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Speaker 1: Hello, Chip.

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Speaker 2: Well, Hi, Hi Ding, Oh good, how are you.

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Speaker 1: I'm doing well. It's a little rainy here in Nashville.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of cozy. It feels like a little bit

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Speaker 1: of fall vibe. You know, we're getting cool weather this weekend.

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Speaker 2: I know. I saw it's gonna drop. I mean, I

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Speaker 2: think a lot of the country is going to see

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Speaker 2: a big drop. Really, there's like a weird cold front. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I read yesterday that there's some places that like it's

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Speaker 2: literally gonna drop like forty thirty or forty degrees from

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Speaker 2: the high in that day to it's gonna for us,

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Speaker 2: it's gonna be like twenty degrees a twenty from the

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Speaker 2: high that day. But it's gonna be like the high

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Speaker 2: forties at night this weekend, which is kind of like

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Speaker 2: swetter weather.

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Speaker 1: I love.

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Speaker 2: Oh you got a little sweater on already.

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Speaker 1: I do. I'm really cozy. You have on slippers and

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Speaker 1: a sweater, And I just really love fall. It makes

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Speaker 1: me really happy. I put my like my little Matt outside.

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Speaker 1: This is Hello Pumpkin. That's as far as I go

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Speaker 1: with Halloween decoration.

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Speaker 2: Oh like my my streets having a parade and there

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Speaker 2: you but yeah, they're using my driveway to do a

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Speaker 2: photo booth.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, that feels aggressive, but.

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Speaker 2: Hey, that's my contramation. Oh my, we had Well, so

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Speaker 2: it's a neighborhood parade. It's not on the trick or

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Speaker 2: treat night.

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Speaker 1: And will be in this parade because I'll be.

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Speaker 2: Out of town so I won't be here, but they're

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Speaker 2: going to use my driveway to set up the and

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Speaker 2: funny enough, the photographer that's doing it. I was about

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Speaker 2: to shoot this week with Elle and we were shooting

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Speaker 2: with Robbie Klein, who's a photographer who's an amazing photographer,

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Speaker 2: and Aaron Towntown and one of the assistants. Her name

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Speaker 2: is Alissa Barker, and I follow her on Instagram because

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Speaker 2: she's also an amazing photographer, and so I was like

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Speaker 2: at the shoot, I was like, oh my god, I

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Speaker 2: had you on my list for this like list of

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Speaker 2: photo when I put together a list of photographers to

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Speaker 2: suggest she was one of them, and so I was

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Speaker 2: happy to see that she was actually on set. She

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Speaker 2: was like, Yeah, this is totally like my jam. I'm

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Speaker 2: so happy I'm here. Anyway, she goes, also, I think

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Speaker 2: I live on your street. Oh my god, it lives

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Speaker 2: like five houses down from me, and she was like, also,

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Speaker 2: are you gonna be around for the thing because I'm

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Speaker 2: apparently doing a photo booth in your front yard on

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Speaker 2: the driveway, And I was like, I'm not, but I

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Speaker 2: did agree to, and I was like, let me know

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Speaker 2: if you have any problems with the electric because I

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Speaker 2: can let you into my house remotely. So it's a

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Speaker 2: small world, but yeah, it's I don't really decorate either,

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Speaker 2: And there are some people on my street that like,

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's insane and I feel so much shame.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I have a house down my street that literally

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Speaker 1: the entrance is this huge skull. At this time of year,

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Speaker 1: it looks like a haunted house, like Legit haunted house.

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Speaker 1: It's just funny to me. I love that. Only in Nashville,

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Speaker 1: wheld you have a professional photographer doing a photo booth

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Speaker 1: in your driveway? What is that?

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Speaker 2: And like last year, they're like there were like legit

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Speaker 2: extended to a few blocks, but they've got the permit

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Speaker 2: where the streets closed off. But then on whatever, and

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Speaker 2: I guess it's Halloween night when the trick or treaders

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Speaker 2: come like it's crazy because we have Kroger's by us.

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Speaker 1: So you're like, Mama, you put an as on Kroger's,

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Speaker 1: it's Kroger.

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Speaker 2: No, it's Kroger's by us. It's like aposterphy.

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Speaker 1: There is a Kroger by No, but I'm.

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Speaker 2: Saying Kroger's by us.

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Speaker 1: Like no, yes, no, it's Kroger Kroger.

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Speaker 2: But I could say that, or I could say kroger

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Speaker 2: is by us, And I'm just shortening.

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Speaker 1: You with your way in on if it's Kroger or

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Speaker 1: do you add the s Krogers.

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Speaker 2: Well, the store is just Kroger. But I'm saying, but

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Speaker 2: I'm turning it into a contraction. It's like Kroger's book. No,

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Speaker 2: it's just Facebook, right, I wouldn't say the Facebook right. Anyway,

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Speaker 2: there's a grocery store named Kroger by us, and a

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Speaker 2: lot of people park there like church buses will park

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Speaker 2: there and walk the neighborhood because it's it's a really

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Speaker 2: like small short streets. They don't have a lot of

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Speaker 2: cut throughs. Yeah. No, I normally spend a fortune on candy.

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Speaker 1: Well, this is a big debate happening in my relationship

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Speaker 1: right now, because so I on Halloween Day, everyone's gonna

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Speaker 1: be like, she's the grandson stole Halloween. But I turned

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Speaker 2: Off, I shut the door, candy out.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't do that even I got really I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know. I just for some reason,

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Speaker 1: like when I was dating my last relationship, there were

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Speaker 1: children involved, so we obviously would go trick or treating

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Speaker 1: and it was so fine, like I loved it. But

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Speaker 1: since then I just have sort of been like, I

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Speaker 1: don't know if it was like I was sad because

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Speaker 1: I missed those girls, or like what it was, but

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Speaker 1: I just didn't really want to participate. So last year

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Speaker 1: I forgot to turn my light off. I had some

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Speaker 1: kids knock and I just like didn't answer. I was like,

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Speaker 1: who am I? What is wrong with me? My boyfriend

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Speaker 1: like gives full candy bars and he's like and I'm like, well,

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Speaker 1: I bet your house is hoppin' like away a full.

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Speaker 2: Heart message boards probably totally.

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Speaker 1: They're like hit the house in the corner.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, kit cats, yeah go twice, change your costume.

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Speaker 1: But his big complaint is how much money he spends

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Speaker 1: on Halloween. I was like, well, I bet you do what.

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Speaker 2: I mean, candy is not cheap like I bought, because

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Speaker 2: I did buy a bag which I've now left at

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Speaker 2: the office since I'm not going to be at home,

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Speaker 2: and it's like forty bucks and I can go through

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Speaker 2: seven eight of those easy out of what it's like mixed, like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's assorted stuff. But to make it not feel like

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Speaker 2: I'm spending three hundred dollars on candy every year, it's

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Speaker 2: like I'll buy a bag every time I go to

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Speaker 2: the grocery store. So it's like spread it.

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Speaker 1: Out, trick yourself. I just A'm like, Damn, Halloween is expensive.

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Speaker 1: That's probably why I just don't do it.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, you know what, You're like, I don't even

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Speaker 2: eat candy, so don't.

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Speaker 1: Why would I kill you guys with all this sugar?

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Speaker 2: Okay, what if you just left a bag of apples

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Speaker 2: out and said first come, first served.

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Speaker 1: They would all just still be sitting there.

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Speaker 2: They'd probably put razors in them and said keep them yourself.

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Speaker 1: I try to put like my gluten free, dairy free

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Speaker 1: option like some sort of people. It's got no sugar.

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Speaker 1: It's like, this is the most boring, terrible health You.

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Speaker 2: Get samples like you go to every dentist office in

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Speaker 2: Nashville and get like this, like sample dental flosses that

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Speaker 2: they give you when.

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Speaker 1: You like, here's a green juice and here's some colgate

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Speaker 1: to take on your way. It's just like Toms. It's

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Speaker 1: not even like it's like the natural toothpaste. It's like

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Speaker 1: arm and hammer bacon stead of do you imagine kids

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Speaker 1: would be like? And I'm like giving away vitamins.

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Speaker 2: And shit, You're like, why is there bags of poop

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Speaker 2: thrown against my house?

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Speaker 1: How do I get egged? Guys like these organic?

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 1: This is This is such a tangent. But I just

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Speaker 1: thought of it because there's this girl on Instagram. And

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Speaker 1: I don't know if any of you guys follow her

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Speaker 1: or even watch the Kardashians Chip, I know you don't,

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Speaker 1: but there's this girl. Her name's like you're us. I

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Speaker 1: don't even know. It's why you are a I bet

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Speaker 1: if you put that in you would find her. And

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Speaker 1: she does these videos where she plays each Kardashian character okay,

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Speaker 1: and every time she plays Courtney, all she says, is

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Speaker 1: it organic? It's just like everything is like vegan, gluten free, organic,

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Speaker 1: all these things. And I'm like I have one d

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Speaker 1: percent know that this is what my friends says.

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Speaker 2: I'm organic?

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Speaker 1: Is that gluten free? Dairy free?

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Speaker 2: Well, it was funny because we went Kelly and I

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Speaker 2: were to dinner last night for our friend's birthday, and

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Speaker 2: she was a little late because she was working, and

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Speaker 2: we went to an Italian a pizza restaurant, like a

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Speaker 2: really nice pizza Italian restaurant, and as we're ordering, like,

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Speaker 2: we order a bunch of shit, and then one of

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Speaker 2: our friends goes, excuse me, can you tell me what

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Speaker 2: on this list is dairy free and gluten free for

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Speaker 2: our friend who's coming a little later. And I was like,

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Speaker 2: we're to fucking pizza restaurant. It is all and gluten

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Speaker 2: And the guy mean, yeah, literally everything you ordered has

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Speaker 2: cheese on it, Like except for this salad and that thing.

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Speaker 1: It's like cheese and breadcrumbs and then bread. He's like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you know this about pizza, but

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Speaker 1: it's bread and cheese. It is literally gluten and dairy

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Speaker 1: on a plate.

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Speaker 2: God, those Italian words down there are just Italian for.

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Speaker 1: Cheese, right, These are all the different ways you say

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Speaker 1: gluten and dairy and Italian.

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Speaker 2: I tell you, I did see her eat one quarter

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Speaker 2: of an icy sandwich, so but I do think it

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Speaker 2: ice cream. I think it was so good.

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Speaker 1: We're talking about the restaurant's City House. If anyone ever

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Speaker 1: comes to visit Nashville, I highly recommend. It's been one

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Speaker 1: of my favorites.

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Speaker 2: James Beard Award winning James Beard.

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Speaker 1: It's an og of before Nashville was what you guys

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Speaker 1: who don't live here and hear about before Nashville was

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Speaker 1: that city House is there. It was like one of

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Speaker 1: my favorite restaurants from the get go being here. It's

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Speaker 1: so good, but it is Italian is like the most

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Speaker 1: difficult meal for me to eat, which sucks because who

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Speaker 1: doesn't like pasta and bread and pizza and whatever. But

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Speaker 1: there are some places you have like gluten free options,

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Speaker 1: and I can do certain cheeses as long as they're

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Speaker 1: not like cow's milk.

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Speaker 2: Got it Okay? Well we didn't even get asked for

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Speaker 2: that detail.

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Speaker 1: But I don't care. I was like, no, it's not

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Speaker 1: even if farting, it's that I get allergies. It's you

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Speaker 1: always think I'm gonna like shit my pants. That's like

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Speaker 1: not even No, it's like my my head, I get

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Speaker 1: a headache, I get like super congested. Now if I

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Speaker 1: eat gluten, I end up looking like I'm pregnant, Like

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Speaker 1: it's just my belly swells, but it's just because it

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Speaker 1: inflames your body, you know. Like, but I'm not like intolerant,

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Speaker 1: I'm just sensitive. So I just avoid because I feel

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Speaker 1: like I need to go take a nap after I

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Speaker 1: eat all those things. So anyway, this is the tangent

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Speaker 1: that you guys never asked for. And here we are.

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Speaker 2: Are you still there? Hello? Hello?

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Speaker 1: Hello? Are you there? Anyway? I just wanted to catch

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Speaker 1: up though, because I feel like you and I haven't

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Speaker 1: really had like a bit of a catch up in

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Speaker 1: a minute. And we didn't even do our wrap up

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Speaker 1: last month because we ended up having Gretchen Rubin Pop

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Speaker 1: I are like friends on instant now, and I like,

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Speaker 2: you can see me sitting at my dining room table

439
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Speaker 2: recording this. And I just would not make eye contact

440
00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:46,440
Speaker 2: with him because there's no way to communicate it without

441
00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:48,840
Speaker 2: getting up opening the door, being like I can't I

442
00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:50,359
Speaker 2: don't know who you are, and I can't do this

443
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Speaker 2: right now. But he stood there for a while, making

444
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Speaker 2: very strong eye contact with my dog, who was just

445
00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:59,000
Speaker 2: growling and trying to eat him. And then he goes

446
00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:01,159
Speaker 2: to his truck and it's this big thing and starts

447
00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:03,560
Speaker 2: literally cleaning the cobwebs off of them at the windows

448
00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:07,040
Speaker 2: in my front porch, and I'm like, what's going on. Nope,

449
00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:10,920
Speaker 2: And then he came back and rang the doorbell again.

450
00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:13,840
Speaker 2: I again acknowledge him, and then we wrapped up and

451
00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:15,720
Speaker 2: I walked out and he was sitting in his truck

452
00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:17,639
Speaker 2: and I was like, hey, I think you have the

453
00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:21,000
Speaker 2: wrong house, and he was like thirteen thirteen and says

454
00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,919
Speaker 2: my street, and I go, oh, I'm b thirteen thirteen.

455
00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:29,120
Speaker 2: Oh no, my cobwebs, so I'm clean? Yeah?

456
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Speaker 1: Did you pay him?

457
00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:34,399
Speaker 2: No? I didn't ask for that. Wow, I was like,

458
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Speaker 2: those weren't those were my Halloween decorations?

459
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Speaker 1: You asshole?

460
00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 2: Put him back like natural.

461
00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:46,360
Speaker 1: I'm like organic, organic cob webs, only it's like a

462
00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:49,000
Speaker 1: forecasting in some ways that that was happening on our

463
00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:50,800
Speaker 1: last podcast of last month.

464
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Speaker 2: Right. You know what's funny is Gretchen probably would have

465
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Speaker 2: appreciated the fact that, like someone was cleaning up my

466
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Speaker 2: front point.

467
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:00,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was been all over that. That's amazing your housekeeping.

468
00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:03,800
Speaker 1: I do think it's ironic that the wrap up of

469
00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 1: the housekeeping was you getting your cob webs?

470
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Speaker 2: Right?

471
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Speaker 1: What in the world?

472
00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:10,200
Speaker 2: I mean, it's so random.

473
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:11,480
Speaker 1: Universus funny that way.

474
00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, where do you get one of those

475
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:16,680
Speaker 2: big because my house has like got really tall, Like yeah,

476
00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:18,919
Speaker 2: roof stuff is really tall. I'm like, where do I

477
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:21,119
Speaker 2: get one of those sticks? With the home depot? If

478
00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:24,119
Speaker 2: I had to guess, you won't be seeing me in there. Nope,

479
00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:27,280
Speaker 2: you know I hate that place. There's cue mean at

480
00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:28,600
Speaker 2: home Depot, though, I do.

481
00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,280
Speaker 1: Still need to borrow your pressure washer. That's when you

482
00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:34,439
Speaker 1: can talk about that. Okay, that's the last time and

483
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:39,000
Speaker 1: I went to yeah, housekeeping, I have some cobwebs. Last

484
00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:41,240
Speaker 1: time my Chip and I went to home depot was

485
00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:43,760
Speaker 1: because he was pressure washing my house and it was

486
00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:44,960
Speaker 1: the best days of my life.

487
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Speaker 2: I'm about to do mine this. I think I'm gonna

488
00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:51,320
Speaker 2: do my my front walkway this weekend.

489
00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:54,840
Speaker 1: That makes such a difference freezing outside, you might as well.

490
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:56,879
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's probably well.

491
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Speaker 1: The reason I said too that we could still keep

492
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:04,840
Speaker 1: our like housekeeping ish mentality is we were saying before

493
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 1: the podcast, like it is the time of the year

494
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:12,160
Speaker 1: before you move into the new year where you kind

495
00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:14,679
Speaker 1: of do start to reevaluate. Like for me, fall is

496
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:16,920
Speaker 1: sort of like you're wrapping up the year, but you're

497
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 1: sort of still in this like work pace. So we

498
00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:22,840
Speaker 1: decided we would call it the fall overhaul, like that's

499
00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:25,920
Speaker 1: what we're doing when we're really diving deep into these cobwebs.

500
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Speaker 1: So I still this month, I'm pledging it right now.

501
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:35,440
Speaker 2: Hold me to your second for the second time.

502
00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:39,119
Speaker 1: Hopefully you won't for the third time. I will find

503
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Speaker 1: any reason not to do this office like, but I really,

504
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 1: really like I had a really inspiring work day to day,

505
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:46,560
Speaker 1: and I was thinking to myself, you know what would

506
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:48,359
Speaker 1: make this even better is if you were sitting in

507
00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:52,040
Speaker 1: your fucking office, like right, get that shit done, girl.

508
00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:56,199
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah. Anyways, honestly, my office, the problem with it

509
00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:59,119
Speaker 2: being junkie is that now when I'm at home working,

510
00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 2: I work on my dining table, which is now junkie.

511
00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:03,000
Speaker 1: Yeah right, I know.

512
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 2: It's like it's all it's all about stress, and it's

513
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:08,920
Speaker 2: like I really do need a fall overhaul.

514
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 1: Like okay, so that's it. We're looking. We're getting behind

515
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:16,719
Speaker 1: our cob webs, my cobweb of avoidance in that area.

516
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:19,920
Speaker 1: I'm going to go try to organize, maybe go listen

517
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 1: to some of our organizing podcast and do a fall

518
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 1: overhaul of my office. It's happening. Are you doing it?

519
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:25,800
Speaker 1: Are you in?

520
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm in.

521
00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:30,960
Speaker 1: Okay, we'll report back. But my question for you guys

522
00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:33,760
Speaker 1: would be going into this month, what are the cob

523
00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 1: webs that you're avoiding? And I hope some of these

524
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 1: topics that we end up talking about will help maybe

525
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 1: shine some light on some areas that might be helpful

526
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 1: or give you some tools to kind of deep dive

527
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 1: into some of that. But I think that's like a

528
00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:48,200
Speaker 1: good beginning. Start to think about what are the cob

529
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:51,680
Speaker 1: webs and what what are you avoiding? What's in your

530
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 1: spooky little closet back there, like spooky season.

531
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Speaker 2: Anybody not had sex for a really long time? Yeah,

532
00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:00,880
Speaker 2: anybody knocked the cob web off? We want to hear

533
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:01,239
Speaker 2: from you.

534
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 1: You did knock the cob webs off. Please tell us

535
00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:06,199
Speaker 1: your stories. You can always remember when we used to

536
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 1: get really funny sex stories from like Brittany and people.

537
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:12,960
Speaker 1: It's pretty where you at girl. Anyway, if you guys

538
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 1: have funny stories or you're inspired to kind of look

539
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 1: behind the cobwebs at something, email us at the Edge

540
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 1: at velvetsedge dot com. We always write you back and

541
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,399
Speaker 1: we love hearing from you guys. You can also hit

542
00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 1: me up on Instagram. It's at Velvet's Edge Chip.

543
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 2: I'm at Chip doorsh It's CHP d O R.

544
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Speaker 1: S ch And as you guys are going into your weekend,

545
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:36,720
Speaker 1: you're looking at your cob webs and you're living on

546
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 1: the edge. I hope you also remember too a casual

547
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 1: really think that made that much sense, but you know

548
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Speaker 1: that means all right, Love you guys, Bye bye,