WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Red Envelope Regret

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up date.

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<v Speaker 2>If I've learned anything from reading countless dating blogs, they

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<v Speaker 2>all say the absolute worst thing you can do is

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<v Speaker 2>be open to trying new things.

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<v Speaker 3>No, they don't. That's the opposite of what they all say.

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<v Speaker 2>New experiences should scare you and you need to avoid

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<v Speaker 2>them at all costs.

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<v Speaker 1>Instead of reading.

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<v Speaker 3>The anti therapy blogs.

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<v Speaker 2>Again, you know, you need to stick to the places

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<v Speaker 2>that you've already been and people you already know, and

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<v Speaker 2>nothing bad can ever happen people.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Jeff, what is how you end up in? Like

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<v Speaker 3>my hometown? Dat you?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Supports it as one of our listeners didn't take that advice,

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<v Speaker 2>thank god, And he's some sort of modern renaissance man

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<v Speaker 2>decided to try something new and look where it landed

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<v Speaker 2>him right here on our show, which I'm guessing is

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<v Speaker 2>another new experience for him that he's never done before.

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<v Speaker 3>So yikes, we're the low point.

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<v Speaker 1>We are, Alvin, welcome to your new lifelove.

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<v Speaker 4>Awesome, glad to be here. This is my first time

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<v Speaker 4>ever doing that.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, are you feeling shame or excitement?

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<v Speaker 4>No, definitely excitement. I don't I'm not feeling shame.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, We're going to change that by the end of

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<v Speaker 2>the segment. But you said that you tried something new

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<v Speaker 2>for your dating life.

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<v Speaker 1>What was that?

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<v Speaker 4>Have you ever heard of a red envelope party?

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<v Speaker 3>What is that? What's a red envelope party?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it's like a like a dating event that people

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<v Speaker 4>put on. And there was at this fancy house and

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<v Speaker 4>you went by yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't bring a friend.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, no, this was a friend hooked me up with this,

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<v Speaker 4>but I went by myself. Yeah. And then you scan

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<v Speaker 4>like a QR code and you fill out a questionnaire

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<v Speaker 4>that's like about your interests and your values.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what kind of person you are a dating profile, right.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, just a brief little thing like that, and

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<v Speaker 4>then once you do the questionnay. I went side the

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<v Speaker 4>house and it was had the vibe of like a

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<v Speaker 4>slanky private members club. It was fancy furniture and well

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<v Speaker 4>stocked bar, chandeliers, the whole you know, chandelier that is rich. No, no, people,

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<v Speaker 4>you get a house full of single people and you're

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<v Speaker 4>only allowed to talk to one person that they give

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<v Speaker 4>you a motive?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that the rule?

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<v Speaker 4>No? No, You're you're supposed to mingle and drink and

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<v Speaker 4>have a good time. That's what I was doing. About

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<v Speaker 4>like an hour into it, maybe a little more, a

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<v Speaker 4>waiter came around with a silver tray and on the

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<v Speaker 4>tray were red envelopes and you find the one that

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<v Speaker 4>had your name on it, and that has inside the

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<v Speaker 4>person that you are supposed to meet once, but we'd

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<v Speaker 4>already hung out from I'm guessing.

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<v Speaker 3>The whole point is so that you go around the

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<v Speaker 3>room and actually try to find the other person. Right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it's more about talking to other person, I mean my

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<v Speaker 3>guess anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>And the fact that it's on a silver tray makes

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<v Speaker 2>me believe whatever is on it is like and so,

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<v Speaker 2>who was the person whose name was in your envelope?

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<v Speaker 4>My envelope had the name Natalie in it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, had you already met? Why are you laughing?

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<v Speaker 2>I thought he said he had his own name in

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<v Speaker 2>his envelope.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you had you already met Natalie or do you

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<v Speaker 3>have to go find her?

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<v Speaker 4>I had actually met her, and she was like obviously

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<v Speaker 4>on there to date. So I'm looking around, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>looking at all the ladies, and she was like top

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<v Speaker 4>of my list.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh you're like yes, like he read envelope, that's nice.

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<v Speaker 4>There was a total yes, just bump.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, so you went and tracked her down. How

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<v Speaker 1>did that go?

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<v Speaker 4>It was great. We were having a really good time

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<v Speaker 4>and she was laughing a lot and I was laughing.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's a good sign because she could have been

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<v Speaker 3>disappointed when she saw your name.

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, she seemed cool and she was, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>kept encouraging us to go back to the bar. And so, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>we did drink a bit. I admit it. I definitely

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<v Speaker 4>was feeling a buzz nice.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, but you're you know, you're doing it together her

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<v Speaker 3>and it's a party scene, like it seems appropriate.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, it was appropriate amount And I was not alone,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, it was everybody was having a good time,

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<v Speaker 4>and she was having a good time. You know, like

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<v Speaker 4>I said, we were laughing a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>These are all positive reviews.

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<v Speaker 2>Is there anything in your mind that like was like

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<v Speaker 2>a low moment of the night or something that could

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<v Speaker 2>have gone wrong?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes there was.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh he's laughing now.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not the worst. But like, we had been sitting

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<v Speaker 4>for a while and we stood up and we walked

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<v Speaker 4>outside and it was pretty warm, and I definitely had

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<v Speaker 4>like a head rush and I kind of fell into

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<v Speaker 4>a bush.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh and this was in front of Natalie.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, oh yeah, I was walking with her.

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<v Speaker 3>You may have but she may have looked a little sloppy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah you know, yeah I looked sloppy. I didn't like

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<v Speaker 4>fall over, Like I was just so hammered that I

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<v Speaker 4>was just like passing out. But you know, I definitely

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<v Speaker 4>leaned into it hard, let's put it that way.

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<v Speaker 1>Confident lean into a bush.

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<v Speaker 4>But she helped me out of it. But like, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>a pretty big guy, so she couldn't really do it.

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<v Speaker 4>So this guy like kind of stepped over and kind

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<v Speaker 4>of helped me too.

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<v Speaker 1>Gave you a hand.

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<v Speaker 2>Not your proudest moment, but it's probably not like a

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<v Speaker 2>total deal break for you.

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<v Speaker 1>So how did it end that night? But with you

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<v Speaker 1>and Natalie?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, at the end of the party, I asked her

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<v Speaker 4>if she wanted to go up to have some food,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, soak up the alcohol, right, And she said

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<v Speaker 4>she wanted to hang back and find this friend that

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<v Speaker 4>she came with. And I don't know that's it. Then.

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<v Speaker 4>I haven't heard back from her. I mean I got

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<v Speaker 4>her her her number, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly, have you called her or nothing?

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<v Speaker 4>I texted her once. I don't want to be the

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<v Speaker 4>dude who's stending multiple texts what definitely like damn, I

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<v Speaker 4>went to all that trouble and thought it was a

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<v Speaker 4>good connection and then just seem weird that nothing has

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<v Speaker 4>come since then.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe she confidently leaned on the same bush and is

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<v Speaker 2>trapped inside of it right now waiting for somebody to

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<v Speaker 2>come pick her out. So we're gonna call, We'll see

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<v Speaker 2>if she answers, and try and get you your second

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<v Speaker 2>date update fancy edition.

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<v Speaker 1>Coming up right after this second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna need to set the scene here for any

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<v Speaker 2>listeners just joining us. We picture well dressed men and

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<v Speaker 2>women sitting on ornate couches, sitting on gimlets, mingling together.

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<v Speaker 1>Red envelope party.

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<v Speaker 2>Old people.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fancy.

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<v Speaker 3>It does feel like something that happened in Jeff's neighborhood. Girls. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of ask.

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<v Speaker 2>On gimlets and mint julips.

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<v Speaker 1>What's a red envelope party?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm still not one hundred percent sure I get the idea,

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<v Speaker 2>But one of our listeners, Alvin, attended one the other

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<v Speaker 2>night where he went to a house in an upscale neighborhood.

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<v Speaker 2>They have you fill out a dating survey and then later,

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<v Speaker 2>based on the answers to your questionnaire, they bring you

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<v Speaker 2>a red envelope on a silver platter with the name

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<v Speaker 2>of the person that you matched with and are supposed

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<v Speaker 2>to meet that night. Yes, and the name of Alvin's

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<v Speaker 2>person was Natalie, So they met up, had a great

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<v Speaker 2>time there until he fell into a bush outside.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't ruin the night, It was just a memory.

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<v Speaker 3>The thing is he remembers it, so he wasn't too

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<v Speaker 3>dry exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>The problem is now Natalie is ghosting. So Brooke, take

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<v Speaker 2>a break from putting your reservation and at the red envelope.

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<v Speaker 1>Hoalse and what how do you feel about it?

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<v Speaker 3>My hometown was more like bush light and you'd wrestle

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<v Speaker 3>a pig, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>They started.

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<v Speaker 3>The problem is is it's a singles party, so she

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<v Speaker 3>could have easily just met somebody else that night. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>Like that's the whole point in the red envelope is

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<v Speaker 3>so you go around and.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you're talking about before the envelopes were handed out, Yes, yea,

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<v Speaker 2>and like.

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<v Speaker 3>The friend that she had to find at the end

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<v Speaker 3>of the party air quotes was probably the person she

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<v Speaker 3>was talking to before him.

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<v Speaker 2>Alvin, did you notice Natalie speaking with any other guys.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I did notice her speaking with other guys,

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<v Speaker 4>not like you know, I'm sure.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what the point is. That's like asking you. It's

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<v Speaker 3>not like they signed a contract that you could only

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<v Speaker 3>go out with this person in the red envelope.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't know who's in the red envelope for the

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<v Speaker 2>first hour jet it's a red envelope with a red

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<v Speaker 2>flag attached to.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm worried, but let's call Natalie here and see what

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<v Speaker 1>she has to say. Here we go, Hello, Hey, is

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<v Speaker 1>this Natalie?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, this is Natalie. Who is this?

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<v Speaker 2>My name is jeff and I'm part of a radio

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<v Speaker 2>show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. We're all

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<v Speaker 2>here eager to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 4>What.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we actually were given your phone number by one

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<v Speaker 2>of our listeners that went out.

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<v Speaker 1>It was kind of on a sort of a date.

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<v Speaker 3>Met you at a dating party.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, singles, And this segment is called second Date Update

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<v Speaker 2>because we're trying to get you two back together and

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<v Speaker 2>figure out if there's maybe chemistry or if if.

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<v Speaker 1>You feel the same way.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, Brooke. But this guy's name is Alvin.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh okay, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Remember him from the Red On Remember him, right, I do,

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<v Speaker 2>I do remember him.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just surprised.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god. Describe like what that party was like

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<v Speaker 3>for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, if it's one of those parties, you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to describe too much.

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<v Speaker 5>So I just I had never been to one, So

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what to tell you about it because

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't stay.

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't say, well, I don't say he stayed very

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<v Speaker 3>long either? Did you meet somebody else? Is that what

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<v Speaker 3>it come down to, which is totally fine, that's the

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<v Speaker 3>whole point of the party, right, success for you?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I've had friends who have done these parties, Like

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<v Speaker 5>I was really just trying to to experience it and

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<v Speaker 5>leave because my friends who've done his parties, they say

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<v Speaker 5>that you should leave by midnight if you don't want to.

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<v Speaker 5>You know that it can get pretty crazy, let's put

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<v Speaker 5>it that way. And I was just trying to get

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<v Speaker 5>out of there.

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<v Speaker 3>Is it really actually one of those I think?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you elaborate? What do you know what happens at midnight?

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<v Speaker 5>I heard that they open up these like other rooms

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<v Speaker 5>for activities after midnight, and I just that's not really

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<v Speaker 5>my damn. Like each one apparently has a theme.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, are you not calling Alvin back because

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<v Speaker 3>you think he stayed, or are you not calling him

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<v Speaker 3>like I don't understand why you still or the fact

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<v Speaker 3>that he was at that party.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean I think I made the assumption that

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<v Speaker 5>he's been to more than one, maybe a bunch of these,

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<v Speaker 5>and that's not really my thing. I'm not into that

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<v Speaker 5>after midnight.

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<v Speaker 2>If you think that you're making an assumption there, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if it's fair to jump to a full

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<v Speaker 2>conclusion until we actually talked to Alvin himself.

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<v Speaker 3>Because he seems like such an innocent guy him.

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<v Speaker 2>And you don't even have to wait because Alvin is

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<v Speaker 2>on the other line right now, listening to this conversation

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<v Speaker 2>from a secret room in your studio.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't say that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes I'm here.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my gosh, what is happening?

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<v Speaker 4>Natalie?

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<v Speaker 3>Did I die? Did you say after midnight?

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<v Speaker 1>Alvin? Do you know what she's talking about with the

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<v Speaker 1>extra rooms that open up? Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>I do?

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<v Speaker 1>You do you? And you're laughing?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>Bro? Well yeah, I mean she laughed, and like I said,

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<v Speaker 4>I was kind of feeling it, you know, and I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, all here.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, assumption.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm afraid to go into any more details of what

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<v Speaker 1>actually happens. Did you partake or are you just enjoying

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<v Speaker 1>the view?

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<v Speaker 4>Brother, I was just enjoying the view.

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<v Speaker 3>Why in the world would you contact a radio show

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<v Speaker 3>if this is the type of event that you want to.

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<v Speaker 2>Why did you You didn't mention any of this to us?

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<v Speaker 4>True, you guys asked me to talk about the date part.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the part that I was interested in talking with

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<v Speaker 4>you guys about the rest of the party. In the

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<v Speaker 4>event and stuff is like another story.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well sure, but it's a pretty important detail.

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<v Speaker 1>I think to bring up, like the.

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<v Speaker 4>Story end when Natalie left, like afterwards, that was just on.

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<v Speaker 3>This, you know, Okay, we don't need to I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>is this making you feel better or worse? Natalie?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I don't like the idea of him watching

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<v Speaker 5>other people? Yeah, I don't like. Why does he want

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<v Speaker 5>to contact me.

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<v Speaker 4>Because you were not interested in Like I was thinking

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<v Speaker 4>about you the whole rest of the night, Like that's

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<v Speaker 4>all I want other people.

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<v Speaker 5>Thinking of me.

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<v Speaker 2>That's so, well, why do you have the party?

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<v Speaker 3>You're not into that type of people, Like, Natalie, what

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<v Speaker 3>are you doing? That's actually but sometimes you don't know

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<v Speaker 3>until you try it.

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<v Speaker 5>Right now, Yeah, I was trying to just do something

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<v Speaker 5>outside of the box because I'm not super adventurous, but

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<v Speaker 5>I definitely have boundaries as far as not wanting to

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<v Speaker 5>participate in the late night activities.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, you guys are going to sound like I'm some

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<v Speaker 4>kind of total freaker's into like the wild. This is

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<v Speaker 4>the first time, just like Natalie, the first time I

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<v Speaker 4>ever went to one of these things.

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<v Speaker 3>Were some of us are jealous, like a podcast about

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<v Speaker 3>these crazy How.

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<v Speaker 1>Long were you there?

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<v Speaker 4>So like like three, a little after three, like three

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<v Speaker 4>thirty something?

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<v Speaker 1>You watched for three hours.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I'll only really actually watched like this one

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<v Speaker 4>room called the ascot room. That's the only one that

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<v Speaker 4>I the ascot room. You know what ascots are like

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<v Speaker 4>those ties like scarves.

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<v Speaker 1>It's actually a smart idea, Sila.

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<v Speaker 4>Pretty creative.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my gosh, that's so gross. I don't what I

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<v Speaker 5>say to that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, look, he didn't use one of the ascots. He

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<v Speaker 2>just watched people with the ascots.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh no, But I like, oh no, I don't. I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know why I shouldn't have pulled you out

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<v Speaker 5>of that bush. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Different meanings before I ask officially Alvin, is there anything

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<v Speaker 2>else that you want to say to Natalie, like a

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<v Speaker 2>like a final plea.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I just.

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<v Speaker 4>Want to say, like I thought we had a good

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<v Speaker 4>turn before, and it's not like like I said, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not like into that scene. That's not like my place

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<v Speaker 4>and my people or something. And you got to admit

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<v Speaker 4>we were having a good time at least I think

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<v Speaker 4>we were good.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, and he obviously his intentions was to

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<v Speaker 3>meet one person.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Well, I just need to know are you going

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<v Speaker 5>to go to the next one.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, if you wanted to go with me to

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<v Speaker 4>one of those, that would be cool, but I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>going to be going by myself.

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<v Speaker 3>Well I was a little soon to say that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but it's not too soon to ask if we

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<v Speaker 2>can facilitate another meet up between.

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<v Speaker 1>The two of you. We have a red envelope party

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<v Speaker 1>over at Chili.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to see you in the baby bedroom.

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<v Speaker 5>That's what I was going to say, as long as

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<v Speaker 5>there aren't extra rooms being opened up after.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you're open to it.

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<v Speaker 5>You know what I am, because like I said, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>trying to be adventurous. And it sounds like he went

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<v Speaker 5>and he committed to the experience, but it doesn't sound

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<v Speaker 5>like it's something that he does all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my.

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<v Speaker 1>Janitor's classes gradus. You got yourself another day?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, but I really am.

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<v Speaker 3>Is it gonna be so sweet when you guys tell this

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<v Speaker 3>story when you met?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, everybody has red as Scots in the wedding party.

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<v Speaker 4>No, just on honeymoon night.

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<v Speaker 3>They can watch freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>That's weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Just opened my email and got an invite to a

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<v Speaker 2>black envelope party. They say they provide you with a

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<v Speaker 2>free wheelchair if you attend.

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<v Speaker 1>Does anybody know what this is? Yeah, dude, jeff you

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<v Speaker 1>know what. I'm just gonna accept it that night. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna stay after hours and just see what happens. I

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<v Speaker 1>think you'll be fine than Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Is anybody else shocked that Natalie said yes to the

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<v Speaker 2>second date offer.

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<v Speaker 1>I am a little bit and still shot.

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<v Speaker 3>He called into a radio station after attend something like that.

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<v Speaker 3>I know that is like, it's beyond me.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's my theory and it's a total theory. She is still.

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<v Speaker 3>Slightly in the back of her head.

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<v Speaker 1>In the weirdest way. Interested. She showed up to the party,

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<v Speaker 1>looked around, she left. She knows what happened, and she

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<v Speaker 1>knows what happened after.

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<v Speaker 2>And she still said, well, she's looking for somebody to

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<v Speaker 2>be her shirpa, to help like guide her to me

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<v Speaker 2>to the post midnight activity. Yeah, could just be the Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>he's honest, he said, he just watched Yeah, okay for

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<v Speaker 2>four hours.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's good.

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<v Speaker 3>When do you become an expert? How many hours do

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<v Speaker 3>you have to get in?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that how that works?

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<v Speaker 1>You're an expert? Do they kick you out?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>You would think if you're a first timer at one

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<v Speaker 2>of these, you'd leave after ten minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, he soaked it up.

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<v Speaker 3>Nothing shakes this guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, anyway, we need to go, but make sure to

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<v Speaker 2>listen to any of our second dates. Wherever you get

0:17:36.800 --> 0:17:39.919
<v Speaker 2>your podcasts, they're available at Brook and Jeffrey. You can

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<v Speaker 2>always email the show to We'll try and call that

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<v Speaker 2>person who's not calling you back.