Speaker 1: Here's your Sunday sampler. Get Real with Caroline Hobby. She
Speaker 1: had Terry Clark on Terry's Awesome Four Things was Amy Brown.
Speaker 1: They're talking about resilience and hope after a tornado touchdown
Speaker 1: with this business of Camille Austin the Bobby Cast. I
Speaker 1: sat down with Grace Bowers. I want to start with this.
Speaker 1: She's seventeen years old. She plays guitar. She played at
Speaker 1: our million dollar show. And it's weird to say this
Speaker 1: about a seventeen year old, but she is a monster
Speaker 1: and also far more mature than a normal seventeen year old.
Speaker 1: She's so skilled at one thing and she still as
Speaker 1: a kid. But I hope you listen to this interview,
Speaker 1: the stigma of her being young and a female guitar
Speaker 1: player working with brothers Osbourne. Here's a clip and if
Speaker 1: you like it, go listen to the whole podcast. It's
Speaker 1: me with I mean guitar beast Grace Bowers. So back
Speaker 1: to John Osborne for a second. Who you guys work
Speaker 1: together on your music?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: On the record when you're working with.
Speaker 4: John, because John is such a great player, has such
Speaker 4: a great ear, it's so proficient. He plays four minute
Speaker 4: solos on record versions of thing. You know, he's so good.
Speaker 4: He's also such a good dude who values mental health
Speaker 4: and he if like if our your mom, I'd be
Speaker 4: like John Osborne is like the guy you want to
Speaker 4: be around as an influence. But when you're with him, like,
Speaker 4: what did you want your sound to be? Because there's
Speaker 4: a difference in being influenced by things and like you said,
Speaker 4: playing things you memorize, what did you want your sound
Speaker 4: to be?
Speaker 5: Well, I came into him and I'm like, think like Funkadelics,
Speaker 5: Line in the Family Stone and the Meters, I want
Speaker 5: you to mash those altogether. I want that and the
Speaker 5: songs that we all wrote. We're kind of that style too,
Speaker 5: kind of like funk soul, classic rock. And he totally understood.
Speaker 5: And I've been getting mixes all week and.
Speaker 6: Oh really, that's not be happier with that.
Speaker 7: That's exciting. Yeah.
Speaker 4: And so when you say funk soul, classic rock and
Speaker 4: you say sly in the Family Stone, I think of
Speaker 4: Slying the Family Stone a whole lot of people on
Speaker 4: a stage, all of them being really good individually, Like
Speaker 4: you could pull any of them off and they would
Speaker 4: be just so proficient at keys or or drums or
Speaker 4: just different percussion.
Speaker 2: Right, But that's that is.
Speaker 4: Quite the achievement to want to be like that and
Speaker 4: then feel like, hey, we kind accomplished. Where it's heavily
Speaker 4: influenced by Sly. It's also so seventies, Yeah, very and visual.
Speaker 4: It's kind of your visual vibe to a bit. Yeah,
Speaker 4: any chance or like an old dude who died in
Speaker 4: the seventies and came back to life as like as
Speaker 4: like a kid and like they like put you in
Speaker 4: the wrong body, because when you said slign the family stone,
Speaker 4: like even now your vibe now is that? Has that
Speaker 4: always been like the fashion the era that you liked
Speaker 4: and felt most comfortable?
Speaker 8: No?
Speaker 5: Actually, well, when I was again, when I heard slash
Speaker 5: for the first time, that got me really into hair metal.
Speaker 7: For three or four years it was only hair metal.
Speaker 5: It was like warrant Rat Motley Crew, like the cheesiest
Speaker 5: stuff you can imagine. I loved it, and so that's
Speaker 5: what I listened to.
Speaker 4: Why why'd you love it so much? You think?
Speaker 5: Honestly, because I still love it. I will still go
Speaker 5: back and listen to it. Sometimes I was like, I'm
Speaker 5: not gonna say it's a guilty pleasure because I like
Speaker 5: it and I'm not guilty about it. But it was
Speaker 5: kind of all I knew at the time, Like I
Speaker 5: didn't like I wasn't around like different kinds of music
Speaker 5: to like, I wasn't exposed to it. Like I moved
Speaker 5: out here and I heard bluegrass for the first time
Speaker 5: because and I had no idea that was even.
Speaker 7: Like a thing.
Speaker 4: So when you moved here, you already playing guitar, right, yeah,
Speaker 4: So but when you hear bluegrass and it's bluegrass, is
Speaker 4: it's very quick, very yeah mandolin, I mean it's and
Speaker 4: you as a musician, even at a young age, some
Speaker 4: people may go, oh, you heard bluegrass any but bluegrass
Speaker 4: is really complicated.
Speaker 7: It's insane. I can't play a lick of bluegrass.
Speaker 4: When you would hear bluegrass, would that inspire you to
Speaker 4: try to get better in a certain way or was it, like, Man,
Speaker 4: I don't know, I don't know what how to bluegrass
Speaker 4: influence you because it's so hard.
Speaker 5: Well, there is a banjo sitting in my room because
Speaker 5: I thought I was going to learn how to play
Speaker 5: the banjo after seeing a bluegrass show at the station
Speaker 5: then and.
Speaker 7: Didn't really work out.
Speaker 4: You get the fake one, the gango six stringer.
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's probably what I should have gotten.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, some of my friends play that. They're like, look,
Speaker 4: I'll play a banjo and I'm like wow, They're like,
Speaker 4: not really his six strings, it's just a fake banjo.
Speaker 4: Do you get a lot of people sending you for
Speaker 4: guitars now?
Speaker 9: Oh?
Speaker 10: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I would imagine that I.
Speaker 7: Have too many guitars at this point.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I would imagine everybody wants you to play their guitar
Speaker 4: on social media or or something, but then not give
Speaker 4: you money to actually be the endorser.
Speaker 2: Y just send you the guitars.
Speaker 7: I don't know.
Speaker 5: I feel like I'm okay with that. I'll take I'll
Speaker 5: take free guitars any day.
Speaker 4: You'll take them, but you may not get on Instagram
Speaker 4: and play them.
Speaker 3: Correct.
Speaker 2: Do you have a favorite? What's your favorite guitar?
Speaker 7: My sixty one SG.
Speaker 4: Now when you say sixty one, that's nineteen sixty one.
Speaker 4: How we have we have a old Bronco this from
Speaker 4: before I was born. We've changed out a lot of
Speaker 4: the parts in a sixty one SG. And I don't know,
Speaker 4: I'm talking about things I don't know now, is it
Speaker 4: all except for the string.
Speaker 2: Is it original parts For the most.
Speaker 7: Part on mine, it is. Yeah.
Speaker 5: I haven't changed anything about it since I don't want
Speaker 5: to people like like people will tell me like, oh,
Speaker 5: it needs a new bridge, it needs to be refretted,
Speaker 5: and like.
Speaker 7: It still sounds Okay, I'm not gonna. I don't want
Speaker 7: to change it.
Speaker 2: Do you travel with it?
Speaker 7: I do, but I'm gonna Gibson.
Speaker 5: It's gonna make like they're gonna like scan it and
Speaker 5: make a replica of it to bring.
Speaker 4: Out to festivals and yeah, something that precious.
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I don't want to be traveling with.
Speaker 4: It, especially if it's been around since the sixties. It's
Speaker 4: not like a lot of bumpings and it'll be good
Speaker 4: for it.
Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, cast up little food for yourself life.
Speaker 12: Oh it's pretty bad. It's pretty beautiful, beautiful a little
Speaker 12: more family, of course, said he can. You're kicking with
Speaker 12: four with Amy Brown.
Speaker 9: Hey, it's Amy Brown from Four Things with Amy Brown.
Speaker 9: And here's what we talked about this week on my podcast.
Speaker 8: Basically what happened was we were at our biggest event
Speaker 8: of the year, Tornado Warning Watch starts happening immediately. My
Speaker 8: first in turn went to my home, you know, my
Speaker 8: husband's there or we have five dogs, and so I
Speaker 8: just kept in touch with him, and people were looking
Speaker 8: at the map and they were like, Yo, this is
Speaker 8: right by your house. I guess everything okay. And so
Speaker 8: once I got the all clear from Kevin, I just
Speaker 8: kind of put it out of my mind. I didn't
Speaker 8: even think about the warehouse.
Speaker 13: I was like, oh, we're all good.
Speaker 6: It's passed.
Speaker 8: And probably about twenty minutes later, I got a call
Speaker 8: from a friend and they had been parking their food
Speaker 8: truck at my warehouse right around the back and they
Speaker 8: were building a new trailer also, and they called me,
Speaker 8: and I thought, oh, I wonder if something happened to
Speaker 8: their trailer. Like I wasn't even still not thinking about
Speaker 8: my business. Andy who called he's usually like a pretty
Speaker 8: like jovial person, and the minute I heard the tone
Speaker 8: of his voice, I was like, oh, man, something's not good,
Speaker 8: you know. And so he just kind of said, hey,
Speaker 8: is anybody said anything to you about your warehouse? And
Speaker 8: I was like no, and he's like, yeah, it's pretty bad.
Speaker 8: I was like, is it like bad, like it.
Speaker 11: Just looks bad?
Speaker 8: Or is everything ruined? And he's like it's really bad.
Speaker 8: Me and my friend Allison, who also owns a business
Speaker 8: in Porter East and we owned the candy shop together,
Speaker 8: which is crazy. So our warehouses are in the same complex,
Speaker 8: and so we both just hopped in a car, drove
Speaker 8: up there, and as soon as we got close to it,
Speaker 8: we were like, oh, this is it was like out
Speaker 8: of a movie. I know people say that, but to
Speaker 8: pull up on a place that you go every day
Speaker 8: and to see it just absolutely decimated. Like the entire
Speaker 8: corner of her building was missing. The building across from
Speaker 8: me was completely leveled. And then so our building, it
Speaker 8: was kind of okay on the front end, but it
Speaker 8: had the tornado had kind of come across the back
Speaker 8: and just completely rip the roof off, and ultimately what
Speaker 8: happened was not only just the tornado winds, but it
Speaker 8: ended up raining with no roof for the rest of
Speaker 8: the night, you know, so everything inside was ruined. They
Speaker 8: were like transfers from hats over here. We had I
Speaker 8: had just picked up like a couple thousand dollars worth
Speaker 8: of thread, the red and string where everywhere our shipping
Speaker 8: materials were hanging from the rafters. And so yeah, we
Speaker 8: looked at it that night there were like fire trucks everywhere,
Speaker 8: and there was like a couple of gas leaks, and
Speaker 8: so ultimately I just decided, there's literally nothing I can
Speaker 8: do tonight. That's when I made the video that was
Speaker 8: on my Instagram account. And the reception I got from
Speaker 8: that video, honestly, I was like, I just sound like
Speaker 8: a bumbling idiot, because I really was like, I just
Speaker 8: don't I don't know what's going on, but I just
Speaker 8: feel like I need to say something because a lot
Speaker 8: is going to have to change really quickly. Because it
Speaker 8: was it was the holiday season. We had orders on
Speaker 8: the website that we hadn't shipped out that were like
Speaker 8: Christmas gifts for people.
Speaker 13: So how did people respond to that?
Speaker 9: Because you would hope they were like, okay, yeah, we
Speaker 9: totally get it was anybody like what my order's not coming.
Speaker 8: Some people we just didn't hear from, and that was fine,
Speaker 8: but everybody was very very kind. And I got back
Speaker 8: up there the next day and I very quickly realized
Speaker 8: that the building wasn't going to be secure, and I
Speaker 8: had a couple of expensive things in there that I
Speaker 8: didn't know whether I still worked or not. I got
Speaker 8: a U Haul and just piece by piece, started picking
Speaker 8: up anything that I thought would be of value and
Speaker 8: that I didn't want to leave overnight because sadly, you know,
Speaker 8: you start to get looters and people coming in for
Speaker 8: scrap metal and stuff like that, which everybody's got to
Speaker 8: make a living. But yeah, you know, the way I
Speaker 8: look at it is, you know that stuff that was
Speaker 8: left there. You know a lot of my inventory is
Speaker 8: still up there. It's just sitting there.
Speaker 14: You know.
Speaker 8: At this point, they've put up like a big gate
Speaker 8: and I'm guessing they're going to tear the building down.
Speaker 8: But everything was kind of covered in insulation, which you
Speaker 8: know is not good for clothing.
Speaker 6: It gets itchy.
Speaker 15: So people were like, I'll.
Speaker 8: Come wash it, and I'm like, that's it's not this
Speaker 8: kind of party, like we just need to scrap.
Speaker 9: That has to feel good to get a response like that,
Speaker 9: We'll come up there, we'll help you, we'll.
Speaker 6: Wash this stuff.
Speaker 9: I mean, even just looking at your Instagram, the outpour
Speaker 9: of support, how does that make you feel in this
Speaker 9: commune that you built.
Speaker 8: I mean, that's the thing is for the shop, the
Speaker 8: sense of community is the most important thing to me.
Speaker 8: And we have done a lot of things for the community.
Speaker 8: I think that was the hardest and strangest part was
Speaker 8: to then receive that help and to get that back.
Speaker 8: Like even the day after, the folks that run Porter Flea,
Speaker 8: they're like, we want to set up a GoFundMe for
Speaker 8: you and Allison and both of us were like no,
Speaker 8: and we're like, we have let's wait, let's see an insurance.
Speaker 8: And one of the founders of Porter Flee he actually
Speaker 8: had a fire that destroyed his workshop and he's like, listen,
Speaker 8: I'm telling you, you're gonna have insurance. But he's like,
Speaker 8: there's gonna be other stuff. There's gonna be things that
Speaker 8: you're not thinking of, and there's gonna be things that
Speaker 8: you need to take care of. And so we kind
Speaker 8: of reluctantly said yes, and it ended up just being
Speaker 8: such a big saving grace for both of us. So
Speaker 8: just swallowing my pride a little bit in that moment
Speaker 8: and letting people help. And I had a friend, Megan,
Speaker 8: She's like, I know you're not going to let me
Speaker 8: come up there to help you, and so she didn't
Speaker 8: even ask. She had been to the warehouse one or
Speaker 8: two times, and she just showed up and there she was,
Speaker 8: and I couldn't send her home, and her and her
Speaker 8: kids like help me haul stuff and move stuff, and yeah,
Speaker 8: I'll never never forget like those moments. Those are something
Speaker 8: that'll stick with me for a long time.
Speaker 9: What encouragement do you have for anybody else that's going
Speaker 9: through anything in life and they have a hard time receiving? Again,
Speaker 9: they're givers because I know how much you care about
Speaker 9: communion and how much you give. But yeah, I can
Speaker 9: tell even as you're saying it, that receiving is difficult
Speaker 9: for you and you're not alone in that. What encouragement
Speaker 9: do you have for people that might feel the same.
Speaker 8: I mean, I think I would just tell anyone like
Speaker 8: the joy that you get from helping people, like, it's
Speaker 8: okay to let other people have that moment.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 8: That's what I really realized is I'm the one who
Speaker 8: when things happen, I'm like, what do you need? What
Speaker 8: can I do? And I'm getting something out of that
Speaker 8: because I want to help and that feels something for
Speaker 8: me and it's only fair to let other people do
Speaker 8: that for you also, as hard as it is, and
Speaker 8: then you know, when you're back on your feet, you
Speaker 8: can get back to doing it. The other way around,
Speaker 8: like you like to. But I think the universe, in
Speaker 8: our world is all about balance, and I think as
Speaker 8: much as you want to give, sometimes it's okay to
Speaker 8: take a little bit.
Speaker 9: I think sometimes when we don't allow others to come in,
Speaker 9: it's exactly that we rob them of that opportunity.
Speaker 8: Yeah, and connection. You know, there's so many people that
Speaker 8: I feel like have already contributed to us, you know,
Speaker 8: getting back on our feet, and they'll forever have a
Speaker 8: connection to me and the business. And I think that
Speaker 8: that's important, just as important as you know, money or
Speaker 8: lifting a hand, just like that feeling that will always
Speaker 8: have between each other, just knowing like oh that person
Speaker 8: did something really cool in a moment that I really
Speaker 8: needed it.
Speaker 15: Hey, it's my da.
Speaker 16: In this week All Movie Mike's Movie podcast, my wife
Speaker 16: Kelsey and I broke down the best and worst movies
Speaker 16: we saw in the last thirty days. We always go
Speaker 16: see all the new movies out in theaters and streaming
Speaker 16: at home, so we give you the idea of what
Speaker 16: to watch and what to skip. But here's just a
Speaker 16: little bit from that episode, But make sure to check
Speaker 16: out the entire thing so you can hear all our
Speaker 16: recommendations and all the movies to skip. All right, we'll
Speaker 16: kick it off now, getting right into the best and worst. Kelsey,
Speaker 16: you started off, what was the best thing you saw
Speaker 16: in March Drive Away Dolls, And that was the movie
Speaker 16: about the two girls who take a trip down to
Speaker 16: Tallahassee realize they have something in their car that some
Speaker 16: criminals want. And it's a pretty wacky movie. But I
Speaker 16: also like that aspect of it.
Speaker 6: It's wacky, it's raunchy. Listen.
Speaker 10: It's no secret that I love a female at raunchy comedy.
Speaker 10: My favorite movie of all times broads Maids.
Speaker 16: Those are kind of making the comeback right now.
Speaker 6: I think it's great, Listen.
Speaker 10: We have so many raunchy dude movies that's always been
Speaker 10: the genre. American Pie, Super Bad, Wedding Crashers, The Hangover,
Speaker 10: and probably Missing like seventeen More.
Speaker 16: I agree with that, and I think this is a
Speaker 16: really good movie, one that I feel like will probably
Speaker 16: go unnoticed a little bit because it was a smaller
Speaker 16: budget movie.
Speaker 10: But maybe it will pop off on streaming like BookSmart did.
Speaker 16: I think it definitely will. I think that I think
Speaker 16: comedies in general will have a better run in streaming,
Speaker 16: just because this movie didn't have the biggest leads attached
Speaker 16: to it, although Margaret Quayley Beanie Feldstein, Yeah, I just
Speaker 16: feel like in the grand scheme of people, you're gonna
Speaker 16: sell tickets, probably not going to but once it goes
Speaker 16: to streaming, I feel like comedies do better there. The
Speaker 16: problem is if a comedy just goes on to streaming,
Speaker 16: it doesn't really make money.
Speaker 2: It's hard to.
Speaker 16: Make another movie like that again. And I think that's
Speaker 16: the reason we see less and less comedies is because
Speaker 16: they're not as profitable they're for. Studios don't want to
Speaker 16: invest in them because they really don't get a whole
Speaker 16: lot out of them. Even though for a movie like
Speaker 16: Driveaway Dolls that is a good movie on paper, you
Speaker 16: look at the numbers and you think, oh, that movie flopped,
Speaker 16: which is not the case all the time. So hopefully
Speaker 16: once that movie goes to streaming, it does pretty well.
Speaker 16: For my best of the month, it was kind of
Speaker 16: along the same lines a Driveaway Dolls. It is Love
Speaker 16: Livees Bleeding, which you didn't go see with Me and Town,
Speaker 16: but it's the Kristen Stewart movie. I feel like the
Speaker 16: plot is a little bit similar as far as being
Speaker 16: two female leads dealing with the type of crime, except
Speaker 16: Love Lives Bleeding has the A twenty four treatment, and
Speaker 16: in this case is a lot.
Speaker 15: More dramatic, a lot more.
Speaker 16: Violent, not that same comedic tone as Driveaway Dolls. But
Speaker 16: I feel like the audience for both of those movies
Speaker 16: are probably a little bit of the same. And this
Speaker 16: was a movie I went into just loving the aesthetic
Speaker 16: of it. I have like a weird fascination with Kristin
Speaker 16: Stewart as an actress.
Speaker 6: I'm here for the Chris and Stuart renaissance.
Speaker 16: I think this movie should start her comeback, not that
Speaker 16: she ever really fully went away.
Speaker 10: Yeah, but it was hard because she did Twilight and
Speaker 10: it was one of those where you do one project
Speaker 10: and it starts your career and it's what the only
Speaker 10: thing you're ever known as. And I'm like, did we
Speaker 10: really think that a movie about a high schooler marrying
Speaker 10: a vampire having a baby who ends up being imprinted
Speaker 10: on by her werewolf best friend was anyone's showcase of talent?
Speaker 16: No, but it put her on the map.
Speaker 6: Put her on the map.
Speaker 10: But I think that she is such a talented actress
Speaker 10: and I'm excited to see her getting better roles, and
Speaker 10: her press tour for this has been really fun. I
Speaker 10: just watched part of her interview that she did a
Speaker 10: seth Myers, and it was really funny because she has
Speaker 10: that like such good just like deadpan humor. She's so
Speaker 10: good at that and you can't tell if sometimes she's
Speaker 10: being serious or facetious.
Speaker 6: And I find that hilarious and kind of.
Speaker 16: Along the same lines of her co star in Twilight,
Speaker 16: Robert Pattinson, who has also had that same struggle of
Speaker 16: not being viewed as Edward from Twilight. I think it
Speaker 16: was hard for people to even see him cast as
Speaker 16: Batman because they just saw him as the vampire.
Speaker 6: I think it was great, but he was.
Speaker 2: So good in that.
Speaker 6: Are they making another one of those?
Speaker 16: Yes, it got delayed another year, so probably won't come out.
Speaker 16: It was supposed to come out next year. Probably won't
Speaker 16: come out until twenty twenty six. That movie takes so
Speaker 16: long to film, and it was kind of along the
Speaker 16: same lines of what happened with the first one. I
Speaker 16: would rather them take their time, get filming started and
Speaker 16: make it great than just try to rush it and
Speaker 16: put it out next year. I think there's also a
Speaker 16: lot of restructuring happening right now on the DC side
Speaker 16: of James Gunn taking over. He's trying to build something
Speaker 16: and not confuse audiences, which I think is their biggest
Speaker 16: struggle right now, because they're gonna come back out with
Speaker 16: another Superman movie, and then people were gonna associate it
Speaker 16: with the Superman movie from ten years ago, and then
Speaker 16: if he has a Batman in that world, the other
Speaker 16: Batman is, it's gonna be a lot of confusing even
Speaker 16: for people dialed in. That is our best of March. Now,
Speaker 16: what was your worst?
Speaker 6: People aren't gonna lame me for this. It was doune too.
Speaker 16: I found a lot of people agree with me in
Speaker 16: thinking that movie was quite boring.
Speaker 10: It it didn't do it for me. I don't It
Speaker 10: wasn't even the plots not bad. The movie's not bad.
Speaker 6: I just was bored.
Speaker 2: It's just boring. At the end of the day, it
Speaker 2: is just boring.
Speaker 10: I came home and did like a no pun intended
Speaker 10: Wikipedia wormhole about Dune, rabbit hole, whatever you want to
Speaker 10: call it, and I was like, still don't get it.
Speaker 6: I get that it's like critically acclaimed, but still don't
Speaker 6: get it.
Speaker 16: I get the majority of it. I get its intention.
Speaker 16: It is a commentary, almost like a spiritual commentary of
Speaker 16: like somebody being the chosen one, people choosing to rally
Speaker 16: behind that person, that person kind of living up to that.
Speaker 16: You have this whole religious war going on in the film.
Speaker 16: But I just found myself thinking, like, I don't care
Speaker 16: either way what happens to these characters. And aside from
Speaker 16: the visual aspect of Dune and the action aspect, I
Speaker 16: think those fight sequences are really great. There's just nothing
Speaker 16: really to grasp onto you. And with a movie that
Speaker 16: has such an amazing cast, all those people individually are
Speaker 16: great and could lead their own movie, but the fact
Speaker 16: that they're all in one movie that mixed with the
Speaker 16: great director, it should be my favorite movie of the year.
Speaker 2: I just feel like you have to.
Speaker 16: Be a really big film nerd to really enjoy Dune,
Speaker 16: and I'm not that level of nerd. And if you
Speaker 16: are that level of nerd, more power to you, because
Speaker 16: I feel like being alive at a time where this
Speaker 16: is happening right now and you can watch one, you
Speaker 16: can watch two and anticipate that they go to make
Speaker 16: three is a great time.
Speaker 2: To be a Dune fan.
Speaker 16: With all these eighties movies coming back, that's probably the
Speaker 16: one that the people are most hype on. For me,
Speaker 16: I just don't get it. I'm not into it. So
Speaker 16: I agree with you and being one of the worst
Speaker 16: that we saw last month.
Speaker 11: Carl Line, she's a queen and talking line.
Speaker 2: She's getting really.
Speaker 11: Not afraid to fing so so just let it flow.
Speaker 2: No one can do. We quite like cary Line.
Speaker 11: It sounds of Caroline.
Speaker 17: Hey, y'all, it's Caroline Hobby from Get Real with Caroline Hobby.
Speaker 17: And here is a clip from this week's episode. Okay,
Speaker 17: so when was the moment you have all your whole
Speaker 17: life has been geared up for your life that you're
Speaker 17: living like you're one of those people that it's like
Speaker 17: from the second you had thoughts about who you are
Speaker 17: as a human being too, you knew you want to
Speaker 17: be a country singer, and you started putting steps in
Speaker 17: play to make that happen.
Speaker 13: You had a mother to support you.
Speaker 17: But like, as as soon as you had real thoughts,
Speaker 17: this was your destiny. So it's like, what is it
Speaker 17: like your whole life has been this and it has
Speaker 17: been this has been your whole dream and it's come true.
Speaker 17: What is it like the when did you sid you've.
Speaker 13: Been in your dream your whole life?
Speaker 17: When did you know that your dream had come true?
Speaker 3: I think after Better Things to Do became a hit.
Speaker 13: The first single was a hit straight out of the gate.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 13: How does that feel?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 15: I was.
Speaker 3: It was surreal. It was just it was just like
Speaker 3: all of this planning and all of this, all of
Speaker 3: the sacrifice and the starving literally literally, you know, Lon,
Speaker 3: and I was. I got married when I was twenty.
Speaker 13: You met someone in National get married?
Speaker 3: Yeah? And did you marry a fiddle player? And to
Speaker 3: protect the names of the innocent, I call him starter
Speaker 3: Kit during my show because I don't want.
Speaker 13: To starter kit marriage.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, he was more than a starter kit.
Speaker 3: We were married for quite a while, seven years, I
Speaker 3: think six or seven years.
Speaker 13: Was it a nice marriage?
Speaker 3: Yes, it was fine. We were just young, too young,
Speaker 3: very young, and uh we you know, and when things
Speaker 3: started happening in my career, we really grew apart. And
Speaker 3: we were having some difficulties with communication and things leading
Speaker 3: up to that.
Speaker 13: So who doesn't when they're in their twenties.
Speaker 3: Yes, that's if I were you the song I wrote
Speaker 3: was about my marriage at that time, and I was
Speaker 3: talking to my friends about it and they were like,
Speaker 3: I would go to my friends for marriage counseling. It
Speaker 3: was free marriage counseling, so I would always call them
Speaker 3: when I was complaining, and some had good advice, some
Speaker 3: had bad advice. And I wrote that song about talking
Speaker 3: to my friends.
Speaker 13: What is the best advice.
Speaker 17: I actually have a friend who's struggling with her marriage
Speaker 17: right now, and I don't feel like I've been giving
Speaker 17: good advice to her because I've just got a kid,
Speaker 17: and I'm like, you got to you gotta fight for
Speaker 17: the marriage, You got to fight for the kid.
Speaker 13: But like, maybe that's not what you're supposed to do
Speaker 13: as a friend.
Speaker 6: I think.
Speaker 3: I think I think asking your whoever you're talking to
Speaker 3: you to put put yourself in your significant other shoes.
Speaker 3: Put wait, okaya, put yourself in that other person's shoes
Speaker 3: for it.
Speaker 13: Like me, trust my friend.
Speaker 3: No, you, if you're having trouble with your spouse, put
Speaker 3: yourself in his shoes just for a minute, and honestly
Speaker 3: try and just look at it from that person's point
Speaker 3: of view, and then you can kind of not just
Speaker 3: be so insular in how you're thinking about because a
Speaker 3: relationship is fifty to fifty, Like, you're responsible for one
Speaker 3: hundred percent of your fifty percent and you're responsible for
Speaker 3: hundred a math right there, fifty percent? I failed at math.
Speaker 3: I don't know why I'm bringing numbers into this.
Speaker 13: You are one hundred percent. You are one hundred percent
Speaker 13: responsible for your fifty percent of the marriage.
Speaker 3: The marriage, So if you're going to end the.
Speaker 13: Marriage, you got to end it as best you can.
Speaker 3: But you also need to put yourself in your spouse's
Speaker 3: shoes and make sure you're looking at it from every
Speaker 3: angle instead of just your own.
Speaker 13: But what if you just don't love them anymore but
Speaker 13: you are speci as a human?
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's hard. That's that's the tough thing. When that goes,
Speaker 3: it's hard to salvage that.
Speaker 13: Can you bring it up?
Speaker 3: That some people do with a lot of therapy in
Speaker 3: those whatever a mago thing as they call them, and
Speaker 3: workshops of some sort, I guess.
Speaker 13: But how do you know when it's time to let
Speaker 13: it go?
Speaker 7: Though?
Speaker 13: Are you glad you did?
Speaker 3: I think if you've exhausted everything, I think I wouldn't
Speaker 3: be who I am today if if I stayed in
Speaker 3: that and I don't think it wasn't abusive. He was
Speaker 3: a lovely person. I can't. I have nothing bad to
Speaker 3: say about him at all.
Speaker 13: It probably was nice to have that comfort when you
Speaker 13: were that young.
Speaker 3: Him and his family. I might have wound up moving
Speaker 3: back to Canada and given up if it weren't for them,
Speaker 3: because I felt so lonely, so alone, so isolated from
Speaker 3: any anything that I knew everyone, my whole family, I
Speaker 3: was alone here.
Speaker 13: So you land over the country person.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I very good person. And it just we just
Speaker 3: we just parted ways and grew apart. And when my
Speaker 3: career took off, it was kind of the nail in
Speaker 3: the coffin that was already it was. It was a
Speaker 3: bit of a sinking ship and it sort of was
Speaker 3: like somebody just, you know, threw a three ton weight
Speaker 3: on that ship, and that was my career. It just
Speaker 3: sank it. And I don't blame my career. I just
Speaker 3: think that it just sped that process up.
Speaker 17: What So I for me as a friend who I
Speaker 17: have someone going through this situation you were in, what
Speaker 17: kind of support do you want from your friends when
Speaker 17: you are going through a divorce, Like what you don't
Speaker 17: want your friend telling you what to do, right, because
Speaker 17: I've been their friend room, I'm like, you need to
Speaker 17: get therapy, you need to.
Speaker 13: Try to like salvage it for the kid. You need
Speaker 13: to work. But I don't think that's working on.
Speaker 3: I don't think telling them what to do is the answer.
Speaker 3: I think letting them process with you and to belly,
Speaker 3: they will figure it out. They sometimes people just have
Speaker 3: to say something out loud, just a trusted source that
Speaker 3: they they can count on not to judge them or
Speaker 3: try to fix it. They just want you to listen,
Speaker 3: and they will start saying things and they'll be ome like, oh,
Speaker 3: what did I just say? Well, I just answered my
Speaker 3: own question. And it's free therapy. A lot of times
Speaker 3: you got to pay a therapist to tell you these
Speaker 3: same things when you just have a You know, it's
Speaker 3: hard for friends to be by unbiased though, because they
Speaker 3: love you and they're on your side always. They've always
Speaker 3: got your back, so that's the only thing you know.
Speaker 3: They they're emotionally bested and where a therapist isn't. Oh
Speaker 3: we're going deep here.
Speaker 17: I thought you've been surrounded by great people though, like
Speaker 17: you've picked great people.
Speaker 3: My friends. My core group of friends that I have
Speaker 3: to this day, the ones that would help me bury
Speaker 3: the body, the ones that I would call in the
Speaker 3: middle of the night, are mostly people that I have
Speaker 3: known for thirty plus years.
Speaker 13: Wow, that says a lot about you.
Speaker 3: That I've known since I was in junior high with,
Speaker 3: like since I was twelve, And.
Speaker 13: Wow, yeah, really, so you're true blue?
Speaker 15: Oh for sure.
Speaker 3: They're not in any way, shape or form associated with
Speaker 3: the music business.
Speaker 13: I mean, she's your best I mean she's kind of associated.
Speaker 3: I love Riba and I consider her a true friend.
Speaker 13: I know I do, and I do grow out.
Speaker 3: But let me tell you something. Riba is no different
Speaker 3: than those girls that I've known my whole life.
Speaker 13: She's a truelers.
Speaker 3: She is just not affected by any any of that
Speaker 3: fame and that.
Speaker 13: You can tell.
Speaker 3: She's so grounded.
Speaker 13: She's like Toby Keith too though, Like she's just Reba.
Speaker 13: She just is who she is. To the chase, cuts
Speaker 13: to the chase.
Speaker 3: There's no bs, there's no like, you know, floating around
Speaker 3: a subject. She'll just cut to the chase. And those
Speaker 3: are my friends. They're honest, and I just want honest friends.
Speaker 15: Let's do it live.
Speaker 11: Oh the too, so losers.
Speaker 18: What up, everybody? I am lunchbox. I know the most
Speaker 18: about sports, so I'll give you the sports facts, my
Speaker 18: sports opinions, because I'm pretty much a sports genius.
Speaker 15: What up, y'all? At his sis and I'm from the North.
Speaker 15: I'm in Alpha Male. I live on the West side
Speaker 15: of Nashville with Baser, my wife. We do have a
Speaker 15: white picket fence at the apartment complex. Soon I'm gonna
Speaker 15: have two point five kids and yes, sadly, I will
Speaker 15: die of a heart attack when I'm seventy two years old.
Speaker 15: Here's a clip from the last podcast.
Speaker 18: And then they're like, hey, you can go back to
Speaker 18: the locker room.
Speaker 15: All right, cool, let's go and go back.
Speaker 6: To the locker room.
Speaker 15: So we were talking about Preds. Yeah, we walked know
Speaker 15: the Bruins.
Speaker 18: We walked down there and walk down the tunnel, walk
Speaker 18: right in the visitors locker room with all the players. Dude, yeah,
Speaker 18: you me jojo their whole claim. Brandon Drew, Yeah, Jessica,
Speaker 18: and no one stopped us. It was like we own the.
Speaker 15: Place, Brandon, thanks for the audio, Bud.
Speaker 18: We looked like a bunch of rag tag misfits, but
Speaker 18: We did wear our Bruins chain and we had our
Speaker 18: Bruins foam finger at the open practice.
Speaker 15: That was clutch. That's why you always keep gifts that
Speaker 15: people get you. They did lose out in the playoffs
Speaker 15: last year. We thought, hey, when is this gift gonna
Speaker 15: come back around? It did because we're gonna go backstage
Speaker 15: and be with the Bruins.
Speaker 18: Pretty freaking awesome. So Jessica, when she tells you, hey,
Speaker 18: I'm gonna get you something, Jessica gets you something. Thank you, Jessica.
Speaker 18: Here is our interview from the Bruins locking. I wasn't
Speaker 18: done saying, oh, go ahead. Also, we walk into the locker.
Speaker 18: Dudes are half clothed.
Speaker 15: I think the one guy was snapping towel ass guys,
Speaker 15: are we good to be in here?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 15: Ray was like, are we allowed to video in here?
Speaker 18: I was like, I don't think we should take video
Speaker 18: in here until everybody's dressed.
Speaker 15: They were de robed.
Speaker 18: It was pretty I never been Hey, can I be honest,
Speaker 18: I've never been in the locker room when they're changing.
Speaker 15: Well, and they are, and there's lady reporters in there.
Speaker 18: But lady reporters just have to be professional.
Speaker 15: Right, I mean, I I think, yeah, right, yes.
Speaker 18: Yeah, it was interesting. Yeah, and guy had a black eye.
Speaker 18: Some of them, dude, they'd had a big old black
Speaker 18: guy had a shiner. Didn't have to look at him,
Speaker 18: so I just black guy. I was like, damn, this
Speaker 18: dude's tough.
Speaker 15: And then they had a little They had drinks in there.
Speaker 15: Every Gatorade you can imagine, every Prime, the Logan, Paul Brothers,
Speaker 15: Power Aids, they had to add some kind of like
Speaker 15: uh mixed drink like uh it was an amp drink
Speaker 15: of a Gatorade. And then they had gum whatever they
Speaker 15: maybe they chew gum while they're playing. Because our guy coil,
Speaker 15: he was rocking a piece of gum. Didn't know if
Speaker 15: that was our access and maybe we didn't have access
Speaker 15: to the gum. We had access to everything else.
Speaker 18: Yeah, they had hockey sticks and the dude, I mean
Speaker 18: the I guess the laundry dudes were already starting to
Speaker 18: hang their jersey.
Speaker 15: Yeah, the launch of the game.
Speaker 2: He hung me.
Speaker 15: He handed me a jock and I said, is this coils?
Speaker 15: And then I held it up and it was smaller,
Speaker 15: So it was definitely one of the other guys. I mean,
Speaker 15: it was fantastic. So, I mean it was so fun.
Speaker 15: I mean Coyle actually liked us too. He did, and
Speaker 15: he scored a goal in the game after this interview.
Speaker 18: That is impressive. We should have bet. We should have
Speaker 18: asked him, Hey, dude, we should we bet on you
Speaker 18: to score a goal tonight.
Speaker 15: Bro, I didn't bring that crapd No, I didn't even
Speaker 15: mention it in the locker room. All my questions were, hey,
Speaker 15: just dumb betting, because sometimes that's all this in my
Speaker 15: head and I knew you can't.
Speaker 18: That's so tabooed. Never bring up betting around athletes. I'm
Speaker 18: too scared. I don't want to get them in any trouble.
Speaker 15: Bro, Calvin Ridley was out of the game for eight
Speaker 15: months for betting, So I don't even talk about it.
Speaker 18: I'm like, uh, I turned my phone off, Like I
Speaker 18: don't even joke.
Speaker 15: Oh, I didn't even joke. I'm just like, even though
Speaker 15: we were in the bet MGM lounge.
Speaker 18: We were in the bet MGM lounge talking, but we
Speaker 18: can't talk betting and they're not allowed to bet, which
Speaker 18: is so like, it's wild that every commercial is a
Speaker 18: bet bet bet, but hey, players, don't bet this your
Speaker 18: locker room is the bet MGM locker room, but don't bet. Hey,
Speaker 18: the Predators, Yours is a DraftKings locker room, but you
Speaker 18: can't bet.
Speaker 2: Dude.
Speaker 15: We were shaking hands with everybody.
Speaker 2: Dude.
Speaker 18: Those hockey players kind of big.
Speaker 15: Some of them are short though, PK. Sumn really short. Yeah,
Speaker 15: but yeah, Coyle was tall.
Speaker 2: He was huge.
Speaker 15: He was actually jacked, he was. I mean, because you
Speaker 15: can get away in hockey. You got the big jersey.
Speaker 15: You know, it's not like you're revealing your body too much.
Speaker 15: I bet some of them can have a little bit
Speaker 15: of a gut. Cole was Coyle was doing the P
Speaker 15: nine dy x or whatever they're doing nowadays, the peloton,
Speaker 15: what's bones do? He does that outdoor workout, working out
Speaker 15: with trees and the and the pavement ship.
Speaker 18: That's called the Caveman workout.
Speaker 15: Yeah, that's what they're doing.
Speaker 10: Man.
Speaker 18: Yeah, So here's our interview. Hopefully enjoy it. And yeah,
Speaker 18: I mean we are now hockey people. Oh yeah, hockey.
Speaker 15: I asked Coyle, I said, hey, man, are you getting
Speaker 15: with the ice bath? Do you guys with that?
Speaker 18: And he answered it yeah, And I asked him, do
Speaker 18: you read this specific book? Like is this what inspired
Speaker 18: you to like hockey, and he answered.
Speaker 15: It do not remember that.
Speaker 2: Wow. I feel special to being with you guys.
Speaker 14: Like I said, I listen to you guys all the
Speaker 14: time and every morning, me and my wife, and we
Speaker 14: love it.
Speaker 2: You guys make mornings fun.
Speaker 14: And uh yeah, I might not be up that early,
Speaker 14: but I think we run around the podcast or whatever.
Speaker 14: But I still love listening, and so I'm glad you
Speaker 14: guys are here.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 19: I mean, I gotta tell you, I got a question
Speaker 19: because some of me, I'm a little bit hockey dumb. Okay,
Speaker 19: Like I watch hockey because we didn't have hockey growing
Speaker 19: up in Texas. We had like a minor league team,
Speaker 19: and I went and watched the fights. So my question
Speaker 19: is what you guys get called for roughing? You are
Speaker 19: rough the whole game.
Speaker 11: What is roughing?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a tough one. I don't even know.
Speaker 14: I think I might be hockey dumb too, because I
Speaker 14: can't even answer that question.
Speaker 2: Sometimes you're just a little too rough. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I'm not a ref.
Speaker 14: That's a tough job. I just try to play and
Speaker 14: try to be rough, but not too rough. It's try
Speaker 14: to find that line.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 14: It's tough sometimes, but I know you guys like the fights,
Speaker 14: and no, I always get the fans a fight first.
Speaker 2: And then because the playoffs.
Speaker 18: I watched the playoffs.
Speaker 19: I usually when I was a kid, I'd watch Mario Lemieux,
Speaker 19: you know, un till two in the morning, because they'd
Speaker 19: go to four ots the Pittsburgh Penguins, and I'm like,
Speaker 19: I gotta go to school in the morning.
Speaker 2: I got to find out who was.
Speaker 15: They don't fight in the playoffs.
Speaker 14: Now it kind of dies down a little bit because
Speaker 14: you don't sometimes fight and you can take stupid penalties
Speaker 14: and then you're in the box. The team goes in
Speaker 14: the bar, play score and then bow momentum switches. So
Speaker 14: playoffs are a big deal. So it kind of dies down,
Speaker 14: and but it does get rough in the playoffs. I
Speaker 14: think it gets a little rough, and the ref's kind
Speaker 14: of let that go a little more.
Speaker 15: I got a question. So I'm from Michigan, so I
Speaker 15: know the A and all that and all those people
Speaker 15: talk and stuff. But I moved there late and all
Speaker 15: the dudes were already on ice. Did you start on
Speaker 15: rollerblades or how did that go? Because I was just
Speaker 15: blate to the game.
Speaker 14: I did a little of both. I did a little both.
Speaker 14: I think I started on the ice, though, but they
Speaker 14: kind of went hand in hand. So go to the rink,
Speaker 14: you play. I loved it when I started, So I
Speaker 14: started on the ice and then at home just being
Speaker 14: around around the house with the neighborhood kids. You get
Speaker 14: on the blades, and so I love doing both. Did
Speaker 14: you ever want to be not saying you're like, what
Speaker 14: are the ones on ice?
Speaker 2: The figure skaters? Did you ever think of home? Actually?
Speaker 19: Like all the Olympics, you know what I mean, I'm
Speaker 19: a partner, like not not a site of Lucan.
Speaker 2: No, she's a gymnast. Kristy Gamagucci. There you go. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 14: I told his sisters and one played hockey and one
Speaker 14: did a little figure skating.
Speaker 2: I kind of shied away from that. I just I
Speaker 2: liked the hockey.
Speaker 14: But there were guys who I grew up playing against,
Speaker 14: guys in the NHL now, like Jeff Skinners, one of them.
Speaker 14: He grew up figure skating and he's one of the
Speaker 14: best skaters in the league.
Speaker 2: I saw.
Speaker 14: I kind of envy that. Now, kind of wish I
Speaker 14: did figure skating grown up. Hey, thanks Sunday Sampler.
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