Speaker 1: M m m hm. This is.
Speaker 2: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices.
Speaker 3: I'm Erica and I'm Mila. Hi, Hi, guys, what's up.
Speaker 3: You know it's hump day. I'm feeling humpy. It's warm
Speaker 3: and cuttle season.
Speaker 2: So we're in our sweats. I'm rocking my good Mom's
Speaker 2: Little Flowers sweater that's just been restocked, so you can
Speaker 2: rock it too. Yes, this is the best seller. You
Speaker 2: guys have been begging, begging on your knees on the internet,
Speaker 2: and I don't blame you because it's cut at buck.
Speaker 2: How are you? I'm good, I'm good. It's I'm finally
Speaker 2: to wear sweatsuit and not sweat outside because La has
Speaker 2: just decided summer is going to start in November. Oh,
Speaker 2: just wait till next week.
Speaker 3: It'll be ninety again. No, you know it gets ninety
Speaker 3: every other day.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 3: No, we get like one glimpse of a breeze, Like
Speaker 3: I saw some leaves falling.
Speaker 2: From my window. I was like, I should make soup,
Speaker 2: Like is that wind? I hear I'm going to New
Speaker 2: York next week? And I was like, oh, I get
Speaker 2: to pull out my winter coats. And I looked at
Speaker 2: the weather. It was like seventy two in New York.
Speaker 2: I was like, what the fuck is going on? Really,
Speaker 2: I'll tell you what's going on? Global fucking warming, which
Speaker 2: we fucked up? The planet, the planet X. I think
Speaker 2: it's the same, Kurt said, Planet X. It's not.
Speaker 3: You're gonna share our entire community about this fucking planet X.
Speaker 2: I'm sure people have looked it up. Look up planet X.
Speaker 2: It may or may not be a real thing, but
Speaker 2: it probably is. Kurt from WhatsApp said that it's causing.
Speaker 2: It's not global warming, it's Planet X pulling on our planet.
Speaker 2: I am.
Speaker 3: I'm the conspiracy theorist that literally I believe everything. I
Speaker 3: believe everything. There's nothing I don't believe. I believe conspiracy
Speaker 3: is more than I believe the news any day, because
Speaker 3: it's probably more true. You're right, sort days shark days
Speaker 3: to allow dwindling down, dwindling. This seems so high.
Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm just adjusting live on set. She feels like
Speaker 2: a Well, you guys, if you're watching our YouTube, then
Speaker 2: you know we have a guest sitting here. It's a
Speaker 2: special guest. It's a former guest, former two time guests?
Speaker 2: Is it two times?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's two times, two times, having two time having
Speaker 2: guests sounds like a cheater, but he's not a cheater.
Speaker 2: He is none other than Jamila's man podcaster extrod sexy bitch.
Speaker 2: Wait what is it? Bad bad bitch, Sorry, sexy bad
Speaker 2: bitch Holano Royland. I was why aren't you wear your
Speaker 2: crop top today? I forbid him. Yeah, it's like really
Speaker 2: on brand for him. I was really too cold leaves
Speaker 2: her out cut it, okay.
Speaker 3: Orlanda thought he was going to move to LA and
Speaker 3: just have a fucking closet full of crop tops.
Speaker 4: I was gonna have a fleet of crops and you
Speaker 4: could just.
Speaker 2: Wear a T shirt under it and then you know what, actually,
Speaker 2: my boo. He brought a crop top to l A
Speaker 2: the other week and he's like, I have a crop
Speaker 2: top and I was like what, yes, And I was
Speaker 2: like no, the fuck you don't and he was like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I do. And I was like let me see it,
Speaker 2: and he was like you don't believe me. I was
Speaker 2: like no, and then he showed us me and it
Speaker 2: was a crop top and I was like, you're gonna
Speaker 2: put some like fucking shredded shirt under this ship And
Speaker 2: he dresses like a fucking punk rocker didn't put a
Speaker 2: shorted shirt and he never got to the outfit. But yeah,
Speaker 2: he was, Yeah, he was gonna put a shredded shirt.
Speaker 2: He wasn't ready for that, ready for a gut to hang.
Speaker 2: I have a confession.
Speaker 3: One time there was a crop top he left at
Speaker 3: my house and I really hated this one in particular,
Speaker 3: and I toiled Erica and she said, just throw it away.
Speaker 3: And I was like, I could huh. She's like, he's
Speaker 3: not going to notice. Just throw the shit away.
Speaker 2: See he didn't know it. I told you, I know
Speaker 2: which one it was. I threw that ship away.
Speaker 4: Which one it's gone?
Speaker 2: I don't care. Then, you know, if you don't remember,
Speaker 2: it doesn't matter. Oh my god. I was like, eric
Speaker 2: I hate She literally called me with this dilemma, and
Speaker 2: I was like, just throw it away. He's he's not
Speaker 2: going to know. Never really in my house during my freeness,
Speaker 2: I wouldn't say that. I'm I'm supporting your fashion. Well,
Speaker 2: in the spirit of coughing season November, I figured we
Speaker 2: needed to have you guys on right, like you're the couple,
Speaker 2: you are the you are the couple, the couple. I
Speaker 2: like that the podcast couple of the podcasting couple of
Speaker 2: the universe. So, welcome to the show. Welcome to the show.
Speaker 2: Welcome back to the show. I feel like I can,
Speaker 2: like I lean this way.
Speaker 3: I'm a guest, but if I lean this way in
Speaker 3: the house, welcome back, thank you. Oh my god, so silly,
Speaker 3: so honey, yeah, welcome to the show.
Speaker 2: How are you feeling a.
Speaker 4: Nervous I am feeling good.
Speaker 1: I am nervous.
Speaker 4: It's good to be in front of the audio instead
Speaker 4: of behind it now.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah.
Speaker 3: Orlando also works for us, does he said every recording,
Speaker 3: just not on camera.
Speaker 2: He does all of our audio and listens to all
Speaker 2: of our bullshit all day long.
Speaker 3: He usually sits in the corner like kind of behind me,
Speaker 3: so I kind of like stirf for my body so
Speaker 3: I don't have to look at him so I can
Speaker 3: speak freely.
Speaker 2: I I don't think any problems for you, freely, whether he's.
Speaker 1: Here or not, just look at me. And then I
Speaker 1: had the goddess experience.
Speaker 2: I feel more.
Speaker 3: I feel more brave in front with the mic, like
Speaker 3: this is work working.
Speaker 2: I'm working through your shit away just for entertainment purposes only,
Speaker 2: I do.
Speaker 3: I mean, just like in general, I do feel it's
Speaker 3: like more confident, like speaking honestly in front of the
Speaker 3: I think it's developed over time.
Speaker 2: I'm like, it doesn't count.
Speaker 3: I mean, everyone knows I have to tell the truth
Speaker 3: here ever, even knows Air come mad at you.
Speaker 2: All the confessions come only when we're recording. It's very important,
Speaker 2: I know, because anytime we try to have a real conversation,
Speaker 2: Mila just laughs in my face. Yeah. Anytime I tell
Speaker 2: her like, hey, that's how I feel, she goes and
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, well that is not It literally happened
Speaker 2: at least twenty two times, maybe one, so I can
Speaker 2: think of one time. I think of one here, I
Speaker 2: can think, I can think of I think of a
Speaker 2: few different times. I don't think that happened in Chicago. Besides,
Speaker 2: when then when she gets mad and she wants to
Speaker 2: throw computers and bitches face, Oh, my man gets mad
Speaker 2: that ally ever threw anything in your face. When Merely
Speaker 2: gets mad, it's like now we're now, we're ready to
Speaker 2: be mad.
Speaker 3: Now we're ready to have conversations. You guys don't want
Speaker 3: to see me mad. You've never seen me mad. So
Speaker 3: these are lies and you'll know when I'm mad. Okay,
Speaker 3: I'm a very scary mad person.
Speaker 2: Well, do you guys have an affirmation for the show?
Speaker 2: Is it a couple of information?
Speaker 4: I do have an affirmation.
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Speaker 2: your affirmation, dear?
Speaker 4: Uh?
Speaker 1: My affirmation is what doesn't progress? You only blinds you
Speaker 1: from opportunity.
Speaker 2: But it doesn't progress. You only blinds you from opportunity.
Speaker 2: It doesn't progress. Wow, that sounds really smart. I'm like, wait,
Speaker 2: doesn't doesn't progress. It doesn't push you forward, telling you forward,
Speaker 2: and it blinds you from the opportunity to be push
Speaker 2: pushed forward. Okay, that makes sense. Yeah, I love that.
Speaker 1: It's just a way for me to notice, like what's
Speaker 1: distracting from me. So whenever I'm like entering the situation
Speaker 1: or whatever it may be, if I think about it
Speaker 1: and I think about where it can go, and if
Speaker 1: it's not something that's like good for me or progressive
Speaker 1: for me or productive or any way, then I just like,
Speaker 1: you know, let me put myself in a situation where
Speaker 1: I can come across something that would be good for me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that. I love that. Don't block your blessing.
Speaker 2: Don't block your blessings, aka, don't block your.
Speaker 4: Blessing and put yourself in a position to be blessed.
Speaker 2: Yes, I think that's really important. I think, well, sometimes
Speaker 2: it's hard to do that because you get comfortable in
Speaker 2: one space and it feels it feels normal to be
Speaker 2: in there.
Speaker 3: No, I think like one blessing always brings you closer
Speaker 3: to the next one. So like, if you're like we've
Speaker 3: talked about this, before, if you stay in something that
Speaker 3: you know is just probably is comfortable, but not where
Speaker 3: you're supposed to be, you will stay in that space.
Speaker 3: But as soon as you walk away from things that
Speaker 3: are not where you're supposed to be, when you know
Speaker 3: you're not supposed to, all of the opportunities come flowing.
Speaker 2: No for sure, but I'm just saying, like I think
Speaker 2: people will get opportunities and still be scared and stay
Speaker 2: in comfort, and then then those blessings don't come forward.
Speaker 2: Then they don't, they don't progress.
Speaker 1: You know, exactly exactly.
Speaker 2: But we're almost in the new year, y'all, so we
Speaker 2: ain't doing that no more, right in twenty twenty three,
Speaker 2: ain't doing that shit no more. Don't block your blessing,
Speaker 2: block your.
Speaker 1: Blessings, go for it, take a risk, take a chance,
Speaker 1: and but also put yourself in a position to be blessed,
Speaker 1: like your Thoughtso accept the blessings and know like that's
Speaker 1: a distraction.
Speaker 4: I don't want that.
Speaker 1: I need to be over here around these type of people,
Speaker 1: around this situation that is going to be fruitful for me.
Speaker 1: It's like being around a bunch of friends that are
Speaker 1: like stagnant, and you become stagnant with out of that situation,
Speaker 1: which is scary to like be different, But when you
Speaker 1: see further down the line that there's going to be
Speaker 1: something good that's going to come from this, it makes
Speaker 1: you more comfortable with like stepping away from situations and
Speaker 1: put yourself in positions to be blessed and have better opportunities.
Speaker 3: The opportunities come immediately, But when you're saying that, Orlando,
Speaker 3: I was thinking about you in particular, and just like
Speaker 3: kind of like the progression of you moving from New
Speaker 3: York to LA and like how it all kind of
Speaker 3: happened with like you getting let go of your job
Speaker 3: and then you're being.
Speaker 2: Like kind of scared of that. But like because you've
Speaker 2: had this like kind of stable job for such a
Speaker 2: really long time, then you're probably not really happy in anyway.
Speaker 2: Maybe were you happy in that job?
Speaker 1: I mean I was happy for what they were supposed
Speaker 1: to do, Like I was getting benefits, I was getting paid,
Speaker 1: and it's like this is security into structure. But it
Speaker 1: got to a point where there's a lot of days
Speaker 1: I would wake up looking myself in the mirror like
Speaker 1: I shouldn't be.
Speaker 2: Doing this, but like then allowing and then moving forward
Speaker 2: and saying fuck that, I'm not going to try and
Speaker 2: go back and figure this out. I'm going to keep
Speaker 2: going and moving forward. And then even with your partnership
Speaker 2: with your last podcast, which the last time Orlando was
Speaker 2: on the show was with with the other podcasts, and
Speaker 2: then letting that go in a firely fireball of flames,
Speaker 2: but saying no, but saying like this shit is not
Speaker 2: for me, like I'm cool, I will walk away from this,
Speaker 2: and then seeing how the things have just kind of
Speaker 2: manifested since then, you know, it's like you're like kind
Speaker 2: of a prime example of your affirmation today exactly. Congratulations.
Speaker 1: And that's why it was. It's so easy because I've
Speaker 1: had that job since I was eighteen, like from eight
Speaker 1: to twelve years. I've put a lot of effort into
Speaker 1: my past podcast and now I can let those things
Speaker 1: go because just viewing what they were for me or
Speaker 1: how I felt in that situation, now, knowing the discomfort
Speaker 1: from it, I can go, oh, something else is going
Speaker 1: to come up because because for me, well.
Speaker 2: And also you've seen how it has.
Speaker 1: You know, and I've seen the progress.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And speaking of that last episode, you and Mila
Speaker 2: were like in acting really fucking awkward.
Speaker 4: In that whole episode, you a lot of pressure.
Speaker 2: Acting like you guys weren't in a fucking relationship when
Speaker 2: the fuck you were. And look, you know you're the
Speaker 2: only one acting like we were in a relationship because
Speaker 2: I wouldn't say it. I did say it, just weren't
Speaker 2: listening what you were like, I was unclear.
Speaker 3: You said no, I actually watched this episode not that
Speaker 3: long ago, and you were like, I don't know if
Speaker 3: you know, Orlando, but she's been calling you her boyfriend
Speaker 3: all year long, which is true.
Speaker 2: And I date people like my boyfriend.
Speaker 3: If you're the best candidate of my host, would get
Speaker 3: the boyfriend titles secretly only with amongst my friends my.
Speaker 2: Boyfriend Like, no, not really, but you know what I mean. No,
Speaker 2: you did that a lot. That's what I'm saying. You
Speaker 2: did that a lot.
Speaker 3: We are in a different place, Yes, this is true, Erica.
Speaker 3: We have come a very long way since then. I
Speaker 3: think that was in February. That was like February, yeah, now.
Speaker 4: Two yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3: And I kept saying you're my boyfriend. I mean I
Speaker 3: I believed it too, but because it was long distance,
Speaker 3: I was just like whatever. I was like, yeah, he's
Speaker 3: my boyfriend, but I could do whatever I want. And
Speaker 3: also it wasn't very it wasn't monogamous, so I really
Speaker 3: felt like, Okay, it felt like security.
Speaker 2: You told me this too.
Speaker 3: It felt like security to have this title, but also
Speaker 3: not like have to do anything very special. You know,
Speaker 3: I'm weird about commitment, So yeah, I know things have changed.
Speaker 4: How do you feel about commitment now?
Speaker 2: I'm good with it. I'm good. We're in a good place.
Speaker 2: I feel like an adult that I can finally confidently
Speaker 2: say I have a boyfriend, I'm a girlfriend. Were you
Speaker 2: weird about commitment?
Speaker 1: No, I was all that. I mean, I chose Mila,
Speaker 1: like I saw Mela, and I was like, yeah, you're it.
Speaker 1: So I was already committed mentally before we even got
Speaker 1: to part of like saying it out loud.
Speaker 2: What do you think was the thing that like made
Speaker 2: you finally say, okay, I can I can claim you publicly?
Speaker 2: You guys are already claiming each other publicly?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Really?
Speaker 4: Like oh my how it was like no, there's y'all
Speaker 4: and there's me.
Speaker 2: Look, you guys were spitting each other's mouth on the
Speaker 2: internet like seven, like twenty two months ago. So I
Speaker 2: don't know. I just got serious.
Speaker 3: I got very I think he moved he well, I
Speaker 3: was also denial about that I'm in.
Speaker 2: I have a lot of things. He was like.
Speaker 3: I was like, you should just like figure your stuff out.
Speaker 3: You can come out here for a little while and
Speaker 3: like figure it out. And he's like, I'm moving And
Speaker 3: I was like, you can come out here for a
Speaker 3: little while and figure it out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, move And.
Speaker 3: Then he brought his ship here and left it and
Speaker 3: I was like, eric is like, you know, he's moving in.
Speaker 2: And I was like she's like no, it's aunt lived
Speaker 2: down the street. I was like, bitch, I was like
Speaker 2: if I know. She was like Ryan told me to
Speaker 2: tell you that he's moving in. I was like he
Speaker 2: told who?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 3: Shout out to Ryan from guys next door, who was
Speaker 3: trying to warn me through Erica. And I was like,
Speaker 3: it's not happening like it is. I was like, no,
Speaker 3: there's it's like a safe no no. But I think, yeah,
Speaker 3: I think him moving in. But honestly, I think also
Speaker 3: before he moved in, we went to Mexico for a
Speaker 3: month and we spent a month together and then it
Speaker 3: was like solidified it for me that it's okay, you
Speaker 3: can say it out loud, you can like trust it.
Speaker 3: It was just like more anxiety than I was, like
Speaker 3: in denial. But I think that time we spent together
Speaker 3: for a month in Mexico was like, yeah.
Speaker 1: Thirty days of Mexico really did it for me. Also
Speaker 1: because I was I was the one that was really pushing,
Speaker 1: like I'm moving over half my stuff now we're going
Speaker 1: to Mexic and bring the rest of it then. And
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, I know I have an aunt
Speaker 1: that's close, but I'm coming to you. She was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be fine. I'm like, yeah, I left my
Speaker 1: job with my podcast.
Speaker 4: I'm coming.
Speaker 1: Baby's like yeah, I'm like gonna be great. But thirty
Speaker 1: days in Mexico is not something I really recommend. But
Speaker 1: if you make it out, then yeah you're together.
Speaker 2: You don't recommend it.
Speaker 1: Hey, you really have to be in that mental stage
Speaker 1: like really wanting someone. No, it's great for us because
Speaker 1: we really wanted each other, But I can see it
Speaker 1: going so many wrongs. It's in so many different places
Speaker 1: for somebody that's like really not committed that opening to
Speaker 1: growth and not opening to like oneness.
Speaker 2: Shit, I went to Mexico for six days. I left
Speaker 2: that nigga at the airbnb, but my friends got they too, right, like,
Speaker 2: my nigga, it's not gonna work. I'm gonna get my
Speaker 2: own AIRBB. When she texted me I left him, I
Speaker 2: was like, what, like I left? I was like, I
Speaker 2: literally left my boyfriend, oh, calling him out this person
Speaker 2: with my friends at an airbnb, and I said, I'm
Speaker 2: sorry you guys, but I gotta go. I'm leaving.
Speaker 3: I mean a vacation in general, vacation like out of
Speaker 3: the country is usually like, let.
Speaker 2: You know how some shit's not gonna work.
Speaker 3: I should have known from the ferry at the airport
Speaker 3: he was tripping. You did tell me bru shit at
Speaker 3: the fucking TSA because of his lotion.
Speaker 2: I was like, I should have known that. I was
Speaker 2: so embarrassed. I was like, this nigga has angry issues.
Speaker 2: So that was my bad.
Speaker 3: Remember the time I went to Mexico with Adventure Bay
Speaker 3: and he was so fucking cheap and like, and I
Speaker 3: complained the whole time, and I was like, am I
Speaker 3: a bitch?
Speaker 2: And I called you.
Speaker 3: From the bathroom from the airport when I was going
Speaker 3: to Mexico City, I was like, I don't know your kettle.
Speaker 2: I think he's crazy. I think it's gonna work, and
Speaker 2: you're like, what's the problem, Like he didn't bring any
Speaker 2: nice clothes. He was bitching. He was like, oh, your
Speaker 2: friends are dressing so nice.
Speaker 3: Like when I dress when I have travel, I just
Speaker 3: bring like one carry on. I washed my things in
Speaker 3: the sink. Oh yeah, he told me that. I was like,
Speaker 3: he was forty years old. I was like, why would
Speaker 3: you wash.
Speaker 2: Your things in the sink on vacation? I just I
Speaker 2: was like, why don't you bring nice things? Like my
Speaker 2: friends were going out to dinner. All I can think
Speaker 2: about is the dress that appeared a few weeks ago.
Speaker 2: We had to shoot and Jamila brought this like full
Speaker 2: turtle neck leather dress and I was like, where the
Speaker 2: fuck is what is this dress? She's like, I bought
Speaker 2: it in Mexico when I was dating adventure Bay. I
Speaker 2: was like, this is signifies how fucked up this relationship was.
Speaker 2: Lord knows, I'm never seen anywhere I turn like my
Speaker 2: whole fucking I had buttons. It was cute. It looked
Speaker 2: like like house in the prairie, but like new school.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 2: I was going for something conservative. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: You were trying to do something over there. I gave
Speaker 2: it to the makeup artist.
Speaker 1: I'm sure she's really One thing about Mexico was Mila
Speaker 1: constantly telling me like, this is so much better than
Speaker 1: the other guy I came with.
Speaker 4: We don't even have any plans.
Speaker 1: It's great.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah.
Speaker 3: I kept planning things to the tea. He was like,
Speaker 3: youtubing is fucking life away. I was like, you're gonna
Speaker 3: spend so much time looking at the shit on YouTube,
Speaker 3: you're not gonna be surprised when you get there. I
Speaker 3: was like, how much research can one nigga do? I
Speaker 3: never seen a nigga look at so many snotes on YouTube.
Speaker 2: I was like, we're about to go to the SOE
Speaker 2: in one hour. Just get the fuck off YouTube.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, why you knew so much ABOUTE?
Speaker 3: You no, nigga, That's why we didn't go to No
Speaker 3: to not tap the fuck out. Okay, I've seen twelve
Speaker 3: hundred on fucking YouTube. No. But you know, I also,
Speaker 3: prior to Orlando moving in, mistakenly moved in this other guy,
Speaker 3: not mistakenly, him and his dog, and it was really
Speaker 3: traumatic for me, so like, I was like, this is
Speaker 3: I felt like it was too soon after that, and I
Speaker 3: was like I knew it was a different person, a
Speaker 3: whole different type of person, but I was kind of
Speaker 3: still triggered.
Speaker 2: So yeah, I was in denial for sure.
Speaker 3: It's probably gonna And I was like, my kid's gonna
Speaker 3: be like, bitch, what the fuck is wrong with you?
Speaker 2: It's gonna do this shit again, Like, bitch, we just
Speaker 2: did this shit. I was, I was gonna say it.
Speaker 3: I was like looking at her, like, okay, but it
Speaker 3: is a very different situation.
Speaker 2: But I mean even for that.
Speaker 3: So let me give you a little background on Orlando
Speaker 3: and I. You guys, we did meet on Zoom during
Speaker 3: the twenty twenty pandemic when me and Erica were just
Speaker 3: finding people to talk to because we maybe were gonna
Speaker 3: kill ourselves because there was nothing else to do but podcast.
Speaker 3: And Orlando on his former podcast, you know, they were like, well,
Speaker 3: let's come on our show whatever, So we did it.
Speaker 2: I met them.
Speaker 3: I met him on Zoom, and I wasn't interested. I
Speaker 3: was like, oh, these guys are cute whatever. I thought
Speaker 3: he was a little extra, but you know, whatever was
Speaker 3: podcast life, and you know, he like DMed me a
Speaker 3: little bit on Instagram. We were, you know, fake friends
Speaker 3: from podcasting, a little flirting here, and then he was like, oh,
Speaker 3: you know, I'll be out there. Let's like collab, let's
Speaker 3: do an episode. So I was like, okay, whatever content.
Speaker 3: But I had just ended that really terrible, horrible Adventure
Speaker 3: Bay relationship because I came back from Mexico and I
Speaker 3: cheated on him because he didn't fuck me enough on
Speaker 3: that vacation, and I instead of breaking up with him,
Speaker 3: I just said, fucking I'm a fuck somebody else. And
Speaker 3: then he looked at my shit and it just blew up.
Speaker 3: And then I was like, I'm a terrible person. I
Speaker 3: don't like love. I'm immature. Because he was nice to me,
Speaker 3: and I thought that was like the epitome of a relationship.
Speaker 3: What a nice guy, and so I was really trying
Speaker 3: to get him back for a minute. I was like,
Speaker 3: please take me back so.
Speaker 2: We can go on boying adventures together, and he wouldn't.
Speaker 2: He just kept pulling me through the mud to punish me.
Speaker 3: And so my lat my final straw was that I
Speaker 3: met a nigga on the internet on the DMS and
Speaker 3: he was like, come to Tennessee, and I was like,
Speaker 3: perfect way to get over this other nigga. So I
Speaker 3: met a guy in the DMS that I had no
Speaker 3: idea who he was, flew to Tennessee and then we
Speaker 3: drove to Atlanta.
Speaker 2: We had a great time, and then as soon as
Speaker 2: I got back, I pulled up to Erica's house.
Speaker 3: To do this thing with Orlando, and he was wearing
Speaker 3: a crop top and I was like, Oh, this is interesting.
Speaker 2: And my daughter was like, why are you wearing that shirt?
Speaker 2: And I was like, he give me whatever he wants, Luna,
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know. Pe nice shit. And
Speaker 2: we recorded and it was great.
Speaker 3: We had a good time, but still I wasn't we
Speaker 3: had good chemistry, but I thought it was like friendship chemistry,
Speaker 3: and we were supposed to go hang out with Erica,
Speaker 3: and then Erica canceled like she so often does. I mean,
Speaker 3: it was far was over the hill, and people from
Speaker 3: the valley don't leave over the hill. So I had
Speaker 3: already invited him, and because I'm a fucking people pleaser,
Speaker 3: I was like, you want to just come over. I
Speaker 3: just got an apartment, had like one piece of furniture.
Speaker 3: I was just so happy to have a house.
Speaker 2: Do you want to come over I have? Do you
Speaker 2: have your don mushrooms? He's like no, and I was like,
Speaker 2: just you can just come do mushrooms.
Speaker 3: But I asked him at eleven o'clock at night, because
Speaker 3: I thought he was gonna be like, it's late. I'm cool,
Speaker 3: I'm in Santa Monica. But no, no, no, no.
Speaker 4: I went to the core of it. I was driving anywhere.
Speaker 3: He came over at eleven PM to my empty ass
Speaker 3: apartment and we did mushrooms and it was fine.
Speaker 2: But even then I was like, God, this guy talks
Speaker 2: a lot.
Speaker 3: I was like, what a fucking podcast or you won't
Speaker 3: shut the fuck up. And then it went even further.
Speaker 3: He was like I didn't want to fuck with him
Speaker 3: because I was like, I've been doing too much lately.
Speaker 2: I cheated on the other nigga.
Speaker 3: I just went on a fucking trip with this other
Speaker 3: nigga from my DMS I don't know, and now I'm
Speaker 3: here with this nigga.
Speaker 1: I was like, let me just relax, give me like
Speaker 1: three licks of head and just stopped.
Speaker 3: Were like kissed a little. But I was like he
Speaker 3: was talking so much. He was like, you deserve me
Speaker 3: I'm a blessing. I was like, I literally in my head,
Speaker 3: I was like, I can't wait to tell Erica this shit.
Speaker 3: The whole time I was like, oh she right, damn
Speaker 3: want I need to tell her. I literally wanted to
Speaker 3: put it in my phone, like don't forget to tell
Speaker 3: her this. And I was like okay, and I think, yeah.
Speaker 3: We like kissed a little bit, like licked.
Speaker 2: His dick three times and I was like no, no,
Speaker 2: I don't need to do that, and he was like,
Speaker 2: just kept talking.
Speaker 1: Cool.
Speaker 3: So the next morning we woke up and he said, oh,
Speaker 3: I go to breakfast. I was like cool, we could
Speaker 3: go to this place around the corner from my house. Still,
Speaker 3: I was like, hey't wait to get away from him
Speaker 3: so I could call Erica. And then we go to
Speaker 3: breakfast and we go home live and we start talking
Speaker 3: and everyone's like, oh, this is the perfect match.
Speaker 2: I saw this.
Speaker 3: Happening and I was like, what are they talking about?
Speaker 3: And then he started talking and I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: I kind of like he is kind of smart. I
Speaker 3: was like, he's kind of nice son, and he paid
Speaker 3: for breakfast. I was like that was nice. Yeah, he
Speaker 3: like gave me his keys to his rent hoal and
Speaker 3: he was like, putting me on Instagram. I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: look'm putting me on Instagram, you know, but just love
Speaker 3: that ship.
Speaker 2: Are you gonna make me public? The most basic left?
Speaker 2: What the fuck? Wait? It's for better? Wait? And then
Speaker 2: he's like, do you want to go to the beach?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 2: And I was like here's the thing. It was like Saturday.
Speaker 3: I really didn't have shit to do except call Erica
Speaker 3: and talk shit. And he was like, now I kind
Speaker 3: of liked it. I was like, oh, he's kind of cool.
Speaker 2: I was like fuck it.
Speaker 3: I was like, okay, let's go back by my house
Speaker 3: and get my bathing suit. So I go get my
Speaker 3: bathing suit.
Speaker 2: We drive in the corvette to the beach, and before
Speaker 2: he pull up to this hotel, he's like, oh, my
Speaker 2: homegirl's in here. I was like, okay, me and the
Speaker 2: homegirl talking. We're like me and I Leanta like made out,
Speaker 2: I mean up some others friends. We get drunk on
Speaker 2: the beach. I'm like sitting on his face on Instagram
Speaker 2: for pretend. Like ah.
Speaker 3: Then I was like I want oysters. He's like, perfect,
Speaker 3: we can go get oysters. She takes me go get oysters.
Speaker 2: He pays. I'm like, he pays for me and this bitch.
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god. He's so nice. He's like,
Speaker 2: let's go to dinner. I'm like, but I don't have clothes.
Speaker 2: He's like, I'll take you to go get extra clothes.
Speaker 3: Me. No, right, So we go get the oysters. Orlando
Speaker 3: says he's gonna take my jacket to the hotel. As
Speaker 3: soon as Orlando walks away, the girl looks over at
Speaker 3: me at the table and goes So, me and Orlando
Speaker 3: have been fucking around for some time, but he won't
Speaker 3: really be committed, so I think he's trying to have
Speaker 3: a threesome or something. And I was like looking behind me,
Speaker 3: I was like what.
Speaker 2: I was like what.
Speaker 3: She got so serious. We were besties all day. He
Speaker 3: walked away for one second. She was like, yeah, we've
Speaker 3: been seeing each other, but he just won't commit to
Speaker 3: the time that I need to see him. And now
Speaker 3: this is us like rekindling it, and I think he's
Speaker 3: trying to have a three someome And I was like no, no, no, no.
Speaker 2: I was like, we don't mess around. I don't really
Speaker 2: know him like that. I just met him.
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm not trying to have it through
Speaker 3: some I'm like, it's all good, Like I thought she
Speaker 3: was gonna cut me, like I was trying to take
Speaker 3: her man, and I was like no, I was like,
Speaker 3: why did this nigga tell me he was this is
Speaker 3: a bit she fucked with because I was just thought
Speaker 3: we were all like lollygagging along. And second of all,
Speaker 3: what kind of dick is this nigga? Given out that
Speaker 3: this bitch was about to cut me at the dinner table.
Speaker 3: I was like, we were just best friends. And then
Speaker 3: the like lower level bitch of me was like, huh Now,
Speaker 3: I'm kind of curious because this bitch is really aggressive
Speaker 3: over this nigga. I was like, he must be doing
Speaker 3: something particular in the bedroom.
Speaker 2: So they planted a seed because she was like really
Speaker 2: got really, really serious. And so after that we went
Speaker 2: to dinner and I ubered home.
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm gonna go home because I wasn't
Speaker 3: trying to get caught in the crossfires of any threesomes
Speaker 3: that I wasn't trying to have. And he was like,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna come over after I dropped this bitch off,
Speaker 3: and I was like whatever.
Speaker 2: I went home. I fell asleep.
Speaker 3: He came to my house from Santa Monica, which is
Speaker 3: not like an easy drive. Banged on the door, but
Speaker 3: I didn't hear it, and he left and he was like,
Speaker 3: it's okay, I'll come back tomorrow. I was like, I'm
Speaker 3: so sorry. I fell asleep. He was like, it's cool,
Speaker 3: I'll come back after I leave San Diego. I was
Speaker 3: like whatever. I'm like, you're not going to go to
Speaker 3: San Diego. Come back to my house.
Speaker 2: He did. He did. He's like I'm back, I'm on
Speaker 2: my way. I was like, oh wow, he's really committed.
Speaker 3: Anyway, he was there for like four or five days,
Speaker 3: and every single day we saw each other, and like
Speaker 3: every day I was like, huh, I do come.
Speaker 2: He is kind of nice. He kept doing stuff for me.
Speaker 2: I was like, are you downtown? He's like yeah. I
Speaker 2: was like, can you pick up the shelf from Craigslist?
Speaker 2: He's like sure, got this, picked up this random.
Speaker 3: Shelf, made me food, bought food, and he's like, I
Speaker 3: want to take you on this mountain.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take you for a ride somewhere. I was like, okay.
Speaker 3: Took me to like this beautiful Topanga canyon and we
Speaker 3: like watched this moon set, we had sex and then
Speaker 3: he was like, I'm gonna give you one man's stand up.
Speaker 3: I was like, what, literally did an entire comedian stand
Speaker 3: up alone.
Speaker 2: On top of Tipanga Mountain outside of the car. Like
Speaker 2: I was like cracking up. I'm like this nigga. I
Speaker 2: was like, he's not weird, He's just an actor.
Speaker 4: Myself.
Speaker 3: I was like, it's not it's not too much, it's
Speaker 3: just his personality. I was starting to understand. I'm like,
Speaker 3: he's just a lot of characters.
Speaker 2: But I was also like kind of into it anyway.
Speaker 3: But the last day we had sex and Topanga Mountain,
Speaker 3: he made me a key and saltfish, which is the
Speaker 3: Jamaican national dish and everybody knows I like to eat.
Speaker 3: And by the time I dropped him off at the airport,
Speaker 3: I was like, do you want to go to Mexico
Speaker 3: next month?
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm playing Mexico next month with all
Speaker 2: my friends. You want to go?
Speaker 3: And he's like okay. I was like all right, and
Speaker 3: that was it, and I told Eric. I was like,
Speaker 3: I was gonna call you, tell you how much I
Speaker 3: didn't like him. But by the time I got a chance.
Speaker 2: To call you, I liked him already. She was like what.
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I'm confused, but yeah, I like him, and he's coming
Speaker 3: to Mexico.
Speaker 1: Beautiful life star.
Speaker 2: It was beautiful.
Speaker 3: And then when he got back to New York, he
Speaker 3: told me that he was seeing someone else and I
Speaker 3: was like, of course you are, because I could not
Speaker 3: just like a regular nigga. And I was like, well,
Speaker 3: how is she going to feel about you coming to Mexico.
Speaker 3: He's like, she's fine, it's not exclusive.
Speaker 2: I was like whatever.
Speaker 3: And then he asked me a week before the trip
Speaker 3: if the bitch could come to Mexico with us, and
Speaker 3: I was like, where is she going to sleep?
Speaker 2: He's like with us?
Speaker 3: I was like, this is when Erico was like, now
Speaker 3: it's time to put your foot down.
Speaker 2: I called Erica. Erica is my fucking wife. Hello, he's weird. Hello,
Speaker 2: false Lama like him. Hello. He asked me this crazy question.
Speaker 2: Tell him no bitch. So I was like, yeah, I
Speaker 2: thought about it. I don't think that's a good idea. Dah, nigga.
Speaker 2: I've never met this bitch in my life.
Speaker 3: You think you to bring a bitch, We're gonna be
Speaker 3: fucking a happy family. Yeah, So he came to Mexico,
Speaker 3: which was right after my Like I was in Mexico first,
Speaker 3: I had an epic acid experience. I had a break
Speaker 3: groundbreaking acid experience. And then he came and we had
Speaker 3: a really really really really magical bomb ass trip. It
Speaker 3: was like after covid DJA track was playing on the
Speaker 3: rooftop on New Year's Eve, there was fireworks, We're making out.
Speaker 3: We went on a fucking boat trip. Remember, it was
Speaker 3: like a sunset. Whales were just like right away, like
Speaker 3: riding next to.
Speaker 2: The boat, like remember, And we drove to Toto Santos, Yeah, and.
Speaker 3: We like stayed in a little tepee like and then
Speaker 3: I let Orlando poured his blood on my chest and
Speaker 3: put his initials. So I probably like put a curse
Speaker 3: on myself because I allowed this to happen, and then
Speaker 3: I was stuck like chuck.
Speaker 2: But after that, we came back from.
Speaker 3: Mexico after like a week of being together, not really
Speaker 3: knowing each other, and just went back to our regular lives.
Speaker 3: They were like hey, we were like we're gonna be
Speaker 3: bonded forever, but like I'll see you later, and I
Speaker 3: was like, okay.
Speaker 4: So nobody can treat me worse.
Speaker 2: And I treat you.
Speaker 3: You can fuck with whoever you want, just to make
Speaker 3: sure they treat you as good or better than I
Speaker 3: treat you.
Speaker 2: And I was like, wow, that was good. Wow. And
Speaker 2: then what did I do? He was he was too
Speaker 2: far away, So I.
Speaker 3: Found a fake Muslim and I was like, you should
Speaker 3: move in, you and your dog. And it was very
Speaker 3: terrible moment. But I remember thinking this is not a
Speaker 3: good idea. But I had to do it. I just
Speaker 3: had something in me. Just had to do like the
Speaker 3: last toxic thing. I was like, I need to get
Speaker 3: this out of my system. I just got to do it.
Speaker 3: It's got to deal with somebody super toxic. And I
Speaker 3: did for like a strong six months.
Speaker 4: That was a very frustrating time for both of us.
Speaker 2: I was lying about it. He's like, what's going on
Speaker 2: with you? I was like, well, how did you deal
Speaker 2: with that? Because I knew you guys were still to
Speaker 2: well were you talking all the time or did this
Speaker 2: talking have to cease? Because Leprechaun was.
Speaker 1: I was.
Speaker 4: I was there and we were talking all the time.
Speaker 1: But then I would get like spans of like a
Speaker 1: week and a half, two weeks or like miss calls
Speaker 1: and then she would just pop up and be like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm at a hotel, big ass fucking dog and I'm like,
Speaker 1: why is that dog? Then he's like, well, this guy
Speaker 1: moved in two weeks, so.
Speaker 2: He's staying with me for a little bit. Yeah, but
Speaker 2: he's not gonna.
Speaker 1: Leave two weeks to go about it on here from him,
Speaker 1: she was like hey, and I'm like he's still there
Speaker 1: is and she's like, uh so, just fans of like
Speaker 1: on and off, like me, not hearing from her until
Speaker 1: like I think, like July and or around the summer,
Speaker 1: I started to hear from her work more consistently, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, is this nigga still around? She's like, no, no,
Speaker 1: he moved her out. He moved out, mind you. She
Speaker 1: came to see me and left him in the house.
Speaker 2: Is that what happened? No, he was, he was in
Speaker 2: La but he had moved out. But I was I
Speaker 2: did it on purpose.
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm going to go see my other nigga,
Speaker 3: knowing he couldn't handle it, and then he did. He
Speaker 3: dumped me and I never We messed around for a
Speaker 3: little bit, but then one day I literally asked him
Speaker 3: to get the fuck out, and he never came back
Speaker 3: because God was like, and en, scene, are you done
Speaker 3: being talks bitch?
Speaker 2: And I was and then yeah.
Speaker 1: And a few months later we were in a relationship
Speaker 1: too when she saw that I was fucking somebody else
Speaker 1: and she was like, I don't like that.
Speaker 4: They said it online.
Speaker 1: And I was like, well, you know, if you want
Speaker 1: this to change, then you're gonna have to commit to me.
Speaker 4: She was like, okay, so i'll get my way.
Speaker 2: You're gonna tell me shut the fuck up. I was like, okay,
Speaker 2: I'll be your girlfriend.
Speaker 1: Just to know other bitches could say that they fucked
Speaker 1: me online.
Speaker 3: I didn't want a lot of bitches saying they fucked
Speaker 3: the same person I fucked online. So I said, listen,
Speaker 3: either tell those bitches to shut the fuck up, or
Speaker 3: I'm gonna take my distance. He said I'm gonna be
Speaker 3: your boyfriend, and I said that works, and I'm still
Speaker 3: fucking other people. And he was fucking other people. He
Speaker 3: had like a whole sub relationship, so I really wasn't
Speaker 3: taking it very seriously.
Speaker 2: I was just like, yeah, that's my boot. And then
Speaker 2: we just continued to see each other. I went to
Speaker 2: New York, he came to La.
Speaker 4: Dangerously in love with Mila, like she was everything to me, and.
Speaker 3: Then I was like, yeah, we're cool, we go together whatever,
Speaker 3: and then we decided to go to Mexico for a month.
Speaker 3: And then in Mexico, I was like, Oh, this guy
Speaker 3: really does fuck with me. He really wants like he's
Speaker 3: really in a relationship with me. I guess I should
Speaker 3: be too.
Speaker 2: And now we're here, dear, Yeah, how did you know
Speaker 2: that you wanted like that, that she was you were
Speaker 2: dangerously in love with Jamila?
Speaker 4: I didn't.
Speaker 1: It's just like things just kept coming up like and
Speaker 1: I would just respond certain ways. Like the first time
Speaker 1: I met her, she was like I'm a witch and
Speaker 1: I want you to know that, and I was like, yep, fine,
Speaker 1: that's I could take that. This is like I would
Speaker 1: have never said yes in any other moment. Nobody's ever
Speaker 1: told me they were a witch before, and my body
Speaker 1: just took to it positively. So things just like kept happening,
Speaker 1: like her even telling me, oh, you want to come
Speaker 1: to Mexico for a month, I was like I do.
Speaker 1: I don't know why, but I know I want to go.
Speaker 1: And then as things progressed, it's just like just looking
Speaker 1: at her, I was like, I really do like this woman.
Speaker 1: She is the like herself and it's such a weird
Speaker 1: thing that say, but she actually acts on herself and
Speaker 1: what she wants to do. And then meeting her friends,
Speaker 1: that's always like, yeah, Jamiala is gonna do what she
Speaker 1: wants when she wants to do it, And I'm like,
Speaker 1: that's my kind of woman. I am a man that
Speaker 1: does what I do. I want to do also, So
Speaker 1: just time goes by and then just like getting to
Speaker 1: know her and just seeing how like compatible we are,
Speaker 1: knowing what I've wanted in a woman for like so long,
Speaker 1: and then just like naturally just being like, yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: I want you to do these things. I want you
Speaker 1: to feel comfortable with your titties out and I don't
Speaker 1: feel away, and I want you to be comfortable sexually,
Speaker 1: and I want you to accept me because I had
Speaker 1: an only fans and shit like that. So it's like
Speaker 1: everything just all just mixed together. And then me losing
Speaker 1: the job, leaving my podcast and all these things, that's like,
Speaker 1: you know what, I think it's time for me to
Speaker 1: come to La and live with you.
Speaker 4: Look look, baby, it's a sign.
Speaker 3: I told you bitch, I let you have your titties
Speaker 3: out come in. I'm coming out my shit.
Speaker 2: Listen, Mila's prayer came true. You know, you know, see
Speaker 2: her had her prayer. Mela's prayer. We actually think we
Speaker 2: did an actual prayer was with Black Girl's text. We did.
Speaker 2: And I think one of those things was like I
Speaker 2: want a man that's let me have my titties out,
Speaker 2: like some of those things. I was gonna give me
Speaker 2: a mail female. Yeah, all those I think, yeah, you really,
Speaker 2: you really did it?
Speaker 1: Yeah, because she had a godic experience when we were
Speaker 1: ready together and then she called me, She's like I
Speaker 1: did this, and I was like, well, how does it
Speaker 1: make you feel? I was happy. I was elated for
Speaker 1: her that she was just so happy.
Speaker 3: That was one thing I knew that like, wow, this
Speaker 3: is different than any other relationship I've been in because
Speaker 3: I could literally tell him anything and he wasn't gonna
Speaker 3: like attack me or dub me.
Speaker 2: I was like, so let me tell you what I did.
Speaker 3: He's like, oh, okay, me, my friend, her boyfriend, another chick.
Speaker 2: We all. He's like, oh okay, then what happened? I
Speaker 2: was like, and then, well, I think because you guys
Speaker 2: are really friends. Yeah, you know that's like, that's like
Speaker 2: the foundation of your relationship is that you guys have
Speaker 2: been like brutally honest with one another from the beginning,
Speaker 2: and so like being in love, it feels easy, really interested.
Speaker 1: So bad when you're being so it's like we were
Speaker 1: magically honest with each other. It wasn't brutal.
Speaker 3: It was act I mean for some people it would
Speaker 3: be brutal. I mean the things that we have told
Speaker 3: each other. I don't think that's never been the case
Speaker 3: in any other relationship for me, you know, like I've never.
Speaker 2: Because we're people. We do some extreme ship compared to
Speaker 2: like the life of a square or normal. Everyone listening
Speaker 2: is like, wow, it's okay to be a square. Well,
Speaker 2: I don't think you're a square if you don't do
Speaker 2: all the ship you do.
Speaker 1: We square in the sense of like you stay in
Speaker 1: the bounds of like what a relationship should look like, or.
Speaker 2: You stay in the bounds of what your relationship, but
Speaker 2: you want your relationship. I'm not calling the square. I'm
Speaker 2: just saying we're a little wild.
Speaker 1: You are wild.
Speaker 2: Well, speaking of wild and speaking of knowing each other
Speaker 2: really well and spending what's a copious amounts of time together?
Speaker 2: Big words, baby, I hope that's the right word. I
Speaker 2: want to do. I want to do this little this
Speaker 2: little question game we've played with all of our guests.
Speaker 1: I'm listen, you know right now this is the greatest
Speaker 1: podcast game has ever come out. I love this game
Speaker 1: so much.
Speaker 2: Listen to everyone created it in four minutes, much like
Speaker 2: everything in our business. Right off the.
Speaker 3: Cuff, I know, my teacher was like, are you gonna
Speaker 3: be able to move to the next level?
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know. I work well under pressure.
Speaker 3: For give me too much time, I might not perform.
Speaker 1: Mm.
Speaker 2: So let's start with Jamila. You're gonna ask me, I'm
Speaker 2: gonna ask you about Orlando. Okay, okay. So I asked
Speaker 2: Jamila and Orlando to answer some questions about each other
Speaker 2: and not, you know, cheat, to see how well they
Speaker 2: knew each other. So number one question, first question, Jamila,
Speaker 2: what is Orlando's favorite color? Orange? Correct? What is his
Speaker 2: overall pet peeve?
Speaker 3: I said not when people don't say please and thank you.
Speaker 3: I don't know if he'll agree with that, but like
Speaker 3: he gets super fucking irritated of me, or my eight
Speaker 3: year old daughter, don't say please and thank you like
Speaker 3: a Jamaican auntie.
Speaker 2: What is it crying babies on planes? Okay, that's everybody's
Speaker 2: pet peeve when it comes to you.
Speaker 3: That I'm messy, that I believe my ship places somewhat
Speaker 3: using my washcloth and towel.
Speaker 2: We got in a fight about this last night.
Speaker 1: Yeah, get me a towel with a rag.
Speaker 3: Now I think there's there're plentiful, we're not running low,
Speaker 3: And then he's.
Speaker 2: There are not in that cabinet. I was like, here
Speaker 2: you go. Okay, what is his childhood pet's name? He
Speaker 2: didn't have one. His animals shouldn't be pets. He doesn't
Speaker 2: believe animal shi pets? What what would he what would
Speaker 2: he say is wait? What would you say? What would
Speaker 2: you say? Is his best quality? What would he wait?
Speaker 2: What would say? You wrote these, bitch, you would think
Speaker 2: I would have spelled checked it. Since we've done this
Speaker 2: like four times now, what would he say? Is your
Speaker 2: best quality? My ability to know?
Speaker 4: What is his best quality?
Speaker 2: What is his best quality? His best quality is being
Speaker 2: adaptable people person Yeah, reading myself, listening, making people feel comfortable.
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. What is his worst quality?
Speaker 3: I don't know big, moody patience, pretty patient though you're
Speaker 3: pretty patient.
Speaker 2: What is something he's most so instead of about money?
Speaker 2: Mm hmm you.
Speaker 1: What you say was done to you. That's slightly why
Speaker 1: I was okay with being your boyfriend. Also because like
Speaker 1: these niggas are not doing it. Niggas are sucking up
Speaker 1: nobody'shoting your right so.
Speaker 2: We can be the mom.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I got a pool around him, like a money pool.
Speaker 1: Oh what you mean, like we're putting in and who's
Speaker 1: going to put hands on her? Some of her axes? First?
Speaker 3: Perfect particular you guys are being recorded.
Speaker 2: It's fine. What is something that he is most he's
Speaker 2: accomplished that he is most proud of? Is uh? His
Speaker 2: business as a creative? You that he's what? What has
Speaker 2: he accomplished that he's most proud of.
Speaker 1: I had this moment in the fourth grade where I
Speaker 1: was like, I'm gonna spend every day trying to better
Speaker 1: myself so that when I find the woman I'm going
Speaker 1: to be with, she has nothing to complain about. So
Speaker 1: I've been like practicing every day. It's like a fourth
Speaker 1: grade to be this person.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we went when we went to Mexico for a month,
Speaker 3: the book he brought for the vacation.
Speaker 4: Was every Man's Marriage.
Speaker 3: He brought every Man's Marriage as the like the vacation read.
Speaker 2: What is that book about? Like how that best husband Ever?
Speaker 1: It's basically about this Christian guy and he's talking about
Speaker 1: how is how his marriage was and how he wasn't
Speaker 1: being like a good Christian and in because of that,
Speaker 1: he wasn't being a good man and a good husband.
Speaker 1: And then at the end of every chapter, it's like
Speaker 1: a bunch of questions to like, uh, how did you
Speaker 1: feel about the chapter and.
Speaker 4: What you got from it?
Speaker 1: And I would like answer the questions like put a
Speaker 1: little bookmark in the book for every chapter. Adorable on
Speaker 1: this thirty day.
Speaker 2: I'm going to shut a tear. I was like, Wow,
Speaker 2: this is pretty serious. What is Orlando's biggest insecurity? I
Speaker 2: don't think he has any bad bitches, don't get insecure.
Speaker 2: I know it sounds about right. What would be a
Speaker 2: deal breaker in a relationship? In his relationship lying close,
Speaker 2: being ignored?
Speaker 1: I've actually ended a relationship because of that.
Speaker 2: What do you mean, like like someone doesn't answer the call?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: In person? So we were in person. We were having
Speaker 4: a conversation.
Speaker 1: She was like packing to travel to go somewhere. And
Speaker 1: as I'm like it was a conversation about her relationship,
Speaker 1: and as she's like actively packing, she's also like ignoring
Speaker 1: me because I'm saying it loud enough she could hear me,
Speaker 1: or like right in front of each other. And then
Speaker 1: so I said, oh word. So I started to get dressed,
Speaker 1: and as she's packing, by the time like I walked
Speaker 1: out her apartment, we were a relationship. And by time
Speaker 1: I got downstairs, we were broken up. And then she
Speaker 1: called me. She's like, did you just leave the apartment?
Speaker 1: And I'm like yeah, And also we're not together anymore.
Speaker 2: Damn, I don't don't ignore him.
Speaker 3: He almost hated me when that guy moved in and
Speaker 3: I was not answering those phone yeah yeah.
Speaker 2: Lines. Where does he like to grocery? Stop shop? Now, Ralphs? No,
Speaker 2: Where did the fuck do you grocery shop?
Speaker 1: Exactly?
Speaker 2: Where do any stores with Jamaican groceries? The Bombay Indians.
Speaker 4: Market, It's like not far from here.
Speaker 2: I was. I think I've heard you go there. You
Speaker 2: know where it is.
Speaker 3: It's the it's in the fucking remember the trainer that
Speaker 3: stopped training us because we.
Speaker 2: Oh, I do Did I remember that?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Wow, nothing, I remember seeing that market favorite favorite musical
Speaker 2: artist of all time, Luther Vandros No you love no
Speaker 2: Tendy pendergrass Yep, what is the old fucking I know?
Speaker 2: He is a aunty for real? He is what God
Speaker 2: we gotta insert I guess we already inserted it once.
Speaker 2: But that fucking when we went to go see Patti
Speaker 2: LaBelle his fucking face watching Patty? What is his guilty pleasure?
Speaker 3: Eating anything that I cook? Eating when I eat? Guilty
Speaker 3: pleasure eating.
Speaker 2: When you eat? Isn't that when you're Is that called dinner?
Speaker 4: Because all the starch eating and stuff like.
Speaker 2: Guilty pleasure the Bad Boys Club give.
Speaker 1: Me is the most disgusting thing. I can't stop. I
Speaker 1: watched two other episodes.
Speaker 2: When You're what who zeus? Did you use?
Speaker 1: No? No? Sorry you when you left to go to
Speaker 1: Costa Rica? Watch two episodes.
Speaker 2: What is his favorite porn category? Anal DDP or some
Speaker 2: shitp anal compilation? Yeah, I mean something like that. How
Speaker 2: old were you? How old was he when he lost
Speaker 2: his virginity? Twelve lower nine nine? I don't know, Oh,
Speaker 2: oh where was it? He doesn't know, He doesn't know.
Speaker 1: Where it was.
Speaker 2: How did you not know.
Speaker 1: It's years old?
Speaker 2: That's very young. Yeah, the girl was like twelve.
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, she's like eleven twelve, Yeah, that's what.
Speaker 2: It was, very young, Like, how did you know where
Speaker 2: to put it?
Speaker 4: Then she told him, great coach.
Speaker 2: What moment did you know that you loved her? What
Speaker 2: moment did he know that he loves me?
Speaker 4: Yeah, bacalar, I loved the other.
Speaker 2: Oh, Mexico, in Mexico.
Speaker 4: It was in Mexico on the boat.
Speaker 2: A moment when you when you did too many mushrooms.
Speaker 3: Oh, when the fireworks on the top of the d.
Speaker 2: J A strack, the fireworks.
Speaker 3: We kissed, when the count is all like within like
Speaker 3: a few days after creating your blood blonde, after I
Speaker 3: allowed him to put his blood on my chest. That
Speaker 3: makes sense. What is his biggest fear losing me?
Speaker 2: Yes? And also poverty. I know it's gonna be one
Speaker 2: of the other, like being poor.
Speaker 3: Poverty is like I've never heard of, like poverty, this
Speaker 3: poor poverty.
Speaker 2: Mine too, babes ship.
Speaker 3: What is your biggest fite poverty? What is his favorite
Speaker 3: sex position from the back or.
Speaker 2: That Yeah, finished that one where I put my leg
Speaker 2: here and.
Speaker 4: Here like like we're scissor.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well I just think doggy. Well, my legs
Speaker 2: are closed. Mela, I'm the position. You're his favorite? Are
Speaker 2: you trying to do this for Clout?
Speaker 4: Very sensitive about you. The biggest is losing you.
Speaker 2: Would he prefer to save or spend money? Spend save,
Speaker 2: but I end up spending. Who is this celebrity crush
Speaker 2: fucking a lot of really? Yeah? And someone else though too,
Speaker 2: I don't know the other one, Ari Lennox.
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, Lotto was the woman in my dreams I
Speaker 1: never had a crush on and I had a dream
Speaker 1: that I just went on a regular ass date with
Speaker 1: Lotto and I woke up and I was like, she's
Speaker 1: she's actually kind of cute.
Speaker 4: And I had a crush on her. Ever since, Wow,
Speaker 4: I do like her.
Speaker 2: She's wraps have grown on me a lot over the
Speaker 2: last three months. How does he feel about non monogamy? Oh,
Speaker 2: he's he's with it, he says, sure. Tiring. It's a
Speaker 2: lot of.
Speaker 1: Energy when you do non monogamy, like right with intention
Speaker 1: and care and not just like oh I just want
Speaker 1: like a bunch of people that are into me. Like
Speaker 1: it is tiring. It takes a lot of energy.
Speaker 2: Were you non monogamous in all of like most of
Speaker 2: your relationships?
Speaker 4: No, it's my first nonogamous.
Speaker 2: You, Mila were, and it wasn't triggering at all for
Speaker 2: you because you're not jealous. No, you don't have any
Speaker 2: like tiny inkling of any sort of jealousy position.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's not like I don't get jealous about
Speaker 1: the things that usually I get jealous about, things like
Speaker 1: me getting up attention. Are you getting somebody else more
Speaker 1: attention than me? That's what I'm justus about, not you
Speaker 1: fucking somebody else or doing things.
Speaker 2: Do you think that you could open up your relationship
Speaker 2: now that it's been closed for however long it's been closed?
Speaker 2: Me or him?
Speaker 4: Either can can and I?
Speaker 1: Or what it? Yes? Are we going to its? Like?
Speaker 1: I don't think we really necessary?
Speaker 2: No, that's not happening. Only group three shut up? I'm
Speaker 2: you shut them'll tell them what you shut the fuck up.
Speaker 2: I don't even know what's a group threesome.
Speaker 4: Like group three somes, not single threemes, just group three.
Speaker 3: There will be no when I made no group three
Speaker 3: somemes at any hotels, bitch, and no more than five
Speaker 3: shots of tequila to ensure that never happens.
Speaker 2: What is his favorite memory of your relationship The fireworks? Yeah,
Speaker 2: twenty one New Year's kiss.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's when we were kissing. We were on strooms
Speaker 1: were wild, and it was so great. Everything was colorful.
Speaker 1: Remember how beautiful everything was. And as we're kissing, I
Speaker 1: was holding her up and I opened my eyes and
Speaker 1: this firework goes off behind her head while we're kissing.
Speaker 2: Small it was pretty magical ship, you remember. I was
Speaker 2: very yard. I had my own magical experience. I'm pretty
Speaker 2: sure we made out. Everybody made Yeah, make out with us,
Speaker 2: You make out with us.
Speaker 4: Let's make out at the beach.
Speaker 2: We hadn't been at the house in a long time.
Speaker 2: It was it was like our first time we'd heard
Speaker 2: live music with a person in front of us playing
Speaker 2: it for like a year, where like we and we
Speaker 2: were close to a track, like we were in front
Speaker 2: of his DJ. But I have I don't think I've
Speaker 2: ever danced that hard ever ever. I never danced that
Speaker 2: hard in my life. I was like sweating. I remember
Speaker 2: being out of breath, but I couldn't stop. So much fun.
Speaker 2: It was so much sparkle scir I was like a
Speaker 2: kid at Disneyland on four hundred pounds of candy. I
Speaker 2: was like, this is the best day every it was.
Speaker 2: It was, it was fucking amazing. Was no I will
Speaker 2: ever forget that trip.
Speaker 1: That was amazing.
Speaker 2: What do you wish that Mela saw more in herself?
Speaker 2: What does he wish that you saw more in yourself?
Speaker 3: Like being a boss bitch, like a bossy, like dominant,
Speaker 3: like power move bitch that she.
Speaker 2: Doesn't need to be scared to make decisions. I can't
Speaker 2: make any decisions. You gets annoyed, Which where are we
Speaker 2: going make the decision? Right?
Speaker 1: Her other thing is like not making a decision, but
Speaker 1: like suggesting the decision, like they're.
Speaker 3: Getting mad if I don't like it, Like why the
Speaker 3: fuck did we do this, bitch? Because you didn't decide.
Speaker 1: But yeah, your boss and your decisions are great and
Speaker 1: even if they're bad, I'm going to be here to
Speaker 1: help you out of them.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
Speaker 1: You don't have to be scared to make the decisions.
Speaker 2: Thank you, babe.
Speaker 1: I love that.
Speaker 2: I love this. Okay, now it's your turn, Orlando perfect.
Speaker 1: Why are you staring?
Speaker 2: What you know? I'm reading this and I'm like, do
Speaker 2: I know anything about my Jesus Christ. What is Jamila's
Speaker 2: favorite color?
Speaker 4: Green and black?
Speaker 2: What is her overall pet peeve?
Speaker 1: Her overall pet peeve is, Oh, scraping on a plate?
Speaker 2: Close, tapping unnecessary noises? Yeah, I hate scraping. You want
Speaker 2: two kids? Okay, pet peeve? When it comes to.
Speaker 4: You, do I do?
Speaker 1: That's a scraping on plates? Or like when I blow
Speaker 1: snad on my nose?
Speaker 2: I hate hate that too. Wait what he.
Speaker 3: Does this fucking disgusting thing where he literally will just
Speaker 3: be like I would hold on like inside, like indoor, no,
Speaker 3: like on a hike, Like, just don't do that.
Speaker 2: No one needs to see that. That's not it. That's
Speaker 2: one that should be on their that. I forgot about that.
Speaker 2: Not cleaning his hairs out of the bathroom.
Speaker 1: Oh you really don't like that. I well, you only
Speaker 1: mentioned it from times like I.
Speaker 2: Say it like twenty times. Your hair is fucking everywhere.
Speaker 2: It sheds everywhere everywhere. What is his childhood pet's name
Speaker 2: or what is her childhood pets name? He's not gonna
Speaker 2: know this.
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna but it was a dog.
Speaker 2: Though he wrote something Juann, didn't you name?
Speaker 4: Did you have only one or more than one?
Speaker 2: One only one. What would what would you say is
Speaker 2: her best What would she say is her best quality?
Speaker 1: Her best quality is that it's something about people like
Speaker 1: he was something people pleasing. Yeah, empathy, empathy, empathy for people.
Speaker 1: I hate that ship.
Speaker 4: They don't want to fuck with you.
Speaker 2: The driver is trying to find us. Don't cancel it.
Speaker 2: He's almost Remember she did that in New Orleans? Is
Speaker 2: that New Orleans? He came through. He was like, thanks
Speaker 2: for being patience my first time driving.
Speaker 3: I was like, it's cool, not these motherfuckers you.
Speaker 2: I was like, he's coming. I'm like, hell, if you
Speaker 2: make a left, I was so easy to make a
Speaker 2: left on shoes.
Speaker 4: She never been on.
Speaker 2: You gotta have face in people? What is what is
Speaker 2: her worst what is his way? What is her worst quality?
Speaker 1: Your worst quality is you think? Your worst quality your
Speaker 1: decision making? Taking a long to get dressed.
Speaker 2: I don't take long to get dressed.
Speaker 4: Oh how messy you are?
Speaker 2: No, none of those things. Damn speaking without thinking.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, that's you do that.
Speaker 2: Sometimes I say ship. Probably shouldn't have said it.
Speaker 1: Wasn't there was at Erica's dinner. You're about to say
Speaker 1: sound I was like, no, what what were doing it
Speaker 1: was an awkward sounds like m mmmm.
Speaker 2: What is something she's most sensitive about?
Speaker 1: Her child? The podcast?
Speaker 3: Everything personally, everything everything personal, everything, personal ships, personal.
Speaker 2: Anything personal to me? What has she accomplished that she's
Speaker 2: most proud of, this podcast and motherhood? What is her
Speaker 2: biggest insecurity? I don't know if he's gonna give us.
Speaker 4: I don't know breaking out.
Speaker 3: I've accepted that I was gonna set my scan.
Speaker 2: I'm accepted that spelling terribly. Oh yeah, you spelled terribly right.
Speaker 4: How were we supposed to know? If you keep spelling things right?
Speaker 2: Well, you know, text has saved me. What would be
Speaker 2: a deal breaker in your relationship with her or any relationship?
Speaker 1: Another baby?
Speaker 4: Well another.
Speaker 1: If I had a baby.
Speaker 2: I was like, I thought, like that I'm pregnant. I'm out.
Speaker 1: I can't believe you did this to me.
Speaker 2: No, that's not it. Uh physical abuse or verbal Oh right,
Speaker 2: I forgot about the baby thing that would be done
Speaker 2: to every time I tell him, He's like, you don't
Speaker 2: have unconditional love for me. I was like, I guess
Speaker 2: not the baby. I think he has a baby on me.
Speaker 3: I was like, probably, He's like, I would stay with you.
Speaker 3: I was like you can buy my belly from another nigga.
Speaker 2: He's like, yeah, I would just wait till it happens.
Speaker 1: What happened?
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, where does Jamila like to grocery? I mean,
Speaker 2: where does her wait? Where does meal like to grocery shop?
Speaker 1: Rolpse?
Speaker 2: Yeah, basic instacart? What's her favorite musical artist of all time?
Speaker 1: Damn? You like a lot of music? I was gonna say, no, it's.
Speaker 2: Not it's not.
Speaker 3: Oh.
Speaker 2: I thought he was cool and jay I was.
Speaker 4: Like, what, I don't think I'm gonna get this on?
Speaker 4: What is it?
Speaker 2: Prince?
Speaker 1: Is it?
Speaker 2: I ain't got no money. You don't really listen to
Speaker 2: Prince I love him though, you.
Speaker 4: Listen to a lot of indie music I am.
Speaker 2: I'm probably probably think I'm very boring Indian music like
Speaker 2: indie like I don't know. I like chill music. That's
Speaker 2: like music come to my home? And do you like this?
Speaker 2: What is her guilty pleasure? I don't even know what
Speaker 2: I wrote.
Speaker 1: Your guilty pressure is? What do you feel good?
Speaker 2: I don't really feel guilty about this. I don't know
Speaker 2: why I brought that?
Speaker 1: Was it our?
Speaker 4: Is it our late night? Like role playing?
Speaker 2: No? I don't feel Can you stop now?
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know that food. I was gonna say
Speaker 1: starch too. I don't think you you feel guilty eating
Speaker 1: no fucking out.
Speaker 2: I met a Thanksgiving dinner last night for no reason.
Speaker 2: What is her favorite porn category?
Speaker 1: Uh? I just said it was lesbians? Is like something
Speaker 1: with not heterosexuals? Oh? Or is just now and something
Speaker 1: that heterosexual? Gay men?
Speaker 4: It might be gay men or two women.
Speaker 2: You've never seen me watch lesbian porn?
Speaker 4: Ever't you watch porn?
Speaker 1: Really?
Speaker 2: I don't really watch porn.
Speaker 1: Oh wait, wait, no, no, no, stepbrother and like, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: that is it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm surprised. That's not I forgot.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know that's the wrong mms.
Speaker 2: It's never gonna let that girl threesome. How old was
Speaker 2: she when? How old was she when she lost her virginity?
Speaker 2: And where was she?
Speaker 4: You're like fifteen sixteen?
Speaker 1: At home?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I think?
Speaker 3: So what moment did you know?
Speaker 2: What moment did she know that she loved you?
Speaker 1: After Mexico? After a trip in Mexico? It was it
Speaker 1: later before.
Speaker 2: During baccolara on mushrooms? No, that's wrong, okay, well that's
Speaker 2: what you wrote.
Speaker 1: You love me?
Speaker 2: Wait before that I think, I, uh wait, what's the question.
Speaker 2: What moment did you know you loved him? I met
Speaker 2: when I dropped you off at the airport at Eliet.
Speaker 2: How much did we get? I thought that was I
Speaker 2: read it wrong. I read it wrong.
Speaker 4: The first week, Oh wow, I didn't you know you
Speaker 4: loved him?
Speaker 2: The first week we said, we told each other we
Speaker 2: loved each other. That week had sex, like I love you,
Speaker 2: I love you.
Speaker 1: To read this conversation like, you know, people like us,
Speaker 1: it's okay for us to say I love you because
Speaker 1: we just have so much love to give.
Speaker 3: So I was like, I know I love people, just
Speaker 3: mean I'm in love with them, and you're like same,
Speaker 3: and so I think we took that as a green
Speaker 3: light to be like I love you.
Speaker 2: Got it.
Speaker 1: But the Baccalar it was part of the thirty days
Speaker 1: in Mexico.
Speaker 2: I think I knew that it was.
Speaker 4: It was like this is a person.
Speaker 1: That's when. That's what we knew in Baccala.
Speaker 2: She's getting married.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what is her biggest fear?
Speaker 1: Her biggest fear is, Wow, it's your biggest fear? I
Speaker 1: don't know, wrote I don't know what your biggest fare is.
Speaker 4: I don't know losing family.
Speaker 2: Death is someone I love. Favorite sex position?
Speaker 1: Uh, either when she's laying flat on her stomach or
Speaker 1: doggy style from.
Speaker 2: The back or hetero scissor. I've never heard of heterosis.
Speaker 2: What herois?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 4: You want to China.
Speaker 1: It's like.
Speaker 4: It's like this, but we're on the bed, so it's flats.
Speaker 4: Were like kind of like scissoring.
Speaker 2: Oh, because you can really get in there.
Speaker 1: Yeah, She's like, whatever you do during scissoring, you're doing it.
Speaker 1: But does it dick in you? Now?
Speaker 2: Is that how? Bitch? And scissors backwards like this? I mean,
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm not a love their formal lesbian.
Speaker 4: It's like this, this is one too.
Speaker 2: Oh god it okay, I's gonna love that perfect.
Speaker 3: Maybe it's for Patreon, epic physician, go to Patreon.
Speaker 2: What would you? Okay? Would she? Which would Mila prefer
Speaker 2: to save or spend money?
Speaker 1: Spend?
Speaker 2: Spend when I have enough saved? Who is her celebrity crush?
Speaker 1: Her celebrity cush is Janna?
Speaker 2: No, I let him go. I don't think his body
Speaker 2: is nice enough. Got it?
Speaker 1: Okay? So who is it?
Speaker 2: Ah?
Speaker 1: Who is it? I said?
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, you're not gonna guess again, Jason Momoa.
Speaker 3: Oh he's not a celebrity, but that guy from my
Speaker 3: Instagram stories, the witchy man.
Speaker 2: The witchy man with the witchy wife. Yeah yeah, building Akia.
Speaker 2: How does Mila feel about non monogamy?
Speaker 1: Not anymore?
Speaker 2: If it works for you, great, doesn't exactly work in mine?
Speaker 2: Evil ass last them. If for all people listening, if
Speaker 2: you go back four years of just our content and
Speaker 2: us all saying that we will, monogamy is not for us,
Speaker 2: four years straight, solid like relentless, no monogamary over here.
Speaker 3: Look at this, Look at this pitch called transformation. It's crazy.
Speaker 1: Bring on the monogamy, have the plate of it.
Speaker 2: Favorite memory in your relationship, her favorite memory in that relationship.
Speaker 1: Mexico in twenty twenty one. The New Year's either New
Speaker 1: Year's or on the boat.
Speaker 2: No baccoalare mushroom. I didn't mean to write, yeah I
Speaker 2: met that for that, Yeah, bacala, what does she wish
Speaker 2: you saw more of than yourself?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 4: I don't know that.
Speaker 1: I am. I already see her a great I am.
Speaker 4: It's very hard when you call yourself a blessing. It's
Speaker 4: very hot. I don't know that I can accomplish things.
Speaker 2: How intelligent, driven and talented you are.
Speaker 1: That is true. I do wish I saw that myself.
Speaker 2: And that's it. Guys. You guys have really well, pretty good.
Speaker 4: I know each other really well for unmarried couple.
Speaker 2: Marriage detect dictates whether or not you some pe married
Speaker 2: people and we shut up. Some married people do not
Speaker 2: know each other that well. But that's all I have
Speaker 2: to say about that. It's true, that's true. Should we
Speaker 2: should we put this on our patreon.
Speaker 3: If you're thinking about getting married, first ask your husband
Speaker 3: these questions.
Speaker 2: Should you go put these questions on Patreon?
Speaker 3: And then you can go and see how much you
Speaker 3: know your partner and then you can cry or be happy. No,
Speaker 3: I think these are like, I think these are questions
Speaker 3: that are not that crazy, but like you don't always
Speaker 3: think to ask even like your dogs, your partner's dog
Speaker 3: as a child, or like yeah, and also like what
Speaker 3: you wish you partner saw more of than him or herself. Yeah,
Speaker 3: because like you almost get scared to tell them too,
Speaker 3: because it makes them it could make them feel like
Speaker 3: obviously insecure, they're not enough of those things.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's easy to get defensive in that kind of moment,
Speaker 1: But I.
Speaker 2: Think it's an opportunity for like to come together and
Speaker 2: kind of get to know each other more and like
Speaker 2: be able to dive deeper into these questions to bring
Speaker 2: you guys closer together.
Speaker 1: I love learning new things about Mila, and I love
Speaker 1: when she tells anythings I always tell her, like, I
Speaker 1: can only love you more the more I get to
Speaker 1: know about you, Like we're already at that point where
Speaker 1: it makes no sense not to tell me something because
Speaker 1: whatever you tell me, I'm going to find out more,
Speaker 1: and like whatever details I have of you, like I
Speaker 1: can now.
Speaker 4: React to that detail and a loving, accepting way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're doing a lot of talking.
Speaker 3: You do a lot of talking, as you can imagine
Speaker 3: living together and talking so much together.
Speaker 2: Really, it's been really good, though, I'm I.
Speaker 3: Have come a long way transformed my comfort levels. Commitment
Speaker 3: is not something that I have Like it's been easy
Speaker 3: for me to like, I think it's something I really wanted,
Speaker 3: but commitment seems so like distant that I.
Speaker 2: Kept it that way.
Speaker 3: But you've made it very easy and comfortable to transition
Speaker 3: into this space. And I feel really confident that you're
Speaker 3: my person and that I can tell you anything, and
Speaker 3: you can tell me anything and so, and you've adapted
Speaker 3: into stepdaddy really well, yeah, how has that been for you?
Speaker 4: An adjustment?
Speaker 1: It's an adjustment of like knowing that you really shouldn't
Speaker 1: be petty to a child or.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm so happy that you admitted it.
Speaker 2: You are petty. Sometimes I'm like, am I like breaking
Speaker 2: up a sibling fight? Orlando?
Speaker 3: I was like, Orlando, you're thirty one years fucking old.
Speaker 3: Can you fucking stop like to be an adult?
Speaker 2: I don't know me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Luna can be. She's got a mouth on her
Speaker 1: and sometimes when she like gets into that sa moe
Speaker 1: and just be like mmmmm, all right, that's fine. You
Speaker 1: can say that, but guess just know that later on
Speaker 1: certain things are going to happen for you.
Speaker 2: It's been challenging.
Speaker 3: It's not challenging, get we all get along well, but
Speaker 3: it is challenging because it's an adjustment. And like, yeah,
Speaker 3: Orlando can be a little petty and Luna's a child,
Speaker 3: so I'm like, you gotta stop. And also, you know,
Speaker 3: children are mean, and I'm like, okay, they're mean. Like
Speaker 3: she's inconsistent, she's not gonna love you today, and tomorrow.
Speaker 2: It just doesn't work that way.
Speaker 1: Is always funny when we're like I come to her
Speaker 1: defense because Mili will be yelling at her, and now
Speaker 1: I'll go to meel and be like me, you need
Speaker 1: to stop yelling at her. She's a child, And then
Speaker 1: she'll look at me like, don't tell my mom what
Speaker 1: to do.
Speaker 2: Here's a lot of ganging up on you. Let me
Speaker 2: talk to you being a little harsh. I'm like, I'm
Speaker 2: the fucking mom. I've been doing this. Shit's like, try
Speaker 2: not to react.
Speaker 3: I'm like, Okay, I'm gonna just take a step back
Speaker 3: right now because maybe I'm a little irritated and now
Speaker 3: you're adding to my irritation.
Speaker 1: There are times where I was like, step back and
Speaker 1: looking like family, that's what black family does.
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't. It's hard.
Speaker 3: I mean, I know this is a lot for a
Speaker 3: lot in general, for anyone to step into a situation
Speaker 3: where there's a child and there's a household and things
Speaker 3: happen a certain way, and I'm sure you grew up
Speaker 3: a completely different way than I'm raising Luna, and so
Speaker 3: there's things that are like and it's even for me
Speaker 3: for like taking there being a second person to like
Speaker 3: reprimand in ways like he was like trying to make
Speaker 3: her eat her vegetables last night, and I was like
Speaker 3: eating her vegetables, She's like she needs to eat them,
Speaker 3: and I was like, this is not even a thing
Speaker 3: in my house, Like I don't even do that, like
Speaker 3: chill out. This bitch is everything. And I was like
Speaker 3: trying to respect his wishes, like okay, but it is.
Speaker 3: But I appreciate you being patient because at first I
Speaker 3: was like, are you okay?
Speaker 2: Do you want to leave? Are you going to go
Speaker 2: running for your aunt's house, that house that you were
Speaker 2: going to stay at. Do you want to leave yet?
Speaker 1: But I think it's beautiful that like a lot of
Speaker 1: the way that you parent is how I would have
Speaker 1: like parented anyway, or like ideals or like certain way
Speaker 1: we go about things, like I would have done it
Speaker 1: this way anyway. So it makes it easier to like
Speaker 1: maneuver into a space of like parenthood. And when you
Speaker 1: put I already put myself in the mentality of like,
Speaker 1: oh I want a family or I want things to
Speaker 1: like happen with you anyway, just like me being your boyfriend,
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, I want to be with Mela. I
Speaker 1: want to take care of Mila. Once I started telling
Speaker 1: myself these things, when it came to like being like
Speaker 1: a father, now it's like it was easy. It's like
Speaker 1: before I even uh when the first week when I
Speaker 1: came to to La and she asked me to go
Speaker 1: pick up things for Luno, It's like, yeah, sure I
Speaker 1: got it. I got the shelf and he's not there,
Speaker 1: but I'll go back anytime you need me to. It's like,
Speaker 1: whatever she needs, you.
Speaker 3: Have that I wanted to adapted well into our household
Speaker 3: and Luna's too. Even the other day, she wrote, I
Speaker 3: wouldn't lay down with her because I'm an adult and
Speaker 3: have shit to do, which is this is the thing
Speaker 3: every night, fucking line.
Speaker 2: Can you lay down with me?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 2: No, can Orlando lay down me? I'm like, girl, just
Speaker 2: go lay down. She wrote. She's been writing notes on
Speaker 2: the door, like you care about Orlando more than me.
Speaker 3: It hurt my feelings. I was like, what is this?
Speaker 3: I was like, do you believe that? She's like, I'm like,
Speaker 3: this is what you write at night, like in your room,
Speaker 3: but like you know, just trying to manage the time
Speaker 3: and make sure they you know, they're good we have
Speaker 3: a very very good household, happening situation family.
Speaker 4: Literally, we have a very square family.
Speaker 2: She told me that.
Speaker 3: They're like, I don't like when Orlando. Sometimes Orlando is
Speaker 3: mean to me. He bullies me, and I don't like it.
Speaker 3: I was like, are you always nice to Orlando? I
Speaker 3: was like, did you just say that to hurt his feelings?
Speaker 3: Just like I love I love Mommy Daddy, I love
Speaker 3: Ivy and Erica's on my car. I was like, you know,
Speaker 3: love Orlando no, because he's mean. I was like, are
Speaker 3: you trying to be like you're trying to be mean
Speaker 3: right now? And I was like, you can't be mean
Speaker 3: to him because I'm five minutes you're gonna ask him
Speaker 3: for something.
Speaker 2: She's like, I'm sorry, I didn't put you on my list.
Speaker 1: She's like, I love you. It's just that I love
Speaker 1: them most.
Speaker 3: That's not really an apology, but okay.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, very interesting. Yeah, well I love it,
Speaker 2: and I love you guys, and I love Orlando, and
Speaker 2: I love that you've been able to fill this just
Speaker 2: fill my friend with so much love and security and
Speaker 2: safety and be literally the man of her dreams, like
Speaker 2: for real, Like she literally asked for you, and then poof,
Speaker 2: you were there. You were always there. But like I
Speaker 2: think she just couldn't really fully all the way see
Speaker 2: it or accept it.
Speaker 4: Okay, she had to see me in person, she had to.
Speaker 2: Do some time, She had to like twenty two more
Speaker 2: toxic things first. Just get it out real quick.
Speaker 4: I did toxic things to do before.
Speaker 1: Being with her.
Speaker 2: Fucking other toxic nigga. Move the toxic nigga in. Move
Speaker 2: the toxic nigga and his toxic dog in. Get slapped
Speaker 2: up a little bit. It's not a laughing matter.
Speaker 3: I know, you know, you know I laugh at uncomfortable things.
Speaker 3: Things are not laughing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do appreciate you. And I also I kind
Speaker 2: of knew because Erica was like.
Speaker 3: I think you're gonna get married, and I was like,
Speaker 3: I am huh, I'm like, this is it right, this
Speaker 3: is it?
Speaker 2: And I was like, wow, if Erica said it, she
Speaker 2: must I knew. I knew it. But now that Erica
Speaker 2: said it, it's not me being the fucking sound of
Speaker 2: voice of reason.
Speaker 1: Well, but that's what's been making it a lot more real.
Speaker 1: It's like when we go out and we we people
Speaker 1: see us together, They're just like, how long have y'all
Speaker 1: been together? Y'all are really good together. Y'all look so beautiful,
Speaker 1: and we get it every single time to go out.
Speaker 1: So it's like, oh, we know from ourselves, but also
Speaker 1: from like outside where there's strangers or friends that everybody
Speaker 1: can When.
Speaker 3: Your friends work with your partner and they mesh well
Speaker 3: in your friend group, then it's pretty clear.
Speaker 2: This is your person.
Speaker 3: Like I think for my friends too, They're like, didn't
Speaker 3: think it was like a reality for me to have
Speaker 3: a person that would accept me.
Speaker 2: They're like, we can't believe. They're like, wow, this is
Speaker 2: my single friends.
Speaker 3: Like how this bitch get a nigga before me? This
Speaker 3: tittied up bitch? Like what the fuck? We didn't see
Speaker 3: this coming? I could see in everybody's face, So I
Speaker 3: can't you found something wilder than you.
Speaker 2: It's insane.
Speaker 1: Oh, your friends be telling me too. They were like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm kind of wild. They've be telling me, like, you know,
Speaker 1: it's so great because Jamila, we you knowed so concerned.
Speaker 1: It's very special, very unique individual. We just did it.
Speaker 4: You know. It takes somebody strong.
Speaker 2: I'm not strong, very secure in their manhoodness. No, it's
Speaker 2: true It's true. It does take someone really strong. I
Speaker 2: mean even for me too, I think, I mean not
Speaker 2: me and Mila are different, but you know, I think
Speaker 2: that most men, especially with what we do every week,
Speaker 2: it could be very challenging. And I know it's challenging
Speaker 2: for them. And you know, I think that Orlando, you
Speaker 2: are like the perfect piece that was missing from this
Speaker 2: puzzle of our little tribe. And you're so supportive and
Speaker 2: not just to Mela, but to everyone in the whole
Speaker 2: group and making sure that everyone feels comfortable and happy
Speaker 2: and checking in and really like making an effort to
Speaker 2: like get to know the people in our friend group.
Speaker 2: Like I think that's really unique.
Speaker 4: And I love you.
Speaker 2: I love you for that. I love you too.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 2: Thank you for saving me from my wholeness, saving her
Speaker 2: from the streets.
Speaker 3: Thank you for saving me from the streets. Now I'm like,
Speaker 3: I do not want to go back. Please God, don't
Speaker 3: put me back in the streets. Gott whatever you do.
Speaker 2: Oh no, I don't know nothing about that single life,
Speaker 2: nothing child. Help you. I have no vice, girl, But
Speaker 2: let girl, I don't know. They don't copy paste them.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Your friend was like, Orlando, what do they make more
Speaker 1: of you.
Speaker 2: I was like, just come over and get some cuddles.
Speaker 3: Actually was like, he's he's our community husband. I was like,
Speaker 3: he's the tribe's husband, the tripe husband, trib husband.
Speaker 2: Well we pulled some cards. Oh yeah at the beginning
Speaker 2: of the episode. And Orlando, I think you pulled the pacle.
Speaker 2: No you you did? Okay?
Speaker 1: Pentacles of.
Speaker 2: Being number one aces.
Speaker 1: Number one is the beginning and it was on the
Speaker 1: top of the deck too.
Speaker 2: It's true.
Speaker 3: It looks like a like an opening. It almost looks
Speaker 3: like those arches that you walk through when you're married.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that is it. The water in the background.
Speaker 1: I can't wait to see what this says.
Speaker 2: Sorry, biddyous trip and y'all shout out to bitty Tarot.
Speaker 2: That's giving. Actually, don't shout out to bittty Taro because
Speaker 2: they're not paying us. We've been we've been reading boards
Speaker 2: for words. I only haven't emailed them yet. We're gonna
Speaker 2: email them. Can someone email, actually shout out to them. Sorry,
Speaker 2: I'm just kidding, all right. So Ace of Pentacles a
Speaker 2: new financial or career opportunity.
Speaker 1: I need it.
Speaker 2: Manifestation abundance, uh, the A Pentacles like the other aces
Speaker 2: of the Tarot, represents new beginnings, opportunities, and potential, and
Speaker 2: as a Pentacles card, these new bees gettings correlate to
Speaker 2: the material world, finances, wealth, career, physical health, and manifestation
Speaker 2: of your goals. You may receive a new job, offer
Speaker 2: an unexpected sum of money, a new business or investment
Speaker 2: opportunity may come your way, or you'll have a chance
Speaker 2: to begin an idea to fruition m No matter the occasion,
Speaker 2: the Ace of Pentacles heralds a sense of prosperity and
Speaker 2: abundance in the material or financial areas of your life.
Speaker 2: It undoubtedly comes as a welcome invitation, but it is
Speaker 2: not a free ride. As with all aces in the
Speaker 2: tarot deck, this card illustrates the possibility of a new endeavor,
Speaker 2: but does not guarantee its manifestation or success. That piece
Speaker 2: is up to you. The Ace of Pinnacle also symbolizes wealth,
Speaker 2: not just for your bank account, but in a holistic
Speaker 2: sense as well. You may discover opportunities to generate a
Speaker 2: new source of income or receive financial gift or windfall,
Speaker 2: or you may have a chance to create wealth in
Speaker 2: a broader sense, Happiness, fulfillment, potential and love. The ace
Speaker 2: signifies abundance in all areas of your life. Enjoy it,
Speaker 2: feel blessed and deserving of everything that comes your way.
Speaker 2: I feel that, I feel very full.
Speaker 1: I receive that because I'm very big on like being
Speaker 1: like mentally wealthy and emotionally wealthy as much as like financial.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I do accept that.
Speaker 2: And with the conception of your new podcast.
Speaker 1: I was just about to say, and then I'm starting
Speaker 1: this new podcast. By the time this episode comes out,
Speaker 1: I should have like maybe three or four episodes out already.
Speaker 2: So go check out menaj Minds will put the link
Speaker 2: in this episode description and check out Orlando's new podcast.
Speaker 4: I can't wait for people to hear it.
Speaker 2: Can you give people like a little like insight on
Speaker 2: what it's about.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So basically I started therapy right around the time
Speaker 1: where I was like moving to LA.
Speaker 2: Why just start therapy, babe, because two reasons.
Speaker 1: One of the reasons I started therapy because around the
Speaker 1: time where I was like transitioning to move to LA,
Speaker 1: I was going through like a very deep depressive moment.
Speaker 1: And the other reason was because Mila said that I
Speaker 1: have to do one year of therapy before we get married,
Speaker 1: so that's mandatory. But yeah, starting this therapy session and
Speaker 1: like just talking to my therapists and him telling me like,
Speaker 1: you know, you have a very like unique mind and
Speaker 1: the way you go about things is very like dope.
Speaker 1: And I was like, you know what, let's start making
Speaker 1: like recording this. And I wanted to record it so
Speaker 1: people can hear what a real therapy session sounds like
Speaker 1: from a black man, but also what professional advice within
Speaker 1: that session or that coaching sounds like. And so we
Speaker 1: would do those and then I would make podcast episodes
Speaker 1: out of that, so we can, let's say, if we
Speaker 1: talk about generational trauma, then I'll like have a guest
Speaker 1: on a separate episode and we could talk about that
Speaker 1: and expand on that, and my therapist would do the same,
Speaker 1: So you would get an episode from some a point
Speaker 1: of view of somebody in therapy, but also get an
Speaker 1: episode from a therapist themselves.
Speaker 4: And it's Menaje.
Speaker 1: Minds is like the intermingling between the journey of healing
Speaker 1: wellness and therapy and just down this journey, I'm going
Speaker 1: to be doing like different types of therapy, different types
Speaker 1: of things that will heal you in wellness, like spirituality, fitness,
Speaker 1: like whatever it is. And so I can't wait to
Speaker 1: like start this journey and like have everybody like be
Speaker 1: in on it and just like be helpful if you
Speaker 1: want to and heal.
Speaker 2: I think men really need that and need to see.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So I'm really especially black men.
Speaker 1: So yeah, and it comes at an important time where
Speaker 1: like I feel like black people know about just talk therapy,
Speaker 1: but there's just so many different ways that you can
Speaker 1: go about like down this journey of like wellness and healing.
Speaker 3: M h.
Speaker 1: So I'm excited for it.
Speaker 2: Congratulations Boom, I'm excited for you. And then Mila pulled
Speaker 2: the Seven of Wands right challenge competition, protection, perseverance. After
Speaker 2: the success of the Six of wanes, you are now
Speaker 2: in an enviable position and are being challenged by others
Speaker 2: who want to take your place. You worked hard to
Speaker 2: get where you are, but some people covet what you
Speaker 2: have and are prepared to fight you for it. Bitch,
Speaker 2: don't come for me, bitch, so I'll be right there. Bitch,
Speaker 2: you try it right, I dare you. You don't have
Speaker 2: two witches pool going. Okay, while it's flattering, they while
Speaker 2: it's flattering that they strive for your success. It also
Speaker 2: makes for a tense and competitive environment because you need
Speaker 2: to protect what you've earned and must continuously prove yourself.
Speaker 2: It's a sad fact of life, but the more visibility
Speaker 2: you have as a leader in your field and the
Speaker 2: bigger your audience, the more likely it is that you
Speaker 2: will need to grapple with this kind of pressure. Others
Speaker 2: see your success and will either challenge your point of
Speaker 2: view or want to take you down. God, I was
Speaker 2: just trying to give me anxiety. What the when? When
Speaker 2: seven of one's appears in a tarot reading, expect to
Speaker 2: see an increase in haters, trolls, and people who disagree
Speaker 2: with you. You know, we're publishing a book. You will
Speaker 2: need to secure your territory and fight for what you
Speaker 2: stand for. You may also want to engage a lawyer
Speaker 2: or loyal support team who can defend you from any
Speaker 2: possible threat. The seven of wands may appear when you
Speaker 2: hold a contentious point of view or wish to voice
Speaker 2: your opinion in a public forum. Be ready to support
Speaker 2: your argument and back yourself up. I don't think you
Speaker 2: have any problem doing that. Stand firm in your conviction. No,
Speaker 2: don't have a problem doing that of what you believe
Speaker 2: and why, so that others do not topple you from
Speaker 2: your mountain of self belief. The seven and wands can
Speaker 2: also mean a challenge to success of a creative project
Speaker 2: from an external source. Someone or something may get in
Speaker 2: the way of you being able to pursue your goals
Speaker 2: and dreams. While it appears to block your path forward,
Speaker 2: You can overcome this obstacle by drawing upon your strong
Speaker 2: self confidence, self belief, and continual self improvement. Establish clear
Speaker 2: boundaries and then protect them so that others do not
Speaker 2: mess with you. Hold your ground, take a stand, and
Speaker 2: defend your position at all costs. Okay to PAF A
Speaker 2: body spot on the audience is growing. Are gonna come
Speaker 2: for you? AKA, fucking what is it called lipstick alley?
Speaker 1: Girl?
Speaker 3: It's lipstick alley? Oh my goodness, got to stop looking
Speaker 3: over there. Fucking Chelsea message me this morning, like I
Speaker 3: just found this thing on that girl. Don't look, don't look, just.
Speaker 2: Like trying to log in and talk back. I was like, don't,
Speaker 2: oh my goodness, Oh my gosh. Well, I think it's
Speaker 2: just a matter of just being aware of like your surroundings,
Speaker 2: the people that you keep and just being really secure
Speaker 2: and self aware of what you say and what you
Speaker 2: believe and standing on it.
Speaker 3: I don't really have a problem with that, and I
Speaker 3: know how I feel, and it's like, my dick, if
Speaker 3: you think you're gonna come for me about my opinion, so.
Speaker 2: I'm not. I mean, I do get anxiety about like
Speaker 2: our book coming out and that we're growing and that
Speaker 2: people are going to.
Speaker 3: Talk shit, but also people are evil and bored and miserable,
Speaker 3: and mostly people are supportive. And if you don't like me,
Speaker 3: turn the channel. Amen's super easy. Is that it for
Speaker 3: today in my life? I think so well, thank you Orlando,
Speaker 3: Orlando for coming to join us, my love, my future husband.
Speaker 3: I got fitted for a wedding ring size last week.
Speaker 2: You guys, so just know that's I got to send you.
Speaker 2: Just know that it's a wife on the way wife.
Speaker 2: I'll be the ring bearer. I never saw that, Like I.
Speaker 3: Knew I wanted it, but I didn't really see it
Speaker 3: being coming to like real I couldn't visualize it in
Speaker 3: real time. So doing shit like that, I'm like, wow,
Speaker 3: I was not really trying to marry bitch.
Speaker 1: Would you tell people when uh we got together on
Speaker 1: Instagram because like, I hated Instagram couples, but now I
Speaker 1: am one, ha I did.
Speaker 3: They used to really make me sick, but I'm like,
Speaker 3: let's try not. I tried to post too much, but
Speaker 3: I'm like, fuck, it's my turn. Fucking look at this happiness.
Speaker 2: Bitches, I found my parson.
Speaker 3: You're gonna stop following me? Yeah, but thank you, my love.
Speaker 3: You have healed me in many ways. And I didn't
Speaker 3: think that someone could wrangle in this wild woman that
Speaker 3: I am. So I appreciate you finding me, my wild lever,
Speaker 3: and I'm really excited to see the journey that we
Speaker 3: go on and how we grow and how our relationship
Speaker 3: helps us grow individually.
Speaker 1: And I can't wait to have this relationship where I
Speaker 1: take care of you. Go on, my true water bearer,
Speaker 1: like energy, contain and hold you and take care of you.
Speaker 2: You're to take care of me. I love you too.
Speaker 2: Where can the people find you? Orlando?
Speaker 1: You can find me anywhere on social media at w
Speaker 1: H Underscore Orlando Roy. You can find the brand new
Speaker 1: beautiful podcast minaj A min m e n A g
Speaker 1: e A m I n.
Speaker 4: D all right to us.
Speaker 1: But you can find that anywhere you listen to podcasts
Speaker 1: or and on YouTube. And we have a Patreon and
Speaker 1: you can still sign up to my Only Fans Onlyflans
Speaker 1: dot com, Backslash, wh Underscore Orlando.
Speaker 2: Do you still have an only Fans Yeah? I mean
Speaker 2: I know you have it, but like, are you putting
Speaker 2: new content on there?
Speaker 4: You know I put stuff on there?
Speaker 2: Where am I atay? Yeah? And you guys know where
Speaker 2: to find us. We'll link everything this episode description. Make
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Speaker 3: Yoga, weed, exploring this beautiful, beautiful jungles of Costa Rica,
Speaker 3: going on beach trips.
Speaker 2: It's like the ultimate girls trip. So click the link
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Speaker 2: to get the deets and we'll see you next week.
Speaker 2: I love you, Bye bye bye Las