WEBVTT - Say Yes To The Ex: Frat Man's Last Stand 

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, we got a special treat for you today. Welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to the Second Date Update podcast. It is, of course

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we asked you

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<v Speaker 1>yesterday I did a poll on Spotify. Sorry, it's the

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<v Speaker 1>only you know podcasts platform. We can do polls on Yes, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, Alexis and asked, say yes the X is

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<v Speaker 1>a special episode where we help a listener attempt to

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<v Speaker 1>get back with the X.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you like to hear it on this pod? Two options?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, post that drama or nah, Second Date's only here.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, I feel like we need a drum roll,

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<v Speaker 2>but I don't have one.

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<v Speaker 3>And.

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<v Speaker 1>People say yes, post that drama, so.

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<v Speaker 2>We do.

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<v Speaker 1>No, we really do listen to what you want to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna give you a little special treat today

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<v Speaker 1>with a brand new say Yes to the X, Sit

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<v Speaker 1>back and joy.

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<v Speaker 4>Pretty soon they're gonna like the whole entire show.

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<v Speaker 1>Caul and let us know in the comments if you

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<v Speaker 1>like this type of content, So you know, we love

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<v Speaker 1>to hear your feedback, good or bad if you're not

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<v Speaker 1>too me alright, alright, show starts now.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you believe in second chances? A second chance to pass?

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<v Speaker 4>That driver's test, a second chance for dinosaurs to rule

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<v Speaker 4>the earth.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Jess a.

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<v Speaker 4>Second chance to slip past that security guard and finally

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<v Speaker 4>make it up on stage at the Taylor Swift concert

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<v Speaker 4>and give.

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<v Speaker 2>Her a smart arrested immediately.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm things happen when you get a second chance, And

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<v Speaker 4>today we're hoping for a second chance at love, trying

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<v Speaker 4>to get one more shot for a guy who's desperate

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<v Speaker 4>to win back the woman who dumped him. And it's

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<v Speaker 4>kind of crazy because the way that she ended things

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<v Speaker 4>was one of the most brutal stories that I think

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<v Speaker 4>we've ever heard on this show. Still, he says he's

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<v Speaker 4>willing to risk it all for one more chance, and

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<v Speaker 4>it's gonna come up. We'll see if it pays off.

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<v Speaker 4>In a brand new say Yes to the X right

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<v Speaker 4>after this, j Lo and Ben Affleck, Prince William and

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<v Speaker 4>Kate Middleton, Nick Cannon and Baby Mama's Number four and seven. Wow,

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<v Speaker 4>just a few examples of couples who dated and broke up,

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<v Speaker 4>only to get back together years later because they realized,

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<v Speaker 4>oh my god, I think maybe they were the one

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<v Speaker 4>thought it was three, which, yeah, it's a little ys there,

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<v Speaker 4>But the point is you never know until you try,

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<v Speaker 4>and if you have an ex that you look back

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<v Speaker 4>on and think, did I make a mistake by letting

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<v Speaker 4>them go? We created this segment called Say Yes to

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<v Speaker 4>the X so that we can reach out and see

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<v Speaker 4>if there's a chance, if they want to give it

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<v Speaker 4>one more show today, and it was really intended for

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<v Speaker 4>long lost loves to reunite. Yeah, I'm not really sure

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<v Speaker 4>if today's caller Landon falls into that category.

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<v Speaker 2>Why was it like a one night stand? He wants

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<v Speaker 2>to reconnect with.

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<v Speaker 4>His email said him and his girlfriend have only been

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<v Speaker 4>separated for six weeks, but he's ready to jump back

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<v Speaker 4>out and see if there's another chance there. Let's talk

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<v Speaker 4>to him. Landon, Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, guys, Okay, some people take years, some people take weeks. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my sister and her boyfriend at the time broke up

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<v Speaker 1>for five days and then got back together and they

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<v Speaker 1>got married.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, it was a very hard five days. In that time,

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<v Speaker 2>he got a tattoo and joined the navy. Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 2>was dealing with something. Know what happened six weeks?

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<v Speaker 4>A red flag? After hearing that story, Are you sure

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<v Speaker 4>you want to go?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Yeah, guys, I don't want to let hers to

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<v Speaker 3>the way that's become really clear to me over these

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<v Speaker 3>past six weeks.

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<v Speaker 4>And what's her name?

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<v Speaker 3>Her name is Jessica, And yeah, we were together for

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<v Speaker 3>like about a year and it was I mean, she's

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<v Speaker 3>the most serious clipper I've ever had.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, why did you guys break up six weeks ago?

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<v Speaker 3>Well? There are reasons, you know, which we can get into,

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<v Speaker 3>but I'll just say like I've been pretty miserable ever since.

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<v Speaker 3>And she didn't tell me in person. She did. She

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<v Speaker 3>did let me know via you know, words on a page.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh she dumped you. Okay, yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>What I was wondering why you were like having trouble

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<v Speaker 4>coming out with it? You're it's clearly it's still pretty raw.

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<v Speaker 4>It only happened six weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, look, it was some stuff that I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>necessarily agree with, but she had her reasons, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And so she wrote you what sounds like a letter.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm guessing did you guys talk in person?

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<v Speaker 5>Ever?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it was a note on my door. Actually, she

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<v Speaker 3>broke up with you.

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<v Speaker 4>Via door note.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you sure she's not your landlord and trying to

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<v Speaker 1>evict you?

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<v Speaker 3>No? No, I mean I've been through that before. But no,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like I've broken up with a building before. I

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<v Speaker 4>know that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean that's gotta be hard to take.

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<v Speaker 1>Man.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was really harsh. It was like a list

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<v Speaker 3>of reasons.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh god.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Our producer told me that you actually have the breakup

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<v Speaker 4>note with you. Oh no, yeah, would it be okay? Like,

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<v Speaker 4>if it's not too painful for you, would you mind

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<v Speaker 4>like telling us some of the things that she said

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<v Speaker 4>in it?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, honestly, I don't know if I'm comfortable doing

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<v Speaker 3>that because they were pretty mean and I don't feel

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<v Speaker 3>like they're accurate, so I would prefer not to.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, if she's being rude and mean to you,

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<v Speaker 4>why do you even want to get back together with her?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well, because she has some points that are kind

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<v Speaker 3>of valid, I guess, and I think that I've improved

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<v Speaker 3>on those areas.

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<v Speaker 4>It's going to admit that you've made mistakes. Like if

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<v Speaker 4>she's like you did this and this, and you fix

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<v Speaker 4>those and maybe she.

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<v Speaker 2>Won't want to. I mean, if she's writing a list

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<v Speaker 2>of mean things, she's mad. She's mad mad like.

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<v Speaker 4>That, that's a normal girlfriends are like, though, right, No.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I mean, is it one specific thing? Did you

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<v Speaker 2>cheat on her or something?

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<v Speaker 3>No? No, no, I did not cheat. I'm not okay,

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<v Speaker 3>but I'm not going to read the entire note, but

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<v Speaker 3>I'll tell you, guys a couple of the things.

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<v Speaker 4>She's okay, Okay, give us the bullet points of it,

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<v Speaker 4>and then we'll post the whole thing on the brook.

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<v Speaker 2>No, okay, we'll stay flyers and put it on doors

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<v Speaker 2>around the city.

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<v Speaker 4>He's kidding, bro Okay, just give us a couple of them, Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>The first one is you refuse to use the word

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<v Speaker 3>selfie because you think it's too curly.

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<v Speaker 4>You refuse to use the word selfie Landon.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't use the word selfie. I use the

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<v Speaker 3>word celfo. Like you know, like in Spanish, there's like.

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<v Speaker 4>Feminine and singular pal masculine would be.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you that worried about your masculinity that you think

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<v Speaker 1>adding an i e to the end of a word

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<v Speaker 1>is gonna alter Well?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I just think that I mean just to be

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<v Speaker 3>like more grammatically correct, I guess like to say celfo.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that's grammatically correct at all, sir. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think you could find that any dictionary if.

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<v Speaker 4>You're in the club with your boys, going to be like, hey, Jonathan,

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<v Speaker 4>let's take a selfie together, like bro, me and my bros. Yo, dog,

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<v Speaker 4>you look super cute right now, get over your homie. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>let's cell phone it up.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah exactly, But you guys see what I'm talking about, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>that's really nitpicky. Like that's not a reason to break

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<v Speaker 3>up with someone, even if it's a little annoying, right,

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<v Speaker 3>It sounds.

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<v Speaker 2>Kind of like an excuse. But yeah, so what else

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<v Speaker 2>were they.

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<v Speaker 4>All like that?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I mean I think they're all like that. I

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<v Speaker 3>mean the next one she says, is you thought you

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<v Speaker 3>were tough enough to share at a solar eclipse?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you blind right now? Or can you see?

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<v Speaker 3>No? I can see it was a little blurry for

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<v Speaker 3>like the day. But how often does a solar eclipse happen?

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<v Speaker 3>Like I didn't Okay, yes, I also thought like it'd

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<v Speaker 3>be cool to like look at the sign.

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<v Speaker 2>But these are all questionable things.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, At the same time, are women gonna dump a

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<v Speaker 4>guy every time they do something a little bit stupid

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<v Speaker 4>to prove their masculinity of them?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? How many pages do we have?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe?

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<v Speaker 4>Do you have like a last one? For us landing.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure, I can give you one last one.

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<v Speaker 4>The fact that there is three is kind of.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, I just mean, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>She says, you jumped at a trampoline from the second

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<v Speaker 3>floor to prove your abs and back muscles were strong enough. Guy.

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<v Speaker 4>To me, you sound like one of my friends.

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<v Speaker 1>You sound like an annoying little brother.

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<v Speaker 4>Hold on, were your abs and back muscles strong enough

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<v Speaker 4>to absorb the blow?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I I definitely hurt myself and I'm oh.

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<v Speaker 4>No you Yeah, Well, maybe.

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<v Speaker 2>She doesn't trying to prove your manlin.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm seeing a lot of red flags. That's not the

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<v Speaker 4>right word I'm looking for.

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<v Speaker 3>I would say they're like, they're more like highlights. Those

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<v Speaker 3>were the fun part.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's not that you learned anything from the letter.

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<v Speaker 3>Shoo, okay, I mean what I learned was that those

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<v Speaker 3>are the fun things in a relationship, and she needs

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<v Speaker 3>to relax the and O I miss her, and I

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<v Speaker 3>bet she misses me.

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<v Speaker 4>Took here's like zero.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna let you know if we're gonna how does

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<v Speaker 2>this work again? Does he ask her back out?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? We call the girlfriend and let him talk for it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>let's he has to win her back himself.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's not use any of that sentence that you need

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<v Speaker 1>to relax, you need.

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<v Speaker 3>To calm down.

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<v Speaker 2>I just just some hot advice.

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<v Speaker 3>There, okay, fair, fair, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>And those are the problems that she had with you.

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<v Speaker 4>So if you want her back, you're probably gonna need

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<v Speaker 4>to compromise a little bit. Like can you agree that

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<v Speaker 4>if she wants you back going forward, you won't stare

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<v Speaker 4>into solar eclipses anymore? Are you capable of that?

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<v Speaker 3>Guys? I already learned my lesson. I'm not doing that again.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, that's clear glos. That is what we're trying

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<v Speaker 4>to accomplish here.

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<v Speaker 2>He's trying to see if you can use the word

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<v Speaker 2>selfie in a sentence.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, We're about to dial your ex Jessica, and we'll

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<v Speaker 4>get her on the phone and let you try and

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<v Speaker 4>win her back yourself. All right, We'll come back and

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<v Speaker 4>see if she says yes to the X.

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<v Speaker 2>Right after this, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I rarely do this, but during the break

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<v Speaker 4>I got on the phone and talked to Landon you

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<v Speaker 4>did off the air, and I just told him how

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<v Speaker 4>we felt, honestly, in the room.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that. I like you talking for all

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<v Speaker 2>of us.

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<v Speaker 4>Think we're on the same page because based on the

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<v Speaker 4>breakup note, it seems like Landon has done some dumb things. Yeah, correction,

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of dumb things in his relationship, and his

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<v Speaker 4>attitude was Jessica just needs to chill out and relax.

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<v Speaker 4>And if Landon really feels like it's all on her

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<v Speaker 4>to change herself and just relax about it, then why

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<v Speaker 4>are we doing this segment?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because then it's just gonna be her getting angry

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<v Speaker 2>at him all over again.

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<v Speaker 4>Because she says what the problem was, and he says

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<v Speaker 4>that shouldn't be a problem for you. So what we're

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<v Speaker 4>trying to do here is get some growth, because all

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<v Speaker 4>of us as humans are constantly evolving, trying to become

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<v Speaker 4>better people. And frankly, Landing, I'm not sure if in

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<v Speaker 4>the past six weeks since the breakup there's been enough

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<v Speaker 4>growth on your end from what we just heard to

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<v Speaker 4>warrn her.

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<v Speaker 1>Saying, yes, that is the most adult thing that Jeffrey's

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<v Speaker 1>ever said.

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<v Speaker 4>Honest with you. I know we're supposed to be fun,

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<v Speaker 4>but yeah, pretty real. I tell you to say that

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<v Speaker 4>because honestly, you could say that on your own, Landon,

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<v Speaker 4>What was that last bit? I missed that last They

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<v Speaker 4>were all telling me that I'm not smart enough to

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<v Speaker 4>come up with that on my own.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you had any growth in the last six weeks Landon.

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<v Speaker 3>Jeff, Yeah, I I appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 5>Look, I made changes, and I see that there are

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<v Speaker 5>some mistakes that I made, Okay, And the reason I'm so,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, I want to take this opportunity now, even

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<v Speaker 5>though it's been just.

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<v Speaker 3>Six weeks, because I think we have an opportunity to

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<v Speaker 3>grow together Jessica and I rather than growing apart.

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<v Speaker 2>See that's good. I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good sentiment, you know for sure. Ma, You know,

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<v Speaker 1>can we ask real quick is she dating right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Or is she just single?

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<v Speaker 2>Single? Have you heard?

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<v Speaker 3>Well? She better not be dated. It's only been six weeks,

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>Do this an it's fair game.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I think after two weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's why we broke up with them.

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<v Speaker 4>We have to reach out to her to find out

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<v Speaker 4>some of these answers. And if you're just listening for

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<v Speaker 4>the very first time, say yes to the exes. It's

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit different than a second date update. Because

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<v Speaker 4>these people have had a previous relationship before, they already

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<v Speaker 4>know each other, and we're going to try not to

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<v Speaker 4>jump in on the conversation as much as we normally do.

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<v Speaker 4>We're going to try and let them talk and work

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<v Speaker 4>it out as much as possible amongst themselves. That's the goal.

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<v Speaker 4>It's going to show if they've really had any growth

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<v Speaker 4>in their relationship or not. And so now I'm about

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<v Speaker 4>to punch up Jessica. Our producer got her on the

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<v Speaker 4>other line. You're ready to talk to her?

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<v Speaker 2>Don't punch ex girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, let's just bring her on the line with you.

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<v Speaker 4>Here we go, he Jessica.

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<v Speaker 3>You there.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, Hi Jessica.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey Jessica, this is Brooke Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously, thanks for being on the show with us.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, Hi, it's not gonna lie. I'm a little bit

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<v Speaker 6>caught off guards. But what's up. What's going on?

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<v Speaker 4>So our producer told you that we have your ex

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<v Speaker 4>boyfriend Landon on the phone right now and he really

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<v Speaker 4>really wants to speak to you for a second. Hey, Jessica,

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<v Speaker 4>that's Landon. So what we're gonna do here is we're

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<v Speaker 4>just going to back away and let you and Landen,

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<v Speaker 4>have a chat for a second.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, go ahead, Landon, Hey, yeah, sorry about this,

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<v Speaker 3>but you know, I just have something to say to you.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, Well, I mean, like, why do you have the

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<v Speaker 6>radio station calling me?

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<v Speaker 3>No, don't worry about that. I mean, just per time,

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<v Speaker 3>like it's you and me. There's nobody else here.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're not laughing.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't even know, like is this on air with

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<v Speaker 6>like viewers? Like, come on.

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<v Speaker 3>Viewers. I don't think they can see us, but I

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<v Speaker 3>think just focus on what I'm about to say.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, what do you have to say? Landon?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, For the last six weeks, I've noticed that I've

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<v Speaker 3>missed you a lot and I and I just I

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<v Speaker 3>need you back in my life. So okay, I'd like

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<v Speaker 3>you to say yes to the X.

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<v Speaker 6>What does that even mean?

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<v Speaker 3>What they're doing on the show and they've done it

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<v Speaker 3>before with somebody else and help them get back their X.

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<v Speaker 3>So now I'm trying with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe talk to her about.

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<v Speaker 6>Are you you you want us to get back together?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it just makes sense. It's like peanut butter and jelly. Okay, Like, Landon, Look,

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<v Speaker 3>I promise it's going to be better. I have a

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<v Speaker 3>feeling about it.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, are you still living with your mom?

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<v Speaker 3>Well sort of, but it's it's really different from last time.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, different how well?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so if you remember before, my bedroom was on

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<v Speaker 3>the main floor of my mom's house, but like the

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<v Speaker 3>first floor. Okay, yeah, well now you know, she's getting older,

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<v Speaker 3>as you know, and she doesn't like using the stairs.

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<v Speaker 3>So last week I offered such rooms with her, and

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<v Speaker 3>she said, yeah, so now I actually have the entire

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<v Speaker 3>top floor to myself, and you know, it's kind of

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<v Speaker 3>like a penthouse.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, but you're you're basically still living with her though.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean it's like my own place, and in

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<v Speaker 3>a year or two, I'm gonna save up enough money

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<v Speaker 3>to build a separate entrance, you know, a staircase that

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<v Speaker 3>goes from the outside to my room.

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<v Speaker 2>Slide, slide, Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean that's not even different. It's like the same

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<v Speaker 6>thing that you were doing before.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I would have moved out sooner, but you know,

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<v Speaker 3>my credit screwed up from my identity being stolen, which

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<v Speaker 3>was you know, I was a victim.

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<v Speaker 6>But you did that on purpose. You put your soul

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<v Speaker 6>security in the online because oh my god, you think

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<v Speaker 6>it'd be so funny if somebody stole it and realized

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<v Speaker 6>that you didn't have any money, Like.

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<v Speaker 4>What was that?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it was funny. It was hilarious to be

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<v Speaker 3>on the dark web and experiment with the dark web.

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<v Speaker 3>But I admit that it's backfired.

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<v Speaker 2>What look like?

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<v Speaker 3>I just think now things are different from me. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>moving up in life, I mean literally up a floor.

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<v Speaker 3>So maybe you'd want to hang out again and we

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<v Speaker 3>can grow together instead of growing apart.

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<v Speaker 6>I appreciate the sentiment and thank you for reaching out,

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<v Speaker 6>but no, Landon, No, I don't want to live with

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<v Speaker 6>your mom.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry, because tell me, are you dating anyone else?

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<v Speaker 6>That's none of your business. I'm single.

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<v Speaker 3>That sounds like a confession or something. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>That's I'm not seeing anybody right now, but I plan

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<v Speaker 6>on it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, Oh okay, not seeing anybody until you say yes

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<v Speaker 4>to the X and then you'll be seeing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you're not seeing anybody. Please say yes to the X.

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<v Speaker 4>That's right. That's the whole goal of the segment and

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<v Speaker 4>has the endorsement of every member of This Morning plus

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<v Speaker 4>all of our listeners, all twelve of them.

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<v Speaker 2>She just said no eight times, while you were talking.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, she didn't. She didn't say it nine times. That's

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<v Speaker 4>the magic number. I mean, you get nine lives dating.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say it sounds like he really does care

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<v Speaker 1>for you and love you.

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<v Speaker 6>He lived his leg on fire with ex body spray.

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<v Speaker 6>I will let you know.

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<v Speaker 3>That he's a good I mean that was to prove

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<v Speaker 3>that there should be a product warning on.

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<v Speaker 2>Frat guys. But I'll put together on.

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<v Speaker 6>Every aerizon landon Like, in all seriousness, you have way, way,

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<v Speaker 6>way more grossy. You need to go through personally, and

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<v Speaker 6>I support you. I hope you do before we ever

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<v Speaker 6>have any type of conversation ever. And it's Kennedy, more

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<v Speaker 6>than six weeks or six months.

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<v Speaker 2>I support you with silence.

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<v Speaker 4>But look, that wasn't a no.

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<v Speaker 3>That wasn't a no. I thought, here's what, here's what

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<v Speaker 3>I think we should do. Well. I want to check

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<v Speaker 3>in again in six weeks, and I just want you

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<v Speaker 3>to promise that between now and then you don't see

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<v Speaker 3>anyone else.

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<v Speaker 4>That's fair.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not gonna do that.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I don't know about that.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it's like people taking time apart to figure

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<v Speaker 4>out themselves before they get back together stronger than ever.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I always thought people were doing other people when they

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<v Speaker 1>took time apart.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what you do during your time apart to make

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<v Speaker 4>yourself stronger. That's what it takes.

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<v Speaker 3>I promise, and I guarantee, I will be celibate the

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<v Speaker 3>next six weeks. I'll be like a priest.

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<v Speaker 4>Your mom probably longer than that, if we're being honest.

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<v Speaker 2>Rooms right below you're a man.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry, it sounds like we're not gonna be able

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<v Speaker 4>to get your ex to say yes, you said no

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<v Speaker 4>to the.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, well look for now she did. But six

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<v Speaker 3>weeks later we're checking in radio.

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<v Speaker 4>Look Jeffrey in the morning,