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Speaker 1: Hey, we got a special treat for you today. Welcome

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Speaker 1: to the Second Date Update podcast. It is, of course

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we asked you

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Speaker 1: yesterday I did a poll on Spotify. Sorry, it's the

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Speaker 1: only you know podcasts platform. We can do polls on Yes, Yes,

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Speaker 1: thank you, Alexis and asked, say yes the X is

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Speaker 1: a special episode where we help a listener attempt to

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Speaker 1: get back with the X.

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Speaker 2: Would you like to hear it on this pod? Two options?

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Speaker 1: Yes, post that drama or nah, Second Date's only here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I feel like we need a drum roll,

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Speaker 2: but I don't have one.

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Speaker 3: And.

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Speaker 1: People say yes, post that drama, so.

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Speaker 2: We do.

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Speaker 1: No, we really do listen to what you want to hear.

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna give you a little special treat today

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Speaker 1: with a brand new say Yes to the X, Sit

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Speaker 1: back and joy.

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Speaker 4: Pretty soon they're gonna like the whole entire show.

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Speaker 1: Caul and let us know in the comments if you

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Speaker 1: like this type of content, So you know, we love

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Speaker 1: to hear your feedback, good or bad if you're not

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Speaker 1: too me alright, alright, show starts now.

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Speaker 4: Do you believe in second chances? A second chance to pass?

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Speaker 4: That driver's test, a second chance for dinosaurs to rule

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Speaker 4: the earth.

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Speaker 2: Well, Jess a.

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Speaker 4: Second chance to slip past that security guard and finally

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Speaker 4: make it up on stage at the Taylor Swift concert

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Speaker 4: and give.

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Speaker 2: Her a smart arrested immediately.

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Speaker 4: I'm things happen when you get a second chance, And

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Speaker 4: today we're hoping for a second chance at love, trying

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Speaker 4: to get one more shot for a guy who's desperate

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Speaker 4: to win back the woman who dumped him. And it's

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Speaker 4: kind of crazy because the way that she ended things

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Speaker 4: was one of the most brutal stories that I think

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Speaker 4: we've ever heard on this show. Still, he says he's

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Speaker 4: willing to risk it all for one more chance, and

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Speaker 4: it's gonna come up. We'll see if it pays off.

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Speaker 4: In a brand new say Yes to the X right

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Speaker 4: after this, j Lo and Ben Affleck, Prince William and

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Speaker 4: Kate Middleton, Nick Cannon and Baby Mama's Number four and seven. Wow,

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Speaker 4: just a few examples of couples who dated and broke up,

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Speaker 4: only to get back together years later because they realized,

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Speaker 4: oh my god, I think maybe they were the one

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Speaker 4: thought it was three, which, yeah, it's a little ys there,

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Speaker 4: But the point is you never know until you try,

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Speaker 4: and if you have an ex that you look back

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Speaker 4: on and think, did I make a mistake by letting

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Speaker 4: them go? We created this segment called Say Yes to

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Speaker 4: the X so that we can reach out and see

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Speaker 4: if there's a chance, if they want to give it

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Speaker 4: one more show today, and it was really intended for

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Speaker 4: long lost loves to reunite. Yeah, I'm not really sure

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Speaker 4: if today's caller Landon falls into that category.

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Speaker 2: Why was it like a one night stand? He wants

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Speaker 4: His email said him and his girlfriend have only been

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Speaker 4: separated for six weeks, but he's ready to jump back

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Speaker 4: out and see if there's another chance there. Let's talk

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Speaker 4: to him. Landon, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: Hey, guys, Okay, some people take years, some people take weeks. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: my sister and her boyfriend at the time broke up

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Speaker 1: for five days and then got back together and they

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Speaker 2: Hey, it was a very hard five days. In that time,

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Speaker 2: he got a tattoo and joined the navy. Yeah, he

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Speaker 2: was dealing with something. Know what happened six weeks?

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Speaker 4: A red flag? After hearing that story, Are you sure

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Speaker 4: you want to go?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, guys, I don't want to let hers to

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Speaker 3: the way that's become really clear to me over these

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Speaker 4: And what's her name?

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Speaker 3: Her name is Jessica, And yeah, we were together for

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Speaker 3: like about a year and it was I mean, she's

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Speaker 2: Okay, why did you guys break up six weeks ago?

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Speaker 3: Well? There are reasons, you know, which we can get into,

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Speaker 3: but I'll just say like I've been pretty miserable ever since.

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Speaker 3: And she didn't tell me in person. She did. She

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Speaker 2: Oh she dumped you. Okay, yeah, okay.

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Speaker 4: What I was wondering why you were like having trouble

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Speaker 4: coming out with it? You're it's clearly it's still pretty raw.

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Speaker 4: It only happened six weeks ago.

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Speaker 3: I mean, look, it was some stuff that I didn't

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Speaker 2: And so she wrote you what sounds like a letter.

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Speaker 2: I'm guessing did you guys talk in person?

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Speaker 3: Well, it was a note on my door. Actually, she

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Speaker 3: broke up with you.

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Speaker 4: Via door note.

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Speaker 1: Are you sure she's not your landlord and trying to

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Speaker 3: No? No, I mean I've been through that before. But no,

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Speaker 4: It's like I've broken up with a building before. I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that's gotta be hard to take.

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Speaker 1: Man.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was really harsh. It was like a list

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Speaker 4: Oh god.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Our producer told me that you actually have the breakup

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Speaker 4: note with you. Oh no, yeah, would it be okay? Like,

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Speaker 4: if it's not too painful for you, would you mind

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Speaker 4: like telling us some of the things that she said

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Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, I don't know if I'm comfortable doing

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Speaker 3: that because they were pretty mean and I don't feel

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, if she's being rude and mean to you,

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Speaker 4: why do you even want to get back together with her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, because she has some points that are kind

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Speaker 4: It's going to admit that you've made mistakes. Like if

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Speaker 4: she's like you did this and this, and you fix

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Speaker 2: Won't want to. I mean, if she's writing a list

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Speaker 4: That, that's a normal girlfriends are like, though, right, No.

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Speaker 2: No, I mean, is it one specific thing? Did you

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Speaker 3: No? No, no, I did not cheat. I'm not okay,

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Speaker 3: but I'm not going to read the entire note, but

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you, guys a couple of the things.

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Speaker 4: She's okay, Okay, give us the bullet points of it,

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Speaker 4: and then we'll post the whole thing on the brook.

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Speaker 2: No, okay, we'll stay flyers and put it on doors

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Speaker 2: around the city.

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Speaker 4: He's kidding, bro Okay, just give us a couple of them, Okay.

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Speaker 3: The first one is you refuse to use the word

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Speaker 4: You refuse to use the word selfie Landon.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't use the word selfie. I use the

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Speaker 3: word celfo. Like you know, like in Spanish, there's like.

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Speaker 4: Feminine and singular pal masculine would be.

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Speaker 1: Are you that worried about your masculinity that you think

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Speaker 3: No, I just think that I mean just to be

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Speaker 3: like more grammatically correct, I guess like to say celfo.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's grammatically correct at all, sir. I

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Speaker 1: don't think you could find that any dictionary if.

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Speaker 4: You're in the club with your boys, going to be like, hey, Jonathan,

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Speaker 4: let's take a selfie together, like bro, me and my bros. Yo, dog,

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Speaker 4: you look super cute right now, get over your homie. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: let's cell phone it up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah exactly, But you guys see what I'm talking about, Like,

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Speaker 3: that's really nitpicky. Like that's not a reason to break

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Speaker 3: It sounds.

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Speaker 2: Kind of like an excuse. But yeah, so what else

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Speaker 4: All like that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I mean I think they're all like that. I

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Speaker 3: mean the next one she says, is you thought you

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Speaker 3: were tough enough to share at a solar eclipse?

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Speaker 2: Are you blind right now? Or can you see?

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Speaker 3: No? I can see it was a little blurry for

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Speaker 3: like the day. But how often does a solar eclipse happen?

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Speaker 3: Like I didn't Okay, yes, I also thought like it'd

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Speaker 2: But these are all questionable things.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, At the same time, are women gonna dump a

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Speaker 4: guy every time they do something a little bit stupid

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Speaker 4: to prove their masculinity of them?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? How many pages do we have?

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Speaker 1: Maybe?

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Speaker 4: Do you have like a last one? For us landing.

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Speaker 3: Sure, I can give you one last one.

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Speaker 4: The fact that there is three is kind of.

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Speaker 2: Like, I just mean, okay, okay.

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Speaker 3: She says, you jumped at a trampoline from the second

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Speaker 3: floor to prove your abs and back muscles were strong enough. Guy.

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Speaker 4: To me, you sound like one of my friends.

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Speaker 1: You sound like an annoying little brother.

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Speaker 4: Hold on, were your abs and back muscles strong enough

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: I mean I I definitely hurt myself and I'm oh.

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Speaker 4: No you Yeah, Well, maybe.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't trying to prove your manlin.

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Speaker 4: I'm seeing a lot of red flags. That's not the

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Speaker 4: right word I'm looking for.

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Speaker 3: I would say they're like, they're more like highlights. Those

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Speaker 2: So it's not that you learned anything from the letter.

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Speaker 3: Shoo, okay, I mean what I learned was that those

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Speaker 3: are the fun things in a relationship, and she needs

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Speaker 3: to relax the and O I miss her, and I

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Speaker 3: bet she misses me.

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Speaker 4: Took here's like zero.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna let you know if we're gonna how does

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Speaker 2: this work again? Does he ask her back out?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? We call the girlfriend and let him talk for it. Okay,

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Speaker 4: let's he has to win her back himself.

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Speaker 1: Let's not use any of that sentence that you need

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Speaker 1: to relax, you need.

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Speaker 3: To calm down.

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Speaker 2: I just just some hot advice.

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Speaker 3: There, okay, fair, fair, okay.

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Speaker 4: And those are the problems that she had with you.

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Speaker 4: So if you want her back, you're probably gonna need

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Speaker 4: to compromise a little bit. Like can you agree that

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Speaker 4: if she wants you back going forward, you won't stare

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Speaker 4: into solar eclipses anymore? Are you capable of that?

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Speaker 3: Guys? I already learned my lesson. I'm not doing that again.

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Speaker 4: I mean, that's clear glos. That is what we're trying

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Speaker 2: He's trying to see if you can use the word

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Speaker 2: selfie in a sentence.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, We're about to dial your ex Jessica, and we'll

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Speaker 4: get her on the phone and let you try and

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Speaker 4: win her back yourself. All right, We'll come back and

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Speaker 4: see if she says yes to the X.

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Speaker 2: Right after this, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because then it's just gonna be her getting angry

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Speaker 4: Because she says what the problem was, and he says

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Speaker 1: Saying, yes, that is the most adult thing that Jeffrey's

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Speaker 4: What was that last bit? I missed that last They

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Speaker 2: Have you had any growth in the last six weeks Landon.

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Speaker 5: Look, I made changes, and I see that there are

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Speaker 3: Six weeks, because I think we have an opportunity to

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Speaker 4: Here we go, he Jessica.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi Jessica.

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Speaker 4: Hey Jessica, this is Brooke Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Obviously, thanks for being on the show with us.

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Speaker 3: All right, go ahead, Landon, Hey, yeah, sorry about this,

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Speaker 6: Okay, Well, I mean, like, why do you have the

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Speaker 3: No, don't worry about that. I mean, just per time,

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Speaker 3: Viewers. I don't think they can see us, but I

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Speaker 6: Okay, what do you have to say? Landon?

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Speaker 3: Okay, For the last six weeks, I've noticed that I've

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Speaker 6: What does that even mean?

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Speaker 3: What they're doing on the show and they've done it

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Speaker 3: So now I'm trying with you.

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Speaker 2: Maybe talk to her about.

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Speaker 6: Are you you you want us to get back together?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it just makes sense. It's like peanut butter and jelly. Okay, Like, Landon, Look,

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Speaker 6: I mean, are you still living with your mom?

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Speaker 6: Okay, different how well?

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Speaker 6: Okay, but you're you're basically still living with her though.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean it's like my own place, and in

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Speaker 3: I mean, I would have moved out sooner, but you know,

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Speaker 6: But you did that on purpose. You put your soul

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Speaker 4: What was that?

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Speaker 3: I mean, it was funny. It was hilarious to be

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Speaker 2: What look like?

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Speaker 3: I just think now things are different from me. I'm

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Speaker 6: I appreciate the sentiment and thank you for reaching out,

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Speaker 6: but no, Landon, No, I don't want to live with

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, because tell me, are you dating anyone else?

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Speaker 6: That's none of your business. I'm single.

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Speaker 3: That sounds like a confession or something. I don't know.

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Speaker 6: That's I'm not seeing anybody right now, but I plan

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Speaker 4: Yes, Oh okay, not seeing anybody until you say yes

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're not seeing anybody. Please say yes to the X.

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Speaker 4: That's right. That's the whole goal of the segment and

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Speaker 2: She just said no eight times, while you were talking.

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Speaker 4: Well, she didn't. She didn't say it nine times. That's

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Speaker 1: I will say it sounds like he really does care

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Speaker 6: He lived his leg on fire with ex body spray.

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Speaker 6: I will let you know.

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Speaker 3: That he's a good I mean that was to prove

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Speaker 2: Frat guys. But I'll put together on.

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Speaker 6: Every aerizon landon Like, in all seriousness, you have way, way,

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Speaker 6: way more grossy. You need to go through personally, and

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Speaker 6: I support you. I hope you do before we ever

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Speaker 2: I support you with silence.

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Speaker 4: But look, that wasn't a no.

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Speaker 3: That wasn't a no. I thought, here's what, here's what

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Speaker 3: I think we should do. Well. I want to check

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Speaker 4: That's fair.

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Speaker 2: You're not gonna do that.

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Speaker 4: I mean it's like people taking time apart to figure

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I always thought people were doing other people when they

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Speaker 4: That's what you do during your time apart to make

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Speaker 3: I promise, and I guarantee, I will be celibate the

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Speaker 4: Your mom probably longer than that, if we're being honest.

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Speaker 2: Rooms right below you're a man.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, it sounds like we're not gonna be able

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Speaker 3: All right, well look for now she did. But six

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Speaker 4: Look Jeffrey in the morning,