WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Come Back Later

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. We have a guy named Arlow on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone for a second date update, and Arlow, I

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<v Speaker 1>saw your email and I read all about your date,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think the most interesting part to me was

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<v Speaker 1>that the girl got to your place early and you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't let her in. That's true. I'm curious to hear

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<v Speaker 1>about that. But first tell me what's the girl's name?

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<v Speaker 1>Dina Dinah? Okay, Arlow, Before we get too far into this,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know why she's not calling you back? Or

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<v Speaker 1>are you totally mystified? Um? I think there could be

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<v Speaker 1>a few things. Okay, okay, So we'll start at the beginning.

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<v Speaker 1>When she arrived early for the date. How early is early? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>She was at least fifteen minutes early. Okay, so that's

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<v Speaker 1>not too early, bro, I thought you're talking about an hour.

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<v Speaker 1>Was the date hanging out at your house or was

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<v Speaker 1>she just meeting you there and you guys were going

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere right exactly? We were meeting there and then go

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<v Speaker 1>on out. Okay, okay, okay, but you would still plan

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<v Speaker 1>for her to be come up to your apartment or whatever? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I always run late, so I hate

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<v Speaker 1>people that are early. So what did you say, would

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<v Speaker 1>you tell her when she got there? I just said

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<v Speaker 1>it like, hey, I'm sorry, I'm not ready. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>mind coming back in a little bit? Coming back? Why

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<v Speaker 1>don't you just say I'll be right down, give me five. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't really thinking it, just it just came out

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<v Speaker 1>of my mouth. Okay, that is so you shut the

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<v Speaker 1>door on her. Thanks? Do you have an appointment? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>What did she say to this? To me, it sounded

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like she didn't know what to say, but

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<v Speaker 1>she'd stay Okay. Yeah, this is an interesting strategy. Keep

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<v Speaker 1>the girl waiting before the date even starts. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>make her in a really good mood. Yeah, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>even waiting, it's sending her home. So was it like

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen minutes later you guys then started your date or what? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>She came back actually probably like a half hour later,

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<v Speaker 1>which was you know, honestly, that was fine with me

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<v Speaker 1>because I didn't need a little bit more time. Can

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<v Speaker 1>I just say, what were you doing? Just had like

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of I had to do before I got

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<v Speaker 1>don't ask a man what he was doing. Oh sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't know. We have no idea asking all these

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<v Speaker 1>questions just let us be. So what did you end

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<v Speaker 1>up doing for the actual date? Harlow? So we had

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<v Speaker 1>talked before about how much we like breakfast food, and

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<v Speaker 1>I knew a little cafe down the street that served breakfast. Okay, win,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a great date idea. Yeah. Yeah, So we're walking

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<v Speaker 1>and she's quiet, we're not talking. I wasn't sure if

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<v Speaker 1>obviously she could have been upset for the weight, or

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<v Speaker 1>if she was just angry. I guess is what you

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<v Speaker 1>would say. They're not starting things off very well. Did

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<v Speaker 1>pancakes and bacon fix anything? Well? It was still like awkwardly,

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<v Speaker 1>So I tried to break the ice by talking about

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<v Speaker 1>bad dates, like a history of that, Like, I see,

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<v Speaker 1>he's trying to make her remember other worst dates than

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<v Speaker 1>this one so that this one comes off looking good.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I actually don't think it's bad. Like self

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<v Speaker 1>deprecating humor can be really funny. It's right, it's all

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<v Speaker 1>about delivery. So he's like, hey, at least I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>stab you like some other dates. Right, Yeah, I made

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<v Speaker 1>the last date wait too. Wow, Yeah, it's all about delivery.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, this sounds really fun. Did she laugh? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>She laughed at my story. What was your story? This

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<v Speaker 1>one time I went out with this girl and when

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<v Speaker 1>I met up with her, she was just like, I

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<v Speaker 1>just want you to know that my dad's in the machia,

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<v Speaker 1>so you better treat me right now. Oh wow, God.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think she was telling the truth or was

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<v Speaker 1>she just trying to scare you into a good date? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the next day there was a horse's head in my

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<v Speaker 1>bad Okay, you're funny, got some humor, all right? And

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<v Speaker 1>it's good too, because like you're admitting, like I understand

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<v Speaker 1>that things are not going the way I want them to, like,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's a good thing to do. Yeah, all a

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<v Speaker 1>woman wants us to admit that you're wrong sometimes. Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>What was her story? She said something about like a

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<v Speaker 1>date that she had with this guy where they were

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<v Speaker 1>going to go to a concert, and when she got there,

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<v Speaker 1>the guy he had a girlfriend that he invited, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I guess the guy, to make matters worse, he

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<v Speaker 1>asked the two of them to kiss. Yeah. Yeah, look

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<v Speaker 1>at the guy in the room. Yeah. I thought you

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<v Speaker 1>guys were supposed to be talking about bad days dates.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you're getting things back on track on

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<v Speaker 1>this date. Maybe, Yeah, you know it was good to

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<v Speaker 1>kind of relate, I think, you know, I know obviously

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<v Speaker 1>first dates are usually awkward. Anyways, and we got to talking,

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<v Speaker 1>but then the food came out, and it was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of bad timing because the food is so good that

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<v Speaker 1>you just you didn't want to talk. All you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do eat just scar Yeah. Plus she waited a

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<v Speaker 1>really long time because of you. Yeah, she started. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so how did this date end? So we finished eating,

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<v Speaker 1>and after the check came out and all that, I

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<v Speaker 1>asked her if she wanted to just come back in

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<v Speaker 1>my place? Oh, like right then, yeah, like even longer,

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<v Speaker 1>just to keep the date going, keep the awkward silence alive. Yeah, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to come back to my house to

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<v Speaker 1>just not talk? Yeah? What did you say? That's really funny?

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<v Speaker 1>He's charming. Well, she actually said she already had plans. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>who makes plans after a date? Well, to be fair,

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<v Speaker 1>it was thirty minutes later than it was supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>be starting, so after two hours together. And sometimes you

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<v Speaker 1>always make plans after a date. That way, one you

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<v Speaker 1>can cut it off when it's like we've them wanting

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<v Speaker 1>more type situation, or if it's bad, you have an

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<v Speaker 1>excuse to get out totally. I always leave the night

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<v Speaker 1>open because I know I'm getting I know, to the woman. Yeah, actually, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense though. All right, so she turned you down

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<v Speaker 1>for that? Did you end it with a kiss, a hug, anything,

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<v Speaker 1>just like a normal friendly hug? Okay, okay, well that's good.

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<v Speaker 1>That's okay, at least completely. Normally that wouldn't be great

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the day. But you guys came

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<v Speaker 1>a long way to get there, all right, So let's

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<v Speaker 1>play a song. We are a little bit early here,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're gonna have to wait thirty minutes. But then

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<v Speaker 1>we'll come back and we'll call Dina and try and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date update. Okay, all right, hold on

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<v Speaker 1>her low. Yeah. Look, I know I said i'd come

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<v Speaker 1>back after the song to do your second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm not quite ready yet. All right, I need

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<v Speaker 1>a little extra time. Can you just hold please? Okay, Jeffrey,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't we don't have time for this. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>know it's funny, busy, Okay, I just hold on Lily

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<v Speaker 1>like looking at just got a prep Just give me

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<v Speaker 1>a second, you're prepping, all right, We're back your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update? Arlow. Was I worth the wait, I could

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<v Speaker 1>totally relate to not being ready. So the only man

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<v Speaker 1>in the room that understands what Jeffrey just went through.

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<v Speaker 1>Just to recap Arlow started his date on the wrong foot,

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<v Speaker 1>we think, because the girl showed up to his place

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen minutes early and he told her no, come back later.

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<v Speaker 1>He was busy, so thirty minutes went by, and then

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<v Speaker 1>the girl came back. They ended up having some awkward

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<v Speaker 1>silence on the walk to the restaurant, talked about bad

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<v Speaker 1>dates from their past, and then had a pretty quiet

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<v Speaker 1>meal too. So he's not getting a call back, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to try and help him figure out why. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that would be great. I'm trying to figure it out myself. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just think this one boils down to

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<v Speaker 1>a bad first impression. Maybe she got home, she started

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<v Speaker 1>thinking out of the date, and like that, stuff just

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<v Speaker 1>kept popping in her mind. I also think if we

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<v Speaker 1>can get you a second date, Arlo, the best advice

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<v Speaker 1>I could give you would be to be fifteen minutes

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<v Speaker 1>late to even out this whole nundrum. To be early no,

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<v Speaker 1>because she was early, Okay the middle Please do not

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<v Speaker 1>follow Jose's math, you know, just show up on time. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>there we go, let's move forward, all right. Are you

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<v Speaker 1>ready to do this Harlow? Yeah, okay, I'm gonna call

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<v Speaker 1>Dina right now and get your second date update. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, can just wait one more second? Hold? Please?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, sorry I had to readjust there. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go, let's do your second date update. Hello. Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking for Dina. This is Dina. Hey Dina. My

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<v Speaker 1>name is Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. How are you doing. Um, I'm okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's good. That's good. That's a good start, Dina. We're

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<v Speaker 1>hoping you have a second to chat with us a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. Sorry, what is it for. It's for a

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<v Speaker 1>segment that we do on our show called a second

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<v Speaker 1>date Update. That's where if you go out with someone

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<v Speaker 1>and afterwards, if that person isn't calling you back, you

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<v Speaker 1>can email us and we'll reach out to them for

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<v Speaker 1>you to try and help you figure out the reason why.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh great, Um, yeah, I really liked your response. It's

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<v Speaker 1>more fun than it sounds, I promised, Dina. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>and it does mean that someone really liked you, so

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<v Speaker 1>that's always a positive. You know they're going the extra

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<v Speaker 1>mile to try to see you again. Yeah, that's fine, Fine,

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<v Speaker 1>that's fine. Okay, Well, can I tell you a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit about the guy who emailed us? His name is Arlow?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, not oh Rlow, it's a name. There were

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<v Speaker 1>you hoping for somebody else? I was hoping not to

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<v Speaker 1>have to talk about Harlow? Okay, okay. Well, Harlow emailed

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<v Speaker 1>us and told us all about the day that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys spent together, and he had a lot of nice

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<v Speaker 1>things to say about you. And now he's a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit confused about why you're not reaching out to him.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm surprised he's confused. I think it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of obvious. I mean, he told us that maybe he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't make the best first impression, and there was some

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<v Speaker 1>awkward silence and stuff in the beginning of the date.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that all he said? No, he told us that

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<v Speaker 1>you showed up fifteen minutes early, and he asked you

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<v Speaker 1>if you could come back a little bit later. Did

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<v Speaker 1>he tell you why? He said he was busy. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>surprised that you came back because that is such a

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<v Speaker 1>weird request. Instead of just saying, hey, can you wait

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes. I'll be down in a minute. Yeah. If

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<v Speaker 1>he had said that, it probably would have been better.

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<v Speaker 1>But who he just made it so weird. How So

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<v Speaker 1>I got there early and I came back like a

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<v Speaker 1>half hour later, and when we actually met up and

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<v Speaker 1>started talking, he was like, yeah, sorry about that. I

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<v Speaker 1>just had to do what guys do. What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 1>I hope it doesn't mean what I'm thinking. It means

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<v Speaker 1>video games. My mind went either pooping, yeah, or something

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<v Speaker 1>else in the bathroom. Oh, a different type of preparation

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<v Speaker 1>before I date. I see what you're saying. Yeah, And

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<v Speaker 1>so I was like, well, I'm just gonna hope it

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<v Speaker 1>was pooping. Yeah, it's not a good time when that's

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<v Speaker 1>your best option exactly. Maybe he was nervous and like

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<v Speaker 1>foot and mouth type of moment, right, I mean maybe,

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<v Speaker 1>But my immediate reaction I was just like pooping and

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<v Speaker 1>he was like, oh no, not that he did. He

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<v Speaker 1>say it in that same tone that one. Yeah, d

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<v Speaker 1>that tone is so creepy. Yeah it is, it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, where do you even go from there? At

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation like you literally have just met someone. In

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<v Speaker 1>the first five minutes, you're finding out a lot You're like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why the conversation was so awkward, and there was

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<v Speaker 1>so much silence, Like I didn't know what to say

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<v Speaker 1>after that. My god, it's a hard jumping off point

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<v Speaker 1>for the conversation. I mean, what do you turn into?

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<v Speaker 1>So you like bacon for dinner? Yeah? Wow? So are

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<v Speaker 1>you saying From that moment on it just ruined it

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<v Speaker 1>for you? And the day never got better. Um, at

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<v Speaker 1>the end, it got a little better. We started having

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<v Speaker 1>fun talking about a bad date path Okay, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I went out with this guy named Arlo One. Yeah awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I mean at least that's a good sign and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe things were getting back on track. Um. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>then it came time to pay the bill and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if I wanted to go back to his place, which

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<v Speaker 1>I think personally it's just kind of creepy on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date period, but it's the way he did it.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, So I think I'm recovered from earlier. You

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<v Speaker 1>want to go back to my place? Oh? No, anything,

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<v Speaker 1>but what a charmer? Oh no, wonder you said no?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I didn't even say no. I just knew

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<v Speaker 1>I was never going to see him again. Yeah, I mean, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know why he called us. If it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like he was just looking for a hook up

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<v Speaker 1>that night, I don't know. I mean, look, Dina, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you'll never see him again, but you will have to

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<v Speaker 1>hear him again because I need to tell you. He's

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<v Speaker 1>been on the other line listening and he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. He heard this, Yeah, he needed to

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<v Speaker 1>hear it. This is a good lesson. Okay, harlow you there,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. I love What are you doing? Don't oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I was on the phone. I just mean, like, I

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<v Speaker 1>will explain yourself, is what we're trying to say. So

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<v Speaker 1>no one in the studio. Well, so you really did this.

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<v Speaker 1>You actually told her or at least hinted at her

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<v Speaker 1>what you were doing. I mean, you know, I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>gonna lie to you. Do You don't have to lie.

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<v Speaker 1>You just don't bring up that specific activity. Could have

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<v Speaker 1>just said I was busy. I was though, I was

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<v Speaker 1>really busy. Okay, we get it. Manna. Are you even

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<v Speaker 1>still there? Yeah, I'm here, and he's not making it better.

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean, Arlo, I think you need to try

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<v Speaker 1>saying something to Dina to get her to see you're

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<v Speaker 1>not a horrible person. Horrible. Well you know what I mean, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not some weirdo that that's telling girls what you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing all the time. Yeah, yeah, you know. Listen, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a normal guy that does normal things, and I do

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<v Speaker 1>normal guy things often. But okay, stop saying normal guy things.

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<v Speaker 1>Amelia times also a normal guy, bro, just so you know, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. I appreciate that. I know too much. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not just the beginning of the day, it's how you

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<v Speaker 1>ended it too, telling her you recovered, Like, what is that?

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<v Speaker 1>In my defense, she already knew what I did before

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<v Speaker 1>I already told her. Yeah. Yeah, so she's probably wondering

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm ready to go, and yeah I was. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, Dina, were you wondering that? Is that the

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<v Speaker 1>thought you had? Is that what was going through your mind?

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<v Speaker 1>We wasn't what was on my mind at all? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>what was on your mind, Dina? Not that? Yeah? Shocking.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody could have guessed that room. It really feels like

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are all piling on me right now, and

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't feel fair at all. I mean, this is

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<v Speaker 1>what guys do. It's normal. It's I was just answering

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<v Speaker 1>her question and trying to just be cool. We're not

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<v Speaker 1>saying We're not saying the action wasn't normal. Okay, we're

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<v Speaker 1>saying that the discussion was too much. Here it is

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<v Speaker 1>and now I have images of things piling on top

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<v Speaker 1>of each other. This is not good. We need to

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<v Speaker 1>end this. Yeah, and let me just ask Dina, would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to go out on another date with Arlo?

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<v Speaker 1>Will pay for it? Let me yes? No? Yeah, Arla, man,

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<v Speaker 1>you just go hang up, go do what guys do.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you feel a little bit better think about us. No,

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<v Speaker 1>please don't, no, no, please don't. Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning,