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Speaker 1: Relationships are hard, right, It's the Jewbil show. You meet

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Speaker 1: someone and at first they can do no wrong. Then

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Speaker 1: you guys are together for a little while and slowly

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Speaker 1: things start to bug you, Like if this fool slips

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Speaker 1: his shirt soup one more time, I swear I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: lose it, Or I swear if she wants to talk

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Speaker 1: about feelings one more time, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Gonna flip out.

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Speaker 1: Well, I turned just going viral of husbands and wives

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Speaker 1: sharing the top complaints about their partners, and we'll go

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Speaker 1: over it next so you know, we can have a

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Speaker 1: little early morning group therapy for all those annoying married

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Speaker 1: people out there.

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Speaker 3: Guys, we're not going to marriage. I mean that's just

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Speaker 3: it's that easy. Like we're not. We're not prepared for marriage,

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Speaker 3: like women are. Y'are very prepared. Your whole life. Every

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Speaker 3: toy y'all played with was built for marriage. Everything's preparing you.

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Speaker 3: Like when you're a baby, they give you a baby doll,

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Speaker 3: so they give you a baby when you're a baby,

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Speaker 3: you don't even know you're live yet, and they're just like, look,

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Speaker 3: probably start figuring this out, this is where it's going.

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Speaker 3: And then they give you Barbie and ken. They are

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Speaker 3: in a relationship. They live in a house together, and

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Speaker 3: that's where you learn how to make drama.

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Speaker 4: You're good at that.

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Speaker 3: Then you actually would play house, you would play you

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Speaker 3: would like fake vacuum with your friends. That was like

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Speaker 3: all sometimes like now, like when I see my wife vacuum,

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Speaker 3: I'm like, man, she's living her childhood dream.

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Speaker 2: Like she she has made it.

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Speaker 3: You know, she's made it.

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Speaker 4: It's the Jewbil show.

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Speaker 1: There's a trend going viral of husbands and wives sharing

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Speaker 1: their top complaints about being married. Now, let's go over

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Speaker 1: the top complaints from wives and then the top complaints

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Speaker 1: from husbands. Here are the top complaints for wives, the

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Speaker 1: top three complaints that wives have. He always wants to

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Speaker 1: fix but is rarely willing to listen.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, that's interesting.

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Speaker 1: That is true because guys, like our first thought is like, well,

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Speaker 1: how do I fix this problem?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 4: You know, just naturally that's what we do.

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Speaker 1: But a lot of times women just want to be

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Speaker 1: able to tell you about it and have you listen

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Speaker 1: and actually actually listen, not just listen and go, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I heard you say some words.

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Speaker 4: All right, anyway back to the game, you know what

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Speaker 4: I mean?

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Speaker 5: So this is about emotional fixing, because I was also

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Speaker 5: thinking about those moments when they just want to fix

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Speaker 5: the stuff in the house and they're not listening about

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Speaker 5: how to do it, because I think it's kind of

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Speaker 5: like both ways.

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Speaker 6: That too, But I also think that like we don't

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Speaker 6: really care what the problem is. We start working on

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Speaker 6: fixing the thing before we actually know what the.

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Speaker 4: Place, before you even listen.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, why what's the point of that? You want to

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Speaker 2: be done with it.

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Speaker 1: It's like I had a rough day at work, my boss,

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Speaker 1: We'll quit. Screw that guy. Not what I was going

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Speaker 1: to say.

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Speaker 5: That's why women's brains have to work so hard to

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Speaker 5: figure out how to get you guys in the right

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Speaker 5: mindset to get what we.

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Speaker 4: Want out of the moment.

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Speaker 1: Another top complaint from wives about being married, I have

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Speaker 1: to handle and everything well, he says. Wives feel like

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Speaker 1: they do all the organizing, scheduling and running around, and

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Speaker 1: then who needs to fill out the forms and take

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Speaker 1: people to the doctor and do all that stuff.

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Speaker 5: It's all the wives, they say from the wives. I

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Speaker 5: know that is true, Yeah.

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Speaker 6: But I don't like that one because I think sometimes

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Speaker 6: it's they do it and then get mad at that

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Speaker 6: they chose to do it. I'm fully capable of filling

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Speaker 6: out a form. Okay, I'm a smart adult. I can

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Speaker 6: totally fill out a form. I can even keep track

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Speaker 6: of things, believe it or not. I can actually wash

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Speaker 6: my own dishes. But you can't take something on and

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Speaker 6: then be mad that you decided to do that.

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Speaker 2: But it'd be nice if you.

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Speaker 5: Kind of just like can be like, hey babe, like

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Speaker 5: it's okay, I got this, Like I'll I'll do dishes,

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Speaker 5: or like.

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Speaker 4: I'll fill out the form.

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Speaker 1: You know what, go hang out with the kid in

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Speaker 1: the hospital, like I got the forms this time.

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Speaker 4: I feel like I mostly see like well.

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Speaker 5: In a lot of times, what happens too is that

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Speaker 5: Hobby's coming over with the forms because he tried to

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Speaker 5: fill it out and was like, hey babe, what's this one?

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Speaker 2: Hey babe, you ladies out here marrying to bunnies.

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Speaker 5: It's because they just get so used to letting. It's

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Speaker 5: like mindless stuff.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's fun to.

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Speaker 1: Watch the top complaint from wives about their husbands. He

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Speaker 1: never asks how I'm doing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that doesn't sound good at all.

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Speaker 5: Do you think, though, like think about your longest relationship,

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Speaker 5: do you think at some point you just kind of

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Speaker 5: get comfortable and you forget to ask that question.

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Speaker 4: I don't think I ever have. Could not imagine.

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Speaker 5: I don't either, But I mean what Oji Will said,

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Speaker 5: I ever have?

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Speaker 4: So I was asking if he's never asked it or

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Speaker 4: he just never felt that you.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't think I've ever not wondered how they're

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Speaker 1: doing or asked how they're doing. You know, especially a

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Speaker 1: lot of people I've been with, they're very angry. So

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Speaker 1: a lot of times I'm like, are.

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Speaker 4: You okay.

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Speaker 2: With yourself? I?

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Speaker 1: Okay, that was the problem. I didn't check in with myself.

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Speaker 1: I was too worried about how they were doing.

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Speaker 2: Got it.

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Speaker 1: Here's the top complaints from husbands about their spouses.

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Speaker 4: Uts down my advances.

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Speaker 2: Okay, advancing, sir?

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Speaker 1: Yeah maybe if you listen right right, Yeah, maybe that's

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Speaker 1: how she's doing.

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Speaker 5: They would just like move her hair off of her shoulder,

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Speaker 5: like gently caress her before you like just go in

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Speaker 5: for the grab.

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Speaker 2: You know, they form entirely.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, how his work doesn't matter? Yeah, yeah, do the dishes.

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Speaker 1: Watch that's my foreplay. I don't really care how you're feeling,

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Speaker 1: but you know, I'm feeling upstairs. The number two top

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Speaker 1: complaint from husbands about their wives is she constantly nags

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Speaker 1: and micromanages.

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Speaker 2: There's some science behind this.

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Speaker 6: Men see it as nagging, but the reality is women

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Speaker 6: just address problems as they come. Men stuff their problems. Okay,

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Speaker 6: so men men are more prone to resentment where women

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Speaker 6: it looks like nagging to the man, but really she's

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Speaker 6: just going, hey, this is an issue I'd like to

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Speaker 6: not hold on to.

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Speaker 2: Let's just it. It's all right, which is when you

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Speaker 2: think about it, like, that's a good.

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Speaker 4: Way to handle. It's great done.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of an interesting science behind that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, makes sense.

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Speaker 5: And honestly, if you have to ask somebody to put

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Speaker 5: their laundry away like ten times and.

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Speaker 1: You kind of deserved the naw yeah and burn it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: except your wife. You're supposed to be put in the

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Speaker 1: laundry away, right, I mean, according.

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Speaker 4: To that list.

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Speaker 1: And then number one top complaint from husbands about their

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Speaker 1: spouse is she seems grumpy all the time.

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Speaker 2: You all you want to do is get frisky. I

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Speaker 2: wonder why she's grum. I don't get it, dude, Is

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Speaker 2: this really that common?

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Speaker 4: I think it is?

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Speaker 1: Your fun break happens every single hour on the twenties.

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Speaker 1: Your next one is coming up right after this, and

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Speaker 1: then right after that is Nina's what's trending.

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