Speaker 1: Second date. Meeting new people to date now is harder
Speaker 1: than it's ever been. Well, the music makes it sound hopeful,
Speaker 1: and even with the dating acts, which are supposed to
Speaker 1: make things easier and more accessible for you, just end
Speaker 1: up stressing you out and disappointing you till you find
Speaker 1: yourself binge eating Hostess cupcakes by yourself at three am
Speaker 1: in your apartment. Right alexis yeah, ye swipe and left
Speaker 1: left left left yeah yeah? Oh? Abs do is speed
Speaker 1: up rejection? Y swiped on left? Thank you. That's why
Speaker 1: I was really intrigued when one of our listeners sent
Speaker 1: us an email bragging that he has a dating life
Speaker 1: hack that helps him to meet women. Okay, I know
Speaker 1: I want to hear about it. His name's playboy Mark.
Speaker 1: What's upoy? Mark? Hey? Hey, what's going on? Everybody? That
Speaker 1: was the bad? Hey? After the Playboy Mark comment? Is
Speaker 1: your last name marks? E? Mark? If you wanted to
Speaker 1: know Mark? E? Mark? Oh? Mark? And I thought you
Speaker 1: guys would catch that my dad. Okay, Well, we'll get
Speaker 1: to what your life hack is for dating in just
Speaker 1: a second, But first tell us about the woman that
Speaker 1: you met. What's her name? Bianca? The beautiful? Is that
Speaker 1: what you always call her to her face too. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I'm trying not to use it too much because
Speaker 1: it gives a little cornio. Okay, yeah, if aware, That's
Speaker 1: exactly what I was wondering. You don't want to compliment
Speaker 1: them too much because they get too confident and then
Speaker 1: they'll reject you. So just sprinkle in the compliments they did.
Speaker 1: All of a sudden, they step up on the guys
Speaker 1: that they date and they don't want you anymore. You know.
Speaker 1: So you like Bianca because she's beautiful, I mean, did
Speaker 1: you have another connection with her? Well before we get in,
Speaker 1: before we get into Bianca the beautiful, I'm interested in
Speaker 1: the life hack. So what what is your life hack
Speaker 1: for dating? I'm not sure if I love, if I
Speaker 1: wanted to share a guy, well, you sent it in
Speaker 1: an email, so you better do it. Put it in
Speaker 1: the tea? Is that a threat? Are you worried that
Speaker 1: people will judge you? Or you worried that people will
Speaker 1: steal your life? Hat? I just don't want Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't a little bit of both. Let's go with that.
Speaker 1: I think people are gonna judge you a little bit,
Speaker 1: and I don't want them to steal it. Okay, I
Speaker 1: guess I can reveal it to you. Guys. We're all
Speaker 1: family here, right, nobody's going to hit it. My mom
Speaker 1: listens a lot, Okay. So basically I use Facebook Marketplace. Oh,
Speaker 1: it's like the new Craigslist. Yeah, and I like to
Speaker 1: go in there and I look for women who are
Speaker 1: selling their wedding dresses because you know, obviously they may
Speaker 1: be single. Really, I think that is obviously they're married
Speaker 1: and don't need the dress anymore. Well, you know, you
Speaker 1: gotta do a little intail you do have. Then I
Speaker 1: reach out and let them know that I'm interested and
Speaker 1: let them know that I'm looking for my sister. So
Speaker 1: you stop their Facebook page to make sure they're single. First.
Speaker 1: We're not going to use words like stop, Okayually, yeah,
Speaker 1: you want to find out how sad and low they
Speaker 1: are in their life, Like, can't I jump on them?
Speaker 1: At this point? It does feel like you're picking up
Speaker 1: the wounded animal of the pack. I mean, no, we're
Speaker 1: gonna say I specialize in emotional fulfillment. All right. So
Speaker 1: are you saying that's how you met Bianca through the
Speaker 1: Facebook Marketplace wedding dress? Yes? I did. I reached out
Speaker 1: to her and I felt interest that I wanted to
Speaker 1: purchase the dress, and we actually met a bit of
Speaker 1: coffee shop and I purchased the dress. Oh, you actually
Speaker 1: bought it. Do you have a closet full of wedding gap? Okay,
Speaker 1: let's not putting any secrets out right now. Real anyway,
Speaker 1: I bought the dress, but she didn't leave right away.
Speaker 1: You sat down and we actually had some coffee and
Speaker 1: kind of had it. We kind of hit it off. Nice. Wow,
Speaker 1: Let's say listen, Bianca really enjoying your company. I love
Speaker 1: to have a date, a real date, and I mean
Speaker 1: from the looks of it and the energy that I felt, Hey,
Speaker 1: I thought it was a goal. Oh okay, so does
Speaker 1: that mean it wasn't a goal? I mean I haven't
Speaker 1: heard from the lady said on the date. At any
Speaker 1: point when you were at the coffee shop with Bianca,
Speaker 1: did you talk about her like romantic situation? Do you
Speaker 1: know if she's divorced or or the wedding never happened? Yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe it wasn't her dress. Did you get the background?
Speaker 1: She's recently divorced um and she was just looking for
Speaker 1: someone like myself, you know, someone who's full of energy,
Speaker 1: outgoing and could really help her get her mind off that,
Speaker 1: or to buy the dress. I thought it was somebody
Speaker 1: to date, but maybe it was just to buy the dress.
Speaker 1: But I mean, I haven't heard from her sip. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know if it was something I said, or
Speaker 1: maybe I put something in my coffee one of the
Speaker 1: ingredients that she didn't like. I don't know what. Maybe
Speaker 1: it was too many sugars, too many cream Okay, I
Speaker 1: don't drink guys that use two packs. I've heard that before.
Speaker 1: It seemed like a little bit like a smooth talker
Speaker 1: Playboy Mark. And maybe when you first reached out to her,
Speaker 1: she thought she was getting this really sweet guy who's
Speaker 1: looking out for his sister, and then boom, she met
Speaker 1: Playboy Mark and that was not what she was expecting.
Speaker 1: I am a sweet guy. I believe it when you
Speaker 1: say it. I mean it's worked over half a dozen
Speaker 1: times in the past year. I mean, wow, wow, I
Speaker 1: think I got it down to a spine. So you
Speaker 1: you have no idea what I'm me wrong. I thought
Speaker 1: we hit it off. I mean we smiled together as
Speaker 1: we walked out of the coffee shop. I took a
Speaker 1: deep breath. I almost felt like I met the one. Whoa, whoa.
Speaker 1: I feel like that's a big statement coming from you,
Speaker 1: my friend. Yeah, taking the Playboy out of your name. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was gonna be done with the dresses, you know,
Speaker 1: it was gonna be done. No more room in this
Speaker 1: closet here. Okay, I believe this is a different version
Speaker 1: of twenty seven dresses. So let's see what Bianca has
Speaker 1: to say. We're gonna play a song, we'll come back,
Speaker 1: we'll call, or we'll try and get your second date outdate. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, brother, thank you? All right. Hold on, ladies,
Speaker 1: are you feeling sad and lonely after your recent divorce?
Speaker 1: Do you wish that some hunky guy would come along
Speaker 1: and offer to buy your old wedding dress from you
Speaker 1: and then sweep you off your feet? You need to
Speaker 1: talk to play Boy and Mark. Okay, his entire life
Speaker 1: hack for meeting women is to find the hot single
Speaker 1: ones selling their old wedding gowns on Facebook Marketplace, slide
Speaker 1: into their dms, and slowly turn them from divorce into
Speaker 1: de voice. Bay still wants it, and that's how Mark
Speaker 1: ended up meeting Bianca, who we're about to call here,
Speaker 1: but before we do that. You told us that you've
Speaker 1: used the strategy like about half a dozen times in
Speaker 1: the last year. How many of those encounters end up
Speaker 1: turning into like actual dates or relationships for you? All right,
Speaker 1: you guys getting into specifics and numbers. I'm not sure
Speaker 1: if I wouldn't reveal all Okay, can you just not
Speaker 1: count that high as that? Yeah? Yeah, But if I
Speaker 1: was to say I'm betting around, which I think is
Speaker 1: pretty good, I got an average bro, I would have
Speaker 1: you on my fantasy team, if you know, if I had.
Speaker 1: Do you think there's any chance that Bianca found out
Speaker 1: that was like the whole ploy and it was a
Speaker 1: turn off for her? I hope not, and I would
Speaker 1: hope you guys would not tell her either. Oh so
Speaker 1: maybe don't introduce you as Playboy Mark. Just Mark. This
Speaker 1: is one girl, Mark, Yeah, monogamous Mark. I like the Playboy.
Speaker 1: I like that really sounds good. Now okay, I think
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna call you Mark when we dial her up.
Speaker 1: But here we go, Okay, all right, I'm in a
Speaker 1: dollar number right now here we go. Hello, Hey, is
Speaker 1: this Bianca? This is she Bianca aka Bianca the Beautiful? Um, Hi, Hi,
Speaker 1: Who'm I'm talking to you. You're talking to the morning
Speaker 1: radio show Broken Jeffrey in the Morning. Um, okay, how
Speaker 1: can I help you? We want to help you get
Speaker 1: back together with one of the coolest guys that we've
Speaker 1: ever met before. His name's Mark, otherwise known as playboy Mark.
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, yes, I know who you're talking about. Wait.
Speaker 1: I thought that was a nickname that Jeffrey gave him.
Speaker 1: I didn't come up with that. He signed his email
Speaker 1: with Playboy Mark. That didn't sound like a good reaction
Speaker 1: from you. Listen, that date was different, so um yeah, oh,
Speaker 1: but you considered a date too. In a sense. We
Speaker 1: met it like a coffee shop. I put my wedding
Speaker 1: dresses actually up and he said he was finding it
Speaker 1: for a sister. Yeah. Yeah. We actually talked to him
Speaker 1: before this, and he told us the whole story about
Speaker 1: Oh wait wait wait you talk to him before this?
Speaker 1: What is what is this going on? I'm confused because yeah,
Speaker 1: he hit us up and he wanted to know how
Speaker 1: he could get back in touch with you because your
Speaker 1: hang out for him went so well, Like he really
Speaker 1: liked you. I mean, don't get me wrong, very likable guy.
Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna lie very likable guy. That's good.
Speaker 1: Are you single? Yeah, yeah, I'm single. I've been divorced
Speaker 1: not too long. Um, so you know, I was kind
Speaker 1: of looking forward to kind of just hang it out.
Speaker 1: But the issue was the aftermath of the day. The
Speaker 1: aftermath tell me how you would feel, right, So the
Speaker 1: whole thing was me selling him my wedding dress for
Speaker 1: his sister. Yeah. Well, after a couple of days, he's
Speaker 1: not even a week later, I'm back on Facebook and
Speaker 1: he has reposted the dress, trying to sell it and
Speaker 1: selling it for way more than when I gave it
Speaker 1: to him. It was like almost double what I gave
Speaker 1: it to him for. So at this point it was
Speaker 1: kind of like, okay, so are you a scam artist?
Speaker 1: Or like what was the purpose? So I gotta say
Speaker 1: that's an unfair judgment, Like what if he brought it
Speaker 1: back to his sister and it didn't fit his sister
Speaker 1: or his sister didn't like it, Like why would that
Speaker 1: matter to you if he was reselling it? Well, to me,
Speaker 1: it's given scam artists and that's just how I took it.
Speaker 1: So I don't know, like I just I mean, maybe
Speaker 1: he didn't want to tell you though, because he was
Speaker 1: worried that, like you'd be insulted that his sister didn't
Speaker 1: like the dress. Or it's kind of harsh to just
Speaker 1: assume that he's a scam artist. I mean, would a
Speaker 1: scam artist be waiting quietly on the line want to
Speaker 1: talk the line, Yeah, quietly wanting to talk to you
Speaker 1: this entire time, because that's what he's doing. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: scam really? Yeah? Because what would make you take the dress?
Speaker 1: And like you didn't. You didn't even say anything to
Speaker 1: me about the dress didn't fit or she didn't like
Speaker 1: it or final love. I didn't think that had anything
Speaker 1: to do with you. You've got your paper I to
Speaker 1: have mine, all sales or finals out what you said
Speaker 1: to me, That transaction is over. I was trying to
Speaker 1: make another transaction, if you know what I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't give what you mean. Are you talking like is
Speaker 1: that an analysia or as? Are you talking about literally
Speaker 1: flipping the dress for more money? We need to ask
Speaker 1: you directly, did you bring it to your sister and
Speaker 1: she didn't like it or what happened with the dress. Well,
Speaker 1: necessarily listen, guys, I don't want to reveal too much
Speaker 1: about myself. But I'm a physically responsible guy. Okay, I
Speaker 1: just utilized the dress as a way to get some
Speaker 1: money to take you out on a date. He's thinking
Speaker 1: of you, I was thinking of you. I mean, it
Speaker 1: is pretty poetic that like your divorced wedding dress would
Speaker 1: then pay for a new date. Oh man, yeah, playboy
Speaker 1: bark just became poetic, mark, isn't It's a thought that counts, Lady.
Speaker 1: I mean, come on, he's like he acts like he's
Speaker 1: just too cool. It's like all these little lines of
Speaker 1: stuff that he has, like but then it was like
Speaker 1: he was just so full of himself. He's confident. I
Speaker 1: come on, do you want a guy who doesn't think
Speaker 1: he's a nice working guy or a cream of the crop,
Speaker 1: because if that's me, I mean, it does come off
Speaker 1: as a little cheesy. M one. Hey, were you guys
Speaker 1: gonna have that opinion? I haven't got any of the
Speaker 1: complaints from the other ladies, and I've made those just
Speaker 1: transactions the ladies, That's what I'm talking. So you're a
Speaker 1: roundheads for selling trusts from the ladies and and and
Speaker 1: what like, what is your whole what I mean? Okay, okay, listen, guy,
Speaker 1: I wasn't side. It's the side hustle. I mean, come on,
Speaker 1: but now I'm a side hustle. You told me that
Speaker 1: this was for your sister. I mean, this is somebody's sister, somebody.
Speaker 1: I love it because it gives me money. So you
Speaker 1: did this whole thing from money. Like you, you weren't
Speaker 1: even interested in me. Hey, I wasn't sure based off
Speaker 1: your Facebook photo if I was going to be interested.
Speaker 1: But I swear you were so much better in person.
Speaker 1: I was just blown away. You find need to take
Speaker 1: that photo down on Facebook. That's not a compliment, March. No,
Speaker 1: I thought I thought two ladies wanted to honest. No, no,
Speaker 1: you we don't want opinions here. That was pure tois
Speaker 1: That wasn't honesty. Yeah, I just said you look beautiful
Speaker 1: in person, and this is sea. That was still rude. See.
Speaker 1: I think a lot of women get intimidated when they
Speaker 1: be a guy that smooth, intimidated by something scis work.
Speaker 1: I think we are just pretty smart. Yeah, moo condition,
Speaker 1: I'd love to take you out with this dress. Money Playboy, Mark,
Speaker 1: mister Mark, marky Mark, whatever it is that you want
Speaker 1: to call you someth I think I'm good. That's well,
Speaker 1: if you won't take his money for the day, you
Speaker 1: could take our money and we'll send you out on
Speaker 1: the day and hustling all over again. Well, as long
Speaker 1: as they're not a playboy in the beginning of their name,
Speaker 1: I think that will work. Oh no, we're not setting
Speaker 1: you up with anyone else. There was another date with Mark?
Speaker 1: Oh god, I mean okay, so I here, we just
Speaker 1: put mister Mark in front. That works. Mister playboy Mark.
Speaker 1: Now you're that's got a ring to its Playboy Mark,
Speaker 1: Are you done buying wet and dresses? Some women like?
Speaker 1: Are you done with that? If you're going to give
Speaker 1: me a shot, I'll definitely consider it's not very trustworthy Mark. Yeah, yeah, okay, sorry,
Speaker 1: playboy Mark. Doesn't sound like we're gonna get a date
Speaker 1: for you. We try, I gotta say, And Mark, do
Speaker 1: you at least have any like fish on the reel
Speaker 1: right now? Anybody? Any prospects that you're looking at I
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