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Speaker 1: Talk. We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion

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Speaker 1: who talks back. I'm so tired of being out. I'm

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Speaker 1: so tired. Won't you help me kirt just this so

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Speaker 1: that your kid. Sorry, y'all listen, Thank you for tuning

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Speaker 1: in for a new episode that we talked back and

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Speaker 1: show dedicated to you niggas and these holes. A. It's

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Speaker 1: your co host A J. Holiday. Hey, y'all, I love

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Speaker 1: y'all once again. This week gets me tambion. I'm tired

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Speaker 1: as fuck, y'all tired, but I still love y'all and

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Speaker 1: I'm here for y'all every week. So thank you for coming, coming,

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Speaker 1: coming to Lie, coming to damn Lie. That's what I

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Speaker 1: do best. Okay, Hey girl, what's up? Y? I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to get my damn energy up to and I'm papa

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Speaker 1: little corner of an addie and they ain't working either.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what the fuck is happening. I have

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Speaker 1: to be swelling your ass up. It's almost like grits.

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Speaker 1: I need a nap, I need I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: don't know if it's because mercury is in retrograde I

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Speaker 1: don't even really know what that means, but I'm blaming

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Speaker 1: so tired, I believing that. I think it's because I

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Speaker 1: just I really be like go go go, go, go

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Speaker 1: just going, going going. I went to Florida this past

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Speaker 1: to maybe that's why I'm so tired? What part of

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Speaker 1: who do you want to the West Side? I wasn't destined? Destined,

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Speaker 1: Oh they might be an hour behind right down Mountaintown.

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Speaker 1: They are so And then you know, it was working

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Speaker 1: in things can be people crazy that time line. That's

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Speaker 1: if you cross the ocean, you have jet lag, not

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Speaker 1: just like a little small time difference like that girl

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Speaker 1: sucking retarded and I'm tired, and we'll how was the

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Speaker 1: wedding you did? It was beautiful as a beach wedding.

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Speaker 1: It was very lovely. They looked to be in so

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Speaker 1: be hectic sometimes because brides just be all over the

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Speaker 1: place and their bridesmaids, and if it's not really organized,

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Speaker 1: it can be a real stressful experience. But this wasn't

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Speaker 1: you know, I was there as the help. I wasn't.

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Speaker 1: Really there's to just go lay on the beach all day.

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Speaker 1: So did you get somebody it in? Though I did

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Speaker 1: not get that I was invited to the wedding. But

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Speaker 1: I typically when I do brides, I stay with them

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Speaker 1: I end up like I've never been in a wedding,

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Speaker 1: done a wedding where I didn't end up like a

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Speaker 1: doing that for some reason. So I was putting bitches

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Speaker 1: He's Goddamn hair companies. You gotta realize. I hate to

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Speaker 1: want to support people, clothing companies and boot boutiques the ship,

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Speaker 1: to know that I mean finesse shame. But yeah, I

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Speaker 1: we rolle her bike the scrape House. I see that ship.

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Speaker 1: But how bad you gotta be? You was out there.

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Speaker 1: I don't do nothing else. I ride my bike a lot.

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Speaker 1: We're riding through eastover South Carolina, which is the country, y'all.

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Speaker 1: red leggings, right, bright red leggings. I knew they've seen

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Speaker 1: get me, he said. He slowed down, he said, just

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Speaker 1: They were coming viciously coming towards me. I was scared

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Speaker 1: They was all dead in the woods. Damn, that's fucked up.

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Speaker 1: How fucked up. I was minding my damn business. They

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Speaker 1: going on in stupid internet news today, chack girl, A

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Speaker 1: lot of stupid ship period, period, period girl. I do

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Speaker 1: not want to hear that sound in my fucking air.

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Speaker 1: I feel like that bit is doing a magic spell

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Speaker 1: on y'all niggas. Why the fun can a white woman

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Speaker 1: blow up acting black? But if it was a black

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Speaker 1: woman doing the same ship, Oh, she gets like that

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Speaker 1: a nap, but you are shelling sharing the hell out

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Speaker 1: of that bullshit. It's she gonna work around get a

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Speaker 1: time she ran out. She can't even sing a song

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Speaker 1: because she ran out of breath for the last party.

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Speaker 1: But a video saying it while she was in the mirror,

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Speaker 1: like Chloe did a video like I don't want to

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Speaker 1: it's just retardation. At this point, what the fun is that?

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Speaker 1: Did you see that other video she had like a

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Speaker 1: wig that looked like George Washington or something. No, I

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Speaker 1: did not. I'm still yo, why do we constantly let

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Speaker 1: just need to start doing some worright. We need to

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Speaker 1: I'm cool, cool, Well I'm gonna spend it and see

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Speaker 1: which when I get after I spend. Do you think

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Speaker 1: shouting do your thing? I can't do it. I'm a

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Speaker 1: real nigga. Okay, you ain't gonna never catch me doing

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Speaker 1: no stupid ass ship for the check ever. Ever, let's

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Speaker 1: just depend on how stupid is how stupid is it?

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Speaker 1: You know? Is it gonna set our raised back? I

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Speaker 1: don't want to do that, but if you don't, if

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Speaker 1: it's just all funny games, I can. I can do it. Girl.

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Speaker 1: You see how Tory Lanes asked done uh sucker punch

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Speaker 1: August Susina or he says he got sucker punch punch.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but well that picture, if y'all saw

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Speaker 1: that picture, he looked like he got more to sucker

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Speaker 1: point that nigga looked dizzy as that picture of him.

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Speaker 1: Why would he post that picture? I do not know.

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Speaker 1: It is beyond me why he would post that picture

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Speaker 1: because I guess he's about to soothe and right, you

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Speaker 1: want to make sure everybody sees all the evidence of

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Speaker 1: what happened. Tory Lanes. You got pen and charges already

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Speaker 1: for shooting Mega stallion and your ass think this ship

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Speaker 1: is cute. I'm sure he has the syndrome. Why are

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Speaker 1: that's what it sounds like. That's what it sounds like.

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Speaker 1: What shot low was mad about? What I remember? I

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Speaker 1: remember because he shot him out. I remember that mention.

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Speaker 1: My city didn't save my name. Oh shame, short man

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Speaker 1: you know, her having that surgery may here realize like, damn,

423
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:03,240
Speaker 1: I don't have anybody to take care of me. But

424
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:05,359
Speaker 1: the thing is that may be an assumption that a

425
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 1: woman who's never been married before, that's an assumption you're

426
00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 1: making that your husband would actually even be the type

427
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:14,120
Speaker 1: of man that would take care of you, because that

428
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 1: is a woman's characteristic. You know what I'm saying there

429
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:20,440
Speaker 1: are men women who are married that if they themselves

430
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 1: get sick, they're gonna be I'm ship Creek and so

431
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:25,680
Speaker 1: with a husband because he can't take care of himself.

432
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 1: So you probably would still have to lean on your

433
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 1: mom or your sister. Even if you had a husband

434
00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:33,679
Speaker 1: at home, They're not gonna be able or equipped to

435
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:37,199
Speaker 1: take care of you how a woman would be able to.

436
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:41,400
Speaker 1: But some men are Some men are very good at nurturing.

437
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 1: They can get you the things you need, you know,

438
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:46,159
Speaker 1: like just go, You still have to give direction. Do

439
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:48,480
Speaker 1: you see what I'm saying. You'd have to be in

440
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 1: pain somewhere, laying down and still got to give him

441
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:54,639
Speaker 1: direction on what you need. That's not a girl. You

442
00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:57,200
Speaker 1: don't know though, because you ain't been in either situations yet.

443
00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 1: I'm just telling you I've seen married women. I can

444
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 1: I've had all right, so I remember, all right, So

445
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 1: you guys, I have multiple sclerosis. And when I first

446
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:12,200
Speaker 1: got diagnosed, I could not walk. I didn't even we

447
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,120
Speaker 1: didn't even know what was going on with me yet.

448
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:16,159
Speaker 1: But I was just in the hospital they admitted me,

449
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 1: and I could not walk anymore, and it was just

450
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:22,200
Speaker 1: really scary. And my boyfriend at the time. He would

451
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 1: literally get off work, go home, change his clothes, and

452
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:28,920
Speaker 1: come to that hospital and sleep in my hospital bed

453
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 1: next to me every single night for two weeks. And

454
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:33,880
Speaker 1: I know he was so tired because he would get

455
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 1: up early in the morning so he could go get

456
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,400
Speaker 1: ready for work again. And he did that every day

457
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:42,120
Speaker 1: for two weeks, and I think that was the most

458
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:44,360
Speaker 1: I ever felt loved before. And it was just like

459
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 1: that small little bit of just being there. You know,

460
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:51,200
Speaker 1: I'm sleeping in this tiny hospital bed, and this is

461
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 1: in Europe, so I don't know if you know about

462
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 1: the health care system there is free but then also

463
00:27:56,200 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 1: feil free. So it's like six of us in one room.

464
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 1: You know, it's not like I had my own bedroom.

465
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:07,200
Speaker 1: It's like six beds in this one room. And it's

466
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:10,640
Speaker 1: all kind of people like hell, you know, all kind

467
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:13,439
Speaker 1: of ship going on. It's a miserable experience. And he

468
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:15,679
Speaker 1: endured that with me, and I feel like he was

469
00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:19,560
Speaker 1: definitely the type that would be someone that would be

470
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:23,440
Speaker 1: very caring in that aspect. Now, the other ship wasn't

471
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 1: always the best, but that part he was a good

472
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 1: He would have been a good person for that you know. Yeah,

473
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:32,160
Speaker 1: so just having somebody there rather rather not they can

474
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:35,120
Speaker 1: take care of you. Yeah, that's a plus. It's definitely

475
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:37,680
Speaker 1: a plus. And then you know that intimacy, like even

476
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 1: when you being sick, that a man can give your

477
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 1: mam a camp, right, it's just you prefer for the

478
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 1: man to be there to rub your back up and

479
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 1: ship like that, even instead of your mama, even though

480
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 1: your mama gonna do it for you. I'm not afraid

481
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 1: to be alone. And I think that's one thing that um,

482
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:59,720
Speaker 1: women period need alone need to learn is how to

483
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 1: be loan. I know. I looked at some articles and

484
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 1: to me, they were more so talking about like younger people,

485
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:09,960
Speaker 1: like when you're in your twenties maybe early thirties, and

486
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 1: you know, being having time to do things for yourself,

487
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 1: having times, having time to think. You know, that's why

488
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 1: an older a younger person, when you get older, it's

489
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 1: like you kind of already know what you want. Um,

490
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 1: that may be a reason why people end up single

491
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:30,360
Speaker 1: because now you've spent so much time you you've actually

492
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 1: spent too much time to yourself that now just the

493
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 1: thought of somebody else gets stressful for you. Like the

494
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 1: thought of having to share space with somebody else that part.

495
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:46,959
Speaker 1: So I've been single since two thousand sixteen, and I

496
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 1: think if I did, like get in a serious relationship

497
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 1: and we had to like cohabitate, that would be a

498
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 1: huge adjustment for me. I need my own my own

499
00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 1: room and bathroom. I know that about me now, Like

500
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 1: I do want to I don't want to live with

501
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 1: a man in an apartment and it would have to

502
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 1: be a house. And I need my own room and bathroom.

503
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 1: If I can't have my own room, I at least

504
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:16,480
Speaker 1: need my own bathroom. Now, I do want to sleep

505
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 1: with the man every night, right, But I just want

506
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,080
Speaker 1: us to have our own separate space, you know, because

507
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 1: you just want to then go to your own room. No,

508
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 1: I want to sleep like tonight, we sleep in my

509
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:28,320
Speaker 1: of course, my room would probably be nicer than his,

510
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 1: and my bedding would probably be really plush. So of

511
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 1: course he's gonna want to sleep in my room every night, right,

512
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 1: But just to have the option to like have your

513
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 1: own space like during the day and ship like that.

514
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 1: I want to hear you now go to your room

515
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:45,280
Speaker 1: to go to his room. I'm like laying back on

516
00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 1: the bed kicking at him to get out of my room.

517
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 1: Get out of my room, and close my damn door

518
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 1: behind you. I don't think I would want I my

519
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 1: own room. I think I would obviously want a house

520
00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 1: with more rooms in it, but I think I would

521
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,440
Speaker 1: want our room to be our room and this is

522
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 1: our space, and then he can get out and go

523
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:06,760
Speaker 1: so to the man cave when I'm upset with him,

524
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 1: and that's it. So that's your room, and you want

525
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 1: him to have his own separate room, his man cave, right.

526
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 1: I don't want no bad I don't want no bead

527
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 1: in there. I want him to be uncomfortable when he

528
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: has to sleep there. Nigga keeping table nigger so he

529
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:31,800
Speaker 1: can think about his choices. I don't know. I don't know.

530
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 1: I think I need my own I definitely need my

531
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 1: own bathroom. So even if it's like I said, if

532
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:40,400
Speaker 1: it's not a separate bedroom, I need my own bathroom. Okay,

533
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 1: because men can get kind of sketchy. I've actually had

534
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 1: some pretty cleaning, but man, some niggas can get kind

535
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 1: of sketchy with the bathroom up keep, and I an't

536
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 1: got on time to be yelling at no grown ass

537
00:31:55,160 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 1: man like nigga. If you don't if you don't right,

538
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 1: clean up after yourself. Because I'm not your mama. I'm

539
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 1: not gonna be your mama. I will be your mom.

540
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 1: I don't. I like. I like that. I like baby,

541
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 1: and my niggas like, come here, lay on my titty

542
00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 1: and let me hold you and dirt you you and

543
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 1: love you like a like a child. Girl. No, these

544
00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 1: are grown asth man and that's the problem right there.

545
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 1: Baby don't need that and are coddled way more than women.

546
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:34,560
Speaker 1: Nobody caddles black women in that way. Black men have

547
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 1: been are always being coddled. You don't need a coddle her, nigga,

548
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 1: come in and turn into a whole baby for me.

549
00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 1: Come and lay your mama lab So what's the most

550
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 1: terrifying thing to you about being single? What are you

551
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 1: most Because we can go through all the benefits, but

552
00:32:55,760 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 1: let's look what are we afraid of being single? I'm afraid.

553
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 1: My biggest fear of being single is I just feel

554
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 1: like it would be such a travesty to never have

555
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 1: life beyond my own, to never I'm so amazing. I

556
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 1: need to recreate myself. That's how I feel like I

557
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 1: need something. I need another me out here living and thriving.

558
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 1: That would that's one of my that's my greatest fear.

559
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 1: And then also, like I said, I have MS, and

560
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna need somebody to take care of me when

561
00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 1: ship gets rough and I ain't got nobody. You know,

562
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 1: that should gonna be real, real one day. But if

563
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 1: you keep focusing on the money, you can always have

564
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 1: a nurse or somebody. You could pay for somebody to

565
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 1: be that. Men think that the things, the things that

566
00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:48,560
Speaker 1: women do are replaceable. They can I can pay somebody

567
00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 1: to cook, I could pay somebody to clean up. I

568
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:51,960
Speaker 1: could pay somebody to do all these things. I could

569
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 1: pay somebody to fuck. But for women is like we

570
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 1: don't see things like that. But you can't outsource all

571
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 1: those things. And yeah, and and that would probably be

572
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 1: the second option. But it's different when you're paying somebody

573
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:08,400
Speaker 1: and somebody's doing it out of love. You know that

574
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:10,560
Speaker 1: love can turn into resentment. They gotta take care of

575
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 1: you too long. Yeah, that's very true. I want me

576
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 1: a note Can I just get Ryan Gosselin to come

577
00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:20,960
Speaker 1: over here and be like, what do you want? Like

578
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 1: the notebook? I want to notebook kind of love? I

579
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:28,320
Speaker 1: don't know child. I don't know what is your greatest

580
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 1: fear of being uh by yourself? Okay, so I do

581
00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 1: want to have a kid, at least one. And maybe

582
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 1: this is even selfish when I get old, like I

583
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:43,399
Speaker 1: don't want to be an old ass lady seventy with

584
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 1: no offspring, nobody to help you out a little bit,

585
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But that that's the same

586
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:52,759
Speaker 1: thing I said, just a different person. Yeah, exactly. Look,

587
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 1: so either man or a kid, I need one of them.

588
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 1: But then I don't want the kid without the man,

589
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:00,720
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I want a family

590
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 1: more than I just want a kid, right, So I

591
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:06,360
Speaker 1: would like to have a child and the man, and

592
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,319
Speaker 1: then the child would have to take care of both

593
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 1: of us or at least like facilitate the caregiving, like

594
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 1: find the people to do it when you get old,

595
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 1: like I guess maybe I'm thinking about remember I had

596
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:20,399
Speaker 1: the old lady to live with me, and I'm thinking

597
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 1: about all the things that I had to do for

598
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: her that she just can't do because times change, Like

599
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 1: everything is gonna internet. You can't expect this eighty something,

600
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:30,360
Speaker 1: you old lady to be able to use the internet

601
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:32,920
Speaker 1: in that way, she could barely use your cell phone.

602
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:35,879
Speaker 1: So just somebody there to help me with those type

603
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 1: of things. Being young and getting sick and needed somebody

604
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,480
Speaker 1: take care of you, you got access to more people.

605
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:43,759
Speaker 1: But when you get old like that and your your

606
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:46,759
Speaker 1: your mom is gone, your daddy gone, your siblings might

607
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 1: be gone, friends gone, like, you need a younger person,

608
00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:55,840
Speaker 1: right because even now, even your doctor appointments, you have

609
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:58,920
Speaker 1: to confirm on the APPY. Yeah, so it's trying to

610
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:01,200
Speaker 1: check my chart to see what your results are. Like,

611
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 1: it's not set up for old people to be able

612
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:07,640
Speaker 1: to do by them exactly. So it's really real that

613
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:11,640
Speaker 1: you are a baby twice so I feel like, um,

614
00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:13,920
Speaker 1: that's when I would be more concerned about it. And

615
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:17,080
Speaker 1: that's why the relationship I would need would need to

616
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:20,920
Speaker 1: be facilitated now. So it's either the relationship but a

617
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:25,400
Speaker 1: husband or your child for when you get seventy eighty,

618
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:27,879
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be around time like nine, so I'm gonna

619
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:37,719
Speaker 1: need somebody. You're gonna need somebody around. So that's Micaelthern.

620
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know, man, I don't want um.

621
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:46,920
Speaker 1: I just hate when people would be like, oh, y'all

622
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:49,200
Speaker 1: y'all been just gonna die with your dogs. You're gonna

623
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:52,720
Speaker 1: die with your cats, You're gonna die alone. No woman

624
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 1: has to die alone because there is somebody out here, somebody.

625
00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:58,799
Speaker 1: You could pick somebody and have a baby with him.

626
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:02,400
Speaker 1: You could pick somebody and get married. Like I'm pretty

627
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 1: sure every woman has at least one nigga that's willing

628
00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 1: to married him right now. You know, he may not

629
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:09,800
Speaker 1: look the best, he may not smell the best, But

630
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 1: there's somebody, you know what I'm saying. There is somebody

631
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 1: for everybody. But I don't nobody want to fund with

632
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 1: stinky Joey. But she she might be a stinky Jane

633
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:26,280
Speaker 1: and they go together. Why are you stinky trying to

634
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:30,360
Speaker 1: be with somebody who's not first get you a stinky nigga.

635
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 1: But even you think it's all about balance. You make

636
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:44,600
Speaker 1: me smell better. Yeah, So it's somebody for everybody. You

637
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:47,319
Speaker 1: just gotta find that person. I could be married right

638
00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:50,879
Speaker 1: now if I wanted to be, I couldn't. But I

639
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 1: think a lot of more, a lot more people, especially

640
00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:56,799
Speaker 1: our generation, we're putting like happiness over everything. We say

641
00:37:56,840 --> 00:37:59,280
Speaker 1: that it's not the other person responsibility to make you happy.

642
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:01,480
Speaker 1: But if somebody can make you sad, they can definitely

643
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 1: make you happy. So no, yes, it is my job

644
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:08,959
Speaker 1: to to to make myself happy. But yeah, I feel

645
00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 1: like you can contribute to other people's happiness. I would

646
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:16,400
Speaker 1: not want to be in a relationship. It's more terrifying

647
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 1: to me to be in the wrong relationship than to

648
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:27,279
Speaker 1: be by myself. The piece you get from being the

649
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 1: step number. But see that's w Yeah, take care of yourself.

650
00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. What I find in relationships

651
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:35,799
Speaker 1: is that even if you could be somebody who goes

652
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 1: to the gym all the time, it's like all that

653
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:39,799
Speaker 1: should go out the window when you get into relationship.

654
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 1: You're no longer focusing on your personal goals. You're not

655
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 1: focusing on your personal health. It's like you always having

656
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 1: to take somebody else ship into consideration every day your life.

657
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:53,320
Speaker 1: Like if I want to go on like a fucking

658
00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 1: vegan diet for the rest of this year, if I

659
00:38:55,480 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 1: got a whole family I'm responsible for, I can't because

660
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:02,840
Speaker 1: it's gonna be even hard. Like I'm preparing food for

661
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:04,799
Speaker 1: them to eat that I'm not and I can't eat.

662
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:09,240
Speaker 1: They could just be vegans too, in a perfect world,

663
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 1: that's what you know, because the mama is responsible for

664
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:14,360
Speaker 1: the nutrition of the family. So in a perfect world,

665
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 1: that's how it would be. But it don't always be

666
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 1: like that. So now it's just hard to focus on

667
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 1: your personal goals when you're in a relationship. It just

668
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:26,680
Speaker 1: is because this other person needs some of your time.

669
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:32,280
Speaker 1: The relationship requires time, requires all of these things outside

670
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 1: of you. I found a list of ten reasons why

671
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 1: it's great living alone in your forties and fifties, just

672
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:42,960
Speaker 1: for anybody who's feeling sad about getting older. I e

673
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 1: me all right here, here's here's the list. One You'll

674
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 1: gain an independent routine, which is great for your health.

675
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 1: So basically you ain't got nobody else to worry about,

676
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 1: so you can do exactly what you want, when you

677
00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 1: want to, and how you want to do it. I mean,

678
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 1: I think that applies right now. We don't have to

679
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:04,080
Speaker 1: wait till we're in our forties and fifties for that, right. Yeah.

680
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 1: Single people are healthier than they're married counterparts, That's what

681
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 1: I was just saying. Yeah, So, like even if you

682
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:14,960
Speaker 1: have like a certain gym routine, like you having to

683
00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 1: work in all of these people because I think that

684
00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:22,880
Speaker 1: people who have children and families younger in life, they're

685
00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:25,320
Speaker 1: just now getting to do those things because now the

686
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 1: kids are finally older, so they kind of sacrificed earlier

687
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:32,520
Speaker 1: in life, so now they can chill see us having

688
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:36,239
Speaker 1: kids and families later on. I don't know if it's

689
00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:40,480
Speaker 1: gonna be like what would you rather do you rather

690
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 1: had just funny and twenties and they're worry about the

691
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:45,840
Speaker 1: ship with you in the thirties, or do all this

692
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:48,480
Speaker 1: ship now and now I'm now I get to live

693
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 1: the rest of my life. Um, well, I guess it

694
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:58,359
Speaker 1: ain't an option no more for me. But with me,

695
00:40:58,480 --> 00:41:01,319
Speaker 1: like the ship that my friends who had kids young

696
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 1: had to endure, I don't think it will have to

697
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 1: endure the same because we got more money now, you know,

698
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:09,040
Speaker 1: like like I could have a nanny in this bit

699
00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:12,919
Speaker 1: changing diapers, right, And it's just like I think you

700
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 1: you do, and that with more options the older you get, Um,

701
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 1: you might enjoy your relationship better and at an older

702
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 1: age because you, like I said, like both parties trying

703
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:24,479
Speaker 1: to know what they want and know what they don't.

704
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 1: So you find somebody that matched that fly right, and

705
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:31,600
Speaker 1: then you have understanding of your emotional intelligence when you're

706
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 1: old to even raise the kids properly. Right, So I

707
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 1: think that more healthy relationship. To people who have kids younger,

708
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 1: it's like a struggle the majority of the time. Yeah,

709
00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:48,640
Speaker 1: because they're growing up with their kids, you know. Um

710
00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 1: number three, you can develop your own hobbies and interests. Yeah,

711
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 1: but you want to do those things with somebody else, right,

712
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:57,799
Speaker 1: I like to be alone, but I like to be

713
00:41:57,840 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 1: alone with somebody else, Like I like to do all

714
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 1: this that I like to do, but with one other

715
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 1: person at least. Well, you can't be alone with somebody

716
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:14,280
Speaker 1: else because then you're no longer at all. Exactly. Single

717
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:20,799
Speaker 1: people often enjoy better friendships. Mm hmm. I mean, do

718
00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 1: you have a choice? You know? Is like exactly. Let's see,

719
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 1: what does it say? Living alone, by no means has

720
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:37,040
Speaker 1: to mean you're lonely. In fact, often exiting a relationship

721
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:39,879
Speaker 1: enables friendships to really blossom. All right, so it says

722
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:42,160
Speaker 1: not now is the time to re establish links with

723
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:45,360
Speaker 1: old friends and reach out to new ones. Living alone

724
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:47,839
Speaker 1: means you can invite people for the weekend to visit,

725
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 1: stay out late. So it's just all selfish stuff, Okay,

726
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 1: got it. Yeah, like y'all reach it with this one.

727
00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:01,640
Speaker 1: Who else you gonna hang out exactly? Mask bitches. I

728
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:04,880
Speaker 1: don't want that either. But I also don't want to

729
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 1: be in a relationship where my partner got a problem

730
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:10,360
Speaker 1: with all my friends. So I went and pick somebody

731
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:13,920
Speaker 1: like that either, who doesn't want you to have friends? Yeah, no,

732
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:19,800
Speaker 1: that's not healthy. You'll have a greater sense of freedom.

733
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:25,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel that I like to feel not

734
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:29,279
Speaker 1: single in it. Maybe I like to be single in

735
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:32,920
Speaker 1: the relationship. Maybe you can't. I ain't gonna be single

736
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 1: in a relationship. It's like I don't like to feel

737
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 1: smothered or I don't like to feel like I got

738
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:38,880
Speaker 1: just the same way Manfield. They don't want to have

739
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 1: to always answer a bunch of questions and stuff like that, Like,

740
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:43,759
Speaker 1: just trust that I'm doing the right thing and lead

741
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 1: me to hell alone because I ain't stalking and stressing you.

742
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 1: So I do like to feel free in a relationship.

743
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:53,759
Speaker 1: I am a commitment type person. I do want to

744
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:56,959
Speaker 1: be in a committed relationship, but I also don't want

745
00:43:56,960 --> 00:44:00,839
Speaker 1: to feel like I'm in prison in the relationship. Mm hmm,

746
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:04,960
Speaker 1: I get that. So I would like to maintain a

747
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:09,840
Speaker 1: certain level of freedom while in a union. Yeah, because

748
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 1: the same guy that I told you all about that

749
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:13,719
Speaker 1: was like laying in my hospital bed next to me

750
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:15,520
Speaker 1: for two weeks straight and You're like, oh, he was

751
00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 1: so sweet. What happened to him? He also was the

752
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:21,200
Speaker 1: same type that would get mad if I said anything

753
00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 1: nice about a man, not my man, just any man

754
00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 1: I was. I could be like, oh, that's he's a

755
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 1: nice guy. That's a good person for your boyfriend to

756
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:31,840
Speaker 1: be hanging out with. I had a conversation with my

757
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:35,080
Speaker 1: friend like that, and this nigga totally blew up. Why

758
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:37,800
Speaker 1: are you saying other nas nice? That's what I'm saying.

759
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:41,320
Speaker 1: See and look, I uh. I was in the story

760
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:43,839
Speaker 1: yesterday and I was on the phone my friend and

761
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 1: as I'm checking out, I was like, okay, thanks babe,

762
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 1: I said babe to the cashier, right, Like I just

763
00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:53,759
Speaker 1: I always call people baby, babe, man or women. That's

764
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:55,759
Speaker 1: just how it just comes out. It's not like I'm

765
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:59,840
Speaker 1: just really calling this man a baby, right, And I said,

766
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 1: I said, oh, let me not do that, because you

767
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:02,680
Speaker 1: might not you might have a problem with that. He

768
00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:04,439
Speaker 1: was like, I don't care nothing about that, said Okay,

769
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:07,400
Speaker 1: that's my my previous trauma. Then could be because in

770
00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 1: my last relationship, I had gotten in multiple arguments because

771
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:15,560
Speaker 1: I said baby to somebody like not like. I don't

772
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 1: like that either though. Yeah, but see I think I

773
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 1: get that from my mom. She called everybody baby babe.

774
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 1: That's just it's just in my vocabulary. I don't mean

775
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:28,880
Speaker 1: this person as my baby, like I would say to

776
00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:35,359
Speaker 1: my significant other. So for mane, but those are things

777
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 1: that you have baby. I don't like when we like

778
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:40,839
Speaker 1: a server, I don't want you calling her baby. See

779
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:43,160
Speaker 1: that's the thing that a man can't do that. It's

780
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:46,880
Speaker 1: just a double standard thing. It's like a older person

781
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:49,279
Speaker 1: talking to a younger person type thing, because that's usually

782
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 1: when I would saying that. If it's like a younger person,

783
00:45:51,960 --> 00:46:00,320
Speaker 1: they just this, it's a kid, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

784
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:02,320
Speaker 1: But you know, in relationships, you don't know something's a

785
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:05,600
Speaker 1: problem until it's a problem. That's just it. So I

786
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 1: didn't know it was a problem, and so it was

787
00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:11,279
Speaker 1: a problem. I don't like. I don't I don't want

788
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 1: you giving other women pet names. But you can say

789
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:16,680
Speaker 1: somebody's a nice person and that not be a problem.

790
00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 1: I won't be like, why you called that a bitch? Nice?

791
00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 1: You know that is crazy? That's crazy, right, Like you

792
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 1: want to suck his dick, don't you? Right? What men,

793
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 1: that's why mind go directly to you sucking somebody dick.

794
00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:35,880
Speaker 1: They just obsessed with that because I said somebody was nice. Alright.

795
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 1: Number seven, It will help you be more creative. I

796
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 1: guess solitude, Yeah, go ahead, I guess you got time

797
00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 1: to sit down and do things that you want to do. Um. Yeah,

798
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 1: I can see that. Mm hmmm. Says solitude enables you

799
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 1: to think deeply, and it's crucial for introspective, creative thoughts

800
00:46:56,560 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 1: to come into fruition. Being alone is often a prequisite

801
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:05,560
Speaker 1: for those sparky ideas you might otherwise never have had. Yeah.

802
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:07,480
Speaker 1: I was talking to a friend this weekend and he

803
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 1: and I, uh, he went to a wedding in Baltimore

804
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:16,480
Speaker 1: and his friend, the girl that he's dating. Basically she

805
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:19,400
Speaker 1: went like on a little trip by herself, and I

806
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:21,280
Speaker 1: was like, she ain't by herself. She got some nigger

807
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 1: with her, like sucking with him. But he was like, yeah,

808
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:26,279
Speaker 1: she you know. He basically was trying to say, you know,

809
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:27,920
Speaker 1: it's the ship that you would do, like go out

810
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:30,239
Speaker 1: be by yourself to talk to the trees and ship

811
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:32,279
Speaker 1: like that. She was like, that's what she's doing. So

812
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 1: he's okay with her, like traveling, going on a low

813
00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 1: trip alone to get her mind right. M hm. Most

814
00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:42,160
Speaker 1: men won't won't be okay with that, not in a

815
00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:46,839
Speaker 1: real relationship, Like where are you going? Right? I don't

816
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 1: even sound right in the room in the room. They

817
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 1: don't live together, nothing like that, they're just you know, yeah,

818
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 1: So I don't know. That might not be something you

819
00:47:58,120 --> 00:47:59,839
Speaker 1: could do while you in a relationship with a man,

820
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 1: go on vacation by yourself, going a long weekend get

821
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 1: away by yourself. Now you I've seen uh men and

822
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:11,080
Speaker 1: like married couples with children and they all live in

823
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:13,319
Speaker 1: the house. Let their wife go on a staycation to

824
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:16,160
Speaker 1: a hotel down the street, you know, like you go

825
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:21,440
Speaker 1: there and relax, drink some champagne, just enjoy your solitude

826
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:26,200
Speaker 1: away from us. I've seen that. But you're getting on

827
00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:30,719
Speaker 1: a plane to go somewhere and sit by yourself. Sit

828
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 1: your ass down, all right. The next one says, you

829
00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 1: actually might be less lonely. It might sound odd, but

830
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:43,799
Speaker 1: single people could actually turn out to be far less

831
00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:47,319
Speaker 1: lonely than those in relationships. This is because, as a

832
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 1: general rule, singles tend to have a wider social have

833
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:54,759
Speaker 1: wider social circles in support systems, as opposed to those

834
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:57,600
Speaker 1: in relationships, who often only have one person they feel

835
00:48:57,640 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 1: they can confide and rely on. Wow, that's true. And look,

836
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:07,480
Speaker 1: that's something I think about, like imagine, and I think

837
00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:11,399
Speaker 1: a lot of relationships fail because it is you can't

838
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 1: expect your significant other to be your all. You know

839
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,399
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. They can't be your best friend for real,

840
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 1: like how you're real bed like as a woman, right,

841
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:23,520
Speaker 1: your man can't be your best friend. How your actual

842
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:26,400
Speaker 1: female friend is your best friend? He can't be that

843
00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 1: for you. So I believe that even in relationships, you

844
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 1: gotta have that that that thing outside of your relationship.

845
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 1: You have to think it's important to him at least

846
00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:39,960
Speaker 1: one person that is not in your relationship that you

847
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:43,839
Speaker 1: can confide in. Yes, and that's for a man I want. Yeah, yeah, Yeah,

848
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:45,880
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying, because I mean, sometimes when you're

849
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:48,200
Speaker 1: having a problem, how do I talk to the problem

850
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:52,200
Speaker 1: about the problem. Well, you can't, you can't. Look, I

851
00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:55,879
Speaker 1: don't it's important not to look at your person as

852
00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 1: the problem. There's an issue within the relationship, and y'all

853
00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:01,319
Speaker 1: need to detect that a problem together. What if he

854
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:04,319
Speaker 1: keeps shipping on the toilet, that is his problem, That

855
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:08,520
Speaker 1: is a problem he's creating. Why the problem is the

856
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:12,760
Speaker 1: ship and the ship came out of him. That's his ship.

857
00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 1: That's y'all ship. No nigger is no what he ain't

858
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:22,000
Speaker 1: did not make me ship? Okay, so that my ship.

859
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:27,480
Speaker 1: But if you sat down on that toilet, oh my god, girl,

860
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 1: that's the problem. The problem is not the man. But

861
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:36,520
Speaker 1: first of all, while some new people coming up with

862
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 1: we're going to attack the problem, not each other. Motherfucker's

863
00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:44,560
Speaker 1: be the people making the problem. What are we talking about,

864
00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:49,400
Speaker 1: y'all delusion? It sounds good, It sounds good. Okay, we

865
00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 1: two We got here is the problems. Attack the problem

866
00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:54,920
Speaker 1: and not each other. But how does that even work

867
00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:57,279
Speaker 1: when it's somebody causing the problem. Do you see what

868
00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:01,399
Speaker 1: I'm saying? Yeah, but he's causing the problem. Let's work

869
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:03,600
Speaker 1: on this problem together. But what if the problem is

870
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:10,040
Speaker 1: him cheating? When he's making that conscious decision to cheat,

871
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:13,600
Speaker 1: So we have to realize, find out if we are

872
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 1: in it together and you want to stay with this

873
00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 1: nigga knowing that he cheats, then you're gonna have to

874
00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:21,399
Speaker 1: find a way to find out why he's cheating and

875
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 1: does he want to be in and then he wants

876
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 1: to be in this relationship knowing that something that you

877
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 1: don't want. That's the problem. This is a Western civilization,

878
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 1: that problem whatever. And number ten the last one. You'll

879
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:44,640
Speaker 1: sleep more soundly now, I agree with that one. Just

880
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:46,880
Speaker 1: get a king's eyes bad. I don't see how people

881
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 1: are married and they have a queen's size bad in

882
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:54,960
Speaker 1: their house. How that's too close because I like to

883
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:56,799
Speaker 1: cuddle and ship like that. But we already know when

884
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:58,239
Speaker 1: you get kind of hot in the middle of night,

885
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 1: get the funk off me. I don't like falling to

886
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:04,719
Speaker 1: sleep on nobody, like my last nick of the same

887
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:08,279
Speaker 1: one I was talking about the whole episode. He um,

888
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:12,040
Speaker 1: that's my only point of reference, right. Um. He would

889
00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 1: like me to sleep on him, and like he would

890
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:16,560
Speaker 1: fall asleep, and when I would move, even though he

891
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:19,439
Speaker 1: would sleep, his arm would get tight when I try

892
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:25,839
Speaker 1: to move. Hell, that nigga was fucking demon. He didn't

893
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:28,160
Speaker 1: want you. I could not move if you awake. He

894
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:34,000
Speaker 1: couldn't be awake. I could not move. What the hell?

895
00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:37,440
Speaker 1: In his sleep he would snatch his arm would go

896
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:40,400
Speaker 1: tight like a fist, would go tight around me. Like

897
00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:49,759
Speaker 1: how then m hmm. He was like subconsciously and consciously insecure.

898
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:55,920
Speaker 1: But I snore, so I don't know even know if

899
00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:57,719
Speaker 1: you want me up under you like that when I sleep,

900
00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:00,279
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna get no rest. That he's freight train

901
00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:02,640
Speaker 1: next to you. See now, I wouldn't sleep with you.

902
00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:04,360
Speaker 1: I don't want to be with a man who's snore

903
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:07,319
Speaker 1: too loud because every night I'm gonna be rushing trying

904
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:11,840
Speaker 1: to go to sleep. For you, I go to your

905
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:16,600
Speaker 1: own room. Since you got one, I had one, Nigga.

906
00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 1: He was like, before we were to lay down, he's like,

907
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:22,399
Speaker 1: you like astronauts. I was like what, He's like, I'm

908
00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:24,920
Speaker 1: about to show you. And he put that motherfucking space

909
00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 1: helmet on so he could breathe that night looking like

910
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:42,600
Speaker 1: a motherfucking astronaut. Bit that's so stupid. Do something. Don't

911
00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 1: get up in here. It sounding like dark Vader because

912
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:48,799
Speaker 1: I'm going to home. If I have that option, I'm

913
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 1: not gonna get into a long term relationship with somebody

914
00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:54,719
Speaker 1: who snore is crazy. One thing about me is I'm

915
00:53:54,800 --> 00:54:00,640
Speaker 1: asleep and you're not about. Yes, I have to sleep well, man,

916
00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 1: if I don't my days to be fucked up. Ship.

917
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:05,960
Speaker 1: That's why I'm dragging right now today. Shoot, I got

918
00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:09,080
Speaker 1: dunk because of my story. And really it wasn't like

919
00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:11,280
Speaker 1: that yet. We were just starting to finally like spending

920
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:14,400
Speaker 1: night with each other. And I just remember waking myself

921
00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:16,759
Speaker 1: up with the sound of my story and I woke

922
00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:18,239
Speaker 1: up and I looked at him and he was just

923
00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:21,279
Speaker 1: staring at me, like I really want you to go

924
00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:23,359
Speaker 1: the funk home. That's how he looked at he was looking.

925
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm so sorry, but I was only

926
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:30,560
Speaker 1: snoring because his pillows was the size of a thing

927
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:32,440
Speaker 1: as a piece of paper. Like where you get these

928
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:39,080
Speaker 1: thin ass, fucking raggedy ass pillows. Man, You don't have

929
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:42,279
Speaker 1: no like y'all asleep on a goddamn piece of ply

930
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:46,560
Speaker 1: board cardboard box? Yes, what is that with? You're betting

931
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:50,440
Speaker 1: I had. I had to fold that pillow four times

932
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:54,120
Speaker 1: to just have a little piece of height on it, girl, Like,

933
00:54:54,239 --> 00:54:57,440
Speaker 1: and I literally buy your ship for your house so

934
00:54:57,520 --> 00:55:01,640
Speaker 1: I can be comfortable when I get there, like, why

935
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:04,160
Speaker 1: you got these old ass pillows, nigger, get you some

936
00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:11,600
Speaker 1: new pillows, please, sir. Well. In conclusion, look y'all, it's okay.

937
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:15,200
Speaker 1: If you do find yourself by yourself in your forties

938
00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:19,400
Speaker 1: and fifties, there are ways to be fulfilled and not

939
00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 1: be sad about it. And I hope this list helps

940
00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 1: any of our listeners who feel lonely or feel alone. Like, girl,

941
00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:31,400
Speaker 1: it's okay, you got friends, and if you don't have

942
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:33,479
Speaker 1: friends out there, you have friends that we talked back.

943
00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:41,319
Speaker 1: Oh girl, ain't nothing like that dead girl. Period up,

944
00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:47,120
Speaker 1: period up. Don't be doing that ship and not recording.

945
00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:50,399
Speaker 1: We ain't giving that bitch no motherfucking notoriety over here.

946
00:55:50,520 --> 00:55:55,640
Speaker 1: As we talk back, I was just agreeing with your

947
00:55:55,680 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 1: dick comments that don't say just say I agree, just

948
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:05,200
Speaker 1: say I agree, girl. But again, I'm not afraid to

949
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:07,160
Speaker 1: be alone and ship. If this is if this is

950
00:56:07,160 --> 00:56:10,360
Speaker 1: how my life's supposed to be there, so fucking being okay.

951
00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:14,400
Speaker 1: I have I enjoy the company of men for sure.

952
00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 1: If I get married today and tomorrow, that would be great.

953
00:56:17,520 --> 00:56:20,520
Speaker 1: If I don't, I'm not gonna die because of it. Obviously,

954
00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:24,319
Speaker 1: I'm gonna live longer. So hey, we'll see I'm gonna

955
00:56:24,320 --> 00:56:27,239
Speaker 1: be one of them fine as because listen, honey, the

956
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:30,000
Speaker 1: sixty year olds that's on Instagram, dumb bitch is fine.

957
00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:33,480
Speaker 1: The fifty and sixty year olds, like they've been spending

958
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 1: the last decade building a six pack. They could have

959
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:40,320
Speaker 1: any one of these young niggas if they wanted them.

960
00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:44,880
Speaker 1: They can definitely, like they got options. You always have options,

961
00:56:44,960 --> 00:56:48,839
Speaker 1: Let's be clear. But I don't know. I ain't gonna

962
00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:54,520
Speaker 1: be alone, all right, y'all. Hit him with that hit

963
00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:57,760
Speaker 1: him with that thing. You hit them with that thing. Listen.

964
00:56:57,840 --> 00:57:00,200
Speaker 1: If you guys enjoyed this episode, please tune in every

965
00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:04,840
Speaker 1: Thursday on an I Heart radio app or wherever the

966
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:07,520
Speaker 1: fun you get your podcasts at dis your co host

967
00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:09,959
Speaker 1: aj Holiday two point oh look to you to stop

968
00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:14,680
Speaker 1: me from saying, girl, fuck you. Follow me. I don't

969
00:57:14,719 --> 00:57:18,680
Speaker 1: care what you like no more. Follow me. Follow me

970
00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:22,520
Speaker 1: on Instagram, y'all. Also follow me talk Back podcast on

971
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 1: Instagram and Twitter. All that good ship. Um alright, y'all,

972
00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:32,080
Speaker 1: it's official Team BAM. I love y'all. Thanks for tuning in, y'all.

973
00:57:32,080 --> 00:57:36,640
Speaker 1: Remember to speak now and never hold your peace. Peace.

974
00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:37,920
Speaker 1: Bye