WEBVTT - EP 88 Emergency Contact

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<v Speaker 1>Talk. We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion

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<v Speaker 1>who talks back. I'm so tired of being out. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so tired. Won't you help me kirt just this so

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<v Speaker 1>that your kid. Sorry, y'all listen, Thank you for tuning

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<v Speaker 1>in for a new episode that we talked back and

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<v Speaker 1>show dedicated to you niggas and these holes. A. It's

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<v Speaker 1>your co host A J. Holiday. Hey, y'all, I love

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<v Speaker 1>y'all once again. This week gets me tambion. I'm tired

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<v Speaker 1>as fuck, y'all tired, but I still love y'all and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here for y'all every week. So thank you for coming, coming,

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<v Speaker 1>coming to Lie, coming to damn Lie. That's what I

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<v Speaker 1>do best. Okay, Hey girl, what's up? Y? I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get my damn energy up to and I'm papa

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<v Speaker 1>little corner of an addie and they ain't working either.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what the fuck is happening. I have

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<v Speaker 1>rice today. That might be what it is that rice

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<v Speaker 1>to be swelling your ass up. It's almost like grits.

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<v Speaker 1>I need a nap, I need I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if it's because mercury is in retrograde I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even really know what that means, but I'm blaming

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<v Speaker 1>everything in my life on that right now. I believe

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<v Speaker 1>so tired, I believing that. I think it's because I

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<v Speaker 1>just I really be like go go go, go, go

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<v Speaker 1>spe raised or go like all day every day, like

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<v Speaker 1>just going, going going. I went to Florida this past

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<v Speaker 1>weekend to work a wedding, and then I came back

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<v Speaker 1>and then was I guess it was a time difference

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<v Speaker 1>to maybe that's why I'm so tired? What part of

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<v Speaker 1>who do you want to the West Side? I wasn't destined? Destined,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh they might be an hour behind right down Mountaintown.

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<v Speaker 1>They are so And then you know, it was working

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<v Speaker 1>in things can be people crazy that time line. That's

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<v Speaker 1>if you cross the ocean, you have jet lag, not

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<v Speaker 1>just like a little small time difference like that girl

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<v Speaker 1>mercury and retrograde. And I was in a different time zone,

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<v Speaker 1>sucking retarded and I'm tired, and we'll how was the

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<v Speaker 1>wedding you did? It was beautiful as a beach wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>It was very lovely. They looked to be in so

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<v Speaker 1>in love and happy. So I'm happy for them. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like I'm doing hair for a wedding can

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<v Speaker 1>be hectic sometimes because brides just be all over the

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<v Speaker 1>place and their bridesmaids, and if it's not really organized,

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<v Speaker 1>it can be a real stressful experience. But this wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>too bad, so I was grateful for that. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>get to hang out like I wanted to, just because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I was there as the help. I wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Really there's to just go lay on the beach all day.

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<v Speaker 1>So did you get somebody it in? Though I did

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<v Speaker 1>not get that I was invited to the wedding. But

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<v Speaker 1>I typically when I do brides, I stay with them

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<v Speaker 1>to the moment they walk out. So when they go

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<v Speaker 1>walk out, that's when I go get dressed. So I

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<v Speaker 1>usually just go to the reception. I don't you typically

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<v Speaker 1>make it to the way. Yeah that sounds about right. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I end up like I've never been in a wedding,

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<v Speaker 1>done a wedding where I didn't end up like a

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<v Speaker 1>kind of honorary bridesmaid, not in a dress. But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>doing ship that is not hair related, like I'm helping pinship.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm helping like I don't know. I always end up

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<v Speaker 1>doing that for some reason. So I was putting bitches

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<v Speaker 1>guard belts on on her thigh, like you know, all

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<v Speaker 1>kinds of stuff, you know, just that seems like a

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<v Speaker 1>scary job with black women on their wedding day and

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<v Speaker 1>their hair. Yeah, everybody, it is, it is. It can

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<v Speaker 1>be stressful, but I have thank God, I've never had

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<v Speaker 1>a bride that was not satisfied with what I did

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<v Speaker 1>for them. So we jumped. Who's gonna get jumped? All

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<v Speaker 1>the bites in their bridesmaids and a and the and

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<v Speaker 1>that this part was. I was the only scheduled I

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<v Speaker 1>was only hired to do curls, curl her hair and

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<v Speaker 1>stalid on the day of the wedding, but her hair

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<v Speaker 1>did not come in time for her hair appointment, so

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<v Speaker 1>I ended up having to do a whole soul in

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<v Speaker 1>the night before the wedding. God damn, I know what

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<v Speaker 1>if you would have planned to come the same day

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<v Speaker 1>or something early and it would have been up we

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<v Speaker 1>would have been up dust thirty in the morning. Thing

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<v Speaker 1>in training Aamn shame. He got to be more carefully.

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<v Speaker 1>He's Goddamn hair companies. You gotta realize. I hate to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you about black people, but even they boutiques

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<v Speaker 1>and ship. You got a seven day processing and then

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<v Speaker 1>they finally ship your ship out. That's how they time

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<v Speaker 1>from trying them exactly. That's why you know, I do

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<v Speaker 1>want to support people, clothing companies and boot boutiques the ship,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know i'd be on Ali expressing Ali baba too.

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<v Speaker 1>I know how much you pay for that thing, and

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't feel right give you all my fucking

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<v Speaker 1>money when I know I can go straight to the

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<v Speaker 1>source and get that ship for twenty dollars and I

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<v Speaker 1>can get them into all colors, all lengths or whatever

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<v Speaker 1>it is that I'm ordering. So I do want to

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<v Speaker 1>support small businesses, but I do not want to feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm getting finessed. So this past weekend I went

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<v Speaker 1>to this comedic store in Charleston, and you know, to

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<v Speaker 1>get like to see how much the sea moss was

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff like that. This nigg is selling like four

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<v Speaker 1>ounces of c moss for like or some ship like that,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I could buy a whole pound. So now in

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<v Speaker 1>my mind, like, yes, I want to support small business,

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<v Speaker 1>but like if this nigger had four ounces a weed

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<v Speaker 1>and charging meters astronomical amount of money for it, I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't buy it. You know what I'm say, ain't so

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<v Speaker 1>it's the same thing. So I don't want to feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm being finessed. Even if you are, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to feel like it. You know, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to know that I mean finesse shame. But yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>do much other than that. This weekend chilled out. My

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<v Speaker 1>car is in the body shop, so bitch. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>riding my bike to the gym every day, so I

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<v Speaker 1>have been doing that. You was out here like Bamby.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember that episode of Love and Hip Hop with Ben

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<v Speaker 1>we rolle her bike the scrape House. I see that ship.

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<v Speaker 1>But how bad you gotta be? You was out there.

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<v Speaker 1>You was out here like Jody on the bit all

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<v Speaker 1>we here. I love riding bike, y'all. Okay, I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>certified spinsh structor. Bitch, I'm getting on a bike if

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<v Speaker 1>I don't do nothing else. I ride my bike a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I like. I like wearing my bike too. Yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>was something that I didn't pick up until pandemic, though honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I was not riding bikes before. No, I'm a grown

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<v Speaker 1>naswarman dog. I went outside with no bike. I got

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<v Speaker 1>a bike just because it wasn't shipped else to do.

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<v Speaker 1>During the pandemics, I went about a bike and I

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<v Speaker 1>almost got Let me tell you, Let me just tell

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<v Speaker 1>you this story, but let me tell your story. Me

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<v Speaker 1>and the nigga who bought the bike. He lived out

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<v Speaker 1>in the country, right, So we was riding our bikey,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the first day I got on this bike.

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<v Speaker 1>We're riding through eastover South Carolina, which is the country, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>And bitch, we ride past some trailers and three pit

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<v Speaker 1>bulls come running full speed to and I had on

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<v Speaker 1>red leggings, right, bright red leggings. I knew they've seen

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<v Speaker 1>that big chunk of ass, but I'm gonna bite this

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<v Speaker 1>bit and I'm talking about that. Came running towards me

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<v Speaker 1>full speed. Bitch. I paddled for my life, get me,

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<v Speaker 1>get me, he said. He slowed down, he said, just

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<v Speaker 1>keep paddling, baby, and he pulled his puss out and

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<v Speaker 1>shot them dogs and killed them dogs right there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he sure did kill them dogs where they really coming.

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<v Speaker 1>They were coming viciously coming towards me. I was scared

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<v Speaker 1>for my life for real. And he shot him and

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<v Speaker 1>then we stopped killed three dogs dead, and then well

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<v Speaker 1>that's what happened, and let me tell you. Then we

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<v Speaker 1>rolled down the street a little bit and we stopped

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<v Speaker 1>and call the police. We called the police, and we

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<v Speaker 1>wait for the police to come. And then he went

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<v Speaker 1>back with the police to the trailer and knocked on

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<v Speaker 1>the owner's door and told him what happened. And the

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<v Speaker 1>owner was like, you know, people don't typically come around

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<v Speaker 1>this part. You know, nobody is ever over here. And

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<v Speaker 1>those dogs are trained to his hat, you know, they see.

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<v Speaker 1>So he went out in the woods and found him.

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<v Speaker 1>They was all dead in the woods. Damn, that's fucked up.

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<v Speaker 1>How fucked up. I was minding my damn business. They

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<v Speaker 1>was about to eat my ass up. That nigga saved me.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, put your out, He saved my life.

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<v Speaker 1>Just a love to be rescued. Say what we got

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<v Speaker 1>going on in stupid internet news today, chack girl, A

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<v Speaker 1>lot of stupid ship period, period, period girl. I do

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<v Speaker 1>not want to hear that sound in my fucking air.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that bit is doing a magic spell

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<v Speaker 1>on y'all niggas. Why the fun can a white woman

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<v Speaker 1>blow up acting black? But if it was a black

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<v Speaker 1>woman doing the same ship, Oh, she gets like that

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna say the same ship. She get on this

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<v Speaker 1>a nap, but you are shelling sharing the hell out

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<v Speaker 1>of that bullshit. It's she gonna work around get a

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<v Speaker 1>million dollars off y'all, exactly every time, every time, every

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<v Speaker 1>time she ran out. She can't even sing a song

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<v Speaker 1>because she ran out of breath for the last party.

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<v Speaker 1>But a video saying it while she was in the mirror,

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<v Speaker 1>like Chloe did a video like I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>hear that ship. Don't say that ship to me because

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<v Speaker 1>it's just retardation. At this point, what the fun is that?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you see that other video she had like a

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<v Speaker 1>wig that looked like George Washington or something. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>did not. I'm still yo, why do we constantly let

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<v Speaker 1>these get these people shine? I'm just confused, man. We

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<v Speaker 1>just need to start doing some worright. We need to

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<v Speaker 1>start filming and just start doing some really ignorant ship

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<v Speaker 1>so we can just blow all the way. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to blow. I have integrity. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>blow up in that way. I don't. I'll do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll do it for us. I have integrity. But I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted the bag period of period, all money ain't good money.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm cool, cool, Well I'm gonna spend it and see

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<v Speaker 1>which when I get after I spend. Do you think

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<v Speaker 1>shouting do your thing? I can't do it. I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>real nigga. Okay, you ain't gonna never catch me doing

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<v Speaker 1>no stupid ass ship for the check ever. Ever, let's

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<v Speaker 1>just depend on how stupid is how stupid is it?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? Is it gonna set our raised back? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to do that, but if you don't, if

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<v Speaker 1>it's just all funny games, I can. I can do it. Girl.

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<v Speaker 1>You see how Tory Lanes asked done uh sucker punch

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<v Speaker 1>August Susina or he says he got sucker punch punch.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but well that picture, if y'all saw

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<v Speaker 1>that picture, he looked like he got more to sucker

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<v Speaker 1>point that nigga looked dizzy as that picture of him.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would he post that picture? I do not know.

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<v Speaker 1>It is beyond me why he would post that picture

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<v Speaker 1>because I guess he's about to soothe and right, you

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<v Speaker 1>want to make sure everybody sees all the evidence of

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. Tory Lanes. You got pen and charges already

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<v Speaker 1>for shooting Mega stallion and your ass think this ship

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<v Speaker 1>is cute. I'm sure he has the syndrome. Why are

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<v Speaker 1>you beating somebody up because they say, hey, do you

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<v Speaker 1>that's what it sounds like. That's what it sounds like.

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<v Speaker 1>What shot low was mad about? What I remember? I

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<v Speaker 1>remember because he shot him out. I remember that mention.

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<v Speaker 1>My city didn't save my name. Oh shame, short man

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<v Speaker 1>syndrome Another thing. M y'all niggas got something to prove.

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<v Speaker 1>I like short men, though they'd be mean. Though. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell you that short men do be mean. Tarm man

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<v Speaker 1>be mean too. You think so it's the medium height

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<v Speaker 1>ones that know how to act. I don't know. B

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<v Speaker 1>sixth one right, six one is medium height. That's like

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like five ten to six one to six

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<v Speaker 1>ft to six ft six one is tall? You think so?

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<v Speaker 1>I like six one now? M that's tall? Yeah know

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<v Speaker 1>my thing. I like short men now, but sixth one

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<v Speaker 1>is the max, and I think sixth one is like good.

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<v Speaker 1>Anything taller than that is usually dumb. Yeah, anything taller

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<v Speaker 1>than that. I'm at dick height and he feels like

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<v Speaker 1>I suck his dick all the time. And short equals mean.

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<v Speaker 1>The niggas just disgruntled. Hi niggas, it's fucking mad Tory

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<v Speaker 1>Lanes as a guy there, woman and man beat it's

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<v Speaker 1>something wrong with him. It is something wrong with him, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think he got it all because there's no

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<v Speaker 1>way like you in court essentially to me fighting for

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<v Speaker 1>your life and you around here as salt and people.

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<v Speaker 1>You hit him first, he even hits you back, even

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<v Speaker 1>get the opportunity to. So you assaulted him. He got

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<v Speaker 1>bruises on his arm legs. Evidently you might have knocked

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<v Speaker 1>him out. Did you at least pitched the bitch shape? Look?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you see blue face Done done sucked out Christian

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<v Speaker 1>rock Daddy? And I saw the video and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is this is they're doing a TV show And

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<v Speaker 1>then it later came out that they're doing a show

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<v Speaker 1>for zeus. So do you think his fate his daddy

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<v Speaker 1>through the first place? It was around him when it happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you see the video? They were like real professional

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<v Speaker 1>cameras around him. So it may not have been fake

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<v Speaker 1>because you know this is reality TV that they're doing,

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<v Speaker 1>but they did it maybe like that that TV ship

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<v Speaker 1>put the battery in your back. So even if the

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<v Speaker 1>dad the dad did rock his ass first. Now he

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<v Speaker 1>did do that. He did connect because I thought he

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<v Speaker 1>just swam out. He connected. Yeah, he definitely connect because

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<v Speaker 1>but he's not the Mario coins and the cigarettes out

0:14:46.160 --> 0:14:49.800
<v Speaker 1>his daddy ass always. I seen, I literally seen coys

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<v Speaker 1>and cigarettes all over the ground. So ghetto man, y'all

0:14:52.720 --> 0:14:55.200
<v Speaker 1>beating each other family members up. Remember she beat his

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<v Speaker 1>mom up? Right, y'all just need to letting them people

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<v Speaker 1>go on with their life because they don't want you

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<v Speaker 1>all help and they don't want you all to be

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<v Speaker 1>a part of it, clearly, And I need people to

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<v Speaker 1>stop comparing them to Bobby and Whitney. Okay, never know

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<v Speaker 1>how how is that Bobby and Whitney? That is you?

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<v Speaker 1>That's why stop playing with Whitney. Okay, stop, just stop it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even like when people talk about Whitney Houston. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because nobody was beating to Houston ass outside, So you're right,

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<v Speaker 1>there's anything. She probably was jumping on Bobby Brown ass. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Why uh? I posted about this a couple of times.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are white people upset that Coy Bailey is playing

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<v Speaker 1>the litteral mermaid, a mythological creature? For one white people

0:15:51.480 --> 0:15:56.800
<v Speaker 1>are upset because they are feeling their supremacy slip away

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<v Speaker 1>from them, and it's hard to be the supreme to

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<v Speaker 1>leave your the supreme being and then the snatch from you.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you really think they feel like something's being taken

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<v Speaker 1>from them because the character Disney characters are being changed

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<v Speaker 1>to black or you know how they had seventy years

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<v Speaker 1>of all white characters and now one character is black

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<v Speaker 1>and they're like, but seems like they're they're less upset

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<v Speaker 1>when they change the characters to homosexuals. You could be gay,

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<v Speaker 1>but do not change change these characters. That's because because

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<v Speaker 1>white people are also gay, but they could never be black.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you understand what I'm saying? Okay, so the representation

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<v Speaker 1>for them you can have, But I wonder if the

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<v Speaker 1>character was black gay character where they be mad, just

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<v Speaker 1>mad at the black Partri can eat all the pussy

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<v Speaker 1>she want, but she cannot be black while she does it. Yo,

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<v Speaker 1>let me not talk about the content. Character and Gucci stupid,

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't see what the problem is. Like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's be clear, y'all changed Jesus Christ to a whole

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<v Speaker 1>white man for our whole lives and like before our lives,

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<v Speaker 1>Like what the funk a y'all really mad about the

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<v Speaker 1>Little Mermaid being black when mermaids are black, let's talk

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<v Speaker 1>about that. Wasn't time Cruise the last Samurai, the last Samurai.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't got time yo, if y'all don't get the

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<v Speaker 1>funk over it. And I saw I saw some really

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<v Speaker 1>mean posts and how they're making the character look means,

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<v Speaker 1>motherfucker's real nasty. They had her out here looking like

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<v Speaker 1>Cynthia Doll with a mermaid tail with a box of Newports,

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<v Speaker 1>like they're just so hateful, so nasty. And you know

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<v Speaker 1>when you think about uh deities like give me y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>and um, there's a couple of them that were these

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<v Speaker 1>water beings, black people, the normal tribe. You know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, that dog on tribe talk about mermaids and

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like that. That doesn't come from your culture, even

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<v Speaker 1>if you know they try to tie um, the Little

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<v Speaker 1>Mermaid back to Ireland and stuff like that. Check out

0:18:25.680 --> 0:18:30.879
<v Speaker 1>the Irish people were because they weren't white. They weren't

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<v Speaker 1>white people, and we just talked about skin tone. At

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<v Speaker 1>some point, skin tone didn't even matter because everybody was

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<v Speaker 1>black at one point, yes, or just different shades of black,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. So I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>just care. Well when I come back a couple of times,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, well, the society will be in a

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<v Speaker 1>place where they'll be looking at their history holograms because

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<v Speaker 1>it won't be books no more, to be like a

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<v Speaker 1>hologram or something like that, and they'll be like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, can you believe that humans were? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>going about their skin color? That is so ghetto? Ghetto.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's something that seems primitive to you, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>something that like what's going on learning how to make fire?

0:19:19.920 --> 0:19:24.160
<v Speaker 1>You know, like we made fire? I think I hope,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that's how they look at racism. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a sasst fair shot. We just gotta have something

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<v Speaker 1>to fight about, you know. I feel like people just

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<v Speaker 1>gotta have something to be mad about. That's the duke

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<v Speaker 1>all always be like what y'all fake care about the day?

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<v Speaker 1>That is just the truth. My fucking's don't be really

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<v Speaker 1>this upset about stuff? How does it affect your life?

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<v Speaker 1>That's how I start to look at things. This does

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<v Speaker 1>this really affect my existence? Because if it doesn't, why

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<v Speaker 1>am I giving it? So much energy, like even the

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<v Speaker 1>white people not liking uh them a little mur may

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<v Speaker 1>being a black woman now, like I don't give a

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<v Speaker 1>funk like that don't affect my day to day life.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all could just be fucking mad. And I hope you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope y'all can't even work today because you're just

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<v Speaker 1>so upset The Mermaid is black and I can't wait

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<v Speaker 1>me too. I'm going I'm gonna go a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>times the original Little Mermaid tapes just for all the

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<v Speaker 1>tickets y'all don't buy, I'm gonna buike extra, so don't

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<v Speaker 1>worry about it. That's what I'm not about to do

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<v Speaker 1>because regardless of what, even if it's black faces, because

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<v Speaker 1>there's the other part of that, y'all make Little Mermaid

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<v Speaker 1>black because y'all know black people will show up, so

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<v Speaker 1>that's them also getting that black dollar, okay, because this

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<v Speaker 1>is not a black production, regardless of what. Though there's

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<v Speaker 1>black characters, there's not a it's not a black production.

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<v Speaker 1>So just like with anything else, this is just money making. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's all it is. Yep, And we gonna help. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna come out just like we came out for a Conda.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna act stupid. We're gonna pull up in droves.

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<v Speaker 1>We're probably gonna be dressed like the Little Mermaid cotton

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<v Speaker 1>up to Yeah, I'm gonna come in the Mermaid costume.

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<v Speaker 1>All you're gonna see it's a bunch of uh orange

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<v Speaker 1>red hair. Because we're gonna come support this movie. That

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<v Speaker 1>is just it's not a black production. But nevertheless, I

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<v Speaker 1>support What about this goddamn but this bushop bitch, the

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<v Speaker 1>same nigger, this bishop, this bishop, white hand out out

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<v Speaker 1>in Brooklyn. I believe the one who got robbed a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of months ago. Supply this bullshop, this bushop, excuse

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<v Speaker 1>this book, this bishop, this bishop? Sorry why he choked

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<v Speaker 1>that lady like yoked her? Ask because she came up

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<v Speaker 1>on stage. He's trying to say that she was actually

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<v Speaker 1>like a plant there by two YouTubers that he's soing

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<v Speaker 1>forty million dollars. What is he suing him for slander? Yeah, yep,

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<v Speaker 1>well you giving him amo right now, choking bitches on

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<v Speaker 1>TV on live video. Stupid, we see you grab her.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's still going to his church. His congregation probably grew

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<v Speaker 1>from those couple of months ago. Do you think so well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if period of period, stop saying that Jesus Christ, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure his congregation group. Girl, I'm sick of these people. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sick of these people. I don't know who the

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<v Speaker 1>hell Bishop Lamar white Head, He's caught on camera giving

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<v Speaker 1>his sermon on Sunday when a woman in the congregation

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<v Speaker 1>interrupted him. So, yeah, this person probably was sent there

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<v Speaker 1>to just just disturb what the funk they had going on,

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<v Speaker 1>and he yoked her ass up when she came up

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<v Speaker 1>on stage, rightfully, So I wonder if you got arrested

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<v Speaker 1>for it, though rightfully he yoked her. Why are why

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<v Speaker 1>are you running up on a man? On to she was?

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<v Speaker 1>She was trying to tack him. That's what it looked

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<v Speaker 1>like to me. If if I'm up there preaching, the

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<v Speaker 1>preachers preaching, I didn't invite you to come walk up

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<v Speaker 1>on me, Why are you coming up here? What if

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted some prayer? When if she was in there,

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<v Speaker 1>did you hear her arguing with him from in the

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<v Speaker 1>congregation like she was, They was going back and forth

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<v Speaker 1>and then she walked up there. That's what I missed exactly. No,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't walk up on nobody, man, sit your way

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<v Speaker 1>in he went toward her, where he said, all I

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<v Speaker 1>see it was him going towards her with his hands out.

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<v Speaker 1>Likely she started it, you can't be putting your hands

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<v Speaker 1>on people, right, But yeah, girl, the church's gone wild, y'all. Alright, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll be right back after this commercial break period. Alright.

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<v Speaker 1>So I saw this video over the weekend and it

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<v Speaker 1>kind of my spirit and I want to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>you about an a j and with you guys listening. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>there was a woman and she was sitting in her car,

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<v Speaker 1>and she seemed her spirit seemed very melancholy, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was discussing how she was about to have surgery, and

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<v Speaker 1>she realized that she was forty seven and that she

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<v Speaker 1>was unmarried and she was alone, and that her mom

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<v Speaker 1>and her sister had to take care of her, and

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<v Speaker 1>how she had let so much of her life go

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<v Speaker 1>by and she had not found someone to love and

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<v Speaker 1>to love her, and uh, it was kind of sad

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<v Speaker 1>listening to it, and it was also very scary for

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<v Speaker 1>me getting older and knowing that I am still very

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<v Speaker 1>unmarried without kids. She didn't express that she had children

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<v Speaker 1>or not, but and it made me think about, like,

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<v Speaker 1>what what would that look like for me. And I

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<v Speaker 1>did a little bit of research and I saw that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the number of women that are, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>growing older and they're not coupled, is the numbers growing.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's very real that I could possibly be her

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<v Speaker 1>age forty seven and by myself. And if that's the case,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to find the positives instead of lamenting over

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<v Speaker 1>what that would be like. I wanted to find positive

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<v Speaker 1>ways to be old bitch by yourself. You know, the

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<v Speaker 1>thing about that is if you talk to older women

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<v Speaker 1>who have been married before, they are happy now being single.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. They're not looking for the

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<v Speaker 1>new relationships. They realize it's less stressful when you only

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<v Speaker 1>have to worry about yourself, and they're content. So I

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<v Speaker 1>can tell you about to have surgery. I think that

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<v Speaker 1>you know, her having that surgery may here realize like, damn,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have anybody to take care of me. But

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<v Speaker 1>the thing is that may be an assumption that a

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<v Speaker 1>woman who's never been married before, that's an assumption you're

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<v Speaker 1>making that your husband would actually even be the type

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<v Speaker 1>of man that would take care of you, because that

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<v Speaker 1>is a woman's characteristic. You know what I'm saying there

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<v Speaker 1>are men women who are married that if they themselves

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<v Speaker 1>get sick, they're gonna be I'm ship Creek and so

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<v Speaker 1>with a husband because he can't take care of himself.

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<v Speaker 1>So you probably would still have to lean on your

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<v Speaker 1>mom or your sister. Even if you had a husband

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<v Speaker 1>at home, They're not gonna be able or equipped to

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<v Speaker 1>take care of you how a woman would be able to.

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<v Speaker 1>But some men are Some men are very good at nurturing.

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<v Speaker 1>They can get you the things you need, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like just go, You still have to give direction. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you see what I'm saying. You'd have to be in

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<v Speaker 1>pain somewhere, laying down and still got to give him

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<v Speaker 1>direction on what you need. That's not a girl. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't know though, because you ain't been in either situations yet.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just telling you I've seen married women. I can

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<v Speaker 1>I've had all right, so I remember, all right, So

0:27:05.720 --> 0:27:09.440
<v Speaker 1>you guys, I have multiple sclerosis. And when I first

0:27:09.440 --> 0:27:12.200
<v Speaker 1>got diagnosed, I could not walk. I didn't even we

0:27:12.240 --> 0:27:14.120
<v Speaker 1>didn't even know what was going on with me yet.

0:27:14.160 --> 0:27:16.159
<v Speaker 1>But I was just in the hospital they admitted me,

0:27:16.200 --> 0:27:18.320
<v Speaker 1>and I could not walk anymore, and it was just

0:27:18.800 --> 0:27:22.200
<v Speaker 1>really scary. And my boyfriend at the time. He would

0:27:22.280 --> 0:27:25.800
<v Speaker 1>literally get off work, go home, change his clothes, and

0:27:25.840 --> 0:27:28.920
<v Speaker 1>come to that hospital and sleep in my hospital bed

0:27:29.040 --> 0:27:32.000
<v Speaker 1>next to me every single night for two weeks. And

0:27:32.040 --> 0:27:33.880
<v Speaker 1>I know he was so tired because he would get

0:27:33.920 --> 0:27:36.560
<v Speaker 1>up early in the morning so he could go get

0:27:36.560 --> 0:27:39.400
<v Speaker 1>ready for work again. And he did that every day

0:27:39.440 --> 0:27:42.120
<v Speaker 1>for two weeks, and I think that was the most

0:27:42.160 --> 0:27:44.360
<v Speaker 1>I ever felt loved before. And it was just like

0:27:45.280 --> 0:27:48.280
<v Speaker 1>that small little bit of just being there. You know,

0:27:48.280 --> 0:27:51.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm sleeping in this tiny hospital bed, and this is

0:27:51.240 --> 0:27:53.760
<v Speaker 1>in Europe, so I don't know if you know about

0:27:53.800 --> 0:27:56.080
<v Speaker 1>the health care system there is free but then also

0:27:56.200 --> 0:28:00.720
<v Speaker 1>feil free. So it's like six of us in one room.

0:28:00.800 --> 0:28:03.280
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's not like I had my own bedroom.

0:28:03.320 --> 0:28:07.200
<v Speaker 1>It's like six beds in this one room. And it's

0:28:07.200 --> 0:28:10.640
<v Speaker 1>all kind of people like hell, you know, all kind

0:28:10.640 --> 0:28:13.439
<v Speaker 1>of ship going on. It's a miserable experience. And he

0:28:13.640 --> 0:28:15.679
<v Speaker 1>endured that with me, and I feel like he was

0:28:15.760 --> 0:28:19.560
<v Speaker 1>definitely the type that would be someone that would be

0:28:19.680 --> 0:28:23.440
<v Speaker 1>very caring in that aspect. Now, the other ship wasn't

0:28:23.440 --> 0:28:25.720
<v Speaker 1>always the best, but that part he was a good

0:28:25.720 --> 0:28:28.000
<v Speaker 1>He would have been a good person for that you know. Yeah,

0:28:28.040 --> 0:28:32.160
<v Speaker 1>so just having somebody there rather rather not they can

0:28:32.160 --> 0:28:35.120
<v Speaker 1>take care of you. Yeah, that's a plus. It's definitely

0:28:35.200 --> 0:28:37.680
<v Speaker 1>a plus. And then you know that intimacy, like even

0:28:37.720 --> 0:28:40.200
<v Speaker 1>when you being sick, that a man can give your

0:28:40.200 --> 0:28:44.600
<v Speaker 1>mam a camp, right, it's just you prefer for the

0:28:44.600 --> 0:28:46.800
<v Speaker 1>man to be there to rub your back up and

0:28:46.800 --> 0:28:50.240
<v Speaker 1>ship like that, even instead of your mama, even though

0:28:50.240 --> 0:28:53.440
<v Speaker 1>your mama gonna do it for you. I'm not afraid

0:28:53.480 --> 0:28:55.840
<v Speaker 1>to be alone. And I think that's one thing that um,

0:28:56.320 --> 0:28:59.720
<v Speaker 1>women period need alone need to learn is how to

0:28:59.760 --> 0:29:02.640
<v Speaker 1>be loan. I know. I looked at some articles and

0:29:02.720 --> 0:29:06.640
<v Speaker 1>to me, they were more so talking about like younger people,

0:29:06.680 --> 0:29:09.960
<v Speaker 1>like when you're in your twenties maybe early thirties, and

0:29:10.240 --> 0:29:12.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, being having time to do things for yourself,

0:29:12.840 --> 0:29:17.000
<v Speaker 1>having times, having time to think. You know, that's why

0:29:17.040 --> 0:29:20.560
<v Speaker 1>an older a younger person, when you get older, it's

0:29:20.640 --> 0:29:25.120
<v Speaker 1>like you kind of already know what you want. Um,

0:29:25.160 --> 0:29:27.400
<v Speaker 1>that may be a reason why people end up single

0:29:27.560 --> 0:29:30.360
<v Speaker 1>because now you've spent so much time you you've actually

0:29:30.400 --> 0:29:34.520
<v Speaker 1>spent too much time to yourself that now just the

0:29:34.520 --> 0:29:39.160
<v Speaker 1>thought of somebody else gets stressful for you. Like the

0:29:39.240 --> 0:29:42.320
<v Speaker 1>thought of having to share space with somebody else that part.

0:29:43.320 --> 0:29:46.959
<v Speaker 1>So I've been single since two thousand sixteen, and I

0:29:47.000 --> 0:29:49.680
<v Speaker 1>think if I did, like get in a serious relationship

0:29:49.760 --> 0:29:53.480
<v Speaker 1>and we had to like cohabitate, that would be a

0:29:53.560 --> 0:29:57.000
<v Speaker 1>huge adjustment for me. I need my own my own

0:29:57.120 --> 0:29:59.880
<v Speaker 1>room and bathroom. I know that about me now, Like

0:30:00.120 --> 0:30:02.360
<v Speaker 1>I do want to I don't want to live with

0:30:02.400 --> 0:30:04.240
<v Speaker 1>a man in an apartment and it would have to

0:30:04.280 --> 0:30:11.200
<v Speaker 1>be a house. And I need my own room and bathroom.

0:30:11.280 --> 0:30:14.040
<v Speaker 1>If I can't have my own room, I at least

0:30:14.080 --> 0:30:16.480
<v Speaker 1>need my own bathroom. Now, I do want to sleep

0:30:16.480 --> 0:30:19.880
<v Speaker 1>with the man every night, right, But I just want

0:30:19.920 --> 0:30:22.080
<v Speaker 1>us to have our own separate space, you know, because

0:30:22.440 --> 0:30:24.360
<v Speaker 1>you just want to then go to your own room. No,

0:30:24.480 --> 0:30:26.200
<v Speaker 1>I want to sleep like tonight, we sleep in my

0:30:26.400 --> 0:30:28.320
<v Speaker 1>of course, my room would probably be nicer than his,

0:30:29.000 --> 0:30:32.040
<v Speaker 1>and my bedding would probably be really plush. So of

0:30:32.080 --> 0:30:34.680
<v Speaker 1>course he's gonna want to sleep in my room every night, right,

0:30:35.040 --> 0:30:37.200
<v Speaker 1>But just to have the option to like have your

0:30:37.200 --> 0:30:39.200
<v Speaker 1>own space like during the day and ship like that.

0:30:39.240 --> 0:30:42.120
<v Speaker 1>I want to hear you now go to your room

0:30:42.480 --> 0:30:45.280
<v Speaker 1>to go to his room. I'm like laying back on

0:30:45.320 --> 0:30:47.440
<v Speaker 1>the bed kicking at him to get out of my room.

0:30:47.480 --> 0:30:50.000
<v Speaker 1>Get out of my room, and close my damn door

0:30:50.040 --> 0:30:54.160
<v Speaker 1>behind you. I don't think I would want I my

0:30:54.320 --> 0:30:56.400
<v Speaker 1>own room. I think I would obviously want a house

0:30:56.440 --> 0:30:58.960
<v Speaker 1>with more rooms in it, but I think I would

0:30:59.040 --> 0:31:01.440
<v Speaker 1>want our room to be our room and this is

0:31:01.520 --> 0:31:04.400
<v Speaker 1>our space, and then he can get out and go

0:31:04.560 --> 0:31:06.760
<v Speaker 1>so to the man cave when I'm upset with him,

0:31:06.800 --> 0:31:09.920
<v Speaker 1>and that's it. So that's your room, and you want

0:31:10.000 --> 0:31:14.280
<v Speaker 1>him to have his own separate room, his man cave, right.

0:31:14.960 --> 0:31:18.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't want no bad I don't want no bead

0:31:18.120 --> 0:31:20.000
<v Speaker 1>in there. I want him to be uncomfortable when he

0:31:20.000 --> 0:31:27.040
<v Speaker 1>has to sleep there. Nigga keeping table nigger so he

0:31:27.080 --> 0:31:31.800
<v Speaker 1>can think about his choices. I don't know. I don't know.

0:31:32.160 --> 0:31:34.360
<v Speaker 1>I think I need my own I definitely need my

0:31:34.400 --> 0:31:36.520
<v Speaker 1>own bathroom. So even if it's like I said, if

0:31:36.520 --> 0:31:40.400
<v Speaker 1>it's not a separate bedroom, I need my own bathroom. Okay,

0:31:40.400 --> 0:31:43.640
<v Speaker 1>because men can get kind of sketchy. I've actually had

0:31:43.680 --> 0:31:47.120
<v Speaker 1>some pretty cleaning, but man, some niggas can get kind

0:31:47.120 --> 0:31:53.360
<v Speaker 1>of sketchy with the bathroom up keep, and I an't

0:31:53.360 --> 0:31:55.160
<v Speaker 1>got on time to be yelling at no grown ass

0:31:55.160 --> 0:32:01.760
<v Speaker 1>man like nigga. If you don't if you don't right,

0:32:01.760 --> 0:32:05.600
<v Speaker 1>clean up after yourself. Because I'm not your mama. I'm

0:32:05.600 --> 0:32:09.760
<v Speaker 1>not gonna be your mama. I will be your mom.

0:32:09.880 --> 0:32:13.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I like. I like that. I like baby,

0:32:13.080 --> 0:32:16.880
<v Speaker 1>and my niggas like, come here, lay on my titty

0:32:16.960 --> 0:32:18.720
<v Speaker 1>and let me hold you and dirt you you and

0:32:18.800 --> 0:32:22.920
<v Speaker 1>love you like a like a child. Girl. No, these

0:32:22.920 --> 0:32:24.960
<v Speaker 1>are grown asth man and that's the problem right there.

0:32:25.720 --> 0:32:31.040
<v Speaker 1>Baby don't need that and are coddled way more than women.

0:32:31.400 --> 0:32:34.560
<v Speaker 1>Nobody caddles black women in that way. Black men have

0:32:34.640 --> 0:32:40.640
<v Speaker 1>been are always being coddled. You don't need a coddle her, nigga,

0:32:40.720 --> 0:32:43.320
<v Speaker 1>come in and turn into a whole baby for me.

0:32:44.600 --> 0:32:48.080
<v Speaker 1>Come and lay your mama lab So what's the most

0:32:48.160 --> 0:32:53.240
<v Speaker 1>terrifying thing to you about being single? What are you

0:32:53.320 --> 0:32:55.680
<v Speaker 1>most Because we can go through all the benefits, but

0:32:55.760 --> 0:33:00.960
<v Speaker 1>let's look what are we afraid of being single? I'm afraid.

0:33:01.800 --> 0:33:06.920
<v Speaker 1>My biggest fear of being single is I just feel

0:33:06.960 --> 0:33:09.640
<v Speaker 1>like it would be such a travesty to never have

0:33:11.160 --> 0:33:14.080
<v Speaker 1>life beyond my own, to never I'm so amazing. I

0:33:14.120 --> 0:33:17.400
<v Speaker 1>need to recreate myself. That's how I feel like I

0:33:17.480 --> 0:33:21.200
<v Speaker 1>need something. I need another me out here living and thriving.

0:33:22.280 --> 0:33:24.640
<v Speaker 1>That would that's one of my that's my greatest fear.

0:33:24.760 --> 0:33:29.120
<v Speaker 1>And then also, like I said, I have MS, and

0:33:29.560 --> 0:33:32.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna need somebody to take care of me when

0:33:32.160 --> 0:33:35.040
<v Speaker 1>ship gets rough and I ain't got nobody. You know,

0:33:35.720 --> 0:33:37.880
<v Speaker 1>that should gonna be real, real one day. But if

0:33:37.920 --> 0:33:40.480
<v Speaker 1>you keep focusing on the money, you can always have

0:33:40.520 --> 0:33:42.400
<v Speaker 1>a nurse or somebody. You could pay for somebody to

0:33:42.440 --> 0:33:44.280
<v Speaker 1>be that. Men think that the things, the things that

0:33:44.320 --> 0:33:48.560
<v Speaker 1>women do are replaceable. They can I can pay somebody

0:33:48.560 --> 0:33:50.280
<v Speaker 1>to cook, I could pay somebody to clean up. I

0:33:50.280 --> 0:33:51.960
<v Speaker 1>could pay somebody to do all these things. I could

0:33:52.000 --> 0:33:55.880
<v Speaker 1>pay somebody to fuck. But for women is like we

0:33:55.920 --> 0:33:59.320
<v Speaker 1>don't see things like that. But you can't outsource all

0:33:59.320 --> 0:34:02.120
<v Speaker 1>those things. And yeah, and and that would probably be

0:34:02.200 --> 0:34:05.440
<v Speaker 1>the second option. But it's different when you're paying somebody

0:34:05.480 --> 0:34:08.400
<v Speaker 1>and somebody's doing it out of love. You know that

0:34:08.480 --> 0:34:10.560
<v Speaker 1>love can turn into resentment. They gotta take care of

0:34:10.560 --> 0:34:14.719
<v Speaker 1>you too long. Yeah, that's very true. I want me

0:34:14.760 --> 0:34:16.960
<v Speaker 1>a note Can I just get Ryan Gosselin to come

0:34:16.960 --> 0:34:20.960
<v Speaker 1>over here and be like, what do you want? Like

0:34:21.000 --> 0:34:24.880
<v Speaker 1>the notebook? I want to notebook kind of love? I

0:34:24.880 --> 0:34:28.320
<v Speaker 1>don't know child. I don't know what is your greatest

0:34:28.400 --> 0:34:31.680
<v Speaker 1>fear of being uh by yourself? Okay, so I do

0:34:31.760 --> 0:34:35.920
<v Speaker 1>want to have a kid, at least one. And maybe

0:34:35.960 --> 0:34:39.200
<v Speaker 1>this is even selfish when I get old, like I

0:34:39.239 --> 0:34:43.399
<v Speaker 1>don't want to be an old ass lady seventy with

0:34:43.480 --> 0:34:46.719
<v Speaker 1>no offspring, nobody to help you out a little bit,

0:34:47.800 --> 0:34:49.080
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. But that that's the same

0:34:49.120 --> 0:34:52.759
<v Speaker 1>thing I said, just a different person. Yeah, exactly. Look,

0:34:52.840 --> 0:34:56.640
<v Speaker 1>so either man or a kid, I need one of them.

0:34:56.680 --> 0:34:58.560
<v Speaker 1>But then I don't want the kid without the man,

0:34:59.120 --> 0:35:00.720
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. So I want a family

0:35:00.760 --> 0:35:03.520
<v Speaker 1>more than I just want a kid, right, So I

0:35:03.560 --> 0:35:06.360
<v Speaker 1>would like to have a child and the man, and

0:35:06.400 --> 0:35:08.319
<v Speaker 1>then the child would have to take care of both

0:35:08.320 --> 0:35:12.960
<v Speaker 1>of us or at least like facilitate the caregiving, like

0:35:13.120 --> 0:35:15.560
<v Speaker 1>find the people to do it when you get old,

0:35:15.960 --> 0:35:19.120
<v Speaker 1>like I guess maybe I'm thinking about remember I had

0:35:19.160 --> 0:35:20.399
<v Speaker 1>the old lady to live with me, and I'm thinking

0:35:20.400 --> 0:35:22.560
<v Speaker 1>about all the things that I had to do for

0:35:22.600 --> 0:35:25.560
<v Speaker 1>her that she just can't do because times change, Like

0:35:25.640 --> 0:35:28.520
<v Speaker 1>everything is gonna internet. You can't expect this eighty something,

0:35:28.560 --> 0:35:30.360
<v Speaker 1>you old lady to be able to use the internet

0:35:30.400 --> 0:35:32.920
<v Speaker 1>in that way, she could barely use your cell phone.

0:35:33.360 --> 0:35:35.879
<v Speaker 1>So just somebody there to help me with those type

0:35:35.880 --> 0:35:38.960
<v Speaker 1>of things. Being young and getting sick and needed somebody

0:35:38.960 --> 0:35:41.480
<v Speaker 1>take care of you, you got access to more people.

0:35:41.640 --> 0:35:43.759
<v Speaker 1>But when you get old like that and your your

0:35:44.000 --> 0:35:46.759
<v Speaker 1>your mom is gone, your daddy gone, your siblings might

0:35:46.760 --> 0:35:52.080
<v Speaker 1>be gone, friends gone, like, you need a younger person,

0:35:53.080 --> 0:35:55.840
<v Speaker 1>right because even now, even your doctor appointments, you have

0:35:55.920 --> 0:35:58.920
<v Speaker 1>to confirm on the APPY. Yeah, so it's trying to

0:35:58.960 --> 0:36:01.200
<v Speaker 1>check my chart to see what your results are. Like,

0:36:01.800 --> 0:36:04.279
<v Speaker 1>it's not set up for old people to be able

0:36:04.320 --> 0:36:07.640
<v Speaker 1>to do by them exactly. So it's really real that

0:36:07.719 --> 0:36:11.640
<v Speaker 1>you are a baby twice so I feel like, um,

0:36:11.680 --> 0:36:13.920
<v Speaker 1>that's when I would be more concerned about it. And

0:36:14.640 --> 0:36:17.080
<v Speaker 1>that's why the relationship I would need would need to

0:36:17.080 --> 0:36:20.920
<v Speaker 1>be facilitated now. So it's either the relationship but a

0:36:21.040 --> 0:36:25.400
<v Speaker 1>husband or your child for when you get seventy eighty,

0:36:25.480 --> 0:36:27.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be around time like nine, so I'm gonna

0:36:27.920 --> 0:36:37.719
<v Speaker 1>need somebody. You're gonna need somebody around. So that's Micaelthern.

0:36:38.560 --> 0:36:44.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't know, man, I don't want um.

0:36:44.760 --> 0:36:46.920
<v Speaker 1>I just hate when people would be like, oh, y'all

0:36:47.160 --> 0:36:49.200
<v Speaker 1>y'all been just gonna die with your dogs. You're gonna

0:36:49.200 --> 0:36:52.720
<v Speaker 1>die with your cats, You're gonna die alone. No woman

0:36:52.880 --> 0:36:56.520
<v Speaker 1>has to die alone because there is somebody out here, somebody.

0:36:56.800 --> 0:36:58.799
<v Speaker 1>You could pick somebody and have a baby with him.

0:37:00.000 --> 0:37:02.400
<v Speaker 1>You could pick somebody and get married. Like I'm pretty

0:37:02.400 --> 0:37:04.640
<v Speaker 1>sure every woman has at least one nigga that's willing

0:37:04.640 --> 0:37:08.040
<v Speaker 1>to married him right now. You know, he may not

0:37:08.120 --> 0:37:09.800
<v Speaker 1>look the best, he may not smell the best, But

0:37:09.840 --> 0:37:15.640
<v Speaker 1>there's somebody, you know what I'm saying. There is somebody

0:37:16.080 --> 0:37:19.239
<v Speaker 1>for everybody. But I don't nobody want to fund with

0:37:19.280 --> 0:37:23.160
<v Speaker 1>stinky Joey. But she she might be a stinky Jane

0:37:23.320 --> 0:37:26.280
<v Speaker 1>and they go together. Why are you stinky trying to

0:37:26.320 --> 0:37:30.360
<v Speaker 1>be with somebody who's not first get you a stinky nigga.

0:37:30.400 --> 0:37:36.799
<v Speaker 1>But even you think it's all about balance. You make

0:37:36.840 --> 0:37:44.600
<v Speaker 1>me smell better. Yeah, So it's somebody for everybody. You

0:37:44.680 --> 0:37:47.319
<v Speaker 1>just gotta find that person. I could be married right

0:37:47.360 --> 0:37:50.879
<v Speaker 1>now if I wanted to be, I couldn't. But I

0:37:50.920 --> 0:37:53.160
<v Speaker 1>think a lot of more, a lot more people, especially

0:37:53.200 --> 0:37:56.799
<v Speaker 1>our generation, we're putting like happiness over everything. We say

0:37:56.840 --> 0:37:59.280
<v Speaker 1>that it's not the other person responsibility to make you happy.

0:37:59.360 --> 0:38:01.480
<v Speaker 1>But if somebody can make you sad, they can definitely

0:38:01.520 --> 0:38:05.000
<v Speaker 1>make you happy. So no, yes, it is my job

0:38:05.200 --> 0:38:08.959
<v Speaker 1>to to to make myself happy. But yeah, I feel

0:38:09.000 --> 0:38:12.279
<v Speaker 1>like you can contribute to other people's happiness. I would

0:38:12.320 --> 0:38:16.400
<v Speaker 1>not want to be in a relationship. It's more terrifying

0:38:16.480 --> 0:38:19.480
<v Speaker 1>to me to be in the wrong relationship than to

0:38:19.520 --> 0:38:27.279
<v Speaker 1>be by myself. The piece you get from being the

0:38:27.440 --> 0:38:30.920
<v Speaker 1>step number. But see that's w Yeah, take care of yourself.

0:38:31.080 --> 0:38:33.279
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. What I find in relationships

0:38:33.360 --> 0:38:35.799
<v Speaker 1>is that even if you could be somebody who goes

0:38:35.840 --> 0:38:37.719
<v Speaker 1>to the gym all the time, it's like all that

0:38:37.760 --> 0:38:39.799
<v Speaker 1>should go out the window when you get into relationship.

0:38:40.160 --> 0:38:42.960
<v Speaker 1>You're no longer focusing on your personal goals. You're not

0:38:43.280 --> 0:38:47.040
<v Speaker 1>focusing on your personal health. It's like you always having

0:38:47.080 --> 0:38:50.600
<v Speaker 1>to take somebody else ship into consideration every day your life.

0:38:51.080 --> 0:38:53.320
<v Speaker 1>Like if I want to go on like a fucking

0:38:53.440 --> 0:38:55.480
<v Speaker 1>vegan diet for the rest of this year, if I

0:38:55.480 --> 0:39:00.680
<v Speaker 1>got a whole family I'm responsible for, I can't because

0:39:00.719 --> 0:39:02.840
<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be even hard. Like I'm preparing food for

0:39:02.880 --> 0:39:04.799
<v Speaker 1>them to eat that I'm not and I can't eat.

0:39:06.160 --> 0:39:09.240
<v Speaker 1>They could just be vegans too, in a perfect world,

0:39:09.680 --> 0:39:12.040
<v Speaker 1>that's what you know, because the mama is responsible for

0:39:12.080 --> 0:39:14.360
<v Speaker 1>the nutrition of the family. So in a perfect world,

0:39:14.400 --> 0:39:17.560
<v Speaker 1>that's how it would be. But it don't always be

0:39:17.719 --> 0:39:21.080
<v Speaker 1>like that. So now it's just hard to focus on

0:39:21.120 --> 0:39:24.120
<v Speaker 1>your personal goals when you're in a relationship. It just

0:39:24.280 --> 0:39:26.680
<v Speaker 1>is because this other person needs some of your time.

0:39:27.360 --> 0:39:32.280
<v Speaker 1>The relationship requires time, requires all of these things outside

0:39:32.280 --> 0:39:35.520
<v Speaker 1>of you. I found a list of ten reasons why

0:39:35.680 --> 0:39:39.080
<v Speaker 1>it's great living alone in your forties and fifties, just

0:39:39.160 --> 0:39:42.960
<v Speaker 1>for anybody who's feeling sad about getting older. I e

0:39:43.080 --> 0:39:48.279
<v Speaker 1>me all right here, here's here's the list. One You'll

0:39:48.320 --> 0:39:51.520
<v Speaker 1>gain an independent routine, which is great for your health.

0:39:52.000 --> 0:39:54.640
<v Speaker 1>So basically you ain't got nobody else to worry about,

0:39:54.680 --> 0:39:56.680
<v Speaker 1>so you can do exactly what you want, when you

0:39:56.719 --> 0:39:58.640
<v Speaker 1>want to, and how you want to do it. I mean,

0:39:58.719 --> 0:40:00.680
<v Speaker 1>I think that applies right now. We don't have to

0:40:00.719 --> 0:40:04.080
<v Speaker 1>wait till we're in our forties and fifties for that, right. Yeah.

0:40:05.440 --> 0:40:09.600
<v Speaker 1>Single people are healthier than they're married counterparts, That's what

0:40:09.640 --> 0:40:11.680
<v Speaker 1>I was just saying. Yeah, So, like even if you

0:40:11.719 --> 0:40:14.960
<v Speaker 1>have like a certain gym routine, like you having to

0:40:15.040 --> 0:40:18.120
<v Speaker 1>work in all of these people because I think that

0:40:18.200 --> 0:40:22.880
<v Speaker 1>people who have children and families younger in life, they're

0:40:22.920 --> 0:40:25.320
<v Speaker 1>just now getting to do those things because now the

0:40:25.400 --> 0:40:29.200
<v Speaker 1>kids are finally older, so they kind of sacrificed earlier

0:40:29.200 --> 0:40:32.520
<v Speaker 1>in life, so now they can chill see us having

0:40:32.600 --> 0:40:36.239
<v Speaker 1>kids and families later on. I don't know if it's

0:40:36.239 --> 0:40:40.480
<v Speaker 1>gonna be like what would you rather do you rather

0:40:40.520 --> 0:40:42.719
<v Speaker 1>had just funny and twenties and they're worry about the

0:40:42.719 --> 0:40:45.840
<v Speaker 1>ship with you in the thirties, or do all this

0:40:45.920 --> 0:40:48.480
<v Speaker 1>ship now and now I'm now I get to live

0:40:48.520 --> 0:40:53.520
<v Speaker 1>the rest of my life. Um, well, I guess it

0:40:53.560 --> 0:40:58.359
<v Speaker 1>ain't an option no more for me. But with me,

0:40:58.480 --> 0:41:01.319
<v Speaker 1>like the ship that my friends who had kids young

0:41:01.400 --> 0:41:03.080
<v Speaker 1>had to endure, I don't think it will have to

0:41:03.160 --> 0:41:05.560
<v Speaker 1>endure the same because we got more money now, you know,

0:41:05.640 --> 0:41:09.040
<v Speaker 1>like like I could have a nanny in this bit

0:41:09.480 --> 0:41:12.919
<v Speaker 1>changing diapers, right, And it's just like I think you

0:41:12.920 --> 0:41:16.120
<v Speaker 1>you do, and that with more options the older you get, Um,

0:41:16.200 --> 0:41:20.560
<v Speaker 1>you might enjoy your relationship better and at an older

0:41:20.600 --> 0:41:23.080
<v Speaker 1>age because you, like I said, like both parties trying

0:41:23.120 --> 0:41:24.479
<v Speaker 1>to know what they want and know what they don't.

0:41:24.480 --> 0:41:27.640
<v Speaker 1>So you find somebody that matched that fly right, and

0:41:27.640 --> 0:41:31.600
<v Speaker 1>then you have understanding of your emotional intelligence when you're

0:41:31.640 --> 0:41:36.600
<v Speaker 1>old to even raise the kids properly. Right, So I

0:41:36.640 --> 0:41:41.160
<v Speaker 1>think that more healthy relationship. To people who have kids younger,

0:41:41.320 --> 0:41:44.600
<v Speaker 1>it's like a struggle the majority of the time. Yeah,

0:41:44.600 --> 0:41:48.640
<v Speaker 1>because they're growing up with their kids, you know. Um

0:41:48.760 --> 0:41:53.200
<v Speaker 1>number three, you can develop your own hobbies and interests. Yeah,

0:41:53.280 --> 0:41:55.520
<v Speaker 1>but you want to do those things with somebody else, right,

0:41:56.120 --> 0:41:57.799
<v Speaker 1>I like to be alone, but I like to be

0:41:57.840 --> 0:41:59.759
<v Speaker 1>alone with somebody else, Like I like to do all

0:41:59.800 --> 0:42:02.000
<v Speaker 1>this that I like to do, but with one other

0:42:02.000 --> 0:42:05.480
<v Speaker 1>person at least. Well, you can't be alone with somebody

0:42:05.480 --> 0:42:14.280
<v Speaker 1>else because then you're no longer at all. Exactly. Single

0:42:14.360 --> 0:42:20.799
<v Speaker 1>people often enjoy better friendships. Mm hmm. I mean, do

0:42:20.880 --> 0:42:30.719
<v Speaker 1>you have a choice? You know? Is like exactly. Let's see,

0:42:30.760 --> 0:42:33.560
<v Speaker 1>what does it say? Living alone, by no means has

0:42:33.600 --> 0:42:37.040
<v Speaker 1>to mean you're lonely. In fact, often exiting a relationship

0:42:37.160 --> 0:42:39.879
<v Speaker 1>enables friendships to really blossom. All right, so it says

0:42:39.960 --> 0:42:42.160
<v Speaker 1>not now is the time to re establish links with

0:42:42.200 --> 0:42:45.360
<v Speaker 1>old friends and reach out to new ones. Living alone

0:42:45.400 --> 0:42:47.839
<v Speaker 1>means you can invite people for the weekend to visit,

0:42:47.960 --> 0:42:51.600
<v Speaker 1>stay out late. So it's just all selfish stuff, Okay,

0:42:51.800 --> 0:42:57.640
<v Speaker 1>got it. Yeah, like y'all reach it with this one.

0:42:57.880 --> 0:43:01.640
<v Speaker 1>Who else you gonna hang out exactly? Mask bitches. I

0:43:01.680 --> 0:43:04.880
<v Speaker 1>don't want that either. But I also don't want to

0:43:04.920 --> 0:43:07.160
<v Speaker 1>be in a relationship where my partner got a problem

0:43:07.200 --> 0:43:10.360
<v Speaker 1>with all my friends. So I went and pick somebody

0:43:10.360 --> 0:43:13.920
<v Speaker 1>like that either, who doesn't want you to have friends? Yeah, no,

0:43:14.000 --> 0:43:19.800
<v Speaker 1>that's not healthy. You'll have a greater sense of freedom.

0:43:19.840 --> 0:43:25.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I feel that I like to feel not

0:43:26.200 --> 0:43:29.279
<v Speaker 1>single in it. Maybe I like to be single in

0:43:29.320 --> 0:43:32.920
<v Speaker 1>the relationship. Maybe you can't. I ain't gonna be single

0:43:32.920 --> 0:43:35.040
<v Speaker 1>in a relationship. It's like I don't like to feel

0:43:35.080 --> 0:43:37.000
<v Speaker 1>smothered or I don't like to feel like I got

0:43:37.160 --> 0:43:38.880
<v Speaker 1>just the same way Manfield. They don't want to have

0:43:38.880 --> 0:43:41.880
<v Speaker 1>to always answer a bunch of questions and stuff like that, Like,

0:43:42.000 --> 0:43:43.759
<v Speaker 1>just trust that I'm doing the right thing and lead

0:43:43.800 --> 0:43:46.640
<v Speaker 1>me to hell alone because I ain't stalking and stressing you.

0:43:47.080 --> 0:43:50.600
<v Speaker 1>So I do like to feel free in a relationship.

0:43:50.800 --> 0:43:53.759
<v Speaker 1>I am a commitment type person. I do want to

0:43:53.760 --> 0:43:56.959
<v Speaker 1>be in a committed relationship, but I also don't want

0:43:56.960 --> 0:44:00.839
<v Speaker 1>to feel like I'm in prison in the relationship. Mm hmm,

0:44:02.120 --> 0:44:04.960
<v Speaker 1>I get that. So I would like to maintain a

0:44:05.000 --> 0:44:09.840
<v Speaker 1>certain level of freedom while in a union. Yeah, because

0:44:09.880 --> 0:44:11.560
<v Speaker 1>the same guy that I told you all about that

0:44:11.760 --> 0:44:13.719
<v Speaker 1>was like laying in my hospital bed next to me

0:44:13.800 --> 0:44:15.520
<v Speaker 1>for two weeks straight and You're like, oh, he was

0:44:15.560 --> 0:44:17.960
<v Speaker 1>so sweet. What happened to him? He also was the

0:44:18.000 --> 0:44:21.200
<v Speaker 1>same type that would get mad if I said anything

0:44:21.280 --> 0:44:24.000
<v Speaker 1>nice about a man, not my man, just any man

0:44:24.120 --> 0:44:27.480
<v Speaker 1>I was. I could be like, oh, that's he's a

0:44:27.560 --> 0:44:29.960
<v Speaker 1>nice guy. That's a good person for your boyfriend to

0:44:29.960 --> 0:44:31.840
<v Speaker 1>be hanging out with. I had a conversation with my

0:44:31.880 --> 0:44:35.080
<v Speaker 1>friend like that, and this nigga totally blew up. Why

0:44:35.120 --> 0:44:37.800
<v Speaker 1>are you saying other nas nice? That's what I'm saying.

0:44:37.880 --> 0:44:41.320
<v Speaker 1>See and look, I uh. I was in the story

0:44:41.400 --> 0:44:43.839
<v Speaker 1>yesterday and I was on the phone my friend and

0:44:43.880 --> 0:44:45.960
<v Speaker 1>as I'm checking out, I was like, okay, thanks babe,

0:44:46.080 --> 0:44:48.680
<v Speaker 1>I said babe to the cashier, right, Like I just

0:44:49.040 --> 0:44:53.759
<v Speaker 1>I always call people baby, babe, man or women. That's

0:44:53.760 --> 0:44:55.759
<v Speaker 1>just how it just comes out. It's not like I'm

0:44:55.800 --> 0:44:59.840
<v Speaker 1>just really calling this man a baby, right, And I said,

0:45:00.000 --> 0:45:01.200
<v Speaker 1>I said, oh, let me not do that, because you

0:45:01.280 --> 0:45:02.680
<v Speaker 1>might not you might have a problem with that. He

0:45:02.760 --> 0:45:04.439
<v Speaker 1>was like, I don't care nothing about that, said Okay,

0:45:04.480 --> 0:45:07.400
<v Speaker 1>that's my my previous trauma. Then could be because in

0:45:07.440 --> 0:45:11.560
<v Speaker 1>my last relationship, I had gotten in multiple arguments because

0:45:11.560 --> 0:45:15.560
<v Speaker 1>I said baby to somebody like not like. I don't

0:45:15.600 --> 0:45:18.279
<v Speaker 1>like that either though. Yeah, but see I think I

0:45:18.320 --> 0:45:21.920
<v Speaker 1>get that from my mom. She called everybody baby babe.

0:45:22.000 --> 0:45:26.000
<v Speaker 1>That's just it's just in my vocabulary. I don't mean

0:45:26.040 --> 0:45:28.880
<v Speaker 1>this person as my baby, like I would say to

0:45:28.960 --> 0:45:35.359
<v Speaker 1>my significant other. So for mane, but those are things

0:45:35.400 --> 0:45:38.200
<v Speaker 1>that you have baby. I don't like when we like

0:45:38.400 --> 0:45:40.839
<v Speaker 1>a server, I don't want you calling her baby. See

0:45:40.880 --> 0:45:43.160
<v Speaker 1>that's the thing that a man can't do that. It's

0:45:43.200 --> 0:45:46.880
<v Speaker 1>just a double standard thing. It's like a older person

0:45:46.920 --> 0:45:49.279
<v Speaker 1>talking to a younger person type thing, because that's usually

0:45:49.320 --> 0:45:51.040
<v Speaker 1>when I would saying that. If it's like a younger person,

0:45:51.960 --> 0:46:00.320
<v Speaker 1>they just this, it's a kid, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

0:46:00.320 --> 0:46:02.320
<v Speaker 1>But you know, in relationships, you don't know something's a

0:46:02.360 --> 0:46:05.600
<v Speaker 1>problem until it's a problem. That's just it. So I

0:46:05.600 --> 0:46:07.600
<v Speaker 1>didn't know it was a problem, and so it was

0:46:07.600 --> 0:46:11.279
<v Speaker 1>a problem. I don't like. I don't I don't want

0:46:11.320 --> 0:46:14.040
<v Speaker 1>you giving other women pet names. But you can say

0:46:14.040 --> 0:46:16.680
<v Speaker 1>somebody's a nice person and that not be a problem.

0:46:16.719 --> 0:46:19.080
<v Speaker 1>I won't be like, why you called that a bitch? Nice?

0:46:19.560 --> 0:46:25.160
<v Speaker 1>You know that is crazy? That's crazy, right, Like you

0:46:25.160 --> 0:46:29.160
<v Speaker 1>want to suck his dick, don't you? Right? What men,

0:46:29.280 --> 0:46:32.160
<v Speaker 1>that's why mind go directly to you sucking somebody dick.

0:46:32.200 --> 0:46:35.880
<v Speaker 1>They just obsessed with that because I said somebody was nice. Alright.

0:46:36.000 --> 0:46:40.520
<v Speaker 1>Number seven, It will help you be more creative. I

0:46:40.560 --> 0:46:43.560
<v Speaker 1>guess solitude, Yeah, go ahead, I guess you got time

0:46:43.600 --> 0:46:48.640
<v Speaker 1>to sit down and do things that you want to do. Um. Yeah,

0:46:48.640 --> 0:46:52.040
<v Speaker 1>I can see that. Mm hmmm. Says solitude enables you

0:46:52.080 --> 0:46:56.520
<v Speaker 1>to think deeply, and it's crucial for introspective, creative thoughts

0:46:56.560 --> 0:47:00.680
<v Speaker 1>to come into fruition. Being alone is often a prequisite

0:47:00.760 --> 0:47:05.560
<v Speaker 1>for those sparky ideas you might otherwise never have had. Yeah.

0:47:05.640 --> 0:47:07.480
<v Speaker 1>I was talking to a friend this weekend and he

0:47:07.640 --> 0:47:11.480
<v Speaker 1>and I, uh, he went to a wedding in Baltimore

0:47:12.200 --> 0:47:16.480
<v Speaker 1>and his friend, the girl that he's dating. Basically she

0:47:16.600 --> 0:47:19.400
<v Speaker 1>went like on a little trip by herself, and I

0:47:19.440 --> 0:47:21.280
<v Speaker 1>was like, she ain't by herself. She got some nigger

0:47:21.360 --> 0:47:24.000
<v Speaker 1>with her, like sucking with him. But he was like, yeah,

0:47:24.040 --> 0:47:26.279
<v Speaker 1>she you know. He basically was trying to say, you know,

0:47:26.320 --> 0:47:27.920
<v Speaker 1>it's the ship that you would do, like go out

0:47:28.000 --> 0:47:30.239
<v Speaker 1>be by yourself to talk to the trees and ship

0:47:30.320 --> 0:47:32.279
<v Speaker 1>like that. She was like, that's what she's doing. So

0:47:32.320 --> 0:47:34.680
<v Speaker 1>he's okay with her, like traveling, going on a low

0:47:34.760 --> 0:47:39.080
<v Speaker 1>trip alone to get her mind right. M hm. Most

0:47:39.120 --> 0:47:42.160
<v Speaker 1>men won't won't be okay with that, not in a

0:47:42.200 --> 0:47:46.839
<v Speaker 1>real relationship, Like where are you going? Right? I don't

0:47:46.880 --> 0:47:50.080
<v Speaker 1>even sound right in the room in the room. They

0:47:50.080 --> 0:47:54.640
<v Speaker 1>don't live together, nothing like that, they're just you know, yeah,

0:47:54.760 --> 0:47:58.120
<v Speaker 1>So I don't know. That might not be something you

0:47:58.120 --> 0:47:59.839
<v Speaker 1>could do while you in a relationship with a man,

0:48:00.120 --> 0:48:03.160
<v Speaker 1>go on vacation by yourself, going a long weekend get

0:48:03.200 --> 0:48:08.160
<v Speaker 1>away by yourself. Now you I've seen uh men and

0:48:08.440 --> 0:48:11.080
<v Speaker 1>like married couples with children and they all live in

0:48:11.080 --> 0:48:13.319
<v Speaker 1>the house. Let their wife go on a staycation to

0:48:13.400 --> 0:48:16.160
<v Speaker 1>a hotel down the street, you know, like you go

0:48:16.280 --> 0:48:21.440
<v Speaker 1>there and relax, drink some champagne, just enjoy your solitude

0:48:21.680 --> 0:48:26.200
<v Speaker 1>away from us. I've seen that. But you're getting on

0:48:26.239 --> 0:48:30.719
<v Speaker 1>a plane to go somewhere and sit by yourself. Sit

0:48:30.800 --> 0:48:36.480
<v Speaker 1>your ass down, all right. The next one says, you

0:48:36.600 --> 0:48:40.480
<v Speaker 1>actually might be less lonely. It might sound odd, but

0:48:40.560 --> 0:48:43.799
<v Speaker 1>single people could actually turn out to be far less

0:48:43.840 --> 0:48:47.319
<v Speaker 1>lonely than those in relationships. This is because, as a

0:48:47.360 --> 0:48:50.759
<v Speaker 1>general rule, singles tend to have a wider social have

0:48:50.920 --> 0:48:54.759
<v Speaker 1>wider social circles in support systems, as opposed to those

0:48:54.800 --> 0:48:57.600
<v Speaker 1>in relationships, who often only have one person they feel

0:48:57.640 --> 0:49:03.120
<v Speaker 1>they can confide and rely on. Wow, that's true. And look,

0:49:03.280 --> 0:49:07.480
<v Speaker 1>that's something I think about, like imagine, and I think

0:49:07.520 --> 0:49:11.399
<v Speaker 1>a lot of relationships fail because it is you can't

0:49:11.400 --> 0:49:15.120
<v Speaker 1>expect your significant other to be your all. You know

0:49:15.120 --> 0:49:17.399
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. They can't be your best friend for real,

0:49:18.000 --> 0:49:20.640
<v Speaker 1>like how you're real bed like as a woman, right,

0:49:20.960 --> 0:49:23.520
<v Speaker 1>your man can't be your best friend. How your actual

0:49:23.680 --> 0:49:26.400
<v Speaker 1>female friend is your best friend? He can't be that

0:49:26.560 --> 0:49:29.719
<v Speaker 1>for you. So I believe that even in relationships, you

0:49:29.840 --> 0:49:33.520
<v Speaker 1>gotta have that that that thing outside of your relationship.

0:49:34.400 --> 0:49:36.560
<v Speaker 1>You have to think it's important to him at least

0:49:37.200 --> 0:49:39.960
<v Speaker 1>one person that is not in your relationship that you

0:49:40.000 --> 0:49:43.839
<v Speaker 1>can confide in. Yes, and that's for a man I want. Yeah, yeah, Yeah,

0:49:43.840 --> 0:49:45.880
<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm saying, because I mean, sometimes when you're

0:49:45.880 --> 0:49:48.200
<v Speaker 1>having a problem, how do I talk to the problem

0:49:48.200 --> 0:49:52.200
<v Speaker 1>about the problem. Well, you can't, you can't. Look, I

0:49:52.239 --> 0:49:55.879
<v Speaker 1>don't it's important not to look at your person as

0:49:55.960 --> 0:49:59.160
<v Speaker 1>the problem. There's an issue within the relationship, and y'all

0:49:59.160 --> 0:50:01.319
<v Speaker 1>need to detect that a problem together. What if he

0:50:01.440 --> 0:50:04.319
<v Speaker 1>keeps shipping on the toilet, that is his problem, That

0:50:04.440 --> 0:50:08.520
<v Speaker 1>is a problem he's creating. Why the problem is the

0:50:08.600 --> 0:50:12.760
<v Speaker 1>ship and the ship came out of him. That's his ship.

0:50:14.040 --> 0:50:19.040
<v Speaker 1>That's y'all ship. No nigger is no what he ain't

0:50:19.120 --> 0:50:22.000
<v Speaker 1>did not make me ship? Okay, so that my ship.

0:50:22.880 --> 0:50:27.480
<v Speaker 1>But if you sat down on that toilet, oh my god, girl,

0:50:28.320 --> 0:50:32.560
<v Speaker 1>that's the problem. The problem is not the man. But

0:50:32.600 --> 0:50:36.520
<v Speaker 1>first of all, while some new people coming up with

0:50:36.920 --> 0:50:41.080
<v Speaker 1>we're going to attack the problem, not each other. Motherfucker's

0:50:41.120 --> 0:50:44.560
<v Speaker 1>be the people making the problem. What are we talking about,

0:50:44.880 --> 0:50:49.400
<v Speaker 1>y'all delusion? It sounds good, It sounds good. Okay, we

0:50:49.520 --> 0:50:52.640
<v Speaker 1>two We got here is the problems. Attack the problem

0:50:52.680 --> 0:50:54.920
<v Speaker 1>and not each other. But how does that even work

0:50:54.960 --> 0:50:57.279
<v Speaker 1>when it's somebody causing the problem. Do you see what

0:50:57.320 --> 0:51:01.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying? Yeah, but he's causing the problem. Let's work

0:51:01.400 --> 0:51:03.600
<v Speaker 1>on this problem together. But what if the problem is

0:51:03.680 --> 0:51:10.040
<v Speaker 1>him cheating? When he's making that conscious decision to cheat,

0:51:11.600 --> 0:51:13.600
<v Speaker 1>So we have to realize, find out if we are

0:51:14.080 --> 0:51:15.680
<v Speaker 1>in it together and you want to stay with this

0:51:15.760 --> 0:51:18.120
<v Speaker 1>nigga knowing that he cheats, then you're gonna have to

0:51:18.160 --> 0:51:21.399
<v Speaker 1>find a way to find out why he's cheating and

0:51:21.680 --> 0:51:24.200
<v Speaker 1>does he want to be in and then he wants

0:51:24.200 --> 0:51:26.600
<v Speaker 1>to be in this relationship knowing that something that you

0:51:26.680 --> 0:51:34.160
<v Speaker 1>don't want. That's the problem. This is a Western civilization,

0:51:36.320 --> 0:51:41.440
<v Speaker 1>that problem whatever. And number ten the last one. You'll

0:51:41.480 --> 0:51:44.640
<v Speaker 1>sleep more soundly now, I agree with that one. Just

0:51:44.680 --> 0:51:46.880
<v Speaker 1>get a king's eyes bad. I don't see how people

0:51:47.120 --> 0:51:49.640
<v Speaker 1>are married and they have a queen's size bad in

0:51:49.680 --> 0:51:54.960
<v Speaker 1>their house. How that's too close because I like to

0:51:55.000 --> 0:51:56.799
<v Speaker 1>cuddle and ship like that. But we already know when

0:51:56.840 --> 0:51:58.239
<v Speaker 1>you get kind of hot in the middle of night,

0:51:58.320 --> 0:52:01.040
<v Speaker 1>get the funk off me. I don't like falling to

0:52:01.080 --> 0:52:04.719
<v Speaker 1>sleep on nobody, like my last nick of the same

0:52:04.719 --> 0:52:08.279
<v Speaker 1>one I was talking about the whole episode. He um,

0:52:08.320 --> 0:52:12.040
<v Speaker 1>that's my only point of reference, right. Um. He would

0:52:12.040 --> 0:52:14.520
<v Speaker 1>like me to sleep on him, and like he would

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<v Speaker 1>fall asleep, and when I would move, even though he

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<v Speaker 1>would sleep, his arm would get tight when I try

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<v Speaker 1>to move. Hell, that nigga was fucking demon. He didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want you. I could not move if you awake. He

0:52:28.160 --> 0:52:34.000
<v Speaker 1>couldn't be awake. I could not move. What the hell?

0:52:34.719 --> 0:52:37.440
<v Speaker 1>In his sleep he would snatch his arm would go

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<v Speaker 1>tight like a fist, would go tight around me. Like

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<v Speaker 1>how then m hmm. He was like subconsciously and consciously insecure.

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<v Speaker 1>But I snore, so I don't know even know if

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<v Speaker 1>you want me up under you like that when I sleep,

0:52:57.960 --> 0:53:00.279
<v Speaker 1>you ain't gonna get no rest. That he's freight train

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<v Speaker 1>next to you. See now, I wouldn't sleep with you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be with a man who's snore

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<v Speaker 1>too loud because every night I'm gonna be rushing trying

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<v Speaker 1>to go to sleep. For you, I go to your

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<v Speaker 1>own room. Since you got one, I had one, Nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, before we were to lay down, he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you like astronauts. I was like what, He's like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>about to show you. And he put that motherfucking space

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<v Speaker 1>helmet on so he could breathe that night looking like

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<v Speaker 1>a motherfucking astronaut. Bit that's so stupid. Do something. Don't

0:53:42.600 --> 0:53:44.640
<v Speaker 1>get up in here. It sounding like dark Vader because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to home. If I have that option, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna get into a long term relationship with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>who snore is crazy. One thing about me is I'm

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<v Speaker 1>asleep and you're not about. Yes, I have to sleep well, man,

0:54:00.719 --> 0:54:02.520
<v Speaker 1>if I don't my days to be fucked up. Ship.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I'm dragging right now today. Shoot, I got

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<v Speaker 1>dunk because of my story. And really it wasn't like

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<v Speaker 1>that yet. We were just starting to finally like spending

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<v Speaker 1>night with each other. And I just remember waking myself

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<v Speaker 1>up with the sound of my story and I woke

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<v Speaker 1>up and I looked at him and he was just

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<v Speaker 1>staring at me, like I really want you to go

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<v Speaker 1>the funk home. That's how he looked at he was looking.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm so sorry, but I was only

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<v Speaker 1>snoring because his pillows was the size of a thing

0:54:30.640 --> 0:54:32.440
<v Speaker 1>as a piece of paper. Like where you get these

0:54:32.440 --> 0:54:39.080
<v Speaker 1>thin ass, fucking raggedy ass pillows. Man, You don't have

0:54:39.239 --> 0:54:42.279
<v Speaker 1>no like y'all asleep on a goddamn piece of ply

0:54:42.480 --> 0:54:46.560
<v Speaker 1>board cardboard box? Yes, what is that with? You're betting

0:54:47.920 --> 0:54:50.440
<v Speaker 1>I had. I had to fold that pillow four times

0:54:50.520 --> 0:54:54.120
<v Speaker 1>to just have a little piece of height on it, girl, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>and I literally buy your ship for your house so

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<v Speaker 1>I can be comfortable when I get there, like, why

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<v Speaker 1>you got these old ass pillows, nigger, get you some

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<v Speaker 1>new pillows, please, sir. Well. In conclusion, look y'all, it's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>If you do find yourself by yourself in your forties

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<v Speaker 1>and fifties, there are ways to be fulfilled and not

0:55:20.280 --> 0:55:22.960
<v Speaker 1>be sad about it. And I hope this list helps

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<v Speaker 1>any of our listeners who feel lonely or feel alone. Like, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay, you got friends, and if you don't have

0:55:31.440 --> 0:55:33.479
<v Speaker 1>friends out there, you have friends that we talked back.

0:55:34.440 --> 0:55:41.319
<v Speaker 1>Oh girl, ain't nothing like that dead girl. Period up,

0:55:41.520 --> 0:55:47.120
<v Speaker 1>period up. Don't be doing that ship and not recording.

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<v Speaker 1>We ain't giving that bitch no motherfucking notoriety over here.

0:55:50.520 --> 0:55:55.640
<v Speaker 1>As we talk back, I was just agreeing with your

0:55:55.680 --> 0:56:01.160
<v Speaker 1>dick comments that don't say just say I agree, just

0:56:01.239 --> 0:56:05.200
<v Speaker 1>say I agree, girl. But again, I'm not afraid to

0:56:05.200 --> 0:56:07.160
<v Speaker 1>be alone and ship. If this is if this is

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<v Speaker 1>how my life's supposed to be there, so fucking being okay.

0:56:10.120 --> 0:56:14.400
<v Speaker 1>I have I enjoy the company of men for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>If I get married today and tomorrow, that would be great.

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<v Speaker 1>If I don't, I'm not gonna die because of it. Obviously,

0:56:20.640 --> 0:56:24.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna live longer. So hey, we'll see I'm gonna

0:56:24.320 --> 0:56:27.239
<v Speaker 1>be one of them fine as because listen, honey, the

0:56:27.280 --> 0:56:30.000
<v Speaker 1>sixty year olds that's on Instagram, dumb bitch is fine.

0:56:31.080 --> 0:56:33.480
<v Speaker 1>The fifty and sixty year olds, like they've been spending

0:56:33.480 --> 0:56:37.680
<v Speaker 1>the last decade building a six pack. They could have

0:56:37.760 --> 0:56:40.320
<v Speaker 1>any one of these young niggas if they wanted them.

0:56:40.840 --> 0:56:44.880
<v Speaker 1>They can definitely, like they got options. You always have options,

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<v Speaker 1>Let's be clear. But I don't know. I ain't gonna

0:56:48.840 --> 0:56:54.520
<v Speaker 1>be alone, all right, y'all. Hit him with that hit

0:56:54.560 --> 0:56:57.760
<v Speaker 1>him with that thing. You hit them with that thing. Listen.

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<v Speaker 1>If you guys enjoyed this episode, please tune in every

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<v Speaker 1>aj Holiday two point oh look to you to stop

0:57:10.000 --> 0:57:14.680
<v Speaker 1>me from saying, girl, fuck you. Follow me. I don't

0:57:14.719 --> 0:57:18.680
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<v Speaker 1>it's official Team BAM. I love y'all. Thanks for tuning in, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember to speak now and never hold your peace. Peace.

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<v Speaker 1>Bye