WEBVTT - Ep 324: Netflix and Negotiation Superstars 0:00:06.320 --> 0:00:12.080 Hey, hey Vegas, did me in We're back? 0:00:13.000 --> 0:00:15.080 We're blass, that's what usher? Did you? 0:00:17.079 --> 0:00:19.400 What vision? Oh? 0:00:21.000 --> 0:00:22.880 What happened in Vegas? Tell me everything? You know? 0:00:22.880 --> 0:00:25.120 The right? No, right, we want to say because it's 0:00:25.120 --> 0:00:26.599 so hilarious. Is one. I don't drink, so it's not 0:00:26.640 --> 0:00:28.200 even I drank. I don't even I didn't even gamble. 0:00:28.240 --> 0:00:29.920 I meant to put at least one dollar in a 0:00:29.920 --> 0:00:32.400 slot machine, and because my sister's on gamble, we could 0:00:32.400 --> 0:00:33.080 not figure it out. 0:00:33.200 --> 0:00:35.159 I was like, not the budget, Nissa in front of 0:00:35.159 --> 0:00:38.600 a slot machine, ruin your reputation. 0:00:38.800 --> 0:00:40.720 My dad could just do at least one dollar, and 0:00:40.720 --> 0:00:42.120 I was like okay. So we were there for like 0:00:42.120 --> 0:00:43.720 five minutes, like do you put it here? I was like, 0:00:43.760 --> 0:00:46.400 you know what, girl, your dad was egging you on. 0:00:46.640 --> 0:00:49.680 Yes, he would like something year old papa. 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:52.360 So he said, do at least one dollar. I did 0:00:52.400 --> 0:00:54.639 not because I could not figure out the slot machine. 0:00:55.360 --> 0:00:57.319 But I had I. 0:00:57.240 --> 0:00:59.160 Think that's the thing where maybe you're too young to 0:00:59.160 --> 0:01:00.640 know how to work a slot machine. I think you 0:01:00.680 --> 0:01:02.400 need twenty thirty years older. 0:01:03.440 --> 0:01:05.480 But we had such a time, honestly, so it was 0:01:05.520 --> 0:01:08.360 the first time that my four sisters and I have 0:01:08.520 --> 0:01:11.800 been on a vacation no kids since like college, you know, 0:01:11.959 --> 0:01:15.160 like or like twenties, you know. So it was like 0:01:15.319 --> 0:01:18.960 such a good time. Care fluent from Chicago. The rest 0:01:19.000 --> 0:01:21.640 of us live in Jersey, so we flew together. But 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:24.000 we had a time hunting because Vegas is known like 0:01:24.040 --> 0:01:26.720 they're no for their really great buffets and they're like 0:01:26.920 --> 0:01:29.840 quirky hotels. So we stayed at like the Park MGM 0:01:30.080 --> 0:01:33.160 because that's where Usher was performing. So we went specifically 0:01:33.200 --> 0:01:35.880 to see the Usher residency, which was ten out of ten. 0:01:37.920 --> 0:01:40.120 He still got it, you know, but we ate a lot, 0:01:40.240 --> 0:01:42.360 girl because you know, Vegas is known, like I said, 0:01:42.360 --> 0:01:44.800 for their like they're they're like buffets and things, so 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:48.600 like the breakfast at the Bellagio, recommend it's so good. 0:01:48.760 --> 0:01:53.920 The wind Hotel Asca, Yes, the Winch Hotel has has 0:01:53.960 --> 0:01:58.440 a buffet. I would totally recommend as well. And we 0:01:58.480 --> 0:02:00.600 did like a tour because I've always I've never I 0:02:00.640 --> 0:02:02.720 went to Vegas one time before for a business trip, 0:02:02.720 --> 0:02:05.120 but I'd never seen the strip so and it was 0:02:05.280 --> 0:02:08.240 one hundred and average about one hundred and two degrees 0:02:08.280 --> 0:02:10.960 every day, like legit, like if you look. So it 0:02:11.000 --> 0:02:12.920 wasn't a walking so we took this thing called the 0:02:12.960 --> 0:02:15.519 Pink Jeep Tour, which I do recommend, which is really fun. 0:02:15.760 --> 0:02:17.440 It's like a three hour tour and it drives you 0:02:17.720 --> 0:02:20.440 along the strip. You take pictures of all the major 0:02:20.560 --> 0:02:23.880 like you know, vacancy places. So that was dope. But 0:02:24.000 --> 0:02:28.720 let's talk about this usher. So I surprised my sisters 0:02:28.720 --> 0:02:31.160 with front row seats. I couldn't tell. So I don't 0:02:31.160 --> 0:02:32.960 go to a ton of concert I know, I don't. 0:02:33.040 --> 0:02:35.480 They were on an applications for the Sister crew. 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:39.600 You know. It was crazy because they were dramatically reduced. 0:02:40.000 --> 0:02:42.880 I don't know why. So it was Wednesday. We went 0:02:42.919 --> 0:02:45.520 on a Wednesday, and when I was looking to purchase, 0:02:45.840 --> 0:02:48.480 I couldn't get like the regular seats, you know, that's 0:02:48.480 --> 0:02:50.880 what I was looking for. Saturday Sunday. They kept selling 0:02:50.919 --> 0:02:53.919 out underneath me. And there was like this moment when 0:02:54.000 --> 0:02:55.840 like these seats from I'm like, this can't be real 0:02:56.000 --> 0:02:57.640 because they were like the half the price of what 0:02:57.680 --> 0:02:59.600 the other seats around them. I'm like, is there something 0:02:59.639 --> 0:03:01.000 wrong with these seats? But I said, you know what, 0:03:01.520 --> 0:03:03.680 kiss it up to God. I booked them and I 0:03:03.680 --> 0:03:05.840 thought it's not really front row. It must be some 0:03:05.880 --> 0:03:09.760 other No. No, I had my hand on the stage like, oh, 0:03:09.800 --> 0:03:12.600 this is where he'll stay your front row. When I 0:03:12.639 --> 0:03:14.800 tell you, Mandy, me and USh are high five twice 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:16.520 like for real. 0:03:16.639 --> 0:03:21.760 Yes literally like casually, just like you know, quickly put 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:25.720 one of your liverature bracelets, just transferred onto his risks. 0:03:25.800 --> 0:03:27.760 First of all, why there was these ladies in the 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:29.600 back and said, is that the pros I was like, 0:03:29.639 --> 0:03:35.080 not tonight, I'm tipping. But so my sister Carol was like, 0:03:35.120 --> 0:03:38.760 if you're listening, yes, yes it was her, Yes exactly. 0:03:38.760 --> 0:03:42.000 So west sister Carol like she's the sister that's that 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:44.000 like right next to me. And I was like, yo, 0:03:44.080 --> 0:03:45.880 want to tell you she got her life? I said, oh, 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:50.320 Roman and Amelia are not getting a mommy back outside 0:03:50.320 --> 0:03:52.040 outside and when I tell you, we had such a 0:03:52.080 --> 0:03:55.120 good time. But it was first of all this fact 0:03:55.120 --> 0:03:57.400 that the man, this man is forty years old. You 0:03:57.440 --> 0:04:00.720 can see the joy of performance on his face, like 0:04:00.880 --> 0:04:04.320 the joy on his face. I mean he cried, I 0:04:04.360 --> 0:04:05.880 mean his voice was just I mean, you know, we 0:04:05.880 --> 0:04:08.120 all know Usher can blow, but it's just like you 0:04:08.160 --> 0:04:10.160 could tell that him and his dancers that they really 0:04:10.280 --> 0:04:13.680 enjoyed themselves. And so we enjoyed ourselves. I mean everyone. 0:04:13.840 --> 0:04:15.040 Like there was a woman next to me on a 0:04:15.120 --> 0:04:17.920 date with her man and we were high fiving. When 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:20.200 Usher touched Carol's hand, she was like, girl, let me 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:24.279 touch your hands. He threw out the Usher books. Remember 0:04:24.320 --> 0:04:26.800 there was like some scandal like a year or so 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:29.880 ago about him throwing out Usher bucks at a strip club. 0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:32.720 But he threw out Usher Bucks. I was like, let 0:04:32.760 --> 0:04:37.599 me take one for a souvenir. But honestly, it was amazing, amazing. 0:04:37.640 --> 0:04:40.520 I've never sat that close to the concert. It's unfortunately 0:04:40.560 --> 0:04:41.960 by the time y'all listen to this, I put it 0:04:41.960 --> 0:04:45.480 in my stories, but liter really, I mean there was 0:04:45.520 --> 0:04:47.560 nobody between me and the stage and Usher. It was 0:04:47.640 --> 0:04:50.560 just such an amazing time. And I'm just so glad that, like, 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:52.280 you know, we have these like core memories that we 0:04:52.279 --> 0:04:54.719 were able to develop. And I told my sisters, we 0:04:54.760 --> 0:04:56.599 have to do this every year, like we have to 0:04:56.640 --> 0:04:59.120 do a trip, you know, like because I know, life 0:04:59.120 --> 0:05:02.279 gets so busy, see you know, but it's like my 0:05:02.279 --> 0:05:05.719 my my parents watched Roman and a Million. Karen's husband 0:05:06.560 --> 0:05:08.760 had their daughter and she was sharing with me that 0:05:08.800 --> 0:05:10.640 like he was a message to her in the morning, 0:05:10.760 --> 0:05:12.760 like I just love you so much. You're just an 0:05:12.800 --> 0:05:13.800 amazing wife and mom. 0:05:15.000 --> 0:05:18.039 It was like yeah, because he was like I don't 0:05:18.080 --> 0:05:20.440 even get that. And Rique's just like can you not die? 0:05:21.040 --> 0:05:23.760 Like can you just never go away? Because I don't know. 0:05:24.839 --> 0:05:28.880 You don't realize everybody. Yeah, now women and million know 0:05:28.880 --> 0:05:31.960 how to call via their tablet. They was called every 0:05:32.000 --> 0:05:35.640 day like her man, mommy, where are you? 0:05:37.360 --> 0:05:38.760 I know, they didn't want to go to Grandma and 0:05:38.760 --> 0:05:40.960 Grandpa's what they call them? What are their what are 0:05:40.960 --> 0:05:41.919 their Granny and grandma? 0:05:41.920 --> 0:05:43.800 You know, they call them Grandma and Grandpa. But they're 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:45.599 just like, you know, it's fun for like, you know, 0:05:45.720 --> 0:05:47.359 a few hours or a day. But she was like, 0:05:47.600 --> 0:05:49.440 because they're really big on the calendar, so they show 0:05:49.480 --> 0:05:51.560 me with them on the calendar. You coming back was 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:57.240 like no, just ony night, just oh my gosh. And 0:05:57.279 --> 0:05:59.800 my mom was like, they're fine until you call and 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:04.200 out there crying again. I know, but we had a time. 0:06:04.279 --> 0:06:06.200 Carol was like, girlo'm kids, be you at Grandma and 0:06:06.200 --> 0:06:09.880 Grandpa's house. And it's beautiful. They literally my parents house 0:06:09.920 --> 0:06:12.080 backs up to a park which backs up to like 0:06:12.200 --> 0:06:15.599 a a water park like pool, facility. Like the kids, 0:06:15.960 --> 0:06:17.960 they live in their best life. They just you know, 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:19.839 they just like being home. They're like, well, can we 0:06:19.880 --> 0:06:22.479 stay at Auntie they call me aunt Auntie Udo's house. 0:06:22.520 --> 0:06:24.440 She was like, she's going with us too. So they 0:06:24.440 --> 0:06:26.760 were like no, and they were like, wait, are you 0:06:26.800 --> 0:06:29.480 staying a par of town. They wanted to tour at 0:06:29.480 --> 0:06:31.120 the hotel because they stayed at a hotel. We went 0:06:31.120 --> 0:06:33.040 to visit Karen a few weeks a few months ago. 0:06:33.200 --> 0:06:35.200 They're like, give me a tour of that hotel. I'm like, 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:39.159 so now your hotel connoisseurs. But yeah, we had a 0:06:39.560 --> 0:06:44.239 we had a toime honey. But all my business owners. 0:06:44.560 --> 0:06:46.720 I love that it was like not during a holiday, 0:06:46.920 --> 0:06:50.000 like it was just because that's the best part because 0:06:50.240 --> 0:06:52.880 it feels special because it's your time that you guys 0:06:52.960 --> 0:06:56.920 chose to get special. And honestly too, yeah, I think 0:06:56.960 --> 0:07:00.359 it's important that, like, you know, like now more than ever. 0:07:00.560 --> 0:07:02.240 I mean obviously, you know, it doesn't mean you have 0:07:02.240 --> 0:07:05.040 to buy usher tickets, but taking the time to live 0:07:05.080 --> 0:07:08.039 well now, you know what I mean, like to be 0:07:08.240 --> 0:07:10.320 like you know what is like is it a walk, 0:07:10.720 --> 0:07:12.680 Maybe it's a nap, Maybe it's. 0:07:12.600 --> 0:07:14.800 You know, like what is it that you can lean into? 0:07:15.560 --> 0:07:17.480 You know, have you not spoken to your bestie in 0:07:17.560 --> 0:07:21.280 a while, have lunch with her, you know, to really 0:07:21.360 --> 0:07:23.239 just lean in. And that's what I've just been trying 0:07:23.240 --> 0:07:25.240 to do, is like, you know, because sometimes I do 0:07:25.280 --> 0:07:27.200 this thing where I hold off, oh when this happens, 0:07:27.560 --> 0:07:30.320 or I'll make space later, and I'm like, no, like, 0:07:30.920 --> 0:07:33.320 let's make space now, you know. But I will say 0:07:33.600 --> 0:07:35.720 because so for those of you, because some of y'all 0:07:35.720 --> 0:07:37.440 will message me like I didn't say the invite. Well, 0:07:37.440 --> 0:07:39.480 by the time you listen to this, the. 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:44.600 Yeah, it wasn't the screening so amazing, I love the time. 0:07:45.200 --> 0:07:48.240 The screening will have happened yesterday. By the time y'all 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:51.560 hear this. But it doesn't mean still go to Netflix, 0:07:52.080 --> 0:07:54.640 still watch gets smart with money. But when I tell 0:07:54.640 --> 0:07:58.160 you I was there because I was working, you know 0:07:58.200 --> 0:08:00.880 what I mean, Like because the screen was happening in 0:08:01.240 --> 0:08:03.120 a few days, and so I would still have to 0:08:03.160 --> 0:08:06.960 wake up at six and work, and so sometimes I 0:08:07.000 --> 0:08:10.920 was sharing with my mentees and that sometimes that like 0:08:11.200 --> 0:08:13.680 that's what it looks like. It shouldn't always look like that, Like, 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:16.200 if you're not launching, you shouldn't be in launched mode. 0:08:16.280 --> 0:08:18.800 But it was I mean I was When I say 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:22.720 working like working like making sure the venue, I mean 0:08:22.760 --> 0:08:25.160 it was myself and like three other women on my team. 0:08:25.200 --> 0:08:27.480 But still was a lot making sure the invites went out, 0:08:27.480 --> 0:08:30.400 making sure the venue is properly, they have everything they need, 0:08:30.920 --> 0:08:32.760 making sure that like the people who are going to 0:08:32.800 --> 0:08:36.480 be special guests have their invite. But yeah, so I 0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:38.760 will ask one favorite of y'all brown ambitions, Well, you 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:41.079 should listen anyway because we talking about money. I've already 0:08:41.080 --> 0:08:45.040 seen the screener. I like, I'll just keep it light 0:08:45.120 --> 0:08:47.240 because I don't want to get in trouble. But you know, 0:08:47.280 --> 0:08:49.719 I really enjoyed it. I will say it's very feel good. 0:08:49.800 --> 0:08:51.560 I'll just leave it at that because Netflix has already 0:08:51.559 --> 0:08:54.160 said it's feel good. It's on. But if you go 0:08:54.240 --> 0:08:58.360 to Netflix dot Com log into your account now more 0:08:58.400 --> 0:09:01.600 than ever this week in particular, I would really love 0:09:01.760 --> 0:09:05.679 if all of us watch Get Smart with Money so 0:09:05.720 --> 0:09:07.840 we can discuss it. You know, you can, matter of fact, 0:09:07.880 --> 0:09:11.800 if watch Gets Smart with Money and then tweet us 0:09:12.679 --> 0:09:16.320 at the BA podcast where Brianna Bishing podcasts on Insta, 0:09:17.000 --> 0:09:20.199 tweet us some questions you know, and I'll answer. You know, 0:09:20.240 --> 0:09:22.520 you can also tweet me the budgetista or the Budgetista 0:09:22.600 --> 0:09:25.440 on ig and we can answer next time. But yeah, 0:09:25.559 --> 0:09:27.600 I want to get as many people watching this first week. 0:09:27.679 --> 0:09:29.280 I'm not gonna I'm trying to make the top ten. 0:09:30.000 --> 0:09:33.880 Okay, we don't do things halfway, No, don't. You don't 0:09:33.880 --> 0:09:35.000 know how to do things halfway. 0:09:35.200 --> 0:09:35.320 Now. 0:09:35.440 --> 0:09:38.240 Also, you thrown this like party together, like it's all 0:09:38.320 --> 0:09:40.880 come together so quickly. Too so because when you first 0:09:40.880 --> 0:09:43.240 mentioned that it was premiering it's been. There wasn't a 0:09:43.280 --> 0:09:45.679 party planned, and then the next week it's like, so 0:09:45.800 --> 0:09:46.760 come to my party. 0:09:48.440 --> 0:09:51.080 Because they, you know, with Netflix, it was like I one, 0:09:51.160 --> 0:09:52.840 you know, I had a NDA, so I couldn't say 0:09:52.880 --> 0:09:55.280 until they shared I could say, and then they didn't 0:09:55.280 --> 0:09:57.040 have a date yet and they told us like that 0:09:57.120 --> 0:09:59.600 they you know, a few days before I share. Ok yeah, 0:09:59.640 --> 0:10:01.959 So it's kind of like, you know, and I'm like 0:10:02.080 --> 0:10:05.600 show business baby when I tell you, hey, it's been 0:10:06.080 --> 0:10:09.080 so I was at like literally six am, like okay, look, yes, okay, 0:10:09.160 --> 0:10:11.880 do that okay a keisha okay, gross, and then still 0:10:12.000 --> 0:10:13.400 like having to have fun during the day and that 0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:16.400 party at night. I mean, so your girl is it's 0:10:16.440 --> 0:10:19.079 been a wh win, but it's also just been like 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:23.079 I don't know, So I always talk about like the 0:10:23.200 --> 0:10:25.160 thing before the thing, you know what I mean, Like 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:29.319 where something will happen and it's in preparation for like 0:10:29.920 --> 0:10:32.800 this other big thing that's going to happen, and I'm 0:10:32.920 --> 0:10:36.360 so good at being in preparation for that. I feel 0:10:36.440 --> 0:10:38.520 like a fish out of water now that the thing 0:10:38.679 --> 0:10:41.040 is here, you know what I mean. I'm having like 0:10:41.440 --> 0:10:43.280 I'm trying to. I'm gonna take like a super long 0:10:43.320 --> 0:10:47.559 walk today so in silence so I can absorb the 0:10:47.800 --> 0:10:50.240 actual thing that I'm in now, because I'm like, Tiffany, 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:52.520 you've done so many things before the things for the 0:10:52.600 --> 0:10:56.079 think this is the thing. You know, Like we're here now. 0:10:56.160 --> 0:10:58.760 I want you to absorb the fact that like this 0:10:58.960 --> 0:11:02.080 is happening. You work really hard, you've you know, there's 0:11:02.200 --> 0:11:04.880 just you know, I mean, there's other things to come, 0:11:05.360 --> 0:11:07.559 but like learning to like be in the moment and 0:11:07.640 --> 0:11:09.360 to be present because it's going to be crazy the 0:11:09.360 --> 0:11:11.400 next couple of days. So that's what I told myself 0:11:11.400 --> 0:11:13.840 today that I'm just gonna take like this long walk 0:11:13.960 --> 0:11:16.839 and just like at the park and just absorb the 0:11:16.920 --> 0:11:19.160 fact that like look out for all you've come Tiffany 0:11:19.400 --> 0:11:22.840 from like super shy, geeky, not be need Tiffany. Well, 0:11:22.880 --> 0:11:26.760 actually still the same, but like look up or you've 0:11:26.800 --> 0:11:29.079 come to like where you are now, you know. And 0:11:29.240 --> 0:11:31.040 so like my mom called me this morning and I 0:11:31.080 --> 0:11:33.640 can That's what made me pause because I could hear 0:11:33.679 --> 0:11:37.440 it in her voice, the reflection of like what I've comme, 0:11:37.480 --> 0:11:38.840 you know what I mean, like there's nothing like here 0:11:38.840 --> 0:11:41.120 it in your parents' voice, who were kind of disapproving of, 0:11:41.360 --> 0:11:44.280 like what is this denis that you're doing. I'm like, Mommy, 0:11:44.320 --> 0:11:46.280 the word is budget. It exists in the lingo's language. 0:11:46.520 --> 0:11:47.960 Like why can't y'all I can see if you got 0:11:48.040 --> 0:11:53.599 Nisa wrong, but budget sys you say. And now she's like, 0:11:54.120 --> 0:11:58.520 send me all those things. My friends have been posting 0:11:58.559 --> 0:12:00.079 it in our in our group chat, because you know, 0:12:00.200 --> 0:12:02.760 all the moms are and WhatsApp and that's why you 0:12:02.800 --> 0:12:05.520 get all those forwards like Jesus loves you pass this song. 0:12:05.600 --> 0:12:08.319 You're like okay, And so she said send it to 0:12:08.440 --> 0:12:11.880 me so I can send it to everybody. I was like, oh, 0:12:12.080 --> 0:12:14.719 and she's like, make sure you put Tiffany the budgetista. 0:12:15.120 --> 0:12:18.679 I said, oh sis, So we're recognizing because before it 0:12:18.880 --> 0:12:21.520 was like I couldn't believe. I was like, look at Sylvia, okay, 0:12:21.720 --> 0:12:23.240 which you know, they have to come around. So if 0:12:23.240 --> 0:12:25.960 your parents have not come around, you know, keep going, 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:28.280 you know, because parents some talk to the number one haters, 0:12:28.320 --> 0:12:29.800 but they're also the number one lovers. You know, they 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:31.839 just want you to be safe. But yeah, I know 0:12:31.880 --> 0:12:33.240 I'm rambling, but I'm just I'm sad. 0:12:33.800 --> 0:12:36.080 I mean, I no, I just want to say too, 0:12:36.320 --> 0:12:39.679 Like the beauty of your arc, like your journey, is 0:12:39.800 --> 0:12:43.559 that you've always just been your authentic self. And I 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:46.679 think that that's the thing that really resonates with me 0:12:46.800 --> 0:12:50.120 and so many others is that you know, success can 0:12:50.240 --> 0:12:52.400 come if you are just yourself, Like you don't need 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:55.360 to imitate anyone else, you don't need to do something 0:12:55.440 --> 0:12:58.240 that you don't feel good about doing. Just follow that 0:12:58.320 --> 0:13:01.560 good feeling and do what you love and help people 0:13:01.720 --> 0:13:04.960 and keep other people you know and being of service 0:13:05.040 --> 0:13:07.120 to them front of front of mine, and you can 0:13:07.200 --> 0:13:10.280 still find incredible success and the sky is the limit. 0:13:10.440 --> 0:13:15.360 Like come on, So congratulations again, always in awe of 0:13:15.480 --> 0:13:18.480 you and proud. Thanks. Well, it all makes it seem 0:13:18.600 --> 0:13:20.959 like I can't believe you are where you are, but 0:13:21.040 --> 0:13:23.360 I can because I mean I see the work you know, 0:13:23.679 --> 0:13:26.439 like it has You're not an overnight success like this 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:30.120 has been years and years and years and years and years. Yes, 0:13:30.760 --> 0:13:34.240 I since that budget needs to blog back in twenty thirteen, 0:13:34.240 --> 0:13:36.439 whenever I saw that with the bicycle. Come on now, 0:13:37.160 --> 0:13:40.280 it's been a minute of watching your journey and it's yeah, 0:13:41.720 --> 0:13:41.960 you know. 0:13:42.600 --> 0:13:44.679 You were the first big time interview I ever did. 0:13:44.840 --> 0:13:47.800 I was like, so geek, because man, is that you 0:13:47.880 --> 0:13:52.400 were working at No No with insider Yes for yeah, 0:13:52.920 --> 0:13:56.400 m g okay, so she's a big time reporter. 0:13:58.520 --> 0:14:01.120 You followed me wherever I went Yahoo Finance. I was like, 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:04.280 gotta have Tiffany on that and Magnified Money. You guys 0:14:04.320 --> 0:14:05.400 were doing a partnership. 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:07.640 Yeah, and you got us yo, Mandy and I've been 0:14:07.720 --> 0:14:09.400 rocking y'all even know, Okay. 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:12.320 Yes, we've been rocking all fast in the life. Yes. 0:14:13.200 --> 0:14:15.600 And then we like met up at FINNCN and become 0:14:15.720 --> 0:14:18.040 like became like besties. I remember we were like forget 0:14:18.120 --> 0:14:21.920 all the conference workshops. We just like we we took 0:14:22.000 --> 0:14:23.640 like a long stroke. We were like day day like 0:14:23.720 --> 0:14:25.800 took a long stroll through the streets of New Orleans, 0:14:25.880 --> 0:14:28.960 got to know each other, and then Mandy Propos was like, 0:14:29.400 --> 0:14:30.640 I propose we do a podcast. 0:14:30.720 --> 0:14:31.320 I was like, I do. 0:14:31.600 --> 0:14:31.960 I did. 0:14:33.680 --> 0:14:35.760 We are coming up on our seventh year anniversary in 0:14:35.840 --> 0:14:38.240 just a couple of weeks here, which is wild that. 0:14:38.440 --> 0:14:41.760 Plus I'm gonna be at FINCN next week, so it's like, yeah, 0:14:41.960 --> 0:14:44.160 it's that reflection time. I went back. Do you ever 0:14:44.280 --> 0:14:46.160 do that? You go back to your old emails and 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:48.240 like try to just remember what was going on at 0:14:48.280 --> 0:14:50.680 the time. So I went back to twenty fifteen, when 0:14:50.720 --> 0:14:53.040 we were twenty fourteen, when we launched Brown Ambition, twenty 0:14:53.080 --> 0:14:54.800 fifteen when we launched Brown Ambition, and I was like 0:14:54.840 --> 0:14:57.840 those early emails where we were like scheduling when you 0:14:57.920 --> 0:15:00.520 were going to come to the Yahoo office and I 0:15:00.640 --> 0:15:02.320 was trying to figure out which office we can sneak 0:15:02.360 --> 0:15:05.240 into to record. We used to record on Sundays. We 0:15:05.360 --> 0:15:07.680 used to do more than one episode a day. Yeah, 0:15:07.880 --> 0:15:08.640 it's like Canada. 0:15:08.760 --> 0:15:11.200 I used to love going to Yahoo office because first 0:15:11.200 --> 0:15:12.520 of all, they had all the snacks. Man, It's like, 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:14.640 are you my office is snacks? I'm like I am. 0:15:14.800 --> 0:15:15.840 I brought my book back. 0:15:16.960 --> 0:15:19.760 The hind bars to sit no pase I missed them 0:15:19.760 --> 0:15:23.600 snacks too, man, Yes, it's all about reflects. It's a 0:15:23.640 --> 0:15:26.840 beautiful time to reflect too. So I'm glad that you 0:15:26.960 --> 0:15:31.160 mentioned that because it's like sit in the moment and 0:15:31.880 --> 0:15:35.160 speaking of I thought about you in the same time, 0:15:35.200 --> 0:15:37.960 I'm thinking about Serena Williams because everyone's watching her at 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:40.800 the US Open right now and she is just like 0:15:41.000 --> 0:15:43.440 she's having her like farewell tour, but she hasn't said 0:15:43.480 --> 0:15:46.040 when she's going to technically be done. But that's fine, 0:15:46.480 --> 0:15:49.080 but just incredible. And also it's like, you know the 0:15:49.160 --> 0:15:51.520 interview was it Gael? That's Gail King that she was 0:15:51.560 --> 0:15:54.720 interviewing with after one of her matches, the second one, 0:15:54.800 --> 0:15:57.680 and Gil's like, are you Are you a surprise by 0:15:57.760 --> 0:16:00.440 the level that you're playing at, And Serena face is 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:06.160 just like girl, but I'm Serena. I love that when 0:16:06.200 --> 0:16:07.920 you get to that level. And I feel like, tiff 0:16:07.960 --> 0:16:10.480 you're at that level, like are we surprised that you are? 0:16:10.520 --> 0:16:13.400 In a Netflix? Like there's not surprises anymore. It's just like, 0:16:13.680 --> 0:16:17.280 of course, yes, but you're Tiffany, you know you know 0:16:17.320 --> 0:16:18.080 what I from. 0:16:18.000 --> 0:16:20.720 Doctor Green, Like she said to me, because I used 0:16:20.760 --> 0:16:24.920 to be like almost not a shame, but like, of 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:26.920 course I've worked really hard to achieve a thing, but 0:16:27.000 --> 0:16:30.040 I had a hard time absorbing the fact the thing 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:32.120 you work for is here, because I would always be like, 0:16:32.160 --> 0:16:33.200 I don't know if I'm going to make a near 0:16:33.280 --> 0:16:35.520 time bestsellers. Listen, she said, but all the work you've 0:16:35.560 --> 0:16:38.480 put in has been toward that. And she said, and 0:16:38.600 --> 0:16:40.360 I think I had mentioned something about like, but I 0:16:40.480 --> 0:16:42.880 just want to remain humble. And she was like, I 0:16:43.080 --> 0:16:48.560 think that especially women, mistaken what humility truly is. And 0:16:48.680 --> 0:16:54.520 she said, to be humble is not to to reflect less, 0:16:55.480 --> 0:16:58.800 and to be humble is not to reflect more than 0:16:59.040 --> 0:17:00.800 she said, so you're not trying to be arrogant, and 0:17:00.840 --> 0:17:04.480 you're not certainly trying to be insecure. She said. Humility 0:17:04.840 --> 0:17:08.520 is to take up the exact amount of space, and 0:17:08.680 --> 0:17:12.120 some people's spaces in certain instances is bigger or smaller, 0:17:12.400 --> 0:17:15.920 depending So meaning like for me to say, oh, you know, 0:17:16.000 --> 0:17:18.240 it's just Netflix, she'sa liked, that's not humility, you know, 0:17:18.960 --> 0:17:21.600 that's just you shrinking to say this is a big deal, 0:17:21.880 --> 0:17:25.040 this is Netflix. She's like that, humility, you're taking up 0:17:25.080 --> 0:17:27.960 the amount of space, the appropriate amount of space you 0:17:28.080 --> 0:17:30.240 get to fill that space, Tiffany. And so I just 0:17:30.320 --> 0:17:32.800 remember that that, like I don't have to shrink, and 0:17:32.920 --> 0:17:35.359 then I don't have to Like my worry is always 0:17:35.400 --> 0:17:37.639 like over pushing and becoming arrogant, and she's like, well, 0:17:37.680 --> 0:17:40.080 that's not you anyway. But my concern is to I 0:17:40.119 --> 0:17:42.960 don't want you to shrink. That's not humility. Take up 0:17:43.000 --> 0:17:45.080 the exact amount of space. And so that's what I 0:17:45.200 --> 0:17:47.920 try to keep in mind that, Like, that's what humility is, 0:17:48.119 --> 0:17:51.000 is that it's like that that middle way, like taking 0:17:51.080 --> 0:17:53.280 up the exact amount of space allotted for that, for 0:17:53.400 --> 0:17:57.200 that occasion, for that accomplishment, that for that time that 0:17:57.320 --> 0:17:58.720 you are in life. And so I'm like, I'm just 0:17:58.840 --> 0:18:00.840 taking up the space that's set aside for this. 0:18:01.680 --> 0:18:04.880 Yeah, And it's not bragging, it's just facts, Like, yeah, 0:18:04.880 --> 0:18:09.879 I'm taking the Vigeeny staff a Nutbooks documentary premiering September sixth. 0:18:11.040 --> 0:18:14.200 That's just fact city bragging, but no huge success. I 0:18:14.280 --> 0:18:16.560 cannot wait to celebrate you. I'm gonna make it happen. 0:18:17.840 --> 0:18:19.520 Husband doesn't know it yet, but I won't make it happen. 0:18:19.560 --> 0:18:21.680 He's gonna come home earlier that day to watch the 0:18:21.760 --> 0:18:24.879 baby so I can come to Newark. So I'm so 0:18:24.960 --> 0:18:27.920 excited for you. Can we talk? Last week was something 0:18:28.040 --> 0:18:32.240 was brewing on the Tiki Talkies not really TikTok, but 0:18:32.320 --> 0:18:35.000 you know, we love Tabatha Brawn. We're huge fans. We've 0:18:35.000 --> 0:18:37.080 been trying to have her on the show for a minute, 0:18:38.119 --> 0:18:41.879 for a minute, and as y'all, yes, so you know 0:18:42.000 --> 0:18:44.080 what happened with her with Food Networks, So let's talk 0:18:44.119 --> 0:18:45.680 about it because I just thought it was such a 0:18:46.000 --> 0:18:49.320 it's still happening, like the beautiful thing about owning your 0:18:49.320 --> 0:18:51.359 own platform like tab has. You know, she has this 0:18:51.520 --> 0:18:54.520