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Speaker 2: Yeah, your mom messaged me at two am the other day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah I did it. And you're not even a romantic interest.

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Speaker 3: But that pipe got me.

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Speaker 4: I'm kind of nervous, but gide it okay.

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Speaker 3: Oh like absence makes the heart grow fonder type.

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Speaker 5: I'm just warning I've heard this and I've spent like

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Speaker 1: That's something that you're trying to practice in your life.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: So there's this girl I've been hanging out with and

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Speaker 6: I've been telling her I've been having to go out

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Speaker 6: What I with the desirebildy.

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Speaker 1: You know, that's that's kind of impressive.

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Speaker 5: You have a job that you travel, because it sounds

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean I work from home, but yeah, but

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Speaker 1: But you're telling her that you're going out of town

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Speaker 1: because that makes you seem like ooh, unavailable. I'm unavailable

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Speaker 1: and you should desire me.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. I mean you know, it's like making her want

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Speaker 1: How do you feel like that strategy is working for you?

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Speaker 1: That's interesting.

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Speaker 3: Jason. You can't just lie about where you're gonna be.

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Speaker 3: That's not what the advice is. Man.

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean, but I have to come up with

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Speaker 5: I'm going to be at home, but I don't want

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Speaker 3: Like you are giving big, long stretches of time in

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Speaker 6: So did you call it just like harass me about

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Speaker 3: Like, what's I'll try to get it to work a

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Speaker 1: We just we want to help you, is really what

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Speaker 1: you said that you're like currently trying this on somebody.

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Speaker 1: Do you mind if we ask her name.

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Speaker 6: Her name is a Belle.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's all. That is so weird because Jason, you're

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Speaker 3: We just burned what.

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Speaker 1: Oh there she is.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, this is kind of not cool.

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Speaker 1: Books, look YouTube page and find out what to do next. Jason. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I got Jason.

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Speaker 3: It is cool because she's interested in you. She wants

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Speaker 1: Yes, your plan is working.

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Speaker 4: Well, now I'm a little bit weird. Aow. It seems

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Speaker 6: I mean, now I can't no, I mean it's it's

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Speaker 4: And do you think it's like do you think that's

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Speaker 6: I mean, well, you caught a radio station to find

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Speaker 1: You argue with that.

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Speaker 2: Defeated right now, she.

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Speaker 3: Thought that you were like cheating on her or something

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Speaker 6: We only went on one date, and I don't know

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Speaker 1: Went on one and a half dates from what is about?

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Speaker 1: Told us?

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Speaker 3: Why did you leave a half an hour into that

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I thought it would be a good way to

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Speaker 6: build anticipation for the next day. Doesn't tell like you.

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Speaker 6: Guys have a million subscribers like the guy I'm following

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Speaker 3: Take it from Isabella. Isabella, are you enjoying him pushing

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Speaker 4: I don't think your YouTube guy is very smart. I mean,

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Speaker 4: is he in a relationship? Does he have a girlfriend?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Wait, okay, Model, if.

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Speaker 6: You were supposed to hear any of this, if you

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Speaker 6: hadn't been on the line, things would be going great.

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Speaker 6: You'd still be he really anticipating our next date?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, should be confused.

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Speaker 4: Though, Yeah, I wouldn't consider that going great.

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Speaker 6: I mean what, I just have the wait two more

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Speaker 6: then I was gonna make plans with oh, I said clank.

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Speaker 1: After almost three weeks, I was almost about to call you, Isabella.

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Speaker 1: You jumped the gun.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you're you're messing this off for both of us.

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Speaker 3: I actually, Isabella, I think this is kind of sweet,

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Speaker 3: Like he's obviously taking this advice maybe a little too literally,

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Speaker 3: and I think that's the sweet thing. Like you just

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Speaker 6: Possibly, but honestly, this this is working. The evidence is

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean, obviously it's kind of working on Isabella because

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Speaker 1: she does seem still interested. But how many other women

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Speaker 1: are you doing this too? Right now? Is Isabella the

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean yeah, no, I'm not doing it anybody,

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Speaker 6: but yes, is the only person I'm seeing right now.

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Speaker 4: I don't know you count because I haven't seen you

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Speaker 1: Well, we have the power to change that for you,

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Speaker 1: because we will offer to send you guys out on

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Speaker 1: another date and we'll pay for that.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I always wanted to go on another date.

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Speaker 6: I just I just had to wait to come.

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Speaker 3: We promised, Yeah, we promised not to leave during the

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Speaker 6: I think I can I just need to watch the

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Speaker 2: Out finished the series before you tested it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but he's saying yes to another date, Isabella, are

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Speaker 1: you still interested? Well, it sounds like he actually likes you.

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Speaker 1: He just doesn't know how to handle it.

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Speaker 2: I'll give him.

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Speaker 3: At least he's putting some effort in dude, which most don't.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, it's kind of cute and kind of funny.

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Speaker 4: But if you ditched the YouTube and whoever this guy is,

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Speaker 4: then yeah another.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well there you go, and as well, I just

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Speaker 1: thought of something funny that you could do. You could

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Speaker 1: leave halfway through the date now and have him burning

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Speaker 1: with desire for you.

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Speaker 2: It's called toxic.

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Speaker 3: Cyclone.

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Speaker 1: It's called love the romance Ball of Love, and we've

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Speaker 1: got it back in motion.

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Speaker 3: Everybody, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.