaker 1: dangerous off schedule, you've got to practice it. Because I 323 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 1: tell you who else practices it. Kansas City practices it. 324 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 1: They have that in their offensive practices too. They are 325 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 1: orchestrated as to the where they're going to go off 326 00:15:49,280 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 1: of their route stems if he starts to break down 327 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 1: the way the route structure is up. When when he 328 00:15:54,160 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 1: starts to break either to his hand or away from 329 00:15:56,600 --> 00:15:59,720 Speaker 1: his hand, Believe me, it's not. It's not by chance 330 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:02,520 Speaker 1: where those people end up that he throws too. It's 331 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:06,880 Speaker 1: all practiced. The thing that analysts and people like you 332 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:09,560 Speaker 1: and me do that drives fans crazy the most is 333 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 1: say the key to the game is scoring points, Like, yeah, duh, 334 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:14,440 Speaker 1: of course you've got to score points so you win 335 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:18,479 Speaker 1: the game, Like it's stupid, But in this game specifically, 336 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:23,360 Speaker 1: scoring is going to be so important for this Titans offense, right, Well, 337 00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 1: let's dig deeper than that. What you have to do, 338 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 1: you've got to be you don't want to get into 339 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 1: and make it take it game with these guys. You 340 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:32,520 Speaker 1: just don't. And so when you get a chance to 341 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:34,360 Speaker 1: move the ball and you get a chance to get 342 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:37,600 Speaker 1: inside the red zone, you got to score touchdowns. And 343 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 1: on the other side, you've got to make they're gonna 344 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:42,280 Speaker 1: move the ball. Let's just get that out there. They're 345 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 1: going to move the ball, just like we're going to 346 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 1: move the ball. But when you get in the red 347 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 1: zone defensively, you got to make them kick out of 348 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 1: field goal. Not that they're gonna make it, but you 349 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 1: gotta make them kick at it, all right. And then 350 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 1: when you go when you because if we can keep 351 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:59,480 Speaker 1: the score from separating really large early on Amy, then 352 00:16:59,560 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 1: we can still do what we do best is run 353 00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:04,320 Speaker 1: the ball, that you know, But if the score gets 354 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 1: separated real quick, real early, then everything that's in our 355 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:10,680 Speaker 1: favor handing the ball back there to that future Hall 356 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 1: of Famer that we've got back there that is just 357 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 1: heaven an amazing year, well then that becomes less able 358 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:20,920 Speaker 1: because the score separated and defenses won't care. So that's 359 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:22,879 Speaker 1: where it all is. Can I ask you a question 360 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:26,160 Speaker 1: that I know you're not gonna like your Okay? Cool? So, 361 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:29,639 Speaker 1: Derrick Henry is two hundred and seventeen yards away from 362 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 1: getting a thousand yards in seven games. That's crazy. Do 363 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:35,960 Speaker 1: you think it is possible for him to get two 364 00:17:36,040 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 1: hundred and seventeen yards rushing against the Kansas City Chiefs 365 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 1: if he breaks an eighty or ninety yard or which 366 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:43,119 Speaker 1: he can do, which you know last week, would he 367 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:45,680 Speaker 1: breaks a seventy plus yard or seventy six? I think yeah? So, 368 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:47,479 Speaker 1: I mean he's got the ability to do that for 369 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 1: this reason because he can break those like that. You 370 00:17:50,600 --> 00:17:53,440 Speaker 1: don't normally have a two hundred yard game when you're 371 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:56,080 Speaker 1: when you're averaging four and a half five yards to carry, 372 00:17:56,280 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 1: it just doesn't happen because you're not going to get 373 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:01,920 Speaker 1: forty to forty five carries, right, But he can eat chunks. 374 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:05,440 Speaker 1: He is an anomaly, he really is as a running 375 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:08,080 Speaker 1: back because he's not only a power back, but he 376 00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:11,000 Speaker 1: is an explosive back waiting to happen. We saw it 377 00:18:11,040 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 1: in this game, We've seen it throughout his career. So 378 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:16,760 Speaker 1: is the possibility there. Absolutely it is, but he's going 379 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 1: to have to break some long ones. That was a 380 00:18:19,280 --> 00:18:22,560 Speaker 1: good answer. I kind of didn't think you'd like that question. Well, 381 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:25,120 Speaker 1: first of all, I will never dislike anything that you do, 382 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:28,760 Speaker 1: at least publicly while we're on the air. And then 383 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:31,960 Speaker 1: I mean, it's a legitimate question, Yeah it is. You 384 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:34,560 Speaker 1: know what else is legitimate? What the Tennessee Titans are 385 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 1: doing at this chief's game. You know how games have 386 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:41,200 Speaker 1: themes A lot of times in the National Football League, 387 00:18:41,240 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 1: you have lots of theme games, and the Titans have 388 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:46,240 Speaker 1: a theme game that I think is really cool. It 389 00:18:46,359 --> 00:18:51,200 Speaker 1: is their Playmaker's Game, and the playmakers Game is celebrating 390 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 1: women who are making an impact and are kind of 391 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:57,439 Speaker 1: leading the charge in creating opportunities in spaces for women. 392 00:18:57,760 --> 00:19:00,840 Speaker 1: So the Titans are going to be celebrating the women 393 00:19:00,840 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 1: of the Tennessee Titans. And that doesn't just mean Titans staff. 394 00:19:04,040 --> 00:19:08,320 Speaker 1: That means women in the Nashville community, super fans, anybody 395 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:12,960 Speaker 1: who is associated with the Tennessee Titans. We're celebrating those women. 396 00:19:13,359 --> 00:19:16,119 Speaker 1: I think it is so cool. God, I love that. 397 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:18,919 Speaker 1: I mean, I think this is that. I mean that 398 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:22,159 Speaker 1: that makes me so happy. It really does. And you know, 399 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:24,760 Speaker 1: I mean just and I think there is there's so 400 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:26,760 Speaker 1: much a place for it. I'm glad to see how 401 00:19:26,800 --> 00:19:31,840 Speaker 1: progressive the National Football League is employing, you know, females. 402 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:33,960 Speaker 1: I remember when I came here five seasons ago, and 403 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:38,360 Speaker 1: you and Ashley Farrell asked me legitimately, when you got 404 00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:41,400 Speaker 1: over being scared of me, you ask them legitimately, would 405 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:43,880 Speaker 1: you teach us football? Because we're in the football businesses 406 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:46,679 Speaker 1: are things we just don't understand. Can you can you 407 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:49,720 Speaker 1: help us a little bit understand exactly what's going on? 408 00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:52,800 Speaker 1: And you know, for three months, I mean we dug 409 00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:56,440 Speaker 1: down into it with tape, with film, with everything. To me, 410 00:19:57,000 --> 00:20:00,639 Speaker 1: it's just I love that. I love this initiative that 411 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 1: the Titans are doing. I think it's going to be awesome, 412 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:05,960 Speaker 1: and I'm so excited to hear from some of the 413 00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 1: different women who have made a difference and made an 414 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 1: impact within the Titans community. You'll hear from them throughout 415 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:15,920 Speaker 1: the game. You'll notice some changes, some different things throughout 416 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:18,639 Speaker 1: the game. But it's going to be just a really 417 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:21,680 Speaker 1: cool thing. So I'm so fired up about it, and 418 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:26,120 Speaker 1: I think that that is the perfect transition into our 419 00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:28,960 Speaker 1: guests today, Coach Mac, because when you think about a 420 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 1: playmaker and what that is, making an impact, leading the 421 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:36,400 Speaker 1: charge for women to be in a space, there's nobody 422 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:39,879 Speaker 1: better than Laura Oakman. None, none better. I mean, and 423 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,679 Speaker 1: I've known Laura for a long time and she is 424 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 1: absolutely fabulous and she is a trailblazer. She's a trailblazer. 425 00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 1: And of course you know she had some female mentors 426 00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 1: when she started too, not as many because there weren't 427 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 1: as many involved. But what she's done now with Galvin 428 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:56,479 Speaker 1: Eyes and what she continues to do, I mean, I 429 00:20:56,560 --> 00:21:01,480 Speaker 1: absolutely it. She is a real per star in this area. 430 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 1: Check out our conversation with Laura. Laura Oakman. You know her, 431 00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:17,200 Speaker 1: you love her. You've seen her everywhere in the sports world. 432 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 1: And if you think you don't know who Laura Oakman is, 433 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:24,120 Speaker 1: you're wrong because you do because she is everywhere. We've 434 00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:27,919 Speaker 1: got to start by talking about the Laura Coach Mac relationship. 435 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:30,639 Speaker 1: You guys are buddies that have gone back for a 436 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:34,160 Speaker 1: long time. Give me the origin story of Coach Mac 437 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:38,320 Speaker 1: and Laura Oakman. Laura, let me talk first, please. It 438 00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:42,200 Speaker 1: goes It goes back to the to the Camelot days 439 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:44,920 Speaker 1: in Chicago. I mean it really does, because you know, 440 00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:47,639 Speaker 1: I was with the Bears in Mike Dicka and Camelot 441 00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:49,680 Speaker 1: is a great word to describe it, because there have 442 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:53,199 Speaker 1: been a lot of great eras in professional sports history 443 00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:56,480 Speaker 1: with cities, but that that camelot era in Chicago with 444 00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:59,920 Speaker 1: the Bears and the Bulls, the way things were rolling there, 445 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:02,640 Speaker 1: and then Laura Oakman was right in the middle of 446 00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:05,480 Speaker 1: all those great Chicago bull runs. And look, I mean 447 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,960 Speaker 1: her professionalism has spanned a whole lot of sports. But 448 00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:12,639 Speaker 1: when she was with Sports Challenge Chicago and was covering 449 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:14,879 Speaker 1: was covering the Bulls. I mean, she won an Emmy 450 00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:18,359 Speaker 1: for it, and rightfully so, because she was outstanding. And 451 00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:20,639 Speaker 1: then you know she was she was around the Bears 452 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:23,240 Speaker 1: quite a bit too. But the thing, the thing about 453 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:25,880 Speaker 1: Laura Oakman was and and here let me just say 454 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:28,760 Speaker 1: this that that's important and she and she talks to 455 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:31,120 Speaker 1: me about being an advocate. The only way I'm an 456 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:34,919 Speaker 1: advocate for females in this business is ones that get it, 457 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:37,439 Speaker 1: and ones that are serious about it, and ones that 458 00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:41,679 Speaker 1: truly love it. You cannot manufact your respect nor experience 459 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:44,280 Speaker 1: in this business. You have to earn it and Laura 460 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:47,119 Speaker 1: Oakman earned it, and she was. She was somebody that 461 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:49,320 Speaker 1: as a coach, and I've done it all coaching in 462 00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:52,280 Speaker 1: the National Football League of an assistant coach, I've been 463 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:54,800 Speaker 1: an assistant head coach, I've been a coordinator, I've been 464 00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:57,440 Speaker 1: a head coach, and through all of those times, you 465 00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:00,240 Speaker 1: find out really quick those people that you can trust 466 00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 1: and those people you can trust with information that is 467 00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 1: vital for a broadcaster to be able to do their job, 468 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:08,840 Speaker 1: but also you have to be able to have an 469 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:11,880 Speaker 1: innate trust with them. Laura Oakman covers all of that 470 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:15,160 Speaker 1: in spades. She's one of my favorite human beings, not 471 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:19,840 Speaker 1: only as a professional, but just because she is the 472 00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:23,440 Speaker 1: best example for somebody that wants to get into this business, 473 00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:26,480 Speaker 1: male or female, that has worked for it and has 474 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:29,680 Speaker 1: earned every accolade she's ever gotten. But the biggest thing 475 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:33,040 Speaker 1: she's earned is the trust of people in this business. 476 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 1: That's hard to come by. I would like to record 477 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:38,439 Speaker 1: this and make it on my ringtone, so when anyone 478 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:42,720 Speaker 1: calls me up to hear, including myself, I would call 479 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:46,000 Speaker 1: it every hour to hear this. So there's a million things. 480 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:47,719 Speaker 1: I love what you just said. Coach mec and how 481 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:50,400 Speaker 1: much I appreciate it. But here's the biggest thing. I'd say, 482 00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 1: I was so young and dumb when I met you. 483 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:56,440 Speaker 1: I was so intimidated in that world, in that camelot world. 484 00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:59,920 Speaker 1: I'm a Chicago girl, and so I got that opportunity 485 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,440 Speaker 1: at Sports Channel before I was ready for it, and 486 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:07,160 Speaker 1: so I made every mistake I questioned myself. I didn't 487 00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:12,240 Speaker 1: believe in myself, and so to have kindness at that 488 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:15,040 Speaker 1: age and at that stage was everything. I was so 489 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:18,360 Speaker 1: intimidated every day going into Hollis Hall, which is where 490 00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:21,119 Speaker 1: the Bears practice, and at that time it was that 491 00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:23,800 Speaker 1: I mean, gosh, comparing it to even the Titans building, 492 00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 1: you could have put Hollis Hall like in the lobby, 493 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:31,639 Speaker 1: so little, and so what would happen is the reporters 494 00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:35,480 Speaker 1: would all just be lumped into basically a hallway, and 495 00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:37,800 Speaker 1: we would wait and the coaches would have to walk 496 00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:40,960 Speaker 1: through this tiny little hallway to go to the offices 497 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:44,639 Speaker 1: from practice, right like from practice. And I just always 498 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 1: remember a coachback was one of the ones that stopped 499 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 1: and said hello and treated not just me, but everybody 500 00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:53,719 Speaker 1: was such respected. I was at an age where I 501 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:55,879 Speaker 1: didn't even know how to build a relationship with the 502 00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,199 Speaker 1: coach yet because I was so intimidated and I was 503 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:01,399 Speaker 1: so scared, and so I remember that was you were 504 00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:03,440 Speaker 1: one of the first coaches that I had that human 505 00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:07,040 Speaker 1: interaction with. And it wasn't about the story, and it 506 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:09,959 Speaker 1: wasn't about practice that day. It really was you checking 507 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,639 Speaker 1: in how are you and asking where was I living, 508 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 1: and just questions getting to know me. And that was 509 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:17,440 Speaker 1: huge for a young woman, for huge for a young 510 00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:21,000 Speaker 1: reporter who was just learning about building trust and learning 511 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:24,160 Speaker 1: how to build relationships. You gave me a huge glimpse 512 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:27,080 Speaker 1: into that. Because I love what you just said. I 513 00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:29,360 Speaker 1: say the same thing. People ask us all the time 514 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:32,439 Speaker 1: amy about sexism and sports, and I always say, the 515 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:35,240 Speaker 1: locker rooms are the easiest. The coaches and the players 516 00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 1: are the easiest. If they respect you, you're in That 517 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,440 Speaker 1: gender does not matter. You have to earn their respect, 518 00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:44,840 Speaker 1: and once you're in, you're in. The industry is a 519 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,920 Speaker 1: whole different thing, but the world of sports and that 520 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:51,199 Speaker 1: bubble is the most welcoming one once you prove you 521 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:53,280 Speaker 1: belong and Coach Mac was truly one of the first 522 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:56,040 Speaker 1: people that made me feel like I might belong in 523 00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:59,560 Speaker 1: this well Laura, and that's that's kind of you to say. 524 00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:01,600 Speaker 1: But let me just say this. I mean, you understand 525 00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:03,080 Speaker 1: I was a very I mean I was the youngest 526 00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:05,800 Speaker 1: coach on that staff by long ways. If you I mean, 527 00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:08,399 Speaker 1: you know this. You talk about the small building, but 528 00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:10,639 Speaker 1: we were a small staff. There was only eight of us. 529 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:14,879 Speaker 1: And you had long time historic coaches there, Johnny Rowland, 530 00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:17,800 Speaker 1: the Dick Stanfell's Hall of Fame coaches, you know that 531 00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 1: that that that were there. And I was brand new 532 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,479 Speaker 1: to the league. And when Mike Dickon gave me that chance. 533 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:25,840 Speaker 1: Let me say this, when I had thirteen years of 534 00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:29,080 Speaker 1: major college football and when I was hired, they one 535 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:32,280 Speaker 1: of the things that some of those professional coaches told 536 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 1: me was, look, you cannot be as close to these 537 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,720 Speaker 1: players as you were to your college players. We understand 538 00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:40,160 Speaker 1: that you were. You were a really top notch recruiter. 539 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,680 Speaker 1: People say that you're this. He said, this is a business. 540 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,359 Speaker 1: You can't get very close. You can't get you do this, 541 00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:48,639 Speaker 1: And so you know, I took I absorbed that for 542 00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 1: a minute, and then when I got there, I said, no, 543 00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:55,000 Speaker 1: that's not true because it's a people business. And so 544 00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:57,639 Speaker 1: I felt so blessed to be there, and I just 545 00:26:57,760 --> 00:26:59,919 Speaker 1: loved every minute of it. And part of it was 546 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:03,320 Speaker 1: meeting people like yourself that were there. You never gave 547 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 1: off a vibe like you were nervous. You never, but 548 00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:08,440 Speaker 1: but what you did give the vibe off was is 549 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:11,199 Speaker 1: that I am here to do a job, and I 550 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:14,520 Speaker 1: am also here to be able to, you know, to 551 00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:17,320 Speaker 1: earn your trust, and I'm serious about what I'm doing. 552 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:20,199 Speaker 1: I mean, that's the vibe that I got. But believe me, 553 00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,159 Speaker 1: I mean I was a young coach too. Here's what 554 00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:24,679 Speaker 1: I knew when I took that job at Chicago. Nothing 555 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:28,399 Speaker 1: zero I knew. I knew. I knew absolutely zero. I 556 00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:30,280 Speaker 1: mean the first thing I did, Lord, I called Mike 557 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:32,679 Speaker 1: Singletary and said, please, let's go to dinner, you know, 558 00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,960 Speaker 1: introduced myself and said, I need to find out what 559 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:37,960 Speaker 1: I need to do to earn these guys respect because 560 00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:40,639 Speaker 1: you're talking about, you know, the Super Bowl shuffle Bears. 561 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,720 Speaker 1: You're talking about the most iconic team in the nation 562 00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,720 Speaker 1: at the time. The three things that he told me, 563 00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:48,680 Speaker 1: and I think you'll you'll substantiate this, you know, in 564 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:51,040 Speaker 1: your career, he said, He said, coach, Mike, let me 565 00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:54,440 Speaker 1: just tell you something three things. First of all, always 566 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,639 Speaker 1: tell us the truth. And he said number two is 567 00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 1: if you don't know, just say you don't know, don't 568 00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:01,239 Speaker 1: try to be Essen's we'll figured it out together. And 569 00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:04,200 Speaker 1: he said the third and most important thing is let 570 00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:06,720 Speaker 1: us feel and let us know not just out of 571 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:10,880 Speaker 1: your mouth, but from your heart that you value us 572 00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:13,000 Speaker 1: as people as much as you do that number on 573 00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:16,200 Speaker 1: our back. And so that's what I did, and it 574 00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:19,960 Speaker 1: worked because I'm thirty five years into this league and 575 00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:22,680 Speaker 1: still going. And here's what I say to that is 576 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 1: you were one of the pioneers of that. Because now 577 00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:28,600 Speaker 1: we're big on get to know your players as people, 578 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:30,919 Speaker 1: right like now every coach will say that, you know, 579 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:33,439 Speaker 1: if they do it, that's another thing. But it's just 580 00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:35,720 Speaker 1: get to know your players as people. Make sure that 581 00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 1: they know you care, and all of those things that 582 00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:41,560 Speaker 1: a lot of these coaches have to get coach to 583 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:44,640 Speaker 1: do now and have to shift their brain and their 584 00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:47,480 Speaker 1: way of thinking because they've never done that before. You've 585 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:51,440 Speaker 1: always embodied that, You've always exemplified that that's who you are. 586 00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:54,280 Speaker 1: So I could see when you got in where so 587 00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:56,840 Speaker 1: many coaches would try to turn that shift the other way. 588 00:28:57,080 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 1: It doesn't work here. They don't want you to get 589 00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:01,280 Speaker 1: to know them as people. They're not gonna you know. 590 00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,640 Speaker 1: And then all of a sudden you find out it 591 00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:07,320 Speaker 1: doesn't matter if you're at coaching college or broadcasting college, 592 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:10,840 Speaker 1: or NFL or basketball or sports, or you're in engineering 593 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:13,920 Speaker 1: or you're in marketing, or it does not matter. It's 594 00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:17,479 Speaker 1: always about people. It always is about people. And I 595 00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 1: think you're one of the first ones that really understood 596 00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:22,040 Speaker 1: that there's certain people in this business. And I've talked 597 00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:23,720 Speaker 1: about this a bunch, and I always say it behind 598 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 1: your bath players and coaches. There's just certain people you 599 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:29,760 Speaker 1: name and you go, if someone is a problem with them, 600 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,240 Speaker 1: you're the problem. And it kind of gives you a light, 601 00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:34,120 Speaker 1: right Like if you have a problem with coach Matt, 602 00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:36,560 Speaker 1: then I know to stay away from me. Like you, 603 00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,080 Speaker 1: there's a light shining on you that you are not 604 00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 1: the right person in here. And in all these years, 605 00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 1: if you could find one person to say anything bad 606 00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:47,560 Speaker 1: about Dave McGinnis, and it will be the first person 607 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,160 Speaker 1: that you find and the person you should run away 608 00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:52,960 Speaker 1: from because it's definitely not the kind of person you 609 00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:55,680 Speaker 1: want to be around. And that's all because everybody knows 610 00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 1: who you are, from broadcasters to players to other coaches. 611 00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:01,480 Speaker 1: There's just not an in sentic bone in your body, 612 00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:04,800 Speaker 1: and everybody feels that when they're around you. But don't 613 00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:07,120 Speaker 1: you think, Laura, and again you know Amy could jump 614 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:11,680 Speaker 1: in here, but but that the honesty is what's so important, 615 00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:15,000 Speaker 1: because that the professional sports world can be such a 616 00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:19,080 Speaker 1: superficial world. It's it's magnified, it's glorified, but at the 617 00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,240 Speaker 1: end result it's still it's still a people business. And 618 00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:24,640 Speaker 1: and to me, that's one of the most important things. 619 00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:27,000 Speaker 1: And there are some great coaches that have been able 620 00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:29,720 Speaker 1: to do that. I mean, Mike Dicka, his players even 621 00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,400 Speaker 1: for the way Mike Dicka was, his players loved him 622 00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:35,840 Speaker 1: because they knew that he knew who they were, you know, 623 00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:37,960 Speaker 1: and what they were going through. And the same way 624 00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:40,120 Speaker 1: with I mean, I worked for Jeff Fisher for fifteen 625 00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:44,200 Speaker 1: years and he was involved with his players, I mean, 626 00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:47,200 Speaker 1: And so those things are extremely extremely important, and it's 627 00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:50,280 Speaker 1: even more so nowadays. And as you said that to me, 628 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:53,040 Speaker 1: and that just that kind of dovetails into some of 629 00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,320 Speaker 1: the things that you are doing that I think are 630 00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:58,320 Speaker 1: so essential. I just have to say, this is the 631 00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:00,840 Speaker 1: most important lesson I ever learned from a player, and 632 00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:03,600 Speaker 1: I teach us the direction you were going coach back 633 00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:06,440 Speaker 1: of the women that I coach. It was, you know, 634 00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:09,120 Speaker 1: probably before I met you. So I was even younger 635 00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:11,680 Speaker 1: and dumber. But I think I was in my first 636 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:15,480 Speaker 1: job or my second job, and I called Charles Barkley 637 00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:18,400 Speaker 1: for something. And I knew Charles because I was in Montgomery, Alabama, 638 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:20,479 Speaker 1: and Charles was from a town close by so he 639 00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:22,240 Speaker 1: would come through, and so I met him at a 640 00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:24,320 Speaker 1: young age. He was still playing then, So this is 641 00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:26,960 Speaker 1: how long ago it was. And I called him once 642 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:30,120 Speaker 1: and he answered the phone and he said, well, well, well, 643 00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:33,080 Speaker 1: Laura Oakman, what do you need? And I was like, 644 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:36,120 Speaker 1: can a girl just call and say hello? And he said, 645 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:38,960 Speaker 1: a girl, can you just never do? And he's like, 646 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:40,800 Speaker 1: I'm not trying to make you feel bad. I just 647 00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:43,560 Speaker 1: know when you call you need something. So what do 648 00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:47,280 Speaker 1: you need? And that crushed me because who wants to 649 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:50,240 Speaker 1: be that person that the phone rings and it's like Laura, 650 00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:53,040 Speaker 1: like what does she need? But in my mind I 651 00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 1: was like, well why else would I call? I'm not 652 00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,680 Speaker 1: going to call or reach out and before texting, but 653 00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:00,280 Speaker 1: I'm not going to call and say great game, or 654 00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,880 Speaker 1: how was your weekend? So I just didn't call because 655 00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,840 Speaker 1: I thought I thought, well, that's not my place. But 656 00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 1: at the end of the day and my side of 657 00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,120 Speaker 1: the world and amy side of the world, it's a 658 00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:13,280 Speaker 1: very one sided relationship if you allow it. It's us 659 00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:16,560 Speaker 1: always say I need, I need, I need, And at 660 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:18,560 Speaker 1: some point if you don't find a way to have 661 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:21,960 Speaker 1: a real relationship, then it's going to be a really 662 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:25,320 Speaker 1: hard business and a lonely business to navigate because suddenly 663 00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:27,280 Speaker 1: you look around and go, I have a lot of 664 00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:29,680 Speaker 1: contexts and I have a lot of sources, but I 665 00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:32,520 Speaker 1: have no friends, and I have no relationships. And that's 666 00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:34,760 Speaker 1: on all of our sides. You know, of figuring that 667 00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:38,280 Speaker 1: out together, but it is. It's a relationship business, and 668 00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:40,960 Speaker 1: sometimes I think we have to remind ourselves of that well. 669 00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:45,720 Speaker 1: And how do you utilize those relationships and really cultivate 670 00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:48,800 Speaker 1: them because on one hand, of course you're reaching out 671 00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:51,240 Speaker 1: to these people you do need something from them for 672 00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:54,800 Speaker 1: your business. On the other hand, you want to be 673 00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 1: engaged in creating a meaningful relationship that matters, but you 674 00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:02,360 Speaker 1: want to keep it professional. There's a lot of lines 675 00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:05,560 Speaker 1: and it seems like you're balancing. You have done that 676 00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:07,640 Speaker 1: very well, and I know that over and over again. 677 00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:10,720 Speaker 1: You've said, I don't have sources, I have relationships with people. 678 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:13,760 Speaker 1: How do you cultivate those and keep them in a 679 00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:18,400 Speaker 1: place where you're really working on that relationship and you're 680 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:21,480 Speaker 1: not going to one extreme or the other. What I 681 00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:24,320 Speaker 1: always say is it's the most important part of my job, 682 00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:28,200 Speaker 1: and it is a job. So people understand. I legitimately 683 00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:32,160 Speaker 1: have Tuesday every week that's called relationship Tuesday, and that's 684 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:35,000 Speaker 1: my day where I sit and I text, and I email, 685 00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:38,240 Speaker 1: and I call and I reach out with no agenda. 686 00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:42,680 Speaker 1: I'm constantly making sure that I don't text every single 687 00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:44,880 Speaker 1: time that coach mac hears for me, it's what does 688 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:48,959 Speaker 1: Laura need? And so I know I've implemented that. On 689 00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:52,000 Speaker 1: Sunday's postgame, you know, you have a long day on 690 00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:53,840 Speaker 1: the field, we all do. And then I get in 691 00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:56,200 Speaker 1: my car and we have about an hour or an 692 00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:57,680 Speaker 1: hour and a half to get to the airport, and 693 00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:00,800 Speaker 1: I look at every single score real quickly update and 694 00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:04,240 Speaker 1: I start texting everybody, you know, congratulations on the wind. 695 00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:07,480 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry about the loss, sending healing dot your way, 696 00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:10,520 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry about the injury. That's the second most 697 00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:13,800 Speaker 1: important part of my job, which is not asking a question, 698 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:17,640 Speaker 1: not asking anyone to reach back, but constantly making sure 699 00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:21,359 Speaker 1: that I'm showing up when I don't need something, and 700 00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:24,120 Speaker 1: I have a big whiteboard. I don't do this anymore. 701 00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:26,759 Speaker 1: But when I was younger, it would say, all these 702 00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:29,120 Speaker 1: people every week, who did I reach out to? When 703 00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:31,120 Speaker 1: did I say I'd reach back out? Did they need 704 00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:34,040 Speaker 1: something from me? Because I wanted to make sure that 705 00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:37,120 Speaker 1: it wasn't a one sided relationship. When I first got 706 00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:39,480 Speaker 1: into this and players and coaches would ask to go 707 00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:42,000 Speaker 1: to a golf tournament, I would say no because I 708 00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:44,040 Speaker 1: thought that was a line, and I was like, I 709 00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:46,000 Speaker 1: don't want to make it look like and friends, I 710 00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:47,920 Speaker 1: don't want to make it look like, as you said, Amy, 711 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:51,000 Speaker 1: that you as a woman, there's some tough navigation. So 712 00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 1: I just said no to everything. And then at some 713 00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:55,920 Speaker 1: point finally had enough faith in myself and trust in 714 00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:59,319 Speaker 1: myself and understood relationships to go how can I keep 715 00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:02,160 Speaker 1: asking for things if I'm not taking part in this? 716 00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:05,239 Speaker 1: And so I guess they went from context to relationships. 717 00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:08,480 Speaker 1: When suddenly I got to know their foundations and their 718 00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:12,279 Speaker 1: wives and their mothers and their children and started being 719 00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:15,800 Speaker 1: a part of this community versus somebody on the outside 720 00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:18,720 Speaker 1: of the bubble doing stories. And that's when my life change. 721 00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:21,239 Speaker 1: That's just my job changed my life. And mac when 722 00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:24,680 Speaker 1: you see someone who's really cultivating those relationships as a coach, 723 00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:27,200 Speaker 1: someone on the other side, gosh, it must make you 724 00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:29,560 Speaker 1: feel so good to get a text message like that 725 00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:32,640 Speaker 1: that says, hey, congratulations on the wind. I don't need 726 00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:35,440 Speaker 1: anything from you. That's just it. Well, absolutely, but the 727 00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:38,640 Speaker 1: thing about it has to be genuine because you don't 728 00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:42,000 Speaker 1: have to. It comes across as they're not cultivating anything. 729 00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:45,839 Speaker 1: They are just generally, you know, involved in what's going on, 730 00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:48,080 Speaker 1: and you know you're not the only one. But the 731 00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:51,680 Speaker 1: fact that you know that they are paying attention, okay, 732 00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:54,560 Speaker 1: paying attention because in this business as a coach, you know, 733 00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:56,560 Speaker 1: especially as a head coach in this league, you've got 734 00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:59,359 Speaker 1: people pulling at you from all different directions, and most 735 00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:01,720 Speaker 1: of it you know they're pulling at you just like players, 736 00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:04,080 Speaker 1: you know, for selfish reasons. And then once they're done 737 00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:06,120 Speaker 1: with you, they're done with you. But as I said, 738 00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:09,600 Speaker 1: there are certain people that you that you realize are 739 00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:12,560 Speaker 1: in it for the reason that they generally they are 740 00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:15,320 Speaker 1: generally interested in what you're doing, not for any ulterior 741 00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:19,120 Speaker 1: motive because guess what, their careers are going along just fine. 742 00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:21,680 Speaker 1: They're checking in with you and what that gives you 743 00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:24,160 Speaker 1: as a coach. Every now and then, you can pick 744 00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:26,120 Speaker 1: up the phone and say, hey, Laura, look, I know 745 00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:27,600 Speaker 1: you're going to be here in a couple of weeks. 746 00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:29,239 Speaker 1: Let me tell you a little bit about what's going 747 00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:31,560 Speaker 1: on here, you know, And I don't know if it'll 748 00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:33,400 Speaker 1: be the story when you get here, but I'm just 749 00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:35,920 Speaker 1: giving you a little background. And here's here's what I 750 00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:37,799 Speaker 1: can let you know when you get here, and if 751 00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:41,680 Speaker 1: it changes, I'll tell you that because that's important. I mean, 752 00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:45,920 Speaker 1: those types of things are very very important in this business. 753 00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:48,360 Speaker 1: And here's the thing that I think, and Laura, you 754 00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:51,120 Speaker 1: can help me with this. Back when the league was 755 00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:56,520 Speaker 1: a little bit more i'd say mom and pop type league, 756 00:36:57,000 --> 00:37:00,640 Speaker 1: it was different, it really was. So you really have 757 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:05,239 Speaker 1: to work now because it's a corporation. It's corporate, but 758 00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,839 Speaker 1: you can still do it. And as I said, the 759 00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:11,120 Speaker 1: seminars that you do which I've been to, you know, it. 760 00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:13,719 Speaker 1: We'll get into those, and we'll get into galvanized. I've 761 00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:17,200 Speaker 1: seen that work. But what happens is is it's not 762 00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:20,560 Speaker 1: just it's not something that you're doing for the fluff 763 00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:24,680 Speaker 1: of it. You're telling them real issues that will come 764 00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:27,560 Speaker 1: up and how to navigate it, because being a female 765 00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:31,000 Speaker 1: in this business is not easy. Now the inclusion of 766 00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,640 Speaker 1: it is getting better and better, and I love it. 767 00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:36,160 Speaker 1: I absolutely love it. I mean I was so happy 768 00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:39,239 Speaker 1: for Low Locust when they won down there at Tampa Bay. 769 00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:41,840 Speaker 1: I know Low you know very well. She was the 770 00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:45,239 Speaker 1: assistant defensive line coach at the Birmingham Iron. I used 771 00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:48,040 Speaker 1: to drive over there to watch their games, you know. 772 00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:50,120 Speaker 1: And then when she got that chance to go, you 773 00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:52,520 Speaker 1: know with bea and then plus just you know, to 774 00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:56,080 Speaker 1: win it. Those types of things matter. I mean they really, 775 00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 1: they really do matter, and not not because she's a female, 776 00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:03,479 Speaker 1: but because she's thirty years chasing a dream and those 777 00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:06,719 Speaker 1: things are extremely important. And now for her to be 778 00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:08,600 Speaker 1: able to be on that stage, I mean, you know, 779 00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:12,600 Speaker 1: I mean I think it's just so so important that 780 00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,879 Speaker 1: people like yourself that have a platform now because I mean, 781 00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:17,799 Speaker 1: you know, let's admit it, you're a big deal now, 782 00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:20,400 Speaker 1: but you hadn't work. You had to work to be 783 00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:23,040 Speaker 1: a big deal and so and the way that you 784 00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:25,160 Speaker 1: did it. But I've as I said, we'll talk about 785 00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:28,160 Speaker 1: your seminars, we'll talk about Galvin eyes, but the way 786 00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:30,360 Speaker 1: you portray it and the way you get it across 787 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:33,720 Speaker 1: you know, although I think those those those those females 788 00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:37,239 Speaker 1: that are entering into it, they say, whoa, this is 789 00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:40,120 Speaker 1: a job, this is work, and it's you know, it's 790 00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:43,000 Speaker 1: not all about just you know, the bright lights and 791 00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:45,720 Speaker 1: everything else that goes on because it is a business. 792 00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:49,000 Speaker 1: It's a business, but it doesn't have to be an 793 00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,880 Speaker 1: impersonal business. And I hope this is one of the 794 00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:53,879 Speaker 1: moost important things I can say to Amy right now, 795 00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:57,120 Speaker 1: because I know the dream was checking boxes. Right. I 796 00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:58,680 Speaker 1: want to do this, I want to do I want 797 00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:00,680 Speaker 1: to cover Super Bowl, I want to host Olympics. I 798 00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,759 Speaker 1: want to work for a network. Check check And all 799 00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:07,000 Speaker 1: of a sudden you check boxes and you realize how 800 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:10,160 Speaker 1: lonely that can be, because everything about us is the job. 801 00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:13,560 Speaker 1: Is the job is the boxes, the box. And I 802 00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:17,879 Speaker 1: just know that at some point you really do look 803 00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:20,040 Speaker 1: around at a lot of check boxes, at a lot 804 00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:23,879 Speaker 1: of check boxes, and go what else is there. I've 805 00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:27,160 Speaker 1: been doing sidelines for a long time, But if I 806 00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:30,000 Speaker 1: look at my Sunday, I work just as hard as 807 00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:32,319 Speaker 1: my play by play partner. I work just as hard 808 00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:35,440 Speaker 1: as my analysts. We're watching the same film, we're reading 809 00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:39,480 Speaker 1: the same articles, wearing the same interviews and conversations, and 810 00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:42,880 Speaker 1: I'm probably having more conversations with more players and coaches. 811 00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:45,520 Speaker 1: And yet if you boil down my Sunday, maybe I 812 00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:47,719 Speaker 1: have two and a half minutes. If you put down 813 00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:51,440 Speaker 1: like all of my stuff, and what happens is eventually 814 00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:54,239 Speaker 1: you leave Sunday and your guys feel great. They've had 815 00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:57,560 Speaker 1: three hours to pontificate and to show off their knowledge 816 00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:00,399 Speaker 1: and to show how awesome they are. When you walk 817 00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:03,200 Speaker 1: into your car with a notebook of stories that never 818 00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:06,200 Speaker 1: made air and all your opinions and all your insight 819 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:09,719 Speaker 1: and all these nuggets and nothing made air, and you 820 00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:12,000 Speaker 1: can feel like you have no value, and you can 821 00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:15,120 Speaker 1: have no worth. And at some point, as a woman, 822 00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:18,160 Speaker 1: at least on the sidelines, I had to figure out 823 00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:20,840 Speaker 1: what's my value? What's my worth? Because it cannot be 824 00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:23,239 Speaker 1: two and a half minutes on a Sunday. That took 825 00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:26,600 Speaker 1: me a long time. I hope Amy figures that out 826 00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:28,880 Speaker 1: a whole lot younger than I did. That's why we 827 00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:33,120 Speaker 1: started this podcast, because I had more to say. I 828 00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:35,480 Speaker 1: love it like that makes me want to cry. I 829 00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:38,640 Speaker 1: love that so much, one hundred percent. That's I love that. 830 00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:40,400 Speaker 1: I would have never had the confidence to use my 831 00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:42,560 Speaker 1: voice as you're doing at your age. You have a 832 00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:44,960 Speaker 1: great thing. Now, just look what's going on in the league. Look, 833 00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,279 Speaker 1: I mean look right here at the Tennessee tits Amy 834 00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:51,879 Speaker 1: Adams Strunk, I mean, one of the absolute best. I mean, 835 00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:53,640 Speaker 1: when I came back from LA and I came here 836 00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:55,040 Speaker 1: and met her, you know, when I was going to 837 00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:58,080 Speaker 1: start doing the broadcast here, I came away from that 838 00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:01,279 Speaker 1: first meeting going, whoa. I've been in the league a 839 00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:04,560 Speaker 1: long time. I know good from bad real quick. I mean, 840 00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,680 Speaker 1: that is excellent. Look at she lafourt Hamp, what's going 841 00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:10,920 Speaker 1: on there at Detroit, how much she's involved. Look at 842 00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:14,920 Speaker 1: Kimp Pagudo. To me, those things are extremely extremely important, 843 00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:18,840 Speaker 1: and our league is better for that. It is better 844 00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:21,400 Speaker 1: for that in my humble opinion. Now, Laura, we have 845 00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:23,840 Speaker 1: to talk about Galvanize. We've kind of alluded to it, 846 00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:26,200 Speaker 1: and it is so much bigger than everything that we've 847 00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:28,759 Speaker 1: alluded to. Give me a minute to just kind of 848 00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:33,120 Speaker 1: break down galvanize what it is and why it's so important. 849 00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:36,400 Speaker 1: People always think galvanize is about being better on camera, 850 00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:40,640 Speaker 1: because originally how the genesis of galvanize was. I started 851 00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:44,360 Speaker 1: seeing all these young women getting thrown into these awesome opportunities. 852 00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:47,840 Speaker 1: But I thought, that's fast, that's fast, and that's hard, 853 00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:51,080 Speaker 1: you know, and high up I was watching them struggle, 854 00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:53,920 Speaker 1: and I knew that they weren't struggling on a Sunday 855 00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:55,560 Speaker 1: or on a Saturday. I knew they were going to 856 00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,840 Speaker 1: struggle for years. When you all of a sudden walk 857 00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:01,000 Speaker 1: with a coach at halftime, and I've had coaches say this, 858 00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:03,960 Speaker 1: They said, Hey, I was with an adorable young girl 859 00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:06,719 Speaker 1: at halftime, and I was trying to help, but I 860 00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:09,080 Speaker 1: didn't know what she was talking about. And when I 861 00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:12,640 Speaker 1: tried to tell her something so I could help her, 862 00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:14,600 Speaker 1: I knew she didn't know what I was talking about. 863 00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:18,160 Speaker 1: And that was told to me when I was twenty seven. 864 00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:20,440 Speaker 1: I would have been very judgmental of the women and 865 00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:22,799 Speaker 1: been like, well, they don't belong and why are they here? 866 00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:26,160 Speaker 1: But I was luckily old enough and motherly enough to go. 867 00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:29,719 Speaker 1: These women are being crushed, not on a Sunday, but 868 00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:33,759 Speaker 1: their confidence is now crushed. And so I was very 869 00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:37,120 Speaker 1: thankful that I got my start in Montgomery, Alabama and 870 00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:40,080 Speaker 1: made my mistakes small and Chadmooga, Tennessee. I had to 871 00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:43,120 Speaker 1: work my way up to get to the network level, 872 00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:45,200 Speaker 1: and I was watching so many young women not get 873 00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:48,520 Speaker 1: that trajectory, and so I knew I couldn't help change that, 874 00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:51,279 Speaker 1: but I did think, well, I probably could help them 875 00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:54,800 Speaker 1: get ready for the opportunity. And so Galvin I started 876 00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:57,960 Speaker 1: about twelve years ago, and I just thought, how can 877 00:42:58,000 --> 00:42:59,840 Speaker 1: I help? And I didn't know anything more than that. 878 00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:02,400 Speaker 1: It wasn't a company, it wasn't a name, it wasn't anything. 879 00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:04,960 Speaker 1: But it took about four months to find twenty women 880 00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:07,440 Speaker 1: who were like, sure, I'll be a part of it. 881 00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:11,239 Speaker 1: And then you know, twelve years later, about twenty five 882 00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:15,000 Speaker 1: hundred women later, it's turned into it just an incredible 883 00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:17,360 Speaker 1: network of women and something I would have killed for, 884 00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:20,120 Speaker 1: which was just a group of women to help me 885 00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:22,839 Speaker 1: navigate all of this going through it. There's no black 886 00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:25,239 Speaker 1: and white in this business. It's all gray. And I 887 00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:27,360 Speaker 1: didn't have a single woman who helped me through that. 888 00:43:27,440 --> 00:43:29,920 Speaker 1: I didn't have a woman mentor. I didn't have friends 889 00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:33,480 Speaker 1: who were doing this business, so I peers. I didn't 890 00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:36,680 Speaker 1: have friends, and I just thought, how how can I 891 00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:39,480 Speaker 1: get them this? And it's grown not just in size, 892 00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:42,440 Speaker 1: but we have boot camps and workshops now that are 893 00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:45,280 Speaker 1: for women, not on camera. We have everybody behind the scenes. 894 00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:48,400 Speaker 1: We have women who are agents and marketing and pr 895 00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:52,040 Speaker 1: and we're from twenty years old to forty. So it's 896 00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:55,680 Speaker 1: just it's just this incredible group of women who are 897 00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:58,680 Speaker 1: looking for a network of other women to support, to 898 00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:02,000 Speaker 1: be supported by. And it's been a life changer. I 899 00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:04,719 Speaker 1: would have killed for it at your age, Amy, But 900 00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:08,160 Speaker 1: I also know that I probably if I had it, 901 00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:10,520 Speaker 1: I wouldn't have created it because I didn't know the 902 00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:12,840 Speaker 1: importance and the need of it. So I guess I 903 00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:15,799 Speaker 1: probably wasn't supposed to have it. And now I just 904 00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:20,040 Speaker 1: know watching these young women and older women but succeed 905 00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:24,680 Speaker 1: and grow and struggle has grown my heart in sizes 906 00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:26,680 Speaker 1: I didn't know. My heart couldn't grow because I don't 907 00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:29,520 Speaker 1: have children, so I didn't understand what it was like 908 00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:31,919 Speaker 1: to be a mother. And now I feel like I'm 909 00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:35,719 Speaker 1: a mother to a couple thousand women and feel like 910 00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:38,640 Speaker 1: every day I'm like, I didn't know I could be 911 00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:41,000 Speaker 1: any prouder than I've already thought I would be. But 912 00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:43,920 Speaker 1: it's been. It's been magical. It's been absolutely magical. Let 913 00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:46,080 Speaker 1: me interject here. I mean, you know when we went 914 00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:48,879 Speaker 1: to la you know, Laura, of course, you know, ask 915 00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:52,240 Speaker 1: Jeff Fisher and myself if she could you know, bring 916 00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:55,640 Speaker 1: you know, a group of her Galvinized people to training camp. 917 00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:57,239 Speaker 1: You know, it was our first year out there. Of 918 00:44:57,239 --> 00:44:59,240 Speaker 1: course it was a big deal everybody. And of course, 919 00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:02,760 Speaker 1: you know, Jeff, you're you know, told me that that Laura. 920 00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:06,359 Speaker 1: I said, oh absolutely, let's do this fish And when 921 00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:10,520 Speaker 1: she showed up and you know, and the things that 922 00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:13,080 Speaker 1: that she was imparting to them, I mean, they weren't 923 00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:16,799 Speaker 1: just at practice just to be you know, being able 924 00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:19,359 Speaker 1: to stand inside the ropes and to say to all 925 00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:22,160 Speaker 1: the people around, look at us were inside the ropes. 926 00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:25,480 Speaker 1: They were actually digging in and learning something about what 927 00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:28,440 Speaker 1: really makes this thing work. And then Jeff talked to 928 00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:30,399 Speaker 1: the group, I talked to the group, but you could 929 00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:34,279 Speaker 1: tell that they were all invested, and they weren't invested 930 00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:37,279 Speaker 1: at a surface level. They were invested at a level 931 00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:40,640 Speaker 1: like I am getting a leg up here and I'm 932 00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:43,360 Speaker 1: going to take full advantage of it. I was so impressed, 933 00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:46,840 Speaker 1: so impressed with it, and I can see white worked 934 00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:50,360 Speaker 1: and you will forever, forever be one of the greatest 935 00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:53,160 Speaker 1: gifts to galvanize because that was still young and it 936 00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:59,359 Speaker 1: was galvanized infancy, but it was galvanizes exactly how you 937 00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:02,799 Speaker 1: were with the women. We talk so little about being 938 00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:05,720 Speaker 1: on camera. We talk so little about the actual interview. 939 00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:08,480 Speaker 1: We practice small talk. Well, you know, if that you're 940 00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:10,400 Speaker 1: all of a sudden walking up to a coach and 941 00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:13,560 Speaker 1: you're twenty two years old and you're intimidated and you're scared, 942 00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:16,799 Speaker 1: how do you connect? How do you let Coach Mac 943 00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:19,319 Speaker 1: know that I might be twenty three years old, but 944 00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:21,640 Speaker 1: you can trust me in this conversation if it's on 945 00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:24,839 Speaker 1: camera or imprint and follow me or you're producing this. 946 00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:28,440 Speaker 1: And Coach Mac talked to them like they were professionals, 947 00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:30,680 Speaker 1: not like they were young girls, you know, and like 948 00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:32,960 Speaker 1: how cute there's a bunch of girls at practice, But 949 00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:36,200 Speaker 1: like that he gave them the imparted the wisdom that 950 00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:39,719 Speaker 1: he imparts on everyone who's in his orbit, which was invaluable. 951 00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:43,080 Speaker 1: But it's all the things I would have killed to know. 952 00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:46,000 Speaker 1: I would have I didn't need to get coached on 953 00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:48,600 Speaker 1: being on camera because I was going to get better 954 00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:50,560 Speaker 1: on camera with reps and I was going to get 955 00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:53,560 Speaker 1: better with experience, and that's going to happen. But the 956 00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:56,920 Speaker 1: things that will start your growth about your confidence, and 957 00:46:56,960 --> 00:47:00,480 Speaker 1: about relationships and about how to build them, about how 958 00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:03,520 Speaker 1: to believe in yourself, how to empower other women when 959 00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:06,799 Speaker 1: you've been told that's your competition. All those things to 960 00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:10,359 Speaker 1: be able to sit and talk about that's galvanized and 961 00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:13,440 Speaker 1: being better on camera or being better you know, at 962 00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:16,239 Speaker 1: your job is so miniscule to me. I think the 963 00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:18,520 Speaker 1: first couple of boot camps, I didn't get that, and 964 00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:20,799 Speaker 1: I focused a lot on what you do, and now 965 00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:23,080 Speaker 1: I don't think we ever talk about what you do. 966 00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:26,120 Speaker 1: It's all who you are. Same with athletes, same with coaches. 967 00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:28,200 Speaker 1: And now, by the way, coach Mack knows this. I 968 00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:30,400 Speaker 1: have clients, you know. I do a lot of advising 969 00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:33,520 Speaker 1: with communications. I have had coaches, and I work with 970 00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:37,120 Speaker 1: almost two hundred of the top professional women hockey players 971 00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:39,759 Speaker 1: in the world. So I'm in a different world now 972 00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:43,040 Speaker 1: where I'm trusted in a different way with these incredible people. 973 00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:45,839 Speaker 1: It's the same thing. We don't talk about their job, 974 00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:49,040 Speaker 1: We talk about who they are, and that doesn't matter 975 00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:51,759 Speaker 1: what you do for a job. If you tap into that, 976 00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:54,160 Speaker 1: then it goes right back to what Coach Mac's talking about, 977 00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:57,719 Speaker 1: is the authenticity and the truth of who you are, 978 00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:01,040 Speaker 1: and that's how you build relationships and trusts. Gosh, Laura, 979 00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:03,359 Speaker 1: I could talk to you forever. I know we've got 980 00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:05,160 Speaker 1: to let you go. You're the busiest woman in all 981 00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:07,160 Speaker 1: of sports. But before you go, I want to be 982 00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:10,279 Speaker 1: sure to ask you what advice you might have, not 983 00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:13,000 Speaker 1: even just for girls who want to get into this industry, 984 00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:16,359 Speaker 1: but anyone who wants to have some sort of role 985 00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:19,480 Speaker 1: in sports, whether it be in media or otherwise, what 986 00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:21,800 Speaker 1: advice would you give to them? I think the first 987 00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:24,799 Speaker 1: thing is I know, for years and years I was 988 00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:28,520 Speaker 1: told that a girl talking sports was crazy, and so 989 00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:31,439 Speaker 1: that was in my head for a long time, and 990 00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:34,719 Speaker 1: everyone would say, what's your plan B, what's your plan B? 991 00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:36,759 Speaker 1: And I would always say, my plan B is to 992 00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:40,919 Speaker 1: make sure my Plan A is working. And after I've 993 00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:44,480 Speaker 1: proved that a girl talking sports wasn't crazy. The narrative 994 00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:48,680 Speaker 1: change too. Okay, that's great. You can talk sports, but 995 00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:52,000 Speaker 1: you better do it fast because you can't age on camera. 996 00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:55,600 Speaker 1: So you better have another plan in place, because once 997 00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:58,560 Speaker 1: you hit forty, everyone's going to tell you that you've 998 00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:01,320 Speaker 1: aged out of this business. That's not what this business wants. 999 00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:04,520 Speaker 1: So I think for so long in my career, I 1000 00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:06,920 Speaker 1: feared a lot of things, and I believed a lot 1001 00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:09,319 Speaker 1: of things that people told me. And that when you're 1002 00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:13,520 Speaker 1: told that constantly, your voice starts sounding like all their voices, 1003 00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:16,440 Speaker 1: and so you start telling yourself you don't belong, or 1004 00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:19,680 Speaker 1: better of a plan B, you don't belong. And I 1005 00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:21,719 Speaker 1: think the biggest thing I try to impart, I love 1006 00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:23,800 Speaker 1: that you said not just young girls and young women, 1007 00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:26,480 Speaker 1: this is young boys and young men. But to make 1008 00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:30,080 Speaker 1: sure your voice is the loudest. Because this business is tough, 1009 00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:32,080 Speaker 1: and it doesn't matter what side of it. You will 1010 00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:34,280 Speaker 1: be told how competitive it is. You will be told 1011 00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:36,359 Speaker 1: there is no room for you. You will be told 1012 00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:39,440 Speaker 1: a million reasons why you won't belong or you can't belong. 1013 00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:42,319 Speaker 1: And I think the most important thing that changed my 1014 00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:46,360 Speaker 1: trajectory and changed my life was when my voice started saying, 1015 00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:49,279 Speaker 1: you're good at this, you belong here, you know, keep 1016 00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:52,640 Speaker 1: crushing it, You're kicking ass. And suddenly all those other 1017 00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:55,640 Speaker 1: voices just weren't as important anymore, and then suddenly were 1018 00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:59,359 Speaker 1: an important period. So I think that I hadn't learned 1019 00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:02,400 Speaker 1: that untill four. So I sometimes say, here's my advice 1020 00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:04,279 Speaker 1: to young women or young men, and then I think, 1021 00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:06,080 Speaker 1: you know what, this is probably for all of us, 1022 00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:08,799 Speaker 1: because I think at different stages that we're all in 1023 00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:11,520 Speaker 1: our voices change, and I just know that the voice 1024 00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:14,239 Speaker 1: in my head has never been more supportive and has 1025 00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:18,240 Speaker 1: never been more empowering, and I know that's changed my life, 1026 00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:21,439 Speaker 1: not just my job. So that's probably my favorite thing 1027 00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:24,000 Speaker 1: is when I watch these young women in Galvanize, I 1028 00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:27,319 Speaker 1: see their voices literally change, and I watch how they 1029 00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:30,719 Speaker 1: all of a sudden go from doubting themselves to believing 1030 00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:33,239 Speaker 1: in themselves and then believing in each other. And that's 1031 00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:36,040 Speaker 1: where the magic is, that's where the growth is, and 1032 00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:38,480 Speaker 1: that's my favorite thing to watch. People grab a hold 1033 00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:41,959 Speaker 1: of Laura Oakman. I cannot thank you enough for being 1034 00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:44,560 Speaker 1: on the show with us today. This has been such 1035 00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:47,560 Speaker 1: a blast. You have to come back sometime soon do 1036 00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:52,560 Speaker 1: this with us again weekly, yes, like yes, monthly. But 1037 00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:57,200 Speaker 1: you guys, listen, I would have already come into this knowing. 1038 00:50:57,320 --> 00:50:59,960 Speaker 1: I know, any conversation with Coach Mac is a meaningful 1039 00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:03,239 Speaker 1: one and is a purposeful one and is a wonderful one. 1040 00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:07,600 Speaker 1: But my sister, you are outstanding. And sometimes when you're 1041 00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:09,399 Speaker 1: in the middle of two people who know each other 1042 00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:12,400 Speaker 1: and start a conversation and it's like goes to a sideline, 1043 00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:15,239 Speaker 1: feeling right like, wait a minute, I had twenty five 1044 00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:18,759 Speaker 1: questions and they monopolized it and I asked two. But 1045 00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:22,200 Speaker 1: it takes a really good point guard to make sure 1046 00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:25,440 Speaker 1: that everybody's involved and to get this whole flow going. 1047 00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:28,319 Speaker 1: So you are magnificent. So thank you for being such 1048 00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:31,239 Speaker 1: a great point guard and Coach Mac, I can do 1049 00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:33,360 Speaker 1: this with you every day. You're the best, and you 1050 00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:36,360 Speaker 1: know that you're the best. But yes, because my voice 1051 00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:38,479 Speaker 1: tells me that I am the best, like your voice 1052 00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:41,200 Speaker 1: tells you that you are the best. Well, and again 1053 00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:43,640 Speaker 1: you know you know the feelings mutual. I mean, it 1054 00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:45,560 Speaker 1: makes me so happy at a game to be able 1055 00:51:45,680 --> 00:51:47,960 Speaker 1: because to lean out of the press box before the 1056 00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:50,520 Speaker 1: game and yell at you down there on the sideline. 1057 00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:53,520 Speaker 1: It just makes me feel so happy to be able 1058 00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:56,080 Speaker 1: to do that and connect with you. And we need 1059 00:51:56,120 --> 00:51:59,240 Speaker 1: to get together in nash Vegas soon with Amy Wells, 1060 00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:03,120 Speaker 1: with Ashley Earl, with you with your husband at the Standard. 1061 00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:06,239 Speaker 1: We need to do that. Yes, yes, yes, confirmed and 1062 00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:08,320 Speaker 1: booked and if we can all seek our dogs and 1063 00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:20,040 Speaker 1: even better, I would love that too. Mac. She fires 1064 00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:23,120 Speaker 1: me up. She just gets me going. I'm so excited. Well, 1065 00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:25,359 Speaker 1: let me tell you why she gets it. She just 1066 00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:28,439 Speaker 1: gets it, she really does. And I count myself very 1067 00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:31,120 Speaker 1: fortunate to have had her friendship for a long time 1068 00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:35,200 Speaker 1: in this league. But she is legitimate, really legit. You 1069 00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:38,080 Speaker 1: know who else gets it? Farm Bureau Health Plans. Don't 1070 00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:40,560 Speaker 1: get sacked by the high cost of healthcare. Make farm 1071 00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:43,920 Speaker 1: Bureau health Plans your first line of protection. They've been 1072 00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:48,640 Speaker 1: protecting Tennesseeans since nineteen forty seven. Randy Wilmore Farm Bureau 1073 00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:52,040 Speaker 1: Health Plans. Jane Anne. Jane Anne, that does our bubble heads. 1074 00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:55,879 Speaker 1: Randy Wilmore was the genesis of the Bubbleheads. Jane Anne 1075 00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:59,759 Speaker 1: is really the power behind it. Rita Delosure. I mean 1076 00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:01,920 Speaker 1: there's so many I've got so many good friends now 1077 00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:03,960 Speaker 1: at Farm Bureau health plans. I mean, and that's a 1078 00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:06,319 Speaker 1: really good place to have friends. It is a really 1079 00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:09,520 Speaker 1: good place to have friends. I mean, shoot, anybody who 1080 00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:12,319 Speaker 1: can help you with your healthcare and everything else and 1081 00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:15,040 Speaker 1: get you some bubbleheads of yourself. What more could you 1082 00:53:15,080 --> 00:53:16,759 Speaker 1: want in a friend? I mean, plus, I like going 1083 00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:18,759 Speaker 1: down to Columbia, Tennessee. It's really cool down there, and 1084 00:53:18,800 --> 00:53:22,759 Speaker 1: it's cool. It's really cool. So anyway, so Mac, do 1085 00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:26,400 Speaker 1: you think we should do another bubblehead giveaway? Yes? Do 1086 00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:29,480 Speaker 1: you think we should do that? Are you feeling giveaway? Yes? 1087 00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:32,879 Speaker 1: I mean after a big win like that, Yes, yep, 1088 00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:35,040 Speaker 1: I think we should too. I think we should give 1089 00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:39,239 Speaker 1: away a coach Mac bobblehead, a coach Mac bobblehead. And 1090 00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:43,000 Speaker 1: I think that the word that we should use is playmaker. 1091 00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:46,120 Speaker 1: Oh I love it. That's perfect. This is our code word. 1092 00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:49,680 Speaker 1: Head over to Instagram. You will see the post. I'll 1093 00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:53,040 Speaker 1: say something along the lines of this is it so 1094 00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:56,560 Speaker 1: that you know where to post the code word. Code 1095 00:53:56,560 --> 00:53:59,160 Speaker 1: word is playmaker. I'll try and make it idiot proof. 1096 00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:02,759 Speaker 1: I'll do my best. Please give away a bubblehead coach Mac. 1097 00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:05,399 Speaker 1: We gave a hit bubble head Coach back bubble Head Amy. 1098 00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:07,440 Speaker 1: Last time right we did. That was the first one 1099 00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:08,799 Speaker 1: that was a big deal. I want to keep the 1100 00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:10,920 Speaker 1: people coming back from more. Okay, good? Can you give 1101 00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:12,960 Speaker 1: everything to them all in one They get bubblehead Coach 1102 00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:14,879 Speaker 1: Mac this week and then the next time we'll be 1103 00:54:14,880 --> 00:54:17,680 Speaker 1: bubblehead coach Amy. There you go, and I like to 1104 00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:21,160 Speaker 1: be coach Amy. I love that all right. So Instagram 1105 00:54:21,239 --> 00:54:24,959 Speaker 1: is where you will put that. Playmaker is the code word. 1106 00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:28,520 Speaker 1: Hope you guys win a coach Mac bobblehead. It's the 1107 00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:31,600 Speaker 1: hottest gift in town right now. The holiday season is 1108 00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:36,120 Speaker 1: just around the corner. Let's go, Mac. Are you fired 1109 00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:39,799 Speaker 1: up for the Chiefs? Not yet? Too early? You keep 1110 00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:41,919 Speaker 1: your powder drive. You're trying. You're telling me to turn 1111 00:54:41,960 --> 00:54:44,680 Speaker 1: the page. I turn the page in the course of 1112 00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:47,080 Speaker 1: this show you're talking about you're talking about forty plus 1113 00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:49,360 Speaker 1: year coach. I know when you're supposed to get ready 1114 00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:52,040 Speaker 1: and you're supposed to prepare, but you don't start getting 1115 00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:54,399 Speaker 1: ready too early. You burn yourself out. You ever run 1116 00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:57,080 Speaker 1: track in your life? Okay, Well, let me just say this, 1117 00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:59,240 Speaker 1: if you give me, if you if you ever entering 1118 00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:02,359 Speaker 1: that's I'm not saying. If you ever ran track in 1119 00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:04,439 Speaker 1: your life. The first thing they tell you to track 1120 00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:07,720 Speaker 1: meat is is just stay as calm as possible before 1121 00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:10,200 Speaker 1: the gun goes off, because your adrenaline goes through your 1122 00:55:10,200 --> 00:55:12,440 Speaker 1: body and it uses up all your energy. Keep your 1123 00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:16,160 Speaker 1: powder dry. All right, Well, I'm fired up anyway, So 1124 00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:18,320 Speaker 1: I'll see you guys on Sunday and I will still 1125 00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:21,120 Speaker 1: have a lot of energy. Titans take on the Kansas 1126 00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:25,000 Speaker 1: City Chiefs this Sunday at Nissan Stadium. To kick off 1127 00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:27,359 Speaker 1: is at noon. You don't want to miss it. If 1128 00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:29,640 Speaker 1: you guys have tickets, come on out and hang out 1129 00:55:29,680 --> 00:55:32,479 Speaker 1: with us. It's going to be so fun for Coach Mac. 1130 00:55:32,840 --> 00:55:35,319 Speaker 1: I'm Titans Amy, Amy Wells. Thank you so much for 1131 00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:38,200 Speaker 1: listening to The Titans Amy and Coach Mac podcast