1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:04,120 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. If you 2 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:08,039 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, please 3 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:11,880 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and 4 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 5 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're gonna read this 6 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:20,920 Speaker 1: one right here, right now. You never know, it could 7 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:25,320 Speaker 1: be yours. It could be yours. Buckle up and hold 8 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 1: on tight. We got it for you here. It is 9 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew. Subject my boyfriend puts his 10 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:35,160 Speaker 1: friends first. Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been dating a man 11 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 1: for almost two years and he has a lot of 12 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: female friends. I hung out with all of them, and 13 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 1: at first I tried to act like a team player, 14 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 1: but I see he has no respect for boundaries in 15 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: this relationship. He has a lot of house parties, or 16 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 1: his friends will come over and do impromptu cookouts no 17 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: matter what we have planned. He drops everything to entertain them. 18 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 1: He calls and invites females over to his house whenever 19 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 1: he's having a get together. I've told him that his 20 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 1: single friends are going to cause him to be a 21 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 1: single man too. Fast forward to last weekend and He 22 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:11,960 Speaker 1: and I went out Friday night and we didn't make 23 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: plans for Saturday, so I got up and went to 24 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 1: the mall. As I left out, he told me that 25 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:20,960 Speaker 1: he wanted to have a cookout, something small. I went 26 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:23,319 Speaker 1: to the mall, then home to take a nap, and 27 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 1: then to my boyfriend's house. There were new girls there 28 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 1: that I had never met, and one of them greeted 29 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 1: me as if I as if she was a lady 30 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:35,120 Speaker 1: of the house. My boyfriend ran over to intervene because 31 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: he knows me. Three females were in his kitchen, cooking 32 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 1: and making drinks and very comfortable in his home. The 33 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: cutest one yelled when her song came on, and she 34 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: ran out to the patio to dance with my man. 35 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: She told him that was their song from college, and 36 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 1: he told her that he played the song just for her. 37 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:58,559 Speaker 1: Of course, he said, I was blowing things out of proportion. 38 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:02,559 Speaker 1: After I yatly cursed him out in the laundry room, 39 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 1: he tried to assure me that they all went to 40 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: college together and it's innocent. He asked if two of 41 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 1: the girls could crash at his house. I said no, 42 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 1: and he said he had already told them they could, 43 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 1: and he didn't want to be rude. Is this all 44 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 1: just innocent fun or is he playing me for a fool? 45 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 1: In my face? Wow, this guy is not your boyfriend. 46 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 1: You called him your man and everything, but guess what, 47 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: he's everybody's man. He's everybody's boyfriend all his college girlfriends. 48 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:37,640 Speaker 1: You're not number one in his life. You're not a 49 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 1: priority in his life. These women are way too familiar 50 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: to be considered just his college friends. He had a 51 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:47,799 Speaker 1: past with a few of them. You can believe that 52 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 1: they're saying things like outa's our song and then dancing 53 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 1: with him, running out to dance with him on the patio, 54 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:58,799 Speaker 1: sleeping over and stuff, and acting like they're the ladies 55 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:01,040 Speaker 1: of the house. They're all in kitchen when you his 56 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: supposed girlfriend, comes in. They don't even know you, let 57 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 1: alone respect you. I mean, you know, yeah, you said 58 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 1: you hung out with them, but they don't seem to 59 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 1: have a clue who you really are in its life 60 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 1: because guess what, he hasn't told them about you. He 61 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 1: didn't claim you in front of them when he had 62 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 1: a perfect opportunity. Okay, this is not looking good for 63 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: you and him in this relationship. Going forward, and you 64 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 1: need to let him know that. But of course he 65 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 1: will dismiss your feelings and tell you you're blowing things 66 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 1: out of proportion. Again, you may as well be one 67 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 1: of the random chicks at the barbecue for all it matters, 68 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 1: because he's done nothing to show you or them otherwise. 69 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 1: After two years, this is what it is. I mean, 70 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: you're just one of the girls to him. So I 71 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 1: suggest to you that you don't waste another second of 72 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 1: your time with him and move on. Let him have 73 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: his female friends. He's not worth it. You deserve to 74 00:03:55,920 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 1: be special to someone, just not him. Steve. I'm just 75 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 1: I'm amazed. I'm just simply amazed till I don't know 76 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 1: how many times I said on this show. But y'all 77 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 1: write these letters to this show. You already know what 78 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 1: I've said on this topic before. I've said it over 79 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:21,160 Speaker 1: and over. I'm assuming that people write into the show 80 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: because they're fans of the show and they watch and 81 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 1: they listen to the show. And I assume that people 82 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 1: write into into Straw Bay Letter because they know that 83 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 1: we give out our different takes and advice on these letters. 84 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 1: It's not always advice. Sometimes it's just my take, Nat 85 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 1: Shirley does, between the two of us, try to offer 86 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:44,479 Speaker 1: the most advice. I sometimes just give you my take 87 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 1: because sometimes I don't think you need advice, I just 88 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:50,600 Speaker 1: think you just need to hear your stupid ass letter 89 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 1: read back to you. That's how I feel about it. 90 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:56,919 Speaker 1: Sometimes to me, sometimes just take me. You typed it, 91 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 1: you said that way, and just took the time out 92 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: this latter right Here's coming from a person who's obviously 93 00:05:02,760 --> 00:05:05,160 Speaker 1: listened to the show before, and so now I gotta 94 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: tell you. We've gone over this, So here we go again. 95 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 1: My boyfriend puts his friends first, this Stephen Sherley. I've 96 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 1: been dating a man for almost two years and he 97 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: has a lot of female friends. Stop right there, let's 98 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:23,599 Speaker 1: just go over this line right here. I'm dating a 99 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 1: man that has a lot of female friends. I have 100 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 1: told you every opportunity I get on this show that 101 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:40,479 Speaker 1: men are incapable of having female friends that they have 102 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 1: been attracted to or are currently attracted to. We are 103 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:49,280 Speaker 1: incapable of that. I ain't gonna tell you no, damn MO. 104 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 1: But it looks like I have to tell you again 105 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 1: because this is what this ignorant askelet about right here. 106 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 1: You don't believe fat meat greasy, Well, let me put 107 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 1: the grease out to paying for you. I hang out 108 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 1: with all of them, and at first I try to 109 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 1: act like a team player, but I see he has 110 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 1: no respect for boundaries in this relationship. You out, ma'am. 111 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 1: You know why he don't have no respect for the 112 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 1: boundaries in the relationship because you don't have any boundaries. 113 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:20,479 Speaker 1: See you, you went along with all of this. You 114 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 1: condone it. You hang out with all of them. See, 115 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 1: you can't put the velvet rope up and then don't 116 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:28,839 Speaker 1: expect nobody to step over it. You gotta have bob 117 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 1: wi offense if you're serious. But you got a little 118 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 1: velvet rope with the clip owner. Anybody take that off. 119 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:37,840 Speaker 1: He don't respect the boundaries because you don't have any. 120 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 1: When we come back, it's more the same, all right, Steve. 121 00:06:42,920 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at 122 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour Strawberry Letter, subject my 123 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 1: boyfriend puts his friends First. We'll get back into it 124 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening show, all right, Come on, Steve, 125 00:06:57,000 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 1: let's recap today Strawberry letter, My boyfriend friend puts his 126 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: friend first, here's another letter about a woman with a 127 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:08,719 Speaker 1: man that has female friends, and it then created a 128 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: problem I told y'all over and over and over on 129 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 1: this show. See, I don't care if you agree with 130 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 1: Uncle Steve, agree with what I'm saying. O Jesus, facts 131 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 1: and the proof keep coming in into all these letters. 132 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 1: This man has female friends. That ain't what we capable 133 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:31,320 Speaker 1: of doing. But okay, let's try. And he has a 134 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 1: lot of female friends. I hang out with all of them, 135 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 1: So once again, you condone this. At first, I tried 136 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 1: to act like a team player, but I see he 137 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 1: has no respect for boundaries in this relationship. Once again, 138 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: he has no boundaries for the relationship because you don't 139 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 1: have any boundaries in the relationship. See you remember you 140 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 1: said you hang out with all of them. You've been 141 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 1: going along with this all right. He has a lot 142 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:52,680 Speaker 1: of house parties, and his friends come over and do 143 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 1: impromptu cookouts. Okay, so now you got a man that's 144 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 1: got some women that can pop by and just start 145 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:02,120 Speaker 1: cooking at his house that you're hoping one day becomes 146 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 1: y'all's house yellow and they do impromptu cookouts no matter 147 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 1: what we have planned. That's interesting. He drops everything to 148 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 1: entertain them. Oh you mean he's prioritized these fine female 149 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 1: friends over you. Okay, I'm sorry. Maybe I didn't make 150 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 1: myself clear about this. He calls and invites females over 151 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 1: to his house whenever he's having to get together. I've 152 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:28,280 Speaker 1: told him that his single friends are gonna cause him 153 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 1: to be a single man too, But it ain't because 154 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:36,199 Speaker 1: you still with him. So nice bluff, lady, But he 155 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 1: keeps calling your bluff. You know why, because he keeps 156 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 1: calling these women and you ain't gonna do a damn 157 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:46,079 Speaker 1: thing about it. Fast forward the last weekend and he 158 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 1: and I went out Friday night, and we didn't make 159 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 1: plans for Saturday. So I got up and went to 160 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: the mall. As I left out, I went, I was 161 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 1: told that he wanted to have a cookout, something small. 162 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 1: So I went to the mall, then home to take 163 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 1: a nap, and then I went over to my boyfriend's house. 164 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 1: That were new girls there. Surprised, Why not have some 165 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 1: new girls there? You ain't having problem with the old ones. 166 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 1: You give me an inch, I take a yard, You 167 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 1: give me a little rope. I'm gonna start pulling a 168 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 1: lot of boats in with the rope. So now some 169 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 1: new girls at the house. Oh I never met, and 170 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 1: one of them greeted me as if she was the 171 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:26,839 Speaker 1: lady at the house. She didn't greet you as the 172 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 1: lady in the house as she was. She was in 173 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: her mind at that particular moment, lady in the house. 174 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 1: She didn't even know who you was. Hey, girl, how 175 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 1: are you doing? Welcome? Come on in. We all set 176 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:38,720 Speaker 1: up in the back. You look as stupid you're at 177 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:42,320 Speaker 1: the house taking naps. My boyfriend ran over the intervening 178 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 1: because he knows me, know what. No, all he got 179 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:47,120 Speaker 1: to do is sleve it over with you, and he 180 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 1: gonna make you lick this up and like it too. 181 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:52,839 Speaker 1: That's what he know about you. Let me run over 182 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 1: here and make her lick this and like this too. 183 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:58,400 Speaker 1: And that's just what he did too. Three females were 184 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:00,880 Speaker 1: in the kitchen, cooking and making drinks and very comfortable 185 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 1: in his home. That's because they've been there before. The 186 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 1: cutest one yell when her song came on and she 187 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:08,680 Speaker 1: ran to the patio the dance from my man. She 188 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 1: told him that was the song from college. He told 189 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 1: he played that song just for her. How many times 190 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 1: I got to tell you we can't be friends with 191 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:22,679 Speaker 1: no fine asked women. I told you that now after 192 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 1: dancing on the damn patio today, damn song he played 193 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 1: it just for that's our song. Who did you say 194 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 1: ran out there the cutest one? I told you that 195 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:40,600 Speaker 1: ain't what we do. Of course, he said, I was 196 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:44,000 Speaker 1: blowing things out of proportion. After I quietly cursed him 197 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:46,199 Speaker 1: out in the laund room. See do you do all 198 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 1: your business behind closed doors? He in your face, all 199 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 1: up front. You do all the cousins in the laund 200 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:54,959 Speaker 1: room quietly? You want to he out on the patio 201 00:10:55,160 --> 00:10:58,840 Speaker 1: dancing with the music turn up. You see the difference 202 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:02,120 Speaker 1: between y'all two. You try to respect him. He ain't 203 00:11:02,160 --> 00:11:06,959 Speaker 1: got none for you. He tried to show me that 204 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:09,679 Speaker 1: they all went to college together, and it was in innocent. 205 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 1: They did all go to college together, all up, even 206 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 1: the one they had the favor. Some they were screwing. 207 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 1: It's not innocent, okay. He asked if two of the 208 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 1: girls could crack. He go to Google. He asked two 209 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:29,079 Speaker 1: the girls could crash at his house. I said no, 210 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:32,640 Speaker 1: he said, he already told him they couldn't. He didn't 211 00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 1: want to be rude. Wait a minute, hold up, what 212 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 1: so you don't understand how stupid are you? Lady? Let 213 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 1: me ask you just how stupid you are? You are? 214 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 1: Always and afterthought, Yeah, y'all can stay over here. Hey, babies, 215 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 1: they don't care if they stay over here. No, well, 216 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 1: I'm already told they could. But because it's his house, 217 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 1: it's not y'all's house, he didn't told him they can stay. 218 00:11:57,960 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 1: So now all y'all gonna be in nesleep together. Mm 219 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 1: wait a minute, you went over, You didn't went along 220 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:07,560 Speaker 1: with the cookouts. Let me see if I can press 221 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 1: this button a liver. You didn't mind the girls come over, 222 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 1: So guess what I got some new girls coming over. 223 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying. I'm gonna keep pressing this 224 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 1: button because I'm gonna make you lick it and like it, 225 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 1: which I'm capable of doing, and you're gonna go along 226 00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 1: with it. Now, here's the question. It's just just all 227 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 1: innocent funnels. He played me for a fool in my face. 228 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 1: Here's what I want you to do, young lady. I 229 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:33,960 Speaker 1: want you to go over to a mirror in your house. 230 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 1: I want you to look in that mirror, and I 231 00:12:38,080 --> 00:12:41,960 Speaker 1: want you to realize something that the face you see 232 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:50,959 Speaker 1: is the fool. Thank you, thank you. Tell Markae some girls. 233 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:56,839 Speaker 1: It's coming over friends, All right, leave your comments on 234 00:12:57,000 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 1: today's sin Monica can't come over here. Yes we are here. 235 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 1: Your comments on Today's letter on Instagram, at Steve Harvey FM, 236 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:15,600 Speaker 1: and check out Today's Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Up next, 237 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:18,960 Speaker 1: it is Sports Talk with Junior. 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