WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: YouTaboo

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of date. I feel like super important. When

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<v Speaker 1>you're first starting to date someone, you need to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to keep the momentum going. Yeah, like after a

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<v Speaker 1>good first date, you need to see him again sooner

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<v Speaker 1>rather than later.

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<v Speaker 2>Is not too soon?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know, wait too long?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because if you wait, the spark could fizzle out,

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<v Speaker 1>or somebody else could swoop in, or in my case,

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<v Speaker 1>your mom calls and asks, why aren't you going out

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<v Speaker 1>with that person again? I've already FaceTime and then multiple

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<v Speaker 1>pictures of you as a baby.

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<v Speaker 3>That legitimately checks out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, your mom messaged me at two am the other day.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not getting an old video of you?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you get that too?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I got it too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I did it. And you're not even a romantic interest.

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<v Speaker 1>Just imagine what it's like. Oh yeah, not yet. But anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>Isabella emailed the show. Isabella, I'm hoping your mom isn't

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<v Speaker 1>involved in your dating life like mine usually is.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, not so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Lucky, Isabella, you have a chance that well, we want

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<v Speaker 1>to hear all about your romantic ball and how we

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<v Speaker 1>can keep it moving, So tell us about it. That

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<v Speaker 1>was pretty much the smoothest transition I've ever done.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a romantic ball.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, where are you at the ball of romance with

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<v Speaker 3>the ball?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I just went on a date with this guy

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<v Speaker 4>named Jason that I met on an app okay, and

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<v Speaker 4>it was a pretty good date, like first dates all around.

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<v Speaker 4>He had this interesting idea to go to this place

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<v Speaker 4>that I've never heard of before. It's like a hole

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<v Speaker 4>in the wall place, but it's really to drink and

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<v Speaker 4>play a bunch of board games.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's so fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Is good?

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<v Speaker 5>It isn't.

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<v Speaker 2>But anything different, like a different theme of a bar,

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<v Speaker 2>a different you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, Like my husband and I once tried to do

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<v Speaker 3>a board game bar place and we walked in and

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<v Speaker 3>it was way more serious than we were expecting. Like,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, it was like one of those where

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<v Speaker 3>it's like this is an eighteen round game where you

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<v Speaker 3>make up things and there's just I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Like risk.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. This isn't your dating life. This is about Isabella.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm relating.

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<v Speaker 6>Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>You say you said your experience wasn't very fun, Isabella,

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<v Speaker 1>how was yours?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, this place was a little different. Like when you

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<v Speaker 4>go in, they make you fill out a survey about

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<v Speaker 4>your personality.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, board games and surveys. Yeah, talk about.

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<v Speaker 3>They need your Like why would they need to know

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<v Speaker 3>your personality?

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<v Speaker 4>Because they want to pick a board game for you

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<v Speaker 4>based on your personality.

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<v Speaker 5>So like me, I would get like, what's it called

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<v Speaker 5>the rat track? They would kick you out, and then

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<v Speaker 5>you know, somebod else.

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<v Speaker 3>Would get like, sorry, it's like the algorithm in real life.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you failed out that what what board game?

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<v Speaker 1>Did the survey come back and tell you to play?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, they were.

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<v Speaker 4>Picking out really weird ones that I've never heard of,

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<v Speaker 4>something about tadpoles and it this weird, weird game. So

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<v Speaker 4>we just went with you know, a classic taboo Ta Hungry.

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<v Speaker 3>Hungry Hippos is taboo fun to play with only two people.

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<v Speaker 4>We had to make up our own roles a little bit,

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<v Speaker 4>but it was kind of a good way to kind

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<v Speaker 4>of learn about each other a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, can you explain really short with taboos because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think I know.

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<v Speaker 4>So, like I would pick a card and then try

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<v Speaker 4>to get him to guess the word on the card

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<v Speaker 4>by not saying certain words.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like it's like you need to guess Christmas, but

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<v Speaker 3>you can't say Santa Claus.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like charades, but you're using talking.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, it was fun. And then we made a

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<v Speaker 4>little jet.

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<v Speaker 2>That's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what was it?

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<v Speaker 4>Bet? We were like, whoever loses the next round has

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<v Speaker 4>to go around and bust everyone in like tables, like

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<v Speaker 4>their drinks and.

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<v Speaker 2>Their son, because it also helps the bar. Like that's

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<v Speaker 2>really fun.

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<v Speaker 3>I love it and it's embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, sorry, can I take your plates? Everyone? That's

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<v Speaker 2>really fun?

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<v Speaker 1>Who won?

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<v Speaker 3>I won? Okay, now we get to the reason why

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<v Speaker 3>he's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like I worked a ten hour shift.

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<v Speaker 1>Did handle losing? Was he a good sport about it?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, he actually seemed to kind of enjoy it, like

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<v Speaker 4>he was a really good sport about it. He was

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<v Speaker 4>kind of laughing and going around, and so the waitress

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<v Speaker 4>was super happy and she just came to sit.

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<v Speaker 1>With me and cute.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's funny.

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<v Speaker 4>It was fun. But then when he came back, he

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<v Speaker 4>made a new bet and said, the next person that

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<v Speaker 4>loses has to kiss the other person on his.

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<v Speaker 2>Cheek okay, and then the mouth, and then.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, at least someone's kind of romantic and not just embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's cute.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's cute that he did on the cheek. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>there's not a lot of pressure for that.

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<v Speaker 1>So who won that bet?

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<v Speaker 4>I won again?

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<v Speaker 1>So he had to kiss you on the cheek.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, Whenever he went to kiss me, I kind of turned.

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<v Speaker 4>And then so we kicked on the list.

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<v Speaker 1>You broke the rules, and then they kicked her out

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<v Speaker 1>out of here.

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<v Speaker 4>Was it cute?

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<v Speaker 1>Did he like that?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>It was cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it sounds yeah, it's super fun.

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<v Speaker 3>You connected, you guys laugh together, You shared a kiss

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<v Speaker 3>you been on before.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, afterwards, he tested me and said he wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>see me again, and I was like, yeah, me too.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So that same night he texted you that he

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<v Speaker 3>wanted to see you again.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, all right, that's a good sign. But then he

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<v Speaker 4>had to have head out of town for a week.

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<v Speaker 4>And then when he got back from out of town,

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<v Speaker 4>we made a plan to meet up at this bar

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<v Speaker 4>and we'd only been there for about thirty minutes and

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<v Speaker 4>he just kind of acting weird, and then he said

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<v Speaker 4>he had to leave again. And then all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 4>he has to go out of town for a couple

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<v Speaker 4>of more weeks and he doesn't know when he's coming back,

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<v Speaker 4>and it's a it's a kind.

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<v Speaker 3>Of weird, like he doesn't know when he's coming back.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he's just it's.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I do know, I have fu I do know

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<v Speaker 5>of people that have jobs that will send them out

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<v Speaker 5>and say, hey, why wouldn't know when you're coming back?

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<v Speaker 3>Why wouldn't he just say that if it was? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, what do you think? What's your theory?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean part of me thinks he's meeting up for

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<v Speaker 4>like another girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so how long has it been since you last

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<v Speaker 1>saw him? Since that last date?

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<v Speaker 4>It's been like two and a half weeks.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so you guys, I feel like you've had one

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<v Speaker 3>and a half dates because that second one sounded like

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<v Speaker 3>it was so short that it doesn't even count.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Okay, the window you're talking about, she's I think

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<v Speaker 5>like that windows like a week, a week and a half.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like that romance ball is slowing down to almost

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to kick the ball and we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>try and get this romance going again full spool way. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna kick it in the direction of love. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>the metaphor works if you don't think too hard about it.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna keep the ball of romance going with your

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<v Speaker 1>second date. Update next second night to Bishop three left

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<v Speaker 1>foot red Professor Plumb in the library with the lead pipe.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah. The board games not traditionally considered a sexy

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<v Speaker 1>first date.

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<v Speaker 3>But that pipe got me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>For Isabella, she was able to make it work when

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<v Speaker 1>she went out with a guy named Jason and they

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<v Speaker 1>played what did they play?

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<v Speaker 2>Taboo?

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<v Speaker 1>Taboo? Yeah, which is I guess sexy in itself, just

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<v Speaker 1>in the name. But after the date things have been

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<v Speaker 1>cooling off a little bit. Jason has been in and

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<v Speaker 1>out of town, hard to reach to figure out how

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<v Speaker 1>to get that because I've gone on one and a

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<v Speaker 1>half dates so far, hard to figure out how to

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<v Speaker 1>get that second full date in, and she's hoping we

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<v Speaker 1>can help her today. Isabella, how you feeling.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm kind of nervous, but gide it okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it does sound like his interest is waning

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<v Speaker 3>if he's like, I'm just out of town TBD, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like no information, So maybe this can get it back

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<v Speaker 3>on track.

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<v Speaker 4>I just got to want to know what is happening,

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<v Speaker 4>and I can find if he needs to go, but

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<v Speaker 4>I would like to know why or just what's going on.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, I feel like you've invested enough time and energy

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<v Speaker 3>that you deserve that answer.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, this is the good time to ask all those questions.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to call his number right now and see

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<v Speaker 1>what he has to say. Okay, okay, and if not,

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<v Speaker 1>there's always professor Plumpfers. So let's just do the number

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Here we go, Hello, yoh is this Jason?

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<v Speaker 6>Uh yeah, who's this?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey? My name is Jeff from Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. Hey, uh what, Yeah, that's Brooke.

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<v Speaker 3>I just wanted him to know that it wasn't just Jeff.

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<v Speaker 6>There's like a bunch of people on the front.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know, you know radio stations, there's hundreds of

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<v Speaker 1>them all over the world.

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<v Speaker 3>And it sounds like you're talking down to him right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Jason. We're a really really tiny one, not super respected

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<v Speaker 1>in the industry, but we have four people on it, Alexis, Jose, Brooke,

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<v Speaker 1>and I and our show kind of specializes in doing

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<v Speaker 1>dating stuff.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, okay. I'm actually reading a lot about dating and

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<v Speaker 6>to get better at it, So it's actually kind of

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<v Speaker 6>cool you're calling me.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, you're doing like little self help books for reading

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<v Speaker 3>that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, so, like I've been watching a lot of like

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<v Speaker 6>relationship experts on YouTube, and I'm trying to do this

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<v Speaker 6>new strategy.

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<v Speaker 3>What is it? What's your new strategy?

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<v Speaker 6>There's this one guy and he keeps talking about the

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<v Speaker 6>difference between attraction and desire, and he's like, you can

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<v Speaker 6>be attracted to someone when you're with them, but the

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<v Speaker 6>only way to build desire is to spend time away

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<v Speaker 6>from them.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh like absence makes the heart grow fonder type.

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<v Speaker 6>Of Yeah, yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just warning I've heard this and I've spent like

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<v Speaker 5>five years away from my actually still has.

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<v Speaker 1>That's something that you're trying to practice in your life.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>So there's this girl I've been hanging out with and

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<v Speaker 6>I've been telling her I've been having to go out

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<v Speaker 6>of town on business, but I'm actually just here at home.

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<v Speaker 6>What I with the desirebildy.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, that's that's kind of impressive.

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<v Speaker 5>You have a job that you travel, because it sounds

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<v Speaker 5>like you're an important person too.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I mean I work from home, but yeah, but

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<v Speaker 6>he's making it okay.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're telling her that you're going out of town

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<v Speaker 1>because that makes you seem like ooh, unavailable. I'm unavailable

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<v Speaker 1>and you should desire me.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. I mean you know, it's like making her want

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<v Speaker 6>what she can't have, and that's interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you feel like that strategy is working for you?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, she keeps trying to hang out with me,

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<v Speaker 6>so it seems like.

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<v Speaker 1>That's interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>Jason. You can't just lie about where you're gonna be.

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<v Speaker 3>That's not what the advice is. Man.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I mean, but I have to come up with

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<v Speaker 6>some reason for why I can't hanging out all the

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<v Speaker 6>time and just say, hey.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm going to be at home, but I don't want

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<v Speaker 5>to hang out a week exactly exactly like you have

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<v Speaker 5>to keep like momentum in dating, and it seems.

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<v Speaker 3>Like you are giving big, long stretches of time in

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<v Speaker 3>between where it feels like to these women that you're

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<v Speaker 3>probably feels like you're ghosting them.

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<v Speaker 6>So did you call it just like harass me about

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<v Speaker 6>my strategy here?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, what's I'll try to get it to work a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit better for you, Jason.

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<v Speaker 1>We just we want to help you, is really what

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<v Speaker 1>it comes down to. I think, and I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>you said that you're like currently trying this on somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you mind if we ask her name.

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<v Speaker 6>Her name is a Belle.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he's all. That is so weird because Jason, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not going to believe this, But there's an Isabella on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line right now that's been listening to this

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<v Speaker 1>entire conversation, burning with desire to talk.

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<v Speaker 3>We just burned what.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh there she is.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, this is kind of not cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Books, look YouTube page and find out what to do next. Jason. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I got Jason.

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<v Speaker 3>It is cool because she's interested in you. She wants

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<v Speaker 3>to see you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, your plan is working.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, now I'm a little bit weird. Aow. It seems

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<v Speaker 4>like a game.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, now I can't no, I mean it's it's

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<v Speaker 6>not a game. It's I like you and I was

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<v Speaker 6>trying to get you to like me too.

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<v Speaker 4>And do you think it's like do you think that's

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<v Speaker 4>a good strategy that you learned from YouTube?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, well, you caught a radio station to find

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<v Speaker 6>out what was going on with me, so it seems like.

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<v Speaker 1>You argue with that.

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<v Speaker 2>Defeated right now, she.

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<v Speaker 3>Thought that you were like cheating on her or something

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<v Speaker 3>you had like a second family somewhere because she.

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<v Speaker 1>Wants him so bad.

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<v Speaker 6>We only went on one date, and I don't know

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<v Speaker 6>how I could have been cheating on her, but you

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<v Speaker 6>kind of.

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<v Speaker 1>Went on one and a half dates from what is about?

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<v Speaker 1>Told us?

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<v Speaker 3>Why did you leave a half an hour into that

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<v Speaker 3>second date? Jason?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I thought it would be a good way to

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<v Speaker 6>build anticipation for the next day. Doesn't tell like you.

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<v Speaker 6>Guys have a million subscribers like the guy I'm following

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<v Speaker 6>on YouTube, so I really need to take it from you.

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<v Speaker 3>Take it from Isabella. Isabella, are you enjoying him pushing

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<v Speaker 3>you away?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think your YouTube guy is very smart. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>is he in a relationship? Does he have a girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, okay, Model, if.

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<v Speaker 6>You were supposed to hear any of this, if you

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<v Speaker 6>hadn't been on the line, things would be going great.

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<v Speaker 6>You'd still be he really anticipating our next date?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, should be confused.

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<v Speaker 4>Though, Yeah, I wouldn't consider that going great.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean what, I just have the wait two more

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<v Speaker 6>days to get your desire to the peak level, and

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<v Speaker 6>then I was gonna make plans with oh, I said clank.

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<v Speaker 1>After almost three weeks, I was almost about to call you, Isabella.

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<v Speaker 1>You jumped the gun.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, you're you're messing this off for both of us.

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<v Speaker 3>I actually, Isabella, I think this is kind of sweet,

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<v Speaker 3>Like he's obviously taking this advice maybe a little too literally,

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<v Speaker 3>but he put in a lot of effort to try

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<v Speaker 3>to get you to like him because he likes you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think that's the sweet thing. Like you just

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<v Speaker 3>need to be yourself, Jason, not listen to some YouTube dude.

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<v Speaker 6>Possibly, but honestly, this this is working. The evidence is

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<v Speaker 6>a parent.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, obviously it's kind of working on Isabella because

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<v Speaker 1>she does seem still interested. But how many other women

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<v Speaker 1>are you doing this too? Right now? Is Isabella the

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<v Speaker 1>only one?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean yeah, no, I'm not doing it anybody,

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<v Speaker 6>but yes, is the only person I'm seeing right now.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know you count because I haven't seen you

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<v Speaker 4>in like two and a half weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we have the power to change that for you,

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<v Speaker 1>because we will offer to send you guys out on

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<v Speaker 1>another date and we'll pay for that.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I always wanted to go on another date.

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<v Speaker 6>I just I just had to wait to come.

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<v Speaker 3>We promised, Yeah, we promised not to leave during the

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<v Speaker 3>date to heighten her desire or whatever your goal is.

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<v Speaker 6>I think I can I just need to watch the

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<v Speaker 6>next video in the series to figure.

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<v Speaker 2>Out finished the series before you tested it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but he's saying yes to another date, Isabella, are

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<v Speaker 1>you still interested? Well, it sounds like he actually likes you.

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<v Speaker 1>He just doesn't know how to handle it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll give him.

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<v Speaker 3>At least he's putting some effort in dude, which most don't.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Yeah, it's kind of cute and kind of funny.

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<v Speaker 4>But if you ditched the YouTube and whoever this guy is,

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<v Speaker 4>then yeah another.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well there you go, and as well, I just

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<v Speaker 1>thought of something funny that you could do. You could

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<v Speaker 1>leave halfway through the date now and have him burning

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<v Speaker 1>with desire for you.

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<v Speaker 2>It's called toxic.

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<v Speaker 3>Cyclone.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called love the romance Ball of Love, and we've

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<v Speaker 1>got it back in motion.

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.