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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com. Gabe is on the

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Speaker 1: phone today for a first date follow up and he's

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Speaker 1: getting ghosted by a girl named Nicki. So in a

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Speaker 1: few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll tell

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Speaker 1: us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date.

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Speaker 1: But first, Gabe, how long has it been since you

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Speaker 1: heard from Nicki?

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Speaker 2: Oh, it's been like two weeks.

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Speaker 1: And have you tried to reach out to her?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I tried.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why she won't reach out to me.

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Speaker 1: What was your last interaction with her? Like, why don't

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Speaker 1: you just tell us about the date, and then we'll

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Speaker 1: get to that part.

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Speaker 4: I thought the date went really well. She might have

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Speaker 4: been a little intimidated by my wealth. I did wear

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Speaker 4: my Gucci.

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Speaker 1: Suit, oh okay, right out the gate.

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Speaker 2: But I didn't have like a logo on it. You know,

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Speaker 2: she would she would have had to have known that

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Speaker 2: there was no lego.

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Speaker 4: But I also drive a black Tea wagon and she

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Speaker 4: did see that.

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Speaker 1: You don't really hear of that being a turnoff too often? No, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: usually that's a turn off.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, I guess so, but I don't know, maybe

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Speaker 2: I was too much.

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Speaker 1: Well what parts of the date did you like?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: But about her is making you want to see her again?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, she was beautiful, We had a

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Speaker 2: lot in common. It was a fun date. Wasn't cheap either.

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Speaker 3: I took her out to a nice place, you know.

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Speaker 2: And had good water views, incredible food.

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Speaker 3: Okay, definitely wasn't cheap.

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Speaker 4: You know, It's been a while since I've actually been

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Speaker 4: interested in pursuing.

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Speaker 2: Someone, you know. But we laughed a lot. She seemed

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Speaker 2: to have this like nervous energy that I found kind

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Speaker 2: of endearing and attractive, Like nervous.

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Speaker 1: To be on a date, you think. I mean it

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Speaker 1: is I kind of.

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Speaker 2: On a date, Like nervous to be on a date

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Speaker 2: with me, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: So it's more you, not just the fact that she

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Speaker 1: was on a date for the first.

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Speaker 3: Time with a new you know. I mean, I guess

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Speaker 3: I'm a little.

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Speaker 2: Confident, you know. Yeah, I have a lot of money.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, well if you.

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Speaker 1: Make yeah, maybe I mean maybe if you make that

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Speaker 1: much money, maybe she was nervous and that's why you

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Speaker 1: think she's ghosting you. Maybe right, were you flaunting it?

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Speaker 1: And Gabe.

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Speaker 2: No, definitely not.

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Speaker 4: I mean I was wearing the I was wearing the

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Speaker 4: Gucci food and I had the black GA wagon.

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Speaker 1: But now, but you weren't just like dropping thousands of

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Speaker 1: dollars on the floor being like yeah, sorry, that some change.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know when you have money, right, it

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Speaker 2: doesn't matter to me.

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Speaker 1: Did you end like the night with a kiss, a hug,

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Speaker 1: hand Jake?

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Speaker 2: I mean yeah, there was a little, uh, a little action.

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Speaker 1: What are we talking action wise? Like you don't have

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Speaker 1: to go into great detail, but is it just a

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Speaker 2: He definitely saw the back of my g wagon.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, Well, I'm glad she was able to experience

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Speaker 1: the G wagon. I mean, did she feel like she

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: She did want to see me again. It would have

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Speaker 4: been great. She gave me a kiss and she was like,

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Speaker 4: I can't wait to do it again.

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Speaker 3: Okay, And so that's why I thought she.

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Speaker 1: Was going to call me back, right, Yeah, I would

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Speaker 1: give you that idea for sure. But you haven't heard

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Speaker 1: anything from her since, no, okay.

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Speaker 2: And I'm getting ghosted all right?

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, sounds like it, Well, we'll try to figure

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Speaker 1: it out for you. Okay, we'll play a song come Back,

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Speaker 1: and then call her and see if she tell us

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, thanks guys.

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll play song come Back and get your

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Speaker 1: first day follow up next. Right in the middle of

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Speaker 1: the first date follow up if you're just joining us,

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Speaker 1: Gabe is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Nikki.

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Speaker 1: So we're about to call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 1: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him

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Speaker 1: another date. But before we do that, why don't you

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Speaker 1: give everybody another recap of your date? Gabe?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well, you know, I thought it went really good.

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Speaker 4: I took her to a nice restaurant. I was looking good,

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Speaker 4: she was looking good, and I just haven't heard back

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Speaker 4: from her, so I think she's ghosted me. The only

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Speaker 4: thing I can think is maybe she was intimidated by

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Speaker 4: my wealth and how attractive I am.

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Speaker 1: All right, well, let's see we can figure it out

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Speaker 1: for you. Here we go. Hello him, I speak to Nikki. Please,

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Speaker 1: who's calling?

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Speaker 2: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Nikki. My name is Jubil. I host a radio show.

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Speaker 1: It's called The Jubil Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi.

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Speaker 1: Nikki, I'm Nina, Hi, and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 5: Hello. Hi.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever listened to the Jubel Show before?

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Speaker 5: I've heard I've heard you guys before.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm cool. Well, have you ever heard a first

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Speaker 1: date follow up?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 5: But I should only imagine.

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Speaker 1: Well you don't even have to imagine, because it's becoming

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Speaker 1: a reality for you, Nikki. So that's where if you

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Speaker 1: go out on a date with someone and then you

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Speaker 1: ghost them, they can email us to get you on

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Speaker 1: the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So we

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Speaker 1: got an email about you from somebody.

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Speaker 5: I'm kind of flattered.

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Speaker 1: Do you know who to look at it?

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Speaker 5: I mean, I have an idea, but I've been on

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Speaker 5: a few days.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so take a guess and I'll tell you if

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Speaker 1: you're right.

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Speaker 5: Well, it was either Gabor John.

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Speaker 1: Are you going to two people?

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Speaker 5: I mean there were just two dates that I went

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Speaker 1: If you had to choose Gabor John, which one do

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Speaker 5: I'd probably rock with Gabe.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, guess what, Nikki, You're absolutely right emailed us

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Speaker 1: about you. He told us about your date. He doesn't

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Speaker 5: Really?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Can you tell us why you're ghosting him?

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Speaker 5: Well? I did have a good time with him. He

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Speaker 5: seemed to be like really put together and you know, successful,

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Speaker 5: and you know the most girls i'd say, are looking for.

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Speaker 5: But he really reminded me of this this teacher I

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Speaker 5: had in high school, mister Jeffries. Mister Jeffries is a

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Speaker 5: geometry teacher and used to have all these like chevy jokes,

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Speaker 5: and he would tell us the jokes to try to

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Speaker 5: get us to remember what we were learning. Okay, And

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Speaker 5: I really liked him as a teacher, Like, mister Jeffries

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Speaker 5: was great, But I would date mister Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: So he reminds you of your high school teacher, mister Jeffries. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: did you make out with your high school teacher?

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Speaker 5: Oh no, I did you know, like that respectful, polite

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Speaker 5: kiss on each cheek kind of thing before we left?

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Speaker 1: Oh that's it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I totally like it's like mister Jeffrey. He looks

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Speaker 5: job like. Mister Jeffries looks like I could we weren't personally,

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Speaker 5: I could take you kick.

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Speaker 1: You'd be like, oh wow, he said, you quote unquote

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Speaker 1: tell the back of his do wagon. My head kind

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Speaker 5: But uh, what the back of his what?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: What did you think?

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Speaker 1: He made it sound like you guys did a little

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Speaker 1: more than a like have a kiss goodbye in his Yeah.

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Speaker 5: No, maybe you know this is something that he missioned.

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Speaker 1: I don't know at any point were you in the

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Speaker 5: I mean I got into his car to see his car.

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Speaker 5: It's proud of his car. Come look at it, take

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Speaker 1: Ok, no problem, Okay, Well, thank you for telling us

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Speaker 1: why you're ghosting, and I appreciate that.

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Speaker 2: Yep.

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Speaker 1: And also, Nikki Gabe is actually on the phone listening

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Speaker 5: Wait, he's really on the phone.

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Speaker 2: Yep, I'm really on the phone.

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Speaker 3: Oh well hello, hey, Hi, kind.

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Speaker 2: Of wondering why you didn't call me back. You know,

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Speaker 2: it's a little awkward.

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Speaker 5: It's it's a little, uh maybe on the childish side,

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Speaker 5: but yeah, definitely awkward. I'm sorry. You know, maybe I

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Speaker 5: shouldn't have ghost in you, but like, it's just a

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Speaker 5: lot for me. You had a good time with you.

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Speaker 5: I also had a good time learning geometry in high

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Speaker 5: school for mister Jeffries. But it was just it was

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Speaker 5: just too similar for me. Like we could be friends

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Speaker 5: And by the way, like, why would you go off

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Speaker 5: the impression that anything physical happened in your car?

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Speaker 2: It's all right, we'll just call that a fun mistake.

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Speaker 2: No one has to.

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Speaker 5: Know what you just lets the whole city now, Oh.

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Speaker 2: Well, I you later, nicky?

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, no, no, what what's seen you later?

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Speaker 5: What could be the idea that I like was attracted

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Speaker 2: No, I don't know. Sorry, just everything, It's okay. No

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Speaker 2: one has to know.

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Speaker 1: No one has to know what.

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Speaker 5: Wagon you No, sweetheart, nothing happened in the back of

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Speaker 5: your g wagon other than you wanted to show me

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Speaker 5: your g wagon. My lips didn't touch him, you know

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Speaker 5: that side cheek to cheek.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, there was a left and the right to that, gotcha.

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Speaker 2: You know, Dade.

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Speaker 5: Like, I'm not I'm not trying to be disrespectful at all,

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Speaker 5: but like you're giving off this illusion that's something happened

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Speaker 5: in your g wagon. Nothing happened, And I don't want

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Speaker 5: to be rude. You're a nice person. We had fun,

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Speaker 5: but I'm not attracted to you to date you. I

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Speaker 5: think what you're doing.

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Speaker 3: Kind of right, Yeah, I guess, I guess so.

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Speaker 2: Man, mister Jeffries must have been a hot guy. Huh.

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Speaker 5: He actually was an attractive person, but again my high

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Speaker 2: All right, well, I guess we'll never see each other again.

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Speaker 2: That's fine with me.

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Speaker 1: Well he hung up, Nikki. I was going to ask

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Speaker 1: if you want another day with him, I mean.

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Speaker 5: Like another day where you guys saw how awkward it

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Speaker 5: me weird? He was like, what, He's got a ton

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Speaker 5: of money though, so if so you need me that,

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Speaker 5: just ask him about it, Like he'll tell you all

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Speaker 5: about his money. Juble's first date follow up