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Speaker 2: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices.

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Speaker 3: I'm Erica and I'm Mila. Hi, Hi, guys, what's up.

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Speaker 3: You know it's hump day. I'm feeling humpy. It's warm

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Speaker 3: and cuttle season.

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Speaker 2: So we're in our sweats. I'm rocking my good Mom's

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Speaker 2: Little Flowers sweater that's just been restocked, so you can

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Speaker 2: rock it too. Yes, this is the best seller. You

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Speaker 2: guys have been begging, begging on your knees on the internet,

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Speaker 2: and I don't blame you because it's cut at buck.

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Speaker 2: How are you? I'm good, I'm good. It's I'm finally

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Speaker 2: to wear sweatsuit and not sweat outside because La has

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Speaker 2: just decided summer is going to start in November. Oh,

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Speaker 2: just wait till next week.

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Speaker 3: It'll be ninety again. No, you know it gets ninety

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Speaker 3: every other day.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 3: No, we get like one glimpse of a breeze, Like

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Speaker 3: I saw some leaves falling.

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Speaker 2: From my window. I was like, I should make soup,

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Speaker 2: Like is that wind? I hear I'm going to New

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Speaker 2: York next week? And I was like, oh, I get

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Speaker 2: to pull out my winter coats. And I looked at

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Speaker 2: the weather. It was like seventy two in New York.

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Speaker 2: I was like, what the fuck is going on? Really,

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Speaker 2: I'll tell you what's going on? Global fucking warming, which

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Speaker 2: we fucked up? The planet, the planet X. I think

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Speaker 2: it's the same, Kurt said, Planet X. It's not.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna share our entire community about this fucking planet X.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure people have looked it up. Look up planet X.

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Speaker 2: It may or may not be a real thing, but

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Speaker 2: it probably is. Kurt from WhatsApp said that it's causing.

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Speaker 2: It's not global warming, it's Planet X pulling on our planet.

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Speaker 2: I am.

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Speaker 3: I'm the conspiracy theorist that literally I believe everything. I

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Speaker 3: believe everything. There's nothing I don't believe. I believe conspiracy

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Speaker 3: is more than I believe the news any day, because

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Speaker 3: it's probably more true. You're right, sort days shark days

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Speaker 3: to allow dwindling down, dwindling. This seems so high.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm just adjusting live on set. She feels like

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Speaker 2: a Well, you guys, if you're watching our YouTube, then

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Speaker 2: you know we have a guest sitting here. It's a

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Speaker 2: special guest. It's a former guest, former two time guests?

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Speaker 2: Is it two times?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's two times, two times, having two time having

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Speaker 2: guests sounds like a cheater, but he's not a cheater.

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Speaker 2: He is none other than Jamila's man podcaster extrod sexy bitch.

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Speaker 2: Wait what is it? Bad bad bitch, Sorry, sexy bad

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Speaker 2: bitch Holano Royland. I was why aren't you wear your

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Speaker 2: crop top today? I forbid him. Yeah, it's like really

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Speaker 2: on brand for him. I was really too cold leaves

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Speaker 2: her out cut it, okay.

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Speaker 3: Orlanda thought he was going to move to LA and

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Speaker 3: just have a fucking closet full of crop tops.

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Speaker 4: I was gonna have a fleet of crops and you

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Speaker 4: could just.

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Speaker 2: Wear a T shirt under it and then you know what, actually,

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Speaker 2: my boo. He brought a crop top to l A

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Speaker 2: the other week and he's like, I have a crop

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Speaker 2: top and I was like what, yes, And I was

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Speaker 2: like no, the fuck you don't and he was like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I do. And I was like let me see it,

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Speaker 2: and he was like you don't believe me. I was

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Speaker 2: like no, and then he showed us me and it

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Speaker 2: was a crop top and I was like, you're gonna

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Speaker 2: put some like fucking shredded shirt under this ship And

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Speaker 2: he dresses like a fucking punk rocker didn't put a

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Speaker 2: shorted shirt and he never got to the outfit. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: he was, Yeah, he was gonna put a shredded shirt.

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Speaker 2: He wasn't ready for that, ready for a gut to hang.

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Speaker 2: I have a confession.

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Speaker 3: One time there was a crop top he left at

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Speaker 3: my house and I really hated this one in particular,

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Speaker 3: and I toiled Erica and she said, just throw it away.

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Speaker 3: And I was like, I could huh. She's like, he's

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Speaker 3: not going to notice. Just throw the shit away.

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Speaker 2: See he didn't know it. I told you, I know

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Speaker 2: which one it was. I threw that ship away.

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Speaker 4: Which one it's gone?

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Speaker 2: I don't care. Then, you know, if you don't remember,

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Speaker 2: it doesn't matter. Oh my god. I was like, eric

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Speaker 2: I hate She literally called me with this dilemma, and

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Speaker 2: I was like, just throw it away. He's he's not

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Speaker 2: going to know. Never really in my house during my freeness,

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't say that. I'm I'm supporting your fashion. Well,

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Speaker 2: in the spirit of coughing season November, I figured we

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Speaker 2: needed to have you guys on right, like you're the couple,

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Speaker 2: you are the you are the couple, the couple. I

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Speaker 2: like that the podcast couple of the podcasting couple of

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Speaker 2: the universe. So, welcome to the show. Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to the show. I feel like I can,

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Speaker 2: like I lean this way.

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Speaker 3: I'm a guest, but if I lean this way in

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Speaker 3: the house, welcome back, thank you. Oh my god, so silly,

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Speaker 3: so honey, yeah, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: How are you feeling a.

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Speaker 4: Nervous I am feeling good.

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Speaker 1: I am nervous.

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Speaker 4: It's good to be in front of the audio instead

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Speaker 4: of behind it now.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 3: Orlando also works for us, does he said every recording,

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Speaker 3: just not on camera.

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Speaker 2: He does all of our audio and listens to all

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Speaker 2: of our bullshit all day long.

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Speaker 3: He usually sits in the corner like kind of behind me,

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Speaker 3: so I kind of like stirf for my body so

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Speaker 3: I don't have to look at him so I can

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Speaker 3: speak freely.

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Speaker 2: I I don't think any problems for you, freely, whether he's.

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Speaker 1: Here or not, just look at me. And then I

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Speaker 1: had the goddess experience.

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Speaker 2: I feel more.

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Speaker 3: I feel more brave in front with the mic, like

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Speaker 3: this is work working.

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Speaker 2: I'm working through your shit away just for entertainment purposes only,

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Speaker 2: I do.

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Speaker 3: I mean, just like in general, I do feel it's

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Speaker 3: I think it's developed over time.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, it doesn't count.

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Speaker 3: I mean, everyone knows I have to tell the truth

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Speaker 3: here ever, even knows Air come mad at you.

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Speaker 2: All the confessions come only when we're recording. It's very important,

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Speaker 2: I know, because anytime we try to have a real conversation,

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Speaker 2: Mila just laughs in my face. Yeah. Anytime I tell

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Speaker 2: her like, hey, that's how I feel, she goes and

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Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, well that is not It literally happened

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Speaker 2: few different times. I don't think that happened in Chicago. Besides,

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Speaker 2: when then when she gets mad and she wants to

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Speaker 2: throw computers and bitches face, Oh, my man gets mad

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Speaker 2: that ally ever threw anything in your face. When Merely

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Speaker 2: gets mad, it's like now we're now, we're ready to

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Speaker 3: Now we're ready to have conversations. You guys don't want

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Speaker 3: to see me mad. You've never seen me mad. So

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Speaker 3: these are lies and you'll know when I'm mad. Okay,

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Speaker 3: I'm a very scary mad person.

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Speaker 2: Well, do you guys have an affirmation for the show?

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Speaker 2: Is it a couple of information?

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Speaker 4: I do have an affirmation.

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Speaker 2: Well, this week's affirmation is brought to you or brought

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Speaker 2: to us by Eliminating Intersectionality, which is a three part

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Speaker 2: series brought to you by Targets Black Beyond Measure platform. Yes,

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Speaker 2: and our girls are hosting it.

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Speaker 3: Fran from Hey Fran, Hey, Jade and Takaya from Getting

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Speaker 2: And their conversations are dynamic. They're about socioeconomic issues, womanhood.

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Speaker 3: Food, food access, and so much more. The series starts

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Speaker 3: November seventh.

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Speaker 2: And hashtag IBBM to join the conversation live. So what's

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Speaker 2: your affirmation, dear?

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Speaker 1: My affirmation is what doesn't progress? You only blinds you

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Speaker 1: from opportunity.

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Speaker 2: But it doesn't progress. You only blinds you from opportunity.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't progress. Wow, that sounds really smart. I'm like, wait,

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Speaker 2: doesn't doesn't progress. It doesn't push you forward, telling you forward,

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Speaker 2: pushed forward. Okay, that makes sense. Yeah, I love that.

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Speaker 1: It's just a way for me to notice, like what's

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Speaker 1: distracting from me. So whenever I'm like entering the situation

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that. I love that. Don't block your blessing.

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Speaker 2: Don't block your blessings, aka, don't block your.

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Speaker 4: Blessing and put yourself in a position to be blessed.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I think that's really important. I think, well, sometimes

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Speaker 3: No, I think like one blessing always brings you closer

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Speaker 3: But as soon as you walk away from things that

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Speaker 3: you're not supposed to, all of the opportunities come flowing.

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Speaker 2: No for sure, but I'm just saying, like I think

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Speaker 2: in comfort, and then then those blessings don't come forward.

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Speaker 2: Then they don't, they don't progress.

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Speaker 1: You know, exactly exactly.

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Speaker 2: But we're almost in the new year, y'all, so we

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Speaker 2: ain't doing that no more, right in twenty twenty three,

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Speaker 2: ain't doing that shit no more. Don't block your blessing,

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Speaker 2: block your.

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Speaker 1: Blessings, go for it, take a risk, take a chance,

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Speaker 1: and but also put yourself in a position to be blessed,

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Speaker 1: like your Thoughtso accept the blessings and know like that's

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Speaker 4: I don't want that.

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Speaker 1: I need to be over here around these type of people,

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Speaker 1: around this situation that is going to be fruitful for me.

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Speaker 1: It's like being around a bunch of friends that are

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Speaker 1: which is scary to like be different, But when you

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Speaker 1: see further down the line that there's going to be

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Speaker 1: something good that's going to come from this, it makes

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Speaker 1: put yourself in positions to be blessed and have better opportunities.

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Speaker 3: The opportunities come immediately, But when you're saying that, Orlando,

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Speaker 3: I was thinking about you in particular, and just like

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Speaker 1: And that's why it was. It's so easy because I've

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Speaker 2: And also you've seen how it has.

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Speaker 3: If you're the best candidate of my host, would get

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Speaker 2: you did that a lot. That's what I'm saying. You

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Speaker 3: We are in a different place, Yes, this is true, Erica.

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Speaker 3: We have come a very long way since then. I

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Speaker 3: And I kept saying you're my boyfriend. I mean I

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Speaker 1: No, I was all that. I mean, I chose Mila,

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Speaker 2: What do you think was the thing that like made

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Speaker 2: Really?

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Speaker 3: I got very I think he moved he well, I

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Speaker 3: I was like, you should just like figure your stuff out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, move And.

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Speaker 3: Then he brought his ship here and left it and

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Speaker 3: I was like, eric is like, you know, he's moving in.

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Speaker 2: And I was like she's like no, it's aunt lived

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Speaker 3: It was just like more anxiety than I was, like

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Speaker 1: Thirty days of Mexico really did it for me. Also

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Speaker 4: I'm coming.

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Speaker 1: Baby's like yeah, I'm like gonna be great. But thirty

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Speaker 1: if you make it out, then yeah you're together.

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Speaker 2: You don't recommend it.

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Speaker 1: Hey, you really have to be in that mental stage

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Speaker 1: like really wanting someone. No, it's great for us because

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Speaker 2: Shit, I went to Mexico for six days. I left

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Speaker 2: that nigga at the airbnb, but my friends got they too, right, like,

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Speaker 2: my nigga, it's not gonna work. I'm gonna get my

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Speaker 2: own AIRBB. When she texted me I left him, I

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Speaker 2: was like, what, like I left? I was like, I

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Speaker 3: I mean a vacation in general, vacation like out of

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Speaker 2: You know how some shit's not gonna work.

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Speaker 3: I should have known from the ferry at the airport

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Speaker 3: he was tripping. You did tell me bru shit at

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Speaker 2: I was like, I should have known that. I was

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Speaker 2: So that was my bad.

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Speaker 3: Remember the time I went to Mexico with Adventure Bay

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Speaker 2: And I called you.

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Speaker 3: From the bathroom from the airport when I was going

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Speaker 2: I think he's crazy. I think it's gonna work, and

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Speaker 2: Your things in the sink on vacation? I just I

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Speaker 2: We had to shoot and Jamila brought this like full

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Speaker 2: it in Mexico when I was dating adventure Bay. I

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Speaker 2: was like, this is signifies how fucked up this relationship was.

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Speaker 2: Lord knows, I'm never seen anywhere I turn like my

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Speaker 2: like like house in the prairie, but like new school.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 2: I was going for something conservative. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: You were trying to do something over there. I gave

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Speaker 1: I'm sure she's really One thing about Mexico was Mila

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Speaker 4: We don't even have any plans.

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Speaker 1: It's great.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 3: I kept planning things to the tea. He was like,

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Speaker 3: you're not gonna be surprised when you get there. I

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Speaker 3: was like, how much research can one nigga do? I

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Speaker 2: I was like, we're about to go to the SOE

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, why you knew so much ABOUTE?

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Speaker 3: You no, nigga, That's why we didn't go to No

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Speaker 3: to not tap the fuck out. Okay, I've seen twelve

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Speaker 3: hundred on fucking YouTube. No. But you know, I also,

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Speaker 3: prior to Orlando moving in, mistakenly moved in this other guy,

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Speaker 3: I felt like it was too soon after that, and I

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I was in denial for sure.

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Speaker 3: It's probably gonna And I was like, my kid's gonna

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Speaker 3: be like, bitch, what the fuck is wrong with you?

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Speaker 2: It's gonna do this shit again, Like, bitch, we just

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Speaker 3: I was like looking at her, like, okay, but it

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Speaker 2: But I mean even for that.

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Speaker 3: So let me give you a little background on Orlando

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Speaker 3: and I. You guys, we did meet on Zoom during

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Speaker 3: kill ourselves because there was nothing else to do but podcast.

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00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:55,439
Speaker 3: And Orlando on his former podcast, you know, they were like, well,

441
00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:58,040
Speaker 3: let's come on our show whatever, So we did it.

442
00:19:58,200 --> 00:19:58,760
Speaker 2: I met them.

443
00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:01,479
Speaker 3: I met him on Zoom, and I wasn't interested. I

444
00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:03,920
Speaker 3: was like, oh, these guys are cute whatever. I thought

445
00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:06,399
Speaker 3: he was a little extra, but you know, whatever was

446
00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:10,080
Speaker 3: podcast life, and you know, he like DMed me a

447
00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:13,399
Speaker 3: little bit on Instagram. We were, you know, fake friends

448
00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:16,840
Speaker 3: from podcasting, a little flirting here, and then he was like, oh,

449
00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:19,120
Speaker 3: you know, I'll be out there. Let's like collab, let's

450
00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:22,440
Speaker 3: do an episode. So I was like, okay, whatever content.

451
00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:28,040
Speaker 3: But I had just ended that really terrible, horrible Adventure

452
00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:30,520
Speaker 3: Bay relationship because I came back from Mexico and I

453
00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:32,800
Speaker 3: cheated on him because he didn't fuck me enough on

454
00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:34,719
Speaker 3: that vacation, and I instead of breaking up with him,

455
00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:36,240
Speaker 3: I just said, fucking I'm a fuck somebody else. And

456
00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:37,720
Speaker 3: then he looked at my shit and it just blew up.

457
00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:40,000
Speaker 3: And then I was like, I'm a terrible person. I

458
00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:42,639
Speaker 3: don't like love. I'm immature. Because he was nice to me,

459
00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:45,200
Speaker 3: and I thought that was like the epitome of a relationship.

460
00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:49,240
Speaker 3: What a nice guy, and so I was really trying

461
00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:51,040
Speaker 3: to get him back for a minute. I was like,

462
00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:52,520
Speaker 3: please take me back so.

463
00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:56,080
Speaker 2: We can go on boying adventures together, and he wouldn't.

464
00:20:56,240 --> 00:21:00,239
Speaker 2: He just kept pulling me through the mud to punish me.

465
00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:04,320
Speaker 3: And so my lat my final straw was that I

466
00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:06,960
Speaker 3: met a nigga on the internet on the DMS and

467
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:08,840
Speaker 3: he was like, come to Tennessee, and I was like,

468
00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:11,560
Speaker 3: perfect way to get over this other nigga. So I

469
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:13,359
Speaker 3: met a guy in the DMS that I had no

470
00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:16,760
Speaker 3: idea who he was, flew to Tennessee and then we

471
00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:17,680
Speaker 3: drove to Atlanta.

472
00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:19,639
Speaker 2: We had a great time, and then as soon as

473
00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:22,200
Speaker 2: I got back, I pulled up to Erica's house.

474
00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:25,040
Speaker 3: To do this thing with Orlando, and he was wearing

475
00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:28,840
Speaker 3: a crop top and I was like, Oh, this is interesting.

476
00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,199
Speaker 2: And my daughter was like, why are you wearing that shirt?

477
00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:34,520
Speaker 2: And I was like, he give me whatever he wants, Luna,

478
00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:42,720
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know. Pe nice shit. And

479
00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:44,240
Speaker 2: we recorded and it was great.

480
00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:46,399
Speaker 3: We had a good time, but still I wasn't we

481
00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:49,199
Speaker 3: had good chemistry, but I thought it was like friendship chemistry,

482
00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:52,240
Speaker 3: and we were supposed to go hang out with Erica,

483
00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:55,200
Speaker 3: and then Erica canceled like she so often does. I mean,

484
00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:57,159
Speaker 3: it was far was over the hill, and people from

485
00:21:57,160 --> 00:21:59,119
Speaker 3: the valley don't leave over the hill. So I had

486
00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:02,040
Speaker 3: already invited him, and because I'm a fucking people pleaser,

487
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:04,320
Speaker 3: I was like, you want to just come over. I

488
00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:06,440
Speaker 3: just got an apartment, had like one piece of furniture.

489
00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:07,880
Speaker 3: I was just so happy to have a house.

490
00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:09,359
Speaker 2: Do you want to come over I have? Do you

491
00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:11,080
Speaker 2: have your don mushrooms? He's like no, and I was like,

492
00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:12,600
Speaker 2: just you can just come do mushrooms.

493
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,160
Speaker 3: But I asked him at eleven o'clock at night, because

494
00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:16,920
Speaker 3: I thought he was gonna be like, it's late. I'm cool,

495
00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:19,240
Speaker 3: I'm in Santa Monica. But no, no, no, no.

496
00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:21,880
Speaker 4: I went to the core of it. I was driving anywhere.

497
00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:24,880
Speaker 3: He came over at eleven PM to my empty ass

498
00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:28,560
Speaker 3: apartment and we did mushrooms and it was fine.

499
00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:30,760
Speaker 2: But even then I was like, God, this guy talks

500
00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:31,400
Speaker 2: a lot.

501
00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:33,600
Speaker 3: I was like, what a fucking podcast or you won't

502
00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:35,920
Speaker 3: shut the fuck up. And then it went even further.

503
00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 3: He was like I didn't want to fuck with him

504
00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:39,480
Speaker 3: because I was like, I've been doing too much lately.

505
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:40,520
Speaker 2: I cheated on the other nigga.

506
00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:42,119
Speaker 3: I just went on a fucking trip with this other

507
00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:43,840
Speaker 3: nigga from my DMS I don't know, and now I'm

508
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:44,560
Speaker 3: here with this nigga.

509
00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:46,159
Speaker 1: I was like, let me just relax, give me like

510
00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 1: three licks of head and just stopped.

511
00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:49,639
Speaker 3: Were like kissed a little. But I was like he

512
00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:52,080
Speaker 3: was talking so much. He was like, you deserve me

513
00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:55,040
Speaker 3: I'm a blessing. I was like, I literally in my head,

514
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:58,120
Speaker 3: I was like, I can't wait to tell Erica this shit.

515
00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:00,200
Speaker 3: The whole time I was like, oh she right, damn

516
00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:02,240
Speaker 3: want I need to tell her. I literally wanted to

517
00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 3: put it in my phone, like don't forget to tell

518
00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:05,680
Speaker 3: her this. And I was like okay, and I think, yeah.

519
00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 3: We like kissed a little bit, like licked.

520
00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 2: His dick three times and I was like no, no,

521
00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:13,919
Speaker 2: I don't need to do that, and he was like,

522
00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 2: just kept talking.

523
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:15,800
Speaker 1: Cool.

524
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:19,199
Speaker 3: So the next morning we woke up and he said, oh,

525
00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:20,680
Speaker 3: I go to breakfast. I was like cool, we could

526
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:22,440
Speaker 3: go to this place around the corner from my house. Still,

527
00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:23,719
Speaker 3: I was like, hey't wait to get away from him

528
00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 3: so I could call Erica. And then we go to

529
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 3: breakfast and we go home live and we start talking

530
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:31,119
Speaker 3: and everyone's like, oh, this is the perfect match.

531
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 2: I saw this.

532
00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:33,919
Speaker 3: Happening and I was like, what are they talking about?

533
00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:35,800
Speaker 3: And then he started talking and I was like, oh,

534
00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:38,240
Speaker 3: I kind of like he is kind of smart. I

535
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:40,440
Speaker 3: was like, he's kind of nice son, and he paid

536
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:43,919
Speaker 3: for breakfast. I was like that was nice. Yeah, he

537
00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:45,520
Speaker 3: like gave me his keys to his rent hoal and

538
00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 3: he was like, putting me on Instagram. I was like, oh,

539
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 3: look'm putting me on Instagram, you know, but just love

540
00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 3: that ship.

541
00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:53,600
Speaker 2: Are you gonna make me public? The most basic left?

542
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:59,360
Speaker 2: What the fuck? Wait? It's for better? Wait? And then

543
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:00,919
Speaker 2: he's like, do you want to go to the beach?

544
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:01,400
Speaker 1: Oh?

545
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:04,480
Speaker 2: And I was like here's the thing. It was like Saturday.

546
00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:06,880
Speaker 3: I really didn't have shit to do except call Erica

547
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:09,280
Speaker 3: and talk shit. And he was like, now I kind

548
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:10,680
Speaker 3: of liked it. I was like, oh, he's kind of cool.

549
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:11,320
Speaker 2: I was like fuck it.

550
00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 3: I was like, okay, let's go back by my house

551
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:15,199
Speaker 3: and get my bathing suit. So I go get my

552
00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 3: bathing suit.

553
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 2: We drive in the corvette to the beach, and before

554
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:20,439
Speaker 2: he pull up to this hotel, he's like, oh, my

555
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 2: homegirl's in here. I was like, okay, me and the

556
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,399
Speaker 2: homegirl talking. We're like me and I Leanta like made out,

557
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 2: I mean up some others friends. We get drunk on

558
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:29,440
Speaker 2: the beach. I'm like sitting on his face on Instagram

559
00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 2: for pretend. Like ah.

560
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:32,919
Speaker 3: Then I was like I want oysters. He's like, perfect,

561
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:34,680
Speaker 3: we can go get oysters. She takes me go get oysters.

562
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:36,360
Speaker 2: He pays. I'm like, he pays for me and this bitch.

563
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:38,399
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god. He's so nice. He's like,

564
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 2: let's go to dinner. I'm like, but I don't have clothes.

565
00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 2: He's like, I'll take you to go get extra clothes.

566
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 3: Me. No, right, So we go get the oysters. Orlando

567
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:49,200
Speaker 3: says he's gonna take my jacket to the hotel. As

568
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,719
Speaker 3: soon as Orlando walks away, the girl looks over at

569
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:55,439
Speaker 3: me at the table and goes So, me and Orlando

570
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:57,639
Speaker 3: have been fucking around for some time, but he won't

571
00:24:57,680 --> 00:24:59,879
Speaker 3: really be committed, so I think he's trying to have

572
00:24:59,920 --> 00:25:02,280
Speaker 3: a threesome or something. And I was like looking behind me,

573
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 3: I was like what.

574
00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:05,199
Speaker 2: I was like what.

575
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 3: She got so serious. We were besties all day. He

576
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 3: walked away for one second. She was like, yeah, we've

577
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:12,200
Speaker 3: been seeing each other, but he just won't commit to

578
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 3: the time that I need to see him. And now

579
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:16,160
Speaker 3: this is us like rekindling it, and I think he's

580
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:18,639
Speaker 3: trying to have a three someome And I was like no, no, no, no.

581
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:20,400
Speaker 2: I was like, we don't mess around. I don't really

582
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 2: know him like that. I just met him.

583
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:23,160
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm not trying to have it through

584
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 3: some I'm like, it's all good, Like I thought she

585
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:26,199
Speaker 3: was gonna cut me, like I was trying to take

586
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:29,719
Speaker 3: her man, and I was like no, I was like,

587
00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 3: why did this nigga tell me he was this is

588
00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:33,440
Speaker 3: a bit she fucked with because I was just thought

589
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:35,960
Speaker 3: we were all like lollygagging along. And second of all,

590
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:37,919
Speaker 3: what kind of dick is this nigga? Given out that

591
00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:39,960
Speaker 3: this bitch was about to cut me at the dinner table.

592
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 3: I was like, we were just best friends. And then

593
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 3: the like lower level bitch of me was like, huh Now,

594
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 3: I'm kind of curious because this bitch is really aggressive

595
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 3: over this nigga. I was like, he must be doing

596
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:51,919
Speaker 3: something particular in the bedroom.

597
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:55,160
Speaker 2: So they planted a seed because she was like really

598
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:59,919
Speaker 2: got really, really serious. And so after that we went

599
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,440
Speaker 2: to dinner and I ubered home.

600
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm gonna go home because I wasn't

601
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 3: trying to get caught in the crossfires of any threesomes

602
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 3: that I wasn't trying to have. And he was like,

603
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:10,680
Speaker 3: I'm gonna come over after I dropped this bitch off,

604
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:12,040
Speaker 3: and I was like whatever.

605
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:14,720
Speaker 2: I went home. I fell asleep.

606
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:16,959
Speaker 3: He came to my house from Santa Monica, which is

607
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,879
Speaker 3: not like an easy drive. Banged on the door, but

608
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 3: I didn't hear it, and he left and he was like,

609
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:23,920
Speaker 3: it's okay, I'll come back tomorrow. I was like, I'm

610
00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:26,160
Speaker 3: so sorry. I fell asleep. He was like, it's cool,

611
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 3: I'll come back after I leave San Diego. I was

612
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 3: like whatever. I'm like, you're not going to go to

613
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 3: San Diego. Come back to my house.

614
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 2: He did. He did. He's like I'm back, I'm on

615
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:36,520
Speaker 2: my way. I was like, oh wow, he's really committed.

616
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 3: Anyway, he was there for like four or five days,

617
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 3: and every single day we saw each other, and like

618
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 3: every day I was like, huh, I do come.

619
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 2: He is kind of nice. He kept doing stuff for me.

620
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:48,639
Speaker 2: I was like, are you downtown? He's like yeah. I

621
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:50,200
Speaker 2: was like, can you pick up the shelf from Craigslist?

622
00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 2: He's like sure, got this, picked up this random.

623
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:56,159
Speaker 3: Shelf, made me food, bought food, and he's like, I

624
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:57,399
Speaker 3: want to take you on this mountain.

625
00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:00,359
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take you for a ride somewhere. I was like, okay.

626
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 3: Took me to like this beautiful Topanga canyon and we

627
00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 3: like watched this moon set, we had sex and then

628
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 3: he was like, I'm gonna give you one man's stand up.

629
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:12,440
Speaker 3: I was like, what, literally did an entire comedian stand

630
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 3: up alone.

631
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 2: On top of Tipanga Mountain outside of the car. Like

632
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 2: I was like cracking up. I'm like this nigga. I

633
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:20,919
Speaker 2: was like, he's not weird, He's just an actor.

634
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 4: Myself.

635
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 3: I was like, it's not it's not too much, it's

636
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:29,919
Speaker 3: just his personality. I was starting to understand. I'm like,

637
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:32,480
Speaker 3: he's just a lot of characters.

638
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:36,160
Speaker 2: But I was also like kind of into it anyway.

639
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:39,440
Speaker 3: But the last day we had sex and Topanga Mountain,

640
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:42,159
Speaker 3: he made me a key and saltfish, which is the

641
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 3: Jamaican national dish and everybody knows I like to eat.

642
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 3: And by the time I dropped him off at the airport,

643
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 3: I was like, do you want to go to Mexico

644
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 3: next month?

645
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:52,639
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm playing Mexico next month with all

646
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 2: my friends. You want to go?

647
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:55,920
Speaker 3: And he's like okay. I was like all right, and

648
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:57,680
Speaker 3: that was it, and I told Eric. I was like,

649
00:27:57,720 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 3: I was gonna call you, tell you how much I

650
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,360
Speaker 3: didn't like him. But by the time I got a chance.

651
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:05,119
Speaker 2: To call you, I liked him already. She was like what.

652
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know.

653
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:07,879
Speaker 3: I'm confused, but yeah, I like him, and he's coming

654
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:08,440
Speaker 3: to Mexico.

655
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:09,880
Speaker 1: Beautiful life star.

656
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 2: It was beautiful.

657
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:12,960
Speaker 3: And then when he got back to New York, he

658
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 3: told me that he was seeing someone else and I

659
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:16,679
Speaker 3: was like, of course you are, because I could not

660
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 3: just like a regular nigga. And I was like, well,

661
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:22,160
Speaker 3: how is she going to feel about you coming to Mexico.

662
00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:24,160
Speaker 3: He's like, she's fine, it's not exclusive.

663
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:24,919
Speaker 2: I was like whatever.

664
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 3: And then he asked me a week before the trip

665
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:30,679
Speaker 3: if the bitch could come to Mexico with us, and

666
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 3: I was like, where is she going to sleep?

667
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 2: He's like with us?

668
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 3: I was like, this is when Erico was like, now

669
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 3: it's time to put your foot down.

670
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 2: I called Erica. Erica is my fucking wife. Hello, he's weird. Hello,

671
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 2: false Lama like him. Hello. He asked me this crazy question.

672
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 2: Tell him no bitch. So I was like, yeah, I

673
00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 2: thought about it. I don't think that's a good idea. Dah, nigga.

674
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 2: I've never met this bitch in my life.

675
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 3: You think you to bring a bitch, We're gonna be

676
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 3: fucking a happy family. Yeah, So he came to Mexico,

677
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 3: which was right after my Like I was in Mexico first,

678
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 3: I had an epic acid experience. I had a break

679
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 3: groundbreaking acid experience. And then he came and we had

680
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 3: a really really really really magical bomb ass trip. It

681
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:19,160
Speaker 3: was like after covid DJA track was playing on the

682
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 3: rooftop on New Year's Eve, there was fireworks, We're making out.

683
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:26,960
Speaker 3: We went on a fucking boat trip. Remember, it was

684
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 3: like a sunset. Whales were just like right away, like

685
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 3: riding next to.

686
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 2: The boat, like remember, And we drove to Toto Santos, Yeah, and.

687
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 3: We like stayed in a little tepee like and then

688
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 3: I let Orlando poured his blood on my chest and

689
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 3: put his initials. So I probably like put a curse

690
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 3: on myself because I allowed this to happen, and then

691
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 3: I was stuck like chuck.

692
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 2: But after that, we came back from.

693
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:53,080
Speaker 3: Mexico after like a week of being together, not really

694
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 3: knowing each other, and just went back to our regular lives.

695
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 3: They were like hey, we were like we're gonna be

696
00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 3: bonded forever, but like I'll see you later, and I

697
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 3: was like, okay.

698
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 4: So nobody can treat me worse.

699
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 2: And I treat you.

700
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 3: You can fuck with whoever you want, just to make

701
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 3: sure they treat you as good or better than I

702
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:11,640
Speaker 3: treat you.

703
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 2: And I was like, wow, that was good. Wow. And

704
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 2: then what did I do? He was he was too

705
00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 2: far away, So I.

706
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 3: Found a fake Muslim and I was like, you should

707
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 3: move in, you and your dog. And it was very

708
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 3: terrible moment. But I remember thinking this is not a

709
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 3: good idea. But I had to do it. I just

710
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:34,360
Speaker 3: had something in me. Just had to do like the

711
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 3: last toxic thing. I was like, I need to get

712
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 3: this out of my system. I just got to do it.

713
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 3: It's got to deal with somebody super toxic. And I

714
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,040
Speaker 3: did for like a strong six months.

715
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:45,479
Speaker 4: That was a very frustrating time for both of us.

716
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 2: I was lying about it. He's like, what's going on

717
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 2: with you? I was like, well, how did you deal

718
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 2: with that? Because I knew you guys were still to

719
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:52,280
Speaker 2: well were you talking all the time or did this

720
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:54,960
Speaker 2: talking have to cease? Because Leprechaun was.

721
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:56,960
Speaker 1: I was.

722
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 4: I was there and we were talking all the time.

723
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:01,680
Speaker 1: But then I would get like spans of like a

724
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 1: week and a half, two weeks or like miss calls

725
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 1: and then she would just pop up and be like, yeah,

726
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 1: I'm at a hotel, big ass fucking dog and I'm like,

727
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 1: why is that dog? Then he's like, well, this guy

728
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 1: moved in two weeks, so.

729
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 2: He's staying with me for a little bit. Yeah, but

730
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 2: he's not gonna.

731
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 1: Leave two weeks to go about it on here from him,

732
00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 1: she was like hey, and I'm like he's still there

733
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 1: is and she's like, uh so, just fans of like

734
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 1: on and off, like me, not hearing from her until

735
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 1: like I think, like July and or around the summer,

736
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 1: I started to hear from her work more consistently, and

737
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, is this nigga still around? She's like, no, no,

738
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 1: he moved her out. He moved out, mind you. She

739
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 1: came to see me and left him in the house.

740
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 2: Is that what happened? No, he was, he was in

741
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:45,720
Speaker 2: La but he had moved out. But I was I

742
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:46,880
Speaker 2: did it on purpose.

743
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm going to go see my other nigga,

744
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 3: knowing he couldn't handle it, and then he did. He

745
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:53,400
Speaker 3: dumped me and I never We messed around for a

746
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 3: little bit, but then one day I literally asked him

747
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:57,080
Speaker 3: to get the fuck out, and he never came back

748
00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 3: because God was like, and en, scene, are you done

749
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 3: being talks bitch?

750
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 2: And I was and then yeah.

751
00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 1: And a few months later we were in a relationship

752
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 1: too when she saw that I was fucking somebody else

753
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 1: and she was like, I don't like that.

754
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:09,960
Speaker 4: They said it online.

755
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:12,240
Speaker 1: And I was like, well, you know, if you want

756
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 1: this to change, then you're gonna have to commit to me.

757
00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 4: She was like, okay, so i'll get my way.

758
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 2: You're gonna tell me shut the fuck up. I was like, okay,

759
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:21,680
Speaker 2: I'll be your girlfriend.

760
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 1: Just to know other bitches could say that they fucked

761
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 1: me online.

762
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:27,360
Speaker 3: I didn't want a lot of bitches saying they fucked

763
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 3: the same person I fucked online. So I said, listen,

764
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 3: either tell those bitches to shut the fuck up, or

765
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 3: I'm gonna take my distance. He said I'm gonna be

766
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 3: your boyfriend, and I said that works, and I'm still

767
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 3: fucking other people. And he was fucking other people. He

768
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 3: had like a whole sub relationship, so I really wasn't

769
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 3: taking it very seriously.

770
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 2: I was just like, yeah, that's my boot. And then

771
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 2: we just continued to see each other. I went to

772
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:52,280
Speaker 2: New York, he came to La.

773
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 4: Dangerously in love with Mila, like she was everything to me, and.

774
00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 3: Then I was like, yeah, we're cool, we go together whatever,

775
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 3: and then we decided to go to Mexico for a month.

776
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 3: And then in Mexico, I was like, Oh, this guy

777
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 3: really does fuck with me. He really wants like he's

778
00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 3: really in a relationship with me. I guess I should

779
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 3: be too.

780
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 2: And now we're here, dear, Yeah, how did you know

781
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 2: that you wanted like that, that she was you were

782
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:22,960
Speaker 2: dangerously in love with Jamila?

783
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 4: I didn't.

784
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 1: It's just like things just kept coming up like and

785
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 1: I would just respond certain ways. Like the first time

786
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 1: I met her, she was like I'm a witch and

787
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 1: I want you to know that, and I was like, yep, fine,

788
00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 1: that's I could take that. This is like I would

789
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 1: have never said yes in any other moment. Nobody's ever

790
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 1: told me they were a witch before, and my body

791
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 1: just took to it positively. So things just like kept happening,

792
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 1: like her even telling me, oh, you want to come

793
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 1: to Mexico for a month, I was like I do.

794
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 1: I don't know why, but I know I want to go.

795
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 1: And then as things progressed, it's just like just looking

796
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:55,400
Speaker 1: at her, I was like, I really do like this woman.

797
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:59,720
Speaker 1: She is the like herself and it's such a weird

798
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 1: thing that say, but she actually acts on herself and

799
00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 1: what she wants to do. And then meeting her friends,

800
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 1: that's always like, yeah, Jamiala is gonna do what she

801
00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 1: wants when she wants to do it, And I'm like,

802
00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 1: that's my kind of woman. I am a man that

803
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:13,880
Speaker 1: does what I do. I want to do also, So

804
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:15,880
Speaker 1: just time goes by and then just like getting to

805
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:18,239
Speaker 1: know her and just seeing how like compatible we are,

806
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 1: knowing what I've wanted in a woman for like so long,

807
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:24,200
Speaker 1: and then just like naturally just being like, yeah, you know,

808
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 1: I want you to do these things. I want you

809
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 1: to feel comfortable with your titties out and I don't

810
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:30,440
Speaker 1: feel away, and I want you to be comfortable sexually,

811
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:31,920
Speaker 1: and I want you to accept me because I had

812
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:33,880
Speaker 1: an only fans and shit like that. So it's like

813
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:37,840
Speaker 1: everything just all just mixed together. And then me losing

814
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 1: the job, leaving my podcast and all these things, that's like,

815
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 1: you know what, I think it's time for me to

816
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 1: come to La and live with you.

817
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 4: Look look, baby, it's a sign.

818
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:51,600
Speaker 3: I told you bitch, I let you have your titties

819
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 3: out come in. I'm coming out my shit.

820
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:56,919
Speaker 2: Listen, Mila's prayer came true. You know, you know, see

821
00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 2: her had her prayer. Mela's prayer. We actually think we

822
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:01,919
Speaker 2: did an actual prayer was with Black Girl's text. We did.

823
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 2: And I think one of those things was like I

824
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,279
Speaker 2: want a man that's let me have my titties out,

825
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 2: like some of those things. I was gonna give me

826
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 2: a mail female. Yeah, all those I think, yeah, you really,

827
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:11,840
Speaker 2: you really did it?

828
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:13,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, because she had a godic experience when we were

829
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 1: ready together and then she called me, She's like I

830
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 1: did this, and I was like, well, how does it

831
00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 1: make you feel? I was happy. I was elated for

832
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 1: her that she was just so happy.

833
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 3: That was one thing I knew that like, wow, this

834
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:24,680
Speaker 3: is different than any other relationship I've been in because

835
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 3: I could literally tell him anything and he wasn't gonna

836
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 3: like attack me or dub me.

837
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:31,719
Speaker 2: I was like, so let me tell you what I did.

838
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:35,879
Speaker 3: He's like, oh, okay, me, my friend, her boyfriend, another chick.

839
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 2: We all. He's like, oh okay, then what happened? I

840
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 2: was like, and then, well, I think because you guys

841
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 2: are really friends. Yeah, you know that's like, that's like

842
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:46,400
Speaker 2: the foundation of your relationship is that you guys have

843
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:49,320
Speaker 2: been like brutally honest with one another from the beginning,

844
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:54,920
Speaker 2: and so like being in love, it feels easy, really interested.

845
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 1: So bad when you're being so it's like we were

846
00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 1: magically honest with each other. It wasn't brutal.

847
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:01,279
Speaker 3: It was act I mean for some people it would

848
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 3: be brutal. I mean the things that we have told

849
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,520
Speaker 3: each other. I don't think that's never been the case

850
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 3: in any other relationship for me, you know, like I've never.

851
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:13,239
Speaker 2: Because we're people. We do some extreme ship compared to

852
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 2: like the life of a square or normal. Everyone listening

853
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 2: is like, wow, it's okay to be a square. Well,

854
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 2: I don't think you're a square if you don't do

855
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 2: all the ship you do.

856
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 1: We square in the sense of like you stay in

857
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 1: the bounds of like what a relationship should look like, or.

858
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:38,840
Speaker 2: You stay in the bounds of what your relationship, but

859
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 2: you want your relationship. I'm not calling the square. I'm

860
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 2: just saying we're a little wild.

861
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:42,120
Speaker 1: You are wild.

862
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:45,879
Speaker 2: Well, speaking of wild and speaking of knowing each other

863
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 2: really well and spending what's a copious amounts of time together?

864
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:57,400
Speaker 2: Big words, baby, I hope that's the right word. I

865
00:36:57,440 --> 00:37:00,880
Speaker 2: want to do. I want to do this little this

866
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:03,360
Speaker 2: little question game we've played with all of our guests.

867
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 1: I'm listen, you know right now this is the greatest

868
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 1: podcast game has ever come out. I love this game

869
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:07,879
Speaker 1: so much.

870
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 2: Listen to everyone created it in four minutes, much like

871
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 2: everything in our business. Right off the.

872
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:19,919
Speaker 3: Cuff, I know, my teacher was like, are you gonna

873
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:20,919
Speaker 3: be able to move to the next level?

874
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know. I work well under pressure.

875
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:28,359
Speaker 3: For give me too much time, I might not perform.

876
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:28,960
Speaker 1: Mm.

877
00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:34,920
Speaker 2: So let's start with Jamila. You're gonna ask me, I'm

878
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:39,720
Speaker 2: gonna ask you about Orlando. Okay, okay. So I asked

879
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 2: Jamila and Orlando to answer some questions about each other

880
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 2: and not, you know, cheat, to see how well they

881
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:54,320
Speaker 2: knew each other. So number one question, first question, Jamila,

882
00:37:54,520 --> 00:38:00,719
Speaker 2: what is Orlando's favorite color? Orange? Correct? What is his

883
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:01,839
Speaker 2: overall pet peeve?

884
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 3: I said not when people don't say please and thank you.

885
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 3: I don't know if he'll agree with that, but like

886
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:11,799
Speaker 3: he gets super fucking irritated of me, or my eight

887
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:13,799
Speaker 3: year old daughter, don't say please and thank you like

888
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 3: a Jamaican auntie.

889
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 2: What is it crying babies on planes? Okay, that's everybody's

890
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 2: pet peeve when it comes to you.

891
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:33,280
Speaker 3: That I'm messy, that I believe my ship places somewhat

892
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:34,840
Speaker 3: using my washcloth and towel.

893
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:39,799
Speaker 2: We got in a fight about this last night.

894
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, get me a towel with a rag.

895
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:46,919
Speaker 3: Now I think there's there're plentiful, we're not running low,

896
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:47,600
Speaker 3: And then he's.

897
00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 2: There are not in that cabinet. I was like, here

898
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:56,920
Speaker 2: you go. Okay, what is his childhood pet's name? He

899
00:38:56,960 --> 00:39:01,320
Speaker 2: didn't have one. His animals shouldn't be pets. He doesn't

900
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 2: believe animal shi pets? What what would he what would

901
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:10,399
Speaker 2: he say is wait? What would you say? What would

902
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 2: you say? Is his best quality? What would he wait?

903
00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 2: What would say? You wrote these, bitch, you would think

904
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:22,319
Speaker 2: I would have spelled checked it. Since we've done this

905
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 2: like four times now, what would he say? Is your

906
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 2: best quality? My ability to know?

907
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 4: What is his best quality?

908
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 2: What is his best quality? His best quality is being

909
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:43,480
Speaker 2: adaptable people person Yeah, reading myself, listening, making people feel comfortable.

910
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:47,440
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. What is his worst quality?

911
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 3: I don't know big, moody patience, pretty patient though you're

912
00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:57,240
Speaker 3: pretty patient.

913
00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 2: What is something he's most so instead of about money?

914
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 2: Mm hmm you.

915
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:11,399
Speaker 1: What you say was done to you. That's slightly why

916
00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:14,279
Speaker 1: I was okay with being your boyfriend. Also because like

917
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 1: these niggas are not doing it. Niggas are sucking up

918
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 1: nobody'shoting your right so.

919
00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 2: We can be the mom.

920
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:25,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, I got a pool around him, like a money pool.

921
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:28,880
Speaker 1: Oh what you mean, like we're putting in and who's

922
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 1: going to put hands on her? Some of her axes? First?

923
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:35,800
Speaker 3: Perfect particular you guys are being recorded.

924
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 2: It's fine. What is something that he is most he's

925
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:52,120
Speaker 2: accomplished that he is most proud of? Is uh? His

926
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 2: business as a creative? You that he's what? What has

927
00:40:58,040 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 2: he accomplished that he's most proud of.

928
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:03,960
Speaker 1: I had this moment in the fourth grade where I

929
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 1: was like, I'm gonna spend every day trying to better

930
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 1: myself so that when I find the woman I'm going

931
00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 1: to be with, she has nothing to complain about. So

932
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 1: I've been like practicing every day. It's like a fourth

933
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:14,280
Speaker 1: grade to be this person.

934
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 2: Wow.

935
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, we went when we went to Mexico for a month,

936
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:20,400
Speaker 3: the book he brought for the vacation.

937
00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:22,399
Speaker 4: Was every Man's Marriage.

938
00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:28,360
Speaker 3: He brought every Man's Marriage as the like the vacation read.

939
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:31,479
Speaker 2: What is that book about? Like how that best husband Ever?

940
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 1: It's basically about this Christian guy and he's talking about

941
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 1: how is how his marriage was and how he wasn't

942
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 1: being like a good Christian and in because of that,

943
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:44,080
Speaker 1: he wasn't being a good man and a good husband.

944
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 1: And then at the end of every chapter, it's like

945
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:49,440
Speaker 1: a bunch of questions to like, uh, how did you

946
00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:50,640
Speaker 1: feel about the chapter and.

947
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:51,400
Speaker 4: What you got from it?

948
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 1: And I would like answer the questions like put a

949
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:57,279
Speaker 1: little bookmark in the book for every chapter. Adorable on

950
00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 1: this thirty day.

951
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 2: I'm going to shut a tear. I was like, Wow,

952
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 2: this is pretty serious. What is Orlando's biggest insecurity? I

953
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 2: don't think he has any bad bitches, don't get insecure.

954
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 2: I know it sounds about right. What would be a

955
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 2: deal breaker in a relationship? In his relationship lying close,

956
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:23,400
Speaker 2: being ignored?

957
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:25,640
Speaker 1: I've actually ended a relationship because of that.

958
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 2: What do you mean, like like someone doesn't answer the call?

959
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 1: Yeah?

960
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:30,799
Speaker 4: In person? So we were in person. We were having

961
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:31,360
Speaker 4: a conversation.

962
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:34,320
Speaker 1: She was like packing to travel to go somewhere. And

963
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:36,760
Speaker 1: as I'm like it was a conversation about her relationship,

964
00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:41,160
Speaker 1: and as she's like actively packing, she's also like ignoring

965
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:42,759
Speaker 1: me because I'm saying it loud enough she could hear me,

966
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 1: or like right in front of each other. And then

967
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 1: so I said, oh word. So I started to get dressed,

968
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 1: and as she's packing, by the time like I walked

969
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 1: out her apartment, we were a relationship. And by time

970
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:54,239
Speaker 1: I got downstairs, we were broken up. And then she

971
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:56,360
Speaker 1: called me. She's like, did you just leave the apartment?

972
00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:59,040
Speaker 1: And I'm like yeah, And also we're not together anymore.

973
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:01,799
Speaker 2: Damn, I don't don't ignore him.

974
00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 3: He almost hated me when that guy moved in and

975
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 3: I was not answering those phone yeah yeah.

976
00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:16,480
Speaker 2: Lines. Where does he like to grocery? Stop shop? Now, Ralphs? No,

977
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 2: Where did the fuck do you grocery shop?

978
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 1: Exactly?

979
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 2: Where do any stores with Jamaican groceries? The Bombay Indians.

980
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 4: Market, It's like not far from here.

981
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:34,400
Speaker 2: I was. I think I've heard you go there. You

982
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:34,880
Speaker 2: know where it is.

983
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 3: It's the it's in the fucking remember the trainer that

984
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:38,399
Speaker 3: stopped training us because we.

985
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 2: Oh, I do Did I remember that?

986
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 1: Yeah?

987
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 2: Wow, nothing, I remember seeing that market favorite favorite musical

988
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:55,640
Speaker 2: artist of all time, Luther Vandros No you love no

989
00:43:55,760 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 2: Tendy pendergrass Yep, what is the old fucking I know?

990
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 2: He is a aunty for real? He is what God

991
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:06,439
Speaker 2: we gotta insert I guess we already inserted it once.

992
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:08,640
Speaker 2: But that fucking when we went to go see Patti

993
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:17,280
Speaker 2: LaBelle his fucking face watching Patty? What is his guilty pleasure?

994
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:23,560
Speaker 3: Eating anything that I cook? Eating when I eat? Guilty

995
00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:24,880
Speaker 3: pleasure eating.

996
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 2: When you eat? Isn't that when you're Is that called dinner?

997
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:30,000
Speaker 4: Because all the starch eating and stuff like.

998
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:35,400
Speaker 2: Guilty pleasure the Bad Boys Club give.

999
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 1: Me is the most disgusting thing. I can't stop. I

1000
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:42,800
Speaker 1: watched two other episodes.

1001
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:48,759
Speaker 2: When You're what who zeus? Did you use?

1002
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 1: No? No? Sorry you when you left to go to

1003
00:44:55,960 --> 00:44:57,960
Speaker 1: Costa Rica? Watch two episodes.

1004
00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 2: What is his favorite porn category? Anal DDP or some

1005
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:12,279
Speaker 2: shitp anal compilation? Yeah, I mean something like that. How

1006
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 2: old were you? How old was he when he lost

1007
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:24,480
Speaker 2: his virginity? Twelve lower nine nine? I don't know, Oh,

1008
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:26,360
Speaker 2: oh where was it? He doesn't know, He doesn't know.

1009
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 1: Where it was.

1010
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 2: How did you not know.

1011
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:28,879
Speaker 1: It's years old?

1012
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:33,080
Speaker 2: That's very young. Yeah, the girl was like twelve.

1013
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:35,399
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, she's like eleven twelve, Yeah, that's what.

1014
00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 2: It was, very young, Like, how did you know where

1015
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:38,440
Speaker 2: to put it?

1016
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:41,279
Speaker 4: Then she told him, great coach.

1017
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:48,839
Speaker 2: What moment did you know that you loved her? What

1018
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 2: moment did he know that he loves me?

1019
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, bacalar, I loved the other.

1020
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:57,240
Speaker 2: Oh, Mexico, in Mexico.

1021
00:45:57,800 --> 00:45:59,399
Speaker 4: It was in Mexico on the boat.

1022
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:02,360
Speaker 2: A moment when you when you did too many mushrooms.

1023
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:06,880
Speaker 3: Oh, when the fireworks on the top of the d.

1024
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:08,759
Speaker 2: J A strack, the fireworks.

1025
00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 3: We kissed, when the count is all like within like

1026
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:15,759
Speaker 3: a few days after creating your blood blonde, after I

1027
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 3: allowed him to put his blood on my chest. That

1028
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:28,520
Speaker 3: makes sense. What is his biggest fear losing me?

1029
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:34,759
Speaker 2: Yes? And also poverty. I know it's gonna be one

1030
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:35,840
Speaker 2: of the other, like being poor.

1031
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:39,319
Speaker 3: Poverty is like I've never heard of, like poverty, this

1032
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:45,279
Speaker 3: poor poverty.

1033
00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 2: Mine too, babes ship.

1034
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 3: What is your biggest fite poverty? What is his favorite

1035
00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:53,120
Speaker 3: sex position from the back or.

1036
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:57,439
Speaker 2: That Yeah, finished that one where I put my leg

1037
00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 2: here and.

1038
00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:00,840
Speaker 4: Here like like we're scissor.

1039
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well I just think doggy. Well, my legs

1040
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 2: are closed. Mela, I'm the position. You're his favorite? Are

1041
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:09,880
Speaker 2: you trying to do this for Clout?

1042
00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:14,400
Speaker 4: Very sensitive about you. The biggest is losing you.

1043
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:24,640
Speaker 2: Would he prefer to save or spend money? Spend save,

1044
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:27,840
Speaker 2: but I end up spending. Who is this celebrity crush

1045
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:34,399
Speaker 2: fucking a lot of really? Yeah? And someone else though too,

1046
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:37,920
Speaker 2: I don't know the other one, Ari Lennox.

1047
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, Lotto was the woman in my dreams I

1048
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 1: never had a crush on and I had a dream

1049
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:44,719
Speaker 1: that I just went on a regular ass date with

1050
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:46,640
Speaker 1: Lotto and I woke up and I was like, she's

1051
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:48,360
Speaker 1: she's actually kind of cute.

1052
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 4: And I had a crush on her. Ever since, Wow,

1053
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 4: I do like her.

1054
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:53,759
Speaker 2: She's wraps have grown on me a lot over the

1055
00:47:53,840 --> 00:48:00,399
Speaker 2: last three months. How does he feel about non monogamy? Oh,

1056
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:05,960
Speaker 2: he's he's with it, he says, sure. Tiring. It's a

1057
00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:06,319
Speaker 2: lot of.

1058
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:09,720
Speaker 1: Energy when you do non monogamy, like right with intention

1059
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:11,319
Speaker 1: and care and not just like oh I just want

1060
00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:13,759
Speaker 1: like a bunch of people that are into me. Like

1061
00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:15,920
Speaker 1: it is tiring. It takes a lot of energy.

1062
00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:18,880
Speaker 2: Were you non monogamous in all of like most of

1063
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:19,640
Speaker 2: your relationships?

1064
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:21,520
Speaker 4: No, it's my first nonogamous.

1065
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:24,080
Speaker 2: You, Mila were, and it wasn't triggering at all for

1066
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:26,959
Speaker 2: you because you're not jealous. No, you don't have any

1067
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:29,880
Speaker 2: like tiny inkling of any sort of jealousy position.

1068
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's not like I don't get jealous about

1069
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:34,719
Speaker 1: the things that usually I get jealous about, things like

1070
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:37,360
Speaker 1: me getting up attention. Are you getting somebody else more

1071
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:38,960
Speaker 1: attention than me? That's what I'm justus about, not you

1072
00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:40,840
Speaker 1: fucking somebody else or doing things.

1073
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:42,480
Speaker 2: Do you think that you could open up your relationship

1074
00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 2: now that it's been closed for however long it's been closed?

1075
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 2: Me or him?

1076
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 4: Either can can and I?

1077
00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 1: Or what it? Yes? Are we going to its? Like?

1078
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 1: I don't think we really necessary?

1079
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:58,520
Speaker 2: No, that's not happening. Only group three shut up? I'm

1080
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:07,839
Speaker 2: you shut them'll tell them what you shut the fuck up.

1081
00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:10,320
Speaker 2: I don't even know what's a group threesome.

1082
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:16,440
Speaker 4: Like group three somes, not single threemes, just group three.

1083
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:19,399
Speaker 3: There will be no when I made no group three

1084
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:24,719
Speaker 3: somemes at any hotels, bitch, and no more than five

1085
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:28,680
Speaker 3: shots of tequila to ensure that never happens.

1086
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 2: What is his favorite memory of your relationship The fireworks? Yeah,

1087
00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:39,760
Speaker 2: twenty one New Year's kiss.

1088
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's when we were kissing. We were on strooms

1089
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:45,720
Speaker 1: were wild, and it was so great. Everything was colorful.

1090
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 1: Remember how beautiful everything was. And as we're kissing, I

1091
00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:50,279
Speaker 1: was holding her up and I opened my eyes and

1092
00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:53,160
Speaker 1: this firework goes off behind her head while we're kissing.

1093
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:55,719
Speaker 2: Small it was pretty magical ship, you remember. I was

1094
00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:57,919
Speaker 2: very yard. I had my own magical experience. I'm pretty

1095
00:49:57,920 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 2: sure we made out. Everybody made Yeah, make out with us,

1096
00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 2: You make out with us.

1097
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:04,000
Speaker 4: Let's make out at the beach.

1098
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:07,399
Speaker 2: We hadn't been at the house in a long time.

1099
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 2: It was it was like our first time we'd heard

1100
00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 2: live music with a person in front of us playing

1101
00:50:12,520 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 2: it for like a year, where like we and we

1102
00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:16,040
Speaker 2: were close to a track, like we were in front

1103
00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:18,000
Speaker 2: of his DJ. But I have I don't think I've

1104
00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 2: ever danced that hard ever ever. I never danced that

1105
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:25,080
Speaker 2: hard in my life. I was like sweating. I remember

1106
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 2: being out of breath, but I couldn't stop. So much fun.

1107
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 2: It was so much sparkle scir I was like a

1108
00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:35,759
Speaker 2: kid at Disneyland on four hundred pounds of candy. I

1109
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:39,520
Speaker 2: was like, this is the best day every it was.

1110
00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:41,839
Speaker 2: It was, it was fucking amazing. Was no I will

1111
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:42,719
Speaker 2: ever forget that trip.

1112
00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:43,440
Speaker 1: That was amazing.

1113
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:47,320
Speaker 2: What do you wish that Mela saw more in herself?

1114
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 2: What does he wish that you saw more in yourself?

1115
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 3: Like being a boss bitch, like a bossy, like dominant,

1116
00:50:57,760 --> 00:51:00,560
Speaker 3: like power move bitch that she.

1117
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:05,040
Speaker 2: Doesn't need to be scared to make decisions. I can't

1118
00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:07,920
Speaker 2: make any decisions. You gets annoyed, Which where are we

1119
00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:09,920
Speaker 2: going make the decision? Right?

1120
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:14,480
Speaker 1: Her other thing is like not making a decision, but

1121
00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:16,840
Speaker 1: like suggesting the decision, like they're.

1122
00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:18,200
Speaker 3: Getting mad if I don't like it, Like why the

1123
00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:21,239
Speaker 3: fuck did we do this, bitch? Because you didn't decide.

1124
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:25,560
Speaker 1: But yeah, your boss and your decisions are great and

1125
00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:27,319
Speaker 1: even if they're bad, I'm going to be here to

1126
00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:28,200
Speaker 1: help you out of them.

1127
00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:28,759
Speaker 2: Thank you.

1128
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:30,360
Speaker 1: You don't have to be scared to make the decisions.

1129
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:31,040
Speaker 2: Thank you, babe.

1130
00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:31,759
Speaker 1: I love that.

1131
00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:38,320
Speaker 2: I love this. Okay, now it's your turn, Orlando perfect.

1132
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 1: Why are you staring?

1133
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:43,440
Speaker 2: What you know? I'm reading this and I'm like, do

1134
00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:48,719
Speaker 2: I know anything about my Jesus Christ. What is Jamila's

1135
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:49,400
Speaker 2: favorite color?

1136
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 4: Green and black?

1137
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 2: What is her overall pet peeve?

1138
00:51:56,080 --> 00:52:01,360
Speaker 1: Her overall pet peeve is, Oh, scraping on a plate?

1139
00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:07,719
Speaker 2: Close, tapping unnecessary noises? Yeah, I hate scraping. You want

1140
00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:13,040
Speaker 2: two kids? Okay, pet peeve? When it comes to.

1141
00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:14,719
Speaker 4: You, do I do?

1142
00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 1: That's a scraping on plates? Or like when I blow

1143
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 1: snad on my nose?

1144
00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:27,000
Speaker 2: I hate hate that too. Wait what he.

1145
00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:29,920
Speaker 3: Does this fucking disgusting thing where he literally will just

1146
00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:39,000
Speaker 3: be like I would hold on like inside, like indoor, no,

1147
00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 3: like on a hike, Like, just don't do that.

1148
00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 2: No one needs to see that. That's not it. That's

1149
00:52:45,120 --> 00:52:46,920
Speaker 2: one that should be on their that. I forgot about that.

1150
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:49,440
Speaker 2: Not cleaning his hairs out of the bathroom.

1151
00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:52,560
Speaker 1: Oh you really don't like that. I well, you only

1152
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:54,000
Speaker 1: mentioned it from times like I.

1153
00:52:54,200 --> 00:52:58,360
Speaker 2: Say it like twenty times. Your hair is fucking everywhere.

1154
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:06,839
Speaker 2: It sheds everywhere everywhere. What is his childhood pet's name

1155
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:08,880
Speaker 2: or what is her childhood pets name? He's not gonna

1156
00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:09,040
Speaker 2: know this.

1157
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:10,760
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna but it was a dog.

1158
00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:15,759
Speaker 2: Though he wrote something Juann, didn't you name?

1159
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:20,560
Speaker 4: Did you have only one or more than one?

1160
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:27,920
Speaker 2: One only one. What would what would you say is

1161
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:30,080
Speaker 2: her best What would she say is her best quality?

1162
00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:37,840
Speaker 1: Her best quality is that it's something about people like

1163
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:43,640
Speaker 1: he was something people pleasing. Yeah, empathy, empathy, empathy for people.

1164
00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:44,319
Speaker 1: I hate that ship.

1165
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:46,160
Speaker 4: They don't want to fuck with you.

1166
00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:53,520
Speaker 2: The driver is trying to find us. Don't cancel it.

1167
00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:56,880
Speaker 2: He's almost Remember she did that in New Orleans? Is

1168
00:53:56,920 --> 00:54:05,479
Speaker 2: that New Orleans? He came through. He was like, thanks

1169
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:07,080
Speaker 2: for being patience my first time driving.

1170
00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:11,480
Speaker 3: I was like, it's cool, not these motherfuckers you.

1171
00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:14,640
Speaker 2: I was like, he's coming. I'm like, hell, if you

1172
00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 2: make a left, I was so easy to make a

1173
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:17,200
Speaker 2: left on shoes.

1174
00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:17,800
Speaker 4: She never been on.

1175
00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:25,520
Speaker 2: You gotta have face in people? What is what is

1176
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:28,320
Speaker 2: her worst what is his way? What is her worst quality?

1177
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:35,759
Speaker 1: Your worst quality is you think? Your worst quality your

1178
00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:37,920
Speaker 1: decision making? Taking a long to get dressed.

1179
00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:39,600
Speaker 2: I don't take long to get dressed.

1180
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:41,480
Speaker 4: Oh how messy you are?

1181
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 2: No, none of those things. Damn speaking without thinking.

1182
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:47,799
Speaker 1: Oh wow, that's you do that.

1183
00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:50,719
Speaker 2: Sometimes I say ship. Probably shouldn't have said it.

1184
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:53,120
Speaker 1: Wasn't there was at Erica's dinner. You're about to say

1185
00:54:53,120 --> 00:54:57,640
Speaker 1: sound I was like, no, what what were doing it

1186
00:54:57,760 --> 00:54:59,960
Speaker 1: was an awkward sounds like m mmmm.

1187
00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:04,680
Speaker 2: What is something she's most sensitive about?

1188
00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:12,279
Speaker 1: Her child? The podcast?

1189
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:20,960
Speaker 3: Everything personally, everything everything personal, everything, personal ships, personal.

1190
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:26,520
Speaker 2: Anything personal to me? What has she accomplished that she's

1191
00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:32,640
Speaker 2: most proud of, this podcast and motherhood? What is her

1192
00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:36,719
Speaker 2: biggest insecurity? I don't know if he's gonna give us.

1193
00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 4: I don't know breaking out.

1194
00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:49,759
Speaker 3: I've accepted that I was gonna set my scan.

1195
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:54,879
Speaker 2: I'm accepted that spelling terribly. Oh yeah, you spelled terribly right.

1196
00:55:57,560 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 4: How were we supposed to know? If you keep spelling things right?

1197
00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 2: Well, you know, text has saved me. What would be

1198
00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 2: a deal breaker in your relationship with her or any relationship?

1199
00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:08,560
Speaker 1: Another baby?

1200
00:56:09,280 --> 00:56:10,040
Speaker 4: Well another.

1201
00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:14,680
Speaker 1: If I had a baby.

1202
00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:19,120
Speaker 2: I was like, I thought, like that I'm pregnant. I'm out.

1203
00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 1: I can't believe you did this to me.

1204
00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 2: No, that's not it. Uh physical abuse or verbal Oh right,

1205
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:30,839
Speaker 2: I forgot about the baby thing that would be done

1206
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:32,160
Speaker 2: to every time I tell him, He's like, you don't

1207
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:33,879
Speaker 2: have unconditional love for me. I was like, I guess

1208
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:36,080
Speaker 2: not the baby. I think he has a baby on me.

1209
00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:38,920
Speaker 3: I was like, probably, He's like, I would stay with you.

1210
00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:40,560
Speaker 3: I was like you can buy my belly from another nigga.

1211
00:56:40,640 --> 00:56:43,080
Speaker 2: He's like, yeah, I would just wait till it happens.

1212
00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:44,120
Speaker 1: What happened?

1213
00:56:44,719 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, where does Jamila like to grocery? I mean,

1214
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:53,120
Speaker 2: where does her wait? Where does meal like to grocery shop?

1215
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:54,560
Speaker 1: Rolpse?

1216
00:56:55,320 --> 00:57:02,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, basic instacart? What's her favorite musical artist of all time?

1217
00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:13,400
Speaker 1: Damn? You like a lot of music? I was gonna say, no, it's.

1218
00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:14,799
Speaker 2: Not it's not.

1219
00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:16,800
Speaker 3: Oh.

1220
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:18,400
Speaker 2: I thought he was cool and jay I was.

1221
00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:21,880
Speaker 4: Like, what, I don't think I'm gonna get this on?

1222
00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:22,360
Speaker 4: What is it?

1223
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:23,040
Speaker 2: Prince?

1224
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:23,760
Speaker 1: Is it?

1225
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:26,800
Speaker 2: I ain't got no money. You don't really listen to

1226
00:57:26,840 --> 00:57:28,280
Speaker 2: Prince I love him though, you.

1227
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:30,320
Speaker 4: Listen to a lot of indie music I am.

1228
00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:33,520
Speaker 2: I'm probably probably think I'm very boring Indian music like

1229
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 2: indie like I don't know. I like chill music. That's

1230
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:39,360
Speaker 2: like music come to my home? And do you like this?

1231
00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:44,240
Speaker 2: What is her guilty pleasure? I don't even know what

1232
00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:44,640
Speaker 2: I wrote.

1233
00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:48,280
Speaker 1: Your guilty pressure is? What do you feel good?

1234
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:50,320
Speaker 2: I don't really feel guilty about this. I don't know

1235
00:57:50,360 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 2: why I brought that?

1236
00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:52,360
Speaker 1: Was it our?

1237
00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:54,920
Speaker 4: Is it our late night? Like role playing?

1238
00:57:55,560 --> 00:57:58,400
Speaker 2: No? I don't feel Can you stop now?

1239
00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:02,240
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know that food. I was gonna say

1240
00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:05,440
Speaker 1: starch too. I don't think you you feel guilty eating

1241
00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:07,560
Speaker 1: no fucking out.

1242
00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:11,360
Speaker 2: I met a Thanksgiving dinner last night for no reason.

1243
00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:14,640
Speaker 2: What is her favorite porn category?

1244
00:58:18,720 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 1: Uh? I just said it was lesbians? Is like something

1245
00:58:22,080 --> 00:58:24,760
Speaker 1: with not heterosexuals? Oh? Or is just now and something

1246
00:58:24,800 --> 00:58:27,040
Speaker 1: that heterosexual? Gay men?

1247
00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:28,720
Speaker 4: It might be gay men or two women.

1248
00:58:28,840 --> 00:58:30,560
Speaker 2: You've never seen me watch lesbian porn?

1249
00:58:30,600 --> 00:58:31,800
Speaker 4: Ever't you watch porn?

1250
00:58:31,920 --> 00:58:32,200
Speaker 1: Really?

1251
00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:33,439
Speaker 2: I don't really watch porn.

1252
00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:36,400
Speaker 1: Oh wait, wait, no, no, no, stepbrother and like, oh yeah,

1253
00:58:36,440 --> 00:58:36,760
Speaker 1: that is it.

1254
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:39,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm surprised. That's not I forgot.

1255
00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:41,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know that's the wrong mms.

1256
00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:46,440
Speaker 2: It's never gonna let that girl threesome. How old was

1257
00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:48,600
Speaker 2: she when? How old was she when she lost her virginity?

1258
00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:49,320
Speaker 2: And where was she?

1259
00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:53,040
Speaker 4: You're like fifteen sixteen?

1260
00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:53,360
Speaker 1: At home?

1261
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:53,880
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1262
00:58:53,920 --> 00:58:54,240
Speaker 2: I think?

1263
00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:57,600
Speaker 3: So what moment did you know?

1264
00:58:57,680 --> 00:58:59,240
Speaker 2: What moment did she know that she loved you?

1265
00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 1: After Mexico? After a trip in Mexico? It was it

1266
00:59:06,040 --> 00:59:07,000
Speaker 1: later before.

1267
00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:11,760
Speaker 2: During baccolara on mushrooms? No, that's wrong, okay, well that's

1268
00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:12,440
Speaker 2: what you wrote.

1269
00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:14,640
Speaker 1: You love me?

1270
00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 2: Wait before that I think, I, uh wait, what's the question.

1271
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:20,880
Speaker 2: What moment did you know you loved him? I met

1272
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 2: when I dropped you off at the airport at Eliet.

1273
00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:26,800
Speaker 2: How much did we get? I thought that was I

1274
00:59:26,840 --> 00:59:27,880
Speaker 2: read it wrong. I read it wrong.

1275
00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:30,600
Speaker 4: The first week, Oh wow, I didn't you know you

1276
00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:30,920
Speaker 4: loved him?

1277
00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:33,240
Speaker 2: The first week we said, we told each other we

1278
00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:35,880
Speaker 2: loved each other. That week had sex, like I love you,

1279
00:59:36,120 --> 00:59:36,400
Speaker 2: I love you.

1280
00:59:36,520 --> 00:59:39,240
Speaker 1: To read this conversation like, you know, people like us,

1281
00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 1: it's okay for us to say I love you because

1282
00:59:41,160 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 1: we just have so much love to give.

1283
00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:44,440
Speaker 3: So I was like, I know I love people, just

1284
00:59:44,520 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 3: mean I'm in love with them, and you're like same,

1285
00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:48,160
Speaker 3: and so I think we took that as a green

1286
00:59:48,200 --> 00:59:49,280
Speaker 3: light to be like I love you.

1287
00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 2: Got it.

1288
00:59:49,960 --> 00:59:53,040
Speaker 1: But the Baccalar it was part of the thirty days

1289
00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:53,520
Speaker 1: in Mexico.

1290
00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:54,760
Speaker 2: I think I knew that it was.

1291
00:59:55,000 --> 00:59:56,840
Speaker 4: It was like this is a person.

1292
00:59:57,120 --> 00:59:58,960
Speaker 1: That's when. That's what we knew in Baccala.

1293
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:00,000
Speaker 2: She's getting married.

1294
01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:04,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, what is her biggest fear?

1295
01:00:06,600 --> 01:00:17,840
Speaker 1: Her biggest fear is, Wow, it's your biggest fear? I

1296
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:21,120
Speaker 1: don't know, wrote I don't know what your biggest fare is.

1297
01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:23,640
Speaker 4: I don't know losing family.

1298
01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 2: Death is someone I love. Favorite sex position?

1299
01:00:29,560 --> 01:00:32,520
Speaker 1: Uh, either when she's laying flat on her stomach or

1300
01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:34,440
Speaker 1: doggy style from.

1301
01:00:34,240 --> 01:00:36,560
Speaker 2: The back or hetero scissor. I've never heard of heterosis.

1302
01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:37,960
Speaker 2: What herois?

1303
01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:38,080
Speaker 1: Oh?

1304
01:00:38,080 --> 01:00:39,640
Speaker 4: You want to China.

1305
01:00:39,760 --> 01:00:40,200
Speaker 1: It's like.

1306
01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:46,640
Speaker 4: It's like this, but we're on the bed, so it's flats.

1307
01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:47,680
Speaker 4: Were like kind of like scissoring.

1308
01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:49,680
Speaker 2: Oh, because you can really get in there.

1309
01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:52,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, She's like, whatever you do during scissoring, you're doing it.

1310
01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:53,720
Speaker 1: But does it dick in you? Now?

1311
01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 2: Is that how? Bitch? And scissors backwards like this? I mean,

1312
01:00:57,280 --> 01:00:58,920
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm not a love their formal lesbian.

1313
01:00:59,680 --> 01:01:00,800
Speaker 4: It's like this, this is one too.

1314
01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:13,600
Speaker 2: Oh god it okay, I's gonna love that perfect.

1315
01:01:15,040 --> 01:01:19,280
Speaker 3: Maybe it's for Patreon, epic physician, go to Patreon.

1316
01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:25,800
Speaker 2: What would you? Okay? Would she? Which would Mila prefer

1317
01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:27,040
Speaker 2: to save or spend money?

1318
01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:27,680
Speaker 1: Spend?

1319
01:01:28,520 --> 01:01:32,400
Speaker 2: Spend when I have enough saved? Who is her celebrity crush?

1320
01:01:33,000 --> 01:01:35,040
Speaker 1: Her celebrity cush is Janna?

1321
01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:39,480
Speaker 2: No, I let him go. I don't think his body

1322
01:01:39,560 --> 01:01:40,720
Speaker 2: is nice enough. Got it?

1323
01:01:40,760 --> 01:01:42,480
Speaker 1: Okay? So who is it?

1324
01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:43,840
Speaker 2: Ah?

1325
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:45,120
Speaker 1: Who is it? I said?

1326
01:01:46,040 --> 01:01:48,760
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, you're not gonna guess again, Jason Momoa.

1327
01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:52,200
Speaker 3: Oh he's not a celebrity, but that guy from my

1328
01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:54,520
Speaker 3: Instagram stories, the witchy man.

1329
01:01:55,440 --> 01:01:59,640
Speaker 2: The witchy man with the witchy wife. Yeah yeah, building Akia.

1330
01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:02,840
Speaker 2: How does Mila feel about non monogamy?

1331
01:02:04,480 --> 01:02:05,240
Speaker 1: Not anymore?

1332
01:02:06,120 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 2: If it works for you, great, doesn't exactly work in mine?

1333
01:02:11,120 --> 01:02:16,320
Speaker 2: Evil ass last them. If for all people listening, if

1334
01:02:16,360 --> 01:02:20,000
Speaker 2: you go back four years of just our content and

1335
01:02:20,160 --> 01:02:24,080
Speaker 2: us all saying that we will, monogamy is not for us,

1336
01:02:24,080 --> 01:02:30,439
Speaker 2: four years straight, solid like relentless, no monogamary over here.

1337
01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:35,960
Speaker 3: Look at this, Look at this pitch called transformation. It's crazy.

1338
01:02:36,120 --> 01:02:38,560
Speaker 1: Bring on the monogamy, have the plate of it.

1339
01:02:39,480 --> 01:02:43,680
Speaker 2: Favorite memory in your relationship, her favorite memory in that relationship.

1340
01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:50,520
Speaker 1: Mexico in twenty twenty one. The New Year's either New

1341
01:02:50,600 --> 01:02:51,479
Speaker 1: Year's or on the boat.

1342
01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:55,640
Speaker 2: No baccoalare mushroom. I didn't mean to write, yeah I

1343
01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:58,200
Speaker 2: met that for that, Yeah, bacala, what does she wish

1344
01:02:58,280 --> 01:02:59,360
Speaker 2: you saw more of than yourself?

1345
01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:00,840
Speaker 1: Oh?

1346
01:03:04,200 --> 01:03:04,800
Speaker 4: I don't know that.

1347
01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:11,680
Speaker 1: I am. I already see her a great I am.

1348
01:03:11,720 --> 01:03:14,640
Speaker 4: It's very hard when you call yourself a blessing. It's

1349
01:03:14,760 --> 01:03:19,600
Speaker 4: very hot. I don't know that I can accomplish things.

1350
01:03:20,480 --> 01:03:22,800
Speaker 2: How intelligent, driven and talented you are.

1351
01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:25,760
Speaker 1: That is true. I do wish I saw that myself.

1352
01:03:26,600 --> 01:03:29,800
Speaker 2: And that's it. Guys. You guys have really well, pretty good.

1353
01:03:29,800 --> 01:03:32,080
Speaker 4: I know each other really well for unmarried couple.

1354
01:03:33,040 --> 01:03:36,240
Speaker 2: Marriage detect dictates whether or not you some pe married

1355
01:03:36,240 --> 01:03:39,720
Speaker 2: people and we shut up. Some married people do not

1356
01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:41,800
Speaker 2: know each other that well. But that's all I have

1357
01:03:41,840 --> 01:03:45,760
Speaker 2: to say about that. It's true, that's true. Should we

1358
01:03:45,800 --> 01:03:46,920
Speaker 2: should we put this on our patreon.

1359
01:03:46,960 --> 01:03:49,080
Speaker 3: If you're thinking about getting married, first ask your husband

1360
01:03:49,080 --> 01:03:49,800
Speaker 3: these questions.

1361
01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:54,360
Speaker 2: Should you go put these questions on Patreon?

1362
01:03:54,520 --> 01:03:56,600
Speaker 3: And then you can go and see how much you

1363
01:03:56,640 --> 01:04:02,080
Speaker 3: know your partner and then you can cry or be happy. No,

1364
01:04:02,200 --> 01:04:04,320
Speaker 3: I think these are like, I think these are questions

1365
01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:07,480
Speaker 3: that are not that crazy, but like you don't always

1366
01:04:07,600 --> 01:04:12,680
Speaker 3: think to ask even like your dogs, your partner's dog

1367
01:04:12,720 --> 01:04:15,360
Speaker 3: as a child, or like yeah, and also like what

1368
01:04:15,400 --> 01:04:19,080
Speaker 3: you wish you partner saw more of than him or herself. Yeah,

1369
01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:21,200
Speaker 3: because like you almost get scared to tell them too,

1370
01:04:21,240 --> 01:04:23,280
Speaker 3: because it makes them it could make them feel like

1371
01:04:24,080 --> 01:04:26,440
Speaker 3: obviously insecure, they're not enough of those things.

1372
01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:29,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's easy to get defensive in that kind of moment,

1373
01:04:30,840 --> 01:04:31,040
Speaker 1: But I.

1374
01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:33,400
Speaker 2: Think it's an opportunity for like to come together and

1375
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:35,080
Speaker 2: kind of get to know each other more and like

1376
01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:38,919
Speaker 2: be able to dive deeper into these questions to bring

1377
01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:39,920
Speaker 2: you guys closer together.

1378
01:04:40,280 --> 01:04:42,880
Speaker 1: I love learning new things about Mila, and I love

1379
01:04:42,920 --> 01:04:44,640
Speaker 1: when she tells anythings I always tell her, like, I

1380
01:04:44,640 --> 01:04:46,440
Speaker 1: can only love you more the more I get to

1381
01:04:46,480 --> 01:04:49,000
Speaker 1: know about you, Like we're already at that point where

1382
01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:51,920
Speaker 1: it makes no sense not to tell me something because

1383
01:04:52,160 --> 01:04:54,120
Speaker 1: whatever you tell me, I'm going to find out more,

1384
01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:56,920
Speaker 1: and like whatever details I have of you, like I

1385
01:04:56,960 --> 01:04:57,520
Speaker 1: can now.

1386
01:04:57,520 --> 01:05:00,680
Speaker 4: React to that detail and a loving, accepting way.

1387
01:05:01,760 --> 01:05:03,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're doing a lot of talking.

1388
01:05:03,880 --> 01:05:06,000
Speaker 3: You do a lot of talking, as you can imagine

1389
01:05:06,760 --> 01:05:09,440
Speaker 3: living together and talking so much together.

1390
01:05:11,160 --> 01:05:13,480
Speaker 2: Really, it's been really good, though, I'm I.

1391
01:05:15,160 --> 01:05:21,040
Speaker 3: Have come a long way transformed my comfort levels. Commitment

1392
01:05:21,080 --> 01:05:24,520
Speaker 3: is not something that I have Like it's been easy

1393
01:05:24,560 --> 01:05:27,800
Speaker 3: for me to like, I think it's something I really wanted,

1394
01:05:28,080 --> 01:05:31,880
Speaker 3: but commitment seems so like distant that I.

1395
01:05:31,760 --> 01:05:32,560
Speaker 2: Kept it that way.

1396
01:05:32,680 --> 01:05:36,120
Speaker 3: But you've made it very easy and comfortable to transition

1397
01:05:36,200 --> 01:05:40,680
Speaker 3: into this space. And I feel really confident that you're

1398
01:05:40,720 --> 01:05:45,080
Speaker 3: my person and that I can tell you anything, and

1399
01:05:45,120 --> 01:05:50,360
Speaker 3: you can tell me anything and so, and you've adapted

1400
01:05:50,400 --> 01:05:56,840
Speaker 3: into stepdaddy really well, yeah, how has that been for you?

1401
01:05:57,320 --> 01:05:58,000
Speaker 4: An adjustment?

1402
01:05:58,040 --> 01:06:01,760
Speaker 1: It's an adjustment of like knowing that you really shouldn't

1403
01:06:01,800 --> 01:06:03,000
Speaker 1: be petty to a child or.

1404
01:06:04,520 --> 01:06:07,400
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm so happy that you admitted it.

1405
01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:10,920
Speaker 2: You are petty. Sometimes I'm like, am I like breaking

1406
01:06:11,000 --> 01:06:13,320
Speaker 2: up a sibling fight? Orlando?

1407
01:06:13,520 --> 01:06:15,880
Speaker 3: I was like, Orlando, you're thirty one years fucking old.

1408
01:06:15,960 --> 01:06:19,800
Speaker 3: Can you fucking stop like to be an adult?

1409
01:06:19,920 --> 01:06:20,440
Speaker 2: I don't know me.

1410
01:06:20,840 --> 01:06:25,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, Luna can be. She's got a mouth on her

1411
01:06:25,120 --> 01:06:27,120
Speaker 1: and sometimes when she like gets into that sa moe

1412
01:06:27,120 --> 01:06:30,800
Speaker 1: and just be like mmmmm, all right, that's fine. You

1413
01:06:30,840 --> 01:06:33,240
Speaker 1: can say that, but guess just know that later on

1414
01:06:33,520 --> 01:06:34,840
Speaker 1: certain things are going to happen for you.

1415
01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:37,920
Speaker 2: It's been challenging.

1416
01:06:37,920 --> 01:06:40,120
Speaker 3: It's not challenging, get we all get along well, but

1417
01:06:40,160 --> 01:06:44,560
Speaker 3: it is challenging because it's an adjustment. And like, yeah,

1418
01:06:44,720 --> 01:06:48,480
Speaker 3: Orlando can be a little petty and Luna's a child,

1419
01:06:48,640 --> 01:06:51,920
Speaker 3: so I'm like, you gotta stop. And also, you know,

1420
01:06:52,120 --> 01:06:55,760
Speaker 3: children are mean, and I'm like, okay, they're mean. Like

1421
01:06:56,080 --> 01:06:58,800
Speaker 3: she's inconsistent, she's not gonna love you today, and tomorrow.

1422
01:06:58,800 --> 01:06:59,840
Speaker 2: It just doesn't work that way.

1423
01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:01,920
Speaker 1: Is always funny when we're like I come to her

1424
01:07:01,920 --> 01:07:04,240
Speaker 1: defense because Mili will be yelling at her, and now

1425
01:07:04,240 --> 01:07:05,480
Speaker 1: I'll go to meel and be like me, you need

1426
01:07:05,520 --> 01:07:07,280
Speaker 1: to stop yelling at her. She's a child, And then

1427
01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:08,920
Speaker 1: she'll look at me like, don't tell my mom what

1428
01:07:08,960 --> 01:07:10,960
Speaker 1: to do.

1429
01:07:11,240 --> 01:07:15,640
Speaker 2: Here's a lot of ganging up on you. Let me

1430
01:07:15,640 --> 01:07:17,960
Speaker 2: talk to you being a little harsh. I'm like, I'm

1431
01:07:17,960 --> 01:07:21,400
Speaker 2: the fucking mom. I've been doing this. Shit's like, try

1432
01:07:21,480 --> 01:07:22,120
Speaker 2: not to react.

1433
01:07:22,200 --> 01:07:24,920
Speaker 3: I'm like, Okay, I'm gonna just take a step back

1434
01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:27,080
Speaker 3: right now because maybe I'm a little irritated and now

1435
01:07:27,080 --> 01:07:28,320
Speaker 3: you're adding to my irritation.

1436
01:07:29,040 --> 01:07:30,600
Speaker 1: There are times where I was like, step back and

1437
01:07:30,640 --> 01:07:34,720
Speaker 1: looking like family, that's what black family does.

1438
01:07:35,160 --> 01:07:36,760
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't. It's hard.

1439
01:07:36,760 --> 01:07:38,760
Speaker 3: I mean, I know this is a lot for a

1440
01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:41,320
Speaker 3: lot in general, for anyone to step into a situation

1441
01:07:41,400 --> 01:07:44,200
Speaker 3: where there's a child and there's a household and things

1442
01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:46,320
Speaker 3: happen a certain way, and I'm sure you grew up

1443
01:07:46,320 --> 01:07:48,560
Speaker 3: a completely different way than I'm raising Luna, and so

1444
01:07:48,680 --> 01:07:51,880
Speaker 3: there's things that are like and it's even for me

1445
01:07:52,280 --> 01:07:55,400
Speaker 3: for like taking there being a second person to like

1446
01:07:56,520 --> 01:07:59,120
Speaker 3: reprimand in ways like he was like trying to make

1447
01:07:59,120 --> 01:08:00,760
Speaker 3: her eat her vegetables last night, and I was like

1448
01:08:00,800 --> 01:08:02,760
Speaker 3: eating her vegetables, She's like she needs to eat them,

1449
01:08:02,760 --> 01:08:03,880
Speaker 3: and I was like, this is not even a thing

1450
01:08:03,880 --> 01:08:05,400
Speaker 3: in my house, Like I don't even do that, like

1451
01:08:05,600 --> 01:08:08,720
Speaker 3: chill out. This bitch is everything. And I was like

1452
01:08:08,760 --> 01:08:15,920
Speaker 3: trying to respect his wishes, like okay, but it is.

1453
01:08:15,960 --> 01:08:18,160
Speaker 3: But I appreciate you being patient because at first I

1454
01:08:18,160 --> 01:08:18,800
Speaker 3: was like, are you okay?

1455
01:08:18,840 --> 01:08:20,760
Speaker 2: Do you want to leave? Are you going to go

1456
01:08:20,880 --> 01:08:23,720
Speaker 2: running for your aunt's house, that house that you were

1457
01:08:23,720 --> 01:08:27,519
Speaker 2: going to stay at. Do you want to leave yet?

1458
01:08:27,600 --> 01:08:29,960
Speaker 1: But I think it's beautiful that like a lot of

1459
01:08:29,960 --> 01:08:32,160
Speaker 1: the way that you parent is how I would have

1460
01:08:32,280 --> 01:08:35,639
Speaker 1: like parented anyway, or like ideals or like certain way

1461
01:08:35,680 --> 01:08:37,120
Speaker 1: we go about things, like I would have done it

1462
01:08:37,160 --> 01:08:39,280
Speaker 1: this way anyway. So it makes it easier to like

1463
01:08:39,400 --> 01:08:43,720
Speaker 1: maneuver into a space of like parenthood. And when you

1464
01:08:43,800 --> 01:08:46,000
Speaker 1: put I already put myself in the mentality of like,

1465
01:08:46,040 --> 01:08:48,400
Speaker 1: oh I want a family or I want things to

1466
01:08:48,520 --> 01:08:52,320
Speaker 1: like happen with you anyway, just like me being your boyfriend,

1467
01:08:52,320 --> 01:08:53,960
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, I want to be with Mela. I

1468
01:08:54,000 --> 01:08:56,679
Speaker 1: want to take care of Mila. Once I started telling

1469
01:08:56,680 --> 01:08:59,280
Speaker 1: myself these things, when it came to like being like

1470
01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:01,240
Speaker 1: a father, now it's like it was easy. It's like

1471
01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:03,559
Speaker 1: before I even uh when the first week when I

1472
01:09:03,560 --> 01:09:06,280
Speaker 1: came to to La and she asked me to go

1473
01:09:06,320 --> 01:09:08,120
Speaker 1: pick up things for Luno, It's like, yeah, sure I

1474
01:09:08,120 --> 01:09:10,519
Speaker 1: got it. I got the shelf and he's not there,

1475
01:09:10,600 --> 01:09:13,120
Speaker 1: but I'll go back anytime you need me to. It's like,

1476
01:09:13,520 --> 01:09:14,960
Speaker 1: whatever she needs, you.

1477
01:09:14,920 --> 01:09:18,200
Speaker 3: Have that I wanted to adapted well into our household

1478
01:09:18,520 --> 01:09:22,040
Speaker 3: and Luna's too. Even the other day, she wrote, I

1479
01:09:22,080 --> 01:09:23,840
Speaker 3: wouldn't lay down with her because I'm an adult and

1480
01:09:23,920 --> 01:09:25,559
Speaker 3: have shit to do, which is this is the thing

1481
01:09:25,600 --> 01:09:26,639
Speaker 3: every night, fucking line.

1482
01:09:26,680 --> 01:09:27,920
Speaker 2: Can you lay down with me?

1483
01:09:28,080 --> 01:09:28,160
Speaker 1: Like?

1484
01:09:28,280 --> 01:09:30,560
Speaker 2: No, can Orlando lay down me? I'm like, girl, just

1485
01:09:30,600 --> 01:09:34,600
Speaker 2: go lay down. She wrote. She's been writing notes on

1486
01:09:34,640 --> 01:09:38,000
Speaker 2: the door, like you care about Orlando more than me.

1487
01:09:38,920 --> 01:09:41,240
Speaker 3: It hurt my feelings. I was like, what is this?

1488
01:09:41,400 --> 01:09:44,000
Speaker 3: I was like, do you believe that? She's like, I'm like,

1489
01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:47,280
Speaker 3: this is what you write at night, like in your room,

1490
01:09:47,439 --> 01:09:49,559
Speaker 3: but like you know, just trying to manage the time

1491
01:09:49,640 --> 01:09:51,800
Speaker 3: and make sure they you know, they're good we have

1492
01:09:51,840 --> 01:09:56,400
Speaker 3: a very very good household, happening situation family.

1493
01:09:57,000 --> 01:09:59,320
Speaker 4: Literally, we have a very square family.

1494
01:09:59,479 --> 01:09:59,920
Speaker 2: She told me that.

1495
01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:03,360
Speaker 3: They're like, I don't like when Orlando. Sometimes Orlando is

1496
01:10:03,439 --> 01:10:06,519
Speaker 3: mean to me. He bullies me, and I don't like it.

1497
01:10:06,600 --> 01:10:08,640
Speaker 3: I was like, are you always nice to Orlando? I

1498
01:10:08,680 --> 01:10:10,519
Speaker 3: was like, did you just say that to hurt his feelings?

1499
01:10:11,280 --> 01:10:15,800
Speaker 3: Just like I love I love Mommy Daddy, I love

1500
01:10:15,880 --> 01:10:20,640
Speaker 3: Ivy and Erica's on my car. I was like, you know,

1501
01:10:20,760 --> 01:10:23,320
Speaker 3: love Orlando no, because he's mean. I was like, are

1502
01:10:23,320 --> 01:10:24,720
Speaker 3: you trying to be like you're trying to be mean

1503
01:10:24,800 --> 01:10:26,240
Speaker 3: right now? And I was like, you can't be mean

1504
01:10:26,240 --> 01:10:27,800
Speaker 3: to him because I'm five minutes you're gonna ask him

1505
01:10:27,800 --> 01:10:28,240
Speaker 3: for something.

1506
01:10:28,600 --> 01:10:32,439
Speaker 2: She's like, I'm sorry, I didn't put you on my list.

1507
01:10:33,439 --> 01:10:35,800
Speaker 1: She's like, I love you. It's just that I love

1508
01:10:35,880 --> 01:10:36,679
Speaker 1: them most.

1509
01:10:39,080 --> 01:10:42,559
Speaker 3: That's not really an apology, but okay.

1510
01:10:42,439 --> 01:10:46,120
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, very interesting. Yeah, well I love it,

1511
01:10:46,160 --> 01:10:48,559
Speaker 2: and I love you guys, and I love Orlando, and

1512
01:10:48,600 --> 01:10:51,000
Speaker 2: I love that you've been able to fill this just

1513
01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:53,680
Speaker 2: fill my friend with so much love and security and

1514
01:10:53,720 --> 01:10:57,559
Speaker 2: safety and be literally the man of her dreams, like

1515
01:10:57,600 --> 01:11:01,639
Speaker 2: for real, Like she literally asked for you, and then poof,

1516
01:11:01,760 --> 01:11:03,960
Speaker 2: you were there. You were always there. But like I

1517
01:11:03,960 --> 01:11:06,240
Speaker 2: think she just couldn't really fully all the way see

1518
01:11:06,240 --> 01:11:06,960
Speaker 2: it or accept it.

1519
01:11:06,960 --> 01:11:09,320
Speaker 4: Okay, she had to see me in person, she had to.

1520
01:11:09,320 --> 01:11:11,160
Speaker 2: Do some time, She had to like twenty two more

1521
01:11:11,160 --> 01:11:13,519
Speaker 2: toxic things first. Just get it out real quick.

1522
01:11:13,720 --> 01:11:16,000
Speaker 4: I did toxic things to do before.

1523
01:11:15,760 --> 01:11:16,240
Speaker 1: Being with her.

1524
01:11:17,439 --> 01:11:21,439
Speaker 2: Fucking other toxic nigga. Move the toxic nigga in. Move

1525
01:11:21,479 --> 01:11:25,719
Speaker 2: the toxic nigga and his toxic dog in. Get slapped

1526
01:11:25,760 --> 01:11:30,000
Speaker 2: up a little bit. It's not a laughing matter.

1527
01:11:30,320 --> 01:11:33,000
Speaker 3: I know, you know, you know I laugh at uncomfortable things.

1528
01:11:34,200 --> 01:11:35,080
Speaker 3: Things are not laughing.

1529
01:11:35,960 --> 01:11:39,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do appreciate you. And I also I kind

1530
01:11:39,640 --> 01:11:41,040
Speaker 2: of knew because Erica was like.

1531
01:11:41,520 --> 01:11:43,320
Speaker 3: I think you're gonna get married, and I was like,

1532
01:11:43,960 --> 01:11:46,640
Speaker 3: I am huh, I'm like, this is it right, this

1533
01:11:46,680 --> 01:11:46,840
Speaker 3: is it?

1534
01:11:46,880 --> 01:11:48,600
Speaker 2: And I was like, wow, if Erica said it, she

1535
01:11:48,680 --> 01:11:50,599
Speaker 2: must I knew. I knew it. But now that Erica

1536
01:11:50,600 --> 01:11:53,920
Speaker 2: said it, it's not me being the fucking sound of

1537
01:11:54,040 --> 01:11:54,719
Speaker 2: voice of reason.

1538
01:11:55,000 --> 01:11:57,360
Speaker 1: Well, but that's what's been making it a lot more real.

1539
01:11:57,439 --> 01:12:00,320
Speaker 1: It's like when we go out and we we people

1540
01:12:00,320 --> 01:12:02,360
Speaker 1: see us together, They're just like, how long have y'all

1541
01:12:02,400 --> 01:12:05,320
Speaker 1: been together? Y'all are really good together. Y'all look so beautiful,

1542
01:12:05,360 --> 01:12:07,000
Speaker 1: and we get it every single time to go out.

1543
01:12:07,040 --> 01:12:10,240
Speaker 1: So it's like, oh, we know from ourselves, but also

1544
01:12:10,280 --> 01:12:12,799
Speaker 1: from like outside where there's strangers or friends that everybody

1545
01:12:12,800 --> 01:12:13,519
Speaker 1: can When.

1546
01:12:13,360 --> 01:12:15,840
Speaker 3: Your friends work with your partner and they mesh well

1547
01:12:15,840 --> 01:12:17,840
Speaker 3: in your friend group, then it's pretty clear.

1548
01:12:18,240 --> 01:12:19,080
Speaker 2: This is your person.

1549
01:12:19,240 --> 01:12:21,400
Speaker 3: Like I think for my friends too, They're like, didn't

1550
01:12:21,400 --> 01:12:23,360
Speaker 3: think it was like a reality for me to have

1551
01:12:23,439 --> 01:12:24,920
Speaker 3: a person that would accept me.

1552
01:12:25,720 --> 01:12:31,960
Speaker 2: They're like, we can't believe. They're like, wow, this is

1553
01:12:32,800 --> 01:12:33,400
Speaker 2: my single friends.

1554
01:12:33,520 --> 01:12:36,559
Speaker 3: Like how this bitch get a nigga before me? This

1555
01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:40,120
Speaker 3: tittied up bitch? Like what the fuck? We didn't see

1556
01:12:40,120 --> 01:12:42,840
Speaker 3: this coming? I could see in everybody's face, So I

1557
01:12:42,840 --> 01:12:44,439
Speaker 3: can't you found something wilder than you.

1558
01:12:44,479 --> 01:12:45,160
Speaker 2: It's insane.

1559
01:12:45,520 --> 01:12:48,080
Speaker 1: Oh, your friends be telling me too. They were like, oh, yeah,

1560
01:12:48,120 --> 01:12:50,160
Speaker 1: I'm kind of wild. They've be telling me, like, you know,

1561
01:12:50,240 --> 01:12:56,839
Speaker 1: it's so great because Jamila, we you knowed so concerned.

1562
01:12:56,880 --> 01:13:01,040
Speaker 1: It's very special, very unique individual. We just did it.

1563
01:13:01,200 --> 01:13:03,040
Speaker 4: You know. It takes somebody strong.

1564
01:13:05,600 --> 01:13:12,040
Speaker 2: I'm not strong, very secure in their manhoodness. No, it's

1565
01:13:12,080 --> 01:13:14,880
Speaker 2: true It's true. It does take someone really strong. I

1566
01:13:14,920 --> 01:13:16,439
Speaker 2: mean even for me too, I think, I mean not

1567
01:13:16,479 --> 01:13:18,880
Speaker 2: me and Mila are different, but you know, I think

1568
01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:24,879
Speaker 2: that most men, especially with what we do every week,

1569
01:13:25,479 --> 01:13:28,280
Speaker 2: it could be very challenging. And I know it's challenging

1570
01:13:28,520 --> 01:13:33,240
Speaker 2: for them. And you know, I think that Orlando, you

1571
01:13:33,320 --> 01:13:36,559
Speaker 2: are like the perfect piece that was missing from this

1572
01:13:36,760 --> 01:13:41,439
Speaker 2: puzzle of our little tribe. And you're so supportive and

1573
01:13:41,800 --> 01:13:44,000
Speaker 2: not just to Mela, but to everyone in the whole

1574
01:13:44,040 --> 01:13:47,839
Speaker 2: group and making sure that everyone feels comfortable and happy

1575
01:13:47,960 --> 01:13:50,880
Speaker 2: and checking in and really like making an effort to

1576
01:13:51,000 --> 01:13:53,599
Speaker 2: like get to know the people in our friend group.

1577
01:13:53,800 --> 01:13:56,120
Speaker 2: Like I think that's really unique.

1578
01:13:56,560 --> 01:13:58,760
Speaker 4: And I love you.

1579
01:13:58,360 --> 01:14:01,200
Speaker 2: I love you for that. I love you too.

1580
01:14:03,120 --> 01:14:03,439
Speaker 1: Thank you.

1581
01:14:03,800 --> 01:14:08,080
Speaker 2: Thank you for saving me from my wholeness, saving her

1582
01:14:08,120 --> 01:14:08,639
Speaker 2: from the streets.

1583
01:14:08,840 --> 01:14:10,519
Speaker 3: Thank you for saving me from the streets. Now I'm like,

1584
01:14:10,560 --> 01:14:13,280
Speaker 3: I do not want to go back. Please God, don't

1585
01:14:13,280 --> 01:14:15,360
Speaker 3: put me back in the streets. Gott whatever you do.

1586
01:14:16,200 --> 01:14:17,840
Speaker 2: Oh no, I don't know nothing about that single life,

1587
01:14:17,880 --> 01:14:21,439
Speaker 2: nothing child. Help you. I have no vice, girl, But

1588
01:14:21,640 --> 01:14:24,040
Speaker 2: let girl, I don't know. They don't copy paste them.

1589
01:14:24,040 --> 01:14:24,599
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1590
01:14:26,240 --> 01:14:28,120
Speaker 1: Your friend was like, Orlando, what do they make more

1591
01:14:28,120 --> 01:14:28,479
Speaker 1: of you.

1592
01:14:29,120 --> 01:14:32,040
Speaker 2: I was like, just come over and get some cuddles.

1593
01:14:33,960 --> 01:14:36,240
Speaker 3: Actually was like, he's he's our community husband. I was like,

1594
01:14:36,280 --> 01:14:39,799
Speaker 3: he's the tribe's husband, the tripe husband, trib husband.

1595
01:14:42,160 --> 01:14:44,439
Speaker 2: Well we pulled some cards. Oh yeah at the beginning

1596
01:14:44,479 --> 01:14:51,559
Speaker 2: of the episode. And Orlando, I think you pulled the pacle.

1597
01:14:51,840 --> 01:14:53,400
Speaker 2: No you you did? Okay?

1598
01:14:54,120 --> 01:14:55,920
Speaker 1: Pentacles of.

1599
01:15:01,400 --> 01:15:03,720
Speaker 2: Being number one aces.

1600
01:15:03,479 --> 01:15:04,720
Speaker 1: Number one is the beginning and it was on the

1601
01:15:04,760 --> 01:15:05,479
Speaker 1: top of the deck too.

1602
01:15:05,960 --> 01:15:06,599
Speaker 2: It's true.

1603
01:15:06,960 --> 01:15:08,800
Speaker 3: It looks like a like an opening. It almost looks

1604
01:15:08,800 --> 01:15:10,759
Speaker 3: like those arches that you walk through when you're married.

1605
01:15:11,880 --> 01:15:14,160
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that is it. The water in the background.

1606
01:15:14,160 --> 01:15:15,240
Speaker 1: I can't wait to see what this says.

1607
01:15:16,439 --> 01:15:20,240
Speaker 2: Sorry, biddyous trip and y'all shout out to bitty Tarot.

1608
01:15:20,320 --> 01:15:22,639
Speaker 2: That's giving. Actually, don't shout out to bittty Taro because

1609
01:15:22,640 --> 01:15:26,920
Speaker 2: they're not paying us. We've been we've been reading boards

1610
01:15:26,960 --> 01:15:29,000
Speaker 2: for words. I only haven't emailed them yet. We're gonna

1611
01:15:29,000 --> 01:15:35,040
Speaker 2: email them. Can someone email, actually shout out to them. Sorry,

1612
01:15:35,080 --> 01:15:40,840
Speaker 2: I'm just kidding, all right. So Ace of Pentacles a

1613
01:15:40,920 --> 01:15:45,200
Speaker 2: new financial or career opportunity.

1614
01:15:45,680 --> 01:15:46,200
Speaker 1: I need it.

1615
01:15:48,040 --> 01:15:54,120
Speaker 2: Manifestation abundance, uh, the A Pentacles like the other aces

1616
01:15:54,160 --> 01:15:58,280
Speaker 2: of the Tarot, represents new beginnings, opportunities, and potential, and

1617
01:15:58,360 --> 01:16:00,960
Speaker 2: as a Pentacles card, these new bees gettings correlate to

1618
01:16:01,000 --> 01:16:05,520
Speaker 2: the material world, finances, wealth, career, physical health, and manifestation

1619
01:16:05,640 --> 01:16:08,040
Speaker 2: of your goals. You may receive a new job, offer

1620
01:16:08,040 --> 01:16:10,719
Speaker 2: an unexpected sum of money, a new business or investment

1621
01:16:10,720 --> 01:16:13,559
Speaker 2: opportunity may come your way, or you'll have a chance

1622
01:16:13,600 --> 01:16:18,639
Speaker 2: to begin an idea to fruition m No matter the occasion,

1623
01:16:18,720 --> 01:16:21,240
Speaker 2: the Ace of Pentacles heralds a sense of prosperity and

1624
01:16:21,280 --> 01:16:24,680
Speaker 2: abundance in the material or financial areas of your life.

1625
01:16:25,160 --> 01:16:28,320
Speaker 2: It undoubtedly comes as a welcome invitation, but it is

1626
01:16:28,400 --> 01:16:31,720
Speaker 2: not a free ride. As with all aces in the

1627
01:16:31,720 --> 01:16:34,920
Speaker 2: tarot deck, this card illustrates the possibility of a new endeavor,

1628
01:16:34,960 --> 01:16:38,559
Speaker 2: but does not guarantee its manifestation or success. That piece

1629
01:16:38,720 --> 01:16:43,040
Speaker 2: is up to you. The Ace of Pinnacle also symbolizes wealth,

1630
01:16:43,120 --> 01:16:45,400
Speaker 2: not just for your bank account, but in a holistic

1631
01:16:45,479 --> 01:16:48,519
Speaker 2: sense as well. You may discover opportunities to generate a

1632
01:16:48,560 --> 01:16:51,600
Speaker 2: new source of income or receive financial gift or windfall,

1633
01:16:52,120 --> 01:16:53,760
Speaker 2: or you may have a chance to create wealth in

1634
01:16:53,800 --> 01:16:59,360
Speaker 2: a broader sense, Happiness, fulfillment, potential and love. The ace

1635
01:16:59,400 --> 01:17:03,240
Speaker 2: signifies abundance in all areas of your life. Enjoy it,

1636
01:17:03,360 --> 01:17:06,320
Speaker 2: feel blessed and deserving of everything that comes your way.

1637
01:17:07,120 --> 01:17:08,559
Speaker 2: I feel that, I feel very full.

1638
01:17:09,160 --> 01:17:12,160
Speaker 1: I receive that because I'm very big on like being

1639
01:17:12,200 --> 01:17:15,600
Speaker 1: like mentally wealthy and emotionally wealthy as much as like financial.

1640
01:17:16,080 --> 01:17:17,880
Speaker 1: So yeah, I do accept that.

1641
01:17:17,960 --> 01:17:20,800
Speaker 2: And with the conception of your new podcast.

1642
01:17:20,400 --> 01:17:22,080
Speaker 1: I was just about to say, and then I'm starting

1643
01:17:22,120 --> 01:17:23,840
Speaker 1: this new podcast. By the time this episode comes out,

1644
01:17:23,840 --> 01:17:26,280
Speaker 1: I should have like maybe three or four episodes out already.

1645
01:17:26,439 --> 01:17:28,639
Speaker 2: So go check out menaj Minds will put the link

1646
01:17:28,640 --> 01:17:32,120
Speaker 2: in this episode description and check out Orlando's new podcast.

1647
01:17:33,560 --> 01:17:34,800
Speaker 4: I can't wait for people to hear it.

1648
01:17:35,400 --> 01:17:37,320
Speaker 2: Can you give people like a little like insight on

1649
01:17:37,320 --> 01:17:38,320
Speaker 2: what it's about.

1650
01:17:38,479 --> 01:17:41,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, So basically I started therapy right around the time

1651
01:17:41,720 --> 01:17:43,240
Speaker 1: where I was like moving to LA.

1652
01:17:43,360 --> 01:17:46,439
Speaker 2: Why just start therapy, babe, because two reasons.

1653
01:17:47,720 --> 01:17:49,600
Speaker 1: One of the reasons I started therapy because around the

1654
01:17:49,600 --> 01:17:51,320
Speaker 1: time where I was like transitioning to move to LA,

1655
01:17:51,360 --> 01:17:53,599
Speaker 1: I was going through like a very deep depressive moment.

1656
01:17:54,160 --> 01:17:56,400
Speaker 1: And the other reason was because Mila said that I

1657
01:17:56,400 --> 01:17:59,639
Speaker 1: have to do one year of therapy before we get married,

1658
01:18:00,320 --> 01:18:04,840
Speaker 1: so that's mandatory. But yeah, starting this therapy session and

1659
01:18:05,800 --> 01:18:07,920
Speaker 1: like just talking to my therapists and him telling me like,

1660
01:18:07,920 --> 01:18:09,640
Speaker 1: you know, you have a very like unique mind and

1661
01:18:09,640 --> 01:18:11,479
Speaker 1: the way you go about things is very like dope.

1662
01:18:12,080 --> 01:18:14,080
Speaker 1: And I was like, you know what, let's start making

1663
01:18:14,160 --> 01:18:17,800
Speaker 1: like recording this. And I wanted to record it so

1664
01:18:17,840 --> 01:18:20,840
Speaker 1: people can hear what a real therapy session sounds like

1665
01:18:20,880 --> 01:18:24,559
Speaker 1: from a black man, but also what professional advice within

1666
01:18:24,640 --> 01:18:29,160
Speaker 1: that session or that coaching sounds like. And so we

1667
01:18:29,200 --> 01:18:32,800
Speaker 1: would do those and then I would make podcast episodes

1668
01:18:32,880 --> 01:18:34,640
Speaker 1: out of that, so we can, let's say, if we

1669
01:18:34,680 --> 01:18:37,439
Speaker 1: talk about generational trauma, then I'll like have a guest

1670
01:18:37,520 --> 01:18:40,360
Speaker 1: on a separate episode and we could talk about that

1671
01:18:40,680 --> 01:18:43,439
Speaker 1: and expand on that, and my therapist would do the same,

1672
01:18:43,840 --> 01:18:46,679
Speaker 1: So you would get an episode from some a point

1673
01:18:46,680 --> 01:18:49,280
Speaker 1: of view of somebody in therapy, but also get an

1674
01:18:49,280 --> 01:18:51,400
Speaker 1: episode from a therapist themselves.

1675
01:18:51,680 --> 01:18:52,439
Speaker 4: And it's Menaje.

1676
01:18:52,520 --> 01:18:55,759
Speaker 1: Minds is like the intermingling between the journey of healing

1677
01:18:55,880 --> 01:19:00,640
Speaker 1: wellness and therapy and just down this journey, I'm going

1678
01:19:00,680 --> 01:19:04,400
Speaker 1: to be doing like different types of therapy, different types

1679
01:19:04,439 --> 01:19:07,920
Speaker 1: of things that will heal you in wellness, like spirituality, fitness,

1680
01:19:07,960 --> 01:19:10,240
Speaker 1: like whatever it is. And so I can't wait to

1681
01:19:10,280 --> 01:19:13,000
Speaker 1: like start this journey and like have everybody like be

1682
01:19:13,280 --> 01:19:16,040
Speaker 1: in on it and just like be helpful if you

1683
01:19:16,160 --> 01:19:17,960
Speaker 1: want to and heal.

1684
01:19:18,360 --> 01:19:20,040
Speaker 2: I think men really need that and need to see.

1685
01:19:20,080 --> 01:19:20,280
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1686
01:19:20,520 --> 01:19:22,200
Speaker 2: So I'm really especially black men.

1687
01:19:22,320 --> 01:19:24,840
Speaker 1: So yeah, and it comes at an important time where

1688
01:19:24,880 --> 01:19:27,040
Speaker 1: like I feel like black people know about just talk therapy,

1689
01:19:27,280 --> 01:19:29,599
Speaker 1: but there's just so many different ways that you can

1690
01:19:29,640 --> 01:19:32,120
Speaker 1: go about like down this journey of like wellness and healing.

1691
01:19:32,240 --> 01:19:32,479
Speaker 3: M h.

1692
01:19:32,720 --> 01:19:34,000
Speaker 1: So I'm excited for it.

1693
01:19:34,200 --> 01:19:39,000
Speaker 2: Congratulations Boom, I'm excited for you. And then Mila pulled

1694
01:19:39,200 --> 01:19:49,479
Speaker 2: the Seven of Wands right challenge competition, protection, perseverance. After

1695
01:19:49,520 --> 01:19:51,360
Speaker 2: the success of the Six of wanes, you are now

1696
01:19:51,400 --> 01:19:54,280
Speaker 2: in an enviable position and are being challenged by others

1697
01:19:54,320 --> 01:19:57,200
Speaker 2: who want to take your place. You worked hard to

1698
01:19:57,240 --> 01:19:59,280
Speaker 2: get where you are, but some people covet what you

1699
01:19:59,360 --> 01:20:01,840
Speaker 2: have and are prepared to fight you for it. Bitch,

1700
01:20:02,120 --> 01:20:05,040
Speaker 2: don't come for me, bitch, so I'll be right there. Bitch,

1701
01:20:05,080 --> 01:20:08,320
Speaker 2: you try it right, I dare you. You don't have

1702
01:20:08,760 --> 01:20:15,040
Speaker 2: two witches pool going. Okay, while it's flattering, they while

1703
01:20:15,040 --> 01:20:17,599
Speaker 2: it's flattering that they strive for your success. It also

1704
01:20:17,640 --> 01:20:20,080
Speaker 2: makes for a tense and competitive environment because you need

1705
01:20:20,120 --> 01:20:23,360
Speaker 2: to protect what you've earned and must continuously prove yourself.

1706
01:20:24,320 --> 01:20:26,880
Speaker 2: It's a sad fact of life, but the more visibility

1707
01:20:26,920 --> 01:20:28,680
Speaker 2: you have as a leader in your field and the

1708
01:20:28,720 --> 01:20:31,000
Speaker 2: bigger your audience, the more likely it is that you

1709
01:20:31,000 --> 01:20:34,759
Speaker 2: will need to grapple with this kind of pressure. Others

1710
01:20:34,920 --> 01:20:37,200
Speaker 2: see your success and will either challenge your point of

1711
01:20:37,280 --> 01:20:40,040
Speaker 2: view or want to take you down. God, I was

1712
01:20:40,040 --> 01:20:43,439
Speaker 2: just trying to give me anxiety. What the when? When

1713
01:20:43,479 --> 01:20:45,880
Speaker 2: seven of one's appears in a tarot reading, expect to

1714
01:20:45,880 --> 01:20:48,719
Speaker 2: see an increase in haters, trolls, and people who disagree

1715
01:20:48,720 --> 01:20:52,280
Speaker 2: with you. You know, we're publishing a book. You will

1716
01:20:52,320 --> 01:20:54,760
Speaker 2: need to secure your territory and fight for what you

1717
01:20:54,800 --> 01:20:57,759
Speaker 2: stand for. You may also want to engage a lawyer

1718
01:20:57,840 --> 01:21:00,599
Speaker 2: or loyal support team who can defend you from any

1719
01:21:00,640 --> 01:21:03,519
Speaker 2: possible threat. The seven of wands may appear when you

1720
01:21:03,520 --> 01:21:05,719
Speaker 2: hold a contentious point of view or wish to voice

1721
01:21:05,720 --> 01:21:08,400
Speaker 2: your opinion in a public forum. Be ready to support

1722
01:21:08,400 --> 01:21:10,240
Speaker 2: your argument and back yourself up. I don't think you

1723
01:21:10,240 --> 01:21:13,200
Speaker 2: have any problem doing that. Stand firm in your conviction. No,

1724
01:21:13,320 --> 01:21:16,120
Speaker 2: don't have a problem doing that of what you believe

1725
01:21:16,120 --> 01:21:18,519
Speaker 2: and why, so that others do not topple you from

1726
01:21:18,560 --> 01:21:21,479
Speaker 2: your mountain of self belief. The seven and wands can

1727
01:21:21,520 --> 01:21:24,240
Speaker 2: also mean a challenge to success of a creative project

1728
01:21:24,240 --> 01:21:27,040
Speaker 2: from an external source. Someone or something may get in

1729
01:21:27,080 --> 01:21:30,439
Speaker 2: the way of you being able to pursue your goals

1730
01:21:30,439 --> 01:21:33,439
Speaker 2: and dreams. While it appears to block your path forward,

1731
01:21:33,479 --> 01:21:36,160
Speaker 2: You can overcome this obstacle by drawing upon your strong

1732
01:21:36,200 --> 01:21:40,880
Speaker 2: self confidence, self belief, and continual self improvement. Establish clear

1733
01:21:40,920 --> 01:21:43,280
Speaker 2: boundaries and then protect them so that others do not

1734
01:21:43,400 --> 01:21:46,400
Speaker 2: mess with you. Hold your ground, take a stand, and

1735
01:21:46,479 --> 01:21:52,400
Speaker 2: defend your position at all costs. Okay to PAF A

1736
01:21:52,479 --> 01:22:00,599
Speaker 2: body spot on the audience is growing. Are gonna come

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01:22:00,600 --> 01:22:04,559
Speaker 2: for you? AKA, fucking what is it called lipstick alley?

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Speaker 1: Girl?

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01:22:06,280 --> 01:22:09,599
Speaker 3: It's lipstick alley? Oh my goodness, got to stop looking

1740
01:22:09,640 --> 01:22:11,960
Speaker 3: over there. Fucking Chelsea message me this morning, like I

1741
01:22:12,000 --> 01:22:15,360
Speaker 3: just found this thing on that girl. Don't look, don't look, just.

1742
01:22:15,320 --> 01:22:17,439
Speaker 2: Like trying to log in and talk back. I was like, don't,

1743
01:22:20,640 --> 01:22:23,240
Speaker 2: oh my goodness, Oh my gosh. Well, I think it's

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01:22:23,280 --> 01:22:25,600
Speaker 2: just a matter of just being aware of like your surroundings,

1745
01:22:25,640 --> 01:22:28,320
Speaker 2: the people that you keep and just being really secure

1746
01:22:28,600 --> 01:22:32,080
Speaker 2: and self aware of what you say and what you

1747
01:22:32,120 --> 01:22:33,680
Speaker 2: believe and standing on it.

1748
01:22:34,120 --> 01:22:35,880
Speaker 3: I don't really have a problem with that, and I

1749
01:22:35,920 --> 01:22:39,360
Speaker 3: know how I feel, and it's like, my dick, if

1750
01:22:39,400 --> 01:22:41,920
Speaker 3: you think you're gonna come for me about my opinion, so.

1751
01:22:43,640 --> 01:22:45,560
Speaker 2: I'm not. I mean, I do get anxiety about like

1752
01:22:45,600 --> 01:22:47,760
Speaker 2: our book coming out and that we're growing and that

1753
01:22:47,880 --> 01:22:48,920
Speaker 2: people are going to.

1754
01:22:48,920 --> 01:22:52,719
Speaker 3: Talk shit, but also people are evil and bored and miserable,

1755
01:22:52,920 --> 01:22:56,960
Speaker 3: and mostly people are supportive. And if you don't like me,

1756
01:22:57,280 --> 01:23:03,280
Speaker 3: turn the channel. Amen's super easy. Is that it for

1757
01:23:03,360 --> 01:23:06,479
Speaker 3: today in my life? I think so well, thank you Orlando,

1758
01:23:06,760 --> 01:23:10,920
Speaker 3: Orlando for coming to join us, my love, my future husband.

1759
01:23:11,560 --> 01:23:15,040
Speaker 3: I got fitted for a wedding ring size last week.

1760
01:23:14,840 --> 01:23:17,320
Speaker 2: You guys, so just know that's I got to send you.

1761
01:23:17,840 --> 01:23:21,360
Speaker 2: Just know that it's a wife on the way wife.

1762
01:23:24,920 --> 01:23:28,760
Speaker 2: I'll be the ring bearer. I never saw that, Like I.

1763
01:23:28,800 --> 01:23:30,400
Speaker 3: Knew I wanted it, but I didn't really see it

1764
01:23:30,479 --> 01:23:33,160
Speaker 3: being coming to like real I couldn't visualize it in

1765
01:23:33,520 --> 01:23:35,880
Speaker 3: real time. So doing shit like that, I'm like, wow,

1766
01:23:35,880 --> 01:23:37,280
Speaker 3: I was not really trying to marry bitch.

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01:23:39,880 --> 01:23:44,160
Speaker 1: Would you tell people when uh we got together on

1768
01:23:44,200 --> 01:23:46,840
Speaker 1: Instagram because like, I hated Instagram couples, but now I

1769
01:23:46,880 --> 01:23:49,360
Speaker 1: am one, ha I did.

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01:23:49,439 --> 01:23:50,960
Speaker 3: They used to really make me sick, but I'm like,

1771
01:23:51,479 --> 01:23:53,040
Speaker 3: let's try not. I tried to post too much, but

1772
01:23:53,080 --> 01:23:56,200
Speaker 3: I'm like, fuck, it's my turn. Fucking look at this happiness.

1773
01:23:56,240 --> 01:23:58,679
Speaker 2: Bitches, I found my parson.

1774
01:24:00,960 --> 01:24:05,240
Speaker 3: You're gonna stop following me? Yeah, but thank you, my love.

1775
01:24:05,320 --> 01:24:07,360
Speaker 3: You have healed me in many ways. And I didn't

1776
01:24:07,400 --> 01:24:12,160
Speaker 3: think that someone could wrangle in this wild woman that

1777
01:24:12,240 --> 01:24:15,200
Speaker 3: I am. So I appreciate you finding me, my wild lever,

1778
01:24:16,120 --> 01:24:19,000
Speaker 3: and I'm really excited to see the journey that we

1779
01:24:19,120 --> 01:24:22,520
Speaker 3: go on and how we grow and how our relationship

1780
01:24:23,120 --> 01:24:24,520
Speaker 3: helps us grow individually.

1781
01:24:25,320 --> 01:24:27,519
Speaker 1: And I can't wait to have this relationship where I

1782
01:24:27,560 --> 01:24:29,839
Speaker 1: take care of you. Go on, my true water bearer,

1783
01:24:30,520 --> 01:24:34,360
Speaker 1: like energy, contain and hold you and take care of you.

1784
01:24:34,360 --> 01:24:36,360
Speaker 2: You're to take care of me. I love you too.

1785
01:24:37,640 --> 01:24:39,400
Speaker 2: Where can the people find you? Orlando?

1786
01:24:40,240 --> 01:24:42,640
Speaker 1: You can find me anywhere on social media at w

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01:24:42,960 --> 01:24:46,599
Speaker 1: H Underscore Orlando Roy. You can find the brand new

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Speaker 1: beautiful podcast minaj A min m e n A g

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Speaker 1: e A m I n.

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Speaker 4: D all right to us.

1791
01:24:54,479 --> 01:24:57,680
Speaker 1: But you can find that anywhere you listen to podcasts

1792
01:24:57,800 --> 01:25:00,280
Speaker 1: or and on YouTube. And we have a Patreon and

1793
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Speaker 1: you can still sign up to my Only Fans Onlyflans

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Speaker 1: dot com, Backslash, wh Underscore Orlando.

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Speaker 2: Do you still have an only Fans Yeah? I mean

1796
01:25:07,280 --> 01:25:08,559
Speaker 2: I know you have it, but like, are you putting

1797
01:25:08,600 --> 01:25:09,320
Speaker 2: new content on there?

1798
01:25:09,479 --> 01:25:11,000
Speaker 4: You know I put stuff on there?

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01:25:11,200 --> 01:25:19,280
Speaker 2: Where am I atay? Yeah? And you guys know where

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Speaker 2: to find us. We'll link everything this episode description. Make

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01:25:22,880 --> 01:25:25,439
Speaker 2: sure you go check out the retreat. The retreat is coming.

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01:25:25,479 --> 01:25:29,280
Speaker 2: We're going to Costa Rica. We have two dates. Come alone,

1803
01:25:29,800 --> 01:25:33,519
Speaker 2: bring your girlfriend, do whatever you want, but just come.

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01:25:33,680 --> 01:25:37,200
Speaker 2: Don't miss it. We're doing some magical ship in the jungle,

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Speaker 2: natal chart readings, medicine, medicine if you want, or meals, relaxation, massages.

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01:25:44,160 --> 01:25:50,679
Speaker 3: Yoga, weed, exploring this beautiful, beautiful jungles of Costa Rica,

1807
01:25:50,960 --> 01:25:52,200
Speaker 3: going on beach trips.

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01:25:52,439 --> 01:25:56,519
Speaker 2: It's like the ultimate girls trip. So click the link

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Speaker 2: in this episode description and follow the Good Fibe Retreat

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Speaker 2: to get the deets and we'll see you next week.

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01:26:02,840 --> 01:26:30,920
Speaker 2: I love you, Bye bye bye Las