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Speaker 1: Right now it is time for today's Strawberry Letter. Uh.

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Speaker 1: you guys have been really writing and well we may

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Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air like we're

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Speaker 1: doing this one. You never know, you never know. Up

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Speaker 1: hold on type we got it, paull you here. It

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Speaker 1: is a Strawberry let us subject why is my son

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Speaker 1: in law watching me? Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm writing you

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Speaker 1: for advice on a family matter. When my daughter had

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Speaker 1: I was thrilled to be there to help with my grandchild.

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Speaker 1: After living with them for about five months, my daughter

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Speaker 1: was no joking matter. She told me that my son

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Speaker 1: in law had been watching me in an inappropriate way.

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Speaker 1: My son in law has always said that he doesn't

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Speaker 1: like big women, and I'm a big, curvy womp. So

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Speaker 1: I wear tight pants and leggings to entice him, and

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Speaker 1: I'm doing it on purpose. I moved out immediately to

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Speaker 1: remove myself from the situation. I've always dressed decently and

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Speaker 1: leggings are in style, so I never thought about my clothes. Uh.

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Speaker 1: I never thought that my clothes were a problem. Since

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Speaker 1: I've moved out, my relationship with my daughter is rocky.

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Speaker 1: I can't help but feel like she blames me for

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Speaker 1: her husband's attraction to me. This really bothers me, and

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Speaker 1: I'm sad because I don't get to see my grandchild

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Speaker 1: that much anymore. I don't know why my son in

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Speaker 1: do to make things right? Please help? This is crazy.

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Speaker 1: I really don't believe my eyes and ears. I mean

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Speaker 1: either they want you gone immediately and that's what you did, um,

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Speaker 1: after five months of being there with them, or they're

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Speaker 1: just playing crazy. Um, you haven't done anything wrong. You

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Speaker 1: you asked what you know? What can you do to

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Speaker 1: make things right? You haven't done anything wrong. You came

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Speaker 1: you attractive in tight clothes. This sounds crazy. And then

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Speaker 1: some for some reason, he's gotten his daughter, your daughter

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Speaker 1: and what is wrong? I don't understand what's wrong with

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Speaker 1: Of course, she you know, is one with her husband

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Speaker 1: and everything. But you're her mom. And again you came

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Speaker 1: You lose in this situation, But the grandchild does too

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Speaker 1: because they don't get the benefit of seeing their grandparents anymore.

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Speaker 1: Because your son in law is attracted to you, and

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Speaker 1: your daughter feels some kind of way. This letter is crazy.

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Speaker 1: If they wanted you to leave, they could have asked you. Uh,

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Speaker 1: First of all, uh, this lady says, uh, my, why

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Speaker 1: why is he watching you? But this dude is wrong

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Speaker 1: on so many levels. I questioned. All of my questions

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Speaker 1: What is his objective? Because it serves no purpose man,

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Speaker 1: Once again, my daughter came to me and said that

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Speaker 1: This was no joking matter. She told me that my

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Speaker 1: Now right here, then we gotta address what the hell

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Speaker 1: You have a choice, you cannot want them. So this

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Speaker 1: you drummed up. Not with all of that said, then

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Speaker 1: Now you're tripping My whole thing is It's not you, ma'am,

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Speaker 1: it's all him. Why would he? First of all, why

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Speaker 1: I'll be I'll be looking at her some kind of way. Baby.

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Speaker 1: three after the hours subject why is my son in

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Speaker 1: then you know, just to get it clear. He's sitting

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Speaker 1: What was a problem since I moved out, My relationship

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Speaker 1: she blames me for her husband's attracting to me. This

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Speaker 1: What can I do to make things right? Please help?

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Speaker 1: I think it's time for reenacting. Shirley. Yes, I want

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Speaker 1: you to be not Jake. No. No, he's gonna be

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Speaker 1: who is the mama? Baby? Yes, yes, honey, I need

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, of course, what's up? Hey? Look, you know

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Speaker 1: mom we should be walking around and everything. It's like crazy,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. No, I don't know what

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Speaker 1: You know I'd be like sitting up watching TV and

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Speaker 1: she's like walk right in front of the TV. Well

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Speaker 1: maybe she's just trying to get by honey, what are

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Speaker 1: We ain't got a two bed room, but damn, I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know you couldn't go outside walk down the driveway

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Speaker 1: let it go. Yeah, I think you should fast forward

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Speaker 1: two weeks later, baby, what's up? I need to talk

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Speaker 1: to you again. Okay, your mama's talked to you a

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Speaker 1: couple weeks ago about your mama. Well, man, I mean

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Speaker 1: she really going and she's throwing it at me. Now

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Speaker 1: she's throwing what at you? Honey? You know that thing? What?

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Speaker 1: What do you and your mama man like? I know? Look, look,

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Speaker 1: I'm grown man, and I know when I'm getting hit on.

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Speaker 1: You know, your mama justin came up in here. Well,

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Speaker 1: all the tight head pants, leggings and stuff. He's just

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Speaker 1: trying to be everything I can be for my family. Well, honey,

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Speaker 1: leggings are in style. I think you're wrong with this. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: what did you talking about legans? What legans got to

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Speaker 1: my mom is not a small woman, so you know

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Speaker 1: she's just walking normally. I don't really know what you're

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Speaker 1: Let me call Earl right now? Hey, Hello, whatever, Hey,

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Speaker 1: Nobody's that nobody? Hold on, hold on, hold on? Who

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Speaker 1: He can't hit me this Dwyane house. Well it's my

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Speaker 1: And why are you talking like that? My pocket knife?

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Speaker 1: Listen to me, roll Linda? What are you talking about?

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Speaker 1: that's too much woman for you, young player. That's what

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Speaker 1: looking at mama, I'm gonna be the baby. Just something

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Speaker 1: admitted doing it. You know what, Steve, Steve, come on, no,

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Speaker 1: for me is finished. We'll go whoop your head up

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Speaker 1: with it? Oh? Would go? Who? Nobody as you? All right,

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