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Speaker 2: You're gonna thank me later. We don't need a wedding swing.

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Speaker 2: We don't need a photo shooting you all over the place.

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Speaker 2: We don't need fireworks, pyrotechniques. We don't need four bands.

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Speaker 2: We don't need venue changes. We don't need you levitating in.

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Speaker 2: We don't need raisin canes afterwards. We don't need anything.

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Speaker 1: Right, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: Research suggests that how much couples spend on their wedding

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Speaker 2: may influence the chance that their marriage lasts.

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Speaker 1: Who cares about that? Who cares if it last. You know,

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Speaker 1: we had a good time.

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Speaker 2: We just want to have a big day, and it doesn't.

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Speaker 2: You already made it this far right, and by that

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Speaker 2: point it will be what nine years have been together,

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Speaker 2: nine and a half years by the time you get

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Speaker 2: to the altar. But who cares if it all melts

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Speaker 2: down right away? As long as it was a great night, we.

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Speaker 1: Had a good run. We went out with a bang.

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Speaker 2: Studies showed the couples who spend more than about twenty

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Speaker 2: thousand dollars on their weddings are significantly more likely to

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Speaker 2: divorce later than those who spend a more modest amount,

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Speaker 2: while lower costs serem wait spend more than twenty on

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Speaker 2: their wedding are significantly more likely to divorce. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: so the more you that's why the way rather quickly.

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Speaker 2: The more you spend, the more likely you already get divorced.

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Speaker 2: According to this, lower cost ceremonies tend to be linked

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Speaker 2: with stronger long term marriages. The takeaway, keeping wedding expenses

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Speaker 2: reasonable and avoiding starting married life under heavy financial strain

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Speaker 2: actually help your relationship thrive. I've been saying this, You've

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Speaker 2: been saying this. A single guy, never engaged, never married.

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Speaker 2: I've been telling you guys how.

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Speaker 1: To do it. Give us good advice, though you do

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Speaker 1: I hate I'll give you that part. That's your thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a lot of opinions and a lot

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Speaker 2: of perspectives. I've made a career out of it. It

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Speaker 2: doesn't mean that I could live my own life properly.

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Speaker 2: That No one said that. That was not part of

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Speaker 2: the deal. No, did you say twenty thousand dollars? Twenty

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Speaker 2: thousand dollars? That still seems really cheap. Well right, I mean,

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Speaker 2: but yeah, it seems like a micro more twenties the threshold.

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Speaker 2: So people spend you know, a lot more than that.

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Speaker 1: I guess. But oh yeah, I'm assuming. So I said,

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Speaker 1: you don't even have to spend a lot of money, Well,

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Speaker 1: I know I have to.

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Speaker 3: But you know, I agree with this study, and I'm

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Speaker 3: sure is very true because think about it, you don't.

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Speaker 3: You don't go into your marriage with a bunch of debts.

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Speaker 3: The more money you spend means the more people you

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Speaker 3: have at your wedding. The more people you have in

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Speaker 3: your wedding, so there's probably less family drama, you know,

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Speaker 3: And so you're not good for them.

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Speaker 2: I want to take a quick survey though, eight five

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Speaker 2: five five three five you can contact the same number.

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Speaker 2: First of all, did you spend a ton of money

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Speaker 2: on your wedding? One?

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Speaker 1: Two? Are you still married? Three? Was it worth it?

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Speaker 1: Truly worth it?

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Speaker 4: Four?

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Speaker 1: What's your favorite calling?

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Speaker 2: What is your social Security number? And your mother's maiden name.

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Speaker 1: I'm serious.

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Speaker 2: I mean I said this a thousand times in reference

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Speaker 2: to a bunch of different people's weddings. It's like, I

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Speaker 2: don't remember what I ate at ninety nine percent of

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Speaker 2: the weddings I've been to. I remember, like some of

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Speaker 2: the cool stuff, Like I remember at the end somebody

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Speaker 2: McDonald's cheeseburgers at the very very end of it.

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Speaker 1: That's cool. Yeah, I love the drunk food.

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Speaker 2: I mean that's cool. But like that is the jump

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Speaker 2: is right, the cheapest part of the night. Somebody ran it,

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Speaker 2: door dash it for less than you spent.

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Speaker 5: are the ones that are more chill, Like I just

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Speaker 5: like thinking of all the weddings I've been to, like

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Speaker 2: Chill been as simple and and maybe it wasn't as

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Speaker 2: much money to do it that way. I mean, who knows,

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Speaker 2: maybe the barn with the solo cups actually logistically was very.

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Speaker 1: Expensive or hard to do. I don't know. It was

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Speaker 1: at their barn and there's there. So it was in

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Speaker 1: West Virginia, and okay, yeah it was. Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 2: I think the weddings that were intended to look simple,

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Speaker 2: to one wedding I didn't know what I was getting into.

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Speaker 2: Steamboat maybe Steamboat. It was in Steamboat.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why. It was in the middle of

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Speaker 2: There was like a clearing and it literally was just

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Speaker 2: course we were all busts there on luxury. I mean,

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Speaker 2: this was this wedding probably costimulated it lucks and actuality

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Speaker 2: it probably, but like at first, it's very simple, like

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Speaker 2: we pull up. There's like trees, the forests, like there

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Speaker 2: was I think I think there was like there were

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Speaker 2: or something like very very simple. We walk into this,

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Speaker 2: you know, this opening and the forests and there was

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Speaker 2: chairs and I'm like, okay, very simple. Only for us

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Speaker 2: to be led down this path through this entire village

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Speaker 2: like glass top and oh my god, it was over

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Speaker 2: it was all good. And these people had a lot

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Speaker 2: buses were the most like this is a campsite, like

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Speaker 2: this is no big deal.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, No, this was a whole thing. And

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Speaker 1: then I later went.

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Speaker 2: It was like in Conde Nast or one of those

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Speaker 2: these venues that like famous people try and you know,

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Speaker 2: people line up for years to get into this thing.

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Speaker 2: And I'm going and they're a nice couple, they're still married,

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Speaker 2: they have kids, they're wonderful people. I hope they say

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Speaker 2: together forever. But I'm thinking, man, there was a teepee.

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Speaker 2: They had a tepee erected at this thing. I may

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Speaker 2: not with some lady in a te at a wedding. Yeah, yes,

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Speaker 2: so I remember all of that. You know what, Maybe

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Speaker 2: I'm full of it. I am, well, I am full

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Speaker 2: of it. But but yeah, you need a teepee.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, if you make out with someone at

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Speaker 5: Kiki's wedding, that would make me so happy.

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Speaker 1: I think I want to know everybody at Kiki's wedding.

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Speaker 3: So no, no, no, no, I got so many women

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Speaker 3: lined up for you in my wedding.

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Speaker 2: Hereo side contest. You're doing where you can buy one

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Speaker 2: hundred dollars raffles. I see what you're up to. You're

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Speaker 2: selling raffle tickets so you can have the worst night

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Speaker 2: of your life. And as a wedding date, I'm not

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Speaker 2: a good wedding date. I'm I'm not a good because

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Speaker 2: if dancing is the main entertainment thing at the wedding,

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Speaker 2: I don't I'm not a dancer.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Shelley's wedding. We were trying to get you

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Speaker 1: out there and you were like, no, I'm good. No,

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Speaker 1: but none of them.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you were dancing, but a few of us in

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Speaker 2: the group we all sat in the corner and didn't dance,

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Speaker 2: like I didn't feel alone, not want to dance. And

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Speaker 2: then Shelley's sister came over and like bullied me.

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Speaker 1: She wanted you to dance.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I didn't because at that point, because we came,

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Speaker 2: we were invited later in the evening, so everybody was

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Speaker 2: ready to go when we.

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Speaker 1: And we were not.

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Speaker 2: We were not prepared for I wasn't prepared for that.

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Speaker 2: I should have pre partied for two hours before I

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Speaker 2: should have to be, you know, in line with these people.

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Speaker 2: I think Mike had a shirt off by that point,

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Speaker 2: which is not uncommon for military life, Shelley's husband to

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Speaker 2: have his shirt off. But yeah, no, hey Natalie, how

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Speaker 2: you doing you? Natalie, you eloped, You've been married for

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Speaker 2: eight years and so it cost you very little.

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Speaker 1: I assume very little, Okay, and wei you go ahead.

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Speaker 6: We decided we weren't going to do all that wedding stuff,

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Speaker 6: especially since when we're getting married, we saw so many

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Speaker 6: people get divorced, especially in our families, and we said,

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Speaker 6: we're not going to waste our time.

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Speaker 1: If this isn't going to be ten years.

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Speaker 6: We're not going to do a big party for what.

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Speaker 2: See that's interesting, Like what if you had a really

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Speaker 2: simple wedding and then you celebrate making it past the

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Speaker 2: national average with like a big shin dig and then

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Speaker 2: you could save slowly for that and make it exactly

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Speaker 2: what you want. You have all this time because you

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Speaker 2: don't have to. You can do it ten years, you

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Speaker 2: can do it, fifteen, you do twenty something like that.

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Speaker 2: So you didn't spend a lot of money, and you're

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Speaker 2: happy and you're to get and you're not broke at

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Speaker 2: least not from that, not from that for sure, right

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Speaker 2: right exactly, you're not broker than broke. Then thank you, Natalie,

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Speaker 2: have a good day you too. I'm glad you called Sonia.

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Speaker 2: How you doing, Sonia?

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Speaker 1: Oh I'm doing great. Fred, how are you doing well?

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Speaker 2: You're about to blow up my theory because you spent

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Speaker 2: less than ten k and your.

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Speaker 1: Divorce you got it.

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Speaker 4: It was one hundred and fifty people less than ten k.

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Speaker 1: Granted that was twenty.

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Speaker 6: Fourteen, so prices were cheaper, but the theory does not

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Speaker 6: check out.

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Speaker 2: All right, So without Lars, if you had it to

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Speaker 2: do over again, would you have just had a bigger wedding,

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Speaker 2: because why not? Or I mean, did you get the

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Speaker 2: wedding that you wanted and didn't work out? I mean

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Speaker 2: did you try and save on it?

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Speaker 7: Yes, yes, we.

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Speaker 1: Tried to save on it. And I would do it

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Speaker 1: over again. Because Fred, my friends still say this was

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Speaker 1: the best party They've ever went to, was the best

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Speaker 1: party I've ever thrown. Doesn't want to hear from a

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Speaker 1: lot of people. I hear that. And this is what

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Speaker 1: Kiki's saying too.

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Speaker 2: It's like, look, look, yeah, the wedding whatever, whatever, But like,

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Speaker 2: this is my time to shine. This is my time

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Speaker 2: to have my night, my way, do it how I want.

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Speaker 2: And if the costs ever much, it costs fine. And

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Speaker 2: if it melts down that we still had a great night.

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Speaker 2: I look at it too, pragmatically, just like everything else.

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Speaker 1: Perfect. Hey, love you guys, have a good day.

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Speaker 2: Fred Hayter Lawrence back for twenty twenty six. This is

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Speaker 2: a woman who, for the last two years has told

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Speaker 2: us she's forced to listen, but yet listens every day,

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Speaker 2: probably more than most people. Fred starting out twenty twenty

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Speaker 2: six with how many girls he soaked up with?

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Speaker 1: When did I even say that?

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Speaker 2: You're always bragging segment is next, where we do the

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Speaker 2: daily tote board of how many people I've hooked up with?

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Speaker 7: You have?

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Speaker 2: We haven't gotten there yet, You're ahead of yourself, Fred

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Speaker 2: Hayter Lauren Lauren.

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Speaker 5: Wait for Jason and I's podcast where we have every

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we have yes, Oh my god. They'll never

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Speaker 1: miss we have fun. You have to datum. You always

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Speaker 1: bring them around and we get attached to that. You

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Speaker 5: Jason and I loved and we're like, where are they?

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Speaker 2: Everybody I've ever dated is married with kids are happy

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Speaker 2: now and when they weren't happy with me makes perfect sense.

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Speaker 1: They're satisfied with their lives. They feel fulfilled. What do

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Speaker 1: you mean?

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Speaker 2: I just I love this person because I don't know

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Speaker 2: what show you're listening to, but it sounds better than

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Speaker 2: the one that we're doing.

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Speaker 1: Hey Aaron, how you doing?

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Speaker 3: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Are you Aaron? I don't know? You know? They say that, like,

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Speaker 1: what is that saying about? Hater?

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Speaker 4: Is?

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Speaker 2: Like, I think our haters spend way more time with

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Speaker 2: this show than the people that like it. Haters are

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Speaker 2: your motivators. I mean it's I appreciate it. Thank you.

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Speaker 2: You know, if you don't like it, you like it.

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Speaker 2: I don't care.

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Speaker 1: Listen.

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Speaker 2: As long as it's possible, I appreciate your loyalty either way,

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Speaker 2: whether it's love or hate. Aaron, are you Are you

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Speaker 2: on the lover or the hate side? I'm just curious.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I'm I'm a love partier.

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Speaker 1: This is right, this is fine. You How much have

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Speaker 1: you spent on your wedding?

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Speaker 3: Seventy dollars?

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Speaker 1: Seventy thousand dollars and what is a rum roll? Please?

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Speaker 4: Seven d seven zero.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, seven zeros seventy thousand dollars and drum roll?

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Speaker 1: Where are we at.

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Speaker 7: Three years happinitely married and expecting our first baby?

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Speaker 1: There you go.

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Speaker 2: I think so this is poppycock, then, is what you're saying?

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Speaker 2: This twenty thousand dollars thing?

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Speaker 3: It would be probably a lot more to get what

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Speaker 4: It's like the day of your life. I get do

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Speaker 3: And honestly, my husband helped me get like the green wedding.

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Speaker 1: There you go, why not Aaron, have a good day.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for calling and for listening. Thank you by guys

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Speaker 1: Banks for coming some one section Fred is good luck, Chuck,

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Speaker 1: I am? I am.

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Speaker 2: You know you date me and you're like, I need

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Speaker 1: Hi? Good morning, I'm good.

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Speaker 2: How are you Sarah? How much you just spent great?

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Speaker 2: And thanks for listening. You spent how much on your wedding?

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Speaker 1: Yes, we are, and we actually moved to Georgia. So

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Speaker 1: I'm listening from Georgia. Oh, thank you, thank you very

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Speaker 2: And so maybe this twenty thousand dollars thing is right,

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Speaker 2: So thank you, Sarah, Yes, thank you, having.

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Speaker 1: A good day.

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Speaker 2: Put us on a radio station in Georgia. Somewhere we

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Speaker 2: We had North Dakota on lot. Well, No, I want

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Speaker 2: Hat says yeah, Brandon decided to hang up sixty five

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Speaker 2: But I can see a world where it would make

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Speaker 5: Would you guys be pissed if you traveled? I told

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Speaker 2: That's this is why I sometimes wonder if I'm better

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Speaker 5: I have a friend that's been engaged for five years

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Speaker 1: Like well and Camlin.

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Speaker 2: People hear me say this or us talk about this,

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Speaker 1: Matt.

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Speaker 2: You spent five grand on your wedding, not even five grand, Okay,

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Speaker 2: well tell me about it. I mean, tell me about

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, we show We had about fifty to seventy

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Speaker 7: We decorated everything ourselves, had a barber catering done.

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Speaker 1: It was great. I love that. And and we go together. Yep,

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Speaker 2: Okay, so the point for my not my theory, but

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Speaker 2: this is the research theory. You have a barbecue. Thank you, Matt,

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Speaker 2: have a good day. Well, all Christian can be that Christian.

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Speaker 2: You sent seven hundred dollars, what amazing?

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Speaker 1: What did you spend it? Under dollars.

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Speaker 4: we didn't have to pay for them over that and Dan,

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Speaker 2: So see, and that was smart because you probably wound

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Speaker 2: have a good day.

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Speaker 1: That's awesome too.

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Speaker 2: Well see, and he makes an excellent point too. Think

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Speaker 2: Now, you're not going to answer this question honestly because

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Speaker 2: I don't know that many people would.

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Speaker 2: Twenty seventy five? Okay, even then, so's twenty five percent

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Speaker 2: but like they are not essential to the operation.

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Speaker 3: Yes, but you know, I don't want I'm like making

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: like everybody should be invited.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but see, there you go.

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Speaker 2: That is money that you're having to spend on something

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Speaker 2: that if you just hey, if you can do.

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Speaker 1: The United Center, I would do it. Absolutely.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I know we can get into All State Arena,