Speaker 1: Hey, we got a special treat for you today. Welcome
Speaker 1: to the Second Date Update podcast. It is, of course
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we asked you
Speaker 1: yesterday I did a poll on Spotify. Sorry, it's the
Speaker 1: only you know podcasts platform. We can do polls on Yes, Yes,
Speaker 1: thank you, Alexis and asked, say yes the X is
Speaker 1: a special episode where we help a listener attempt to
Speaker 1: get back with the X.
Speaker 2: Would you like to hear it on this pod? Two options?
Speaker 1: Yes, post that drama or nah, Second Date's only here.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I feel like we need a drum roll,
Speaker 2: but I don't have one.
Speaker 3: And.
Speaker 1: People say yes, post that drama, so.
Speaker 2: We do.
Speaker 1: No, we really do listen to what you want to hear.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna give you a little special treat today
Speaker 1: with a brand new say Yes to the X, Sit
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Speaker 4: Pretty soon they're gonna like the whole entire show.
Speaker 1: Caul and let us know in the comments if you
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Speaker 1: too me alright, alright, show starts now.
Speaker 4: Do you believe in second chances? A second chance to pass?
Speaker 4: That driver's test, a second chance for dinosaurs to rule
Speaker 4: the earth.
Speaker 2: Well, Jess a.
Speaker 4: Second chance to slip past that security guard and finally
Speaker 4: make it up on stage at the Taylor Swift concert
Speaker 4: and give.
Speaker 2: Her a smart arrested immediately.
Speaker 4: I'm things happen when you get a second chance, And
Speaker 4: today we're hoping for a second chance at love, trying
Speaker 4: to get one more shot for a guy who's desperate
Speaker 4: to win back the woman who dumped him. And it's
Speaker 4: kind of crazy because the way that she ended things
Speaker 4: was one of the most brutal stories that I think
Speaker 4: we've ever heard on this show. Still, he says he's
Speaker 4: willing to risk it all for one more chance, and
Speaker 4: it's gonna come up. We'll see if it pays off.
Speaker 4: In a brand new say Yes to the X right
Speaker 4: after this, j Lo and Ben Affleck, Prince William and
Speaker 4: Kate Middleton, Nick Cannon and Baby Mama's Number four and seven. Wow,
Speaker 4: just a few examples of couples who dated and broke up,
Speaker 4: only to get back together years later because they realized,
Speaker 4: oh my god, I think maybe they were the one
Speaker 4: thought it was three, which, yeah, it's a little ys there,
Speaker 4: But the point is you never know until you try,
Speaker 4: and if you have an ex that you look back
Speaker 4: on and think, did I make a mistake by letting
Speaker 4: them go? We created this segment called Say Yes to
Speaker 4: the X so that we can reach out and see
Speaker 4: if there's a chance, if they want to give it
Speaker 4: one more show today, and it was really intended for
Speaker 4: long lost loves to reunite. Yeah, I'm not really sure
Speaker 4: if today's caller Landon falls into that category.
Speaker 2: Why was it like a one night stand? He wants
Speaker 2: to reconnect with.
Speaker 4: His email said him and his girlfriend have only been
Speaker 4: separated for six weeks, but he's ready to jump back
Speaker 4: out and see if there's another chance there. Let's talk
Speaker 4: to him. Landon, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 1: Hey, guys, Okay, some people take years, some people take weeks. Yeah,
Speaker 1: my sister and her boyfriend at the time broke up
Speaker 1: for five days and then got back together and they
Speaker 1: got married.
Speaker 2: Hey, it was a very hard five days. In that time,
Speaker 2: he got a tattoo and joined the navy. Yeah, he
Speaker 2: was dealing with something. Know what happened six weeks?
Speaker 4: A red flag? After hearing that story, Are you sure
Speaker 4: you want to go?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, guys, I don't want to let hers to
Speaker 3: the way that's become really clear to me over these
Speaker 3: past six weeks.
Speaker 4: And what's her name?
Speaker 3: Her name is Jessica, And yeah, we were together for
Speaker 3: like about a year and it was I mean, she's
Speaker 3: the most serious clipper I've ever had.
Speaker 2: Okay, why did you guys break up six weeks ago?
Speaker 3: Well? There are reasons, you know, which we can get into,
Speaker 3: but I'll just say like I've been pretty miserable ever since.
Speaker 3: And she didn't tell me in person. She did. She
Speaker 3: did let me know via you know, words on a page.
Speaker 2: Oh she dumped you. Okay, yeah, okay.
Speaker 4: What I was wondering why you were like having trouble
Speaker 4: coming out with it? You're it's clearly it's still pretty raw.
Speaker 4: It only happened six weeks ago.
Speaker 3: I mean, look, it was some stuff that I didn't
Speaker 3: necessarily agree with, but she had her reasons, Okay.
Speaker 2: And so she wrote you what sounds like a letter.
Speaker 2: I'm guessing did you guys talk in person?
Speaker 5: Ever?
Speaker 3: Well, it was a note on my door. Actually, she
Speaker 3: broke up with you.
Speaker 4: Via door note.
Speaker 1: Are you sure she's not your landlord and trying to
Speaker 1: evict you?
Speaker 3: No? No, I mean I've been through that before. But no,
Speaker 3: I mean.
Speaker 4: It's like I've broken up with a building before. I
Speaker 4: know that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that's gotta be hard to take.
Speaker 1: Man.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was really harsh. It was like a list
Speaker 3: of reasons.
Speaker 4: Oh god.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Our producer told me that you actually have the breakup
Speaker 4: note with you. Oh no, yeah, would it be okay? Like,
Speaker 4: if it's not too painful for you, would you mind
Speaker 4: like telling us some of the things that she said
Speaker 4: in it?
Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, I don't know if I'm comfortable doing
Speaker 3: that because they were pretty mean and I don't feel
Speaker 3: like they're accurate, so I would prefer not to.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, if she's being rude and mean to you,
Speaker 4: why do you even want to get back together with her?
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, because she has some points that are kind
Speaker 3: of valid, I guess, and I think that I've improved
Speaker 3: on those areas.
Speaker 4: It's going to admit that you've made mistakes. Like if
Speaker 4: she's like you did this and this, and you fix
Speaker 4: those and maybe she.
Speaker 2: Won't want to. I mean, if she's writing a list
Speaker 2: of mean things, she's mad. She's mad mad like.
Speaker 4: That, that's a normal girlfriends are like, though, right, No.
Speaker 2: No, I mean, is it one specific thing? Did you
Speaker 2: cheat on her or something?
Speaker 3: No? No, no, I did not cheat. I'm not okay,
Speaker 3: but I'm not going to read the entire note, but
Speaker 3: I'll tell you, guys a couple of the things.
Speaker 4: She's okay, Okay, give us the bullet points of it,
Speaker 4: and then we'll post the whole thing on the brook.
Speaker 2: No, okay, we'll stay flyers and put it on doors
Speaker 2: around the city.
Speaker 4: He's kidding, bro Okay, just give us a couple of them, Okay.
Speaker 3: The first one is you refuse to use the word
Speaker 3: selfie because you think it's too curly.
Speaker 4: You refuse to use the word selfie Landon.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't use the word selfie. I use the
Speaker 3: word celfo. Like you know, like in Spanish, there's like.
Speaker 4: Feminine and singular pal masculine would be.
Speaker 1: Are you that worried about your masculinity that you think
Speaker 1: adding an i e to the end of a word
Speaker 1: is gonna alter Well?
Speaker 3: No, I just think that I mean just to be
Speaker 3: like more grammatically correct, I guess like to say celfo.
Speaker 1: I don't think that's grammatically correct at all, sir. I
Speaker 1: don't think you could find that any dictionary if.
Speaker 4: You're in the club with your boys, going to be like, hey, Jonathan,
Speaker 4: let's take a selfie together, like bro, me and my bros. Yo, dog,
Speaker 4: you look super cute right now, get over your homie. Yeah,
Speaker 4: let's cell phone it up.
Speaker 3: Yeah exactly, But you guys see what I'm talking about, Like,
Speaker 3: that's really nitpicky. Like that's not a reason to break
Speaker 3: up with someone, even if it's a little annoying, right,
Speaker 3: It sounds.
Speaker 2: Kind of like an excuse. But yeah, so what else
Speaker 2: were they.
Speaker 4: All like that?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I mean I think they're all like that. I
Speaker 3: mean the next one she says, is you thought you
Speaker 3: were tough enough to share at a solar eclipse?
Speaker 2: Are you blind right now? Or can you see?
Speaker 3: No? I can see it was a little blurry for
Speaker 3: like the day. But how often does a solar eclipse happen?
Speaker 3: Like I didn't Okay, yes, I also thought like it'd
Speaker 3: be cool to like look at the sign.
Speaker 2: But these are all questionable things.
Speaker 4: Yeah, At the same time, are women gonna dump a
Speaker 4: guy every time they do something a little bit stupid
Speaker 4: to prove their masculinity of them?
Speaker 2: Yeah? How many pages do we have?
Speaker 1: Maybe?
Speaker 4: Do you have like a last one? For us landing.
Speaker 3: Sure, I can give you one last one.
Speaker 4: The fact that there is three is kind of.
Speaker 2: Like, I just mean, okay, okay.
Speaker 3: She says, you jumped at a trampoline from the second
Speaker 3: floor to prove your abs and back muscles were strong enough. Guy.
Speaker 4: To me, you sound like one of my friends.
Speaker 1: You sound like an annoying little brother.
Speaker 4: Hold on, were your abs and back muscles strong enough
Speaker 4: to absorb the blow?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: I mean I I definitely hurt myself and I'm oh.
Speaker 4: No you Yeah, Well, maybe.
Speaker 2: She doesn't trying to prove your manlin.
Speaker 4: I'm seeing a lot of red flags. That's not the
Speaker 4: right word I'm looking for.
Speaker 3: I would say they're like, they're more like highlights. Those
Speaker 3: were the fun part.
Speaker 2: So it's not that you learned anything from the letter.
Speaker 3: Shoo, okay, I mean what I learned was that those
Speaker 3: are the fun things in a relationship, and she needs
Speaker 3: to relax the and O I miss her, and I
Speaker 3: bet she misses me.
Speaker 4: Took here's like zero.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna let you know if we're gonna how does
Speaker 2: this work again? Does he ask her back out?
Speaker 4: Yeah? We call the girlfriend and let him talk for it. Okay,
Speaker 4: let's he has to win her back himself.
Speaker 1: Let's not use any of that sentence that you need
Speaker 1: to relax, you need.
Speaker 3: To calm down.
Speaker 2: I just just some hot advice.
Speaker 3: There, okay, fair, fair, okay.
Speaker 4: And those are the problems that she had with you.
Speaker 4: So if you want her back, you're probably gonna need
Speaker 4: to compromise a little bit. Like can you agree that
Speaker 4: if she wants you back going forward, you won't stare
Speaker 4: into solar eclipses anymore? Are you capable of that?
Speaker 3: Guys? I already learned my lesson. I'm not doing that again.
Speaker 4: I mean, that's clear glos. That is what we're trying
Speaker 4: to accomplish here.
Speaker 2: He's trying to see if you can use the word
Speaker 2: selfie in a sentence.
Speaker 4: Yeah, We're about to dial your ex Jessica, and we'll
Speaker 4: get her on the phone and let you try and
Speaker 4: win her back yourself. All right, We'll come back and
Speaker 4: see if she says yes to the X.
Speaker 2: Right after this, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: You know, I rarely do this, but during the break
Speaker 4: I got on the phone and talked to Landon you
Speaker 4: did off the air, and I just told him how
Speaker 4: we felt, honestly, in the room.
Speaker 2: I don't know that. I like you talking for all
Speaker 2: of us.
Speaker 4: Think we're on the same page because based on the
Speaker 4: breakup note, it seems like Landon has done some dumb things. Yeah, correction,
Speaker 4: a lot of dumb things in his relationship, and his
Speaker 4: attitude was Jessica just needs to chill out and relax.
Speaker 4: And if Landon really feels like it's all on her
Speaker 4: to change herself and just relax about it, then why
Speaker 4: are we doing this segment?
Speaker 2: Yeah, because then it's just gonna be her getting angry
Speaker 2: at him all over again.
Speaker 4: Because she says what the problem was, and he says
Speaker 4: that shouldn't be a problem for you. So what we're
Speaker 4: trying to do here is get some growth, because all
Speaker 4: of us as humans are constantly evolving, trying to become
Speaker 4: better people. And frankly, Landing, I'm not sure if in
Speaker 4: the past six weeks since the breakup there's been enough
Speaker 4: growth on your end from what we just heard to
Speaker 4: warrn her.
Speaker 1: Saying, yes, that is the most adult thing that Jeffrey's
Speaker 1: ever said.
Speaker 4: Honest with you. I know we're supposed to be fun,
Speaker 4: but yeah, pretty real. I tell you to say that
Speaker 4: because honestly, you could say that on your own, Landon,
Speaker 4: What was that last bit? I missed that last They
Speaker 4: were all telling me that I'm not smart enough to
Speaker 4: come up with that on my own.
Speaker 2: Have you had any growth in the last six weeks Landon.
Speaker 3: Jeff, Yeah, I I appreciate that.
Speaker 5: Look, I made changes, and I see that there are
Speaker 5: some mistakes that I made, Okay, And the reason I'm so,
Speaker 5: you know, I want to take this opportunity now, even
Speaker 5: though it's been just.
Speaker 3: Six weeks, because I think we have an opportunity to
Speaker 3: grow together Jessica and I rather than growing apart.
Speaker 2: See that's good. I like that.
Speaker 1: That's a good sentiment, you know for sure. Ma, You know,
Speaker 1: can we ask real quick is she dating right now?
Speaker 1: Or is she just single?
Speaker 2: Single? Have you heard?
Speaker 3: Well? She better not be dated. It's only been six weeks,
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: Do this an it's fair game.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I think after two weeks.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why we broke up with them.
Speaker 4: We have to reach out to her to find out
Speaker 4: some of these answers. And if you're just listening for
Speaker 4: the very first time, say yes to the exes. It's
Speaker 4: a little bit different than a second date update. Because
Speaker 4: these people have had a previous relationship before, they already
Speaker 4: know each other, and we're going to try not to
Speaker 4: jump in on the conversation as much as we normally do.
Speaker 4: We're going to try and let them talk and work
Speaker 4: it out as much as possible amongst themselves. That's the goal.
Speaker 4: It's going to show if they've really had any growth
Speaker 4: in their relationship or not. And so now I'm about
Speaker 4: to punch up Jessica. Our producer got her on the
Speaker 4: other line. You're ready to talk to her?
Speaker 2: Don't punch ex girlfriend.
Speaker 4: Okay, let's just bring her on the line with you.
Speaker 4: Here we go, he Jessica.
Speaker 3: You there.
Speaker 2: Hello, Hi Jessica.
Speaker 4: Hey Jessica, this is Brooke Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: Obviously, thanks for being on the show with us.
Speaker 6: Yeah, Hi, it's not gonna lie. I'm a little bit
Speaker 6: caught off guards. But what's up. What's going on?
Speaker 4: So our producer told you that we have your ex
Speaker 4: boyfriend Landon on the phone right now and he really
Speaker 4: really wants to speak to you for a second. Hey, Jessica,
Speaker 4: that's Landon. So what we're gonna do here is we're
Speaker 4: just going to back away and let you and Landen,
Speaker 4: have a chat for a second.
Speaker 3: All right, go ahead, Landon, Hey, yeah, sorry about this,
Speaker 3: but you know, I just have something to say to you.
Speaker 6: Okay, Well, I mean, like, why do you have the
Speaker 6: radio station calling me?
Speaker 3: No, don't worry about that. I mean, just per time,
Speaker 3: like it's you and me. There's nobody else here.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're not laughing.
Speaker 6: I don't even know, like is this on air with
Speaker 6: like viewers? Like, come on.
Speaker 3: Viewers. I don't think they can see us, but I
Speaker 3: think just focus on what I'm about to say.
Speaker 6: Okay, what do you have to say? Landon?
Speaker 3: Okay, For the last six weeks, I've noticed that I've
Speaker 3: missed you a lot and I and I just I
Speaker 3: need you back in my life. So okay, I'd like
Speaker 3: you to say yes to the X.
Speaker 6: What does that even mean?
Speaker 3: What they're doing on the show and they've done it
Speaker 3: before with somebody else and help them get back their X.
Speaker 3: So now I'm trying with you.
Speaker 2: Maybe talk to her about.
Speaker 6: Are you you you want us to get back together?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it just makes sense. It's like peanut butter and jelly. Okay, Like, Landon, Look,
Speaker 3: I promise it's going to be better. I have a
Speaker 3: feeling about it.
Speaker 6: I mean, are you still living with your mom?
Speaker 3: Well sort of, but it's it's really different from last time.
Speaker 6: Okay, different how well?
Speaker 3: Okay, so if you remember before, my bedroom was on
Speaker 3: the main floor of my mom's house, but like the
Speaker 3: first floor. Okay, yeah, well now you know, she's getting older,
Speaker 3: as you know, and she doesn't like using the stairs.
Speaker 3: So last week I offered such rooms with her, and
Speaker 3: she said, yeah, so now I actually have the entire
Speaker 3: top floor to myself, and you know, it's kind of
Speaker 3: like a penthouse.
Speaker 6: Okay, but you're you're basically still living with her though.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean it's like my own place, and in
Speaker 3: a year or two, I'm gonna save up enough money
Speaker 3: to build a separate entrance, you know, a staircase that
Speaker 3: goes from the outside to my room.
Speaker 2: Slide, slide, Okay.
Speaker 6: I mean that's not even different. It's like the same
Speaker 6: thing that you were doing before.
Speaker 3: I mean, I would have moved out sooner, but you know,
Speaker 3: my credit screwed up from my identity being stolen, which
Speaker 3: was you know, I was a victim.
Speaker 6: But you did that on purpose. You put your soul
Speaker 6: security in the online because oh my god, you think
Speaker 6: it'd be so funny if somebody stole it and realized
Speaker 6: that you didn't have any money, Like.
Speaker 4: What was that?
Speaker 3: I mean, it was funny. It was hilarious to be
Speaker 3: on the dark web and experiment with the dark web.
Speaker 3: But I admit that it's backfired.
Speaker 2: What look like?
Speaker 3: I just think now things are different from me. I'm
Speaker 3: moving up in life, I mean literally up a floor.
Speaker 3: So maybe you'd want to hang out again and we
Speaker 3: can grow together instead of growing apart.
Speaker 6: I appreciate the sentiment and thank you for reaching out,
Speaker 6: but no, Landon, No, I don't want to live with
Speaker 6: your mom.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, because tell me, are you dating anyone else?
Speaker 6: That's none of your business. I'm single.
Speaker 3: That sounds like a confession or something. I don't know.
Speaker 6: That's I'm not seeing anybody right now, but I plan
Speaker 6: on it.
Speaker 4: Yes, Oh okay, not seeing anybody until you say yes
Speaker 4: to the X and then you'll be seeing.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're not seeing anybody. Please say yes to the X.
Speaker 4: That's right. That's the whole goal of the segment and
Speaker 4: has the endorsement of every member of This Morning plus
Speaker 4: all of our listeners, all twelve of them.
Speaker 2: She just said no eight times, while you were talking.
Speaker 4: Well, she didn't. She didn't say it nine times. That's
Speaker 4: the magic number. I mean, you get nine lives dating.
Speaker 1: I will say it sounds like he really does care
Speaker 1: for you and love you.
Speaker 6: He lived his leg on fire with ex body spray.
Speaker 6: I will let you know.
Speaker 3: That he's a good I mean that was to prove
Speaker 3: that there should be a product warning on.
Speaker 2: Frat guys. But I'll put together on.
Speaker 6: Every aerizon landon Like, in all seriousness, you have way, way,
Speaker 6: way more grossy. You need to go through personally, and
Speaker 6: I support you. I hope you do before we ever
Speaker 6: have any type of conversation ever. And it's Kennedy, more
Speaker 6: than six weeks or six months.
Speaker 2: I support you with silence.
Speaker 4: But look, that wasn't a no.
Speaker 3: That wasn't a no. I thought, here's what, here's what
Speaker 3: I think we should do. Well. I want to check
Speaker 3: in again in six weeks, and I just want you
Speaker 3: to promise that between now and then you don't see
Speaker 3: anyone else.
Speaker 4: That's fair.
Speaker 2: You're not gonna do that.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't know about that.
Speaker 4: I mean it's like people taking time apart to figure
Speaker 4: out themselves before they get back together stronger than ever.
Speaker 2: Oh.
Speaker 1: I always thought people were doing other people when they
Speaker 1: took time apart.
Speaker 4: That's what you do during your time apart to make
Speaker 4: yourself stronger. That's what it takes.
Speaker 3: I promise, and I guarantee, I will be celibate the
Speaker 3: next six weeks. I'll be like a priest.
Speaker 4: Your mom probably longer than that, if we're being honest.
Speaker 2: Rooms right below you're a man.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, it sounds like we're not gonna be able
Speaker 4: to get your ex to say yes, you said no
Speaker 4: to the.
Speaker 3: All right, well look for now she did. But six
Speaker 3: weeks later we're checking in radio.
Speaker 4: Look Jeffrey in the morning,