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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 2: Amanda is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: She's been with her boyfriend named Elliott for two years

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Speaker 2: now and she thinks that he might be messing around,

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Speaker 2: So we'll see if we can help her out. Amanda, Sorry,

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Speaker 2: you're in this situation. But what's going on? Why do

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Speaker 2: you think Elliott might be cheating?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you for having me. Well, So I want

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Speaker 3: to give a little bit of context. Basically, this all

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Speaker 3: kind of started because two months ago, my boyfriend, Elliott

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Speaker 3: decided he wanted to kind of do something about his

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Speaker 3: weight and just be healthier. His mom kind of had

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Speaker 3: a health scare recently, so this kind of prompted a

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Speaker 3: whole new like let's have longevity in life sort of thing,

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean. So he looks into one

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Speaker 3: of those ozembic type shots and at this point he's

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Speaker 3: been taking it for about a month and a half,

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Speaker 3: and honestly, I've been so proud of him and like

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Speaker 3: really trying to take control of his hell and like

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Speaker 3: following all the rules for the shots and like getting

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Speaker 3: back in the gym and eating better, like he's doing

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Speaker 3: it like it's been a huge change, and truthfully, I'm

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Speaker 3: going like totally out of my way to make sure

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Speaker 3: that he knows he's supported. But it's just okay, just basically,

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Speaker 3: I'm worried that there's someone else that is his support

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Speaker 3: system through this.

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Speaker 1: What makes you say that?

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Speaker 3: Well, okay, So since he's been losing weight, he's also

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Speaker 3: started to become a little bit more cocky and not

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Speaker 3: like a complete but like definitely catering on the edge

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Speaker 3: of kind of like confident, flash, so lovely you okay, yes, yes,

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Speaker 3: and like at times I'm like, oh, it's kind of

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Speaker 3: cute how pritty he can get.

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Speaker 4: But like.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, just like a whole new wardrobe, like

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Speaker 3: whitening his teeth and going to the gym and like

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Speaker 3: kind of wanting to show up. But okay, So here's

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Speaker 3: the thing. He's also been posting more on Instagram, and

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Speaker 3: previously I would have to beg him to take selfies

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Speaker 3: with me, but so like now he's more confident, right,

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Speaker 3: he's posting more, but none with me, like at all,

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Speaker 3: even if we do take a selfie, he doesn't post

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Speaker 3: any pictures with me, which is a little bit of

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Speaker 3: a red flag. But like on a couple of these posts,

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Speaker 3: his ex comments on them and says things like, oh,

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Speaker 3: someone's looking hot lately, or there was one time she

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Speaker 3: wrote on the most recent one you when you're the

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Speaker 3: like officially the one that got away?

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Speaker 1: Or does that feel sloppyship?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Kelly knows full well that he's in a relationship

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Speaker 3: to a certain extent. I'm comfortable with the fact that,

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Speaker 3: like this is happening only because from the things I've

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Speaker 3: heard and seen of Kelly, his ex, Elliott is definitely

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Speaker 3: dating up. That's kind of all I'll say about that.

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Speaker 1: Anything to her, though, like on these comments.

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Speaker 3: Well so, and that's the thing. I don't know what

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Speaker 3: kind of dms are between them, but he definitely liked

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Speaker 3: all of her comments or was like thank you or

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Speaker 3: you know. So I mentioned this to Elliott, not in

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Speaker 3: a like jealous girlfriend kind of way, but just like,

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Speaker 3: oh my gosh, it's crazy Kelly's been commenting a lot

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Speaker 3: sort of thing. And then Elliott got so freaking defensive

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Speaker 3: and was like, you're being jealous and like it's not

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Speaker 3: a good color on you. And then he starts going

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Speaker 3: on about his history with Kelly and that like now

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Speaker 3: he's finally looking how he wanted to look back then

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Speaker 3: and started saying that I'm not being supportive, which is

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Speaker 3: bull and like it's just it was like a full

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Speaker 3: like it felt really wrong.

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Speaker 5: It does feel super off too, especially because he's engaging

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Speaker 5: with her on social media. He should just be leading, yeah,

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Speaker 5: how it is, and then to be so defensive about it.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, you already told us what a grocery

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Speaker 2: store he's a rewards member at, So we'll play a

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Speaker 2: song come back, and then call him and pretend to

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Speaker 2: be from the grocery store and say that every single month,

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Speaker 2: we choose one random rewards member who gets free flowers

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Speaker 2: delivered from our floral department, and we'll see if he

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Speaker 2: sends those see.

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Speaker 1: You or to somebody else.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, all right, we'll get your to Catch a

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Speaker 2: Teater right after this It's time.

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Speaker 3: To Catch a Cheater only on the Tuble Show.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of To Catch a Teeter and

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Amanda is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and she thinks that her boyfriend of two years named

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Speaker 2: Elliott might be messing around. So we're about to call

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Speaker 2: him and pretend to be from the grocery store that

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Speaker 2: he's a rewards card member at and say that every

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Speaker 2: single month, one of our rewards members gets a free

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Speaker 2: gift and it's flowers delivered to anybody that you want.

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Speaker 2: And we'll see if he believes that, and if he does,

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Speaker 2: we'll see who he sends him to. We'll see if

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Speaker 2: he sends him to his girlfriend, Amanda or to somebody else.

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Speaker 2: But before we do that, Amanda, why don't you break

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Speaker 2: down your se situation one more time?

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Speaker 3: Real quick, long story is, my boyfriend's been on a

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Speaker 3: health journey, lost a lot of weight, been posting a

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Speaker 3: lot on social media, and his ex is like all

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Speaker 3: over his posts. And when I brought this up, he

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Speaker 3: got really defensive and said that I'm not supportive and

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Speaker 3: I'm jealous and it just feels all really gross and

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Speaker 3: I just don't want him to like have gone back

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Speaker 3: to her.

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Speaker 1: Right, what's her name again?

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Speaker 3: Kelly?

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Speaker 1: Kelly? Okay, are you ready? Where's the column?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: I was so ready when I emailed you all, but

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Speaker 3: now I'm like feeling nervous. But yes, I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: We're here, Here we go.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hey, this is Corbett calling from I was looking

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Speaker 1: Of Yes speaking Hi Elliott.

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Speaker 2: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.

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Speaker 2: I'm actually calling with a big congratulations. You're this month's.

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Speaker 1: Winner, winner of what maybe you don't know.

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Speaker 2: Every single month we choose one Rewards card member who

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Speaker 2: gets a free gift from us just for being such

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Speaker 2: a loyal customer. And this month it's free flowers delivered

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Speaker 2: to anybody that you want from our floor apartment, absolutely free.

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Speaker 2: So you've won thirty six long stem red roses, a

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Speaker 2: box of candy or chocolate, and a card to be

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Speaker 2: delivered to anybody.

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Speaker 1: That you want. Wow, Okay, yeah that sounds pretty good. Actually,

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Speaker 1: how awesome.

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Speaker 2: First thing I will need is the first and last

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Speaker 2: name of the person you want to send them to.

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Speaker 2: Then we'll get anything on a card, and then the address.

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Speaker 4: Okay, it's please make it out to Kelly.

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Speaker 1: And is there anything you want to put on a

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Speaker 1: card to Kelly?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, say you always know how to keep me motivated

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Speaker 4: and somethings never changed.

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Speaker 2: Great, And at this point I'll let you know this

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Speaker 2: is actually a radio show. It's called The Jubile Show. Yeah, Hi,

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Speaker 2: I'm Nina Victorian and my name is Jubal and we

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Speaker 2: do a segment called to Catch a Cheater, where if

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Speaker 2: you think your significant other might be messing around you

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Speaker 2: see you, They send flowers too, and your girlfriend Amanda,

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Speaker 2: who's not Kelly, is on the phone and might have

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Speaker 2: some questions for you.

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Speaker 3: Uh huh, Yet, what the hell is going on? You

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Speaker 3: don't even know what you mean about it? Will you

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Speaker 3: have me on a radio show? You think I'm cheating

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Speaker 3: on you, I one hundred percent know you're cheating on me.

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Speaker 3: I'm not cheating on getting on wells.

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Speaker 4: It's hard for doing something nice for my act. She's

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Speaker 4: been really helpful. She's been giving me great advice, helping

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Speaker 4: me to lose a lot of weight and stay in shape.

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Speaker 3: I mean she is a trainer. Like, I don't like

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Speaker 3: what the problem this is? Also, this is bull because

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Speaker 3: Kelly is not a trainer, okay, Like in fact, one

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Speaker 3: of the reasons Elliott started taking less and less care

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Speaker 3: of themselves is because of Kelly. She's a slob and

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Speaker 3: a mess. She is not a trainer.

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Speaker 1: Is that true, Elliott?

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Speaker 4: No, you have no idea. Yeah, she hasn't licensed. That

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Speaker 4: doesn't mean she's not a trainer, and she knows exactly

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Speaker 4: how to keep me motivated, keep me I mean, she's

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Speaker 3: What she does.

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Speaker 1: Shouldn't you be getting your motivation from your girlfriend?

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Speaker 3: Though? Shut up? Shouldn't you be minding your own business?

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, she's supporting you, has.

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Speaker 3: Been by your side this entire time. I put up

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Speaker 3: with your freaking mood swings when you're getting used to

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Speaker 3: these new eating habits, Like I'm willing to believe all

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Speaker 3: these comments Kelly's putting on your posts meant nothing to you, okay, Like,

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Speaker 3: stop with the bulls, stop lying? How long have you

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Speaker 3: been cheating on me for and not cheating? Look you

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Speaker 3: you haven't, it's all. You haven't been happy with the results.

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Speaker 4: You say you love the way I look, but be honest,

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Speaker 4: you've been mean, Like you've been mean about this whole

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: It's kind of like living with a drill sergeant, honestly,

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Speaker 4: like you are.

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Speaker 3: You know you're you're not very nice about it.

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Speaker 1: And I told you right any times.

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Speaker 4: That, Like, I don't need you to be haranguing me

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Speaker 4: and harping on me and nagging me.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, you know, it's been a lot more health. Sorry,

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Speaker 3: Instead of being a respectful adult who's in a committed

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Speaker 3: relationship and having a conversation with me about that, you

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Speaker 3: decided to go back to your action and cheat on me.

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Speaker 3: We have spent two years together, but that doesn't mean anything, Okay,

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Speaker 3: like at this point if you're sleeping with Kelly or not, Like,

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Speaker 3: I can't keep taking this this crap, like I have

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Speaker 3: done everything in my power to be supportive, not a

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Speaker 3: drill sergeant like you said, are you cheating Elliott? No,

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Speaker 3: I'm not cheating. You know what? Fine, I such with Kelly.

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Speaker 1: You know what you.

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Speaker 3: Get me, all right?

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Speaker 4: You know she sees some real potential I have and

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Speaker 4: all you see, like you said, you call me a swab.

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Speaker 3: You know I'm figur of it.

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Speaker 4: I'm done and it's over.

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Speaker 1: He hung up. Amanda. I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 5: Good Wow.

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Speaker 3: I can't I mean I can't and I can believe

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Speaker 3: it at the same time, Like I'm surprised he just

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Speaker 3: admitted that, but like obviously I'm I knew this and

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Speaker 3: that's why I I'm sorry.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they were so sloppy about it too, like that

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Speaker 5: just was like your face beyond disrespectful exactly.

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Speaker 1: Jewbil so disrespectful.

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Speaker 3: Well, he's a freaking monster and it's now Kelly's problem.

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Speaker 3: So they deserve each other.

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Speaker 5: And you can feel real good about when he stops

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Speaker 5: taking that medication, he's gonna gain all that way right back.

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Speaker 3: What the Jewel shows to catch a cheater