WEBVTT - The Tribe Husband feat. Orlando Roye

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<v Speaker 1>M m m hm. This is.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm Erica and I'm Mila. Hi, Hi, guys, what's up.

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<v Speaker 3>You know it's hump day. I'm feeling humpy. It's warm

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<v Speaker 3>and cuttle season.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're in our sweats. I'm rocking my good Mom's

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<v Speaker 2>Little Flowers sweater that's just been restocked, so you can

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<v Speaker 2>rock it too. Yes, this is the best seller. You

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<v Speaker 2>guys have been begging, begging on your knees on the internet,

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<v Speaker 2>and I don't blame you because it's cut at buck.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you? I'm good, I'm good. It's I'm finally

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<v Speaker 2>to wear sweatsuit and not sweat outside because La has

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<v Speaker 2>just decided summer is going to start in November. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>just wait till next week.

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<v Speaker 3>It'll be ninety again. No, you know it gets ninety

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<v Speaker 3>every other day.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 3>No, we get like one glimpse of a breeze, Like

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<v Speaker 3>I saw some leaves falling.

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<v Speaker 2>From my window. I was like, I should make soup,

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<v Speaker 2>Like is that wind? I hear I'm going to New

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<v Speaker 2>York next week? And I was like, oh, I get

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<v Speaker 2>to pull out my winter coats. And I looked at

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<v Speaker 2>the weather. It was like seventy two in New York.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, what the fuck is going on? Really,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll tell you what's going on? Global fucking warming, which

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<v Speaker 2>we fucked up? The planet, the planet X. I think

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<v Speaker 2>it's the same, Kurt said, Planet X. It's not.

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna share our entire community about this fucking planet X.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure people have looked it up. Look up planet X.

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<v Speaker 2>It may or may not be a real thing, but

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<v Speaker 2>it probably is. Kurt from WhatsApp said that it's causing.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not global warming, it's Planet X pulling on our planet.

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<v Speaker 2>I am.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm the conspiracy theorist that literally I believe everything. I

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<v Speaker 3>believe everything. There's nothing I don't believe. I believe conspiracy

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<v Speaker 3>is more than I believe the news any day, because

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<v Speaker 3>it's probably more true. You're right, sort days shark days

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<v Speaker 3>to allow dwindling down, dwindling. This seems so high.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, I'm just adjusting live on set. She feels like

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<v Speaker 2>a Well, you guys, if you're watching our YouTube, then

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<v Speaker 2>you know we have a guest sitting here. It's a

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<v Speaker 2>special guest. It's a former guest, former two time guests?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it two times?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's two times, two times, having two time having

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<v Speaker 2>guests sounds like a cheater, but he's not a cheater.

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<v Speaker 2>He is none other than Jamila's man podcaster extrod sexy bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait what is it? Bad bad bitch, Sorry, sexy bad

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<v Speaker 2>bitch Holano Royland. I was why aren't you wear your

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<v Speaker 2>crop top today? I forbid him. Yeah, it's like really

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<v Speaker 2>on brand for him. I was really too cold leaves

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<v Speaker 2>her out cut it, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Orlanda thought he was going to move to LA and

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<v Speaker 3>just have a fucking closet full of crop tops.

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<v Speaker 4>I was gonna have a fleet of crops and you

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<v Speaker 4>could just.

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<v Speaker 2>Wear a T shirt under it and then you know what, actually,

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<v Speaker 2>my boo. He brought a crop top to l A

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<v Speaker 2>the other week and he's like, I have a crop

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<v Speaker 2>top and I was like what, yes, And I was

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<v Speaker 2>like no, the fuck you don't and he was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I do. And I was like let me see it,

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<v Speaker 2>and he was like you don't believe me. I was

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<v Speaker 2>like no, and then he showed us me and it

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<v Speaker 2>was a crop top and I was like, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>put some like fucking shredded shirt under this ship And

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<v Speaker 2>he dresses like a fucking punk rocker didn't put a

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<v Speaker 2>shorted shirt and he never got to the outfit. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>he was, Yeah, he was gonna put a shredded shirt.

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<v Speaker 2>He wasn't ready for that, ready for a gut to hang.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a confession.

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<v Speaker 3>One time there was a crop top he left at

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<v Speaker 3>my house and I really hated this one in particular,

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<v Speaker 3>and I toiled Erica and she said, just throw it away.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, I could huh. She's like, he's

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<v Speaker 3>not going to notice. Just throw the shit away.

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<v Speaker 2>See he didn't know it. I told you, I know

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<v Speaker 2>which one it was. I threw that ship away.

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<v Speaker 4>Which one it's gone?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care. Then, you know, if you don't remember,

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<v Speaker 2>it doesn't matter. Oh my god. I was like, eric

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<v Speaker 2>I hate She literally called me with this dilemma, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, just throw it away. He's he's not

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<v Speaker 2>going to know. Never really in my house during my freeness,

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't say that. I'm I'm supporting your fashion. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>in the spirit of coughing season November, I figured we

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<v Speaker 2>needed to have you guys on right, like you're the couple,

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<v Speaker 2>you are the you are the couple, the couple. I

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<v Speaker 2>like that the podcast couple of the podcasting couple of

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<v Speaker 2>the universe. So, welcome to the show. Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back to the show. I feel like I can,

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<v Speaker 2>like I lean this way.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a guest, but if I lean this way in

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<v Speaker 3>the house, welcome back, thank you. Oh my god, so silly,

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<v Speaker 3>so honey, yeah, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you feeling a.

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<v Speaker 4>Nervous I am feeling good.

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<v Speaker 1>I am nervous.

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<v Speaker 4>It's good to be in front of the audio instead

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<v Speaker 4>of behind it now.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Orlando also works for us, does he said every recording,

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<v Speaker 3>just not on camera.

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<v Speaker 2>He does all of our audio and listens to all

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<v Speaker 2>of our bullshit all day long.

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<v Speaker 3>He usually sits in the corner like kind of behind me,

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<v Speaker 3>so I kind of like stirf for my body so

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have to look at him so I can

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<v Speaker 3>speak freely.

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<v Speaker 2>I I don't think any problems for you, freely, whether he's.

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<v Speaker 1>Here or not, just look at me. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>had the goddess experience.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel more.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel more brave in front with the mic, like

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<v Speaker 3>this is work working.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm working through your shit away just for entertainment purposes only,

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<v Speaker 2>I do.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, just like in general, I do feel it's

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<v Speaker 3>like more confident, like speaking honestly in front of the

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's developed over time.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, it doesn't count.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, everyone knows I have to tell the truth

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<v Speaker 3>here ever, even knows Air come mad at you.

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<v Speaker 2>All the confessions come only when we're recording. It's very important,

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<v Speaker 2>I know, because anytime we try to have a real conversation,

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<v Speaker 2>Mila just laughs in my face. Yeah. Anytime I tell

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<v Speaker 2>her like, hey, that's how I feel, she goes and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, okay, well that is not It literally happened

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<v Speaker 2>at least twenty two times, maybe one, so I can

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<v Speaker 2>think of one time. I think of one here, I

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<v Speaker 2>can think, I can think of I think of a

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<v Speaker 2>few different times. I don't think that happened in Chicago. Besides,

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<v Speaker 2>when then when she gets mad and she wants to

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<v Speaker 2>throw computers and bitches face, Oh, my man gets mad

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<v Speaker 2>that ally ever threw anything in your face. When Merely

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<v Speaker 2>gets mad, it's like now we're now, we're ready to

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<v Speaker 2>be mad.

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<v Speaker 3>Now we're ready to have conversations. You guys don't want

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<v Speaker 3>to see me mad. You've never seen me mad. So

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<v Speaker 3>these are lies and you'll know when I'm mad. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a very scary mad person.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, do you guys have an affirmation for the show?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it a couple of information?

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<v Speaker 4>I do have an affirmation.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, this week's affirmation is brought to you or brought

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<v Speaker 2>And their conversations are dynamic. They're about socioeconomic issues, womanhood.

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<v Speaker 2>And hashtag IBBM to join the conversation live. So what's

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<v Speaker 2>your affirmation, dear?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>My affirmation is what doesn't progress? You only blinds you

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<v Speaker 1>from opportunity.

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<v Speaker 2>But it doesn't progress. You only blinds you from opportunity.

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<v Speaker 2>It doesn't progress. Wow, that sounds really smart. I'm like, wait,

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't doesn't progress. It doesn't push you forward, telling you forward,

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<v Speaker 2>and it blinds you from the opportunity to be push

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<v Speaker 2>pushed forward. Okay, that makes sense. Yeah, I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just a way for me to notice, like what's

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<v Speaker 1>distracting from me. So whenever I'm like entering the situation

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever it may be, if I think about it

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<v Speaker 1>and I think about where it can go, and if

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<v Speaker 1>it's not something that's like good for me or progressive

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<v Speaker 1>for me or productive or any way, then I just like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, let me put myself in a situation where

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<v Speaker 1>I can come across something that would be good for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I love that. I love that. Don't block your blessing.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't block your blessings, aka, don't block your.

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<v Speaker 4>Blessing and put yourself in a position to be blessed.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I think that's really important. I think, well, sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>it's hard to do that because you get comfortable in

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<v Speaker 2>one space and it feels it feels normal to be

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<v Speaker 2>in there.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I think like one blessing always brings you closer

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<v Speaker 3>to the next one. So like, if you're like we've

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<v Speaker 3>talked about this, before, if you stay in something that

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<v Speaker 3>you know is just probably is comfortable, but not where

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<v Speaker 3>you're supposed to be, you will stay in that space.

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<v Speaker 3>But as soon as you walk away from things that

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<v Speaker 3>are not where you're supposed to be, when you know

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<v Speaker 3>you're not supposed to, all of the opportunities come flowing.

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<v Speaker 2>No for sure, but I'm just saying, like I think

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<v Speaker 2>people will get opportunities and still be scared and stay

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<v Speaker 2>in comfort, and then then those blessings don't come forward.

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<v Speaker 2>Then they don't, they don't progress.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, exactly exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>But we're almost in the new year, y'all, so we

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<v Speaker 2>ain't doing that no more, right in twenty twenty three,

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<v Speaker 2>ain't doing that shit no more. Don't block your blessing,

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<v Speaker 2>block your.

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<v Speaker 1>Blessings, go for it, take a risk, take a chance,

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<v Speaker 1>and but also put yourself in a position to be blessed,

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<v Speaker 1>like your Thoughtso accept the blessings and know like that's

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<v Speaker 1>a distraction.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want that.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to be over here around these type of people,

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<v Speaker 1>around this situation that is going to be fruitful for me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like being around a bunch of friends that are

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<v Speaker 1>like stagnant, and you become stagnant with out of that situation,

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<v Speaker 1>which is scary to like be different, But when you

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<v Speaker 1>see further down the line that there's going to be

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<v Speaker 1>something good that's going to come from this, it makes

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<v Speaker 1>you more comfortable with like stepping away from situations and

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<v Speaker 1>put yourself in positions to be blessed and have better opportunities.

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<v Speaker 3>The opportunities come immediately, But when you're saying that, Orlando,

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<v Speaker 3>I was thinking about you in particular, and just like

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<v Speaker 3>kind of like the progression of you moving from New

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<v Speaker 3>York to LA and like how it all kind of

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<v Speaker 3>happened with like you getting let go of your job

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<v Speaker 3>and then you're being.

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<v Speaker 2>Like kind of scared of that. But like because you've

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<v Speaker 2>had this like kind of stable job for such a

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<v Speaker 2>really long time, then you're probably not really happy in anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe were you happy in that job?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I was happy for what they were supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to do, Like I was getting benefits, I was getting paid,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like this is security into structure. But it

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<v Speaker 1>got to a point where there's a lot of days

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<v Speaker 1>I would wake up looking myself in the mirror like

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<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't be.

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<v Speaker 2>Doing this, but like then allowing and then moving forward

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<v Speaker 2>and saying fuck that, I'm not going to try and

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<v Speaker 2>go back and figure this out. I'm going to keep

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<v Speaker 2>going and moving forward. And then even with your partnership

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<v Speaker 2>with your last podcast, which the last time Orlando was

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<v Speaker 2>on the show was with with the other podcasts, and

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<v Speaker 2>then letting that go in a firely fireball of flames,

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<v Speaker 2>but saying no, but saying like this shit is not

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<v Speaker 2>for me, like I'm cool, I will walk away from this,

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<v Speaker 2>and then seeing how the things have just kind of

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<v Speaker 2>manifested since then, you know, it's like you're like kind

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<v Speaker 2>of a prime example of your affirmation today exactly. Congratulations.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why it was. It's so easy because I've

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<v Speaker 1>had that job since I was eighteen, like from eight

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<v Speaker 1>to twelve years. I've put a lot of effort into

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<v Speaker 1>my past podcast and now I can let those things

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<v Speaker 1>go because just viewing what they were for me or

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<v Speaker 1>how I felt in that situation, now, knowing the discomfort

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<v Speaker 1>from it, I can go, oh, something else is going

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<v Speaker 1>to come up because because for me, well.

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<v Speaker 2>And also you've seen how it has.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, and I've seen the progress.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And speaking of that last episode, you and Mila

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<v Speaker 2>were like in acting really fucking awkward.

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<v Speaker 4>In that whole episode, you a lot of pressure.

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<v Speaker 2>Acting like you guys weren't in a fucking relationship when

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<v Speaker 2>the fuck you were. And look, you know you're the

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<v Speaker 2>only one acting like we were in a relationship because

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't say it. I did say it, just weren't

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<v Speaker 2>listening what you were like, I was unclear.

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<v Speaker 3>You said no, I actually watched this episode not that

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<v Speaker 3>long ago, and you were like, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 3>you know, Orlando, but she's been calling you her boyfriend

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<v Speaker 3>all year long, which is true.

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<v Speaker 2>And I date people like my boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 3>If you're the best candidate of my host, would get

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<v Speaker 3>the boyfriend titles secretly only with amongst my friends my.

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<v Speaker 2>Boyfriend Like, no, not really, but you know what I mean. No,

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<v Speaker 2>you did that a lot. That's what I'm saying. You

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<v Speaker 2>did that a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>We are in a different place, Yes, this is true, Erica.

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<v Speaker 3>We have come a very long way since then. I

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<v Speaker 3>think that was in February. That was like February, yeah, now.

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<v Speaker 4>Two yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And I kept saying you're my boyfriend. I mean I

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<v Speaker 3>I believed it too, but because it was long distance,

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<v Speaker 3>I was just like whatever. I was like, yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 3>my boyfriend, but I could do whatever I want. And

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<v Speaker 3>also it wasn't very it wasn't monogamous, so I really

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<v Speaker 3>felt like, Okay, it felt like security.

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<v Speaker 2>You told me this too.

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<v Speaker 3>It felt like security to have this title, but also

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<v Speaker 3>not like have to do anything very special. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm weird about commitment, So yeah, I know things have changed.

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<v Speaker 4>How do you feel about commitment now?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm good with it. I'm good. We're in a good place.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like an adult that I can finally confidently

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<v Speaker 2>say I have a boyfriend, I'm a girlfriend. Were you

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<v Speaker 2>weird about commitment?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I was all that. I mean, I chose Mila,

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<v Speaker 1>like I saw Mela, and I was like, yeah, you're it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was already committed mentally before we even got

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<v Speaker 1>to part of like saying it out loud.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think was the thing that like made

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<v Speaker 2>you finally say, okay, I can I can claim you publicly?

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<v Speaker 2>You guys are already claiming each other publicly?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Really?

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<v Speaker 4>Like oh my how it was like no, there's y'all

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<v Speaker 4>and there's me.

0:14:08.720 --> 0:14:10.720
<v Speaker 2>Look, you guys were spitting each other's mouth on the

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<v Speaker 2>internet like seven, like twenty two months ago. So I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know. I just got serious.

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<v Speaker 3>I got very I think he moved he well, I

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<v Speaker 3>was also denial about that I'm in.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a lot of things. He was like.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, you should just like figure your stuff out.

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<v Speaker 3>You can come out here for a little while and

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<v Speaker 3>like figure it out. And he's like, I'm moving And

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, you can come out here for a

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<v Speaker 3>little while and figure it out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, move And.

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<v Speaker 3>Then he brought his ship here and left it and

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, eric is like, you know, he's moving in.

0:14:37.200 --> 0:14:39.280
<v Speaker 2>And I was like she's like no, it's aunt lived

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<v Speaker 2>down the street. I was like, bitch, I was like

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<v Speaker 2>if I know. She was like Ryan told me to

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<v Speaker 2>tell you that he's moving in. I was like he

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<v Speaker 2>told who?

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<v Speaker 4>Right?

0:14:48.800 --> 0:14:51.040
<v Speaker 3>Shout out to Ryan from guys next door, who was

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<v Speaker 3>trying to warn me through Erica. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>it's not happening like it is. I was like, no,

0:14:56.880 --> 0:15:00.960
<v Speaker 3>there's it's like a safe no no. But I think, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I think him moving in. But honestly, I think also

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<v Speaker 3>before he moved in, we went to Mexico for a

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<v Speaker 3>month and we spent a month together and then it

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<v Speaker 3>was like solidified it for me that it's okay, you

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<v Speaker 3>can say it out loud, you can like trust it.

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<v Speaker 3>It was just like more anxiety than I was, like

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<v Speaker 3>in denial. But I think that time we spent together

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<v Speaker 3>for a month in Mexico was like, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Thirty days of Mexico really did it for me. Also

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<v Speaker 1>because I was I was the one that was really pushing,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm moving over half my stuff now we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to Mexic and bring the rest of it then. And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, yeah, I know I have an aunt

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<v Speaker 1>that's close, but I'm coming to you. She was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be fine. I'm like, yeah, I left my

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<v Speaker 1>job with my podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm coming.

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<v Speaker 1>Baby's like yeah, I'm like gonna be great. But thirty

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<v Speaker 1>days in Mexico is not something I really recommend. But

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<v Speaker 1>if you make it out, then yeah you're together.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't recommend it.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, you really have to be in that mental stage

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<v Speaker 1>like really wanting someone. No, it's great for us because

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<v Speaker 1>we really wanted each other, But I can see it

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<v Speaker 1>going so many wrongs. It's in so many different places

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<v Speaker 1>for somebody that's like really not committed that opening to

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<v Speaker 1>growth and not opening to like oneness.

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<v Speaker 2>Shit, I went to Mexico for six days. I left

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<v Speaker 2>that nigga at the airbnb, but my friends got they too, right, like,

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<v Speaker 2>my nigga, it's not gonna work. I'm gonna get my

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<v Speaker 2>own AIRBB. When she texted me I left him, I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, what, like I left? I was like, I

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<v Speaker 2>literally left my boyfriend, oh, calling him out this person

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<v Speaker 2>with my friends at an airbnb, and I said, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>sorry you guys, but I gotta go. I'm leaving.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean a vacation in general, vacation like out of

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<v Speaker 3>the country is usually like, let.

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<v Speaker 2>You know how some shit's not gonna work.

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<v Speaker 3>I should have known from the ferry at the airport

0:16:45.440 --> 0:16:48.600
<v Speaker 3>he was tripping. You did tell me bru shit at

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<v Speaker 3>the fucking TSA because of his lotion.

0:16:52.360 --> 0:16:54.240
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I should have known that. I was

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<v Speaker 2>so embarrassed. I was like, this nigga has angry issues.

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<v Speaker 2>So that was my bad.

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<v Speaker 3>Remember the time I went to Mexico with Adventure Bay

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<v Speaker 3>and he was so fucking cheap and like, and I

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<v Speaker 3>complained the whole time, and I was like, am I

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<v Speaker 3>a bitch?

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<v Speaker 2>And I called you.

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<v Speaker 3>From the bathroom from the airport when I was going

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<v Speaker 3>to Mexico City, I was like, I don't know your kettle.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he's crazy. I think it's gonna work, and

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<v Speaker 2>you're like, what's the problem, Like he didn't bring any

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<v Speaker 2>nice clothes. He was bitching. He was like, oh, your

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<v Speaker 2>friends are dressing so nice.

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<v Speaker 3>Like when I dress when I have travel, I just

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<v Speaker 3>bring like one carry on. I washed my things in

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<v Speaker 3>the sink. Oh yeah, he told me that. I was like,

0:17:31.920 --> 0:17:34.240
<v Speaker 3>he was forty years old. I was like, why would

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<v Speaker 3>you wash.

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<v Speaker 2>Your things in the sink on vacation? I just I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, why don't you bring nice things? Like my

0:17:39.960 --> 0:17:42.439
<v Speaker 2>friends were going out to dinner. All I can think

0:17:42.480 --> 0:17:45.040
<v Speaker 2>about is the dress that appeared a few weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 2>We had to shoot and Jamila brought this like full

0:17:48.600 --> 0:17:51.359
<v Speaker 2>turtle neck leather dress and I was like, where the

0:17:51.359 --> 0:17:53.200
<v Speaker 2>fuck is what is this dress? She's like, I bought

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<v Speaker 2>it in Mexico when I was dating adventure Bay. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, this is signifies how fucked up this relationship was.

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<v Speaker 2>Lord knows, I'm never seen anywhere I turn like my

0:18:01.200 --> 0:18:03.640
<v Speaker 2>whole fucking I had buttons. It was cute. It looked

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<v Speaker 2>like like house in the prairie, but like new school.

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<v Speaker 3>No.

0:18:06.640 --> 0:18:09.680
<v Speaker 2>I was going for something conservative. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>You were trying to do something over there. I gave

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<v Speaker 2>it to the makeup artist.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure she's really One thing about Mexico was Mila

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<v Speaker 1>constantly telling me like, this is so much better than

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<v Speaker 1>the other guy I came with.

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<v Speaker 4>We don't even have any plans.

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<v Speaker 1>It's great.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I kept planning things to the tea. He was like,

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<v Speaker 3>youtubing is fucking life away. I was like, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>spend so much time looking at the shit on YouTube,

0:18:30.080 --> 0:18:31.800
<v Speaker 3>you're not gonna be surprised when you get there. I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, how much research can one nigga do? I

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<v Speaker 3>never seen a nigga look at so many snotes on YouTube.

0:18:37.680 --> 0:18:39.040
<v Speaker 2>I was like, we're about to go to the SOE

0:18:39.119 --> 0:18:41.400
<v Speaker 2>in one hour. Just get the fuck off YouTube.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, why you knew so much ABOUTE?

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<v Speaker 3>You no, nigga, That's why we didn't go to No

0:18:47.960 --> 0:18:50.520
<v Speaker 3>to not tap the fuck out. Okay, I've seen twelve

0:18:50.640 --> 0:18:55.480
<v Speaker 3>hundred on fucking YouTube. No. But you know, I also,

0:18:55.640 --> 0:19:01.880
<v Speaker 3>prior to Orlando moving in, mistakenly moved in this other guy,

0:19:02.640 --> 0:19:05.919
<v Speaker 3>not mistakenly, him and his dog, and it was really

0:19:06.119 --> 0:19:08.760
<v Speaker 3>traumatic for me, so like, I was like, this is

0:19:09.000 --> 0:19:10.959
<v Speaker 3>I felt like it was too soon after that, and I

0:19:11.040 --> 0:19:12.879
<v Speaker 3>was like I knew it was a different person, a

0:19:12.880 --> 0:19:14.560
<v Speaker 3>whole different type of person, but I was kind of

0:19:14.600 --> 0:19:15.280
<v Speaker 3>still triggered.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, I was in denial for sure.

0:19:18.880 --> 0:19:22.520
<v Speaker 3>It's probably gonna And I was like, my kid's gonna

0:19:22.560 --> 0:19:24.480
<v Speaker 3>be like, bitch, what the fuck is wrong with you?

0:19:25.200 --> 0:19:27.240
<v Speaker 2>It's gonna do this shit again, Like, bitch, we just

0:19:27.280 --> 0:19:29.760
<v Speaker 2>did this shit. I was, I was gonna say it.

0:19:29.800 --> 0:19:32.520
<v Speaker 3>I was like looking at her, like, okay, but it

0:19:32.600 --> 0:19:33.800
<v Speaker 3>is a very different situation.

0:19:34.000 --> 0:19:35.320
<v Speaker 2>But I mean even for that.

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<v Speaker 3>So let me give you a little background on Orlando

0:19:38.000 --> 0:19:42.240
<v Speaker 3>and I. You guys, we did meet on Zoom during

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<v Speaker 3>the twenty twenty pandemic when me and Erica were just

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<v Speaker 3>finding people to talk to because we maybe were gonna

0:19:47.320 --> 0:19:50.360
<v Speaker 3>kill ourselves because there was nothing else to do but podcast.

0:19:51.240 --> 0:19:55.439
<v Speaker 3>And Orlando on his former podcast, you know, they were like, well,

0:19:55.480 --> 0:19:58.040
<v Speaker 3>let's come on our show whatever, So we did it.

0:19:58.200 --> 0:19:58.760
<v Speaker 2>I met them.

0:19:59.040 --> 0:20:01.479
<v Speaker 3>I met him on Zoom, and I wasn't interested. I

0:20:01.480 --> 0:20:03.920
<v Speaker 3>was like, oh, these guys are cute whatever. I thought

0:20:03.920 --> 0:20:06.399
<v Speaker 3>he was a little extra, but you know, whatever was

0:20:06.480 --> 0:20:10.080
<v Speaker 3>podcast life, and you know, he like DMed me a

0:20:10.119 --> 0:20:13.399
<v Speaker 3>little bit on Instagram. We were, you know, fake friends

0:20:13.400 --> 0:20:16.840
<v Speaker 3>from podcasting, a little flirting here, and then he was like, oh,

0:20:16.880 --> 0:20:19.120
<v Speaker 3>you know, I'll be out there. Let's like collab, let's

0:20:19.160 --> 0:20:22.440
<v Speaker 3>do an episode. So I was like, okay, whatever content.

0:20:24.040 --> 0:20:28.040
<v Speaker 3>But I had just ended that really terrible, horrible Adventure

0:20:28.040 --> 0:20:30.520
<v Speaker 3>Bay relationship because I came back from Mexico and I

0:20:30.600 --> 0:20:32.800
<v Speaker 3>cheated on him because he didn't fuck me enough on

0:20:32.800 --> 0:20:34.719
<v Speaker 3>that vacation, and I instead of breaking up with him,

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<v Speaker 3>I just said, fucking I'm a fuck somebody else. And

0:20:36.240 --> 0:20:37.720
<v Speaker 3>then he looked at my shit and it just blew up.

0:20:37.720 --> 0:20:40.000
<v Speaker 3>And then I was like, I'm a terrible person. I

0:20:40.040 --> 0:20:42.639
<v Speaker 3>don't like love. I'm immature. Because he was nice to me,

0:20:42.720 --> 0:20:45.200
<v Speaker 3>and I thought that was like the epitome of a relationship.

0:20:45.240 --> 0:20:49.240
<v Speaker 3>What a nice guy, and so I was really trying

0:20:49.240 --> 0:20:51.040
<v Speaker 3>to get him back for a minute. I was like,

0:20:51.119 --> 0:20:52.520
<v Speaker 3>please take me back so.

0:20:52.520 --> 0:20:56.080
<v Speaker 2>We can go on boying adventures together, and he wouldn't.

0:20:56.240 --> 0:21:00.239
<v Speaker 2>He just kept pulling me through the mud to punish me.

0:21:00.760 --> 0:21:04.320
<v Speaker 3>And so my lat my final straw was that I

0:21:04.440 --> 0:21:06.960
<v Speaker 3>met a nigga on the internet on the DMS and

0:21:07.000 --> 0:21:08.840
<v Speaker 3>he was like, come to Tennessee, and I was like,

0:21:08.920 --> 0:21:11.560
<v Speaker 3>perfect way to get over this other nigga. So I

0:21:11.600 --> 0:21:13.359
<v Speaker 3>met a guy in the DMS that I had no

0:21:13.440 --> 0:21:16.760
<v Speaker 3>idea who he was, flew to Tennessee and then we

0:21:16.880 --> 0:21:17.680
<v Speaker 3>drove to Atlanta.

0:21:17.760 --> 0:21:19.639
<v Speaker 2>We had a great time, and then as soon as

0:21:19.680 --> 0:21:22.200
<v Speaker 2>I got back, I pulled up to Erica's house.

0:21:22.080 --> 0:21:25.040
<v Speaker 3>To do this thing with Orlando, and he was wearing

0:21:25.040 --> 0:21:28.840
<v Speaker 3>a crop top and I was like, Oh, this is interesting.

0:21:29.760 --> 0:21:32.199
<v Speaker 2>And my daughter was like, why are you wearing that shirt?

0:21:32.560 --> 0:21:34.520
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, he give me whatever he wants, Luna,

0:21:34.640 --> 0:21:42.720
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I don't know. Pe nice shit. And

0:21:42.880 --> 0:21:44.240
<v Speaker 2>we recorded and it was great.

0:21:44.240 --> 0:21:46.399
<v Speaker 3>We had a good time, but still I wasn't we

0:21:46.440 --> 0:21:49.199
<v Speaker 3>had good chemistry, but I thought it was like friendship chemistry,

0:21:49.800 --> 0:21:52.240
<v Speaker 3>and we were supposed to go hang out with Erica,

0:21:52.240 --> 0:21:55.200
<v Speaker 3>and then Erica canceled like she so often does. I mean,

0:21:55.600 --> 0:21:57.159
<v Speaker 3>it was far was over the hill, and people from

0:21:57.160 --> 0:21:59.119
<v Speaker 3>the valley don't leave over the hill. So I had

0:21:59.119 --> 0:22:02.040
<v Speaker 3>already invited him, and because I'm a fucking people pleaser,

0:22:02.160 --> 0:22:04.320
<v Speaker 3>I was like, you want to just come over. I

0:22:04.400 --> 0:22:06.440
<v Speaker 3>just got an apartment, had like one piece of furniture.

0:22:06.480 --> 0:22:07.880
<v Speaker 3>I was just so happy to have a house.

0:22:08.200 --> 0:22:09.359
<v Speaker 2>Do you want to come over I have? Do you

0:22:09.400 --> 0:22:11.080
<v Speaker 2>have your don mushrooms? He's like no, and I was like,

0:22:11.160 --> 0:22:12.600
<v Speaker 2>just you can just come do mushrooms.

0:22:13.080 --> 0:22:15.160
<v Speaker 3>But I asked him at eleven o'clock at night, because

0:22:15.160 --> 0:22:16.920
<v Speaker 3>I thought he was gonna be like, it's late. I'm cool,

0:22:16.960 --> 0:22:19.240
<v Speaker 3>I'm in Santa Monica. But no, no, no, no.

0:22:19.840 --> 0:22:21.880
<v Speaker 4>I went to the core of it. I was driving anywhere.

0:22:22.160 --> 0:22:24.880
<v Speaker 3>He came over at eleven PM to my empty ass

0:22:24.880 --> 0:22:28.560
<v Speaker 3>apartment and we did mushrooms and it was fine.

0:22:28.600 --> 0:22:30.760
<v Speaker 2>But even then I was like, God, this guy talks

0:22:30.800 --> 0:22:31.400
<v Speaker 2>a lot.

0:22:31.800 --> 0:22:33.600
<v Speaker 3>I was like, what a fucking podcast or you won't

0:22:33.600 --> 0:22:35.920
<v Speaker 3>shut the fuck up. And then it went even further.

0:22:36.040 --> 0:22:37.840
<v Speaker 3>He was like I didn't want to fuck with him

0:22:37.880 --> 0:22:39.480
<v Speaker 3>because I was like, I've been doing too much lately.

0:22:39.480 --> 0:22:40.520
<v Speaker 2>I cheated on the other nigga.

0:22:40.560 --> 0:22:42.119
<v Speaker 3>I just went on a fucking trip with this other

0:22:42.200 --> 0:22:43.840
<v Speaker 3>nigga from my DMS I don't know, and now I'm

0:22:43.880 --> 0:22:44.560
<v Speaker 3>here with this nigga.

0:22:44.600 --> 0:22:46.159
<v Speaker 1>I was like, let me just relax, give me like

0:22:46.200 --> 0:22:47.520
<v Speaker 1>three licks of head and just stopped.

0:22:48.119 --> 0:22:49.639
<v Speaker 3>Were like kissed a little. But I was like he

0:22:49.760 --> 0:22:52.080
<v Speaker 3>was talking so much. He was like, you deserve me

0:22:52.720 --> 0:22:55.040
<v Speaker 3>I'm a blessing. I was like, I literally in my head,

0:22:55.040 --> 0:22:58.120
<v Speaker 3>I was like, I can't wait to tell Erica this shit.

0:22:58.760 --> 0:23:00.200
<v Speaker 3>The whole time I was like, oh she right, damn

0:23:00.240 --> 0:23:02.240
<v Speaker 3>want I need to tell her. I literally wanted to

0:23:02.280 --> 0:23:03.600
<v Speaker 3>put it in my phone, like don't forget to tell

0:23:03.600 --> 0:23:05.680
<v Speaker 3>her this. And I was like okay, and I think, yeah.

0:23:05.680 --> 0:23:07.080
<v Speaker 3>We like kissed a little bit, like licked.

0:23:06.920 --> 0:23:09.760
<v Speaker 2>His dick three times and I was like no, no,

0:23:11.080 --> 0:23:13.919
<v Speaker 2>I don't need to do that, and he was like,

0:23:14.320 --> 0:23:15.040
<v Speaker 2>just kept talking.

0:23:15.560 --> 0:23:15.800
<v Speaker 1>Cool.

0:23:16.480 --> 0:23:19.199
<v Speaker 3>So the next morning we woke up and he said, oh,

0:23:19.280 --> 0:23:20.680
<v Speaker 3>I go to breakfast. I was like cool, we could

0:23:20.680 --> 0:23:22.440
<v Speaker 3>go to this place around the corner from my house. Still,

0:23:22.440 --> 0:23:23.719
<v Speaker 3>I was like, hey't wait to get away from him

0:23:23.720 --> 0:23:26.040
<v Speaker 3>so I could call Erica. And then we go to

0:23:26.119 --> 0:23:29.280
<v Speaker 3>breakfast and we go home live and we start talking

0:23:29.280 --> 0:23:31.119
<v Speaker 3>and everyone's like, oh, this is the perfect match.

0:23:31.200 --> 0:23:31.800
<v Speaker 2>I saw this.

0:23:31.720 --> 0:23:33.919
<v Speaker 3>Happening and I was like, what are they talking about?

0:23:34.119 --> 0:23:35.800
<v Speaker 3>And then he started talking and I was like, oh,

0:23:35.800 --> 0:23:38.240
<v Speaker 3>I kind of like he is kind of smart. I

0:23:38.320 --> 0:23:40.440
<v Speaker 3>was like, he's kind of nice son, and he paid

0:23:40.480 --> 0:23:43.919
<v Speaker 3>for breakfast. I was like that was nice. Yeah, he

0:23:43.960 --> 0:23:45.520
<v Speaker 3>like gave me his keys to his rent hoal and

0:23:45.560 --> 0:23:47.320
<v Speaker 3>he was like, putting me on Instagram. I was like, oh,

0:23:47.359 --> 0:23:49.280
<v Speaker 3>look'm putting me on Instagram, you know, but just love

0:23:49.280 --> 0:23:49.600
<v Speaker 3>that ship.

0:23:50.080 --> 0:23:53.600
<v Speaker 2>Are you gonna make me public? The most basic left?

0:23:55.520 --> 0:23:59.360
<v Speaker 2>What the fuck? Wait? It's for better? Wait? And then

0:23:59.600 --> 0:24:00.919
<v Speaker 2>he's like, do you want to go to the beach?

0:24:01.160 --> 0:24:01.400
<v Speaker 1>Oh?

0:24:01.680 --> 0:24:04.480
<v Speaker 2>And I was like here's the thing. It was like Saturday.

0:24:04.560 --> 0:24:06.880
<v Speaker 3>I really didn't have shit to do except call Erica

0:24:06.920 --> 0:24:09.280
<v Speaker 3>and talk shit. And he was like, now I kind

0:24:09.280 --> 0:24:10.680
<v Speaker 3>of liked it. I was like, oh, he's kind of cool.

0:24:10.720 --> 0:24:11.320
<v Speaker 2>I was like fuck it.

0:24:11.320 --> 0:24:13.000
<v Speaker 3>I was like, okay, let's go back by my house

0:24:13.040 --> 0:24:15.199
<v Speaker 3>and get my bathing suit. So I go get my

0:24:15.200 --> 0:24:15.800
<v Speaker 3>bathing suit.

0:24:15.920 --> 0:24:18.800
<v Speaker 2>We drive in the corvette to the beach, and before

0:24:18.800 --> 0:24:20.439
<v Speaker 2>he pull up to this hotel, he's like, oh, my

0:24:20.480 --> 0:24:22.760
<v Speaker 2>homegirl's in here. I was like, okay, me and the

0:24:22.760 --> 0:24:25.399
<v Speaker 2>homegirl talking. We're like me and I Leanta like made out,

0:24:25.400 --> 0:24:27.040
<v Speaker 2>I mean up some others friends. We get drunk on

0:24:27.080 --> 0:24:29.440
<v Speaker 2>the beach. I'm like sitting on his face on Instagram

0:24:29.480 --> 0:24:31.040
<v Speaker 2>for pretend. Like ah.

0:24:31.160 --> 0:24:32.919
<v Speaker 3>Then I was like I want oysters. He's like, perfect,

0:24:32.960 --> 0:24:34.680
<v Speaker 3>we can go get oysters. She takes me go get oysters.

0:24:34.680 --> 0:24:36.360
<v Speaker 2>He pays. I'm like, he pays for me and this bitch.

0:24:36.400 --> 0:24:38.399
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh my god. He's so nice. He's like,

0:24:38.440 --> 0:24:40.280
<v Speaker 2>let's go to dinner. I'm like, but I don't have clothes.

0:24:40.280 --> 0:24:41.720
<v Speaker 2>He's like, I'll take you to go get extra clothes.

0:24:42.000 --> 0:24:46.080
<v Speaker 3>Me. No, right, So we go get the oysters. Orlando

0:24:46.280 --> 0:24:49.200
<v Speaker 3>says he's gonna take my jacket to the hotel. As

0:24:49.200 --> 0:24:51.719
<v Speaker 3>soon as Orlando walks away, the girl looks over at

0:24:51.760 --> 0:24:55.439
<v Speaker 3>me at the table and goes So, me and Orlando

0:24:55.520 --> 0:24:57.639
<v Speaker 3>have been fucking around for some time, but he won't

0:24:57.680 --> 0:24:59.879
<v Speaker 3>really be committed, so I think he's trying to have

0:24:59.920 --> 0:25:02.280
<v Speaker 3>a threesome or something. And I was like looking behind me,

0:25:02.320 --> 0:25:02.840
<v Speaker 3>I was like what.

0:25:03.960 --> 0:25:05.199
<v Speaker 2>I was like what.

0:25:05.440 --> 0:25:08.080
<v Speaker 3>She got so serious. We were besties all day. He

0:25:08.119 --> 0:25:10.480
<v Speaker 3>walked away for one second. She was like, yeah, we've

0:25:10.520 --> 0:25:12.200
<v Speaker 3>been seeing each other, but he just won't commit to

0:25:12.240 --> 0:25:14.240
<v Speaker 3>the time that I need to see him. And now

0:25:14.280 --> 0:25:16.160
<v Speaker 3>this is us like rekindling it, and I think he's

0:25:16.160 --> 0:25:18.639
<v Speaker 3>trying to have a three someome And I was like no, no, no, no.

0:25:19.040 --> 0:25:20.400
<v Speaker 2>I was like, we don't mess around. I don't really

0:25:20.440 --> 0:25:21.560
<v Speaker 2>know him like that. I just met him.

0:25:21.800 --> 0:25:23.160
<v Speaker 3>I was like, I'm not trying to have it through

0:25:23.200 --> 0:25:24.840
<v Speaker 3>some I'm like, it's all good, Like I thought she

0:25:24.880 --> 0:25:26.199
<v Speaker 3>was gonna cut me, like I was trying to take

0:25:26.240 --> 0:25:29.719
<v Speaker 3>her man, and I was like no, I was like,

0:25:29.800 --> 0:25:31.320
<v Speaker 3>why did this nigga tell me he was this is

0:25:31.320 --> 0:25:33.440
<v Speaker 3>a bit she fucked with because I was just thought

0:25:33.480 --> 0:25:35.960
<v Speaker 3>we were all like lollygagging along. And second of all,

0:25:36.200 --> 0:25:37.919
<v Speaker 3>what kind of dick is this nigga? Given out that

0:25:37.960 --> 0:25:39.960
<v Speaker 3>this bitch was about to cut me at the dinner table.

0:25:40.280 --> 0:25:41.840
<v Speaker 3>I was like, we were just best friends. And then

0:25:42.000 --> 0:25:45.760
<v Speaker 3>the like lower level bitch of me was like, huh Now,

0:25:45.800 --> 0:25:48.040
<v Speaker 3>I'm kind of curious because this bitch is really aggressive

0:25:48.119 --> 0:25:50.080
<v Speaker 3>over this nigga. I was like, he must be doing

0:25:50.119 --> 0:25:51.919
<v Speaker 3>something particular in the bedroom.

0:25:53.000 --> 0:25:55.160
<v Speaker 2>So they planted a seed because she was like really

0:25:55.200 --> 0:25:59.919
<v Speaker 2>got really, really serious. And so after that we went

0:26:00.080 --> 0:26:02.440
<v Speaker 2>to dinner and I ubered home.

0:26:02.480 --> 0:26:04.480
<v Speaker 3>I was like, I'm gonna go home because I wasn't

0:26:04.480 --> 0:26:06.560
<v Speaker 3>trying to get caught in the crossfires of any threesomes

0:26:06.560 --> 0:26:08.760
<v Speaker 3>that I wasn't trying to have. And he was like,

0:26:08.760 --> 0:26:10.680
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna come over after I dropped this bitch off,

0:26:10.800 --> 0:26:12.040
<v Speaker 3>and I was like whatever.

0:26:12.680 --> 0:26:14.720
<v Speaker 2>I went home. I fell asleep.

0:26:14.920 --> 0:26:16.959
<v Speaker 3>He came to my house from Santa Monica, which is

0:26:17.000 --> 0:26:19.879
<v Speaker 3>not like an easy drive. Banged on the door, but

0:26:19.920 --> 0:26:22.359
<v Speaker 3>I didn't hear it, and he left and he was like,

0:26:22.359 --> 0:26:23.920
<v Speaker 3>it's okay, I'll come back tomorrow. I was like, I'm

0:26:23.960 --> 0:26:26.160
<v Speaker 3>so sorry. I fell asleep. He was like, it's cool,

0:26:26.160 --> 0:26:28.080
<v Speaker 3>I'll come back after I leave San Diego. I was

0:26:28.119 --> 0:26:29.720
<v Speaker 3>like whatever. I'm like, you're not going to go to

0:26:29.760 --> 0:26:31.359
<v Speaker 3>San Diego. Come back to my house.

0:26:32.240 --> 0:26:34.760
<v Speaker 2>He did. He did. He's like I'm back, I'm on

0:26:34.800 --> 0:26:36.520
<v Speaker 2>my way. I was like, oh wow, he's really committed.

0:26:37.160 --> 0:26:39.600
<v Speaker 3>Anyway, he was there for like four or five days,

0:26:39.840 --> 0:26:43.040
<v Speaker 3>and every single day we saw each other, and like

0:26:43.119 --> 0:26:44.720
<v Speaker 3>every day I was like, huh, I do come.

0:26:44.920 --> 0:26:47.280
<v Speaker 2>He is kind of nice. He kept doing stuff for me.

0:26:47.359 --> 0:26:48.639
<v Speaker 2>I was like, are you downtown? He's like yeah. I

0:26:48.640 --> 0:26:50.200
<v Speaker 2>was like, can you pick up the shelf from Craigslist?

0:26:50.240 --> 0:26:53.080
<v Speaker 2>He's like sure, got this, picked up this random.

0:26:52.760 --> 0:26:56.159
<v Speaker 3>Shelf, made me food, bought food, and he's like, I

0:26:56.200 --> 0:26:57.399
<v Speaker 3>want to take you on this mountain.

0:26:57.800 --> 0:27:00.359
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna take you for a ride somewhere. I was like, okay.

0:27:00.680 --> 0:27:03.320
<v Speaker 3>Took me to like this beautiful Topanga canyon and we

0:27:03.400 --> 0:27:06.119
<v Speaker 3>like watched this moon set, we had sex and then

0:27:06.119 --> 0:27:08.280
<v Speaker 3>he was like, I'm gonna give you one man's stand up.

0:27:08.400 --> 0:27:12.440
<v Speaker 3>I was like, what, literally did an entire comedian stand

0:27:12.520 --> 0:27:13.520
<v Speaker 3>up alone.

0:27:13.480 --> 0:27:16.800
<v Speaker 2>On top of Tipanga Mountain outside of the car. Like

0:27:17.000 --> 0:27:19.320
<v Speaker 2>I was like cracking up. I'm like this nigga. I

0:27:19.359 --> 0:27:20.919
<v Speaker 2>was like, he's not weird, He's just an actor.

0:27:23.280 --> 0:27:23.600
<v Speaker 4>Myself.

0:27:23.680 --> 0:27:27.040
<v Speaker 3>I was like, it's not it's not too much, it's

0:27:27.040 --> 0:27:29.919
<v Speaker 3>just his personality. I was starting to understand. I'm like,

0:27:30.240 --> 0:27:32.480
<v Speaker 3>he's just a lot of characters.

0:27:32.880 --> 0:27:36.160
<v Speaker 2>But I was also like kind of into it anyway.

0:27:36.240 --> 0:27:39.440
<v Speaker 3>But the last day we had sex and Topanga Mountain,

0:27:39.960 --> 0:27:42.159
<v Speaker 3>he made me a key and saltfish, which is the

0:27:42.240 --> 0:27:44.840
<v Speaker 3>Jamaican national dish and everybody knows I like to eat.

0:27:45.160 --> 0:27:46.840
<v Speaker 3>And by the time I dropped him off at the airport,

0:27:46.920 --> 0:27:49.320
<v Speaker 3>I was like, do you want to go to Mexico

0:27:49.720 --> 0:27:50.280
<v Speaker 3>next month?

0:27:50.960 --> 0:27:52.639
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I'm playing Mexico next month with all

0:27:52.680 --> 0:27:53.520
<v Speaker 2>my friends. You want to go?

0:27:53.680 --> 0:27:55.920
<v Speaker 3>And he's like okay. I was like all right, and

0:27:56.040 --> 0:27:57.680
<v Speaker 3>that was it, and I told Eric. I was like,

0:27:57.720 --> 0:27:59.080
<v Speaker 3>I was gonna call you, tell you how much I

0:27:59.080 --> 0:28:01.360
<v Speaker 3>didn't like him. But by the time I got a chance.

0:28:01.119 --> 0:28:05.119
<v Speaker 2>To call you, I liked him already. She was like what.

0:28:05.280 --> 0:28:06.000
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I don't know.

0:28:06.040 --> 0:28:07.879
<v Speaker 3>I'm confused, but yeah, I like him, and he's coming

0:28:07.920 --> 0:28:08.440
<v Speaker 3>to Mexico.

0:28:09.040 --> 0:28:09.880
<v Speaker 1>Beautiful life star.

0:28:10.040 --> 0:28:10.840
<v Speaker 2>It was beautiful.

0:28:10.920 --> 0:28:12.960
<v Speaker 3>And then when he got back to New York, he

0:28:13.000 --> 0:28:14.600
<v Speaker 3>told me that he was seeing someone else and I

0:28:14.640 --> 0:28:16.679
<v Speaker 3>was like, of course you are, because I could not

0:28:16.800 --> 0:28:20.080
<v Speaker 3>just like a regular nigga. And I was like, well,

0:28:20.119 --> 0:28:22.160
<v Speaker 3>how is she going to feel about you coming to Mexico.

0:28:22.280 --> 0:28:24.160
<v Speaker 3>He's like, she's fine, it's not exclusive.

0:28:24.280 --> 0:28:24.919
<v Speaker 2>I was like whatever.

0:28:25.800 --> 0:28:27.840
<v Speaker 3>And then he asked me a week before the trip

0:28:27.880 --> 0:28:30.679
<v Speaker 3>if the bitch could come to Mexico with us, and

0:28:30.720 --> 0:28:32.320
<v Speaker 3>I was like, where is she going to sleep?

0:28:33.359 --> 0:28:34.080
<v Speaker 2>He's like with us?

0:28:34.200 --> 0:28:36.200
<v Speaker 3>I was like, this is when Erico was like, now

0:28:36.200 --> 0:28:37.480
<v Speaker 3>it's time to put your foot down.

0:28:37.520 --> 0:28:42.800
<v Speaker 2>I called Erica. Erica is my fucking wife. Hello, he's weird. Hello,

0:28:43.280 --> 0:28:47.160
<v Speaker 2>false Lama like him. Hello. He asked me this crazy question.

0:28:47.520 --> 0:28:50.360
<v Speaker 2>Tell him no bitch. So I was like, yeah, I

0:28:50.360 --> 0:28:53.400
<v Speaker 2>thought about it. I don't think that's a good idea. Dah, nigga.

0:28:53.760 --> 0:28:55.120
<v Speaker 2>I've never met this bitch in my life.

0:28:55.120 --> 0:28:56.440
<v Speaker 3>You think you to bring a bitch, We're gonna be

0:28:56.520 --> 0:28:59.960
<v Speaker 3>fucking a happy family. Yeah, So he came to Mexico,

0:29:00.160 --> 0:29:02.800
<v Speaker 3>which was right after my Like I was in Mexico first,

0:29:02.840 --> 0:29:06.400
<v Speaker 3>I had an epic acid experience. I had a break

0:29:06.520 --> 0:29:10.040
<v Speaker 3>groundbreaking acid experience. And then he came and we had

0:29:10.040 --> 0:29:15.280
<v Speaker 3>a really really really really magical bomb ass trip. It

0:29:15.400 --> 0:29:19.160
<v Speaker 3>was like after covid DJA track was playing on the

0:29:19.240 --> 0:29:23.000
<v Speaker 3>rooftop on New Year's Eve, there was fireworks, We're making out.

0:29:24.080 --> 0:29:26.960
<v Speaker 3>We went on a fucking boat trip. Remember, it was

0:29:27.000 --> 0:29:29.440
<v Speaker 3>like a sunset. Whales were just like right away, like

0:29:30.680 --> 0:29:31.400
<v Speaker 3>riding next to.

0:29:31.360 --> 0:29:36.440
<v Speaker 2>The boat, like remember, And we drove to Toto Santos, Yeah, and.

0:29:36.400 --> 0:29:38.640
<v Speaker 3>We like stayed in a little tepee like and then

0:29:38.720 --> 0:29:41.000
<v Speaker 3>I let Orlando poured his blood on my chest and

0:29:41.040 --> 0:29:43.640
<v Speaker 3>put his initials. So I probably like put a curse

0:29:43.680 --> 0:29:45.880
<v Speaker 3>on myself because I allowed this to happen, and then

0:29:45.920 --> 0:29:46.920
<v Speaker 3>I was stuck like chuck.

0:29:48.000 --> 0:29:50.200
<v Speaker 2>But after that, we came back from.

0:29:50.040 --> 0:29:53.080
<v Speaker 3>Mexico after like a week of being together, not really

0:29:53.120 --> 0:29:56.240
<v Speaker 3>knowing each other, and just went back to our regular lives.

0:29:56.400 --> 0:29:58.440
<v Speaker 3>They were like hey, we were like we're gonna be

0:29:58.520 --> 0:30:01.760
<v Speaker 3>bonded forever, but like I'll see you later, and I

0:30:01.800 --> 0:30:02.600
<v Speaker 3>was like, okay.

0:30:02.600 --> 0:30:05.200
<v Speaker 4>So nobody can treat me worse.

0:30:06.440 --> 0:30:08.200
<v Speaker 2>And I treat you.

0:30:08.160 --> 0:30:09.640
<v Speaker 3>You can fuck with whoever you want, just to make

0:30:09.640 --> 0:30:11.240
<v Speaker 3>sure they treat you as good or better than I

0:30:11.280 --> 0:30:11.640
<v Speaker 3>treat you.

0:30:11.680 --> 0:30:14.920
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, wow, that was good. Wow. And

0:30:14.960 --> 0:30:19.280
<v Speaker 2>then what did I do? He was he was too

0:30:19.320 --> 0:30:20.120
<v Speaker 2>far away, So I.

0:30:20.080 --> 0:30:22.280
<v Speaker 3>Found a fake Muslim and I was like, you should

0:30:22.360 --> 0:30:26.480
<v Speaker 3>move in, you and your dog. And it was very

0:30:26.600 --> 0:30:30.320
<v Speaker 3>terrible moment. But I remember thinking this is not a

0:30:30.360 --> 0:30:32.760
<v Speaker 3>good idea. But I had to do it. I just

0:30:32.840 --> 0:30:34.360
<v Speaker 3>had something in me. Just had to do like the

0:30:34.440 --> 0:30:36.640
<v Speaker 3>last toxic thing. I was like, I need to get

0:30:36.640 --> 0:30:38.840
<v Speaker 3>this out of my system. I just got to do it.

0:30:38.840 --> 0:30:41.280
<v Speaker 3>It's got to deal with somebody super toxic. And I

0:30:41.280 --> 0:30:43.040
<v Speaker 3>did for like a strong six months.

0:30:43.520 --> 0:30:45.479
<v Speaker 4>That was a very frustrating time for both of us.

0:30:45.720 --> 0:30:47.120
<v Speaker 2>I was lying about it. He's like, what's going on

0:30:47.160 --> 0:30:48.640
<v Speaker 2>with you? I was like, well, how did you deal

0:30:48.640 --> 0:30:49.880
<v Speaker 2>with that? Because I knew you guys were still to

0:30:50.000 --> 0:30:52.280
<v Speaker 2>well were you talking all the time or did this

0:30:52.520 --> 0:30:54.960
<v Speaker 2>talking have to cease? Because Leprechaun was.

0:30:56.720 --> 0:30:56.960
<v Speaker 1>I was.

0:30:57.080 --> 0:30:59.440
<v Speaker 4>I was there and we were talking all the time.

0:30:59.480 --> 0:31:01.680
<v Speaker 1>But then I would get like spans of like a

0:31:01.680 --> 0:31:03.680
<v Speaker 1>week and a half, two weeks or like miss calls

0:31:03.840 --> 0:31:05.800
<v Speaker 1>and then she would just pop up and be like, yeah,

0:31:05.840 --> 0:31:08.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm at a hotel, big ass fucking dog and I'm like,

0:31:08.760 --> 0:31:11.000
<v Speaker 1>why is that dog? Then he's like, well, this guy

0:31:11.040 --> 0:31:13.240
<v Speaker 1>moved in two weeks, so.

0:31:13.280 --> 0:31:15.120
<v Speaker 2>He's staying with me for a little bit. Yeah, but

0:31:15.480 --> 0:31:16.200
<v Speaker 2>he's not gonna.

0:31:16.000 --> 0:31:18.200
<v Speaker 1>Leave two weeks to go about it on here from him,

0:31:18.240 --> 0:31:20.160
<v Speaker 1>she was like hey, and I'm like he's still there

0:31:20.240 --> 0:31:24.400
<v Speaker 1>is and she's like, uh so, just fans of like

0:31:24.400 --> 0:31:26.560
<v Speaker 1>on and off, like me, not hearing from her until

0:31:26.720 --> 0:31:29.640
<v Speaker 1>like I think, like July and or around the summer,

0:31:29.680 --> 0:31:31.720
<v Speaker 1>I started to hear from her work more consistently, and

0:31:31.720 --> 0:31:33.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, is this nigga still around? She's like, no, no,

0:31:33.480 --> 0:31:35.680
<v Speaker 1>he moved her out. He moved out, mind you. She

0:31:35.720 --> 0:31:37.040
<v Speaker 1>came to see me and left him in the house.

0:31:38.480 --> 0:31:43.280
<v Speaker 2>Is that what happened? No, he was, he was in

0:31:43.440 --> 0:31:45.720
<v Speaker 2>La but he had moved out. But I was I

0:31:46.160 --> 0:31:46.880
<v Speaker 2>did it on purpose.

0:31:46.880 --> 0:31:48.320
<v Speaker 3>I was like, I'm going to go see my other nigga,

0:31:48.480 --> 0:31:50.520
<v Speaker 3>knowing he couldn't handle it, and then he did. He

0:31:50.640 --> 0:31:53.400
<v Speaker 3>dumped me and I never We messed around for a

0:31:53.440 --> 0:31:55.520
<v Speaker 3>little bit, but then one day I literally asked him

0:31:55.520 --> 0:31:57.080
<v Speaker 3>to get the fuck out, and he never came back

0:31:57.080 --> 0:31:59.600
<v Speaker 3>because God was like, and en, scene, are you done

0:31:59.600 --> 0:32:00.400
<v Speaker 3>being talks bitch?

0:32:00.520 --> 0:32:02.440
<v Speaker 2>And I was and then yeah.

0:32:02.760 --> 0:32:04.560
<v Speaker 1>And a few months later we were in a relationship

0:32:04.600 --> 0:32:07.040
<v Speaker 1>too when she saw that I was fucking somebody else

0:32:07.080 --> 0:32:08.640
<v Speaker 1>and she was like, I don't like that.

0:32:08.720 --> 0:32:09.960
<v Speaker 4>They said it online.

0:32:09.960 --> 0:32:12.240
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, well, you know, if you want

0:32:12.240 --> 0:32:13.960
<v Speaker 1>this to change, then you're gonna have to commit to me.

0:32:15.120 --> 0:32:17.840
<v Speaker 4>She was like, okay, so i'll get my way.

0:32:18.640 --> 0:32:20.880
<v Speaker 2>You're gonna tell me shut the fuck up. I was like, okay,

0:32:20.880 --> 0:32:21.680
<v Speaker 2>I'll be your girlfriend.

0:32:22.840 --> 0:32:24.480
<v Speaker 1>Just to know other bitches could say that they fucked

0:32:24.480 --> 0:32:25.080
<v Speaker 1>me online.

0:32:25.280 --> 0:32:27.360
<v Speaker 3>I didn't want a lot of bitches saying they fucked

0:32:27.360 --> 0:32:29.880
<v Speaker 3>the same person I fucked online. So I said, listen,

0:32:29.920 --> 0:32:32.160
<v Speaker 3>either tell those bitches to shut the fuck up, or

0:32:32.240 --> 0:32:34.280
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna take my distance. He said I'm gonna be

0:32:34.280 --> 0:32:37.120
<v Speaker 3>your boyfriend, and I said that works, and I'm still

0:32:37.120 --> 0:32:39.080
<v Speaker 3>fucking other people. And he was fucking other people. He

0:32:39.160 --> 0:32:41.800
<v Speaker 3>had like a whole sub relationship, so I really wasn't

0:32:41.800 --> 0:32:43.000
<v Speaker 3>taking it very seriously.

0:32:43.160 --> 0:32:46.440
<v Speaker 2>I was just like, yeah, that's my boot. And then

0:32:47.040 --> 0:32:49.160
<v Speaker 2>we just continued to see each other. I went to

0:32:49.200 --> 0:32:52.280
<v Speaker 2>New York, he came to La.

0:32:53.240 --> 0:32:57.840
<v Speaker 4>Dangerously in love with Mila, like she was everything to me, and.

0:32:57.880 --> 0:33:00.400
<v Speaker 3>Then I was like, yeah, we're cool, we go together whatever,

0:33:01.800 --> 0:33:03.720
<v Speaker 3>and then we decided to go to Mexico for a month.

0:33:04.120 --> 0:33:06.320
<v Speaker 3>And then in Mexico, I was like, Oh, this guy

0:33:06.440 --> 0:33:08.760
<v Speaker 3>really does fuck with me. He really wants like he's

0:33:08.800 --> 0:33:11.520
<v Speaker 3>really in a relationship with me. I guess I should

0:33:11.640 --> 0:33:12.280
<v Speaker 3>be too.

0:33:14.960 --> 0:33:18.000
<v Speaker 2>And now we're here, dear, Yeah, how did you know

0:33:18.840 --> 0:33:21.560
<v Speaker 2>that you wanted like that, that she was you were

0:33:21.640 --> 0:33:22.960
<v Speaker 2>dangerously in love with Jamila?

0:33:23.800 --> 0:33:24.240
<v Speaker 4>I didn't.

0:33:24.600 --> 0:33:27.160
<v Speaker 1>It's just like things just kept coming up like and

0:33:27.240 --> 0:33:29.560
<v Speaker 1>I would just respond certain ways. Like the first time

0:33:29.600 --> 0:33:31.160
<v Speaker 1>I met her, she was like I'm a witch and

0:33:31.160 --> 0:33:33.840
<v Speaker 1>I want you to know that, and I was like, yep, fine,

0:33:33.920 --> 0:33:36.040
<v Speaker 1>that's I could take that. This is like I would

0:33:36.040 --> 0:33:38.120
<v Speaker 1>have never said yes in any other moment. Nobody's ever

0:33:38.160 --> 0:33:40.160
<v Speaker 1>told me they were a witch before, and my body

0:33:40.240 --> 0:33:43.800
<v Speaker 1>just took to it positively. So things just like kept happening,

0:33:43.840 --> 0:33:45.280
<v Speaker 1>like her even telling me, oh, you want to come

0:33:45.320 --> 0:33:47.920
<v Speaker 1>to Mexico for a month, I was like I do.

0:33:48.600 --> 0:33:50.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't know why, but I know I want to go.

0:33:50.720 --> 0:33:53.520
<v Speaker 1>And then as things progressed, it's just like just looking

0:33:53.560 --> 0:33:55.400
<v Speaker 1>at her, I was like, I really do like this woman.

0:33:55.480 --> 0:33:59.720
<v Speaker 1>She is the like herself and it's such a weird

0:33:59.720 --> 0:34:03.320
<v Speaker 1>thing that say, but she actually acts on herself and

0:34:03.480 --> 0:34:05.640
<v Speaker 1>what she wants to do. And then meeting her friends,

0:34:05.640 --> 0:34:07.320
<v Speaker 1>that's always like, yeah, Jamiala is gonna do what she

0:34:07.360 --> 0:34:08.680
<v Speaker 1>wants when she wants to do it, And I'm like,

0:34:09.320 --> 0:34:11.120
<v Speaker 1>that's my kind of woman. I am a man that

0:34:11.200 --> 0:34:13.880
<v Speaker 1>does what I do. I want to do also, So

0:34:13.960 --> 0:34:15.880
<v Speaker 1>just time goes by and then just like getting to

0:34:15.880 --> 0:34:18.239
<v Speaker 1>know her and just seeing how like compatible we are,

0:34:18.840 --> 0:34:21.520
<v Speaker 1>knowing what I've wanted in a woman for like so long,

0:34:21.719 --> 0:34:24.200
<v Speaker 1>and then just like naturally just being like, yeah, you know,

0:34:24.280 --> 0:34:25.640
<v Speaker 1>I want you to do these things. I want you

0:34:25.680 --> 0:34:27.640
<v Speaker 1>to feel comfortable with your titties out and I don't

0:34:27.680 --> 0:34:30.440
<v Speaker 1>feel away, and I want you to be comfortable sexually,

0:34:30.480 --> 0:34:31.920
<v Speaker 1>and I want you to accept me because I had

0:34:31.920 --> 0:34:33.880
<v Speaker 1>an only fans and shit like that. So it's like

0:34:34.160 --> 0:34:37.840
<v Speaker 1>everything just all just mixed together. And then me losing

0:34:37.840 --> 0:34:41.080
<v Speaker 1>the job, leaving my podcast and all these things, that's like,

0:34:41.080 --> 0:34:42.600
<v Speaker 1>you know what, I think it's time for me to

0:34:42.600 --> 0:34:44.239
<v Speaker 1>come to La and live with you.

0:34:46.480 --> 0:34:47.920
<v Speaker 4>Look look, baby, it's a sign.

0:34:48.040 --> 0:34:51.600
<v Speaker 3>I told you bitch, I let you have your titties

0:34:51.640 --> 0:34:53.799
<v Speaker 3>out come in. I'm coming out my shit.

0:34:53.960 --> 0:34:56.919
<v Speaker 2>Listen, Mila's prayer came true. You know, you know, see

0:34:56.920 --> 0:34:59.400
<v Speaker 2>her had her prayer. Mela's prayer. We actually think we

0:34:59.440 --> 0:35:01.919
<v Speaker 2>did an actual prayer was with Black Girl's text. We did.

0:35:02.000 --> 0:35:03.719
<v Speaker 2>And I think one of those things was like I

0:35:03.760 --> 0:35:05.279
<v Speaker 2>want a man that's let me have my titties out,

0:35:05.400 --> 0:35:07.560
<v Speaker 2>like some of those things. I was gonna give me

0:35:07.600 --> 0:35:11.200
<v Speaker 2>a mail female. Yeah, all those I think, yeah, you really,

0:35:11.280 --> 0:35:11.840
<v Speaker 2>you really did it?

0:35:12.040 --> 0:35:13.759
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because she had a godic experience when we were

0:35:13.760 --> 0:35:15.400
<v Speaker 1>ready together and then she called me, She's like I

0:35:15.400 --> 0:35:16.680
<v Speaker 1>did this, and I was like, well, how does it

0:35:16.719 --> 0:35:18.680
<v Speaker 1>make you feel? I was happy. I was elated for

0:35:18.719 --> 0:35:19.920
<v Speaker 1>her that she was just so happy.

0:35:20.440 --> 0:35:22.560
<v Speaker 3>That was one thing I knew that like, wow, this

0:35:22.640 --> 0:35:24.680
<v Speaker 3>is different than any other relationship I've been in because

0:35:24.680 --> 0:35:27.920
<v Speaker 3>I could literally tell him anything and he wasn't gonna

0:35:27.960 --> 0:35:29.560
<v Speaker 3>like attack me or dub me.

0:35:29.880 --> 0:35:31.719
<v Speaker 2>I was like, so let me tell you what I did.

0:35:31.800 --> 0:35:35.879
<v Speaker 3>He's like, oh, okay, me, my friend, her boyfriend, another chick.

0:35:36.200 --> 0:35:38.600
<v Speaker 2>We all. He's like, oh okay, then what happened? I

0:35:38.600 --> 0:35:41.160
<v Speaker 2>was like, and then, well, I think because you guys

0:35:41.200 --> 0:35:43.920
<v Speaker 2>are really friends. Yeah, you know that's like, that's like

0:35:44.000 --> 0:35:46.400
<v Speaker 2>the foundation of your relationship is that you guys have

0:35:46.480 --> 0:35:49.320
<v Speaker 2>been like brutally honest with one another from the beginning,

0:35:49.480 --> 0:35:54.920
<v Speaker 2>and so like being in love, it feels easy, really interested.

0:35:54.560 --> 0:35:56.799
<v Speaker 1>So bad when you're being so it's like we were

0:35:56.840 --> 0:35:59.600
<v Speaker 1>magically honest with each other. It wasn't brutal.

0:35:59.600 --> 0:36:01.279
<v Speaker 3>It was act I mean for some people it would

0:36:01.280 --> 0:36:03.640
<v Speaker 3>be brutal. I mean the things that we have told

0:36:03.640 --> 0:36:06.520
<v Speaker 3>each other. I don't think that's never been the case

0:36:06.520 --> 0:36:09.840
<v Speaker 3>in any other relationship for me, you know, like I've never.

0:36:10.120 --> 0:36:13.239
<v Speaker 2>Because we're people. We do some extreme ship compared to

0:36:13.239 --> 0:36:25.040
<v Speaker 2>like the life of a square or normal. Everyone listening

0:36:25.160 --> 0:36:28.600
<v Speaker 2>is like, wow, it's okay to be a square. Well,

0:36:28.640 --> 0:36:30.239
<v Speaker 2>I don't think you're a square if you don't do

0:36:30.560 --> 0:36:31.440
<v Speaker 2>all the ship you do.

0:36:32.440 --> 0:36:34.040
<v Speaker 1>We square in the sense of like you stay in

0:36:34.080 --> 0:36:37.120
<v Speaker 1>the bounds of like what a relationship should look like, or.

0:36:37.080 --> 0:36:38.840
<v Speaker 2>You stay in the bounds of what your relationship, but

0:36:38.920 --> 0:36:40.560
<v Speaker 2>you want your relationship. I'm not calling the square. I'm

0:36:40.560 --> 0:36:41.480
<v Speaker 2>just saying we're a little wild.

0:36:41.640 --> 0:36:42.120
<v Speaker 1>You are wild.

0:36:43.960 --> 0:36:45.879
<v Speaker 2>Well, speaking of wild and speaking of knowing each other

0:36:45.920 --> 0:36:50.120
<v Speaker 2>really well and spending what's a copious amounts of time together?

0:36:50.320 --> 0:36:57.400
<v Speaker 2>Big words, baby, I hope that's the right word. I

0:36:57.440 --> 0:37:00.880
<v Speaker 2>want to do. I want to do this little this

0:37:00.920 --> 0:37:03.360
<v Speaker 2>little question game we've played with all of our guests.

0:37:03.400 --> 0:37:04.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm listen, you know right now this is the greatest

0:37:04.960 --> 0:37:07.480
<v Speaker 1>podcast game has ever come out. I love this game

0:37:07.560 --> 0:37:07.879
<v Speaker 1>so much.

0:37:10.680 --> 0:37:14.279
<v Speaker 2>Listen to everyone created it in four minutes, much like

0:37:14.320 --> 0:37:17.520
<v Speaker 2>everything in our business. Right off the.

0:37:17.480 --> 0:37:19.919
<v Speaker 3>Cuff, I know, my teacher was like, are you gonna

0:37:19.920 --> 0:37:20.919
<v Speaker 3>be able to move to the next level?

0:37:20.920 --> 0:37:22.600
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I don't know. I work well under pressure.

0:37:23.400 --> 0:37:28.359
<v Speaker 3>For give me too much time, I might not perform.

0:37:28.760 --> 0:37:28.960
<v Speaker 1>Mm.

0:37:30.239 --> 0:37:34.920
<v Speaker 2>So let's start with Jamila. You're gonna ask me, I'm

0:37:34.920 --> 0:37:39.720
<v Speaker 2>gonna ask you about Orlando. Okay, okay. So I asked

0:37:40.000 --> 0:37:43.520
<v Speaker 2>Jamila and Orlando to answer some questions about each other

0:37:43.680 --> 0:37:47.000
<v Speaker 2>and not, you know, cheat, to see how well they

0:37:47.040 --> 0:37:54.320
<v Speaker 2>knew each other. So number one question, first question, Jamila,

0:37:54.520 --> 0:38:00.719
<v Speaker 2>what is Orlando's favorite color? Orange? Correct? What is his

0:38:00.920 --> 0:38:01.839
<v Speaker 2>overall pet peeve?

0:38:03.480 --> 0:38:06.600
<v Speaker 3>I said not when people don't say please and thank you.

0:38:07.280 --> 0:38:08.719
<v Speaker 3>I don't know if he'll agree with that, but like

0:38:08.760 --> 0:38:11.799
<v Speaker 3>he gets super fucking irritated of me, or my eight

0:38:11.840 --> 0:38:13.799
<v Speaker 3>year old daughter, don't say please and thank you like

0:38:13.800 --> 0:38:15.520
<v Speaker 3>a Jamaican auntie.

0:38:17.040 --> 0:38:23.960
<v Speaker 2>What is it crying babies on planes? Okay, that's everybody's

0:38:25.080 --> 0:38:26.560
<v Speaker 2>pet peeve when it comes to you.

0:38:29.120 --> 0:38:33.280
<v Speaker 3>That I'm messy, that I believe my ship places somewhat

0:38:33.440 --> 0:38:34.840
<v Speaker 3>using my washcloth and towel.

0:38:38.280 --> 0:38:39.799
<v Speaker 2>We got in a fight about this last night.

0:38:40.200 --> 0:38:43.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, get me a towel with a rag.

0:38:43.239 --> 0:38:46.919
<v Speaker 3>Now I think there's there're plentiful, we're not running low,

0:38:47.040 --> 0:38:47.600
<v Speaker 3>And then he's.

0:38:47.600 --> 0:38:50.080
<v Speaker 2>There are not in that cabinet. I was like, here

0:38:50.120 --> 0:38:56.920
<v Speaker 2>you go. Okay, what is his childhood pet's name? He

0:38:56.960 --> 0:39:01.320
<v Speaker 2>didn't have one. His animals shouldn't be pets. He doesn't

0:39:01.320 --> 0:39:07.520
<v Speaker 2>believe animal shi pets? What what would he what would

0:39:07.520 --> 0:39:10.399
<v Speaker 2>he say is wait? What would you say? What would

0:39:10.440 --> 0:39:15.120
<v Speaker 2>you say? Is his best quality? What would he wait?

0:39:15.560 --> 0:39:20.680
<v Speaker 2>What would say? You wrote these, bitch, you would think

0:39:20.680 --> 0:39:22.319
<v Speaker 2>I would have spelled checked it. Since we've done this

0:39:22.320 --> 0:39:26.120
<v Speaker 2>like four times now, what would he say? Is your

0:39:26.200 --> 0:39:30.960
<v Speaker 2>best quality? My ability to know?

0:39:31.280 --> 0:39:33.080
<v Speaker 4>What is his best quality?

0:39:33.280 --> 0:39:36.279
<v Speaker 2>What is his best quality? His best quality is being

0:39:36.320 --> 0:39:43.480
<v Speaker 2>adaptable people person Yeah, reading myself, listening, making people feel comfortable.

0:39:43.960 --> 0:39:47.440
<v Speaker 2>Mm hmmm. What is his worst quality?

0:39:52.280 --> 0:39:56.560
<v Speaker 3>I don't know big, moody patience, pretty patient though you're

0:39:56.560 --> 0:39:57.240
<v Speaker 3>pretty patient.

0:39:58.680 --> 0:40:05.440
<v Speaker 2>What is something he's most so instead of about money?

0:40:05.840 --> 0:40:07.160
<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm you.

0:40:08.760 --> 0:40:11.399
<v Speaker 1>What you say was done to you. That's slightly why

0:40:11.400 --> 0:40:14.279
<v Speaker 1>I was okay with being your boyfriend. Also because like

0:40:14.320 --> 0:40:17.640
<v Speaker 1>these niggas are not doing it. Niggas are sucking up

0:40:17.680 --> 0:40:18.600
<v Speaker 1>nobody'shoting your right so.

0:40:18.600 --> 0:40:19.560
<v Speaker 2>We can be the mom.

0:40:19.719 --> 0:40:25.479
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I got a pool around him, like a money pool.

0:40:26.080 --> 0:40:28.880
<v Speaker 1>Oh what you mean, like we're putting in and who's

0:40:28.920 --> 0:40:31.680
<v Speaker 1>going to put hands on her? Some of her axes? First?

0:40:31.920 --> 0:40:35.800
<v Speaker 3>Perfect particular you guys are being recorded.

0:40:36.040 --> 0:40:43.160
<v Speaker 2>It's fine. What is something that he is most he's

0:40:43.160 --> 0:40:52.120
<v Speaker 2>accomplished that he is most proud of? Is uh? His

0:40:52.440 --> 0:40:58.040
<v Speaker 2>business as a creative? You that he's what? What has

0:40:58.040 --> 0:40:59.440
<v Speaker 2>he accomplished that he's most proud of.

0:41:00.640 --> 0:41:03.960
<v Speaker 1>I had this moment in the fourth grade where I

0:41:03.960 --> 0:41:06.120
<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm gonna spend every day trying to better

0:41:06.200 --> 0:41:08.440
<v Speaker 1>myself so that when I find the woman I'm going

0:41:08.520 --> 0:41:10.640
<v Speaker 1>to be with, she has nothing to complain about. So

0:41:10.680 --> 0:41:13.040
<v Speaker 1>I've been like practicing every day. It's like a fourth

0:41:13.040 --> 0:41:14.280
<v Speaker 1>grade to be this person.

0:41:14.680 --> 0:41:15.080
<v Speaker 2>Wow.

0:41:15.360 --> 0:41:18.120
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we went when we went to Mexico for a month,

0:41:18.320 --> 0:41:20.400
<v Speaker 3>the book he brought for the vacation.

0:41:20.239 --> 0:41:22.399
<v Speaker 4>Was every Man's Marriage.

0:41:24.120 --> 0:41:28.360
<v Speaker 3>He brought every Man's Marriage as the like the vacation read.

0:41:28.160 --> 0:41:31.479
<v Speaker 2>What is that book about? Like how that best husband Ever?

0:41:32.400 --> 0:41:35.239
<v Speaker 1>It's basically about this Christian guy and he's talking about

0:41:35.280 --> 0:41:38.680
<v Speaker 1>how is how his marriage was and how he wasn't

0:41:38.719 --> 0:41:41.799
<v Speaker 1>being like a good Christian and in because of that,

0:41:41.880 --> 0:41:44.080
<v Speaker 1>he wasn't being a good man and a good husband.

0:41:44.360 --> 0:41:46.120
<v Speaker 1>And then at the end of every chapter, it's like

0:41:46.160 --> 0:41:49.440
<v Speaker 1>a bunch of questions to like, uh, how did you

0:41:49.480 --> 0:41:50.640
<v Speaker 1>feel about the chapter and.

0:41:50.560 --> 0:41:51.400
<v Speaker 4>What you got from it?

0:41:51.560 --> 0:41:53.680
<v Speaker 1>And I would like answer the questions like put a

0:41:53.680 --> 0:41:57.279
<v Speaker 1>little bookmark in the book for every chapter. Adorable on

0:41:57.360 --> 0:42:02.080
<v Speaker 1>this thirty day.

0:42:00.280 --> 0:42:01.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to shut a tear. I was like, Wow,

0:42:01.719 --> 0:42:09.000
<v Speaker 2>this is pretty serious. What is Orlando's biggest insecurity? I

0:42:09.040 --> 0:42:12.200
<v Speaker 2>don't think he has any bad bitches, don't get insecure.

0:42:12.320 --> 0:42:16.440
<v Speaker 2>I know it sounds about right. What would be a

0:42:16.480 --> 0:42:21.520
<v Speaker 2>deal breaker in a relationship? In his relationship lying close,

0:42:22.120 --> 0:42:23.400
<v Speaker 2>being ignored?

0:42:23.719 --> 0:42:25.640
<v Speaker 1>I've actually ended a relationship because of that.

0:42:25.920 --> 0:42:27.680
<v Speaker 2>What do you mean, like like someone doesn't answer the call?

0:42:27.800 --> 0:42:28.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:42:28.440 --> 0:42:30.799
<v Speaker 4>In person? So we were in person. We were having

0:42:30.800 --> 0:42:31.360
<v Speaker 4>a conversation.

0:42:31.480 --> 0:42:34.320
<v Speaker 1>She was like packing to travel to go somewhere. And

0:42:34.440 --> 0:42:36.760
<v Speaker 1>as I'm like it was a conversation about her relationship,

0:42:36.800 --> 0:42:41.160
<v Speaker 1>and as she's like actively packing, she's also like ignoring

0:42:41.200 --> 0:42:42.759
<v Speaker 1>me because I'm saying it loud enough she could hear me,

0:42:42.880 --> 0:42:44.759
<v Speaker 1>or like right in front of each other. And then

0:42:44.800 --> 0:42:47.560
<v Speaker 1>so I said, oh word. So I started to get dressed,

0:42:47.600 --> 0:42:50.000
<v Speaker 1>and as she's packing, by the time like I walked

0:42:50.040 --> 0:42:51.920
<v Speaker 1>out her apartment, we were a relationship. And by time

0:42:51.960 --> 0:42:54.239
<v Speaker 1>I got downstairs, we were broken up. And then she

0:42:54.320 --> 0:42:56.360
<v Speaker 1>called me. She's like, did you just leave the apartment?

0:42:56.400 --> 0:42:59.040
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like yeah, And also we're not together anymore.

0:42:59.560 --> 0:43:01.799
<v Speaker 2>Damn, I don't don't ignore him.

0:43:02.400 --> 0:43:04.200
<v Speaker 3>He almost hated me when that guy moved in and

0:43:04.200 --> 0:43:06.080
<v Speaker 3>I was not answering those phone yeah yeah.

0:43:07.600 --> 0:43:16.480
<v Speaker 2>Lines. Where does he like to grocery? Stop shop? Now, Ralphs? No,

0:43:20.800 --> 0:43:22.160
<v Speaker 2>Where did the fuck do you grocery shop?

0:43:22.320 --> 0:43:22.680
<v Speaker 1>Exactly?

0:43:22.800 --> 0:43:30.279
<v Speaker 2>Where do any stores with Jamaican groceries? The Bombay Indians.

0:43:30.320 --> 0:43:32.040
<v Speaker 4>Market, It's like not far from here.

0:43:32.440 --> 0:43:34.400
<v Speaker 2>I was. I think I've heard you go there. You

0:43:34.480 --> 0:43:34.880
<v Speaker 2>know where it is.

0:43:34.920 --> 0:43:37.000
<v Speaker 3>It's the it's in the fucking remember the trainer that

0:43:37.000 --> 0:43:38.399
<v Speaker 3>stopped training us because we.

0:43:38.760 --> 0:43:40.960
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I do Did I remember that?

0:43:41.200 --> 0:43:42.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:43:42.120 --> 0:43:50.960
<v Speaker 2>Wow, nothing, I remember seeing that market favorite favorite musical

0:43:51.040 --> 0:43:55.640
<v Speaker 2>artist of all time, Luther Vandros No you love no

0:43:55.760 --> 0:44:00.600
<v Speaker 2>Tendy pendergrass Yep, what is the old fucking I know?

0:44:00.800 --> 0:44:04.480
<v Speaker 2>He is a aunty for real? He is what God

0:44:04.480 --> 0:44:06.439
<v Speaker 2>we gotta insert I guess we already inserted it once.

0:44:06.480 --> 0:44:08.640
<v Speaker 2>But that fucking when we went to go see Patti

0:44:08.719 --> 0:44:17.280
<v Speaker 2>LaBelle his fucking face watching Patty? What is his guilty pleasure?

0:44:18.840 --> 0:44:23.560
<v Speaker 3>Eating anything that I cook? Eating when I eat? Guilty

0:44:23.600 --> 0:44:24.880
<v Speaker 3>pleasure eating.

0:44:24.640 --> 0:44:27.520
<v Speaker 2>When you eat? Isn't that when you're Is that called dinner?

0:44:28.040 --> 0:44:30.000
<v Speaker 4>Because all the starch eating and stuff like.

0:44:32.160 --> 0:44:35.400
<v Speaker 2>Guilty pleasure the Bad Boys Club give.

0:44:35.280 --> 0:44:41.440
<v Speaker 1>Me is the most disgusting thing. I can't stop. I

0:44:41.440 --> 0:44:42.800
<v Speaker 1>watched two other episodes.

0:44:42.400 --> 0:44:48.759
<v Speaker 2>When You're what who zeus? Did you use?

0:44:50.640 --> 0:44:55.000
<v Speaker 1>No? No? Sorry you when you left to go to

0:44:55.960 --> 0:44:57.960
<v Speaker 1>Costa Rica? Watch two episodes.

0:44:58.160 --> 0:45:04.520
<v Speaker 2>What is his favorite porn category? Anal DDP or some

0:45:04.600 --> 0:45:12.279
<v Speaker 2>shitp anal compilation? Yeah, I mean something like that. How

0:45:12.360 --> 0:45:14.080
<v Speaker 2>old were you? How old was he when he lost

0:45:14.080 --> 0:45:24.480
<v Speaker 2>his virginity? Twelve lower nine nine? I don't know, Oh,

0:45:24.480 --> 0:45:26.360
<v Speaker 2>oh where was it? He doesn't know, He doesn't know.

0:45:26.360 --> 0:45:26.759
<v Speaker 1>Where it was.

0:45:27.120 --> 0:45:28.000
<v Speaker 2>How did you not know.

0:45:28.160 --> 0:45:28.879
<v Speaker 1>It's years old?

0:45:30.480 --> 0:45:33.080
<v Speaker 2>That's very young. Yeah, the girl was like twelve.

0:45:32.920 --> 0:45:35.399
<v Speaker 1>Right, Yeah, she's like eleven twelve, Yeah, that's what.

0:45:35.320 --> 0:45:38.080
<v Speaker 2>It was, very young, Like, how did you know where

0:45:38.080 --> 0:45:38.440
<v Speaker 2>to put it?

0:45:38.440 --> 0:45:41.279
<v Speaker 4>Then she told him, great coach.

0:45:43.560 --> 0:45:48.839
<v Speaker 2>What moment did you know that you loved her? What

0:45:48.880 --> 0:45:50.160
<v Speaker 2>moment did he know that he loves me?

0:45:50.800 --> 0:45:55.120
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, bacalar, I loved the other.

0:45:55.320 --> 0:45:57.240
<v Speaker 2>Oh, Mexico, in Mexico.

0:45:57.800 --> 0:45:59.399
<v Speaker 4>It was in Mexico on the boat.

0:45:59.520 --> 0:46:02.360
<v Speaker 2>A moment when you when you did too many mushrooms.

0:46:02.719 --> 0:46:06.880
<v Speaker 3>Oh, when the fireworks on the top of the d.

0:46:07.040 --> 0:46:08.759
<v Speaker 2>J A strack, the fireworks.

0:46:08.760 --> 0:46:11.200
<v Speaker 3>We kissed, when the count is all like within like

0:46:11.239 --> 0:46:15.759
<v Speaker 3>a few days after creating your blood blonde, after I

0:46:15.760 --> 0:46:17.640
<v Speaker 3>allowed him to put his blood on my chest. That

0:46:17.680 --> 0:46:28.520
<v Speaker 3>makes sense. What is his biggest fear losing me?

0:46:29.120 --> 0:46:34.759
<v Speaker 2>Yes? And also poverty. I know it's gonna be one

0:46:34.800 --> 0:46:35.840
<v Speaker 2>of the other, like being poor.

0:46:35.960 --> 0:46:39.319
<v Speaker 3>Poverty is like I've never heard of, like poverty, this

0:46:39.320 --> 0:46:45.279
<v Speaker 3>poor poverty.

0:46:42.840 --> 0:46:45.200
<v Speaker 2>Mine too, babes ship.

0:46:45.360 --> 0:46:50.520
<v Speaker 3>What is your biggest fite poverty? What is his favorite

0:46:50.520 --> 0:46:53.120
<v Speaker 3>sex position from the back or.

0:46:53.080 --> 0:46:57.439
<v Speaker 2>That Yeah, finished that one where I put my leg

0:46:57.520 --> 0:46:58.640
<v Speaker 2>here and.

0:46:58.520 --> 0:47:00.840
<v Speaker 4>Here like like we're scissor.

0:47:01.000 --> 0:47:04.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, well I just think doggy. Well, my legs

0:47:04.200 --> 0:47:08.239
<v Speaker 2>are closed. Mela, I'm the position. You're his favorite? Are

0:47:08.280 --> 0:47:09.880
<v Speaker 2>you trying to do this for Clout?

0:47:11.600 --> 0:47:14.400
<v Speaker 4>Very sensitive about you. The biggest is losing you.

0:47:19.200 --> 0:47:24.640
<v Speaker 2>Would he prefer to save or spend money? Spend save,

0:47:24.719 --> 0:47:27.840
<v Speaker 2>but I end up spending. Who is this celebrity crush

0:47:29.000 --> 0:47:34.399
<v Speaker 2>fucking a lot of really? Yeah? And someone else though too,

0:47:36.040 --> 0:47:37.920
<v Speaker 2>I don't know the other one, Ari Lennox.

0:47:38.280 --> 0:47:41.040
<v Speaker 1>Oh, yeah, Lotto was the woman in my dreams I

0:47:41.160 --> 0:47:43.080
<v Speaker 1>never had a crush on and I had a dream

0:47:43.120 --> 0:47:44.719
<v Speaker 1>that I just went on a regular ass date with

0:47:44.760 --> 0:47:46.640
<v Speaker 1>Lotto and I woke up and I was like, she's

0:47:46.920 --> 0:47:48.360
<v Speaker 1>she's actually kind of cute.

0:47:48.480 --> 0:47:50.200
<v Speaker 4>And I had a crush on her. Ever since, Wow,

0:47:50.400 --> 0:47:51.040
<v Speaker 4>I do like her.

0:47:51.360 --> 0:47:53.759
<v Speaker 2>She's wraps have grown on me a lot over the

0:47:53.840 --> 0:48:00.399
<v Speaker 2>last three months. How does he feel about non monogamy? Oh,

0:48:00.480 --> 0:48:05.960
<v Speaker 2>he's he's with it, he says, sure. Tiring. It's a

0:48:06.000 --> 0:48:06.319
<v Speaker 2>lot of.

0:48:06.320 --> 0:48:09.720
<v Speaker 1>Energy when you do non monogamy, like right with intention

0:48:09.840 --> 0:48:11.319
<v Speaker 1>and care and not just like oh I just want

0:48:11.480 --> 0:48:13.759
<v Speaker 1>like a bunch of people that are into me. Like

0:48:13.800 --> 0:48:15.920
<v Speaker 1>it is tiring. It takes a lot of energy.

0:48:16.480 --> 0:48:18.880
<v Speaker 2>Were you non monogamous in all of like most of

0:48:18.920 --> 0:48:19.640
<v Speaker 2>your relationships?

0:48:19.640 --> 0:48:21.520
<v Speaker 4>No, it's my first nonogamous.

0:48:21.360 --> 0:48:24.080
<v Speaker 2>You, Mila were, and it wasn't triggering at all for

0:48:24.120 --> 0:48:26.959
<v Speaker 2>you because you're not jealous. No, you don't have any

0:48:27.080 --> 0:48:29.880
<v Speaker 2>like tiny inkling of any sort of jealousy position.

0:48:30.480 --> 0:48:32.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but it's not like I don't get jealous about

0:48:32.560 --> 0:48:34.719
<v Speaker 1>the things that usually I get jealous about, things like

0:48:34.920 --> 0:48:37.360
<v Speaker 1>me getting up attention. Are you getting somebody else more

0:48:37.360 --> 0:48:38.960
<v Speaker 1>attention than me? That's what I'm justus about, not you

0:48:39.000 --> 0:48:40.840
<v Speaker 1>fucking somebody else or doing things.

0:48:40.880 --> 0:48:42.480
<v Speaker 2>Do you think that you could open up your relationship

0:48:42.520 --> 0:48:45.640
<v Speaker 2>now that it's been closed for however long it's been closed?

0:48:46.280 --> 0:48:46.680
<v Speaker 2>Me or him?

0:48:46.760 --> 0:48:48.560
<v Speaker 4>Either can can and I?

0:48:48.680 --> 0:48:51.719
<v Speaker 1>Or what it? Yes? Are we going to its? Like?

0:48:51.760 --> 0:48:53.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't think we really necessary?

0:48:53.239 --> 0:48:58.520
<v Speaker 2>No, that's not happening. Only group three shut up? I'm

0:49:00.840 --> 0:49:07.839
<v Speaker 2>you shut them'll tell them what you shut the fuck up.

0:49:08.080 --> 0:49:10.320
<v Speaker 2>I don't even know what's a group threesome.

0:49:13.160 --> 0:49:16.440
<v Speaker 4>Like group three somes, not single threemes, just group three.

0:49:16.920 --> 0:49:19.399
<v Speaker 3>There will be no when I made no group three

0:49:19.400 --> 0:49:24.719
<v Speaker 3>somemes at any hotels, bitch, and no more than five

0:49:24.760 --> 0:49:28.680
<v Speaker 3>shots of tequila to ensure that never happens.

0:49:30.800 --> 0:49:37.600
<v Speaker 2>What is his favorite memory of your relationship The fireworks? Yeah,

0:49:38.640 --> 0:49:39.760
<v Speaker 2>twenty one New Year's kiss.

0:49:41.000 --> 0:49:43.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's when we were kissing. We were on strooms

0:49:43.200 --> 0:49:45.720
<v Speaker 1>were wild, and it was so great. Everything was colorful.

0:49:45.760 --> 0:49:48.440
<v Speaker 1>Remember how beautiful everything was. And as we're kissing, I

0:49:48.480 --> 0:49:50.279
<v Speaker 1>was holding her up and I opened my eyes and

0:49:50.320 --> 0:49:53.160
<v Speaker 1>this firework goes off behind her head while we're kissing.

0:49:53.200 --> 0:49:55.719
<v Speaker 2>Small it was pretty magical ship, you remember. I was

0:49:55.800 --> 0:49:57.919
<v Speaker 2>very yard. I had my own magical experience. I'm pretty

0:49:57.920 --> 0:50:00.640
<v Speaker 2>sure we made out. Everybody made Yeah, make out with us,

0:50:00.680 --> 0:50:01.640
<v Speaker 2>You make out with us.

0:50:02.000 --> 0:50:04.000
<v Speaker 4>Let's make out at the beach.

0:50:05.920 --> 0:50:07.399
<v Speaker 2>We hadn't been at the house in a long time.

0:50:08.640 --> 0:50:10.560
<v Speaker 2>It was it was like our first time we'd heard

0:50:10.640 --> 0:50:12.520
<v Speaker 2>live music with a person in front of us playing

0:50:12.520 --> 0:50:14.080
<v Speaker 2>it for like a year, where like we and we

0:50:14.120 --> 0:50:16.040
<v Speaker 2>were close to a track, like we were in front

0:50:16.080 --> 0:50:18.000
<v Speaker 2>of his DJ. But I have I don't think I've

0:50:18.000 --> 0:50:22.120
<v Speaker 2>ever danced that hard ever ever. I never danced that

0:50:22.200 --> 0:50:25.080
<v Speaker 2>hard in my life. I was like sweating. I remember

0:50:25.120 --> 0:50:28.000
<v Speaker 2>being out of breath, but I couldn't stop. So much fun.

0:50:29.000 --> 0:50:33.200
<v Speaker 2>It was so much sparkle scir I was like a

0:50:33.280 --> 0:50:35.759
<v Speaker 2>kid at Disneyland on four hundred pounds of candy. I

0:50:35.880 --> 0:50:39.520
<v Speaker 2>was like, this is the best day every it was.

0:50:39.560 --> 0:50:41.839
<v Speaker 2>It was, it was fucking amazing. Was no I will

0:50:41.880 --> 0:50:42.719
<v Speaker 2>ever forget that trip.

0:50:42.760 --> 0:50:43.440
<v Speaker 1>That was amazing.

0:50:44.920 --> 0:50:47.320
<v Speaker 2>What do you wish that Mela saw more in herself?

0:50:48.960 --> 0:50:50.960
<v Speaker 2>What does he wish that you saw more in yourself?

0:50:52.000 --> 0:50:57.520
<v Speaker 3>Like being a boss bitch, like a bossy, like dominant,

0:50:57.760 --> 0:51:00.560
<v Speaker 3>like power move bitch that she.

0:51:00.520 --> 0:51:05.040
<v Speaker 2>Doesn't need to be scared to make decisions. I can't

0:51:05.040 --> 0:51:07.920
<v Speaker 2>make any decisions. You gets annoyed, Which where are we

0:51:07.960 --> 0:51:09.920
<v Speaker 2>going make the decision? Right?

0:51:12.719 --> 0:51:14.480
<v Speaker 1>Her other thing is like not making a decision, but

0:51:14.520 --> 0:51:16.840
<v Speaker 1>like suggesting the decision, like they're.

0:51:16.640 --> 0:51:18.200
<v Speaker 3>Getting mad if I don't like it, Like why the

0:51:18.200 --> 0:51:21.239
<v Speaker 3>fuck did we do this, bitch? Because you didn't decide.

0:51:22.520 --> 0:51:25.560
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, your boss and your decisions are great and

0:51:25.640 --> 0:51:27.319
<v Speaker 1>even if they're bad, I'm going to be here to

0:51:27.400 --> 0:51:28.200
<v Speaker 1>help you out of them.

0:51:28.400 --> 0:51:28.759
<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

0:51:28.880 --> 0:51:30.360
<v Speaker 1>You don't have to be scared to make the decisions.

0:51:30.360 --> 0:51:31.040
<v Speaker 2>Thank you, babe.

0:51:31.239 --> 0:51:31.759
<v Speaker 1>I love that.

0:51:31.840 --> 0:51:38.320
<v Speaker 2>I love this. Okay, now it's your turn, Orlando perfect.

0:51:39.040 --> 0:51:39.600
<v Speaker 1>Why are you staring?

0:51:41.560 --> 0:51:43.440
<v Speaker 2>What you know? I'm reading this and I'm like, do

0:51:43.480 --> 0:51:48.719
<v Speaker 2>I know anything about my Jesus Christ. What is Jamila's

0:51:48.719 --> 0:51:49.400
<v Speaker 2>favorite color?

0:51:49.760 --> 0:51:52.120
<v Speaker 4>Green and black?

0:51:53.480 --> 0:51:55.120
<v Speaker 2>What is her overall pet peeve?

0:51:56.080 --> 0:52:01.360
<v Speaker 1>Her overall pet peeve is, Oh, scraping on a plate?

0:52:02.160 --> 0:52:07.719
<v Speaker 2>Close, tapping unnecessary noises? Yeah, I hate scraping. You want

0:52:07.719 --> 0:52:13.040
<v Speaker 2>two kids? Okay, pet peeve? When it comes to.

0:52:13.400 --> 0:52:14.719
<v Speaker 4>You, do I do?

0:52:14.760 --> 0:52:21.640
<v Speaker 1>That's a scraping on plates? Or like when I blow

0:52:21.800 --> 0:52:22.640
<v Speaker 1>snad on my nose?

0:52:22.760 --> 0:52:27.000
<v Speaker 2>I hate hate that too. Wait what he.

0:52:26.120 --> 0:52:29.920
<v Speaker 3>Does this fucking disgusting thing where he literally will just

0:52:29.920 --> 0:52:39.000
<v Speaker 3>be like I would hold on like inside, like indoor, no,

0:52:39.600 --> 0:52:42.480
<v Speaker 3>like on a hike, Like, just don't do that.

0:52:42.560 --> 0:52:45.080
<v Speaker 2>No one needs to see that. That's not it. That's

0:52:45.120 --> 0:52:46.920
<v Speaker 2>one that should be on their that. I forgot about that.

0:52:47.320 --> 0:52:49.440
<v Speaker 2>Not cleaning his hairs out of the bathroom.

0:52:49.719 --> 0:52:52.560
<v Speaker 1>Oh you really don't like that. I well, you only

0:52:52.600 --> 0:52:54.000
<v Speaker 1>mentioned it from times like I.

0:52:54.200 --> 0:52:58.360
<v Speaker 2>Say it like twenty times. Your hair is fucking everywhere.

0:52:58.760 --> 0:53:06.839
<v Speaker 2>It sheds everywhere everywhere. What is his childhood pet's name

0:53:07.000 --> 0:53:08.880
<v Speaker 2>or what is her childhood pets name? He's not gonna

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<v Speaker 2>know this.

0:53:09.560 --> 0:53:10.760
<v Speaker 4>I'm not gonna but it was a dog.

0:53:10.640 --> 0:53:15.759
<v Speaker 2>Though he wrote something Juann, didn't you name?

0:53:18.320 --> 0:53:20.560
<v Speaker 4>Did you have only one or more than one?

0:53:21.200 --> 0:53:27.920
<v Speaker 2>One only one. What would what would you say is

0:53:27.960 --> 0:53:30.080
<v Speaker 2>her best What would she say is her best quality?

0:53:30.560 --> 0:53:37.840
<v Speaker 1>Her best quality is that it's something about people like

0:53:38.800 --> 0:53:43.640
<v Speaker 1>he was something people pleasing. Yeah, empathy, empathy, empathy for people.

0:53:43.680 --> 0:53:44.319
<v Speaker 1>I hate that ship.

0:53:45.200 --> 0:53:46.160
<v Speaker 4>They don't want to fuck with you.

0:53:48.080 --> 0:53:53.520
<v Speaker 2>The driver is trying to find us. Don't cancel it.

0:53:53.760 --> 0:53:56.880
<v Speaker 2>He's almost Remember she did that in New Orleans? Is

0:53:56.920 --> 0:54:05.479
<v Speaker 2>that New Orleans? He came through. He was like, thanks

0:54:05.480 --> 0:54:07.080
<v Speaker 2>for being patience my first time driving.

0:54:07.120 --> 0:54:11.480
<v Speaker 3>I was like, it's cool, not these motherfuckers you.

0:54:12.400 --> 0:54:14.640
<v Speaker 2>I was like, he's coming. I'm like, hell, if you

0:54:14.680 --> 0:54:16.680
<v Speaker 2>make a left, I was so easy to make a

0:54:16.719 --> 0:54:17.200
<v Speaker 2>left on shoes.

0:54:17.280 --> 0:54:17.800
<v Speaker 4>She never been on.

0:54:21.000 --> 0:54:25.520
<v Speaker 2>You gotta have face in people? What is what is

0:54:25.560 --> 0:54:28.320
<v Speaker 2>her worst what is his way? What is her worst quality?

0:54:29.800 --> 0:54:35.759
<v Speaker 1>Your worst quality is you think? Your worst quality your

0:54:35.760 --> 0:54:37.920
<v Speaker 1>decision making? Taking a long to get dressed.

0:54:38.360 --> 0:54:39.600
<v Speaker 2>I don't take long to get dressed.

0:54:40.520 --> 0:54:41.480
<v Speaker 4>Oh how messy you are?

0:54:42.480 --> 0:54:45.560
<v Speaker 2>No, none of those things. Damn speaking without thinking.

0:54:46.280 --> 0:54:47.799
<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, that's you do that.

0:54:48.160 --> 0:54:50.719
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I say ship. Probably shouldn't have said it.

0:54:50.800 --> 0:54:53.120
<v Speaker 1>Wasn't there was at Erica's dinner. You're about to say

0:54:53.120 --> 0:54:57.640
<v Speaker 1>sound I was like, no, what what were doing it

0:54:57.760 --> 0:54:59.960
<v Speaker 1>was an awkward sounds like m mmmm.

0:55:02.800 --> 0:55:04.680
<v Speaker 2>What is something she's most sensitive about?

0:55:09.480 --> 0:55:12.279
<v Speaker 1>Her child? The podcast?

0:55:12.880 --> 0:55:20.960
<v Speaker 3>Everything personally, everything everything personal, everything, personal ships, personal.

0:55:23.120 --> 0:55:26.520
<v Speaker 2>Anything personal to me? What has she accomplished that she's

0:55:26.560 --> 0:55:32.640
<v Speaker 2>most proud of, this podcast and motherhood? What is her

0:55:32.680 --> 0:55:36.719
<v Speaker 2>biggest insecurity? I don't know if he's gonna give us.

0:55:43.440 --> 0:55:44.560
<v Speaker 4>I don't know breaking out.

0:55:46.239 --> 0:55:49.759
<v Speaker 3>I've accepted that I was gonna set my scan.

0:55:49.920 --> 0:55:54.879
<v Speaker 2>I'm accepted that spelling terribly. Oh yeah, you spelled terribly right.

0:55:57.560 --> 0:55:59.200
<v Speaker 4>How were we supposed to know? If you keep spelling things right?

0:55:59.280 --> 0:56:02.480
<v Speaker 2>Well, you know, text has saved me. What would be

0:56:02.520 --> 0:56:06.480
<v Speaker 2>a deal breaker in your relationship with her or any relationship?

0:56:06.680 --> 0:56:08.560
<v Speaker 1>Another baby?

0:56:09.280 --> 0:56:10.040
<v Speaker 4>Well another.

0:56:11.840 --> 0:56:14.680
<v Speaker 1>If I had a baby.

0:56:15.400 --> 0:56:19.120
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I thought, like that I'm pregnant. I'm out.

0:56:20.320 --> 0:56:21.520
<v Speaker 1>I can't believe you did this to me.

0:56:23.920 --> 0:56:29.040
<v Speaker 2>No, that's not it. Uh physical abuse or verbal Oh right,

0:56:29.320 --> 0:56:30.839
<v Speaker 2>I forgot about the baby thing that would be done

0:56:30.880 --> 0:56:32.160
<v Speaker 2>to every time I tell him, He's like, you don't

0:56:32.160 --> 0:56:33.879
<v Speaker 2>have unconditional love for me. I was like, I guess

0:56:33.920 --> 0:56:36.080
<v Speaker 2>not the baby. I think he has a baby on me.

0:56:36.160 --> 0:56:38.920
<v Speaker 3>I was like, probably, He's like, I would stay with you.

0:56:38.960 --> 0:56:40.560
<v Speaker 3>I was like you can buy my belly from another nigga.

0:56:40.640 --> 0:56:43.080
<v Speaker 2>He's like, yeah, I would just wait till it happens.

0:56:43.600 --> 0:56:44.120
<v Speaker 1>What happened?

0:56:44.719 --> 0:56:50.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying, where does Jamila like to grocery? I mean,

0:56:50.560 --> 0:56:53.120
<v Speaker 2>where does her wait? Where does meal like to grocery shop?

0:56:54.200 --> 0:56:54.560
<v Speaker 1>Rolpse?

0:56:55.320 --> 0:57:02.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, basic instacart? What's her favorite musical artist of all time?

0:57:07.040 --> 0:57:13.400
<v Speaker 1>Damn? You like a lot of music? I was gonna say, no, it's.

0:57:13.239 --> 0:57:14.799
<v Speaker 2>Not it's not.

0:57:16.640 --> 0:57:16.800
<v Speaker 3>Oh.

0:57:16.920 --> 0:57:18.400
<v Speaker 2>I thought he was cool and jay I was.

0:57:18.320 --> 0:57:21.880
<v Speaker 4>Like, what, I don't think I'm gonna get this on?

0:57:21.920 --> 0:57:22.360
<v Speaker 4>What is it?

0:57:22.680 --> 0:57:23.040
<v Speaker 2>Prince?

0:57:23.520 --> 0:57:23.760
<v Speaker 1>Is it?

0:57:23.840 --> 0:57:26.800
<v Speaker 2>I ain't got no money. You don't really listen to

0:57:26.840 --> 0:57:28.280
<v Speaker 2>Prince I love him though, you.

0:57:28.240 --> 0:57:30.320
<v Speaker 4>Listen to a lot of indie music I am.

0:57:30.080 --> 0:57:33.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm probably probably think I'm very boring Indian music like

0:57:33.640 --> 0:57:36.280
<v Speaker 2>indie like I don't know. I like chill music. That's

0:57:36.320 --> 0:57:39.360
<v Speaker 2>like music come to my home? And do you like this?

0:57:41.240 --> 0:57:44.240
<v Speaker 2>What is her guilty pleasure? I don't even know what

0:57:44.280 --> 0:57:44.640
<v Speaker 2>I wrote.

0:57:45.680 --> 0:57:48.280
<v Speaker 1>Your guilty pressure is? What do you feel good?

0:57:48.880 --> 0:57:50.320
<v Speaker 2>I don't really feel guilty about this. I don't know

0:57:50.360 --> 0:57:50.840
<v Speaker 2>why I brought that?

0:57:51.960 --> 0:57:52.360
<v Speaker 1>Was it our?

0:57:52.680 --> 0:57:54.920
<v Speaker 4>Is it our late night? Like role playing?

0:57:55.560 --> 0:57:58.400
<v Speaker 2>No? I don't feel Can you stop now?

0:57:59.240 --> 0:58:02.240
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I don't know that food. I was gonna say

0:58:02.280 --> 0:58:05.440
<v Speaker 1>starch too. I don't think you you feel guilty eating

0:58:05.800 --> 0:58:07.560
<v Speaker 1>no fucking out.

0:58:08.760 --> 0:58:11.360
<v Speaker 2>I met a Thanksgiving dinner last night for no reason.

0:58:12.920 --> 0:58:14.640
<v Speaker 2>What is her favorite porn category?

0:58:18.720 --> 0:58:22.040
<v Speaker 1>Uh? I just said it was lesbians? Is like something

0:58:22.080 --> 0:58:24.760
<v Speaker 1>with not heterosexuals? Oh? Or is just now and something

0:58:24.800 --> 0:58:27.040
<v Speaker 1>that heterosexual? Gay men?

0:58:27.440 --> 0:58:28.720
<v Speaker 4>It might be gay men or two women.

0:58:28.840 --> 0:58:30.560
<v Speaker 2>You've never seen me watch lesbian porn?

0:58:30.600 --> 0:58:31.800
<v Speaker 4>Ever't you watch porn?

0:58:31.920 --> 0:58:32.200
<v Speaker 1>Really?

0:58:32.360 --> 0:58:33.439
<v Speaker 2>I don't really watch porn.

0:58:33.520 --> 0:58:36.400
<v Speaker 1>Oh wait, wait, no, no, no, stepbrother and like, oh yeah,

0:58:36.440 --> 0:58:36.760
<v Speaker 1>that is it.

0:58:37.440 --> 0:58:39.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm surprised. That's not I forgot.

0:58:39.120 --> 0:58:41.440
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know that's the wrong mms.

0:58:41.760 --> 0:58:46.440
<v Speaker 2>It's never gonna let that girl threesome. How old was

0:58:46.480 --> 0:58:48.600
<v Speaker 2>she when? How old was she when she lost her virginity?

0:58:48.640 --> 0:58:49.320
<v Speaker 2>And where was she?

0:58:51.880 --> 0:58:53.040
<v Speaker 4>You're like fifteen sixteen?

0:58:53.080 --> 0:58:53.360
<v Speaker 1>At home?

0:58:53.680 --> 0:58:53.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

0:58:53.920 --> 0:58:54.240
<v Speaker 2>I think?

0:58:54.280 --> 0:58:57.600
<v Speaker 3>So what moment did you know?

0:58:57.680 --> 0:58:59.240
<v Speaker 2>What moment did she know that she loved you?

0:59:02.440 --> 0:59:06.000
<v Speaker 1>After Mexico? After a trip in Mexico? It was it

0:59:06.040 --> 0:59:07.000
<v Speaker 1>later before.

0:59:07.400 --> 0:59:11.760
<v Speaker 2>During baccolara on mushrooms? No, that's wrong, okay, well that's

0:59:11.760 --> 0:59:12.440
<v Speaker 2>what you wrote.

0:59:14.280 --> 0:59:14.640
<v Speaker 1>You love me?

0:59:14.720 --> 0:59:18.600
<v Speaker 2>Wait before that I think, I, uh wait, what's the question.

0:59:19.040 --> 0:59:20.880
<v Speaker 2>What moment did you know you loved him? I met

0:59:20.920 --> 0:59:23.280
<v Speaker 2>when I dropped you off at the airport at Eliet.

0:59:23.480 --> 0:59:26.800
<v Speaker 2>How much did we get? I thought that was I

0:59:26.840 --> 0:59:27.880
<v Speaker 2>read it wrong. I read it wrong.

0:59:28.000 --> 0:59:30.600
<v Speaker 4>The first week, Oh wow, I didn't you know you

0:59:30.600 --> 0:59:30.920
<v Speaker 4>loved him?

0:59:30.920 --> 0:59:33.240
<v Speaker 2>The first week we said, we told each other we

0:59:33.280 --> 0:59:35.880
<v Speaker 2>loved each other. That week had sex, like I love you,

0:59:36.120 --> 0:59:36.400
<v Speaker 2>I love you.

0:59:36.520 --> 0:59:39.240
<v Speaker 1>To read this conversation like, you know, people like us,

0:59:39.360 --> 0:59:41.120
<v Speaker 1>it's okay for us to say I love you because

0:59:41.160 --> 0:59:42.520
<v Speaker 1>we just have so much love to give.

0:59:42.560 --> 0:59:44.440
<v Speaker 3>So I was like, I know I love people, just

0:59:44.520 --> 0:59:45.960
<v Speaker 3>mean I'm in love with them, and you're like same,

0:59:46.080 --> 0:59:48.160
<v Speaker 3>and so I think we took that as a green

0:59:48.200 --> 0:59:49.280
<v Speaker 3>light to be like I love you.

0:59:49.440 --> 0:59:49.760
<v Speaker 2>Got it.

0:59:49.960 --> 0:59:53.040
<v Speaker 1>But the Baccalar it was part of the thirty days

0:59:53.040 --> 0:59:53.520
<v Speaker 1>in Mexico.

0:59:53.640 --> 0:59:54.760
<v Speaker 2>I think I knew that it was.

0:59:55.000 --> 0:59:56.840
<v Speaker 4>It was like this is a person.

0:59:57.120 --> 0:59:58.960
<v Speaker 1>That's when. That's what we knew in Baccala.

0:59:59.320 --> 1:00:00.000
<v Speaker 2>She's getting married.

1:00:00.560 --> 1:00:04.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what is her biggest fear?

1:00:06.600 --> 1:00:17.840
<v Speaker 1>Her biggest fear is, Wow, it's your biggest fear? I

1:00:17.880 --> 1:00:21.120
<v Speaker 1>don't know, wrote I don't know what your biggest fare is.

1:00:21.640 --> 1:00:23.640
<v Speaker 4>I don't know losing family.

1:00:24.000 --> 1:00:27.280
<v Speaker 2>Death is someone I love. Favorite sex position?

1:00:29.560 --> 1:00:32.520
<v Speaker 1>Uh, either when she's laying flat on her stomach or

1:00:32.560 --> 1:00:34.440
<v Speaker 1>doggy style from.

1:00:34.240 --> 1:00:36.560
<v Speaker 2>The back or hetero scissor. I've never heard of heterosis.

1:00:37.160 --> 1:00:37.960
<v Speaker 2>What herois?

1:00:38.000 --> 1:00:38.080
<v Speaker 1>Oh?

1:00:38.080 --> 1:00:39.640
<v Speaker 4>You want to China.

1:00:39.760 --> 1:00:40.200
<v Speaker 1>It's like.

1:00:41.680 --> 1:00:46.640
<v Speaker 4>It's like this, but we're on the bed, so it's flats.

1:00:46.680 --> 1:00:47.680
<v Speaker 4>Were like kind of like scissoring.

1:00:47.880 --> 1:00:49.680
<v Speaker 2>Oh, because you can really get in there.

1:00:49.840 --> 1:00:52.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, She's like, whatever you do during scissoring, you're doing it.

1:00:52.560 --> 1:00:53.720
<v Speaker 1>But does it dick in you? Now?

1:00:54.240 --> 1:00:56.400
<v Speaker 2>Is that how? Bitch? And scissors backwards like this? I mean,

1:00:57.280 --> 1:00:58.920
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I'm not a love their formal lesbian.

1:00:59.680 --> 1:01:00.800
<v Speaker 4>It's like this, this is one too.

1:01:04.600 --> 1:01:13.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh god it okay, I's gonna love that perfect.

1:01:15.040 --> 1:01:19.280
<v Speaker 3>Maybe it's for Patreon, epic physician, go to Patreon.

1:01:22.640 --> 1:01:25.800
<v Speaker 2>What would you? Okay? Would she? Which would Mila prefer

1:01:25.920 --> 1:01:27.040
<v Speaker 2>to save or spend money?

1:01:27.320 --> 1:01:27.680
<v Speaker 1>Spend?

1:01:28.520 --> 1:01:32.400
<v Speaker 2>Spend when I have enough saved? Who is her celebrity crush?

1:01:33.000 --> 1:01:35.040
<v Speaker 1>Her celebrity cush is Janna?

1:01:35.720 --> 1:01:39.480
<v Speaker 2>No, I let him go. I don't think his body

1:01:39.560 --> 1:01:40.720
<v Speaker 2>is nice enough. Got it?

1:01:40.760 --> 1:01:42.480
<v Speaker 1>Okay? So who is it?

1:01:42.960 --> 1:01:43.840
<v Speaker 2>Ah?

1:01:43.880 --> 1:01:45.120
<v Speaker 1>Who is it? I said?

1:01:46.040 --> 1:01:48.760
<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, okay, you're not gonna guess again, Jason Momoa.

1:01:50.200 --> 1:01:52.200
<v Speaker 3>Oh he's not a celebrity, but that guy from my

1:01:52.280 --> 1:01:54.520
<v Speaker 3>Instagram stories, the witchy man.

1:01:55.440 --> 1:01:59.640
<v Speaker 2>The witchy man with the witchy wife. Yeah yeah, building Akia.

1:02:00.680 --> 1:02:02.840
<v Speaker 2>How does Mila feel about non monogamy?

1:02:04.480 --> 1:02:05.240
<v Speaker 1>Not anymore?

1:02:06.120 --> 1:02:08.960
<v Speaker 2>If it works for you, great, doesn't exactly work in mine?

1:02:11.120 --> 1:02:16.320
<v Speaker 2>Evil ass last them. If for all people listening, if

1:02:16.360 --> 1:02:20.000
<v Speaker 2>you go back four years of just our content and

1:02:20.160 --> 1:02:24.080
<v Speaker 2>us all saying that we will, monogamy is not for us,

1:02:24.080 --> 1:02:30.439
<v Speaker 2>four years straight, solid like relentless, no monogamary over here.

1:02:31.080 --> 1:02:35.960
<v Speaker 3>Look at this, Look at this pitch called transformation. It's crazy.

1:02:36.120 --> 1:02:38.560
<v Speaker 1>Bring on the monogamy, have the plate of it.

1:02:39.480 --> 1:02:43.680
<v Speaker 2>Favorite memory in your relationship, her favorite memory in that relationship.

1:02:46.120 --> 1:02:50.520
<v Speaker 1>Mexico in twenty twenty one. The New Year's either New

1:02:50.600 --> 1:02:51.479
<v Speaker 1>Year's or on the boat.

1:02:51.720 --> 1:02:55.640
<v Speaker 2>No baccoalare mushroom. I didn't mean to write, yeah I

1:02:55.680 --> 1:02:58.200
<v Speaker 2>met that for that, Yeah, bacala, what does she wish

1:02:58.280 --> 1:02:59.360
<v Speaker 2>you saw more of than yourself?

1:03:00.240 --> 1:03:00.840
<v Speaker 1>Oh?

1:03:04.200 --> 1:03:04.800
<v Speaker 4>I don't know that.

1:03:04.920 --> 1:03:11.680
<v Speaker 1>I am. I already see her a great I am.

1:03:11.720 --> 1:03:14.640
<v Speaker 4>It's very hard when you call yourself a blessing. It's

1:03:14.760 --> 1:03:19.600
<v Speaker 4>very hot. I don't know that I can accomplish things.

1:03:20.480 --> 1:03:22.800
<v Speaker 2>How intelligent, driven and talented you are.

1:03:23.760 --> 1:03:25.760
<v Speaker 1>That is true. I do wish I saw that myself.

1:03:26.600 --> 1:03:29.800
<v Speaker 2>And that's it. Guys. You guys have really well, pretty good.

1:03:29.800 --> 1:03:32.080
<v Speaker 4>I know each other really well for unmarried couple.

1:03:33.040 --> 1:03:36.240
<v Speaker 2>Marriage detect dictates whether or not you some pe married

1:03:36.240 --> 1:03:39.720
<v Speaker 2>people and we shut up. Some married people do not

1:03:39.840 --> 1:03:41.800
<v Speaker 2>know each other that well. But that's all I have

1:03:41.840 --> 1:03:45.760
<v Speaker 2>to say about that. It's true, that's true. Should we

1:03:45.800 --> 1:03:46.920
<v Speaker 2>should we put this on our patreon.

1:03:46.960 --> 1:03:49.080
<v Speaker 3>If you're thinking about getting married, first ask your husband

1:03:49.080 --> 1:03:49.800
<v Speaker 3>these questions.

1:03:50.640 --> 1:03:54.360
<v Speaker 2>Should you go put these questions on Patreon?

1:03:54.520 --> 1:03:56.600
<v Speaker 3>And then you can go and see how much you

1:03:56.640 --> 1:04:02.080
<v Speaker 3>know your partner and then you can cry or be happy. No,

1:04:02.200 --> 1:04:04.320
<v Speaker 3>I think these are like, I think these are questions

1:04:04.320 --> 1:04:07.480
<v Speaker 3>that are not that crazy, but like you don't always

1:04:07.600 --> 1:04:12.680
<v Speaker 3>think to ask even like your dogs, your partner's dog

1:04:12.720 --> 1:04:15.360
<v Speaker 3>as a child, or like yeah, and also like what

1:04:15.400 --> 1:04:19.080
<v Speaker 3>you wish you partner saw more of than him or herself. Yeah,

1:04:19.160 --> 1:04:21.200
<v Speaker 3>because like you almost get scared to tell them too,

1:04:21.240 --> 1:04:23.280
<v Speaker 3>because it makes them it could make them feel like

1:04:24.080 --> 1:04:26.440
<v Speaker 3>obviously insecure, they're not enough of those things.

1:04:26.800 --> 1:04:29.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's easy to get defensive in that kind of moment,

1:04:30.840 --> 1:04:31.040
<v Speaker 1>But I.

1:04:31.040 --> 1:04:33.400
<v Speaker 2>Think it's an opportunity for like to come together and

1:04:33.480 --> 1:04:35.080
<v Speaker 2>kind of get to know each other more and like

1:04:35.480 --> 1:04:38.919
<v Speaker 2>be able to dive deeper into these questions to bring

1:04:38.960 --> 1:04:39.920
<v Speaker 2>you guys closer together.

1:04:40.280 --> 1:04:42.880
<v Speaker 1>I love learning new things about Mila, and I love

1:04:42.920 --> 1:04:44.640
<v Speaker 1>when she tells anythings I always tell her, like, I

1:04:44.640 --> 1:04:46.440
<v Speaker 1>can only love you more the more I get to

1:04:46.480 --> 1:04:49.000
<v Speaker 1>know about you, Like we're already at that point where

1:04:49.200 --> 1:04:51.920
<v Speaker 1>it makes no sense not to tell me something because

1:04:52.160 --> 1:04:54.120
<v Speaker 1>whatever you tell me, I'm going to find out more,

1:04:54.160 --> 1:04:56.920
<v Speaker 1>and like whatever details I have of you, like I

1:04:56.960 --> 1:04:57.520
<v Speaker 1>can now.

1:04:57.520 --> 1:05:00.680
<v Speaker 4>React to that detail and a loving, accepting way.

1:05:01.760 --> 1:05:03.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're doing a lot of talking.

1:05:03.880 --> 1:05:06.000
<v Speaker 3>You do a lot of talking, as you can imagine

1:05:06.760 --> 1:05:09.440
<v Speaker 3>living together and talking so much together.

1:05:11.160 --> 1:05:13.480
<v Speaker 2>Really, it's been really good, though, I'm I.

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<v Speaker 3>Have come a long way transformed my comfort levels. Commitment

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<v Speaker 3>is not something that I have Like it's been easy

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<v Speaker 3>for me to like, I think it's something I really wanted,

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<v Speaker 3>but commitment seems so like distant that I.

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<v Speaker 2>Kept it that way.

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<v Speaker 3>But you've made it very easy and comfortable to transition

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<v Speaker 3>into this space. And I feel really confident that you're

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<v Speaker 3>my person and that I can tell you anything, and

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<v Speaker 3>you can tell me anything and so, and you've adapted

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<v Speaker 3>into stepdaddy really well, yeah, how has that been for you?

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<v Speaker 4>An adjustment?

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<v Speaker 1>It's an adjustment of like knowing that you really shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be petty to a child or.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I'm so happy that you admitted it.

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<v Speaker 2>You are petty. Sometimes I'm like, am I like breaking

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<v Speaker 2>up a sibling fight? Orlando?

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, Orlando, you're thirty one years fucking old.

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<v Speaker 3>Can you fucking stop like to be an adult?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Luna can be. She's got a mouth on her

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<v Speaker 1>and sometimes when she like gets into that sa moe

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<v Speaker 1>and just be like mmmmm, all right, that's fine. You

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<v Speaker 1>can say that, but guess just know that later on

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<v Speaker 1>certain things are going to happen for you.

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<v Speaker 2>It's been challenging.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not challenging, get we all get along well, but

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<v Speaker 3>it is challenging because it's an adjustment. And like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>Orlando can be a little petty and Luna's a child,

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<v Speaker 3>so I'm like, you gotta stop. And also, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>children are mean, and I'm like, okay, they're mean. Like

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<v Speaker 3>she's inconsistent, she's not gonna love you today, and tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 2>It just doesn't work that way.

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<v Speaker 1>Is always funny when we're like I come to her

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<v Speaker 1>defense because Mili will be yelling at her, and now

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go to meel and be like me, you need

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<v Speaker 1>to stop yelling at her. She's a child, And then

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<v Speaker 1>she'll look at me like, don't tell my mom what

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<v Speaker 1>to do.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's a lot of ganging up on you. Let me

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<v Speaker 2>talk to you being a little harsh. I'm like, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>the fucking mom. I've been doing this. Shit's like, try

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<v Speaker 2>not to react.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, Okay, I'm gonna just take a step back

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<v Speaker 3>right now because maybe I'm a little irritated and now

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<v Speaker 3>you're adding to my irritation.

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<v Speaker 1>There are times where I was like, step back and

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<v Speaker 1>looking like family, that's what black family does.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't. It's hard.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I know this is a lot for a

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<v Speaker 3>lot in general, for anyone to step into a situation

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<v Speaker 3>where there's a child and there's a household and things

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<v Speaker 3>happen a certain way, and I'm sure you grew up

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<v Speaker 3>a completely different way than I'm raising Luna, and so

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<v Speaker 3>there's things that are like and it's even for me

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<v Speaker 3>for like taking there being a second person to like

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<v Speaker 3>reprimand in ways like he was like trying to make

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<v Speaker 3>her eat her vegetables last night, and I was like

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<v Speaker 3>eating her vegetables, She's like she needs to eat them,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, this is not even a thing

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<v Speaker 3>in my house, Like I don't even do that, like

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<v Speaker 3>chill out. This bitch is everything. And I was like

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<v Speaker 3>trying to respect his wishes, like okay, but it is.

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<v Speaker 3>But I appreciate you being patient because at first I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, are you okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want to leave? Are you going to go

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<v Speaker 2>running for your aunt's house, that house that you were

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<v Speaker 2>going to stay at. Do you want to leave yet?

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<v Speaker 1>But I think it's beautiful that like a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>the way that you parent is how I would have

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<v Speaker 1>like parented anyway, or like ideals or like certain way

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<v Speaker 1>we go about things, like I would have done it

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<v Speaker 1>this way anyway. So it makes it easier to like

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<v Speaker 1>maneuver into a space of like parenthood. And when you

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<v Speaker 1>put I already put myself in the mentality of like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh I want a family or I want things to

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<v Speaker 1>like happen with you anyway, just like me being your boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, oh, I want to be with Mela. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to take care of Mila. Once I started telling

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<v Speaker 1>myself these things, when it came to like being like

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<v Speaker 1>a father, now it's like it was easy. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>before I even uh when the first week when I

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<v Speaker 1>came to to La and she asked me to go

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<v Speaker 1>pick up things for Luno, It's like, yeah, sure I

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<v Speaker 1>got it. I got the shelf and he's not there,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'll go back anytime you need me to. It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever she needs, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Have that I wanted to adapted well into our household

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<v Speaker 3>and Luna's too. Even the other day, she wrote, I

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't lay down with her because I'm an adult and

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<v Speaker 3>have shit to do, which is this is the thing

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<v Speaker 3>every night, fucking line.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you lay down with me?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>No, can Orlando lay down me? I'm like, girl, just

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<v Speaker 2>go lay down. She wrote. She's been writing notes on

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<v Speaker 2>the door, like you care about Orlando more than me.

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<v Speaker 3>It hurt my feelings. I was like, what is this?

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, do you believe that? She's like, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>this is what you write at night, like in your room,

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<v Speaker 3>but like you know, just trying to manage the time

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<v Speaker 3>and make sure they you know, they're good we have

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<v Speaker 3>a very very good household, happening situation family.

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<v Speaker 4>Literally, we have a very square family.

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<v Speaker 2>She told me that.

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<v Speaker 3>They're like, I don't like when Orlando. Sometimes Orlando is

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<v Speaker 3>mean to me. He bullies me, and I don't like it.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, are you always nice to Orlando? I

1:10:08.680 --> 1:10:10.519
<v Speaker 3>was like, did you just say that to hurt his feelings?

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<v Speaker 3>Just like I love I love Mommy Daddy, I love

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<v Speaker 3>Ivy and Erica's on my car. I was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>love Orlando no, because he's mean. I was like, are

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<v Speaker 3>you trying to be like you're trying to be mean

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<v Speaker 3>right now? And I was like, you can't be mean

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<v Speaker 3>to him because I'm five minutes you're gonna ask him

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<v Speaker 3>for something.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, I'm sorry, I didn't put you on my list.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, I love you. It's just that I love

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<v Speaker 1>them most.

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<v Speaker 3>That's not really an apology, but okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, very interesting. Yeah, well I love it,

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<v Speaker 2>and I love you guys, and I love Orlando, and

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<v Speaker 2>I love that you've been able to fill this just

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<v Speaker 2>fill my friend with so much love and security and

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<v Speaker 2>safety and be literally the man of her dreams, like

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<v Speaker 2>for real, Like she literally asked for you, and then poof,

1:11:01.760 --> 1:11:03.960
<v Speaker 2>you were there. You were always there. But like I

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<v Speaker 2>think she just couldn't really fully all the way see

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<v Speaker 2>it or accept it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, she had to see me in person, she had to.

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<v Speaker 2>Do some time, She had to like twenty two more

1:11:11.160 --> 1:11:13.519
<v Speaker 2>toxic things first. Just get it out real quick.

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<v Speaker 4>I did toxic things to do before.

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<v Speaker 1>Being with her.

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<v Speaker 2>Fucking other toxic nigga. Move the toxic nigga in. Move

1:11:21.479 --> 1:11:25.719
<v Speaker 2>the toxic nigga and his toxic dog in. Get slapped

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<v Speaker 2>up a little bit. It's not a laughing matter.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, you know, you know I laugh at uncomfortable things.

1:11:34.200 --> 1:11:35.080
<v Speaker 3>Things are not laughing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I do appreciate you. And I also I kind

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<v Speaker 2>of knew because Erica was like.

1:11:41.520 --> 1:11:43.320
<v Speaker 3>I think you're gonna get married, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>I am huh, I'm like, this is it right, this

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<v Speaker 3>is it?

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, wow, if Erica said it, she

1:11:48.680 --> 1:11:50.599
<v Speaker 2>must I knew. I knew it. But now that Erica

1:11:50.600 --> 1:11:53.920
<v Speaker 2>said it, it's not me being the fucking sound of

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<v Speaker 2>voice of reason.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, but that's what's been making it a lot more real.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like when we go out and we we people

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<v Speaker 1>see us together, They're just like, how long have y'all

1:12:02.400 --> 1:12:05.320
<v Speaker 1>been together? Y'all are really good together. Y'all look so beautiful,

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<v Speaker 1>and we get it every single time to go out.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like, oh, we know from ourselves, but also

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<v Speaker 1>from like outside where there's strangers or friends that everybody

1:12:12.800 --> 1:12:13.519
<v Speaker 1>can When.

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<v Speaker 3>Your friends work with your partner and they mesh well

1:12:15.840 --> 1:12:17.840
<v Speaker 3>in your friend group, then it's pretty clear.

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<v Speaker 2>This is your person.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I think for my friends too, They're like, didn't

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<v Speaker 3>think it was like a reality for me to have

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<v Speaker 3>a person that would accept me.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like, we can't believe. They're like, wow, this is

1:12:32.800 --> 1:12:33.400
<v Speaker 2>my single friends.

1:12:33.520 --> 1:12:36.559
<v Speaker 3>Like how this bitch get a nigga before me? This

1:12:36.800 --> 1:12:40.120
<v Speaker 3>tittied up bitch? Like what the fuck? We didn't see

1:12:40.120 --> 1:12:42.840
<v Speaker 3>this coming? I could see in everybody's face, So I

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<v Speaker 3>can't you found something wilder than you.

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<v Speaker 2>It's insane.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, your friends be telling me too. They were like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of wild. They've be telling me, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so great because Jamila, we you knowed so concerned.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very special, very unique individual. We just did it.

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<v Speaker 4>You know. It takes somebody strong.

1:13:05.600 --> 1:13:12.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm not strong, very secure in their manhoodness. No, it's

1:13:12.080 --> 1:13:14.880
<v Speaker 2>true It's true. It does take someone really strong. I

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<v Speaker 2>mean even for me too, I think, I mean not

1:13:16.479 --> 1:13:18.880
<v Speaker 2>me and Mila are different, but you know, I think

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<v Speaker 2>that most men, especially with what we do every week,

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<v Speaker 2>it could be very challenging. And I know it's challenging

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<v Speaker 2>for them. And you know, I think that Orlando, you

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<v Speaker 2>are like the perfect piece that was missing from this

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<v Speaker 2>puzzle of our little tribe. And you're so supportive and

1:13:41.800 --> 1:13:44.000
<v Speaker 2>not just to Mela, but to everyone in the whole

1:13:44.040 --> 1:13:47.839
<v Speaker 2>group and making sure that everyone feels comfortable and happy

1:13:47.960 --> 1:13:50.880
<v Speaker 2>and checking in and really like making an effort to

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<v Speaker 2>like get to know the people in our friend group.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I think that's really unique.

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<v Speaker 4>And I love you.

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<v Speaker 2>I love you for that. I love you too.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you.

1:14:03.800 --> 1:14:08.080
<v Speaker 2>Thank you for saving me from my wholeness, saving her

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<v Speaker 2>from the streets.

1:14:08.840 --> 1:14:10.519
<v Speaker 3>Thank you for saving me from the streets. Now I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>I do not want to go back. Please God, don't

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<v Speaker 3>put me back in the streets. Gott whatever you do.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, I don't know nothing about that single life,

1:14:17.880 --> 1:14:21.439
<v Speaker 2>nothing child. Help you. I have no vice, girl, But

1:14:21.640 --> 1:14:24.040
<v Speaker 2>let girl, I don't know. They don't copy paste them.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Your friend was like, Orlando, what do they make more

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<v Speaker 1>of you.

1:14:29.120 --> 1:14:32.040
<v Speaker 2>I was like, just come over and get some cuddles.

1:14:33.960 --> 1:14:36.240
<v Speaker 3>Actually was like, he's he's our community husband. I was like,

1:14:36.280 --> 1:14:39.799
<v Speaker 3>he's the tribe's husband, the tripe husband, trib husband.

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<v Speaker 2>Well we pulled some cards. Oh yeah at the beginning

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<v Speaker 2>of the episode. And Orlando, I think you pulled the pacle.

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<v Speaker 2>No you you did? Okay?

1:14:54.120 --> 1:14:55.920
<v Speaker 1>Pentacles of.

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<v Speaker 2>Being number one aces.

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<v Speaker 1>Number one is the beginning and it was on the

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<v Speaker 1>top of the deck too.

1:15:05.960 --> 1:15:06.599
<v Speaker 2>It's true.

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<v Speaker 3>It looks like a like an opening. It almost looks

1:15:08.800 --> 1:15:10.759
<v Speaker 3>like those arches that you walk through when you're married.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that is it. The water in the background.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait to see what this says.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, biddyous trip and y'all shout out to bitty Tarot.

1:15:20.320 --> 1:15:22.639
<v Speaker 2>That's giving. Actually, don't shout out to bittty Taro because

1:15:22.640 --> 1:15:26.920
<v Speaker 2>they're not paying us. We've been we've been reading boards

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<v Speaker 2>for words. I only haven't emailed them yet. We're gonna

1:15:29.000 --> 1:15:35.040
<v Speaker 2>email them. Can someone email, actually shout out to them. Sorry,

1:15:35.080 --> 1:15:40.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm just kidding, all right. So Ace of Pentacles a

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<v Speaker 2>new financial or career opportunity.

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<v Speaker 1>I need it.

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<v Speaker 2>Manifestation abundance, uh, the A Pentacles like the other aces

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<v Speaker 2>of the Tarot, represents new beginnings, opportunities, and potential, and

1:15:58.360 --> 1:16:00.960
<v Speaker 2>as a Pentacles card, these new bees gettings correlate to

1:16:01.000 --> 1:16:05.520
<v Speaker 2>the material world, finances, wealth, career, physical health, and manifestation

1:16:05.640 --> 1:16:08.040
<v Speaker 2>of your goals. You may receive a new job, offer

1:16:08.040 --> 1:16:10.719
<v Speaker 2>an unexpected sum of money, a new business or investment

1:16:10.720 --> 1:16:13.559
<v Speaker 2>opportunity may come your way, or you'll have a chance

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<v Speaker 2>to begin an idea to fruition m No matter the occasion,

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<v Speaker 2>the Ace of Pentacles heralds a sense of prosperity and

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<v Speaker 2>abundance in the material or financial areas of your life.

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<v Speaker 2>It undoubtedly comes as a welcome invitation, but it is

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<v Speaker 2>not a free ride. As with all aces in the

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<v Speaker 2>tarot deck, this card illustrates the possibility of a new endeavor,

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<v Speaker 2>but does not guarantee its manifestation or success. That piece

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<v Speaker 2>is up to you. The Ace of Pinnacle also symbolizes wealth,

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<v Speaker 2>not just for your bank account, but in a holistic

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<v Speaker 2>sense as well. You may discover opportunities to generate a

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<v Speaker 2>new source of income or receive financial gift or windfall,

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<v Speaker 2>or you may have a chance to create wealth in

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<v Speaker 2>a broader sense, Happiness, fulfillment, potential and love. The ace

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<v Speaker 2>signifies abundance in all areas of your life. Enjoy it,

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<v Speaker 2>feel blessed and deserving of everything that comes your way.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel that, I feel very full.

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<v Speaker 1>I receive that because I'm very big on like being

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<v Speaker 1>like mentally wealthy and emotionally wealthy as much as like financial.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I do accept that.

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<v Speaker 2>And with the conception of your new podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just about to say, and then I'm starting

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<v Speaker 1>this new podcast. By the time this episode comes out,

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<v Speaker 1>I should have like maybe three or four episodes out already.

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<v Speaker 2>So go check out menaj Minds will put the link

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<v Speaker 2>in this episode description and check out Orlando's new podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't wait for people to hear it.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you give people like a little like insight on

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<v Speaker 2>what it's about.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So basically I started therapy right around the time

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<v Speaker 1>where I was like moving to LA.

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<v Speaker 2>Why just start therapy, babe, because two reasons.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the reasons I started therapy because around the

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<v Speaker 1>time where I was like transitioning to move to LA,

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<v Speaker 1>I was going through like a very deep depressive moment.

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<v Speaker 1>And the other reason was because Mila said that I

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<v Speaker 1>have to do one year of therapy before we get married,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's mandatory. But yeah, starting this therapy session and

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<v Speaker 1>like just talking to my therapists and him telling me like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you have a very like unique mind and

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<v Speaker 1>the way you go about things is very like dope.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, you know what, let's start making

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<v Speaker 1>like recording this. And I wanted to record it so

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<v Speaker 1>people can hear what a real therapy session sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>from a black man, but also what professional advice within

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<v Speaker 1>that session or that coaching sounds like. And so we

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<v Speaker 1>would do those and then I would make podcast episodes

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<v Speaker 1>out of that, so we can, let's say, if we

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<v Speaker 1>talk about generational trauma, then I'll like have a guest

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<v Speaker 1>on a separate episode and we could talk about that

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<v Speaker 1>and expand on that, and my therapist would do the same,

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<v Speaker 1>So you would get an episode from some a point

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<v Speaker 1>of view of somebody in therapy, but also get an

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<v Speaker 1>episode from a therapist themselves.

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<v Speaker 4>And it's Menaje.

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<v Speaker 1>Minds is like the intermingling between the journey of healing

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<v Speaker 1>wellness and therapy and just down this journey, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to be doing like different types of therapy, different types

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<v Speaker 1>of things that will heal you in wellness, like spirituality, fitness,

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<v Speaker 1>like whatever it is. And so I can't wait to

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<v Speaker 1>like start this journey and like have everybody like be

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<v Speaker 1>in on it and just like be helpful if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to and heal.

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<v Speaker 2>I think men really need that and need to see.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm really especially black men.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, and it comes at an important time where

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<v Speaker 1>like I feel like black people know about just talk therapy,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's just so many different ways that you can

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<v Speaker 1>go about like down this journey of like wellness and healing.

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<v Speaker 3>M h.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm excited for it.

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<v Speaker 2>Congratulations Boom, I'm excited for you. And then Mila pulled

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<v Speaker 2>the Seven of Wands right challenge competition, protection, perseverance. After

1:19:49.520 --> 1:19:51.360
<v Speaker 2>the success of the Six of wanes, you are now

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<v Speaker 2>in an enviable position and are being challenged by others

1:19:54.320 --> 1:19:57.200
<v Speaker 2>who want to take your place. You worked hard to

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<v Speaker 2>get where you are, but some people covet what you

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<v Speaker 2>have and are prepared to fight you for it. Bitch,

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<v Speaker 2>don't come for me, bitch, so I'll be right there. Bitch,

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<v Speaker 2>you try it right, I dare you. You don't have

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<v Speaker 2>two witches pool going. Okay, while it's flattering, they while

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<v Speaker 2>it's flattering that they strive for your success. It also

1:20:17.640 --> 1:20:20.080
<v Speaker 2>makes for a tense and competitive environment because you need

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<v Speaker 2>to protect what you've earned and must continuously prove yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a sad fact of life, but the more visibility

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<v Speaker 2>you have as a leader in your field and the

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<v Speaker 2>bigger your audience, the more likely it is that you

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<v Speaker 2>will need to grapple with this kind of pressure. Others

1:20:34.920 --> 1:20:37.200
<v Speaker 2>see your success and will either challenge your point of

1:20:37.280 --> 1:20:40.040
<v Speaker 2>view or want to take you down. God, I was

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<v Speaker 2>just trying to give me anxiety. What the when? When

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<v Speaker 2>seven of one's appears in a tarot reading, expect to

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<v Speaker 2>see an increase in haters, trolls, and people who disagree

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<v Speaker 2>with you. You know, we're publishing a book. You will

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<v Speaker 2>need to secure your territory and fight for what you

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<v Speaker 2>stand for. You may also want to engage a lawyer

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<v Speaker 2>or loyal support team who can defend you from any

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<v Speaker 2>possible threat. The seven of wands may appear when you

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<v Speaker 2>hold a contentious point of view or wish to voice

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<v Speaker 2>your opinion in a public forum. Be ready to support

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<v Speaker 2>your argument and back yourself up. I don't think you

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<v Speaker 2>have any problem doing that. Stand firm in your conviction. No,

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<v Speaker 2>don't have a problem doing that of what you believe

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<v Speaker 2>and why, so that others do not topple you from

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<v Speaker 2>your mountain of self belief. The seven and wands can

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<v Speaker 2>also mean a challenge to success of a creative project

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<v Speaker 2>from an external source. Someone or something may get in

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<v Speaker 2>the way of you being able to pursue your goals

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<v Speaker 2>and dreams. While it appears to block your path forward,

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<v Speaker 2>You can overcome this obstacle by drawing upon your strong

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<v Speaker 2>self confidence, self belief, and continual self improvement. Establish clear

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<v Speaker 2>boundaries and then protect them so that others do not

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<v Speaker 2>mess with you. Hold your ground, take a stand, and

1:21:46.479 --> 1:21:52.400
<v Speaker 2>defend your position at all costs. Okay to PAF A

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<v Speaker 2>body spot on the audience is growing. Are gonna come

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<v Speaker 2>for you? AKA, fucking what is it called lipstick alley?

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<v Speaker 1>Girl?

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<v Speaker 3>It's lipstick alley? Oh my goodness, got to stop looking

1:22:09.640 --> 1:22:11.960
<v Speaker 3>over there. Fucking Chelsea message me this morning, like I

1:22:12.000 --> 1:22:15.360
<v Speaker 3>just found this thing on that girl. Don't look, don't look, just.

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<v Speaker 2>Like trying to log in and talk back. I was like, don't,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my goodness, Oh my gosh. Well, I think it's

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<v Speaker 2>just a matter of just being aware of like your surroundings,

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<v Speaker 2>the people that you keep and just being really secure

1:22:28.600 --> 1:22:32.080
<v Speaker 2>and self aware of what you say and what you

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<v Speaker 2>believe and standing on it.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't really have a problem with that, and I

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<v Speaker 3>know how I feel, and it's like, my dick, if

1:22:39.400 --> 1:22:41.920
<v Speaker 3>you think you're gonna come for me about my opinion, so.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not. I mean, I do get anxiety about like

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<v Speaker 2>our book coming out and that we're growing and that

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<v Speaker 2>people are going to.

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<v Speaker 3>Talk shit, but also people are evil and bored and miserable,

1:22:52.920 --> 1:22:56.960
<v Speaker 3>and mostly people are supportive. And if you don't like me,

1:22:57.280 --> 1:23:03.280
<v Speaker 3>turn the channel. Amen's super easy. Is that it for

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<v Speaker 3>today in my life? I think so well, thank you Orlando,

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<v Speaker 3>Orlando for coming to join us, my love, my future husband.

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<v Speaker 3>I got fitted for a wedding ring size last week.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys, so just know that's I got to send you.

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<v Speaker 2>Just know that it's a wife on the way wife.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll be the ring bearer. I never saw that, Like I.

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<v Speaker 3>Knew I wanted it, but I didn't really see it

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<v Speaker 3>being coming to like real I couldn't visualize it in

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<v Speaker 3>real time. So doing shit like that, I'm like, wow,

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<v Speaker 3>I was not really trying to marry bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you tell people when uh we got together on

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram because like, I hated Instagram couples, but now I

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<v Speaker 1>am one, ha I did.

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<v Speaker 3>They used to really make me sick, but I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>let's try not. I tried to post too much, but

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, fuck, it's my turn. Fucking look at this happiness.

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<v Speaker 2>Bitches, I found my parson.

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna stop following me? Yeah, but thank you, my love.

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<v Speaker 3>You have healed me in many ways. And I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>think that someone could wrangle in this wild woman that

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<v Speaker 3>I am. So I appreciate you finding me, my wild lever,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm really excited to see the journey that we

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<v Speaker 3>go on and how we grow and how our relationship

1:24:23.120 --> 1:24:24.520
<v Speaker 3>helps us grow individually.

1:24:25.320 --> 1:24:27.519
<v Speaker 1>And I can't wait to have this relationship where I

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<v Speaker 1>take care of you. Go on, my true water bearer,

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<v Speaker 1>like energy, contain and hold you and take care of you.

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<v Speaker 2>You're to take care of me. I love you too.

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<v Speaker 2>Where can the people find you? Orlando?

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<v Speaker 1>You can find me anywhere on social media at w

1:24:42.960 --> 1:24:46.599
<v Speaker 1>H Underscore Orlando Roy. You can find the brand new

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful podcast minaj A min m e n A g

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<v Speaker 1>e A m I n.

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<v Speaker 4>D all right to us.

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<v Speaker 1>But you can find that anywhere you listen to podcasts

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<v Speaker 1>or and on YouTube. And we have a Patreon and

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<v Speaker 1>you can still sign up to my Only Fans Onlyflans

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<v Speaker 1>dot com, Backslash, wh Underscore Orlando.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you still have an only Fans Yeah? I mean

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<v Speaker 2>I know you have it, but like, are you putting

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<v Speaker 2>new content on there?

1:25:09.479 --> 1:25:11.000
<v Speaker 4>You know I put stuff on there?

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<v Speaker 2>Where am I atay? Yeah? And you guys know where

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<v Speaker 2>to find us. We'll link everything this episode description. Make

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<v Speaker 2>sure you go check out the retreat. The retreat is coming.

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<v Speaker 2>We're going to Costa Rica. We have two dates. Come alone,

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<v Speaker 2>bring your girlfriend, do whatever you want, but just come.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't miss it. We're doing some magical ship in the jungle,

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<v Speaker 2>natal chart readings, medicine, medicine if you want, or meals, relaxation, massages.

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<v Speaker 3>Yoga, weed, exploring this beautiful, beautiful jungles of Costa Rica,

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<v Speaker 3>going on beach trips.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like the ultimate girls trip. So click the link

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<v Speaker 2>in this episode description and follow the Good Fibe Retreat

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<v Speaker 2>to get the deets and we'll see you next week.

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<v Speaker 2>I love you, Bye bye bye Las