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Speaker 1: Second date update. We have a guy named Arlow on

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Speaker 1: the phone for a second date update, and Arlow, I

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Speaker 1: saw your email and I read all about your date,

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Speaker 1: and I think the most interesting part to me was

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Speaker 1: that the girl got to your place early and you

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Speaker 1: didn't let her in. That's true. I'm curious to hear

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Speaker 1: about that. But first tell me what's the girl's name?

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Speaker 1: Dina Dinah? Okay, Arlow, Before we get too far into this,

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Speaker 1: do you know why she's not calling you back? Or

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Speaker 1: are you totally mystified? Um? I think there could be

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Speaker 1: a few things. Okay, okay, So we'll start at the beginning.

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Speaker 1: When she arrived early for the date. How early is early? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: She was at least fifteen minutes early. Okay, so that's

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Speaker 1: not too early, bro, I thought you're talking about an hour.

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Speaker 1: Was the date hanging out at your house or was

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Speaker 1: she just meeting you there and you guys were going

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Speaker 1: somewhere right exactly? We were meeting there and then go

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Speaker 1: on out. Okay, okay, okay, but you would still plan

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Speaker 1: for her to be come up to your apartment or whatever? Right?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I always run late, so I hate

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Speaker 1: people that are early. So what did you say, would

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Speaker 1: don't you just say I'll be right down, give me five. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't really thinking it, just it just came out

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Speaker 1: What did she say to this? To me, it sounded

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Speaker 1: she'd stay Okay. Yeah, this is an interesting strategy. Keep

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Speaker 1: the girl waiting before the date even starts. I don't

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Speaker 1: make her in a really good mood. Yeah, it's not

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Speaker 1: even waiting, it's sending her home. So was it like

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Speaker 1: fifteen minutes later you guys then started your date or what? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: She came back actually probably like a half hour later,

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Speaker 1: which was you know, honestly, that was fine with me

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Speaker 1: I just say, what were you doing? Just had like

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Speaker 1: don't ask a man what he was doing. Oh sorry,

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Speaker 1: we don't know. We have no idea asking all these

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Speaker 1: up doing for the actual date? Harlow? So we had

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Speaker 1: talked before about how much we like breakfast food, and

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Speaker 1: I knew a little cafe down the street that served breakfast. Okay, win,

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Speaker 1: that's a great date idea. Yeah. Yeah, So we're walking

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Speaker 1: and she's quiet, we're not talking. I wasn't sure if

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Speaker 1: So I tried to break the ice by talking about

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Speaker 1: bad dates, like a history of that, Like, I see,

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Speaker 1: You know, I actually don't think it's bad. Like self

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Speaker 1: about delivery. So he's like, hey, at least I didn't

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Speaker 1: So yeah, this sounds really fun. Did she laugh? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: She laughed at my story. What was your story? This

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Speaker 1: she just trying to scare you into a good date? Well,

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Speaker 1: bad Okay, you're funny, got some humor, all right? And

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Speaker 1: and that's a good thing to do. Yeah, all a

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Speaker 1: What was her story? She said something about like a

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Speaker 1: always make plans after a date. That way, one you

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Speaker 1: play a song. We are a little bit early here,

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Speaker 1: her low. Yeah. Look, I know I said i'd come

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Speaker 1: but I'm not quite ready yet. All right, I need

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Speaker 1: a little extra time. Can you just hold please? Okay, Jeffrey,

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Speaker 1: we don't we don't have time for this. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: Just to recap Arlow started his date on the wrong foot,

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Speaker 1: can get you a second date, Arlo, the best advice

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Speaker 1: I could give you would be to be fifteen minutes

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Speaker 1: ready to do this Harlow? Yeah, okay, I'm gonna call

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Speaker 1: you know what, can just wait one more second? Hold? Please?

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Speaker 1: here we go, let's do your second date update. Hello. Hi,

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Speaker 1: I'm looking for Dina. This is Dina. Hey Dina. My

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Speaker 1: segment that we do on our show called a second

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Speaker 1: date Update. That's where if you go out with someone

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Speaker 1: Oh great, Um, yeah, I really liked your response. It's

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Speaker 1: that's fine. Okay, Well, can I tell you a little

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, not oh Rlow, it's a name. There were

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Speaker 1: have to talk about Harlow? Okay, okay. Well, Harlow emailed

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Speaker 1: for the conversation. I mean, what do you turn into?

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Speaker 1: So you like bacon for dinner? Yeah? Wow? So are

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Speaker 1: you saying From that moment on it just ruined it

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Speaker 1: fun talking about a bad date path Okay, like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I went out with this guy named Arlo One. Yeah awkward.

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Speaker 1: Well I mean at least that's a good sign and

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Speaker 1: I think personally it's just kind of creepy on a

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Speaker 1: He said, So I think I'm recovered from earlier. You

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Speaker 1: but what a charmer? Oh no, wonder you said no?

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Speaker 1: that night, I don't know. I mean, look, Dina, maybe

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Speaker 1: I'm here. I love What are you doing? Don't oh,

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Speaker 1: I was on the phone. I just mean, like, I

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Speaker 1: no one in the studio. Well, so you really did this.

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Speaker 1: You actually told her or at least hinted at her

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Speaker 1: gonna lie to you. Do You don't have to lie.

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Speaker 1: You just don't bring up that specific activity. Could have

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Speaker 1: really busy. Okay, we get it. Manna. Are you even

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Speaker 1: So I mean, Arlo, I think you need to try

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Speaker 1: saying something to Dina to get her to see you're

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Speaker 1: not a horrible person. Horrible. Well you know what I mean, Like,

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Speaker 1: you're not some weirdo that that's telling girls what you're

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Speaker 1: normal guy things often. But okay, stop saying normal guy things.

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Speaker 1: Amelia times also a normal guy, bro, just so you know, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: thank you. I appreciate that. I know too much. It's

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Speaker 1: not just the beginning of the day, it's how you

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Speaker 1: I already told her. Yeah. Yeah, so she's probably wondering

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Speaker 1: if I'm ready to go, and yeah I was. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, Dina, were you wondering that? Is that the

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Speaker 1: what was on your mind, Dina? Not that? Yeah? Shocking.

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Speaker 1: you guys are all piling on me right now, and

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Speaker 1: it doesn't feel fair at all. I mean, this is

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Speaker 1: what guys do. It's normal. It's I was just answering

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Speaker 1: saying We're not saying the action wasn't normal. Okay, we're

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Speaker 1: saying that the discussion was too much. Here it is

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Speaker 1: end this. Yeah, and let me just ask Dina, would

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Speaker 1: you like to go out on another date with Arlo?

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Speaker 1: Will pay for it? Let me yes? No? Yeah, Arla, man,

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Speaker 1: you just go hang up, go do what guys do.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you feel a little bit better think about us. No,

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Speaker 1: please don't, no, no, please don't. Brooke and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the morning,